Modern Women Are Livestreaming The Birth of Their Children ｜ Pearl Daily
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2 hours and 9 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how Taylor Swift s new album is coming out soon, the new Taylor Swift song, and a new song about labor contractions. We also talk about Taylor Swift's new album and much more!
Transcript
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But back in the old days it was behind the scenes
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So today you already know where we're going with this
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The ick factor on live streaming birth is still there
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Otherwise I'll just do stuff for the topic today
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Do you guys like the piano or the guitar better?
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There's no way they're going to the taco stand with us
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Because sometimes viewership drops when I do it
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There's something a little bit about the meat you get on the street
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So we're going to react to a few things I saw on TikTok
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Women weren't allowed to have credit cards until 50 years ago
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To this video of a woman talking about her student loan debt
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I recently posted about the fact I'm 26 years old
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I did not know that was actually the total of all of my debt
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I don't think I've actually gotten one good breath of oxygen
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I feel like there is an elephant sitting on my chest
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She probably went to some out-of-state private school
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When she could have just went to community college
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I've heard the men at Big Ten schools are very attractive
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That they are willing to take on this much debt
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You know when the girl that puts you in the friend zone
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And I didn't have to pay for it because of the Pell grant
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Which is where I really started to rack up the debt
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But that's where I started to rack up even more debt
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But when I tell you Sally Mae is bending me over
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And the reason why they take advantage of young students
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Now my federal student loans are between 4 and 6%
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Men that say they don't like this level of skinny and I know people say they're capping but I think there's some truth to that when you look at the bodies men rank the highest they are a little bit curvier than these women but at least facially most of these women are going to be eight pluses yeah look at it beautiful these women are beautiful
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Yeah cause men loved this one oh yeah Tyra Banks back in the day Heidi Klum yeah oh no it wasn't it wasn't this is Heidi Klum there was another woman though that was like okay so
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We just have to stop putting these women in positions they don't belong she's cute I don't think she's ugly but she's not beautiful she's not and you know a lot of the people when I was talking about this they came at me and they said Pearl but neither are you well I'm not the one being put in a fashion show I don't belong in
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And you might say Pearl you're just hating Pearl you just you don't want to uplift women but
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I don't know how it's uplifting to tell a woman that's a six that she's a nine
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Because in the dating market she's not going to get nine outcomes
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She will get six outcomes in terms of what men are willing to pay for her
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And i'm i'm the one being nice enough to say it
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Oh, okay i'm gonna facetime sneko and we're gonna so sneko
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Has been on band on youtube after three years and we're a friend
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So i'm gonna facetime him and you guys can come along
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I know that you saw all the ups and downs over the past three years
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You faced a lot of the same things that i faced the other day
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Actually just yesterday nick was saying how i faced a lot of
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You know i got banned my life got really affected by the nick thing
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And it was it was i mean i got banned but you got demonetized
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By platforming and being really early about a lot of things
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Talking about things that were very taboo at a time
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When everyone was afraid and now you see pearl everybody's talking about it
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So um what do you think for the future do you think there's gonna be um
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Like do you expect to stay on youtube are you gonna do things differently this time around
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Or are you gonna be more careful or what what's your plan moving forward
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You know i'll keep the streaming stuff and the political stuff and anything really taboo
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Off of youtube because i'm not a streamer i'm a i'm a youtuber i make videos
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I like to be creative i like to use the platform
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To express myself and so the whole red pill space that we found ourselves in
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I stumbled upon that but that's not my bread and butter
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So i i just want to make videos that are really good
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And i'm glad and i i'm glad that youtube gave me a second chance
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Cool um well thanks for calling in we just wanted to say congratulations
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From the audacity network so when you're in dallas
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Let me know and we'll have you back on the show
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And uh i'm super happy thank you for for always showing support
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All right i don't know if you guys could hear that
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My producer is sick of your guys shit he's sick
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He said i said i got it up they could hear it or not
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They he said they're gaslighting you if they say anything other he's sticky
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It's tough when you're the production guy because they never will say it's it's pretty rare for them to be like wow
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The audio was great today. They'll just let you know what it's not great
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They're just they'll just let you know what today was not the day
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I know I just said the city that was kind of stupid. I just I realized that as I did it
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The city I moved to um, I think a lot of people figured it out, but we might trim that after
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All right now we have a wife material versus street material
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How much money should a guy make per year 200 000 i guess my boyfriend makes like 30 000
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30 30 000 that should be way more she needs to make enough to spoil you and buy you everything you want
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I don't know if these are fake, but I actually wanted to analyze this
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It doesn't matter what they say see like we keep giving women clout points for like saying the right answers
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I just have a feeling that this girl has a bigger ego because
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I would say they're not really that different and attractive this and you might even say the girl on the left is more attractive
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Has marketed her instagram in a way that big names are going to be slot lighting into it
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What kind of car does he drive? He doesn't have one
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I mean, this is set up. This is kind of staged you can tell these girls are not good actresses
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But we got to stop we got to stop applauding for the right answer. You know what I mean
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Exactly. I mean I drive them around. That's fine. That's pathetic. I think money doesn't
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It doesn't matter so it doesn't matter if you want a successful life
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Women don't fall in love with you. They fall in love with the lifestyle you can give them. They don't love you
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They love the fact that you can protect them and provide for them and take care of them and make them laugh and make their problems
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Go away and take them on holidays and buy them handbags. That's what they love about you
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And then they sit and think they love you, but if you stop doing those things both of you will find out
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Yeah, okay, where are we going to next then we'll get into today's topic
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Running for office in california and her interview is going viral we gotta get these women back home
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We gotta voters who you'll need in order to win um who voted for trump
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How would I need them in order to win well unless you think you're going to get
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60 percent of the vote you think you'll get 60 for all everybody who did not vote for trump will vote for you
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I think that I will win the people who did not vote for trump what if it's you versus another democrat?
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So how do you not intend that to be the case? Do you are you going to ask them not to run?
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No, no, i'm saying i'm going to build the support
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I have the support already in terms of name recognition
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I can to make sure that we get through this primary in a really strong position
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But let me be clear with you. I represented orange county. I represented a purple area
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I have stood on my own two feet and one republican votes before that's not something every candidate in this race can say
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If you're from a deep blue area if you're from la or you're from oakland
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You just said you don't need those trump voters. Well, you asked me if I needed them to win
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You don't think like this is unnecessarily argumentative. What is your question?
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The question is the same thing I asked everybody this is unnecessarily
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Only a woman would come into politics and say this is unnecessarily argumentative
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Politics that's what that's what politics is known for arguing
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I mean, and this is being called the empowering voters to stop trump's power grab every other candidate has answered this question
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So and the question is what do you say to the 40 of voters who voted for trump?
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Oh, i'm happy to say that it's the do you need them to win part that I don't understand
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I'm happy to answer the answer the question as you haven't written and i'll answer it and we've also asked the other candidates
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Do you think you need any of those 40 percent of california voters to win?
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And you're saying no you don't no i'm saying i'm going to try to win every vote i can
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Well to those voters okay so so you i don't want to keep doing this i'm going to call it thank you
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You're not going to do the interview with us nope not like this i'm not not with seven follow-ups to every single question you ask
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Every other candidate has this was like a that was not a tough interview i've done i've seen tough interviews
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That is not a tough interview i don't care i don't care i i want to have a pleasant positive conversation which you ask me about every issue on this list
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And if every question you're going to make up a follow-up question then we're never going to get there
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And we're just going to circle around i am an investigative reporter i have never had to do this before ever you've never had
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I what part of i'm me i'm running for governor because i'm a leader so i am going to make so you're not going to answer questions from reporters
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I will continue to ask follow-up questions because that's my job as a journalist but i will go through and ask these and if you don't
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I don't really know what the plan was, but he won whatever game you're playing
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Ghosting him and then having all her friends ghost him
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Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of pearl daily
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Today we are going to talk about some of the trends that i really have seen in in society
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And i've kind of said this i've stated this over and over again that women are going to trade their families privacy to build their brand
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Conservative commentators will come at me and they'll say pearl you just are criticizing women
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Whenever I see you know brett cooper post her kid and her family on on instagram
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They'll say pearl you're just hateful you're just jealous
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Whenever I put see riley gains posting her kids birth or her
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Family pictures on the internet they'll say pearl you're hateful you're jealous and when I come at this
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It's really not meant to be hateful. I'm not even suggesting that in all cases. It's wrong
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But I have noticed a trend of women using our personal lives in order to build our online brand
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There was a time where men knew that the private moments in their home were just for them
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You know, and I think there's something special about the moments you have with somebody when nobody's watching
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I think anybody with a mother knows how performative mothers tend to be
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And you know when you're forced to do something so the world would see you right where you know
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You have to go to the events you have to wear these stupid clothes pose for pictures
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That you know, you're posted on the mother's social media. You have to brag about the whole town. Thank you to the new member
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But there's something special when somebody does something for you and they get no benefit out of it
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And there's no expectation and that's so rare with mothers
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Oh my gosh, I mean, how often does a mother do something for you and hold hold it over your head later?
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Um, you know, it's like they have a list ready to go of every nice thing they've done for you ever
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Isn't that crazy? It's like every little thing they've done for you ever
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So but there's something special, you know, when the mothers when you do have good involved parents
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Do the nice things for you day to day when nobody's watching one thing that I think about um
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In my childhood was my dad. He coached my basketball
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And I think that's why I have this like love of sports is because my my father he just
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He was a really involved like he did work a lot, but he was very involved when it came to the coach. He
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He would have been such a good head coach because he was so smart like he's the smartest person I've ever met
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Um, but he would have to be the assisted because he just did not oh another member byron. Thank you for signing up
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Uh, but he just he did not um have the time to be a head coach, you know
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Because sometimes he'd have to miss games. He'd always be the assistant coach and it would just he would be on the on the sidelines
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Like going crazy because he was smarter than the head coach always
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What do you just have to watch the him make like dumber decisions, right?
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But I just remember like some of my favorite childhood memories
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Or my dad like banging his clipboard saying like go go go and we're like in fifth grade running down with the basketball
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And the reason I love it so much is because you know, I this wasn't posted anywhere. This wasn't used
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My dad had nothing to gain from coaching my basketball. I mean, what does he get?
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Out of coaching fifth grade women's basketball. Do you know what I mean? It's funny. My dad didn't even play basketball
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But he's so smart. He figured out the game. It actually was a pretty good coach
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He still um is so proud of these like trophies like it's so it's so funny
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He'll he'll still brag about like these game winning shit. He can tell you the score
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There's something about those special moments that are just for like you guys where you know, they got nothing out of it
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Have you ever had somebody do something nice for you?
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You find out they got something out of it or they were using it for something
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And I guess it's not that it makes the thing they did any less nice, but
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You know, it's kind of like those youtubers that live stream the nice things they do
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Who are you to say that at all? They're doing a nice, you know, they're feeding the homeless
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But there's still just something a weird taste left in your mouth
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When something seems performative, I then I think that's what you get with a lot of women in general because we are so
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You know, we had to rely on having a good reputation in order to survive
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So it's very very difficult for us to let go of the reputation
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It's very free. I I didn't really have a choice because I got I got thrust into this
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No, I did have a choice. I made this choice, but I you know
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I'll say when you become a public figure it forces you to not care faster, but it's very freeing when you don't I'll tell you that
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Or sorry, there's something about when someone does something nice and they gain something out of it or they expect things from you later
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You know, I did this nice thing now. You have to do that nice thing
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Now a good person will reciprocate where they can
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But nobody wants to feel like they have to do something because you accepted niceness from them
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I think that's that makes the private moments at home even more special
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Um, but unfortunately now that all women are being given smartphones are being given all women are buying and addicted to smartphones
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Um, not only does everybody have smart a smartphone and a camera, but we have 4k video evidence
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Imagine guys if you're approached by a woman in public
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You might think that you're being recorded, right?
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We can't even like approach each other in public anymore without knowing is this a youtube prank is this that
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And you know someone that does public interviews i'm not here to criticize it
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But I I can kind of observe where this this is going I can see where this is headed
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And I think what a lot of other commentators miss when they're covering this kind of thing is they don't see the forest through the trees
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I know that social media is a pipeline for divorce and only fans
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Divorce only fans prostitution that is what social media is because
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You might as a young woman have a nice cute little vlog channel
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I mean if I was out here in a bikini stream or something it would get way more views
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So the incentives just are not great on social media and we saw that with sophie rain
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You know when she was young she was just a guest on david dobrik's vlogs
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Her parents probably thought oh, okay. She's just doing these cute little blogs, whatever
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And it's very difficult. I see where this is going because it's almost impossible to be intertwined in society
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Without your phones, you know, how do you get anywhere?
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How do you get invited to things half of the places that people go are through instagram reels or through a facebook group?
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You know the only sense of community people really have moving forward. We don't know our neighbors I
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Growing up. I I knew like two neighbors of mine too
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The only community you really have a lot of times is through the phone and people you meet through the phone and at times
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You know my personal experience and some of the best friends i've ever made were through phones
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It's not and I think youtubers and content creators feel this first because we're
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But I really see this as the future when I talk to younger women
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Um, you know, I asked one of my youngest sister
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Do you think you'd get invited to anything if you didn't have snapchat?
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Because that's that's how they all talk. They all talk through snapchat
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Um, and she said no, I wouldn't know anything that's going on. That's how everybody talks
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Now a lot of the traditional conservatives they come back and they say oh just ditch the phones and move on a farm
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Who wants to do that? You know, there has to be some people that just moved into the middle of the nowhere
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And now they don't have access to good doctors good jobs
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And they're like there with their cows and they got to just be pissed
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You know, because it's one thing if you have you know, because the small towns of america they're not what they used to be
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It's not the same and the people are leaving. I mean my mom
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She was from a town where I think less than 30 people were in her high school graduating class
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And I stayed there for a summer all of the young kids are going so you stay in that town. Who are you going to hang out with?
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And I mean maybe maybe you don't care, but I think that's going to be tough for a lot of people
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In general, I would say something that's important to men that's not important to women is privacy
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Women obviously if you look at social media trends, we will trade privacy for attention
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Post the selfies we will put I mean there are women that have died or gotten their boyfriends killed
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So they'll be like dating or married to like a cartel member
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And the opposite cartel just follows the girl on instagram and then kills the kingpin because his
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His wife was like streaming where they are where he was
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Because men see the downside of privacy being leaked right
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Men understand um, especially when it comes to relationships, you know, there's always the the age-old
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Argument that couples have you know, why won't you post me?
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You know, the girl she's like nagging the guy. Why won't you post me?
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The guy knows when he posts the girl that all of the guys that don't like him are gonna try to hit on the girl
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You know, and then now the girl is gonna have to get more input from all these people because people always care who women are dating
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People don't care who men are dating, but they always care who women are dating
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Especially young women because they draw the most attention
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I mean in fact that's half of this show is who are women dating and it has viewers, you know, so
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Um, but men don't like the silly stuff that you know men have a level of seriousness that they appreciate
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Um, and not to say that men cannot be playful. They obviously can be but I would say that's more of a female
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Trait, you know, you don't see men as much torturing their girlfriends with these stupid tiktok like silly trends, you know
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Babe, do you wish you were athletic? You know, you shoved the camera in his face
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So it's very obvious that men are accepting things that they really
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Generally unless they're making money off of it
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Um, that they're not generally comfortable with it, you know in in their nature
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There are men that do adapt to the market, but it's not their preference
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Because for men it's more important how you treat them privately than publicly
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Now obviously no man wants to be embarrassed in public or fight in public. That's very obvious and clear
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Public treatment that's good if the private treatment doesn't match
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I mean if she's being nice to you in public but abuses you in private is that
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Okay, let me let me continue so I want to show you how these demons are created
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And I saw this I love um, I actually love all these women sacrificing privacy
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Because it makes these shows way easier because I could show you where things are going wrong
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Now there's a lot of men fathers and brothers that constantly are telling their daughters
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They will bail them out of any bad decision that they make
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I'm going to give you an example of a way I see this so a lot of times young women
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Fathers and parents want them to live at home as long as possible
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Now I think in the old days there was a reason for this and there was a positivity in this right?
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You know, they would arrange the marriage or whatever
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But what I what I see happening when you live at home
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Is you start to submit to your parents will and your your brothers will and the people around you's will
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You know, and so the guy starts having to bargain with the dad and the brothers and do what they want instead of what he wants
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I don't and the when you have a fallback, you know when the family
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For the kids to move on to the next phase of life, you know
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If you're constantly going to the family events and you have all of that comfort
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What you know if anything it subsidizes women picking more alpha men?
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Because they get all the comfort from the family
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That's where you see like that billionaires a daughter
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Women had women want alpha traits more than comfort, but we need comfort, right?
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Where now a lot of times we get comfort through society the family the jobs
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What you get a lot of times too is the dad telling the daughters they can do no wrong and they deserve the world
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That's my dad who is a father of four daughters
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And I want to ask him what he thinks is princess treatment or bare minimum
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Okay, and you just say princess treatment or bare minimum
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Okay, to each question opens all my doors like car doors
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Any any doors princess treatment or bare minimum?
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Okay, so like bare minimum is like that's that's a no-brainer
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Princess treatment would be like oh like that's
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Brings flowers without a special occasion princess treatment or bare minimum?
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You deserve your door opened for exist just existing
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Now I don't know I can't say that behind the scenes of how he parents or teaches them
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Being alive and existing it's no wonder we become such brats
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Any of the details princess treatment or bare minimum?
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Picks me up and drops me off so I don't have to drive
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It means my car like details it and fills up my gas
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Why does the guy if you're too dumb to bring a jacket
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It's like we're conditioning women to put our needs above men's
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When in actuality if you really study what femininity is
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That's a more biblical patriarchal view of it if that's the way you view it
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The incentive is to keep forgetting the jacket and then make him deal with it
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Because society is just always telling women they deserve more
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I keep trying to keep you guys's expectations real low
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Real because imagine a guy comes in and he says
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No, you can open your own doors. You're not a kid
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Uh, if you forget your jacket, you're going to be cold
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Now the dad's going to say hey, you're not doing enough for my daughter
01:03:39.360
Uh, the next way that we are sacrificing privacy
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Is um now women do reviews on the men they're dating
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So, you know, you could go on a date with a girl and think wow that went well
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That went really well, but also we identified some
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Things that might not align, unfortunately, but I'm not sure
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So very interestingly, I'm going to get to this first
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Because I know that people are going to be asking about this
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At the end of the date, I brought up, you know, our last date
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The whole you tried to kiss me and I pulled away
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And I just very clearly said consent is super important to me
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So before anything like that happens, I just need to be asked first
01:04:30.240
And he was super respectful and was like, thank you so much for telling me
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And I appreciate how you're able to very effectively and confidently set your boundary
01:04:43.760
But we identified that the social media thing might not be in alignment
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Me being public with my life, which is a challenge of what I do here and what I love to do and create
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Isn't isn't really something that everyone is comfortable with so
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Because I was like if I'm being honest like there are some things that I like to experience
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First and then share with you guys so I give it a little bit of time
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There are just some things that I feel comfortable with myself just sharing right away
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And when you add another person into that it can get complicated
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But I don't want to have to send every piece of content to my potential partner to get approval
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So he was super respectful and we both were just like
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Let's think about it so I don't know we'll see if he like
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But I just saw a video that now she has a boyfriend
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Okay, so then this kind of translated right because now you might say but pearl
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This is just these are just the content creators. These are not normal women
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Well, how did this translate? Where did this go? You get you got to think ahead
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Are we dating the same guy refers to a viral network of women only facebook groups and an app where women anonymously share information about the men they've dated
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To give advice and warnings about deceit infidelity or dangerous behaviors from other members in their city
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These groups are used as a safety resource allowing women to vet potential partners by crowdsourcing their experience and holding men accountable
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Though they also face criticism for potential libel unverified claims and a lack of
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Anonymity for the men being discussed of how are we dating the same guys group works
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They seek information they share experiences and they are vetting and warning
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And men have to deal with this because most relationships start online
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To get into a relationship in 2025. I think it's over 80 percent or online
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So your choices as a guy are you generally are not going to like the city
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But all the young hot women are in the city. So you can either go live in the city
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Or um live where you want but sacrifice some privacy
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They're going to kind of rationalize it where they're like, ah, i'm gonna have to
01:08:16.880
The privacy is what's gonna have to go. Um, unfortunately
01:08:21.520
It says the purpose and the benefits are for women's safety
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Criticism and concerns there's lack of due process unverified information
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Okay, actually let me go and figure out how many
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Holy shit, there are approximately 3.5 million members across the 200 are we dating the same guy facebook groups in the united states of january
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Though the actual number of women is higher since membership is the primary way to join
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The total number of women across these groups is not publicly available
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But the total memberships are estimated to be in the millions
01:09:38.560
So it's over 3.5 million let's see how many women are in gen z how many women are in gen z
01:10:05.280
I'm gonna say if there's 3.5 publicly available members i'm gonna guess and say there's double the amount
01:10:13.360
Now I could be off right so let's cut that in half i my gut feeling is it's double so if it's 3.5
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But that would be about a quarter of women in gen z now obviously
01:10:33.040
I was just thinking of the dating age population
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I mean you you'd have to play with these numbers and get something more accurate that that's the tough thing
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But that means out of every like 10 women that see your profile at least one is in one of these group chats and can screenshot any messages
01:11:01.200
Now to be fair that does span across age groups my gut feeling is the older uglier women are going to be more likely
01:11:07.120
You know, because the gen z women, you know, this is kind of how it goes, right?
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Yet the young women they turn 18 and they're like i'm ready to be whores
01:11:15.600
Or find love whatever they go and then they you know
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We're gonna do what we do which is go for a guy out of our league get burned
01:11:24.080
Now a smart gen z woman would just go a little bit lower try again see what happens
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Isn't that crazy you know if a guy gets burned by an eight he's like let me try the sixes
01:11:46.400
If you guy gets burned by a six he's like it's time to date the force
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But we just keep going we're like shoot for the stars baby
01:11:55.680
Um, so now how does this translate to relationships this lack of privacy
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In all aspects men are going to have to give up privacy in order to be in relationships
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How crazy we are you have the time and the energy to be 100% on all the time
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She doesn't figure out the way to get into your social media. You don't leave the computer open look
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It depends how crazy of a woman you get right now
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And that's kind of what you could just roll the dice and that that's the best you got
01:13:03.600
I I really I got to push back a lot of guys think oh if I vet if I just vet her
01:13:09.280
Yeah, but you could she could be good for now and then be crazy later and I've seen women with
01:13:18.640
So it's really just luck hopefully you're a lucky guy
01:13:23.200
So once you get into a relationship with women because we're so concerned about our reputation
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We are going to use our relationship and the stuff we do for you to build our brand
01:13:36.640
So here we go you're going to start to see more of these videos
01:13:41.280
Where they use it for marketing on their social media and some men there's going to be men that look at this and say that's
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Bullshit, I'm not signing up for that and they'll get uglier women
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Not that this woman's super hot, but again, um, the more attractive the woman the more ability
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Things we are okay with in our marriage. I think they're weird. I don't
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So remember that's a nice thing to do. She says I don't wear sexy outfits unless i'm with you
01:14:19.200
But doesn't it kind of take you know what I mean again
01:14:22.000
We're going to this society where we're like, I don't wear sexy outfits unless i'm with my mitt
01:14:32.000
And it's it gives you more of an icky feeling when you're you know
01:14:40.800
Me we're okay with sexy outfits in public. We're okay with sexy outfits. Number two. I do not require my wife to cook meals for me
01:14:47.920
In fact doesn't usually cook meals for me better cook. He is
01:14:52.480
Number three. All right. This is that's another trend. I've seen
01:14:59.840
And men are better at cleaning than women where women are the ones with the traditionally
01:15:13.040
That there's more it seems like there's more women in corporate america. There's more women with sports cars
01:15:19.120
There's more women doing podcasting and microphones now
01:15:23.600
So women are kind of women will never do the dirty jobs
01:15:27.040
But they're taking all of the like pristine jobs in society the high status you could say
01:15:38.000
Because men are very pragmatic. They just think well, she's not cooking. So I guess i'll cook
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Her food sucks. I'll cook, you know, they're not they're not really keeping score here
01:15:48.800
The sticky ones I do not mind my single close friends being by themselves with a man
01:15:55.920
I am okay with that. Let's clarify. Let's clarify
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Because I don't have weird friends. These are like my best friends my best friend today. He likes to build things
01:16:05.440
He likes to build things. I like to build things. They can build things for the family if i'm on somewhere
01:16:10.640
They want to see the kids and brian's home. I don't mind them coming by to see the kids. We're not talking about sleepovers
01:16:16.640
No, we're not talking about sleepovers. No, we absolutely still have boundaries
01:16:19.520
But there's a lot of trust in this relationship. Yes
01:16:23.200
We do not have a man gets the final say type now
01:16:28.720
This might not just now you might say pearl, but these are influencers. That's not normal
01:16:35.600
Now I would agree that not everybody is going to have a full successful online brand
01:16:40.960
But you're going to see it on facebook for the older women snapchat for the younger women
01:16:50.800
Whatever social media site people are using it's going to the relationship is going to be used to build the brand
01:16:56.480
I kind of see where this is going a relationship. We just don't believe in it. We are partners
01:17:00.960
I believe that brian is head of our household. Absolutely. We don't do dictatorships. There is a difference
01:17:07.520
What means more her saying that you're the head of the household for social media or her just doing it
01:17:12.960
Now I she might do it. I don't know. I can't see what she does, but
01:17:20.560
The it just the ring kind of goes away when it's for the brand
01:17:24.720
The leader of your home without just putting your foot down and everything and just making decisions without incorporating the other person
01:17:30.480
What do you guys think is that weird? I know y'all disagree with one or two of them. Be bold say what you feel
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Controversial things. Yeah, so there's gonna be some men that adapt and they're like effort at least i'll make money off of this
01:17:41.920
I have to do it. Anyway, there's gonna be some men that opt out and say no. Thank you
01:17:56.640
My boyfriend called me all excited on his way home from gaul and this video is kind of it's pretty funny, right?
01:18:05.200
He got his first he got his first eagle of the season
01:18:09.920
I didn't react well enough over the phone. So he was sad
01:18:16.560
So my sister and I threw him a surprise dance party for him to come home
01:18:22.320
Now this guy thinks he's getting just a cool dance party. He's coming home. We're having fun
01:18:56.640
So again private moments are going to become public
01:19:07.840
And then a lot of people will say pearl you're such a hater right you're just hating they're in a happy relationship
01:19:17.120
I just got to call it for what it is and it's performative
01:19:27.840
My husband left his clothes on the floor. Maybe he was in a hurry to get to work this morning to provide for our family
01:19:39.440
You're gonna in bear like imagine how embarrassing that would be as a woman if you
01:19:47.360
And then the husband blasted and said, you know, I clean up for my wife out of love like that would be so embarrassing
01:19:54.800
And she doesn't though the wives just don't they don't see how embarrassing this is
01:19:59.280
Like I think we're just so they say that women are more socially calibrated
01:20:10.000
Because I don't think a guy would do this. I really don't
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Thank goodness I have clothes to clean for a healthy family who wore them
01:20:27.760
But is it better to like put the shift in mindset on social media or just do it?
01:20:34.480
You know like it's better to just do it, you know, let your actions speak
01:20:50.000
So what what she wants is to be worshipped right and that's really kind of what this all goes down to
01:20:55.600
When you look at women's social media, especially the right wing eager, it's just so obvious to me
01:21:04.960
For doing stuff for my family. It's just please worship me
01:21:16.560
I'm like can you imagine how embarrassing that would be
01:21:20.720
You made a mess and you the privacy of your own home
01:21:23.680
And now your mom's putting it on her tick-tock. I would be so embarrassed
01:21:45.600
So again anything that she does that's nice for you, it's just going to be used as marketing
01:21:51.520
So here. This is she's trying to signal that she's a good cook and a great wife. There's her sundress, you know
01:21:58.000
Yeah, so I am awesome and you know that a lot of these guys fall for this every single time
01:22:18.800
May lord protect your love from feminists and single mothers and alimony
01:22:26.880
I don't mean to but I like this guy. I don't mean to belittle your efforts. You're still going to eat from that food
01:22:31.760
You are cooking. I think that is I don't think it's doing that much for him
01:22:45.440
Let me see private private moments become public and dating
01:22:48.880
So now she's going on a diet with her her guy. This is your average looks match couple today one of eating healthy
01:23:53.600
Look at she uses her disabled boyfriend for marketing
01:24:03.920
Avoid traps of cynicism in social media analysis. Sometimes performance is driven to shape culture
01:24:11.360
Um, however, the trad con versus 304s is irrelevant to me. It's not cynicism. This is an observation
01:24:20.000
Look at me doing this nice thing for my husband is performative
01:24:37.920
She was making jokes about him getting it up like that's how bad it was. Oh my god. It was brutal. It was an absolute brutality
01:24:55.280
No tv in our bedroom the bedroom is for sleep and sex
01:24:59.920
Now again, who's making these rules do you think she is or he is
01:25:03.680
We never joke about divorce words carry power. We don't speak harm over our marriage
01:25:10.000
Josh trusts my intuition with people friends business partners and hiring decisions
01:25:14.560
He knows my spidey senses. We've learned the hard way
01:25:18.080
What that ignoring them costs us now we follow this rule?
01:25:21.120
So imagine you're like these are the rules for our relationship. I'm laying down the law
01:25:29.760
We have weekly a weekly relationship meeting we call it the best life
01:25:34.240
Where we get out of the house for an hour and discuss our marriage planning and how we can support each other
01:25:39.360
Dates are sacred at least once a week. It's just us the date is never canceled unless someone's dying
01:25:48.880
And he's got to do this she's like honey, here's my tripod. Can you put me on the counter and just
01:25:58.720
This is a pipeline to only fans or someone else in general
01:26:03.440
We pray together every morning and every night and pray over each other. God is part of our marriage
01:26:10.240
Uh, the three night rule. We don't spend more than three nights apart if something interferes with that
01:26:14.080
We figure it out or or heavily weigh if it's worth it
01:26:32.560
Your problems will all your relationship problems will also go on social media now again
01:26:41.360
You know, it could translate to just the girls group chat
01:26:49.920
I message group chat and I hope you have a great day. Love you
01:27:01.600
What's better let's do a poll of the chat a trad wife with an instagram or 10 bodies no instagram
01:27:16.400
Yeah, so he didn't he didn't respond to her text and now she's making this teehee this joke for social media
01:27:23.520
Hey, babe, i'm super busy right now, but i'm gonna give you a call as soon as I can. I hope you have a great day. Love you
01:27:42.240
And you guys can tell me if i'm wrong maybe you don't see a problem with the
01:27:47.520
Sacrificing your privacy, you know, maybe you want all the nice things
01:27:56.160
You don't mind having it broadcasted 10 bodies no instagram
01:28:14.160
Oh, never having to wonder if he has eyes for someone else
01:28:20.560
I'm letting you out of the house looking like this
01:28:31.440
Now imagine now she's using that on her instagram how embarrassing
01:28:38.560
You know what I mean because they're simping men like don't do in public but privately, you know
01:28:44.080
I mean ladies we we know how they talk you know um
01:29:07.520
So what does this use I can I'm so good looking that I can get him to talk to me like this
01:29:13.040
So now again, she's using her husband to build her reputation
01:29:17.280
Instead of just being it you know, it's so crazy. The answer is right in front of us, right?
01:29:26.160
Use family a husband to build reputation be a nice person it's like ah
01:29:52.720
Do the nice things for the husband and not post it on social media post it on social me. Ah, which one?
01:30:13.600
And now his cute that cute authentic private moment is now being used to build her brand
01:30:20.560
Isn't that crazy that cute private moment where you just authentically happy and together
01:30:36.720
And if they're not the right size, you can exchange them too
01:31:09.200
So I always look like the asshole when I'm like performative
01:31:13.600
Performative, you know, I look like the asshole
01:32:09.920
That's now for all of these strangers to see on the internet
01:32:13.840
Men are sacrificing privacy in order to be in relationship
01:32:20.880
And then it translates into marriage where the kids and the husband are used to signal status
01:32:34.000
The things they can get their husbands to do for them
01:32:36.480
Them doing something for their husbands is a way to signal status
01:32:46.080
You know because that's a lot of times people use children as a way to be good people
01:32:50.560
But I always think well if all your kids died would that make you less of a person
01:32:55.920
Like the person you are I don't think is really dependent
01:32:59.200
And I really don't like it when conservatives do this
01:33:03.760
They even shame young men for not having children
01:33:06.720
And I think well, I don't think the type of person you are is dependent upon if you have children
01:33:12.320
The other day I saw benny johnson do this and I thought benny everybody knows you're gay
01:33:15.920
I mean, it's just so obvious like anybody that's so I don't know how you of all people can be lecture it like come on
01:33:28.960
But you seem very gay. So I just don't think you could really lecture young men about getting married
01:33:35.280
Instead of using their instagrams to enhance their real life
01:33:38.560
Women are using their real life and relationships as a prop to enhance their instagram. That's a great analysis
01:33:45.680
That I couldn't have said it better myself. That was great
01:33:54.720
Don't have to literally everyone in this house would know where he is
01:34:00.720
So the first the first girl said track your husband's location and now again this woman is signaling. Hey, my husband would never cheat on me
01:34:07.600
He would never cheat everybody would know where he is
01:34:32.960
I don't want to look I don't want to look but if there's bookmarks, I might throw up
01:34:37.600
You you got there's freak shows on the internet, but they don't care. I don't care
01:34:42.000
Hey, so if you have a question for you, but if you can't find dad, where is he downstairs playing tears of the kingdom
01:34:49.920
Oh, look, there's my husband. What are you doing husband?
01:35:01.280
Pro marriage tip track now. I want to I want to switch this
01:35:07.760
Asked all the kids what is mom doing and they all said, oh, she's on her phone
01:35:12.480
She's on her phone wouldn't that be kind of embarrassing but women we have no problem embarrassing our husbands on social media
01:35:19.920
Point of view your daughter's waiting for daddy to come home
01:35:32.560
Kids look how awesome my life is, you know, it's the same thing
01:35:41.440
Again, you're putting a cute little girl on social media
01:35:46.240
Um now i'm not saying it's always gonna go bad, but I just can't I don't know
01:36:06.000
And I always have to look like the asshole. I gotta be like look is this a good idea is this worth
01:36:14.960
Your kids face being on the internet is that worth it
01:36:57.680
And the dad's probably thinking what a cute moment. What a cute awesome private moment
01:37:03.920
Oh, I totally wanted all of instagram to know about it. That's exactly what I wanted. Haha yay
01:37:38.800
To using the husband and the kids for clout. There's so many examples of these
01:37:43.760
It just never ends like if you go on instagram and go through reels like a few of these
01:37:51.600
You're so lucky you get to stay home with your baby
01:37:58.640
Look at now again this translates to look at all I can get my husband to do and pay for
01:38:20.400
She can't be this hot and wear this little clothing and you not think anything. Come on. Oh
01:38:35.600
He's thinking oh i'm just walking to my car. There's no one recording me
01:38:55.680
Now oh this is this is this this is showing another problem. So the mother's teaching the sons to be
01:39:03.680
Uh, this happens whether or not it's two-parent or one-parent household women love raising simps
01:39:20.320
Everybody's supposed to do that. What do you mean like every man if you're in a relationship that's like bare bare bare minimum
01:39:27.360
Okay, would princess treatment be we both got home and you have to take my car back out to fill it with gas
01:39:37.360
Okay, opening my car door every time i'm getting into it
01:39:40.880
Or you're coming home with a sweet treat even though I did not ask for one
01:39:52.720
We're we're trying to um save as much money as possible
01:39:56.240
So the link to the documentary is in the description if you guys want to go to the gofundme or super chat
01:40:01.440
So really appreciate it. It's for the divorce documentary
01:40:10.080
Refilling the water cup after you've already gotten in bed for the night and your wife's like I would like some water
01:40:21.360
Yeah, so now a woman can't even fill up her own water
01:40:26.960
Do you see this programming we do to these these young men from such a young age?
01:40:33.440
I'm thinking are you not i'm not i'm not against you know
01:40:37.680
I understand there's politeness you get up, but it's the bare minimum. She can't get up really
01:40:44.480
Truly year or for your anniversary or Christmas treatment. That's what you're supposed to do
01:40:59.440
I mean she's teaching these guys to get circles run around them
01:41:04.720
Yeah, like these gen z women they're gonna okay
01:41:07.440
Minimum all right paying for her to get her hair done like highlights cut color like a spa day
01:41:34.880
So remember this is something you got to be careful of because every girl has a phone
01:41:39.760
You should I would also um say to use the same tactic
01:41:43.520
But if you ever crash out on a girl it doesn't matter what she did first if she pulls out a phone
01:41:49.520
Yeah, look at all the money if you want to decide what happens in this house then pay for something. Oh, right
01:41:58.880
Guess what she's using um to in court, right? And he looks crazy in this
01:42:09.520
So yeah, if you have a fight with her and you crash out that happens sometimes in private
01:42:16.800
Yeah, she's there's probably albums that are phone and the daughters get in on it remember
01:42:26.560
With just adult women even the kids will go in on it and team up with the mom
01:42:32.320
I guess the dad was flirting with someone or the daughter says she he was flirting who knows if he was
01:42:38.800
She's recording it to get evidence to make the dad look bad
01:42:54.640
And I recorded it and i'm gonna show mom i don't care and i the camera heard you say baby
01:43:20.320
Now i'm not trying to defend the guy but regardless this is a private family moment a private family fight
01:43:26.960
It's now on social media and it will always be look
01:43:31.440
It will always be used to make the women look good and the men look bad always
01:44:00.960
Like anytime she needs anything at all she has to ask for money is that normal?
01:44:05.920
Fuck balls unfortunately man for so many amazing women out there it is they are being abused just like you are
01:44:14.480
There's a million guys and women just like this
01:44:18.320
Ready to tell your wife she's right if she cries on the internet
01:44:22.720
Hear me you're being fucking abused it's called financial abuse that's the legal term
01:44:34.960
See what he's trying to do ma'am is he needs to keep you under his thumb
01:44:37.760
He has to have fucking control and the easiest way to control somebody is fucking financially
01:44:43.280
It's the first form of separation in an abusive relationship
01:44:53.360
Where to go you have nowhere to go no way to get out of that relationship the house
01:45:00.000
I think women should pay their way I really I really do because
01:45:09.840
You know if we keep edifying laws or we keep pushing laws
01:45:19.600
Eff it go 50 50 then let's see let's see how it goes
01:45:23.600
This is his the cars in his name. He's made all the money. You don't have any bank accounts and you feel fucking stuck
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It's the way abusers keep control of their abused and so many women abuse the women stay in a motherfucking relationship
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But pieces of shit like this because of just that
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Watch my husband choose women online over his wife and unborn twin
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Maybe she started cheating he found out he wants to keep the family together. He starts cheating back
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Is he the macho man of simping there's a million simps just like him
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But women if you do anything wrong women will keep an album and hold it against you
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Do you see might as well keep an album back i'd recommend
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I know that's tiring, but if you wish to engage
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In relationships, I really would try to I mean this is what women do and we'll have
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Ask you to get me a glass of water like i'm sorry exactly
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What I have two kids inside of me downstairs and go get it yourself
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What when you're worried about my tinder whenever you're pregnant?
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It's fitting that you're on tinder a lot of fire where you're going
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If your girls on tinder don't want to see a man in a suit
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You have the mind of a person who writes his phone number on the stall in the men's bathroom
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Yeah, but we again you don't know the full context of the situation and there's been so
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Many times where a clip will come out when you hear the full context it's just not what you think
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Call it because i'm having the kids that you wanted to have
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You're having those kids that you wanted to have
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That's true women are 100 responsible for who is born
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So yeah, if you get pregnant that is your own fault
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Because we have the right to get an abortion now you might say but pearl
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That's wrong. It's wrong to get an abortion. I think it's wrong
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It's just it's like always convenient that women don't believe in abortion
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They they say we're too we think abortion's wrong, but we don't think the sex outside of marriage is right
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It's like if you're that religious that you don't believe in abortion
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It's like it's kind of like pick and choose where it benefits you if you catch my drift
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But yeah, so this guy's just gonna he's not gonna ask any questions
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He's just gonna take the girl's side and this looks pretty bad, right?
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You told me you wanted a kid I told you I wasn't ready
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Okay, you said you wanted two and look you got two but all at once so it's not my fault
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I need this thing to slap harder, you know just
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All right, this is what I had to go through for five years
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Another haircut and you expect me to tell you yo, you look so good
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I didn't put it on your card. It's my money. You didn't put it on your card. Yeah, like I'll believe that
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I did let's just assume that's true. You can check who are you trying to impress with all these haircuts, huh?
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Every few weeks you're getting a new hairstyle a new look who are you trying to
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She was cheating. I bet she was cheating and he knew it
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We're together it doesn't make any sense and I'm the one telling you I don't like the way it looks
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You should be dressing and looking the way I want you to look
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Not the way you feel like looking not the way people give you compliments over me
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All the comments this is horrible that's domestic violence
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I'm going to jail for this one. Oh my god. If a man ever tested me like this, I would be on the news
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Um, I really oh, this was a skit, but this does happen though. This does happen
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These type of videos women record this type of stuff all the time
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I don't care what the guy at the coffee shop says me
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Come here. You're good. What would have been better is like, um
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The skit would have been better if it was more plastic surgery because I don't think I'd care about hair
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But I could see that real fight being like plastic surgery
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A lot of times men will come and say my solution to this is getting a woman that's not famous
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Well, guess what she could become famous off of doing everybody's got a phone now
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It used to be facebook then it moved to snapchat. Now. Everyone's got tick tock
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Um, I can't remember what percent of gen z women create content on tick tock
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Of gen z women create content on tick tock. I think it's actually pretty high. I remember I checked
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Oh, actually I didn't realize most of tick tock users
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Are 25 to 34 years old. That's interesting. I thought it was lower
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This is gonna get worse. It's not gonna get better
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So I would just prepare now the question is why do men accept this
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Brittful's law according to robert brittful states that in the animal species
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The female determines the conditions of the family unit with association between the sex is only occurring
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when the female benefits from the association with the male
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Brittful's law emphasizes this law applies to non
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applies to non-human animals and contrast animal behavior with human families noting that the patriarchal
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Not to animal groups governed by the female instinct
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So there's some people that believe in this. There's some people that don't is the general consensus i've gotten
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But what from what i've seen if that appears to be true that when there is no
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Benefit to women for an association with someone the relationship will cease to exist
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It's why you see men in these male female friendships where he gets no benefit
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Female control the female is the primary driver of social structure and association within the animal family
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benefit driven association male participation is contingent on the female deriving benefit from that association
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Brittful applied the law to various animals including tigers lions monkeys and birds
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Law highlights a fundamental difference between animal groups and human families which Brittful argued shaped by culture and
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Judicial factors rather rather than solely by instinct
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So there's some people that say this does not apply to humans. I think it does
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Okay, so we're gonna add the stream with a whiteboard video is that all right, um
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So i'm gonna show you why men put up with this okay, we're gonna do uh
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We need it more this way right yeah forward more oh yeah here oh there i see
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All right today we're going to talk about why men accept terrible deals in relationships
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I would never accept that and that is a common trope that I've heard men in my
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Many men would say I will not accept a woman with x y and z and I would think they meant it
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But much like women when they say they won't um that they're different than other girls
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They don't always you know what they say doesn't match what they do
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My observation was that a lot of times the guys that said I will not accept that did in fact accept that
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So we're gonna divide this into three categories
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So we're gonna divide this into three categories the mids
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Hot is a little bit more fluid for women. Um, so like comedians
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For example may be ugly, but they're funny. So then we start to see them as hot
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Um, you know guys with microphones they could like say anything and we're like ooh microphone now they're hot
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We might not find attractive then he goes behind a bar
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Then all of a sudden we want to bang him I don't I don't make the rules I just tell you what they are
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Now these are the mid men these are guys that are normal looking normal with like
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You know, they're just I would say like average men
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Actually, I think more accurate we're gonna make three average men
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These are the guys that are left out. We're gonna be frowning. Oh
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Oh, you know, I'm I'm too ugly to get in the game sad
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We're gonna have we're gonna have the women too
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Now for women we're gonna divide it here so we're gonna make a nice chart
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And i'm actually gonna have a third category but what you'll see
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So this is just looks alone to start so she might be hot
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These are like the hot let's say like 20 year old women
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There's the hot women, but so maybe like hot hot people i'm putting is
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Four to six point five the seven maybe i'll do seven eight pluses yeah fine and the ugos sub force
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There there could be a hot woman, but she's got like a hundred k of debt
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We're not going to take away from her. She is really hot
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But she's got a hundred thousand dollars in debt, you know
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Then we have another hot woman. She's hot, but she's got a kid
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And then we got the mids and it's the same kind of thing right
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The because men are it's a lot more um unanimous like the looks
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It changes based on the context like a guy could be mid in one context, but really attractive in another
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Um, and then i'm just gonna put the belugas we're just gonna
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Um, these are the ugly let's give her a big nose
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Okay, so these are all the women these are the guys
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There's more women than men on the planet, so maybe there's a little bit more
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So the men they they kind of are looking at the menu
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Um, and the problem is the women keep ruining themselves
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Like we might have a mid right and they think this guy thinks ooh, i'll take the mid
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Uh, but then you know, she ruins herself a little bit
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That may be turned into a fat chick she becomes a sub four
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And men realize um, that in order to get the mids without a butt
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And the hot men might not put up with it right they'll bang this girl
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And she tries to broadcast their relationship and he's like
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Let me let me go bang so the women we bang this guy
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He you know like I've I know a guy who goes through 100 women a year
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He's banging banging banging banging banging bang you know goes runs runs through the women
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Um, and so you might think well, who's gonna do that who's gonna put up with it?
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Because tom here he might say I am not putting up with an only fans
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Um, and then we got dick over here and dick says okay. I just want this mid right here
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And she doesn't have any debt. Um, she's not fat. I'll take her i'll take her
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Um, that one. I want that one and she's like well, could we just do a little bit of a tick tock?
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And then he bangs her a few times and he's like
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And then all of a sudden he's on a tick tock relationship, right?
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Um, so what happens is the more men are iced out like the less men that are in the hot category
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The worse women get which women are getting fatter and fatter every year
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So there's less mids to pay the more rare beauty becomes
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The more men are willing to accept in order to get beauty
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Now you might say but pearl what about character well?
02:03:32.560
You can get some character from the fat women, so
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Um, not to say and you know what the women that do have character the line for them is out the door
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You know because even the hot man at some point will say okay
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I just want a cute girl with some character i'll take her and tom is like no
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No, that's my girlfriend. I met her in high school and then
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And you know, we got tyrone or we got brad over here that says no, I want that one
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I'm gonna take your girl and and brad and tom over here saying no, no, don't take my girlfriend
02:04:10.160
Don't I have her I got her first and brad's like, you know, I can just take your girl and then
02:04:17.840
She'll she'll gaslight, right? She'll say I would never leave as she's actively leaving
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All these women, um, and then the men are just forced to accept it. That's why
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Um, the average age of marriage keeps going up because men will accept it
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That's why ivf is being created because men will accept it now. It might not be you. I hope it's not but
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The people accepting it keeps getting higher and higher
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um, because the government needs men to accept it
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And society needs men to accept it to keep the economy going because who is going to pay for all these broads? We can't pay for ourselves
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Then you know one girl gets too damaged and then you know
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Because women will always go for chad when given the chance
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Um, if they think they have a good chance of locking him down
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Um, which we're delusional. So we we do think that so, um
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Then the more women get ruined now. There's like two girls to choose from
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Um, and then really the men here are like all right. I want a kid
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I guess I will accept whatever in order to get children. I want children men men don't have the balls
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Like when women have the balls to do ivf by themselves if women are losers and we cannot get
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We'll go buy one men won't do it for whatever reason they won't get a surrogate even though we have made their lives living hell on earth
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We've made their like if they choose to reproduce with an american woman
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Or any woman so yeah, that's why men keep accepting this stuff
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Now we're going to go to the accumulation of this okay?
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So the the final accumulation of how this has ended is men are now accepting
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Now I don't know what women sound like when they give to be fair
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I've never watched one until now, but this these moans sound very sexual to me
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It's probably for the best they said the audio is it coming through
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In order to be in a relationship men will have to sacrifice their privacy
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And there's going to be a good chunk of men that just walk away and say this isn't worth it
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They're going to wait to call it risks and the rewards
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There's always someone that's going to do it always
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What is the craziest thing you have seen a man accept put it in the comments like the video?
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