Modern Women Are Always Nagging Men ｜ Pearl Daily
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2 hours and 24 minutes
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178.46225
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183
Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men and why it s a terrible deal for men. Women are taught to leave their husbands, and then their daughters grow up without their fathers. The future is female.
Transcript
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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We've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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Before you know it, you're homeless. You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is in lives to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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And that's the thing, like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it,
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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They think, well, men have all the rights, they have all the power.
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man-
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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If you guys want, that was the trailer for my divorce documentary.
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As you guys know, I attempted to make a divorce documentary last year before I was demonetized, kicked off of like seven TikTok accounts, eight Instagrams.
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You know, my co-host, Doug MPA, he always says, you're so he'll always say to me, you know, I got respect for you because you at least put your face out there.
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And guys, it's like you guys don't know what it's like being a YouTuber.
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It's probably how you guys think when you date women.
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But it's like if I meet a woman day to day, it's like this is a liability who might make a hit piece on me later.
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So they really don't want this documentary to come out and they've done a pretty good job slowing it down.
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But lucky for us, you guys have gotten us, you know, kickstarted.
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We've raised three thirty two thousand five hundred and fifty dollars for this.
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I'm just going to say first names for not like being anonymous here on the GoFundMe when I announced the donations just in case.
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I know sometimes it's just automatically linked.
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We had a five hundred dollar donation yesterday from CJ.
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And fifty dollars from Josh putting us at thirty two thousand five hundred fifty dollars.
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Guys, once we get to one hundred K, I'm going to hire a team.
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You know, if we got to a million dollars, I could actually hire.
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So today we're talking about my favorite topic.
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And there's just a special place in my heart for kicking these trad con women butts.
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And the reason is, you know, I want you to understand a little bit about my background.
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I realize I have a lot of new viewers these days and I did 12 years Catholic school.
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And I went to I attended Catholic mass, I would say, till my early 20s.
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And I grew up a lot around these trad con women.
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And I just I think I need to be the trad con destroyer.
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And there's just a point in my life where I could not figure I knew something was off or something pissed me off about these trad con women.
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But I never could like I could never articulate what and I never understood why I got along better with liberal women rather than these a lot of times stuck up bitches.
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I'm like, why do I get along with these women that I have nothing on paper in common with like they believe in basically killing their kids up to birth?
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I think it's wrong, but it just wouldn't make sense to me.
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And I realized it's because the conservative women, liberal women, they believe in really messed up stuff.
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So what I found with liberal women is there's I'm going to divide it into two halves.
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There's the halves that are crazy and believe in crazy ideas.
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And then there's the other liberal woman who believes in silly things, but she's a nice person.
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And I always got along with those women where like they're pretty fun, but they just believed in silly, stupid things where the conservative women, they just tend to be conservative for their because they're not fun and have no personality.
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And when I see these commentators using it, and look, I'm not the most religious person in the world.
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But when I see commentators grifting the religion I grew up with, the religion that my family is, that pretty much everyone around me growing up was,
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is I just think there's a special place in hell for these women that convert and then start lecturing me.
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And it's so annoying because I'm just going to rant.
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I, I can't, I cannot stand women that lecture me on, on Catholicism.
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When, if you took the early part of my life, I practiced more than you do.
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But like, imagine, imagine you're LeBron James.
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And I'm not, I'm not saying I'm the same thing, but just for the analogy and you put up a hundred points or I'll say 10,000 points over five years.
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And then somebody comes in on year one and they've put in a thousand points.
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And then they start telling you how to play basketball.
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And you're like, bitch, bitch, shut the fuck up.
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So, um, that's my feel like, if anything, I almost, I would say to steer clear of the churches or any woman with a Bible verse in her bio, I would just block her at this point.
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Um, when sex box and artificial wombs go mainstream, women are done.
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Um, unfortunately that's a dream I hear, but I, you know, I, in my opinion, men are just, I've seen too much.
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And that's my problem is, you know, and I was in a space the other day, which by the way, I'm locked out of my Twitter right now.
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So if you guys bought the Bitcoin, they tweeted that, you know, it's survival of the fittest out here.
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I can't even feel that bad because, you know, um, if I didn't announce it, like out of my mouth, if I was going to launch a Bitcoin, it wouldn't be through a tweet.
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So if someone bought that, um, you know, some people in life, I just think are meant to lose money.
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Um, but anyways, so the issue I have is that, um, I've seen a lot.
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So, you know, I know a lot of these guys personally on these podcasts, and I would say it's not really the big YouTubers that I'm talking about, but like, I don't want, please don't go around saying Pearl said this about that YouTuber.
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You're not going to know who I'm talking about.
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But I would hear certain YouTubers or influencers, whatever, um, say like, Oh, I won't date this, this and that, and then date exactly this that are that this, this or that and want to marry these women.
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And I mean, you hear it all the time, like these guys say, don't men don't want to date that and they don't, but men do settle, right?
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You know, like men do want the 22 year old hotties, but if the 22 year old hotties are, are too hard to get too difficult to deal with, they'll just take, it's like, you know, men want a Ferrari, but they'll deal with the Honda Civic.
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Yeah, it's got some miles on it, but it's going to keep running for life.
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Now it's a grim reality for most men in marriages and relationships.
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Women really feel entitled to having things their way.
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And the men and the man they are with really has to cope completely.
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So it's funny how women say they're better at communicating, but don't know how to communicate with their husbands or boyfriends without nagging.
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It's also funny that women call men all sorts of things.
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They call men controlling, abusive, emotionally detached, but it's really projection.
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Um, to be honest, women are all of those things.
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But regardless, you never hear a woman call a man a nag and men just don't nag women.
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It's like men, men know that their opinion doesn't matter.
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And that people have traits that you don't like, right?
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And they will put up with traits they don't like because they know they are not perfect either.
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That's why they don't really go around trash talking their ex boy or their ex girlfriends, partially because they're kind of scared of them.
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But also because their ex girlfriends, um, they don't want, they know they're not without fault either.
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And they don't really want to go back and forth.
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But you know, the fastest way I've witnessed women lose their husband's attraction and romance in a marriage is, you know, besides being a whore and catching an STD, having another man's kid kid outside of that is to nag him to death.
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And I would go so far that nagging is so annoying that men would actually take a child before they take a nagging woman.
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I have never seen a man more beaten down than a man.
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And to be fair, there probably is something wrong with him.
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I mean, there's something wrong with everybody.
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I mean, I gotta be a little bit messed up to do this job.
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If I'm being honest guys, do you know what I mean?
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I can't be like, who wants to talk for three hours?
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Who wants, you know, who wants to, you know, so like I, I'm under no, but you know, a lot of the times women, they never have this thought cross their mind ever in their entire life.
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They just focus on the man can have 10 awesome traits, but they'll focus on the one trait they don't like.
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And we see this, uh, nagging culture throughout American culture.
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Now I came up with a couple of points about the modern woman nag.
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Men know their opinion doesn't matter in the long run, but accomplishment and actions do.
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So this is why you always see women nagging about the restaurant or whatever.
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This is why you see them do it because they'll bitch.
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They'll moan where the men are just, they say good enough.
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They did like, you can also tell how emasculated the man is by how little the wife knows about men and how she treats him in public.
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So like sometimes I, you know, I'll give you an example.
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The other day I met this woman was telling me about her life on the dating market and how, um, she is a divorced mother of four.
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And she was telling me about how she just can't help, but give their opinion, her opinion about stuff.
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And I was telling her, I'm like, look, you know, um, one thing I've learned in relationships and, you know, at times I fumbled in my life is that, you know, it might be cute for you guys to listen to me for three hours.
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But in my personal life, shockingly, people don't want to listen to me for three hours straight.
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And it's something I've had to work on draw back, you know, and I was telling her, you know, if you have an opinion, it's better.
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I know it's hypocritical doing what I do, but men, they really don't want to hear it.
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You know, and it's something that like, you know, at least in your personal life, like for some reason, you guys like listening to me.
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My point is this, my point is this, this, I couldn't believe how a woman in her forties and fifties had never thought about that.
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The men she's dating and her ex-husband didn't want to hear her opinion.
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I'm like, look, some of these lessons I had to learn too.
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I'm not, I try to do, you know, in my early content, I understand sometimes how it sounds when I say like, we, like, I'll say, you know, women, we do that.
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And I always try to, I would always try to say, especially my early content, we, but for some, you know, just to know that I, you know, I'm still a woman too.
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But for some reason in my early content, people just never got that.
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But these women, do you know what they would do?
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They would come on my show where, you know, women are supposed to argue about this stuff.
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It was like, they would come on my show and then get mad when I did my job.
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So anyways, Solveria says my girlfriend tried to put emotional baggage on me.
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I told her obedience is a must to stay with me.
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And I don't want her acting the same way my wife does.
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Well, wife cut off the sex and turned on the nag after year four.
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You guys would be better off dumping these broads.
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And I just want you to know, and I'm just, I want to give you a different perspective.
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You guys, by not dumping these nagging wives, you teach your daughters that it's okay to do the same thing.
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They're like, they need like the dads in their life.
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So don't, I don't let me make a choice for you.
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But I think it's better to have no dad than a demasculated dad.
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Um, if you can in the divorce and just leave it, you did what you could.
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Now you guys are saying now we're simping in the chat.
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So a come and tell and is by women, by how little they know about men is they often use what they'll do is they'll use their marriage as a way to virtue signal.
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Therefore I know more, but their actions show really differently.
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And women go through marriage and often learn absolutely nothing about men.
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They don't care enough about their husbands to pay attention.
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Um, so this idea that women that are married are somehow superior.
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I mean, there's a reason that men say girlfriends are better than wives, right?
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Because girlfriends have the burden of performance.
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Married women, especially married women with kids.
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If anything, I'd say they know the least because they have no burden of performance.
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So the next point is women have a laundry list of complaints about a man, but none about themselves.
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Many couples normalcy is the woman's nagging the man constantly.
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Um, modern women, uh, both liberal and conservative have never been told to shut the fuck up and never been told no.
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And the same path out that conservative women have the same pathology as liberal women.
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And, um, Candace Owens, I'm going to show you the clip.
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She virtue signals in response to a masculine behavior.
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I have met Candace and to be honest, I was a little star struck when I met her.
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It's kind of weird when you meet someone in person, um, that you've seen on TV for years.
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Um, and I gave her a woman should, oh, I can't say that.
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But I don't think you have to make me, you have to think I'm stupid to believe she is a conservative Catholic wife and mother.
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She's now putting a Catholic cross in the background and using the religion I grew up with.
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Now even maybe I'm not the most religious person in the world, but do you know what I mean?
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There's still a sense of like, Hey, you know, that's a bit disrespectful.
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Could you grift on like, um, the equivalent of that would be, I worked a sales job.
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And imagine I just put all my, like, I make, um, my sales cubicle, uh, a prayer station.
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But we never questioned it when these influencers do it.
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Look at, and there's things I think Candace Owens did great.
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There's things I think she did awesome, but you can't be in a, you know, I bet she, if I came on, if we ever, I doubt we'd ever collab again.
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If you're in this industry, put on your, you know, you gotta put on your big girl pants.
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I, everybody like, if you can't handle criticism, then you gotta, you gotta get out of the industry.
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So the other thing I don't understand about a lot of these conservative Christian women is politics and your children's safety is important.
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So they always signal that family is more important than a job.
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But women will accept money for safety or make sure things are safe, um, before there's any kind of real risk.
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But when they finally take the risk, they take too much credit and give an embellished version of the story to make it sound harder, um, than it actually was.
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So in her case, you know, she's getting death threats over the J stuff.
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I'm going to just say the J what, what should we say on the channel to signal?
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Cause I'm not going down that rabbit hole today.
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You know, if you're a mother and your kid's safety is first, I don't really understand why you wouldn't put it down and let the men do it.
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Um, conservative women have no idea how much they nag on a daily basis.
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Conservative women use their families and their children as a way to show how moral they are and bolster their public persona.
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They have no idea how unfair it is to the kids to have to be the fuel for the machine that is her public persona.
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So you see that it's like, you know, one thing I appreciated about Tucker Carlson, he does have the occasional picture with his family, but nobody like thinks of Tucker Carlson's kids.
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They think of Tucker Carlson, he never brought his kids to his brand or work.
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I mean, I'm not against an occasional picture once a year or something.
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But when you start to like every argument, it's like I had kids you didn't.
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I thought your behavior was supposed to be the best thing about you.
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I should be able to tell if you're so morally superior.
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Now, modern women try to control speech and tone.
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through shame, guilt, insult, and need to be right.
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Um, so what made me think of this topic was a recent interview that Candace Owens had with, I'm going to say NF because I don't want to go down that rabbit hole today.
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And I just couldn't, I, my blood was boiling because I could not believe that a married woman was nagging this much.
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And this is a conservative, this is a conservative religious, religious woman nagging a man and disrespecting.
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And, and that's what modern conservative women do, especially the ones in the media.
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So we're going to, we're going to talk about, all right, let me pull up this clip.
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Now I want to say Candace Owens, if I get copyrighted for this, I was told by Candace on Twitter, right?
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Let me find this that we are able to react to clips.
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Her Twitter says you cannot react to the full interview, but you can react to clips.
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If I get copyright written after this, I'm not going to be able to take it.
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Um, another point to make is, um, Candace Owens, his husband is worth $150 million.
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So there's no reason for her to be out here and putting her kids safety at risk.
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Uh, you know, um, there's no reason for her not to be home with her kids.
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And what, what I'm saying is I'm not saying she shouldn't do what she does.
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But all I'm saying is she is not doing what she is selling.
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I just thought it was such a good tweet and it reminded me of her.
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It says trad wife influencers are business women selling a lifestyle families in marriage.
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the thing is women like her, and I don't know if she's like this or not.
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I don't know her personally, but they tend to weaponize their audience.
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Um, they tend to make everything private public.
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So yeah, women like her, I mean, honestly, they scare me a little bit.
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Um, and you might think, well, why are, let me take off the sweater.
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Well, uh, women can do a lot with under $50 million.
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I better get a super chat today for this one because I never know what these women are going to do.
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So this is where she starts nagging him and then gets triggered.
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To me at all, it's almost as if we're not related.
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And, uh, there's something very disturbing to me about that.
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And I can understand why people are okay with that.
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Um, you know, because people have various feelings about race.
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Well, you're allowed to be you and I'm allowed to be me.
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Um, a question that I would ask you then is what, what is your dating life?
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No, you have a perspective about who you want to marry.
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I'm trying to, uh, get, uh, prepared for that mentally.
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And it's a big adjustment for a man, um, to go from having a life where you can do whatever you want, go wherever you want, unaccountable, you know, everything like that, to then you have to be roommates with women and children.
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And, um, for someone like myself, I'm a pretty eccentric and, uh, you know, kind of out there person.
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Um, you know, and my sleep schedule is moving around all the time.
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The idea of like, you know, my wife sending me out the door.
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Be home by 10, you know, call me and tell me where you're going.
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I got to get the car seats and buy all the plane tickets and stuff like that.
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And this is something women are not competing with other women.
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He's saying, and this is how a lot of gents are.
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It's not that they're a lot of them are sexless, right?
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It's not that they have another choice of a woman to date.
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If someone comes in, but you're competing with silence.
00:32:18.000
And women that don't understand men have no idea how much energy they spend.
00:32:26.000
And they don't appreciate how much energy they spend just being around us
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And in fact, they tend to feel entitled for it.
00:32:42.000
So I'm trying to get over that, I guess, but that's maturing.
00:32:46.000
I think you should probably mature on that point.
00:32:51.000
Because remember Candace Owens, she had from 16 to 30.
00:33:00.000
She hasn't been doing the trad thing for that long or the trad, right?
00:33:06.000
And women give up nothing to be in relationships.
00:33:15.000
She didn't have to work for the commitment, right?
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And that's how you can tell the guy is in her frame, right?
00:33:32.000
When she got a family, she goes further into political stuff.
00:33:37.000
It's like, she said, now that I have kids, let me get more death threats, more death threats
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Even though I've been conservative for five minutes.
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And now I'm going to beat the Bible over your head.
00:34:28.000
And it's because I grew up around women like this and it was so exhausting.
00:34:49.000
Then obviously, like, you know, the perspectives on family.
00:34:51.000
I, I personally, and this would be me lecturing, but I just feel like you really have no idea who you are until you start a family.
00:35:00.000
And whether that means just marriage and people who are struggling to have children.
00:35:05.000
But there's such a, a growth that happens because.
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Well, what you should be a good person because you want to be a good person.
00:35:21.000
I wanted to say you're a beautiful woman and I'm grateful you're courageously speaking the truth.
00:35:28.000
Can we just, can we just, can we just be honest here?
00:35:39.000
That, that I think it informs your beliefs in so many ways.
00:35:43.000
And I think that was a huge turning point for me.
00:35:45.000
Like, I wonder if I had been pressed with everything that happened last year, if I didn't have like the unshaken faith and my family.
00:35:59.000
It's like everyone on this channel, Pearl, Pearl.
00:36:14.000
Let me, let me put people I love in my life at risk for my selfish desires of curiosity.
00:36:51.000
And do you see, he, she asked him a personal question and he opened up to her.
00:36:57.000
And then she immediately goes to, you're not moral.
00:37:06.000
And sometimes when I see the things that you say, I do think, okay, he doesn't take into account family.
00:37:13.000
Nick is in his own world, which can be, I think a quite selfish perspective, which is fine.
00:37:18.000
You like being selfish is another way to say what you just said.
00:37:20.000
I like being selfish and I don't want to give of myself to somebody else.
00:37:35.000
And I don't always think that doing the selfish thing is the wrong thing.
00:37:38.000
I don't, but it's just, it's just these women, where do they get off?
00:37:50.000
I don't understand how you've been married for so long and you think it's appropriate to talk to a guy that way.
00:37:59.000
I also think there's something self less involved, which is to say, I could go and start a family and drag them into a world of mine, which is pretty chaotic.
00:38:09.000
You know, I mean, is, is this really, um, the kind of a lifestyle?
00:38:13.000
If I'm banned on everything and I can't make a living, I'm banned from banking.
00:38:20.000
People are showing up to my house, trying to kill me, things like that.
00:38:23.000
Uh, and what's more, I mean, let's also get, you know, I also don't appreciate the lecture.
00:38:31.000
I know you're older than me, but you don't know me.
00:38:36.000
I don't think you're in a position to give me advice, especially as a woman.
00:38:39.000
Honestly, I don't think women, you know, this is something in the right wing.
00:38:43.000
We say we're anti-feminist and then women go around telling men what to do.
00:38:48.000
And, you know, I don't really buy into that ideologically, but that's besides the point.
00:38:53.000
You know, my life has been tumultuous from the very beginning.
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From the time I turned 18, people are coming from my neck and trying to get me.
00:39:01.000
And then, you know, once you're branded as an anti-Semite before it became cool or popular,
00:39:06.000
can't get a job, can't make a living, get banned from PayPal, all this kind of stuff.
00:39:10.000
You know, that's a very difficult environment to try to have a dating life.
00:39:15.000
I go out on Tinder, I go to a bar and I say, Hey, I'm a neo-Nazi Nick Fuentes
00:39:22.000
I could go in depth about how doing this type of content does kill your dating life.
00:39:31.000
I'll tell you what, before I met my boyfriend, you're terrified, right?
00:39:39.000
Because what happens is people do hit pieces on you.
00:39:43.000
So like, you know, when you've had a best friend like me, I had a best friend in 20 years, make a hit piece on me.
00:39:52.000
Um, I had really close people like leaking things on the internet.
00:40:00.000
You go out and someone says on TikTok, I saw Pearl.
00:40:04.000
You know, you, you know, I, I downloaded, um, when I met my, my boyfriend, I had, I didn't meet him through Bumble, but I did have, I think it was Bumble.
00:40:14.000
And it was on Twitter the day of, and you're dating pro it's like such an invasion of privacy.
00:40:21.000
And it's like, when you go into this, you think, and it really, for a while, I was like terrified because it really stressed me out.
00:40:29.000
So I really understand where he's coming from because, you know, if you say your opinions on this stuff, you think you're going into this and it's just like a debate and yada, yada, yada.
00:40:41.000
But people are looking to like set you up and I don't have it as a quarter as bad as Nick.
00:40:48.000
I also know Nick gets a lot of female attention.
00:40:52.000
I, I saw the girl, the girls were into him when he came on the show.
00:40:58.000
So it's not like he can't entertain that, but a guy like that is going to have so much to think about.
00:41:05.000
And then he also, any woman that he has a kid with has all this information.
00:41:09.000
They're going to know him so well, and she can use that information to destroy him.
00:41:14.000
And I've seen even good women, quote unquote, do that.
00:41:28.000
I had Bumble for like two days and they tweeted my profile.
00:41:42.000
But at my peak fame, I couldn't do, I couldn't, I really, I, you know, I, I was kind of a pussy.
00:41:47.000
I was probably too scared too, but it was, it was just a lot of stress.
00:41:51.000
It was, um, cause these women will do anything to, to get you, you know what I mean?
00:41:59.000
Um, and even, even, um, when I met, like when I met my now boyfriend, you're terrified.
00:42:06.000
You don't know if he's going to like run to the internet or he, he wouldn't do that.
00:42:17.000
Um, and so her, like just lecturing him about, it's just so annoying.
00:42:22.000
It's so like, and women don't like, they don't see a problem with this.
00:42:27.000
They don't realize it's actually inappropriate to like say that.
00:42:30.000
Every day I'm going to start a dating profile on Tinder.
00:42:34.000
People are going to screenshot that mess with me in all kinds of ways.
00:42:37.000
It is a very difficult predicament actually for me, because I took on basically a huge sacrifice at the beginning.
00:42:43.000
And I don't know that you really appreciate that enough.
00:42:46.000
I think that you're somebody who, you know, you had a career in politics for as long as I was fighting a battle.
00:42:59.000
She took, and it's the same thing with only fans.
00:43:01.000
She took the money from the JQ and then after turns on it, it's mad convenient.
00:43:15.000
Like, and the other thing too, that girls like her don't realize they all made money and built their careers off of men.
00:43:22.000
And they don't, it's such a sacrifice when I started my show.
00:43:30.000
Um, but it's like when I was recruiting the guests and getting the people, it's such a time suck.
00:43:40.000
And it's like these, these girls, they don't understand how much the men are doing for them in the background.
00:43:54.000
You're, you're part of this thing that I'm criticizing and paying a very heavy price for at a time when no one's saying those things when it's very unpopular.
00:44:02.000
And it's not to say that I'm a victim, you know, because I did it willingly and I love and I would do it again.
00:44:07.000
But it is to say that, you know, you and I have lived very different lives and.
00:44:12.000
I think for you to say you had your husband, have your kids, your, you got your ducks in a row, made quite a bit of money.
00:44:19.000
Then you discovered the truth and then you went out on a limb and it's not to say you didn't make sacrifices and it wasn't a risk and it paid off.
00:44:35.000
I was 17 and I woke up and I went balls to the wall bucket of ice, cold water.
00:44:40.000
As you say, I made a lot of enemies and maybe that wasn't wise.
00:44:44.000
You know, but I told the truth and I took on extremely heavy cost for my personal life.
00:44:49.000
It basically has made it so that I can have a personal life.
00:45:08.000
Because every person you let in is a calculated risk.
00:45:13.000
And the other thing, too, is people will, you know, you might make an edgy joke in private with your friends or whatever.
00:45:23.000
They'll say, oh, she said this, this or this with no context to the conversation or they don't say what they said, too.
00:45:32.000
I mean, to be honest, guys, sometimes I think I got one or two girls I used to be friends with.
00:45:39.000
I'm just expect, you know, like and you, you, you constantly live in like, I don't want to say fear because I, it just is what it is.
00:45:51.000
But I got one or two girls I was friends with in the past where I'm like any day they're just going to crash out because they hate my content.
00:45:57.000
There's going to be another hit piece on the Internet, you know, and you just lose the sense of like privacy.
00:46:06.000
And I've kind of gone down in fame the last year and I've really enjoyed like I.
00:46:15.000
I'm sorry I'm making this about me, but I just want to say how I relate to this experience.
00:46:22.000
When I was at like the peak fame, it would be everywhere I go.
00:46:29.000
And it gives such pressure, you know, like, you know, because you don't.
00:46:37.000
It's not like, you know, I don't do drugs or anything crazy, but you just never know what somebody's going to like say you did or I don't know.
00:46:46.000
And it just you lose a sense of privacy in public.
00:46:52.000
And I was I kind of want to stay at this level of I hope I don't get more.
00:46:59.000
I really it's tough because you enjoy the show.
00:47:22.000
But after a year, you're like, I want privacy back and I can't imagine how it is for him.
00:47:33.000
The shows are usually during social times anyway.
00:47:43.000
When feminists give advice to men, even covert feminists like Candace, that advice is never for men, but it always benefits women.
00:47:59.000
You know, dating women, I can't even really have a lot of male friends because there's such an incentive to betray me, to turn your back on me.
00:48:09.000
Because there are people that are being paid to attack me all the time on Twitter for information about me, things like that.
00:48:16.000
So, you know, it's something like everything else that I'm figuring out one step at a time, just like my show.
00:48:23.000
And, you know, when I get banned from something, you know, whether or not I'll be able to have a family and kids and what that'll look like.
00:48:28.000
But, I mean, it's a little bit, it's a little more complicated, I think, than maybe you understand.
00:48:33.000
I feel like you just got super triggered by me just saying something so casual.
00:48:53.000
He just opened up to you and gave you a super honesty.
00:49:05.000
Because he was one of the, like, he was, he was so respectful to our staff and stuff.
00:49:10.000
Like, look, people can see, you know, that is women.
00:49:20.000
You open up to them and then they, they get disrespectful back.
00:49:31.000
Just like, I was just having a conversation with you, just being like, Hey, like you, you, there's a lot of growth.
00:49:35.000
Like that's like a, it's a pretty cool thing to do.
00:49:38.000
And I feel like you got pretty triggered there and got like a little upset.
00:49:48.000
When women respond like this, they have a beta simp husband.
00:49:52.000
They do because she has never been told no in her life.
00:49:59.000
Everybody's told her she's awesome all the time.
00:50:05.000
Remember she got famous for being a woman basically, because she's not overly talented.
00:50:15.000
I would say I got, I got famous way too fast too.
00:50:19.000
I'm in a very similar, like, I would say I got way more famous to be a spokesperson.
00:50:30.000
But the difference is, I attempt to be, have a humility when it comes to this stuff.
00:50:40.000
I don't really, I don't really see that with Candace.
00:50:46.000
Um, and it's really frustrating because when she has someone on that for the cause they're
00:50:53.000
talking about, this is, I mean, this is the OG of that cause.
00:50:58.000
Um, it's like, I don't know why she's treating him.
00:51:03.000
Like he's her little brother instead of an authority.
00:51:12.000
I talked to a ton to people about their personal life.
00:51:19.000
It's like, why do you feel like you, like this is, that wasn't a line of attack, Nick.
00:51:25.000
So why you kind of responded like you were just attacked.
00:51:29.000
Because you're, you're giving me this lecture, giving me this advice about things and telling
00:51:33.000
me, you know, you don't know who you are and all this kind of stuff.
00:51:36.000
I said that when people start families, it, it does commute your perspectives a lot.
00:51:41.000
And sometimes when I see these clips of you floating around or certain things that you
00:51:51.000
You said, I don't want to, what is the, what are you talking about?
00:51:52.000
You just said that the reason that you didn't want to have a family, when I asked the question
00:51:56.000
or didn't start a family, you said was because I like to drive alone in my car.
00:51:59.000
I don't really want to have to come home and have to deal with a room.
00:52:11.000
I love my brothers, my boyfriends, there are things boyfriend, sorry, brothers, boyfriends.
00:52:25.000
There are things that they just get a pure joy out of like joy.
00:52:35.000
And it's sometimes it's like things that I may view as like, like, I don't care about.
00:52:45.000
Um, like anime or video games or like, you know, so, but I love watching somebody when
00:53:01.000
Even if it's something I don't understand, I get, and you know, he's saying these are
00:53:06.000
things that bring me joy and I have to give up if I get married.
00:53:21.000
It's just, it's as you refer to children and a wife, you want to stay selfish.
00:53:27.000
You want to, you know, you want to be in your own world.
00:53:44.000
And I know I, she was grilled unfresh and fit about like why she got married later or whatever.
00:54:18.000
I said that in terms of my, in my development, I'm trying to get over some of those aspects
00:54:30.000
You don't want to invite people into your space.
00:54:40.000
They really, that's why they have like man caves or whatever, because we're exhausting.
00:54:44.000
Even me, like, I'm not even saying I'm different or special, right?
00:54:49.000
And there are times where you have to realize that your, your husband, your dad, whoever,
00:55:00.000
And it's just, I do not, it really, I really hate when women do this to men.
00:55:08.000
I, I really, this just really grinded my gears today because I grew up with women like this.
00:55:15.000
I grew up with women like Candace and men like Nick.
00:55:18.000
Nick's like a Midwestern, just nice guy, right?
00:55:24.000
Like he, I went to like high school with a lot of guys that kind of like remind his look, whatever,
00:55:31.000
demeanor, and they're really nice to be around.
00:55:34.000
And sometimes they'll get so excited about something, right?
00:55:38.000
And just watching women just like tear them down about something there and make fun of
00:55:58.000
Well, and I'm explaining why there's, there's multiple aspects to it too.
00:56:04.000
But acting like I tried to offend you when I just gave you a word to use.
00:56:11.000
When I was asking you about family, you ask people about themselves.
00:56:17.000
That's for the same reason that I asked you about what you were up to in high school.
00:56:21.000
And this is why women never get the truth because it's just, he's exhausted.
00:57:11.000
What your priorities were, what you were doing in college is because it's a natural point.
00:57:24.000
People are going to ask you, okay, you have all these perspectives.
00:57:27.000
You're saying people, a very natural transition.
00:57:30.000
You're talking about the fact that you don't believe people should interracially marry.
00:57:38.000
I think it's pretty fair to then move on to the discussion and ask you about marriage.
00:57:44.000
And I don't, I don't think that's my issue with.
00:57:45.000
She's trying to pathologize his preferences, which is common feminist manipulation tactic.
00:57:50.000
I know like something's got to be wrong with him because he doesn't want to get married
00:58:04.000
You, why don't you be unemployed for a year and a half?
00:58:10.000
I'm all for free speech, but there's some stuff I got to stay away from.
00:58:21.000
Well, you were like, listen, woman, don't ask me what I'm doing.
00:58:24.000
I didn't say, listen, look, I happen to believe that.
00:58:27.000
Uh, I don't like women telling me what to do in general.
00:58:30.000
I'm just, I said that when you get married, you said you wanted to get married.
00:58:36.000
You said, yeah, I said, well, this may sound like a lecture because I'm, I'm sounding like
00:58:58.000
Candace is trying to goad Nick into saying he's not hetero.
00:59:06.000
I didn't say, Nick, you need to get married right now.
00:59:10.000
I feel like a lot of these questions are pointed, but maybe that's just me and I'm imagining it.
00:59:14.000
I don't think anybody watching that is going to.
00:59:24.000
And according to, I'm going to show her her tweets.
00:59:29.000
Candace said here, I'm going to find this tweet.
00:59:41.000
So if YouTube when pulling clips is fine, but, but live stream, my entire interview, as we are premiering it, no less does not work.
00:59:58.000
So I was told, I was told that I, I am allowed.
01:00:14.000
And then we're going to watch one thing and then you can call in.
01:00:18.000
So all the people saying, I'm just a Candace hater.
01:00:23.000
And then the other, I want you to think about what your ex girlfriends and wives nagged you about and let me know.
01:00:36.000
So we're not going to bring up people yet, but the link is there.
01:00:41.000
Um, please God turn off your YouTube in the background.
01:01:02.000
Cause again, we're trying to stay monetized here, but I know that recently, and this was
01:01:24.000
And now they're both the JQ expert, whatever they're doing that stuff.
01:01:28.000
They could have had an interview where they both like, um, talked about that topic, but it's like, women are going to women.
01:01:35.000
She just could not deal with, she cannot deal with people talking bad about her.
01:01:40.000
She can't kind of went on the attack about me speaking to Dave Smith.
01:01:46.000
And saying, actually, I think we do have that clip Skylar.
01:01:48.000
I think we do have that clip of the me speaking to Dave Smith.
01:02:09.000
But she is going to do a show with Dave Smith, Jew, Aiden Ross.
01:02:20.000
I'm going to, I'm going to mute this part, but like, she's pulling up a clip.
01:02:23.000
So you, you think it's going to be, I'm going to, cause there's some topics I'm not trying to get into on here.
01:02:42.000
So you're just looking at the fact that these two, I didn't even know Aiden Ross was Jewish.
01:02:58.000
We had a amazing conversation when I was on the daily wire.
01:03:03.000
Well they're Jewish and she's doing their shows while not saying to your audience, she's doing a bunch of other shows too.
01:03:10.000
Not you just kind of honing in before we get to the why you think I'm full of and don't know what I'm doing.
01:03:18.000
Dave Smith, in my opinion, and I like Dave cause I've done a show with Dave too.
01:03:26.000
And you know, he gave me a chance when a lot of people wouldn't.
01:03:28.000
He had me on a show and he defended me because he got attacked a lot from the libertarians.
01:03:33.000
Because you get somebody who comes out and defends you and has you on the show when you're being canceled.
01:03:37.000
And then you throw him under the bus for what, cause like, I don't even know what your beef is.
01:03:41.000
It's like, why not just have a, be totally like, oh yeah, that was cool.
01:03:47.000
Well, here's why, because I don't think that I should be grateful for being given a chance.
01:03:56.000
So now she's trying to signal again, you're a bad person.
01:04:04.000
It's like, if there's behavior that they don't like, they can't, they can't just list like.
01:04:17.000
They have to nag the person and then nag every single person around them for that one thing they don't like about them.
01:04:38.000
But the point is, is you kind of lament the fact that you've been canceled.
01:04:42.000
You lament the fact that nobody will have your platform and the very same breath.
01:04:54.000
So my feeling on Dave Smith, and although I like him, is that, look, he is Jewish.
01:05:00.000
He's also a libertarian, which means that, you know, when he talks about, for example, the situation in Iran or Israel, he's an anti-war guy.
01:05:09.000
He says, you know, Trump is a war criminal who needs to be impeached.
01:05:14.000
I don't care that Trump violated international law.
01:05:16.000
I care that he's influenced by a foreign government.
01:05:18.000
He said on another show, he said, Israel's a satellite of the U.S.
01:05:25.000
They're like our aircraft carrier in the Middle East, which is something Joe Biden said, who's an AIPAC.
01:05:30.000
I feel alone in her presence and her absence brings me peace.
01:05:35.000
I think that Dave Smith is somebody who, because he's a paleo libertarian, like Murray Rothbard, like Ron Paul, like a lot of these guys, he is someone who, because he's anti-war, is sort of forced to confront the Israel lobby.
01:05:51.000
Because if you're anti-war, ideologically, you have to talk about who's driving it, which is the Israel lobby.
01:06:14.000
Should he not be proud that he's like, you know, like he's just born this way.
01:06:20.000
So he's not he's not really 100 percent aligned with my view.
01:06:33.000
You can't say I want to create people in the image of myself.
01:06:36.000
And I'm no, but I'm really ridiculous criticizing people that that I disagree with.
01:06:40.000
And I to put it very succinctly, I think that this conversation about Israel has blown up.
01:06:51.000
And I think that Dave Smith is somebody that because he's Jewish, because he's libertarian,
01:06:56.000
they have selected him as a convenient spokesperson for it because he's not really.
01:07:02.000
He doesn't really have a problem with Jews and their Jewishness.
01:07:31.000
Like if I was going to bring him on, he'd never, again, he'd never do it.
01:07:43.000
You know, like what I'm going to, I'm going to bring up every bad thing.
01:07:48.000
I'm going to bring up every bad thing he's ever said.
01:08:02.000
Skyler, who you just met the producer was a massive Dave Smith fan for years.
01:08:06.000
Um, and just kind of like what the libertarian debate was that was being had.
01:08:10.000
He said, you gotta check out this guy, Dave Smith.
01:08:13.000
And we had, it was my favorite podcast that I did at Daily Wire.
01:08:19.000
That's the incentive of like, well, let me get this guy on again.
01:08:22.000
I was like, can we create the magic of what we spoke about, about war?
01:08:25.000
Cause I'm kind of falling, I guess, down the rabbit hole and learning a lot.
01:08:33.000
So when I hear you say it, I'm like, okay, are you internetting too hard?
01:08:39.000
So now she's about to nag him about the stuff he said on the show.
01:08:46.000
I'm going to, I'm going to just move on from this.
01:08:51.000
And I just, I think I listened to this and I got even more triggered because I've had
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Like so, oh God, it just don't take it personally.
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But when I first got here, when I first got here, it's like, I'll tell a story on my show.
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Some woman, sometimes it's not even about a woman.
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And now I have a woman crashing out or now they're sending me a clue.
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Oh, but you said, but, but this story had something to do with me.
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Like nobody would know who you, it just never ends.
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It just never, it's like women just psychologically torture you.
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And ever since I've started talking about more of a, I guess the men's point of view,
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you women in my personal life, psychologically torture me.
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But you said this, you said women can't do this, but I do women.
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And that's why I'm telling you a lot of times you give your opinion and all your opinions are on the internet.
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All right, we're going to call in, but I want to tell you the psychological torture.
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Now, one is that if they disagree with you in a way that you act, the bit, the worst part is not the nagging up front, because I can ignore that.
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The worst part is women make it everybody's problem and get everybody involved.
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And then you go meet other people and there's this weird energy in the room.
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And you're like, why is there this weird energy in the room?
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And you just know that this woman, and you realize that these are terrorists and there's no negotiating with them and it never ends.
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Um, okay, but now we're going to have people call in.
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And he would, I think I did a show earlier about like, all the stuff he said.
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Um, but all right, we're talking today and your last relationship or marriage.
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What did your wife or girlfriend nag you about?
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And what is something annoying that woman have gotten you to, that a woman has done?
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So call in, I mean, there should be a ton of callers.
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Cause I feel like the list is endless and, and also you give your, you know, make it short, but give your opinion on the interview.
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If you saw it and Candace having the audacity to nag NF, you know, Nick, what was that about?
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But I just, I don't think she realizes how rude that is.
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Well, she would, you lined out the points at the beginning of the show and she, she does all that.
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And what I always say is the liberals rumored nature makes everything poisonous and dangerous in nature, weird shapes and bright colors.
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That's the same thing with like liberal women, liberal women have the piercings and the tattoos and the purple hair.
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So you can see the, the toxicity coming, but trad cons, they mask themselves.
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And we're getting to the point where you could take a liberal, uh, talking head and take Candace Owens or Tommy Lauren.
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Or just listen to how they speak to men or how they speak to people.
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Did your, any of your exes nag you or what was something annoying that a girl's done that made you dumper?
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So guys, I know you may want a traditional one because a lot of people think that nagging just has to be the wife giving you a to do list and say, you never do this.
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But if you want to go the traditional route, you have to make sure that you find a woman who needs a man and it's feminine, but isn't a petulant child, especially the really pretty ones.
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Because I, I have dated and I was, when I was married, my ex-wife was absolutely beautiful, but absolutely helpless.
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And the way that she would nag, she wouldn't nag me from a, I know more than you.
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She'd nag me from a, I, I'm, I'd make mistakes and you have to fix them standpoint.
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You want her to let you prove, uh, be the protector and the provider and stuff, but you don't want a woman who's a complete, who's completely helpless.
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The helplessness is cute when they're 20, but not when they're 30 with a kid.
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Um, they may be helpless when you first meet them because they've never had to solve problems.
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The world insulates beautiful women from having to do anything, but you want to see them grow over time.
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And there are some beautiful women where they don't grow over time.
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It's the same thing over and over and over again.
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And it, so be careful with that kind of nagging too, guys.
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Have you ever dumped a girl and not told her why?
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Pearl, you're talking to the ghost King over here.
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When you're talking about the talking points, um, women feel entitled to your time, your resources.
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And they, especially when they get older and the dating market and the, they finally have to start doing work and their options are starting to go away.
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We learn all the negative aspects of dating from women when we were younger.
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And don't keep making the mistake of, um, taking the higher ground when it comes to being a man.
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We tried that for the last, you know, thousands of years.
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Like what, what was the annoying thing she did?
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One, the two greatest powers you have as a man, as you get older, is determine who your girlfriend, fiance and wife is, and being able to walk away.
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Modern women will do their best to take those two things away.
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They'll try to shame, insult, guilt, and need to be right you into not being able to walk away.
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So you'll try to walk away and they'll try to guilt you or you'll try to say no and they'll get you.
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No, I meant like, but what was the annoying thing that made you want to walk away?
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Oh, um, I was dating a woman one time and we hung out with my family and she got my sister's phone number.
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So then all of a sudden she's texting my sister.
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I mean, she asked me for my, my phone number and I just gave it to her.
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But now she's texting me all the time and trying to say, Oh yeah, this, not whatever.
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Um, do you want to, do you want to let in the callers?
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Yeah, guys, make sure to like the video, subscribe.
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If you haven't already, we have almost 1500 people in here.
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But thank you for being here with us on YouTube.
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Guys, you can go to Pearl's website, the audacity network.com and join for, for $9 a month.
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She reads everything over there that she put Pearl read in front of.
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In fact, if you check the website and make sure there's no Pearl reads right now.
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The only way they can get the, we, we took off the 10.
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But just go to the website and take a look at the joint offer.
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The, the only way you, if you guys still want that one, the only way you can get it is on
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Um, and we're going to bring back the learning stuff.
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Cause it's, it's gonna, it's, we're gonna, it's, we're gonna take applications because
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Um, respectfully, you guys know how the internet is.
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And like it's before, were you in a relationship or marriage, your woman who just nagged you to
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And also if you have an opinion on the Nick, uh, Candace interview, just don't say anything
01:20:27.000
about the JQ and don't say his first name and last name together.
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Um, so in your last relationship or marriage, what did your wife or girlfriend nag you about?
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Um, I mean, I, I, I, I look at nagging more as a feature than a bug.
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I guess you would call it with, when it comes to, you know, being in relationships with women,
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Um, I'll tell you about my current wife as I, I've spoken to you a couple of times about
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She, she still, she's, she still nags, but I've slowly introduced her to red pill content.
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And she listens to you every once in a while when I'm in my office and she comes and sits
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with me and she's just slowly like, um, through the years we've been together, she's just slowly
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like the behaviors she's like, she didn't realize she was nagging.
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It was just like always what her mother did to her father and her stepfather.
01:21:38.000
But like, she's a lot more gracious when I, um, softly called her on it.
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Like she'll, she'll get, she'll get kind of overwhelmed if we're like in a situation and
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she'll start like, you know, getting rushed and getting upset about everything.
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My only pushback on that is that, did she nag you when you were dating and before you got
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Cause women will shut that off for about a year or two.
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So it was, it was, it's always, our relationship has always been this way, but I was also like
01:22:29.000
Like I went on first dates and like my first five questions are, what's your relationship
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Uh, do you want to be a stay at home, wife or work?
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Like I was, I was determined not to get second dates.
01:22:44.000
Like I, I got all the awkwardness out of the way in the very beginning to like, but yeah,
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it was never, I mean, it was never like, she was never really on her best behavior.
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Her best behavior is just basically if, you know, she's having a good or bad day.
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Um, has she ever tried to tell you why she nags?
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Is it, or is it just some kind of, kind of feeling?
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Cause one thing I've noticed is men argue to a solution.
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So like a lot of women, they want to nag you just to feel heard.
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It's, it's 100% a feeling and me and her have had this talk in depth.
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And, um, it's a feeling because she will, she will nag and complain to me about something
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Like she'll nag me something, she'll nag me about her mother, her father's divorce.
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I was like, I'm like, I don't know what you want me to tell you.
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And, and also, um, like, Oh, I know a lot of women do this, but like reminding us constantly
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I had to explain to her like, Hey, I don't need you to tell me the, for the fifth time
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Hey, I've never gotten nagged in a relationship.
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Well, well, that's number one, but number two guys, women, they, they don't know that
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their decisions, what women reserve the right to change their minds about anything.
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And they want to take, they want to take over the house because they, they want to take
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over the house and where the family is and stuff.
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You're supposed to be the manager of the house, but then she'll complain about it.
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It's just like guys will try to help at the beginning or, or when you're living together,
01:25:08.000
before you get married or before you get serious, a guy's doing stuff, but then she insists on
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taking it on and then complains about it later.
01:25:16.000
Guys, have you ever been doing the yard work, fixing the car, doing the oil changes?
01:25:22.000
And then five years down the road, say, honey, you never helped me with the yard ever.
01:25:26.000
And I'm mad at you, but you never helped me change a tire or you never helped me.
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We don't, we don't keep score really like that.
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It's just not, it's just not the way our brains work.
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And I mean, if I ever, if I ever could get my wife like on the show with me, she'll tell
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you like my two favorite words are shut and up.
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You gotta make, you gotta tell her I'm going to do things my way.
01:26:08.000
Well, that's when guys mess up, they give it all away.
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Don't accept that her way is the way in the household.
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I mean, here's some advice that has made my relationship better.
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Just in the last like three months, I didn't ask her opinion.
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The people you work out with at the gyms, personal trainer, personal trainer.
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I said, I got a personal trainer for three months at the gym.
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So like Monday through Thursday, I'm going to the gym on my lunch break.
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So I'll see you, you know, when I actually get off of work.
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And then I love playing soccer and a adult soccer league in my town opened up.
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And I said, all right, honey, I'm gonna go do this.
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I will not be home until like nine 30, 10 o'clock those nights.
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I said, I mean, it, it, it seems really hard to understand if you're, especially if you're
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not a nice guy, cause nice guy is like, you know, a weak man.
01:27:29.000
But like, if you're just, if you're a nice person, like the advice, the how to behave with women is not, it's not going to come natural.
01:27:39.000
It's especially if you're like, it's your wife and you want to love them.
01:27:49.000
You have to kind of be a jerk, but you also have to.
01:27:52.000
You feel bad for having to be nasty to her, but it's the only way.
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And by a girlfriend or wife, maybe something that made you break up with them and they didn't,
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I would say, I mean, to me, like I've observed pretty much everyone I've dated has pretty
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So, uh, with my last girlfriend, like anytime she would just be worried about me in general,
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uh, whether it's like what clothes I'm wearing or whether I'm going to be cold when I go out,
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even though, you know, I've obviously been single for most of my life up until I met her when
01:29:06.000
Uh, she, I think girls in general, because they're just very emotional, uh, when they
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feel very emotionally charged towards somebody, usually a significant other, especially when
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they're living with them, they'll become very nagging because they, they nag because they care,
01:29:21.000
Uh, and a lot of times when you get into these sort of cyclical arguments with them,
01:29:26.000
where they're nagging you, it's because what I've observed at least is that women tend to
01:29:31.000
share, they believe sharing emotions, whether positive or negative, uh, is kind of how they
01:29:39.000
communicate and how they bond with guys in particular.
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So they, because guys are generally pretty expressive lists.
01:29:49.000
So they'll almost like nag you to start a fight because if you fight back with them,
01:29:54.000
especially when they're being very illogical and they're not being very coherent, it must
01:29:58.000
mean by definition, you care because like, you know, if someone asks you at work and you
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don't give a shit about them, you're just not going to care about them.
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You're not even going to engage, but you can't really avoid that if you live with that person.
01:30:08.000
So you're, you're trying to deal with it logically, but that person's being very illogical and they're
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not listening and they're being very invalidating.
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So it just turns into a very cyclical argument.
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And it took me a while to realize that it's just, that's the nature of how a lot of women
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are is they kind of just start shit because that's their way of confirming you care.
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And they almost do it until they exhaust themselves and their brain resets.
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And then sure enough later within a week or two, it's like the same thing.
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So yeah, I mean, the reason why I broke up is just because we were getting into the cyclical
01:30:41.000
arguments where she was nagging me that I'm not spending enough time with her.
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The reason why he stays single and this is why I actually.
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Don't say it for the same and last thing, please.
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The reason why I agree with NF on this is because what, like what he's basically saying is that
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it's sort of a headache to deal with them, especially when you live with them.
01:31:04.000
Particularly when you don't live with them, it's a lot easier.
01:31:06.000
Uh, but when you live with them, there's no avoiding them.
01:31:09.000
And many times they can be very resentful in your own house.
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And so you almost take on a second job dealing with them while you're also trying to do your
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job and trying to do your normal day to day life.
01:31:20.000
Uh, so I think a lot of men feel like when they get into a relationship or they get married,
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it's almost like they took on a second job and now they don't have time.
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Like they used to, to go to the gym or to hang out with their friends or pursue their hobbies.
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Because most women have a consumptive type of love where if they really like and care about you,
01:31:39.000
And that takes a man away from their purpose and their passions and their hobbies and their friends.
01:31:45.000
If anything, you know, Pearl, to your point, I think this is why a lot of Gen Z and quite frankly,
01:31:49.000
many millennial men stayed single for a very long time is because they don't want to deal with women in general.
01:31:54.000
So like, I think women are competing with a lot of men for their, their peace.
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Cause the young guys I see, it's not like they're, when they choose or they reject a girl, they just seem uninterested.
01:32:11.000
And I was at a, I was at a bar yesterday cause I was on a date with somebody and I noticed there were so many guys at the bar with just other guys.
01:32:21.000
And there were like some girls who showed up with some guys, but for the most part, it was pretty much all single guys just wanting to hang out with guys.
01:32:27.000
Like they were not looking to take anyone out and see if they could get laid or anything like that.
01:32:34.000
Well, and then remember the, the rhetoric of the past 50 years has been women give up so much in a relationship and women have so much.
01:32:43.000
No, like men, when you take on a girlfriend and a fiance and a wife and show that you are choosing to give everything you have for your entire life.
01:32:56.000
Well, it's total nonsense because no man today is pushing for a relationship and is pushing for marriage.
01:33:05.000
So they said they did a survey of college students under third.
01:33:09.000
Was it, I think it was men and women under 30 and 52% of men said that they would, they see relationships and marriage in their future at some time.
01:33:23.000
But I think if you were to ask most men, could you have a forever, you know, girl, you're exclusively dating or, you know, in a relationship with, let's say for the next 20, 30 years without getting married.
01:33:32.000
I think most men would say, yeah, you know, most men would date a girl for 30, 40 years exclusively and have kids with her, but not formally be married or anything.
01:33:40.000
I think that's kind of where most American men are at these days.
01:33:44.000
So it is true with what you're saying, but it's not true in the sense that they're like heading to the courthouse and ready to get married.
01:33:52.000
It's just saying, do you, do you see it as a value or do you see it in your future?
01:33:56.000
I would say just young men, old men, we all see that having a good quality girl, you know, assuming we could get that here, is a valuable thing to have in our life, but on terms that we want.
01:34:06.000
So we don't necessarily want to live with them, but we want to live close enough to them that we can like go over to their place and spend some time and then come on back, but not necessarily live with them.
01:34:21.000
Like the best time I had a relationship with my ex was when she lived in her apartment complex.
01:34:27.000
That was close enough that I could get there within 10 minutes, but not close enough that she could always come over to my place real fast.
01:34:33.000
Uh, I could kind of like have my piece and then I could have my fun and then leave right afterwards.
01:34:38.000
So that was, I think that's the ideal setup for most men.
01:34:44.000
All right, Sean, we gotta let you go because we literally have a full call line.
01:34:48.000
I knew we would have a full call line on this topic, Joel.
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Hey, 13 C in reference to persona, foolish, ignorant, frivolous, senseless from old French, nice, careless, clumsy, weak, poor, nerdy, simple, silly, foolish.
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How do you deal with nagging from women and how do you perceive other women deal with it?
01:35:17.000
Recently I just walk away, but that pisses them off more.
01:35:22.000
I guess I've been supporting Pearl since the beginning before she was famous.
01:35:28.000
And I remember she called in a couple of times when she was in London and was talking about her health, having to deal with all these, especially during the pregame show.
01:35:42.000
Like, I don't know how people like Myron, how these people do it all the time for all these years, man.
01:35:58.000
The best advice about women I ever got was this.
01:36:31.000
He's probably listening to the YouTube, so there's like a five-second delay.
01:36:55.000
So, what is something that your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend has nagged you about?
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Maybe to the point that you dumped her and she didn't know why?
01:37:07.000
You know, I've been married twice, divorced twice, and I had like three or four girlfriends
01:37:14.000
around, you know, throughout my life other than my wives.
01:37:18.000
And I never really experienced nagging, to be honest with you.
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I think that's kind of a punchline, kind of a 1950s holdover.
01:37:26.000
I think what I experienced most from women was more the silent treatment or passive aggressiveness.
01:37:33.000
One thing that really angered me with both of my wives is that even though we're spouses
01:37:40.000
and we're supposed to be one, you know, two pieces of the same unit, they would talk to
01:37:47.000
their friends and their family members about important stuff involving our marriage and
01:37:56.000
And I would find out about that after the fact, and that would really, really anger me.
01:38:00.000
Because I should be the first person you go to.
01:38:02.000
But it seemed like they were going out, talking to their friends and their family with the
01:38:06.000
situation, whatever it might be, and getting their input to maybe gathering information,
01:38:11.000
gathering data, and trying to figure out a way to come at me with that, you know, with
01:38:18.000
Not that we were even disagreeing in the first place or whatever the situation was.
01:38:30.000
Because what happens is, because I've experienced this, you can tell when her friends have gassed
01:38:36.000
her up and coach her on what to say, because she'll, okay, what they'll do is, you will
01:38:43.000
start expressing your feelings and the shame, insult, guilt need to be right to you to stop
01:38:50.000
Because they're so used to talking to their friends that they can't work through it themselves.
01:38:55.000
So they'll find a way to, I don't want to talk about this anymore, Ryan.
01:39:03.000
Then she goes to her coaches and then she has a whole script ready.
01:39:11.000
And then if you're around her friends, you can, you get to the point where you can tell
01:39:15.000
which friends that she talked to because she starts to argue like that friend.
01:39:24.000
And really what's frustrating is I would know that they had done this because those other
01:39:28.000
friends or family members, like for instance, one of my wives, we worked together at the
01:39:32.000
same company, different sides, but same company.
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And we had some coworkers that were both in both of our, our professional circles.
01:39:40.000
And every now and then one of the, one of the girls at work would come up to me and say,
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Oh, Hey, did you and, uh, did you and your wife work out that thing with the thing?
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How do you even, why do you even know about that?
01:39:55.000
And then also in the same thing happened with her family.
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Well, one of my wives, she had like four sisters.
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And so inevitably one of the sisters would let us slip saying, that'd be just a normal
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And one of the sisters would say something like, Oh, like that time when you, uh, you
01:40:10.000
guys were dealing with, and I'm like, how did you even know about that?
01:40:16.000
You know, so that's how I knew that, that they took them out, you know, outside exterior.
01:40:21.000
It's, it's almost as if they, both wives were, came into the marriages ready to be combative
01:40:28.000
with me as ready to, uh, with some knowledge that they know, quote unquote, know that they
01:40:36.000
Like it's going to be a struggle, the marriage.
01:40:39.000
And meanwhile, men, when men get married, it was like the old adage about when men get married,
01:40:45.000
And when, when a woman gets married, she hopes her husband changes.
01:40:48.000
And that, uh, I, I definitely experienced that with both of my wives to some extent.
01:40:53.000
My, my, well, my first wife, um, I had just gone out of the Marine Corps.
01:40:57.000
So I was like really buff and she liked that obviously.
01:41:03.000
Uh, so we were spending a lot of time together.
01:41:05.000
And I also eerily looked a lot like her father.
01:41:08.000
And, uh, after we got married, she, uh, she soured on me pretty quickly.
01:41:18.000
And we went, uh, we went to two marriage counselors, actually two marriage counselors.
01:41:29.000
And well, what's funny is this little side note, the first marriage counselor, we, the reason
01:41:33.000
why we, reason why we stopped seeing her was actually, I want to stop seeing her because,
01:41:38.000
uh, one of the issues in the, in the marriage was intimacy.
01:41:42.000
And I'm of the thought of if you're going to be involved with someone and attached to them,
01:41:48.000
And you take those vows, you should want to be intimate with them.
01:41:51.000
Like if you, I'm not, I'm not even, I'm not even religious or biblical, but like that's in the Bible for crying out loud.
01:41:56.000
Um, the, um, so, so the lack of intimacy was a big issue.
01:42:02.000
And so that was one of the issues we were going to counseling for.
01:42:04.000
And, uh, during one session towards the end, the one, one counselor said, well,
01:42:10.000
if you didn't want sex so much, it wouldn't be a problem.
01:42:23.000
So we walked out and as we're walking out of the office and through down the tile hallway towards the double doors,
01:42:28.000
I turned to her and say, we're not coming back to her another month.
01:42:31.000
So like another month later, I actually, and I told her why I said, did you hear what she said?
01:42:35.000
She just said, it wouldn't be a problem if I just didn't want sex so much.
01:42:40.000
So, um, yeah, but then we saw a second counselor.
01:42:44.000
Second counselor was better and she tried really hard.
01:42:47.000
She was an older lady and she was kind of like a, I can't remember her, uh, Dr. Ruth.
01:42:51.000
She, she focused, she focused on the sensuality and the intimacy.
01:43:00.000
She, I, I, to this day, I think that maybe she was actually a closet lesbian.
01:43:08.000
But, but, but, but she, she, um, so, and her father was very industrious.
01:43:14.000
Like he, and I'm not a lazy guy, but her father was one of these hyperactive type A guys.
01:43:19.000
And he was not only a school teacher for his full-time career, but he also owned several properties.
01:43:26.000
And he also would, and he would buy these properties dirt cheap because they're in horrible condition and then completely renovate them from bottom up.
01:43:33.000
And so I think when she, when we got married, I think she thought I was going to do the same thing.
01:43:42.000
And then, uh, the, the, the, the second wife, I could, I could tell things were on the down slope.
01:43:49.000
Um, well, again, like I say, men will sacrifice their happiness from the marriage and women will sacrifice their marriage for their happiness.
01:43:58.000
And, um, I'm, I'm loyal to things to a fault, to the very end, past the point where it's a recoverable thing.
01:44:07.000
And she, the closest thing she came to nagging me about besides the other stuff I was talking about, how people should talk to exterior people is she, she complained to me about now.
01:44:22.000
I like to, I like to keep a pretty clean house, but, um, so I guess like she couldn't really nag me about that, but she complained that I didn't wash the baseboards.
01:44:34.000
Ah, but that was the only thing she could go to, right?
01:44:40.000
She had to go, she had to go past vacuuming, past the kitchen, past the bathrooms, past, uh, you know, change the sheets on the bed all the way.
01:44:47.000
She had to get all the way to, you didn't screw up the baseboards.
01:44:54.000
Hey, I do want to, I do want to say one thing real quick before, before I got kicked off here.
01:45:01.000
There's two verbiages that I, two words that I have a problem with that they're being, the way they're being used today.
01:45:13.000
You get banned on Twitch if you say it or type it.
01:45:17.000
Um, there are, to, to some, I want, I'm very red pill and very MGTOW been for a while.
01:45:24.000
Um, and I watch a lot of content about red pill and MGTOW stuff.
01:45:28.000
And a lot of them, a lot of the red pill content creators, they, they go right to the word simp way too quickly.
01:45:35.000
Basically in their point of view, if you ask a woman out, if you approach or ask her out and she denies you, then you're a simp.
01:45:44.000
There's a big fat gray area in the middle that you're missing.
01:45:47.000
Like it would be like repeatedly doing that and then also giving resources and getting nothing in return.
01:45:55.000
Um, so I think the word simp gets thrown around a little bit too much.
01:45:59.000
Well, I guess the question, the question is how fat is she?
01:46:04.000
If you ask a 300 pound woman, I might call you that.
01:46:16.000
And the thing is, is like, even though I'm like fully in the red pill circle, sometimes I'll comment on some of these creators videos.
01:46:24.000
A guy went up and approached a woman cold in a, in a cold way.
01:46:28.000
Uh, and just, you know, approach her and talk to her and try to get her number.
01:46:31.000
And the, the woman declined it and you called him a simp for that.
01:46:35.000
And, and meanwhile, meanwhile, we have an epidemic of men not approaching.
01:46:41.000
And so I would comment about that in the comment section.
01:46:43.000
And then all of the other followers would jump on me saying, you're a simp, man.
01:46:57.000
Well, so suddenly women have a problem with ghosting and they also have a, well, they have a problem with ghosting, but they invented it.
01:47:04.000
It's only a problem now because it's affecting women.
01:47:07.000
It's only a problem now that it's affecting women.
01:47:09.000
But the ghosting is, I can't tell you how many times I'll, even if it's with a woman that I'm not like romantically attracted to.
01:47:16.000
Uh, just a friend and we'll be texting back and forth and eventually randomly at some point, I'll just, you know, ask a question like, Hey, uh, some random question.
01:47:26.000
And I, I don't, and then like the next time I hear from them is like a month later when like, you know, something new came up.
01:47:32.000
And I'm, and I'm thinking if, if women just went through their own cell phones and looked at all of the conversations they had with men, where the man was the last to, to say something.
01:47:42.000
And it wasn't just goodbye or have a good day, but like said something that required a response, how many times they didn't respond.
01:47:48.000
They would, women would see that they ghost men far, far more often than men ghost women.
01:47:54.000
Yeah. It's just the women, like Doug said a little ago.
01:48:18.000
We just got to try to keep it to like a couple minutes or less.
01:49:01.000
Well, like the previous gentleman, I've been married twice.
01:49:06.000
And, um, and you know, I'm one of those guys that would be considered successful.
01:49:11.000
I had a hit TV reality show on, on E entertainment.
01:49:18.000
I own the trademark for the 50th anniversary of hip hop.
01:49:23.000
So I do all, I did all the clothing for the anniversary.
01:49:28.000
So I'm pretty accomplished, but the, the, the problem is I think today, just the, the
01:49:36.000
mentality of women and, and how they are with men is just switched from when I was coming
01:49:44.000
And you know, my first wife used to nag me about ketchup.
01:49:48.000
So if you had ketchup on the refrigerator, or if you left ketchup on the counter, it was
01:49:55.000
And I'd say, what the fuck are you talking about ketchup for?
01:50:00.000
That happened to me before where it's like, yeah, but I don't know what that is.
01:50:09.000
Or the worst was on the, if you had mustard on the free now, if I'm a, I'm a New Yorker,
01:50:15.000
I like my hot dogs and my hamburgers, you know, it might get messy if it's a good hot
01:50:29.000
So, so now, you know, I, and I think, I think that was one of the things and, and the nagging
01:50:39.000
And then like the first year of my marriage, I never raised my voice with my wife and never
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Cause I didn't even think she could handle a conference, a conference confrontation.
01:50:50.000
And then one day I said, you know what, bitch, you need to go outside with that bullshit.
01:50:59.000
It was just like, she became my opponent, my, you know, my enemy.
01:51:03.000
And it was just, you know, it was a terrible situation.
01:51:07.000
And regardless of what you have, you know, if you pick the wrong woman, you're in trouble.
01:51:13.000
Like, even if you have status doesn't matter these days and she was foreign, she was from
01:51:27.000
We came up with a rule over here where I'd rather have a guy import one from a different country
01:51:33.000
and get three or four years of a traditional woman while she's waiting for her citizenship.
01:51:49.000
But the thing is when you're in a, in a, in an immigration matrix, you really don't know
01:52:01.000
You don't know if American women really like you though.
01:52:11.000
You get four years of, I'll try to cook this chicken, this fried chicken.
01:52:16.000
But then when they get that citizenship, forget it.
01:52:22.000
You have a car that got you from point A to point B for four years than was breaking
01:52:29.000
I mean, cause like you, like you allude to a lot, Pearl guys don't have a lot of time
01:52:36.000
I got lucky on my second marriage when I blew up for some reason, she disappeared when she
01:52:43.000
left and then just sent me a, what do you call that now?
01:52:46.000
The, um, the marriage they could just, the no fault marriage.
01:52:54.000
When they can just get a divorce without you being present.
01:53:01.000
So she did that to me, but you know, I didn't, she didn't charge me.
01:53:09.000
So, but the funny thing she's in LA, she's not doing shit.
01:53:14.000
She just like trying to model, but she's a bum.
01:53:26.000
There's nothing more important to modern women than their own selfish desires.
01:53:31.000
Not their families, not their kids, not their husbands, not anything.
01:53:35.000
Well, and women would just rather be homeless than listen to a guy.
01:53:42.000
You know, I'm going to tell you one thing that missed my second marriage.
01:53:55.000
Well, they they probably that's the ice tea is my is this the guy I work with.
01:54:04.000
So they may recognize my voice from the reality show.
01:54:15.000
And then his wife's like this stripper that's like 20 years younger than him.
01:54:21.000
But she seems like a really, really cool chick, though.
01:54:32.000
It fixes us to ice is like fix everybody a turkey sandwich.
01:54:52.000
I thought maybe I'd seen it, but I was thinking of For the Love of Ray J. Do you remember
01:55:11.000
There was a girl on this show who was like, yeah, I want to wait to have sex.
01:55:42.000
If you haven't already, we, you got us 20,000 over 2 million.
01:55:48.000
By the way, guys, we just got a hundred dollar super chat or donation for the documentary.
01:55:53.000
So thank you to David for a hundred bucks towards the documentary that puts us at 32,650.
01:56:08.000
I'm going to bring up, he's been on here many times, but I'm going to bring him up.
01:56:15.000
He said, why are they saying, did Coco cheated on iced tea with a Chad publicly?
01:56:39.000
It says that Coco did cheat on iced tea early in the beginning.
01:57:03.000
So what I was trying to think of like, just everything, like the three worst occasions or
01:57:12.000
Cause I don't want to like tie up y'all lying or nothing that way.
01:57:16.000
Y'all could get to some of those other great callers.
01:57:18.000
So the first chick was about a 2011 was a chick.
01:57:23.000
We were working on some artistic projects together, ended up, um, renting a place together
01:57:28.000
so that we could be more efficient and get this project done.
01:57:31.000
And I literally built a studio in this woman's room.
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Then we started splitting the rent, hooking up and like living together.
01:57:44.000
Luckily she lived with some of my people, like people that I knew.
01:57:47.000
And it was cool for like the first month, everything was straight.
01:58:02.000
So basically if she wants to, at any point, she can get up and record this music.
01:58:07.000
I made it so easy for her before we started this project.
01:58:11.000
So like, Oh my God, what would I, I would do anything to have a studio in my house.
01:58:37.000
I'm just like, look, the color is not important.
01:58:38.000
We need to focus on this music and you know, like get recording boom, boom, boom, whatever.
01:58:43.000
So after a while, she wore me out to the point where I was like, all right, you win.
01:58:47.000
Went and changed the color of the, um, the, the panels on the side of the booth.
01:58:55.000
But then she started to like, get that way in like an increasing intensity to where now,
01:59:02.000
I guess what she saw was that she had the ability to nag.
01:59:06.000
So now she could like nag me and get other stuff out of me that she knew initially I
01:59:12.000
So I don't know if other guys can relate, but you know, when, when you really like a chick,
01:59:19.000
not every guy, but you don't mind going down on a chick, especially if you're like really
01:59:26.000
But if you're kind of just hooking up with a girl that's like mid or like, you're not
01:59:29.000
that sexually attracted to, you don't want to go down on her.
01:59:33.000
So one day she's, she's just like, how come you don't ever go down on me?
01:59:38.000
And I'm just like, well, I'm, I'm not really into that.
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But I didn't want to tell her it's because I think she's ugliest.
01:59:43.000
You know, we're living together, sleeping in the same bed and having sex every day.
01:59:53.000
But that's why I was just like, yo, I'm not into that.
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Oh, but you know, I'd really like it if you just went down on me and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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So the first like day or two, when she brought it up, it was kind of like in passing.
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And then she started to become like, yeah, she starts taking it personal.
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So it was just like, you know, like, you know what I mean?
02:00:37.000
I mean, you guys stated women, you know, don't like you that much.
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When a girl isn't that into you and you're like, Hey, let's try this.
02:00:54.000
She was like pressing me and pressing me and pressing me all week.
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And then like, finally on the weekend, I was like, yo, let's go get some beer.
02:01:01.000
We went and got some beer, whatever, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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And then we're going to go about our business and do whatever, you know, boyfriend, girlfriend
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After we smash, she's like, she starts crying on the side of the bed.
02:01:26.000
So we ended up getting, we ended up getting in this huge argument where I was just like,
02:01:32.000
Stop trying to pressure me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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I was like, okay, I guess I got to go home and eat some pussy.
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And it's just like, I picture her like, I got him.
02:01:58.000
That was like one of, let's say the medium nags.
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The other nag is like, I used to date this chick.
02:02:08.000
When we first started dating, it was kind of like, she followed me.
02:02:14.000
I decided where we were going, you know, and she was just happy to be there.
02:02:18.000
Like she was the most pleasant woman I've ever been around.
02:02:21.000
And like, I don't know if other guys can relate, but you know, when you spend time with a girl,
02:02:27.000
You feel not you're ready to, or not you're going to, but you just feel in the moment.
02:02:32.000
Like, you know, I could spend the rest of my life with this chick.
02:02:39.000
She was on her best behavior on this road trip.
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So, um, that was for a job that, that I hired her for out west in California.
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I think like we like each other, you know, from like the first day.
02:03:02.000
You were working on a music thing with the other one.
02:03:09.000
Well, I didn't actually ever think about that, but it would be right.
02:03:14.000
So, um, they, we were both working for someone else, but I was working under the owner of the farm.
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So I, I'm the one that's responsible for like bringing people there.
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So like, they, they look at me, like I'm the owner of the farm, but I wasn't really the owner of the farm.
02:03:32.000
So anyways, like on the third or fourth day there, we hooked up, started dating, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
02:03:39.000
Um, she ended up taking something that she wasn't supposed to take from the farm just as an accident.
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Like, so I had to like fire her, but I was like, yo, I really had a good time with you.
02:03:54.000
We go on this road trip and she's like the most amazing girl I'd ever been on a, you know, like, uh, on a week.
02:04:01.000
I think we're, we're off for like a week, maybe 10 days.
02:04:10.000
If I did some, she didn't like, she shut the fuck up and didn't complain about it.
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I was like, yo, I'm going to marry this chick anyways.
02:04:17.000
So we get back to the farm and I end up talking to like the owner of the farm and he's like,
02:04:26.000
So, um, her, the rest of the people that I hired with her, the people that she came from
02:04:33.000
So it was just me and her on the farm alone for like a month and a half, maybe two months,
02:04:41.000
So she used to do this thing where if she feels like you don't understand what she's saying,
02:04:51.000
And like, she gets like really not aggressive, but like, why don't you listen to me?
02:05:07.000
And like, we only got a couple pounds more to go through.
02:05:14.000
That used to drive me crazy to the point where I got like really angry.
02:05:19.000
And she just kept going on and on, like nagging, nagging, like viciously aggressively nagging that
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And I don't listen to her and I don't make her feel.
02:05:32.000
It just went up to the point where I was like, oh my God, enough woman.
02:05:38.000
And I slammed down my, um, my hand on the trimming table and she got like really scared.
02:05:45.000
So I left the, the, um, I left the dehumidifier room and I went and got some beer and I came back
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And I mean, this is a girl that just two days before that we were like, like, uh, like Cupid
02:06:19.000
We went to a foreign country, uh, back to her home country.
02:06:26.000
There's two ways that we can get back to our apartment in, um, in this country.
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And I'm like, yo, we already passed the toll road.
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I'm not going to go find a bank and then drive 15 minutes back.
02:06:47.000
She, she, um, so we ended up getting in this huge fight.
02:06:53.000
The, the landlord comes up and he's like, what are you guys making all this noise about?
02:07:01.000
Like I'm like beating her up or like assaulting her or nothing.
02:07:04.000
And it, it caused like a lot of attention and to the point where like,
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So it's like, they, they, they get so offended and angry.
02:07:15.000
And I think that a lot of them do it without realizing that that's what they're doing.
02:07:19.000
Is it's like, it's emotional manipulation at the very least.
02:07:23.000
But some women don't know any other way to communicate besides like in her head,
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she thinks she's doing the right thing to fix the problem.
02:07:30.000
But she doesn't realize that what she's doing is destroying and just like disrespecting you in a sense.
02:07:36.000
But in a woman's head, she's like, I want to talk about this.
02:07:53.000
You guys ever been with a woman who's just a contrarian?
02:07:56.000
Cause a lot of women think that being empowered and be equal to you is, is arguing against you, even when they know.
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See, cause men were more likely to accept that someone is, is an authority or knows more than us, but women just can't do it.
02:08:09.000
So you, you'll be with a woman and sure, she'll have to be on the other side of everything.
02:08:14.000
You'll be even something that you're an expert at, or you're, it's part of your career.
02:08:19.000
She'll know nothing about it, but she'll feel the need to get on the other side of the issue.
02:08:27.000
So that's another way that, that women can nag is this whole contrarian thing to sound smart.
02:09:00.000
Uh, the question is about who, uh, what a woman has nagged me about in the past.
02:09:07.000
So she wasn't my girlfriend, but we were dating and, um, if we didn't quite get to the
02:09:13.000
point of boyfriend and girlfriend, but the last thing I was nagged about was horror movies,
02:09:21.000
Um, basically she was kind of a, a trad con Christian type of woman.
02:09:26.000
And she found out that I was a big fan of horror movies.
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Um, I'm even wearing a happy tree friends t-shirt right now.
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And basically she had this idea that like, if you're watching horror movies, you're opening
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up a portal to demonic spirits and that sort of thing.
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And so she was like, she told me she didn't like them.
02:09:53.000
Then I remember we, we were listening to, um, we're going where I was driving her home and
02:10:00.000
we had K love going in the car and K love is just your, uh, super basic Christian radio
02:10:07.000
Another thing about this woman is there was no like nerd aspect to her whatsoever.
02:10:13.000
Whereas at least that I could tell, whereas that's sort of a key aspect of my personality.
02:10:18.000
Basically we were listening to this K love Christian radio station.
02:10:22.000
And the song that was playing was, it was something like everything you do, do it to praise the
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And so she goes, see, like this song is saying, do you think you can watch a horror movie to
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And then later she sent me like this, this, uh, video of this woman who was talking about
02:10:48.000
And it was like, it was a very strange video about how you're, you, you think you're protected
02:10:56.000
And then eventually she, I don't think it was over this because we did talk after this,
02:11:02.000
Um, but yeah, that's, that's the last thing I was nagged about.
02:11:07.000
Tradcon women, they're going to nag you about horror movies.
02:11:11.000
You might as well, you might as well get a slut.
02:11:14.000
I did also have, I'm going to try to keep it real brief.
02:11:18.000
I do have one comment and question about the NF Candace Owens conversation without getting
02:11:29.000
But when you were talking about the first thing with Nick getting married and that kind
02:11:34.000
of thing, like there, I'm totally with you guys like that.
02:11:38.000
Like that, that was very clearly exactly what you were talking about.
02:11:42.000
I guess I'm not positive though about, and you, and you can, you can speak to this and,
02:11:49.000
and, and, um, and provide a, provide an argument or sorry, not an argument, but provide an example
02:11:56.000
The second part though, where she's kind of confronting him about what he said about her
02:12:02.000
on stream and then, and that kind of thing while he's on the show, I guess my initial reaction
02:12:08.000
is, you know, if, if I'm not a streamer or anything like that, but if somebody was talking about me in a
02:12:16.000
negative way, it seems like if I'm going to have them on my show, it should be fair game to ask
02:12:22.000
them about it or try to defend myself or something like that.
02:12:25.000
Like for example, if, and we know he's not going to do this, but if Rollo were to agree to come
02:12:31.000
on the show, I don't, I don't think it would be unfair for Pearl to say, well, wait a minute, you said
02:12:38.000
So kind of what are your guys thoughts on that?
02:12:41.000
I don't completely disagree, but I think you kind of do have to give someone a heads up if you're
02:12:45.000
going to do that, because you have to understand we do three hour shows every day.
02:12:51.000
So it's like, you might've said something six months ago.
02:12:55.000
And you're asking them like, Hey, this specific clip from this context, like months ago, you
02:13:02.000
know, cause I'm, I'm fairly sure like the stream she's talking about was from a few months ago.
02:13:09.000
Um, I just didn't understand why she spent like 30 minutes of the interview on it.
02:13:14.000
You know, I feel like it's just, it's part of the game.
02:13:23.000
The podcasting is kind of like the whole hip hop thing where there's always some kind of
02:13:32.000
And if it's not egregious, just go on the person's show.
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NF was like, look, she just doesn't invite me on her show.
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In fact, we might have to do a smoke show one of these days, probably.
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But yeah, I mean, like she puts invites out on X all the time.
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Like if someone is that vocal, Candace should have had him.
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Well, I mean, on her show a long time ago, she can't just say, well, he says mean things about me.
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And it was more like, I didn't, but I didn't like how she was telling him like what he can and can't do on his show.
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Like, I don't mind her defending him, but it was like 30 minutes.
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She's just going in and saying, well, you shouldn't do that.
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Like, that's not the right way to go about things.
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Who are you to tell a grown man the right way to go about things?
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She, she had the daily wire and then she, wasn't she a liberal in liberal media before that?
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It's just, I just, it would be like, imagine if, and I had someone do this where you took money from me for 10 years and then started an anti white network.
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You know, I built return the money that you took from these people.
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Return the money and then you can do your anti Jakey.
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I don't, I don't, I don't have an opinion on that issue.
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Um, but it, it's just a little bit like, let me get this straight.
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You took money from these people for 10 years and now you're against them.
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And yeah, I'm just talking about, I'm not getting into that issue at all for, for multiple reasons.
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Um, but basically the, the thing I was just going to say is when Doug MPA just said something like, did Candace previously say, you can't come on my show Nick or something like that.
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And that's what, what he was responding to in that clip.
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Um, he, what he was criticizing in the clip is saying, instead of having Nick's the go-to guy for all this stuff.
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And, but everybody knows that's the guy, but you know, podcasters that are pro free speech or say they're pro this stuff.
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Uh, when she's pressed to bring someone on to, this is just how I understood it.
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When she's pressed to bring someone on that represents the issue.
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He's like, he's offended that he's not being asked to be brought on.
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And I think he was accusing her of being like scared of losing money or something, but I would be scared of losing money.
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I mean, I will say, um, and, and I, I'm saying this as someone who.
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Who has opposite views admittedly of, of both of them on this issue.
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But I will say Nick has had, cause I remember when, when this was all happening, uh, years ago, Nick has had several falling outs with people.
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Um, I mean, it's, it, it definitely is a pattern.
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Cause I, I knew him when I knew of him when he was a relatively minor, uh, streamer.
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I would say probably like the one thing I would tell everybody to watch out for is that whole
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gaslighting thing where she got you by the balls all the time.
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I'm like, as far as like you doing something wrong, she know, okay, I could do that.
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And he always going, you know, you know, every day trying to walk on eggshells and stuff.
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But, you know, like, oh, you know, I don't like this.
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That's why, you know, I shouldn't talk to you, whatever, you know.
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I shouldn't talk to you and, you know, all of that.
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Why I'm talking to you and how they gave you so many chances.
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And it's like she got you by the balls as far as that because, you know, it's just gaslighting to his finances.
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You're always the victim and you're always going to have to work into it.
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You know, you're always going to have to, you know, you're always going to have to work towards it.
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And that's, you know, gaslighting to his bullets when you're with somebody, you know?
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And people just don't really realize that, you know?
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Like Pearl said at the beginning of the show, women call men all sorts of names.
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If they call them, you know, abusers and this, that, whatever, everything under the sun.
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But you never hear women say that men nag them.
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You know, you know, I mean, we don't really gaslight.
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I mean, we probably do, but we try to probably keep in peace or whatever.
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Like, you know, the last caller, the one before her, was talking about contrarians.
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And that's just that masculine energy that some females have.
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You've got to kind of, like, back away from that, John, you know?
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Because it's like, oh, if I say this, you're going to say this.
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What's the point of us talking if we're not going, you know, if you're not going to agree?
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Because if we was getting money together, had a business, a multi-million dollar business
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or whatever, if we always not agreeing, then what's going to be the point?
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And it's going, you know, it's going to be like, what's the point of us talking?
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So if you're going to be contrarian, what's the point of me talking to you?
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We can disagree, but not all the time, you know?
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So when you mix that in with a little bit of gaslighting, it's just a recipe for the
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Guys, don't call into a show or do any kind of TikToker life while you're driving, please.
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I just, you know, don't put people's lives in danger or your lives in danger by
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More importantly, I don't want to be held responsible, so.
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I'll give my craziest nag by a woman in my life after.
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Yeah, I just, guys, you just don't let a woman nag you.
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Don't let her accept, don't let her make everything her rules.
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Or you can just not deal with women, don't live with a woman at all and you're perfectly
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I think that's going to be more of a thing, men just not living with women and like having
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kids and stuff, but in like separate apartments.
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And then the whole thing with NF and Candace, I mean, I like when, when Nick said it, he's
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like, look, I've been doing this since I was 17.
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You know, you've got all your stuff together and now you're out here trying to tell the
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Like she didn't really make any real sacrifice.
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You know, she, she just went along with whatever she could to get ahead.
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So yeah, I thought he handled it, handled it pretty well.
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It'd be like a girl hopping on the black lives matter, like anti BLM train now.
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Well, um, the worst nag I ever had was one time there was a person that nagged me about
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Like I wanted to keep my guitar in the living room to play.
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If you can, I'm going to check, uh, the go find me really quick.
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Are there any, actually let me put my thing back up.
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The, the last one was, oh, there was, um, there was two.
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