Modern Women Date For Money
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss age differences in the dating market, the age gap between men and women, and how to deal with them. We also discuss the dating marketplace and how men operate in it and how women operate in dating.
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36 and he was already like rich which one would you say would be better to pick
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all things equal yeah things are never equal um i like uh see that that's a hard one because
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one's a guarantee kind of one's not so i would go with a 26 year old in my case but in your case
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i'm not sure i would in your case i like hard work i like hard work i think it's the best thing in
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the world and so but but 30 is that it's a 10 year gap isn't huge it's a big but not huge
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you said 20 years i'd say no question 26 year old so if it was if it was if it was 46 you'd say to
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pick the 26 year old no not in question why would you why would you say to pick the 26 year old over
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20 because when you're 50s 70s old so that's the problem that's the problem no guarantees in life
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yeah you're right but still it's still 20 years plus you have much in common people because they
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are never equal you grew up in different generations like me dating a 30 year old or something like
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that i just different generation of people oh it's a different generation love doing music
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so have you have you ever seen have you ever seen a large age gap work have you ever seen a large
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age gap work like long term because you're old you've actually seen people get together
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in makeup oh really yeah and i think they've done pretty well sally and the lady the lady in florida
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yeah i'm a doctor yeah they're pretty far apart too okay i was just curious because they were asking
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if women um would rather like build with a guy or they'd rather just like pick a guy that's there
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and that's i think i'm gonna pick a guy that has it already most most women most women would pick a guy
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that has it already oh god for sure why not why do you want to build with it why don't you want to build
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i don't agree with that but i just don't know why you wouldn't as a girl do you think do you think
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my perspective is different because like i grew up with money something dirty what and you're building
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something and you're building something so yeah yeah well that's i was just wondering because i feel
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like money has i feel like what everything they have looks who so most of your baby daddies where
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are they they have looks who's baby daddies just whatever what your group of people you deal with
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all the time baby oh oh there yeah what did they have that looks because if they had money they'd
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probably still be there oh that's a good question i could ask on a show be like how much did your baby
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daddy make even that opinion right there i mean i don't think people i don't think they're into
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that it's just the difference i mean yeah you don't get as much to offer yeah so i mean that i mean so
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but they're not like they're not because they're good looking they're getting the positive
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conversation because they got money if they didn't get money so so no i so no that's that's that's the
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problem so that's a lot of different questions there to answer oh okay okay i was just wondering
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okay good luck have fun okay thanks dad love you bye
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um is there any other girl i should call that was kind of sad everyone's watching me be left let's see
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because i think i'd prefer to date someone going there than there but then people will be like cap cap
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cap cap but i think that's only because like there's a guarantee that he'd get there in my head
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like do you know what i'm saying but yeah okay things up here and there in your castle but at the
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end of the day you got to build the structure women aren't going to build it with you those days are
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done some women do though like a lot of women do some no a few like the ones i know i would say a
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minority a majority want a guy that comes pre-assembled yeah but want and can get two different
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questions what what what percent got got a chance with a guy that's pre-assembled none is he talking
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about so we got to go off with the majority not the minority wait hold on actually i have one other
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so yeah let's go if i'm advising men how to you know operate in a dating marketplace i can't tell
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them look out for this 10 that wants to build with you no the reality is most women want you
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to come pre-assembled and to be honest the most attractive and youngest women that have the most
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options they definitely want you to come pre-assembled women want winners they sit at the finish line and
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pick the winners where did you grow up i grew up in new britain connecticut okay so i was north of new
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york city so what was your upbringing like great parents were together the whole time stable i had a
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sister brother um still i mean they're still alive now i haven't said had yeah like they're gone yeah
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um yeah i mean i grew up went to high school played basketball in high school played video games had
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still have my childhood friends to this day i would say i grew up like in a pretty good situation we
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didn't grow up with money right we grew up fairly you know poor little you know lower middle class
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my parents struggled especially in the beginning yeah i mean i wouldn't trade it for the world i think
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i think it's important for young men to grow up like struggling yeah you know what's interesting
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my family was always like the had the most money but we spent it like we were very frugal growing up
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i mean we always had a big house i'm going to say that we always always had a big house but
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when it came to like um i don't know clothes like we always had a hand-me-downs we never flew on
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vacation we drove we didn't have cable tv and i just feel like you you shouldn't spoil children
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sometimes in the red pill they'll be like spoil the women they shouldn't have hard stuff either and
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i'm like uh i don't know then you kind of get a little spoiled brat it gets you it builds character
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you have to do it how will you raise a son with your mindset i'm just curious to know uh i would raise
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my son to not be a victim uh you know i'm at a point now where very successful financially but my son
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would not see any of this money at all i would make him get it out the mud because um like we discussed
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before trust fund babies typically don't know what to do in life and how to you know they don't
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understand and appreciate the value of a dollar and i thank my dad for instilling in that me and
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that in me early i mean my first job was at mcdonald's and i got fired and i quickly learned that i
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didn't want to be in the service industry but it made me appreciate people in the service industry
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what is this by the way so this is like a tonic wine when i drink i'm like quite a mellow person
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chill completely in the mood you're not an angry drunk no i'm not actually no okay that's good
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i'd be the worst angry oh auntie jenny is calling me said auntie jenny is calling me i'll call her back
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oh yeah um hey auntie hi what um what did you call what's up no i was just watching your show
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about being frugal and i think a lot of women don't want to be frugal
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no it's true the way that you're just because they've got the money they they didn't spend it
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they did it you know it doesn't mean you have to spend it stupidly i mean we always like you said
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if you've got kids they always pass the clothes down so it's normally the oldest that gets new clothes
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unless you're going out yeah i was lucky i was the oldest girl
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you know we always used to go the cheapest way and take a packed lunch have a picnic on the way
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and i think if i if i had money i'd still do the same thing i don't think that's how come i'm so frugal
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because i learned from my mom how to be frugal and then you just spend money on the important things
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that's what i'm doing auntie you can come watch if you're if you're free you can come watch it with me
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yeah you know why you're right you're just a bit far
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no because i know that you're alive aren't you you're alive yeah yeah of course
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i saw when you called your daddy and i think your dad's right i think it's better to marry a man with
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ambition than a rich man with none because when you struggle together with your mentality if you
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believe in your man you'd help him build up his business and i think when couples struggle and
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suffer together if they're meant to be together it just makes them stronger and they learn to
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appreciate more than the more that they've got so i think the reason why your family was so frugal
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because they know how they got that money they did just make it overnight they worked bloody hard and
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sacrifice for it whereas if you meet a man he's already made it what are you going to do spend
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now there's nothing to work towards so i think that yeah couples that fight together and do all
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things like that i think that they they're the ones that last so i'd go with the poor man but i know a lot
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of women would go with a rich man but i'm with your dad on that well my dad always talks about like
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if it's a big age gap you're not going to be alive for the last half of your life
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and i feel like there's i was like i never yeah yeah that's my dad was saying so well never thought
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of that and you don't want to be um i dated another man and when we split up i thought it was the greatest
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thing ever and because i found out he was a cheater and i just said to him you just saved me a lifetime of
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cleaning nappies adult nappies huh and that's what you need to think about i took the if you choose
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really really old that eventually you're gonna have to start cleaning it
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i'm not saying they can't i've just never the only people i know it's like only been a couple of
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years so it's kind of too soon to say so why would she try to sabotage your friends yeah
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but i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna finish this video you're welcome to come by
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it's the podcast i just thought that i'll join in because your dad was on our phone yet i'm with
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dad you're with dad okay all right then bye bye
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i love aunt jenny not drink i don't it's haram so you have you never drunk i have i definitely have
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but i mean it's not really conducive to my life goals at the moment so i don't really drink like
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that it's just more self-awareness isn't it yeah i mean i stopped drinking too fun fact man you you
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can't afford to have things that cloud your you know your inhibition or your ability to go out there
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and create and become a better version of yourself and i think like that's why i'm really big on like
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not drinking doing drugs any of that stuff you got to be focused all the time so how do you find
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dating then with the way that you are i mean when you understand uh the code it's you know plug and
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play it's like okay just deal with the girl size her up figure out what kind of chick she is and then
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bam you know you already know kind of how to how to move so like what's the code depends on the girl
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i wonder how i would be sized up and please chat don't say nobody's trying to size you up anyway
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all right all right all right i'm not everyone's a cup of tea but if i was i just want to know what
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i'd be sized up because i just can't imagine any girl's like gonna want to be like hug me at the
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beginning of the day okay you got to be able to adapt based on the woman that you're sitting across
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the table from yeah i have the female codes in my sleeves i know pretty much worth what they all are
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okay so how are you adapting to me right now you want me to be honest yeah of course okay i would
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i want the code now and then i'll ask the code again by the end of it yeah i would say uh recreational
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use only no offense so what's like the how many codes is there wow wow no you know if you deal with
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a girl that's younger that's in her prime years well you got to understand that she's more you know
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inclined to look for fun if you're dealing with a girl that is in her mid-20s a lot of times and she
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might be pursuing you know it depends on the girl but she might be pursuing some type of stability or
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some security and you got to play at that angle or if you deal with a girl that's a little bit older
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late 20s 30s and up nine out of ten times she's going to want some type of security if she hasn't
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gotten there already code it's not even that deep like either you like them or not you don't need to
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put them in categories so what kind of woman do you want sorry um let's be honest ladies we have
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categories too let's just let's just be real let's just let's just be real you know damn well when we
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meet a guy we put him in a box i personally my boxes are yes no maybe yes no maybe it's like
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immediate yes immediate no maybe gotta get to know this one a little more yes no maybe
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and then the chat will be like ah never mind sorry you guys
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sometimes you'll be coming for me for everything it's like damn i can't say anything anyway sorry
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i mean i can deal with whatever my thing is i need to come into my life and be an asset and not a
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liability most girls are liabilities to be honest do you think i think the right woman though could like
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really just compliment you and make you like progress also i will read super chats if i see them
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sorry i have the thing if you have things you want to say you can super chat it or not you know
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whatever but i'm just saying i'm working for a living here you know i want to get blessing and monopod
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but they really he really spent a lot on my credit card last month me and blessing got beef right now
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we got beef because it was a lot so we're kind of on a budget but you know anyways well you gotta train
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them no you haven't in order to train someone you need them to listen i'm telling you no woman is
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listening to you like most girls come into your life like and if you don't know what you're doing
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she's going to come in as a liability 100 no you don't train them though you have to try it's like
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training a dog you wouldn't do that oh here we go i knew that was gonna no but it's true though it's
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not training it's not something like once again it's just seeing this person as you i actually do
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think you sort of train women i i i think good women are trainable sorry sorry well okay but
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showing the person respect it's not training so i look at it like if i'm gonna have a girlfriend and
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she's gonna be my girl and she's gonna have my title well she's got to be trained to rise up to
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a certain level because i'm gonna make her into an asset buy me a bag do this blah blah blah take me
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on trips whatever when they haven't earned it so you got to train detrain those bad behaviors out of
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that girl and make her an asset into your life versus a liability most guys don't understand their
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value they bring her onto their life they give her everything she hasn't earned it she doesn't respect
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them she's walking all over him she's right this is just facts this is just look at this is just facts
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he's speaking fat that's true that's absolutely true women you can't give girls everything we then we
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like somewhat similar for guys like guys kind of want to chase a little bit too you know take the
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relationship i know the guys would be like no no no guys don't at all and i'm just thinking like
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okay i'm sorry guys there would not be all these books that sell so well that women have wrote with
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like women dating advice if men don't like the chase a little bit i understand simps maybe it's just the
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simps okay but some of y'all do okay i'm just being honest i'm just being honest most people don't
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like things that are given to them for free they don't respect it you're not getting sex tonight
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blah blah blah he's so rude obviously this is your experience so i can't argue that but i mean this is
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this is this is biology women are hardwired to extract resources from men it's been that way since
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the beginning of time biology rules everything guys they could sit there and say oh but i'm doing this
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in my truth blah blah blah biology rules you there's one truth there's no such thing as my truth
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female typical blah blah blah trash no but i kind of feel like from my experience if i've gone into if
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i'm going into someone's life i would want to add value so i wouldn't really take things and i kind
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of feel when you what did you just say two seconds ago you said in my experience yeah i come in and i
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added value yeah that's you majority women come in meet the guy okay what can i get from this guy okay
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this guy's a simp i'll just take him out on dinner date he could pay i'm never gonna smash him another
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guy this guy's hot you know i can smash him i can hang out with him this guy he has some utility he's
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a plumber okay he could do my plumbing but i'll give him a bj once girls put guys in roles it's your
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job as the man to make sure that you're the top guy and you got the main role where you're not
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investing too much and she's investing more in you girls only respect men that they invest in the
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girl always has to like the guy more than she likes him no i think it works better the other way around
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when the guy likes to grow more yeah that doesn't make sense why doesn't it make sense because women
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want a man that's better than them so how do i look if i'm better than you and i'm sitting here
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chasing after you it doesn't make sense women only respect men that they chase it doesn't work the
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other way around once again with this like new i i hate that that's true but come on like how many
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times have we heard on tick tock oh i only like the guys that don't like me did it yeah we like being
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sims we do we like to work for it i can't i don't make the game i just tell you what it is
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women as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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