JustPearlyThings - November 03, 2023


Modern Women Can't Be Wife Because of This


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In this episode, we discuss what makes a good wife and how to be a good one. We also talk about how women can be better wives and how a woman can be a better wife. We also discuss the importance of being a good mother and how women need to be able to stand on their own feet.

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00:00:00.000 Topic I actually forgot what we titled them modern women as if modern women are crappy wives. Okay, that's what I thought today's topic 0.97
00:00:07.400 I'm gonna do it again modern women are crappy wives 1.00
00:00:10.500 So today my first question is do you want to be a wife? Yeah, and if so 0.99
00:00:16.760 What makes a good wife so starting here? I think 1.00
00:00:21.240 What makes a good wife, um, I think 0.95
00:00:25.000 Companionship like definitely friendship. I think that's a big thing in a marriage
00:00:30.000 Um, I wouldn't know that cuz I'm not married, but you know something I want is to be literally my partner's best friend
00:00:37.860 Do you think men want a best friend? Yeah, a hundred percent. Okay. Yeah
00:00:42.820 Really? I think so. I mean men want to talk to women all the time. Okay. Yeah, not all the time
00:00:48.300 They say they want too much is too much. Yeah, even me. It's not all the time. Okay. Okay. Anything else?
00:00:56.400 Just just to be there to show up. Okay. Yeah
00:01:00.220 Women don't have to do anything but be a best friend and show up to be a wife. Okay. Not just that. Okay 1.00
00:01:04.860 Well, I need to elaborate
00:01:06.940 So I'm just gonna go off of what you say
00:01:09.820 Um
00:01:12.540 Just I I don't know
00:01:14.780 Okay, I just um because we live in this in a society like this in terms of like cooking and like traditional things
00:01:21.100 I've I don't even feel like it should be like, you know, the body should be half. Yeah divided definitely 0.71
00:01:26.380 So I don't think it's like a compulsory thing
00:01:28.940 Well, you think all the like fixing stuff around the house should be divided half half fixing the car
00:01:33.740 We can take the oil
00:01:36.380 I mean if you can do it
00:01:39.020 Should the dates be half half? I'm just I'm just you know, we're gonna this is the energy, right?
00:01:43.900 Yeah, and that would be a good wife 1.00
00:01:46.140 Yeah, I'll split the chores with you. I'll be your best friend. Yes. Okay. Okay. Go ahead
00:01:51.660 um
00:01:53.660 What do I think a wife should be? Do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife? 1.00
00:01:57.980 Yeah, I do want to be a wife. Um
00:02:00.540 I would say what makes a good wife is 1.00
00:02:04.540 being
00:02:05.500 the type of woman that can 1.00
00:02:08.380 motivate and inspire a man to be the best version of himself
00:02:12.380 because I feel like with
00:02:14.140 a good woman
00:02:15.660 by his side
00:02:17.580 supporting him a man can do incredible things and I some I feel like some men are lacking
00:02:23.740 that in their lives like they're like they don't have that woman that's there guiding them and like
00:02:29.740 being supportive and motivating him and lifting him up
00:02:33.260 Um, so how would how would a girl do that? 1.00
00:02:36.700 Just inspiring a man to be the best version of himself like um
00:02:40.540 How?
00:02:42.060 So like if I said I want to I want to I want to be a good wife and I'm coming to you. How can I inspire?
00:02:48.140 Well, I feel like you
00:02:49.980 You have to be a good woman yourself first like you have to be 0.95
00:02:55.660 Like you have to be basically having your own things like you have to be independent you have to be
00:03:01.340 like cultured worldly intellectual
00:03:04.940 Um, you have to have things that also inspire the man and I feel like when you have those things as a woman 1.00
00:03:11.420 You can bring those into the relationship and the man sees you. He sees your worth
00:03:15.020 He sees your value and he's like I've got to set my game up like I've got to be the best man for her
00:03:20.620 Um, because you inspire him to be like that
00:03:23.580 You know, and where did you learn this is this from your parents or did you learn it somewhere else?
00:03:27.980 Um, I learned it from my parents. Yeah, I did
00:03:30.540 I think my mom really helped my dad become the best version of himself
00:03:35.260 She helped him on the straight road
00:03:37.980 She made him cut out a lot of toxic things. How did you do that? 0.68
00:03:42.620 Um
00:03:43.820 Because of her morals like she had real strong morals. He saw her value
00:03:47.500 He saw what type of woman she was and he wanted to lock it down straight away 1.00
00:03:52.060 He was like this is like a real
00:03:54.380 Good woman like she's you know there for me. She's supporting me
00:03:59.260 She's trying to help me build she wants to help me build this empire. So I've got to get my act together
00:04:04.140 So yeah, I did watch my mom and dad like that because my question is more you said independent
00:04:08.860 And I just went in history have independent women have men wanted independent women 0.97
00:04:13.980 Like what men have always wanted women yeah that relied on them 1.00
00:04:18.140 When I'm when I meant sorry, I just want to rephrase that when I meant independent
00:04:21.260 I meant as in like she is able to stand on her own two feet like she doesn't need him
00:04:26.460 She's not constantly needing him. She doesn't give off that like needy clinginess 0.70
00:04:30.300 Like she can do things around on her own
00:04:32.940 But she would rather let the man do things for her if that makes sense
00:04:36.700 But if he wasn't around and god forbid something happened then she'd be able to stand on her own two feet
00:04:41.820 Because I feel like men do want that they don't want to know that you like
00:04:45.900 Constantly like need them emotionally mentally
00:04:49.820 I've never heard a guy say that he doesn't want a girl that needs him
00:04:53.340 But there's so many guys that get turned off by it
00:04:55.020 I feel like if they don't like you
00:04:57.820 If like usually it's like a girl that's like a little bit too ugly for him 0.95
00:05:01.980 Like typically like she's a little bit below his typical league and like that's why she's annoying to him because she's not in his like
00:05:08.220 League
00:05:10.300 Yeah, like have you ever said a guy that was into a girl that's like oh she's too needy she wants me too much 1.00
00:05:16.940 I mean I have heard men say that but I guess maybe they're with the wrong woman I guess I don't know
00:05:22.220 Okay, okay, what do you think?
00:05:24.300 Well, I think
00:05:26.460 The woman needs to look after the house. I think she have to 1.00
00:05:30.780 Um be there for him like to support him
00:05:35.580 And I think the friendship it's important as well
00:05:39.580 Um, I don't know the respect as well
00:05:44.220 Okay, so you think she should take care of the house. She's respectful to him
00:05:47.740 Yeah, I think that's important. Okay, they can be friends. They can do things together. They can even house things they can do together
00:05:56.140 Okay, all right, go ahead. It's a weird one for me
00:05:59.900 Well, do you want to be a wife and did you say do you want you want to be a wife? 0.53
00:06:03.100 Well, it's a tricky one for me because I actually was a wife. Okay, uh, but now I'm single so
00:06:10.780 Yeah, I want to be a wife again. Okay. All right. Go ahead. Sorry. I just love love
00:06:15.580 I love love I love love
00:06:18.380 I kind of like the idea of
00:06:20.540 Being a wife equaling things if that makes sense like paying for dates 0.99
00:06:27.580 Supporting our family supporting a house when it comes to building stuff and I think so I like it though
00:06:35.660 So you'll have the money yeah 50 50 on the money, but again, I
00:06:40.860 Understand it comes to some extent. So obviously we get pregnant. Mm-hmm. We
00:06:45.980 um leave obviously because we are with child
00:06:52.060 um
00:06:53.980 So
00:06:54.220 I like the way you said that
00:06:57.180 With child
00:06:57.980 I'm waking about it and I was like, how can I phrase this?
00:07:00.380 But with child
00:07:01.500 um
00:07:03.580 What's your question actually?
00:07:05.020 What makes a good what makes a good wife makes a good wife morals morals and I think would you include like loyalty in that?
00:07:11.660 Absolutely. Okay, so you'd say a woman's a bad wife if she leaves 1.00
00:07:14.700 No, right? No, I I didn't know no disagree. Yeah, but how are you a good wife if you leave? 1.00
00:07:22.300 Well, if you don't have the reason to stay you you have to leave you know commitment
00:07:31.820 I think like um to be married and to have a family like I think that's beautiful and I can be beautiful
00:07:39.820 Um, it's it's commit. It's a commitment and it's hard. Mm-hmm and I feel like a lot of people
00:07:47.740 Don't like to go through the hardship or the hardship
00:07:51.260 Makes you stronger, but the good wives go through the hardship and the bad wives leave 1.00
00:07:55.980 No
00:07:57.180 I was asking her but you can
00:07:59.180 I'm gonna think about that one
00:08:03.580 I'm just I'm trying to I'm trying to understand I don't know like this
00:08:06.940 So I just think if you're good at something you get it done. Yeah, I feel like um
00:08:12.220 It goes down to like being a team
00:08:15.980 You know and like working on things together and progressing the relationship together, you know, so if someone's slacking
00:08:23.900 I'm fine
00:08:25.660 Fair enough
00:08:26.540 Mm-hmm
00:08:27.420 And if it is a long period of time or it does affect the relationship or you know
00:08:34.540 Then you got to cut it basically
00:08:36.540 All right
00:08:38.540 What do you think makes a good actually I want to do the girls first and then I'll go to you
00:08:41.500 So what do you think do you want to be a wife and what makes a good wife? 1.00
00:08:44.460 I'm gonna be controversial and say not really
00:08:47.740 Don't want to be a wife. No, I only want I would only get married
00:08:52.220 If it was something that the other person felt really strongly about
00:08:55.820 But to me
00:08:57.420 If you're in a relationship and you're that committed to that person what what is a marriage gonna do?
00:09:02.620 Like what is that commitment saying to other people?
00:09:05.980 Exactly
00:09:06.620 Yeah
00:09:07.180 And if I'm not committed to someone that I feel like I should be married to them
00:09:12.460 Unless I believe in the religious beliefs behind it
00:09:15.020 Mm-hmm
00:09:15.900 I just don't see it as being a bigger progression in the commitment
00:09:19.900 I should be committed regardless
00:09:21.900 Okay
00:09:22.140 And there shouldn't be something on paper to state that I have to be that way
00:09:25.580 It should just be a mutual agreement that you're both
00:09:28.620 Just a feeling
00:09:29.180 And committed
00:09:29.820 And committed and nothing's going to change about that
00:09:32.780 So personally it's not something that I like
00:09:36.380 Will ever try to force down someone or something that I really want
00:09:39.580 But if they feel very passionately about it
00:09:41.260 And I feel like it's the right time
00:09:43.740 I'm okay with that
00:09:44.780 Okay
00:09:45.340 It's just something I don't feel like
00:09:47.660 What do you what do you think makes a good wife? 1.00
00:09:52.220 So
00:09:54.700 In all honesty
00:09:56.380 I think just being there as the other half 0.99
00:10:01.900 Like I know you discuss about it as being
00:10:03.820 Just complete them basically
00:10:05.340 Yeah I know you discuss it as being like
00:10:07.740 You know a woman has a role in a relationship 1.00
00:10:09.740 But I'm actually bisexual
00:10:11.020 So to me it could work either way
00:10:13.340 Okay
00:10:13.660 And to me I feel like 50-50 is where that
00:10:16.940 Kind of stuff needs to fall into place
00:10:19.020 50-50 on everything?
00:10:20.380 Because
00:10:20.620 Not necessarily
00:10:21.500 A give and take
00:10:22.700 Okay
00:10:23.260 So if you have to look at the person's attributes
00:10:26.540 What they give to a relationship
00:10:28.540 And break it down that way
00:10:29.660 I don't think it's a one-size-fits-all
00:10:31.820 I don't think everyone can say
00:10:34.140 Right you're going to do this
00:10:35.340 You're going to do that
00:10:36.140 Because you're the man 1.00
00:10:37.420 That man could be shit 1.00
00:10:38.860 He could be really bad at it 1.00
00:10:40.300 He could be amazing at it
00:10:42.780 Perfect
00:10:43.580 Let them work to their strengths
00:10:44.860 I think that's what works in a relationship
00:10:46.780 When you let the other person work to their strengths
00:10:48.540 Working together
00:10:49.340 Yeah
00:10:49.660 Sure
00:10:50.300 But I think there are some things that
00:10:52.460 Regardless whether you're traditional or not
00:10:54.460 There are some things that
00:10:56.540 Naturally a man might be better at 0.89
00:10:58.140 A woman might be better at 1.00
00:10:59.180 We're very different biologically
00:11:00.940 So there's always going to be things
00:11:02.300 That a man's going to be slightly better at than a woman 1.00
00:11:04.700 Unless you're an anomaly
00:11:06.540 And you're going to be 10 times stronger than a man 0.99
00:11:09.260 That's unlikely
00:11:10.380 So I think yeah
00:11:12.060 Give or take
00:11:12.940 I think everything has to be looked at retrospectively
00:11:15.100 And it has to be broken down
00:11:16.780 About each person's attributes
00:11:18.140 And what they can give to the situation
00:11:20.220 So what do you think makes a woman a good wife? 0.99
00:11:23.740 Like what's just specific
00:11:25.100 This is just a bit broad
00:11:26.140 So I'm just trying to
00:11:27.260 Trying to reign it in
00:11:28.220 No
00:11:28.620 Fair enough
00:11:29.100 So being able to provide
00:11:32.940 In a sense that you can provide emotionally
00:11:36.380 Whether you can provide financially is irrelevant
00:11:38.460 If the other person can provide financially
00:11:40.460 Perfect
00:11:41.180 You then need to make up for the other gaps
00:11:43.660 So as a wife you might need to be able to kick 1.00
00:11:46.620 Be able to look after children
00:11:48.220 Or be able to look after the man
00:11:49.900 Or the man be able to look after you
00:11:51.580 And you'll be receiving to that
00:11:53.820 Because I think a lot of women nowadays 1.00
00:11:56.540 Look at a relationship
00:11:57.660 And think the man should have to
00:11:59.660 Do everything
00:12:01.100 Do everything
00:12:02.940 But that makes a lot of men very
00:12:04.780 Not a lot of men
00:12:05.580 But nowadays
00:12:07.100 It makes them quite intimidated
00:12:08.780 And then they get nervous
00:12:09.900 And then they think
00:12:11.100 Oh what if I can't do that?
00:12:12.540 You have to be receptive to what they want to do
00:12:14.540 If they want to buy food for you
00:12:16.060 Let them 0.55
00:12:16.940 If they want to take you out on a date
00:12:18.220 And they want to pay for everything
00:12:19.260 Let them 0.55
00:12:19.820 But I'm asking what does she have to do? 0.99
00:12:21.260 She has to be receptive to it
00:12:22.940 Other than receive
00:12:24.140 What else does she have to do? 1.00
00:12:28.140 I can't see
00:12:28.940 Because it's something that I personally
00:12:30.780 You don't want to be
00:12:31.820 Yeah
00:12:32.060 You don't know
00:12:32.620 It's something that I wouldn't really have values on
00:12:35.020 So I don't really think what I'm going to say
00:12:37.100 Is going to give you much
00:12:39.100 Much information to be honest
00:12:40.700 Okay no worries
00:12:41.820 All right so question
00:12:42.780 Do you want to be a husband?
00:12:44.300 Do I want to be a husband?
00:12:46.700 I am not enthusiastic about it
00:12:49.260 With the way that
00:12:50.700 Marriage is
00:12:51.340 With laws
00:12:52.220 And just with the way the culture is
00:12:54.700 In general
00:12:56.300 And I've been that way for a long time
00:12:57.660 I mean like
00:12:58.460 As it was my parents
00:13:00.220 Divorced when I was a kid
00:13:01.180 So I never really had a great argument
00:13:03.260 You know a great example
00:13:04.300 For sort of marriage
00:13:05.500 And that kind of thing anyway
00:13:07.740 And obviously as time's gone on
00:13:09.580 You know we've seen what's happened
00:13:10.780 In terms of the way that society is here
00:13:12.700 In the USA
00:13:13.580 And Canada and Australia
00:13:15.180 You know those western countries
00:13:16.620 It's not a good deal
00:13:18.860 To be honest
00:13:19.420 It's never been something
00:13:20.220 That I've been particularly keen on
00:13:21.260 I've become less keen on the idea
00:13:23.420 As I've gone on
00:13:24.380 Really
00:13:24.700 Now in a sense
00:13:25.660 I agree with what you said
00:13:26.620 Because I think
00:13:28.300 Long-term relationship fine
00:13:29.580 Commitment fine
00:13:30.860 Do you want to put a ring on it?
00:13:32.780 Probably not
00:13:33.580 You know
00:13:33.820 There would have to be
00:13:34.300 A very good reason for doing it
00:13:35.340 Or do it somewhere else
00:13:37.180 Like do it over in
00:13:38.860 Maybe one of the Latin 1.00
00:13:39.980 You know Latin American countries
00:13:41.180 Or something like that
00:13:41.900 Okay
00:13:42.460 And out of
00:13:44.140 What did you hear
00:13:45.420 Who would I marry out of them?
00:13:46.620 No no
00:13:47.260 I was going to say
00:13:50.780 What did you hear today?
00:13:52.460 Was there anything you heard
00:13:53.420 That you thought
00:13:53.900 Yes that would make a good way?
00:13:55.020 I think a lot of the women 1.00
00:13:58.380 Were a bit light on specifics
00:14:00.620 To be honest
00:14:01.740 You know there's a lot of stuff
00:14:02.540 Yeah support and blah blah blah
00:14:03.660 But there's a lot
00:14:05.340 There wasn't much specifics
00:14:06.380 In terms of what
00:14:07.180 Is the woman actually going to 1.00
00:14:08.620 Bring to the table
00:14:09.260 So I would say that
00:14:12.180 But I mean
00:14:12.620 I think
00:14:13.820 Really
00:14:15.580 You want somebody
00:14:16.620 Who is
00:14:18.040 Going to support you
00:14:19.580 Who's going to be easy
00:14:20.460 To be around
00:14:21.180 You know
00:14:21.980 And I think
00:14:24.700 Marriage worked pretty well 0.90
00:14:26.460 Back in the day
00:14:27.440 When things were more traditional
00:14:29.100 To be honest
00:14:30.060 And I think now
00:14:30.740 We've come away from that
00:14:31.900 It just doesn't work as well
00:14:33.600 You know
00:14:34.000 And we're seeing that
00:14:35.540 And you know
00:14:36.140 As we know
00:14:37.040 The majority of divorces
00:14:38.600 Are caused by women 1.00
00:14:39.760 You know
00:14:40.100 70% of divorces
00:14:41.280 Are initiated by women 1.00
00:14:42.300 So it's women who are 1.00
00:14:43.240 Which is why 1.00
00:14:44.460 Modern women are shitty wives 1.00
00:14:46.000 Exactly 1.00
00:14:46.560 But that's another reason
00:14:48.620 Another reason
00:14:49.180 I'm not keen to go into it
00:14:50.840 Because for guys
00:14:51.400 It's a bit of a bad deal
00:14:52.520 Because you know
00:14:53.360 The women are very 1.00
00:14:54.160 Keen to get married
00:14:55.540 You know
00:14:55.760 Women will try to 1.00
00:14:57.900 Push the agenda
00:14:58.680 Of like
00:14:59.100 Oh you know
00:14:59.600 Where are we
00:15:00.160 Are we going to get engaged
00:15:00.900 Are we moving in together
00:15:01.600 Are we going to get married
00:15:02.160 But then they get fed up
00:15:04.260 You know
00:15:04.520 10-15 years
00:15:05.580 Down the line
00:15:06.300 And they initiate a divorce 0.96
00:15:07.480 And then the guy's screwed 0.94
00:15:08.340 So 0.80
00:15:09.340 But why is she fed up 1.00
00:15:11.060 Why is she fed up 1.00
00:15:11.960 Well I think
00:15:13.860 I mean
00:15:14.160 There's going to be
00:15:14.720 Many different reasons for that
00:15:15.960 And we could go into
00:15:17.280 Lots of different examples
00:15:18.140 But I think a lot of it
00:15:19.200 Is that they lose
00:15:20.080 You know
00:15:21.540 The butterflies go
00:15:22.460 And it's inevitably going to go
00:15:24.440 Over a longer period of time
00:15:25.780 Because we all know
00:15:26.440 You have that honeymoon period
00:15:27.560 And then
00:15:28.220 You know
00:15:28.680 It gets
00:15:28.960 Yeah
00:15:29.920 Then it gets a bit boring
00:15:31.180 And the problem with that
00:15:31.960 Is that
00:15:32.340 If you're then
00:15:32.860 Putting that into a legal contract
00:15:34.400 Where one of the parties
00:15:35.260 Can just say
00:15:35.720 I'll sod that
00:15:36.240 And walk out
00:15:36.940 That's a
00:15:37.980 Dangerous ground I think
00:15:39.600 I don't know
00:15:39.840 Like I've got
00:15:40.600 I don't know
00:15:41.180 Like I've just got a thought
00:15:42.520 Like
00:15:43.660 Obviously you said
00:15:45.040 Women leave 1.00
00:15:46.480 In a marriage
00:15:48.140 Of course
00:15:48.840 Which I understand
00:15:50.140 But
00:15:51.300 I'm 21
00:15:52.920 Like I know I'm still young
00:15:54.420 But I feel like
00:15:55.220 There's a specific time period
00:15:56.920 To have kids
00:15:58.000 And
00:15:59.220 To marry
00:16:00.300 And settle down
00:16:01.460 And I feel like
00:16:02.260 I don't know
00:16:02.680 Like
00:16:03.080 This little pressure
00:16:04.440 Because
00:16:05.340 If I put myself
00:16:06.740 In a guy's 0.86
00:16:08.040 Perspective
00:16:09.400 Or shoes
00:16:09.980 Like
00:16:10.920 I'm not
00:16:11.760 Baring a child 0.74
00:16:12.620 And that changes your body
00:16:14.460 It does
00:16:14.820 It changes your body
00:16:15.680 Of course
00:16:16.460 We have the biological clock
00:16:17.920 We're all aware of it
00:16:19.420 As women
00:16:19.840 So
00:16:20.260 Yeah
00:16:21.140 It's harder for us
00:16:22.060 I think
00:16:22.420 That's probably why
00:16:23.380 We want to lock it down
00:16:24.400 Oh yeah yeah
00:16:25.220 Sure sure
00:16:26.020 Yeah yeah
00:16:26.500 And like
00:16:27.180 With women leaving 1.00
00:16:28.700 Again
00:16:29.080 This is such a broad
00:16:30.260 Subject
00:16:31.240 So I'm not
00:16:31.640 I'm not on about
00:16:32.380 Just cheating by the way
00:16:33.400 Yeah
00:16:33.680 But yeah
00:16:34.620 One off
00:16:35.240 It's like
00:16:35.860 I get
00:16:37.660 And understand
00:16:38.520 Why men 0.91
00:16:39.420 Do
00:16:40.140 Like cheat
00:16:41.620 Yeah
00:16:42.000 And leave
00:16:42.640 And go for younger women 0.98
00:16:44.100 Well one out of
00:16:44.860 It's actually not
00:16:45.980 It's such a broad thing though
00:16:47.600 Well men don't typically leave
00:16:49.180 For younger women
00:16:49.940 They don't even leave
00:16:50.620 No they're just gonna cheat
00:16:51.720 And stay
00:16:52.180 They want to cheat
00:16:53.140 And stay
00:16:53.700 But women cheat 1.00
00:16:54.640 In their own way
00:16:55.380 I mean I think
00:16:56.040 Personally
00:16:56.560 I think that sex is to 0.95
00:16:57.900 To men 0.86
00:16:59.620 As attention
00:17:00.140 Is to women 0.82
00:17:00.840 So I think
00:17:02.400 Women need attention 1.00
00:17:03.200 Like men need sex 1.00
00:17:04.700 But women 1.00
00:17:05.480 Are never expected
00:17:06.420 To close off
00:17:07.020 Their social media
00:17:07.940 Yeah
00:17:09.040 But men are expected 1.00
00:17:10.240 To stop having sex 0.97
00:17:11.120 With other girls 0.99
00:17:11.720 How is that fair
00:17:12.360 But women can post 1.00
00:17:13.740 Ass pics 0.99
00:17:14.340 On their Instagram 0.99
00:17:15.100 Nobody can touch it
00:17:20.360 Nobody can touch it
00:17:21.840 Yeah but it's like
00:17:22.560 Advertising
00:17:23.300 I mean I was even
00:17:24.020 Looking at
00:17:24.480 Okay
00:17:25.480 Can we follow
00:17:26.640 Can we follow
00:17:27.560 Hayley Bieber's Instagram
00:17:29.040 Can you imagine
00:17:30.560 Okay
00:17:31.040 Team Selena by the way
00:17:32.960 Team Selena 0.99
00:17:33.700 I don't know shit 1.00
00:17:34.540 Okay I don't know shit 0.97
00:17:35.940 About the Selena 0.72
00:17:36.720 Hayley
00:17:37.340 Whatever
00:17:37.660 I don't care
00:17:38.640 What I was looking at
00:17:39.800 Was her Instagram
00:17:40.540 I was like
00:17:40.940 She's married
00:17:41.600 To a world famous
00:17:42.740 Pop star
00:17:43.420 Yeah
00:17:43.880 And I know
00:17:44.460 She's a model 0.99
00:17:45.200 Right
00:17:45.740 But he's a world
00:17:46.580 Fair point
00:17:47.100 But he's got groupies
00:17:48.740 Yeah
00:17:49.200 And he's also
00:17:49.860 Very religious
00:17:50.580 Apparently
00:17:51.800 So
00:17:52.260 I don't know what's going on there
00:17:53.540 And so it's like
00:17:53.940 You're married to
00:17:54.800 A world famous pop star
00:17:56.820 And you still got
00:17:58.460 Look at
00:18:00.240 Look at the booty one 0.99
00:18:01.200 Look at it
00:18:01.780 Yeah
00:18:02.380 Look at that
00:18:02.920 Yeah
00:18:03.380 Okay
00:18:04.300 And the funny thing is
00:18:05.360 He comments on it as well
00:18:06.700 So it's bizarre
00:18:07.740 As long as he's okay with it
00:18:09.340 He's like
00:18:09.780 Oh my god
00:18:10.580 Yeah but
00:18:11.160 Would she be okay with it
00:18:12.880 If he was to be commenting
00:18:14.280 Under somebody else's post
00:18:15.900 No
00:18:16.280 Would she be okay with it
00:18:17.520 I think it works
00:18:18.620 One of two ways
00:18:19.520 Like you can't
00:18:20.200 You can't take one side
00:18:21.680 Just because one's a female 1.00
00:18:23.060 And then
00:18:24.020 Not back the other side
00:18:25.460 Like
00:18:25.640 True
00:18:26.260 Pick your own battles
00:18:27.500 All the same
00:18:28.540 But don't
00:18:29.780 Don't come at the man
00:18:31.200 For cheating
00:18:32.560 If she's gonna
00:18:33.200 Put it out there
00:18:33.980 As if she's gonna cheat as well 0.92
00:18:35.160 Interesting that you say that
00:18:37.080 Well I just think of it
00:18:37.860 As like mating strategies
00:18:39.320 Like women want to get attention 1.00
00:18:40.360 From high status men
00:18:41.420 That's Instagram
00:18:42.080 Yeah
00:18:43.380 It needs to be fake 0.98
00:18:44.200 Men want to screw 1.00
00:18:44.920 As many people as possible 0.98
00:18:46.140 So like how many
00:18:46.820 I don't know
00:18:47.300 Anyone that got married
00:18:48.480 And closed their Instagram
00:18:49.320 I don't know anyone that did it
00:18:50.740 Like my age anyway
00:18:51.840 Actually I told
00:18:53.380 You're right
00:18:54.040 So yeah
00:18:54.580 So I'm saying 1.00
00:18:55.000 Modern women are shitty wives 1.00
00:18:55.980 Why would you close your Instagram 1.00
00:18:57.420 I don't understand that
00:18:58.700 Because it's advertised
00:18:59.620 You know
00:19:00.080 I was having more 0.96
00:19:01.060 Your booty 0.93
00:19:02.120 Pull up
00:19:03.220 Pull up
00:19:03.620 Pull up
00:19:04.120 Pull this up
00:19:07.840 I mean I think it really depends
00:19:09.820 You can't tell me
00:19:10.400 That's not advertising
00:19:11.420 I mean she is a model
00:19:13.480 I mean yeah
00:19:14.040 She's a model 0.99
00:19:14.460 That's her job 0.99
00:19:15.280 Like is she not what?
00:19:16.360 You could argue Justin Bieber's job
00:19:18.440 Is to screw groupies on tour
00:19:20.100 Yeah but he's a singer
00:19:21.180 That's not
00:19:22.060 That's different
00:19:22.740 He's not a model
00:19:23.740 What?
00:19:24.920 It's different
00:19:25.460 He's not a model
00:19:26.820 Right so
00:19:27.720 I do get what you're saying
00:19:29.100 He's a world famous pop star
00:19:30.780 Yeah but still he's a singer
00:19:32.160 What do world famous pop stars do?
00:19:34.180 They screw groupies on the tour
00:19:35.860 This is a tale as old as time
00:19:38.080 That's fair
00:19:38.640 I mean I do agree
00:19:40.700 It's part of the job
00:19:41.020 Yeah it is
00:19:41.980 What does Chris Brown do on stage?
00:19:44.920 Come on
00:19:45.340 No
00:19:45.660 Is that his job?
00:19:48.840 Yeah
00:19:49.140 Yeah
00:19:49.500 And you know
00:19:50.660 You can just tell
00:19:51.360 She would have none of that
00:19:52.440 If he was doing that
00:19:53.300 Yeah
00:19:53.780 But it's like we're in a society
00:19:55.620 Where men aren't told
00:19:56.500 They can do that
00:19:57.120 They're controlling
00:19:57.740 If they tell a girl 1.00
00:19:58.420 To close her Instagram
00:19:59.240 But women immediately 1.00
00:20:00.900 Want you to stop sleeping
00:20:01.800 With other girls 0.99
00:20:02.440 And you can tell
00:20:03.640 Like I know
00:20:04.720 So many people in relationships
00:20:06.080 Who have told people
00:20:06.820 Unfollow her 0.96
00:20:07.720 Stop liking her photos
00:20:09.120 Get rid of her 1.00
00:20:10.240 If you do it to a man
00:20:11.800 Or if you're in a relationship
00:20:13.240 With another girl 0.99
00:20:13.900 And you tell her not to do that
00:20:15.140 You're the bad person
00:20:16.540 Well you've got to be a bit careful
00:20:17.460 Oh really?
00:20:18.560 It goes one or two
00:20:19.520 Like you have to look at it
00:20:20.980 See I think that's a standard
00:20:22.300 Respect thing
00:20:23.260 You've got to be careful now though
00:20:24.900 If you're going to do it one way
00:20:26.480 And not accept it backwards
00:20:27.820 Yeah but there's
00:20:29.220 It's different
00:20:29.580 Hold on hold on
00:20:30.320 I feel
00:20:30.860 This might be controversial
00:20:31.840 But I feel like
00:20:32.660 There are different
00:20:33.480 There are different reasons
00:20:35.920 And there's people
00:20:36.700 With different circumstances
00:20:38.000 For example
00:20:38.780 If there was
00:20:39.760 If you was dating someone
00:20:40.940 And she was
00:20:41.860 For example
00:20:42.340 Like a content creator
00:20:43.420 Or something
00:20:44.040 And she was in
00:20:45.920 You know
00:20:46.280 Instagram engagement groups
00:20:48.000 So if she was in
00:20:49.040 An engagement group
00:20:49.740 In an engagement group
00:20:50.680 There are rules
00:20:51.300 You have to like
00:20:52.220 Everyone's photo
00:20:53.200 To help each other
00:20:54.000 With the algorithm
00:20:54.720 Right?
00:20:55.340 So would you then
00:20:56.700 Turn around to your girlfriend 0.99
00:20:57.900 And say to her
00:20:58.620 I don't want you liking
00:20:59.680 Pictures of other girls
00:21:00.440 But the standard person
00:21:01.920 Isn't honest
00:21:02.960 Like I'm not
00:21:03.960 Famous on Instagram
00:21:04.720 I don't have to
00:21:05.440 But I'm just saying
00:21:06.920 But would a good wife 1.00
00:21:07.740 Argue with him
00:21:08.640 When he asks that
00:21:09.440 And say
00:21:09.660 Well but my Instagram group
00:21:11.020 Or would she just say
00:21:11.720 Okay
00:21:12.040 Whatever you say honey
00:21:13.060 Yeah in a really traditional
00:21:14.560 Set up
00:21:15.580 She would give it up
00:21:17.120 Probably
00:21:17.640 If she's making six figures
00:21:20.300 Regardless of
00:21:22.340 Regardless of
00:21:23.600 If he's making six figures
00:21:24.480 She should be like
00:21:25.080 Listen
00:21:25.380 You know
00:21:25.960 We're married now
00:21:26.720 That is the
00:21:27.180 I've made this commitment
00:21:28.580 In the eyes of the Lord
00:21:29.920 And in the eyes of God
00:21:32.220 So that's more important to me
00:21:34.000 Than having an Instagram account
00:21:35.340 You know
00:21:35.580 That's what she
00:21:36.120 Would have said
00:21:37.000 Back in the day
00:21:37.640 Okay so I have a question
00:21:38.580 Why does he have to be
00:21:39.440 Making six figures
00:21:40.300 To have
00:21:40.680 To be listened to
00:21:41.600 And do you have
00:21:42.540 The same energy
00:21:43.220 If a woman's mid 1.00
00:21:44.100 Does she
00:21:44.540 If she's average looking 0.54
00:21:45.740 Does she not
00:21:46.300 Is she not able
00:21:47.180 To ask for loyalty
00:21:48.060 That's a good question
00:21:50.940 Like you know
00:21:51.640 She's average looking 0.98
00:21:52.460 So why does she
00:21:53.420 Get to ask for that
00:21:54.140 Yeah
00:21:54.480 I don't know
00:21:57.100 I don't really know
00:21:58.620 How to answer that
00:21:59.260 Because I just feel like
00:22:00.360 Women do 1.00
00:22:02.420 Definitely look at
00:22:03.940 Men's financial status
00:22:05.600 And we can sit here
00:22:07.620 And argue about that
00:22:08.500 All the time
00:22:09.680 But at the end of the day
00:22:10.660 There is survival
00:22:11.720 And women will always try 1.00
00:22:14.540 To go with someone
00:22:15.480 Above her level
00:22:16.640 Or at least
00:22:17.440 On her level
00:22:18.620 She will never go low
00:22:20.120 So
00:22:20.840 You said six figures
00:22:22.000 That's not realistic
00:22:24.140 That's ten percent of men 0.58
00:22:25.540 No I know
00:22:26.300 I was just trying to be funny there
00:22:27.760 But like
00:22:28.160 No but I'm just saying
00:22:31.460 Like realistically
00:22:32.520 She will always go above
00:22:34.360 Or on the same level
00:22:35.640 So she's never going to go low
00:22:37.420 So financial status
00:22:38.880 Does get looked at
00:22:39.980 And that is actually
00:22:42.280 How men earn respect
00:22:43.780 From women 0.97
00:22:44.240 I feel like
00:22:44.900 It's one of the ways
00:22:46.000 That if you want to earn
00:22:47.720 Respect from a woman 1.00
00:22:48.480 You need to do that
00:22:49.640 You need to be able to provide
00:22:50.300 You need to be able to provide
00:22:50.940 No brokies 1.00
00:22:53.360 I'm being real
00:22:54.120 I'm being absolutely real
00:22:55.800 You know
00:22:56.200 I'm not going to sugarcoat it
00:22:58.100 You do need to be
00:22:59.140 Working hard
00:22:59.940 So how much does he have to make
00:23:01.000 What about an average guy
00:23:02.020 I don't know
00:23:04.000 I don't know what the average salary here is
00:23:05.600 What is it like
00:23:06.080 40, 30
00:23:07.160 Depends on your age
00:23:08.360 So like
00:23:09.360 25 year olds
00:23:10.440 Going to be earning like
00:23:11.180 35,000
00:23:12.220 Alright
00:23:13.480 Which in London
00:23:15.060 Isn't going to be very much
00:23:16.340 In the standards
00:23:17.400 Of earning six figures
00:23:18.480 And then it's unfair
00:23:20.720 To expect that off someone
00:23:22.200 You've got the average
00:23:23.520 You've got the average UK wage though
00:23:25.060 Which is probably like
00:23:25.960 It's going to be weighted higher in London
00:23:27.280 Yeah
00:23:27.520 Because you've got extremities
00:23:29.660 You've got
00:23:30.220 You know
00:23:30.780 If you're looking at the mean
00:23:32.080 It's going to be taking both the
00:23:33.600 I mean
00:23:33.840 Does the man expect us to be top 10
00:23:35.780 As many of you know
00:23:36.920 I was just banned on TikTok
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