JustPearlyThings - December 24, 2022


Modern Women and the NEED to be RIGHT

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Modern Women DON'T Look At BIG PICTURE

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18 minutes

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4,035

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Misogyny

50

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Toxicity

17

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25

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the double standard that women face when it comes to domestic violence and sexual assault. Why do we only hear about violence against women because men don't talk about it enough? Why is there a double standard? Why are there more women on the street than men because of the consequence of the violence women tend to receive than there are more women in shelters than men? What is the difference between a woman and a man on the streets, and why is it that women get more shelter than men in the streets?

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00:00:00.000 and you know statistically you're you're less strong than i am yeah if you hit me you didn't
00:00:05.120 intend to hurt me as much i am given a reason for why the law but that's that's not why it's just
00:00:10.800 because society coddles certain women and the law shouldn't it's got nothing to do with strength no 1.00
00:00:16.320 it should it shouldn't it shouldn't though whether it does or not we don't know whether it does
00:00:20.480 probably shouldn't say it shouldn't but that is why it is there but if you want equality why not
00:00:26.640 you again i'm not talking about you specifically but if feminists want equality why are they not 1.00
00:00:30.560 fighting for that you have to speak to feminists about that but because i'm not about equality
00:00:33.760 i'm about equity and that's very different right but the the whole point is like i'm asking you to
00:00:37.760 name a double standard that doesn't benefit women because you're not quite getting what you're talking
00:00:41.920 about i don't think i mean i don't think there is that's the truth that's the truth so i have
00:00:47.360 i have a stat for you guys give me harvard so this is you would you say harvard can gather research
00:00:52.880 effectively it depends what it's on oh god okay the numbers are skewed okay harvard says 70 of abuse
00:01:01.120 is women against men why do we why do we only hear about violence against women because men don't
00:01:07.920 talk about it enough yeah men don't really complain too much they'll just take it and why are there 0.91
00:01:14.800 more women's shelters than men because of the consequence of the violence no i don't think about
00:01:20.880 what are you talking about are you talking about homeless shelters and that because if it is stuff
00:01:30.800 like that as well even with the homelessness in london because i always do like um do stuff for the
00:01:35.840 homeless every year and that and you never really see women on the street and it's always and there's 0.79
00:01:39.840 a lot of white men on the street as well so it's not just a thing where it's like boy if you're a man
00:01:44.080 you can be homeless i believe i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying there's women's shelters but
00:01:49.040 there's not that shelter yeah but what kind of shows that's what i'm saying because i know i know
00:01:52.320 there's also women battered women because there's also women's homeless shelters as well so like they
00:01:56.480 get taken into certain places that men don't yes yes i'm saying battered there's battered women's 0.71
00:02:00.800 shelters and at those shelters they actively turn down men whoa so sorry go ahead yeah i was just i was
00:02:06.320 just commenting on what he said that we find more uh homeless men than women it's it's it's just because
00:02:12.800 we would take care of women more than them right because but then it goes back to like women don't 1.00
00:02:18.000 face consequences if a man's on the street he's homeless if the women's on the street there are
00:02:22.400 many more shelters and resources for her yeah this is that's an interesting point because i think there
00:02:26.720 is you know people talk about that glass ceiling but there's like a cushioned floor that women tend to 1.00
00:02:33.280 go to where men don't so if i'm if i'm poor i've as a man i know that no woman is going to marry and 0.71
00:02:40.160 marry me and you know raise me up and put me in the house but that that there's a possibility that
00:02:45.200 it could happen to you as a woman so i think you don't know about homosexuals you don't know about
00:02:53.360 what's the what's the what's the probability of that sorry what what what is the probability of that
00:02:57.280 there are bare men that don't have housing and they literally find women who have a child and they
00:03:03.600 can move into their house and that is a so so you're right that that definitely is a thing but it's a
00:03:09.040 very small percentage of men that can do that remember like i think you've been here when i've
00:03:13.200 talked about these stats no okay okay so eighty percent of women actually it's a hundred percent 1.00
00:03:18.720 of women want twenty percent of men so if you look at and we have the data to back this up because you 1.00
00:03:23.760 have dating i get i get one of those ones yeah so it's a very small part there are a subset of men
00:03:29.280 that do do that there are the tinder swindlers out there there there absolutely are and they tend to 0.89
00:03:35.040 the tinder swindler literally it's like a normal guy yes road guy yes will turn up but do you
00:03:41.600 remember if we survey women it's they find 90 of men unattractive or 80 of men on it i can't remember
00:03:47.360 the exact number between 80 and 90 of men unattractive like you show a woman 10 men she'll
00:03:52.240 say eight or nine of them now yeah so it's it's a very small percentage of men that could get a
00:03:58.400 woman's interest to begin with so if you add on get to get it like free rent from her like what 1.00
00:04:04.560 percent of guys can do that yeah but this is when you say it's there but how likely they happen
00:04:08.720 how likely is it but this is something right no you're you're correct you are correct that does
00:04:13.840 happen but what i'm saying is oftentimes i think when we're trying to make a point you're arguing an
00:04:18.320 exception not the rule yeah and and this is and it's not just you this is like i women do this on my 1.00
00:04:23.920 show all the time when we're looking for an exception and it's not the rule but it's a phenomenon
00:04:28.080 that does take place and yes but it's irrelevant to the fact of the point we're trying to make
00:04:31.920 go yeah so there's a solar eclipse the point is the point is if i was a girl if i was an attractive
00:04:37.360 girl i know that if i go broke i can get a guy to pay even i can go start on only fans and i'll be
00:04:42.000 calm but as a guy i can't bank on that as a guy i can't bank on that no but but the whole point is
00:04:46.800 that women don't have consequences for their actions because the majority of women or the majority 0.99
00:04:52.960 of men can't do that it's a very small percentage but the majority of women can i know if i was homeless
00:04:57.840 tomorrow i could go marry a 60 year old i'd be chilling like and i and i just think i'm like
00:05:03.600 a normal girl so most girls can do that i agree with you so like the point is women get bailed out 1.00
00:05:09.840 if we make bad decisions men end up on the streets yeah even for men that try hard i think it's only
00:05:15.840 20 to 30 percent of men are actually sexually active yeah so there's a whole other demographic of
00:05:21.200 men that don't even get afforded to chance to have sexual intercourse and that's what's the rate of
00:05:25.440 women that are sexually active um i think it's 90 percent 100 no matter what you look like someone 0.95
00:05:30.800 will yeah no sorry once they once they reach a certain age yeah it's it's like okay so no matter
00:05:36.880 what you look like is it like 80 or something if you were if you were in the dating market would
00:05:42.800 it be hard to find someone to sleep with you no okay you're dating right are you single single okay
00:05:50.960 would do you think it's hard to find a guy to sleep with you no yeah i would think yeah okay
00:05:57.200 so you think for most what did you say i'll make this point so that so the most attractive man
00:06:02.480 could still go into a club and come out with no one but one of the most least attractive women could 1.00
00:06:06.480 go to a club and still come out with someone to sleep with and there are attractive women that have 1.00
00:06:10.000 exactly that same rate and they would be like i'm attracted most people find me attractive i can't get
00:06:15.440 a man that she wants yeah there you go she can't get a man that she wants i'm saying that the most
00:06:21.760 attractive man is going to sleep with anyone no i'm saying that he he can go into a club and still 1.00
00:06:26.560 walk out empty-handed even if he tries to graft on girls but also to add to that with anyone no but
00:06:31.840 also to add to that with men yo it's different our standards are different for what we will sleep with
00:06:37.520 yeah compared to what we will be in a relationship with like there's a lot of girls that have had sex with 1.00
00:06:42.960 guys that are well out of their league because my man just wanted to bust a nut with a woman it's 1.00
00:06:46.720 not like that do you know i mean a lot of women have to respect something about you or rate something 1.00
00:06:50.640 about you to sleep with you my man could just be like you know what she had a fat back bro so 1.00
00:06:54.080 and leading on to that yeah that's where some women get fucked up because they start sleeping 1.00
00:06:58.240 with their say a five and they start sleeping with a ten and if that's my level my levels are tens 0.98
00:07:02.640 but if he doesn't actually want to be in a relationship with you my love that's not your level
00:07:06.320 that's it but the whole the whole point is like as a girl we can just go down and looks
00:07:11.840 right if like so if a girl's a six say she can go down and do get get a rich three that's 25 years 1.00
00:07:17.200 older be bailed out of any bad decision she's ever made it's not it's not that hard but i think there
00:07:21.840 are men that can no no but i'm saying i'm saying what percent of men do you really think can do that
00:07:27.040 i i don't know of the percentage if you do there are men that can do that but we would agree would
00:07:31.600 you agree it's a very small percentage less than five percent no it's not you think it's higher so
00:07:36.400 why would you say it's higher than that women that are making good money so so then their ratio of 1.00
00:07:41.200 being able to get a woman who is making good money and they can live off her goes up every 0.99
00:07:46.640 year the more women that are making so why would you say it's higher than that when dating app data 0.96
00:07:51.440 so these are two separate studies right they surveyed women and asked them what men they found
00:07:55.280 attractive and they said less than nine less than 20 of men they found attractive and on dating apps
00:08:00.640 when women swiped right they found less than 20 of men attractive because okay yeah go ahead okay 0.85
00:08:07.600 so when you're swiping or the evidence is placed in front of you you're going to be way more in your
00:08:14.960 this is what i'm after now when you're face to face with somebody and you're hearing their baritones and
00:08:19.840 you're feeling their pheromones and they're in front of your face that will probably drop a little bit
00:08:24.400 more okay depending on if you're ovulating if you're horny if they're ready to go things change so data
00:08:31.200 when you're swiping on faces is very one way i i agree with you so i i do think like there are
00:08:37.280 things that men can do right they can be funny they can you know they're like and they improve
00:08:41.280 you're right but i they improve their odds but i would still say it's a minority even if let's say
00:08:46.560 we double it let's give men 40 that's still that's still what percent could actively live off of a girl 1.00
00:08:54.320 a small percentage even if we said 40 of men could get a chick right 0.78
00:08:58.720 what percent what percent are good looking and have enough game to live off of a chair
00:09:03.040 i agree or even live off long term yeah some women might take it for a year or two until they're 1.00
00:09:07.920 like you know what not whilst a man will a man will take a man will happily marry a woman that works at
00:09:12.000 mcdonald's and you can stay working for the rest of your life and it's not going to trouble in one
00:09:15.280 little bit yeah but it couldn't work in the reverse you're trying to say you don't know anybody
00:09:20.960 any woman that's not the point i'm not talking about everything they're there they're there 0.99
00:09:25.360 though it's not it's not again the acceptance of the rule doesn't make the rule and that's
00:09:28.480 that that's what we need to hammer home here you keep talking on exceptions they're not exceptions
00:09:32.400 they are except because there are you're saying you just said you don't know anybody that's
00:09:36.240 there are also women that are funding their whole households and there is a man yeah but also
00:09:41.520 so you know what data also doesn't match up with what you're saying what percent of women make that much 1.00
00:09:44.880 money the average woman and the u.s and i know it's similar here makes 35 000 a year that's not 1.00
00:09:50.640 enough to take care of a dude it's not 35k that's the average that means half a woman make less than 1.00
00:09:55.360 that so it's a small percentage of women that can even take care of a guy and then also it depends 1.00
00:09:59.680 on the woman's circumstances as well it depends on her circumstances because boy if you're a single 1.00
00:10:04.960 mom and you got two huge yeah and you've got a guy yeah that's a bum yeah but he's giving you the wood 0.95
00:10:09.680 yeah boy you might settle for that and let man stay in the house because your options ain't really there
00:10:13.440 if you're young but if you're young and you're good looking and you're making money you're not
00:10:18.080 tolerating that so what i'm saying is yeah that guy even yeah my man's just she's just taking whatever
00:10:23.200 she can get because her options are just not for the time being and then if another guy comes along
00:10:28.640 that's got more money than him she's gone bruv like that's because that's how they that's how they're 1.00
00:10:33.200 wired they're always looking for the next best thing and that's okay do you know what i'm saying
00:10:37.280 but that's it that comes to the fallacy of choice because you get so much choice you think
00:10:40.880 oh it's fine i'll get someone better and then you keep saying i'll get someone better until
00:10:44.000 you get to that point where you know she's a single mom with two kids and no money so she has 1.00
00:10:49.280 to just settle for that guy i often say say a woman's dating career follows the life of say like 1.00
00:10:54.560 a footballer like when you're 16 17 you get a couple young g's like ronaldo they're shelling it
00:11:00.000 getting getting better and better and better then they hit their late 20s 30s and then suddenly you
00:11:05.440 don't get offered a new contract at a top top club then you start scrambling so it's almost like that for
00:11:10.240 women on the dating market and you're in turkey then oh this is what happens and then you start 1.00
00:11:14.800 trying to revive by doing bbls but really you're at the end of your career and you should have just
00:11:18.960 made the best of the clubs that you're at when you had the chance okay i'm gonna read some super
00:11:24.480 quite like that analogy i think it's yeah i think it can go both ways but yes that's of course it can
00:11:30.000 how could it go but no no but the football thing is very good guys we can we can come back to this i'm
00:11:35.840 gonna read some super chats okay okay guys so if you want to see what ish looks like i'll send
00:11:41.120 money because we're trying to get them a camera get them heard your voice and they're getting excited
00:11:47.680 okay um so black wolf inc why do modern women need to be right instead of being corrupt would rather 1.00
00:11:53.760 love would love an answer from the guest in the corner um jenova and and tana lady on the right 0.89
00:11:59.440 gave herself up she said equity and neats shea said it best tarantulas are yay unto me and secretly
00:12:07.920 revengeful ones christopher um surdak what about ism is a mental disease sentience equity f that so
00:12:16.240 equity f that so someone who has not worked as hard as i can get the same outcome that's communism not
00:12:21.920 only is that delusional but if everyone was guaranteed equal outcomes what encourages people to
00:12:27.120 improve if your effort is wasted um nova can you explain cognitive dissonance to the girl in the
00:12:33.120 corner please ps the hidden beauty needs a chance to speak on the couch boy type um this woman's 0.99
00:12:39.120 delusional equal rights equal lapse home kicks a ma'am in the corner what is your what is your height 0.97
00:12:44.640 weight and dress size thomas carter i am i am paying i am paying just to say that i will never watch 0.98
00:12:50.480 these if a woman in the corner is on again she is just ridiculous and full of double standards this is 1.00
00:12:54.800 going nowhere corey um the woman this woman is exactly what's wrong with society in general but 1.00
00:12:59.840 especially with the black community stop using our race to cover your garbage arguments and she's being 1.00
00:13:04.160 racist and be no welcome bay um no no message thank you appreciate that um neo moses how tall are you 1.00
00:13:12.480 how much do you weigh sounds like equality to me um red devil studio rants how how long do you give 0.92
00:13:18.320 till 10 hag at united yeah it's football ignore that but hey big up you look though i know my followers
00:13:23.920 are in here love you northwest northwest pearl the lady next to pearl needs to calm down before frank 1.00
00:13:28.400 castle shows up um please quit talking over people it ruins the quality of the show shadow monk returns
00:13:33.840 woman purposely choose the wrong man and then settle for the men they don't want men should go mig 1.00
00:13:38.080 tau and not participate in relationships anymore toxic lord yo rants what up g big love from um seattle 1.00
00:13:44.080 washington sentience men with money won't care about how it's spent that is the stupidest thing 0.99
00:13:48.960 i've heard from the weak men if your woman spends money frivolously she is a liability and she isn't 1.00
00:13:54.720 supporting him in his vision pick better sentience women always demand men to be above them as well as 1.00
00:14:00.240 men it should be via constant improvement and if if she questions his frame even once he lost consistency
00:14:06.560 in her respects gents lead via benna benna benevolent oh benevolent okay dictatorship
00:14:14.080 um shadow monk returns men do not get married it's not worth it mig tau is the most logical thing 0.98
00:14:18.640 a man should do go your go your own way stack your bread and live a peaceful life sentience financial
00:14:24.400 situations do not matter woman's tolerance for ineptitude from a man in any form is very low if
00:14:29.920 she feels like she's as good or better than her man she will leave him which is reflected in disporous
00:14:34.560 stats um janice port purgal as long as women live on this planet we always find something to complain 1.00
00:14:40.640 about or have excuses um the savvy ninja your family is not going to be there when you are 70
00:14:47.040 years old oh wait that's from the last that's the last stream was there any that came in while i was
00:14:52.160 reading i'm just gonna have a check i'm just gonna refresh the page and see um okay yeah there was
00:14:58.400 arthur jr um the lady in the black is killing me she doesn't understand exceptions mr fisher great job with
00:15:04.240 this topic pearl but the guest in the corner is so delusional and the perfect example of this topic
00:15:09.680 um okay that's all of them okay so
00:15:15.680 the let me see do you guys think that there should be child support
00:15:25.520 like do you if it was up to you would you make child support illegal or do you think it has its place
00:15:30.800 um i'll just go around and just say as in for both parties like just as a institution yeah as an
00:15:36.960 institution yeah yeah yes yes it depends it depends so in some situations yes situations yes so is it
00:15:44.880 legal or illegal i don't hear well child support's legal now um and i'm asking do you think it should
00:15:50.000 be yeah it should be legal um it depends on it so i'm gonna wait in here in it okay yes but it needs
00:15:58.960 to be the way it needs to be calculated needs to be fair like if she's not if she's earning a lot
00:16:03.360 of money then there needs to be some adjustment for that okay i say yes but it's controversial you
00:16:13.040 know i was just thinking though because if they've got equal custody of the child then no because
00:16:18.080 when the youths with me i'll pay when it's with you you'll pay and that's it in it that would just
00:16:22.960 make sense yeah but if i'm paying you money and then i'm taking my child and spending more money
00:16:28.800 when i have my child then to me it don't really make sense in it like i come from a home where
00:16:33.120 my dad paid for everything like even my mom and dad weren't together and they didn't live in the
00:16:36.800 same house my dad always bought my school uniform bought my shoes he bought everything so really and
00:16:42.240 truly if he never paid child support or whatever you need to because he bought everything what about
00:16:46.800 there's a large disparity of income where one parent affording a child a lifestyle of a private
00:16:53.120 school certain luxuries and then the other parent can't keep up with that and then you find that
00:16:58.480 that parent that kid is now feeling this way i think the dad would still be paying for the private
00:17:04.800 school no no no no sorry i'm saying when he's with the dad the lifestyle they're living is different
00:17:10.640 to when he's with the mother why does he have to fund her lifestyle yeah because the separation
00:17:16.720 it's the child you should figure out how to work it out yeah yeah you could see as opportunity rich
00:17:22.480 dad poor dad in real life you go there i don't see the need for child support to be honest in like 0.99
00:17:29.040 most cases go elaborate yeah because i don't understand you can get a job the fuck why do you need 0.99
00:17:34.000 his money 100 like what what on earth why are you entitled to a man's money i think in the modern day 0.96
00:17:38.880 and age if you're especially if you chose to leave with like most of the time women leave why do you 1.00
00:17:42.640 deserve this money you're gonna you're gonna you're gonna leave and then rob man yeah it's true if you
00:17:48.800 know you couldn't get my money would you have left that's what you have to ask them would you would
00:17:53.440 have stayed that's why i might say it's cheaper to keep her in that yeah and it goes back to it goes 0.97
00:17:58.080 back to no consequence so i can marry a man and leave him so make a poor decision for the family 0.99
00:18:05.600 and take half his what the i guess we're thinking selfishly here because um we should we should be
00:18:12.880 thinking about the child's interest as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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