Modern Women Are Allergic To This...
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and talk about their experience in China and how it has affected their faith. They also talk about censorship and how important it is to have a thick skin.
Transcript
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Okay, so hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. I want to I want to go to that. Hold on. I want to go to that. She was there. Because
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if you look at it, because I was sitting there and you were talking. If you look at it
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and you listen to what you're saying and how you say you believe this way, you went one place and
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you changed your whole belief system. It's like, how can you be this and then go somewhere, instantly
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change it. Because of you saying that sitting in this seat right here, it gave other people
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a perspective that you weren't strong enough in your faith to go to another place to where
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it was a different environment, different religion, different everything to be able to stay strong
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in that as soon as you got there, or not as soon as you got there, but when you got there,
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it changed. It flipped. So from what you from the words that came out of your mouth, it gave
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other people a perspective, and that's what they were saying to you. It wasn't that they
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were saying you're on a podcast with lots of people talking. You guys didn't even let
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me finish. You didn't let me. No, we didn't let you. We did let you finish. Yes, we did.
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We did let you finish because you. What I was trying to explain is, that's how it started,
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where I started to. It wasn't because I went to China. It was because I just started reflecting
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on life. So I'm not saying I literally just went to China and my faith just changed. But that's
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what you said. No, I didn't. But even if, okay, let's say it. Okay. Okay. Okay. Even
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if, even if, even if it happened over, even. Can we talk about something else?
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Even this, what you're doing right now is emotional response to something that you can
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just say, do you know what? I did get emotional, but I fucked up. Fuck you, the haters. I'm a
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G. I'll still stick by what I stand. My faith is not weak. I went to China. I just saw
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different perspective and I reanalyzed. Bam. Situation finito. I just feel like I don't
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really benefit from it. Do you know what I mean? You do. To me, it's not really something
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I want to talk about. But you benefit, you don't benefit from reacting like this and putting
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something out there and not allowing for people to expect you anything wrong. If you didn't
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want to talk about it, you went on another podcast and talked about it. I spoke about
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it because when are we walking, when we went on Eddie's show, you know, Eddie orchestrated
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the whole thing, right? So we went on the show. We were meant to talk about, I can't even
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remember, women and relationships. He said Soraya wanted to talk about it. Was that
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not true? No, no, no. No, that's a lie. So Soraya was talking about experience and then
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Eddie was like, this is good content. Let's film. And he just started filming. So obviously
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You have the power to say don't film anymore. What is your experience? Obviously, I'll say
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it with my chest. You don't have to. Yeah, I didn't feel like you were rude and I said
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it on the show, but that's just is what it is. I'm ready to move on from it because it
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is just what it is. I don't, personally, I don't agree with that way of conducting. I don't care
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about thick skin. We don't need to be thick skin. I'm sorry. You do have to. I'm sorry.
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We need to have censorship because unless people know what they're going into, we need to have
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a level of censorship. No, my sister, if we had censorship, then who's the one that's going
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to control that? Because if we have censorship, according to Pearl's followers, I should be
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shut down immediately. But, Denova, what I'm trying to say is not everyone is you.
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And exactly. I don't want that cloud. Then the whole point is, don't come.
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Move on. Move on. No, I'll tell you something. The whole point. I don't want that cloud. No, stop.
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The whole point is, if you ain't like me, don't go and talk like you like me. Don't go sit against
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somebody like Pearl. No one's trying to beat you. I beg, I beg. What the fuck on, man? No one's
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trying to beat you. Move on. Let's move on. Let's move on. This is why you're put on. And I'm not
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going to move on. No. I will finish my thought. Why are you so bothered about talking? I will tell you.
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Because, I will tell you. Move on. Because you are the problem with modern women. And
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I'll tell you why. You're not the problem with modern women. No, I am not. Because I
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stand here and people come for me. And as the struggle. You just be cloud chasing, Denova.
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You're cutting me off. You're cutting me off. You just be cloud chasing. You're cutting me
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off. The same way. You're cutting me off. I said I want to move on. No, I don't care. I don't
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care. Move the fuck on. First of all, you're younger than me. You're rude. So, why are we
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talking about this? This is the reason why you got into the trouble that you got
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into. Because you're disrespectful. It's not trouble. You're rude. And you don't know how to look back.
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I beg. I beg. I beg. I beg. I don't care about. I don't care because I don't want to.
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Oh my God. And I am very much more entitled to finish my thought. Okay, keep talking.
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Thank you. Keep talking. If you don't interrupt me, then I'll tell you. Very, very well done
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to you. Because I'll tell you something. When you come on the internet, wherever you go,
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you think you got a voice. You stand by it. You don't take it back and get upset because
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somebody didn't agree with you. I've had way more hate than you. I've had a lot more rejection
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and a lot more reactions against me than you have had. And I stood here. And the reason why it
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didn't stick to me is because I am not weak. I stand in my thoughts. I stand in my beliefs.
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I stand in my truth. If you are not a woman that can speak in her truth, do not put yourself
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against people that go against you. It's that simple. I've said it so many times.
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No, no, no. You're full of excuses. I don't want that clown. I don't want that clown.
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Daddy should have got up. You don't want that clown. I don't want that clown.
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Okay, okay, okay, okay. Guys, guys, okay, let's... I did try. No, you did. And why didn't you?
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Okay. Because I don't get why you're so hyped about it. Like, what the fuck? Because you're
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talking shit now. You're talking shit. No, because you swear at me. Because it's not about you.
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You keep making about... Esther, it's about... No, it's about... No, it's about... It's about the
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everybody cares. Everybody cares about how... Like, some people want to let some people
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go. Esther, Esther, Esther, Esther, Esther, you are the exact example. Stop making it
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about yourself. It's not about me. It's about the fact... You're making it about yourself.
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Bro, you went against somebody like Pearl. And this is about Pearl. I won't even make
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it about myself. Let's dick cry now. Pearl came for me the same way. In fact, I argue
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with Pearl way more than you do. I've been on this show way more times than you have. I faced
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Auntie Jenny way more times than you have. Why is it about me in the mouth of her?
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Wait, wait, wait, wait. Shut up and listen. You're so obsessing yourself.
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No, she's giving... What she is, she's giving... She's giving an example. She's saying that
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she's been in your... But listen, listen, listen. I don't want that type of clout.
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I'm not doing this for clout. It's so simple. No, but she's not saying that she's doing
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it for clout. She's giving an example. That she's been in your shoes, but she's handled it
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a different way. She's taken it. I'm not saying well done to her. No, but it's not about
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saying... But why are we still going back? I beg, because you've not let me finish.
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You've not let me finish because you say you want to move on.
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If you want to move on, let me finish speaking because I'm more stubborn than you, and I'll
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not stop until I finish my point. And my point simply is, if you are not willing to take
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shit, don't go and talk. If you're not willing to stand your ground as a woman, don't go out
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there and be going for a fight. If you're not ready to fight, you exit the situation straight
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away. If you want to stay and fight, you stand tall and you fight. I'm not afraid to sit
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You're still cutting me off. You had a conversation that didn't go your way. You didn't like what
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you heard, and now you're labeling Pearl to be misogynistic, racist, and this and that.
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When I've had the same experience on the podcast you did, I've had the same experience. I've
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had bigger head-to-heads with both people that you're referring to, and I don't feel the
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same way because I understand it's not personal. It's not about race. It's about who are you?
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What do you stand for? How much do you respect yourself and what you think and what you believe?
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And clearly, but how you have acted, even how you're acting right now, it's not very high.
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Because I told you how I feel, and I don't care about how you feel. I do not care about
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How come you can express how you feel, but she can't express how she feels.
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Because at the end of the day, you asked about my experience, right? If we're going to
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Don't bring it about your experience, about my experience.
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Let's make it denial and forget about Esther. Let me tell you.
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A powerful, strong woman that respects herself and holds her truth will sit here and have
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people shouting in her ear, telling her that she was not abused for five years because
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she didn't report it to the police. And guess what she does? She sits there with compulsion
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says, you say what you got to say. I know my truth. And by the way, my sisters, if you
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need help, I'm here for you. It's that simple. I don't care about what these people have
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to say. Because in my opinion, they talk shit because their truth is not my truth. Simple.
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Simple. Nothing more, nothing less. And instead, you choose to sit here, shout and be rude.
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You're like, oh, that shit. You're too good shit.
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No, no, no, no, no. I did that. Actually, there was some time.
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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Stop. Because you're fighting against the person that stands
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Listen, be quiet for two seconds. You're still shouting.
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So you've been shouting at me when I said that.
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Because they speak to you. You know they listen all.
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Don't raise your voice at me. I think I'm going to raise my voice back.
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It's so embarrassing to see here and hear a sister like you speak to a woman like me
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in the way that you have spoken to me. It's embarrassing. It's embarrassing.
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People are sitting here trying to give you pointers so that you can survive better.
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Be quiet. Esther, be quiet because you need to learn from people that are doing better
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than you, actually. It's not about cloud chasing.
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Esther, stop for two seconds because if you don't want to...
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Someone in the comments was like, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry.
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Esther, Denal, Denal, I'll give you 30 more seconds.
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And then I'll give you 30 seconds to respond and then we'll be done.
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My point simply is, ladies, if you're going to open your mouth, be ready for the consequences
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If you're going somewhere and people are coming for you and you cannot handle it and you can
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feel upset, it's because you are not comfortable with who you are.
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Don't come here, call Pearl names if you are not the G that can actually sit there and debate
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What I have to say is when I was invited on the show, I didn't know I was coming on Pearl's
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I take accountability because I should have asked and made sure I clarified which show
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I don't like aggressive, going back, insulting each other.
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So it's like when I came here, I was just like, wait, we're going against trans people.
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Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
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