JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Are Livestreaming The Birth of Their Children ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 Oh what a world that we're living in

00:00:13.900 I never thought I would see this much sin

00:00:19.860 But back in the old days it was behind the scenes

00:00:26.800 But now we're witnessing it all on live stream

00:00:32.860 Oh what a world that we're living in

00:00:40.740 I don't understand it

00:00:46.740 I know maybe it's a little bit off brand

00:00:52.700 But God help me understand

00:00:58.760 Alright guys you know the deal

00:01:02.920 Word in the chat I will write a song

00:01:06.200 So today you already know where we're going with this

00:01:10.760 Let me turn on my live chat on my phone 0.99

00:01:12.720 So someone put what the fuck 0.99

00:01:16.880 So what the fuck 0.99

00:01:18.980 I guess I'm out of luck 0.99

00:01:21.840 I was born in 2025 I know

00:01:25.900 Put on a show

00:01:29.700 Get on the radio

00:01:31.980 Tell me what everybody knows

00:01:40.140 One, wait

00:01:42.920 One, two, three

00:01:46.520 I guess it's meant to be

00:01:49.380 A, B, C, you and I

00:01:54.180 Someone said I'm doing a good job

00:01:59.080 I guess I'm better than your heartthrob

00:02:04.140 Somebody said I'm doing a good job

00:02:09.720 Shout out to the guy in the chat named Rob

00:02:14.960 One, two, three

00:02:17.960 It's meant to be

00:02:20.880 Okay

00:02:23.240 Alright let's see what else we got

00:02:27.480 The ick factor on live streaming birth is still there

00:02:34.060 But I would still qualify it as wholesome

00:02:36.440 Let me try a different strumming pattern

00:02:39.500 So if you put a word in the chat

00:02:43.880 I will write a song

00:02:45.440 Off the top of my head

00:02:47.600 Otherwise I'll just do stuff for the topic today

00:02:51.320 When does the album drop?

00:02:56.420 Well I would really

00:02:58.580 To have an album

00:02:59.740 I would need the attention span

00:03:02.320 To finish some of these songs

00:03:03.940 Because what you guys get on live stream

00:03:07.560 Is really as far as I go with it

00:03:09.800 Obtuse

00:03:10.400 I can do it a little better on the guitar

00:03:13.500 Because I think I'm further along

00:03:14.960 Okay so if I was going to write a song

00:03:19.300 About Obtuse

00:03:20.560 What I would do

00:03:22.280 Is I would probably try to make it

00:03:25.980 Maybe a love song 0.95

00:03:27.880 Or crap 0.92

00:03:30.420 Oh boy 1.00

00:03:32.680 You're being kind of obtuse 0.99

00:03:35.560 What the hell 0.96

00:03:38.660 I ain't some moose

00:03:40.860 Get some moose

00:03:41.940 Boy

00:03:43.320 You're being a little obtuse

00:03:46.220 I am not the

00:03:49.500 Am I the girl you're gonna choose 0.86

00:03:53.160 Kind of

00:03:53.700 Turn up the light

00:03:56.540 Oh

00:03:57.160 Okay wait hold on

00:03:59.600 We can do something

00:04:00.420 You said

00:04:01.020 You said turn up the light

00:04:03.340 You said

00:04:04.200 Turn up the light

00:04:05.880 I think we're gonna fight

00:04:08.560 Because the chat always thinks

00:04:11.460 That they're right

00:04:12.860 You don't know how to put on

00:04:18.220 You don't know how to put on a show

00:04:22.900 I'm not trying to be rude

00:04:25.580 But you don't know

00:04:27.080 Now we got Jesus is God Almighty

00:04:32.900 Okay

00:04:33.240 My God

00:04:36.620 Is an awesome God

00:04:38.180 He reigns

00:04:39.240 From heaven above

00:04:40.640 And with

00:04:41.780 wisdom, power, and love

00:04:43.480 My God is an awesome God

00:04:45.740 Jesus is the God

00:04:48.300 Of the Almighty

00:04:49.420 I know that my God

00:04:53.240 Is gonna keep fighting

00:04:54.900 And I know that kingdom comes

00:04:59.260 Maybe that he is the one

00:05:01.240 Oh my God

00:05:03.000 Is gonna keep fighting

00:05:04.900 And I'm gonna keep riding

00:05:07.780 Now you want women hitting the wall 1.00

00:05:12.740 Okay

00:05:13.080 To the window

00:05:15.560 To the wall

00:05:18.180 To the window

00:05:21.020 To the window

00:05:24.020 To the wall

00:05:26.680 Women are gonna keep hitting the wall 1.00

00:05:31.380 Their looks are gonna fall 0.95

00:05:34.040 When you hit the wall

00:05:36.660 We'll try to stall

00:05:39.340 With Botox and plastic surgery

00:05:42.840 But we all know the wall is undefeated

00:05:47.260 Let me see what else

00:05:52.840 Hold on, hold on

00:05:54.020 Now we're getting a lot of requests

00:05:56.260 We got

00:05:57.680 You want a song about labor contractions?

00:06:02.600 Okay

00:06:02.760 Alright, you guys are testing me today

00:06:05.260 Labor contractions

00:06:09.280 Alright

00:06:10.020 Labor

00:06:12.600 Contractions

00:06:14.880 Subtractions

00:06:18.320 Refractions

00:06:20.220 Okay

00:06:23.580 That's all I got

00:06:24.680 Alright

00:06:34.020 Let me see what else we got

00:06:35.260 I've already got a

00:06:36.500 Let's start drama

00:06:37.920 Between Pearlie and Taylor Swift

00:06:39.860 A taco stand

00:06:41.220 For the trad girls

00:06:58.180 Baking bread

00:06:59.680 Is very on brand

00:07:02.020 A couple cups of flour

00:07:06.560 Water

00:07:07.380 Yeast

00:07:08.140 You got a man

00:07:09.540 But I'm trying to turn the tide

00:07:14.740 I'm trying to do something right

00:07:17.780 We gotta change the brand

00:07:27.200 Let's go over to the taco stand

00:07:31.780 You can get some steak

00:07:38.680 And tequila

00:07:40.040 You don't need to get a taco

00:07:44.240 Maybe a burrito

00:07:45.780 I know that I like a lot of mosquito 1.00

00:07:51.980 Let's go over to the taco stand

00:08:06.240 Let's go to the taco stand

00:08:11.180 Let's go to the taco stand

00:08:16.380 I need some steak and tequila

00:08:21.260 Please help me see

00:08:25.620 Senorita

00:08:27.000 Oh, and tortillas

00:08:31.520 You got it, Jessica

00:08:33.040 Do you guys like the piano

00:08:37.480 Do you guys like the piano or the guitar better?

00:08:38.740 I think

00:08:39.620 I'm a little faster on the guitar

00:08:42.680 But I sometimes have a hard time

00:08:44.920 Keeping the same beat

00:08:46.040 And I always end up doing the same chords

00:08:48.640 I'm not saying she's a gold digger 0.58

00:08:56.780 I could go

00:08:57.360 I could do like a sadder song

00:09:00.560 Now I'm not saying

00:09:07.700 She's trying to take your money 1.00

00:09:11.520 Women, we do something that's kind of funny 1.00

00:09:20.540 Now I'm not saying

00:09:26.200 She's a gold digger 1.00

00:09:29.120 But she is not going with a bro

00:09:35.500 I'm not doing that one

00:09:39.640 I'm not finishing that one

00:09:44.300 You're not going to trick me today

00:09:45.880 This 304 is getting flown to Dubai

00:09:55.000 There's no way they're going to the taco stand with us

00:09:58.420 Oh, you could make it a sad song

00:10:00.240 She, she used to love me

00:10:06.160 With the taco stand

00:10:09.620 But now she's got a new man 0.75

00:10:14.600 In Dubai

00:10:18.180 Where she flies

00:10:19.820 Okay, I think I'm songed out for the day

00:10:22.800 I don't know

00:10:25.360 If you enjoy that, let me know in the chat

00:10:28.680 I didn't do it for a few days

00:10:30.800 Because sometimes viewership drops when I do it

00:10:33.500 So I'm like, alright

00:10:34.300 I'll put the song away

00:10:37.060 But, you know, it's like

00:10:39.460 They complain when you bring it

00:10:41.380 You bring your musical talent

00:10:42.860 And they say it's not good enough

00:10:44.300 So you're like, alright

00:10:45.860 Never mind, guys

00:10:47.300 And then you leave

00:10:48.820 And it's like

00:10:49.780 You ever leave a woman 0.52

00:10:51.180 And she hated you when you were there

00:10:53.020 But she missed you when you were gone

00:10:55.420 It's, you know

00:10:56.060 That's just kind of how I felt

00:10:57.340 You can't say

00:10:59.960 Taco stand

00:11:02.020 Gracias, senorita

00:11:03.720 More taco stand songs

00:11:07.600 Alright, if you're saying encore

00:11:09.860 I guess

00:11:10.380 You know, if you guys are begging

00:11:12.240 If you guys are begging

00:11:14.240 You know, I mean

00:11:15.760 I don't want to

00:11:18.180 It's just

00:11:18.980 Ugh

00:11:19.560 Well

00:11:21.560 I guess one more

00:11:23.360 Couldn't hurt

00:11:24.080 Look at what else we sing about the taco stand

00:11:32.220 So if you go to the taco route

00:11:40.040 We could do

00:11:40.620 Flour, tortillas, or should we get corn

00:11:48.840 I'm like, sir 0.98

00:11:52.200 When the hell were you born

00:11:55.600 I guess chipotle doesn't count as Mexican food 0.93

00:12:02.240 You gotta go buy tacos from some hood, dude 1.00

00:12:08.580 You gotta get a shot of tequila with it, too

00:12:14.820 Otherwise, these hoes start acting brand new 1.00

00:12:20.940 Now the chat's saying

00:12:24.620 Chipotle doesn't count 1.00

00:12:26.900 Fuck you guys 1.00

00:12:30.600 I love it, and it does 1.00

00:12:32.860 Now we're getting to the meat

00:12:44.020 There's something a little bit about the meat you get on the street

00:12:50.940 You can get chicken, steak, or something else

00:12:58.140 It's the hot sauce or mild

00:13:04.820 I guess on real tacos they don't have rice

00:13:12.560 I should ask all the Mexicans' wives 1.00

00:13:18.520 You can get lettuce and tomato, too 0.69

00:13:24.320 Now the chat is gonna put in there two cents 0.97

00:13:32.900 Oh

00:13:34.840 Okay, app update

00:13:37.560 App update is issuing a complaint

00:13:42.520 He's saying this

00:13:46.580 It doesn't rhyme

00:13:47.480 Well, what are you a saint?

00:13:51.440 I'm gonna need to hear

00:13:52.980 I'm gonna need to hear

00:13:54.080 The songs you can write

00:13:56.140 With the chat

00:13:58.540 Giving you words all night

00:14:00.580 Let's hear it

00:14:02.260 Oh, the chorus can be Taco Tuesday

00:14:06.220 That's good

00:14:06.940 Taco

00:14:08.360 Taco

00:14:10.640 Tuesday

00:14:12.520 Taco

00:14:16.520 Tuesday

00:14:18.240 Taco

00:14:22.200 Tuesday

00:14:23.940 Tuesday

00:14:24.440 Ooh

00:14:33.240 Señorita

00:14:37.120 Thank you

00:14:39.480 Thank you

00:14:40.320 Tell the music producers out there

00:14:43.760 You know, I've had some people say

00:14:45.100 Pearl, I want to produce you an album

00:14:46.680 And I say, I don't know why you would

00:14:48.000 But if you want to

00:14:49.520 You can strip those and put them on Spotify

00:14:51.860 I don't, I don't really care

00:14:54.120 Otherwise, it's just

00:14:57.120 I've had people ask

00:14:58.460 I know it's shocking

00:14:59.360 But

00:14:59.760 Let me

00:15:00.880 Let me continue

00:15:01.940 Someone said, wow, that was beautiful

00:15:06.580 It really was, wasn't it?

00:15:08.020 Thank you

00:15:08.440 Thank you very much

00:15:10.200 You know

00:15:10.740 You know what's crazy?

00:15:12.940 There's men

00:15:13.640 There's men

00:15:14.740 That have like 20 views on YouTube videos

00:15:17.960 And they're like expert pianists

00:15:20.580 And all this stuff

00:15:21.540 And I got people watching me writing like

00:15:25.600 Songs about tacos

00:15:27.060 You know what I mean?

00:15:28.220 It's like

00:15:28.760 What a time to be alive

00:15:31.100 All right, well thank you guys for tuning in

00:15:36.860 We're going to start with some

00:15:40.960 Stories we got going on in the news

00:15:44.120 More?

00:15:45.340 A little more

00:15:46.060 All right

00:15:46.720 Did we

00:15:47.600 Oh, we moved this

00:15:48.840 I was trying to go back to the old spot

00:15:50.800 I didn't realize

00:15:51.520 Okay

00:15:52.460 Yeah, yeah, no, I did

00:15:54.480 I did

00:15:54.860 All right

00:15:58.260 So we're going to react to a few things I saw on TikTok

00:16:00.920 Before we get to the main topic

00:16:02.940 Or on, not TikTok

00:16:03.920 Twitter

00:16:04.380 So we're talking about how this guy said

00:16:09.340 Women weren't allowed to have credit cards until 50 years ago 1.00

00:16:12.120 Because of sexism

00:16:13.300 As a sarcastic comment to this video

00:16:17.800 To this video of a woman talking about her student loan debt

00:16:20.540 I recently posted about the fact I'm 26 years old

00:16:23.360 And I'm in $95,487.73 worth of debt

00:16:27.900 And I want to talk about it

00:16:29.140 Up until 24 hours ago

00:16:30.740 I did not know that was actually the total of all of my debt

00:16:33.800 Credit cards and student loans

00:16:35.400 That number also does not include my auto loan

00:16:37.900 And if we are adding in my auto loan

00:16:39.780 The total number is $110,938.83

00:16:44.060 Since totaling up all of my debt

00:16:46.300 I don't think I've actually gotten one good breath of oxygen

00:16:48.840 In the last 24 hours

00:16:50.560 I feel like there is an elephant sitting on my chest

00:16:53.900 And I don't think I can sit still

00:16:55.660 Because all I can

00:16:56.440 Now imagine

00:16:57.220 She probably went to some out-of-state private school

00:17:00.840 When she could have just went to community college

00:17:04.060 But the out-of-state Big Ten school has what?

00:17:07.520 The ability to party and bang hot guys

00:17:09.760 Sorry

00:17:10.300 I've heard the men at Big Ten schools are very attractive

00:17:13.460 I don't know

00:17:14.400 I never went to a Big Ten school

00:17:15.960 But you have to understand

00:17:18.160 That's what women are communicating subtly 1.00

00:17:20.760 You have to understand this

00:17:21.760 Women don't like average men so much 1.00

00:17:23.980 That they are willing to take on this much debt

00:17:26.780 Instead of be with you

00:17:28.400 That's how

00:17:30.920 That's the next time you want to like

00:17:32.660 Step in for a woman on a train 1.00

00:17:34.420 Solve women in your life's problems for free 1.00

00:17:38.380 Just remember

00:17:40.680 That women are communicating

00:17:42.740 I would rather have $95,000 worth of debt

00:17:47.780 Than be with you

00:17:49.560 When women come around 1.00

00:17:52.720 You know when the girl that puts you in the friend zone 0.93

00:17:54.880 Says hey

00:17:55.800 I'm back

00:17:57.880 Just remember

00:17:59.340 She was communicating

00:18:00.720 I would rather have

00:18:03.360 I would rather have

00:18:04.780 Slavery level debt 1.00

00:18:06.720 Than be with your sorry ass 1.00

00:18:09.300 Remember 1.00

00:18:10.860 Remember that

00:18:12.720 So

00:18:14.840 Keep repeating

00:18:16.820 Is $95,487.73

00:18:20.700 All of this debt was racked up

00:18:22.960 Through decisions I made

00:18:24.040 Between the ages of 18 and 26

00:18:25.860 My first associate's degree

00:18:27.320 I got from a community college

00:18:28.500 And I didn't have to pay for it because of the Pell grant

00:18:30.560 But I decided to go to a university

00:18:32.360 And got my bachelor's degree

00:18:33.540 Which is where I really started to rack up the debt

00:18:35.460 There it is

00:18:36.340 There it is

00:18:37.080 I told you

00:18:37.800 I told you

00:18:39.700 I said like when

00:18:40.900 I wonder what school she went to

00:18:43.340 Then in the last two years

00:18:44.520 I decided to finish a nursing degree

00:18:46.080 At a community college in the last two years

00:18:47.940 But that's where I started to rack up even more debt

00:18:50.120 What really sucks is realizing that

00:18:51.720 The majority of these student loans 0.73

00:18:53.040 Is not from tuition

00:18:54.100 It's actually from living expenses

00:18:55.760 And living way above my means

00:18:57.500 My debt comprises of two credit cards

00:18:59.540 Five federal student loans

00:19:01.020 And five private Sally Mae loans

00:19:02.840 I can handle the federal student loans

00:19:04.760 But when I tell you Sally Mae is bending me over 0.68

00:19:06.800 And not in a way I like

00:19:07.980 It's actually insane

00:19:09.220 Sally Mae is genuinely evil

00:19:10.940 And they prey on young students

00:19:12.420 And the reason why they take advantage of young students

00:19:14.740 Is because they know if you're reaching out

00:19:16.360 To a private loan like that

00:19:17.620 You genuinely need it

00:19:18.920 Out of the five Sally Mae loans I have

00:19:20.860 One of the interest rates that is the highest

00:19:22.600 Is 16.28%

00:19:24.620 The lowest interest rate I have with Sally Mae

00:19:27.300 Is 9.88%

00:19:28.640 Now my federal student loans are between 4 and 6%

00:19:31.240 Which I think is manageable

00:19:32.360 Although I had parents who would tell me

00:19:34.600 What I should or shouldn't do

00:19:35.820 I never had anybody really sit me down

00:19:37.720 And fully teach me financial literacy

00:19:39.980 Translation

00:19:41.040 The internet is free

00:19:43.000 And I was too lazy

00:19:44.780 To learn

00:19:46.700 Look

00:19:47.160 I in my life have taken some very shitty deals

00:19:50.780 Okay

00:19:51.180 I have had to learn the hard way

00:19:53.600 Many times in my life

00:19:54.980 But every time I've taken an L

00:19:58.300 I like to think I eat it with the chin

00:20:00.500 Like I like to think I just eat it

00:20:03.180 Do you know what I mean?

00:20:03.780 Where I'm just like

00:20:04.600 Ooh 1.00

00:20:05.900 That was stupid 1.00

00:20:06.860 You know 1.00

00:20:07.360 I'm not going to sit here 1.00

00:20:08.560 And pretend I haven't done stupid things 0.99

00:20:10.400 I absolutely have 1.00

00:20:11.540 I am no better

00:20:12.240 I am no better than

00:20:13.980 Really a lot of women out there 1.00

00:20:15.820 But what I don't like doing

00:20:18.740 Is when I make a mistake

00:20:19.960 Or I mess up in life

00:20:21.060 I really

00:20:22.200 I just

00:20:23.140 I really think I take L's 1.00

00:20:25.180 Like in an art form

00:20:26.500 I really think I have the ability

00:20:28.380 To just eat an L

00:20:29.580 Now I don't want to get into it

00:20:31.280 But I signed a contract

00:20:32.460 A few years ago

00:20:34.420 Back before I was

00:20:36.120 I was famous

00:20:37.560 And I'll just say

00:20:38.420 This was a very

00:20:39.120 I spent

00:20:40.580 This cost me a lot of money 1.00

00:20:42.000 This was a very stupid contract 1.00

00:20:43.880 That I 1.00

00:20:44.680 I basically

00:20:46.680 Took

00:20:47.660 And it

00:20:48.300 It cost me

00:20:49.320 Probably over a hundred grand

00:20:51.080 This

00:20:51.480 And not

00:20:52.180 I did not make enough money

00:20:54.160 For it to make sense

00:20:55.620 But

00:20:59.340 When it goes wrong

00:21:04.560 I always

00:21:05.460 I just always think to myself 1.00

00:21:07.480 That I was an idiot 1.00

00:21:09.360 Do you know what I mean? 1.00

00:21:10.160 Like that's always my

00:21:11.280 Like sometimes in life

00:21:13.480 There's people that learn

00:21:14.660 The easy way and the hard way

00:21:16.100 And at times you learn the hard way

00:21:17.740 You know

00:21:18.060 Like when a guy 0.98

00:21:19.100 Spends a bunch of money

00:21:20.260 On a ring for a girl 0.98

00:21:21.460 And then she like

00:21:22.280 Keeps it forever

00:21:23.380 That's him learning the hard way

00:21:25.140 You ever told a guy

00:21:25.880 Not to simp?

00:21:27.260 But men

00:21:27.740 When they take that L 1.00

00:21:28.860 They realize how stupid they were 1.00

00:21:31.100 I mean 1.00

00:21:31.500 A lot of times men

00:21:32.660 They don't

00:21:33.500 The consequence

00:21:34.580 Kind of

00:21:35.040 Like when they get a consequence

00:21:36.560 They're like

00:21:39.600 Oh well isn't it

00:21:40.540 My own actions

00:21:41.280 But she's gonna say

00:21:42.180 Oh I just didn't understand

00:21:43.360 Well

00:21:44.000 If you didn't understand

00:21:45.180 It's your own fault

00:21:45.920 And I've been in that situation

00:21:47.360 And that was

00:21:48.020 My

00:21:48.560 It was my own fault

00:21:49.740 It was my own fault 1.00

00:21:50.920 It was very stupid 1.00

00:21:51.760 So I just don't like it 1.00

00:21:55.820 When it's gotta be

00:21:56.580 Always someone else's fault

00:21:57.680 It's kinda like 0.99

00:21:58.180 When these porn stars 1.00

00:21:59.080 Do porn 0.98

00:21:59.780 Why can't you guys 0.99

00:22:01.340 Just say 0.99

00:22:01.780 I did porn 0.85

00:22:02.520 Cause I enjoyed 1.00

00:22:03.280 Having sex on camera 0.98

00:22:04.580 I loved the thrill 0.99

00:22:06.740 Of the gang bangs 0.98

00:22:07.940 Do you know

00:22:08.380 I loved

00:22:08.860 I loved throwing

00:22:10.140 Why can't it be that

00:22:11.860 Why does it always have to be

00:22:13.940 That I was

00:22:14.460 I was lost

00:22:15.680 And broken

00:22:16.360 And coerced

00:22:17.560 You know

00:22:18.180 When you sleep with a guy

00:22:19.820 That doesn't call you back

00:22:21.100 That's life

00:22:21.800 Why don't you just say

00:22:23.640 Why don't you just say

00:22:24.400 I went for someone

00:22:26.860 Out of my league

00:22:27.600 And it didn't work out

00:22:28.440 Why is it always

00:22:29.160 That he was the manipulator

00:22:30.700 Why can't it just be like

00:22:31.860 I wasn't good enough

00:22:32.880 And I out

00:22:34.280 I outdid myself

00:22:36.700 You know

00:22:38.220 But it's always gotta be

00:22:39.300 Somebody else's fault

00:22:40.540 And this is just

00:22:41.680 Over and over again

00:22:42.740 To the point

00:22:43.440 I just

00:22:44.700 My gender just

00:22:45.800 I wish if we could

00:22:48.420 Really develop

00:22:49.240 One skill together

00:22:50.520 As women

00:22:51.140 Is the ability

00:22:52.380 To take L's better 0.99

00:22:53.740 You know

00:22:54.380 Men take L's all the time 1.00

00:22:57.260 And at times

00:22:57.940 You're gonna do 1.00

00:22:58.640 Something stupid 1.00

00:22:59.360 And it's gonna be 1.00

00:23:00.000 Embarrassing

00:23:00.640 I mean that's part of

00:23:01.380 The ups and downs

00:23:02.340 Of life

00:23:02.920 People that take

00:23:04.720 No risks

00:23:05.620 Are generally the ones

00:23:06.860 That have never 1.00

00:23:07.360 Looked stupid 1.00

00:23:08.100 And never had 1.00

00:23:08.780 Ups and downs

00:23:09.480 That's part of life

00:23:11.600 And I think in general

00:23:13.720 I would rather have

00:23:15.360 A life well lived

00:23:16.780 Where there are

00:23:17.940 Ups and downs

00:23:18.640 And you make mistakes

00:23:19.700 Rather than one

00:23:21.040 Where nobody

00:23:21.540 Takes any risk

00:23:22.600 You ever meet

00:23:23.600 Those people

00:23:24.280 And it's like

00:23:25.840 The people that have

00:23:26.500 Just barely ever left

00:23:27.660 They've barely done

00:23:28.660 Anything in life

00:23:29.500 You know

00:23:30.680 They never

00:23:31.200 They never went

00:23:33.340 For the guy

00:23:33.900 Or the girl

00:23:34.360 They wanted

00:23:34.840 They never took

00:23:35.400 The shot

00:23:35.760 They never went

00:23:36.220 For the job

00:23:36.860 They wanted

00:23:37.300 They never moved

00:23:38.080 To that big city

00:23:39.020 They wanted to live in 0.94

00:23:40.060 And it's just like

00:23:42.660 A sad existence

00:23:43.880 But we have to

00:23:45.400 Understand as women 1.00

00:23:46.580 There are times

00:23:47.960 You know

00:23:48.540 There are times

00:23:50.800 When you're gonna

00:23:51.300 Date the guy

00:23:52.580 And it's not gonna

00:23:53.620 Work out

00:23:54.220 That's life

00:23:55.580 There are times

00:23:56.500 When you're gonna

00:23:56.960 Go to school

00:23:57.620 And you expect

00:23:58.280 To get a high

00:23:58.820 Paying job

00:23:59.640 And you don't

00:24:00.660 Get it

00:24:01.140 That's part of life

00:24:02.200 Now there's mistakes

00:24:03.520 That obviously

00:24:04.120 Can be mitigated

00:24:05.000 And avoided

00:24:05.680 Like very obviously

00:24:08.520 But we're not gonna

00:24:09.900 But my issue with us

00:24:12.780 Is why can't we

00:24:13.600 Just make a mistake

00:24:14.580 And own it

00:24:15.280 Why can't you know

00:24:16.400 Yeah

00:24:17.860 I got too fat

00:24:20.040 Yeah

00:24:21.420 I took too much debt

00:24:22.900 It wasn't because

00:24:24.000 I didn't understand

00:24:24.980 It was because

00:24:25.760 I ate too much

00:24:27.080 I went for somebody

00:24:28.860 Out of my league

00:24:29.740 Do you know what I mean

00:24:31.040 There's like a list

00:24:31.900 Of like

00:24:32.320 I signed up

00:24:34.220 For a degree

00:24:34.700 That didn't make

00:24:35.400 Any money

00:24:35.880 Because I wanted

00:24:38.200 To do something

00:24:39.000 I was passionate about

00:24:40.240 Instead of doing

00:24:40.880 Something that made money

00:24:42.100 Women don't make 1.00

00:24:46.640 Mistakes

00:24:47.240 Pearl

00:24:47.620 Look

00:24:49.460 And I'm being honest

00:24:50.680 I'm passionate

00:24:51.320 About this

00:24:51.940 I would rather

00:24:55.980 Have a life

00:24:56.720 Well lived

00:24:57.600 Than a life

00:24:58.420 Where you

00:24:58.840 Never took a risk

00:25:00.440 In life

00:25:01.040 Do you know

00:25:01.780 What I mean

00:25:02.140 It's kind of like

00:25:02.940 Ask the girl out 1.00

00:25:06.120 That's out of your league 1.00

00:25:07.160 Shoot your shot 1.00

00:25:08.840 With the guy 1.00

00:25:09.380 You like

00:25:09.740 Do you know

00:25:10.020 What I mean

00:25:10.280 It's like

00:25:10.680 Go

00:25:11.640 Go apply for that job

00:25:13.840 You're not qualified for

00:25:15.200 Move to a city

00:25:16.260 Where you don't know anybody

00:25:17.460 F it

00:25:18.560 You know

00:25:18.920 You got

00:25:19.320 You have one life

00:25:20.620 To live

00:25:21.200 You have one life

00:25:22.200 You know

00:25:22.940 You know

00:25:26.400 And

00:25:28.280 What I just

00:25:30.340 Don't like

00:25:31.440 Is 0.88

00:25:31.880 If you want

00:25:32.940 To take the risk

00:25:34.100 Accept that

00:25:35.400 Sometimes it will

00:25:36.340 Not work out

00:25:37.200 You know

00:25:38.080 You could have

00:25:38.640 There's housewives 1.00

00:25:39.320 They have 10 kids

00:25:40.160 And they get divorced

00:25:40.880 It doesn't

00:25:41.440 It didn't work out

00:25:42.500 That's life

00:25:44.160 That was a risk

00:25:45.080 And that's

00:25:46.080 One of my issues

00:25:46.880 With feminism 0.94

00:25:47.640 Is 0.88

00:25:48.760 Women want 1.00

00:25:49.820 You know

00:25:50.980 One thing it talks about

00:25:52.440 If you get married young

00:25:53.440 That takes the risk

00:25:54.240 That he might leave you

00:25:55.180 When you're old

00:25:55.800 And that's a risk

00:25:57.860 That could happen

00:25:58.680 That's life

00:26:00.100 Now

00:26:02.600 It's not really

00:26:03.300 Statistically likely

00:26:04.460 But

00:26:05.660 If it happens

00:26:06.780 All

00:26:07.980 All you can do

00:26:08.800 Is control yourself

00:26:09.740 You can't control

00:26:10.500 Other people

00:26:11.160 And

00:26:16.020 I just wish

00:26:17.160 As women

00:26:17.700 I really wish

00:26:18.660 We could just

00:26:19.440 We could just

00:26:21.600 Accept that

00:26:22.420 We made a mistake

00:26:23.360 Without blaming

00:26:24.300 Anybody else

00:26:25.120 And I think

00:26:26.700 There's some psychology

00:26:27.740 We don't want to be

00:26:28.540 Seen as bad people

00:26:29.680 So we're just

00:26:30.220 Constantly

00:26:30.780 Like not wanting

00:26:31.520 To be seen

00:26:31.980 As a bad person

00:26:32.900 But again

00:26:34.980 I think the most

00:26:35.700 Freedom

00:26:36.120 Comes in life

00:26:37.300 When you just

00:26:37.860 Don't

00:26:38.100 Do you think

00:26:38.480 Leonardo DiCaprio

00:26:39.740 Cares if you

00:26:40.540 See him as a good

00:26:41.380 Person

00:26:41.860 While he bangs 0.97

00:26:42.880 18 year olds 0.66

00:26:43.800 On his yacht

00:26:44.460 Now

00:26:47.400 I'm not saying

00:26:48.260 That's what you

00:26:48.880 Should do

00:26:49.460 Right

00:26:50.200 But

00:26:50.920 When you spend

00:26:54.560 Your life

00:26:54.960 Caring about

00:26:55.720 The way others

00:26:56.320 See you

00:26:56.980 You're going

00:27:01.060 To be able

00:27:01.400 To be manipulated

00:27:02.180 By anybody

00:27:03.160 Because

00:27:04.340 You care

00:27:05.180 About their

00:27:05.640 Opinion

00:27:06.120 You know

00:27:06.880 I don't know

00:27:08.900 I'm pro

00:27:09.420 Live life

00:27:10.100 But except

00:27:10.580 Except that

00:27:11.280 It might

00:27:11.580 Come and have

00:27:13.080 L's with it

00:27:13.780 It just happens

00:27:14.520 I never had

00:27:15.920 Anybody sit

00:27:16.500 Me down

00:27:16.900 And really

00:27:17.420 Explain to me

00:27:18.160 The scope

00:27:18.680 Of what I

00:27:19.180 Was doing

00:27:19.720 And what it

00:27:20.500 Would look

00:27:20.900 Like in the

00:27:21.380 Future when

00:27:21.840 I had to

00:27:22.160 Pay for it

00:27:22.720 In the moment

00:27:23.460 All of the

00:27:23.900 Student loans

00:27:24.400 Just felt like

00:27:25.120 Fake money

00:27:25.660 Because they

00:27:26.340 Just kept

00:27:26.700 Coming and

00:27:27.360 I just

00:27:27.660 Kept spending

00:27:28.120 I don't

00:27:28.840 Regret any

00:27:29.340 Of the

00:27:29.600 Experiences

00:27:30.160 I've

00:27:30.480 Had

00:27:30.760 Okay

00:27:33.460 I think

00:27:37.880 That's an

00:27:38.320 Ego thing

00:27:39.100 Do you know

00:27:39.620 What

00:27:39.940 Because when

00:27:41.280 I signed

00:27:41.820 That bad

00:27:42.360 Contract

00:27:42.920 I'll tell

00:27:43.680 You what

00:27:43.900 I absolutely

00:27:44.940 Regretted

00:27:45.620 Signing it

00:27:46.260 But there's

00:27:48.520 No reason

00:27:49.000 To dwell

00:27:49.680 On it

00:27:50.240 Because you

00:27:50.780 Can't do

00:27:51.180 Anything about

00:27:51.820 It now

00:27:52.160 You can't

00:27:52.600 Live in

00:27:52.880 The past

00:27:53.480 Right

00:27:53.780 You can

00:27:54.560 Only

00:27:54.860 Live in

00:27:57.080 The now

00:27:57.580 And make

00:27:58.020 Decisions

00:27:58.640 With the

00:27:59.020 Information you

00:27:59.860 Have now

00:28:00.340 And sometimes

00:28:00.980 I knew

00:28:02.220 Somebody

00:28:02.740 Who made

00:28:04.200 A very

00:28:04.520 Bad

00:28:04.800 Relationship

00:28:05.620 Choice

00:28:05.980 When she

00:28:06.300 Was younger

00:28:06.760 She ended

00:28:07.420 Up having

00:28:07.700 Kids with

00:28:08.120 This guy

00:28:08.460 It didn't

00:28:08.720 Work out

00:28:09.220 And you

00:28:12.720 Know it was

00:28:13.040 Clearly over

00:28:13.960 And there

00:28:14.500 Are times

00:28:15.280 Where I

00:28:16.300 Would always

00:28:16.680 Joke with

00:28:17.120 Her that

00:28:17.380 90% of

00:28:18.140 The time

00:28:18.480 I'd say

00:28:18.820 Work it

00:28:19.180 Out with

00:28:19.420 The father

00:28:19.820 Or your

00:28:20.120 Kids

00:28:20.360 But in

00:28:20.640 This case

00:28:21.140 This is

00:28:21.420 One of

00:28:21.600 The few

00:28:21.880 Cases

00:28:22.300 Where I

00:28:22.600 Was like

00:28:22.980 Yeah

00:28:23.860 I mean

00:28:24.220 You can't

00:28:24.940 Because I

00:28:25.300 Would say

00:28:25.620 Like drugs

00:28:26.620 Is something

00:28:27.120 That are

00:28:27.420 Pretty tough

00:28:27.960 To

00:28:28.120 Like if you

00:28:28.580 Get involved

00:28:29.080 With a

00:28:29.400 Dude that's

00:28:29.800 Into drugs

00:28:30.220 That's

00:28:30.720 Pretty tough

00:28:31.280 I don't

00:28:33.280 Know if

00:28:33.540 I don't

00:28:33.740 Know if

00:28:33.900 You guys

00:28:34.160 Have

00:28:34.300 I've

00:28:34.640 Seen

00:28:35.120 Addicts

00:28:35.720 Over the

00:28:36.120 Years

00:28:36.420 And that's

00:28:37.120 Just not

00:28:37.860 But you

00:28:40.460 Know look

00:28:40.880 It's

00:28:41.380 And what

00:28:43.380 I told

00:28:43.860 Her was 0.93

00:28:44.520 You have

00:28:46.300 The information

00:28:47.080 Now you

00:28:47.860 Can't dwell

00:28:48.400 In the

00:28:48.680 Past and

00:28:49.200 I understand

00:28:49.700 That mindset

00:28:50.460 You can't

00:28:51.540 Right you

00:28:51.820 Can only

00:28:52.140 Control what

00:28:52.740 You do

00:28:53.000 Moving

00:28:53.320 Forward

00:28:53.720 But I

00:28:56.720 Still

00:28:57.480 Think

00:28:57.800 There was

00:28:58.140 Some

00:28:58.400 Humility

00:28:59.020 In saying

00:28:59.540 You regret

00:29:00.060 Things

00:29:00.600 Yeah okay

00:29:01.820 Between the

00:29:02.880 Ages of

00:29:03.220 18 and

00:29:03.860 26

00:29:04.300 Or any

00:29:05.060 Of the

00:29:05.260 Things that

00:29:05.580 I've

00:29:05.740 Done

00:29:06.000 But I

00:29:06.600 Do wish

00:29:07.020 That I

00:29:07.320 Manage

00:29:07.600 My

00:29:07.760 Finances

00:29:08.240 Way

00:29:08.660 Better

00:29:08.900 Than

00:29:09.120 This

00:29:09.400 If I

00:29:10.080 Snowball

00:29:10.560 All of

00:29:10.980 My

00:29:11.180 Loans

00:29:11.580 At the

00:29:12.080 Current

00:29:12.320 Rates

00:29:12.660 That they

00:29:12.960 Are

00:29:13.120 Without

00:29:13.380 Consolidating

00:29:14.080 Them

00:29:14.320 I can

00:29:14.880 Pay

00:29:15.020 All of

00:29:15.340 This

00:29:15.500 Off

00:29:15.700 By

00:29:15.880 2032

00:29:16.600 It's

00:29:16.940 Really

00:29:17.100 Sad

00:29:17.380 Because

00:29:17.580 I'm

00:29:17.720 Excited

00:29:18.040 About

00:29:18.260 Starting

00:29:18.560 My

00:29:18.720 First

00:29:18.900 Nursing

00:29:19.180 Job

00:29:19.420 Next

00:29:19.660 Month

00:29:19.920 But

00:29:20.140 At

00:29:20.280 The

00:29:20.400 Same

00:29:20.580 Time

00:29:20.820 I

00:29:37.020 All

00:29:38.100 Right

00:29:38.340 What

00:29:38.740 Do

00:29:39.140 We

00:29:39.240 Got

00:29:39.420 Next

00:29:39.880 Oh

00:29:43.740 Okay

00:29:44.000 So

00:29:44.340 Everyone's

00:29:44.880 Freaking

00:29:45.180 Out

00:29:45.560 Because

00:29:47.240 Angel

00:29:47.740 Reese

00:29:48.160 Is 0.88

00:29:48.440 Set

00:29:48.640 To

00:29:48.820 Make

00:29:49.000 History

00:29:49.380 As

00:29:49.580 The

00:29:49.700 First

00:29:50.060 Professional

00:29:50.640 Athlete

00:29:51.160 To

00:29:51.300 Walk

00:29:51.600 In

00:29:51.860 A

00:29:52.400 Victoria's

00:29:52.980 Secret

00:29:53.200 Show

00:29:53.540 Now

00:29:53.840 Look

00:29:54.120 I

00:29:54.700 Played

00:29:55.180 Athletics

00:29:55.760 For

00:29:55.960 20

00:29:56.260 Years

00:29:56.580 I

00:29:57.820 Played

00:29:58.060 Volleyball

00:29:58.480 Overseas

00:29:58.980 I

00:29:59.120 Played

00:29:59.320 Basketball

00:29:59.880 Overseas

00:30:00.380 I

00:30:00.580 Made

00:30:00.800 It

00:30:00.900 To

00:30:01.020 Top

00:30:01.280 20

00:30:01.620 In

00:30:01.780 The

00:30:01.880 Country

00:30:02.200 For

00:30:02.440 Division

00:30:02.780 Three

00:30:03.100 I

00:30:03.700 Mean

00:30:03.820 D3

00:30:04.380 So

00:30:04.680 It

00:30:04.760 Doesn't

00:30:04.980 Count

00:30:05.320 But

00:30:06.260 I

00:30:08.440 Went

00:30:08.600 To

00:30:08.720 The

00:30:08.860 NCAA

00:30:09.380 Is 0.88

00:30:09.780 Two

00:30:09.960 Or

00:30:10.140 Three

00:30:10.280 I

00:30:10.480 Love

00:30:10.940 I

00:30:11.460 Love

00:30:11.880 Sports

00:30:12.460 But

00:30:14.120 We

00:30:14.540 Have

00:30:14.840 To

00:30:14.980 Stop

00:30:15.340 Putting 0.95

00:30:15.700 Women 1.00

00:30:15.980 In

00:30:16.160 Positions

00:30:16.620 That

00:30:16.840 We

00:30:16.960 Do

00:30:17.080 Not

00:30:17.260 Belong 0.59

00:30:17.600 I

00:30:19.200 Don't

00:30:19.480 Really

00:30:19.760 Mind

00:30:20.160 If

00:30:20.360 Women 1.00

00:30:20.640 We

00:30:20.900 Have

00:30:21.100 Our

00:30:21.240 Little

00:30:21.440 League

00:30:21.880 That's

00:30:22.180 For

00:30:22.340 Fun

00:30:22.740 I

00:30:23.540 Don't

00:30:23.700 I

00:30:23.840 Think

00:30:24.020 It's

00:30:24.180 Good

00:30:24.340 Exercise

00:30:25.020 At

00:30:25.360 Least

00:30:25.500 You're

00:30:25.660 Not

00:30:25.860 Fat

00:30:26.320 That's

00:30:27.040 A

00:30:27.120 Step

00:30:27.340 Up

00:30:27.540 In

00:30:27.660 This

00:30:27.840 Country

00:30:28.260 Guess

00:30:30.560 It's

00:30:30.760 Better

00:30:33.820 The

00:30:34.780 Thing

00:30:35.100 That

00:30:35.280 You

00:30:35.400 Know

00:30:35.580 About

00:30:35.920 Female 0.86

00:30:36.620 Athletes

00:30:37.460 Is 0.88

00:30:38.160 They're

00:30:38.540 Generally

00:30:39.040 Not

00:30:39.460 The

00:30:39.660 Most

00:30:39.900 Attractive

00:30:40.620 Now

00:30:41.380 They're

00:30:41.920 Not

00:30:42.160 Ugly 0.98

00:30:42.740 But

00:30:43.080 The

00:30:43.240 Very

00:30:43.480 Beautiful

00:30:44.000 Women 1.00

00:30:44.480 Generally

00:30:45.220 Get

00:30:45.700 Other

00:30:46.060 Opportunities

00:30:46.940 Where

00:30:47.140 They

00:30:47.280 Don't

00:30:47.620 Have

00:30:47.820 To

00:30:47.960 Do

00:30:48.080 Athletics

00:30:48.620 To

00:30:48.760 A

00:30:48.860 High

00:30:49.000 Level

00:30:49.280 I

00:30:50.220 Would

00:30:50.380 Say

00:30:50.520 I've

00:30:50.640 Done

00:30:50.780 A

00:30:50.900 Lot

00:30:51.080 Of

00:30:51.220 Different

00:30:51.560 Sports

00:30:52.160 In

00:30:52.900 Terms

00:30:53.200 Of

00:30:53.320 Attractiveness

00:30:54.020 I

00:30:54.280 Would

00:30:54.400 Put

00:30:54.560 Basketball

00:30:55.180 Girls 0.98

00:30:55.480 At

00:30:55.640 The

00:30:55.760 Bottom

00:30:56.020 That

00:30:56.360 Doesn't

00:30:56.620 Mean

00:30:56.740 There

00:30:56.880 Wasn't

00:30:57.080 Exceptions

00:30:57.760 But

00:30:58.660 I

00:30:58.820 Just

00:30:59.160 Don't

00:30:59.580 I

00:30:59.720 Think

00:30:59.860 Basketball

00:31:00.460 Women 1.00

00:31:00.720 Tend

00:31:01.020 To

00:31:01.200 Look

00:31:01.400 More

00:31:01.660 Butch

00:31:02.120 Volleyball

00:31:03.000 Track

00:31:03.520 I

00:31:03.900 Would

00:31:04.020 Say

00:31:04.220 Is 0.88

00:31:04.340 A

00:31:04.480 Little

00:31:04.620 Bit

00:31:04.840 More

00:31:05.060 Feminine

00:31:05.620 Looking

00:31:05.880 Women 1.00

00:31:06.160 Now

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00:32:43.720 Understand

00:32:44.000 I

00:32:44.500 Understand

00:32:46.060 There are

00:32:47.000 Men that say they don't like this level of skinny and I know people say they're capping but I think there's some truth to that when you look at the bodies men rank the highest they are a little bit curvier than these women but at least facially most of these women are going to be eight pluses yeah look at it beautiful these women are beautiful

00:33:05.580 So

00:33:11.660 Yeah cause men loved this one oh yeah Tyra Banks back in the day Heidi Klum yeah oh no it wasn't it wasn't this is Heidi Klum there was another woman though that was like okay so 0.99

00:33:31.980 We just have to stop putting these women in positions they don't belong she's cute I don't think she's ugly but she's not beautiful she's not and you know a lot of the people when I was talking about this they came at me and they said Pearl but neither are you well I'm not the one being put in a fashion show I don't belong in 0.98

00:33:52.900 And you might say Pearl you're just hating Pearl you just you don't want to uplift women but

00:33:59.520 This is frustrating to me because

00:34:02.300 I don't know how it's uplifting to tell a woman that's a six that she's a nine 1.00

00:34:07.340 Because in the dating market she's not going to get nine outcomes 0.86

00:34:13.380 She's not

00:34:14.840 She will get six outcomes in terms of what men are willing to pay for her 1.00

00:34:20.300 Okay, so

00:34:23.140 Um

00:34:24.140 And i'm i'm the one being nice enough to say it

00:34:27.340 Oh, okay i'm gonna facetime sneko and we're gonna so sneko

00:34:32.900 Has been on band on youtube after three years and we're a friend

00:34:37.720 We're um a fan of sneko on the show

00:34:40.480 So i'm gonna facetime him and you guys can come along

00:34:43.900 Hi sneko we're live now

00:34:52.540 Um

00:34:53.820 Congratulations on being reinstated on youtube

00:34:58.080 Hey pearl thank you so much

00:35:00.180 I know that you saw all the ups and downs over the past three years

00:35:04.360 I'm glad that you got re-monetized

00:35:06.380 You faced a lot of the same things that i faced the other day

00:35:09.380 Actually just yesterday nick was saying how i faced a lot of

00:35:12.980 You know i got banned my life got really affected by the nick thing

00:35:17.460 And i was thinking about who else did

00:35:19.100 And it was it was i mean i got banned but you got demonetized

00:35:22.400 By platforming and being really early about a lot of things

00:35:25.220 So big respect to you for

00:35:26.680 Talking about things that were very taboo at a time

00:35:30.020 When everyone was afraid and now you see pearl everybody's talking about it

00:35:33.380 So um what do you think for the future do you think there's gonna be um

00:35:38.320 Like do you expect to stay on youtube are you gonna do things differently this time around

00:35:43.520 Or are you gonna be more careful or what what's your plan moving forward

00:35:48.200 So my plan for all of us is

00:35:51.500 To make videos

00:35:53.180 You know i'll keep the streaming stuff and the political stuff and anything really taboo

00:35:57.300 Off of youtube because i'm not a streamer i'm a i'm a youtuber i make videos

00:36:02.880 I like to be creative i like to use the platform

00:36:07.040 To express myself and so the whole red pill space that we found ourselves in

00:36:12.960 I stumbled upon that but that's not my bread and butter

00:36:17.060 So i i just want to make videos that are really good

00:36:21.460 And i'm glad and i i'm glad that youtube gave me a second chance

00:36:26.140 Cool um well thanks for calling in we just wanted to say congratulations

00:36:31.960 From the audacity network so when you're in dallas

00:36:36.120 Let me know and we'll have you back on the show

00:36:38.200 Next time i'm in texas i would love to show up

00:36:42.360 And uh i'm super happy thank you for for always showing support

00:36:46.920 And uh i'll remember this girl yeah congrats

00:36:50.520 See ya

00:36:51.080 All right i don't know if you guys could hear that

00:36:56.200 But i you know we had some

00:36:58.600 I i've got

00:37:00.920 Could they hear it okay 1.00

00:37:03.080 My producer is sick of your guys shit he's sick 1.00

00:37:14.700 He said i said i got it up they could hear it or not 1.00

00:37:19.720 They he said they're gaslighting you if they say anything other he's sticky

00:37:23.880 He's sick of the complaints, you know

00:37:26.460 It's tough when you're the production guy because they never will say it's it's pretty rare for them to be like wow

00:37:33.760 The audio was great today. They'll just let you know what it's not great

00:37:37.760 They're just they'll just let you know what today was not the day 1.00

00:37:44.620 I know I just said the city that was kind of stupid. I just I realized that as I did it 0.99

00:37:51.900 The city I moved to um, I think a lot of people figured it out, but we might trim that after

00:37:58.860 uh, i'm not too worried though, okay, so

00:38:03.420 We're happy for sneeko

00:38:05.820 All right now we have a wife material versus street material 1.00

00:38:10.780 um

00:38:12.380 Here we go

00:38:14.140 How much money should a guy make per year 200 000 i guess my boyfriend makes like 30 000

00:38:19.580 30 30 000 that should be way more she needs to make enough to spoil you and buy you everything you want 1.00

00:38:26.300 I don't know if these are fake, but I actually wanted to analyze this

00:38:31.980 So

00:38:33.100 It doesn't matter what they say see like we keep giving women clout points for like saying the right answers

00:38:40.540 She's gonna leave them too, you know

00:38:44.540 Um, and I do think

00:38:46.540 Do you know what?

00:38:51.260 I just have a feeling that this girl has a bigger ego because 1.00

00:38:56.700 She has a slightly more symmetrical face 0.92

00:39:00.220 Even though I would say this girl, um

00:39:03.580 I would say they're not really that different and attractive this and you might even say the girl on the left is more attractive 0.62

00:39:08.620 However, I could just tell when a girl 1.00

00:39:11.180 Has marketed her instagram in a way that big names are going to be slot lighting into it

00:39:17.180 It's just a look you can tell

00:39:19.420 Um, anyways, I'll continue

00:39:21.420 What kind of car does he drive? He doesn't have one

00:39:24.060 I mean, this is set up. This is kind of staged you can tell these girls are not good actresses 1.00

00:39:28.620 But we got to stop we got to stop applauding for the right answer. You know what I mean

00:39:32.700 Exactly. I mean I drive them around. That's fine. That's pathetic. I think money doesn't

00:39:36.860 Is she dating a black guy? 0.94

00:39:40.460 Should I drive him around? 0.97

00:39:41.580 It doesn't matter so it doesn't matter if you want a successful life

00:39:45.580 Women don't fall in love with you. They fall in love with the lifestyle you can give them. They don't love you 1.00

00:39:51.820 They love the fact that you can protect them and provide for them and take care of them and make them laugh and make their problems

00:39:57.740 Go away and take them on holidays and buy them handbags. That's what they love about you

00:40:02.540 And then they sit and think they love you, but if you stop doing those things both of you will find out

00:40:07.500 Very quickly that she never loved you at all

00:40:13.500 Yeah, okay, where are we going to next then we'll get into today's topic 0.98

00:40:20.780 Oh, there's this fat woman 1.00

00:40:24.060 Running for office in california and her interview is going viral we gotta get these women back home 1.00

00:40:31.820 We gotta voters who you'll need in order to win um who voted for trump

00:40:39.660 How would I need them in order to win well unless you think you're going to get

00:40:43.820 60 percent of the vote you think you'll get 60 for all everybody who did not vote for trump will vote for you

00:40:49.100 That's what you're in a general election. Yes

00:40:52.300 If it is me versus a republican

00:40:54.300 I think that I will win the people who did not vote for trump what if it's you versus another democrat?

00:40:58.380 I don't intend that to be the case

00:41:00.940 So how do you not intend that to be the case? Do you are you going to ask them not to run?

00:41:05.580 No, no, i'm saying i'm going to build the support

00:41:07.420 I have the support already in terms of name recognition

00:41:10.140 And so i'm going to do the very best

00:41:11.420 I can to make sure that we get through this primary in a really strong position

00:41:14.620 But let me be clear with you. I represented orange county. I represented a purple area

00:41:19.340 I have stood on my own two feet and one republican votes before that's not something every candidate in this race can say

00:41:24.860 If you're from a deep blue area if you're from la or you're from oakland

00:41:29.100 You don't have an experience

00:41:30.300 You just said you don't need those trump voters. Well, you asked me if I needed them to win

00:41:34.460 You don't think like this is unnecessarily argumentative. What is your question?

00:41:38.380 The question is the same thing I asked everybody this is unnecessarily

00:41:45.100 Only a woman would come into politics and say this is unnecessarily argumentative 1.00

00:41:50.140 Why are you here?

00:41:54.380 Politics that's what that's what politics is known for arguing

00:41:59.660 I mean, and this is being called the empowering voters to stop trump's power grab every other candidate has answered this question

00:42:06.620 This is not and I said I support it

00:42:09.500 So and the question is what do you say to the 40 of voters who voted for trump?

00:42:14.620 Oh, i'm happy to say that it's the do you need them to win part that I don't understand

00:42:18.620 I'm happy to answer the answer the question as you haven't written and i'll answer it and we've also asked the other candidates

00:42:23.260 Do you think you need any of those 40 percent of california voters to win?

00:42:26.940 And you're saying no you don't no i'm saying i'm going to try to win every vote i can

00:42:31.180 And what i'm saying to you is that

00:42:33.820 Well to those voters okay so so you i don't want to keep doing this i'm going to call it thank you

00:42:40.460 You're not going to do the interview with us nope not like this i'm not not with seven follow-ups to every single question you ask

00:42:46.380 Every other candidate has this was like a that was not a tough interview i've done i've seen tough interviews

00:42:54.620 That is not a tough interview i don't care i don't care i i want to have a pleasant positive conversation which you ask me about every issue on this list

00:43:03.180 And if every question you're going to make up a follow-up question then we're never going to get there

00:43:07.260 And we're just going to circle around i am an investigative reporter i have never had to do this before ever you've never had

00:43:14.780 Have a conversation to end an interview

00:43:17.740 Okay, but every other candidate has done this

00:43:19.740 I what part of i'm me i'm running for governor because i'm a leader so i am going to make so you're not going to answer questions from reporters

00:43:28.380 Okay, why don't we go through?

00:43:29.660 I will continue to ask follow-up questions because that's my job as a journalist but i will go through and ask these and if you don't

00:43:35.580 Want to answer you don't want to answer

00:43:37.580 So nearly every

00:43:40.780 Yeah

00:43:42.220 Oh my gosh

00:43:44.700 Okay, oh god help us

00:43:47.260 um

00:43:48.060 Oh, I thought this is pretty funny

00:43:50.060 I don't really know what the plan was, but he won whatever game you're playing

00:44:03.420 He's probably an inspiration in his hometown

00:44:06.380 I played this guy by

00:44:09.660 She played this guy by

00:44:13.340 Ghosting him and then having all her friends ghost him

00:44:17.020 It's the 2025

00:44:20.780 Okay, so

00:44:23.660 Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of pearl daily

00:44:28.220 Today we are going to talk about some of the trends that i really have seen in in society

00:44:34.140 Um

00:44:36.220 And i've kind of said this i've stated this over and over again that women are going to trade their families privacy to build their brand 1.00

00:44:43.820 Now a lot of times when I point this out

00:44:47.020 Conservative commentators will come at me and they'll say pearl you just are criticizing women 0.93

00:44:52.300 Whenever I see you know brett cooper post her kid and her family on on instagram

00:44:57.820 They'll say pearl you're just hateful you're just jealous

00:45:00.380 Whenever I put see riley gains posting her kids birth or her

00:45:06.060 Family pictures on the internet they'll say pearl you're hateful you're jealous and when I come at this

00:45:11.420 It's really not meant to be hateful. I'm not even suggesting that in all cases. It's wrong

00:45:17.740 Of mothers to do this 1.00

00:45:19.660 But I have noticed a trend of women using our personal lives in order to build our online brand 1.00

00:45:26.220 There was a time where men knew that the private moments in their home were just for them

00:45:33.420 You know, and I think there's something special about the moments you have with somebody when nobody's watching

00:45:39.580 you know, because

00:45:41.820 I think anybody with a mother knows how performative mothers tend to be 1.00

00:45:47.420 And you know when you're forced to do something so the world would see you right where you know 1.00

00:45:53.500 You have to go to the events you have to wear these stupid clothes pose for pictures 1.00

00:45:57.660 I mean you all know this torturous process 1.00

00:46:00.780 That you know, you're posted on the mother's social media. You have to brag about the whole town. Thank you to the new member

00:46:08.380 I set the tone. We really appreciate you

00:46:11.900 Um

00:46:13.500 But there's something special when somebody does something for you and they get no benefit out of it

00:46:19.500 And there's no expectation and that's so rare with mothers 1.00

00:46:23.660 Oh my gosh, I mean, how often does a mother do something for you and hold hold it over your head later? 1.00

00:46:29.980 Or women in general mother why whatever? 1.00

00:46:34.380 Um, you know, it's like they have a list ready to go of every nice thing they've done for you ever

00:46:39.260 Isn't that crazy? It's like every little thing they've done for you ever

00:46:42.540 So

00:46:46.300 So but there's something special, you know, when the mothers when you do have good involved parents

00:46:53.020 that

00:46:54.220 Do the nice things for you day to day when nobody's watching one thing that I think about um

00:46:59.740 In my childhood was my dad. He coached my basketball

00:47:03.340 And I think that's why I have this like love of sports is because my my father he just

00:47:07.980 He was a really involved like he did work a lot, but he was very involved when it came to the coach. He

00:47:15.340 Loved coaching us

00:47:17.660 Um, and my dad it was so funny because he

00:47:21.260 He would have been such a good head coach because he was so smart like he's the smartest person I've ever met

00:47:27.420 Um, but he would have to be the assisted because he just did not oh another member byron. Thank you for signing up

00:47:33.980 Uh, but he just he did not um have the time to be a head coach, you know

00:47:39.500 Because sometimes he'd have to miss games. He'd always be the assistant coach and it would just he would be on the on the sidelines

00:47:45.340 Like going crazy because he was smarter than the head coach always 0.99

00:47:50.700 What do you just have to watch the him make like dumber decisions, right? 0.94

00:47:55.100 But I just remember like some of my favorite childhood memories 0.96

00:47:58.060 Or my dad like banging his clipboard saying like go go go and we're like in fifth grade running down with the basketball

00:48:06.140 And the reason I love it so much is because you know, I this wasn't posted anywhere. This wasn't used

00:48:12.700 My dad had nothing to gain from coaching my basketball. I mean, what does he get?

00:48:19.740 Out of coaching fifth grade women's basketball. Do you know what I mean? It's funny. My dad didn't even play basketball

00:48:25.500 But he's so smart. He figured out the game. It actually was a pretty good coach

00:48:29.660 And to this day if you ask my father

00:48:32.660 he um

00:48:34.460 He still um is so proud of these like trophies like it's so it's so funny 1.00

00:48:42.140 He'll he'll still brag about like these game winning shit. He can tell you the score 0.99

00:48:45.900 But there's something about that, right?

00:48:48.260 There's something about those special moments that are just for like you guys where you know, they got nothing out of it

00:48:55.040 Have you ever had somebody do something nice for you?

00:48:58.000 And later

00:48:59.040 You find out they got something out of it or they were using it for something

00:49:04.960 And I guess it's not that it makes the thing they did any less nice, but

00:49:11.260 You know, it's kind of like those youtubers that live stream the nice things they do

00:49:16.560 Now on one hand you could say um

00:49:21.520 Who are you to say that at all? They're doing a nice, you know, they're feeding the homeless

00:49:25.760 They're doing this that and the other

00:49:27.120 But there's still just something a weird taste left in your mouth

00:49:31.120 When something seems performative, I then I think that's what you get with a lot of women in general because we are so 0.84

00:49:38.400 You know, we had to rely on having a good reputation in order to survive

00:49:42.560 So it's very very difficult for us to let go of the reputation

00:49:47.200 It's very free. I I didn't really have a choice because I got I got thrust into this

00:49:51.760 No, I did have a choice. I made this choice, but I you know

00:49:56.000 I'll say when you become a public figure it forces you to not care faster, but it's very freeing when you don't I'll tell you that

00:50:04.880 um

00:50:07.280 Now

00:50:08.480 But there's something about when men

00:50:13.760 Or sorry, there's something about when someone does something nice and they gain something out of it or they expect things from you later

00:50:20.960 You know, I did this nice thing now. You have to do that nice thing

00:50:24.960 Now a good person will reciprocate where they can

00:50:28.720 But nobody wants to feel like they have to do something because you accepted niceness from them

00:50:34.720 So

00:50:36.320 I think that's that makes the private moments at home even more special

00:50:43.040 Um, but unfortunately now that all women are being given smartphones are being given all women are buying and addicted to smartphones 1.00

00:50:50.960 Privacy has now become a thing of the past

00:50:54.240 Um, not only does everybody have smart a smartphone and a camera, but we have 4k video evidence

00:51:01.520 Um, and cameras can be recorded where

00:51:06.960 Imagine guys if you're approached by a woman in public 0.99

00:51:10.400 You might think that you're being recorded, right?

00:51:13.120 We can't even like approach each other in public anymore without knowing is this a youtube prank is this that

00:51:19.280 um

00:51:19.600 And you know someone that does public interviews i'm not here to criticize it

00:51:23.920 But I I can kind of observe where this this is going I can see where this is headed

00:51:30.080 And I think what a lot of other commentators miss when they're covering this kind of thing is they don't see the forest through the trees

00:51:36.800 I know that social media is a pipeline for divorce and only fans 0.75

00:51:41.760 Divorce only fans prostitution that is what social media is because

00:51:46.800 You might as a young woman have a nice cute little vlog channel

00:51:52.880 but

00:51:55.520 I mean if I was out here in a bikini stream or something it would get way more views

00:52:00.160 I mean we just find out the more naked we get

00:52:03.440 The more view the more views we get

00:52:06.080 So the incentives just are not great on social media and we saw that with sophie rain

00:52:10.480 You know when she was young she was just a guest on david dobrik's vlogs

00:52:13.600 Her parents probably thought oh, okay. She's just doing these cute little blogs, whatever 0.78

00:52:18.080 Now she's on only fans 0.99

00:52:20.720 And it's very difficult. I see where this is going because it's almost impossible to be intertwined in society

00:52:29.680 Without your phones, you know, how do you get anywhere?

00:52:34.160 How do you get invited to things half of the places that people go are through instagram reels or through a facebook group?

00:52:40.000 You know the only sense of community people really have moving forward. We don't know our neighbors I

00:52:46.240 Growing up. I I knew like two neighbors of mine too

00:52:50.640 I didn't grow up knowing my neighbors

00:52:55.040 The only community you really have a lot of times is through the phone and people you meet through the phone and at times

00:53:00.960 You know my personal experience and some of the best friends i've ever made were through phones

00:53:05.040 You know

00:53:06.800 It's not and I think youtubers and content creators feel this first because we're

00:53:12.320 Obviously more online than other people

00:53:15.680 But I really see this as the future when I talk to younger women

00:53:19.840 That's kind of where I see it going

00:53:22.320 Um, you know, I asked one of my youngest sister

00:53:26.320 Do you think you'd get invited to anything if you didn't have snapchat?

00:53:29.120 Because that's that's how they all talk. They all talk through snapchat

00:53:33.360 Um, and she said no, I wouldn't know anything that's going on. That's how everybody talks

00:53:38.800 Now a lot of the traditional conservatives they come back and they say oh just ditch the phones and move on a farm

00:53:44.320 It's like where do you live like

00:53:47.840 Who wants to do that? You know, there has to be some people that just moved into the middle of the nowhere

00:53:53.200 And now they don't have access to good doctors good jobs

00:53:57.600 And they're like there with their cows and they got to just be pissed

00:54:03.200 You know, because it's one thing if you have you know, because the small towns of america they're not what they used to be

00:54:10.240 It's not like you can go to a small town

00:54:13.280 A small town and find community

00:54:17.360 I mean

00:54:18.960 There are pockets but in terms of young people

00:54:22.880 It's not the same and the people are leaving. I mean my mom

00:54:27.280 She was from a town where I think less than 30 people were in her high school graduating class

00:54:32.320 And I stayed there for a summer all of the young kids are going so you stay in that town. Who are you going to hang out with?

00:54:37.600 It's just going to be you

00:54:39.760 And I mean maybe maybe you don't care, but I think that's going to be tough for a lot of people

00:54:45.440 Um

00:54:47.520 So I see where a lot of this stuff is going

00:54:50.160 Now

00:54:52.480 In general, I would say something that's important to men that's not important to women is privacy 0.81

00:54:59.840 Women obviously if you look at social media trends, we will trade privacy for attention 1.00

00:55:04.720 We will post we will post the family photos

00:55:08.080 We will

00:55:09.040 um

00:55:09.840 Post the selfies we will put I mean there are women that have died or gotten their boyfriends killed

00:55:14.640 They're like

00:55:15.200 You know, we love criminals

00:55:16.960 So they'll be like dating or married to like a cartel member 0.94

00:55:20.720 And the opposite cartel just follows the girl on instagram and then kills the kingpin because his

00:55:26.960 His wife was like streaming where they are where he was 0.99

00:55:31.440 Because men see the downside of privacy being leaked right 1.00

00:55:35.600 Men understand um, especially when it comes to relationships, you know, there's always the the age-old 0.88

00:55:41.600 Argument that couples have you know, why won't you post me? 1.00

00:55:45.120 You know, the girl she's like nagging the guy. Why won't you post me? 0.97

00:55:48.720 The guy knows when he posts the girl that all of the guys that don't like him are gonna try to hit on the girl

00:55:55.440 You know, and then now the girl is gonna have to get more input from all these people because people always care who women are dating 1.00

00:56:04.320 People don't care who men are dating, but they always care who women are dating 1.00

00:56:08.880 Especially young women because they draw the most attention 0.97

00:56:12.640 I mean in fact that's half of this show is who are women dating and it has viewers, you know, so

00:56:18.000 people do care

00:56:20.000 Um, but men don't like the silly stuff that you know men have a level of seriousness that they appreciate

00:56:28.960 Um, and not to say that men cannot be playful. They obviously can be but I would say that's more of a female 0.71

00:56:35.280 Trait, you know, you don't see men as much torturing their girlfriends with these stupid tiktok like silly trends, you know 1.00

00:56:43.600 Like babe, do you wish you know? 1.00

00:56:45.760 Babe, do you wish you were athletic? You know, you shoved the camera in his face

00:56:50.560 So it's very obvious that men are accepting things that they really

00:56:55.760 Generally unless they're making money off of it

00:56:59.600 Um, that they're not generally comfortable with it, you know in in their nature

00:57:05.440 There are men that do adapt to the market, but it's not their preference

00:57:09.840 Because for men it's more important how you treat them privately than publicly

00:57:14.160 Now obviously no man wants to be embarrassed in public or fight in public. That's very obvious and clear

00:57:21.760 um, but what good is

00:57:24.960 Public treatment that's good if the private treatment doesn't match

00:57:29.440 I mean if she's being nice to you in public but abuses you in private is that 0.95

00:57:33.600 I mean that's not really winning is it

00:57:39.200 Um

00:57:41.200 Okay, let me let me continue so I want to show you how these demons are created

00:57:46.080 And I saw this I love um, I actually love all these women sacrificing privacy 1.00

00:57:53.120 Because it makes these shows way easier because I could show you where things are going wrong

00:57:57.760 Now there's a lot of men fathers and brothers that constantly are telling their daughters

00:58:02.560 They will bail them out of any bad decision that they make

00:58:05.920 I'm going to give you an example of a way I see this so a lot of times young women 1.00

00:58:11.520 Fathers and parents want them to live at home as long as possible

00:58:15.440 Now I think in the old days there was a reason for this and there was a positivity in this right?

00:58:20.160 You know, they would arrange the marriage or whatever

00:58:22.720 But what I what I see happening when you live at home

00:58:26.080 Is you start to submit to your parents will and your your brothers will and the people around you's will

00:58:33.520 But not the new guys will

00:58:36.320 You know, and so the guy starts having to bargain with the dad and the brothers and do what they want instead of what he wants

00:58:42.240 And she goes, you know

00:58:43.840 I don't and the when you have a fallback, you know when the family

00:58:47.920 Is is the fallback?

00:58:51.600 There's not as much of an incentive

00:58:54.000 For the kids to move on to the next phase of life, you know

00:58:56.960 If you're constantly going to the family events and you have all of that comfort

00:59:01.680 What you know if anything it subsidizes women picking more alpha men?

00:59:07.280 Because they get all the comfort from the family

00:59:09.440 That's where you see like that billionaires a daughter 1.00

00:59:12.480 Had a kid with the

00:59:14.800 Model that was a criminal right 1.00

00:59:17.680 Because in a way you're subsidized before

00:59:20.480 Women had women want alpha traits more than comfort, but we need comfort, right? 0.99

00:59:25.680 We need it

00:59:26.800 So women used to kind of bargain, right? 1.00

00:59:29.600 Where now a lot of times we get comfort through society the family the jobs

00:59:35.120 Now I want to show you

00:59:36.800 What you get a lot of times too is the dad telling the daughters they can do no wrong and they deserve the world

00:59:42.240 Without saying what the guy deserves

00:59:45.040 So we're going to show you an example

00:59:47.280 That's my dad who is a father of four daughters

00:59:50.960 And I want to ask him what he thinks is princess treatment or bare minimum

00:59:57.520 Okay, and you just say princess treatment or bare minimum

01:00:01.040 Okay, to each question opens all my doors like car doors

01:00:07.280 Any any doors princess treatment or bare minimum?

01:00:09.760 Princess treatment

01:00:11.760 What? What do you mean?

01:00:14.480 Okay, so like bare minimum is like that's that's a no-brainer

01:00:18.240 Is it not?

01:00:18.880 Princess treatment would be like oh like that's 1.00

01:00:22.400 Going above and beyond it

01:00:24.480 Opening my doors

01:00:25.440 Bare minimum

01:00:26.560 Bare minimum

01:00:27.280 Okay

01:00:28.320 Brings flowers without a special occasion princess treatment or bare minimum?

01:00:31.840 Bare minimum

01:00:35.040 Plan states without having me uh handle it

01:00:38.320 So we're already telling the girls

01:00:41.040 They deserve flowers for existing

01:00:44.000 You deserve your door opened for exist just existing

01:00:48.320 There's never this is what you have to

01:00:50.480 Now I don't know I can't say that behind the scenes of how he parents or teaches them

01:00:55.200 But remember

01:00:57.920 When you tell women they're awesome for just 1.00

01:01:00.960 Being alive and existing it's no wonder we become such brats

01:01:06.080 You know

01:01:07.760 Any of the details princess treatment or bare minimum?

01:01:12.320 I can't hear that

01:01:13.680 Picks me up and drops me off so I don't have to drive

01:01:16.240 Princess treatment or bare minimum

01:01:18.320 It means my car like details it and fills up my gas

01:01:22.160 Bare minimum or princess treatment?

01:01:23.840 Princess treatment

01:01:25.920 Give me his jacket when I'm cold

01:01:27.760 Princess treatment or bare minimum

01:01:29.040 Okay

01:01:29.360 So you know even that 1.00

01:01:31.920 Why does the guy if you're too dumb to bring a jacket 0.99

01:01:34.960 Why does he have to give his jacket? 0.99

01:01:37.840 Do you know what I mean?

01:01:38.640 It's like we're conditioning women to put our needs above men's 1.00

01:01:42.560 But we never tell women to put his needs first

01:01:45.680 When in actuality if you really study what femininity is

01:01:49.920 It's putting his needs above yours 0.94

01:01:53.120 That's a more biblical patriarchal view of it if that's the way you view it

01:02:00.560 So you know that's a bad behavior

01:02:02.640 You're not bringing your jacket when it's cold

01:02:04.800 What is the incentive?

01:02:05.920 Right?

01:02:06.480 The incentive is to keep forgetting the jacket and then make him deal with it

01:02:11.360 It just it never ends

01:02:12.480 Responds to my text and calls right away

01:02:17.760 Bare minimum

01:02:18.320 Princess treatment

01:02:19.200 What did you think?

01:02:23.120 Pays for all my food

01:02:25.680 Princess treatment or bare minimum

01:02:27.360 So this isn't the worst one I've seen

01:02:53.840 But I want to show where this comes from

01:02:55.760 A lot of times it's the simp

01:02:58.080 Because society is just always telling women they deserve more 0.99

01:03:04.320 That is the tough thing

01:03:05.280 You got the family saying they deserve more

01:03:08.800 You have the friends saying they deserve

01:03:11.280 Men are up against a lot

01:03:12.800 That's why I keep

01:03:13.840 I keep trying to keep you guys's expectations real low

01:03:18.880 Real because imagine a guy comes in and he says

01:03:21.920 No, you can open your own doors. You're not a kid

01:03:24.160 Uh, if you forget your jacket, you're going to be cold

01:03:28.080 So make sure you bring it

01:03:30.640 Now the dad's going to say hey, you're not doing enough for my daughter 0.97

01:03:35.200 Even though it could be a good guy

01:03:37.360 Um, all right, let me keep going

01:03:39.360 Uh, the next way that we are sacrificing privacy

01:03:44.560 Is um now women do reviews on the men they're dating

01:03:50.240 So, you know, you could go on a date with a girl and think wow that went well

01:03:54.560 And then here you go

01:03:56.400 Okay, I just got in the car after the date

01:04:00.480 That went really well, but also we identified some

01:04:04.560 Things that might not align, unfortunately, but I'm not sure

01:04:09.280 So very interestingly, I'm going to get to this first

01:04:11.760 Because I know that people are going to be asking about this

01:04:15.600 At the end of the date, I brought up, you know, our last date

01:04:19.520 The whole you tried to kiss me and I pulled away

01:04:23.200 And I just very clearly said consent is super important to me

01:04:26.480 So before anything like that happens, I just need to be asked first

01:04:30.240 And he was super respectful and was like, thank you so much for telling me

01:04:37.120 And I appreciate how you're able to very effectively and confidently set your boundary

01:04:41.600 So that was good

01:04:43.760 But we identified that the social media thing might not be in alignment

01:04:51.440 Me being public with my life, which is a challenge of what I do here and what I love to do and create

01:04:59.600 Isn't isn't really something that everyone is comfortable with so

01:05:07.120 We both agreed to just think about it

01:05:09.600 Because I was like if I'm being honest like there are some things that I like to experience

01:05:13.680 First and then share with you guys so I give it a little bit of time

01:05:16.160 But there are just some things that

01:05:21.200 There are just some things that I feel comfortable with myself just sharing right away

01:05:28.320 And when you add another person into that it can get complicated

01:05:32.960 But I don't want to have to send every piece of content to my potential partner to get approval

01:05:39.120 You know what I'm saying?

01:05:40.000 So he was super respectful and we both were just like

01:05:45.280 Now this is a mid 0.98

01:05:47.120 This is a mid 0.92

01:05:49.760 An old mid at that 1.00

01:05:54.800 Let's think about it so I don't know we'll see if he like

01:05:58.800 Hits me up again to go out or what he says

01:06:02.640 And I will keep you updated

01:06:04.320 Now you might think oh she's cooked she's done

01:06:09.440 But I just saw a video that now she has a boyfriend 1.00

01:06:14.480 He's good looking

01:06:15.600 It's

01:06:20.160 Do you know what I mean?

01:06:21.040 I hate it

01:06:25.200 I hate it here 0.94

01:06:29.680 I hate it here

01:06:33.120 Okay, so then this kind of translated right because now you might say but pearl

01:06:37.680 This is just these are just the content creators. These are not normal women 1.00

01:06:42.400 Well, how did this translate? Where did this go? You get you got to think ahead

01:06:46.880 Are we dating the same guy refers to a viral network of women only facebook groups and an app where women anonymously share information about the men they've dated

01:06:58.160 To give advice and warnings about deceit infidelity or dangerous behaviors from other members in their city

01:07:04.640 These groups are used as a safety resource allowing women to vet potential partners by crowdsourcing their experience and holding men accountable

01:07:12.640 Though they also face criticism for potential libel unverified claims and a lack of

01:07:18.720 Anonymity for the men being discussed of how are we dating the same guys group works

01:07:27.920 They post a profile

01:07:30.480 They seek information they share experiences and they are vetting and warning

01:07:36.960 And men have to deal with this because most relationships start online

01:07:40.880 Um, it's going to be kind of difficult

01:07:44.160 To get into a relationship in 2025. I think it's over 80 percent or online

01:07:49.520 So your choices as a guy are you generally are not going to like the city

01:07:54.240 But all the young hot women are in the city. So you can either go live in the city 1.00

01:07:59.440 That you don't really like

01:08:01.440 Or um live where you want but sacrifice some privacy

01:08:06.400 Or never have sex ever

01:08:08.480 Now most guys, um

01:08:12.640 They're going to kind of rationalize it where they're like, ah, i'm gonna have to

01:08:16.880 The privacy is what's gonna have to go. Um, unfortunately

01:08:21.520 It says the purpose and the benefits are for women's safety

01:08:24.960 Um crowdsourcing vetting

01:08:27.760 It's obviously women vet men so well, right? 1.00

01:08:32.480 Holding men accountable

01:08:33.760 Um

01:08:35.360 Criticism and concerns there's lack of due process unverified information

01:08:40.960 Potential for libel

01:08:43.360 Invasion of privacy

01:08:46.480 Okay, actually let me go and figure out how many

01:08:49.920 Women are in the are we dating the same 1.00

01:08:54.720 guys

01:08:55.280 groups in the united states

01:08:59.920 I know it's a ton 0.80

01:09:10.640 Holy shit, there are approximately 3.5 million members across the 200 are we dating the same guy facebook groups in the united states of january 0.96

01:09:20.000 2024 0.74

01:09:21.200 Though the actual number of women is higher since membership is the primary way to join 0.99

01:09:26.000 The total number of women across these groups is not publicly available

01:09:29.760 But the total memberships are estimated to be in the millions

01:09:34.640 um

01:09:38.560 So it's over 3.5 million let's see how many women are in gen z how many women are in gen z 0.99

01:09:46.000 Uh oh wait shoot in the united states

01:09:53.200 My bad 0.66

01:09:56.560 20 million

01:09:59.360 So

01:10:01.440 20 million

01:10:03.600 So let's say

01:10:05.280 I'm gonna say if there's 3.5 publicly available members i'm gonna guess and say there's double the amount

01:10:11.280 Of anonymous

01:10:13.360 Now I could be off right so let's cut that in half i my gut feeling is it's double so if it's 3.5

01:10:20.160 I would have guessed seven

01:10:22.640 But you know for we're gonna round to five

01:10:25.920 so

01:10:27.680 But that would be about a quarter of women in gen z now obviously 1.00

01:10:33.040 I was just thinking of the dating age population

01:10:35.040 I mean you you'd have to play with these numbers and get something more accurate that that's the tough thing

01:10:39.440 um

01:10:41.200 But that means out of every like 10 women that see your profile at least one is in one of these group chats and can screenshot any messages 0.93

01:10:50.880 That's not great. That is um

01:10:54.320 a decent amount of privacy

01:10:56.800 17% of gen z

01:11:00.400 um 0.91

01:11:01.200 Now to be fair that does span across age groups my gut feeling is the older uglier women are going to be more likely 1.00

01:11:07.120 You know, because the gen z women, you know, this is kind of how it goes, right? 1.00

01:11:11.040 Yet the young women they turn 18 and they're like i'm ready to be whores 1.00

01:11:15.600 Or find love whatever they go and then they you know 0.99

01:11:19.120 We're gonna do what we do which is go for a guy out of our league get burned

01:11:24.080 Now a smart gen z woman would just go a little bit lower try again see what happens 1.00

01:11:30.480 But instead we go higher

01:11:32.080 We're

01:11:34.240 We're like I got burned

01:11:36.320 Let me go higher not lower not crazy

01:11:40.400 Isn't that crazy you know if a guy gets burned by an eight he's like let me try the sixes

01:11:46.400 If you guy gets burned by a six he's like it's time to date the force 0.99

01:11:50.240 But we just keep going we're like shoot for the stars baby

01:11:54.960 All right, so

01:11:55.680 Um, so now how does this translate to relationships this lack of privacy

01:12:03.200 In all aspects men are going to have to give up privacy in order to be in relationships

01:12:10.400 You have no choice

01:12:13.440 Now you might come back at me and say pearl

01:12:16.560 I do have a choice

01:12:19.200 I will lay down the law in my house. Oh, yeah

01:12:22.240 Now you

01:12:25.600 Please

01:12:26.080 Excuse my skepticism, but I think you

01:12:30.880 underestimate

01:12:32.640 How crazy we are you have the time and the energy to be 100% on all the time

01:12:41.280 Where you don't

01:12:43.680 leak a password

01:12:45.600 She doesn't figure out the way to get into your social media. You don't leave the computer open look

01:12:50.960 Now 0.97

01:12:53.600 It depends how crazy of a woman you get right now 1.00

01:12:56.400 And that's kind of what you could just roll the dice and that that's the best you got

01:13:00.560 I don't even think vetting really works

01:13:03.600 I I really I got to push back a lot of guys think oh if I vet if I just vet her

01:13:09.280 Yeah, but you could she could be good for now and then be crazy later and I've seen women with 1.00

01:13:15.040 Crystal clean backgrounds go off the rails

01:13:18.640 So it's really just luck hopefully you're a lucky guy

01:13:23.200 So once you get into a relationship with women because we're so concerned about our reputation 0.99

01:13:29.600 We are going to use our relationship and the stuff we do for you to build our brand

01:13:36.640 So here we go you're going to start to see more of these videos

01:13:41.280 Where they use it for marketing on their social media and some men there's going to be men that look at this and say that's 0.99

01:13:47.360 Bullshit, I'm not signing up for that and they'll get uglier women 1.00

01:13:52.320 Not that this woman's super hot, but again, um, the more attractive the woman the more ability 1.00

01:13:59.840 She has to get away with stuff, you know 1.00

01:14:02.320 Things we are okay with in our marriage. I think they're weird. I don't

01:14:05.760 Don't numero uno. I do not wear very

01:14:09.680 I don't say sexy outfits unless i'm with him

01:14:13.040 So remember that's a nice thing to do. She says I don't wear sexy outfits unless i'm with you

01:14:19.200 But doesn't it kind of take you know what I mean again

01:14:22.000 We're going to this society where we're like, I don't wear sexy outfits unless i'm with my mitt

01:14:27.280 It's like for clout, right?

01:14:29.280 It's one thing to just do the nice thing

01:14:32.000 And it's it gives you more of an icky feeling when you're you know

01:14:37.840 It's just a different vibe

01:14:39.840 Different vibe

01:14:40.800 Me we're okay with sexy outfits in public. We're okay with sexy outfits. Number two. I do not require my wife to cook meals for me 1.00

01:14:47.920 In fact doesn't usually cook meals for me better cook. He is

01:14:52.480 Number three. All right. This is that's another trend. I've seen

01:14:57.280 Men are better cooks than women now number one 1.00

01:14:59.840 And men are better at cleaning than women where women are the ones with the traditionally 1.00

01:15:10.080 sought-after jobs like i've noticed

01:15:13.040 That there's more it seems like there's more women in corporate america. There's more women with sports cars 1.00

01:15:19.120 There's more women doing podcasting and microphones now 1.00

01:15:23.600 So women are kind of women will never do the dirty jobs 1.00

01:15:27.040 But they're taking all of the like pristine jobs in society the high status you could say

01:15:35.760 Um, where men

01:15:38.000 Because men are very pragmatic. They just think well, she's not cooking. So I guess i'll cook

01:15:42.960 Her food sucks. I'll cook, you know, they're not they're not really keeping score here 0.97

01:15:48.800 The sticky ones I do not mind my single close friends being by themselves with a man

01:15:55.920 I am okay with that. Let's clarify. Let's clarify

01:15:58.960 Because I don't have weird friends. These are like my best friends my best friend today. He likes to build things

01:16:05.440 He likes to build things. I like to build things. They can build things for the family if i'm on somewhere

01:16:10.640 They want to see the kids and brian's home. I don't mind them coming by to see the kids. We're not talking about sleepovers

01:16:16.640 No, we're not talking about sleepovers. No, we absolutely still have boundaries

01:16:19.520 But there's a lot of trust in this relationship. Yes

01:16:21.680 number four

01:16:23.200 We do not have a man gets the final say type now

01:16:28.720 This might not just now you might say pearl, but these are influencers. That's not normal

01:16:35.600 Now I would agree that not everybody is going to have a full successful online brand

01:16:40.960 But you're going to see it on facebook for the older women snapchat for the younger women

01:16:47.200 Twitter maybe for millennials

01:16:50.800 Whatever social media site people are using it's going to the relationship is going to be used to build the brand

01:16:56.480 I kind of see where this is going a relationship. We just don't believe in it. We are partners

01:17:00.960 I believe that brian is head of our household. Absolutely. We don't do dictatorships. There is a difference

01:17:05.840 You can be biblically now 0.97

01:17:07.520 What means more her saying that you're the head of the household for social media or her just doing it

01:17:12.960 Now I she might do it. I don't know. I can't see what she does, but

01:17:20.560 The it just the ring kind of goes away when it's for the brand

01:17:24.720 The leader of your home without just putting your foot down and everything and just making decisions without incorporating the other person

01:17:30.480 What do you guys think is that weird? I know y'all disagree with one or two of them. Be bold say what you feel

01:17:35.120 Controversial things. Yeah, so there's gonna be some men that adapt and they're like effort at least i'll make money off of this

01:17:41.920 I have to do it. Anyway, there's gonna be some men that opt out and say no. Thank you

01:17:46.960 And there's gonna be some men

01:17:49.840 Um

01:17:50.640 Yeah here so this is her

01:17:54.400 Doing something nice for her boyfriend, right

01:17:56.640 My boyfriend called me all excited on his way home from gaul and this video is kind of it's pretty funny, right?

01:18:05.200 He got his first he got his first eagle of the season

01:18:09.920 I didn't react well enough over the phone. So he was sad

01:18:16.560 So my sister and I threw him a surprise dance party for him to come home

01:18:22.320 Now this guy thinks he's getting just a cool dance party. He's coming home. We're having fun

01:18:27.280 And now it's going to be on instagram

01:18:44.480 Yes

01:18:50.480 All right, i'm grabbing a beer

01:18:56.640 So again private moments are going to become public

01:19:05.280 I would watch this one

01:19:07.840 And then a lot of people will say pearl you're such a hater right you're just hating they're in a happy relationship

01:19:15.040 And I don't mean to be a hater

01:19:17.120 I just got to call it for what it is and it's performative

01:19:20.800 It's performative

01:19:22.800 It's used to signal

01:19:24.320 I am a good person. This one was really bad

01:19:27.840 My husband left his clothes on the floor. Maybe he was in a hurry to get to work this morning to provide for our family

01:19:34.480 Oh, this one was so bad

01:19:37.440 Oh, this one was so bad like

01:19:39.440 You're gonna in bear like imagine how embarrassing that would be as a woman if you 1.00

01:19:45.280 Like did something messy

01:19:47.360 And then the husband blasted and said, you know, I clean up for my wife out of love like that would be so embarrassing

01:19:54.800 And she doesn't though the wives just don't they don't see how embarrassing this is 1.00

01:19:59.280 Like I think we're just so they say that women are more socially calibrated 1.00

01:20:03.680 I don't think so

01:20:07.120 I I just don't agree

01:20:10.000 Because I don't think a guy would do this. I really don't

01:20:20.720 Thank goodness I have clothes to clean for a healthy family who wore them

01:20:25.280 She's talking about a shift in mindset

01:20:27.760 But is it better to like put the shift in mindset on social media or just do it?

01:20:34.480 You know like it's better to just do it, you know, let your actions speak

01:20:47.920 I have so much laundry to do thank good

01:20:50.000 So what what she wants is to be worshipped right and that's really kind of what this all goes down to

01:20:55.600 When you look at women's social media, especially the right wing eager, it's just so obvious to me

01:21:02.160 It's just worship me

01:21:04.960 For doing stuff for my family. It's just please worship me

01:21:13.520 I have to pick up the kids mess in the morning

01:21:16.560 I'm like can you imagine how embarrassing that would be

01:21:20.720 You made a mess and you the privacy of your own home

01:21:23.680 And now your mom's putting it on her tick-tock. I would be so embarrassed

01:21:40.560 That one was so bad. Oh my god

01:21:45.600 So again anything that she does that's nice for you, it's just going to be used as marketing

01:21:51.520 So here. This is she's trying to signal that she's a good cook and a great wife. There's her sundress, you know 0.98

01:21:58.000 Yeah, so I am awesome and you know that a lot of these guys fall for this every single time

01:22:18.800 May lord protect your love from feminists and single mothers and alimony 1.00

01:22:22.880 Um

01:22:26.880 I don't mean to but I like this guy. I don't mean to belittle your efforts. You're still going to eat from that food

01:22:31.760 You are cooking. I think that is I don't think it's doing that much for him

01:22:37.280 I like that guy

01:22:43.360 Okay

01:22:45.440 Let me see private private moments become public and dating

01:22:48.880 So now she's going on a diet with her her guy. This is your average looks match couple today one of eating healthy 0.78

01:22:57.680 We are having burger, but it's lettuce wrap

01:23:03.920 French fries lettuce wrap

01:23:08.240 Chicken nuggets, but it's lettuce wrap

01:23:10.400 Lettuce wrap

01:23:15.760 Soda

01:23:18.320 Lettuce wrap

01:23:19.840 Now we have hot dog

01:23:23.440 Lettuce wrap

01:23:25.840 So healthy

01:23:32.080 Period

01:23:32.480 And of course, let's not forget dessert

01:23:40.240 Lettuce wrap

01:23:48.800 She's just eaten

01:23:51.120 Oh, this one was so bad

01:23:53.600 Look at she uses her disabled boyfriend for marketing 1.00

01:23:57.680 Oh my god

01:23:59.840 Did they take off the sound? Okay

01:24:02.240 He's a 10, but

01:24:03.920 Avoid traps of cynicism in social media analysis. Sometimes performance is driven to shape culture

01:24:11.360 Um, however, the trad con versus 304s is irrelevant to me. It's not cynicism. This is an observation

01:24:18.000 You know me saying again

01:24:20.000 Look at me doing this nice thing for my husband is performative

01:24:24.720 That's fact. I mean

01:24:27.440 Yeah, that's okay. He's a 10, but

01:24:31.280 Oh, the sound is gone on this. That's sad

01:24:34.560 This one was really embarrassing

01:24:37.920 She was making jokes about him getting it up like that's how bad it was. Oh my god. It was brutal. It was an absolute brutality

01:24:45.840 All right

01:24:49.280 Slightly unhinged rules I have in my marriage 0.99

01:24:55.280 No tv in our bedroom the bedroom is for sleep and sex

01:24:59.920 Now again, who's making these rules do you think she is or he is

01:25:03.680 We never joke about divorce words carry power. We don't speak harm over our marriage

01:25:10.000 Josh trusts my intuition with people friends business partners and hiring decisions

01:25:14.560 He knows my spidey senses. We've learned the hard way

01:25:18.080 What that ignoring them costs us now we follow this rule?

01:25:21.120 So imagine you're like these are the rules for our relationship. I'm laying down the law

01:25:25.520 And then she puts it on social media

01:25:29.760 We have weekly a weekly relationship meeting we call it the best life

01:25:34.240 Where we get out of the house for an hour and discuss our marriage planning and how we can support each other

01:25:39.360 Dates are sacred at least once a week. It's just us the date is never canceled unless someone's dying

01:25:48.880 And he's got to do this she's like honey, here's my tripod. Can you put me on the counter and just

01:25:54.800 You know what I mean?

01:25:56.080 Now again, I see where this is going

01:25:58.720 This is a pipeline to only fans or someone else in general

01:26:03.440 We pray together every morning and every night and pray over each other. God is part of our marriage

01:26:10.240 Uh, the three night rule. We don't spend more than three nights apart if something interferes with that

01:26:14.080 We figure it out or or heavily weigh if it's worth it

01:26:18.720 Now the man can't even travel for work

01:26:21.600 The audacity

01:26:24.000 Um, okay next we got

01:26:26.000 As soon as I can

01:26:32.560 Your problems will all your relationship problems will also go on social media now again

01:26:37.760 This might not be as public as instagram, but

01:26:41.360 You know, it could translate to just the girls group chat

01:26:45.200 You know this could translate to

01:26:47.920 Group me or whatever the hell

01:26:49.920 I message group chat and I hope you have a great day. Love you

01:26:53.520 Six seconds

01:26:57.360 That's how easy it is

01:27:01.600 What's better let's do a poll of the chat a trad wife with an instagram or 10 bodies no instagram 1.00

01:27:16.400 Yeah, so he didn't he didn't respond to her text and now she's making this teehee this joke for social media 1.00

01:27:23.520 Hey, babe, i'm super busy right now, but i'm gonna give you a call as soon as I can. I hope you have a great day. Love you

01:27:32.880 Six seconds that's how easy it is

01:27:42.240 And you guys can tell me if i'm wrong maybe you don't see a problem with the

01:27:46.880 uh

01:27:47.520 Sacrificing your privacy, you know, maybe you want all the nice things

01:27:52.560 That she he he he that you do

01:27:56.160 You don't mind having it broadcasted 10 bodies no instagram

01:28:02.000 Men are like i'll pray for 10 bodies nowadays 1.00

01:28:06.800 They're like that's not bad

01:28:08.160 Okay, um, there's another one

01:28:14.160 Oh, never having to wonder if he has eyes for someone else

01:28:20.560 I'm letting you out of the house looking like this

01:28:22.400 You look good

01:28:26.880 You look beautiful

01:28:29.200 Thank you

01:28:31.440 Now imagine now she's using that on her instagram how embarrassing 1.00

01:28:38.560 You know what I mean because they're simping men like don't do in public but privately, you know

01:28:44.080 I mean ladies we we know how they talk you know um 1.00

01:28:47.520 Um, but then it gets on instagram, you know

01:28:52.400 I like this you should wear this on a date

01:28:55.040 Okay, you want to go on a date?

01:28:56.960 Sure, he'll take me on one

01:28:58.240 I'll take you on a date

01:29:00.320 You're the prettiest thing I've ever seen

01:29:02.240 Thank you

01:29:03.200 You're good at what you do

01:29:07.520 So what does this use I can I'm so good looking that I can get him to talk to me like this

01:29:13.040 So now again, she's using her husband to build her reputation 1.00

01:29:17.280 Instead of just being it you know, it's so crazy. The answer is right in front of us, right?

01:29:23.280 Be a nice person

01:29:26.160 Use family a husband to build reputation be a nice person it's like ah

01:29:34.160 Which one which do I choose?

01:29:39.040 Be nice and don't tell anybody about

01:29:41.040 Ah, I don't know

01:29:44.960 It's so tough for us

01:29:47.760 We're so close but so far

01:29:50.320 Do the things that

01:29:52.720 Do the nice things for the husband and not post it on social media post it on social me. Ah, which one?

01:30:00.320 Which one okay?

01:30:05.040 So now here's another one

01:30:07.280 They're putting videos

01:30:09.360 She's telling her husband that she's pregnant 0.97

01:30:13.600 And now his cute that cute authentic private moment is now being used to build her brand

01:30:20.560 Isn't that crazy that cute private moment where you just authentically happy and together

01:30:27.280 It's not a big deal

01:30:31.760 It's not a big deal

01:30:36.720 And if they're not the right size, you can exchange them too

01:30:39.360 Wow, I don't have any new balances

01:30:48.880 I know

01:30:50.720 They're in now, huh?

01:30:52.080 Yeah, they're super in

01:30:53.840 What's going on?

01:30:54.640 What's going on?

01:30:56.160 Nothing, just keep opening

01:30:57.520 What is going on?

01:31:00.080 Just keep opening it

01:31:04.640 Just keep going

01:31:05.520 What's going on here?

01:31:07.520 See it's so cute, right? 0.99

01:31:09.200 So I always look like the asshole when I'm like performative 1.00

01:31:13.600 Performative, you know, I look like the asshole 1.00

01:31:16.720 I'm so soft 1.00

01:31:25.040 Oh

01:31:25.840 Oh

01:31:30.720 There's more in there

01:31:32.640 K-Swiss? 1.00

01:31:33.280 Yeah, you need socks to wear with those

01:31:36.880 Okay

01:31:38.800 Am I getting gold or something?

01:31:39.920 Why do you say that?

01:31:41.920 Why do you say that? 1.00

01:31:42.480 You're like dead socks 0.98

01:31:43.920 Who is this?

01:31:46.000 Bobby, what is this?

01:31:48.880 Bobby!

01:31:53.120 What?

01:31:53.920 Oh my god

01:32:00.080 Bobby!

01:32:06.560 What a genuine moment of joy

01:32:09.920 That's now for all of these strangers to see on the internet

01:32:12.800 You see this is

01:32:13.840 Men are sacrificing privacy in order to be in relationship 0.98

01:32:17.760 So that translates in dating

01:32:20.880 And then it translates into marriage where the kids and the husband are used to signal status

01:32:27.760 And women will do this in a few ways 1.00

01:32:29.520 There's the things they can get their husbands 1.00

01:32:32.880 Actually, I don't want to do this one

01:32:34.000 The things they can get their husbands to do for them 0.98

01:32:36.480 Them doing something for their husbands is a way to signal status 1.00

01:32:43.440 Look at my kids

01:32:46.080 You know because that's a lot of times people use children as a way to be good people

01:32:50.560 But I always think well if all your kids died would that make you less of a person

01:32:55.920 Like the person you are I don't think is really dependent

01:32:59.200 And I really don't like it when conservatives do this

01:33:02.560 They say get married to have a kid

01:33:03.760 They even shame young men for not having children

01:33:06.720 And I think well, I don't think the type of person you are is dependent upon if you have children 0.97

01:33:12.320 The other day I saw benny johnson do this and I thought benny everybody knows you're gay 0.92

01:33:15.920 I mean, it's just so obvious like anybody that's so I don't know how you of all people can be lecture it like come on

01:33:23.520 I mean, there's been rumors. I mean

01:33:26.080 I don't know. I don't know for sure

01:33:28.960 But you seem very gay. So I just don't think you could really lecture young men about getting married 1.00

01:33:35.280 Instead of using their instagrams to enhance their real life

01:33:38.560 Women are using their real life and relationships as a prop to enhance their instagram. That's a great analysis 1.00

01:33:45.680 That I couldn't have said it better myself. That was great

01:33:51.280 On his cell phone

01:33:54.160 Yeah, I don't

01:33:54.720 Don't have to literally everyone in this house would know where he is

01:34:00.720 So the first the first girl said track your husband's location and now again this woman is signaling. Hey, my husband would never cheat on me

01:34:07.600 He would never cheat everybody would know where he is

01:34:10.160 And now she's going to embarrass him look

01:34:15.040 Hey, hayley. I got a question for you

01:34:19.680 If you if you can't find dad, where is he now?

01:34:23.120 This is a cute young girl

01:34:27.920 We know the weirdos that are on the internet

01:34:32.960 I don't want to look I don't want to look but if there's bookmarks, I might throw up

01:34:37.600 You you got there's freak shows on the internet, but they don't care. I don't care

01:34:42.000 Hey, so if you have a question for you, but if you can't find dad, where is he downstairs playing tears of the kingdom

01:34:49.920 Oh, look, there's my husband. What are you doing husband?

01:35:01.280 Pro marriage tip track now. I want to I want to switch this 1.00

01:35:04.880 What if you went around and

01:35:07.760 Asked all the kids what is mom doing and they all said, oh, she's on her phone

01:35:12.480 She's on her phone wouldn't that be kind of embarrassing but women we have no problem embarrassing our husbands on social media 1.00

01:35:19.920 Point of view your daughter's waiting for daddy to come home

01:35:29.200 to show him her hair and dress so again

01:35:32.560 Kids look how awesome my life is, you know, it's the same thing

01:35:41.440 Again, you're putting a cute little girl on social media 0.92

01:35:46.240 Um now i'm not saying it's always gonna go bad, but I just can't I don't know

01:35:54.800 I'm waiting for you daddy

01:35:58.800 Oh, I need my princess too

01:36:04.320 Daddy's taking so long 1.00

01:36:06.000 And I always have to look like the asshole. I gotta be like look is this a good idea is this worth 0.99

01:36:14.960 Your kids face being on the internet is that worth it

01:36:24.080 I spy something orange

01:36:28.480 Yeah

01:36:30.480 Oh my gosh with daddy

01:36:51.040 Daddy

01:36:53.600 Look at that car that's a tiny car

01:36:55.440 Oh

01:36:57.680 And the dad's probably thinking what a cute moment. What a cute awesome private moment

01:37:03.920 Oh, I totally wanted all of instagram to know about it. That's exactly what I wanted. Haha yay

01:37:09.680 Oh

01:37:22.640 Look at your tree. Oh my god. Oh wow

01:37:27.440 You look so beautiful

01:37:29.440 Wow

01:37:32.160 All right

01:37:34.800 Let's see what else okay

01:37:36.640 Now this translates

01:37:38.800 To using the husband and the kids for clout. There's so many examples of these

01:37:43.760 It just never ends like if you go on instagram and go through reels like a few of these

01:37:48.400 It it's so common

01:37:51.600 You're so lucky you get to stay home with your baby

01:37:54.400 Baby, but I'm fine

01:37:55.760 So all the all the kids here

01:37:58.640 Look at now again this translates to look at all I can get my husband to do and pay for

01:38:04.800 And if you ask me to

01:38:06.800 Oh, you're thirst tropping with the kids

01:38:11.120 Oh

01:38:14.320 Oh, why

01:38:15.120 Come on as a guy 0.81

01:38:20.400 She can't be this hot and wear this little clothing and you not think anything. Come on. Oh 1.00

01:38:35.600 He's thinking oh i'm just walking to my car. There's no one recording me

01:38:38.800 Like

01:38:42.400 Yeah, it never ends

01:38:45.760 Um, okay

01:38:55.680 Now oh this is this is this this is showing another problem. So the mother's teaching the sons to be 0.96

01:39:02.400 simps

01:39:03.680 Uh, this happens whether or not it's two-parent or one-parent household women love raising simps 1.00

01:39:10.400 Holding the door for a woman 1.00

01:39:14.320 Okay, filling up the gas tank for your wife 1.00

01:39:20.320 Everybody's supposed to do that. What do you mean like every man if you're in a relationship that's like bare bare bare minimum

01:39:27.360 Okay, would princess treatment be we both got home and you have to take my car back out to fill it with gas 1.00

01:39:34.400 So that I could go to work the next day

01:39:37.360 Okay, opening my car door every time i'm getting into it

01:39:40.880 Or you're coming home with a sweet treat even though I did not ask for one

01:39:46.240 Documentary fund. Thank you guys

01:39:49.040 Thank you. I really appreciate it. We're

01:39:52.720 We're we're trying to um save as much money as possible

01:39:56.240 So the link to the documentary is in the description if you guys want to go to the gofundme or super chat

01:40:01.440 So really appreciate it. It's for the divorce documentary

01:40:10.080 Refilling the water cup after you've already gotten in bed for the night and your wife's like I would like some water 1.00

01:40:19.360 All right taking her on a really fancy

01:40:21.360 Yeah, so now a woman can't even fill up her own water 1.00

01:40:26.960 Do you see this programming we do to these these young men from such a young age?

01:40:33.440 I'm thinking are you not i'm not i'm not against you know

01:40:37.680 I understand there's politeness you get up, but it's the bare minimum. She can't get up really 0.95

01:40:44.480 Truly year or for your anniversary or Christmas treatment. That's what you're supposed to do

01:40:53.600 Cool um coffee in bed every morning

01:40:59.440 I mean she's teaching these guys to get circles run around them

01:41:04.720 Yeah, like these gen z women they're gonna okay 1.00

01:41:07.440 Minimum all right paying for her to get her hair done like highlights cut color like a spa day 1.00

01:41:20.080 Okay

01:41:23.600 Now um the next thing

01:41:28.000 When the relationship goes south

01:41:31.840 Fights are also going to be used against you

01:41:34.880 So remember this is something you got to be careful of because every girl has a phone 1.00

01:41:39.760 You should I would also um say to use the same tactic

01:41:43.520 But if you ever crash out on a girl it doesn't matter what she did first if she pulls out a phone

01:41:49.520 Yeah, look at all the money if you want to decide what happens in this house then pay for something. Oh, right

01:41:56.560 You don't have a fucking job 1.00

01:41:58.880 Guess what she's using um to in court, right? And he looks crazy in this 1.00

01:42:09.520 So yeah, if you have a fight with her and you crash out that happens sometimes in private

01:42:14.560 Don't expect privacy

01:42:16.800 Yeah, she's there's probably albums that are phone and the daughters get in on it remember 1.00

01:42:22.800 The sisterhood transcends um

01:42:26.560 With just adult women even the kids will go in on it and team up with the mom 1.00

01:42:32.320 I guess the dad was flirting with someone or the daughter says she he was flirting who knows if he was

01:42:38.800 She's recording it to get evidence to make the dad look bad

01:42:42.000 My baby

01:42:47.360 You know what

01:42:54.640 And I recorded it and i'm gonna show mom i don't care and i the camera heard you say baby 0.99

01:43:00.800 Who are you fucking calling me on the street? 0.99

01:43:10.880 Is that what you do? 1.00

01:43:11.760 No

01:43:12.320 Is that what you do?

01:43:14.480 Is that what you do?

01:43:15.600 Now who knows the context right?

01:43:18.800 I mean

01:43:20.320 Now i'm not trying to defend the guy but regardless this is a private family moment a private family fight

01:43:26.960 It's now on social media and it will always be look

01:43:31.440 It will always be used to make the women look good and the men look bad always

01:43:37.280 Nobody is that what you do?

01:43:41.840 Okay next

01:43:42.720 Marriage

01:43:52.160 For

01:43:53.520 The stay-at-home mom to have to ask for money 0.99

01:43:58.400 Like it's like

01:44:00.960 Like anytime she needs anything at all she has to ask for money is that normal? 1.00

01:44:05.920 Fuck balls unfortunately man for so many amazing women out there it is they are being abused just like you are 1.00

01:44:11.760 And yes 1.00

01:44:14.480 There's a million guys and women just like this

01:44:18.320 Ready to tell your wife she's right if she cries on the internet 1.00

01:44:22.720 Hear me you're being fucking abused it's called financial abuse that's the legal term 1.00

01:44:28.080 The everyday fucking term is this 1.00

01:44:31.200 Motherfucker is a narcissist piece of dog 1.00

01:44:34.960 See what he's trying to do ma'am is he needs to keep you under his thumb 1.00

01:44:37.760 He has to have fucking control and the easiest way to control somebody is fucking financially 0.99

01:44:43.280 It's the first form of separation in an abusive relationship 1.00

01:44:46.480 What they do is they get you to rely on them

01:44:49.120 The completely

01:44:51.040 Financially and then you have no

01:44:53.360 Where to go you have nowhere to go no way to get out of that relationship the house

01:44:58.560 I'm pro 50 50

01:45:00.000 I think women should pay their way I really I really do because 1.00

01:45:09.840 You know if we keep edifying laws or we keep pushing laws

01:45:16.240 With things like financial abuse in it

01:45:19.600 Eff it go 50 50 then let's see let's see how it goes 0.73

01:45:23.200 Let's see

01:45:23.600 This is his the cars in his name. He's made all the money. You don't have any bank accounts and you feel fucking stuck

01:45:31.520 It's the way abusers keep control of their abused and so many women abuse the women stay in a motherfucking relationship 1.00

01:45:40.560 He's gay 1.00

01:45:43.120 Oh, he thinks he's gay 1.00

01:45:45.760 But pieces of shit like this because of just that 1.00

01:45:50.160 Yeah, um 1.00

01:45:51.120 We got this next one

01:45:56.400 Watch my husband choose women online over his wife and unborn twin

01:46:02.000 Now we don't know if she cheated first right 1.00

01:46:05.120 Maybe she started cheating he found out he wants to keep the family together. He starts cheating back

01:46:10.240 Is he the macho man of simping there's a million simps just like him

01:46:15.360 But women if you do anything wrong women will keep an album and hold it against you 1.00

01:46:19.840 Do you see might as well keep an album back i'd recommend

01:46:22.880 I know that's tiring, but if you wish to engage

01:46:27.120 In relationships, I really would try to I mean this is what women do and we'll have 1.00

01:46:32.800 We'll have this all ready to go

01:46:35.360 So whenever we break up it can be your fault

01:46:38.560 Ask you to get me a glass of water like i'm sorry exactly

01:46:41.680 Maybe you don't need water

01:46:45.680 What it's hard for me to get up out of bed

01:46:49.760 What I have two kids inside of me downstairs and go get it yourself

01:46:53.920 What when you're worried about my tinder whenever you're pregnant? 0.89

01:46:56.880 It's our family

01:46:58.560 It's your family not mine 0.99

01:46:59.920 It's fitting that you're on tinder a lot of fire where you're going

01:47:02.960 The fact that you used our wedding photo

01:47:05.120 Of course I used our wedding photo

01:47:06.960 If your girls on tinder don't want to see a man in a suit 0.95

01:47:08.960 You have the mind of a person who writes his phone number on the stall in the men's bathroom

01:47:12.640 And then waits for women to come 1.00

01:47:14.000 My guess is she knew what it was

01:47:16.000 He'd probably

01:47:17.200 My guess this is what i'm taking from this

01:47:19.440 She probably knew he was a cheater

01:47:21.760 He's like this is

01:47:23.280 Come on you know

01:47:24.480 And so you might say well that's wrong well

01:47:29.440 Yeah, but we again you don't know the full context of the situation and there's been so

01:47:34.240 Many times where a clip will come out when you hear the full context it's just not what you think

01:47:39.360 Call it because i'm having the kids that you wanted to have

01:47:42.240 You're having those kids that you wanted to have

01:47:44.880 It's not my fault you got pregnant with twins 0.95

01:47:46.400 Ooh, how about you could say your act school

01:47:48.240 That's true women are 100 responsible for who is born 1.00

01:47:52.320 So yeah, if you get pregnant that is your own fault 1.00

01:47:55.840 Because we have the right to get an abortion now you might say but pearl 1.00

01:47:59.920 That's wrong. It's wrong to get an abortion. I think it's wrong 0.99

01:48:03.200 but women don't so 1.00

01:48:05.760 I mean

01:48:07.040 It's just it's like always convenient that women don't believe in abortion 1.00

01:48:11.680 They they say we're too we think abortion's wrong, but we don't think the sex outside of marriage is right

01:48:17.200 Do you know what I mean? It's like

01:48:18.080 It's like if you're that religious that you don't believe in abortion

01:48:24.000 It's like it's kind of like pick and choose where it benefits you if you catch my drift

01:48:28.960 But yeah, so this guy's just gonna he's not gonna ask any questions

01:48:32.960 He's just gonna take the girl's side and this looks pretty bad, right? 0.96

01:48:36.640 But we don't know the full context

01:48:38.800 Score so fast

01:48:40.800 Because it's just one number

01:48:42.560 You told me you wanted a kid I told you I wasn't ready 0.87

01:48:45.040 Okay, you said you wanted two and look you got two but all at once so it's not my fault

01:48:51.440 I need this thing to slap harder, you know just

01:48:56.960 Yeah, so let's see what else

01:49:01.440 Um

01:49:02.880 All right, this is what I had to go through for five years

01:49:07.040 Let's see. Let's see this abuse

01:49:08.640 Another haircut and you expect me to tell you yo, you look so good

01:49:13.840 I swear if you put that on my car

01:49:15.680 I didn't put it on your card. It's my money. You didn't put it on your card. Yeah, like I'll believe that

01:49:21.120 I did let's just assume that's true. You can check who are you trying to impress with all these haircuts, huh?

01:49:26.720 Every few weeks you're getting a new hairstyle a new look who are you trying to

01:49:31.840 She was cheating. I bet she was cheating and he knew it 1.00

01:49:35.440 Impressed. I just want to

01:49:37.200 We're together it doesn't make any sense and I'm the one telling you I don't like the way it looks

01:49:42.800 You should be dressing and looking the way I want you to look

01:49:46.800 Not the way you feel like looking not the way people give you compliments over me

01:49:51.840 You're in a relationship with me

01:49:56.400 All the comments this is horrible that's domestic violence

01:50:01.840 I'm going to jail for this one. Oh my god. If a man ever tested me like this, I would be on the news

01:50:08.480 Um, I really oh, this was a skit, but this does happen though. This does happen

01:50:18.800 I don't care what your friends say

01:50:20.800 I the

01:50:22.800 These type of videos women record this type of stuff all the time 1.00

01:50:27.600 I'll be on alert. Everyone's got a smartphone

01:50:30.880 I don't care what the guy at the coffee shop says me

01:50:34.560 I'm sorry

01:50:35.920 You're sorry. No, you're gonna be sorry

01:50:38.640 Come here. You're good. What would have been better is like, um

01:50:43.200 The skit would have been better if it was more plastic surgery because I don't think I'd care about hair

01:50:48.240 But I could see that real fight being like plastic surgery

01:50:52.000 So, okay

01:50:53.520 Now every woman can be famous now 1.00

01:50:56.240 A lot of times men will come and say my solution to this is getting a woman that's not famous 0.99

01:51:01.680 Well, guess what she could become famous off of doing everybody's got a phone now 0.99

01:51:06.960 It used to be facebook then it moved to snapchat. Now. Everyone's got tick tock

01:51:11.120 Um, I can't remember what percent of gen z women create content on tick tock 1.00

01:51:17.520 What percent

01:51:19.600 Of gen z women create content on tick tock. I think it's actually pretty high. I remember I checked 0.97

01:51:28.480 75% of gen z women use tick tock 1.00

01:51:33.600 um

01:51:35.600 Oh, actually I didn't realize most of tick tock users 0.88

01:51:48.080 Are 25 to 34 years old. That's interesting. I thought it was lower

01:51:54.320 Okay, um oh wait here

01:51:58.080 This is gonna get worse. It's not gonna get better

01:52:01.040 So I would just prepare now the question is why do men accept this

01:52:05.680 So brittful

01:52:06.640 Brittful's law according to robert brittful states that in the animal species

01:52:12.880 The female determines the conditions of the family unit with association between the sex is only occurring 1.00

01:52:19.200 when the female benefits from the association with the male 0.99

01:52:22.720 Brittful's law emphasizes this law applies to non

01:52:27.360 this law

01:52:29.040 applies to non-human animals and contrast animal behavior with human families noting that the patriarchal

01:52:35.840 human family is

01:52:37.520 Jur

01:52:38.640 juridic a juridic institution

01:52:40.880 Not to animal groups governed by the female instinct

01:52:44.160 So there's some people that believe in this. There's some people that don't is the general consensus i've gotten

01:52:50.960 But what from what i've seen if that appears to be true that when there is no

01:52:55.680 Benefit to women for an association with someone the relationship will cease to exist

01:53:00.080 It's why you see men in these male female friendships where he gets no benefit 0.99

01:53:04.880 But the women get a ton of benefit 1.00

01:53:08.080 Female control the female is the primary driver of social structure and association within the animal family 1.00

01:53:14.160 benefit driven association male participation is contingent on the female deriving benefit from that association

01:53:20.160 The application to animals

01:53:22.240 Brittful applied the law to various animals including tigers lions monkeys and birds

01:53:27.440 Distinction from human families the lie 0.90

01:53:29.520 Law highlights a fundamental difference between animal groups and human families which Brittful argued shaped by culture and

01:53:36.160 Judicial factors rather rather than solely by instinct

01:53:39.440 So there's some people that say this does not apply to humans. I think it does

01:53:44.320 That's just been my my personal belief

01:53:47.120 Okay, so we're gonna add the stream with a whiteboard video is that all right, um

01:53:56.080 So i'm gonna show you why men put up with this okay, we're gonna do uh

01:54:17.120 We need it more this way right yeah forward more oh yeah here oh there i see

01:54:47.120 Oh

01:54:49.200 Oh, I see okay, all right, let me

01:54:54.800 Um

01:54:56.720 Do you have the wipes i used or like

01:55:00.400 Like a wet paper towel

01:55:08.000 Yeah, that works. Thank you

01:55:10.000 Grab me a dry paper towel too in a second

01:55:20.640 Okay, sorry guys

01:55:30.320 Okay

01:55:32.320 Thank you

01:55:45.440 All right guys

01:55:47.040 so

01:55:51.680 All right today we're going to talk about why men accept terrible deals in relationships

01:55:58.400 Now you might think

01:56:00.480 I would never accept that and that is a common trope that I've heard men in my

01:56:06.080 Experience interviewing a thousand people

01:56:08.640 Many men would say I will not accept a woman with x y and z and I would think they meant it 1.00

01:56:14.480 But much like women when they say they won't um that they're different than other girls 0.98

01:56:19.600 They don't always you know what they say doesn't match what they do

01:56:22.720 My observation was that a lot of times the guys that said I will not accept that did in fact accept that

01:56:30.720 Um, so what happens is

01:56:34.480 We have um

01:56:38.480 We're gonna divide 0.99

01:56:42.800 So we're gonna divide this into three categories

01:56:45.600 The mids

01:56:55.360 So we're gonna divide this into three categories the mids

01:57:01.360 hot people

01:57:05.360 Uggos

01:57:08.720 Okay, so we're gonna start with the men 0.57

01:57:11.520 So women only think like 20% of men are hot 0.98

01:57:17.520 So let's put two chads here

01:57:21.200 Now

01:57:22.320 Hot is a little bit more fluid for women. Um, so like comedians 1.00

01:57:27.760 For example may be ugly, but they're funny. So then we start to see them as hot

01:57:33.520 Um, you know guys with microphones they could like say anything and we're like ooh microphone now they're hot

01:57:40.800 So this is um contextual a little bit a guy

01:57:44.160 We might not find attractive then he goes behind a bar

01:57:47.120 Then all of a sudden we want to bang him I don't I don't make the rules I just tell you what they are

01:57:52.160 Now these are the mid men these are guys that are normal looking normal with like 0.99

01:57:58.480 charming women 1.00

01:58:01.440 You know, they're just I would say like average men

01:58:04.240 So let's say there's four of these

01:58:11.280 Um

01:58:13.440 Actually, I think more accurate we're gonna make three average men

01:58:16.160 And then you got the rest of them

01:58:20.320 These are the guys that are left out. We're gonna be frowning. Oh

01:58:25.440 Oh, you know, I'm I'm too ugly to get in the game sad 0.54

01:58:30.640 It's a sad case 0.98

01:58:32.720 We're gonna have we're gonna have the women too 1.00

01:58:34.480 All right, so

01:58:45.600 Now for women we're gonna divide it here so we're gonna make a nice chart 1.00

01:58:52.400 Now we're gonna have the hot women 1.00

01:58:54.160 And i'm actually gonna have a third category but what you'll see

01:58:59.200 So this is just looks alone to start so she might be hot 1.00

01:59:04.880 These are like the hot let's say like 20 year old women 1.00

01:59:12.960 You know we got the hot women here 1.00

01:59:14.400 Now

01:59:19.120 There's the hot women, but so maybe like hot hot people i'm putting is 1.00

01:59:25.600 Eight pluses

01:59:27.920 Mids i'm putting is

01:59:30.320 Four to six point five the seven maybe i'll do seven eight pluses yeah fine and the ugos sub force

01:59:37.680 So

01:59:40.800 There there could be a hot woman, but she's got like a hundred k of debt 1.00

01:59:46.960 So you know her initial looks

01:59:49.360 We're not going to take away from her. She is really hot 1.00

01:59:52.720 But she's got a hundred thousand dollars in debt, you know 0.99

01:59:56.320 Then we have another hot woman. She's hot, but she's got a kid 1.00

02:00:01.120 So over here are the hot women, but 1.00

02:00:04.080 And then we got the mids and it's the same kind of thing right

02:00:07.440 The because men are it's a lot more um unanimous like the looks

02:00:13.840 It changes based on the context like a guy could be mid in one context, but really attractive in another

02:00:28.480 And then the mids but you know

02:00:30.800 Okay

02:00:36.400 Okay, whatever

02:00:38.560 Um, and then i'm just gonna put the belugas we're just gonna 1.00

02:00:42.560 Yeah, these are the fat women 1.00

02:00:44.880 Obviously 0.95

02:00:47.120 So these are the circles 0.87

02:00:49.120 Um, these are the ugly let's give her a big nose 1.00

02:00:58.640 And she's fat 1.00

02:00:59.600 Okay, so these are all the women these are the guys 0.95

02:01:08.800 There's more women than men on the planet, so maybe there's a little bit more 1.00

02:01:12.640 So the men they they kind of are looking at the menu 0.91

02:01:16.320 Um, and the problem is the women keep ruining themselves 1.00

02:01:19.200 Like we might have a mid right and they think this guy thinks ooh, i'll take the mid

02:01:24.160 Uh, but then you know, she ruins herself a little bit 1.00

02:01:28.080 You know, she has a kid she gains 20 pounds 1.00

02:01:32.880 And now she's a mid butt 1.00

02:01:34.320 Um, and then we have you know a mid 1.00

02:01:37.840 That may be turned into a fat chick she becomes a sub four 1.00

02:01:41.680 And men realize um, that in order to get the mids without a butt 1.00

02:01:48.320 Or a hot chick 0.94

02:01:50.240 There is just a cost they have to put up with 0.92

02:01:53.520 And the hot men might not put up with it right they'll bang this girl 1.00

02:01:57.840 And she tries to broadcast their relationship and he's like

02:02:02.000 Let me let me go bang so the women we bang this guy 1.00

02:02:05.920 He you know like I've I know a guy who goes through 100 women a year 0.76

02:02:09.280 100 so he banged all of them, right?

02:02:12.640 He's banging banging banging banging banging bang you know goes runs runs through the women 1.00

02:02:19.120 Um, and so you might think well, who's gonna do that who's gonna put up with it?

02:02:23.280 Well, it's called the lonely men here

02:02:26.480 Because tom here he might say I am not putting up with an only fans

02:02:31.600 Just so I can be with the hot chick 1.00

02:02:34.160 But henry says hey, i'll do it 0.97

02:02:36.160 Henry says shut up tom 0.99

02:02:40.640 Um, and then we got dick over here and dick says okay. I just want this mid right here 0.99

02:02:47.280 And she doesn't have any debt. Um, she's not fat. I'll take her i'll take her 1.00

02:02:51.840 Um, that one. I want that one and she's like well, could we just do a little bit of a tick tock? 0.93

02:02:56.080 And at first he says no, and she says please

02:02:58.720 And then he bangs her a few times and he's like

02:03:02.080 And then all of a sudden he's on a tick tock relationship, right?

02:03:08.240 Um, so what happens is the more men are iced out like the less men that are in the hot category 0.63

02:03:14.640 Which is becoming less and less every year

02:03:16.640 The worse women get which women are getting fatter and fatter every year 1.00

02:03:21.120 So there's less mids to pay the more rare beauty becomes 1.00

02:03:24.720 The more men are willing to accept in order to get beauty

02:03:28.800 Now you might say but pearl what about character well? 0.97

02:03:32.560 You can get some character from the fat women, so 1.00

02:03:35.760 Um, not to say and you know what the women that do have character the line for them is out the door 1.00

02:03:44.960 You know because even the hot man at some point will say okay

02:03:48.320 I just want a cute girl with some character i'll take her and tom is like no

02:03:53.840 No, that's my girlfriend. I met her in high school and then 0.88

02:03:57.600 And you know, we got tyrone or we got brad over here that says no, I want that one

02:04:03.760 I'm gonna take your girl and and brad and tom over here saying no, no, don't take my girlfriend 1.00

02:04:10.160 Don't I have her I got her first and brad's like, you know, I can just take your girl and then

02:04:17.840 She'll she'll gaslight, right? She'll say I would never leave as she's actively leaving

02:04:23.680 So again, then this guy steals he runs through

02:04:28.640 All these women, um, and then the men are just forced to accept it. That's why 1.00

02:04:33.200 Um, the average age of marriage keeps going up because men will accept it 1.00

02:04:37.120 That's why ivf is being created because men will accept it now. It might not be you. I hope it's not but

02:04:43.680 somebody will

02:04:45.200 Somebody will and the quality of um

02:04:48.720 The people accepting it keeps getting higher and higher

02:04:51.520 um, because the government needs men to accept it

02:04:56.480 And society needs men to accept it to keep the economy going because who is going to pay for all these broads? We can't pay for ourselves 1.00

02:05:04.240 So someone's got to do it. Um

02:05:10.240 Yeah, and um

02:05:12.320 Then you know one girl gets too damaged and then you know

02:05:16.000 It just keeps getting more rare, you know

02:05:17.840 One beautiful girl gets too 0.95

02:05:20.160 Damaged from tyrone brad

02:05:22.480 Whatever chad she went for

02:05:25.120 Because women will always go for chad when given the chance 1.00

02:05:28.000 Um, if they think they have a good chance of locking him down

02:05:31.920 Um, which we're delusional. So we we do think that so, um

02:05:35.600 Then the more women get ruined now. There's like two girls to choose from 1.00

02:05:40.800 They both want brad brad might take one

02:05:45.040 Um, and then really the men here are like all right. I want a kid

02:05:49.600 I guess I will accept whatever in order to get children. I want children men men don't have the balls 1.00

02:05:55.600 Like when women have the balls to do ivf by themselves if women are losers and we cannot get 1.00

02:06:02.080 a man 1.00

02:06:04.240 We'll go buy one men won't do it for whatever reason they won't get a surrogate even though we have made their lives living hell on earth 0.97

02:06:13.040 We've made their like if they choose to reproduce with an american woman 1.00

02:06:18.000 Or any woman so yeah, that's why men keep accepting this stuff 0.96

02:06:23.280 so

02:06:25.280 Now we're going to go to the accumulation of this okay?

02:06:30.720 So the the final accumulation of how this has ended is men are now accepting 0.89

02:06:36.720 live streaming birth

02:06:40.720 So this is a twitch streamer

02:06:48.960 Now I don't know what women sound like when they give to be fair 1.00

02:06:52.000 I've never watched one until now, but this these moans sound very sexual to me

02:07:19.440 You

02:07:22.400 What

02:07:25.440 It's probably for the best they said the audio is it coming through

02:07:32.320 Where is the dad

02:07:44.560 This is crazy oh, there's the baby

02:07:52.000 I have no words

02:07:53.440 They put a vote for what to name the girl

02:08:04.080 I

02:08:04.320 I have no words

02:08:04.960 But yeah, this is where everything's going so

02:08:10.720 In order to be in a relationship men will have to sacrifice their privacy

02:08:16.000 That is the cost of a relationship

02:08:19.040 And there's going to be a good chunk of men that just walk away and say this isn't worth it

02:08:22.800 They're going to wait to call it risks and the rewards

02:08:25.840 There's always someone that's going to do it always

02:08:28.240 There's always

02:08:29.200 So let me know if you think I'm wrong

02:08:31.680 Let me know in the comments

02:08:32.640 Feel free

02:08:34.080 What is the craziest thing you have seen a man accept put it in the comments like the video?

02:08:40.960 Thank you guys for watching on a thursday night tomorrow

02:08:45.040 We're going to be releasing an essay video so there's no show

02:08:48.720 um

02:08:49.440 I filmed something wednesday pre-recorded with another conservative e-girl 0.99

02:08:54.160 So that'll come out saturday

02:08:56.800 And I think you guys will really like it. Please like the video subscribe

JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2025

Modern Women Are Livestreaming The Birth of Their Children ｜ Pearl Daily

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