JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022


Modern Women Are DELUSIONAL


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

229.13469

Word Count

2,189

Sentence Count

178

Misogynist Sentences

18

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

Your age is a massive indicator of your value, and as we grow older, we become less attracted to men who are younger than us, and more attracted to those who are older. In other words, when a woman is younger than a man her age, she is more likely to have a better chance of getting into a relationship with a younger man. However, when she is older, she tends to be more interested in younger men, because she is scared of competition. This is why a woman who is older than a woman in her 20s and 30s has a much higher chance of finding a guy who is willing to take care of her.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 20, 21, 23 is not a top G, like a 30, 40 year old man.
00:00:04.240 Your age actually dictates your sort of maturity
00:00:06.980 to a large extent.
00:00:08.220 Well, I'm arguing the point.
00:00:09.460 The point I'm trying to make is that
00:00:10.640 what I actually think happens,
00:00:12.100 especially in the modern world,
00:00:13.940 because the modern world's all fucked up
00:00:15.360 and nothing's the way it's supposed to be.
00:00:16.980 The traditional life path of a female is she's 17,
00:00:21.100 she's 18, she's 19,
00:00:22.280 and her value is massively inflated.
00:00:24.320 And I don't blame her.
00:00:25.400 Of course it's massively inflated.
00:00:26.540 Imagine being 19 years old,
00:00:27.840 have achieved exactly fucking zero in your life.
00:00:31.240 Knowing nothing, you put makeup on,
00:00:33.680 and sports stars, billionaires, actors,
00:00:36.980 the most important famous people on the planet,
00:00:39.200 the richest men on the planet,
00:00:40.300 are begging for your attention.
00:00:41.960 The ego you're gonna develop,
00:00:43.820 let us all be honest, right?
00:00:44.800 The ego you're gonna develop
00:00:45.440 is gonna be monumental.
00:00:46.900 I'm special, I'm so gorgeous,
00:00:48.440 all this bullshit, right?
00:00:49.520 And then what happens as they grow older,
00:00:51.660 as new generations come along,
00:00:53.340 because the truth is most women
00:00:54.960 are at their peak attraction,
00:00:56.820 let's say in their early 20s,
00:00:58.080 as they grow older,
00:00:59.660 what women become
00:01:00.820 is far more fearful of competition.
00:01:02.820 This is why you'll see a woman
00:01:03.820 who's a bit older go,
00:01:04.680 oh, you know, I really want monogamy there.
00:01:06.020 What she's scared of
00:01:06.940 is her dude getting a 21-year-old.
00:01:08.340 That's what she's fucking scared of.
00:01:09.400 She may not know it,
00:01:10.460 she may not say it,
00:01:11.720 but basically that's what the truth is,
00:01:13.340 because she knows a 21-year-old
00:01:14.500 is gonna be more desirable,
00:01:15.500 higher status, more fertile.
00:01:17.360 That's what she's scared of.
00:01:18.480 Cheating is bad when you're 30 or 27.
00:01:20.720 So, no, it's not about that.
00:01:22.360 I'm telling you the shift
00:01:24.200 in the female mentality,
00:01:25.500 because when a female's 20,
00:01:27.100 she doesn't give a fuck
00:01:27.920 about any of this.
00:01:29.040 She doesn't want to find a nice man.
00:01:30.480 Now she's trying to,
00:01:31.160 like you're saying,
00:01:31.680 chasing a lifestyle,
00:01:32.540 chasing Mr. Promiscuous,
00:01:33.740 chasing Mr. Famous.
00:01:34.840 Doesn't give a shit
00:01:35.520 until she starts getting scared.
00:01:37.480 Oh, shit.
00:01:38.000 My age begins with three now.
00:01:40.600 And then they change,
00:01:41.580 their mentality changes.
00:01:42.580 It's a fear element.
00:01:43.660 That's the reality.
00:01:44.260 And it's a biological fear element.
00:01:45.940 I'll give you an example of it.
00:01:47.340 You know what's amazing about humans?
00:01:48.960 We are still very primal.
00:01:51.320 When men like these two and me,
00:01:53.300 when we walk through the mall,
00:01:54.820 people just move.
00:01:56.340 It's like you can sense when,
00:01:58.080 you can sense when the big animals turn up, right?
00:02:00.600 It's something amazing about humans.
00:02:02.220 If you have a very attractive 45-year-old woman,
00:02:04.600 she's gorgeous,
00:02:05.140 but a gorgeous 19-year-old walks in,
00:02:07.960 look at that 45-year-old woman's face.
00:02:09.760 She's furious.
00:02:10.760 She fucking hates her.
00:02:12.200 She just doesn't like her for no reason.
00:02:13.920 Because women understand,
00:02:15.340 unfortunately,
00:02:16.020 it's unfortunate,
00:02:16.640 but you're innately,
00:02:17.580 your age is a massive indicator in your value.
00:02:20.140 In an inverse way to men,
00:02:21.560 men are more valuable as we get older.
00:02:23.520 Every man,
00:02:24.100 every woman knows that.
00:02:25.020 Every woman will sit here and go,
00:02:25.960 yeah, I want a man who's older than me.
00:02:27.180 Of course.
00:02:27.900 But if I sit the other way around,
00:02:29.000 I'm misogynistic.
00:02:29.720 It's just the reality of the world.
00:02:30.980 So then we have to go into the other point.
00:02:32.780 The point is this.
00:02:33.440 When you were at your peak value,
00:02:35.960 you had zero interest in monogamy.
00:02:38.520 But then you find a man who's 35 at his peak value.
00:02:42.100 He's finally struggled and worked.
00:02:43.860 Because when he was 19,
00:02:44.820 no girl spoke to him.
00:02:45.820 When he was 23,
00:02:46.740 he was broke.
00:02:47.500 When he was 24,
00:02:48.380 he had no life experience.
00:02:49.640 When he was 25,
00:02:50.480 he couldn't fuck.
00:02:51.340 When he was 26,
00:02:51.840 whatever.
00:02:52.460 He finally gets to the point where he's now at his peak value.
00:02:55.220 He at 35 is you when you were 19.
00:02:58.200 And then you're sitting there saying to him,
00:02:59.940 no,
00:03:00.300 you should be a monogamist.
00:03:01.320 It's like,
00:03:01.840 well,
00:03:01.980 you fucking weren't.
00:03:03.100 You did whatever you wanted in your peak.
00:03:05.640 Now I'm finally got there.
00:03:06.780 And I had to work for my shit.
00:03:08.460 God gave you,
00:03:09.180 God and L'Oreal gave you you.
00:03:11.100 I had to fucking struggle.
00:03:12.580 I had to go through hell to get on this yacht.
00:03:14.460 You got on the yacht with an Instagram DM.
00:03:16.020 I had to buy it.
00:03:17.260 And now you're telling me,
00:03:18.120 I need to fucking settle down and behave and grow up.
00:03:21.000 Fuck you.
00:03:21.600 It's bullshit.
00:03:22.220 You're assuming that the journey is a man that starts with nothing to something.
00:03:26.000 Because there's a lot of men.
00:03:27.040 That is exactly the journey of every man on earth.
00:03:29.280 We are born without value.
00:03:31.700 So there's specificity in that.
00:03:34.180 Because that's not how it should be for everybody.
00:03:36.300 And that's not how it is for everybody.
00:03:37.560 And not for every woman either,
00:03:39.320 as well,
00:03:39.520 may I just say.
00:03:40.200 Can I ask Brittany something,
00:03:41.240 please?
00:03:42.340 You know,
00:03:42.980 like,
00:03:43.920 then you've learned in the past.
00:03:45.900 And now you want to find someone to settle down.
00:03:48.620 With hindsight now,
00:03:50.520 would you have reversed it?
00:03:51.720 And like started young,
00:03:52.740 looking for someone to settle down with,
00:03:54.220 looking for those values that now you know.
00:03:56.100 I'm talking about with hindsight.
00:03:58.060 Okay.
00:03:58.400 Well,
00:03:58.640 I've,
00:03:58.960 I actually from 18 to 22,
00:04:01.100 I was in a relationship.
00:04:02.380 I've always actually been a lover girl,
00:04:04.220 despite what I put out online for,
00:04:06.160 you know,
00:04:06.480 I've never seen you online.
00:04:07.380 Yeah,
00:04:07.600 that's fine.
00:04:08.240 That's even better.
00:04:10.020 I have always wanted one person.
00:04:12.760 And I feel like I was so delusional in thinking that,
00:04:16.460 oh,
00:04:16.740 I'm,
00:04:17.080 I'm like you said,
00:04:17.800 like I have value.
00:04:18.560 I'm beautiful.
00:04:18.940 I'm this.
00:04:19.460 I'm at my peak.
00:04:19.940 Like,
00:04:20.100 why wouldn't you want to be with me?
00:04:21.280 So going into these relationships or just like P I'm sorry,
00:04:24.540 just people.
00:04:25.200 My goal was always to get commitment.
00:04:27.860 Like I'm giving you my time.
00:04:29.180 I'm pouring into you because I want commitment.
00:04:31.280 And the reality is I'd never had,
00:04:33.460 I'd never really understood my value.
00:04:35.500 So I was going through guys,
00:04:36.960 giving up sex,
00:04:37.760 doing this,
00:04:38.340 and it didn't make sense.
00:04:39.400 So I believe in like,
00:04:40.820 I stay on everything I do.
00:04:42.060 Like I don't,
00:04:43.180 I don't do apology tours.
00:04:44.480 It is what it is.
00:04:45.220 And I think that's where I feel like when it,
00:04:47.540 when I talk about women being delusional and all these other things,
00:04:49.520 it is true because what you have to understand is that there are
00:04:52.020 repercussions to your decisions,
00:04:53.320 which is fine.
00:04:53.980 So then you're talking about,
00:04:55.200 okay,
00:04:55.380 well I want this type of guy.
00:04:56.500 I want this,
00:04:56.820 that and that you're talking about maybe monogamy.
00:04:58.460 That's three to 5% of animals are monogamous.
00:05:00.260 I think that's what it is.
00:05:01.260 Right?
00:05:01.540 So the,
00:05:02.980 your window is really,
00:05:04.260 really small for what you're looking for.
00:05:05.700 And even to go onto the point where you said,
00:05:07.180 where you were talking about,
00:05:07.720 it's like a subconscious fear.
00:05:09.360 I think it's like,
00:05:10.360 for me,
00:05:11.040 I feel like if,
00:05:11.560 if it was more of a fear,
00:05:12.340 I would have just stayed in my situation.
00:05:13.400 Like it wouldn't have made sense.
00:05:14.820 Like,
00:05:15.020 I mean,
00:05:15.200 that was my first kid.
00:05:15.920 I thought I waited and did it right.
00:05:17.340 I left because I believe it.
00:05:19.400 There's something else on my heart when it comes to love.
00:05:21.600 And I'm just going to have to trust that.
00:05:23.160 And if that means being alone,
00:05:24.720 having a dog,
00:05:25.340 I have to take that chance because the Bentley,
00:05:27.700 the ring,
00:05:28.260 the house and still getting again,
00:05:31.080 deceived,
00:05:32.100 right?
00:05:32.820 Disrespected because deceit is disrespect.
00:05:35.160 Right?
00:05:35.740 So I just,
00:05:37.300 I cannot settle for that.
00:05:38.340 I can't suck a dick and shut up.
00:05:40.240 And that is where a lot of people don't like my views and what I represent
00:05:44.020 because it is something new.
00:05:45.900 I don't know how it's going to fucking end.
00:05:47.700 I don't know what's going to happen.
00:05:48.800 What would you tell your 17 if you had to like,
00:05:51.380 what would you tell your 17 year old self knowing what you know now?
00:05:55.300 Looking back and you had to meet yourself at 17.
00:05:57.680 What would you tell your,
00:05:59.520 what would you tell yourself?
00:06:00.740 Like lock it down and wait for the right man.
00:06:02.760 Don't have sex.
00:06:03.400 What would you tell your 17 year old self?
00:06:08.680 That the answers aren't outside of you because I feel like I'd always look for
00:06:12.460 men to answer all of my questions that I've ever had.
00:06:15.340 I thought when I had a man,
00:06:16.320 it would complete me,
00:06:17.040 complete me.
00:06:17.560 And I feel like too,
00:06:18.960 especially with like my dad not being in my life,
00:06:21.420 you look for somebody to guide me.
00:06:23.100 Like,
00:06:23.460 so that's where for me,
00:06:24.620 I put too much value in someone else having the answers for me.
00:06:29.460 So that's why I'm really big on accountability.
00:06:31.420 So I would just tell myself like to be patient,
00:06:34.540 to take your time.
00:06:35.320 Cause I was always quick.
00:06:36.280 Oh,
00:06:36.600 let's try to get in a relationship.
00:06:37.560 Right.
00:06:37.620 Like we weren't even compatible.
00:06:39.420 There's a lot of just not compatible factors.
00:06:41.980 So I feel like for me,
00:06:43.300 it would be to slow down and to really get to know people instead of just blindly banking
00:06:48.780 on potential that most likely will never be tapped into or selling myself short because
00:06:52.700 there's a fear of,
00:06:53.560 well,
00:06:53.680 I don't know.
00:06:54.020 This could be the best that I could get.
00:06:55.100 I might as well just shut up,
00:06:56.540 shut up and suck a dick.
00:06:57.260 And that's what I meant about women nowadays because exactly what you'd be telling your
00:07:03.040 17 year old self is what happened back in the day.
00:07:06.500 So when I'm repeating these things,
00:07:07.960 I'm going to,
00:07:08.440 Oh,
00:07:08.960 you're old fashioned.
00:07:09.960 But it seems like women do what they like and then they hit a certain age and say,
00:07:14.240 Oh,
00:07:14.420 well,
00:07:14.540 I've got to settle.
00:07:15.540 But it's not settling.
00:07:16.420 You're just getting whatever you can or whatever you deserve.
00:07:20.080 You know what?
00:07:20.560 Because if you think back now,
00:07:21.680 you'd be telling people now,
00:07:23.180 rather than say that auntie's old fashioned or auntie don't know what she's talking about,
00:07:26.980 look what she'd be telling her 17 year old self,
00:07:29.340 which ain't nothing that I already said.
00:07:31.140 Yeah.
00:07:31.440 Because really and truly,
00:07:32.840 really and truly,
00:07:33.400 let me finish.
00:07:34.020 Let me finish.
00:07:34.780 Because what I've always said,
00:07:36.040 and you can check,
00:07:37.020 I'm an older version of you.
00:07:38.920 So where you've been,
00:07:40.780 I've already been an upper comeback.
00:07:43.120 So that's why I asked you,
00:07:44.380 what would you tell your 17 year old self?
00:07:46.360 Because me telling you is I'm telling my 30 year old self.
00:07:50.520 Do you understand where I'm coming from?
00:07:51.800 So it's not that I'm old fashioned.
00:07:53.320 It's just that women hit a certain age and then realize,
00:07:56.460 oh my God,
00:07:57.320 it wasn't that old fashioned.
00:07:58.980 You know,
00:07:59.440 it works because it does,
00:08:01.760 but there's no point in waiting until you're a certain age to start thinking about it.
00:08:07.360 You know,
00:08:07.740 even if you're like,
00:08:08.580 you hold your own accountability.
00:08:10.020 So it's like if you meet somebody and they were like 17,
00:08:12.600 18,
00:08:12.980 and you saw the match in a certain way,
00:08:14.120 they asked you for advice.
00:08:15.100 You won't say do as I do.
00:08:16.360 You say,
00:08:16.680 this is what happened to me.
00:08:18.080 And this is what I thought.
00:08:19.060 And what I recommend you do is blah,
00:08:20.460 blah,
00:08:20.580 blah.
00:08:21.300 Am I right?
00:08:21.720 Or am I wrong?
00:08:22.360 If they ask you for your advice.
00:08:23.440 No,
00:08:23.780 I totally get what you're saying.
00:08:25.060 I totally agree with that.
00:08:26.420 I think that no matter what you decide to do,
00:08:28.340 you have to accept whatever repercussions come behind that.
00:08:30.460 So any advice that I give to anybody is do what you want,
00:08:33.180 but just know there are repercussions,
00:08:34.460 good,
00:08:34.640 bad,
00:08:34.760 or indifferent that are going to come behind it.
00:08:36.500 So,
00:08:36.980 I mean,
00:08:37.340 and I think that's just where I'm at.
00:08:38.380 I don't even think it's like an age thing.
00:08:39.820 I think it's like,
00:08:41.060 in reality,
00:08:41.640 I have,
00:08:41.860 I have a son and you really start asking yourself questions.
00:08:45.280 And again,
00:08:45.720 I hate that it took having a child to really look into my life and call
00:08:50.500 myself out on my bullshit.
00:08:52.220 So if you got pregnant earlier,
00:08:53.800 if you got pregnant at 18,
00:08:55.040 19,
00:08:55.600 would it?
00:08:56.380 I was always on birth control.
00:08:57.880 I was on birth control for a decade.
00:08:59.180 I got off birth control because of the person I was with when I had a baby.
00:09:01.520 So,
00:09:02.140 so again,
00:09:02.760 I thought I did it right.
00:09:03.720 Clearly not because I wasn't married,
00:09:05.400 but it still didn't work out because it just wasn't my guy.
00:09:08.460 So that's where I just think like,
00:09:09.660 even if I still would have taken it slow,
00:09:11.760 there just were a lot of people that just were genuinely not my person.
00:09:14.140 And that's okay.
00:09:16.860 As many of you know,
00:09:18.060 I was just banned on Tik TOK and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:09:23.900 platform.
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