JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022


Modern Women Are DELUSIONAL


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

229.13469

Word Count

2,189

Sentence Count

178

Misogynist Sentences

18

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 20, 21, 23 is not a top G, like a 30, 40 year old man.
00:00:04.240 Your age actually dictates your sort of maturity
00:00:06.980 to a large extent.
00:00:08.220 Well, I'm arguing the point.
00:00:09.460 The point I'm trying to make is that
00:00:10.640 what I actually think happens,
00:00:12.100 especially in the modern world,
00:00:13.940 because the modern world's all fucked up
00:00:15.360 and nothing's the way it's supposed to be.
00:00:16.980 The traditional life path of a female is she's 17,
00:00:21.100 she's 18, she's 19,
00:00:22.280 and her value is massively inflated.
00:00:24.320 And I don't blame her.
00:00:25.400 Of course it's massively inflated.
00:00:26.540 Imagine being 19 years old,
00:00:27.840 have achieved exactly fucking zero in your life.
00:00:31.240 Knowing nothing, you put makeup on,
00:00:33.680 and sports stars, billionaires, actors,
00:00:36.980 the most important famous people on the planet,
00:00:39.200 the richest men on the planet,
00:00:40.300 are begging for your attention.
00:00:41.960 The ego you're gonna develop,
00:00:43.820 let us all be honest, right?
00:00:44.800 The ego you're gonna develop
00:00:45.440 is gonna be monumental.
00:00:46.900 I'm special, I'm so gorgeous,
00:00:48.440 all this bullshit, right?
00:00:49.520 And then what happens as they grow older,
00:00:51.660 as new generations come along,
00:00:53.340 because the truth is most women
00:00:54.960 are at their peak attraction,
00:00:56.820 let's say in their early 20s,
00:00:58.080 as they grow older,
00:00:59.660 what women become
00:01:00.820 is far more fearful of competition.
00:01:02.820 This is why you'll see a woman
00:01:03.820 who's a bit older go,
00:01:04.680 oh, you know, I really want monogamy there.
00:01:06.020 What she's scared of
00:01:06.940 is her dude getting a 21-year-old.
00:01:08.340 That's what she's fucking scared of.
00:01:09.400 She may not know it,
00:01:10.460 she may not say it,
00:01:11.720 but basically that's what the truth is,
00:01:13.340 because she knows a 21-year-old
00:01:14.500 is gonna be more desirable,
00:01:15.500 higher status, more fertile.
00:01:17.360 That's what she's scared of.
00:01:18.480 Cheating is bad when you're 30 or 27.
00:01:20.720 So, no, it's not about that.
00:01:22.360 I'm telling you the shift
00:01:24.200 in the female mentality,
00:01:25.500 because when a female's 20,
00:01:27.100 she doesn't give a fuck
00:01:27.920 about any of this.
00:01:29.040 She doesn't want to find a nice man.
00:01:30.480 Now she's trying to,
00:01:31.160 like you're saying,
00:01:31.680 chasing a lifestyle,
00:01:32.540 chasing Mr. Promiscuous,
00:01:33.740 chasing Mr. Famous.
00:01:34.840 Doesn't give a shit
00:01:35.520 until she starts getting scared.
00:01:37.480 Oh, shit.
00:01:38.000 My age begins with three now.
00:01:40.600 And then they change,
00:01:41.580 their mentality changes.
00:01:42.580 It's a fear element.
00:01:43.660 That's the reality.
00:01:44.260 And it's a biological fear element.
00:01:45.940 I'll give you an example of it.
00:01:47.340 You know what's amazing about humans?
00:01:48.960 We are still very primal.
00:01:51.320 When men like these two and me,
00:01:53.300 when we walk through the mall,
00:01:54.820 people just move.
00:01:56.340 It's like you can sense when,
00:01:58.080 you can sense when the big animals turn up, right?
00:02:00.600 It's something amazing about humans.
00:02:02.220 If you have a very attractive 45-year-old woman,
00:02:04.600 she's gorgeous,
00:02:05.140 but a gorgeous 19-year-old walks in,
00:02:07.960 look at that 45-year-old woman's face.
00:02:09.760 She's furious.
00:02:10.760 She fucking hates her.
00:02:12.200 She just doesn't like her for no reason.
00:02:13.920 Because women understand,
00:02:15.340 unfortunately,
00:02:16.020 it's unfortunate,
00:02:16.640 but you're innately,
00:02:17.580 your age is a massive indicator in your value.
00:02:20.140 In an inverse way to men,
00:02:21.560 men are more valuable as we get older.
00:02:23.520 Every man,
00:02:24.100 every woman knows that.
00:02:25.020 Every woman will sit here and go,
00:02:25.960 yeah, I want a man who's older than me.
00:02:27.180 Of course.
00:02:27.900 But if I sit the other way around,
00:02:29.000 I'm misogynistic.
00:02:29.720 It's just the reality of the world.
00:02:30.980 So then we have to go into the other point.
00:02:32.780 The point is this.
00:02:33.440 When you were at your peak value,
00:02:35.960 you had zero interest in monogamy.
00:02:38.520 But then you find a man who's 35 at his peak value.
00:02:42.100 He's finally struggled and worked.
00:02:43.860 Because when he was 19,
00:02:44.820 no girl spoke to him.
00:02:45.820 When he was 23,
00:02:46.740 he was broke.
00:02:47.500 When he was 24,
00:02:48.380 he had no life experience.
00:02:49.640 When he was 25,
00:02:50.480 he couldn't fuck.
00:02:51.340 When he was 26,
00:02:51.840 whatever.
00:02:52.460 He finally gets to the point where he's now at his peak value.
00:02:55.220 He at 35 is you when you were 19.
00:02:58.200 And then you're sitting there saying to him,
00:02:59.940 no,
00:03:00.300 you should be a monogamist.
00:03:01.320 It's like,
00:03:01.840 well,
00:03:01.980 you fucking weren't.
00:03:03.100 You did whatever you wanted in your peak.
00:03:05.640 Now I'm finally got there.
00:03:06.780 And I had to work for my shit.
00:03:08.460 God gave you,
00:03:09.180 God and L'Oreal gave you you.
00:03:11.100 I had to fucking struggle.
00:03:12.580 I had to go through hell to get on this yacht.
00:03:14.460 You got on the yacht with an Instagram DM.
00:03:16.020 I had to buy it.
00:03:17.260 And now you're telling me,
00:03:18.120 I need to fucking settle down and behave and grow up.
00:03:21.000 Fuck you.
00:03:21.600 It's bullshit.
00:03:22.220 You're assuming that the journey is a man that starts with nothing to something.
00:03:26.000 Because there's a lot of men.
00:03:27.040 That is exactly the journey of every man on earth.
00:03:29.280 We are born without value.
00:03:31.700 So there's specificity in that.
00:03:34.180 Because that's not how it should be for everybody.
00:03:36.300 And that's not how it is for everybody.
00:03:37.560 And not for every woman either,
00:03:39.320 as well,
00:03:39.520 may I just say.
00:03:40.200 Can I ask Brittany something,
00:03:41.240 please?
00:03:42.340 You know,
00:03:42.980 like,
00:03:43.920 then you've learned in the past.
00:03:45.900 And now you want to find someone to settle down.
00:03:48.620 With hindsight now,
00:03:50.520 would you have reversed it?
00:03:51.720 And like started young,
00:03:52.740 looking for someone to settle down with,
00:03:54.220 looking for those values that now you know.
00:03:56.100 I'm talking about with hindsight.
00:03:58.060 Okay.
00:03:58.400 Well,
00:03:58.640 I've,
00:03:58.960 I actually from 18 to 22,
00:04:01.100 I was in a relationship.
00:04:02.380 I've always actually been a lover girl,
00:04:04.220 despite what I put out online for,
00:04:06.160 you know,
00:04:06.480 I've never seen you online.
00:04:07.380 Yeah,
00:04:07.600 that's fine.
00:04:08.240 That's even better.
00:04:10.020 I have always wanted one person.
00:04:12.760 And I feel like I was so delusional in thinking that,
00:04:16.460 oh,
00:04:16.740 I'm,
00:04:17.080 I'm like you said,
00:04:17.800 like I have value.
00:04:18.560 I'm beautiful.
00:04:18.940 I'm this.
00:04:19.460 I'm at my peak.
00:04:19.940 Like,
00:04:20.100 why wouldn't you want to be with me?
00:04:21.280 So going into these relationships or just like P I'm sorry,
00:04:24.540 just people.
00:04:25.200 My goal was always to get commitment.
00:04:27.860 Like I'm giving you my time.
00:04:29.180 I'm pouring into you because I want commitment.
00:04:31.280 And the reality is I'd never had,
00:04:33.460 I'd never really understood my value.
00:04:35.500 So I was going through guys,
00:04:36.960 giving up sex,
00:04:37.760 doing this,
00:04:38.340 and it didn't make sense.
00:04:39.400 So I believe in like,
00:04:40.820 I stay on everything I do.
00:04:42.060 Like I don't,
00:04:43.180 I don't do apology tours.
00:04:44.480 It is what it is.
00:04:45.220 And I think that's where I feel like when it,
00:04:47.540 when I talk about women being delusional and all these other things,
00:04:49.520 it is true because what you have to understand is that there are
00:04:52.020 repercussions to your decisions,
00:04:53.320 which is fine.
00:04:53.980 So then you're talking about,
00:04:55.200 okay,
00:04:55.380 well I want this type of guy.
00:04:56.500 I want this,
00:04:56.820 that and that you're talking about maybe monogamy.
00:04:58.460 That's three to 5% of animals are monogamous.
00:05:00.260 I think that's what it is.
00:05:01.260 Right?
00:05:01.540 So the,
00:05:02.980 your window is really,
00:05:04.260 really small for what you're looking for.
00:05:05.700 And even to go onto the point where you said,
00:05:07.180 where you were talking about,
00:05:07.720 it's like a subconscious fear.
00:05:09.360 I think it's like,
00:05:10.360 for me,
00:05:11.040 I feel like if,
00:05:11.560 if it was more of a fear,
00:05:12.340 I would have just stayed in my situation.
00:05:13.400 Like it wouldn't have made sense.
00:05:14.820 Like,
00:05:15.020 I mean,
00:05:15.200 that was my first kid.
00:05:15.920 I thought I waited and did it right.
00:05:17.340 I left because I believe it.
00:05:19.400 There's something else on my heart when it comes to love.
00:05:21.600 And I'm just going to have to trust that.
00:05:23.160 And if that means being alone,
00:05:24.720 having a dog,
00:05:25.340 I have to take that chance because the Bentley,
00:05:27.700 the ring,
00:05:28.260 the house and still getting again,
00:05:31.080 deceived,
00:05:32.100 right?
00:05:32.820 Disrespected because deceit is disrespect.
00:05:35.160 Right?
00:05:35.740 So I just,
00:05:37.300 I cannot settle for that.
00:05:38.340 I can't suck a dick and shut up.
00:05:40.240 And that is where a lot of people don't like my views and what I represent
00:05:44.020 because it is something new.
00:05:45.900 I don't know how it's going to fucking end.
00:05:47.700 I don't know what's going to happen.
00:05:48.800 What would you tell your 17 if you had to like,
00:05:51.380 what would you tell your 17 year old self knowing what you know now?
00:05:55.300 Looking back and you had to meet yourself at 17.
00:05:57.680 What would you tell your,
00:05:59.520 what would you tell yourself?
00:06:00.740 Like lock it down and wait for the right man.
00:06:02.760 Don't have sex.
00:06:03.400 What would you tell your 17 year old self?
00:06:08.680 That the answers aren't outside of you because I feel like I'd always look for
00:06:12.460 men to answer all of my questions that I've ever had.
00:06:15.340 I thought when I had a man,
00:06:16.320 it would complete me,
00:06:17.040 complete me.
00:06:17.560 And I feel like too,
00:06:18.960 especially with like my dad not being in my life,
00:06:21.420 you look for somebody to guide me.
00:06:23.100 Like,
00:06:23.460 so that's where for me,
00:06:24.620 I put too much value in someone else having the answers for me.
00:06:29.460 So that's why I'm really big on accountability.
00:06:31.420 So I would just tell myself like to be patient,
00:06:34.540 to take your time.
00:06:35.320 Cause I was always quick.
00:06:36.280 Oh,
00:06:36.600 let's try to get in a relationship.
00:06:37.560 Right.
00:06:37.620 Like we weren't even compatible.
00:06:39.420 There's a lot of just not compatible factors.
00:06:41.980 So I feel like for me,
00:06:43.300 it would be to slow down and to really get to know people instead of just blindly banking
00:06:48.780 on potential that most likely will never be tapped into or selling myself short because
00:06:52.700 there's a fear of,
00:06:53.560 well,
00:06:53.680 I don't know.
00:06:54.020 This could be the best that I could get.
00:06:55.100 I might as well just shut up,
00:06:56.540 shut up and suck a dick.
00:06:57.260 And that's what I meant about women nowadays because exactly what you'd be telling your
00:07:03.040 17 year old self is what happened back in the day.
00:07:06.500 So when I'm repeating these things,
00:07:07.960 I'm going to,
00:07:08.440 Oh,
00:07:08.960 you're old fashioned.
00:07:09.960 But it seems like women do what they like and then they hit a certain age and say,
00:07:14.240 Oh,
00:07:14.420 well,
00:07:14.540 I've got to settle.
00:07:15.540 But it's not settling.
00:07:16.420 You're just getting whatever you can or whatever you deserve.
00:07:20.080 You know what?
00:07:20.560 Because if you think back now,
00:07:21.680 you'd be telling people now,
00:07:23.180 rather than say that auntie's old fashioned or auntie don't know what she's talking about,
00:07:26.980 look what she'd be telling her 17 year old self,
00:07:29.340 which ain't nothing that I already said.
00:07:31.140 Yeah.
00:07:31.440 Because really and truly,
00:07:32.840 really and truly,
00:07:33.400 let me finish.
00:07:34.020 Let me finish.
00:07:34.780 Because what I've always said,
00:07:36.040 and you can check,
00:07:37.020 I'm an older version of you.
00:07:38.920 So where you've been,
00:07:40.780 I've already been an upper comeback.
00:07:43.120 So that's why I asked you,
00:07:44.380 what would you tell your 17 year old self?
00:07:46.360 Because me telling you is I'm telling my 30 year old self.
00:07:50.520 Do you understand where I'm coming from?
00:07:51.800 So it's not that I'm old fashioned.
00:07:53.320 It's just that women hit a certain age and then realize,
00:07:56.460 oh my God,
00:07:57.320 it wasn't that old fashioned.
00:07:58.980 You know,
00:07:59.440 it works because it does,
00:08:01.760 but there's no point in waiting until you're a certain age to start thinking about it.
00:08:07.360 You know,
00:08:07.740 even if you're like,
00:08:08.580 you hold your own accountability.
00:08:10.020 So it's like if you meet somebody and they were like 17,
00:08:12.600 18,
00:08:12.980 and you saw the match in a certain way,
00:08:14.120 they asked you for advice.
00:08:15.100 You won't say do as I do.
00:08:16.360 You say,
00:08:16.680 this is what happened to me.
00:08:18.080 And this is what I thought.
00:08:19.060 And what I recommend you do is blah,
00:08:20.460 blah,
00:08:20.580 blah.
00:08:21.300 Am I right?
00:08:21.720 Or am I wrong?
00:08:22.360 If they ask you for your advice.
00:08:23.440 No,
00:08:23.780 I totally get what you're saying.
00:08:25.060 I totally agree with that.
00:08:26.420 I think that no matter what you decide to do,
00:08:28.340 you have to accept whatever repercussions come behind that.
00:08:30.460 So any advice that I give to anybody is do what you want,
00:08:33.180 but just know there are repercussions,
00:08:34.460 good,
00:08:34.640 bad,
00:08:34.760 or indifferent that are going to come behind it.
00:08:36.500 So,
00:08:36.980 I mean,
00:08:37.340 and I think that's just where I'm at.
00:08:38.380 I don't even think it's like an age thing.
00:08:39.820 I think it's like,
00:08:41.060 in reality,
00:08:41.640 I have,
00:08:41.860 I have a son and you really start asking yourself questions.
00:08:45.280 And again,
00:08:45.720 I hate that it took having a child to really look into my life and call
00:08:50.500 myself out on my bullshit.
00:08:52.220 So if you got pregnant earlier,
00:08:53.800 if you got pregnant at 18,
00:08:55.040 19,
00:08:55.600 would it?
00:08:56.380 I was always on birth control.
00:08:57.880 I was on birth control for a decade.
00:08:59.180 I got off birth control because of the person I was with when I had a baby.
00:09:01.520 So,
00:09:02.140 so again,
00:09:02.760 I thought I did it right.
00:09:03.720 Clearly not because I wasn't married,
00:09:05.400 but it still didn't work out because it just wasn't my guy.
00:09:08.460 So that's where I just think like,
00:09:09.660 even if I still would have taken it slow,
00:09:11.760 there just were a lot of people that just were genuinely not my person.
00:09:14.140 And that's okay.
00:09:16.860 As many of you know,
00:09:18.060 I was just banned on Tik TOK and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:09:23.900 platform.
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