JustPearlyThings - October 25, 2023


Modern Women ALWAYS Give Excuses

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Dennis Prager Kevin Samuels Samantha Lee Pearl Daily Tom Brady Child Blah
Modern Women Are Bad Communicator Adam22 And Destiny Forgot They're IRRELEVANT

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

180.25

Word count

1,859

Sentence count

164

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

sentences flagged

Toxicity

2

sentences flagged

Hate speech

15

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Summary

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Tyrese Gibson's divorce from his wife, Samantha Lee, is giving some insight as to why the couple decided to go through the process of divorce. She gives some insight into why they decided to part ways and why she thinks it was the best thing for them to do.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
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00:00:30.580 Okay, so our first story today. I talk a lot about on this show how a lot of times men will
00:00:36.940 meet what they think is a good woman. And I've covered the story of Tyrese Gibson getting divorced
00:00:42.720 and he has spoken about how he met his ex-wife in a $15 sundress. She signed the prenup. She was okay
00:00:49.840 with everything. And now she is taking him to the cleaners in divorce court. And for months,
00:00:55.420 I've seen Tyrese really asking on different shows where he went wrong. He wasn't unfaithful. He loved
00:01:01.340 his wife. He really has no idea why the marriage dissolved. And this is how a lot of men in their
00:01:07.340 40s and 50s hit the red pill. They really think that they have their life figured out. They have
00:01:13.080 the woman that they love. They're good with it for the rest of their life. And then one day their woman 0.99
00:01:17.100 comes home and wants a divorce and they don't know why. And recently, Samantha Lee is actually
00:01:22.860 giving some insight as to why the couple did divorce. Let's pull it up.
00:01:26.800 Child's father. I have a lot of respect for him. I'll always, there will always be a part of me
00:01:32.300 that will love him because of like what we share together. Um, and the child that I look at every
00:01:38.200 day and like, she looks like him, you know, she looks like us. Like, you know, it's wow. Yeah. Yeah.
00:01:44.500 That is something. Are you now in the spirit of potentially even being able to rekindle a
00:01:49.860 relationship? It's loaded because of the fact that there's been so much that's happened, you know,
00:02:04.260 like there's been so much that's occurred. Um, okay.
00:02:09.160 My daughter's father. So I would, I would say this, I would say that if we were both going to show up
00:02:24.180 and we were both going to fight for it equally and sacrifice equally, like, you know, things that I
00:02:31.940 needed and, you know, things that, you know, he needed, I wasn't perfect. Yeah. Um, the girl.
00:02:38.400 Um, so I w I would, I would say that if, if, if we were both willing to fight and we were both
00:02:45.120 willing to do certain things and yes, something about that actually makes me very happy. No,
00:02:52.020 I don't know.
00:02:54.420 No, I'm just saying like, if it's, if it's, it's my child, like, you know, no one wants a broken
00:02:59.020 family. No, that's exactly, that's what it is for me. Yeah. Like if it was something that it was
00:03:04.180 like, it was, if it was a situation, you have to hear me, sir, excuse me. You have to hear me all
00:03:10.320 the way. You have to hear me all the way. Okay. Okay. I'm listening. I want to point out that all
00:03:18.300 of the world's evil comes to egalitarianism. Whenever you have a woman that says we need to 1.00
00:03:24.240 fight for this relationship equally. Um, there's two places she went wrong. Number one, once a guy 0.99
00:03:30.980 is to the point that women select him, meaning he has his fitness in check. He has his money in
00:03:36.700 check. He has his game in check. You know, it takes men a lot of work to get to the point to be a guy
00:03:43.400 that we want to marry. And really, I would argue that women should put more effort into the relationship 1.00
00:03:49.200 than men. I think it works better that way. Men have to focus on God, on their purpose, and women are 0.98
00:03:55.280 supposed to submit to the authority of the man in their life. Meaning a lot of times it seems to
00:04:00.960 women that they are doing more for the men than the men are doing for them. And it's because 1.00
00:04:05.640 they don't count the amount of effort it has taken men to get to the point where we want
00:04:10.060 to select them. And a lot of times what you'll see in wives is they'll, they'll think they're 0.99
00:04:16.120 doing more because maybe they're cooking for their husband three days a week. Maybe they're
00:04:20.320 cleaning the house. Maybe they're watching the kids, but they don't count the effort it
00:04:24.260 took him to build the life that you're in. And my question to her is what more effort could
00:04:29.780 he put in equally? I mean, he's handsome. He's successful. He's wealthy. The grass is not
00:04:36.440 going to be greener on the other side. I don't know what this woman thinks is on the other 1.00
00:04:40.020 side as a 40 something year old single mother. And the problem is we have romanticized divorce. 1.00
00:04:47.980 We have told women that you are going to be happier on the other side of divorce. And it 0.62
00:04:53.020 is just not the case. It's not true. Occasionally there are women that do fare better after divorce, 0.77
00:04:59.000 but overwhelmingly women are not more likely to remarry. They're not more likely to be more 0.96
00:05:04.520 financially stable. They do not do better unless they're stealing money from the men. 0.98
00:05:10.460 And I think this is an important lesson. I think there's something we can learn from this
00:05:14.500 that a lot of times as women, we, we, we count favors. And I always say, whenever you have a girl 0.99
00:05:21.340 that says we both need to invest in the, into the relationship, I just did so much for him.
00:05:26.500 I would argue that is actually the biggest red flag because you are keeping score and keeping score
00:05:32.580 does not work in relationships because true femininity is actually selflessness. It has 1.00
00:05:38.100 nothing to do with nails. It has nothing to do with fashion. It has nothing to do with any of that.
00:05:43.500 It's actually submitting and serving the men in your life. And that's where a lot of these femininity 1.00
00:05:48.820 coaches get it wrong. They focus on looking feminine instead of being feminine. And the problem is you
00:05:54.660 have a lot of wives and mothers that might look the part, but they are not the part. And it's really
00:06:00.360 a phenomenon in society, which I call the pretend wives. You know, when we think of our, our mothers, 0.97
00:06:06.460 our grandmothers, our great grandmothers, the last generation of real feminine, submissive women, 1.00
00:06:12.300 they weren't counting all the stuff they did for you. They weren't saying, I did this. You need to do
00:06:17.020 that because true love is selfless. But this is my point is we have a lot of women that are really 1.00
00:06:22.760 fake wives. They're not actual submissive women, but you know, they wear the sundress, they have 1.00
00:06:29.520 their nails done, they get the Botox, they look pretty. But in all actuality, if you look at the
00:06:35.520 women 150 years ago, they were not concerned with looks, but they were a hundred times more feminine 1.00
00:06:41.760 than the women today. I don't think the women weaving baskets, working on farms, or any of the 0.99
00:06:47.820 other jobs that they did 150 years ago, were really concerned with the way that they looked.
00:06:52.980 It came second. Their first needs were the needs of their men. And the problem is the women today 1.00
00:06:58.360 keep score. So they'll say, oh, I did this for him. I did this for him. I did this for him. And we don't
00:07:02.640 keep track of the things that they do for us because we're just naturally kind of self-centered.
00:07:07.240 And we think about everything from our point of view instead of the view of the family. And as I've said,
00:07:12.540 really, we have a bunch of bronze and below standard wives. 1.00
00:07:19.360 If we can go back and if I were able somehow to insulate you with a pro-marriage,
00:07:25.680 pro-relationship community, do you think you still would have actually gone through a divorce?
00:07:30.060 Not that time.
00:07:31.660 Okay.
00:07:32.360 I don't know what would have happened. I've never said this publicly.
00:07:36.360 No, this is what we do.
00:07:38.640 This is a Harley-initiated exclusive, baby.
00:07:41.460 Blah, blah, blah. Make sure you zoom in on this one, okay?
00:07:44.040 It gets deep.
00:07:45.520 Actually, no.
00:07:48.320 I want to deny myself. I want to deny ability.
00:07:52.520 Yeah, no.
00:07:53.140 The truth about the matter is that if I had different people in my ear at that time,
00:08:04.320 I would not have made that decision. No.
00:08:06.360 And it's interesting to see her dodge accountability like the plague.
00:08:13.740 You know what I mean?
00:08:14.720 Her first response is, my friends made me do it.
00:08:18.040 And I do appreciate her being honest.
00:08:20.680 I really do.
00:08:21.980 But I also wanted to point out how women, 1.00
00:08:24.740 it's like our first response is to blame somebody else and not ourselves.
00:08:29.500 But I also wanted to point out that women are very influenced by the culture.
00:08:33.900 Women are very influenced by their friends. 0.97
00:08:36.780 Women are very influenced by their family. 0.99
00:08:38.680 Women are influenced by everybody around them. 0.99
00:08:41.780 And that is what I see a lot of, like, trad cons, I guess.
00:08:45.560 They'll basically act like their women are inept to the culture and it can never happen to them. 1.00
00:08:50.460 And then time and time again, we see that it does. 0.70
00:08:53.800 For example, Dennis Prager has been married three times.
00:08:56.700 Many public media conservative Christian personalities have been married multiple times.
00:09:02.280 For example, Tom Brady.
00:09:04.020 You know, when you ask yourself, were those men not alpha enough?
00:09:06.960 Were they not?
00:09:07.500 Did they not lead well enough?
00:09:09.060 And that's why I point out that men have a very real reason to fear marriage.
00:09:14.920 I think it's a valid concern.
00:09:16.660 And for some men, it's just not going to make sense.
00:09:19.560 So I'm going to look in the comments section here.
00:09:21.680 They said, fight, fight equally for something that she ruined by herself. 1.00
00:09:27.440 Yes, exactly.
00:09:29.940 Exactly.
00:09:30.940 Again, it's the lack of accountability.
00:09:33.440 Well, I had to divorce him.
00:09:35.120 We didn't fight equally.
00:09:36.640 And you see the simps co-signing this behavior.
00:09:40.240 And this is the problem, ladies. 1.00
00:09:42.000 These guys never tell you the truth.
00:09:44.580 They are so deceptive. 0.98
00:09:46.140 They are dishonest.
00:09:48.080 And men hear the things we say.
00:09:50.500 They process it.
00:09:51.500 And they come to a conclusion if that makes sense or it doesn't make sense.
00:09:55.940 But most men will not tell you when it doesn't make sense.
00:10:00.060 And you see her on this podcast and they're kind of coddling her. 1.00
00:10:03.200 They're saying, oh, this makes me happy.
00:10:05.260 Instead of saying, well, why did you ruin it?
00:10:08.280 It's always everybody else and not themselves. 0.63
00:10:10.680 And that's why I argue that really a lot of these red pill channels, Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit,
00:10:16.380 they're actually heroes because they tell women the truth.