Modern Women Are Waking up to This Grim Reality
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to love and what it means to be in a relationship. We also discuss how to be a better man and how to show love in the best way possible.
Transcript
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Or, you know, they used to have, like, finishing schools.
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So she could be the best woman she could be to provide something in excess, right?
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Now it's just sex, I would say, for most women.
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But, you know, there's cooking, cleaning, you know.
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Those are outsourced now because women want careers.
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Women typically have fumbled the best opportunity in the history of life.
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And that opportunity is they had a better situation.
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They were convinced that they could get a better situation.
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Many of them are finding out they're not as happy as they thought they would be pursuing careers and jobs.
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I could have laid on my back for my husband and did these other things to fill in the void,
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cooking, cleaning, and child raising, and all these things, which, you know, women don't cook very well.
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They're not the best cooks, neither the best cleaners.
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But that's what they had to use to transact the relationship.
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People think there's some feeling involved with it.
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But the feeling, yes, there is feeling, but that's not going to last long.
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It's going to last two years, and then you're going to say loyalty, time, commitment.
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Like those are the things that make a relationship.
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As a man that's known, that part is if you base your relationship purely on that, you're going to mess yourself up.
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So women want to dictate how they're loved, and men just want to be loved.
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And in turn, the woman gives respect back to the man.
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So women want to dictate how they want to be loved.
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So I can provide love to you by displaying it, by demonstrating it.
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I can make sure I don't embarrass you and have other women out here in their neighborhood.
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I'm not screwing the whole neighborhood of women and embarrassing you, right?
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I bring everything that I do out in society, I do for you.
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That would be in the long-term frame, a more survivable form of relationship and love.
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They actually say that the displays of love, they're entitled to that.
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When we want to be endearing to a woman, we will gift you something.
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So women want to dictate how they want to be loved.
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And then they find out that their list is what we call 5011 things long.
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He has to do this, this, this, this, this, this, this.
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Not when you out here fornicating with everybody you could possibly do it.
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But what happens is on the vice versa, women love on the conditions that you do everything
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Well, first of all, women are out of their freaking mind with this, right?
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Women have been influenced by romance like men have been influenced by pornography.
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So women believe romance is something they're entitled to when it's simply a myth.
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Men want, want their woman to be a freak in the bedroom and experience, but then also
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So when she's super experienced, he gets intimidated.
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And then, and then he's like, well, but you're a hoe.
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So the idea that he's going to eliminate all the women down to the no hoes is slim the
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For a guy on over 25 to find a woman that hasn't been defiled to the point of, um, she
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That was something I learned in the manosphere.
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That's a, the idea that a woman has chased the top tier men.
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And then once she comes out of that and she's been spit out because that guy has access
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I dated an NFL player once and I thought it was going to work, but he had 18 girlfriends
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Now when what she's going to do is say, you have to be that guy, you have to live up to
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So I have, I have a theory that I've been developing.
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So I feel like I've kind of turned into a guy on my show because I just, I kind of, I
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see firsthand what the men go through because I recruit for my show.
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It's like, God only knows if they're going to show up.
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So you know what it's like to date women, right?
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Well, you don't have to be in the bedroom, but by, by what I said, what I mean is, but
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They're like, I like women and I like men, but it's tough date women.
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If they're the ones that are reaching out, they're flaky.
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So now you have experienced that, but on this level.
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And I'm like, I'm offering you guys free drinks, free podcast.
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And so through this show, I've developed some theories.
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The first being that women like being cheated on.
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And I'm telling you, I don't know why I've developed this.
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Because I'll interview women after woman, right?
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And it's like, I just noticed the same pattern.
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It's like, they, you're going to be well on your way.
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Once you can learn it, learn patterns of human behavior.
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But you, all you want to do is talk about your ex that cheated.
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So every time when he's cheating, I say, did you leave?
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Like, you would think, you know, you would think most men would think this too.
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And so then I'm like, well, so when, when did you leave?
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And so I was like, if he wasn't cheating, then isn't that what you wanted?
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It's not, it's not that you don't, it's not that you like being cheated on.
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What, what's happening is you realize that your man has value outside of you.
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So what typically happens is if this is going to be the opposite, if, if you find out no
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women like me and we're together, no woman looks the other way.
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You're going to question why you're with me, but there's no question when you're getting
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So she looks at it as that guy's valuable, at least to other women.
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So that makes, that makes her in a sense, want him more.
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That was going to be my next, that's my next, my next.
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This is, that's my next theory that I've developed.
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Because I used to, like when girls would say they were abused or, or graped.
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Because like, you know, you got that like empathy and I think it's gone now for me.
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Because I'll ask, cause at first I wouldn't really ask questions cause it's kind of awkward,
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So they're like, I was this, this, but then I started to think about it and I'm like,
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And so I'm like, but what are you doing on my podcast?
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You're not scared to be out here talking about it.
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And that's what I was like, are these hosts lying?
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Well, the first, the first thing is you got to find out, I mean, this is in our society,
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we've gotten to the point where we're afraid to question women.
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Because somehow if you wanted the details of the situation that she's, you know, she's
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If you want the details, she knows you're going to blame her.
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So she's like, I, I don't, it's, it's inappropriate to question a woman.
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So now at that point, she's got you in a situation where you just got to believe it.
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So now you got to believe, believe it and let everything carry out.
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But like anything, any relationship is going to have some things that are weird.
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Like, first of all, we thought of grape as someone, some man jumping out the bushes
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Then it's now marital situations that can be interpreted.
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That's essentially what, what, but sexual assault opens it up to anything.
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I was on this podcast the other day and this girl said she was coerced.
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And there's people that can claim that their husbands assaulted them eight years ago in
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their marriage, but they continue to sleep with him, live with him and so forth.
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Well, you know, he did this at this particular point.
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So the problem is we have a lot of propaganda out here that's telling men that we need to
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When historically, that's one of the worst things you can ever do.
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I would never take their word at face value because historically they've, they've, they've
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accused people of doing things and people have lost their lives.
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I mean, just like they, they would seem so sad and then, but then it's like, then you
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Cause, cause I just keep, I keep thinking I'm a thinker.
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So I was thinking, I'm like, okay, if he hit you, the average guy, like I'm, I'm strong.
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I don't know if you, I'm built like an athlete.
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So you're still getting, you're still getting with it.
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If someone, if someone punched me, that's a dude, like my face would be.
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They might be able to dish out a couple of hits, which aren't going to be very significant,
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So I'm like, if he abused you, why is your face intact?
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And so then I'm like, then the other thing I was wondering is I, and then I'd say, did
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And she may have hit, she may have hit him first and still claims abuse, but here's a,
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you know, we, we, we, we, we want to inform your audience, check this out.
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Did you know that, uh, in domestic, uh, physical abuse, 70% of those cases are, are the woman
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She could have either hit or use verbal abuse or emotional abuse to get him to respond.
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So when there's physical abuse where the man hits the victim, which would be the woman,
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70% of the time, the woman instigated, meaning she wasn't a passive participant, meaning he
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didn't walk in the door and kick her, it was instigated by something.
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Sometimes it was instigated by physical abuse or by the woman.
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So, but, but these are things that people can't talk about because in our society is
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And then the other thing, the other thing, this is the same umbrella of the abuse, the,
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the, the, the grape, I say grape on my channel.
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So, so the girls will say, tell me, they'll be like, I was great.
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And one girl straight up tells me, well, I didn't know I was great.
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Because if I was, if I was great, I feel like I would.
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But you would have to, you would have to determine if you'd have to have a true definition of
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But now we've gone up, we've had multiple definitions of what it is.
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So typically you can have a woman say I was assaulted, but she only discovered that after
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So she went to school and she slept with this guy at a party.
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She went back on Monday to school and everybody knew about it.
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And then the girl said, did you sleep with that guy?
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See now, now, now she's great because reputations on the line.
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Once the reputation gets dragged, you have a person that is getting great.
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Because most of these, what you would call grapes, aren't violent.
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Most people who report one, they're not normally violent.
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But see, the idea of what we have in our head is that somebody jumped out the bushes and
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And then she was there and he had to beat her up.
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They're reporting someone close to them took advantage.
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So what we have in our mind is not what people are reporting.
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But sometimes those things are misconstrued too.
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I think most of the time, let me tell y'all something.
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If you drink alcohol, you're probably, you know, you're partying and all that stuff.
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Those are most of the time that are going to get into some sort of sexual assault.
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I'm like, you know, I feel like as women, we have a responsibility to like, not put ourselves
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How dare you hold me accountable and responsible.
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Yeah, I tell them that I'm going, um, because they'll always say like, oh, I can't walk home
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And I'm just like, where are all these dark alleys?
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And I'm like, I'm like, nobody can walk home alone at night.
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And at least if I get attacked as a girl, another dude's going to help me.
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Like, like I can walk through an alley and everybody be like, oh, you're good.
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But, um, yeah, these are all things that we've been fed to be true.
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I think men are more vulnerable, uh, in instances, you know, if I'm dressed nice, if I have jewelry,
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And actually every day, you know, women, women want to be the purveyors of being vulnerable.
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But, um, if, if I look at a man wrong, if he has a bad day, I can lose my life too.
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So we have to always, men always have to be on guard to protect ourselves.
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