JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023


Modern Women Are Not ACCOUNTABLE


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32 minutes

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6,212

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00:00:00.000 obviously right but actually thinking about it right if i'm this girl and i'm getting fat
00:00:04.980 and i i see no problem with it i'm like i feel good i'm body positive and my friend comes to
00:00:10.360 me she says look i've noticed you're gaining weight is there anything we can do to help
00:00:13.900 that's not really going to prompt me to change actually if my friend came to me and went
00:00:18.320 you are fat what is going on that's going to prompt me to change so actually as women are we
00:00:23.680 actually harming each other with this feminine niceness would it not be better for us if we
00:00:28.840 were more harsh like how men are with each other like bro you're getting fat we're going to the
00:00:33.200 gym would it not be actually better for us if we were able to speak to each other the same way that
00:00:37.660 men speak to each other can i just say yeah you lot would never survive a call of duty lobby in 2012
00:00:43.960 yeah you would never survive it it doesn't make any sense yeah i'm not being you know
00:00:49.720 you're built different still we understand them and it's a little bit different but listen when
00:00:55.180 when you go into these lobbies and you're being called everything under the sun
00:00:59.040 listen you don't even know i'm black but i'm being called the n-word before i've even said
00:01:03.940 anything how did you know how did you know what i'm trying to say is i feel like if i'm coddling you
00:01:11.900 and i'm like oh my gosh that's not gonna help though that's not gonna help you're getting slightly
00:01:16.120 chubby oh my goodness can we um can we sort it out i think people can be not going to motivate you
00:01:22.000 to do anything but listen people can be harsh you can be nice in the beginning you can explain
00:01:26.220 things because you never know the reason to why somebody's gaining weight and i'm talking from
00:01:29.800 experience i've had thyroid problems which affect my hormones which then can affect our weight right
00:01:35.140 so somebody might not know what's going on but they are putting on weight and they are unconsciously
00:01:39.360 a bit scared maybe to talk about their health problems or whatever it is but then when you talk
00:01:43.660 about a situation where someone's deliberately doing the same behavioral pattern talking uh eating the
00:01:47.700 same crappy foods and carrying on with that behavior and you don't address it you're a shit
00:01:53.160 friend in my opinion if you deliver in a certain way to understand what the root cause is and you
00:01:57.180 understand the root cause is them just eating crap then maybe have a different approach but again
00:02:02.320 this is what i meant the circumstance can be different i see what you're saying but i i want to
00:02:06.240 argue the point that at the end of the day um how much does the root cause really matter
00:02:10.840 here's the thing let me because you want to fix it what's the reason for you telling them their
00:02:14.920 facts they want to you want them to improve let me make let me put more perspective on this the
00:02:18.800 reality what i've noticed is women actually secretly hate each other women are not real friends to each
00:02:25.300 other and that's why they always have to pretend the reason why i don't have a problem with my bro
00:02:30.300 telling me shit as blunt as possible is because i know he's my bro and i know he has my best interest
00:02:35.700 at heart so no matter how he says it i'm not going to take it the wrong way the reason why you
00:02:40.960 women always take things the wrong way is because secretly you don't know if that woman is truly
00:02:45.380 your friend i agree with that you guys hang out with people that are not you're not real friends
00:02:50.520 you hate each other secretly so whenever a woman comes to you and say something you take it sideways
00:02:55.200 like oh that bitch why would she even say that to me because you're not real friends
00:02:59.540 if me and my bro have been through all sorts of shit together maybe we're on the streets together
00:03:04.580 we came up together there is nothing he wants to say to me there's no how he's going to deliver it
00:03:08.620 that i'm going to take it the wrong way unless of course we are now at a point where he's done
00:03:12.600 something i don't consider him my friend anymore i listen if i'm getting fat and the man can't tell
00:03:18.360 me i'm getting fat you know my bedroom blood you shouldn't have them around you yeah you man i'm
00:03:22.180 even mad if i'm getting fat and my stomach hanging over the belt a little bit my chin getting a bit
00:03:27.440 doubly chest getting a bit resty and that and you don't tell me as the man them and we're going out
00:03:32.980 and we're enjoying ourselves and we're doing the madness and you can see people looking at me
00:03:36.000 weird you're a bad friend like what are we doing here let's go gym i want to hear the other side
00:03:40.920 uh you said that you wouldn't say anything what's your reasons for that as well my point of view
00:03:48.920 obviously was different like said i'm not going to say to a person you fat and uh yeah but in the
00:03:57.840 context that i mean you mentioned that if is my friend she was healthy before and now she's
00:04:04.720 gaining weight my approach would be obviously to ask if there is anything if she
00:04:11.280 as what is happening of her gaining weight is she feeling comfortable gaining weight or is she
00:04:17.740 obviously actually stressed so for you is it about the subjective emotion the person's feeling so
00:04:23.140 if they're gaining weight but they're still happy in their own skin you're okay with that
00:04:27.300 as well like said if there is any health issue related to that so i think that because for me
00:04:35.380 the point where as the the the whole thing with body positivity for me i'm not personally to focus
00:04:41.920 on the body i think it's more about the health and what i mean health is your mental health
00:04:47.260 and uh obviously your health himself in your mental health but doesn't work cannot improve
00:04:54.060 the mental health no way but forget that being overweight brings health problems so it doesn't
00:05:02.940 matter if the health problems are the reason that the weight is coming the weight will inevitably bring
00:05:07.260 problems with it so my question to you is are you going to tell them you talked about being as
00:05:13.420 overweight if you're overweight it says in the word overweight it obviously brings problems of
00:05:21.660 um health problems so are you gonna present that to your friend even if they say i'm perfectly happy
00:05:27.100 in my own skin i feel great like said whenever there is a health issue involved i'm gonna speak
00:05:34.540 about it because health is more important than looks so you wait until they're already dying before you
00:05:40.860 you this is not what i said one one more time again you're trying to you know misunderstand what
00:05:48.380 you want but this is not what i said no i actually i actually purposely made it exaggerated but it's
00:05:54.780 the point stands the point is what you're saying is you're going to wait until there's a health issue
00:05:59.100 before you bring it up but the reality is what you should do as a friend is to bring it up because
00:06:03.420 the reality is some people don't even know yeah what's going on when it could be when something could
00:06:07.980 be going wrong with them but if you bring it up then they could look like okay maybe i should go
00:06:11.420 to the hospital and actually check myself up but you wouldn't bring it up until maybe they've
00:06:17.100 they've probably fainted one day and then they go to the hospital once again you are misunderstanding
00:06:22.300 you are mentioning there's nothing that i said that i can relate that i said unfortunately because
00:06:27.500 health is not is not only getting physically uh as that that you're sick is not that you get
00:06:34.940 how do you say it in english you don't have to be physically sick to be sure your mental health can
00:06:40.780 already be deteriorated for you to be sick look i'm never trying to be funny if the person is not happy
00:06:48.140 and the person is not i'm not even trying to be funny but i just find it funny how
00:06:54.060 you keep saying i am misunderstanding where you're when you're the one that doesn't really understand
00:06:58.860 english it's just very funny because i understand exactly what you say but you are the one that keeps
00:07:03.740 misunderstanding what i'm saying and and me not maybe putting in a way what i want to say
00:07:11.260 because what i want to say i know i know what i want to say and what you are saying is absolutely
00:07:17.100 not what i said wasn't the question i will not wait i will not i will not wait for my friend to be
00:07:22.060 able to would you guys be on the way to die before i'm not only the question was overweight overweight
00:07:27.500 would you guys date a woman that's taller or more overweight let's look at both aspects
00:07:32.700 okay tell me explain overweight yes obese no taller yes really doesn't matter to me it depends
00:07:38.700 i'm 62 i am and i'm all right it depends on how it depends on how overweight she is think about
00:07:43.020 other men though let's talk about a general perspective here she if she's if she's if she's
00:07:46.940 a bit on a thick side then little tickers yeah a little bounce yeah the bmi might say differently
00:07:54.060 but you know but it doesn't put you off it doesn't put you off and a bit of weight doesn't put you off
00:07:59.340 no no no no it just depends on how much weight cause does it depend on the face as well she has to be
00:08:05.260 i'm not gonna lie she has to be pretty okay so there's standards here now because there are some
00:08:10.620 pretty facts you gotta say overweight and we gotta be politically correct no you can say
00:08:16.860 fast no we can't we say it over just say overweight so there's chubs chicks with cute faces yeah there
00:08:23.340 is there is there is little chubsies get me okay they can always that might be tall as well okay they
00:08:28.140 can always go turkey and swear and get a bb when it's easy things all right but let me ask a quick
00:08:31.820 question yeah or just i'll just go i i i genuinely i don't even feel like this is what i'm saying i
00:08:37.340 don't even feel like this is a bit of a madness yeah let me ask you a question yeah let's say for
00:08:40.860 example you was going up can you hear me let's say for example you're going out with your pretends
00:08:44.060 yes your pretends birthday yeah she's bought this one dress that is not befitting of her figure at all
00:08:51.020 yeah she's put the dress on the dress looks mad but it's her birthday dress it's her dream dress she
00:08:56.540 knows what one oh this is how i want to look she's she's she fitted the hair but the hair is not
00:09:03.260 herring do you get me certain things are lifting do you get what i'm saying maybe the glue was not
00:09:06.860 too gluey do you see what i'm saying that that type of thing in general it's your brethren's birthday
00:09:11.740 would you look at her in that situation and at least and let her go out would you at least be
00:09:16.380 honest and be like yo babes look you might want to change the dress i know this is your birthday
00:09:20.940 dress x y and z but you might want to change it because it's not flattering or if the wig might be
00:09:25.260 lifting or the hair might be hearing or the extent the extension extension all right don't beat us
00:09:31.500 out though so the fuck down stop beating us let her answer let her answer would you tell her
00:09:41.820 you need to rephrase again properly what you're trying to say because you have mentioned a lot of
00:09:45.740 things your friend essentially looks awful she looks terrible you nice ways you can you can see she
00:09:54.780 just she doesn't look good right but she thinks she does are you letting her go out looking like
00:10:01.340 that or are you telling her love you to pieces but you look like shit well if her outfit is looking all
00:10:10.620 over the place and her wig is lifting and her eyelashes glue wherever obviously i'm gonna tell
00:10:16.380 that because this is not how you put on the wig this is not how you put the eyelashes but
00:10:21.580 if everything is looking good but it's just a question of a person not finding it good
00:10:29.420 i don't know what to say no fair enough fair enough okay right
00:10:36.060 i don't know if i if i think that this is truthful based on your other answer however you're you're
00:10:42.860 entitled to your opinion so we'll we'll leave it at that um well so we've established that women lie
00:10:49.900 to each other okay um we won't get into why because that's a whole other long conversation
00:10:56.380 more to women or to men uh i think we just lie in general i think we we we have adapted in such a way
00:11:04.860 that we're extremely manipulative um and it's a survival tactic and i think in today's day and age
00:11:10.940 it's been overinflated to the point where women get away with lying about things that we don't even
00:11:15.820 need to lie about anymore okay um so a question i have about female nature um is can women make good
00:11:23.500 decisions you can go into so many more yeah a bit more context let me give more context because
00:11:31.820 people go into deep yeah of course we over we overthink everything what can i do i've been designed
00:11:37.420 like this can women make good decisions who makes a better decision a man or a woman
00:11:42.700 well men who's better at making decisions we lead with emotions men lead with logic so you can
00:11:47.340 understand which side is a better situation so you're saying i'm saying logic you're saying men
00:11:53.900 make better decisions yeah in general it's men i think it really depends to be honest with you um so
00:12:03.820 women haven't been put in certain positions to be able to have enough data for us to be like oh you
00:12:08.300 make considerably better decisions than men or worse they just haven't been put in those positions
00:12:12.620 before why have they not been put in those positions oh for multitude of reasons um such as
00:12:17.340 mandem being mandem stay in a woman's place prime example they can only be like
00:12:23.820 hang on a minute hang on a minute wait wait wait wait wait wait wait so you're suggesting that the
00:12:28.220 reason that women aren't in significant positions of power i'm not suggesting that so are you so you just
00:12:34.140 said that because of to quote yourself i said i said i said the reason why both of them are is
00:12:39.660 it's possible i don't know you said that women don't have enough data available there's four girls
00:12:48.860 the question i'm trying to ask is are you i correct me if i'm wrong but it sounds like
00:12:53.980 you're kind of going along the lines of patriarchy is that what you're saying no no so long story short
00:12:59.980 long story short i'm saying we don't have enough data on both ends of both people doing the same
00:13:05.500 amount of things to be able to be like this person does better than the other so for example if we
00:13:09.900 had as many dictators as we did male dictators as we did women yeah we could therefore be like all right
00:13:15.260 cool let's come in the middle and we can say this person did better as opposed to because they killed
00:13:19.420 more people wait wait no no not because they killed more people but because it could be because
00:13:25.020 no no it could be because they they just did better for their community it could literally just be
00:13:28.780 that survival exactly it could be you know you you you put something in place for your community in
00:13:34.540 order for them to gain so much benefits like seven to seventy years down the line like let's say for
00:13:41.740 example um we look at war if we had as many women in war as we did men perpetuating the war and we
00:13:50.940 brought it together we could be like all right cool well we can genuinely tell that yeah this person is
00:13:55.660 better strategy than the other one but we just don't have enough data hold on hold on i'm gonna
00:14:00.380 fact check you right there uh women have actually waged more in history uh women women are more likely
00:14:05.980 to wage war than men okay and that's based off of the data set that we have that is men typically tend
00:14:12.140 to be in positions of power more even with men in power more women are still more likely to wage war so
00:14:18.460 what i would suggest is that we look at the situation we're in which is that men are in significant
00:14:23.660 positions of power more than women why is that is it because of this idea of a patriarchy and that
00:14:31.340 men have oppressed women and that's and that women have just been told to keep in their place and
00:14:35.340 that's why men in positions of power or is it that men are just better at it but we again we can't make
00:14:41.900 that judgment because we haven't had enough of a sample sample to be able to say that again how long
00:14:47.660 we've had maybe a hundred men i'm just throwing numbers out there we've had maybe a hundred men
00:14:56.220 be in mad amount of positions of power and run countries amazingly we've only had a select number
00:15:01.980 of women be in a position of power and everything that they do might be really and that's what that's
00:15:11.580 why i'm saying it's difficult but look at america right now that are telling women you might be
00:15:15.340 drawn to go to war what obviously i don't i don't want to get into that i believe in equal rights
00:15:21.180 because you lot fought for it but i'm not trying to get into that equal rights i'm sorry women should
00:15:24.380 not be going to war no no you don't you don't know you don't want you right so so we're going to be
00:15:29.100 equal women we need to we need to say conflict but yeah in in general you have to understand this the
00:15:36.060 way i'm seeing it i'm seeing just just a graphical graphical situation in general of course men have been in
00:15:40.780 multiple positions of power which means anyone cause one second one second anyone that messes up
00:15:47.260 the stat is not going to be the same do you see what i'm saying if 100 men do do a madness and 10
00:15:52.380 of the man then up as opposed to 10 10 women be in the same situation and one woman up
00:15:58.620 or two women up bro that's 20 as opposed to 10 we just don't we just don't have enough
00:16:03.740 i said 100 i said 100 men 10 getting it wrong that's 10 men yeah if we have 10 women and 20
00:16:14.220 getting it wrong that's two women who's the percentage is likely to be higher so what i'm
00:16:19.340 trying to what i'm trying to say to you is the reason why i don't want to say one side or the
00:16:22.140 other it's just we just don't have enough data to be able to say it i believe that there's been women
00:16:25.580 in power that have done absolutely amazing and we could see other women that are in those same
00:16:30.380 situations that do amazing things but there's a reason we don't have enough yeah but majority of
00:16:34.300 fights that happen to challenge you to challenge you on that point the problem with your point is
00:16:40.780 that you're looking at it from a very recent point of view true so how many years do you think human
00:16:46.460 beings have existed on the face of the earth a lot right like probably hundreds of thousands of years
00:16:53.180 so for most part for most part of that time it's only like very it's only a very small percentage
00:17:00.940 of that time that we've seen modern society right and women so most of the way human beings behave
00:17:07.420 today is not based on this our new way of living in our new technological society is actually based on
00:17:14.220 thousands of years of evolution now based off of that men and women operate not because of oppression or
00:17:21.660 because women need to stay in their lane it's because of this is how human beings have actually
00:17:25.500 had to be to survive so if they are not women in power it's not because men don't want women to be
00:17:31.180 in power it's because women have not been able to be in power i never said that men didn't want them
00:17:35.180 to be in power i'm just saying we just don't have so meaning no meaning men have been the more
00:17:40.300 competent ones to be in power it's not but we take everything over so of course we're going to be
00:17:46.380 exactly but isn't that that is why we are the ones that are more likely to be in power because we take
00:17:50.860 everything over being able to take something over doesn't mean you're good to to lead it no but that's
00:17:55.180 the problem no but that's the problem how can you defend how can you lead something you can't defend
00:18:03.980 that's true fair enough so if you have an ideology the only way for your ideology to fly is if you are
00:18:11.100 willing to stand with your life and defend it the problem with today's society is women claim they
00:18:15.980 have all this right way of thinking and these ideologies but they cannot even defend it themselves
00:18:20.220 they still need men to defend their ideologies do you see what just happened there a brother gave me
00:18:26.780 some some knowledge and i conceded on the point because i just recognized that he was correct
00:18:33.820 i feel like we need to have some more accountability
00:18:35.580 no he's right he's right fair enough romeo can women make good decisions can women make good
00:18:45.100 decisions it depends on the type of woman what does it depend on um her intelligence and what she's
00:18:52.860 what she's got to to give you know um all women are different as you can see there's we've got these
00:19:00.860 only fans women we've got in general oh in general that wasn't the question you asked me though
00:19:12.540 okay who makes better decisions men or women there we go there we go um men overall right so i'm gonna
00:19:21.420 ask the original question again minus the feminine context can women generally as a majority the female
00:19:28.940 species do we make good decisions you can do at times yeah the majority of the time do we make good
00:19:38.140 decisions no why not no why why do you say no um i think there's a and again i feel like women kind of
00:19:47.740 playing i feel like women kind of play into this you you guys are a bit in a bubble it's like
00:19:53.500 like your your like your friends your brethren give you terrible advice if i'm being honest yeah
00:19:59.740 your brethren will give you terrible advice but weren't you the same guy talking about accountability
00:20:03.500 a couple of minutes ago yeah exactly so what's the advice got to do with it if you're accountable
00:20:07.820 for your own actions but women aren't accountable for their own actions and that's the point fair
00:20:11.180 enough there we go so what i'm trying to say is women aren't necessarily accountable for a lot of
00:20:16.300 things that they do but not only that women like their brethren give terrible advice so instead of
00:20:23.580 like for example if there's a massive breakup or something go heal go relax go chill no it's city
00:20:29.260 girl time throw that ass in a circle do your madness go go do whatever you want to do and it's like that's
00:20:36.540 not good advice that's not how you deal with your emotions and you know what it is you see when you
00:20:43.100 flip these situations and it's like both parties start partaking in the terrible behavior
00:20:51.020 women don't like it and it's like why why you don't give our terrible advice okay i wanna i wanna
00:20:56.780 you seem like you have some thoughts no no no no no it's a fair point what he just said but
00:21:03.900 you're saying that oh when the girl i'm gonna use what you said about the whole breakup thing when a
00:21:07.660 girl breaks up with a boyfriend wherever she's going around going out enjoying time with the girls but
00:21:12.460 what what are you men doing you guys aren't so we're going to the gym and we can't compare each
00:21:16.620 other to men because we want to be apparently superior we're going to the gym and playing
00:21:21.020 quality that's what we do the simplest thing probably that's that that's me what you do but
00:21:25.180 that is not a large majority of you do you're out there trying to clap cheeks straight away
00:21:29.820 the vast majority of men don't clap so what are you talking about what's going on about clapping cheeks
00:21:34.060 you're the one that introduced that word i know i know i know i've influenced a bit of a
00:21:39.580 madness here but we're moving it we're moving but the vast majority of men don't clap cheeks so what
00:21:43.580 do we do from there we're trying to you we're still going out and stuff you think that that
00:21:48.860 girls just go out because we're trying to trying to but a lot of the time when a girl breaks up she
00:21:56.220 goes out with her with her friends yeah not all of them but the majority of them might do that
00:22:00.860 but a lot of them a lot of the time it's not because they're trying to get down the day a lot
00:22:05.180 of time they just want to just enjoy with their girls and and we're emotional so we just want to
00:22:09.420 we just want to distract ourselves okay i have a question wait i have a question um so if it's if
00:22:14.620 it's just about you know being with your girls and being around your girls wouldn't have they told you
00:22:19.980 that you're a relationship boyfriend no why do you need to do that at the club yeah yeah no you don't you
00:22:27.340 don't have to do that at the club i can only like i'm i'm for for speaking for myself i wouldn't do
00:22:31.900 that but the club is a i feel like a club is a place that's just very distracting girls and that
00:22:38.060 just want to be fully distracted from from from there is that healthy no it's not so why do we
00:22:43.820 encourage each other to do it my friends don't encourage me to do it so oh you're clearly an anomaly
00:22:50.620 well maybe but
00:22:54.620 danica welcome back hi um i want to know do women make good decisions no why not definitely not
00:23:02.780 especially like you were saying earlier on uh women tend to especially in a group i don't trust anybody
00:23:07.660 that has more than four or five friends and i'm talking at the age of 30 and everybody at different
00:23:11.980 ages at different stages their lives will understand things differently when you're young
00:23:17.340 you might not really realize that somebody's talking to you and encouraging you in a negative
00:23:21.500 way even though they've got hate for you and they're around you just for jealousy
00:23:25.740 sake because they want to be around the same people that you know whatever it is interior motive
00:23:30.220 but when you reach a certain age and you're doing the same stupidity of letting other people
00:23:34.700 because everybody knows deep down when you've made a mistake everybody deep down unconsciously or they
00:23:39.260 feel they've got it in the pit of the summit when they know they're doing something wrong
00:23:43.260 and then other people validating that one second
00:23:47.260 this i just have something to say about this so you said everyone knows when we're doing something
00:23:53.020 wrong of conscious normality yes actually in the modern day a study came out in 2023
00:23:59.900 um it was a study on uh casual sex encounters between men and women and it was a longitudinal study
00:24:06.220 that looks at sexual action regret and sexual inaction regret so we know that men typically
00:24:12.300 regret passing up sexual offers they they regret turning down casual sex whereas women tend to regret
00:24:19.180 more having casual sex so when we had casual sex we tend to regret it so this study essentially aimed to
00:24:25.660 look at you know who how do we learn from regret so if we have the emotion of regret surely it should be
00:24:32.700 there to tell us we've done something wrong and we should probably change our behavior
00:24:37.260 what this study found is that regret seems to be working pretty well in in men when men
00:24:42.860 in hand in hand with denial unfortunately when men regret
00:24:46.540 have sexual regret so they they've passed up an offer of casual sex um they they change their
00:24:51.100 behavior to make sure they don't feel that again actually what this study found is that when
00:24:55.660 women have experienced regret after a casual sexual encounter they carry on it has had zero effect
00:25:02.700 on the number of their sexual partners and they still indulge in the same behavior so women are
00:25:07.740 feeling regret but something has gone seriously wrong in our psychology because we can no longer
00:25:14.380 learn from the feeling of regret i can add that to that as well actually majority majority let's say 80
00:25:20.460 to 85 percent of women that have been sexually abused tend to become hyper sexualized right so the
00:25:27.020 behaviors then become they want to have more sex which is a very strange thing to actually when you
00:25:33.340 think about it from an outside perspective but majority more the majority of women that have been sexually
00:25:38.540 abused tend to be become hyper sexually hyper sexualized and have more sex i want to have more sex
00:25:45.820 now where the psyche why that's like a more more of a depth kind of conversation to go into
00:25:51.420 but i think that's what i'm seeing more into play society as okay sexual abuse can be different
00:25:57.420 things and by the way i don't like the fact that women over i feel like sexual abuse has been changed
00:26:02.780 as a concept throughout the years by the way i agree but before we go into that topic abuela same question
00:26:10.140 do women generally majority of women no specifics as a group do we tend to make good decisions
00:26:16.140 um i personally i don't i don't have any thought about that but if we have to carry on as well if i have
00:26:27.020 to carry on on the logic that of the first question you ask if between men and women who make the
00:26:33.980 who makes better decisions so i would say yeah i don't i don't have any specific things to say
00:26:40.860 if there is not any more context um so women as a group in general would you say they tend to make
00:26:50.860 good decisions or they tend to make bad decisions this is not to deny the fact that there are exceptions
00:26:56.300 but the majority of women do we make good decisions or bad decisions like said i don't have any ideas on
00:27:01.580 that because i didn't read anything about this and uh i don't okay so let's talk about let's talk about
00:27:07.580 anecdotes uh you know statistics and facts and science aside let's just talk about what we what
00:27:12.940 we see in society so if women are good at making decisions generally let's go with that consensus
00:27:21.020 why is it that pretty much every girl i've ever spoke to has had some kind of toxic ex
00:27:28.940 have any of you on the sofa had a toxic ex
00:27:32.060 i've had toxic situations but i i don't really want to go into
00:27:37.980 yeah yeah i would say have you had a toxic ex relationship have you had an encounter with
00:27:44.220 a man who you would class as toxic i would say that most of men are toxic but uh if you have to
00:27:51.820 seen on that way wait wait what the hell wait you said that you just you just came at the right time
00:27:57.500 what did you just say let her elaborate okay let her finish let her land um i mean i will ask as
00:28:05.340 well if a man didn't have the toxic ex which is the case so no but you just said you just said something
00:28:11.180 may just said that most men are toxic yeah yeah can you can you can you can you um extend on that please
00:28:17.340 i don't know how to stand in more because this english so why did you say it but uh it's for me
00:28:23.900 personally i believe that um there's more toxicity in general as well it's not even about have you met
00:28:29.980 51 of the men in the world no how many how can you make that judgment then how many men have you been
00:28:36.380 with we are talking about that's a bit personal we are not talking about we are not talking about every
00:28:41.100 man so surely we shouldn't make that so you think all men are toxic is that what you're saying
00:28:45.740 as well nobody has said that i'm not sure no but you made an absolute statement which is most
00:28:51.260 she said she thinks the majority which means more than 50 which is most so can you substantiate that
00:28:59.660 so can you substantiate that so what what do you what do you when you say that the majority of men
00:29:05.820 are toxic can you tell us what you mean by toxic
00:29:09.580 what what what what constitutes a toxic man what makes a man for the first date
00:29:18.140 oh gosh
00:29:24.540 jesus so in the context of your statement the majority of men are toxic what is toxic to you
00:29:29.500 in in in in that statement as well in that statement i will go more for the the mentality of
00:29:38.700 men in the society when it comes to dating so what does that look like as well i don't really
00:29:45.580 have an idea uh because uh like say again i don't have any study read or i don't know it's not
00:29:53.420 no that's okay in your in your personal opinion but um yeah what men are you dating so can we agree
00:30:03.100 that some men are toxic then seen as you can't substantiate what you're talking about um i don't
00:30:08.620 know how to put it in a way but um i think that's in general men have a very toxic point of view when
00:30:18.380 it comes to dating but what does what is the toxic that you're referring to what is it that's toxic
00:30:27.500 you have to explain when you're thinking
00:30:28.780 have you met 3.7 billion because we're not here just to like listen to brief things we need to
00:30:34.300 understand your opinion so bro she wants a man that earns 4k a month or more than 4k more more than
00:30:39.660 that man yeah more than 4.5 yeah have you have you met 3.6 billion men in the world let her define
00:30:46.380 toxic first so just in the statement that you said what is toxic to you forget studies statistics
00:30:54.220 forget definitions it's 2023 apparently a man can be a woman and a woman can be a man
00:31:02.620 well i'm not gonna go into this detail right now because like said this is not a topic that i
00:31:08.540 personally i go for in my daily basis but from my point of view um yeah what's toxic for women what
00:31:15.740 do you see as toxic within women by the way i'm asking the guys here what what juice what because
00:31:20.780 obviously it's different for men and women like we might see something toxic within a man's behavior
00:31:25.740 that might be different but obviously men might see different things what's like a red flag or something
00:31:30.220 toxic behavior wise whatever within a woman you first i can see i can see one as many of you know
00:31:37.180 i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to
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