Modern Women Do This To Each Other
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the issue of women not wanting to have kids, the role of women in society, and why it's so important to have children. We also discuss the importance of having children at a young age, and what it takes to be a good parent.
Transcript
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I just think that modern women are selfish when it comes to their kids.
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They care about themselves more than their kids.
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And I think it actually ruins society because when you put yourself before
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your kids, you mean you put your generation before the next generation.
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So to the point of like people that are not having kids, right?
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Do you reckon there's enough women that have passed that point of being able
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That are actually speaking to younger women and saying, all right, listen.
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Because that involves swallowing their pride and they don't want to do that.
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But there's enough guys saying, hey, get your act together.
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I just want to know from the women, are there women that are doing that?
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No, there's a fundamental difference between guys and girls.
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Because if you're 25 and the girl that's 38, you're competing with her for the same
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You've heard the phrase, a girl, a guy will insult a guy and not mean it.
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So it's one of those ones where those older girls you would think would give those
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advice might say to you, oh, you're so pretty, you should do this.
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It's like when you see girls, like, commenting on obese girls' pictures, like, beautiful,
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With men, I don't care, like, you look at even Kevin, yeah.
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I didn't care about the delivery because he's not talking to me directly.
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But if you're not talking to that person directly, you can see the delivery and look at that
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as entertainment, but you can still take the message.
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I think with women, it needs to be dissected in a way that makes them feel.
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They've got to feel great about it to receive it.
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Whereas with guys, like, generally speaking, I'll just be like, cool.
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But I believe there's enough men out there giving that direction.
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And I think, you know, just from a conversation that we've had here just through on the panel,
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you know, is it working for you to, if you want, if you know what you want kids and you
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want this kind of, you want a certain kind of lifestyle, you want things, is the way
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And if it isn't, do you have people in your life that are saying that you can talk to
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that haven't had kids and they can say, boom, all right, look, you know, time's ticking.
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And this is how I feel now that I waited and I'm here.
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The biggest enemy to women most times is other women.
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Other women are the downfall of women for a lot of the time because they will be the
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ones who will feed you the stuff that you want to hear in one side, knowing good and
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damn well that's not the advice you need to hear.
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And then watch you walk out that door and make that mistake.
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The average age of first child is 26 and the average age of first marriage is 30.
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The average number of sexual partners for a woman is between four and eight.
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And after women have slept with more than five people, she has a 20% chance of having
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If men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
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90% of women have used contraceptives at some point in their reproductive years.
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And most have used more than one method throughout their lifetime.
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So it's like, how do we look at these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole?
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And I'm not saying, you know, that, like, because they'll always say, what about them?
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But it's like, we can't even talk about our problems without people always having to point
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Like, we can never even just have a conversation about the issues that we have as women without
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simps or women coming in saying, but men have problems, too.
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Like, we can't even have one conversation about it.
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Whereas back in the day, women used to actually sit down together and discuss things.
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Or they'd say, you're not dressed well, you're not...
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Yeah, we used to actually, like, catch each other up on stuff.
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Or, you know, even something silly, like you didn't brush your hair.
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Like, I feel like nowadays, like, girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't
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It depends what type of girl you are, though, if I'm completely honest.
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I think if you're insecure and you're unhappy with what you're doing yourself, then you're
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If you're happy and content, you've got to support.
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Like she said, you might not tell your friend if they haven't brushed your hair or something.
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Yeah, no, I would as well, but some girls wouldn't.
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But that's because they're like, oh, well, I'm going to look better than you.
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A lot of times a woman's worst enemy is another woman.
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Because a guy would point out the fact that, uh, your shirt's kind of inside out.
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I believe, like, chastising someone in public is different.
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Like, I don't think you should do that in front of other people.
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If that's your real friend, then you should be able to take them to the side and say,
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And we won't look at that as, like, you being bitchy on it.
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It's like, you know when you eat something, you've got something, your teeth are...
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Because even at the beginning of my relationship with my girl now, I had to tell her...
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We had a conversation where I was like, if there's an issue that you see, please just
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I don't want this whole passive-aggressive thinking about it for two weeks, don't bring
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it up, and then vixing, talking to your girlfriends about it behind my back, and this
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whole fucking month period, I had no idea this is an issue that you had.
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With that, are you able to accept the delivery of her problem in any form?
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Because with me, it's like, if I disagree with what you're saying, then we have a discussion
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Let's say, for instance, it's in the bedroom, something that's sensitive, right?
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If she thinks about it, and then she kind of...
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Let's say you're having a stressful week at work or whatever like that, and then she kind
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of puts that into her mind and thinks, all right, cool, maybe I approach it in this
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way, as opposed to just be like, oh, you can't do this.
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Like, you know, if she expresses the frustrations then and there without thinking about it at
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all or like seeking some kind of advice, then do you not think that can have some kind
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of detriment to how you're able to get over that?
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Or are you saying that regardless of how she comes at you with whatever she comes at you,
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you're going to be able to swallow it and move on as normal?
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I get where you're coming from, but then I have to equate that to like, all right, let's
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If your manager says you need to be there, you're going to be upset with him because my
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So my manager has to talk to me a certain type of way.
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If the information with me per se, and I know I'm a very black sheep when it comes to
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My girlfriend always says to me, you have the emotional capacity of a wooden spoon because
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I don't really care about like emotions too tough.
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If the information is necessary, please tell me and I will do the same.
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You mean you ain't fully pleasing a woman, right?
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And then the worst thing with a woman, a woman would tell you, a lot of women talk with each
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other about their sex and the size of their partner's this and what that partner's doing
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And then that girl, your partner would bring that in the bedroom and go, oh, well, my friend
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And if you ain't satisfying her in a certain way, if you come at me,
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in like a aggressive kind of way, like it will hurt my feelings.
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Remember this, when you're having sex with someone, you're completely vulnerable with
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So when you're talking about like, so when you're talking about like, we, when you met
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your partner and you always said, oh, like no matter what, just tell me whatever.
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Like you can tell me, but you need to, if it's sexually, like you need to tell me in a
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certain way, because I feel like I'm doing the best I can do.
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So if I'm not doing the best I can do, let me, I need you to maybe.
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Her directly saying, you need to do this better because you're not really doing that
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Or her going through all of her friends and eventually saying to you.
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She's going to go through her friends regardless.
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Eventually her saying it to you nicely, but now, you know, all of her friends know.
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Remember this, when you, sex is a thing where people, where girls talk, bro.
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So it's like, if you didn't fulfill her fantasy the first time, she already told her
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So she probably told her friend first and then she's already come to you.
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She already told her friend when you messed up the first time.
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That's why you bring up a relationship where it is, tell her straight out.
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You're not in no control of what a woman thinks and the way she talk.
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No matter what you do, you could be the best guy, the best at whatever you're doing.
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I need to listen to my man because he's been in them rooms.
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I'm talking for experience because, listen, me, I would only do certain things on birthdays,
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Anyone that's been with me knows what I'm talking about.
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Now, if your friend or whatever gets it whenever, once a week, it's a downfall and I'll be like,
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yeah, but you know, I do the best I can do on a celebration.
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It's something you look forward to and you bring out the roses and the petals and the
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whipped cream and the chocolate sauce, blah, blah, blah.
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