Modern Women ALWAYS Give Excuses
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Summary
Tyrese Gibson's divorce from his wife, Samantha Lee, is giving some insight as to why the couple decided to go through the process of divorce. She gives some insight into why they decided to part ways and why she thinks it was the best thing for them to do.
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What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
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Okay, so our first story today. I talk a lot about on this show how a lot of times men will
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meet what they think is a good woman. And I've covered the story of Tyrese Gibson getting divorced
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and he has spoken about how he met his ex-wife in a $15 sundress. She signed the prenup. She was okay
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with everything. And now she is taking him to the cleaners in divorce court. And for months,
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I've seen Tyrese really asking on different shows where he went wrong. He wasn't unfaithful. He loved
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his wife. He really has no idea why the marriage dissolved. And this is how a lot of men in their
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40s and 50s hit the red pill. They really think that they have their life figured out. They have
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the woman that they love. They're good with it for the rest of their life. And then one day their woman
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comes home and wants a divorce and they don't know why. And recently, Samantha Lee is actually
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giving some insight as to why the couple did divorce. Let's pull it up.
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Child's father. I have a lot of respect for him. I'll always, there will always be a part of me
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that will love him because of like what we share together. Um, and the child that I look at every
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day and like, she looks like him, you know, she looks like us. Like, you know, it's wow. Yeah. Yeah.
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That is something. Are you now in the spirit of potentially even being able to rekindle a
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relationship? It's loaded because of the fact that there's been so much that's happened, you know,
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like there's been so much that's occurred. Um, okay.
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My daughter's father. So I would, I would say this, I would say that if we were both going to show up
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and we were both going to fight for it equally and sacrifice equally, like, you know, things that I
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needed and, you know, things that, you know, he needed, I wasn't perfect. Yeah. Um, the girl.
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Um, so I w I would, I would say that if, if, if we were both willing to fight and we were both
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willing to do certain things and yes, something about that actually makes me very happy. No,
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No, I'm just saying like, if it's, if it's, it's my child, like, you know, no one wants a broken
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family. No, that's exactly, that's what it is for me. Yeah. Like if it was something that it was
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like, it was, if it was a situation, you have to hear me, sir, excuse me. You have to hear me all
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the way. You have to hear me all the way. Okay. Okay. I'm listening. I want to point out that all
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of the world's evil comes to egalitarianism. Whenever you have a woman that says we need to
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fight for this relationship equally. Um, there's two places she went wrong. Number one, once a guy
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is to the point that women select him, meaning he has his fitness in check. He has his money in
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check. He has his game in check. You know, it takes men a lot of work to get to the point to be a guy
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that we want to marry. And really, I would argue that women should put more effort into the relationship
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than men. I think it works better that way. Men have to focus on God, on their purpose, and women are
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supposed to submit to the authority of the man in their life. Meaning a lot of times it seems to
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women that they are doing more for the men than the men are doing for them. And it's because
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they don't count the amount of effort it has taken men to get to the point where we want
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to select them. And a lot of times what you'll see in wives is they'll, they'll think they're
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doing more because maybe they're cooking for their husband three days a week. Maybe they're
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cleaning the house. Maybe they're watching the kids, but they don't count the effort it
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took him to build the life that you're in. And my question to her is what more effort could
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he put in equally? I mean, he's handsome. He's successful. He's wealthy. The grass is not
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going to be greener on the other side. I don't know what this woman thinks is on the other
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side as a 40 something year old single mother. And the problem is we have romanticized divorce.
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We have told women that you are going to be happier on the other side of divorce. And it
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is just not the case. It's not true. Occasionally there are women that do fare better after divorce,
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but overwhelmingly women are not more likely to remarry. They're not more likely to be more
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financially stable. They do not do better unless they're stealing money from the men.
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And I think this is an important lesson. I think there's something we can learn from this
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that a lot of times as women, we, we, we count favors. And I always say, whenever you have a girl
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that says we both need to invest in the, into the relationship, I just did so much for him.
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I would argue that is actually the biggest red flag because you are keeping score and keeping score
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does not work in relationships because true femininity is actually selflessness. It has
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nothing to do with nails. It has nothing to do with fashion. It has nothing to do with any of that.
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It's actually submitting and serving the men in your life. And that's where a lot of these femininity
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coaches get it wrong. They focus on looking feminine instead of being feminine. And the problem is you
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have a lot of wives and mothers that might look the part, but they are not the part. And it's really
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a phenomenon in society, which I call the pretend wives. You know, when we think of our, our mothers,
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our grandmothers, our great grandmothers, the last generation of real feminine, submissive women,
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they weren't counting all the stuff they did for you. They weren't saying, I did this. You need to do
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that because true love is selfless. But this is my point is we have a lot of women that are really
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fake wives. They're not actual submissive women, but you know, they wear the sundress, they have
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their nails done, they get the Botox, they look pretty. But in all actuality, if you look at the
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women 150 years ago, they were not concerned with looks, but they were a hundred times more feminine
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than the women today. I don't think the women weaving baskets, working on farms, or any of the
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other jobs that they did 150 years ago, were really concerned with the way that they looked.
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It came second. Their first needs were the needs of their men. And the problem is the women today
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keep score. So they'll say, oh, I did this for him. I did this for him. I did this for him. And we don't
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keep track of the things that they do for us because we're just naturally kind of self-centered.
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And we think about everything from our point of view instead of the view of the family. And as I've said,
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really, we have a bunch of bronze and below standard wives.
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If we can go back and if I were able somehow to insulate you with a pro-marriage,
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pro-relationship community, do you think you still would have actually gone through a divorce?
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I don't know what would have happened. I've never said this publicly.
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Blah, blah, blah. Make sure you zoom in on this one, okay?
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The truth about the matter is that if I had different people in my ear at that time,
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And it's interesting to see her dodge accountability like the plague.
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Her first response is, my friends made me do it.
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it's like our first response is to blame somebody else and not ourselves.
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But I also wanted to point out that women are very influenced by the culture.
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And that is what I see a lot of, like, trad cons, I guess.
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They'll basically act like their women are inept to the culture and it can never happen to them.
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And then time and time again, we see that it does.
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For example, Dennis Prager has been married three times.
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Many public media conservative Christian personalities have been married multiple times.
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You know, when you ask yourself, were those men not alpha enough?
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And that's why I point out that men have a very real reason to fear marriage.
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And for some men, it's just not going to make sense.
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So I'm going to look in the comments section here.
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They said, fight, fight equally for something that she ruined by herself.
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And you see the simps co-signing this behavior.
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And they come to a conclusion if that makes sense or it doesn't make sense.
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But most men will not tell you when it doesn't make sense.
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And you see her on this podcast and they're kind of coddling her.
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And that's why I argue that really a lot of these red pill channels, Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit,
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they're actually heroes because they tell women the truth.