JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Can't Handle Rejection (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.120 Do we need men? Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.

00:00:08.780 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:14.760 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.

00:00:19.460 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:22.520 Nobody needs men!

00:00:23.760 The future is female.

00:00:25.340 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:33.280 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:36.560 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:39.240 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:42.820 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:46.900 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:49.520 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:52.500 Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:57.520 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:01.120 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:04.780 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:07.580 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:12.780 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:14.060 Seventy-four percent or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:18.520 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:21.400 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:24.080 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:29.040 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:32.260 You need no evidence.

00:01:33.100 When you guys say, get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:37.120 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:40.540 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:43.080 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:45.400 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:47.460 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:49.820 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:51.260 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:53.160 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:55.580 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:59.840 Family is the foundation of society.

00:02:01.420 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:02:04.740 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:02:09.040 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:02:10.980 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:12.780 We tell them to put off family into marriage.

00:02:14.560 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:17.300 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:21.780 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion.

00:02:23.600 What?

00:02:24.000 You're evil.

00:02:24.820 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:28.500 If you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:35.500 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:36.420 That's the thing.

00:02:37.000 Women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:02:40.180 This is not about happiness.

00:02:41.980 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:44.320 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:51.880 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:56.760 They think, well, men have all the rights.

00:02:58.240 They have all the power.

00:02:59.560 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:01.840 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:03:04.440 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:07.660 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:09.580 Men are homeless.

00:03:10.540 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:12.240 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:16.520 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:22.060 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:25.900 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:28.580 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:35.700 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:37.540 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:38.760 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:40.380 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:41.700 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:43.620 If men are in trouble, so are women.

00:03:46.060 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:50.000 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...

00:03:52.140 500K.

00:03:52.820 500K.

00:03:53.220 300K.

00:03:53.760 300K.

00:03:54.220 200K.

00:03:54.660 Am I crazy?

00:03:55.360 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:03:57.620 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:04:01.200 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:05.080 Women.

00:04:06.560 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:08.720 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:10.980 I'm over it.

00:04:12.000 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:13.460 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:15.160 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:18.020 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:19.300 You simp for men.

00:04:19.900 No, I think you simp for women.

00:04:21.320 She's a provocateur.

00:04:22.280 She says stupid stuff.

00:04:23.480 But Pearl is right about this.

00:04:24.740 It's already happening.

00:04:25.880 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:27.320 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want

00:04:30.960 a wife and women can't find a husband.

00:04:32.780 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:37.240 We're going to population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:41.140 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:42.920 The American story does not end well.

00:04:45.480 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:48.420 What is going on, everybody?

00:04:54.700 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:04:56.880 If you didn't already know, that is our documentary trailer.

00:05:01.000 We are attempting to make a divorce documentary with these stories that I interviewed in the

00:05:06.380 past two years of men that were victims of divorce.

00:05:09.460 Great.

00:05:09.700 The documentary is called What's in it for men, asking the age old question, why should

00:05:14.840 men get married?

00:05:15.920 What do they get out of it?

00:05:18.080 Now, we have a special thanks to the donations from last show.

00:05:24.140 We're looking to raise $100,000 and we're actually almost to 35K.

00:05:29.400 You guys are killing it lately.

00:05:32.160 Okay.

00:05:32.820 So the donations, we got anonymous, 20 bucks.

00:05:35.520 Phillip, I couldn't even believe this when I saw it this morning, $1,254 donated yesterday.

00:05:45.920 Woo!

00:05:47.280 $50 from anonymous, Jeff, 25.

00:05:50.280 The reason, and I was telling somebody interested in donating, we want 100K.

00:05:55.280 We want to hire someone full time to work on this, that their only job is dedicated to

00:06:01.860 doing this documentary.

00:06:02.820 And we also would like to hire a director for it.

00:06:07.860 I have someone you guys all know well in mind, but that's a conversation for a different

00:06:14.640 day.

00:06:15.280 It's going to cost us about 100K in a year.

00:06:19.960 We've had the problem before where we start and then I ran out of money and I don't want

00:06:24.680 to be in that position.

00:06:26.000 Again, I'd rather just have the money and then know where I can spend it.

00:06:29.440 So if you guys want, the link is in the description.

00:06:33.520 I do apologize for the delay, but I've gone through like four Instagrams, eight TikToks

00:06:39.220 and I've been demonetized on YouTube and now I'm re-monetized, but it was just the whole

00:06:43.920 process.

00:06:45.640 So anyways, today's show was actually inspired by a show I had a few weeks ago talking about

00:06:54.220 breakups and I had some people call in and dump me and I really, it inspired me to think

00:07:03.200 about breakups I've gone through and breakups of my friends, family, you know, we just,

00:07:11.240 I think at both men and women, we tend to go through mostly women, but even men too.

00:07:16.380 The first like breakup or two, we just tend to crash out.

00:07:19.540 Like, you know how it is.

00:07:24.500 So anyways, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.

00:07:28.280 Women don't know how to accept rejection.

00:07:31.480 We tend to have a problem.

00:07:32.920 We tend to have no problem breaking up with men, but we do crash out when we're being broken

00:07:37.700 up with.

00:07:38.660 We feel entitled to harming men in any way we see fit during a breakup.

00:07:43.300 I mean, we even come on from the early 2000s.

00:07:46.100 I hate that.

00:07:46.640 I love this song.

00:07:47.840 I really hate that.

00:07:48.740 I love it, but come on.

00:07:51.280 I dug my key into the side of his pretty little cooped up four wheel drive.

00:07:56.700 You know, you know how it goes.

00:07:58.380 There are so many like songs in the early 2000s.

00:08:02.760 Catchy ones that too.

00:08:04.020 That's the worst part.

00:08:05.500 Um, uh, about crap, women crashing out in a breakup.

00:08:09.380 Carrie Underwood saying it's okay to key his car.

00:08:12.120 It's okay to, it's, it's okay to slash his tires for cheat.

00:08:18.600 You know, we just can't accept that L and you could see videos of women breaking men's

00:08:23.920 things, making false accusations.

00:08:25.660 And in general, trying to ruin a man's life after a breakup society teaches girls that this

00:08:30.740 is okay.

00:08:31.280 From when we're young, TV shows, movies, and social media have shown women doing all types

00:08:36.420 of horrible things to men during breakups and no one bats an eye, but what do men do in

00:08:41.340 response?

00:08:42.100 Most of the time, nothing in my world.

00:08:43.980 I would hope to see men respond in a way women would know not to do this type of stuff, but

00:08:48.840 usually men just take the L. Uh, and, and I don't even blame them because sometimes doing

00:08:54.140 something in response will cause an even bigger crash out.

00:08:57.080 And it's just, on today's show, we're going to have a special guest, Sean, who dumped

00:09:02.940 me a few shows ago, and it was awesome.

00:09:06.020 Um, but he's gonna be here to look at some crazy exes and teach us how to break up with

00:09:13.000 a girl so they don't crash out and try to ruin your life.

00:09:16.800 Now, guys, um, just so you know, this is, I'm going to read an article before we bring

00:09:21.220 them up, but this is going to be on the website.

00:09:25.700 So you have to go to pearlinvite.com and apply, um, shiv's actually, if you want to sign up

00:09:31.380 now, shiv's available to take calls and you can sign up, but you do have to apply because

00:09:36.260 there's a little bit of a screening process to get on the website or the audacity network.

00:09:41.820 If you click the sign up, it'll also take you on the website.

00:09:45.640 So we're going to start with being a crazy ex-girlfriend, a woman's learning story.

00:09:51.760 So we're going to go.

00:09:53.000 So, all right, a personal story being the crazy ex-girlfriend after a breakup, I absolutely

00:10:01.940 hate when guys use the phrase crazy ex-girlfriend to describe a former love interest.

00:10:07.680 It's misogynistic.

00:10:09.860 And if you see it on potential suitors dating app profiles, you should run the other way

00:10:14.520 ASAP.

00:10:15.000 But I do think after a breakup, people can behave in uncharacteristic ways, ways that

00:10:21.320 could be described as obsessive, erratic, or possibly crazy.

00:10:25.860 And if I'm being honest with myself, I've behaved like that before.

00:10:29.960 So in a personal story, I'm sharing a little bit more about my experience being a crazy

00:10:34.280 ex-girlfriend.

00:10:37.000 Brad and I met on Tinder shortly after my divorce.

00:10:40.420 Brad and I met on Tinder shortly after my divorce.

00:10:43.240 He was about five years older than me, but had never been in a serious or long-term relationship.

00:10:53.840 I, on the other hand, had only been in serious relationships.

00:10:57.560 Now, I'd see it as a major red flag if someone hasn't ever committed in their 30s.

00:11:02.520 But at this time, I overlooked it.

00:11:04.280 And despite this, we ended up dating quite seriously for nearly two years.

00:11:08.460 We went on multiple vacations together, talked about getting married, and planned on moving

00:11:12.520 into each other, in together.

00:11:14.960 In fact, we were actually starting to look at houses, but then Brad dropped a bombshell.

00:11:19.020 He wanted to end things.

00:11:20.860 The breakup.

00:11:21.980 Two weeks earlier, we'd been on vacation.

00:11:23.680 On our trip, Brad had even talked about us getting married.

00:11:26.180 The night before, we were out with his family and had a great time.

00:11:28.860 He stayed over at my place, and the next morning, we parted as normal.

00:11:31.800 Later that day, I was running out.

00:11:35.040 I was out running errands, and on the way to the supermarket, I called him to see if

00:11:38.900 he wanted to come with me.

00:11:40.260 He didn't answer, but it wasn't too unusual.

00:11:42.720 He had a bad habit of not keeping his phone nearby.

00:11:45.440 Since I was driving right past his place, I decided to stop and see if he needed to get

00:11:50.560 groceries, too.

00:11:52.200 As a side note, I had the key he'd previously told me that due to his phone habit.

00:11:57.660 Well, he agreed that the two of us went to get groceries.

00:12:00.500 Afterwards, I dropped him at his home, and we said our goodbyes.

00:12:05.340 That night, he called and said he wanted to break up.

00:12:08.220 But as you can imagine, this came as a complete and utter shock to me.

00:12:11.680 There was no warning signs.

00:12:13.440 I didn't know where the hell this was coming from.

00:12:16.400 I would love to finish this personal story by saying that I calmly told him to go F himself

00:12:21.360 before hanging up, that I took this out of the blue breakup for what it was, a sign

00:12:25.680 of his ineptitude rather than mine and never spoke to him again.

00:12:29.240 Or even that I expressed how blindsided I felt with the same kind of eloquent grace as

00:12:34.680 Gabby from this season of The Bachelor.

00:12:37.220 Unfortunately, none of that happened.

00:12:39.840 Instead, I reacted in ways that I find embarrassing.

00:12:42.360 That night, I cried and committed the cardinal sin of all dumpies.

00:12:46.520 I begged him to change his mind.

00:12:48.040 I went over his house under the guise of retrieving my belongings, mind you, to further try and

00:12:53.360 convince him the more tears as I implored him not to leave.

00:12:56.820 I pressed him for why he would do such a thing.

00:12:59.160 And when he told me he needed space to figure out what he wanted, I went so far to suggest

00:13:03.160 we just take a break in a pitiful attempt to negotiate.

00:13:06.740 Before I left, we agreed to stay in contact, something I now recognize as a huge mistake.

00:13:11.740 Now, I do believe that you could stay in touch or even friends with an ex.

00:13:16.920 Thank you for the 100 sec.

00:13:19.460 I appreciate it, Anton.

00:13:20.860 Very nice of you.

00:13:22.660 But as soon, but it's usually a recipe for disaster.

00:13:26.400 Post breakup obsession.

00:13:28.100 I continued to call him and text him.

00:13:30.220 When he failed to answer, responded, all my anxiety would spike to the point of near panic

00:13:34.740 attack levels.

00:13:36.040 And did I find a way to deal with my anxiety in a healthy, productive way?

00:13:40.120 No, of course not.

00:13:41.120 I ended up driving over to his house to talk to him in person.

00:13:44.600 Quick tip for anyone showing up there.

00:13:46.480 Showing up unannounced at an ex's house is always a terrible idea.

00:13:50.740 No good can come from forcing someone to talk to you when they don't want to.

00:13:56.260 And I'm even more ashamed to say that this happened even more than once.

00:13:59.100 Yes, the first time I did it, he was angry.

00:14:01.380 The second time, he was understandably angrier.

00:14:04.660 But I didn't learn.

00:14:05.360 I was stuck in my own post-breakup obsession.

00:14:07.840 I couldn't think of any other ways to resolve my anxiety.

00:14:11.640 They say that the definition of craziness is doing the same thing over and over and

00:14:15.620 on and expecting different results.

00:14:19.380 And that way, even though I hate the term crazy ex-girlfriend, I can recognize that I

00:14:23.700 was one.

00:14:24.220 I was repeating the behavior that clearly didn't do me any good.

00:14:27.860 Yet each time I thought this time will be different.

00:14:30.080 This time I'll be able to convince him how much I care.

00:14:32.780 Obviously, this couldn't go on forever.

00:14:35.400 He blocked my number.

00:14:36.660 And while I do understand, I disagree with the way he went about it.

00:14:40.380 It came after several weeks of us being in contact.

00:14:42.960 During this time, he frequently told me he thought we'd get back together at some point.

00:14:48.520 He also asked to borrow money, which I gave him.

00:14:51.500 Then he agreed to go somewhere with me.

00:14:54.780 But the night before, he texted me to cancel.

00:14:57.660 His message went something like this.

00:14:59.360 I'm not going to come over this weekend or anytime after that.

00:15:01.820 I've decided it's not good to continue to be in each other's lives.

00:15:05.260 Please don't text or call me at all.

00:15:06.960 Brad.

00:15:07.680 Considering that I had just lent him money prior to this, he said that he thought there

00:15:11.860 was a good chance of reconciliation.

00:15:14.080 That message sent me on fire.

00:15:15.840 Of course, I ignored his request for me to crash out or for me not to reach out.

00:15:20.400 And of course, he ignored my crash out at the time.

00:15:23.700 I went to his house the next day, but at this time, I wasn't there to try and change his

00:15:27.440 mind.

00:15:28.160 This time, I was fueled by pure anger.

00:15:30.180 I demanded my money back and told him that what he did to me was BS.

00:15:33.960 What's more, I took back a few of the gifts I had given him.

00:15:37.320 So that's how it ended with Brad.

00:15:38.820 We've spoken a few times since then, but he never gave me any actual closure.

00:15:42.500 The last contact was when he sent me a happy birthday text.

00:15:46.520 I never replied, and I certainly didn't reciprocate on his birthday.

00:15:50.400 The life lesson here is breakups tend to bring out the worst in us.

00:15:53.560 So it's understandable to act irrationally when you're hurt and angry.

00:15:57.780 But even though I understand why I acted the way I did, I'm still ashamed of it.

00:16:03.160 Life lesson here is before you act, think about how you'll feel when retelling the story.

00:16:08.440 Have you ever experienced a crazy ex-girlfriend before?

00:16:11.400 Okay, so next we're going to bring up Doug MPA, as well as Sean.

00:16:19.860 Welcome to the show, guys.

00:16:22.380 Hey, how's it going?

00:16:23.820 Good.

00:16:24.200 How are you?

00:16:25.860 Awesome.

00:16:28.420 Hey, what's going on?

00:16:29.900 What's going on?

00:16:30.980 How are you doing?

00:16:31.880 Good.

00:16:32.280 How are you?

00:16:32.960 Thanks for coming.

00:16:33.880 Thank you.

00:16:36.000 No problem.

00:16:36.480 No problem.

00:16:37.140 You know, I had to come through.

00:16:38.580 If this guy had your breakup formula, he wouldn't have gone through it.

00:16:45.060 Maybe, maybe, maybe so.

00:16:47.240 Wait, they still crash out even with it?

00:16:51.820 Yeah, maybe so.

00:16:53.200 We have to see.

00:16:54.400 But shout out to that person who actually donated the 1K.

00:16:57.160 Shout out to him.

00:16:58.400 Yeah.

00:17:00.240 Thank you.

00:17:02.360 We're going to go back.

00:17:04.360 Phillip.

00:17:06.200 Appreciate it, Phillip.

00:17:07.320 So I'm going to read the article on the Travis Rudolph murder trial.

00:17:13.160 So I'm going to set that up real fast.

00:17:15.800 So guys, Travis Rudolph was a cornerback for the Miami Dolphins.

00:17:20.480 And he ended up having a, he had an injury.

00:17:23.700 So he had to take a couple of years off to try to recover from the injury,

00:17:26.860 physical therapy and stuff.

00:17:28.340 Well, he, I think he was late 20s, early 30s.

00:17:32.280 And he was dating this, you know, he's a black dude.

00:17:35.040 And he was dating this B-dub.

00:17:37.280 And he, they were dating for a year or two.

00:17:40.640 And he wouldn't claim her as his girlfriend.

00:17:43.300 He was, he was just seeing her.

00:17:44.520 Right.

00:17:45.240 And so he, he, and he moved in with his brother in Miami because his brother

00:17:51.760 was well-to-do too, but he moved in because he wasn't making income as an NFL

00:17:55.600 player.

00:17:55.900 Well, he said that he didn't want to be with her anymore.

00:17:59.080 And she starts breaking stuff in the house.

00:18:01.560 What do they always do?

00:18:03.960 What's the first thing they go for when they get upset guys at the PS5.

00:18:08.540 So she broke the PS5, started breaking stuff in the guy's house.

00:18:12.380 But the brother said, look, you need to get her out of here.

00:18:14.780 So he kicks her out the front door.

00:18:17.280 He texts, she gets in her car and she texts her brother and says, oh, he hit me.

00:18:24.020 He put his hands on me.

00:18:25.780 You need to go mess this guy up.

00:18:27.800 Right.

00:18:28.820 So her brother and three of his friends go over there with weapons.

00:18:34.440 And Travis Rudolph has his AR-15.

00:18:37.420 And he lights these bad boys up.

00:18:41.800 And so one of them is deleted.

00:18:44.240 Another one was severely injured.

00:18:46.200 And the other two drove off with the two.

00:18:49.600 So one of them died in the car.

00:18:51.340 The other one made it to the hospital.

00:18:53.040 And he got charged with attempted murder.

00:18:55.820 Well, he got acquitted of the charges.

00:19:00.180 So go ahead.

00:19:01.760 Okay.

00:19:02.700 Defense attorney paints Dominique Jones as a scorned lover who recruited brothers' friends to kill

00:19:08.180 former FSU football star.

00:19:11.020 The ex-girlfriend of Travis Rudolph was cross-examined for hours the second day of testimony in the

00:19:18.480 Florida State football state's Florida State football star's murder trial.

00:19:23.680 Dominique Jones, who had testified the day before that she, who had testified the day before that

00:19:29.860 she never intended for her brother and his friends to hurt Rudolph when she texted her brother to go

00:19:35.380 shoot up his ass.

00:19:39.520 What is that supposed to be?

00:19:41.380 It just says.

00:19:42.040 Shoot up his shit.

00:19:43.760 Oh, okay.

00:19:45.460 After learning the football player's apparent infidelity, was back on the witness stand

00:19:50.060 Thursday.

00:19:51.120 Defense attorney Heidi Perlet attempted to portray Jones as an out-of-work real estate agent who

00:19:57.180 was married to another man.

00:19:58.840 Jealous.

00:19:59.440 Yeah, that's another thing.

00:20:01.260 So she, she crashed out over him being unfaithful or whatever, when he never claimed to have his

00:20:06.500 girlfriend and she was married to another man the whole time.

00:20:10.180 All right, go ahead.

00:20:10.540 Of Rudolph's professional football career and angry with Rudolph at the time of the

00:20:16.540 April, 2021 fatal shooting in Lake Park.

00:20:19.720 Rudolph is charged with one count of first degree murder and three counts of attempted

00:20:23.820 first degree murder in connection with the shooting that killed Sebastian John Jacks.

00:20:29.180 Jones testified Thursday that Rudolph became confrontational and wouldn't let her leave

00:20:34.340 after she read his text messages with another woman.

00:20:37.060 She also admitted to smashing his PlayStation and calling him a broke bitch.

00:20:41.880 After the confrontation spilled out to the front yard of Rudolph's home.

00:20:47.240 She is not hot enough for this bullshit.

00:20:50.780 Oh my God.

00:20:52.580 I can't believe he was messing with her in the, oh my God.

00:20:56.160 Isn't that, it's crazy how low these guys will go.

00:20:59.420 So, um, it's, isn't the moral of the story that you sent your brothers and your friends

00:21:05.700 to go kill Travis, Perlette asked Jones.

00:21:08.140 No, the moral of the story is him putting his hands on.

00:21:10.720 That's always what women say.

00:21:14.000 It's never, he beat the, it's always, he put his hands on me.

00:21:17.060 That is really the basis of everything.

00:21:18.840 And I didn't send my brothers to kill him.

00:21:20.840 No, you just sent a text to go shoot up his shit.

00:21:23.620 Right.

00:21:24.260 Perlette said, I didn't say shoot him.

00:21:26.120 Jones answered when asked to explain what she meant by her text messages.

00:21:29.880 Jones said it was nothing violent towards a person.

00:21:32.420 I was upset.

00:21:33.020 My adrenaline was running and I said something I didn't mean.

00:21:35.880 Jones said, she went on to say that she didn't necessarily mean for anything bad to

00:21:39.480 happen to Travis, his family, his house, or anything.

00:21:42.300 Perlette made a point to mention that Jones went back inside his home to get a tequila bottle,

00:21:47.760 which Perlette claimed Jones used to hit Rudolph in, in his head.

00:21:51.740 Another item she picked up during the scuffle was a brick that she used to smash his car

00:21:56.340 window.

00:21:56.900 Jones testified.

00:21:58.740 I don't think I slapped him, but I did like throw a punch at him.

00:22:01.820 She testified.

00:22:03.200 Jones also confessed to deleting the shoot up his shit text message along with another

00:22:07.680 text message with the audacity.

00:22:10.360 She's going to lie.

00:22:11.180 Okay.

00:22:12.560 That her brother sent in a group text referring to Rudolph as a dead man walking before turning

00:22:17.820 his phone over to the deputies.

00:22:19.560 That's why betas are so dangerous because they enforce women's crazy demands.

00:22:26.420 Rudolph has been out of jail on house arrest since last year after, after he unsuccessfully

00:22:30.680 stopped, sought a stand your ground defense.

00:22:33.740 Jean, um, Jack quest, uh, fled after the shooting was later found fatally wounded in the front

00:22:39.200 passenger seat of a car in West Palm beach.

00:22:41.240 The driver and backseat passenger who were also were also in the car, but they were uninjured.

00:22:46.160 Another victory, another victim was found with gunshot wounds in Lake park, a star wide receiver

00:22:53.300 at Cardinal Newman high school.

00:22:54.900 Rudolph went on to play at Florida state.

00:22:56.900 He hauled in 153 catches, 2,311 yards and 18 touchdowns in three seasons with the Seminoles

00:23:04.180 from 2014 to 16.

00:23:07.200 The West Palm beach native left school early to declare for the NFL draft.

00:23:11.740 And although he wasn't drafted, he signed with the New York giants in 2017 and spent two

00:23:16.040 seasons with the team.

00:23:17.540 Rudolph was signed to the Miami dolphins practice squad in 2018, but torn ACL on his first day

00:23:22.140 of workouts and never played in the NFL again.

00:23:24.140 He signed with the Canadian football league, Winnipeg blue bombers in 2020, but the text,

00:23:29.860 but the team released him after his arrest testimony was expected to continue on Friday.

00:23:37.560 Wow.

00:23:38.960 Yeah.

00:23:39.400 So she, she called her brother and they went over there and one guy lost his life.

00:23:43.900 Sad part about it is they drove around with that guy bleeding out for an hour before they

00:23:49.100 took him to the hospital.

00:23:50.740 What do we do, man?

00:23:51.980 What do we do?

00:23:52.780 What do we do?

00:23:53.440 Yeah.

00:23:54.140 We waited an hour to take him to the hospital.

00:23:59.100 Should I read the next one?

00:24:01.100 Yeah.

00:24:01.540 Cause that, that tells what happens.

00:24:02.980 The ex NFL Florida state player, Travis Rudolph found not guilty of murder and attempted murder

00:24:08.480 charges.

00:24:09.660 Um, Travis Rudolph, a former wide receiver for Florida state who played in the NFL was found

00:24:15.560 not guilty of murder and other charges charges by a Palm beach County jury on Wednesday court

00:24:20.760 records show.

00:24:21.440 Rudolph has faced one count of first degree premeditated murder and three counts of attempted

00:24:26.500 first degree murder in connection with a 2021 shooting.

00:24:29.800 Rudolph argued that the shooting was in self-defense.

00:24:32.600 The jury found Rudolph not guilty on all counts when, and he was released from house arrest

00:24:37.900 Wednesday, according to court records.

00:24:39.520 I'm definitely going to celebrate with my family, trying to get back to play football.

00:24:43.720 Rudolph spent two seasons in the NFL as a player for the New York Giants and the Miami Dolphins

00:24:48.760 in 2017.

00:24:49.800 He played seven games for the Giants, catching eight passes for 101 yards.

00:24:54.860 Mark Shiner, Rudolph's attorney told CNN, the jury reached a true and just verdict.

00:25:01.100 Travis has been falsely accused from day one and the truth came out.

00:25:04.420 Travis is a special human being and we wish him all the success in the world.

00:25:07.540 And he starts, as he starts with his new found freedom, Mark Freeman, a spokesman for the Palm

00:25:14.100 County, Palm Beach County state attorney, Dave Ehrenberg said, prosecutors respect the jury's

00:25:19.780 decision.

00:25:20.340 Although we may disagree with the jury's verdict, it is their job to determine from the facts

00:25:24.720 whether a defendant is guilty or not.

00:25:26.600 Freeman said, our thoughts are with the victims and their families in the case.

00:25:31.180 Palm Beach County sheriff's deputies responded to a double shooting in Lake Park, Florida,

00:25:35.680 soon after midnight in April of 2021.

00:25:38.280 The sheriff's office said in a statement, one man at the scene had been taken to a local

00:25:42.640 hospital for treatment.

00:25:43.900 Another man was found dead, not far away in the city of West Palm Beach, the sheriff's office said.

00:25:51.200 Investigators identified Rudolph as the sub suspect as he was arrested in the death of

00:25:57.500 Sebastian Jean Jacques, according to WPBF, highly recruited out of high school.

00:26:04.360 Rudolph attended FSU, where he spent three seasons as a member of the Seminoles from 2014

00:26:10.400 to 2016.

00:26:11.620 He received all ACC second team honors in his sophomore and junior seasons.

00:26:16.960 Yeah, so it's good.

00:26:20.860 He at least was found not guilty.

00:26:23.220 Right.

00:26:23.720 Good thing we had the tax.

00:26:24.760 Is it three years?

00:26:25.780 Yeah, I know.

00:26:27.000 Like imagine he probably had the stress of that weighing him down.

00:26:31.020 Yeah.

00:26:31.340 And he all he said, he never claimed the woman.

00:26:34.660 He was messing around with her.

00:26:35.540 And then he said, look, I don't want to be with you anymore.

00:26:38.020 And he had to kick her out of the house.

00:26:40.860 And then she called her brothers, put a battery in her brother's back.

00:26:43.760 And then one guy ended up shot.

00:26:45.500 The other guy ended up not here anymore.

00:26:47.620 All kinds of other words of some woman.

00:26:51.020 Sean, what are your thoughts on it?

00:26:52.760 Do you think this do you think when it's a woman that crazy, it's something that can be

00:26:57.160 avoided?

00:26:57.720 Or do you think it was just he just messed with the wrong woman?

00:27:00.500 Yeah, it didn't mess with the wrong woman.

00:27:04.380 I think crazy knows no limits.

00:27:07.280 But I think you made a great point, which I actually highlighted is betas enforce women's

00:27:12.540 demands.

00:27:13.640 And so you got to realize that if a crazy is that crazy, it's hard to avoid it because

00:27:19.420 there's going to be betas that enforce their demands.

00:27:22.740 You know what I was thinking, too?

00:27:24.140 Even if a woman has no power at all, it's like because I was thinking about how guys

00:27:31.120 say they don't want a woman with social media presence.

00:27:33.820 And I totally understand why.

00:27:36.080 But the problem was like Crowder, even a woman that has no presence, like she just has to

00:27:41.460 run her mouth on social media about like a well-known guy.

00:27:45.360 And then now she does.

00:27:47.060 You know, like what happened in the Crowder case?

00:27:51.460 Yeah, exactly.

00:27:52.420 All she has to do is be connected directly or indirectly.

00:27:56.220 Who was the lady who was talking about Trump?

00:27:58.300 I mean, like, who is she?

00:27:59.680 But at the end of the day, it didn't matter.

00:28:01.540 Didn't matter.

00:28:02.700 Again, the enforcement.

00:28:06.200 The sad part about it is how do you navigate a conversation?

00:28:08.880 So let's say, you know, your sister or a girl that you're friends with is kind of crazy,

00:28:16.200 right?

00:28:16.420 And she calls you and says, Sean, you have to come and go beat this guy up.

00:28:21.340 Because you have to ask questions.

00:28:24.140 Like, I wouldn't, I'm not the kind of person that a battery put in my back.

00:28:28.980 But then if you, it's sad because if you don't go rush to her rescue, people talk trash.

00:28:34.280 They'd be like, oh, you didn't believe her.

00:28:36.200 You didn't blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:28:37.740 So you, you're dangd if you do and you're dangd if you don't.

00:28:43.500 Yeah, that's fact.

00:28:44.720 But if it was my sister, I know she was probably in the wrong.

00:28:47.380 So I would probably definitely not go out.

00:28:49.040 Wait, let's try it.

00:28:50.820 Let's try it.

00:28:51.560 Hold on.

00:28:54.020 Okay.

00:28:55.860 Sean, Sean.

00:28:58.420 He put his hands on me.

00:29:00.480 He put his hands on me.

00:29:02.100 He just, he hit me.

00:29:03.100 Oh, really?

00:29:04.100 Yeah.

00:29:05.100 Explain more, please.

00:29:06.100 Well, we were fighting and he just, he just put his hands on me.

00:29:10.100 He just, he hit me.

00:29:12.100 How do you feel about that?

00:29:14.100 Well, I'm so pissed off.

00:29:16.100 Can you go, can you go get him?

00:29:19.100 I'm overseas now.

00:29:20.100 So I'm not currently available, but I can help you walk through your pain.

00:29:23.100 Okay.

00:29:24.100 Okay.

00:29:25.100 So let's say that you're in the city.

00:29:27.100 Okay.

00:29:28.100 Okay.

00:29:29.100 Okay.

00:29:30.100 So let's say that you're in the same city as her.

00:29:33.100 Okay.

00:29:34.100 Yeah.

00:29:35.100 I'm in the hospital.

00:29:36.100 I'm not available.

00:29:37.100 No, but seriously.

00:29:45.100 No, seriously.

00:29:46.100 Go ahead.

00:29:48.100 Well, I'm going to be in the hospital too.

00:29:50.100 I mean, he's going to, he's going to kill me.

00:29:54.100 Well, you can come over and you can stay at my place and we can talk about it.

00:29:57.100 And we can talk about it and we can have a conversation and figure this thing out together.

00:30:01.100 Okay.

00:30:02.100 But then I come over to your place and then it's the same conversation.

00:30:08.100 Yeah.

00:30:09.100 Continue, continue to go with the conversation.

00:30:11.100 Hey, how are you doing?

00:30:12.100 I know on the phone you were speaking about something that happened between you and your boyfriend and your partner.

00:30:17.100 Please explain.

00:30:18.100 Yeah.

00:30:19.100 Well, he put his hands on me, shoved me down the stairs and he just, he threw me on the ground and he hit me.

00:30:24.100 And what are you going to do next?

00:30:27.100 Were you staying at his house or?

00:30:28.100 Yeah.

00:30:29.100 Were you just visiting?

00:30:30.100 I was over at his house.

00:30:31.100 Okay.

00:30:32.100 All right.

00:30:33.100 Do you want me to go with you down to the police station?

00:30:35.100 Yeah.

00:30:36.100 And then can we, um, yeah, can we, can we go to the police?

00:30:41.100 Okay.

00:30:42.100 And then you're going to go in the car, go to the police station.

00:30:46.100 She's not going to go.

00:30:47.100 Number one.

00:30:48.100 But number two, even again, remember, you got to remember in these things, people are going to call you to do things that you, you know, they want you to do.

00:31:02.100 And she wanted to go to police.

00:31:03.100 She would have went to the police.

00:31:04.100 Right.

00:31:05.100 She don't need me.

00:31:06.100 Right.

00:31:07.100 Oh, I see.

00:31:08.100 Okay.

00:31:09.100 Yeah, that's true.

00:31:10.100 You get what I'm saying?

00:31:11.100 So I'm asking her to do things that she doesn't want to, because she would have done it already.

00:31:15.100 Right.

00:31:16.100 She would have called the police.

00:31:17.100 You don't have to go to the police.

00:31:18.100 The police will actually come.

00:31:20.100 Right.

00:31:21.100 Very quickly.

00:31:22.100 There you go.

00:31:23.100 Yes.

00:31:24.100 She would have been like, oh, more than likely.

00:31:27.100 She's probably going to be like, oh, well, no, I can't come right now.

00:31:31.100 Or, oh, well, no, I don't want to take it there yet.

00:31:35.100 And so again, I would just say things.

00:31:37.100 I don't directly have to say, no, I'm not going to support you.

00:31:41.100 Okay.

00:31:42.100 So eventually comes down to that.

00:31:43.100 What would you say, Sean, if you said, I want to go to the police station, but, but before we go there, I want to go by his house.

00:31:50.100 So you can go, so you can go tell him off for me.

00:31:54.100 I want you to go talk to him for me.

00:31:58.100 No, I can't do that.

00:31:59.100 Because if I do something like that and get myself in a particular situation, then I'm in jail.

00:32:04.100 I'm in a position inside.

00:32:06.100 So what if she says, we're supposed to be friends.

00:32:10.100 You're supposed to be my brother.

00:32:12.100 Are you saying that you don't care about me because you don't want to defend me?

00:32:16.100 No, I care about you.

00:32:18.100 That's why I'm here talking to you.

00:32:19.100 This is why we're doing it.

00:32:21.100 How am I going to help you if I'm in jail or incarcerated or six feet under?

00:32:25.100 Sean's the goat, man.

00:32:27.100 This is great stuff.

00:32:29.100 We have to walk ourselves through this.

00:32:31.100 And Todd, thank you for the super chat.

00:32:34.100 Okay.

00:32:35.100 So next.

00:32:36.100 Okay.

00:32:37.100 You guys are roasting my fake crying.

00:32:39.100 All right.

00:32:40.100 I don't.

00:32:41.100 All right.

00:32:42.100 All right.

00:32:43.100 I got it.

00:32:44.100 I get it.

00:32:45.100 So next we're going to watch some videos.

00:32:49.100 And I want you to say what you would do in this situation.

00:32:52.100 And by the way, guys, after you can ask Sean, if you guys have situations of your own with crazy women, you can ask him directly about what his advice would be.

00:33:02.100 We're going to do a call in show.

00:33:04.100 So call in with this.

00:33:07.100 Ladies can call into you with your craziest breakup story.

00:33:10.100 But guys, we want to hear what's what's the craziest thing a woman's done after you've broken up with her or divorced her.

00:33:18.100 And then also, how did you respond?

00:33:21.100 Because a lot of guys just take the L.

00:33:24.100 What do you think?

00:33:25.100 How do you respond?

00:33:26.100 And then how do you think men should respond?

00:33:29.100 Okay.

00:33:30.100 How does that make you feel?

00:33:33.100 Okay.

00:33:34.100 I want to watch this.

00:33:35.100 Here.

00:33:36.100 All you want to.

00:33:37.100 Okay.

00:33:38.100 I'm going to be real drunk here.

00:33:39.100 One of my people beat your ass.

00:33:40.100 I'm fine with that.

00:33:41.100 I'm fine with that.

00:33:42.100 Police going to beat your ass or my people going to beat your ass?

00:33:45.100 Okay.

00:33:46.100 She even had everybody beat his ass.

00:33:47.100 I know you'll call the police.

00:33:48.100 What?

00:33:49.100 You want me to do.

00:33:50.100 No, that's what you're doing.

00:33:51.100 That's what you always wanted to do.

00:33:52.100 That's why I don't need to be with you.

00:33:53.100 That's what you want me to do.

00:33:54.100 Okay.

00:33:55.100 No, I don't want to do that.

00:33:56.100 You told me to call my people.

00:33:57.100 You told me to call my dad.

00:33:58.100 You told me to call these people.

00:33:59.100 I said, go ahead and get your money so I can go.

00:34:01.100 That's what you told me.

00:34:02.100 I said, all you got to do is get your money so I can go.

00:34:03.100 You told me to do.

00:34:04.100 Okay, whatever.

00:34:05.100 You want me to do what you told me to do?

00:34:06.100 Alright, whatever.

00:34:07.100 A few moments later.

00:34:09.100 All I'm trying to do is go out the door.

00:34:12.100 I'm trying to move out the door.

00:34:14.100 Get away from the situation and make things better for me.

00:34:16.100 What the fuck?

00:34:17.100 She switched quick as hell.

00:34:18.100 I can't seem to go.

00:34:20.100 So when the police get here, you will see.

00:34:23.100 Because I'm going to have to remove her from me physically.

00:34:26.100 Trying to be polite and just walk out and have a great day, but she won't get off me.

00:34:32.100 Can you please get off me?

00:34:33.100 I'm asking her twice.

00:34:34.100 I'm asking you to sit down.

00:34:35.100 Can you please get off of me?

00:34:36.100 Okay, I'm asking you to sit down.

00:34:37.100 Can you please get off of me?

00:34:38.100 Gary, please don't put your hands on me.

00:34:40.100 I'm begging you, please.

00:34:41.100 Get down, Gary.

00:34:42.100 Please.

00:34:43.100 Please.

00:34:44.100 Please.

00:34:45.100 Please.

00:34:46.100 You see this, right?

00:34:47.100 You see this?

00:34:48.100 I'm trying to go.

00:34:49.100 I'm trying to go.

00:34:50.100 Look at me.

00:34:51.100 Look at me.

00:34:52.100 I don't want to be with you.

00:34:53.100 I will give you whatever.

00:34:54.100 I don't want nothing from you.

00:34:55.100 I want to be away from you.

00:34:56.100 I want my freedom from you.

00:34:57.100 What'd you think?

00:34:58.100 That was pretty good.

00:34:59.100 Sean, what'd you think about his reaction?

00:35:01.100 Did he do good?

00:35:02.100 Yeah.

00:35:03.100 I would say one of the best parts he did was do the camera, but he was going back

00:35:08.100 and forth with that girl.

00:35:09.100 That was definitely not the good part.

00:35:11.100 Because obviously it broke and then it came back in.

00:35:14.100 So steady recording the whole time.

00:35:16.100 Unless we got the clip, right?

00:35:18.100 But he did record.

00:35:19.100 So that's a good part.

00:35:20.100 But don't fight her back.

00:35:21.100 That's the bad part.

00:35:22.100 Yeah.

00:35:23.100 But he has the right to be able to, to physically like push her away from him.

00:35:28.100 If she has her arms around him.

00:35:30.100 Right?

00:35:31.100 I don't know.

00:35:32.100 Not according to the beta enforcement cop that's going to show up afterwards.

00:35:37.100 We're going to have to ask him about that.

00:35:39.100 Yeah.

00:35:40.100 Cause it doesn't matter what we think.

00:35:41.100 It matters like what he's putting himself at risk for.

00:35:44.100 Yeah.

00:35:45.100 He should have maintained distance.

00:35:46.100 That's what he should have did.

00:35:47.100 He should have never, you know, he should have kept the distance, kept a good jab.

00:35:53.100 So your only, your only advice would be to like, the only thing you would have changed about

00:35:58.100 that is like not to push her off for anything.

00:36:01.100 Is that what you're saying, Sean?

00:36:03.100 Yeah.

00:36:04.100 Yeah.

00:36:05.100 Not to push her off and definitely call the cops.

00:36:07.100 Cause if you do, if you got the video and you call them, that's the best thing, not breaks

00:36:12.100 of it.

00:36:13.100 That's when people get in trouble.

00:36:14.100 Right?

00:36:15.100 When you're trying to show the cop breaks, like, look, this is her yelling.

00:36:18.100 And I said, I want to go.

00:36:19.100 And then the next thing they see is she's holding you.

00:36:22.100 And then you're kind of pushing her off.

00:36:24.100 Like I'm about to push her off.

00:36:26.100 Like just again, it depends on the officer, how he wants to see it.

00:36:32.100 You get me?

00:36:33.100 And then after that, if you lucky to make it to the court.

00:36:36.100 So net net, you always just want to record and then get yourself out of this situation

00:36:42.100 and call police.

00:36:43.100 And then you'll be good.

00:36:45.100 Yeah.

00:36:46.100 Yeah.

00:36:47.100 And he needs to be the one to call the police.

00:36:49.100 Exactly.

00:36:50.100 Not her.

00:36:51.100 Don't let her do it.

00:36:52.100 She can launch her story.

00:36:53.100 Yep.

00:36:54.100 All right.

00:36:55.100 Let's see.

00:36:56.100 We got next.

00:36:57.100 Guys.

00:36:58.100 His ex found out where he worked as a dead ass.

00:37:02.100 Just got off work, bro.

00:37:03.100 It's five in the morning.

00:37:04.100 I worked graveyard and my ex is literally here, bro.

00:37:08.100 Look, there's a security right here.

00:37:10.100 And that's her car leaving right now, bro.

00:37:14.100 Look at that.

00:37:15.100 That's her license plate right here.

00:37:17.100 This is my, this is her, bro.

00:37:18.100 Dude.

00:37:19.100 I just got a gun.

00:37:20.100 Fucking weirdo.

00:37:21.100 Psycho.

00:37:22.100 Pulling up to my job and shit.

00:37:24.100 What did you think about that, Sean?

00:37:25.100 Well, that was pretty short.

00:37:26.100 But one thing I think he did was just explain it a little bit good.

00:37:31.100 Just like he did.

00:37:32.100 Don't curse guys.

00:37:33.100 Don't call them effing psycho.

00:37:35.100 Don't do that.

00:37:36.100 Just explain it.

00:37:37.100 Because then again, when you're showing this evidence, right?

00:37:38.100 To the court, to the officer, they're going to hear you calling an effing psycho and all

00:37:44.100 this other stuff.

00:37:45.100 And again, remember who you're talking to.

00:37:46.100 Everybody's beta is around you.

00:37:47.100 So it'd be like, Hey, this is my ex.

00:37:48.100 She pulled up to my site.

00:37:49.100 I'm recording it.

00:37:50.100 I'm scared.

00:37:51.100 I don't know what to do.

00:37:52.100 I just wanted to record it and make sure that I have my evidence.

00:37:53.100 That makes sense.

00:37:54.100 That makes sense.

00:37:55.100 That makes sense.

00:37:56.100 Curse guys.

00:37:57.100 Don't call them effing psycho.

00:37:58.100 Don't do that.

00:37:59.100 Just explain it.

00:38:00.100 Because then again, when you're showing this evidence, right?

00:38:01.100 To the court, to the officer, they're going to hear you calling an effing psycho and

00:38:02.100 all this other stuff.

00:38:03.100 And again, remember who you're talking to.

00:38:05.100 Everybody's beta is around you.

00:38:06.100 So it'd be like, Hey, this is my ex.

00:38:07.100 She pulled up to my site.

00:38:09.100 I'm recording it.

00:38:10.100 I'm scared.

00:38:16.100 The narration is better than the narration.

00:38:19.100 Oh, she's the effing psycho.

00:38:21.100 Look at her.

00:38:22.100 She's effing this.

00:38:23.100 That's not good for you.

00:38:25.100 Yeah.

00:38:26.100 Cause even, even if you're right, even if you're right, it doesn't matter because you don't,

00:38:30.100 it matters if the cop thinks you're right.

00:38:32.100 Yeah.

00:38:33.100 And young guys really have to watch out because young women, I mean, women in late twenties,

00:38:39.100 early thirties crash out, but no one crashes out like the 18, 19, 20, 21 year olds.

00:38:45.100 Have no concept of longterm consequence.

00:38:47.100 I mean, most women don't anyway, but especially when they're 19, 20, 21, 22, these women would

00:38:52.100 do something drastic.

00:38:53.100 That'll affect the rest of their lives, man.

00:38:56.100 So you really got to be careful young guys.

00:38:59.100 If you're between the ages of 19 and 25, you really got to watch out with these breakups

00:39:03.100 guys.

00:39:04.100 All right.

00:39:05.100 Let's see the next one.

00:39:06.100 Yeah.

00:39:07.100 I'm sorry.

00:39:08.100 Go ahead.

00:39:09.100 Yeah.

00:39:10.100 Yeah.

00:39:11.100 No, what I was going to just add is remember guys, it's easy to, you gotta, when, when somebody's

00:39:14.100 looking into your story about what's going on between a dispute and you're the one looking

00:39:19.100 calm and put you in a superior position.

00:39:22.100 If you're not looking calm, then then already puts them on a narrative.

00:39:27.100 Like, Oh, she's crying.

00:39:29.100 She's erratic, but this guy's angry.

00:39:32.100 And so you get what I'm saying.

00:39:34.100 So from the outside, looking in the beta officers are going to be like, okay, she's obviously

00:39:39.100 the victim and he's aggressive and you're aggressive or angry.

00:39:44.100 Yeah.

00:39:45.100 Yeah.

00:39:46.100 You want to just be level-headed.

00:39:47.100 Yeah.

00:39:48.100 He seems like an angry guy.

00:39:49.100 So he must've done something to make her this way.

00:39:52.100 Yeah, exactly.

00:39:53.100 All right.

00:39:54.100 Let's see the next one.

00:39:55.100 I hid in my ex-boyfriend's closet for a week.

00:40:00.100 Now I know what y'all thinking.

00:40:02.100 What the fuck is this bitch on right now?

00:40:05.100 First, I want to preface.

00:40:06.100 I was literally 17 and psycho and mentally ill.

00:40:09.100 So literally I've been dating this guy for almost a year and I was like, so in love with

00:40:15.100 him, like more in love with anybody than I've ever been in my life.

00:40:18.100 And he broke up with me and I was like, well, what the hell?

00:40:22.100 Like, please no.

00:40:23.100 Like, I was like, this was detrimental.

00:40:26.100 This was the worst thing that could ever happen in my entire life.

00:40:29.100 Like it literally felt like my world was ending and I was going to die.

00:40:32.100 So of course, stupid 17 year old me would still sneak over to his house and we would,

00:40:37.100 you know, you know, duh, because I thought, well, if I keep doing that, maybe he'll love

00:40:43.100 me and not want to break up.

00:40:45.100 Anyway, so eventually, like I was over there one time and I don't even know, but I ended

00:40:52.100 up staying there for a week straight, like, and I would hide in his closet, like during

00:40:57.100 the day when he wasn't home and his parents were home.

00:41:02.100 And like, literally I would just hide and I would just stay in there, like literally.

00:41:09.100 And I would shower at night, like when his parents went to bed and everything.

00:41:13.100 And it was, this was like a week, a week long.

00:41:15.100 And mind you, I did not have my driver's license because I did not get my license until I was

00:41:20.100 18.

00:41:21.100 So like I had somebody drive me there and then like, I just stayed.

00:41:26.100 It was low key kind of nice.

00:41:27.100 But then at the same time, it was like, like, I don't know.

00:41:30.100 I don't know what I was thinking, bro.

00:41:32.100 What was I thinking?

00:41:33.100 Now this was like eight, nine years ago.

00:41:36.100 So it was a long time ago, but I still think about it sometimes because it's literally crazy.

00:41:40.100 But anyway, one day he went to school and I went out to the living room and his dad was

00:41:46.100 there and he caught me.

00:41:47.100 So that was embarrassing.

00:41:50.100 And his mom ended up coming home from work to take me home and it was not good.

00:41:55.100 And my ex-boyfriend was mad because he got caught and in trouble.

00:41:58.100 And then he didn't want to talk to me ever again.

00:42:01.100 So no, we did not get back together.

00:42:05.100 Seven years later, we did.

00:42:07.100 And he is who I'm dating now.

00:42:08.100 And we've been together for two years now.

00:42:11.100 So if y'all think that men don't like crazy, I might just overlook it.

00:42:18.100 So, I mean, I was down bad, but I ended up back with him.

00:42:23.100 So who's really winning?

00:42:25.100 Oh, wow.

00:42:29.100 Eric, these guys who call in and don't show their faces are cowards.

00:42:32.100 Beta and Alpha cosplay costumes.

00:42:35.100 Eric, some people got jobs.

00:42:37.100 You know what I mean?

00:42:40.100 What do you guys think of the the girl?

00:42:45.100 Why do you think the guy got back with her?

00:42:50.100 She's probably great in the sack.

00:42:52.100 She looks like the type.

00:42:54.100 What do you think, Sean?

00:43:00.100 Well, not a coward.

00:43:01.100 But what I would say is he probably got back with her because, again, people don't realize that, like you said many times before, a lot of guys don't get a lot of access to women.

00:43:14.100 So supply and demand.

00:43:15.100 So supply and demand.

00:43:16.100 She was somebody familiar from his past.

00:43:18.100 He probably overlooked the red flags with time.

00:43:20.100 And he said, OK, I want to be with her.

00:43:24.100 And that's what he allows.

00:43:27.100 So at the end of the day, the relationship worked out.

00:43:31.100 I don't even think she's got to give all that good poom poom.

00:43:33.100 We know guys don't have many friends, right?

00:43:36.100 They don't have a big network of male friends.

00:43:40.100 So they need intimacy.

00:43:41.100 And she probably maybe is getting an attack.

00:43:44.100 I don't know.

00:43:45.100 But at the end of the day, he said, OK, I'll take her back.

00:43:49.100 And then he took her back.

00:43:50.100 What would you do?

00:43:51.100 People do it all the time.

00:43:52.100 What would you tell guys to do in that situation if they found their girlfriend hiding their ex girlfriend hiding in their closet?

00:44:01.100 Obviously, file a police report.

00:44:03.100 That's number one.

00:44:04.100 Right.

00:44:05.100 That's number one.

00:44:06.100 I don't even understand.

00:44:07.100 Like and then you got to watch this one.

00:44:10.100 The whole family knew it happened and they just drove her home.

00:44:13.100 And then he got in trouble.

00:44:15.100 Yeah, if that was a guy, he'd be shot.

00:44:18.100 Bruv, right?

00:44:20.100 Yeah.

00:44:21.100 Like this girl was breaking an entry, hiding in someone's houses.

00:44:25.100 The mom drove her home.

00:44:27.100 Like, OK, darling, hope you get home safe.

00:44:30.100 And then after that.

00:44:31.100 Right.

00:44:32.100 So this is what I'm saying.

00:44:33.100 That ecosystem of betas that just allow women to do as they please.

00:44:37.100 So if that happens to you guys, definitely file a police report, period.

00:44:42.100 Even if your parents thought it was OK, it's irrelevant.

00:44:45.100 Protect yourself at all times.

00:44:47.100 Yep.

00:44:48.100 I agree.

00:44:49.100 Let's see this.

00:44:50.100 Right on.

00:44:51.100 See this next girl.

00:44:52.100 He would have been shot, Pearl.

00:44:54.100 Bam!

00:44:55.100 If it was a male hiding in someone's closet.

00:44:58.100 He would have been shot.

00:44:59.100 Right.

00:45:00.100 Let's see.

00:45:01.100 It's me.

00:45:02.100 In my birthday day, you are going to buy me the handbag of Chanel.

00:45:06.100 Sorry.

00:45:07.100 Do you remember when you promised me at my birthday you are going to give me the Chanel

00:45:14.100 bag?

00:45:15.100 OK.

00:45:16.100 But that's when we were together, love.

00:45:18.100 Like, you broke up with me?

00:45:20.100 Yeah.

00:45:21.100 Yeah.

00:45:22.100 But the promise is a promise.

00:45:26.100 OK.

00:45:27.100 So what do you want?

00:45:29.100 I came here to get my handbag.

00:45:33.100 Handbag.

00:45:34.100 Your handbag?

00:45:35.100 You broke up six months ago.

00:45:37.100 What's even crazier is women will take back gifts that men, they get men in a relationship.

00:45:44.100 But like, what is, this girl's got to be mentally ill.

00:45:48.100 Go.

00:45:52.100 Doesn't matter when we break up six months ago.

00:45:55.100 You told me on my birthday you are going to give me the handbag.

00:45:59.100 Yeah, when we were together.

00:46:01.100 We're not together anymore.

00:46:02.100 So it doesn't matter.

00:46:04.100 Like, we're not together anymore.

00:46:06.100 So why, yeah, like I don't understand why you're here.

00:46:09.100 If we are together or not together, that doesn't matter.

00:46:14.100 But you actually, you make a promise.

00:46:17.100 And I always keep my word when I'm saying something and you should do too.

00:46:23.100 You told me you are going to give me my birthday the handbag.

00:46:27.100 Yeah.

00:46:28.100 I said that I'll get you a handbag when we were like boyfriend and girlfriend.

00:46:31.100 We're not, we're not together anymore.

00:46:32.100 We're not, we're not in anything anymore.

00:46:34.100 But now you've come to me at my house saying to me, hey, where's my bag?

00:46:38.100 Of course.

00:46:39.100 What do you mean of course?

00:46:42.100 Mi dici delle cose e poi non le fai?

00:46:46.100 Love, love.

00:46:47.100 It's your birthday.

00:46:48.100 Go spend it with your family.

00:46:49.100 Go spend it with your friends.

00:46:51.100 I don't care.

00:46:52.100 Not with me.

00:46:53.100 I will do that later on.

00:46:54.100 But now I come to collect my gift because you promised me.

00:46:57.100 You promised me.

00:46:58.100 Hey, where's my bag?

00:46:59.100 Hey, where's my bag?

00:47:00.100 Of course.

00:47:01.100 What do you mean of course?

00:47:02.100 What do you mean of course?

00:47:03.100 Mi dici delle cose e poi non le fai?

00:47:04.100 Oh, love.

00:47:05.100 Love, love.

00:47:06.100 my gift because you promised me i give for my birthday and i come to take my gift so i can

00:47:13.220 know what we've broken up we've broken up we've broken up it's like me saying to you

00:47:22.100 hold in a minute here yes sunshine yeah hold in a minute here yeah love yeah it's like me saying

00:47:27.140 to you you promised me commitment in our relationship but then you said oh no no no i

00:47:32.500 want to break up from the relationship no it doesn't work like that cool you broke off the

00:47:37.940 relationship with me that's fine i moved on but now you can't come to my house saying oh where's

00:47:43.220 my bag life doesn't work like that if i say something even if we break up i'm still keeping

00:47:51.940 my word no no no no no no but because of the start of that relationship you made a word

00:47:58.580 to commit to the relationship so if you can't commit to the relationship then you can't commit

00:48:03.540 to the rewards from the relationship so there's no bag listen listen i don't have the time to

00:48:11.060 waste with you you promised me in my birthday day you are going to buy me the handbag wow

00:48:18.020 i'm not i'm not nuts guys has that ever happened to you negative what about you doug man i guess

00:48:30.260 i want me to come back back around and say oh yeah you're supposed to buy me again man come on

00:48:40.500 what would you tell the guys what would you tell the guys to do in this situation

00:48:44.740 yeah i i think it would be behoove of you to have the conversation say hey can you please

00:48:53.060 leave my property say the things that you need to say i'm assuming that was a doorbell so it should

00:48:58.020 be recorded call the cops while it's going down but keep her there but call the cops while it's yeah

00:49:06.340 i i keep saying that because of this girl i was just watching a couple of officer videos same thing

00:49:11.940 with dv or da and most of the time the woman does something crazy the guy had it on record

00:49:20.740 the officer takes them to the side and says hey bud you know i know i know but hey um do you want to

00:49:26.900 press charges and they're like nah you know that's my mother my children no charges every time in most of

00:49:36.980 the videos right it's always the men just saying no even when the officer acts right the only reason

00:49:44.260 in that video they actually ended up doing it is because she had the child and she threw the child

00:49:49.220 in his arms and then start running through his car without his permission so once she threw the child

00:49:54.740 they were like okay we have to kind of intervene now because she endangered a child and then he was like

00:50:01.780 oh really i mean so again guys you have to call the police you have to document everything period you

00:50:11.620 got to do it even the men in the relationships are not used to enforce and any type of law enforcement

00:50:18.980 or intervention even when they have the options and the evidence that's the problem so you let the

00:50:24.580 person go with the bad behavior and they continue to act crazy yeah why don't you think men want to

00:50:32.100 press charges well i think it's mostly a condition sorry go ahead i didn't mean to click it i think

00:50:44.580 most men are conditioned to protect women and children so even in a situation where of course you

00:50:50.580 have some conflict they're still attempting to protect right well i don't want to make her look

00:50:56.100 bad even if she's a mother that is actually being bad we're like well i don't want to make

00:51:02.340 her look bad even if she's a crack fiend she's still a black queen kind of yeah like it's it's ridiculous

00:51:07.620 do you think they're sometimes afraid of further retaliation

00:51:13.060 that could play a part but i believe mostly it comes from the protection side they just want to

00:51:19.540 protect it and even the officers most of the time they're like hey guy look i don't want to call you

00:51:24.980 a victim but i gotta hand you this victim brochure like you know the officers don't even want to like

00:51:30.500 they're like hey man i know you're not a victim but here's a victim you know domestic violence victims

00:51:38.180 brochure and etc i know you don't want to do this pearl it was even one time the mom was being very bad

00:51:46.260 right and then the officers said hey man uh you know don't tell the child this at all just like

00:51:54.660 say she's still a good mother after she was just beating on him in front of the child

00:52:00.420 the officer even told the the actual guy like hey let the let the baby see the mother before we take her

00:52:07.460 to the jail and make sure you tell her her mother is good oh my god after she just beat up the guy and

00:52:13.380 they had to drag them off to jail they would never do that for a guy ever bruv crazy so just realize

00:52:22.180 that get your evidence all right i got another lady let's see okay do you know what day it was yesterday

00:52:33.220 day yesterday i know it's monday my birthday another one okay happy birthday

00:52:39.380 well it's a bit late now but i'm sure she didn't actually message me yesterday to be honest

00:52:45.060 sorry what i'm sure she didn't message me yesterday

00:52:51.140 okay but you blocked me okay but you blocked me no i haven't i haven't blocked you on instagram yes you

00:52:58.580 have you blocked my you blocked my number you blocked me off instagram like we've broken up like

00:53:04.820 like like a month ago yeah but you know you can email me you can wish me happy birthday it's just

00:53:10.580 the least that you could do even though you've just broken up not that long ago i still i still

00:53:15.060 care about you in it hopefully you care about me but clearly you don't do you wish me happy birthday

00:53:19.140 okay but okay but you broke up with me like how am i supposed to say happy birthday to you how am i

00:53:23.300 supposed to happy birthday to you if you blocked me because there's so many ways you can you call my

00:53:28.740 email you could email me you could even you've even bank transfer me a penny doesn't even have to

00:53:33.540 break the bank for it transfer me a penny put reference happy birthday there's so many people

00:53:37.540 that do that nowadays like why am i going to bank transfer you money or like even a penny

00:53:44.820 when like you blocked me and you're the one who broke up with me

00:53:48.660 i just still think it's a bit unfair that you're not even wishing me happy but if it was your birthday

00:53:53.860 yeah i'll just 100 to wish you happy birthday all right so he shouldn't have engaged with the

00:54:00.980 argument would you agree with that sean or no i think when he was engaging with it he wasn't too

00:54:09.380 confrontational but yeah i would agree he wouldn't engage too much it's like i'm so i'm sorry how are

00:54:16.340 you doing happy birthday document it yeah why are these guys even entertaining the conversation i mean

00:54:27.380 i'm glad they did because you know i like watching it but you know sometimes you just you know you see

00:54:32.580 who's at the door and he is go back go back to bed you know yeah right um the gantt sorry go ahead

00:54:41.780 or at that level engage to the point where of course you're calm but you need them to say

00:54:49.540 stuff that makes them look crazy as they are because what i'm just trying to tell you is collect

00:54:55.940 your evidence isn't that what the wife did to that christian guy what was his name oh crowder the

00:55:03.300 conservative yes she did exactly that yeah had him look at all types of out of character on that

00:55:10.340 thing thing she knew exactly what was going on right she's like i'm gonna pull up my shirt so my

00:55:16.740 pregnant belly's showing and i'm gonna stand at this angle so i'm right on camera it's so brutal dude

00:55:24.100 boom and she had it it was hook line and sinker so you guys have to think the same way because

00:55:28.580 the enemy thinks that way yes it used to be a girlfriend but now that's not that yeah yep um julian

00:55:37.700 says fun fact the gambia has issued a warning to old women from the uk who flocked to the country to

00:55:43.380 find boy toys to look elsewhere that's a real thing it's a real thing yeah yep 40 50 year old british

00:55:52.900 women go down there and these guys just hang out at the beach and you know they go down there to get

00:55:58.740 their backs blown out and just make a whole bunch of money because you know the women take care of them

00:56:03.540 giving money and stuff yeah yeah yeah freaking guys hey doug cut it out they go down there they're

00:56:08.020 fighting true love okay of course they do why do black they'll always do it no offense guys but like

00:56:19.940 it's like if there's ever a girl that's like really ugly and you see who she's sleeping with it's just

00:56:25.540 always i'm like why no lies told watch out they're going to come and get you but yes they do it's so

00:56:32.500 true it's like yeah yeah there's this old like cougar woman like she's like 55 and my jim had lied

00:56:41.700 did and she she was banging this like 30 something year old like jack dude and i'm like why

00:56:47.300 why why she was like chubby too i'm like i don't get it yeah we have to do better guys seriously

00:56:58.260 oh that's not gonna happen you know that doug yeah i know that um okay so we're thinking doug mpa like

00:57:05.940 take like one or two callers and then go to the website what are you thinking let's take about four

00:57:13.060 or five because it's been an hour so so so let's do let's do maybe 20 25 minutes because we're at

00:57:21.860 we're at 56 minutes okay yeah that's fine um so put the zoom in the chat and the question is

00:57:28.340 what's the craziest thing a woman did when you broke up with her and um you can also ask sean if

00:57:35.540 you have a question like if you want to if maybe you could have handled it a different way or like

00:57:41.700 um you want advice on a situation we'll take let's take three and then go to the website okay

00:57:50.420 cool and make sure to like the video if they're really short we'll take four but because then i

00:57:55.780 was i wanted to have him go over like um just what you want to think about when you're breaking up with

00:58:02.100 a girl so that's on pearl invite.com guys uh shiv can take um sales calls now if you do want to apply

00:58:09.620 to be on the website um there is an application process so but he can do it now so if you want

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00:58:26.980 always get to see all the regulars in the youtube chat always get to see the people in

00:58:31.220 the audacity chat make sure to call in with any stories about what's the craziest thing a woman has

00:58:36.500 done when you've broken up with her why do you men just decide to take l's and sean is mr breakup so

00:58:43.620 if you have any questions about that hit that call in button we'd love to hear from you we're

00:58:47.860 going to take about three or four calls and then go to the website first up we have just the other life

00:58:55.060 just other life are you there yes i'm here hey how's it going hey i'm doing better than i hope so

00:59:07.220 what's uh your breakup story you got for us a few years ago i was actually it was not my story it was

00:59:13.940 somebody else's but i was a security guard for apartment complex and we got a call for a noise

00:59:18.740 complaint when we got there the whole apartment was destroyed literally this is like someone went

00:59:26.500 through the apartment and just literally destroyed all the furniture destroyed tv destroyed uh fish tank

00:59:33.300 like uh even injured the dog and we're like what happened here we couldn't like we were waiting for

00:59:40.340 cops and everything else one thing another we figured it out that was a girlfriend got rejected because

00:59:48.020 guy didn't want to have sex with her while she was drunk what and she trashed the entire apartment

00:59:57.220 pretty much wow what did he do like how did he respond did he dump her yes he did dump her on the

01:00:04.820 spot obviously after that kind of thing uh at first he was like i don't know but we're like dude are you

01:00:11.700 serious she just trashed your whole place she almost killed your dog and she pretty much destroyed the

01:00:17.300 fish tank and the fish were like swimming in two inches of water at that point and things like

01:00:22.660 that it was like insane and we're like dude look what she did to you like why would you want her back

01:00:27.620 here at first he was like considering to keep her but then he's like no i'm done with her

01:00:33.300 wow sean what's your advice if a guy comes back and the place is trash just is there anything else

01:00:39.700 other than gather evidence if she's there oh my gosh is she still there hopefully she's gone after

01:00:48.260 she trashed the place but if she's there gather evidence man and file that's all you can do at that

01:00:54.660 point what else could you do yeah in this case actually he actually filed charges against her for

01:01:02.660 destruction of property because she was not on a lease meaning she was just a guest there so they

01:01:08.500 filed charges against her and she did get arrested she did get bonded out as far as i know i have no

01:01:15.700 idea what happened after that but i know he filed for restitution and things like that that's the good

01:01:21.540 is there ever a point where you had where it's okay with the preponderance of what she's doing to you

01:01:28.900 okay is there ever a point where it gets justified to respond with physical force if she's literally

01:01:35.300 going through your house and trashing your stuff well in my state that is uh for example like for

01:01:42.100 example like she used a bat on a dog that is in that case you can actually use lethal force because

01:01:48.260 she's you're protecting your property the living property well um i guess is there ever a case where

01:01:56.900 you'd recommend it sean like retaliation unless she and sorry yeah unless she got that that that uh

01:02:06.740 that weapon coming after you and that that gets a little sticky right but outside of that she's

01:02:12.420 damaging your property and everything you just always got to think about what's the next layer man how's

01:02:17.220 everybody else going to see it and this is normie society this is not red pill people right so you

01:02:23.300 always got to look at it for that situation so and i would say always try to get yourself out of that

01:02:28.660 situation you get me because more than likely unless she has a weapon she's not going to be able to

01:02:34.260 really get to you and do something damaging but be very careful about that that's why i say disengage

01:02:40.660 also if she's damaging property don't be like oh i punched her and decked her out because then you know

01:02:45.780 how people are they're going to be your jury well you went too hard you could have shook her you could

01:02:50.900 have did this she did destroy your ps5 but did you have to do that to her though exactly uh shane says

01:03:01.860 we live in the country oh go ahead go ahead shane says no pearl that is you know i can't say that word

01:03:07.380 and simps not black men take on the whales okay sorry i just had to read the super jam

01:03:13.860 it just once again i i wish that enough men will not me and not anyone i know would respond in kind

01:03:25.940 where women would start to see that it's a bad idea i think we're starting to see the trend turn around

01:03:30.820 of women getting up in men's faces because there's enough videos out there of men responding and these

01:03:36.500 women get get knocked out gen z men are different gen z men are different yeah because they risk to

01:03:45.060 believe that women and men are equal so i see all sorts of uh young you gen alpha gen z dudes hitting

01:03:52.980 girls in the face with skateboards and stuff it's crazy but this is what they wanted equality right there

01:04:00.180 also in order to collect evidence it has to be collected in the moment while it's happening

01:04:06.180 with that being said get security cameras like i do i have like 16 cameras around my house and five

01:04:12.660 cameras inside my apartment bell yeah bell up you know and another thing another thing if your girl

01:04:21.220 knows where your security is recorded she'll take the recorder so with that being said have off-site recording

01:04:27.220 like some kind of cloud system i mean yeah she can unplug the internet prior to that if she knows it

01:04:35.860 but there's ways to do it even without internet i've done it i have four customers that live nearby me

01:04:43.620 and their security systems recorded in my home i did it without the internet usage i did it with

01:04:49.140 point to point access points and it's fairly cheap actually it's gotten to the point where we

01:04:56.980 have to do secret agent type stuff well to avoid situations with women and that's sad kind of

01:05:03.140 but hey uh you know uh like one of my customers is is a local store here and they did get broken it

01:05:12.340 was a weed store someone stole a whole bunch of weed and a little bit of cash out of the like under

01:05:17.620 the drawer type of thing but we caught him because they did look for the recorder and they spent like

01:05:22.980 maybe 17 18 minutes trying to look for it then they like effort and they left but we got all of

01:05:28.580 their information just because it was off-site recording okay good advice okay thanks for calling

01:05:38.980 in just like i really appreciate it absolutely you guys have a call anytime thank you let's take another

01:05:45.060 caller he's actually the only one so i guess if we wanted to switch to the website we could oh sure

01:05:54.340 um sure let's go oh wait wait wait wait wait is the zoom link at the at the top of the chat it's not

01:06:04.340 oh yeah here that's a problem

01:06:06.580 let me see if i can guys make sure you pin it

01:06:14.100 um

01:06:16.500 i can wait a little bit

01:06:20.020 hi i i want to say how do we get to the point where women do this type of thing and just don't

01:06:27.460 even think about the consequences because women didn't do this type of stuff 20 30 years ago did they

01:06:33.700 i think so well i i think it started in the 90s because you sean remember that scene waiting to

01:06:41.860 exhale where homeboy tells angela bassett that he's um that that he's breaking up with her for a

01:06:49.700 white girl and then she sets his bmw on fire remember that and he the cop comes and is like ma'am

01:06:55.300 you know you're the car's on fire out front and she's like yeah i know that that's how it all started

01:06:59.780 right there i think women's always done this kind of stuff but men don't really talk about it

01:07:06.100 like i think men just aren't really the type like because this used to be their wives it wasn't

01:07:10.180 girlfriends so now like i would even say there's more of an incentive for them to talk about it now

01:07:15.860 than there was 30 40 50 years ago like you're not going to tell you think you're going to tell anyone

01:07:20.580 in town your wife's beating the out of you no yeah yeah yeah i agree i i agree it always existed

01:07:29.620 and now like i would even say gregory hey hey guys how's it going hey gregory how's it going

01:07:38.820 pretty good pretty good do i show my video or just audios cool either's fine um what's your breakup story

01:07:45.860 oh my goodness i don't think i've broken up very recently because i have relationships for six

01:07:54.660 months and then i think should i get married i don't know and until now it's always been a no

01:08:02.020 so okay um yeah so how do you usually end it like what's your breakup give me dump me let's see

01:08:09.860 dump you yeah just like you you can yeah just give give me the the breakup speech what do you give

01:08:18.100 so okay so so let's say you and pearl are dating give me the last one like the stuff that happened

01:08:25.220 from the last one i dated someone from another country it's not like that we're still in good

01:08:31.140 terms uh if we wanted to get together we probably could so it's not like i'm kind of friends with a

01:08:37.540 lot of my exes yeah okay how do you pull that off what's the speech there's no speech it's just

01:08:43.780 we go to the other country um the visa is up or something you know you just like passport women

01:08:50.340 like you bring them in or what no it just happens to be i speak russian so it's easy like you know and

01:08:56.660 there's a war between the two countries so we kind of meet in the middle or we travel or we have a good

01:09:01.460 time you know um but i'm always looking for different criteria i have like a checklist in my

01:09:08.180 mind so if i see someone who matches that i'm like oh i get hopeful you know this is maybe the one but

01:09:15.300 i'm also very like you meet them huh how do you meet these women how do i meet them uh some of them

01:09:22.740 is matchmakers i would say actually that that is a very um traditional way it's not the way that you

01:09:30.340 know you don't meet in a club or dating i've had some success with matchmakers and then also i meet

01:09:36.340 them also anywhere right you go to a club or whatever but i'm jewish so for me there's a big

01:09:44.260 like filter i can't just like go out you know with just anybody

01:09:52.740 anyway it's probably the same if you're like a catholic right or if you're muslim

01:09:56.820 uh you got this big filter and uh anyway i'm not catholic enough to care

01:10:04.820 but i can understand it i know people that are um what's your take by the way as i i guess on condoms

01:10:11.700 or contraception like do you think catholics are violating it by by using condoms or you know because

01:10:18.580 they're not having children so much well i don't really think catholic women care about catholicism

01:10:26.340 so i mean if they did we'd all be virgins right or not so i suppose yeah yeah so over here

01:10:34.980 pearl always says that well on her channel that church it doesn't matter what the church is

01:10:40.820 is usually the last stop on the horror train you know what i say i say when the condoms are off the

01:10:48.580 religion doesn't matter you're gonna have a lot of babies anyway um it's true but anyways um i would

01:10:57.860 say a couple things i think you guys would like and then i have a question okay um the thing you guys

01:11:02.900 would probably like is that in polygamous societies you kind of had the pareto you know distribution of

01:11:09.380 like 20 percent um and 80 percent but you could have multiple you know women you would take care of

01:11:16.100 your children officially there would be no bastard children you know he would actually take care of

01:11:20.580 everybody uh in the western world they came up with this idea that you can have sex before marriage

01:11:28.500 okay so like in traditional societies uh there were consequences of sleeping with a married woman that

01:11:36.740 was actually a very bad crime okay the both the man and the woman who did it uh were punished but if

01:11:44.020 if you're not married right there's no crime so i think if you look at the premarital sex you

01:11:50.100 probably find the same 80 20 meaning that probably 80 percent of the women are chasing

01:11:56.420 20 of the guys and vice versa you know uh so i imagine that's biological it doesn't matter if you're

01:12:02.900 using this framework or that framework and then but there's less violence at least pearl

01:12:08.740 there's less violence uh because with polygamy you need to get rid of some men in order

01:12:13.220 to uh to have enough you know enough to go around let's just say after a war after a war there's

01:12:20.180 always polygamy yeah um we're just we're trying to stay a little bit on topic okay i'm sorry that's

01:12:26.180 okay um do you have anything else to add about like breakups yeah i have a question okay um so

01:12:37.300 i just want to understand uh and maybe i asked this question uh in another form it's like

01:12:43.300 if everyone followed the principles that are being taught to men by the red pill community or the

01:12:51.220 manosphere etc right would it be a sustainable society that's what i'm concerned about because

01:12:57.380 i don't think feminism would lead to a sustainable society but i also concerned if all the men okay

01:13:04.260 would like still i do i do appreciate the question but it's just still not on topic

01:13:09.860 okay yeah i'm sorry i didn't realize there you go okay all right all right last call we're gonna take

01:13:16.660 it's gonna be marcos we can take one more because the last after this one like we can take two because

01:13:23.860 the last guy was kind of off topic marcos hey there hey what's up hey how's it going hey nice to meet

01:13:31.460 you guys uh i'm sorry so what's your what's your breakup story you got for us this is an interesting

01:13:38.660 one okay uh okay so makeup story it was because of a toxic and very toxic person but in in this case it was

01:13:49.700 because um she's the um this is the ex of the uncle of another ex that i had which is interesting

01:14:01.540 um then she started to follow me after she divorced the guy we ended up together you know um and then

01:14:13.300 you dated someone that that was with your uncle no that was with my ex's uncle my first another okay

01:14:22.420 okay interesting interesting enough she was my age he got divorced um started following me okay i said okay

01:14:29.380 let me see what what's going on here so i ended up bringing her home uh a couple of months came by

01:14:38.740 everything was okay then she started to ask for more attention i'm i'm a software engineer and

01:14:45.940 and i see salmon i'm also a musician how am i how a couple of um companies under my belt so

01:14:52.020 thing is that she wanted the hundred percent plus more just because i'm a really i'm already a person

01:15:01.540 that's very busy with stuff so okay so then after that she she pretty much hired a friend of her to

01:15:10.980 talk to me so i could i could call give her a call back to see what was what was happening um because i

01:15:19.220 left her in the call right right after that right and then she asked me to call her you know okay you

01:15:26.980 should call her uh at least end things in a good mood or whatever well so we talk and we ended things

01:15:32.740 in a good mood then last the next uh day she sent me

01:15:39.540 a an itinerary of of trips to my house for two months and i was like okay this is crazy she's

01:15:50.420 actually making plans of coming home without me telling her i call her i even i have an offer to

01:15:56.500 pay the the flights back and stuff and she said oh i'm not going to cancel i'm going to come to your

01:16:00.180 house right away okay look if you go this is after you this is after you broke up with her yeah so she

01:16:06.660 kept sending you pamphlets of the like the itinerary for the trips you were going to go on no no he's

01:16:13.300 he made trips to my house he actually bought flights oh okay so she was like out of the state or out of

01:16:19.220 the country yeah she's out of the state she's she's in i'm in new york she's in she's she moved to

01:16:24.020 miami okay and then she after the after the fact after the breakup she started um making planning

01:16:32.900 flights and then she just sent me all the screenshots i was like you're out of your minds uh if you

01:16:38.820 come here if you don't want to cancel i'm gonna call the police on you and you better do you better

01:16:43.460 stop it because how you why are you gonna do new york in the industry in the streets for for 30 days

01:16:50.980 i'm gonna call the police on you you better you know so then when i then one of one of her um

01:16:57.300 um yeah one of her uh friends called me and i just thought she looked straight up i'm gonna call the

01:17:05.060 police if she comes here you better get prepared what's gonna happen so did she come or no yeah no

01:17:13.380 she didn't come okay so she kind of got she kind of got scared okay that's good did you um did you have

01:17:20.980 a question for sean at all or did you just want to tell the story oh i just wanted to uh come in this

01:17:26.660 my first time i just joined the third university and stuff so i wanted to see oh welcome in thanks

01:17:32.900 for calling in okay cool thanks buddy okay i guess we're gonna switch over to the website now because

01:17:40.820 that's everybody and so and so do you mind i'm gonna just say something first so sean if it's okay

01:17:49.620 with you when we get to the website i was hoping you could do like a breakdown of like communication

01:17:54.740 with women and just your principles on it and like how to lead conversations with them

01:17:59.700 and then just like best practices is that all right that sounds perfect okay cool cool so um we're

01:18:09.940 gonna do that on the website uh doug mpa you got anything else on youtube

01:18:24.740 uh nope i do not you guys uh make sure to to go to pearl invited.com thank you everyone for being

01:18:40.980 here we really appreciate it and when it comes to breakups guys you know i just say ghost them

01:18:47.060 this is why you ghost and then don't answer the door don't entertain the conversation guys and press

01:18:53.380 charges press charges don't let these women get away with with messing up your car and messing up

01:19:00.260 your stuff that's all i have to say about you got any final words also go ahead yeah yeah i was just

01:19:05.620 about to say with the last caller it was perfect that guy seemed like he was pretty serious about hey

01:19:10.580 i'm gonna call the police hey don't do this don't do that and then the crazy person was just like

01:19:15.460 and she just left i think she she probably went to be crazy with somebody else so definitely press

01:19:20.900 charges protect yourself at all times and it you probably could say oh it's unfortunate i got to

01:19:26.500 do it look it's a fortunate that i got to save myself from a case so at the end of the day protect

01:19:32.740 yourself at all times this is the real world and people do crazy things awesome women do crazy things

01:19:39.860 not all

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JustPearlyThings - July 15, 2025

Modern Women Can't Handle Rejection (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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