JustPearlyThings - December 24, 2022


Modern Women Choose To IGNORE THIS

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Modern Women DON'T Look At BIG PICTURE

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

219.61

Word count

1,896

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

16

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Summary

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In this episode, we are joined by our special guest, to discuss the double standards that women and men have when it comes to sex. We discuss the difference between a virgin and a "virgin" and how it affects sex, the differences between a woman and a man who is a virgin, and why women are so obsessed with sex and men are not.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 well that's what they say women get what they want and men get what okay so if we deal with 0.96
00:00:07.020 that yeah that means you are having sex whenever you want with whoever you want versus i'm having 0.81
00:00:12.400 sex whenever i can get with whoever give it to me completely different thing right so if we look
00:00:16.560 at that then wow women's body count can be sky high but imagine yeah you say so going back to 1.00
00:00:23.560 your point about you said about the body count thing right so someone that i used to date he
00:00:27.720 said to me that it only matters to him as long as i haven't got with his friends what do you think
00:00:33.420 about that that's wait can i give you a quick just um i ask guys this question on my show all the time
00:00:39.260 would you rather have a girl that has five bodies but you know two three of them or a girl with 20 1.00
00:00:44.440 but a girl with 20 but you don't know any of them and they all say 20 bodies yeah yeah they all say
00:00:49.880 20 and i don't want to anybody because loyalty well it's just more like guys don't want to be
00:00:55.360 embarrassed like the biggest thing they want to be able to own it well it's just like it's kind
00:00:59.520 of embarrassing for a guy to walk into a room and know let three of his friends hit or like exactly
00:01:04.500 yeah so that's it's embarrassing so you have to remember center personal body count doesn't matter
00:01:09.260 in a lot of situations it's so sex is invasive right slept with my friend i don't think i don't
00:01:13.560 think body counts the only thing but but it um but it matters and that's that's the thing like if you
00:01:19.460 go from if you're a virgin and there's different studies that i'll give slightly different numbers but i'm just
00:01:24.000 going to use them this one just as an example um if you slept with if you're a virgin on your wedding
00:01:29.460 night you have an 80 chance of a happy marriage it drops down to 25 if you've slept with more than
00:01:34.120 five most guys would pray for five nowadays and and then there's some studies that say as a virgin
00:01:39.400 it's 60 70 i know people will come for me on that but but the the point is still the same you're more
00:01:44.560 likely to have happy marriage if you're a virgin than if you're than if you slept with more than five
00:01:48.680 it's like five to seven seems to be when you're ruined as a woman statistically is that because you don't know 1.00
00:01:53.140 any better due to experience yeah yeah partially yeah no it's because basically like like the guys
00:01:59.540 that are the no no the guys that are the best most girls can't lock down because how did they get to
00:02:04.400 be the best they have a lot of girls and if they're and if they're good in bed like how many girls you 0.97
00:02:09.260 think are calling them and so like that's why the the equivalent like that's why i say that the women 1.00
00:02:15.420 swipe right five percent of the time and they hate men because they're all sleeping with the same one 1.00
00:02:18.760 because it's again a hundred percent of women want twenty percent of men and sometimes some people 0.99
00:02:23.700 argue it's five percent of men like what per se if you want a guy that's over six foot what percent 0.80
00:02:28.460 i need you to cough out of the mic i'm sorry um like what percent of men do you think are over six foot
00:02:34.440 fifteen percent but don't you think that's creepy because as us females in general get older of course 1.00
00:02:40.400 we're gonna have more experiences so why is it you have to have this completely pure image like we're not
00:02:45.620 a little girl but why of course but the the problem is is that you are not satisfied and the older you
00:02:50.980 get you can't keep those guys anymore so by 30 you've lost 50 of the options that you had at 20
00:02:57.120 so on dating apps like they'll say this many guys swiped right on you it goes down by 50 at 30
00:03:02.480 and and so the guy that the guy so the guy the not really um the guy because guys will filter you
00:03:09.520 out based on age because they just think the women their age like they don't want to deal with
00:03:12.680 they don't want like kids they don't want an ex-husband they don't want that stuff and so
00:03:16.740 it's like then the guy at 20 that you know or 25 whatever it was um that that you keep thinking
00:03:24.140 about you can't keep i think it's just double standards honestly no you're right it is a double
00:03:30.620 standard but it goes back in biology you can't change the things that men want like like the reason
00:03:35.480 that a low body count matters is because um historically they had to ensure paternity so if a girl was
00:03:40.480 sleeping around like um paternity tests are new i think that's a new phenomenon that that wasn't
00:03:45.380 there throughout history so um if they didn't want to pass on resources to a kid that wasn't there
00:03:51.220 it's the same way like most women want a guy their height or taller um would any of you date a guy five 0.98
00:03:55.980 inches shorter than you no two two one two three okay okay possible but but not common right most
00:04:06.720 most women like if they dated a guy shorter than them it was one to two inches it wasn't significant 0.89
00:04:11.720 and so that's because historically you needed a guy to protect you and you can't get rid of that
00:04:16.860 like you can't get rid of your biology yeah but pearl look how easy it is for girls to say i won't date a 0.94
00:04:21.920 guy that's um five inches smaller than me but if i say i don't want to date a girl that's fat people 0.73
00:04:26.900 start getting mad but no you're entitled to your own no no but generally people be like oh you're
00:04:31.600 fat shaming but i'll be but you can change your weight you cannot change your height like you're
00:04:36.640 born that way so if you shame a man for his height what can he do but if we say to lose some weight you
00:04:40.520 can actually go and do something so i just think like a lot of times women's you can earn more money 1.00
00:04:46.540 but you can't reduce your body count okay i'll be honest if you're judging a woman by her body 1.00
00:04:54.440 count yeah you can't she can't change that yeah what's happened has happened but you can earn more
00:04:59.480 money so the same argument that you're saying that a woman can lose weight but a man can't grow taller
00:05:05.180 it's the same thing there's certain things that are restricted but we're still judged upon no but based
00:05:10.280 on the biology of what we want no but your body count is your choice yeah so like that that you had
00:05:16.480 a choice and men don't have a choice in the height he's born he's that's not necessarily true though
00:05:21.720 okay so we're not talking about great okay okay just in terms of like okay i need you to if you're
00:05:27.520 gonna talk i need you to talk into the mic because it's just okay we're just saying with that body
00:05:31.780 count like sa like what if you okay we're talking about the rule not the exception yeah so we're never
00:05:38.800 so if that happens we're never talking about that just you know we know about those scenarios we know
00:05:43.580 about but but like when we speak about this we're talking about consent consent yeah so we can take
00:05:48.180 sa out of that because we're not speaking about that we we understand that right because if we do
00:05:52.740 then we'll just keep going everywhere we're talking about consenting if we're talking about a consenting
00:05:56.640 woman that chooses to sleep with 20 men cool versus a man who is born that way and cannot change it
00:06:02.260 you chose to open up your legs to 20 men he cannot choose his height so it's not the same
00:06:06.680 i feel like maybe some women maybe some women may be a little bit you have to turn the mic 1.00
00:06:12.700 sorry sorry guys i feel like maybe some women may be a little bit bitter or upset because obviously 1.00
00:06:18.720 um men will advertise men will advertise one thing but want something different would give
00:06:25.380 attention to one thing but want something different like i've witnessed personally like
00:06:30.020 guys putting up loads of captions every day or every other day about loyalty hoes hoes loyalty hoes 1.00
00:06:38.160 but they like i know of certain people they are attracted which they may know or not know
00:06:48.380 to the hoes for one night stands not for a wife i'm not i'm not saying to wife but they're but 1.00
00:06:54.920 like the attention they're giving this ho yes i was gonna say you might as well make your own 0.98
00:06:59.700 the effort they're giving this ho the attention they're giving this ho the entitlement yes it's 0.99
00:07:06.260 for the pumps i understand pearl um yes it's for the for the one hit whatever but as wifey me watching
00:07:15.340 that pursuit and then watching him pursue me i'm just gonna be like do you know what you're doing no
00:07:23.080 your wifey he's a so women have to understand women have to understand the difference between 0.90
00:07:27.260 men wanting sex with you versus wanting actual commitment with you yeah i understand the
00:07:31.500 difference but sometimes it looks i know i know i know but it's not the same trust because the
00:07:35.380 outcome is i'm knowing it's been put out the pursuant might be but the outcome is different so
00:07:39.980 when men all chase after these girls yeah versus you you're like oh man he said he don't like her 0.99
00:07:44.980 but why is he liking the pictures why is he doing these sorts of things that's because he wants one
00:07:48.140 thing what you need to do is you need to separate yourself from those girls so we get a lot of good 1.00
00:07:53.640 girls that chase the top 20 or bad boys right so when you're a good girl what actually happens is
00:07:58.880 when you chase these boys you don't actually become a good girl anymore you just become the same as one
00:08:02.320 of these hoes because what you're doing is you're putting yourself and step by step next to hoes and 1.00
00:08:06.840 you're saying oh why won't he pick me or why is he treating that these are hoes they're always going to 1.00
00:08:10.840 be hoes and this is what they're going to do and good girls have always been on the other side and hoes 1.00
00:08:14.580 have always been on that side but the problem is good girls are now looking at hoes and be like 1.00
00:08:18.280 why are they getting why the hoes getting love they're hoes that's it as many of you know i was 1.00
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