JustPearlyThings - October 16, 2023


Modern Women Are Extremely DESTRUCTIVE


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10 minutes

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186.87035

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1,892

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171

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Misogyny

34

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26

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In this episode, the guys talk about the natural order of the world, family dysfunction, and why men are naturally better than women. They also talk about why women have more power than men and why women should listen to their husbands.

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00:00:00.000 This is just my personal opinion, okay?
00:00:01.920 So this is just Pearl's thought.
00:00:04.100 I think the natural order of the world, okay?
00:00:07.060 God, men, women, children.
00:00:18.060 All right, so for those that couldn't hear,
00:00:21.080 God, men, women, children.
00:00:22.540 I think most of the time when evil happens
00:00:24.760 or family dysfunction happens,
00:00:26.360 it's because women think they're equal to men. 1.00
00:00:28.640 So I think typically it's the women 1.00
00:00:32.180 trying to impose their will on men.
00:00:34.460 And a lot of people with daddy issues 0.96
00:00:36.100 actually have mommy issues because the mom, 1.00
00:00:39.040 women, it's like our violence is social destruction. 1.00
00:00:42.520 So a lot of people hate the dad, but it's really the mom.
00:00:46.540 And usually when the family's out of order,
00:00:49.060 it's because of the mom, typically, 0.99
00:00:51.120 because the mom either didn't listen to the dad,
00:00:53.380 she didn't respect the dad,
00:00:54.600 or she socially,
00:01:00.160 like she told the kids that the dad was bad.
00:01:03.160 That's what I think most of the time.
00:01:04.840 I'm not saying like this doesn't happen to,
00:01:06.660 there's evil men, there's evil women. 1.00
00:01:07.940 But if I had to just go on a balance of probabilities,
00:01:11.140 that's what I think when there's like family dysfunction.
00:01:14.520 And you can always tell when there's family dysfunction
00:01:16.160 based on the children.
00:01:17.120 So like an example I'll give you guys,
00:01:19.260 Will and Jada Smith, right?
00:01:20.660 I knew, remember, I'll give you an example, right?
00:01:25.340 You guys, do you remember when they were a power couple
00:01:27.460 and everyone loved them?
00:01:28.720 I knew they were messed up
00:01:30.180 because their kids were so messed up.
00:01:32.000 Like why is Willow and like whatever their names are,
00:01:34.760 they're dressing like the opposite gen, 1.00
00:01:36.240 like that's not normal, right?
00:01:37.620 From like a, like, I mean, I'm pro like traditionalism.
00:01:41.200 So I think that's like a bad thing, right?
00:01:44.740 And so I knew they were messed up.
00:01:46.240 And so what's the problem with that family dynamic?
00:01:48.740 Uh, Jada thinks she's equal to Will
00:01:51.600 and she's constantly imposing her will on, on Will 0.99
00:01:55.460 and Will listens to his wife.
00:01:57.140 No, seriously, do you guys,
00:01:58.440 do you guys think that like Will's idea
00:02:00.380 was to do the open marriage?
00:02:02.060 No.
00:02:02.340 No, no, it was hers, right?
00:02:04.080 Because it was correct.
00:02:05.180 Like what happened in the,
00:02:06.000 what happened in the garden of Eve?
00:02:07.720 Like, like Adam, Eve had everything
00:02:09.760 and she wasn't happy and Adam listened to his wife.
00:02:12.960 And I think that's what we're seeing in society
00:02:14.740 is women will have everything, they're not happy. 1.00
00:02:16.920 And then they listen and then the men listen to their wives.
00:02:20.580 And I, I think, you know, when women have the most choice,
00:02:23.720 unfortunately we make poor decisions, you know,
00:02:26.200 and again, last hundred years,
00:02:27.980 we've all chosen to be whore, you know, 0.94
00:02:30.700 and we, you know, it's like everyone's,
00:02:32.220 and I do just, I do the show so much.
00:02:34.020 It's like, everyone's got a toxic ex-boyfriend.
00:02:36.560 Everyone, you know, you know,
00:02:38.920 everyone's dated a guy that's cheated.
00:02:40.480 And it's like, we just don't,
00:02:42.480 we just are very loyal to our feelings.
00:02:44.680 So it doesn't mean we're like bad people.
00:02:46.640 It's just kind of how we are.
00:02:47.640 We're loyal to our feelings.
00:02:49.260 Where men, I think men naturally, 1.00
00:02:51.240 and this is, this is out there, okay.
00:02:53.400 I think men naturally have God inside of them.
00:02:56.100 Now, again, I'm a Catholic.
00:02:57.460 And the reason I think this is because
00:02:59.080 when men act too bad, other men police them.
00:03:03.980 Where when women act bad, other women encourage it, right? 1.00
00:03:07.540 So when women get fat, we say, you're so beautiful. 0.87
00:03:10.240 You're a queen, right?
00:03:11.200 When women are whores, we say, don't slut shame. 1.00
00:03:13.300 But when men do drugs and they become drug addicts,
00:03:16.380 other men say, no, don't do that.
00:03:17.880 Don't live your, and they'll even admit that's wrong
00:03:19.960 and you shouldn't live your life like that.
00:03:22.000 So I think men just are naturally better people than women. 1.00
00:03:25.280 I know, I know this is like a crazy thought.
00:03:27.960 But yeah, I think, I think,
00:03:29.840 and I think knowing women and female and female nature 0.99
00:03:33.000 helps society more because it kind of explains
00:03:36.120 our behavior a little bit better.
00:03:37.880 And I think most of the time,
00:03:39.280 women that impose their will on men, 1.00
00:03:41.840 that's when you get the kids being messed up.
00:03:44.760 And you can always see if a family dynamic is good
00:03:47.020 based on the children.
00:03:47.980 Yeah, definitely.
00:03:48.580 That's my therapy.
00:03:50.460 That's Pearl's therapy. 1.00
00:03:51.900 You know, yeah.
00:03:53.560 What do you, do you guys disagree with that or agree?
00:03:55.500 I completely agree.
00:03:56.440 Really?
00:03:56.860 I agree.
00:03:57.240 Yeah.
00:03:57.500 I thought, this is so wild.
00:03:58.940 I've never had a room agree with that.
00:04:00.700 You seem like you disagree a little bit.
00:04:02.280 No, no, no.
00:04:02.880 No.
00:04:03.160 Yeah?
00:04:03.460 I agree.
00:04:04.600 So men are better people than women. 1.00
00:04:06.920 To an extent.
00:04:07.840 I think they're stronger people than women. 1.00
00:04:09.500 They're what?
00:04:10.000 Yeah.
00:04:10.260 I think men are stronger.
00:04:11.480 As I said, and it goes back down to men leading.
00:04:13.840 When women allow men to lead, 1.00
00:04:16.800 when men lead,
00:04:18.320 you can see it in the children,
00:04:20.040 the family dynamics,
00:04:21.540 the household.
00:04:22.920 You can see the difference between a child
00:04:24.500 who has both parents at home
00:04:25.960 and the difference between a child
00:04:27.560 who has one parent.
00:04:28.920 I can hear it in guys' voices a lot of the time
00:04:31.580 because they talk like their mom
00:04:33.540 because that's who they had around them growing up.
00:04:36.400 Not always.
00:04:37.560 I'm not like 100%,
00:04:38.580 but a lot of times,
00:04:39.480 some guys will come on the show
00:04:40.600 and I can just hear it.
00:04:42.880 Sometimes women, too, 1.00
00:04:43.960 it's the same thing.
00:04:45.620 But it's more obvious than men.
00:04:48.160 You know what I was thinking, too?
00:04:49.060 How our language sort of,
00:04:51.200 we tell on ourselves through our language.
00:04:53.980 I agree.
00:04:54.680 If a woman acts like a man, 1.00
00:04:56.580 it's not necessarily seen as a bad thing.
00:04:58.580 Maybe in dating,
00:04:59.720 but it's not as looked down upon
00:05:02.160 as if a man acts like a woman.
00:05:03.860 Like you say you're acting like a woman right now.
00:05:06.700 Like it's like more of a negative
00:05:08.120 than if a woman acts like a man. 1.00
00:05:10.020 Yeah.
00:05:10.420 Yeah.
00:05:10.680 Someone called me sassy the other day.
00:05:14.420 Did it hurt your feelings a little bit?
00:05:15.680 A little bit, yeah.
00:05:17.180 It's all right.
00:05:18.060 It's all right.
00:05:18.100 It's all right.
00:05:19.820 Yeah.
00:05:21.160 And I was just saying an opinion.
00:05:23.840 What did you say?
00:05:24.960 I was just like,
00:05:25.660 well, okay.
00:05:27.080 And I just moved on
00:05:28.000 because I thought like
00:05:30.040 if I said anything about it,
00:05:31.220 I'd be more sassy.
00:05:34.440 Because I don't care.
00:05:35.780 I'm all right.
00:05:38.660 What do you think is like
00:05:42.260 the worst ways
00:05:43.420 that women try to control men? 1.00
00:05:48.160 Vagina. 1.00
00:05:49.000 Oh, yeah.
00:05:50.200 That's the main.
00:05:52.600 I don't think that's enough.
00:05:53.500 That's always been the main thing.
00:05:54.400 You say the worst way.
00:05:55.320 Yeah, like how do you...
00:05:56.760 Through the children.
00:05:57.420 That's the worst thing a woman can do. 1.00
00:05:59.080 Is try to control a man through the...
00:06:00.780 That's one of the lowest, lowest things.
00:06:03.380 Have you seen that before?
00:06:05.740 She's done it.
00:06:06.740 No, never.
00:06:07.420 Ever, ever, ever, ever, ever.
00:06:08.960 Ever, never, never, never.
00:06:10.340 I completely disagree with any woman 1.00
00:06:12.460 who tries to, you know,
00:06:14.440 jeopardize any relationship
00:06:15.500 a child has with their other parent.
00:06:17.540 It's evil.
00:06:18.480 It is evil.
00:06:19.140 And a child needs that parent.
00:06:20.700 I think they should face jail time.
00:06:23.340 Yeah, I think it's disgusting.
00:06:24.180 If women that do that, 1.00
00:06:26.120 and I have seen it,
00:06:27.000 I mean, I've seen it on TV
00:06:27.740 and, you know, I've seen it around.
00:06:29.120 Yeah.
00:06:29.740 But that's,
00:06:31.280 I think that's one of the lowest things
00:06:33.200 a woman could do. 1.00
00:06:34.640 Yeah.
00:06:35.000 I feel,
00:06:35.520 I feel the worst way
00:06:36.800 that you can actually, like,
00:06:39.860 I feel like abuse
00:06:41.220 is, like, the worst way,
00:06:42.960 especially, like, emotional abuse
00:06:44.720 or, like,
00:06:45.920 in other cases, like,
00:06:47.140 I don't know.
00:06:47.460 That's the worst abuse
00:06:48.380 that any man could feel,
00:06:49.540 not being able to have access
00:06:50.520 to their children.
00:06:51.060 I want to change,
00:06:51.940 I want to change my answer.
00:06:53.620 I think women can emotionally abuse men, 1.00
00:06:55.680 but men can't emotionally abuse women.
00:06:57.700 And I feel like women are better 1.00
00:06:58.920 at emotionally abusing men,
00:07:00.480 like, when we get the time to do it.
00:07:02.140 Yeah.
00:07:02.440 I do.
00:07:03.100 Yeah.
00:07:04.300 What do you think?
00:07:05.860 I think you can emotionally abuse women. 1.00
00:07:08.260 Yeah.
00:07:08.760 I don't, I don't think so.
00:07:09.940 No?
00:07:11.220 You could be,
00:07:11.980 tell me why I'm wrong.
00:07:12.840 I just,
00:07:13.360 you can just,
00:07:14.080 yeah, you can say things.
00:07:16.040 Like what?
00:07:16.640 That chips away at,
00:07:18.080 you know,
00:07:18.400 you're fat. 0.72
00:07:19.300 There's a joke.
00:07:19.920 Is she fat? 1.00
00:07:20.640 She's bantle. 1.00
00:07:21.640 No, she's kind of fat, 1.00
00:07:22.740 but it's said as a joke.
00:07:23.460 Okay, well then,
00:07:24.300 now you're just truth telling.
00:07:25.580 And then after a while,
00:07:26.920 it just,
00:07:27.540 do you know what I mean?
00:07:28.520 But that's what,
00:07:29.400 it goes back,
00:07:29.920 it goes back to what you said though,
00:07:32.260 because you said,
00:07:33.180 you said before that,
00:07:35.780 you know,
00:07:37.040 women can't accept the truth. 1.00
00:07:39.420 Yeah.
00:07:40.040 So it's like,
00:07:40.920 you tell them in a jokey way,
00:07:43.040 and it's the truth,
00:07:43.780 and it's like,
00:07:44.160 fix it.
00:07:44.640 But then they like,
00:07:45.880 they go,
00:07:46.500 it's horrible,
00:07:48.080 so I can't accept it.
00:07:49.260 It's a joke as well.
00:07:50.460 That's even more painful.
00:07:52.240 Remember,
00:07:52.780 you said we have to just take it.
00:07:53.860 Whatever the man says,
00:07:54.620 we just have to take it
00:07:55.420 and just take it on the chin
00:07:56.360 and just,
00:07:56.720 well,
00:07:57.000 I think that's,
00:07:57.860 I think I'm not even saying.
00:07:58.980 Or give it back.
00:07:59.680 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:00.200 And then we all grow together.
00:08:01.500 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:02.500 You know,
00:08:03.060 and I'm not even saying like,
00:08:05.440 anyone's going to do it perfectly,
00:08:07.100 but I think the ideal
00:08:08.100 is just to listen,
00:08:09.740 right?
00:08:10.200 You know?
00:08:10.860 Communication, yeah.
00:08:11.980 No, no,
00:08:12.620 I think,
00:08:13.040 I think more communication is,
00:08:15.480 like,
00:08:15.800 think about this.
00:08:17.140 Has a woman ever,
00:08:18.160 like,
00:08:18.500 communicated with you,
00:08:20.060 and like,
00:08:20.760 then she's like,
00:08:21.520 oh,
00:08:21.680 I'm happy now,
00:08:22.380 I solved the problem.
00:08:23.600 There's the but.
00:08:24.320 She's never going to be happy.
00:08:26.400 We just want to.
00:08:27.060 There's always another problem.
00:08:28.020 There's always another problem.
00:08:29.320 There's always a new problem.
00:08:31.600 Yeah,
00:08:32.020 so I actually think
00:08:33.260 we should communicate less.
00:08:35.020 I think communication
00:08:35.840 is not the key.
00:08:37.600 Yeah.
00:08:38.060 Women love communication. 1.00
00:08:39.300 No,
00:08:39.620 because we just,
00:08:40.640 guys,
00:08:41.300 guys,
00:08:41.620 if I'm left,
00:08:42.560 like any chick,
00:08:43.340 if we're just left,
00:08:44.480 like,
00:08:45.120 like,
00:08:45.560 if the guy lets us communicate
00:08:47.000 as much as we want to,
00:08:49.440 we're just never going to
00:08:50.280 shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:08:51.560 Like,
00:08:51.740 we're just going to.
00:08:52.320 It's true.
00:08:53.540 No,
00:08:53.740 I don't,
00:08:54.320 no,
00:08:54.840 I don't think so.
00:08:55.740 I feel like
00:08:56.380 communication to an extent
00:08:58.320 would make sense,
00:08:59.220 but I feel like
00:08:59.900 if you don't communicate
00:09:01.760 as much to your partner,
00:09:02.940 you're never going to
00:09:03.600 really know your partner.
00:09:04.460 It's just going to be,
00:09:05.040 like,
00:09:05.280 two people who are going
00:09:06.100 to be mute in the house.
00:09:07.120 You know what's crazy?
00:09:08.080 Have you ever asked a woman 0.80
00:09:09.320 how their day was?
00:09:10.820 And it just goes on
00:09:12.180 and on.
00:09:13.720 Yeah.
00:09:13.860 Men hate that.
00:09:14.940 I'm not here like that, bro.
00:09:16.040 It's the polite thing to do,
00:09:18.400 but it just goes on
00:09:19.540 and on.
00:09:20.820 It's crazy.
00:09:21.420 And what if you don't ask her?
00:09:21.980 With really nothing situations as well.
00:09:23.760 Nothing happens,
00:09:24.540 but if you stop listening,
00:09:25.600 it's all fucked. 0.97
00:09:27.300 It's all just,
00:09:28.140 it's fucked up. 0.99
00:09:29.060 If you don't ask her
00:09:30.140 how her day was,
00:09:30.940 then you're not going to win either.
00:09:32.040 Do you know what?
00:09:32.620 Why haven't you asked her
00:09:33.400 about her day?
00:09:34.560 Like Pearl said,
00:09:35.300 maybe less communication,
00:09:36.360 more understanding.
00:09:37.040 Yeah.
00:09:37.500 Thank you.