JustPearlyThings - November 12, 2023


Modern Women Are Such A DISGRACE


Episode Stats

Length

33 minutes

Words per Minute

184.75092

Word Count

6,166

Sentence Count

569

Misogynist Sentences

71

Hate Speech Sentences

57


Summary

In this episode, I give my take on the viral video that has been taking the internet by storm. I have 7 kids and 7 baby mamas and people are calling me a "deadbeat" because I don't have 8 kids. I'm here to give my opinion on this and give my perspective on it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I'm going to be reacting to this man, House of Hypocrites, who has broken the Internet.
00:00:07.480 Okay, he has broken the Internet.
00:00:09.120 Now, let me, oh wait, let me turn off my sound.
00:00:15.040 Something's, is that you?
00:00:16.400 Okay.
00:00:18.140 Let me show you guys the video that has been taking the Internet by storm.
00:00:24.320 I was sent this to so many of you, by so many of you.
00:00:28.680 Okay, let me, and I want you guys to put your take on this in the comments.
00:00:33.920 Okay.
00:00:34.460 I got seven kids and seven baby mamas.
00:00:37.840 Now, for the past few days, I've been going live, telling my story, speaking my truth.
00:00:41.640 And a lot of women having an issue calling me a deadbeat because I tell them I was being irresponsible, yet not wearing protection.
00:00:48.980 But I always tell these women that I got pregnant that I do not want to be a father to these children.
00:00:56.100 And I offer to pay for the abortion.
00:00:59.200 Majority of times, they'll either take the abortion or they'll take a plan B.
00:01:03.920 But only these seven have kept these children.
00:01:07.100 But the crazy thing about it is they want me to be responsible for some children I told them I did not want.
00:01:13.980 So for some years now, some of them been trying to get in contact with me, access denied.
00:01:19.620 Because I don't really know why you're trying to get in contact with me.
00:01:22.560 I done told you I did not want them kids.
00:01:24.980 So don't expect me to be responsible financially, emotional, spiritually, mentally, or physically with some kids I do not want.
00:01:34.500 And I don't give a fuck what nobody think about it.
00:01:37.080 You're not going to force children up on me.
00:01:39.620 Yeah, we both made the decision to lay down and have intercourse.
00:01:44.100 We both was irresponsible about the decisions we made that night.
00:01:48.560 Yeah, I could have pulled out, but I didn't.
00:01:50.740 And I didn't care to pull out because I'm not the one that's going to have to carry a baby for nine months.
00:01:56.200 It's the woman.
00:01:57.180 In my opinion, women should be more careful on who they sleep with.
00:02:01.320 Because you're going to be like one of my baby mamas trying to find me so I can financially support a kid I didn't told her or them I did not want.
00:02:10.060 Another thing is these just jump offs.
00:02:12.920 These are the type of women that I ain't even had to do nothing for.
00:02:15.860 The bad minimum, but they gave me access to their body.
00:02:19.120 And they think I want to be a father to a child for one of them?
00:02:23.960 Wait, I don't even have no type of love for these women.
00:02:27.800 How do they expect me to love these children?
00:02:30.040 Before y'all say, oh, he irresponsible, he a deadbeat, he don't take accountability.
00:02:35.300 Yeah, I do.
00:02:36.220 I just don't give a fuck.
00:02:37.300 You ain't going to force these children on me when I told you I ain't want them.
00:02:41.280 Yeah, I can offer to her, pay for abortion, but at what point can I force a woman to go get an abortion?
00:02:48.260 I cannot.
00:02:49.640 A woman say, my body, my choice, but I say, it's my life, my choice.
00:02:55.580 Before y'all try to stitch this shit and be like, black men this, black men that, I don't give a fuck.
00:03:00.040 I really don't.
00:03:01.860 I got seven kids.
00:03:03.360 Wow, seven.
00:03:07.280 So this video stood out to me in particular because the other day I did a wife school episode, right?
00:03:14.600 And I did this wife school episode and someone came up to me during the episode.
00:03:19.700 And the guy, the guy said, your content is especially important to me because I have six baby mothers.
00:03:30.520 Okay.
00:03:30.960 I, I don't know where, you know, I never said six, seven baby mothers was a good idea, but, you know, I decided we should hear from the man, the myth, the legend himself.
00:03:46.100 Um, how do I share the screen?
00:03:47.920 You have to show me.
00:03:48.700 One second.
00:03:49.720 One second.
00:03:50.800 Hold on.
00:03:51.420 I gotta, do I, well, wait, I do it this way.
00:03:54.600 Yeah.
00:03:54.880 This way?
00:03:55.380 Okay.
00:03:55.680 Um, welcome to Just Pearly Thing's house.
00:04:01.080 Um, you can unmute yourself now.
00:04:04.040 What's up?
00:04:04.680 What's good?
00:04:05.380 Hi, how are you?
00:04:07.620 I'm cool.
00:04:09.100 Okay.
00:04:09.680 Um, so we just watched the video, you know, um, set, how, how did you, I just have so many questions.
00:04:19.640 Okay.
00:04:23.380 Okay.
00:04:23.800 Tell me, tell me what made you want to make that video first?
00:04:28.760 Oh, see, um, I was on Tik Tok.
00:04:31.260 I usually didn't use Tik Tok because, uh, I was on Instagram.
00:04:35.680 But then I used to say some crazy shit on Instagram.
00:04:38.720 So they ended up taking my, uh, Instagram down.
00:04:41.800 So I ended up going to Tik Tok and, uh, eventually started going live with people.
00:04:46.680 And then we'll have just like the conversations that we'll see on your show.
00:04:50.660 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:51.360 Typical conversation like that about, uh, this is the dynamic of the male and female relationship, uh, standpoints.
00:04:57.380 Uh, so eventually, uh, I guess they, they had to ask something about, about kids or something about how women, uh,
00:05:05.680 or, um, don't have, uh, well, they do, they have many choices to, to, I guess, either abort, uh, give up their rights for children or, um, adoption.
00:05:18.680 They just have so many different, um, options.
00:05:21.420 Uh, and then I told them I didn't have those options and I have seven kids by seven women that I did not want.
00:05:29.420 And so, and, and then eventually I was talking for about, I guess, seven days and, um, shit, I just ended up making a video about it because everybody was kept requesting me to come on, uh, TikTok lives and to, to talk about it.
00:05:46.420 So I was just like, all right, I'm gonna just go ahead and just put it out there and, and put it on wax and just make a video.
00:05:52.420 And then I already knew, I already knew it was gonna do like, like, you know what I'm saying?
00:05:58.420 Viral in the, in the sense of TikTok.
00:06:00.420 I didn't know that shit was gonna go all across the world.
00:06:02.420 You feel me?
00:06:03.420 Mm-hmm.
00:06:04.420 Um, so, sorry.
00:06:08.420 What, what, how old's your youngest kid?
00:06:17.420 I think four.
00:06:18.420 Four.
00:06:19.420 Okay.
00:06:20.420 So you haven't had a kid in four years.
00:06:21.420 Yeah.
00:06:22.420 That's, that's, that's about a, the four, the youngest should be four and that woman was married.
00:06:29.420 Okay.
00:06:30.420 Um, do you pay child support at all?
00:06:33.420 No, not at all.
00:06:35.420 How, how do you not?
00:06:38.420 You gotta, you gotta know my name.
00:06:40.420 And you gotta know where I live.
00:06:41.420 And you gotta know where I work.
00:06:42.420 Okay.
00:06:43.420 So none of the women actually know your name.
00:06:46.420 Not at all.
00:06:47.420 I just give them the name T, the same one I gave you.
00:06:50.420 Okay.
00:06:51.420 Mm-hmm.
00:06:52.420 Okay.
00:06:53.420 So, basically these girls, um, they were all, was it all casual?
00:06:58.420 Were you dating any of them?
00:07:00.420 Um, I mean, casual sex.
00:07:04.420 It wasn't like, you know, it wasn't like a, a relationship type thing.
00:07:08.420 It was just, you know, sex.
00:07:10.420 That was it.
00:07:11.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:12.420 Some, some, some were longer than other ones.
00:07:14.420 Most of them was on the first date.
00:07:16.420 Yeah.
00:07:17.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:18.420 Most of them was probably on the first date, next day.
00:07:19.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:20.420 And did you tell them beforehand, like, I don't, I don't, I don't know.
00:07:25.420 Cause in the video you made it seem like you told them, like, I don't want anything to
00:07:29.420 do with these kids.
00:07:30.420 Like, when did that conversation come up?
00:07:32.420 Um, we, you know, when you were at least in a woman, man.
00:07:37.420 Like, it just, and some of them, and some of them was kind of accident and didn't know.
00:07:41.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:42.420 So, when it, when it came up, I was like, oh, Miss Period, I'm offering abortions at that
00:07:47.420 point.
00:07:48.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:49.420 Or, and if I, if I did know I let, I let in them, it's a plan B. But I'm not about to
00:07:54.420 just sit there and hold your motherfucking hand and watch you take a plan B.
00:07:58.420 Mm-hmm.
00:07:59.420 You feel me?
00:08:00.420 So it's just like, it's just, it's just different scenarios.
00:08:03.420 Mm-hmm.
00:08:04.420 And this is seven out of the ten.
00:08:06.420 Three of them, the other three actually, you know, got an abortion.
00:08:10.420 So this is seven out of ten.
00:08:11.420 You got ten women pregnant?
00:08:13.420 See, okay.
00:08:14.420 See, I actually sort of agreed with your video and I sort of disagreed.
00:08:18.420 Okay.
00:08:19.420 I'll tell you why.
00:08:20.420 So I, I agreed that like women, we have all the choice.
00:08:24.420 And when you were talking about how women, they don't take accountability, you know, for
00:08:29.420 giving random men their body where you don't even know their full name.
00:08:32.420 Like that, that's crazy.
00:08:33.420 But like, how do you make the same mistake seven or ten times?
00:08:37.420 Like, did you never think in, out of the ten, maybe it's time to start wearing condoms,
00:08:42.420 maybe, you know, like.
00:08:45.420 No, I do, I do wear condoms.
00:08:47.420 Yeah.
00:08:48.420 I do.
00:08:49.420 And, uh, speak, and speaking of condoms, I, what's crazy is, uh, I, I'll talk about
00:08:54.420 that later.
00:08:55.420 I do wear condoms.
00:08:56.420 Mm-hmm.
00:08:57.420 I do wear condoms.
00:08:58.420 It's just those seven instances have been seven unlucky-ass instances.
00:09:02.420 Mm-hmm.
00:09:03.420 Did you feel like it was intentional by any of them?
00:09:06.420 Oh, no, no, never.
00:09:08.420 Never.
00:09:09.420 Never.
00:09:10.420 Not at all.
00:09:11.420 Because I, I wouldn't intentionally, uh, get a woman pregnant.
00:09:14.420 No, I said by them, like the women.
00:09:16.420 Did you feel like any of them were intentionally trying to get pregnant?
00:09:19.420 Because you always hear, like, from the women, it just happened.
00:09:22.420 I can say, I can say, the, the, the ones that, um, tried to like, you know what I'm saying,
00:09:30.420 reach out and like, you know what I'm saying, talk about me being in the kids' life and shit
00:09:34.420 like that.
00:09:35.420 Mm-hmm.
00:09:36.420 That was like, you know what I'm saying?
00:09:38.420 It could have been, it could have been planned.
00:09:39.420 It could have been intentional.
00:09:40.420 Mm-hmm.
00:09:41.420 I don't, I don't know.
00:09:42.420 I can't think or speak for them, actually.
00:09:43.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:44.420 But, uh, I could, I could go ahead and try to blame motherfuckers all I, all I want to.
00:09:47.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:48.420 I just know I played a part in it, but I also know they played a part in it as well.
00:09:53.420 So it's just like, I wouldn't say, uh, intentionally.
00:09:56.420 It could be.
00:09:57.420 It could have been.
00:09:58.420 Mm-hmm.
00:09:59.420 On their part.
00:10:02.420 Or their part.
00:10:04.420 Yeah.
00:10:05.420 No, I saw, I saw that.
00:10:07.420 What did, what is your response been to like, the reaction the internet's had?
00:10:10.420 Like, did you know they were gonna, uh, react the way it did?
00:10:14.420 Uh, shit, ain't nobody ever came out of the city.
00:10:19.420 Ain't nobody, ain't nobody ever get on the internet and basically become the most famous
00:10:25.420 motherfuckin' deadbeat.
00:10:26.420 Ain't nobody ever do it.
00:10:27.420 So, uh, I, I, I, I imagine that it would have some effect, but I didn't know it would go
00:10:33.420 this far, but I think a lot of men and women resonate.
00:10:36.420 When they hit me in my DMs, it's mostly women saying, I agree with you.
00:10:39.420 Mm-hmm.
00:10:40.420 You feel me?
00:10:41.420 It's mostly women saying, I'm gonna agree, I agree with you in the DMs.
00:10:43.420 And then it's, it's other men that's trying to hold men accountable.
00:10:46.420 Black men trying to hold another black men accountable, which you can't do.
00:10:49.420 I have to hold myself accountable.
00:10:51.420 So it's just like, the reaction is the reaction.
00:10:54.420 You feel me?
00:10:55.420 And the backlash, I don't give a fuck about it.
00:10:56.420 Mm-hmm.
00:10:57.420 I'm an old man with my own morals, with my own standards.
00:10:59.420 Mm-hmm.
00:11:00.420 You feel me?
00:11:01.420 I'm gonna stand on my own too.
00:11:02.420 So it's just like, the reaction, it, it, it don't, it don't affect me at all.
00:11:05.420 Mm-hmm.
00:11:06.420 I still go, you know what I'm saying?
00:11:07.420 Well, I do.
00:11:08.420 I still, I still, I still do the same shit.
00:11:10.420 So it's like, yeah, what it is.
00:11:12.420 Well, I mean, I do think it was really, um, I mean, it, it does show,
00:11:17.420 because a lot of times, like, I talk to girls on my show all the time
00:11:20.420 that will talk about how it just happened, and they'll kind of paint the guy as,
00:11:24.420 being the bad guy, but it's like, we have, we have all of these choices.
00:11:28.420 Um, you know, like you were talking about abortion, plan B, um, you can get on birth control.
00:11:34.420 And so, it's like, how do you, how do you let a guy get you pregnant that you don't even know?
00:11:40.420 Yeah.
00:11:41.420 And so, uh.
00:11:43.420 I think, I think, I think, I think, I think women do better, uh, the bulk of the responsibility,
00:11:49.420 because you have to allow men to irritate you.
00:11:51.420 Mm-hmm.
00:11:52.420 That's just like, you have to allow men to irritate you.
00:11:55.420 And if you gonna allow him to, to, to irritate you recklessly, without protection,
00:11:59.420 Mm-hmm.
00:12:00.420 Then there's consequences to that.
00:12:01.420 Mm-hmm.
00:12:02.420 And yeah, I know I play a part to it, but if, if you gonna give me the responsibility
00:12:05.420 of being responsible for your body.
00:12:07.420 Mm-hmm.
00:12:08.420 Then it might be consequences.
00:12:09.420 And that can be, that can be anything.
00:12:11.420 I don't have no STDs, but that could be STDs or children.
00:12:14.420 You feel me?
00:12:15.420 Yeah.
00:12:16.420 Do they ever try to reach out to you?
00:12:17.420 Like, have any of the kids ever tried to reach out to you?
00:12:20.420 I'm not, I, my mind's set in stone.
00:12:23.420 But, uh, I guess a few days ago, one of my, uh, my, uh, baby mamas had reached out to me.
00:12:29.420 And, uh, I plan to bring on one of these shows.
00:12:32.420 Uh, but I don't think she wanna be on camera, but she would, like, speak in Colleen or something like that.
00:12:37.420 Mm-hmm.
00:12:38.420 She was, she was one of the baby mamas that, uh, kind of understand how I think in, in, in a sense of we both was being irresponsible.
00:12:45.420 Mm-hmm.
00:12:46.420 Right?
00:12:47.420 So, and, and, and she knew the, she knew the consequences as well as I did after, you know what I'm saying?
00:12:52.420 Mm-hmm.
00:12:53.420 Uh, she, uh, found out she was pregnant.
00:12:54.420 And I was like, yeah, I'm not ready to be a father.
00:12:56.420 And she was like, okay, I understand.
00:12:58.420 I'm not trying to push fatherhood on you.
00:13:00.420 But if you ever decided you want to be a father, I'm here.
00:13:03.420 But she didn't want to abort the baby.
00:13:05.420 Mm-hmm.
00:13:06.420 Everybody thinking it's just like, it's certainly, it's a lot of different scenarios that I, uh, I could get into.
00:13:11.420 But I just give you, you know, a few.
00:13:13.420 So it, it, it, it wasn't just like, uh, all these women are just trying to force me to be a father.
00:13:18.420 Some women just want kids.
00:13:19.420 Mm-hmm.
00:13:20.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:13:21.420 And, and, and don't believe in abortion.
00:13:22.420 I can understand that.
00:13:23.420 But she, she, she hit me up, um, the other day.
00:13:27.420 Um, and she said, yeah, I can kind of come defend you if I can.
00:13:31.420 You know, but she's not trying to be like on camera or anything.
00:13:34.420 Cause she is in a relationship right now.
00:13:36.420 Mm-hmm.
00:13:37.420 How many of them are actively like searching for you, would you say?
00:13:41.420 Or like trying to get child support off of you?
00:13:43.420 I have, I have.
00:13:44.420 That's the, that's the only one that I see in my DMs.
00:13:48.420 I ain't getting no emails or nothing like that.
00:13:50.420 But I got, I probably, my, my DMs is crazy.
00:13:53.420 Mm-hmm.
00:13:54.420 So that's probably the only one I see.
00:13:56.420 I know one, the married woman, she not looking for me at all.
00:14:00.420 Mm-hmm.
00:14:01.420 So, so I guess the, the other five shit I ain't heard,
00:14:05.420 I haven't seen nothing from it or heard nothing from it.
00:14:07.420 So.
00:14:08.420 I just met like, are any of, um, like, I know you mentioned
00:14:11.420 they don't know your full name, so they can't get child support from you.
00:14:14.420 But I just met, um, are, are any of them trying to get it like actively,
00:14:18.420 like trying to find you showing up?
00:14:19.420 Have you ever had them show up at your work?
00:14:21.420 Like somewhere that they, that they knew you would be?
00:14:25.420 Anything like that?
00:14:26.420 Nah, impossible.
00:14:28.420 What do you mean impossible?
00:14:31.420 It's impossible.
00:14:33.420 I make good money though.
00:14:36.420 It's impossible.
00:14:37.420 I don't do nothing legal, but I make good money.
00:14:39.420 Oh, okay.
00:14:40.420 But it's impossible.
00:14:41.420 Yeah.
00:14:42.420 Okay.
00:14:43.420 And why, why do you feel like it's more on the women than you?
00:14:47.420 Oh, shit.
00:14:48.420 They, they don't want to carry the babies.
00:14:50.420 Nine months.
00:14:51.420 I don't carry kids.
00:14:52.420 Mm-hmm.
00:14:53.420 I could be irresponsible.
00:14:54.420 Mm-hmm.
00:14:55.420 I could be, it's, it's a difference between being
00:14:58.420 innerly irresponsible and consciously irresponsible.
00:15:02.420 I could be irresponsible.
00:15:03.420 Mm-hmm.
00:15:04.420 Seven baby mothers, huh?
00:15:09.420 That's just so crazy to me.
00:15:11.420 Um, and you also.
00:15:13.420 I know, I know.
00:15:14.420 It's a guy that I wouldn't say his name.
00:15:16.420 He, uh, he got 15.
00:15:18.420 You know, you know someone with 15?
00:15:21.420 Mm-hmm.
00:15:22.420 Cause it's just to me.
00:15:23.420 There's a lot of people that.
00:15:24.420 I just like, how do you, how does that happen that many times?
00:15:26.420 Like, I don't understand one.
00:15:28.420 You know, I'll give you two, but seven?
00:15:30.420 Seven?
00:15:31.420 Like how do you get seven baby mothers?
00:15:33.420 Like.
00:15:34.420 Crazy.
00:15:35.420 I didn't want seven baby mothers.
00:15:37.420 They, they kept the kids.
00:15:38.420 Yeah.
00:15:39.420 Yeah.
00:15:40.420 Yeah, but like you didn't know that after the first,
00:15:42.420 second, third time?
00:15:45.420 It, it was over, it was over a point of, of, of,
00:15:48.420 shit, 17 to 27, shit, a decade.
00:15:51.420 This is, oh, 17 to 27.
00:15:54.420 So it's like, one a year.
00:15:57.420 Well, you say 17.
00:15:58.420 It's like every other year.
00:15:59.420 I say by six years, cause the last one was four.
00:16:01.420 Yeah.
00:16:02.420 So over a span of six years.
00:16:03.420 It's like that.
00:16:04.420 Yeah.
00:16:05.420 Wow.
00:16:06.420 Wow.
00:16:07.420 That's crazy.
00:16:08.420 Um, man's, man is, um, did you learn anything from it?
00:16:16.420 Like, do you, are you more responsible now at least?
00:16:18.420 Do you feel like the women learned?
00:16:20.420 Like, did they learn a lesson in it?
00:16:22.420 I mean, I don't, I don't keep up with them.
00:16:27.420 So shit, hopefully they learned a lesson.
00:16:29.420 Mm-hmm.
00:16:30.420 I mean, but you know, stuff, if I repeated it after the first,
00:16:34.420 the first time.
00:16:35.420 Yeah.
00:16:36.420 I don't know.
00:16:37.420 You don't know.
00:16:38.420 I don't know their experience.
00:16:39.420 It's possible that they learned.
00:16:40.420 No, for sure.
00:16:41.420 I learned though.
00:16:42.420 My last, my last pregnancy scare was, uh, shit, October of 2022.
00:16:47.420 Mm-hmm.
00:16:48.420 And, uh, but this, this, I actually liked this female until she said a particular thing.
00:16:53.420 Uh, I asked her, uh, after seven, eight weeks, cause I believe, I don't care if you're married.
00:16:58.420 I don't care, like, if you've been knowing somebody for a long time, I believe you should,
00:17:02.420 you should get a DNA test on your kids.
00:17:04.420 Mm-hmm.
00:17:05.420 Right?
00:17:06.420 So this is the one that I was actually, like, looking to keep.
00:17:08.420 You feel me?
00:17:09.420 Mm-hmm.
00:17:10.420 And, uh, I asked her, I was like, oh, you know, seven, eight weeks, I'm, uh,
00:17:13.420 I wanna, uh, get a DNA test, you know, cause you can do it in the womb.
00:17:16.420 I heard that, you know what I'm saying?
00:17:17.420 Mm-hmm.
00:17:18.420 Technology, thank God.
00:17:19.420 So, uh, she was like, oh, that's embarrassing, and I wouldn't do that.
00:17:24.420 I'd rather be a single mother.
00:17:26.420 And I never talked to her again.
00:17:29.420 Then take a plan B, she'd rather be a single mother?
00:17:34.420 Nah, at this point, she was already like, uh, she had to be like, uh, four to five weeks.
00:17:41.420 Oh, wow.
00:17:43.420 Yeah.
00:17:44.420 And she was like, uh, instead of taking a DNA test, cause that's embarrassing to her,
00:17:49.420 she'd rather be a single mother.
00:17:51.420 That only let me know she, that could be for somebody else.
00:17:53.420 Why would I waste my money to try to find out who this kid for?
00:17:56.420 Mm-hmm.
00:17:57.420 Wow.
00:17:58.420 Um.
00:17:59.420 I'm sorry.
00:18:00.420 Um.
00:18:01.420 I can't.
00:18:02.420 I just, I just can't.
00:18:03.420 It's actually wild to me.
00:18:04.420 It's sad.
00:18:05.420 Yeah, it's just, this is just such a different world.
00:18:06.420 I don't know a single person with like, even two baby mothers that weren't from like, wives.
00:18:12.420 You know?
00:18:13.420 So it's like, it's just crazy to me that one person can have seven years, someone with 15.
00:18:29.420 They, look, they, they take trips to Jamaica to find men like me.
00:18:44.420 Why do you think modern women are so irresponsible with their bodies?
00:18:51.420 Because they have a, uh, a system that would, would back their ass to fuck up.
00:18:59.420 Child support.
00:19:00.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:01.420 Got different type of welfarers, different type of government assistance that, that favors single mothers.
00:19:05.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:06.420 So if they are irresponsible, they know there's a system that's going to back their ass up.
00:19:10.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:11.420 Do you think that they would have, those women would have acted differently if they didn't have those systems?
00:19:19.420 Yeah.
00:19:20.420 The, I think more women would be, be asking, uh, asking men to marry them before they even try to even bear a child, which it should be like that.
00:19:27.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:28.420 I really, I really, I really think and prefer women to, you know what I'm saying, kind of taking consideration the type of dude that you might meet,
00:19:34.420 because you might meet me.
00:19:35.420 And, and, and if I don't want you like that, and I don't like you like that, and I accidentally get you pregnant,
00:19:40.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:41.420 I don't want a kid with you.
00:19:42.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:43.420 So I think, I think women should be more, or, or, or conscious about who the men, who the, who, who, which mans they sleeping with,
00:19:48.420 and ha, and hold some type of moral standards.
00:19:50.420 Mm-hmm.
00:19:51.420 At least have a dude commit to you.
00:19:52.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:19:53.420 At least, if you don't believe in marriage, at least, at least have, at least have a dude, you know what I'm saying,
00:19:57.420 buy your motherfucking house or something, you know what I'm saying?
00:19:59.420 So you can have some type of stability to raise a motherfucking child.
00:20:02.420 Mm-hmm.
00:20:03.420 So I, I really believe we should get back to this, to, to this, uh, uh, uh, uh, marry before you carry type shit.
00:20:11.420 Mm-hmm.
00:20:12.420 It's not hypocritical, but it's-
00:20:13.420 Yeah, I was gonna say, isn't that hard to say when it's like you're contributing in a way?
00:20:18.420 Yeah.
00:20:19.420 It, it is hard to say, but shit, somebody's gotta learn someday.
00:20:23.420 And, and, and, and the message's gotta get out there.
00:20:25.420 Even if it's from a hypocrite.
00:20:26.420 Yeah.
00:20:27.420 Yeah.
00:20:28.420 But you gotta think about the things in the past.
00:20:29.420 Didn't they say it's better to, it's better to, uh, to raise a child in a two parent home, right?
00:20:35.420 Yeah.
00:20:36.420 Do you ever feel bad?
00:20:37.420 I think.
00:20:38.420 Do you ever feel bad?
00:20:39.420 Not bad at all.
00:20:40.420 Not, not even a little bit?
00:20:41.420 Like, do you think you'd ever want to meet any of your kids?
00:20:43.420 I ain't livid.
00:20:44.420 Would you ever want to meet your kids, like, when they're older?
00:20:48.420 Nah, not really.
00:20:49.420 But it can happen.
00:20:50.420 I'm not against it.
00:20:51.420 But like, I, I don't have a desire for kids that don't supposed to be here.
00:20:56.420 What, do you think more men, um, do you think it's more common for men to be deadbeats,
00:21:03.420 um, and not want to be in their kids' lives?
00:21:05.420 Or do you think it's more common that the mom's not letting them see the kids?
00:21:09.420 When it comes to like single parent homes?
00:21:11.420 Oh, re, re, ask it again?
00:21:14.420 What do you think's more common?
00:21:16.420 Um, men in your situation where they don't want to be in the kids' lives or where women
00:21:23.420 don't let the dads see the kid?
00:21:25.420 Damn.
00:21:29.420 I think it's a mixture of both.
00:21:37.420 Cause if you, that's a good question.
00:21:42.420 It might be more deadbeats.
00:21:44.420 Cause most, more, more men, like if they having a situation like I'm having, and they having like, like the encounters I'm having with just fun.
00:21:52.420 Sometimes you don't want to be, um, connected to just fun.
00:21:57.420 So she does just casual.
00:21:58.420 You don't want to be connected.
00:21:59.420 And that's what that child is.
00:22:00.420 So it might be more deadbeats.
00:22:01.420 I don't know.
00:22:02.420 Women, cause if, if a woman not allow a man to see his child that he want to see, she is indirectly making him a deadbeat.
00:22:14.420 Cause there's nothing he can do about it.
00:22:18.420 Yeah.
00:22:19.420 No, I just.
00:22:21.420 And that can turn, that can, that can, that can turn, that can turn men into saying, fuck those kids.
00:22:27.420 Especially the ones that want, I feel, I feel bad for the men that actually want their kids.
00:22:33.420 And actually want to be a father.
00:22:35.420 And, and it's with a woman.
00:22:37.420 Potentially like the ones that I left behind.
00:22:40.420 You feel me?
00:22:41.420 I feel bad for men like that.
00:22:42.420 Cause there's nothing they can do.
00:22:44.420 I heard somebody say to, to one of my, uh, partners from high school.
00:22:49.420 Cause he was going through this shit.
00:22:51.420 White boy.
00:22:52.420 He was going through this.
00:22:53.420 And his dad told him, do as much as she allow you to do.
00:22:58.420 And that just let me know, men don't have no rights to their kids, bruh.
00:23:04.420 They ain't got no rights to their kids.
00:23:06.420 And then it's an issue when a dude like me don't want to deal with the kids.
00:23:13.420 But when a man, this dude fought so hard to, to try to get even visitation.
00:23:19.420 Like he in jail with his child.
00:23:21.420 It's crazy.
00:23:23.420 It is, it's like, it's like, you want to force them to be fathers.
00:23:27.420 But you're not trying to back or help them up once they want to be fathers.
00:23:31.420 The shit is, the shit is crazy.
00:23:34.420 Did you, did you have a father in your life?
00:23:37.420 Like growing up?
00:23:38.420 Yeah.
00:23:39.420 Yeah.
00:23:40.420 I come from both.
00:23:41.420 I come from both my parents married.
00:23:43.420 Okay.
00:23:44.420 I'm just wondering like.
00:23:46.420 And another.
00:23:47.420 Sorry, go ahead.
00:23:48.420 Go ahead.
00:23:49.420 I was going to say, oh, yeah, two parent household.
00:23:52.420 They own their house.
00:23:53.420 Got some land.
00:23:54.420 Got small businesses.
00:23:55.420 You feel me?
00:23:56.420 But I was going to say too, to any parents that's even watching this shit.
00:24:00.420 You can do the best you can do with your children.
00:24:04.420 Raise them however you want to raise them.
00:24:06.420 It's a, it's a good chance that they're going to be raised up in your morals.
00:24:10.420 But it's a, it's a point in their life that they might stray from that shit.
00:24:15.420 So parents that see their, their children being things that they didn't teach them to
00:24:20.420 be, don't, don't take that shit to heart.
00:24:22.420 Because they have to live their own life and they have their own path they're going to
00:24:26.420 walk.
00:24:27.420 Do your, do your parents agree with this?
00:24:29.420 Oh, hell nah.
00:24:30.420 Not at all.
00:24:31.420 Not one bit.
00:24:32.420 But they can't, they can't control me.
00:24:34.420 My mama say if, if a woman ever come and say that's my, that's my grandbaby, I'd take
00:24:40.420 the DNA test and I'd be in their life.
00:24:42.420 So my, my parents don't agree with this, but they can't control what I do.
00:24:45.420 You feel me?
00:24:46.420 Do you think you would act differently if women did?
00:24:53.420 Say it again.
00:24:54.420 Would you act, do you think, I'm trying to rephrase this in a better way.
00:25:01.420 If we were in a more, like I'm just wondering, cause they always say like women, like the
00:25:06.420 way that men act are a result of the women.
00:25:08.420 Right?
00:25:09.420 So I'm just wondering if like women were acting in a different way if you would too.
00:25:14.420 If they act in a different way.
00:25:18.420 Yeah.
00:25:19.420 Like not.
00:25:20.420 What you mean?
00:25:21.420 You know, not like sluts.
00:25:22.420 Nah, cause that shit wasn't, I love, I love sluts, man.
00:25:27.420 I love hoes.
00:25:28.420 I really do.
00:25:29.420 Like we try to act like we don't love hoes, but we really do love hoes.
00:25:33.420 We just don't want to love hoes.
00:25:34.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:25:35.420 We love hoes, but don't, we just don't want to love hoes.
00:25:38.420 Like for real, for real.
00:25:39.420 Nah, I think, I think that's the hypocritical thing about it.
00:25:42.420 Now, I have to actually get down, I have to actually take my time to get to know a woman
00:25:47.420 before she give me some pussy.
00:25:48.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:25:49.420 So.
00:25:50.420 You have to do that now?
00:25:51.420 They need it.
00:25:52.420 They need it.
00:25:53.420 Oh, oh, you're saying.
00:25:54.420 But you'd have to get to know a woman if girls, if you didn't have like girls that were acting slutty,
00:25:59.420 wouldn't you?
00:26:00.420 Like then you probably would, right?
00:26:01.420 Yeah, you'd be forced to.
00:26:03.420 Yeah.
00:26:04.420 But it's like when, so in a way it's like men's behavior in a way is our fault.
00:26:12.420 You could say that.
00:26:13.420 You could say that.
00:26:14.420 I said, I said this one day, I said, um, shit, you right.
00:26:17.420 Yeah.
00:26:18.420 Yeah.
00:26:19.420 Because it's gonna, it's gonna, it's gonna control how we react and act towards women when it comes to sex.
00:26:25.420 When it's so easily, uh, uh, able to get, then the women that men ignore is the women that's not giving the shit up.
00:26:34.420 And he go get to a woman.
00:26:35.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:26:36.420 Mm-hmm.
00:26:37.420 We, we pass up and get women all the time.
00:26:38.420 So it's just like, yeah, it's a, it's a, it's a, it's a.
00:26:43.420 Sorry, keep going.
00:26:45.420 Oh, it's a, uh, it's like one of them goddamn, I can't even, like a double-edged sword type shit.
00:26:52.420 Like women should, women should, uh, act a little bit, uh, more, uh, I guess reserved.
00:26:59.420 You feel me?
00:27:01.420 Do you think women ignore the nice guys?
00:27:08.420 Do you think that's true?
00:27:09.420 Like the guys that would treat them right?
00:27:11.420 And like would stick around, take care of the kid?
00:27:14.420 Hmm.
00:27:17.420 I think women ignore, ignore guys like that cause they are born.
00:27:23.420 It's nice guys that, that add excitement to women life.
00:27:26.420 But I, I do think the nice, most of these nice guys, they probably is born.
00:27:31.420 I'm a nice guy some type of way.
00:27:32.420 Mm-hmm.
00:27:33.420 I might not just be nice to that particular woman.
00:27:35.420 Mm-hmm.
00:27:36.420 So, yeah, yeah, they, they can, yeah.
00:27:39.420 I don't think, it's just lame dudes.
00:27:41.420 It's just lame dudes getting, yeah, that lame, these lame ass niggas, they getting ignored.
00:27:45.420 Mm-hmm.
00:27:46.420 Yeah.
00:27:47.420 Do you want a, um, blessing?
00:27:50.420 Do you, do you have the breakfast club clip?
00:27:52.420 I was gonna see if we could react to it.
00:27:54.420 Are we able to do that?
00:27:55.420 Yeah.
00:27:56.420 Cool.
00:27:57.420 I was gonna react, see if I could get your reaction.
00:27:59.420 Have you seen the breakfast club clip?
00:28:04.420 Yes.
00:28:05.420 Yeah, yeah.
00:28:06.420 Okay.
00:28:07.420 I heard it.
00:28:08.420 I ain't know if it's, I ain't know if it's a video or not.
00:28:10.420 Mm.
00:28:11.420 Okay.
00:28:12.420 Let's see.
00:28:13.420 Let's see.
00:28:37.420 Okay.
00:28:38.420 Who got the donkey of the day today?
00:28:39.420 Well, just hilarious.
00:28:40.420 Donkey of the day for Monday, March 6th goes to a man with seven kids and seven baby mamas.
00:28:52.420 Now, I try not to pay attention to these people, you know what I'm saying?
00:28:55.420 I, I, I see these people telling these outlandish stories on YouTube and TikTok because nowadays
00:29:00.420 folks are saying and doing anything to get some attention and being that we live in a
00:29:04.420 world where nobody cares about the truth.
00:29:06.420 If the lie is more entertaining, folks just be getting online telling these outlandish stories
00:29:10.420 just to get some clicks and subscribers.
00:29:12.420 Now, I don't know if this story is real, but the idea is, and that's what I like to discuss
00:29:17.420 and critique the idea.
00:29:18.420 Okay?
00:29:19.420 The idea that digital deer heads like this young man put on the FBI's internet.
00:29:23.420 Now, as I told you, this man got seven kids and seven baby mamas, but he don't take care
00:29:28.420 of none of them.
00:29:29.420 Okay?
00:29:30.420 Not a one.
00:29:31.420 Why?
00:29:32.420 I told those young ladies from the beginning that he don't want them.
00:29:35.420 Now, let's go to the FBI's main source for Exhibit A's YouTube to hear this young man speak.
00:29:40.420 Now, for the past few days, I've been going live telling my story, speaking my truth, and
00:29:45.420 a lot of women having an issue calling me a deadbeat because I tell them I was being irresponsible
00:29:50.420 yet not wearing protection, but I always tell these women that I got pregnant that I do
00:29:56.420 not want to be a father to these children.
00:29:59.420 And I offer to pay for the abortion.
00:30:02.420 Majority of times, they'll either take the abortion or they'll take a plan B. But only
00:30:07.420 these seven have kept these children.
00:30:10.420 But the crazy thing about it is, they want me to be responsible for some children I told
00:30:15.420 them I did not want.
00:30:17.420 So, for some years now, some of them been trying to get in contact with me, access denied,
00:30:22.420 because I don't really know why you're trying to get in contact with me.
00:30:25.420 I done told you I did not want them kids.
00:30:27.420 We both was irresponsible about the decisions we made that night.
00:30:31.420 Yeah, I could have pulled out, but I didn't.
00:30:33.420 And I didn't care to pull out.
00:30:35.420 Because I'm not the one that gonna have to carry a baby for nine months.
00:30:39.420 It's the woman.
00:30:40.420 In my opinion, women should be more careful on who they sleep with.
00:30:44.420 True.
00:30:45.420 Portia, you just said earlier that women need to watch who they sleep with.
00:30:49.420 I mean, damn.
00:30:50.420 How savage this man is.
00:30:51.420 Listen.
00:30:52.420 I mean, okay, let's just be real.
00:30:53.420 He's not the first man to tell somebody to take a plan B. He not the first man to say
00:31:06.420 he don't want a child.
00:31:07.420 Mm-hmm.
00:31:08.420 So, at the end of the day, that's why we got child support.
00:31:10.420 You still got to pay for this child.
00:31:12.420 He need to be telling this story in jail, right around the lunch table.
00:31:15.420 Jesus.
00:31:16.420 Yes, he does.
00:31:17.420 Because just because you decided that you don't want to pay for the child don't mean that you shouldn't have to.
00:31:21.420 I feel that proper poo-poo management is essential for a healthier life.
00:31:25.420 I feel this man is out here passing along sexually transmitted demons, okay, to whoever wants them.
00:31:31.420 And, yes, this man is a demon.
00:31:33.420 And they should change that purple smiling face emoji with horns to his face because this is true demon time.
00:31:37.420 And I really wish this young man would have made this video after baby mama number one.
00:31:43.420 Because if he would have made this video after baby mama number one, then he would have never gotten the seven baby mamas.
00:31:47.420 And if he did, then every single one of them deserved the baby father they got.
00:31:51.420 Because when the deadbeat tells you who they are, believe them.
00:31:54.420 And it does amaze me that this young man is putting the responsibility not to get pregnant solely on the woman.
00:32:00.420 Can I hear more of this guy?
00:32:02.420 Another thing is these just jump offs.
00:32:05.420 These are the type of women that I ain't even had to do nothing for.
00:32:08.420 The bare minimum, but they gave me access to their body.
00:32:11.420 And they think I want to be a father to a child for one of them?
00:32:16.420 Like, I don't even have no type of love for these women.
00:32:20.420 How do they expect me to love these children?
00:32:22.420 I can offer to a pay for abortion, but at what point can I force a woman to go get an abortion?
00:32:29.420 I cannot.
00:32:30.420 A woman say, my body, my choice.
00:32:33.420 But I say, it's my life, my choice.
00:32:36.420 Before y'all try to stitch this sh** to be like black man this, black man that.
00:32:40.420 I don't give a f**k.
00:32:41.420 I really don't.
00:32:42.420 I could have thought he was gonna say, she say her body, her baby.
00:32:45.420 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:32:49.420 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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