JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Earning More Than Their Husbands (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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00:03:30.000 Good afternoon, good evening ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another episode of Pearl

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00:05:44.540 Okay, I want to say hello to the people in the chat on the website.

00:05:48.460 Thank you guys again so much for supporting me.

00:05:53.940 And, before we get into the show's topic today, I think I know what I'm going to do for the

00:05:59.300 show tomorrow.

00:06:00.260 And, I want to give you guys a heads up on this conversation because I think it's worth

00:06:07.120 the conversation.

00:06:08.340 So, I'm going to read the website.

00:06:11.480 Carlos says, women still, still, yes, to help them get their work done. 1.00

00:06:16.940 It's not like they work more.

00:06:18.220 They just have more slaves. 1.00

00:06:21.040 Damn, Carlos.

00:06:22.160 Pearl Reed.

00:06:22.600 Did you see the baton girl got arrested? 0.91

00:06:25.000 No, I didn't.

00:06:25.960 But, maybe I should follow back.

00:06:27.240 Doug MPA.

00:06:28.380 Maybe we can do an update on the show tomorrow.

00:06:31.800 So, Doug MPA also make a note of this too.

00:06:35.100 So, apparently I pissed off Michael Knowles.

00:06:39.220 Or, not Michael Knowles.

00:06:40.040 They're all the same.

00:06:40.820 It's like a simp epidemic.

00:06:44.040 Alyssa Walsh and Matt Walsh.

00:06:46.080 Apparently I pissed off.

00:06:47.220 So, as you guys know, conservatives always sell traditionalism, right?

00:06:52.880 And yet, we constantly see men and women not acting in traditional ways on the right.

00:07:00.420 Like, for example, and I know this is hypocritical on my part, but a lot of their wives are public 1.00

00:07:04.840 facing.

00:07:05.260 Why are you public facing when your husband's the public figure, not you?

00:07:09.940 Do you know what I mean?

00:07:10.680 That would be, the extent of that would be like, imagine, imagine.

00:07:16.420 And this is not saying right or wrong, but I'm saying this is definitely not traditional.

00:07:20.760 Yeah, so, my producer, he's here.

00:07:24.120 Now, imagine if he brought in his wife or his girlfriend and he brings her in and she starts, 0.92

00:07:30.040 she says, let me do the equipment.

00:07:32.740 It would be kind of weird, right?

00:07:35.840 You would be like, what are you doing?

00:07:37.960 You know, or imagine if you brought your girl to work and she just, she said, move over.

00:07:44.640 Now, that's like the equivalent.

00:07:46.200 I'm not saying that's right or wrong, but I'm just saying it's not really traditional.

00:07:51.360 Now, Matt Walsh seems like a very nice guy.

00:07:54.780 This isn't really personal.

00:07:55.780 And I'd like to say, Matt Walsh, when you see this, this is not personal, even though

00:08:00.600 you've insulted me back for asking a freaking question, okay? 0.54

00:08:05.420 So, I saw his wife's Twitter.

00:08:08.340 And by the way, his wife has spurred out at me many times for no reason, right?

00:08:16.520 Like, you know, one time I tweeted that they don't understand the reality of divorce because

00:08:21.760 none of them are old enough to have gotten divorced.

00:08:24.420 Now, I know some of you guys beat us to the punch.

00:08:26.860 You guys get divorced at 30, 25.

00:08:29.640 You guys, you guys go for it.

00:08:31.320 You shoot for the stars and you say, let me get fucked fast, right?

00:08:37.340 So, but that's not really the norm, right?

00:08:40.180 So, a lot of men can live in delusion.

00:08:42.900 And it's tougher with Gen Z, us women. 0.95

00:08:45.340 Millennial women have been so terrible that we've really ruined. 1.00

00:08:48.880 Gen Z men have woken up. 1.00

00:08:50.460 They've seen their dad get screwed over.

00:08:52.600 They've seen their grandpa get screwed over.

00:08:55.260 They've seen their great grandpa get screwed over.

00:08:58.080 But there's some millennial men, I would say.

00:09:00.960 And by the way, I'm the youngest millennial.

00:09:02.540 I'm 28.

00:09:03.140 So, this is like around 28 to like 40-ish is my generation.

00:09:09.300 I'm two months away from being Gen Z.

00:09:11.320 I almost made it.

00:09:12.940 I almost could be a Gen Z woman.

00:09:14.620 And I would sound so much younger thing.

00:09:18.360 I could be like, yeah, I'm Gen Z.

00:09:20.020 I'm so close, but it's okay.

00:09:22.980 So, I had a tweet.

00:09:25.360 And this tweet said that either, because I didn't understand why the Daily Wire pretends that this divorce grape stuff just is not happening.

00:09:34.900 I'm like, why do they pretend?

00:09:37.360 Why do they live in this delusion?

00:09:38.880 And I thought, maybe they just don't know.

00:09:42.200 They haven't seen their friends, their family get screwed.

00:09:45.420 Or maybe they did see it and they believed the woman.

00:09:47.860 Whatever sob story she told, that happens, right?

00:09:50.400 Women are very deceptive. 1.00

00:09:52.680 And so, she spurred doubt on me when I said that.

00:09:56.040 Now, I recently saw her Twitter.

00:09:59.600 Now, we can show the screen here.

00:10:01.800 And it says, Alyssa Walsh, wife of Matt Walsh, bubbly extrovert.

00:10:06.320 Sole purpose on Twitter is to troll Matt Walsh.

00:10:11.960 Now, I'm going to have a call-in show about this, because I want you guys to tell me maybe I'm wrong.

00:10:17.620 I just kind of had the question, the primary point of your Twitter is to troll your husband.

00:10:24.240 Now, I am a white woman.

00:10:28.020 I grew up around white women. 1.00

00:10:29.840 And I got to say, white people just put up with dis—not all, not all, not—I can't even talk like this, ain't right.

00:10:37.540 We have a tendency, I'll say, we have a tendency to put up with disrespect that I don't find that other races do the same.

00:10:47.700 And oftentimes, we put up with, like, subtle disrespect, let's say.

00:10:51.820 And I just kind of had to ask the question, your primary purpose of your Twitter is not to support your husband, but to troll your husband.

00:11:05.040 Now, people kind of were mad at me.

00:11:08.240 Like, obviously, I'm getting ratioed on this stuff, but I don't care about the ratio.

00:11:12.860 There's too many simps for me to take that seriously.

00:11:16.260 Like, you guys believe women at all costs. 0.95

00:11:18.800 So, okay, they said, here we got—okay, Pearl, we're going to have to have the birds and the bees talk.

00:11:27.340 When a man and a woman love each other very, very much, have been married forever, have a billion kids, trolling each other is a form of foreplay.

00:11:34.080 One day, one day, I may—oh, thank God, I might get to experience the tiniest amount of that.

00:11:42.360 And I keep asking the question, is your job to be a support system or an adversary?

00:11:48.580 And the other question I have is, if women wouldn't do this to a boss, right? 1.00

00:11:58.060 So, imagine you have a boss, okay?

00:12:03.220 Would you be able to make a LinkedIn profile that said, my primary purpose of this is to troll my boss?

00:12:10.460 No, because the other employees, he would lose respect, right?

00:12:17.160 The other employees would think it's also okay to do that.

00:12:20.480 So, how is this not applicable with children?

00:12:24.500 Now, this sparked Matt Walsh getting very mad at me.

00:12:30.620 This did spark this, okay?

00:12:36.540 He said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely.

00:12:43.900 Where is this?

00:12:45.440 I am a happy person.

00:12:47.340 Can I—well, all right.

00:12:49.400 I guess I'm miserable and lonely.

00:12:51.380 And I have never been in anything approaching a functional or healthy relationship in your life.

00:12:57.860 So, because I don't think it's normal to publicly troll your husband.

00:13:04.560 Now, I know, I know.

00:13:06.180 Yeah, you guys can, like, joke around in private.

00:13:09.000 But you guys tell me in the chat, do you want your wife publicly trolling you? 0.96

00:13:13.800 Is that—I mean, I don't know.

00:13:16.920 Maybe I could be completely wrong on this.

00:13:20.040 I could be completely wrong.

00:13:21.920 Um, he said, so he'll try to be patient with me.

00:13:28.720 So, now we have the typical, I know—first of all, first of all, first of all, that's not even true, okay?

00:13:41.040 But it's all right.

00:13:41.960 You see, husbands and wives who love each other will often do this thing called joke around.

00:13:47.160 They may even have this other thing that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.

00:13:51.480 I hope this clears that up.

00:13:53.260 Now, go spew your BS everywhere and leave my wife out of it. 1.00

00:13:58.480 Okay, you brought your wife into this.

00:14:01.560 Your wife is public-facing, and you guys parade your relationship around like it's something to aspire to.

00:14:09.600 Your wife is giving commentary.

00:14:14.700 Do you know what I mean?

00:14:15.820 Like, okay, all right.

00:14:19.120 So, I mean, you kind of brought your wife into it when you put her public-facing.

00:14:25.860 So, I asked the question, and they don't have an answer for me for this.

00:14:29.440 Isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary? 1.00

00:14:34.180 Now, I want you guys to answer this question tomorrow.

00:14:37.180 Doug MPA, this is what we're going to do.

00:14:39.400 I could be wrong.

00:14:41.100 I'd like to say I could be wrong.

00:14:42.640 So, we're going to read the chat on the website, and then I'll check to see if we have super chats.

00:14:54.860 Okay, American women will be married to a high-value man, but will still have to be seen and heard to maintain this illusion like she's stood beside him or contributing somehow. 1.00

00:15:07.080 Wow.

00:15:07.740 What a joke.

00:15:14.040 Let me look on the other chat real quick.

00:15:18.460 I could be wrong.

00:15:19.660 I reserve the right to say, you know, maybe I just got that wrong, but I think she's just going to keep going until she really embarrasses him bad.

00:15:33.160 I don't see this stopping.

00:15:35.040 I'm going to be honest.

00:15:35.920 Okay, let's see what we got over here.

00:15:41.800 Okay.

00:15:42.820 So, we'll get into the topic today, but I wanted to let you guys know what we're talking about tomorrow, and you are totally welcome to call in.

00:15:51.240 So, today we're going to talk about high-earning women and wage gap relationships. 1.00

00:15:57.860 So, throughout most of history, it was accepted that a man would pay all of the bills if he was in a serious relationship or married.

00:16:08.060 Men went out and they brought home that bacon.

00:16:10.460 They earned the money, the resources, and women kept the home. 1.00

00:16:13.620 It was nice and simple.

00:16:15.240 In the last 50 years, women have decided that the patriarchy was oppressive and decided to change the social contract. 1.00

00:16:24.060 Now, there is talk of going 50-50 and the dangers of wage gap relationships.

00:16:30.620 Modern leftist feminists are trying to brainwash women into thinking that a man can become abusive if he makes more money than the woman. 1.00

00:16:39.860 Men out-earn women and always will in our lifetime. 0.98

00:16:43.200 While women may be getting more and more education, they are also getting more debt and still go into industries that don't make a lot of money. 1.00

00:16:50.060 As men continue to do the dirty and dangerous jobs that women won't, men will make more money. 1.00

00:16:58.520 So, to demonize a man because he makes more money is another exercise in how feminism will keep women single. 1.00

00:17:07.360 Wage gap relationships is just another word that these women came up with, and that's what we're going to talk about on today's show. 1.00

00:17:16.080 So, okay, so I'm going to play, or no, first I'm going to read this article.

00:17:22.780 So, this is an article by Charlie Ross.

00:17:27.040 Are you in an age, not an age gap, a wage gap relationship?

00:17:31.840 Here's how to navigate it.

00:17:33.500 Pop culture tells us all kinds of things about money and relationships with it.

00:17:37.640 That it makes the world go round, that it's a rich man's world.

00:17:42.200 But how does it impact the dynamic of our dating life, especially if our partner or love interest earns significantly more than we do?

00:17:50.640 Welcome to the world of a wage gap relationship.

00:17:53.880 The podcast called The Cost of Loving revealed in a recent survey, 48% of women said they wouldn't be comfortable entering into a relationship with someone who earns less than them.

00:18:06.360 Whereas, two-thirds of men reported feeling fine about dating someone with a lower salary.

00:18:12.440 Is this wage gap dynamic a hangover from traditional gender roles? 0.87

00:18:18.460 What about the progress that's been made towards equality in recent decades?

00:18:24.020 The overall UK gender pay gap continues to fall, down by 0.4% to 11% in the past year.

00:18:31.580 While the last year, in the U.S., the gap hit an all-time low of 15%, women hold almost 30% of C-suite positions in the U.S., up from 17% in 2015.

00:18:45.400 Yet, while the wage gap is slowly closing, it still very much exists.

00:18:49.340 Proving the historical foundations of inequality will take a lot longer to escape.

00:18:54.460 Given how recent the advancements are in women's access to money, women couldn't even open a bank account in their own name until 1975. 1.00

00:19:05.060 The expectations of traditional gender roles can still be present in heterosexual relationships, explains UK-based sex and relationship therapist Madeline Munro.

00:19:18.680 So, and regardless of gender, earnings can be closely linked to a person's self-worth.

00:19:24.920 And a gap between partners can therefore exacerbate feelings of inadequacy, making individuals feel they are not enough for a partner, according to Munro.

00:19:34.840 Beyond traditional roles, it's a deeply personal and vulnerable tool that can evoke shame and fear of judgment.

00:19:43.000 It is linked to security and safety, and our relationship with money is shaped by our attachment strategies, with subconscious beliefs formed before the age of seven.

00:19:54.100 As a result, discussions about finances can be inherently triggering and activate nervous systems response that we may not even be aware of.

00:20:03.200 These responses might include avoiding conversations about money, overspending when feeling anxious about finances, or struggling to adhere to a budget.

00:20:12.480 Since money is rarely discussed openly, we may remain unaware of these patterns until we enter a relationship, or encounter specific financial hardships.

00:20:23.780 So it's not surprising that the wage gap might trigger certain insecurities in a relationship.

00:20:29.980 For Londoner Scarlett 31, her reluctance to date someone who earns significantly less from her doesn't come from a commitment to traditional gender roles,

00:20:38.860 but the expectation to live and share a certain lifestyle.

00:20:43.340 I wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't earn very much, she said.

00:20:46.420 Just because I have a certain standard of living I want to maintain, I grew up with no money and wouldn't want that for my future.

00:20:54.680 Whatever side of a wage gap relationship you might be on, and whether or not it bothers you,

00:20:59.800 it's important to acknowledge the power dynamics at play, and how it could potentially impact your relationship.

00:21:06.060 For instance, Paula, 32, in Vancouver, earns double the salary of her partner, Jack. 0.62

00:21:13.080 She works in sales, and he is a business analyst.

00:21:15.940 He said it doesn't bother him, but I think it does a little, she said.

00:21:19.920 Sometimes he feels under pressure to keep up with the things I want to do.

00:21:23.720 I've had to adjust my expectations, Paula said.

00:21:26.760 That their policy is that bills are split 50-50.

00:21:29.740 She admits to paying more, including for some expenses that her partner doesn't know about.

00:21:35.320 This leads to feelings of tension, particularly when it comes to savings.

00:21:39.600 I sometimes resent him when he spends all of his money without saving any, she says.

00:21:44.560 The ingrained societal norm that a male heterosexual partner should be the breadwinner weighs heavily on Paula at times.

00:21:51.820 I sometimes stress about having a family, she says, admitting that if they do have children,

00:21:57.920 she wouldn't necessarily want him to stay home with them, even though it might make financial sense for him to do so.

00:22:04.720 While wage gap politics can cause issues in heterosexual relationships,

00:22:13.060 Eliza, 33, says she and her wife of 12 years, who have out-earned each other at different stages of their careers,

00:22:21.400 have always enjoyed the financial equilibrium.

00:22:24.940 I don't think people in the same-sex female couples see money as a sticking point, she says.

00:22:30.800 They contribute varying amounts to a joint bank account based on how much they're earning at the time.

00:22:36.600 I do feel freed of those gendered expectations and feel the opportunity for a lot more equality in same-sex relationships, she adds.

00:22:44.680 Regardless of sexuality or our perception of gender roles, a wage gap can impact any real expert.

00:22:51.400 One, share how the wage gap feels.

00:22:55.820 Talk about the wage gap head-on because we avoid it.

00:22:58.960 It leaks out into unconscious behavior or your partner and the relationship.

00:23:03.740 Is there insecurity, guilt, or frustration?

00:23:06.380 Being open and honest can help alleviate what you may be holding or feeling.

00:23:11.680 Discuss your financial values.

00:23:13.540 Take the time to understand each other's financial backgrounds.

00:23:16.720 How did each of you grow up thinking about money?

00:23:18.940 Set expectations.

00:23:21.340 If the higher earner wants to spend more on dining out, travel, or entertainment while the lower earner feels strained to keep up,

00:23:27.540 it's essential to have an honest and open conversation about expectations.

00:23:32.480 Schedule regular check-ins.

00:23:34.280 I'm sure that's exactly what men want.

00:23:36.280 Regular check-ins.

00:23:37.940 They said, do you know what?

00:23:39.240 I knew a woman wrote this.

00:23:43.520 Regularly discuss your contributions to the relationship, both financial and non-financial, to ensure you feel seen.

00:23:51.580 Yeah, exactly.

00:23:52.200 Men are just dying to feel seen.

00:23:53.920 That's what they want.

00:23:55.300 Okay, next we're going to go through some videos from wage gap couples. 0.79

00:24:07.880 And then we're going to do a call-in, and you guys can give your thoughts.

00:24:11.640 And there is quite a significant difference between what we earn.

00:24:28.340 Hi, I'm Ayla.

00:24:29.700 Hi, I'm Cameron.

00:24:30.540 Hi, I'm Cameron.

00:25:00.840 Split it together.

00:25:01.420 Yeah, we have to be responsible and split money together.

00:25:04.320 We do everything 50-50.

00:25:05.620 We clean the house 50-50.

00:25:07.280 No one really takes the lead, I think.

00:25:09.720 My parents' household, my dad's like the guy.

00:25:13.600 My mom cooks, she cleans, she sorts out the house.

00:25:17.280 My dad works, comes home, dinner's there.

00:25:20.660 I think the approach that we have is very different to that.

00:25:23.980 My mom works, my dad works, his mom and dad work too.

00:25:26.920 It's just that they have more traditional mindsets of how they do things.

00:25:29.940 But, like, specifically me, I couldn't do that.

00:25:32.880 Like, I need it to be 50-50. 0.65

00:25:34.560 Because if it isn't, I'll resent him.

00:25:36.780 I'll be like, well, I cleaned the house.

00:25:38.340 What have you been doing?

00:25:39.140 You know?

00:25:39.460 And I don't want that feeling.

00:25:40.700 It's like, wow.

00:25:46.840 You don't think 50% rent?

00:25:50.100 He's good with it.

00:25:51.080 He's like, all right, you want it to be 50-50. 0.78

00:25:53.580 I'll take the extra grand a month.

00:25:56.320 But he's probably sitting on the date with her.

00:25:58.320 Imagine.

00:25:58.600 They're, like, on the date.

00:25:59.400 And she's like, yeah, it's really important that we go 50-50.

00:26:02.220 And he's like, hmm, is this a trap?

00:26:05.840 Is this a trap?

00:26:07.740 And then she says, no, no, I really want to go 50-50.

00:26:10.240 He's like, I'm going to let her pay.

00:26:11.500 I'll let her pay half the date. 0.92

00:26:14.480 And he's like, is this a trap?

00:26:17.320 Is she trapping me?

00:26:18.480 And now he's gotten half the rent.

00:26:26.180 I don't think this is a bad thing.

00:26:27.800 I dug MPA.

00:26:28.600 He's going to call in later and give his take.

00:26:30.860 And then we're going to accept callers.

00:26:32.680 But here's my thought.

00:26:33.600 If women leave anyway, all right, hear me out. 1.00

00:26:36.400 Women, like, from a man's point of view, it's not like the women stick around. 1.00

00:26:41.340 You might as well get your bag up, kings.

00:26:44.700 And then they'll be like, well, but she'll cheat with her boss. 1.00

00:26:47.200 She was going to cheat anyway. 1.00

00:26:49.460 It's 2025.

00:26:52.280 I mean, I've had PIs tell me to just assume women baseline are sleeping with two men at a time.

00:26:58.500 It's 2025.

00:26:59.460 What do you think she's doing while you work? 1.00

00:27:02.360 You don't, why do we have the rich housewife cheating with a pool boy? 1.00

00:27:06.920 That's a, that's a phrase for a reason.

00:27:09.360 You might as well keep your money.

00:27:11.980 Okay.

00:27:13.620 Women fake it like she's going to pay. 1.00

00:27:16.620 Okay.

00:27:17.060 This is a bad thing.

00:27:18.480 Oh, like I can control society.

00:27:22.120 I'm trying to be realistic here.

00:27:27.100 If the average marriage is eight years and overall your marriage is most likely going

00:27:31.520 to be miserable, it's not going to be good.

00:27:33.120 Um, I'm just thinking you might as well keep your money, right?

00:27:38.640 At least then you can like go fishing or whatever you like to do.

00:27:43.580 Okay.

00:27:43.820 So my boyfriend makes more money than me.

00:27:45.880 Susan B. Anthony, suck my bit. 1.00

00:27:47.220 One thing I've learned from dating someone who makes more money than me is you as the receiver

00:27:52.260 of the money have to pretend like you want to help pay for things, right?

00:27:57.080 Just to like keep up morale in the relationship.

00:27:59.680 So this is my number one strategy for making my boyfriend think that I want to help pay for

00:28:03.420 things.

00:28:03.900 Whenever we go to a restaurant and the bill comes, I do a very fake and dramatic reach

00:28:08.200 for my purse.

00:28:08.900 I'll say something like, let me get it this time.

00:28:11.480 I bend at the hip, reach down.

00:28:13.680 If he doesn't see me, I go back down more dramatically.

00:28:15.820 Let me get it this time.

00:28:18.240 It's very performative.

00:28:19.320 I have no intention of paying, but when he sees me, he says, oh my God, don't worry about

00:28:22.560 it.

00:28:22.820 I got it.

00:28:23.300 You'll get me next time.

00:28:24.180 Boom.

00:28:24.760 I just saved $43 and he feels good about the relationship.

00:28:28.200 I don't feel bad doing this because guys do the same thing during sex, right?

00:28:32.760 After they finish, they're like, let me, uh, uh, and you're just like, oh my God, don't

00:28:37.800 worry about it.

00:28:38.220 I got it.

00:28:38.580 You'll get me next time.

00:28:41.120 Dang.

00:28:41.920 Can't we go to the next one?

00:28:47.060 Women says that paying the part, that the person makes less is paying more in 50, 50. 1.00

00:28:52.480 Amy, appreciate white people.

00:28:55.180 I love this because technically if you're going to be splitting something 50, 50, then it is

00:29:02.380 a direct correlation between your ratio of income.

00:29:06.380 I just think women fought to be equal. 1.00

00:29:09.140 Here you go.

00:29:09.820 Women. 0.81

00:29:10.940 Now we're equal.

00:29:12.940 Now you get to pay your way.

00:29:14.940 Congratulations.

00:29:17.240 You're like, I wanted to work.

00:29:19.040 Well, you got to work.

00:29:20.040 Now, if you picked up some 18 year old woman off the boat, right? 1.00

00:29:25.540 Okay.

00:29:25.980 She just got off the boat from Taiwan or like, I don't know.

00:29:29.600 Maybe she's did a year of college and then dropped out to be your wife and said, and also women 1.00

00:29:35.160 aren't having kids like that.

00:29:37.540 Now, my mom had six kids, right?

00:29:42.640 Then they adopted son.

00:29:44.140 It's a long story.

00:29:44.820 But I mean, that's a lot of kids.

00:29:48.260 But like the women are having one, two kids. 1.00

00:29:51.320 You're telling me you can't do like a remote sales job.

00:29:55.560 You can do that from the house.

00:29:57.300 And now you got to cook for three people.

00:29:59.520 You can't put it in the air fryer.

00:30:01.520 And then.

00:30:03.480 I mean, most packs come in like you have to feed yourself anyway.

00:30:08.020 You can't just.

00:30:09.860 Yeah.

00:30:10.260 I mean, it's 2025.

00:30:11.960 Why would why the fuck would it not be?

00:30:13.420 That's actually 50-50.

00:30:15.380 So yeah, if one partner is making more money than the other, they are going to be pitching

00:30:19.880 in a little bit more money because if you split it down the line, you're paying for less.

00:30:26.500 And the person who is making less is actually paying more because that's a bigger chunk of

00:30:31.460 what they make.

00:30:32.480 Not to mention stuff outside of the 50-50 rule, like emotional labor.

00:30:38.640 I would never go 50-50 in a relationship.

00:30:41.420 There's a certain level of respect I command in a relationship, and you can't get that

00:30:45.640 at 50-50.

00:30:47.040 Doug MPA, are men getting respect in relationships?

00:30:50.720 Why does the red pill exist?

00:30:54.080 You guys are acting like you get if you pay for the traditional wife that she's going to 1.00

00:31:00.780 respect you.

00:31:02.740 Didn't I just show you Alyssa Walsh stays home? 0.57

00:31:06.220 And do you know what she did with her free time?

00:31:07.920 She made a Twitter account to troll her husband who's working.

00:31:13.580 Here, like, okay, if I was a guy, and I'm not a guy, so you guys can tell me, this is

00:31:18.160 how my problem-solving ability would be.

00:31:20.620 I would assume that my woman will leave me. 1.00

00:31:23.320 I would just, I would go in and say, okay, I expect to get left, and I expect to get cheated

00:31:30.060 on when she gets bored.

00:31:31.200 And I would say, hopefully, that'll be it when the kid gets to pre-K, and then I could

00:31:35.340 start, then you could start searching for model number two, right?

00:31:40.200 Then you could start, you realize, and then I would just, I would just observe when she

00:31:44.080 starts, like, working out.

00:31:45.240 I'll be like, okay, it's time for me to eat less and hit the gym, because I got to go find

00:31:48.380 the next, the next chica. 0.99

00:31:50.600 And I would go in, so if we know, like, why would you not go in, okay, so if we assumed

00:31:58.680 that she's going to leave, which is a fair assumption, right?

00:32:02.400 And I know you guys are so nice, you guys are nice people, you'll like, you'll be like,

00:32:07.120 oh, but she's different. 1.00

00:32:10.080 Yeah.

00:32:10.940 Was your ex different?

00:32:13.260 Was your other ex different?

00:32:14.720 Was the ex before that?

00:32:16.520 Was your, did your high school girlfriends stay?

00:32:18.500 Okay, so now imagine this, so what I would do is I would make the chick work, and if 0.97

00:32:24.100 anything, I would want a woman that made more than me. 0.99

00:32:27.680 Now, I would assume she's going to cheat with the boss, right? 1.00

00:32:30.400 I mean, assume, wrap it up, fellas, but that way, at least she can't, you could maybe put

00:32:38.640 her on alimony, okay?

00:32:41.000 Then the other thing I would assume is that she's going to leave, and I would just keep

00:32:47.060 the money.

00:32:47.540 I would go 50-50, save half the money, maybe put it into some Bitcoin she can't take unless

00:32:54.680 it goes sell.

00:32:56.900 I think that's what I would do.

00:32:58.380 I would take the money saved on rent, and I'd put it into Bitcoin, and when she cheats, 0.59

00:33:02.860 I would just say, sayonara, chica, and then I would go take a class at a community college

00:33:08.140 and find my next wife. 0.63

00:33:10.880 That is what I would do.

00:33:12.320 Keep holding these 304s accountable, Pearl. 1.00

00:33:16.580 Good luck.

00:33:17.960 All right, I got a super chat.

00:33:19.580 So glad you stuck it out.

00:33:21.220 Thank you, Samson.

00:33:22.780 I love that you guys can super chat.

00:33:25.000 I'm a broke 20-year-old man.

00:33:26.940 Is it over, Pearl?

00:33:28.760 No, it's not over.

00:33:30.180 Your life is going to be so much better when you're 30.

00:33:32.960 Fellas in the chat, didn't your life get better after 30?

00:33:35.860 Didn't it?

00:33:38.020 Look, your life is going to be great.

00:33:39.720 It just sucks when you're young.

00:33:41.820 When you're 30, you can bang all the 20-year-old broads and the 30-year-old broads and the 40-year-old

00:33:48.700 broads.

00:33:49.040 That's a huge dating pool.

00:33:51.400 Like at 30, as a man, you can go get the cougars post-divorce.

00:33:54.780 They won't even ask you for commitment.

00:33:56.520 You'll just be the fun guy.

00:33:57.980 Then you can go sell a dream to the 30-year-olds ready to settle down and be like, yeah, I'm totally.

00:34:03.720 All I want is a family and something long-term.

00:34:07.620 Then bang them, never talk to them again.

00:34:09.860 Then you can go to the 20-year-old.

00:34:11.860 And the 20-year-old women, they have so much power, right? 1.00

00:34:14.460 So they're probably just going to have sex with you and then leave, which is great for 0.99

00:34:18.200 you.

00:34:18.720 Or they might stick around, right?

00:34:21.560 But probably not.

00:34:23.240 I mean, it's kind of like when you get a girl.

00:34:25.140 I have a friend.

00:34:26.520 He dates in a big city.

00:34:27.680 And he says, I love the women that get there. 1.00

00:34:29.920 They just got to the city.

00:34:31.420 But I know I have six months till they leave me for the next guy.

00:34:35.700 So you could be strategic here, right?

00:34:39.100 And then maybe if you're lucky, one will stick around.

00:34:43.080 A miracle will happen.

00:34:47.020 Said Pearl is projecting here.

00:34:49.440 I'm not projecting.

00:34:52.000 Which part am I projecting about?

00:34:54.060 I mean, this is the, this is what I hear from the fellas, okay?

00:35:01.200 This is woman's logic. 1.00

00:35:03.060 I'm just saying, that's what I would do.

00:35:05.360 That's what, if I was a guy, I would just, I would go in with the assumption that she's 1.00

00:35:10.080 going to leave.

00:35:10.980 And I would, I would position my life accordingly.

00:35:14.020 And I would completely protect myself.

00:35:16.980 I would not want to be in the position that a lot of you guys are in.

00:35:21.100 So sorry, fellas.

00:35:22.580 A lot of you guys got yourself.

00:35:24.420 I would have looked at the, at the market and I would have said, yep, she's going.

00:35:28.960 You are correct.

00:35:29.800 Walsh is a simp.

00:35:30.860 She is disrespectful. 0.99

00:35:32.760 Thank you, Olive.

00:35:33.680 Are you a real woman?

00:35:35.060 Or are you a woman pretending to be? 0.99

00:35:36.980 I don't really believe women that are watching my channel. 1.00

00:35:40.020 Yeah, your, your profile picture is too hot.

00:35:43.860 You're hot.

00:35:44.580 You're a guy.

00:35:45.320 All right, we're going to finish this TikTok.

00:35:48.600 Household chores, extracurriculars, all of the stuff that could actually have a monetary

00:35:54.680 value, but typically men do not see it as such.

00:35:58.500 It is a woman's job and they don't feel like they also need to chip in. 1.00

00:36:02.620 So yeah, when, when you hear this run.

00:36:06.280 Okay.

00:36:06.880 I think that's all of them.

00:36:08.860 I'm gonna, all right.

00:36:10.020 Doug MPA.

00:36:11.060 I'm going to put this in the chat.

00:36:13.100 And so first we're going to let Doug in, Doug MPA in.

00:36:16.720 And then, um, and then, oh, we got some subscribers on the website.

00:36:25.220 Uh, we got clue.

00:36:27.760 Thank you for signing up.

00:36:30.340 Michael also.

00:36:31.520 Thank you for signing up.

00:36:34.800 And Jones.

00:36:36.540 Thank you.

00:36:37.480 Uh, Peter.

00:36:38.260 Thank you.

00:36:39.460 Edward.

00:36:39.900 Thank you.

00:36:40.520 Thank you guys very much.

00:36:42.640 Okay.

00:36:42.860 Now I'm going to put in the zoom link in the chat.

00:36:45.560 Oh, it's already there.

00:36:57.780 Thank you.

00:36:58.320 Thank you.

00:36:59.640 Okay.

00:37:00.600 Doug MPA.

00:37:01.460 I want to say, I want to hear from you.

00:37:03.720 I personally, and then I want to ask the question from you guys.

00:37:08.500 Could you date or marry a woman making more money than you or have you? 0.98

00:37:12.420 And how did that go for you?

00:37:13.620 So, so that's what I want to hear from you guys.

00:37:18.440 But I want to hear from Doug MPA first.

00:37:23.180 Is he on or no?

00:37:24.680 Not yet.

00:37:25.320 All right.

00:37:25.560 He's coming.

00:37:26.020 It's just, you know, I don't understand.

00:37:31.700 Cause you guys, you'll complain and say the women are whores. 0.99

00:37:34.720 The women are whores. 1.00

00:37:36.380 Why would you, why wouldn't you just assume that?

00:37:40.540 Do you know what I mean?

00:37:41.440 Like, why would you assume that your girlfriend or wife doesn't have anything in her past?

00:37:48.300 Like, wouldn't you just, wouldn't you just wear a condom?

00:37:53.200 Do you know what I mean?

00:37:55.300 And then it's like, oh, the women are divorcing a, okay. 0.73

00:37:58.360 So wouldn't that make sense to assume that she's going to leave you?

00:38:02.060 Wouldn't that be like, like, isn't that kind of pragmatic here?

00:38:08.060 I don't really think the guys are simpy if they go 50, 50.

00:38:11.620 I think they're kind of smart.

00:38:13.300 I mean, now they're saving on rent.

00:38:16.580 They can get a little nest saved until the woman decides she's bored and wants to go have 1.00

00:38:22.220 sex with his best friend or her personal trainer or her boss. 0.57

00:38:28.860 One of the three, right?

00:38:31.220 It's either curve balls, says condom sex sucks.

00:38:36.200 Well, enjoy chlamydia.

00:38:39.260 Enjoy it.

00:38:40.100 Have fun.

00:38:41.360 Enjoy.

00:38:42.200 They said facts.

00:38:43.440 Okay.

00:38:43.800 Enjoy herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea.

00:38:47.600 Enjoy it.

00:38:48.260 No, no, no, no.

00:38:49.760 And maybe, um, maybe a child.

00:38:55.280 You know?

00:39:01.240 Doug MPA.

00:39:03.860 Until the woman decides. 1.00

00:39:05.120 Oh, you got to turn off.

00:39:06.940 Yeah.

00:39:07.380 Okay.

00:39:07.580 There you go.

00:39:08.940 How are you, Doug MPA?

00:39:11.240 Or her personal trainer.

00:39:12.680 Or her boss.

00:39:13.360 Back in business.

00:39:15.000 Can you hear me okay?

00:39:16.000 Yeah, you got to turn off the, my show in the background.

00:39:19.980 Oh, yeah.

00:39:20.440 Sorry about that.

00:39:21.000 I made that mistake.

00:39:22.600 Hold on.

00:39:24.100 Enjoy it.

00:39:24.800 How long?

00:39:25.940 Enjoy.

00:39:26.780 They said facts.

00:39:28.140 Okay.

00:39:29.120 Enjoy herpes.

00:39:30.420 I can still hear it.

00:39:31.580 I don't.

00:39:32.420 Enjoy it.

00:39:32.960 No, no, no, no.

00:39:33.960 I have nothing open.

00:39:35.920 Um, okay.

00:39:37.600 I think it might be on our end.

00:39:38.880 Hold on.

00:39:44.000 Oh, is that?

00:39:45.700 Can you hear me okay?

00:39:46.380 I can hear you okay.

00:39:48.700 Okay.

00:39:49.000 Now we're good.

00:39:49.920 Now we're good.

00:39:50.380 Now we're good.

00:39:51.400 Um, sorry.

00:39:52.580 I think it was on our end.

00:39:53.800 Um, so what are your thoughts, Doug MPA?

00:39:57.860 Guys, someone in the chat, I think it was a special tiger.

00:40:03.520 He said, uh, it's about leverage, Pearl.

00:40:06.100 You don't want a woman to have any kind of leverage over you. 1.00

00:40:09.280 And here's the thing.

00:40:10.520 When men get divorced, most of the time, the man's net worth rises and the woman's net worth goes down. 0.53

00:40:18.220 Men have to accept early on that dealing with women is going to cost. 0.99

00:40:24.440 Okay.

00:40:24.880 So like losing money.

00:40:26.460 Okay.

00:40:28.300 I'm not talking about the average guy.

00:40:29.840 The average guy has more to lose, but a guy who's successful, has a highly valued trade, highly valued skill, highly valued education.

00:40:39.340 You may need to be leaders and set the tone.

00:40:42.860 Right.

00:40:43.380 And that usually involves money and resources.

00:40:48.280 Okay.

00:40:50.140 So you, and that should go through dating and relationships and marriage.

00:40:56.320 And if you have a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, all that, you can walk away and you're just going to make more money.

00:41:05.200 But the type of respect that a man that's worth something commands, you can't get that 50, 50.

00:41:11.860 He just can't do it.

00:41:13.260 Now, now I'm talking about a certain kind of guy who's put in the work.

00:41:16.740 Highly valued skill, highly valued trade, all that stuff.

00:41:24.400 But the average guy, maybe not.

00:41:26.460 But, you know, I'm about.

00:41:28.280 But I don't see the high earning men getting respect either.

00:41:31.420 Like, I don't see that.

00:41:32.560 Like, if anything, I swear, I see the low earning guys getting more respect half the time than the high earning ones.

00:41:38.680 Because the women's with the high earning guy more likely for resources and the low earning guy, it's for, like, alpha traits. 1.00

00:41:45.840 And it's like, if women know the men will walk away, then they respect them. 0.93

00:41:50.000 Like, haven't you ever seen those, those guys that get women to pay for them? 0.53

00:41:53.860 And somehow, like, these women are afraid of these guys.

00:41:57.080 Like, they don't want him to leave.

00:41:58.900 You know what I mean?

00:41:59.840 Yeah.

00:42:00.220 But that's the thing.

00:42:01.520 You can put forth the resources and the money.

00:42:06.140 Be sensible about it because, remember, men are better with money and spending than women, right? 1.00

00:42:12.320 And so you set the tone with your resources and your masculine frame.

00:42:20.300 And then if she's not giving you the respect that you command, you just leave.

00:42:25.960 Remember, the biggest, the two biggest superpowers a man has is to be able to determine who his girlfriend, fiance, and wife is if he chooses to be married.

00:42:35.940 Guys, don't get married.

00:42:37.620 And walking away.

00:42:39.780 All throughout this process, whether you're 50-50 or not, guys, walk away.

00:42:45.620 What is the average mortgage cost?

00:42:48.380 Remember, I always say, set a comfort and convenience level, guys, and don't go beyond it.

00:42:54.120 Most of the time, if you're getting frustrated with a person or a situation, you've gone above and beyond your comfort and convenience level.

00:43:02.480 Do that with women, too. 1.00

00:43:04.160 If a woman gets too annoying or you're spending too much on her or she's not putting out, you leave. 0.99

00:43:08.920 So that goes along with, guys, you, I, I've never done 50-50, and I wouldn't because it gives a woman leverage and she's going to try to use that. 1.00

00:43:20.600 Well, it's not using terms like we're going to the 50-50, but I'm doing all this emotional labor, all this garbage.

00:43:27.920 Set the tone early.

00:43:29.380 Okay, wait, I want to do that.

00:43:30.460 And don't part with anything to get a part with.

00:43:32.700 A man shouldn't be dating or in a relationship if he doesn't have time and resources set aside anyway.

00:43:40.740 I don't know.

00:43:41.460 So I'm looking at these numbers, right?

00:43:43.280 So it says the average mortgage cost is $2,300 a month.

00:43:48.200 Now, I divide that in two.

00:43:49.340 That's $1,158 a month.

00:43:52.760 So then I times that times 12.

00:43:58.080 That's going to be, oh, wait, hold on.

00:44:04.400 I got rid of the one.

00:44:06.840 That's going to be $13,000 a year.

00:44:11.220 $13,902 times the average length of a marriage, which is eight years.

00:44:18.640 Wait, hold on.

00:44:20.480 13, wait, I got to do this.

00:44:22.540 Okay, 13 grand times eight years.

00:44:29.540 That's 100.

00:44:30.680 Wait, no, no.

00:44:32.520 Sorry, times eight.

00:44:33.920 I'm doing this wrong.

00:44:38.980 It's 111.

00:44:40.760 See, I'm like, do they really, do the men really, knowing that the women are going to leave, 0.99

00:44:46.380 is it really, the women are disrespectful anyway. 1.00

00:44:50.040 Like, if anything, I should expect that to be the baseline.

00:44:54.840 It's hockey.

00:44:55.720 She might as well pay.

00:44:57.300 Like, if I was looking at rich men, right, or well-off men and seeing that this money helped them,

00:45:04.620 I don't see that helping them, though.

00:45:06.980 If anything, I think that rich guys or, like, wealthy guys are known for being bigger simps

00:45:11.960 because that's what they, like, lead with in order to get leverage,

00:45:15.220 where the low-earning, like, the low-earning men tend to use, like, frame or game.

00:45:20.460 Here's the thing, Pearl, you're talking like, you've never had to date women.

00:45:25.660 You've never had to be in a relationship with a woman.

00:45:28.480 When you're a man, you know from young that dealing with women who are worth anything is going to cost you money. 1.00

00:45:37.120 You get, once you've achieved a certain amount, parting with money as a concept isn't really like an L.

00:45:46.600 It's how much you're losing and what's the circumstance.

00:45:53.160 If you're going to find a woman worth it, she's going to cost you money. 1.00

00:45:56.800 It's just set expectations, and if she isn't doing what you want or showing you what you want, you leave behind.

00:46:06.080 One of the worst things – so I used to mentor young African-American and young African-immigrant men, right? 1.00

00:46:11.920 And I would have to teach them how to take L's. 0.82

00:46:16.820 If you take a woman out on a date, pay, and then if it doesn't work out, keep it moving, but don't part with anything that you can't part with. 0.72

00:46:29.300 I hate when a guy takes a woman out on a date, pays too much for a dinner, doesn't get laid, and complains about it.

00:46:39.480 That's what dating is, unfortunately.

00:46:42.060 Now, once again, guys, set a limit.

00:46:44.580 Don't go beyond –

00:46:45.820 I don't –

00:46:47.200 What are you going to afford?

00:46:47.960 I don't know, Doug.

00:46:48.780 I think that women fought to be equal. 1.00

00:46:51.160 We're equal now.

00:46:53.040 I don't see – I think your sentiment is from an older generation.

00:46:57.300 I don't see the men in my generation signing up for this.

00:47:00.960 I think they're going to look at that, like the younger guys, and see it as a bad deal,

00:47:07.360 and that it's just not worth paying for.

00:47:09.880 Well, you know –

00:47:10.960 I'd say most of the girls I knew in college that ended up getting married, 1.00

00:47:14.640 like they went 50-50.

00:47:17.300 Like it was – that was like the norm.

00:47:19.120 Go ahead.

00:47:19.700 Yeah, but – but like you want to put yourself in a position where you can pay 100% of the bills, guys,

00:47:25.380 if you had to.

00:47:26.780 Because women reserve the right to change their mind at any given time. 1.00

00:47:30.800 And most of the time this whole 50-50 thing goes out the door when you get married or if the woman has a kid. 0.99

00:47:38.320 Because I've had friends my age who have a kid, and then all of a sudden the wife was this career-oriented boss babe. 1.00

00:47:46.400 Then a kid is born, and she wants to stay home or work part-time, and she'll resent the husband because he can't afford for her to not work. 0.99

00:47:55.700 Guys, put yourself in a position where if you had to, you could pay 100% of the bills.

00:48:00.480 If your wife or your girlfriend wants to stay 50-50, that's fine. 0.97

00:48:03.820 But odds are by the time she hits her 30s, she's not going to want to be 50-50 anymore. 0.97

00:48:09.040 And you're talking – Pearl, I'm going to have to concede to you.

00:48:11.300 They're throwing him in daycare now.

00:48:13.780 The moms aren't even watching them.

00:48:15.460 Like 65% are enrolled in full-time daycare.

00:48:19.160 I mean if this number is right, two-thirds of preschool-aged children attend early education programs, which I think is daycare.

00:48:28.360 I'm looking at this.

00:48:29.360 It's like if the moms aren't – okay, if the modern women are not watching the kids, right, if they're not having a bunch of kids, what are they doing all day? 0.98

00:48:39.500 Like they're having one child, Doug MPA.

00:48:42.560 It's like go get a part-time job or something.

00:48:46.640 Yeah, but we've deified having children.

00:48:51.740 Women think that having one child, oh my God. 1.00

00:48:54.540 It's like they – women of the past – my mom's mom had like 11 kids and outlived all of them or something like that. 0.99

00:49:02.520 It was crazy.

00:49:03.180 That is crazy.

00:49:03.700 Now they have one and they think that they're God's gift to the earth.

00:49:08.540 I know.

00:49:09.100 Pearl, I'm going to have to concede to you on the activities of young men because I'm not Gen Z like you. 0.91

00:49:14.280 But I'm telling you, once you hit your 30s and you have means, you can date a different way.

00:49:19.300 And you get to the point where if you know that you're going to make more money, you're going to be productive, and you want a certain quality of woman, it's going to cost you. 1.00

00:49:29.380 So just get ready for it.

00:49:31.020 And also look at it for it.

00:49:31.960 If you want the kind of respect that a man of value – I'm not going to say high value, but a man of value should get, it's not 50-50.

00:49:42.660 You should set the tone from the beginning and keep that tone because, once again, there's going to be a time where that woman will change her mind and not want to go 50-50 anymore. 1.00

00:49:54.440 So you should be ready for it because women reserve the right to change their minds about anything at any time, especially paying for the bills. 1.00

00:50:02.160 But then you could just say, too bad, get to work, lady, or leave, you know.

00:50:07.880 Well, I just –

00:50:10.040 It's too bad.

00:50:10.980 I tell the guys I would mentor 50-50 because women have this weird thing where I may be going 50-50, but I'm also doing all this emotional labor. 0.95

00:50:20.720 So, you know, I have to pay, and I have to – just don't – you don't have to pay everything, but pay the big bills at least.

00:50:27.080 I'm always going to advocate for that.

00:50:29.140 Put yourself in a position where you can pay 100% of the bills because one day you might have to, and if you can't, she's going to resent you and make your life hell. 0.58

00:50:37.160 I'd say save your money.

00:50:38.520 She's going to leave anyway. 1.00

00:50:41.240 I say save your money.

00:50:42.700 Put it into some Bitcoin for when she divorces you that she can't find.

00:50:47.760 But let's see what the people have to say.

00:50:51.120 Do you want to let in the first person?

00:50:59.200 Oh, and who –

00:51:01.760 All right, guys, and we want to use your personal experience.

00:51:05.760 So if you don't have experience with dating high-earning women or something that's relevant to the topic, please refrain from calling in.

00:51:16.080 This is to stay relevant to the topic.

00:51:20.420 So, Gabe, unmute.

00:51:29.820 Hello?

00:51:30.720 Yeah.

00:51:31.180 Yeah, go ahead.

00:51:31.620 Gabe, have you dated a high-earning woman before?

00:51:38.800 No, but I was watching the TikToks that you were watching, that one interracial couple where the girl was, you know, blabbering and blabbering, and it triggered PTSD symptoms that I say that I've heard growing up. 0.99

00:51:56.820 Okay, what did you hear growing up?

00:52:01.360 I'm really trying to stay on topic, so is this – this is relevant to the topic, though?

00:52:07.320 It is.

00:52:08.040 I think it is.

00:52:09.060 Okay, go ahead.

00:52:09.960 That's fine.

00:52:11.280 Just all the 50-50 garbage. 0.64

00:52:14.820 I expect, like, my man to do housework, too, and all that stuff, and, like, as a guy, I think if I was in that position, I would be, like – it would drive me crazy.

00:52:29.960 So, yeah.

00:52:32.260 Okay, thanks for calling in, Gabe.

00:52:37.780 Yeah.

00:52:38.240 Oh, you should look up the whatever podcast clips of Andrew Wilson and Rachel Wilson having to fight off some feminists that tried to attack him physically.

00:52:51.020 Yeah, I saw that clip.

00:52:52.880 Yeah, Rachel went in on that girl. 1.00

00:52:55.040 Yeah, I saw that.

00:52:56.280 Yeah.

00:52:56.660 Thanks for calling in, Gabe.

00:52:57.640 Thanks for calling in, Gabe.

00:52:59.160 Bye-bye.

00:52:59.940 Bye.

00:53:00.140 Bye.

00:53:00.200 Bye.

00:53:03.260 Let's see what we got next.

00:53:04.940 I want to read –

00:53:05.660 John, are you there?

00:53:07.480 Yeah, I'm here.

00:53:08.680 Can you hear me?

00:53:09.300 Go ahead, bro.

00:53:09.600 I'm going to read this super chat really quick, and then you can go, John.

00:53:13.180 I'm 42, single, and they want to date young women, but the dating app says suck not drinking either, so where can I find me a girl advice, please?

00:53:24.080 Do you know what I heard on Twitter?

00:53:25.680 I guess the dating apps, you shouldn't unmatch girls that stop talking to you because it ranks you higher if you keep them as your matches. 1.00

00:53:36.080 I mean, that's what's going viral on Twitter right now.

00:53:38.560 I don't know if that's true.

00:53:41.000 I think on every college campus, there are women that are looking for their MRS degrees. 1.00

00:53:46.120 I don't know.

00:53:46.960 I don't date women, but that's something I've heard from guys.

00:53:49.920 No, no, no, no, no, because women don't get – well, maybe some schools, but women used to go to college, want to get married in college. 1.00

00:54:01.900 But I think the majority of women get their degree to prove that they don't need a man and really want to go out into this – they get their social work degree or their lesbian dance theater degree and think that they're going to go save the world.

00:54:16.640 So, please, remember the modern woman life cycle, Pearl? 0.76

00:54:19.300 I know, but I just asked my Gen Z, like, brother and his friend this morning, and he told me there were girls on campus that, like, got married right now.

00:54:26.820 Yeah, but how many of them are actually going to get married, though, in college?

00:54:32.460 They showed me them.

00:54:33.640 They were showing me them this morning.

00:54:35.360 I don't know.

00:54:36.300 I'm just telling you what I've heard from guys.

00:54:38.900 Like, I'm just – this is something I've heard.

00:54:41.420 You can take it or leave it.

00:54:43.280 Okay.

00:54:43.520 I concede to you as the expert in – with the youngins. 1.00

00:54:49.700 I mean, this is just – they're saying, I don't know, but I don't think it's the – I would agree with you it's the exception, not the rule.

00:54:58.460 John, what do you have for me on the topic?

00:55:03.540 Yeah, can you hear me?

00:55:04.620 Yeah, go ahead.

00:55:06.780 Yeah, sorry.

00:55:07.940 Remind me, how am I responding to the topic exactly?

00:55:11.240 Yeah, so have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you? 0.99

00:55:15.520 Like, have you ever done 50-50?

00:55:17.380 How did it go?

00:55:19.680 Gotcha, yeah.

00:55:20.800 So I'm married to a woman who makes more money than me, and I almost exclusively attract those type of women. 1.00

00:55:27.580 Not sure why that is.

00:55:29.340 Really?

00:55:30.340 What's your job, if you don't mind me asking?

00:55:35.420 Yeah, no, I don't mind.

00:55:36.760 I'm a relationship counselor.

00:55:39.000 Okay.

00:55:39.320 And what industry is your significant other in?

00:55:46.820 My significant other is in the academic industry, but we met on Tinder, like, years, years ago.

00:55:52.940 Is she a PhD?

00:55:56.820 Yeah.

00:55:57.760 I'm a PhD.

00:55:59.000 I kind of think –

00:56:00.020 And so have you found it to be a problem in the relationship?

00:56:03.180 Do you guys split the bills 50-50, or how do you guys do it?

00:56:08.340 It usually starts out 50-50, and then over time, they start to see more of my value.

00:56:13.520 They start to wonder how they can contribute, or they come in that way immediately, recognize my value, and go, how can I contribute?

00:56:20.280 And then that's usually how these career women do it. 1.00

00:56:22.720 They try to pay for things, because they usually don't come, you know, like, mentally, emotionally, psychologically prepared.

00:56:30.540 So that's her compensation. 0.69

00:56:35.500 And it's a pretty balanced thing, if you ask me.

00:56:38.080 So she's made more money than you the entire time that you've known her?

00:56:43.600 Yeah, pretty much.

00:56:45.040 Well, no, that's not true, actually.

00:56:46.700 No, we were 50 – we were probably 50-50 when we met, and then I made some pretty risky business choices, and she started helping me out.

00:56:59.080 And then I've just been taking over her business since then, basically.

00:57:01.560 She doesn't want to deal with it anymore.

00:57:03.640 She'd rather not work, obviously.

00:57:07.140 Wait, so – wait.

00:57:09.060 You're taking – how do you take over her business? 0.79

00:57:11.640 Like, how does that work?

00:57:13.120 And how does she not work?

00:57:15.040 I take on her clients.

00:57:16.780 I take on all of the management, and I'm taking over all the logistics as well.

00:57:24.960 Has it ever been a problem where she holds it over your head?

00:57:29.320 No.

00:57:29.720 No, not even a little bit.

00:57:31.760 I wouldn't pick someone like that.

00:57:33.020 I wouldn't – I wouldn't – I can't imagine, like, dating someone like that and then making it past the vetting process.

00:57:41.420 It's, like, really easy to test for, actually.

00:57:44.880 Did you move into her house?

00:57:48.280 No, she bought one for me.

00:57:51.560 So I'm saying the ultimate elf is there guys that get women to pay for them. 0.87

00:57:56.500 I've said that.

00:57:57.120 Yeah, I was going to say – yeah, I call it dang. 0.99

00:57:58.880 You're like proving pro right.

00:58:00.240 Knock it off.

00:58:01.040 No, I know.

00:58:02.080 I've seen it, Doug.

00:58:03.420 I'm telling you, there's a guy that I worked with in London.

00:58:06.140 He would go after female lawyers. 1.00

00:58:08.160 That was his thing.

00:58:09.040 Like, he would go – or finance girls.

00:58:11.120 And he would just get them all to, like, pay for him.

00:58:13.600 He didn't even have to, like, work.

00:58:15.740 So, John –

00:58:16.760 Everything's competitive, so.

00:58:18.800 How old are you?

00:58:20.700 I'm 33.

00:58:21.500 And so, do you guys have children?

00:58:28.460 Yeah, we're working on it.

00:58:29.380 We're trying.

00:58:29.780 Right now.

00:58:31.500 So – okay.

00:58:34.440 I got nothing.

00:58:36.200 Okay.

00:58:36.600 Yeah, because that actually, like, counters the point you had made earlier about, like, a lot of these women struggle, like, letting go of that stuff.

00:58:44.260 And you had said something about, like, the transition of becoming a mom.

00:58:49.560 I guess I'm the exception to the rule.

00:58:51.620 I know that's probably what you mean about, like, proven pro, right?

00:58:54.320 I'm being the exception to the rule where she realized it before that and realized, oh, I want to be a mom.

00:59:00.600 Therefore, that's a full-time job.

00:59:02.860 Therefore, that's all the things that I've been looking for to fulfill me in life.

00:59:07.600 That's what I want to focus on, not providing for a bunch of strangers.

00:59:10.860 I'm just going to give you a warning.

00:59:14.460 So, I have a friend who's a woman who's very successful, and they live on a farm, and her husband's a graphic designer, but he takes care of the farm, and they're three kids, right?

00:59:23.900 And she's, like, way up in public service.

00:59:26.860 You know, she flies to Washington, D.C., and does all these different things or whatever.

00:59:30.520 But she had to start going to –

00:59:33.860 Well, there's this problem already.

00:59:37.360 She's way too valuable. 0.61

00:59:38.240 So, she had to start going to therapy because she missed all of their children's – all three other children's important moments when they were young.

00:59:51.100 So, she missed their first word when they took the first step.

00:59:53.720 So, he would call – her husband would call her and say, honey, you know, little Billy took his first step and said his first word.

00:59:59.920 And she's been going to therapy for a year or two because she feels so much guilt over missing her child's – her children's younger years.

01:00:09.300 Like, women have this weird thing where they're just full of – am I going to be a good mom? 1.00

01:00:13.640 And there's not really any way that – because women think that they're supposed to be the ones there for those moments and not you.

01:00:22.240 You're the man because they held it inside their body for nine months.

01:00:26.100 So, be careful if you guys have kids.

01:00:29.220 That's actually a burgeoning part of therapy are these boss women who feel this kind of regret for missing their children's younger years. 1.00

01:00:39.880 Yeah, I hear you.

01:00:41.480 But if you can't be your woman's therapist and that isn't an easy thing for you to do, then you shouldn't be with her in the first place. 0.97

01:00:47.360 You shouldn't be having kids with her in the first place. 0.96

01:00:49.000 Did you say be your woman's therapist?

01:00:50.820 Yeah, absolutely.

01:00:52.600 If that's not easy for you to do, why is she going to someone else?

01:00:56.740 Why is she paying another man, another woman? 1.00

01:00:59.060 Why is she talking to anyone else at all?

01:01:00.640 Why is she asking for advice from somebody else?

01:01:05.340 Okay.

01:01:10.460 Do you not agree with that, Doug, that like – that your wife should be going to you instead of like an actual therapist?

01:01:18.600 Well, I do.

01:01:21.220 But guilt over being a good mom, I mean, how are you going to – that's something that she's – because remember, mothers deify motherhood.

01:01:33.280 So, you trying to be a therapist about her feelings of motherhood, it's just going to be a long, slow burn of misery.

01:01:40.260 Yeah, I don't – Doug and Pia, I don't think that's what he's saying.

01:01:44.600 That's not what I'm saying at all.

01:01:47.560 That's not what I said.

01:01:48.240 Well, no, but –

01:01:49.760 I can understand if that's not something you can do.

01:01:52.100 If that's not something you're good at, that's not something you're good at.

01:01:53.880 No, no, but what I'm saying is –

01:01:56.040 It ain't got nothing to do with me, bro.

01:01:57.440 No, I'm talking about this specific issue that I'm talking about, about motherhood, regret.

01:02:03.960 Maybe you didn't hear me, okay?

01:02:06.320 No, I heard you.

01:02:08.180 I've talked to mothers, too.

01:02:09.480 I actually used to run a daycare when I was a child.

01:02:12.940 I know all the ins and outs, all of this stuff.

01:02:16.680 If you can't be a therapist, if that's a job to you, then that's your problem, not hers.

01:02:23.320 You have to be able to handle your women. 0.98

01:02:25.720 No, no, you don't.

01:02:27.180 You handle snakes and tigers.

01:02:28.820 You don't handle women, bro. 1.00

01:02:30.440 Okay, how do they act?

01:02:31.440 Everything that you have to handle is negative.

01:02:34.580 Describe a snake and tiger to me.

01:02:36.240 Yeah, they'll freaking bite you and try to eat you.

01:02:38.460 Describe a snake and tiger to me.

01:02:40.160 Yeah, they'll try to bite you and try to eat you, bro.

01:02:43.000 So if you're handling –

01:02:44.460 And what do women do? 1.00

01:02:45.400 If you're a woman, good luck.

01:02:48.140 I'm handling multiple, and I have been for decades.

01:02:51.100 Yeah, and you're living off your chick, too.

01:02:55.820 I'm living off – okay.

01:02:57.820 I'm sorry that I upset you.

01:02:59.160 No, no, you didn't upset me.

01:03:03.020 Whatever works for you is fine.

01:03:06.320 I respect you.

01:03:07.920 Whatever works for you works for you.

01:03:09.320 Is that why you're describing something that's already been established?

01:03:13.280 No.

01:03:13.780 Because you're not insulted?

01:03:16.700 No.

01:03:17.900 So you're just stating the obvious?

01:03:19.920 A grown man is just repeating things that's already been said.

01:03:22.400 Look, I'm just telling you what I know.

01:03:25.120 You can take it or leave it.

01:03:26.100 I respect what you're doing over there.

01:03:28.320 You're proving Pearl right, and that's good.

01:03:32.300 Whatever works for you works for you.

01:03:33.960 I don't need to prove anyone right.

01:03:36.220 Okay.

01:03:37.520 I'm sorry that Pearl was right and you were wrong.

01:03:39.580 Is the way you exercise leverage, is it other women? 1.00

01:03:42.920 Is that how you do it?

01:03:44.660 I don't need to exercise leverage.

01:03:46.240 I'm just a good person.

01:03:47.720 I do good things.

01:03:49.200 Just like I'm handling your friend right now on the phone.

01:03:51.340 Do you want to talk about it, Doug?

01:03:54.680 Because this doesn't have to be confrontational.

01:03:56.460 I know you think I'm trying to sunny you right now.

01:03:58.740 No, no, no.

01:04:00.040 This isn't my platform.

01:04:01.560 It's not.

01:04:02.380 If it was, we'd have a whole different conversation.

01:04:07.160 But you do you.

01:04:09.580 Handle your woman. 1.00

01:04:10.980 You don't need to say that, though.

01:04:12.020 That should go without saying.

01:04:13.140 Yeah, okay.

01:04:13.920 We're grown men.

01:04:15.200 Okay, that's fine.

01:04:16.240 That's fine.

01:04:16.720 Okay.

01:04:17.000 Do you.

01:04:17.580 Okay, well, thank you for calling in.

01:04:19.540 I appreciate it.

01:04:21.280 We're going to move on to the next caller.

01:04:23.740 Sure.

01:04:26.740 Okay, we got...

01:04:27.860 Miller, are you there?

01:04:30.100 Yeah, I'm here.

01:04:31.260 Go ahead, buddy.

01:04:32.480 Yeah, I'm married to a woman, but she's more like a friend. 0.97

01:04:36.660 We knew a long ago before we married.

01:04:39.680 So right out the gate, I made more than her.

01:04:43.660 I was in the military.

01:04:46.080 Okay.

01:04:48.180 And I supported her through college.

01:04:50.700 She got her early education.

01:04:54.920 So now she's making more than me.

01:04:56.880 But yeah, I feel like we've grown apart after she started making more than me.

01:05:02.060 I don't know what getting her busy and stuff.

01:05:04.460 So we're not really close like we used to be.

01:05:08.460 And before we met, she had a... 0.99

01:05:12.980 Before we got married, she had a child.

01:05:15.680 So yeah, we're not really that close.

01:05:17.900 And we grew it apart.

01:05:19.120 And we just decided to get a divorce.

01:05:21.500 And let's call it a day.

01:05:23.720 And you noticed a shift when she started to out-earn you. 1.00

01:05:27.460 Yeah.

01:05:27.860 Have you dated since, or did you just get a divorce?

01:05:39.220 I talked to other ladies and stuff like that and sleep with other ladies. 1.00

01:05:43.160 But my wife is my wife. 0.88

01:05:44.820 I would never like...

01:05:46.520 She comes first. 0.81

01:05:47.500 Like, I would never put someone in between me and her.

01:05:50.620 But you guys are getting divorced, right?

01:05:54.100 Yeah.

01:05:54.980 I'm going to have, like, court on the 24th over Zoom call.

01:05:58.920 She's in Florida.

01:05:59.980 I'm in Cali.

01:06:01.020 So you wouldn't put anyone between you and her when, like, it's over?

01:06:07.060 Yeah.

01:06:07.820 Like, when me and her was close, like, even if I go outside and have a relationship, like,

01:06:15.020 even if she find out, I wouldn't make she feel guilty.

01:06:19.040 I would let her know, like, I messed up.

01:06:21.520 And she would forgive me.

01:06:23.940 And, like, but we kind of drifted apart after she got her job and she got out-earned me.

01:06:36.320 She just kind of drifted away.

01:06:38.140 She don't talk to me as much as she used to.

01:06:42.800 Got it.

01:06:45.300 If you had to go back, would you switch it at all?

01:06:47.760 Would you, like, tell her to not go after, like, the job?

01:06:51.880 Or would you maybe try to...

01:06:53.180 Were you 50-50 from the beginning?

01:07:00.300 I was more...

01:07:04.240 She was, like...

01:07:05.460 She was more independent.

01:07:07.020 We were independent.

01:07:07.840 So, like, when we go on dates, I think she paid for more.

01:07:14.060 She was more of the... 0.96

01:07:16.880 She did more, to be honest.

01:07:20.060 And what about bells?

01:07:21.100 Did you split those?

01:07:22.900 Yeah.

01:07:23.380 Yeah.

01:07:23.900 We split those.

01:07:25.040 Okay.

01:07:25.340 So it was kind of...

01:07:26.120 Actually, she helped.

01:07:27.160 I helped her most of the time when I can.

01:07:30.400 She... 1.00

01:07:30.900 We stepped...

01:07:32.140 We helped each other out as much as we can.

01:07:35.520 And so...

01:07:36.080 So she was not...

01:07:36.740 She was not birthing to me yet.

01:07:38.580 I'm really grateful for having her in my life.

01:07:42.420 I learned a lot from her.

01:07:43.320 But we kind of drift apart.

01:07:46.280 And if I would do it again, I don't know.

01:07:52.560 Would you...

01:07:53.220 I would have to do, like...

01:07:54.160 I would have to be in a position, like, being, like, in...

01:07:59.660 Like, my entrepreneur, where I could scale my own business to stay above her.

01:08:05.380 But where I can stay with her.

01:08:09.040 Got it.

01:08:09.540 Like, I can work remotely.

01:08:11.080 But since I was in the Navy, I was stationed, like, a different state and stuff like that.

01:08:17.280 We weren't together.

01:08:18.800 Most times when I'm, like, deployed, I couldn't get in touch with her.

01:08:23.980 So we grew apart due to some out...

01:08:28.080 Got it.

01:08:29.420 Outside circumstances.

01:08:31.360 Got it.

01:08:32.080 Well, thanks for sharing, Miller.

01:08:35.460 You're welcome.

01:08:36.520 I'm going to move to Marte.

01:08:41.080 Look, Carlos Acosta was next.

01:08:43.680 Oh, okay.

01:08:45.600 Marte, hold on.

01:08:47.540 Hold on.

01:08:48.180 Carlos Acosta, you're next.

01:08:49.700 Go ahead.

01:08:52.260 Hello.

01:08:54.080 We can hear you.

01:08:55.020 Go ahead.

01:08:56.260 Yeah.

01:08:56.580 Oh, yeah.

01:08:57.160 So congrats on getting monetized.

01:09:00.120 Thank you.

01:09:00.920 Thank you.

01:09:02.180 Yeah.

01:09:03.440 So I haven't really been in a relationship like some of these adults.

01:09:08.060 I've been in more, like, immature relationships.

01:09:10.800 Okay.

01:09:11.300 But it's easier to be the guy that pays because you're paying for, like, you know, nothing, basically.

01:09:16.800 Okay.

01:09:17.140 But I guess what I wanted to ask, since you're so versed in all this, like, you know, relationship chaos, I want to, I guess I want to flesh out in my head, like, the cycle.

01:09:30.480 So it's, like, women earn more than men and then because of, you know, or they seek out a career or whatever to climb up this social ladder or whatever, right?

01:09:46.080 And then they try to find men up there, right?

01:09:50.140 And then eventually they keep climbing and keep climbing until they can't find the men that they want.

01:09:56.440 And so, you know, they become these girl bosses, right? 1.00

01:10:03.900 In order to find the only man that can conquer her, right?

01:10:08.240 She's going to try to find who's the true alpha.

01:10:11.940 And then she finds that no man really wants to be around the girl boss. 0.97

01:10:15.280 So what happens after that?

01:10:17.280 Like, what's the feedback loop, right?

01:10:20.040 Because if there wasn't a feedback loop, then women, I think, would just be like, wait a minute. 1.00

01:10:25.040 Being a girl boss is bad, but obviously they still keep. 1.00

01:10:28.060 No, they go have sex with the personal trainers. 1.00

01:10:31.940 They get the kid.

01:10:32.840 Then they go back to the jacked.

01:10:34.520 That's what I've seen.

01:10:35.380 They go back to the jacked guys.

01:10:37.360 So they go.

01:10:38.220 They get the kid from the provider guy in their late 20s, early 30s, divorce him, and then go back to the jacked ones.

01:10:45.280 Interesting.

01:10:48.620 But just, like, recreationally.

01:10:51.160 But women want to be side chicks. 1.00

01:10:52.720 That's why they keep picking it.

01:10:54.540 So.

01:10:56.320 Okay.

01:10:57.240 And is there anything?

01:10:59.840 So when you say that, like, where does it start?

01:11:02.540 So, like, a baseline woman, right? 0.98

01:11:04.620 Like, I'm trying to, like, model it out of my head.

01:11:08.160 Baseline woman starts out, like, in college, let's say. 1.00

01:11:11.180 Or high school.

01:11:12.320 That's where the women, I think, are mostly will try to figure out what they're going to do with their life. 1.00

01:11:16.000 They try to maybe date some guys.

01:11:18.220 And maybe they sort of get a feel for this dynamic between them and women.

01:11:21.400 I'm trying to, yeah, I'm trying to keep it on the topic, though, and, like, people's personal experience.

01:11:26.200 So do you have anything that you've seen that you could add to it?

01:11:30.820 Oh, okay.

01:11:31.400 No, like I said, don't really have, like, a marriage experience like these guys.

01:11:37.760 I just wanted to get your opinion on that whole, like, cycle.

01:11:41.860 And you answered the question.

01:11:42.920 So thank you.

01:11:43.880 Yeah.

01:11:44.400 Okay, thank you.

01:11:46.040 Yep, have a good one.

01:11:48.420 Marte, I think, was next.

01:11:51.800 Yeah, it's Marte.

01:11:53.620 Hey, how's it going?

01:11:55.480 Hey, what's up, Pearl?

01:11:57.300 Congratulations on being monetized, by the way.

01:12:00.260 Thank you.

01:12:01.780 So staying on topic here, I just want to address the fact that when we have modern dating here,

01:12:08.080 and I'm not going to bring up my experience as far as, like, a relationship,

01:12:11.480 but as far as dating, because we have to enter into a relationship, you have the dynamic of

01:12:15.980 introduction, right?

01:12:17.500 And when you introduce yourself to somebody on a date, we now have identity politics that's

01:12:22.280 playing part in this with feminism. 1.00

01:12:24.620 You know, we all know that is the entailment with that.

01:12:27.680 So when you meet a woman, and she has all this vast experience, and you're talking to

01:12:32.420 her on a date, you're realizing that if you don't have a lot of life experience, if you're

01:12:36.700 talking to women, there's less that you can show her. 1.00

01:12:39.780 There's also this, and also the fact that you are now going to possibly be competing

01:12:44.840 with this woman.

01:12:45.820 It's hard not to go ahead and dodge this in this dating era, too, because now they identify

01:12:50.640 with this career.

01:12:51.900 So you have two options.

01:12:53.660 I'm an Orthodox Christian, like my boy, Andrew Wilson.

01:12:56.620 Oh, nice.

01:12:57.160 So you have two options.

01:12:58.300 You can, I was also his coach, by the way, his, him and Rachel's, I did their diet and

01:13:03.000 stuff like that.

01:13:03.800 Oh, cool.

01:13:04.180 But, um, so when it comes to this, you have two different dynamics that you can have.

01:13:09.800 You got to stay at home, um, you know, mom that goes ahead and helps out the kids and

01:13:15.940 everything else where work is now optional, right?

01:13:18.240 You're not competing for resources, doing all this other stuff.

01:13:20.920 You can carry the brunt of the relationship on your shoulders financially, which I would

01:13:25.360 advocate for men to do.

01:13:26.640 Like Doug was saying, that's a great thing to do with the brunt of the bills.

01:13:29.380 The other problem that you're dealing with, which is like 80% of the dating dynamics that

01:13:34.120 I've ran into in modern dating is the identity.

01:13:37.040 You're not meeting the woman, you're meeting her career.

01:13:40.240 And then you're going to find out about this woman later.

01:13:42.500 I recently went on a date and, um, we, we, you know, we talked about everything.

01:13:47.660 She's a CEO.

01:13:48.880 Uh, everything went fine, right?

01:13:51.280 You know why everything failed?

01:13:52.440 It's because I didn't ask about her career and I didn't care enough about the entailment of 0.89

01:13:56.940 her position, what she did and all this other stuff.

01:14:00.080 Normally this would have never been a problem like 20 years ago.

01:14:03.920 Now that we run into this, it is now like, if you don't identify with this whole part of

01:14:10.460 my being, which is my identity now, not me as a woman, it's in, which is secondary now

01:14:15.460 with modern feminism, you're now having to go ahead and meet her, her career, which is 1.00

01:14:21.140 the representation of the entailment of her as a person.

01:14:23.740 And then whatever else personality she has. 1.00

01:14:26.860 So things that flip dynamically backwards, if you're making less than her, you're competing

01:14:32.800 at such a high rate now because the average man makes what 53 K Pearl.

01:14:37.340 I think it's 53.

01:14:38.360 It's around there.

01:14:39.220 54.

01:14:40.000 Right.

01:14:40.620 So now the average woman now thinks that's broke. 0.99

01:14:43.020 So when you meet her, uh, good luck telling her that you're a journeyman or anything else.

01:14:47.420 They automatically perceive that as low, even if you're making more.

01:14:50.460 So you now have identities to deal with too, in this whole fray of the dating dynamic and

01:14:55.800 it's, it's rough because establishing your position, uh, you know, in the dating dynamic

01:15:01.820 and saying, Hey, you know, I'm a good man, all this other stuff out the window, because

01:15:06.920 if they're meeting you and you're there, they're now identity is now their career and that's

01:15:12.360 what they are and who they are.

01:15:14.200 What do we do?

01:15:15.820 We either have to bring up something that's equal or above what they are.

01:15:19.480 And that's changed the dating dynamic of everything.

01:15:22.960 Now.

01:15:23.440 I'm going to chime in real fast.

01:15:24.900 So the, so the biggest problem with what you're talking about, if you meet a CEO, because

01:15:29.540 the area I'm dating and I always meet these women, exactly like you're talking about these, 1.00

01:15:33.680 these, these career women. 0.89

01:15:34.940 Right.

01:15:35.760 And they don't want a husband. 1.00

01:15:38.040 They want a wife. 0.99

01:15:40.080 That's the problem.

01:15:41.020 All these women, they want you to be their wife. 1.00

01:15:43.760 They want you to support them.

01:15:45.660 I would say a girlfriend and a cheerleader.

01:15:48.200 That's I would also say that too.

01:15:49.880 Yeah.

01:15:50.600 Yeah.

01:15:50.980 That's the problem.

01:15:52.100 And, and, and if you make less than them, that's really the expectation.

01:15:55.940 Cause like you always say, Pearl, men are benevolent with their power.

01:16:00.860 Men.

01:16:01.860 I always say when men win, everyone wins. 0.99

01:16:04.420 And when women win, they win for themselves. 1.00

01:16:07.900 They want a competitive, successful man to, to put aside his ambitions, his desires to

01:16:14.920 help her with her own selfish desires.

01:16:18.360 And, and let's exacerbate it even more.

01:16:21.180 If she makes more money than you, a man will be benevolent.

01:16:25.440 Let a man, let a woman move into his house and nest in his house and change everything 1.00

01:16:29.980 around, put his stuff in a man cave in his own basement.

01:16:33.320 Women will never extend that privilege to a man that moves into her house. 1.00

01:16:37.020 There's a difference in mindset.

01:16:40.040 And so if a woman starts making more money than you, or a lot of women, if they go 50 0.92

01:16:45.400 50, that mindset starts coming out.

01:16:48.140 It's the, it's the intangibles I'm talking about.

01:16:52.580 There's a survey that I recently did on threads, threads, the new community where I'm doing

01:16:57.080 a lot of debates, uh, tingling with a lot of feminists on there. 1.00

01:17:00.040 It just so happens that feminists happen to be rife in this community where it's rife 1.00

01:17:03.840 with feminists. 0.96

01:17:04.700 So I did a survey and this is, uh, uh, Pearl, this is the, along with what we're talking about

01:17:10.600 here and I can tie it back in.

01:17:12.160 So I did a survey.

01:17:13.460 If women had all the power and the power dynamic was different where women made most of the 1.00

01:17:18.140 income and had most of the force monopoly of force that we talk about, would they literally

01:17:23.560 destroy men?

01:17:24.480 Right.

01:17:25.780 Uh, even women had voted for a, it's 5,000 people on the survey that I put out.

01:17:30.620 Women overwhelmingly voted that they would destroy men and that they would relegate them 1.00

01:17:35.740 to, I can send you a, the survey that I did and everything else that they would relegate

01:17:40.620 them to enslavement positions.

01:17:42.500 It was like 60 men, 60 women, uh, 40 men in this survey out of 5,000 people.

01:17:49.260 So when you take this, uh, and this is a real poll that I could send you.

01:17:52.980 So when you look at this dynamic, we can go ahead and mirror this with dating now and

01:17:58.160 show that what would happen if the tales were reversed, right?

01:18:01.440 So we take these roles.

01:18:02.660 We can now see this as a reflection of modern dating where now we're meeting women who are 0.79

01:18:07.120 right up here and the man is down here.

01:18:09.480 What's going to happen.

01:18:11.000 We're going to see this play out.

01:18:12.560 And so when women are graduating college at 67% rate, you can, you know, look this up 1.00

01:18:17.760 too, and they're going to be out earning men.

01:18:20.000 You're now going to see their dating pool shrink.

01:18:22.240 I'm not telling you something you don't already know, Pearl, uh, also Doug, so along with

01:18:27.040 your point, you're completely correct about this.

01:18:29.140 When we talk about the entailment of disposition, if a, then it's going to lead to be, now you're

01:18:34.620 going to talk about a plummeting birth rate as a result of this, because women are only 1.00

01:18:38.500 having one baby.

01:18:39.620 You're everything's going to be plummeting societal, uh, yeah, but generosity is going to

01:18:43.820 go up.

01:18:44.240 But see the way I see it is like, this is already happening.

01:18:47.740 So like, you're going on dates with seat, you're like a nice orthodox man.

01:18:51.740 And you're going on date with this crazy CEO.

01:18:54.380 These are the choices now.

01:18:55.840 So yeah, it's like, you, you're good looking guy, you know, like this isn't.

01:19:00.200 So it's like, if I was a guy, I would just go with it.

01:19:03.180 I'd be like, ladies, go ahead, pay for me. 1.00

01:19:05.040 It's called the King's summer.

01:19:08.580 I would just ask like, what can I get out of this now?

01:19:11.900 Oh, you know, you know, you're talking about something that's a temporary thing, right?

01:19:15.740 Yeah, but it's going to be, but it's going to be, it's going to be temporary anyways.

01:19:20.400 What do you, did you think like, I get that, that leads to, I think the role that we're

01:19:24.980 talking about leads to a nihilistic approach.

01:19:26.820 And I think, uh, we need to find a solution that's different than that.

01:19:30.140 I mean, for me, to be honest, I have two jobs.

01:19:32.680 I work as a licensed myopractic and I also work as a entailment of like a following law

01:19:37.700 enforcement.

01:19:38.400 So if you look at all this, like, why do I have two jobs?

01:19:40.320 People ask me this.

01:19:41.500 It's because I know that women are going to, I'm going to run into women that are going 1.00

01:19:45.280 to out earn me, but what do I do?

01:19:47.120 I'm going to provide a buffer is like a secondary job, right?

01:19:50.020 So as a man knowing this, Doug, I'm, I'm coming in with precautionary measures in this

01:19:54.760 dating society, right?

01:19:56.260 So if I know this men get pissed off at me when I have these debates with men all the

01:20:00.120 the time, well, men shouldn't kill themselves for a job just to go ahead and be the equivalent

01:20:04.760 of what women are now. 1.00

01:20:06.340 Well, shit, it's tough out there.

01:20:08.100 So it's hard finding a solution.

01:20:10.460 So Pearl, it's either like nihilism or nihilism.

01:20:13.920 Hear me out, hear me out, hear me out.

01:20:15.880 So, I mean, my friend, my friend, one of my good friends from childhood, she dated a guy

01:20:21.120 for her twenties, went 50, 50 with him for seven years.

01:20:24.060 Then they broke up.

01:20:25.440 She didn't want to be married.

01:20:26.500 She was one of those, like, she raised her little, her mom didn't want to be a mom. 0.98

01:20:30.260 So she raised her, I don't know.

01:20:31.620 You ever meet like the oldest girl where they raised the youngest kids and then like it kind

01:20:36.800 of, she didn't ever want to be a mom after that.

01:20:38.720 Cause her mom like put it on anyways, long story short, I don't think it's nihilistic.

01:20:43.640 She had a good relationship for seven years.

01:20:45.680 She obviously left him as women do. 1.00

01:20:48.220 And he got, he didn't leave that.

01:20:51.020 Like he could have had an eight year marriage and then be on child support alimony and have

01:20:56.520 paid half the rent.

01:20:57.900 Do you know what I'm saying?

01:20:58.440 Or like, so he saved money for, he saved money for seven years, had a, got a hot woman in 0.58

01:21:04.920 her prime and then moved on. 0.97

01:21:07.240 Now he's dating the next hot woman until one sticks around. 0.99

01:21:10.460 I think statistically, like, what are we looking at as far as numbers?

01:21:14.360 And I mean, we could always talk about possibility and probability.

01:21:17.840 These are things that are always mentioned, but it's like, what do you, we do have a descriptor

01:21:22.040 right of this, right?

01:21:22.860 We do what you've offered is a descriptor, but what do we offer as a prescription for society?

01:21:27.880 And I think that's where the nihilism comes in when we don't have a prescription for men

01:21:32.460 out there that are, you know, they're working these labor jobs and things and they're being

01:21:36.440 outrun by women.

01:21:37.180 Yeah, but you can't, but you can't tell like men, like men, how to live.

01:21:41.480 Like that would, that would make them women. 1.00

01:21:43.720 Do you know what I mean?

01:21:44.500 Like if you're going to like me or a man on the internet to be told the solutions to your

01:21:49.360 life, like it's like the part of being a man is deciding for yourself how to live and

01:21:54.000 like living life, you know, living life on your terms.

01:21:57.120 So like when these internet people are like, oh, we need a solution for society.

01:22:00.900 I'm like, is this a society of women or men?

01:22:04.120 Like this is men, right?

01:22:06.940 So like, they're going to live up.

01:22:08.460 Go ahead, Doug.

01:22:09.360 So we're in, so I'm, I'm in my mid forties, right?

01:22:14.680 Women in the mid forties are, um, and younger are living what I call the great experiment. 1.00

01:22:21.720 Okay.

01:22:22.540 They have all, they're the most free women ever. 0.98

01:22:27.180 Right.

01:22:27.980 And they truly have the ability to live life alone.

01:22:31.860 They can be married.

01:22:33.060 They can have children.

01:22:33.960 They can be whatever.

01:22:34.980 Right.

01:22:35.480 But a lot of them.

01:22:36.800 So we have the journey of a man, the journey of a man.

01:22:39.980 My dad told me when I was young, you're going to get a job when you're 16 and you're

01:22:43.660 going to work until you're dead. 0.92

01:22:44.780 Hopefully along the way, you find a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, highly valued

01:22:49.160 education, to be able to put yourself in the best position to live life on your terms

01:22:52.460 or support a family, right?

01:22:54.080 Women want the journey of a man, all these modern women, or, or they think they want it. 1.00

01:23:01.280 STEM fields have a recruitment and retention problem.

01:23:05.380 Only 22% of, of, of, of students of STEM are women and, and 50% by the time they're 43

01:23:13.760 or have a child quit STEM jobs.

01:23:16.700 CEOs only are CEOs that are women for three to four years. 1.00

01:23:22.280 The average man is a CEO for eight to nine years.

01:23:25.700 CEOs quit after two to three years or when they're 43 years old, these women are going 1.00

01:23:30.020 to quit because they know that it's optional.

01:23:32.600 Success is mandatory for a man and it's optional for women. 1.00

01:23:37.460 Women reserve the right to change their minds. 1.00

01:23:39.840 And all these women are going to smash into that wall and realize I don't want to do this 1.00

01:23:44.360 long-term and hopefully these women will teach the upcoming generations. 1.00

01:23:49.940 Don't be like me and live this illusion that I'm going to save the world with my social

01:23:54.200 work degree.

01:23:54.980 Oh God, that's what's going to happen.

01:23:56.320 Doug MPA.

01:23:56.960 Come on, come on. 0.99

01:23:57.820 We hope that would be a positive impelment of things.

01:23:58.980 But that's not, that's not going to happen though.

01:24:01.380 Like, I mean, look at the Gen Z only fans rates. 0.94

01:24:04.820 Yeah.

01:24:05.080 I know, but I don't, I think selling hope when there's no indication that's going to happen

01:24:08.620 is mean.

01:24:09.400 Do you know what I mean?

01:24:09.820 Like I, we got to be realistic here when we got one out of five women in Gen Z being 1.00

01:24:14.660 on only fans that there's no indication it's going back.

01:24:19.360 So if I was a guy and I'm just saying, this is from a woman's point of view, I would just

01:24:23.700 think about what I could get out of this.

01:24:25.580 And I would just expect her to leave. 0.80

01:24:27.660 Like, you know, if the women are being whores, I'd just be like, well, it's time to enjoy 1.00

01:24:32.380 the whores. 1.00

01:24:32.900 Like what else are you going to do?

01:24:34.780 I mean, from, from my point of view as an Orthodox Christian, it's hard to look at things like

01:24:38.600 that because I literally is antithetical to my belief.

01:24:41.280 I'm not pushing back against your position.

01:24:43.060 And I'm not saying that, uh, like I would prescribe for men to do something.

01:24:46.680 Cause I would not tell men, what men, what to do.

01:24:48.680 Right.

01:24:49.140 But one thing I would say is that they're like, I know that we're railing to get some kind

01:24:53.680 of solution, but hope isn't a plan.

01:24:55.880 Hope isn't a solution either.

01:24:57.280 You know?

01:24:57.760 So I think one thing that I would do is like, as a, as you know, be being my, a man of faith

01:25:02.260 is we are looking for people that we can be in a relationship with for a long-term,

01:25:06.740 right?

01:25:06.880 Marriage, right?

01:25:08.040 Marital agreement.

01:25:08.980 So I think that if you could find somebody who has the same faith structure you have,

01:25:12.660 and I'm not talking about Protestants, right?

01:25:14.320 Those are a whole, Earl, I agree with you a hundred percent when you're talking about

01:25:17.780 I don't see any, I'm sorry.

01:25:19.880 I've interviewed a lot of victims of divorce rape.

01:25:22.420 I've seen the Orthodox.

01:25:24.020 If anything, I've seen religious women act worse. 1.00

01:25:28.140 And I think they're saying-

01:25:29.120 Well, they have a nine percent divorce rate. 0.99

01:25:30.640 No, they lie to you guys about the stats.

01:25:33.420 I mean, they, they always look at, they always try to find a way around it.

01:25:38.220 And what they want to do is they want, they want their religion to be right.

01:25:41.200 And so they're gonna, what they do is they keep making the barrier to entry to say, you're

01:25:45.280 only a real Christian. 0.64

01:25:46.360 They include in the surveys, they'll say, only if you pray once a day, only if you do

01:25:50.940 this, only if you do that.

01:25:52.380 And they don't want you to believe what's in front of like your eyes.

01:25:56.020 And I'll talk to the people that run like the Orthodox matchmaking or the Chris, like 0.96

01:26:00.640 they have the same problems.

01:26:02.540 The divorces that I've seen have come from all religions.

01:26:05.520 If anything, I see the more serious religions when they do it. 0.96

01:26:09.740 They're the women are more vicious because their reputation, it makes perfect sense. 1.00

01:26:13.880 Their reputation is entrenched in like, you know, the, in their religion, they're a bad 0.99

01:26:20.180 person if they get divorced. 0.93

01:26:22.060 So clearly they got, they got pretty serious.

01:26:24.520 I mean, as far as like, look, you can, you can tell me this, but I just know you, you're

01:26:30.200 going to have an ego investment in your religion being right.

01:26:32.680 Right.

01:26:33.020 Everyone.

01:26:33.500 And I've heard this same argument.

01:26:35.400 I've heard, you have to understand, I've heard it from devout Muslims and I've seen the

01:26:39.200 Muslim women throwing it back in London. 1.00

01:26:41.860 Okay.

01:26:42.840 I've heard this.

01:26:43.780 I've heard this from the like Michael Knowles.

01:26:46.480 And then I met one of the worst divorce rape stories I ever heard in my life was from the 1.00

01:26:51.780 exact church that Michael Knowles went to.

01:26:54.160 Then the Orthodox told me they were different.

01:26:56.620 And then I had an Orthodox priest in my space.

01:26:59.320 And he was telling me when he counsels the men that he tells the men to buy their wife 0.96

01:27:03.780 clothes to get laid.

01:27:05.100 And I'm like that, that's coming from a priest.

01:27:08.180 And so I just know, like, I know that group dynamics are going to be the same regardless

01:27:13.660 of what religion, like there's going to, it's kind of, you get 10 women in each half are 1.00

01:27:19.280 probably going to divorce.

01:27:21.220 And if there's a lower divorce rate, I guarantee they're making their husband's lives miserable. 0.99

01:27:26.380 I mean, cause women are women, men are men group dynamics.

01:27:30.020 Like, it's just not gonna, there's no, like everyone wants their religion to be a buffer, 0.91

01:27:34.440 but it's just not.

01:27:35.620 Yeah, but I'm not going to also sleep around with a bunch of women. 1.00

01:27:40.060 That's like totally antithetical to my belief.

01:27:42.360 And I know we're going to be at an impasse with that.

01:27:44.700 Well, I don't, I don't care.

01:27:46.060 Don't do it then.

01:27:47.060 I just, I just, the problem is that this is just pragmatic.

01:27:51.440 I just see the men that don't do it get screwed.

01:27:54.400 Like, and that's the tough thing is I think men are kind of like at it, like an impasse where

01:27:59.120 they have their morals and a lot of, not you, but I'm saying this is just what I've gathered.

01:28:03.660 They see what works and when the guys sleeping with all these women get better treatment, 0.99

01:28:08.180 they're kind of like, what else am I supposed to do?

01:28:11.520 You know, like we're getting guys that like juggle multiple women are getting paid for now. 1.00

01:28:18.520 Like there are men in the cities that get, they figure out how to get women to fall in 0.92

01:28:23.760 love with them so hard.

01:28:25.020 They, they cover their whole life.

01:28:26.700 I've talked to these men and these women are loyal.

01:28:29.600 Like they're loyal.

01:28:31.080 I mean, as far as I can tell, I don't know.

01:28:33.140 But do you know what I mean?

01:28:34.680 I'm not saying what to do, but it's like, yeah, but I'd rather be a monk than, than live

01:28:40.660 the life of like men that are running around increasing their STD rates and also spending 0.78

01:28:45.840 more money than they have to, because that's the thing though.

01:28:48.560 Men turn into pay picks really quick when it comes to like trying to get in draws and 0.75

01:28:52.740 panties and things like that.

01:28:53.840 And when you also realize that, you know, these things are fleeting women, actually on dates,

01:28:58.220 I've, I've literally had women tell you, tell me things like, you know, 200 bucks. 0.99

01:29:02.840 That's nothing.

01:29:03.540 You know, you it's all I'm asking you for is dinner, right?

01:29:06.840 That's nothing.

01:29:07.540 Yet you won't do the same thing.

01:29:09.140 And the quality is out the window, even though you make more than me.

01:29:12.320 So yeah, but if, yeah, but if you just do like the players that I've talked to, they

01:29:16.000 just do drinks and it's like, we're either doing drinks or I'm not coming.

01:29:19.520 And we're either having sex in the first, like three, they give three dates tops or I'm

01:29:24.540 not doing, yeah.

01:29:26.040 I'm all for coffee dates.

01:29:27.860 Yeah.

01:29:28.140 I'm all for coffee dates.

01:29:29.560 We're going to move to the next caller.

01:29:31.740 Yeah.

01:29:31.980 Go ahead.

01:29:32.580 Yeah.

01:29:33.140 Thanks for calling in.

01:29:34.400 Calling, calling anytime.

01:29:36.960 Brian, are you there?

01:29:40.360 We're going to do Brian, Marvin, and then Sean.

01:29:44.040 Brian, it says connecting to audio, connecting to audio.

01:29:49.520 Are you there?

01:29:50.920 Unmute.

01:29:53.820 Brian.

01:29:54.860 Okay.

01:29:55.180 Are you there?

01:29:58.560 He's unmuted.

01:29:59.660 Okay.

01:30:00.160 Connect your audio and we'll get back to you.

01:30:02.860 So Marvin, unmute.

01:30:06.620 Good evening.

01:30:07.600 How you doing?

01:30:08.480 Doing good, buddy.

01:30:10.660 I just want to say congratulations to Pearl from getting your network over here, from

01:30:17.120 team to monetization from YouTube.

01:30:20.740 Thank you.

01:30:22.500 Yeah.

01:30:23.040 And another thing, I love how you challenge mentally Michael Noe and Walsh.

01:30:28.020 Thank you.

01:30:28.260 They just don't like to listen, just like Brittany Renner wasn't listening to you and I interviewed

01:30:32.560 this past year and just kept on antagonizing you.

01:30:35.340 That just makes me sick when they do that because they don't want to hear the truth.

01:30:38.160 And like Myron says, they need to, you know, submit sometimes when they got to taste the

01:30:43.580 feet, but they don't always know how to do that when it comes to the truth.

01:30:48.120 So I'll just tell you that, you know, you're still here and that's all that matters.

01:30:51.920 Thank you so much.

01:30:53.100 I appreciate you.

01:30:54.800 Yeah.

01:30:55.380 And I did join the $80 membership last week.

01:31:00.340 Thank you so much.

01:31:01.640 You're the best.

01:31:03.160 Make sure I'm grandfathered in from here on out.

01:31:05.560 Please, I'm glad you appreciate that.

01:31:08.740 I'm going to start by saying that I never really got the chance to describe my occupation

01:31:12.500 and it's a very dangerous occupation, you know, and I'm soon to be, to go back to school

01:31:19.720 to get another license added to the one I got because you need this license to get the

01:31:23.820 other one.

01:31:24.660 Okay.

01:31:24.800 I'm a commercial class A driver, hazardous material license and federally, you know, mandated

01:31:31.840 to the federal government, you know, with the TSTSA and everything, all that good stuff

01:31:36.180 to all hazardous material on big rigs to all the local customers in California and Nevada.

01:31:42.820 I soon to, you know, move on to the crane operation with the semi truck and sometime this

01:31:47.780 year, I'm going to find someone that could take me in under their umbrella.

01:31:51.440 So back to this point, this kind of jobs, these infrastructure jobs that you've been talking

01:31:59.260 about for weeks and months now, I haven't seen a single woman do the things that I do. 1.00

01:32:05.260 I'm sorry.

01:32:06.160 You know, I'm just being honest.

01:32:08.240 If it wasn't for us, they want to have air conditioning.

01:32:11.100 They want to have an office.

01:32:12.040 They want to be working at the orthodontist doctors, the office jobs and the schools and

01:32:16.960 everything.

01:32:17.640 It takes a guy like me to bring everything to their office so they can stay comfortable

01:32:22.540 in their office and do their career, their profession.

01:32:25.260 You know, that's how it works.

01:32:26.600 So I put my life on the line for everybody else.

01:32:31.540 I did have somebody years ago in 2012, my ex that is, she's about three hours away from 0.57

01:32:38.100 Newport, by the way, in Iowa, in Scott's County.

01:32:40.920 Okay.

01:32:41.380 And we didn't work out.

01:32:43.260 And she picked the guy that she married. 0.98

01:32:46.980 She was seeing him the whole time prior from 2012 behind my back when I was driving the

01:32:54.080 semi-truck across state to state when I was an over-the-road driver before I became a local

01:32:58.040 driver the last 15 years.

01:33:00.540 So she was sleeping around with him behind my back and made babies with him. 1.00

01:33:06.720 And she was trying to manipulate the whole relationship, like, you know, that I was supposed 0.83

01:33:11.820 to pitch in for these bills.

01:33:13.000 And I was like, no, we're not together.

01:33:14.240 You're with this other guy.

01:33:15.260 You picked him.

01:33:16.220 And I was like, I don't want to be with somebody that's not been true from the start.

01:33:21.300 And you expect to go 50-50.

01:33:23.040 We're not going 50-50.

01:33:24.200 I just want to be out.

01:33:25.240 I want to be done with you for good.

01:33:27.140 And now, well, we're in 2024.

01:33:30.600 Okay.

01:33:31.060 Now I'm hearing from Facebook that she's miserable.

01:33:34.540 She's not happy.

01:33:35.620 She's probably going to get a divorce now from the guy. 1.00

01:33:38.880 And she, the same person that she married went to jail over a year ago.

01:33:43.960 Did she earn more than you in the relationship? 1.00

01:33:47.840 No, never.

01:33:49.820 Never.

01:33:51.280 She did work at one point, but it was just a retail job.

01:33:54.480 Do you ever wish you did 50-50?

01:33:57.800 Or are you happy that you did, that you took over the bills?

01:34:01.220 No, I look back, I was never happy taking over the bills.

01:34:07.220 Because when you lie to me the first time, that makes me believe you're a liar the rest

01:34:10.940 of the way, the rest of the years, the rest of the months.

01:34:13.040 So why even bother me?

01:34:14.360 Okay.

01:34:14.740 So in hindsight, if you had to go back, you would have, I mean, obviously, knowing what

01:34:18.660 you know now, but assuming like even without, sorry, do you wish if you had to go back,

01:34:26.760 are you happy you split it or no?

01:34:28.980 Like, do you wish you didn't?

01:34:31.220 Sorry, sorry, I keep saying this wrong.

01:34:34.460 Oh my God.

01:34:35.160 Sorry.

01:34:35.780 No, I'm just okay.

01:34:37.100 Just slow down.

01:34:37.620 It's okay.

01:34:38.100 I understand.

01:34:39.780 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:40.240 You understand.

01:34:41.260 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:41.600 Sorry.

01:34:42.140 Yeah, but let me explain.

01:34:43.260 Let me explain before we get into conclusions.

01:34:46.260 What I don't want to be, you know, going crazy on conclusions, but I'm the kind of person,

01:34:52.680 I don't believe in the 50-50 unless it's 100% front from the get-go, which she did not do,

01:35:02.100 by the way.

01:35:03.420 So that tells me, you know, why even do it?

01:35:05.980 You know, that's like being blindfolded.

01:35:08.780 You go into something and you don't even know what's going on.

01:35:12.140 Yeah.

01:35:12.440 Why do it?

01:35:15.300 So you're actually in a disadvantage at that point, you know, financially also too.

01:35:21.180 So that's not good for anyone.

01:35:22.500 So back to the point, though, I'm glad I didn't do that because I probably, I probably

01:35:31.280 like a lot of guys, financially not well on so many levels.

01:35:36.560 I'm not doing terribly wrong now, but I feel like I could do better.

01:35:42.240 But that set me back a little bit because of what she's done in the past.

01:35:46.680 So then I broke up with her and I took an eight-year hiatus break and I met somebody else.

01:35:52.780 In my area, in California, in the San Francisco Bay Area, that's where I stay at.

01:35:57.920 And she, too, became, you know, like her.

01:36:03.780 You know, she believes that marriage is a business.

01:36:06.920 And as soon as I heard those words from her, I said, oh, no, if I marry this woman, she's 1.00

01:36:11.260 not going to care about me as a man.

01:36:12.600 She cares about the resources.

01:36:14.420 So I said, no, I can't be with this.

01:36:16.280 And then I found out she was like the rest of her group, the feminists. 1.00

01:36:20.520 I don't do well with feminists. 1.00

01:36:21.700 So the next girl did the same thing? 0.99

01:36:23.820 Did something similar?

01:36:25.660 Yeah.

01:36:26.120 And she, both of them are in her 40s now.

01:36:28.480 Okay.

01:36:29.980 So in the future, are you going to go 50-50 or are you still going to cover the bills?

01:36:35.180 I want 50-50 preferably. 0.82

01:36:38.060 But I need to know that she's done.

01:36:39.980 You're done with this shit.

01:36:42.420 Yeah, you got that right.

01:36:43.760 You're like, I'm not paying for shit anymore.

01:36:47.300 But in today's world, today's Western world, modern world, it doesn't work.

01:36:52.020 Just like Myron Freshman says, it doesn't work.

01:36:54.840 The man's got to be the leader.

01:36:56.100 The man's got to make, you know, all the rational decisions for the better of the household,

01:36:59.840 especially if you got to be a protector.

01:37:02.060 You know, a lot of us never had the chance to go to the military or went to the, you know,

01:37:06.720 state law enforcement, you know, higher patrol academies or possibly the gun race to get training.

01:37:13.380 You know, a lot of them never did that.

01:37:14.780 I did that with my brothers, you know, a couple older, I actually went to the police academy about seven years ago

01:37:20.720 and I had my little share of, you know, tastes of what it's like in there with the training on this Intensify,

01:37:26.780 you know, defending the loved ones you care about.

01:37:29.760 So a lot of them never got that chance to understand what it takes to protect your community, your loved ones, and so on.

01:37:37.840 It's a big responsibility.

01:37:39.680 It's not that simple.

01:37:40.680 Most people don't believe in any of that in the household.

01:37:44.920 Oh, it's too crazy for the kids around, you know.

01:37:47.600 So I was like, no.

01:37:49.220 I've been alone ever since because of all this.

01:37:52.200 So I don't like too many people being materialistic.

01:37:56.480 And most of these women I was with just rent the resources materialistic and it just didn't work out, you know. 1.00

01:38:03.620 So that's why I'm going to be free agent.

01:38:06.540 And thanks to you, thanks to you, thanks to you, and thanks to Coach Greg Adams in Las Vegas.

01:38:14.440 Nice, nice.

01:38:16.960 CGA is great.

01:38:18.440 Thanks for calling in.

01:38:19.420 I appreciate it.

01:38:21.760 Yes.

01:38:22.560 I'm going to read the super chats real quick.

01:38:25.280 It says you're monetized.

01:38:26.920 I just want to go through them really quick.

01:38:29.860 Tell this dude to listen to Ryan Stone.

01:38:32.120 Dude lives in anxiety.

01:38:33.160 Ian Ironwood, praxeology of a dominant male.

01:38:37.520 Men are raised as defective women. 1.00

01:38:40.020 Clue Studio, $50 super chat.

01:38:42.200 Pearl is back.

01:38:42.960 Thank you, guys.

01:38:45.900 YouTube monetization.

01:38:47.900 Yup.

01:38:48.800 Yup.

01:38:49.380 I'm back, baby.

01:38:51.940 All right.

01:38:52.220 Let me check the thing on the website.

01:38:55.840 Let's see.

01:38:56.780 Let me see what else we have.

01:39:03.500 Trad cons are worse than feminists. 1.00

01:39:05.200 You see feminists coming with purple hair and pure. 1.00

01:39:07.240 Oh, that's you, Doug.

01:39:08.400 MBA.

01:39:10.540 It seems like working hard at a career is going to help me find a good relationship.

01:39:15.080 At one point, is it better to skip school, hit the gym, and bag a boss girl for money?

01:39:20.840 Hey, this is what a lot of the Gen Z guys are doing.

01:39:23.580 They're all like, we can't keep up with these women. 1.00

01:39:26.800 Disregard the previous caller.

01:39:28.200 He wasn't defensive or insecure.

01:39:30.180 He came across as an alpha male who stood his ground and didn't see validation from anyone.

01:39:35.320 Some people are just different.

01:39:40.180 Women used to go to college to get some BO. 1.00

01:39:43.320 Sorry, Doug MPA.

01:39:44.680 I keep wanting to read your stuff, but I'm like, you're on the call.

01:39:46.760 I'm the Bill Burr bid on marriage.

01:39:49.980 If you're skydiving and you know that two-thirds of parachutes won't open, I'm not doing it.

01:39:55.060 Smart.

01:39:56.560 I don't see any reading ones.

01:39:59.560 Next up, Sean, you're next.

01:40:01.700 And then Joey, you're after that.

01:40:03.640 So, Sean, unmute.

01:40:06.540 Yeah, can you hear me?

01:40:07.840 Yeah, I can hear you, Sean.

01:40:09.140 How's it going?

01:40:11.100 Hurl back.

01:40:12.200 Hurl back.

01:40:13.100 Let's get it, man.

01:40:14.100 Let's run up this money.

01:40:15.380 I wonder, what's the next video, Pearl?

01:40:18.320 Like, now you monetize.

01:40:19.660 What are they going to say now?

01:40:20.760 I don't know, but I'm going to do a lot of reactions this week.

01:40:24.820 I'm going to be like, it'll be like, Pearl reacts to modern women. 0.99

01:40:28.180 We're going to film like 10.

01:40:30.880 Talk.

01:40:31.640 It's going to be like-

01:40:32.600 They're going to be talking to YouTube like, how, how?

01:40:35.320 Oh, a nice hat, my friend.

01:40:37.620 Nice hat.

01:40:38.400 Let's go.

01:40:39.300 So, Sean, you've dated everywhere, right?

01:40:42.020 You've lived all over.

01:40:43.300 I know you've called in before.

01:40:44.540 So, what are your thoughts on the high-earning women? 0.99

01:40:48.760 Have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you, or would you date or marry

01:40:52.680 a woman that made more money than you long-term? 1.00

01:40:56.300 Yeah, so, great question.

01:40:57.920 And shout-outs to you, Doug.

01:40:58.900 And shout-outs to Marvin, too, for subscribing and putting money up on the show.

01:41:02.180 That's important to support the channel.

01:41:03.800 So, shout-outs to you, Marvin, and your service.

01:41:06.120 But when it comes to marry or date, I've been dating women before in my past that had more 0.90

01:41:13.340 net worth than me.

01:41:14.320 They didn't make more, but they came from rich families.

01:41:16.660 So, that's why I said they had a higher net worth than I did, yeah?

01:41:19.960 So, I did date those women. 1.00

01:41:21.360 And as far as if I got married, which I would not, but if I did, right, it would be more

01:41:27.620 in a way I would marry a woman that's up. 0.99

01:41:29.760 Marriage is pretty serious.

01:41:30.980 So, if you ask Genghis Khan or Julius Caesar who they married, it would be a woman that was 0.96

01:41:35.880 at their station or equivalent.

01:41:37.380 You get what I'm saying?

01:41:38.460 Because they had to secure grain supplies, you know, had to squash political fights.

01:41:43.580 So, they just never married a side piece.

01:41:46.780 Now, they had concubines for side pieces that they liked, but they never married those girls.

01:41:51.620 So, if I did, it would be some way to protect myself.

01:41:54.940 But at the end of the day, guys, you know, Kanye could be broken in Kim.

01:41:59.080 Kim still got more money out of him.

01:42:01.640 What is her name?

01:42:02.580 Tiana Taylor?

01:42:03.540 She just got divorced, right?

01:42:05.600 She still got more money out of him, even though she said in the claim that she was richer

01:42:09.680 than him.

01:42:10.120 So, at the end of the day, there's no protection.

01:42:14.080 I just wouldn't get married.

01:42:15.820 But I have done it before.

01:42:17.780 I have had those relationships.

01:42:19.380 And it takes a different type of man to be in those type of relationships.

01:42:23.180 Like that Chad, that Giga Chad that called, you know? 0.90

01:42:26.040 That dude was like, I'm the therapist to my shorty.

01:42:28.500 She come to me.

01:42:29.680 So, you have to be a very dominant man.

01:42:32.880 You have to be very articulate.

01:42:34.860 You have to be very in touch with your emotional side to be able to, you know, handle all that

01:42:39.640 type of stuff that that type of woman would bring to you. 1.00

01:42:42.460 So, as you saw, that guy even said, I do it.

01:42:45.080 I don't got no problem with it.

01:42:46.500 And he probably doesn't.

01:42:47.540 I wouldn't question him.

01:42:48.420 I think he doesn't have no problem with it.

01:42:50.800 So, have you ever dated, when the women had higher net worths, did they ever use it, like, 0.97

01:42:56.340 against you or as a way to control you?

01:42:59.380 Was that ever a problem?

01:43:00.360 Yeah, no.

01:43:02.560 So, they would probably use it in a way to bribe me.

01:43:06.520 So, they'll be like, I remember I used to have her, you know, my Japanese girl, she used 0.95

01:43:10.020 to be like, I'm at coach.

01:43:11.560 Do you want a coach bag?

01:43:13.040 Do you want this and want that?

01:43:14.480 Because she was trying to buy a favor, trying to change maybe an opinion or something, where

01:43:18.660 I was going to move, where I was going to make my next career move.

01:43:21.920 You get me?

01:43:22.840 But at the end of the day, never in a negative way, because they knew it wouldn't work.

01:43:28.120 You know, there's a thing called S-tests, right?

01:43:31.120 Women test you. 1.00

01:43:32.320 And so, they wouldn't be with you if they couldn't control you.

01:43:34.660 And if they know they can't control you, then they'll just know what it is.

01:43:37.860 So, I never got a situation where they attempted to control me.

01:43:41.700 You know, a little test here and there, but I just wouldn't fall for it.

01:43:44.920 You know, at the end of the day, that's your choice.

01:43:46.780 But when you get married, you have no out peril, right?

01:43:49.760 You can't walk away.

01:43:50.800 That's your best leverage as a man, is just to be able to walk away.

01:43:54.740 Moment you get married, then a simp judge is going to come through with the simp lawyers

01:43:59.300 and everybody else.

01:44:01.060 So, it's going to be toy soldiers against you.

01:44:03.540 And you're going to be sitting up there thinking about law and justice and order.

01:44:07.400 And there's a bunch of simps around you, like, you should have stayed with her.

01:44:11.480 We believe everything.

01:44:12.540 We believe all women.

01:44:13.620 And so, then when you get crucified, you're going to sit there looking crazy.

01:44:17.400 So, I think, in my situations, negative.

01:44:21.340 They didn't.

01:44:22.120 But I was a Marine, you know what I'm saying?

01:44:24.060 Combat decorated.

01:44:25.380 They kind of knew, like, oh, you know, what am I finna tell him, you know?

01:44:28.900 Like, he'd been to war and combat.

01:44:30.920 So, I think just being a well-rounded man and not having weaknesses really helped.

01:44:35.960 Because that's just like troops.

01:44:37.160 When you lead troops, right?

01:44:38.180 If they find that you have a weakness, regardless if you're a general or if you're in charge,

01:44:42.460 they're going to try to exploit that weakness.

01:44:44.680 And so, you just have to be, what do they say?

01:44:47.800 Protect yourself at all times.

01:44:49.440 Did you see the tweet at the beginning?

01:44:52.620 The Matt Walsh thing at the beginning?

01:44:54.680 Oh, okay.

01:44:55.320 What did he say?

01:44:55.940 You should call in.

01:44:56.780 Because them dudes be watching.

01:44:57.660 Yo, Carl, you was hitting that dude in the head.

01:44:58.940 No, no, I'm just calling tomorrow, okay?

01:45:01.860 Because we're going to do a show.

01:45:03.160 He got mad at me on Twitter.

01:45:04.720 And I was kind of curious your thoughts.

01:45:07.180 But call in tomorrow if you have time.

01:45:09.380 Okay, back.

01:45:09.980 Because we're going to do a show tomorrow.

01:45:11.020 Yo, Carl, you was hitting that religious dude in the head.

01:45:14.560 Look, shout outs to God.

01:45:16.100 But dudes coming with the religion, man, it's like, come on, man.

01:45:19.620 Y'all should be out here doing the worst.

01:45:21.820 Hey, what did Eve do in the garden? 0.98

01:45:23.420 We already know what it is, man.

01:45:24.960 Come on, get out of here. 1.00

01:45:26.220 Yeah, did you know what?

01:45:27.460 I've just had so many of the religious guys.

01:45:30.240 And I don't want to make it a religious argument, like I'm arguing for one or the other.

01:45:35.060 But they all are convinced that their religion protects their women from doing these things.

01:45:41.080 And I'm like, like I had a girl.

01:45:44.680 Do you know what's crazy?

01:45:46.360 I can't say who, but there was a girl on the show and she was talking about how devout of a Muslim she was.

01:45:51.340 One of the famous guys that came on the show took her home after.

01:45:56.680 She threw her back that same night where she was talking about her religion.

01:46:00.840 And I'm like.

01:46:03.500 Bro, I lived in the Middle East.

01:46:05.220 I know what it is.

01:46:06.140 I'm like.

01:46:06.960 But again, man.

01:46:07.560 I'm not against God, but the guys, the Bible will not save you against these.

01:46:13.360 What do they want to do?

01:46:14.340 What people want to do?

01:46:15.140 The sad part about it is, feminist women, what do they say? 0.99

01:46:19.220 Nature always makes its most dangerous things.

01:46:21.360 Bright colors and different shapes for you to be able to detect it.

01:46:24.620 So feminists have piercings, tattoos, purple hair. 1.00

01:46:27.880 So you can see them coming.

01:46:29.280 But these Tradcon 304s, man. 0.67

01:46:31.820 You can't see them coming, man.

01:46:33.680 You really can't.

01:46:34.620 And then it's a two-pronged attack.

01:46:37.840 You have the Tradcon women who are trying to manipulate men and be undercover feminists. 1.00

01:46:43.220 And then you have the Tradcon men telling you to fall for the trap. 0.99

01:46:48.100 Yeah.

01:46:48.480 And I think, Pearl, you might have said it before, but they become the police of the Bible.

01:46:53.260 So they'll come at you with what you want to hear because you're all about the Bible. 0.65

01:46:57.200 But then they start guarding what Jesus says.

01:47:00.100 Like, you get what I'm saying?

01:47:01.040 So they'll be like, well, you're not a real Christian man. 0.52

01:47:04.240 And then just like they tell you, you're not a real man if you don't do X, Y, and Z.

01:47:08.120 And the Bible is one of the most red pill books ever.

01:47:10.420 No, but they forget those verses, Doug and PA.

01:47:13.480 Yeah, no, they wipe those away.

01:47:14.940 No bad verses.

01:47:16.020 Only the good ones.

01:47:16.740 You talk about patriarchy and all that stuff, but the Bible is it, you know?

01:47:21.800 Yeah, it was the ultimate RP, right?

01:47:24.540 So shout outs to Pearl, man.

01:47:26.460 Pearl's back.

01:47:27.480 Pearl's back, y'all haters.

01:47:28.640 And then shout outs to CGA, Free Agent Lifestyle.

01:47:31.920 That is the after pill.

01:47:33.580 So much respect to you and what you're doing, Pearl.

01:47:36.060 Keep rocking and rolling because you're winning.

01:47:38.440 Shout outs to YouTube.

01:47:39.380 Thank you, YouTube.

01:47:40.200 Yeah, thank you, YouTube.

01:47:41.680 And make sure you call in tomorrow, okay?

01:47:44.220 Because I think I'm kind of curious what you'd say.

01:47:46.580 Go on my Twitter right now and look up Matt Walsh in my back and forth.

01:47:51.840 We're going to do a show on it tomorrow.

01:47:53.080 And everyone, make sure to follow Pearl on Twitter because Pearl gets the party started

01:48:00.580 on Twitter, man.

01:48:01.540 Yeah, I know.

01:48:02.540 I just saw he responded to me.

01:48:05.320 And I'm trying to debate how I want to, what I want to say back.

01:48:10.680 Okay.

01:48:11.660 Thanks, Sean.

01:48:12.220 You say monetization.

01:48:16.100 With a deuces sign up.

01:48:17.760 Be like, monetization.

01:48:20.580 Okay.

01:48:22.020 Joey McMullen, are you ready?

01:48:26.020 You're on mute, buddy.

01:48:26.960 Unmute.

01:48:27.580 Yeah, I'm ready.

01:48:30.140 Can you hear me?

01:48:31.440 Yeah.

01:48:32.560 Joey, how's it going?

01:48:34.620 What's up, Pearl?

01:48:35.520 Congratulations on the monetization.

01:48:37.300 I've been watching you for quite some time.

01:48:39.260 Excited to tell you a story about what it's like to date a higher earner, be married to

01:48:45.620 one, and then, of course, divorce her and be married to a stay-at-home wife. 1.00

01:48:50.680 Perfect.

01:48:51.460 Go.

01:48:52.040 Let's go.

01:48:53.460 Yeah.

01:48:54.040 It's an interesting story.

01:48:55.260 When I was 19, I had just finished serving three years in prison, got out, and found myself

01:49:01.600 a sugar mama. 0.93

01:49:02.860 Are you Canadian?

01:49:04.440 Yes.

01:49:04.880 I bet.

01:49:05.440 Women love criminals. 1.00

01:49:07.720 Go ahead.

01:49:08.160 I'm sorry.

01:49:08.620 Did you have a plethora when you're on dates, like saying, oh, I just got out of prison,

01:49:14.220 and they're like, tell me more.

01:49:16.420 And the panties just melt off. 0.70

01:49:18.240 Yeah.

01:49:19.440 Was that like the most?

01:49:20.360 Not as much anymore.

01:49:21.140 Not as much anymore.

01:49:22.160 Because, you know, going from the bottom 1% to the top 1% of earners, you don't really

01:49:26.680 talk about you've been to prison, you know, 20, 25 years ago.

01:49:30.200 It's not as cool as it once was being a grown man with teenage children that are in university.

01:49:36.520 No, you don't.

01:49:37.140 Don't.

01:49:37.720 If they find out, that's how they'll get all the women, you know. 1.00

01:49:41.500 Yeah.

01:49:42.260 Well, my son likes to talk about it.

01:49:44.180 That he's a badass and blah, blah, blah.

01:49:46.240 I was like, yeah, maybe 20 years ago, son.

01:49:48.140 Maybe 20 years ago.

01:49:49.220 So, yeah, so I got out, found myself a higher earning woman. 1.00

01:49:55.240 Everything was great so long as she was in control of the money and, you know, kind of

01:50:00.420 overseen everything.

01:50:01.560 I was a stay-at-home boyfriend, I guess.

01:50:06.880 She didn't say I needed to work.

01:50:08.160 She's like, oh, go to work when you want. 0.59

01:50:09.600 Get a job if you want.

01:50:10.560 I got it.

01:50:11.080 We'll hold it down and blah, blah, blah.

01:50:12.200 I was like, yeah, this is cool.

01:50:13.420 I like this.

01:50:13.980 How much older was she?

01:50:17.260 One year older.

01:50:17.960 Oh, okay.

01:50:18.600 I see her the same.

01:50:19.180 What did she do? 0.80

01:50:20.780 She worked at the hospital.

01:50:22.400 Like a nurse or something?

01:50:23.760 Yeah, like in nursing.

01:50:25.080 She was cheating, right? 0.84

01:50:28.060 We'll get to that.

01:50:30.660 Okay, sorry.

01:50:31.560 Keep going.

01:50:31.920 Keep going.

01:50:32.820 She was incredibly faithful as far as I know.

01:50:36.580 Okay.

01:50:38.140 Yeah, exactly.

01:50:39.360 Okay.

01:50:40.220 No, I just, the nurses, I hear about.

01:50:44.760 She's gotten projectively worse and now that she's into her 40s.

01:50:48.360 And I'm in my 40s, mind you.

01:50:49.760 This was, you know, 23 years ago.

01:50:51.680 I'm 42.

01:50:54.980 And I've only had two girlfriends and two wives in that period of time.

01:50:59.680 I don't date.

01:51:01.220 And when I do, I'm shopping for a wife.

01:51:02.920 I've always wanted a wife.

01:51:04.260 I've always wanted kids.

01:51:05.080 So I'll preface with that.

01:51:07.280 Ended up getting her pregnant, the nurse. 0.99

01:51:09.820 And I started, you know, taking myself more seriously as a man.

01:51:15.080 Wanted to get a job, go to the gym, do things like that.

01:51:18.240 Long before you had to do that on the internet.

01:51:19.800 Like it's really hard pushed on men to get into shape and do that sort of thing.

01:51:24.060 And I wanted to do it simply because, you know, obviously got to take care of the kids.

01:51:28.860 But she also began looking down on me and making fun of me to her friends. 0.97

01:51:34.920 And I'd see the way she was talking to other dudes where I knew they made a hell of a lot

01:51:38.860 more money than me.

01:51:41.140 Eventually, I hit it big on YouTube like you, Pearl.

01:51:45.040 I don't get to talk about cool stuff every day, but I talk about fish tanks.

01:51:48.840 And fortunately, I made millions of dollars doing it.

01:51:52.660 I'm also known as the king of DIY on YouTube here.

01:51:57.600 Anyways, look it up.

01:51:59.080 You're going to like it.

01:51:59.680 And put it in the chat.

01:52:02.280 No, don't link it to the chat.

01:52:04.140 I don't need these guys coming in here and being like, hey, how's that nurse? 0.99

01:52:08.940 Okay, okay, okay.

01:52:09.980 That's fine.

01:52:10.820 Yeah, so you can look it up.

01:52:12.860 Okay.

01:52:13.140 So I, we end up having children and, you know, I'm literally with her for the kids

01:52:21.360 because to be honest with you, when you're dating a woman that's even a year older than

01:52:26.280 you that makes more money, odds are it's a trade-off for their looks. 0.88

01:52:31.080 She wasn't much of a looker.

01:52:34.200 And people were always surprised that I was with her.

01:52:36.500 And it used to hurt my feelings.

01:52:37.700 I was like, dude, this is my wife.

01:52:39.000 And, um, but I realized I wasn't really attracted, you know, never kissed on the mouth, stuff

01:52:44.240 like that.

01:52:44.860 And over time I started making way more than her and, uh, she wanted to start splitting

01:52:50.620 bills 50, 50.

01:52:51.820 And that was the turning point, um, where she just got worse and worse and worse with time.

01:52:58.480 Now that her control with the money was gone and she couldn't control me. 0.61

01:53:02.140 It's not like I was running rampant or running the streets.

01:53:05.080 It was like, well, now he can leave me.

01:53:07.400 And there's nothing I can do about it.

01:53:08.820 And I bet you were getting interest from hotter women and that had to drive her nuts, right? 1.00

01:53:13.580 The anxiety of it.

01:53:14.500 I don't know if I'd call it interest, but it was absolutely ridiculous because I was traveling

01:53:18.340 the world and girls wanted to talk to me that the type that you see, like in music videos

01:53:23.400 type stuff.

01:53:24.160 And I had never experienced that in my life because I'm from a little town in, uh, Nova

01:53:28.520 Scotia called Truro.

01:53:29.700 Yeah.

01:53:30.120 So it was the first time I had ever experienced anything like that.

01:53:33.580 She's going to go nuts. 1.00

01:53:34.240 And I never dipped into any of it.

01:53:35.840 I stayed faithful, but, uh, that sort of thing.

01:53:38.420 They were just so nice and kind and feminine and ladylike and pretty.

01:53:43.800 She wasn't, right?

01:53:45.040 Oh, it was the worst.

01:53:46.220 Have you ever walked over a bridge and you know, that animal that lives under it, that

01:53:50.020 you've got to answer riddles?

01:53:51.700 Yeah.

01:53:52.500 She looked like that.

01:53:54.740 Bridge troll.

01:53:55.420 I have, so I have, I used to have a friend, uh, as a girl and, uh, we met at my first

01:54:03.060 job in public service and she, she got married to this guy and he, he, her now ex-husband

01:54:09.820 was one of the smartest men I've ever met, but he was kind of shipless. 1.00

01:54:13.520 He couldn't really stick down to get a college degree.

01:54:16.180 And she had a government job.

01:54:17.420 So she held them down their first couple of years, years of their marriage, but along

01:54:22.180 the way, he actualized, he, he got all these IT certifications and then he, he started getting

01:54:27.840 his name around and doing these IT contracts for major corporations.

01:54:31.000 And he was the same as you were when they first met and got married, he would, he could

01:54:34.600 barely keep a job, but he used his smart intelligence and actualized.

01:54:40.360 Right.

01:54:40.680 So I'm talking, he's making five, six, seven hundred thousand dollars a year, but she never

01:54:45.880 saw him as the new version of himself.

01:54:49.380 She only saw him as the old version and treated him as such.

01:54:53.340 And he literally said that he gets respect from his colleagues, all these people in his

01:54:59.460 field, but his wife didn't see him the way that everybody else in the world saw him.

01:55:05.020 Yeah.

01:55:05.140 Was that your, was that your, your experience?

01:55:08.360 That was, that was like the part of it that I can share with the internet as opposed to,

01:55:13.200 you know, some of the more, um, uh, things that in the divorce agreement I've, I've signed

01:55:19.740 that I wouldn't share on the internet, which was, you know, more physical, uh, related.

01:55:25.580 And, um, it got pretty bad eventually where she just turned into this rotten person and 0.71

01:55:30.540 I filed for divorce.

01:55:32.200 Um, I realized that she was, uh, talking to guys behind my back, Lord knows what else.

01:55:38.060 Um, speaking to lawyers on her own, like kind of trying to set me up.

01:55:41.780 Luckily, I was able to get better lawyers and fight for myself as a male, which a lot

01:55:46.300 of men can't.

01:55:47.760 Um, and I got the kids, I got the house, um, and things were great.

01:55:52.920 Uh, I met a girl, uh, a few months later, uh, much younger, uh, 15 year age gap, uh, which

01:56:01.080 sounds horrible, but, um, no, we say good.

01:56:04.520 We say good.

01:56:05.360 No, we say that's a good thing.

01:56:07.500 Yeah.

01:56:07.600 We say good for you.

01:56:09.520 Yeah.

01:56:09.960 So I was 15, you could have went for 20.

01:56:12.460 Oh, no, you can't go for, no, no, that's, I was 35.

01:56:16.620 She was 20.

01:56:17.560 Uh, I was her first.

01:56:19.120 Um, and, uh, she wanted everything and everything the same as me.

01:56:23.800 And it was the first time where I was like, man, this is, uh, somebody I've ever met that

01:56:27.540 was like truly kind and nice.

01:56:29.400 And like, uh, I had opportunities to kind of like explore and go, go travel the world

01:56:35.440 and, uh, test out all different types of, uh, cars, girls, but, um, I decided, uh, after

01:56:43.060 a couple of years of dating with her, we ended up getting married, uh, last year, about one

01:56:49.820 year ago, um, April, May, no, 10 months ago, she's going to kill me if you're not knowing 0.98

01:56:54.360 the date where I got married.

01:56:55.300 But, um, but the difference between that and now she's a stay at home wife is, uh, everything, 1.00

01:57:03.140 not everything I say goes, cause she's has her opinions and stuff, but it's like, I, she

01:57:09.120 values my opinion as number one.

01:57:11.800 If I want to vote, she's voting for whoever I vote.

01:57:14.180 If I want to, like, no matter what I want to do, she wants to do it.

01:57:16.880 So she's on your team because that's the thing.

01:57:19.780 Like one of the most powerful things a woman can do is be on a man's team. 1.00

01:57:23.920 And we know when a woman's on our team, we know it, we can feel it. 1.00

01:57:28.140 There's just like a feeling that goes along with having a woman on your team.

01:57:32.380 And that's one of the biggest things that modern women don't do. 1.00

01:57:34.820 It's like, especially out here dating.

01:57:36.380 Like I always meet these women where they have to negotiate and question everything a 1.00

01:57:41.300 man does.

01:57:42.840 And it just gets to the point where it's just disrespectful.

01:57:45.300 I'm going to ask you a question.

01:57:46.580 Was the, you said that she controlled the finances.

01:57:50.540 Did you get to the point where you're like, I'm tired of you controlling the finances.

01:57:54.740 Did you have to have like a confrontation about the finances?

01:57:58.160 Was that the star that broke the camel's back?

01:58:00.920 I wouldn't say that.

01:58:01.660 It's more like the bills paid.

01:58:03.420 So I would work and like, she would have all the money, all the money go into one account 0.92

01:58:08.060 type of thing.

01:58:08.660 And all I cared about is like, is money or our bills paid.

01:58:12.120 And maybe on Friday, can we get a pizza?

01:58:13.960 Like I don't come from money and I didn't have a lot of money even during that relationship.

01:58:18.240 So I never had a huge value on money as opposed to just make sure the bills are paid.

01:58:23.380 Don't call in sick, do as much overtime as you can, et cetera.

01:58:27.140 So, um, I never got frustrated with, uh, the money aspect, just the way she would look

01:58:33.600 at me when people were around and treat me and talk about me or talk, uh, down to me

01:58:38.800 and, or even just make fun of me.

01:58:40.320 And even when I started making like substantial amount of money, she would make fun and her 0.67

01:58:46.220 friends would call her out and be like, he makes tons of money.

01:58:50.800 He's relatively good looking.

01:58:52.400 He's sweet to you.

01:58:53.660 She's they're like, why?

01:58:55.120 Cause girls like to show off for other girls. 1.00

01:58:57.300 And I, and it always confused me.

01:58:59.680 And, um, and I talked to her when they'd leave.

01:59:02.680 I was like, why do you do that?

01:59:03.780 Like you realize that if I leave you, the grass isn't greener on the other side.

01:59:09.420 She'd been single for seven years now.

01:59:11.560 Um, and doing really bad.

01:59:13.640 Got a DUI in order to start her car.

01:59:15.800 She got to blow into this thing.

01:59:17.720 Like, and you're dating a hot, a hot young woman.

01:59:20.860 Good for you.

01:59:21.700 Girl, if you've seen her, she's smoking. 1.00

01:59:23.660 A lot of these women, you actualize and she refused to see it or she saw it and she didn't 1.00

01:59:33.580 like it.

01:59:34.060 And it had an active campaign to tear you down.

01:59:36.980 And that's exactly what happened.

01:59:38.000 I love it.

01:59:38.600 When two years, I was warning her, like, if you don't change, if this doesn't stop, if

01:59:42.320 you don't make an active, uh, attempt at changing the way you act and how you react,

01:59:47.160 like I'm going to file for divorce.

01:59:49.500 And she's like, no, you're not.

01:59:50.300 I'll take the kids and I'll take the house and I'll take this and I'll take that.

01:59:53.980 And I was like, well, you know, uh, my children love me, so you can't take them.

01:59:58.880 Um, I was like, if you want the house, that's cool.

02:00:00.980 Because I bought this when I was broke.

02:00:02.540 Imagine the house I can get now.

02:00:04.620 I still live in my little broke house.

02:00:08.740 I love it.

02:00:09.420 Start life over in a, in a, in a studio apartment, sleep on a bean bag.

02:00:14.740 No, no, I, I kept the house and got paid.

02:00:17.420 And, uh, I love it when guys go, go, they say, I'll do better.

02:00:21.160 And then they do it.

02:00:22.960 And that's what happens most of the time, pro.

02:00:24.840 I told you this whole thing where, oh, you know, you, you lose so much, but most guys

02:00:29.260 end up winning, man.

02:00:30.940 Most guys, they get more productive when they get out of a bad relationship.

02:00:34.860 It's like they had hands around their neck and the hands aren't choking them anymore.

02:00:39.480 They just get to work after, afterwards.

02:00:41.840 We stay, men are immature for a tremendous amount of time.

02:00:44.780 And I, I think that we start our heads, you know, get screwed on a little bit more straighter

02:00:50.800 in our mid thirties to later thirties.

02:00:53.540 Um, I think that men start to look, most men who take care of themselves start to even

02:00:58.120 look better, get more attractive, more handsome, that sort of thing.

02:01:01.840 Uh, and then of course they reach, uh, more of their financial strides into their forties.

02:01:06.780 So, uh, I had options in terms of what I could do next, uh, for, for a wife and I could have

02:01:15.000 dated my age, but what comes with that is I have to date their past.

02:01:21.120 I've got to date their children.

02:01:24.080 Um, I got to date all their experiences.

02:01:26.940 I wanted nothing to do with that.

02:01:28.560 I, I wanted, uh, to start with this clean slate and I was lucky enough to find somebody

02:01:34.620 by chance just at the gym.

02:01:36.580 Guys, if you want to meet like a girl of your dreams, go to the gym.

02:01:39.420 They're there.

02:01:40.000 That's where they go.

02:01:41.460 Um, I'm going to ask you a question.

02:01:42.820 So how, how, so you, you're the sole provider of your family, right?

02:01:46.800 Yes.

02:01:47.100 How, how does that make you feel providing for your family?

02:01:50.780 Like, can you, can you articulate the satisfaction that you have of providing financially, mentally,

02:01:59.840 spiritually for your family?

02:02:01.220 Because I think that most men want to provide, we have this innate feeling inside of us that

02:02:06.580 we want to provide.

02:02:08.200 Now, whether you do the work to be able to do that is your choice, but we all have the

02:02:13.140 innate need to provide and you're actually doing it.

02:02:15.520 So can you, can you describe how that feels?

02:02:17.920 Do you, do you feel better doing it?

02:02:19.620 Like what, what, how do you, how do you, how would you describe it?

02:02:22.940 I feel it.

02:02:23.500 I feel it's the same.

02:02:24.440 It feels the same as like, I got to go take a shower.

02:02:26.760 Like you just, these are things that I have to do.

02:02:29.300 Um, I don't feel like it's rewarding.

02:02:31.400 I don't want to pat on the back.

02:02:33.360 Um, this is just what a man's supposed to do is take care of his family.

02:02:37.860 Is he supposed to be the sole provider?

02:02:39.640 I mean, everybody has different preferences.

02:02:41.520 Some people have a wife and a husband or a couple, um, earning money together, which,

02:02:48.020 you know what, in my opinion, however much money you can bring into your household, bring

02:02:52.300 as much as possible.

02:02:53.340 And, um, but what I do find is, uh, for myself when it comes to being a sole provider, uh,

02:03:03.820 I, when my, my children are now 20 and 17, soon to be 18, these, these guys, these

02:03:11.460 guys are going to leave me.

02:03:13.080 They're going to go live their own lives, um, and forget that I raised them and everything

02:03:17.680 I did for them.

02:03:18.640 And I'm going to be stuck here.

02:03:20.160 And I have to make sure that the person that I'm stuck with and, or chose to be with is

02:03:25.980 the right person that I can be with alone.

02:03:28.600 Because once you remove the dynamic of children, life is going to change just as much as when

02:03:33.060 you put them into your life.

02:03:34.260 Cause when you have kids, everybody says, Oh, everything changes.

02:03:37.060 Imagine doing that for 20 years.

02:03:38.500 And then you take them out, you're going to be left with that person.

02:03:41.280 And you're going to be sitting in a room, staring at each other, thinking, I don't really

02:03:44.280 like you.

02:03:45.000 So I'm lucky that I made these decisions to file for divorce, uh, around seven years ago,

02:03:51.920 maybe a little bit more.

02:03:53.280 Um, and, uh, found the right woman for me moving forward.

02:03:58.220 Cause I don't want to run the streets.

02:04:00.040 Uh, I don't want to have girls, a bunch of different girls in my bed all the time. 1.00

02:04:04.620 Um, typical, I'm typical though, though, I'd love to, but I just like, when it comes down

02:04:08.920 to it, I just don't think I could do it.

02:04:11.020 Uh, I did that in my younger years and I, I had my fill fellas.

02:04:14.320 It's not like I've only been with two, two women, but, um, had my fill.

02:04:18.460 Um, and, uh, I'm much happier waking up and knowing that because I'm in a age gap relationship,

02:04:25.320 um, when I'm 80 and you know, I, I, I need help changing the diaper that I've got a, you

02:04:30.620 know, uh, a hot little nurse that's going to be able to do it. 1.00

02:04:35.400 Well, thanks for, thanks for sharing, Joey.

02:04:37.820 What a, what a nice story.

02:04:39.340 I love it when guys, I love it when guys come and they say, I'm going to do better and they

02:04:44.320 do it.

02:04:44.760 It's just awesome.

02:04:46.060 And, and, and believe me, she's watching your every, your ex is watching your every single

02:04:52.000 move and she knows she messed up, bro.

02:04:53.720 And I guarantee you all the people that were trying to tell you about her behavior and

02:04:58.920 asking why you put up with it, they're, they're telling her she messed up every single day

02:05:03.560 of her life.

02:05:04.460 I'm telling you, I don't do it for revenge.

02:05:06.480 I wish her the best, uh, you know, um, uh, hopefully she doesn't get any rain on her under

02:05:12.560 that bridge, but, um, and, uh, her, uh, riddles aren't that difficult for those that want to

02:05:19.180 cross it.

02:05:21.440 Nice.

02:05:22.180 Nice.

02:05:22.540 Well, thank you so much for calling in, Joey.

02:05:25.000 I'll check out the time.

02:05:26.980 I just subscribed to your channel.

02:05:28.700 So I expect great.

02:05:30.020 I did too.

02:05:30.700 I don't have a, I don't have any fish, but maybe I'll get one.

02:05:34.660 Hey, you'd love fish and fish tanks.

02:05:37.240 Could go in the background here, you know, last and not least, if you want one back there,

02:05:43.980 let me know.

02:05:44.440 I'll fly down.

02:05:45.040 Oh yeah.

02:05:45.880 Maybe.

02:05:47.140 I could be your first fly in.

02:05:48.680 Only if only, only if my producer takes care of it.

02:05:52.540 And I don't have to do any of the work.

02:05:57.180 Bye.

02:05:57.800 Thanks for having me.

02:05:58.760 Okay.

02:05:59.960 How many more callers do you want to do for all?

02:06:01.580 Um, I'll do these last two and then we'll close out.

02:06:07.140 We'll do Matt.

02:06:08.640 Are you there?

02:06:12.040 Unmute.

02:06:14.680 Thanks for waiting, buddy.

02:06:15.700 We really appreciate it.

02:06:16.440 Go ahead.

02:06:17.240 No worries.

02:06:17.900 Okay.

02:06:18.140 So to let you, to let the Pearl know, I've got pretty much three stories, maybe four.

02:06:23.260 I don't know.

02:06:23.720 Okay.

02:06:24.160 Three.

02:06:24.780 One.

02:06:25.280 Yes.

02:06:26.000 Yes.

02:06:26.320 I had a woman go 50, 50 with me. 0.92

02:06:28.740 Actually.

02:06:29.280 In fact, this first date she offered.

02:06:31.780 Okay.

02:06:32.340 Which is really, which is really rare.

02:06:34.020 And I have dated a bunch of women, at least two women that were, that made a lot more 1.00

02:06:41.460 money than me.

02:06:42.040 When I was still in college doing my associate degree, these two, I had one girl that was 1.00

02:06:46.300 working on her master's in psychology that was, well, was hooked up with me for a little

02:06:52.200 while and I've had a, I had a chemical engineer and, uh, working towards her, sorry, uh, chemical

02:06:59.680 engineering student working on her PhD also kind of go in there.

02:07:03.740 She was six years older than me.

02:07:06.220 And so they had their, so they had some serious, serious education.

02:07:10.060 And while I was still, and the engineer went with, I was fresh out of high school going

02:07:13.520 into university and dealt with the PhD higher earn year one.

02:07:18.980 And I don't know what it is, but, uh, they were into me.

02:07:24.360 So, and was it ever a problem for you?

02:07:28.180 Like, did, um, did they ever like hold it over your head or get mad about it?

02:07:33.160 You know what?

02:07:34.320 Education wise, I, that's kind of the other way around.

02:07:38.760 I don't really like it when a woman has more education than me. 1.00

02:07:42.660 Okay.

02:07:43.280 I don't know why I did.

02:07:44.620 It just, I just, something odd about it.

02:07:46.640 Like, I feel like, like I'm not, I'm not the guy that's wearing the pants when I'm the

02:07:51.380 guy with, with less education.

02:07:54.020 I really do feel that way.

02:07:54.680 Even if it's psychology, does that even count?

02:07:57.840 Uh, well.

02:07:59.880 Like, I don't know.

02:08:01.260 What are you getting, what are you getting educated in?

02:08:03.940 Being crazy?

02:08:05.060 Like.

02:08:07.000 I don't know.

02:08:08.080 It's just like, I had, I had to say, I had some pretty interesting, um, debates about

02:08:13.060 things.

02:08:13.360 Like I was trying to tell her, like, there's, there's things in the background.

02:08:16.060 He just couldn't make her see it.

02:08:17.700 Okay.

02:08:18.200 And so they had some really interesting conversations, but I don't know.

02:08:22.540 It felt weird.

02:08:24.100 Those are your preferences.

02:08:25.200 I'm the same.

02:08:25.600 I, I genuinely avoid, cause I've had experiences with dating women that make more money than 1.00

02:08:30.580 me in the past.

02:08:31.620 So I just don't do it.

02:08:33.180 I don't.

02:08:34.320 And that's a preference of mine only because I've said it in the chat.

02:08:38.440 I've said it to Pearl multiple times.

02:08:40.440 Women that, that one, earn more. 1.00

02:08:43.580 And two, if you couple that will, with have more education, it's the one, two punch will 0.69

02:08:47.960 talk to you.

02:08:48.900 Like they can beat you in a fight.

02:08:50.800 They will get so disrespectful.

02:08:53.280 Remember men are benevolent.

02:08:54.940 We'll be better educated, make more money, but we won't talk to women the way that women 1.00

02:08:59.040 who are better, better educated and talk, uh, make more money to talk to their man.

02:09:03.820 But literally forget that you are physically stronger than her.

02:09:06.540 And she would talk to you with her chest puffed out. 0.97

02:09:09.540 So I just, I just avoid it.

02:09:10.920 I think it's gotta be like a, a, like gym rat guy.

02:09:17.960 Who just like, is like an absolute savage.

02:09:22.020 I think those are the only guys that can pull it off because like, I don't know.

02:09:27.340 Those are just like the only guys I've seen that can like pull that off or they just have

02:09:31.280 to be like almost like so Machiavellian, like almost to the point of criminals.

02:09:36.820 You know what I mean?

02:09:38.760 That I like long-term, long-term anyways, no offense to you, Matt.

02:09:44.900 Okay, well, just, just to let you know, like, okay, just, you know, what got me going with

02:09:49.620 the, uh, well, not all women, some women like the brains, eh? 1.00

02:09:52.800 You gotta find, those are the ones that are harder to get.

02:09:55.780 Yeah.

02:09:55.920 So what got me hooked up with the 20, with the 26 year old, like I was 18 and I was

02:10:00.340 hooked up with a 26 year old and with the chemical engineering PhD, right?

02:10:04.280 Okay.

02:10:04.540 What got me in her pants, this is not, I'm not fucking kidding.

02:10:09.440 So she showed me her PhD thesis and she did on a hydrogen fuel cell reaction, uh, reactor

02:10:17.280 to be able to take hydrogen and some mixture of methane and come out with huge amounts

02:10:23.640 of energy.

02:10:24.080 But they had a big problem of too much heat creating friction in the cells.

02:10:28.280 And, and I came across a type of studies and through MIT, when I was still here in Winnipeg

02:10:33.780 at the U of W and I, and I was able to take her math without even having all the education

02:10:40.320 yet.

02:10:40.640 I was in all the software, I was able to compound, uh, a type of formula, a type of thesis and

02:10:46.900 give it there and able to increase her reactor to 63% efficient. 1.00

02:10:52.320 And she was just blown away from that.

02:10:54.320 She showed that to all her other colleagues that she was working with.

02:10:56.620 They couldn't figure it out why a high school student could do that.

02:10:59.820 And next thing, you know, you know, she's showing me her tits. 1.00

02:11:08.420 You were like, this is the best payoff on physics ever.

02:11:12.180 I know.

02:11:12.840 Well, you know, the crazy thing is when you're dealing with the more educated women that are 1.00

02:11:16.160 like in these engineering and science backgrounds and stuff, one of the things that got me to

02:11:21.000 leg up, like when I was in the forces and stuff, I've learned how to have access to certain

02:11:25.160 technologies that have not reached the academic world yet, that were just fresh out of requiring

02:11:32.080 a security clearance to access this stuff.

02:11:34.060 Like you had to know your stuff, search through patents and things.

02:11:37.580 And I had the ability to just hand out technology to a lot of my professors at different universities

02:11:42.940 I was going to like hotcakes.

02:11:44.720 And next thing you know, you would just watch their eyeballs sink to the back of their skull.

02:11:48.320 I'm like, sorry, all your work and life's work has already been done before.

02:11:50.780 You just kind of missed the boat on it.

02:11:53.100 And next thing you know, you have next thing, you know, you have some of these women profs 1.00

02:11:57.000 that just want to, you know, pull my beard a little bit on my lap.

02:12:01.340 And where the hell is this going?

02:12:02.960 You know, and that's worth more than the money because you know that they're going to get

02:12:07.160 fame.

02:12:08.500 Okay.

02:12:08.940 So the secret to higher educated women is giving them the technology that gives them 1.00

02:12:18.100 a one up that they're that much closer to getting that Nobel Peace Prize.

02:12:23.040 And then when one guy shows up in their office, you know, close the door, shitting gold bricks

02:12:28.400 and next thing you know, reconstructing everything that they've ever done with giving them a huge

02:12:33.080 advantage in technology.

02:12:34.380 All of a sudden there that is worth way more than finances.

02:12:39.440 And how long were you with them?

02:12:40.660 Was it like a one time thing or were you like with them for a while?

02:12:44.660 You know, the only relationships last for me about a couple of months and then they're

02:12:48.340 then they just get tired of me and move on.

02:12:50.340 So they probably I wouldn't be surprised if I was fucking a Mossad agent in any way.

02:12:53.760 I wouldn't I wouldn't be surprised because I've gotten to solving some trouble for handing

02:13:03.000 out stuff that I shouldn't be handing out a couple of times.

02:13:06.500 Oh, God.

02:13:07.380 And yeah.

02:13:08.520 So like I said, I'd be really, really careful about that.

02:13:11.720 But, you know, some of these women, they're honey plots. 1.00

02:13:14.120 I'm telling you, they'll take care of that.

02:13:16.820 And I've I even and then there's a couple of times there, too, where I ended up hooking

02:13:21.120 up with a university professor at one of the universities here in Winnipeg.

02:13:25.260 I won't talk.

02:13:26.040 This is years ago.

02:13:26.900 But one day coming out of a physics class, I had this woman come in and all these other 0.99

02:13:31.460 girls are rushing into this class to get the seats and I'm just kind of like, this is

02:13:35.920 kind of weird.

02:13:36.660 There's no men in this classroom.

02:13:38.260 It's all women. 1.00

02:13:38.960 And I'm like, and so I'm sitting there trying to write down the last bit of physics notes

02:13:44.660 and they were doing like really high level computational physics and stuff for electrodynamics.

02:13:49.540 And I thought she was another physics prof. 0.91

02:13:51.860 And it's like, what is this class?

02:13:53.900 Oh, it's oh, and she was embarrassed.

02:13:55.920 It's like it's a woman's studies class. 0.97

02:13:57.640 And it's like, what?

02:13:59.040 Yeah, it's about embracing the divine feminine.

02:14:02.060 And I'm just sitting there like she looks embarrassed telling me to say and I just laugh.

02:14:07.200 Hey, divine feminine.

02:14:09.300 Like, what the fuck do you use this shit for in front of all these other women, eh? 0.95

02:14:13.760 And it's just like, and she's like, excuse me, you are so rude. 1.00

02:14:16.620 And I'm like, Stella, shut the fuck up and make me a sandwich. 0.97

02:14:19.000 Like, why the hell are you here in this classroom?

02:14:21.460 I was just like, what are you going to do?

02:14:22.800 I was just like, what are you going to do about it?

02:14:24.260 Kick me out of university?

02:14:25.960 Okay.

02:14:26.800 Well, I'll give you my number.

02:14:27.740 I'll give you my phone.

02:14:28.420 You can call somebody who cares.

02:14:29.760 So this woman getting pissed off at me, eh? 1.00

02:14:32.140 It's just like, you know what?

02:14:33.000 Maybe I'll talk to you in my office about manners.

02:14:35.280 I'm like, okay.

02:14:35.720 Okay, so I show her up to her office about a couple hours later when her class is over

02:14:39.300 and there's no students there.

02:14:40.600 And next thing you know, I just like, oh, and I sit down in her class.

02:14:43.140 I put my feet up on her desk and I'm like, okay, lady, tell me all about embracing your

02:14:47.940 divine feminine.

02:14:50.240 And next thing you know, it's just like, excuse me?

02:14:51.980 It's just like, you've got the, and I just told her, I was like, you got like the really

02:14:55.280 nicest tits I have ever fucking seen. 0.63

02:14:58.360 And next thing you know, I don't know, the long story story, I'm fucking her on her desk. 1.00

02:15:01.680 I feel like there is, this is like, this is a-

02:15:07.780 The guys in the chat are going to get ideas.

02:15:10.040 They're going to go to class and be like, you're a great tits teacher. 1.00

02:15:14.680 So here's what it is.

02:15:16.040 A lot of these professional women, they're on this strong, independent, I don't need a 1.00

02:15:22.220 man stuff, but they get lonely and they get a little bit of attention from a guy that's

02:15:28.840 somewhat attractive and they fall apart.

02:15:31.360 There's that moment of weakness.

02:15:32.680 All these women who say they don't need a man, because one of my friends, she's been, well, 1.00

02:15:37.920 we're not friends anymore, but she's a professional woman and she's professionally single.

02:15:42.620 And she's like, she's, she's on these dating apps.

02:15:44.740 And this guy that was a male traveling nurse reached out to her on, on some, on some app

02:15:51.040 and said, Hey, you know, I'm in, they put nurses up in hotels that travel. 0.65

02:15:55.680 He's like, I'm at my hotel, come to this hotel.

02:15:58.380 We can meet in the bar, I'll buy you dinner.

02:16:00.100 And then you can just come up to my hotel room and spend the night.

02:16:03.200 And she's like, I can't believe, I can't believe he would say that to me.

02:16:06.640 Does he know I'm a professional woman?

02:16:08.140 I wouldn't do that.

02:16:09.180 I said, he says that because it works.

02:16:12.200 She showed me a picture of this guy.

02:16:13.740 He, he, he's, he's a decent looking guy.

02:16:16.560 All you women, you're going to stay home another Friday night and watch Scandal for, for the 15th time or friends? 1.00

02:16:23.920 No, every so often, some of your friends are going to answer that guy's call.

02:16:29.520 They're going to go to that hotel, eat dinner at the bar in his hotel and go up to his room with him.

02:16:34.280 You really think so?

02:16:34.980 I was like, yeah, he wouldn't have said that to you if it doesn't work.

02:16:37.680 All these professional women have this myth that they don't need the touch of a man. 1.00

02:16:41.620 They don't need sex, any of that.

02:16:42.780 But then a guy like you comes along and is banging her on her desk in her classroom.

02:16:47.660 Yeah.

02:16:47.820 You know what the cool thing is?

02:16:49.260 I like the, the grit, the best profs are the ones when you have the really long hair, because I'm like, I told you before, I'm like into long hair.

02:16:55.260 I don't mind the nose ring because the nose ring has something fun with it.

02:16:58.560 And I don't like the tattoo.

02:16:59.580 The nose ring is great because you try it when you're trying to, you're fucking them from behind.

02:17:04.220 You're trying to reach up and trying to rip it off their face.

02:17:06.880 Okay.

02:17:07.620 And yeah, it's like, and then, and then you got the long hairs, the handlebars, right?

02:17:11.460 The longer the hair, the more torque you got in your breaker bar.

02:17:14.440 Right.

02:17:14.680 So that's, that's how I look at it as.

02:17:18.420 Well, well, we're going to get to, uh, we're going to get to Miller because he's the last person we met today.

02:17:23.260 Thank you.

02:17:23.780 Thanks for calling in, Matt.

02:17:25.500 Always good to see you, man.

02:17:27.200 Great story.

02:17:28.620 All right.

02:17:29.140 Miller, are you there?

02:17:31.080 Yeah, I'm here.

02:17:31.700 Yeah, I did talk before, but yeah, I was married.

02:17:37.400 Oh yeah.

02:17:37.880 He was on.

02:17:38.900 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:17:40.340 We're going to wrap it up.

02:17:41.540 I just didn't recognize you.

02:17:43.860 Your camera was off.

02:17:45.620 Okay.

02:17:46.040 So we're just going to wrap it up.

02:17:47.400 Go ahead.

02:17:48.520 Congrats on your demonetization.

02:17:50.980 Thank you very much.

02:17:52.900 Thank you.

02:17:56.260 Doug FPA, I want to show you this.

02:17:58.400 This is so funny.

02:17:59.240 I can share my screen with him, right?

02:18:03.620 Yeah.

02:18:05.780 Okay.

02:18:06.460 So, um, during this call, I, um, Matt responded to my response, right?

02:18:16.060 Matt Walsh.

02:18:17.280 And I said, he said, Pearl, I understand you're miserable and lonely and have never been in anything approaching a functional, a healthy relationship in your life.

02:18:26.940 So I'll try to be patient with you, blah, blah, blah.

02:18:29.920 And so then I said, isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary? 0.85

02:18:34.500 Oh, let's go.

02:18:35.860 And he said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely and have never been in anything approaching a functioning or healthy relationship in your life.

02:18:42.960 So I'll try to be patient with you.

02:18:44.940 You see husbands and wives who love each other do this thing called joke around.

02:18:48.520 They may, they, this, they may even have this other thing that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.

02:18:54.140 I hope this clears it up.

02:18:55.240 Now go, um, spew your bullshit at somewhere else and leave my wife out of it. 1.00

02:19:01.420 And I said, oh, wait, wait, sorry.

02:19:04.400 I didn't read the next one.

02:19:06.380 Um, wait, go, go back.

02:19:08.380 Hold on.

02:19:09.040 Oh, anyway.

02:19:09.500 So he quote tweets that and he said, it's called a joke, Pearl.

02:19:12.660 The mother of my six children is very much my helpmate in a million ways you couldn't possibly understand.

02:19:18.500 That I won't waste my time explaining to you.

02:19:20.660 You can take as many pot shots at me as you want. 0.85

02:19:23.360 I don't care.

02:19:24.340 Leave my wife out of it. 1.00

02:19:25.420 I promise this is not a road you want to go down.

02:19:27.380 And so I responded, I said, guess who's going to be on my thumbnail tomorrow?

02:19:33.840 Oh, yes.

02:19:35.220 Subscribe to Pearl on X.

02:19:37.000 Pearl gets the party started on X.

02:19:39.500 I'm like, you're not going to tell me.

02:19:41.580 You're his wife tweeted at me first like a year ago. 1.00

02:19:45.880 I'm like, you're not going to have a public facing Twitter profile and then say you're above scrutiny, bitch. 1.00

02:19:53.060 Yeah.

02:19:54.020 She's a public figure.

02:19:55.400 And then what got your attention initially was just the whole, you know, I existed to troll his account.

02:20:04.220 Like, what about optics?

02:20:05.880 Understand what I'm saying?

02:20:06.640 Like, what does that mean?

02:20:07.920 I mean, it could be a joke, but some people could take it not as a joke.

02:20:12.420 Well, we'll see where this whole thing ends up.

02:20:14.580 I'm like, these people think they're like God's gift to the earth because they got married and had a family.

02:20:21.800 You guys did it in your 30s like the rest of us.

02:20:24.640 Like, get the fuck out of here.

02:20:25.780 You didn't do it traditionally.

02:20:27.600 Like, I don't I don't need the virtue moralist today.

02:20:30.720 All right.

02:20:32.720 The all right.

02:20:34.300 Is it is it wise to look at anyways?

02:20:37.780 Oh, and then Brett Cooper came in.

02:20:40.500 Totally understandable, to be honest, because to be fair, I was calling Brett.

02:20:45.120 She's mad.

02:20:45.960 I don't know if she actually is, but I've done shows on her, so it's fair enough.

02:20:50.740 But she said, Alyssa Walsh is the kind of wife and mother who women should be looking up to point blank. 0.99

02:20:57.420 She's fiercely devoted, and she and Matt have built an incredible life together.

02:21:00.960 She's hilarious, a loyal friend.

02:21:02.320 If you know her, you are better for it.

02:21:04.100 And I said, is it wise to look up to a random woman on the Internet who made it her life's mission to troll her husband? 0.99

02:21:11.840 God.

02:21:12.820 I'm just asking the questions.

02:21:14.560 I'm just asking.

02:21:16.360 Maybe, maybe we should be, okay?

02:21:18.320 I'm going to screenshot this and say, call in show tomorrow.

02:21:24.880 If they don't come, then you guys are, you guys are, I'm trying not to say the P word anymore, but I can't think of another word. 1.00

02:21:36.560 You guys are scaredy cats, I guess.

02:21:40.220 Yeah.

02:21:44.940 I'm going to take a picture of Alyssa Wicca.

02:21:48.320 And call in show tomorrow.

02:21:55.600 Anyways.

02:21:57.780 Anyways, guys.

02:21:59.900 They, look.

02:22:01.660 Yeah, I am choosing violence.

02:22:03.900 Okay.

02:22:04.400 So, anyways, guys.

02:22:05.820 Call in tomorrow.

02:22:07.300 And we're going to do a show.

02:22:10.620 Doug MPA, any final thoughts?

02:22:12.340 Um, yeah.

02:22:16.580 I've, if you're a man worth something, stay away from, here's the thing.

02:22:22.160 You could find a woman who treats you with respect that makes more money than you, but the percentage is slim than none. 1.00

02:22:30.240 That's all I'm saying.

02:22:31.580 Women are not benevolent like men. 1.00

02:22:33.600 They will use any power they can against you.

02:22:36.840 Because, once again, women want men who are ambitious and motivated to set their, what they want aside to help them achieve their own selfish desires. 0.99

02:22:47.620 So, stay away from women who make more money than you. 1.00

02:22:50.500 Because, you know, I think it's not a matter of if the disrespect comes, a matter of when.

02:22:55.900 I think that some, you know, as, as John proved when he called, maybe it works for some people.

02:23:01.620 But I think it's a small amount of people.

02:23:03.960 So, why take the risk?

02:23:05.000 Okay.

02:23:07.740 Thanks, Doug MPA.

02:23:09.700 Alright, guys.

02:23:10.480 I'm excited for the show tomorrow.

02:23:12.460 So, make sure you all call in, like the video on your way out, and subscribe to the channel.

02:23:16.280 Ring that notification bell.

02:23:17.880 And I will see you guys.

02:23:19.040 Oh, wait.

02:23:19.880 Um, was there any super chats I need to read before we end?

02:23:23.060 I don't see any.

02:23:24.540 Uh, thank you to Robert.

02:23:26.620 I see yours.

02:23:28.040 I think that's all I see.

02:23:30.120 Okay, guys.

02:23:30.940 See you tomorrow.

02:23:31.960 Thank you so much.

02:23:33.000 And I'll see you later.

02:23:33.940 Bye-bye.

02:23:35.000 Bye-bye.

02:24:05.000 Bye-bye.

02:24:05.800 Bye-bye.

02:24:06.760 Bye-bye.

02:24:08.160 Bye-bye.

02:24:09.060 Bye-bye.

02:24:17.280 Bye-bye.

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JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2025

Modern Women Earning More Than Their Husbands (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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