JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Date For Money

00:00:00.000 36 and he was already like rich which one would you say would be better to pick

00:00:07.360 all things equal yeah things are never equal um i like uh see that that's a hard one because

00:00:16.320 one's a guarantee kind of one's not so i would go with a 26 year old in my case but in your case

00:00:21.920 i'm not sure i would in your case i like hard work i like hard work i think it's the best thing in

00:00:26.720 the world and so but but 30 is that it's a 10 year gap isn't huge it's a big but not huge

00:00:36.000 you said 20 years i'd say no question 26 year old so if it was if it was if it was 46 you'd say to

00:00:42.000 pick the 26 year old no not in question why would you why would you say to pick the 26 year old over

00:00:48.240 20 because when you're 50s 70s old so that's the problem that's the problem no guarantees in life

00:00:58.720 yeah you're right but still it's still 20 years plus you have much in common people because they

00:01:02.160 are never equal you grew up in different generations like me dating a 30 year old or something like

00:01:05.840 that i just different generation of people oh it's a different generation love doing music

00:01:10.720 so have you have you ever seen have you ever seen a large age gap work have you ever seen a large

00:01:22.240 age gap work like long term because you're old you've actually seen people get together

00:01:26.880 in makeup oh really yeah and i think they've done pretty well sally and the lady the lady in florida

00:01:46.560 the lady in florida

00:01:47.600 yeah i'm a doctor yeah they're pretty far apart too okay i was just curious because they were asking

00:01:55.520 if women um would rather like build with a guy or they'd rather just like pick a guy that's there 1.00

00:02:01.360 and that's i think i'm gonna pick a guy that has it already most most women most women would pick a guy 1.00

00:02:07.440 that has it already oh god for sure why not why do you want to build with it why don't you want to build

00:02:14.160 i don't agree with that but i just don't know why you wouldn't as a girl do you think do you think

00:02:27.040 my perspective is different because like i grew up with money something dirty what and you're building

00:02:34.000 something and you're building something so yeah yeah well that's i was just wondering because i feel

00:02:40.880 like money has i feel like what everything they have looks who so most of your baby daddies where

00:02:48.480 are they they have looks who's baby daddies just whatever what your group of people you deal with

00:02:55.360 all the time baby oh oh there yeah what did they have that looks because if they had money they'd 0.99

00:03:00.960 probably still be there oh that's a good question i could ask on a show be like how much did your baby

00:03:06.080 daddy make even that opinion right there i mean i don't think people i don't think they're into

00:03:13.680 that it's just the difference i mean yeah you don't get as much to offer yeah so i mean that i mean so

00:03:22.480 but they're not like they're not because they're good looking they're getting the positive

00:03:26.320 conversation because they got money if they didn't get money so so no i so no that's that's that's the

00:03:34.400 problem so that's a lot of different questions there to answer oh okay okay i was just wondering

00:03:42.240 okay good luck have fun okay thanks dad love you bye

00:03:48.400 that's what my dad said what'd you guys think

00:03:50.560 um i want to see

00:04:00.000 um is there any other girl i should call that was kind of sad everyone's watching me be left let's see

00:04:12.080 because i think i'd prefer to date someone going there than there but then people will be like cap cap

00:04:19.120 cap cap but i think that's only because like there's a guarantee that he'd get there in my head

00:04:25.680 like do you know what i'm saying but yeah okay things up here and there in your castle but at the

00:04:30.160 end of the day you got to build the structure women aren't going to build it with you those days are 1.00

00:04:33.440 done some women do though like a lot of women do some no a few like the ones i know i would say a 1.00

00:04:39.680 minority a majority want a guy that comes pre-assembled yeah but want and can get two different

00:04:45.120 questions what what what percent got got a chance with a guy that's pre-assembled none is he talking

00:04:52.560 about so we got to go off with the majority not the minority wait hold on actually i have one other

00:04:56.960 person that i'd like to call

00:05:14.640 so yeah let's go if i'm advising men how to you know operate in a dating marketplace i can't tell

00:05:19.200 them look out for this 10 that wants to build with you no the reality is most women want you 1.00

00:05:23.520 to come pre-assembled and to be honest the most attractive and youngest women that have the most

00:05:27.440 options they definitely want you to come pre-assembled women want winners they sit at the finish line and 1.00

00:05:31.360 pick the winners where did you grow up i grew up in new britain connecticut okay so i was north of new

00:05:41.200 york city so what was your upbringing like great parents were together the whole time stable i had a

00:05:47.280 sister brother um still i mean they're still alive now i haven't said had yeah like they're gone yeah

00:05:54.560 um yeah i mean i grew up went to high school played basketball in high school played video games had

00:06:00.400 still have my childhood friends to this day i would say i grew up like in a pretty good situation we

00:06:05.040 didn't grow up with money right we grew up fairly you know poor little you know lower middle class

00:06:10.000 my parents struggled especially in the beginning yeah i mean i wouldn't trade it for the world i think

00:06:13.600 i think it's important for young men to grow up like struggling yeah you know what's interesting

00:06:19.120 my family was always like the had the most money but we spent it like we were very frugal growing up

00:06:25.760 i mean we always had a big house i'm going to say that we always always had a big house but

00:06:29.120 when it came to like um i don't know clothes like we always had a hand-me-downs we never flew on

00:06:35.440 vacation we drove we didn't have cable tv and i just feel like you you shouldn't spoil children

00:06:40.640 sometimes in the red pill they'll be like spoil the women they shouldn't have hard stuff either and 1.00

00:06:44.320 i'm like uh i don't know then you kind of get a little spoiled brat it gets you it builds character

00:06:50.400 you have to do it how will you raise a son with your mindset i'm just curious to know uh i would raise

00:06:56.240 my son to not be a victim uh you know i'm at a point now where very successful financially but my son

00:07:02.080 would not see any of this money at all i would make him get it out the mud because um like we discussed

00:07:07.840 before trust fund babies typically don't know what to do in life and how to you know they don't

00:07:12.480 understand and appreciate the value of a dollar and i thank my dad for instilling in that me and

00:07:17.920 that in me early i mean my first job was at mcdonald's and i got fired and i quickly learned that i

00:07:22.160 didn't want to be in the service industry but it made me appreciate people in the service industry

00:07:26.240 so i cannot imagine

00:07:27.360 what is this by the way so this is like a tonic wine when i drink i'm like quite a mellow person

00:07:36.560 chill completely in the mood you're not an angry drunk no i'm not actually no okay that's good

00:07:41.200 i'd be the worst angry oh auntie jenny is calling me said auntie jenny is calling me i'll call her back

00:07:47.600 oh yeah um hey auntie hi what um what did you call what's up no i was just watching your show

00:08:15.120 about being frugal and i think a lot of women don't want to be frugal 1.00

00:08:24.480 no it's true the way that you're just because they've got the money they they didn't spend it

00:08:30.800 they did it you know it doesn't mean you have to spend it stupidly i mean we always like you said

00:08:37.040 if you've got kids they always pass the clothes down so it's normally the oldest that gets new clothes 0.76

00:08:42.480 unless you're going out yeah i was lucky i was the oldest girl

00:08:48.640 you know we always used to go the cheapest way and take a packed lunch have a picnic on the way

00:08:53.920 and i think if i if i had money i'd still do the same thing i don't think that's how come i'm so frugal

00:08:59.200 because i learned from my mom how to be frugal and then you just spend money on the important things

00:09:05.520 that's what i'm doing auntie you can come watch if you're if you're free you can come watch it with me

00:09:14.320 yeah you know why you're right you're just a bit far

00:09:20.160 no because i know that you're alive aren't you you're alive yeah yeah of course

00:09:24.240 i saw when you called your daddy and i think your dad's right i think it's better to marry a man with

00:09:29.280 ambition than a rich man with none because when you struggle together with your mentality if you

00:09:35.440 believe in your man you'd help him build up his business and i think when couples struggle and

00:09:41.680 suffer together if they're meant to be together it just makes them stronger and they learn to

00:09:46.560 appreciate more than the more that they've got so i think the reason why your family was so frugal

00:09:52.240 because they know how they got that money they did just make it overnight they worked bloody hard and

00:09:56.400 sacrifice for it whereas if you meet a man he's already made it what are you going to do spend

00:10:04.800 now there's nothing to work towards so i think that yeah couples that fight together and do all

00:10:09.680 things like that i think that they they're the ones that last so i'd go with the poor man but i know a lot

00:10:15.360 of women would go with a rich man but i'm with your dad on that well my dad always talks about like

00:10:21.600 if it's a big age gap you're not going to be alive for the last half of your life

00:10:26.320 and i feel like there's i was like i never yeah yeah that's my dad was saying so well never thought

00:10:34.080 of that and you don't want to be um i dated another man and when we split up i thought it was the greatest

00:10:41.600 thing ever and because i found out he was a cheater and i just said to him you just saved me a lifetime of

00:10:47.360 cleaning nappies adult nappies huh and that's what you need to think about i took the if you choose

00:10:56.320 really really old that eventually you're gonna have to start cleaning it

00:10:59.920 i'm not saying they can't i've just never the only people i know it's like only been a couple of

00:11:15.680 years so it's kind of too soon to say so why would she try to sabotage your friends yeah

00:11:22.640 but i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna finish this video you're welcome to come by

00:11:27.280 it's the podcast i just thought that i'll join in because your dad was on our phone yet i'm with

00:11:31.760 dad you're with dad okay all right then bye bye

00:11:36.400 i love aunt jenny not drink i don't it's haram so you have you never drunk i have i definitely have

00:11:46.640 but i mean it's not really conducive to my life goals at the moment so i don't really drink like

00:11:50.800 that it's just more self-awareness isn't it yeah i mean i stopped drinking too fun fact man you you

00:11:56.800 can't afford to have things that cloud your you know your inhibition or your ability to go out there

00:12:00.880 and create and become a better version of yourself and i think like that's why i'm really big on like

00:12:04.400 not drinking doing drugs any of that stuff you got to be focused all the time so how do you find

00:12:08.960 dating then with the way that you are i mean when you understand uh the code it's you know plug and

00:12:14.160 play it's like okay just deal with the girl size her up figure out what kind of chick she is and then 1.00

00:12:18.800 bam you know you already know kind of how to how to move so like what's the code depends on the girl 0.84

00:12:22.800 i wonder how i would be sized up and please chat don't say nobody's trying to size you up anyway

00:12:29.840 all right all right all right i'm not everyone's a cup of tea but if i was i just want to know what

00:12:36.320 i'd be sized up because i just can't imagine any girl's like gonna want to be like hug me at the

00:12:43.840 beginning of the day okay you got to be able to adapt based on the woman that you're sitting across

00:12:48.960 the table from yeah i have the female codes in my sleeves i know pretty much worth what they all are 1.00

00:12:53.600 okay so how are you adapting to me right now you want me to be honest yeah of course okay i would

00:12:58.800 i want the code now and then i'll ask the code again by the end of it yeah i would say uh recreational

00:13:04.000 use only no offense so what's like the how many codes is there wow wow no you know if you deal with

00:13:12.160 a girl that's younger that's in her prime years well you got to understand that she's more you know

00:13:16.240 inclined to look for fun if you're dealing with a girl that is in her mid-20s a lot of times and she 0.95

00:13:21.280 might be pursuing you know it depends on the girl but she might be pursuing some type of stability or 0.93

00:13:25.360 some security and you got to play at that angle or if you deal with a girl that's a little bit older 1.00

00:13:29.440 late 20s 30s and up nine out of ten times she's going to want some type of security if she hasn't 1.00

00:13:34.880 gotten there already code it's not even that deep like either you like them or not you don't need to

00:13:38.880 put them in categories so what kind of woman do you want sorry um let's be honest ladies we have 1.00

00:13:43.600 categories too let's just let's just be real let's just let's just be real you know damn well when we

00:13:50.480 meet a guy we put him in a box i personally my boxes are yes no maybe yes no maybe it's like

00:13:58.960 immediate yes immediate no maybe gotta get to know this one a little more yes no maybe

00:14:08.080 and then the chat will be like ah never mind sorry you guys

00:14:13.680 sometimes you'll be coming for me for everything it's like damn i can't say anything anyway sorry 0.67

00:14:23.280 i mean i can deal with whatever my thing is i need to come into my life and be an asset and not a

00:14:28.880 liability most girls are liabilities to be honest do you think i think the right woman though could like 1.00

00:14:34.960 really just compliment you and make you like progress also i will read super chats if i see them

00:14:40.160 sorry i have the thing if you have things you want to say you can super chat it or not you know

00:14:46.240 whatever but i'm just saying i'm working for a living here you know i want to get blessing and monopod

00:14:52.720 but they really he really spent a lot on my credit card last month me and blessing got beef right now

00:15:00.960 we got beef because it was a lot so we're kind of on a budget but you know anyways well you gotta train

00:15:07.840 them no you haven't in order to train someone you need them to listen i'm telling you no woman is 1.00

00:15:13.200 listening to you like most girls come into your life like and if you don't know what you're doing

00:15:17.040 she's going to come in as a liability 100 no you don't train them though you have to try it's like

00:15:21.440 training a dog you wouldn't do that oh here we go i knew that was gonna no but it's true though it's

00:15:25.280 not training it's not something like once again it's just seeing this person as you i actually do

00:15:29.920 think you sort of train women i i i think good women are trainable sorry sorry well okay but

00:15:38.400 showing the person respect it's not training so i look at it like if i'm gonna have a girlfriend and

00:15:43.280 she's gonna be my girl and she's gonna have my title well she's got to be trained to rise up to 1.00

00:15:47.440 a certain level because i'm gonna make her into an asset buy me a bag do this blah blah blah take me 1.00

00:15:51.680 on trips whatever when they haven't earned it so you got to train detrain those bad behaviors out of

00:15:55.680 that girl and make her an asset into your life versus a liability most guys don't understand their

00:16:00.000 value they bring her onto their life they give her everything she hasn't earned it she doesn't respect

00:16:04.320 them she's walking all over him she's right this is just facts this is just look at this is just facts

00:16:10.160 he's speaking fat that's true that's absolutely true women you can't give girls everything we then we 1.00

00:16:15.920 don't respect it and it's kind of like

00:16:17.360 like somewhat similar for guys like guys kind of want to chase a little bit too you know take the

00:16:26.640 relationship i know the guys would be like no no no guys don't at all and i'm just thinking like

00:16:33.680 okay i'm sorry guys there would not be all these books that sell so well that women have wrote with

00:16:39.840 like women dating advice if men don't like the chase a little bit i understand simps maybe it's just the

00:16:45.520 simps okay but some of y'all do okay i'm just being honest i'm just being honest most people don't

00:16:52.400 like things that are given to them for free they don't respect it you're not getting sex tonight

00:16:57.600 blah blah blah he's so rude obviously this is your experience so i can't argue that but i mean this is

00:17:03.440 this is this is biology women are hardwired to extract resources from men it's been that way since 1.00

00:17:08.160 the beginning of time biology rules everything guys they could sit there and say oh but i'm doing this

00:17:12.960 in my truth blah blah blah biology rules you there's one truth there's no such thing as my truth

00:17:17.920 female typical blah blah blah trash no but i kind of feel like from my experience if i've gone into if

00:17:24.640 i'm going into someone's life i would want to add value so i wouldn't really take things and i kind 0.96

00:17:29.280 of feel when you what did you just say two seconds ago you said in my experience yeah i come in and i

00:17:33.280 added value yeah that's you majority women come in meet the guy okay what can i get from this guy okay

00:17:38.480 this guy's a simp i'll just take him out on dinner date he could pay i'm never gonna smash him another

00:17:43.360 guy this guy's hot you know i can smash him i can hang out with him this guy he has some utility he's

00:17:47.120 a plumber okay he could do my plumbing but i'll give him a bj once girls put guys in roles it's your 0.97

00:17:51.840 job as the man to make sure that you're the top guy and you got the main role where you're not

00:17:55.840 investing too much and she's investing more in you girls only respect men that they invest in the 1.00

00:18:00.000 girl always has to like the guy more than she likes him no i think it works better the other way around 0.67

00:18:04.240 when the guy likes to grow more yeah that doesn't make sense why doesn't it make sense because women 1.00

00:18:09.600 want a man that's better than them so how do i look if i'm better than you and i'm sitting here

00:18:13.920 chasing after you it doesn't make sense women only respect men that they chase it doesn't work the 1.00

00:18:17.760 other way around once again with this like new i i hate that that's true but come on like how many

00:18:26.800 times have we heard on tick tock oh i only like the guys that don't like me did it yeah we like being

00:18:33.760 sims we do we like to work for it i can't i don't make the game i just tell you what it is

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JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022

Modern Women Date For Money

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