JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Earning More Than Their Husbands (Call-In Show)

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00:03:30.000 Good afternoon, good evening ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another episode of Pearl

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00:05:44.540 Okay, I want to say hello to the people in the chat on the website.

00:05:48.460 Thank you guys again so much for supporting me.

00:05:53.940 And, before we get into the show's topic today, I think I know what I'm going to do for the

00:05:59.300 show tomorrow.

00:06:00.260 And, I want to give you guys a heads up on this conversation because I think it's worth

00:06:07.120 the conversation.

00:06:08.340 So, I'm going to read the website.

00:06:11.480 Carlos says, women still, still, yes, to help them get their work done.

00:06:16.940 It's not like they work more.

00:06:18.220 They just have more slaves.

00:06:21.040 Damn, Carlos.

00:06:22.160 Pearl Reed.

00:06:22.600 Did you see the baton girl got arrested?

00:06:25.000 No, I didn't.

00:06:25.960 But, maybe I should follow back.

00:06:27.240 Doug MPA.

00:06:28.380 Maybe we can do an update on the show tomorrow.

00:06:31.800 So, Doug MPA also make a note of this too.

00:06:35.100 So, apparently I pissed off Michael Knowles.

00:06:39.220 Or, not Michael Knowles.

00:06:40.040 They're all the same.

00:06:40.820 It's like a simp epidemic.

00:06:44.040 Alyssa Walsh and Matt Walsh.

00:06:46.080 Apparently I pissed off.

00:06:47.220 So, as you guys know, conservatives always sell traditionalism, right?

00:06:52.880 And yet, we constantly see men and women not acting in traditional ways on the right.

00:07:00.420 Like, for example, and I know this is hypocritical on my part, but a lot of their wives are public

00:07:04.840 facing.

00:07:05.260 Why are you public facing when your husband's the public figure, not you?

00:07:09.940 Do you know what I mean?

00:07:10.680 That would be, the extent of that would be like, imagine, imagine.

00:07:16.420 And this is not saying right or wrong, but I'm saying this is definitely not traditional.

00:07:20.760 Yeah, so, my producer, he's here.

00:07:24.120 Now, imagine if he brought in his wife or his girlfriend and he brings her in and she starts,

00:07:30.040 she says, let me do the equipment.

00:07:32.740 It would be kind of weird, right?

00:07:35.840 You would be like, what are you doing?

00:07:37.960 You know, or imagine if you brought your girl to work and she just, she said, move over.

00:07:44.640 Now, that's like the equivalent.

00:07:46.200 I'm not saying that's right or wrong, but I'm just saying it's not really traditional.

00:07:51.360 Now, Matt Walsh seems like a very nice guy.

00:07:54.780 This isn't really personal.

00:07:55.780 And I'd like to say, Matt Walsh, when you see this, this is not personal, even though

00:08:00.600 you've insulted me back for asking a freaking question, okay?

00:08:05.420 So, I saw his wife's Twitter.

00:08:08.340 And by the way, his wife has spurred out at me many times for no reason, right?

00:08:16.520 Like, you know, one time I tweeted that they don't understand the reality of divorce because

00:08:21.760 none of them are old enough to have gotten divorced.

00:08:24.420 Now, I know some of you guys beat us to the punch.

00:08:26.860 You guys get divorced at 30, 25.

00:08:29.640 You guys, you guys go for it.

00:08:31.320 You shoot for the stars and you say, let me get fucked fast, right?

00:08:37.340 So, but that's not really the norm, right?

00:08:40.180 So, a lot of men can live in delusion.

00:08:42.900 And it's tougher with Gen Z, us women.

00:08:45.340 Millennial women have been so terrible that we've really ruined.

00:08:48.880 Gen Z men have woken up.

00:08:50.460 They've seen their dad get screwed over.

00:08:52.600 They've seen their grandpa get screwed over.

00:08:55.260 They've seen their great grandpa get screwed over.

00:08:58.080 But there's some millennial men, I would say.

00:09:00.960 And by the way, I'm the youngest millennial.

00:09:02.540 I'm 28.

00:09:03.140 So, this is like around 28 to like 40-ish is my generation.

00:09:09.300 I'm two months away from being Gen Z.

00:09:11.320 I almost made it.

00:09:12.940 I almost could be a Gen Z woman.

00:09:14.620 And I would sound so much younger thing.

00:09:18.360 I could be like, yeah, I'm Gen Z.

00:09:20.020 I'm so close, but it's okay.

00:09:22.980 So, I had a tweet.

00:09:25.360 And this tweet said that either, because I didn't understand why the Daily Wire pretends that this divorce grape stuff just is not happening.

00:09:34.900 I'm like, why do they pretend?

00:09:37.360 Why do they live in this delusion?

00:09:38.880 And I thought, maybe they just don't know.

00:09:42.200 They haven't seen their friends, their family get screwed.

00:09:45.420 Or maybe they did see it and they believed the woman.

00:09:47.860 Whatever sob story she told, that happens, right?

00:09:50.400 Women are very deceptive.

00:09:52.680 And so, she spurred doubt on me when I said that.

00:09:56.040 Now, I recently saw her Twitter.

00:09:59.600 Now, we can show the screen here.

00:10:01.800 And it says, Alyssa Walsh, wife of Matt Walsh, bubbly extrovert.

00:10:06.320 Sole purpose on Twitter is to troll Matt Walsh.

00:10:11.960 Now, I'm going to have a call-in show about this, because I want you guys to tell me maybe I'm wrong.

00:10:17.620 I just kind of had the question, the primary point of your Twitter is to troll your husband.

00:10:24.240 Now, I am a white woman.

00:10:28.020 I grew up around white women.

00:10:29.840 And I got to say, white people just put up with dis—not all, not all, not—I can't even talk like this, ain't right.

00:10:37.540 We have a tendency, I'll say, we have a tendency to put up with disrespect that I don't find that other races do the same.

00:10:47.700 And oftentimes, we put up with, like, subtle disrespect, let's say.

00:10:51.820 And I just kind of had to ask the question, your primary purpose of your Twitter is not to support your husband, but to troll your husband.

00:11:05.040 Now, people kind of were mad at me.

00:11:08.240 Like, obviously, I'm getting ratioed on this stuff, but I don't care about the ratio.

00:11:12.860 There's too many simps for me to take that seriously.

00:11:16.260 Like, you guys believe women at all costs.

00:11:18.800 So, okay, they said, here we got—okay, Pearl, we're going to have to have the birds and the bees talk.

00:11:27.340 When a man and a woman love each other very, very much, have been married forever, have a billion kids, trolling each other is a form of foreplay.

00:11:34.080 One day, one day, I may—oh, thank God, I might get to experience the tiniest amount of that.

00:11:42.360 And I keep asking the question, is your job to be a support system or an adversary?

00:11:48.580 And the other question I have is, if women wouldn't do this to a boss, right?

00:11:58.060 So, imagine you have a boss, okay?

00:12:03.220 Would you be able to make a LinkedIn profile that said, my primary purpose of this is to troll my boss?

00:12:10.460 No, because the other employees, he would lose respect, right?

00:12:17.160 The other employees would think it's also okay to do that.

00:12:20.480 So, how is this not applicable with children?

00:12:24.500 Now, this sparked Matt Walsh getting very mad at me.

00:12:30.620 This did spark this, okay?

00:12:36.540 He said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely.

00:12:43.900 Where is this?

00:12:45.440 I am a happy person.

00:12:47.340 Can I—well, all right.

00:12:49.400 I guess I'm miserable and lonely.

00:12:51.380 And I have never been in anything approaching a functional or healthy relationship in your life.

00:12:57.860 So, because I don't think it's normal to publicly troll your husband.

00:13:04.560 Now, I know, I know.

00:13:06.180 Yeah, you guys can, like, joke around in private.

00:13:09.000 But you guys tell me in the chat, do you want your wife publicly trolling you?

00:13:13.800 Is that—I mean, I don't know.

00:13:16.920 Maybe I could be completely wrong on this.

00:13:20.040 I could be completely wrong.

00:13:21.920 Um, he said, so he'll try to be patient with me.

00:13:28.720 So, now we have the typical, I know—first of all, first of all, first of all, that's not even true, okay?

00:13:41.040 But it's all right.

00:13:41.960 You see, husbands and wives who love each other will often do this thing called joke around.

00:13:47.160 They may even have this other thing that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.

00:13:51.480 I hope this clears that up.

00:13:53.260 Now, go spew your BS everywhere and leave my wife out of it.

00:13:58.480 Okay, you brought your wife into this.

00:14:01.560 Your wife is public-facing, and you guys parade your relationship around like it's something to aspire to.

00:14:09.600 Your wife is giving commentary.

00:14:14.700 Do you know what I mean?

00:14:15.820 Like, okay, all right.

00:14:19.120 So, I mean, you kind of brought your wife into it when you put her public-facing.

00:14:25.860 So, I asked the question, and they don't have an answer for me for this.

00:14:29.440 Isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary?

00:14:34.180 Now, I want you guys to answer this question tomorrow.

00:14:37.180 Doug MPA, this is what we're going to do.

00:14:39.400 I could be wrong.

00:14:41.100 I'd like to say I could be wrong.

00:14:42.640 So, we're going to read the chat on the website, and then I'll check to see if we have super chats.

00:14:54.860 Okay, American women will be married to a high-value man, but will still have to be seen and heard to maintain this illusion like she's stood beside him or contributing somehow.

00:15:07.080 Wow.

00:15:07.740 What a joke.

00:15:14.040 Let me look on the other chat real quick.

00:15:18.460 I could be wrong.

00:15:19.660 I reserve the right to say, you know, maybe I just got that wrong, but I think she's just going to keep going until she really embarrasses him bad.

00:15:33.160 I don't see this stopping.

00:15:35.040 I'm going to be honest.

00:15:35.920 Okay, let's see what we got over here.

00:15:41.800 Okay.

00:15:42.820 So, we'll get into the topic today, but I wanted to let you guys know what we're talking about tomorrow, and you are totally welcome to call in.

00:15:51.240 So, today we're going to talk about high-earning women and wage gap relationships.

00:15:57.860 So, throughout most of history, it was accepted that a man would pay all of the bills if he was in a serious relationship or married.

00:16:08.060 Men went out and they brought home that bacon.

00:16:10.460 They earned the money, the resources, and women kept the home.

00:16:13.620 It was nice and simple.

00:16:15.240 In the last 50 years, women have decided that the patriarchy was oppressive and decided to change the social contract.

00:16:24.060 Now, there is talk of going 50-50 and the dangers of wage gap relationships.

00:16:30.620 Modern leftist feminists are trying to brainwash women into thinking that a man can become abusive if he makes more money than the woman.

00:16:39.860 Men out-earn women and always will in our lifetime.

00:16:43.200 While women may be getting more and more education, they are also getting more debt and still go into industries that don't make a lot of money.

00:16:50.060 As men continue to do the dirty and dangerous jobs that women won't, men will make more money.

00:16:58.520 So, to demonize a man because he makes more money is another exercise in how feminism will keep women single.

00:17:07.360 Wage gap relationships is just another word that these women came up with, and that's what we're going to talk about on today's show.

00:17:16.080 So, okay, so I'm going to play, or no, first I'm going to read this article.

00:17:22.780 So, this is an article by Charlie Ross.

00:17:27.040 Are you in an age, not an age gap, a wage gap relationship?

00:17:31.840 Here's how to navigate it.

00:17:33.500 Pop culture tells us all kinds of things about money and relationships with it.

00:17:37.640 That it makes the world go round, that it's a rich man's world.

00:17:42.200 But how does it impact the dynamic of our dating life, especially if our partner or love interest earns significantly more than we do?

00:17:50.640 Welcome to the world of a wage gap relationship.

00:17:53.880 The podcast called The Cost of Loving revealed in a recent survey, 48% of women said they wouldn't be comfortable entering into a relationship with someone who earns less than them.

00:18:06.360 Whereas, two-thirds of men reported feeling fine about dating someone with a lower salary.

00:18:12.440 Is this wage gap dynamic a hangover from traditional gender roles?

00:18:18.460 What about the progress that's been made towards equality in recent decades?

00:18:24.020 The overall UK gender pay gap continues to fall, down by 0.4% to 11% in the past year.

00:18:31.580 While the last year, in the U.S., the gap hit an all-time low of 15%, women hold almost 30% of C-suite positions in the U.S., up from 17% in 2015.

00:18:45.400 Yet, while the wage gap is slowly closing, it still very much exists.

00:18:49.340 Proving the historical foundations of inequality will take a lot longer to escape.

00:18:54.460 Given how recent the advancements are in women's access to money, women couldn't even open a bank account in their own name until 1975.

00:19:05.060 The expectations of traditional gender roles can still be present in heterosexual relationships, explains UK-based sex and relationship therapist Madeline Munro.

00:19:18.680 So, and regardless of gender, earnings can be closely linked to a person's self-worth.

00:19:24.920 And a gap between partners can therefore exacerbate feelings of inadequacy, making individuals feel they are not enough for a partner, according to Munro.

00:19:34.840 Beyond traditional roles, it's a deeply personal and vulnerable tool that can evoke shame and fear of judgment.

00:19:43.000 It is linked to security and safety, and our relationship with money is shaped by our attachment strategies, with subconscious beliefs formed before the age of seven.

00:19:54.100 As a result, discussions about finances can be inherently triggering and activate nervous systems response that we may not even be aware of.

00:20:03.200 These responses might include avoiding conversations about money, overspending when feeling anxious about finances, or struggling to adhere to a budget.

00:20:12.480 Since money is rarely discussed openly, we may remain unaware of these patterns until we enter a relationship, or encounter specific financial hardships.

00:20:23.780 So it's not surprising that the wage gap might trigger certain insecurities in a relationship.

00:20:29.980 For Londoner Scarlett 31, her reluctance to date someone who earns significantly less from her doesn't come from a commitment to traditional gender roles,

00:20:38.860 but the expectation to live and share a certain lifestyle.

00:20:43.340 I wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't earn very much, she said.

00:20:46.420 Just because I have a certain standard of living I want to maintain, I grew up with no money and wouldn't want that for my future.

00:20:54.680 Whatever side of a wage gap relationship you might be on, and whether or not it bothers you,

00:20:59.800 it's important to acknowledge the power dynamics at play, and how it could potentially impact your relationship.

00:21:06.060 For instance, Paula, 32, in Vancouver, earns double the salary of her partner, Jack.

00:21:13.080 She works in sales, and he is a business analyst.

00:21:15.940 He said it doesn't bother him, but I think it does a little, she said.

00:21:19.920 Sometimes he feels under pressure to keep up with the things I want to do.

00:21:23.720 I've had to adjust my expectations, Paula said.

00:21:26.760 That their policy is that bills are split 50-50.

00:21:29.740 She admits to paying more, including for some expenses that her partner doesn't know about.

00:21:35.320 This leads to feelings of tension, particularly when it comes to savings.

00:21:39.600 I sometimes resent him when he spends all of his money without saving any, she says.

00:21:44.560 The ingrained societal norm that a male heterosexual partner should be the breadwinner weighs heavily on Paula at times.

00:21:51.820 I sometimes stress about having a family, she says, admitting that if they do have children,

00:21:57.920 she wouldn't necessarily want him to stay home with them, even though it might make financial sense for him to do so.

00:22:04.720 While wage gap politics can cause issues in heterosexual relationships,

00:22:13.060 Eliza, 33, says she and her wife of 12 years, who have out-earned each other at different stages of their careers,

00:22:21.400 have always enjoyed the financial equilibrium.

00:22:24.940 I don't think people in the same-sex female couples see money as a sticking point, she says.

00:22:30.800 They contribute varying amounts to a joint bank account based on how much they're earning at the time.

00:22:36.600 I do feel freed of those gendered expectations and feel the opportunity for a lot more equality in same-sex relationships, she adds.

00:22:44.680 Regardless of sexuality or our perception of gender roles, a wage gap can impact any real expert.

00:22:51.400 One, share how the wage gap feels.

00:22:55.820 Talk about the wage gap head-on because we avoid it.

00:22:58.960 It leaks out into unconscious behavior or your partner and the relationship.

00:23:03.740 Is there insecurity, guilt, or frustration?

00:23:06.380 Being open and honest can help alleviate what you may be holding or feeling.

00:23:11.680 Discuss your financial values.

00:23:13.540 Take the time to understand each other's financial backgrounds.

00:23:16.720 How did each of you grow up thinking about money?

00:23:18.940 Set expectations.

00:23:21.340 If the higher earner wants to spend more on dining out, travel, or entertainment while the lower earner feels strained to keep up,

00:23:27.540 it's essential to have an honest and open conversation about expectations.

00:23:32.480 Schedule regular check-ins.

00:23:34.280 I'm sure that's exactly what men want.

00:23:36.280 Regular check-ins.

00:23:37.940 They said, do you know what?

00:23:39.240 I knew a woman wrote this.

00:23:43.520 Regularly discuss your contributions to the relationship, both financial and non-financial, to ensure you feel seen.

00:23:51.580 Yeah, exactly.

00:23:52.200 Men are just dying to feel seen.

00:23:53.920 That's what they want.

00:23:55.300 Okay, next we're going to go through some videos from wage gap couples.

00:24:07.880 And then we're going to do a call-in, and you guys can give your thoughts.

00:24:11.640 And there is quite a significant difference between what we earn.

00:24:28.340 Hi, I'm Ayla.

00:24:29.700 Hi, I'm Cameron.

00:24:30.540 Hi, I'm Cameron.

00:25:00.840 Split it together.

00:25:01.420 Yeah, we have to be responsible and split money together.

00:25:04.320 We do everything 50-50.

00:25:05.620 We clean the house 50-50.

00:25:07.280 No one really takes the lead, I think.

00:25:09.720 My parents' household, my dad's like the guy.

00:25:13.600 My mom cooks, she cleans, she sorts out the house.

00:25:17.280 My dad works, comes home, dinner's there.

00:25:20.660 I think the approach that we have is very different to that.

00:25:23.980 My mom works, my dad works, his mom and dad work too.

00:25:26.920 It's just that they have more traditional mindsets of how they do things.

00:25:29.940 But, like, specifically me, I couldn't do that.

00:25:32.880 Like, I need it to be 50-50.

00:25:34.560 Because if it isn't, I'll resent him.

00:25:36.780 I'll be like, well, I cleaned the house.

00:25:38.340 What have you been doing?

00:25:39.140 You know?

00:25:39.460 And I don't want that feeling.

00:25:40.700 It's like, wow.

00:25:46.840 You don't think 50% rent?

00:25:50.100 He's good with it.

00:25:51.080 He's like, all right, you want it to be 50-50.

00:25:53.580 I'll take the extra grand a month.

00:25:56.320 But he's probably sitting on the date with her.

00:25:58.320 Imagine.

00:25:58.600 They're, like, on the date.

00:25:59.400 And she's like, yeah, it's really important that we go 50-50.

00:26:02.220 And he's like, hmm, is this a trap?

00:26:05.840 Is this a trap?

00:26:07.740 And then she says, no, no, I really want to go 50-50.

00:26:10.240 He's like, I'm going to let her pay.

00:26:11.500 I'll let her pay half the date.

00:26:14.480 And he's like, is this a trap?

00:26:17.320 Is she trapping me?

00:26:18.480 And now he's gotten half the rent.

00:26:26.180 I don't think this is a bad thing.

00:26:27.800 I dug MPA.

00:26:28.600 He's going to call in later and give his take.

00:26:30.860 And then we're going to accept callers.

00:26:32.680 But here's my thought.

00:26:33.600 If women leave anyway, all right, hear me out.

00:26:36.400 Women, like, from a man's point of view, it's not like the women stick around.

00:26:41.340 You might as well get your bag up, kings.

00:26:44.700 And then they'll be like, well, but she'll cheat with her boss.

00:26:47.200 She was going to cheat anyway.

00:26:49.460 It's 2025.

00:26:52.280 I mean, I've had PIs tell me to just assume women baseline are sleeping with two men at a time.

00:26:58.500 It's 2025.

00:26:59.460 What do you think she's doing while you work?

00:27:02.360 You don't, why do we have the rich housewife cheating with a pool boy?

00:27:06.920 That's a, that's a phrase for a reason.

00:27:09.360 You might as well keep your money.

00:27:11.980 Okay.

00:27:13.620 Women fake it like she's going to pay.

00:27:16.620 Okay.

00:27:17.060 This is a bad thing.

00:27:18.480 Oh, like I can control society.

00:27:22.120 I'm trying to be realistic here.

00:27:27.100 If the average marriage is eight years and overall your marriage is most likely going

00:27:31.520 to be miserable, it's not going to be good.

00:27:33.120 Um, I'm just thinking you might as well keep your money, right?

00:27:38.640 At least then you can like go fishing or whatever you like to do.

00:27:43.580 Okay.

00:27:43.820 So my boyfriend makes more money than me.

00:27:45.880 Susan B. Anthony, suck my bit.

00:27:47.220 One thing I've learned from dating someone who makes more money than me is you as the receiver

00:27:52.260 of the money have to pretend like you want to help pay for things, right?

00:27:57.080 Just to like keep up morale in the relationship.

00:27:59.680 So this is my number one strategy for making my boyfriend think that I want to help pay for

00:28:03.420 things.

00:28:03.900 Whenever we go to a restaurant and the bill comes, I do a very fake and dramatic reach

00:28:08.200 for my purse.

00:28:08.900 I'll say something like, let me get it this time.

00:28:11.480 I bend at the hip, reach down.

00:28:13.680 If he doesn't see me, I go back down more dramatically.

00:28:15.820 Let me get it this time.

00:28:18.240 It's very performative.

00:28:19.320 I have no intention of paying, but when he sees me, he says, oh my God, don't worry about

00:28:22.560 it.

00:28:22.820 I got it.

00:28:23.300 You'll get me next time.

00:28:24.180 Boom.

00:28:24.760 I just saved $43 and he feels good about the relationship.

00:28:28.200 I don't feel bad doing this because guys do the same thing during sex, right?

00:28:32.760 After they finish, they're like, let me, uh, uh, and you're just like, oh my God, don't

00:28:37.800 worry about it.

00:28:38.220 I got it.

00:28:38.580 You'll get me next time.

00:28:41.120 Dang.

00:28:41.920 Can't we go to the next one?

00:28:47.060 Women says that paying the part, that the person makes less is paying more in 50, 50.

00:28:52.480 Amy, appreciate white people.

00:28:55.180 I love this because technically if you're going to be splitting something 50, 50, then it is

00:29:02.380 a direct correlation between your ratio of income.

00:29:06.380 I just think women fought to be equal.

00:29:09.140 Here you go.

00:29:09.820 Women.

00:29:10.940 Now we're equal.

00:29:12.940 Now you get to pay your way.

00:29:14.940 Congratulations.

00:29:17.240 You're like, I wanted to work.

00:29:19.040 Well, you got to work.

00:29:20.040 Now, if you picked up some 18 year old woman off the boat, right?

00:29:25.540 Okay.

00:29:25.980 She just got off the boat from Taiwan or like, I don't know.

00:29:29.600 Maybe she's did a year of college and then dropped out to be your wife and said, and also women

00:29:35.160 aren't having kids like that.

00:29:37.540 Now, my mom had six kids, right?

00:29:42.640 Then they adopted son.

00:29:44.140 It's a long story.

00:29:44.820 But I mean, that's a lot of kids.

00:29:48.260 But like the women are having one, two kids.

00:29:51.320 You're telling me you can't do like a remote sales job.

00:29:55.560 You can do that from the house.

00:29:57.300 And now you got to cook for three people.

00:29:59.520 You can't put it in the air fryer.

00:30:01.520 And then.

00:30:03.480 I mean, most packs come in like you have to feed yourself anyway.

00:30:08.020 You can't just.

00:30:09.860 Yeah.

00:30:10.260 I mean, it's 2025.

00:30:11.960 Why would why the fuck would it not be?

00:30:13.420 That's actually 50-50.

00:30:15.380 So yeah, if one partner is making more money than the other, they are going to be pitching

00:30:19.880 in a little bit more money because if you split it down the line, you're paying for less.

00:30:26.500 And the person who is making less is actually paying more because that's a bigger chunk of

00:30:31.460 what they make.

00:30:32.480 Not to mention stuff outside of the 50-50 rule, like emotional labor.

00:30:38.640 I would never go 50-50 in a relationship.

00:30:41.420 There's a certain level of respect I command in a relationship, and you can't get that

00:30:45.640 at 50-50.

00:30:47.040 Doug MPA, are men getting respect in relationships?

00:30:50.720 Why does the red pill exist?

00:30:54.080 You guys are acting like you get if you pay for the traditional wife that she's going to

00:31:00.780 respect you.

00:31:02.740 Didn't I just show you Alyssa Walsh stays home?

00:31:06.220 And do you know what she did with her free time?

00:31:07.920 She made a Twitter account to troll her husband who's working.

00:31:13.580 Here, like, okay, if I was a guy, and I'm not a guy, so you guys can tell me, this is

00:31:18.160 how my problem-solving ability would be.

00:31:20.620 I would assume that my woman will leave me.

00:31:23.320 I would just, I would go in and say, okay, I expect to get left, and I expect to get cheated

00:31:30.060 on when she gets bored.

00:31:31.200 And I would say, hopefully, that'll be it when the kid gets to pre-K, and then I could

00:31:35.340 start, then you could start searching for model number two, right?

00:31:40.200 Then you could start, you realize, and then I would just, I would just observe when she

00:31:44.080 starts, like, working out.

00:31:45.240 I'll be like, okay, it's time for me to eat less and hit the gym, because I got to go find

00:31:48.380 the next, the next chica.

00:31:50.600 And I would go in, so if we know, like, why would you not go in, okay, so if we assumed

00:31:58.680 that she's going to leave, which is a fair assumption, right?

00:32:02.400 And I know you guys are so nice, you guys are nice people, you'll like, you'll be like,

00:32:07.120 oh, but she's different.

00:32:10.080 Yeah.

00:32:10.940 Was your ex different?

00:32:13.260 Was your other ex different?

00:32:14.720 Was the ex before that?

00:32:16.520 Was your, did your high school girlfriends stay?

00:32:18.500 Okay, so now imagine this, so what I would do is I would make the chick work, and if

00:32:24.100 anything, I would want a woman that made more than me.

00:32:27.680 Now, I would assume she's going to cheat with the boss, right?

00:32:30.400 I mean, assume, wrap it up, fellas, but that way, at least she can't, you could maybe put

00:32:38.640 her on alimony, okay?

00:32:41.000 Then the other thing I would assume is that she's going to leave, and I would just keep

00:32:47.060 the money.

00:32:47.540 I would go 50-50, save half the money, maybe put it into some Bitcoin she can't take unless

00:32:54.680 it goes sell.

00:32:56.900 I think that's what I would do.

00:32:58.380 I would take the money saved on rent, and I'd put it into Bitcoin, and when she cheats,

00:33:02.860 I would just say, sayonara, chica, and then I would go take a class at a community college

00:33:08.140 and find my next wife.

00:33:10.880 That is what I would do.

00:33:12.320 Keep holding these 304s accountable, Pearl.

00:33:16.580 Good luck.

00:33:17.960 All right, I got a super chat.

00:33:19.580 So glad you stuck it out.

00:33:21.220 Thank you, Samson.

00:33:22.780 I love that you guys can super chat.

00:33:25.000 I'm a broke 20-year-old man.

00:33:26.940 Is it over, Pearl?

00:33:28.760 No, it's not over.

00:33:30.180 Your life is going to be so much better when you're 30.

00:33:32.960 Fellas in the chat, didn't your life get better after 30?

00:33:35.860 Didn't it?

00:33:38.020 Look, your life is going to be great.

00:33:39.720 It just sucks when you're young.

00:33:41.820 When you're 30, you can bang all the 20-year-old broads and the 30-year-old broads and the 40-year-old

00:33:48.700 broads.

00:33:49.040 That's a huge dating pool.

00:33:51.400 Like at 30, as a man, you can go get the cougars post-divorce.

00:33:54.780 They won't even ask you for commitment.

00:33:56.520 You'll just be the fun guy.

00:33:57.980 Then you can go sell a dream to the 30-year-olds ready to settle down and be like, yeah, I'm totally.

00:34:03.720 All I want is a family and something long-term.

00:34:07.620 Then bang them, never talk to them again.

00:34:09.860 Then you can go to the 20-year-old.

00:34:11.860 And the 20-year-old women, they have so much power, right?

00:34:14.460 So they're probably just going to have sex with you and then leave, which is great for

00:34:18.200 you.

00:34:18.720 Or they might stick around, right?

00:34:21.560 But probably not.

00:34:23.240 I mean, it's kind of like when you get a girl.

00:34:25.140 I have a friend.

00:34:26.520 He dates in a big city.

00:34:27.680 And he says, I love the women that get there.

00:34:29.920 They just got to the city.

00:34:31.420 But I know I have six months till they leave me for the next guy.

00:34:35.700 So you could be strategic here, right?

00:34:39.100 And then maybe if you're lucky, one will stick around.

00:34:43.080 A miracle will happen.

00:34:47.020 Said Pearl is projecting here.

00:34:49.440 I'm not projecting.

00:34:52.000 Which part am I projecting about?

00:34:54.060 I mean, this is the, this is what I hear from the fellas, okay?

00:35:01.200 This is woman's logic.

00:35:03.060 I'm just saying, that's what I would do.

00:35:05.360 That's what, if I was a guy, I would just, I would go in with the assumption that she's

00:35:10.080 going to leave.

00:35:10.980 And I would, I would position my life accordingly.

00:35:14.020 And I would completely protect myself.

00:35:16.980 I would not want to be in the position that a lot of you guys are in.

00:35:21.100 So sorry, fellas.

00:35:22.580 A lot of you guys got yourself.

00:35:24.420 I would have looked at the, at the market and I would have said, yep, she's going.

00:35:28.960 You are correct.

00:35:29.800 Walsh is a simp.

00:35:30.860 She is disrespectful.

00:35:32.760 Thank you, Olive.

00:35:33.680 Are you a real woman?

00:35:35.060 Or are you a woman pretending to be?

00:35:36.980 I don't really believe women that are watching my channel.

00:35:40.020 Yeah, your, your profile picture is too hot.

00:35:43.860 You're hot.

00:35:44.580 You're a guy.

00:35:45.320 All right, we're going to finish this TikTok.

00:35:48.600 Household chores, extracurriculars, all of the stuff that could actually have a monetary

00:35:54.680 value, but typically men do not see it as such.

00:35:58.500 It is a woman's job and they don't feel like they also need to chip in.

00:36:02.620 So yeah, when, when you hear this run.

00:36:06.280 Okay.

00:36:06.880 I think that's all of them.

00:36:08.860 I'm gonna, all right.

00:36:10.020 Doug MPA.

00:36:11.060 I'm going to put this in the chat.

00:36:13.100 And so first we're going to let Doug in, Doug MPA in.

00:36:16.720 And then, um, and then, oh, we got some subscribers on the website.

00:36:25.220 Uh, we got clue.

00:36:27.760 Thank you for signing up.

00:36:30.340 Michael also.

00:36:31.520 Thank you for signing up.

00:36:34.800 And Jones.

00:36:36.540 Thank you.

00:36:37.480 Uh, Peter.

00:36:38.260 Thank you.

00:36:39.460 Edward.

00:36:39.900 Thank you.

00:36:40.520 Thank you guys very much.

00:36:42.640 Okay.

00:36:42.860 Now I'm going to put in the zoom link in the chat.

00:36:45.560 Oh, it's already there.

00:36:57.780 Thank you.

00:36:58.320 Thank you.

00:36:59.640 Okay.

00:37:00.600 Doug MPA.

00:37:01.460 I want to say, I want to hear from you.

00:37:03.720 I personally, and then I want to ask the question from you guys.

00:37:08.500 Could you date or marry a woman making more money than you or have you?

00:37:12.420 And how did that go for you?

00:37:13.620 So, so that's what I want to hear from you guys.

00:37:18.440 But I want to hear from Doug MPA first.

00:37:23.180 Is he on or no?

00:37:24.680 Not yet.

00:37:25.320 All right.

00:37:25.560 He's coming.

00:37:26.020 It's just, you know, I don't understand.

00:37:31.700 Cause you guys, you'll complain and say the women are whores.

00:37:34.720 The women are whores.

00:37:36.380 Why would you, why wouldn't you just assume that?

00:37:40.540 Do you know what I mean?

00:37:41.440 Like, why would you assume that your girlfriend or wife doesn't have anything in her past?

00:37:48.300 Like, wouldn't you just, wouldn't you just wear a condom?

00:37:53.200 Do you know what I mean?

00:37:55.300 And then it's like, oh, the women are divorcing a, okay.

00:37:58.360 So wouldn't that make sense to assume that she's going to leave you?

00:38:02.060 Wouldn't that be like, like, isn't that kind of pragmatic here?

00:38:08.060 I don't really think the guys are simpy if they go 50, 50.

00:38:11.620 I think they're kind of smart.

00:38:13.300 I mean, now they're saving on rent.

00:38:16.580 They can get a little nest saved until the woman decides she's bored and wants to go have

00:38:22.220 sex with his best friend or her personal trainer or her boss.

00:38:28.860 One of the three, right?

00:38:31.220 It's either curve balls, says condom sex sucks.

00:38:36.200 Well, enjoy chlamydia.

00:38:39.260 Enjoy it.

00:38:40.100 Have fun.

00:38:41.360 Enjoy.

00:38:42.200 They said facts.

00:38:43.440 Okay.

00:38:43.800 Enjoy herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea.

00:38:47.600 Enjoy it.

00:38:48.260 No, no, no, no.

00:38:49.760 And maybe, um, maybe a child.

00:38:55.280 You know?

00:39:01.240 Doug MPA.

00:39:03.860 Until the woman decides.

00:39:05.120 Oh, you got to turn off.

00:39:06.940 Yeah.

00:39:07.380 Okay.

00:39:07.580 There you go.

00:39:08.940 How are you, Doug MPA?

00:39:11.240 Or her personal trainer.

00:39:12.680 Or her boss.

00:39:13.360 Back in business.

00:39:15.000 Can you hear me okay?

00:39:16.000 Yeah, you got to turn off the, my show in the background.

00:39:19.980 Oh, yeah.

00:39:20.440 Sorry about that.

00:39:21.000 I made that mistake.

00:39:22.600 Hold on.

00:39:24.100 Enjoy it.

00:39:24.800 How long?

00:39:25.940 Enjoy.

00:39:26.780 They said facts.

00:39:28.140 Okay.

00:39:29.120 Enjoy herpes.

00:39:30.420 I can still hear it.

00:39:31.580 I don't.

00:39:32.420 Enjoy it.

00:39:32.960 No, no, no, no.

00:39:33.960 I have nothing open.

00:39:35.920 Um, okay.

00:39:37.600 I think it might be on our end.

00:39:38.880 Hold on.

00:39:44.000 Oh, is that?

00:39:45.700 Can you hear me okay?

00:39:46.380 I can hear you okay.

00:39:48.700 Okay.

00:39:49.000 Now we're good.

00:39:49.920 Now we're good.

00:39:50.380 Now we're good.

00:39:51.400 Um, sorry.

00:39:52.580 I think it was on our end.

00:39:53.800 Um, so what are your thoughts, Doug MPA?

00:39:57.860 Guys, someone in the chat, I think it was a special tiger.

00:40:03.520 He said, uh, it's about leverage, Pearl.

00:40:06.100 You don't want a woman to have any kind of leverage over you.

00:40:09.280 And here's the thing.

00:40:10.520 When men get divorced, most of the time, the man's net worth rises and the woman's net worth goes down.

00:40:18.220 Men have to accept early on that dealing with women is going to cost.

00:40:24.440 Okay.

00:40:24.880 So like losing money.

00:40:26.460 Okay.

00:40:28.300 I'm not talking about the average guy.

00:40:29.840 The average guy has more to lose, but a guy who's successful, has a highly valued trade, highly valued skill, highly valued education.

00:40:39.340 You may need to be leaders and set the tone.

00:40:42.860 Right.

00:40:43.380 And that usually involves money and resources.

00:40:48.280 Okay.

00:40:50.140 So you, and that should go through dating and relationships and marriage.

00:40:56.320 And if you have a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, all that, you can walk away and you're just going to make more money.

00:41:05.200 But the type of respect that a man that's worth something commands, you can't get that 50, 50.

00:41:11.860 He just can't do it.

00:41:13.260 Now, now I'm talking about a certain kind of guy who's put in the work.

00:41:16.740 Highly valued skill, highly valued trade, all that stuff.

00:41:24.400 But the average guy, maybe not.

00:41:26.460 But, you know, I'm about.

00:41:28.280 But I don't see the high earning men getting respect either.

00:41:31.420 Like, I don't see that.

00:41:32.560 Like, if anything, I swear, I see the low earning guys getting more respect half the time than the high earning ones.

00:41:38.680 Because the women's with the high earning guy more likely for resources and the low earning guy, it's for, like, alpha traits.

00:41:45.840 And it's like, if women know the men will walk away, then they respect them.

00:41:50.000 Like, haven't you ever seen those, those guys that get women to pay for them?

00:41:53.860 And somehow, like, these women are afraid of these guys.

00:41:57.080 Like, they don't want him to leave.

00:41:58.900 You know what I mean?

00:41:59.840 Yeah.

00:42:00.220 But that's the thing.

00:42:01.520 You can put forth the resources and the money.

00:42:06.140 Be sensible about it because, remember, men are better with money and spending than women, right?

00:42:12.320 And so you set the tone with your resources and your masculine frame.

00:42:20.300 And then if she's not giving you the respect that you command, you just leave.

00:42:25.960 Remember, the biggest, the two biggest superpowers a man has is to be able to determine who his girlfriend, fiance, and wife is if he chooses to be married.

00:42:35.940 Guys, don't get married.

00:42:37.620 And walking away.

00:42:39.780 All throughout this process, whether you're 50-50 or not, guys, walk away.

00:42:45.620 What is the average mortgage cost?

00:42:48.380 Remember, I always say, set a comfort and convenience level, guys, and don't go beyond it.

00:42:54.120 Most of the time, if you're getting frustrated with a person or a situation, you've gone above and beyond your comfort and convenience level.

00:43:02.480 Do that with women, too.

00:43:04.160 If a woman gets too annoying or you're spending too much on her or she's not putting out, you leave.

00:43:08.920 So that goes along with, guys, you, I, I've never done 50-50, and I wouldn't because it gives a woman leverage and she's going to try to use that.

00:43:20.600 Well, it's not using terms like we're going to the 50-50, but I'm doing all this emotional labor, all this garbage.

00:43:27.920 Set the tone early.

00:43:29.380 Okay, wait, I want to do that.

00:43:30.460 And don't part with anything to get a part with.

00:43:32.700 A man shouldn't be dating or in a relationship if he doesn't have time and resources set aside anyway.

00:43:40.740 I don't know.

00:43:41.460 So I'm looking at these numbers, right?

00:43:43.280 So it says the average mortgage cost is $2,300 a month.

00:43:48.200 Now, I divide that in two.

00:43:49.340 That's $1,158 a month.

00:43:52.760 So then I times that times 12.

00:43:58.080 That's going to be, oh, wait, hold on.

00:44:04.400 I got rid of the one.

00:44:06.840 That's going to be $13,000 a year.

00:44:11.220 $13,902 times the average length of a marriage, which is eight years.

00:44:18.640 Wait, hold on.

00:44:20.480 13, wait, I got to do this.

00:44:22.540 Okay, 13 grand times eight years.

00:44:29.540 That's 100.

00:44:30.680 Wait, no, no.

00:44:32.520 Sorry, times eight.

00:44:33.920 I'm doing this wrong.

00:44:38.980 It's 111.

00:44:40.760 See, I'm like, do they really, do the men really, knowing that the women are going to leave,

00:44:46.380 is it really, the women are disrespectful anyway.

00:44:50.040 Like, if anything, I should expect that to be the baseline.

00:44:54.840 It's hockey.

00:44:55.720 She might as well pay.

00:44:57.300 Like, if I was looking at rich men, right, or well-off men and seeing that this money helped them,

00:45:04.620 I don't see that helping them, though.

00:45:06.980 If anything, I think that rich guys or, like, wealthy guys are known for being bigger simps

00:45:11.960 because that's what they, like, lead with in order to get leverage,

00:45:15.220 where the low-earning, like, the low-earning men tend to use, like, frame or game.

00:45:20.460 Here's the thing, Pearl, you're talking like, you've never had to date women.

00:45:25.660 You've never had to be in a relationship with a woman.

00:45:28.480 When you're a man, you know from young that dealing with women who are worth anything is going to cost you money.

00:45:37.120 You get, once you've achieved a certain amount, parting with money as a concept isn't really like an L.

00:45:46.600 It's how much you're losing and what's the circumstance.

00:45:53.160 If you're going to find a woman worth it, she's going to cost you money.

00:45:56.800 It's just set expectations, and if she isn't doing what you want or showing you what you want, you leave behind.

00:46:06.080 One of the worst things – so I used to mentor young African-American and young African-immigrant men, right?

00:46:11.920 And I would have to teach them how to take L's.

00:46:16.820 If you take a woman out on a date, pay, and then if it doesn't work out, keep it moving, but don't part with anything that you can't part with.

00:46:29.300 I hate when a guy takes a woman out on a date, pays too much for a dinner, doesn't get laid, and complains about it.

00:46:39.480 That's what dating is, unfortunately.

00:46:42.060 Now, once again, guys, set a limit.

00:46:44.580 Don't go beyond –

00:46:45.820 I don't –

00:46:47.200 What are you going to afford?

00:46:47.960 I don't know, Doug.

00:46:48.780 I think that women fought to be equal.

00:46:51.160 We're equal now.

00:46:53.040 I don't see – I think your sentiment is from an older generation.

00:46:57.300 I don't see the men in my generation signing up for this.

00:47:00.960 I think they're going to look at that, like the younger guys, and see it as a bad deal,

00:47:07.360 and that it's just not worth paying for.

00:47:09.880 Well, you know –

00:47:10.960 I'd say most of the girls I knew in college that ended up getting married,

00:47:14.640 like they went 50-50.

00:47:17.300 Like it was – that was like the norm.

00:47:19.120 Go ahead.

00:47:19.700 Yeah, but – but like you want to put yourself in a position where you can pay 100% of the bills, guys,

00:47:25.380 if you had to.

00:47:26.780 Because women reserve the right to change their mind at any given time.

00:47:30.800 And most of the time this whole 50-50 thing goes out the door when you get married or if the woman has a kid.

00:47:38.320 Because I've had friends my age who have a kid, and then all of a sudden the wife was this career-oriented boss babe.

00:47:46.400 Then a kid is born, and she wants to stay home or work part-time, and she'll resent the husband because he can't afford for her to not work.

00:47:55.700 Guys, put yourself in a position where if you had to, you could pay 100% of the bills.

00:48:00.480 If your wife or your girlfriend wants to stay 50-50, that's fine.

00:48:03.820 But odds are by the time she hits her 30s, she's not going to want to be 50-50 anymore.

00:48:09.040 And you're talking – Pearl, I'm going to have to concede to you.

00:48:11.300 They're throwing him in daycare now.

00:48:13.780 The moms aren't even watching them.

00:48:15.460 Like 65% are enrolled in full-time daycare.

00:48:19.160 I mean if this number is right, two-thirds of preschool-aged children attend early education programs, which I think is daycare.

00:48:28.360 I'm looking at this.

00:48:29.360 It's like if the moms aren't – okay, if the modern women are not watching the kids, right, if they're not having a bunch of kids, what are they doing all day?

00:48:39.500 Like they're having one child, Doug MPA.

00:48:42.560 It's like go get a part-time job or something.

00:48:46.640 Yeah, but we've deified having children.

00:48:51.740 Women think that having one child, oh my God.

00:48:54.540 It's like they – women of the past – my mom's mom had like 11 kids and outlived all of them or something like that.

00:49:02.520 It was crazy.

00:49:03.180 That is crazy.

00:49:03.700 Now they have one and they think that they're God's gift to the earth.

00:49:08.540 I know.

00:49:09.100 Pearl, I'm going to have to concede to you on the activities of young men because I'm not Gen Z like you.

00:49:14.280 But I'm telling you, once you hit your 30s and you have means, you can date a different way.

00:49:19.300 And you get to the point where if you know that you're going to make more money, you're going to be productive, and you want a certain quality of woman, it's going to cost you.

00:49:29.380 So just get ready for it.

00:49:31.020 And also look at it for it.

00:49:31.960 If you want the kind of respect that a man of value – I'm not going to say high value, but a man of value should get, it's not 50-50.

00:49:42.660 You should set the tone from the beginning and keep that tone because, once again, there's going to be a time where that woman will change her mind and not want to go 50-50 anymore.

00:49:54.440 So you should be ready for it because women reserve the right to change their minds about anything at any time, especially paying for the bills.

00:50:02.160 But then you could just say, too bad, get to work, lady, or leave, you know.

00:50:07.880 Well, I just –

00:50:10.040 It's too bad.

00:50:10.980 I tell the guys I would mentor 50-50 because women have this weird thing where I may be going 50-50, but I'm also doing all this emotional labor.

00:50:20.720 So, you know, I have to pay, and I have to – just don't – you don't have to pay everything, but pay the big bills at least.

00:50:27.080 I'm always going to advocate for that.

00:50:29.140 Put yourself in a position where you can pay 100% of the bills because one day you might have to, and if you can't, she's going to resent you and make your life hell.

00:50:37.160 I'd say save your money.

00:50:38.520 She's going to leave anyway.

00:50:41.240 I say save your money.

00:50:42.700 Put it into some Bitcoin for when she divorces you that she can't find.

00:50:47.760 But let's see what the people have to say.

00:50:51.120 Do you want to let in the first person?

00:50:59.200 Oh, and who –

00:51:01.760 All right, guys, and we want to use your personal experience.

00:51:05.760 So if you don't have experience with dating high-earning women or something that's relevant to the topic, please refrain from calling in.

00:51:16.080 This is to stay relevant to the topic.

00:51:20.420 So, Gabe, unmute.

00:51:29.820 Hello?

00:51:30.720 Yeah.

00:51:31.180 Yeah, go ahead.

00:51:31.620 Gabe, have you dated a high-earning woman before?

00:51:38.800 No, but I was watching the TikToks that you were watching, that one interracial couple where the girl was, you know, blabbering and blabbering, and it triggered PTSD symptoms that I say that I've heard growing up.

00:51:56.820 Okay, what did you hear growing up?

00:52:01.360 I'm really trying to stay on topic, so is this – this is relevant to the topic, though?

00:52:07.320 It is.

00:52:08.040 I think it is.

00:52:09.060 Okay, go ahead.

00:52:09.960 That's fine.

00:52:11.280 Just all the 50-50 garbage.

00:52:14.820 I expect, like, my man to do housework, too, and all that stuff, and, like, as a guy, I think if I was in that position, I would be, like – it would drive me crazy.

00:52:29.960 So, yeah.

00:52:32.260 Okay, thanks for calling in, Gabe.

00:52:37.780 Yeah.

00:52:38.240 Oh, you should look up the whatever podcast clips of Andrew Wilson and Rachel Wilson having to fight off some feminists that tried to attack him physically.

00:52:51.020 Yeah, I saw that clip.

00:52:52.880 Yeah, Rachel went in on that girl.

00:52:55.040 Yeah, I saw that.

00:52:56.280 Yeah.

00:52:56.660 Thanks for calling in, Gabe.

00:52:57.640 Thanks for calling in, Gabe.

00:52:59.160 Bye-bye.

00:52:59.940 Bye.

00:53:00.140 Bye.

00:53:00.200 Bye.

00:53:03.260 Let's see what we got next.

00:53:04.940 I want to read –

00:53:05.660 John, are you there?

00:53:07.480 Yeah, I'm here.

00:53:08.680 Can you hear me?

00:53:09.300 Go ahead, bro.

00:53:09.600 I'm going to read this super chat really quick, and then you can go, John.

00:53:13.180 I'm 42, single, and they want to date young women, but the dating app says suck not drinking either, so where can I find me a girl advice, please?

00:53:24.080 Do you know what I heard on Twitter?

00:53:25.680 I guess the dating apps, you shouldn't unmatch girls that stop talking to you because it ranks you higher if you keep them as your matches.

00:53:36.080 I mean, that's what's going viral on Twitter right now.

00:53:38.560 I don't know if that's true.

00:53:41.000 I think on every college campus, there are women that are looking for their MRS degrees.

00:53:46.120 I don't know.

00:53:46.960 I don't date women, but that's something I've heard from guys.

00:53:49.920 No, no, no, no, no, because women don't get – well, maybe some schools, but women used to go to college, want to get married in college.

00:54:01.900 But I think the majority of women get their degree to prove that they don't need a man and really want to go out into this – they get their social work degree or their lesbian dance theater degree and think that they're going to go save the world.

00:54:16.640 So, please, remember the modern woman life cycle, Pearl?

00:54:19.300 I know, but I just asked my Gen Z, like, brother and his friend this morning, and he told me there were girls on campus that, like, got married right now.

00:54:26.820 Yeah, but how many of them are actually going to get married, though, in college?

00:54:32.460 They showed me them.

00:54:33.640 They were showing me them this morning.

00:54:35.360 I don't know.

00:54:36.300 I'm just telling you what I've heard from guys.

00:54:38.900 Like, I'm just – this is something I've heard.

00:54:41.420 You can take it or leave it.

00:54:43.280 Okay.

00:54:43.520 I concede to you as the expert in – with the youngins.

00:54:49.700 I mean, this is just – they're saying, I don't know, but I don't think it's the – I would agree with you it's the exception, not the rule.

00:54:58.460 John, what do you have for me on the topic?

00:55:03.540 Yeah, can you hear me?

00:55:04.620 Yeah, go ahead.

00:55:06.780 Yeah, sorry.

00:55:07.940 Remind me, how am I responding to the topic exactly?

00:55:11.240 Yeah, so have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you?

00:55:15.520 Like, have you ever done 50-50?

00:55:17.380 How did it go?

00:55:19.680 Gotcha, yeah.

00:55:20.800 So I'm married to a woman who makes more money than me, and I almost exclusively attract those type of women.

00:55:27.580 Not sure why that is.

00:55:29.340 Really?

00:55:30.340 What's your job, if you don't mind me asking?

00:55:35.420 Yeah, no, I don't mind.

00:55:36.760 I'm a relationship counselor.

00:55:39.000 Okay.

00:55:39.320 And what industry is your significant other in?

00:55:46.820 My significant other is in the academic industry, but we met on Tinder, like, years, years ago.

00:55:52.940 Is she a PhD?

00:55:56.820 Yeah.

00:55:57.760 I'm a PhD.

00:55:59.000 I kind of think –

00:56:00.020 And so have you found it to be a problem in the relationship?

00:56:03.180 Do you guys split the bills 50-50, or how do you guys do it?

00:56:08.340 It usually starts out 50-50, and then over time, they start to see more of my value.

00:56:13.520 They start to wonder how they can contribute, or they come in that way immediately, recognize my value, and go, how can I contribute?

00:56:20.280 And then that's usually how these career women do it.

00:56:22.720 They try to pay for things, because they usually don't come, you know, like, mentally, emotionally, psychologically prepared.

00:56:30.540 So that's her compensation.

00:56:35.500 And it's a pretty balanced thing, if you ask me.

00:56:38.080 So she's made more money than you the entire time that you've known her?

00:56:43.600 Yeah, pretty much.

00:56:45.040 Well, no, that's not true, actually.

00:56:46.700 No, we were 50 – we were probably 50-50 when we met, and then I made some pretty risky business choices, and she started helping me out.

00:56:59.080 And then I've just been taking over her business since then, basically.

00:57:01.560 She doesn't want to deal with it anymore.

00:57:03.640 She'd rather not work, obviously.

00:57:07.140 Wait, so – wait.

00:57:09.060 You're taking – how do you take over her business?

00:57:11.640 Like, how does that work?

00:57:13.120 And how does she not work?

00:57:15.040 I take on her clients.

00:57:16.780 I take on all of the management, and I'm taking over all the logistics as well.

00:57:24.960 Has it ever been a problem where she holds it over your head?

00:57:29.320 No.

00:57:29.720 No, not even a little bit.

00:57:31.760 I wouldn't pick someone like that.

00:57:33.020 I wouldn't – I wouldn't – I can't imagine, like, dating someone like that and then making it past the vetting process.

00:57:41.420 It's, like, really easy to test for, actually.

00:57:44.880 Did you move into her house?

00:57:48.280 No, she bought one for me.

00:57:51.560 So I'm saying the ultimate elf is there guys that get women to pay for them.

00:57:56.500 I've said that.

00:57:57.120 Yeah, I was going to say – yeah, I call it dang.

00:57:58.880 You're like proving pro right.

00:58:00.240 Knock it off.

00:58:01.040 No, I know.

00:58:02.080 I've seen it, Doug.

00:58:03.420 I'm telling you, there's a guy that I worked with in London.

00:58:06.140 He would go after female lawyers.

00:58:08.160 That was his thing.

00:58:09.040 Like, he would go – or finance girls.

00:58:11.120 And he would just get them all to, like, pay for him.

00:58:13.600 He didn't even have to, like, work.

00:58:15.740 So, John –

00:58:16.760 Everything's competitive, so.

00:58:18.800 How old are you?

00:58:20.700 I'm 33.

00:58:21.500 And so, do you guys have children?

00:58:28.460 Yeah, we're working on it.

00:58:29.380 We're trying.

00:58:29.780 Right now.

00:58:31.500 So – okay.

00:58:34.440 I got nothing.

00:58:36.200 Okay.

00:58:36.600 Yeah, because that actually, like, counters the point you had made earlier about, like, a lot of these women struggle, like, letting go of that stuff.

00:58:44.260 And you had said something about, like, the transition of becoming a mom.

00:58:49.560 I guess I'm the exception to the rule.

00:58:51.620 I know that's probably what you mean about, like, proven pro, right?

00:58:54.320 I'm being the exception to the rule where she realized it before that and realized, oh, I want to be a mom.

00:59:00.600 Therefore, that's a full-time job.

00:59:02.860 Therefore, that's all the things that I've been looking for to fulfill me in life.

00:59:07.600 That's what I want to focus on, not providing for a bunch of strangers.

00:59:10.860 I'm just going to give you a warning.

00:59:14.460 So, I have a friend who's a woman who's very successful, and they live on a farm, and her husband's a graphic designer, but he takes care of the farm, and they're three kids, right?

00:59:23.900 And she's, like, way up in public service.

00:59:26.860 You know, she flies to Washington, D.C., and does all these different things or whatever.

00:59:30.520 But she had to start going to –

00:59:33.860 Well, there's this problem already.

00:59:37.360 She's way too valuable.

00:59:38.240 So, she had to start going to therapy because she missed all of their children's – all three other children's important moments when they were young.

00:59:51.100 So, she missed their first word when they took the first step.

00:59:53.720 So, he would call – her husband would call her and say, honey, you know, little Billy took his first step and said his first word.

00:59:59.920 And she's been going to therapy for a year or two because she feels so much guilt over missing her child's – her children's younger years.

01:00:09.300 Like, women have this weird thing where they're just full of – am I going to be a good mom?

01:00:13.640 And there's not really any way that – because women think that they're supposed to be the ones there for those moments and not you.

01:00:22.240 You're the man because they held it inside their body for nine months.

01:00:26.100 So, be careful if you guys have kids.

01:00:29.220 That's actually a burgeoning part of therapy are these boss women who feel this kind of regret for missing their children's younger years.

01:00:39.880 Yeah, I hear you.

01:00:41.480 But if you can't be your woman's therapist and that isn't an easy thing for you to do, then you shouldn't be with her in the first place.

01:00:47.360 You shouldn't be having kids with her in the first place.

01:00:49.000 Did you say be your woman's therapist?

01:00:50.820 Yeah, absolutely.

01:00:52.600 If that's not easy for you to do, why is she going to someone else?

01:00:56.740 Why is she paying another man, another woman?

01:00:59.060 Why is she talking to anyone else at all?

01:01:00.640 Why is she asking for advice from somebody else?

01:01:05.340 Okay.

01:01:10.460 Do you not agree with that, Doug, that like – that your wife should be going to you instead of like an actual therapist?

01:01:18.600 Well, I do.

01:01:21.220 But guilt over being a good mom, I mean, how are you going to – that's something that she's – because remember, mothers deify motherhood.

01:01:33.280 So, you trying to be a therapist about her feelings of motherhood, it's just going to be a long, slow burn of misery.

01:01:40.260 Yeah, I don't – Doug and Pia, I don't think that's what he's saying.

01:01:44.600 That's not what I'm saying at all.

01:01:47.560 That's not what I said.

01:01:48.240 Well, no, but –

01:01:49.760 I can understand if that's not something you can do.

01:01:52.100 If that's not something you're good at, that's not something you're good at.

01:01:53.880 No, no, but what I'm saying is –

01:01:56.040 It ain't got nothing to do with me, bro.

01:01:57.440 No, I'm talking about this specific issue that I'm talking about, about motherhood, regret.

01:02:03.960 Maybe you didn't hear me, okay?

01:02:06.320 No, I heard you.

01:02:08.180 I've talked to mothers, too.

01:02:09.480 I actually used to run a daycare when I was a child.

01:02:12.940 I know all the ins and outs, all of this stuff.

01:02:16.680 If you can't be a therapist, if that's a job to you, then that's your problem, not hers.

01:02:23.320 You have to be able to handle your women.

01:02:25.720 No, no, you don't.

01:02:27.180 You handle snakes and tigers.

01:02:28.820 You don't handle women, bro.

01:02:30.440 Okay, how do they act?

01:02:31.440 Everything that you have to handle is negative.

01:02:34.580 Describe a snake and tiger to me.

01:02:36.240 Yeah, they'll freaking bite you and try to eat you.

01:02:38.460 Describe a snake and tiger to me.

01:02:40.160 Yeah, they'll try to bite you and try to eat you, bro.

01:02:43.000 So if you're handling –

01:02:44.460 And what do women do?

01:02:45.400 If you're a woman, good luck.

01:02:48.140 I'm handling multiple, and I have been for decades.

01:02:51.100 Yeah, and you're living off your chick, too.

01:02:55.820 I'm living off – okay.

01:02:57.820 I'm sorry that I upset you.

01:02:59.160 No, no, you didn't upset me.

01:03:03.020 Whatever works for you is fine.

01:03:06.320 I respect you.

01:03:07.920 Whatever works for you works for you.

01:03:09.320 Is that why you're describing something that's already been established?

01:03:13.280 No.

01:03:13.780 Because you're not insulted?

01:03:16.700 No.

01:03:17.900 So you're just stating the obvious?

01:03:19.920 A grown man is just repeating things that's already been said.

01:03:22.400 Look, I'm just telling you what I know.

01:03:25.120 You can take it or leave it.

01:03:26.100 I respect what you're doing over there.

01:03:28.320 You're proving Pearl right, and that's good.

01:03:32.300 Whatever works for you works for you.

01:03:33.960 I don't need to prove anyone right.

01:03:36.220 Okay.

01:03:37.520 I'm sorry that Pearl was right and you were wrong.

01:03:39.580 Is the way you exercise leverage, is it other women?

01:03:42.920 Is that how you do it?

01:03:44.660 I don't need to exercise leverage.

01:03:46.240 I'm just a good person.

01:03:47.720 I do good things.

01:03:49.200 Just like I'm handling your friend right now on the phone.

01:03:51.340 Do you want to talk about it, Doug?

01:03:54.680 Because this doesn't have to be confrontational.

01:03:56.460 I know you think I'm trying to sunny you right now.

01:03:58.740 No, no, no.

01:04:00.040 This isn't my platform.

01:04:01.560 It's not.

01:04:02.380 If it was, we'd have a whole different conversation.

01:04:07.160 But you do you.

01:04:09.580 Handle your woman.

01:04:10.980 You don't need to say that, though.

01:04:12.020 That should go without saying.

01:04:13.140 Yeah, okay.

01:04:13.920 We're grown men.

01:04:15.200 Okay, that's fine.

01:04:16.240 That's fine.

01:04:16.720 Okay.

01:04:17.000 Do you.

01:04:17.580 Okay, well, thank you for calling in.

01:04:19.540 I appreciate it.

01:04:21.280 We're going to move on to the next caller.

01:04:23.740 Sure.

01:04:26.740 Okay, we got...

01:04:27.860 Miller, are you there?

01:04:30.100 Yeah, I'm here.

01:04:31.260 Go ahead, buddy.

01:04:32.480 Yeah, I'm married to a woman, but she's more like a friend.

01:04:36.660 We knew a long ago before we married.

01:04:39.680 So right out the gate, I made more than her.

01:04:43.660 I was in the military.

01:04:46.080 Okay.

01:04:48.180 And I supported her through college.

01:04:50.700 She got her early education.

01:04:54.920 So now she's making more than me.

01:04:56.880 But yeah, I feel like we've grown apart after she started making more than me.

01:05:02.060 I don't know what getting her busy and stuff.

01:05:04.460 So we're not really close like we used to be.

01:05:08.460 And before we met, she had a...

01:05:12.980 Before we got married, she had a child.

01:05:15.680 So yeah, we're not really that close.

01:05:17.900 And we grew it apart.

01:05:19.120 And we just decided to get a divorce.

01:05:21.500 And let's call it a day.

01:05:23.720 And you noticed a shift when she started to out-earn you.

01:05:27.460 Yeah.

01:05:27.860 Have you dated since, or did you just get a divorce?

01:05:39.220 I talked to other ladies and stuff like that and sleep with other ladies.

01:05:43.160 But my wife is my wife.

01:05:44.820 I would never like...

01:05:46.520 She comes first.

01:05:47.500 Like, I would never put someone in between me and her.

01:05:50.620 But you guys are getting divorced, right?

01:05:54.100 Yeah.

01:05:54.980 I'm going to have, like, court on the 24th over Zoom call.

01:05:58.920 She's in Florida.

01:05:59.980 I'm in Cali.

01:06:01.020 So you wouldn't put anyone between you and her when, like, it's over?

01:06:07.060 Yeah.

01:06:07.820 Like, when me and her was close, like, even if I go outside and have a relationship, like,

01:06:15.020 even if she find out, I wouldn't make she feel guilty.

01:06:19.040 I would let her know, like, I messed up.

01:06:21.520 And she would forgive me.

01:06:23.940 And, like, but we kind of drifted apart after she got her job and she got out-earned me.

01:06:36.320 She just kind of drifted away.

01:06:38.140 She don't talk to me as much as she used to.

01:06:42.800 Got it.

01:06:45.300 If you had to go back, would you switch it at all?

01:06:47.760 Would you, like, tell her to not go after, like, the job?

01:06:51.880 Or would you maybe try to...

01:06:53.180 Were you 50-50 from the beginning?

01:07:00.300 I was more...

01:07:04.240 She was, like...

01:07:05.460 She was more independent.

01:07:07.020 We were independent.

01:07:07.840 So, like, when we go on dates, I think she paid for more.

01:07:14.060 She was more of the...

01:07:16.880 She did more, to be honest.

01:07:20.060 And what about bells?

01:07:21.100 Did you split those?

01:07:22.900 Yeah.

01:07:23.380 Yeah.

01:07:23.900 We split those.

01:07:25.040 Okay.

01:07:25.340 So it was kind of...

01:07:26.120 Actually, she helped.

01:07:27.160 I helped her most of the time when I can.

01:07:30.400 She...

01:07:30.900 We stepped...

01:07:32.140 We helped each other out as much as we can.

01:07:35.520 And so...

01:07:36.080 So she was not...

01:07:36.740 She was not birthing to me yet.

01:07:38.580 I'm really grateful for having her in my life.

01:07:42.420 I learned a lot from her.

01:07:43.320 But we kind of drift apart.

01:07:46.280 And if I would do it again, I don't know.

01:07:52.560 Would you...

01:07:53.220 I would have to do, like...

01:07:54.160 I would have to be in a position, like, being, like, in...

01:07:59.660 Like, my entrepreneur, where I could scale my own business to stay above her.

01:08:05.380 But where I can stay with her.

01:08:09.040 Got it.

01:08:09.540 Like, I can work remotely.

01:08:11.080 But since I was in the Navy, I was stationed, like, a different state and stuff like that.

01:08:17.280 We weren't together.

01:08:18.800 Most times when I'm, like, deployed, I couldn't get in touch with her.

01:08:23.980 So we grew apart due to some out...

01:08:28.080 Got it.

01:08:29.420 Outside circumstances.

01:08:31.360 Got it.

01:08:32.080 Well, thanks for sharing, Miller.

01:08:35.460 You're welcome.

01:08:36.520 I'm going to move to Marte.

01:08:41.080 Look, Carlos Acosta was next.

01:08:43.680 Oh, okay.

01:08:45.600 Marte, hold on.

01:08:47.540 Hold on.

01:08:48.180 Carlos Acosta, you're next.

01:08:49.700 Go ahead.

01:08:52.260 Hello.

01:08:54.080 We can hear you.

01:08:55.020 Go ahead.

01:08:56.260 Yeah.

01:08:56.580 Oh, yeah.

01:08:57.160 So congrats on getting monetized.

01:09:00.120 Thank you.

01:09:00.920 Thank you.

01:09:02.180 Yeah.

01:09:03.440 So I haven't really been in a relationship like some of these adults.

01:09:08.060 I've been in more, like, immature relationships.

01:09:10.800 Okay.

01:09:11.300 But it's easier to be the guy that pays because you're paying for, like, you know, nothing, basically.

01:09:16.800 Okay.

01:09:17.140 But I guess what I wanted to ask, since you're so versed in all this, like, you know, relationship chaos, I want to, I guess I want to flesh out in my head, like, the cycle.

01:09:30.480 So it's, like, women earn more than men and then because of, you know, or they seek out a career or whatever to climb up this social ladder or whatever, right?

01:09:46.080 And then they try to find men up there, right?

01:09:50.140 And then eventually they keep climbing and keep climbing until they can't find the men that they want.

01:09:56.440 And so, you know, they become these girl bosses, right?

01:10:03.900 In order to find the only man that can conquer her, right?

01:10:08.240 She's going to try to find who's the true alpha.

01:10:11.940 And then she finds that no man really wants to be around the girl boss.

01:10:15.280 So what happens after that?

01:10:17.280 Like, what's the feedback loop, right?

01:10:20.040 Because if there wasn't a feedback loop, then women, I think, would just be like, wait a minute.

01:10:25.040 Being a girl boss is bad, but obviously they still keep.

01:10:28.060 No, they go have sex with the personal trainers.

01:10:31.940 They get the kid.

01:10:32.840 Then they go back to the jacked.

01:10:34.520 That's what I've seen.

01:10:35.380 They go back to the jacked guys.

01:10:37.360 So they go.

01:10:38.220 They get the kid from the provider guy in their late 20s, early 30s, divorce him, and then go back to the jacked ones.

01:10:45.280 Interesting.

01:10:48.620 But just, like, recreationally.

01:10:51.160 But women want to be side chicks.

01:10:52.720 That's why they keep picking it.

01:10:54.540 So.

01:10:56.320 Okay.

01:10:57.240 And is there anything?

01:10:59.840 So when you say that, like, where does it start?

01:11:02.540 So, like, a baseline woman, right?

01:11:04.620 Like, I'm trying to, like, model it out of my head.

01:11:08.160 Baseline woman starts out, like, in college, let's say.

01:11:11.180 Or high school.

01:11:12.320 That's where the women, I think, are mostly will try to figure out what they're going to do with their life.

01:11:16.000 They try to maybe date some guys.

01:11:18.220 And maybe they sort of get a feel for this dynamic between them and women.

01:11:21.400 I'm trying to, yeah, I'm trying to keep it on the topic, though, and, like, people's personal experience.

01:11:26.200 So do you have anything that you've seen that you could add to it?

01:11:30.820 Oh, okay.

01:11:31.400 No, like I said, don't really have, like, a marriage experience like these guys.

01:11:37.760 I just wanted to get your opinion on that whole, like, cycle.

01:11:41.860 And you answered the question.

01:11:42.920 So thank you.

01:11:43.880 Yeah.

01:11:44.400 Okay, thank you.

01:11:46.040 Yep, have a good one.

01:11:48.420 Marte, I think, was next.

01:11:51.800 Yeah, it's Marte.

01:11:53.620 Hey, how's it going?

01:11:55.480 Hey, what's up, Pearl?

01:11:57.300 Congratulations on being monetized, by the way.

01:12:00.260 Thank you.

01:12:01.780 So staying on topic here, I just want to address the fact that when we have modern dating here,

01:12:08.080 and I'm not going to bring up my experience as far as, like, a relationship,

01:12:11.480 but as far as dating, because we have to enter into a relationship, you have the dynamic of

01:12:15.980 introduction, right?

01:12:17.500 And when you introduce yourself to somebody on a date, we now have identity politics that's

01:12:22.280 playing part in this with feminism.

01:12:24.620 You know, we all know that is the entailment with that.

01:12:27.680 So when you meet a woman, and she has all this vast experience, and you're talking to

01:12:32.420 her on a date, you're realizing that if you don't have a lot of life experience, if you're

01:12:36.700 talking to women, there's less that you can show her.

01:12:39.780 There's also this, and also the fact that you are now going to possibly be competing

01:12:44.840 with this woman.

01:12:45.820 It's hard not to go ahead and dodge this in this dating era, too, because now they identify

01:12:50.640 with this career.

01:12:51.900 So you have two options.

01:12:53.660 I'm an Orthodox Christian, like my boy, Andrew Wilson.

01:12:56.620 Oh, nice.

01:12:57.160 So you have two options.

01:12:58.300 You can, I was also his coach, by the way, his, him and Rachel's, I did their diet and

01:13:03.000 stuff like that.

01:13:03.800 Oh, cool.

01:13:04.180 But, um, so when it comes to this, you have two different dynamics that you can have.

01:13:09.800 You got to stay at home, um, you know, mom that goes ahead and helps out the kids and

01:13:15.940 everything else where work is now optional, right?

01:13:18.240 You're not competing for resources, doing all this other stuff.

01:13:20.920 You can carry the brunt of the relationship on your shoulders financially, which I would

01:13:25.360 advocate for men to do.

01:13:26.640 Like Doug was saying, that's a great thing to do with the brunt of the bills.

01:13:29.380 The other problem that you're dealing with, which is like 80% of the dating dynamics that

01:13:34.120 I've ran into in modern dating is the identity.

01:13:37.040 You're not meeting the woman, you're meeting her career.

01:13:40.240 And then you're going to find out about this woman later.

01:13:42.500 I recently went on a date and, um, we, we, you know, we talked about everything.

01:13:47.660 She's a CEO.

01:13:48.880 Uh, everything went fine, right?

01:13:51.280 You know why everything failed?

01:13:52.440 It's because I didn't ask about her career and I didn't care enough about the entailment of

01:13:56.940 her position, what she did and all this other stuff.

01:14:00.080 Normally this would have never been a problem like 20 years ago.

01:14:03.920 Now that we run into this, it is now like, if you don't identify with this whole part of

01:14:10.460 my being, which is my identity now, not me as a woman, it's in, which is secondary now

01:14:15.460 with modern feminism, you're now having to go ahead and meet her, her career, which is

01:14:21.140 the representation of the entailment of her as a person.

01:14:23.740 And then whatever else personality she has.

01:14:26.860 So things that flip dynamically backwards, if you're making less than her, you're competing

01:14:32.800 at such a high rate now because the average man makes what 53 K Pearl.

01:14:37.340 I think it's 53.

01:14:38.360 It's around there.

01:14:39.220 54.

01:14:40.000 Right.

01:14:40.620 So now the average woman now thinks that's broke.

01:14:43.020 So when you meet her, uh, good luck telling her that you're a journeyman or anything else.

01:14:47.420 They automatically perceive that as low, even if you're making more.

01:14:50.460 So you now have identities to deal with too, in this whole fray of the dating dynamic and

01:14:55.800 it's, it's rough because establishing your position, uh, you know, in the dating dynamic

01:15:01.820 and saying, Hey, you know, I'm a good man, all this other stuff out the window, because

01:15:06.920 if they're meeting you and you're there, they're now identity is now their career and that's

01:15:12.360 what they are and who they are.

01:15:14.200 What do we do?

01:15:15.820 We either have to bring up something that's equal or above what they are.

01:15:19.480 And that's changed the dating dynamic of everything.

01:15:22.960 Now.

01:15:23.440 I'm going to chime in real fast.

01:15:24.900 So the, so the biggest problem with what you're talking about, if you meet a CEO, because

01:15:29.540 the area I'm dating and I always meet these women, exactly like you're talking about these,

01:15:33.680 these, these career women.

01:15:34.940 Right.

01:15:35.760 And they don't want a husband.

01:15:38.040 They want a wife.

01:15:40.080 That's the problem.

01:15:41.020 All these women, they want you to be their wife.

01:15:43.760 They want you to support them.

01:15:45.660 I would say a girlfriend and a cheerleader.

01:15:48.200 That's I would also say that too.

01:15:49.880 Yeah.

01:15:50.600 Yeah.

01:15:50.980 That's the problem.

01:15:52.100 And, and, and if you make less than them, that's really the expectation.

01:15:55.940 Cause like you always say, Pearl, men are benevolent with their power.

01:16:00.860 Men.

01:16:01.860 I always say when men win, everyone wins.

01:16:04.420 And when women win, they win for themselves.

01:16:07.900 They want a competitive, successful man to, to put aside his ambitions, his desires to

01:16:14.920 help her with her own selfish desires.

01:16:18.360 And, and let's exacerbate it even more.

01:16:21.180 If she makes more money than you, a man will be benevolent.

01:16:25.440 Let a man, let a woman move into his house and nest in his house and change everything

01:16:29.980 around, put his stuff in a man cave in his own basement.

01:16:33.320 Women will never extend that privilege to a man that moves into her house.

01:16:37.020 There's a difference in mindset.

01:16:40.040 And so if a woman starts making more money than you, or a lot of women, if they go 50

01:16:45.400 50, that mindset starts coming out.

01:16:48.140 It's the, it's the intangibles I'm talking about.

01:16:52.580 There's a survey that I recently did on threads, threads, the new community where I'm doing

01:16:57.080 a lot of debates, uh, tingling with a lot of feminists on there.

01:17:00.040 It just so happens that feminists happen to be rife in this community where it's rife

01:17:03.840 with feminists.

01:17:04.700 So I did a survey and this is, uh, uh, Pearl, this is the, along with what we're talking about

01:17:10.600 here and I can tie it back in.

01:17:12.160 So I did a survey.

01:17:13.460 If women had all the power and the power dynamic was different where women made most of the

01:17:18.140 income and had most of the force monopoly of force that we talk about, would they literally

01:17:23.560 destroy men?

01:17:24.480 Right.

01:17:25.780 Uh, even women had voted for a, it's 5,000 people on the survey that I put out.

01:17:30.620 Women overwhelmingly voted that they would destroy men and that they would relegate them

01:17:35.740 to, I can send you a, the survey that I did and everything else that they would relegate

01:17:40.620 them to enslavement positions.

01:17:42.500 It was like 60 men, 60 women, uh, 40 men in this survey out of 5,000 people.

01:17:49.260 So when you take this, uh, and this is a real poll that I could send you.

01:17:52.980 So when you look at this dynamic, we can go ahead and mirror this with dating now and

01:17:58.160 show that what would happen if the tales were reversed, right?

01:18:01.440 So we take these roles.

01:18:02.660 We can now see this as a reflection of modern dating where now we're meeting women who are

01:18:07.120 right up here and the man is down here.

01:18:09.480 What's going to happen.

01:18:11.000 We're going to see this play out.

01:18:12.560 And so when women are graduating college at 67% rate, you can, you know, look this up

01:18:17.760 too, and they're going to be out earning men.

01:18:20.000 You're now going to see their dating pool shrink.

01:18:22.240 I'm not telling you something you don't already know, Pearl, uh, also Doug, so along with

01:18:27.040 your point, you're completely correct about this.

01:18:29.140 When we talk about the entailment of disposition, if a, then it's going to lead to be, now you're

01:18:34.620 going to talk about a plummeting birth rate as a result of this, because women are only

01:18:38.500 having one baby.

01:18:39.620 You're everything's going to be plummeting societal, uh, yeah, but generosity is going to

01:18:43.820 go up.

01:18:44.240 But see the way I see it is like, this is already happening.

01:18:47.740 So like, you're going on dates with seat, you're like a nice orthodox man.

01:18:51.740 And you're going on date with this crazy CEO.

01:18:54.380 These are the choices now.

01:18:55.840 So yeah, it's like, you, you're good looking guy, you know, like this isn't.

01:19:00.200 So it's like, if I was a guy, I would just go with it.

01:19:03.180 I'd be like, ladies, go ahead, pay for me.

01:19:05.040 It's called the King's summer.

01:19:08.580 I would just ask like, what can I get out of this now?

01:19:11.900 Oh, you know, you know, you're talking about something that's a temporary thing, right?

01:19:15.740 Yeah, but it's going to be, but it's going to be, it's going to be temporary anyways.

01:19:20.400 What do you, did you think like, I get that, that leads to, I think the role that we're

01:19:24.980 talking about leads to a nihilistic approach.

01:19:26.820 And I think, uh, we need to find a solution that's different than that.

01:19:30.140 I mean, for me, to be honest, I have two jobs.

01:19:32.680 I work as a licensed myopractic and I also work as a entailment of like a following law

01:19:37.700 enforcement.

01:19:38.400 So if you look at all this, like, why do I have two jobs?

01:19:40.320 People ask me this.

01:19:41.500 It's because I know that women are going to, I'm going to run into women that are going

01:19:45.280 to out earn me, but what do I do?

01:19:47.120 I'm going to provide a buffer is like a secondary job, right?

01:19:50.020 So as a man knowing this, Doug, I'm, I'm coming in with precautionary measures in this

01:19:54.760 dating society, right?

01:19:56.260 So if I know this men get pissed off at me when I have these debates with men all the

01:20:00.120 the time, well, men shouldn't kill themselves for a job just to go ahead and be the equivalent

01:20:04.760 of what women are now.

01:20:06.340 Well, shit, it's tough out there.

01:20:08.100 So it's hard finding a solution.

01:20:10.460 So Pearl, it's either like nihilism or nihilism.

01:20:13.920 Hear me out, hear me out, hear me out.

01:20:15.880 So, I mean, my friend, my friend, one of my good friends from childhood, she dated a guy

01:20:21.120 for her twenties, went 50, 50 with him for seven years.

01:20:24.060 Then they broke up.

01:20:25.440 She didn't want to be married.

01:20:26.500 She was one of those, like, she raised her little, her mom didn't want to be a mom.

01:20:30.260 So she raised her, I don't know.

01:20:31.620 You ever meet like the oldest girl where they raised the youngest kids and then like it kind

01:20:36.800 of, she didn't ever want to be a mom after that.

01:20:38.720 Cause her mom like put it on anyways, long story short, I don't think it's nihilistic.

01:20:43.640 She had a good relationship for seven years.

01:20:45.680 She obviously left him as women do.

01:20:48.220 And he got, he didn't leave that.

01:20:51.020 Like he could have had an eight year marriage and then be on child support alimony and have

01:20:56.520 paid half the rent.

01:20:57.900 Do you know what I'm saying?

01:20:58.440 Or like, so he saved money for, he saved money for seven years, had a, got a hot woman in

01:21:04.920 her prime and then moved on.

01:21:07.240 Now he's dating the next hot woman until one sticks around.

01:21:10.460 I think statistically, like, what are we looking at as far as numbers?

01:21:14.360 And I mean, we could always talk about possibility and probability.

01:21:17.840 These are things that are always mentioned, but it's like, what do you, we do have a descriptor

01:21:22.040 right of this, right?

01:21:22.860 We do what you've offered is a descriptor, but what do we offer as a prescription for society?

01:21:27.880 And I think that's where the nihilism comes in when we don't have a prescription for men

01:21:32.460 out there that are, you know, they're working these labor jobs and things and they're being

01:21:36.440 outrun by women.

01:21:37.180 Yeah, but you can't, but you can't tell like men, like men, how to live.

01:21:41.480 Like that would, that would make them women.

01:21:43.720 Do you know what I mean?

01:21:44.500 Like if you're going to like me or a man on the internet to be told the solutions to your

01:21:49.360 life, like it's like the part of being a man is deciding for yourself how to live and

01:21:54.000 like living life, you know, living life on your terms.

01:21:57.120 So like when these internet people are like, oh, we need a solution for society.

01:22:00.900 I'm like, is this a society of women or men?

01:22:04.120 Like this is men, right?

01:22:06.940 So like, they're going to live up.

01:22:08.460 Go ahead, Doug.

01:22:09.360 So we're in, so I'm, I'm in my mid forties, right?

01:22:14.680 Women in the mid forties are, um, and younger are living what I call the great experiment.

01:22:21.720 Okay.

01:22:22.540 They have all, they're the most free women ever.

01:22:27.180 Right.

01:22:27.980 And they truly have the ability to live life alone.

01:22:31.860 They can be married.

01:22:33.060 They can have children.

01:22:33.960 They can be whatever.

01:22:34.980 Right.

01:22:35.480 But a lot of them.

01:22:36.800 So we have the journey of a man, the journey of a man.

01:22:39.980 My dad told me when I was young, you're going to get a job when you're 16 and you're

01:22:43.660 going to work until you're dead.

01:22:44.780 Hopefully along the way, you find a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, highly valued

01:22:49.160 education, to be able to put yourself in the best position to live life on your terms

01:22:52.460 or support a family, right?

01:22:54.080 Women want the journey of a man, all these modern women, or, or they think they want it.

01:23:01.280 STEM fields have a recruitment and retention problem.

01:23:05.380 Only 22% of, of, of, of students of STEM are women and, and 50% by the time they're 43

01:23:13.760 or have a child quit STEM jobs.

01:23:16.700 CEOs only are CEOs that are women for three to four years.

01:23:22.280 The average man is a CEO for eight to nine years.

01:23:25.700 CEOs quit after two to three years or when they're 43 years old, these women are going

01:23:30.020 to quit because they know that it's optional.

01:23:32.600 Success is mandatory for a man and it's optional for women.

01:23:37.460 Women reserve the right to change their minds.

01:23:39.840 And all these women are going to smash into that wall and realize I don't want to do this

01:23:44.360 long-term and hopefully these women will teach the upcoming generations.

01:23:49.940 Don't be like me and live this illusion that I'm going to save the world with my social

01:23:54.200 work degree.

01:23:54.980 Oh God, that's what's going to happen.

01:23:56.320 Doug MPA.

01:23:56.960 Come on, come on.

01:23:57.820 We hope that would be a positive impelment of things.

01:23:58.980 But that's not, that's not going to happen though.

01:24:01.380 Like, I mean, look at the Gen Z only fans rates.

01:24:04.820 Yeah.

01:24:05.080 I know, but I don't, I think selling hope when there's no indication that's going to happen

01:24:08.620 is mean.

01:24:09.400 Do you know what I mean?

01:24:09.820 Like I, we got to be realistic here when we got one out of five women in Gen Z being

01:24:14.660 on only fans that there's no indication it's going back.

01:24:19.360 So if I was a guy and I'm just saying, this is from a woman's point of view, I would just

01:24:23.700 think about what I could get out of this.

01:24:25.580 And I would just expect her to leave.

01:24:27.660 Like, you know, if the women are being whores, I'd just be like, well, it's time to enjoy

01:24:32.380 the whores.

01:24:32.900 Like what else are you going to do?

01:24:34.780 I mean, from, from my point of view as an Orthodox Christian, it's hard to look at things like

01:24:38.600 that because I literally is antithetical to my belief.

01:24:41.280 I'm not pushing back against your position.

01:24:43.060 And I'm not saying that, uh, like I would prescribe for men to do something.

01:24:46.680 Cause I would not tell men, what men, what to do.

01:24:48.680 Right.

01:24:49.140 But one thing I would say is that they're like, I know that we're railing to get some kind

01:24:53.680 of solution, but hope isn't a plan.

01:24:55.880 Hope isn't a solution either.

01:24:57.280 You know?

01:24:57.760 So I think one thing that I would do is like, as a, as you know, be being my, a man of faith

01:25:02.260 is we are looking for people that we can be in a relationship with for a long-term,

01:25:06.740 right?

01:25:06.880 Marriage, right?

01:25:08.040 Marital agreement.

01:25:08.980 So I think that if you could find somebody who has the same faith structure you have,

01:25:12.660 and I'm not talking about Protestants, right?

01:25:14.320 Those are a whole, Earl, I agree with you a hundred percent when you're talking about

01:25:17.780 I don't see any, I'm sorry.

01:25:19.880 I've interviewed a lot of victims of divorce rape.

01:25:22.420 I've seen the Orthodox.

01:25:24.020 If anything, I've seen religious women act worse.

01:25:28.140 And I think they're saying-

01:25:29.120 Well, they have a nine percent divorce rate.

01:25:30.640 No, they lie to you guys about the stats.

01:25:33.420 I mean, they, they always look at, they always try to find a way around it.

01:25:38.220 And what they want to do is they want, they want their religion to be right.

01:25:41.200 And so they're gonna, what they do is they keep making the barrier to entry to say, you're

01:25:45.280 only a real Christian.

01:25:46.360 They include in the surveys, they'll say, only if you pray once a day, only if you do

01:25:50.940 this, only if you do that.

01:25:52.380 And they don't want you to believe what's in front of like your eyes.

01:25:56.020 And I'll talk to the people that run like the Orthodox matchmaking or the Chris, like

01:26:00.640 they have the same problems.

01:26:02.540 The divorces that I've seen have come from all religions.

01:26:05.520 If anything, I see the more serious religions when they do it.

01:26:09.740 They're the women are more vicious because their reputation, it makes perfect sense.

01:26:13.880 Their reputation is entrenched in like, you know, the, in their religion, they're a bad

01:26:20.180 person if they get divorced.

01:26:22.060 So clearly they got, they got pretty serious.

01:26:24.520 I mean, as far as like, look, you can, you can tell me this, but I just know you, you're

01:26:30.200 going to have an ego investment in your religion being right.

01:26:32.680 Right.

01:26:33.020 Everyone.

01:26:33.500 And I've heard this same argument.

01:26:35.400 I've heard, you have to understand, I've heard it from devout Muslims and I've seen the

01:26:39.200 Muslim women throwing it back in London.

01:26:41.860 Okay.

01:26:42.840 I've heard this.

01:26:43.780 I've heard this from the like Michael Knowles.

01:26:46.480 And then I met one of the worst divorce rape stories I ever heard in my life was from the

01:26:51.780 exact church that Michael Knowles went to.

01:26:54.160 Then the Orthodox told me they were different.

01:26:56.620 And then I had an Orthodox priest in my space.

01:26:59.320 And he was telling me when he counsels the men that he tells the men to buy their wife

01:27:03.780 clothes to get laid.

01:27:05.100 And I'm like that, that's coming from a priest.

01:27:08.180 And so I just know, like, I know that group dynamics are going to be the same regardless

01:27:13.660 of what religion, like there's going to, it's kind of, you get 10 women in each half are

01:27:19.280 probably going to divorce.

01:27:21.220 And if there's a lower divorce rate, I guarantee they're making their husband's lives miserable.

01:27:26.380 I mean, cause women are women, men are men group dynamics.

01:27:30.020 Like, it's just not gonna, there's no, like everyone wants their religion to be a buffer,

01:27:34.440 but it's just not.

01:27:35.620 Yeah, but I'm not going to also sleep around with a bunch of women.

01:27:40.060 That's like totally antithetical to my belief.

01:27:42.360 And I know we're going to be at an impasse with that.

01:27:44.700 Well, I don't, I don't care.

01:27:46.060 Don't do it then.

01:27:47.060 I just, I just, the problem is that this is just pragmatic.

01:27:51.440 I just see the men that don't do it get screwed.

01:27:54.400 Like, and that's the tough thing is I think men are kind of like at it, like an impasse where

01:27:59.120 they have their morals and a lot of, not you, but I'm saying this is just what I've gathered.

01:28:03.660 They see what works and when the guys sleeping with all these women get better treatment,

01:28:08.180 they're kind of like, what else am I supposed to do?

01:28:11.520 You know, like we're getting guys that like juggle multiple women are getting paid for now.

01:28:18.520 Like there are men in the cities that get, they figure out how to get women to fall in

01:28:23.760 love with them so hard.

01:28:25.020 They, they cover their whole life.

01:28:26.700 I've talked to these men and these women are loyal.

01:28:29.600 Like they're loyal.

01:28:31.080 I mean, as far as I can tell, I don't know.

01:28:33.140 But do you know what I mean?

01:28:34.680 I'm not saying what to do, but it's like, yeah, but I'd rather be a monk than, than live

01:28:40.660 the life of like men that are running around increasing their STD rates and also spending

01:28:45.840 more money than they have to, because that's the thing though.

01:28:48.560 Men turn into pay picks really quick when it comes to like trying to get in draws and

01:28:52.740 panties and things like that.

01:28:53.840 And when you also realize that, you know, these things are fleeting women, actually on dates,

01:28:58.220 I've, I've literally had women tell you, tell me things like, you know, 200 bucks.

01:29:02.840 That's nothing.

01:29:03.540 You know, you it's all I'm asking you for is dinner, right?

01:29:06.840 That's nothing.

01:29:07.540 Yet you won't do the same thing.

01:29:09.140 And the quality is out the window, even though you make more than me.

01:29:12.320 So yeah, but if, yeah, but if you just do like the players that I've talked to, they

01:29:16.000 just do drinks and it's like, we're either doing drinks or I'm not coming.

01:29:19.520 And we're either having sex in the first, like three, they give three dates tops or I'm

01:29:24.540 not doing, yeah.

01:29:26.040 I'm all for coffee dates.

01:29:27.860 Yeah.

01:29:28.140 I'm all for coffee dates.

01:29:29.560 We're going to move to the next caller.

01:29:31.740 Yeah.

01:29:31.980 Go ahead.

01:29:32.580 Yeah.

01:29:33.140 Thanks for calling in.

01:29:34.400 Calling, calling anytime.

01:29:36.960 Brian, are you there?

01:29:40.360 We're going to do Brian, Marvin, and then Sean.

01:29:44.040 Brian, it says connecting to audio, connecting to audio.

01:29:49.520 Are you there?

01:29:50.920 Unmute.

01:29:53.820 Brian.

01:29:54.860 Okay.

01:29:55.180 Are you there?

01:29:58.560 He's unmuted.

01:29:59.660 Okay.

01:30:00.160 Connect your audio and we'll get back to you.

01:30:02.860 So Marvin, unmute.

01:30:06.620 Good evening.

01:30:07.600 How you doing?

01:30:08.480 Doing good, buddy.

01:30:10.660 I just want to say congratulations to Pearl from getting your network over here, from

01:30:17.120 team to monetization from YouTube.

01:30:20.740 Thank you.

01:30:22.500 Yeah.

01:30:23.040 And another thing, I love how you challenge mentally Michael Noe and Walsh.

01:30:28.020 Thank you.

01:30:28.260 They just don't like to listen, just like Brittany Renner wasn't listening to you and I interviewed

01:30:32.560 this past year and just kept on antagonizing you.

01:30:35.340 That just makes me sick when they do that because they don't want to hear the truth.

01:30:38.160 And like Myron says, they need to, you know, submit sometimes when they got to taste the

01:30:43.580 feet, but they don't always know how to do that when it comes to the truth.

01:30:48.120 So I'll just tell you that, you know, you're still here and that's all that matters.

01:30:51.920 Thank you so much.

01:30:53.100 I appreciate you.

01:30:54.800 Yeah.

01:30:55.380 And I did join the $80 membership last week.

01:31:00.340 Thank you so much.

01:31:01.640 You're the best.

01:31:03.160 Make sure I'm grandfathered in from here on out.

01:31:05.560 Please, I'm glad you appreciate that.

01:31:08.740 I'm going to start by saying that I never really got the chance to describe my occupation

01:31:12.500 and it's a very dangerous occupation, you know, and I'm soon to be, to go back to school

01:31:19.720 to get another license added to the one I got because you need this license to get the

01:31:23.820 other one.

01:31:24.660 Okay.

01:31:24.800 I'm a commercial class A driver, hazardous material license and federally, you know, mandated

01:31:31.840 to the federal government, you know, with the TSTSA and everything, all that good stuff

01:31:36.180 to all hazardous material on big rigs to all the local customers in California and Nevada.

01:31:42.820 I soon to, you know, move on to the crane operation with the semi truck and sometime this

01:31:47.780 year, I'm going to find someone that could take me in under their umbrella.

01:31:51.440 So back to this point, this kind of jobs, these infrastructure jobs that you've been talking

01:31:59.260 about for weeks and months now, I haven't seen a single woman do the things that I do.

01:32:05.260 I'm sorry.

01:32:06.160 You know, I'm just being honest.

01:32:08.240 If it wasn't for us, they want to have air conditioning.

01:32:11.100 They want to have an office.

01:32:12.040 They want to be working at the orthodontist doctors, the office jobs and the schools and

01:32:16.960 everything.

01:32:17.640 It takes a guy like me to bring everything to their office so they can stay comfortable

01:32:22.540 in their office and do their career, their profession.

01:32:25.260 You know, that's how it works.

01:32:26.600 So I put my life on the line for everybody else.

01:32:31.540 I did have somebody years ago in 2012, my ex that is, she's about three hours away from

01:32:38.100 Newport, by the way, in Iowa, in Scott's County.

01:32:40.920 Okay.

01:32:41.380 And we didn't work out.

01:32:43.260 And she picked the guy that she married.

01:32:46.980 She was seeing him the whole time prior from 2012 behind my back when I was driving the

01:32:54.080 semi-truck across state to state when I was an over-the-road driver before I became a local

01:32:58.040 driver the last 15 years.

01:33:00.540 So she was sleeping around with him behind my back and made babies with him.

01:33:06.720 And she was trying to manipulate the whole relationship, like, you know, that I was supposed

01:33:11.820 to pitch in for these bills.

01:33:13.000 And I was like, no, we're not together.

01:33:14.240 You're with this other guy.

01:33:15.260 You picked him.

01:33:16.220 And I was like, I don't want to be with somebody that's not been true from the start.

01:33:21.300 And you expect to go 50-50.

01:33:23.040 We're not going 50-50.

01:33:24.200 I just want to be out.

01:33:25.240 I want to be done with you for good.

01:33:27.140 And now, well, we're in 2024.

01:33:30.600 Okay.

01:33:31.060 Now I'm hearing from Facebook that she's miserable.

01:33:34.540 She's not happy.

01:33:35.620 She's probably going to get a divorce now from the guy.

01:33:38.880 And she, the same person that she married went to jail over a year ago.

01:33:43.960 Did she earn more than you in the relationship?

01:33:47.840 No, never.

01:33:49.820 Never.

01:33:51.280 She did work at one point, but it was just a retail job.

01:33:54.480 Do you ever wish you did 50-50?

01:33:57.800 Or are you happy that you did, that you took over the bills?

01:34:01.220 No, I look back, I was never happy taking over the bills.

01:34:07.220 Because when you lie to me the first time, that makes me believe you're a liar the rest

01:34:10.940 of the way, the rest of the years, the rest of the months.

01:34:13.040 So why even bother me?

01:34:14.360 Okay.

01:34:14.740 So in hindsight, if you had to go back, you would have, I mean, obviously, knowing what

01:34:18.660 you know now, but assuming like even without, sorry, do you wish if you had to go back,

01:34:26.760 are you happy you split it or no?

01:34:28.980 Like, do you wish you didn't?

01:34:31.220 Sorry, sorry, I keep saying this wrong.

01:34:34.460 Oh my God.

01:34:35.160 Sorry.

01:34:35.780 No, I'm just okay.

01:34:37.100 Just slow down.

01:34:37.620 It's okay.

01:34:38.100 I understand.

01:34:39.780 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:40.240 You understand.

01:34:41.260 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:41.600 Sorry.

01:34:42.140 Yeah, but let me explain.

01:34:43.260 Let me explain before we get into conclusions.

01:34:46.260 What I don't want to be, you know, going crazy on conclusions, but I'm the kind of person,

01:34:52.680 I don't believe in the 50-50 unless it's 100% front from the get-go, which she did not do,

01:35:02.100 by the way.

01:35:03.420 So that tells me, you know, why even do it?

01:35:05.980 You know, that's like being blindfolded.

01:35:08.780 You go into something and you don't even know what's going on.

01:35:12.140 Yeah.

01:35:12.440 Why do it?

01:35:15.300 So you're actually in a disadvantage at that point, you know, financially also too.

01:35:21.180 So that's not good for anyone.

01:35:22.500 So back to the point, though, I'm glad I didn't do that because I probably, I probably

01:35:31.280 like a lot of guys, financially not well on so many levels.

01:35:36.560 I'm not doing terribly wrong now, but I feel like I could do better.

01:35:42.240 But that set me back a little bit because of what she's done in the past.

01:35:46.680 So then I broke up with her and I took an eight-year hiatus break and I met somebody else.

01:35:52.780 In my area, in California, in the San Francisco Bay Area, that's where I stay at.

01:35:57.920 And she, too, became, you know, like her.

01:36:03.780 You know, she believes that marriage is a business.

01:36:06.920 And as soon as I heard those words from her, I said, oh, no, if I marry this woman, she's

01:36:11.260 not going to care about me as a man.

01:36:12.600 She cares about the resources.

01:36:14.420 So I said, no, I can't be with this.

01:36:16.280 And then I found out she was like the rest of her group, the feminists.

01:36:20.520 I don't do well with feminists.

01:36:21.700 So the next girl did the same thing?

01:36:23.820 Did something similar?

01:36:25.660 Yeah.

01:36:26.120 And she, both of them are in her 40s now.

01:36:28.480 Okay.

01:36:29.980 So in the future, are you going to go 50-50 or are you still going to cover the bills?

01:36:35.180 I want 50-50 preferably.

01:36:38.060 But I need to know that she's done.

01:36:39.980 You're done with this shit.

01:36:42.420 Yeah, you got that right.

01:36:43.760 You're like, I'm not paying for shit anymore.

01:36:47.300 But in today's world, today's Western world, modern world, it doesn't work.

01:36:52.020 Just like Myron Freshman says, it doesn't work.

01:36:54.840 The man's got to be the leader.

01:36:56.100 The man's got to make, you know, all the rational decisions for the better of the household,

01:36:59.840 especially if you got to be a protector.

01:37:02.060 You know, a lot of us never had the chance to go to the military or went to the, you know,

01:37:06.720 state law enforcement, you know, higher patrol academies or possibly the gun race to get training.

01:37:13.380 You know, a lot of them never did that.

01:37:14.780 I did that with my brothers, you know, a couple older, I actually went to the police academy about seven years ago

01:37:20.720 and I had my little share of, you know, tastes of what it's like in there with the training on this Intensify,

01:37:26.780 you know, defending the loved ones you care about.

01:37:29.760 So a lot of them never got that chance to understand what it takes to protect your community, your loved ones, and so on.

01:37:37.840 It's a big responsibility.

01:37:39.680 It's not that simple.

01:37:40.680 Most people don't believe in any of that in the household.

01:37:44.920 Oh, it's too crazy for the kids around, you know.

01:37:47.600 So I was like, no.

01:37:49.220 I've been alone ever since because of all this.

01:37:52.200 So I don't like too many people being materialistic.

01:37:56.480 And most of these women I was with just rent the resources materialistic and it just didn't work out, you know.

01:38:03.620 So that's why I'm going to be free agent.

01:38:06.540 And thanks to you, thanks to you, thanks to you, and thanks to Coach Greg Adams in Las Vegas.

01:38:14.440 Nice, nice.

01:38:16.960 CGA is great.

01:38:18.440 Thanks for calling in.

01:38:19.420 I appreciate it.

01:38:21.760 Yes.

01:38:22.560 I'm going to read the super chats real quick.

01:38:25.280 It says you're monetized.

01:38:26.920 I just want to go through them really quick.

01:38:29.860 Tell this dude to listen to Ryan Stone.

01:38:32.120 Dude lives in anxiety.

01:38:33.160 Ian Ironwood, praxeology of a dominant male.

01:38:37.520 Men are raised as defective women.

01:38:40.020 Clue Studio, $50 super chat.

01:38:42.200 Pearl is back.

01:38:42.960 Thank you, guys.

01:38:45.900 YouTube monetization.

01:38:47.900 Yup.

01:38:48.800 Yup.

01:38:49.380 I'm back, baby.

01:38:51.940 All right.

01:38:52.220 Let me check the thing on the website.

01:38:55.840 Let's see.

01:38:56.780 Let me see what else we have.

01:39:03.500 Trad cons are worse than feminists.

01:39:05.200 You see feminists coming with purple hair and pure.

01:39:07.240 Oh, that's you, Doug.

01:39:08.400 MBA.

01:39:10.540 It seems like working hard at a career is going to help me find a good relationship.

01:39:15.080 At one point, is it better to skip school, hit the gym, and bag a boss girl for money?

01:39:20.840 Hey, this is what a lot of the Gen Z guys are doing.

01:39:23.580 They're all like, we can't keep up with these women.

01:39:26.800 Disregard the previous caller.

01:39:28.200 He wasn't defensive or insecure.

01:39:30.180 He came across as an alpha male who stood his ground and didn't see validation from anyone.

01:39:35.320 Some people are just different.

01:39:40.180 Women used to go to college to get some BO.

01:39:43.320 Sorry, Doug MPA.

01:39:44.680 I keep wanting to read your stuff, but I'm like, you're on the call.

01:39:46.760 I'm the Bill Burr bid on marriage.

01:39:49.980 If you're skydiving and you know that two-thirds of parachutes won't open, I'm not doing it.

01:39:55.060 Smart.

01:39:56.560 I don't see any reading ones.

01:39:59.560 Next up, Sean, you're next.

01:40:01.700 And then Joey, you're after that.

01:40:03.640 So, Sean, unmute.

01:40:06.540 Yeah, can you hear me?

01:40:07.840 Yeah, I can hear you, Sean.

01:40:09.140 How's it going?

01:40:11.100 Hurl back.

01:40:12.200 Hurl back.

01:40:13.100 Let's get it, man.

01:40:14.100 Let's run up this money.

01:40:15.380 I wonder, what's the next video, Pearl?

01:40:18.320 Like, now you monetize.

01:40:19.660 What are they going to say now?

01:40:20.760 I don't know, but I'm going to do a lot of reactions this week.

01:40:24.820 I'm going to be like, it'll be like, Pearl reacts to modern women.

01:40:28.180 We're going to film like 10.

01:40:30.880 Talk.

01:40:31.640 It's going to be like-

01:40:32.600 They're going to be talking to YouTube like, how, how?

01:40:35.320 Oh, a nice hat, my friend.

01:40:37.620 Nice hat.

01:40:38.400 Let's go.

01:40:39.300 So, Sean, you've dated everywhere, right?

01:40:42.020 You've lived all over.

01:40:43.300 I know you've called in before.

01:40:44.540 So, what are your thoughts on the high-earning women?

01:40:48.760 Have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you, or would you date or marry

01:40:52.680 a woman that made more money than you long-term?

01:40:56.300 Yeah, so, great question.

01:40:57.920 And shout-outs to you, Doug.

01:40:58.900 And shout-outs to Marvin, too, for subscribing and putting money up on the show.

01:41:02.180 That's important to support the channel.

01:41:03.800 So, shout-outs to you, Marvin, and your service.

01:41:06.120 But when it comes to marry or date, I've been dating women before in my past that had more

01:41:13.340 net worth than me.

01:41:14.320 They didn't make more, but they came from rich families.

01:41:16.660 So, that's why I said they had a higher net worth than I did, yeah?

01:41:19.960 So, I did date those women.

01:41:21.360 And as far as if I got married, which I would not, but if I did, right, it would be more

01:41:27.620 in a way I would marry a woman that's up.

01:41:29.760 Marriage is pretty serious.

01:41:30.980 So, if you ask Genghis Khan or Julius Caesar who they married, it would be a woman that was

01:41:35.880 at their station or equivalent.

01:41:37.380 You get what I'm saying?

01:41:38.460 Because they had to secure grain supplies, you know, had to squash political fights.

01:41:43.580 So, they just never married a side piece.

01:41:46.780 Now, they had concubines for side pieces that they liked, but they never married those girls.

01:41:51.620 So, if I did, it would be some way to protect myself.

01:41:54.940 But at the end of the day, guys, you know, Kanye could be broken in Kim.

01:41:59.080 Kim still got more money out of him.

01:42:01.640 What is her name?

01:42:02.580 Tiana Taylor?

01:42:03.540 She just got divorced, right?

01:42:05.600 She still got more money out of him, even though she said in the claim that she was richer

01:42:09.680 than him.

01:42:10.120 So, at the end of the day, there's no protection.

01:42:14.080 I just wouldn't get married.

01:42:15.820 But I have done it before.

01:42:17.780 I have had those relationships.

01:42:19.380 And it takes a different type of man to be in those type of relationships.

01:42:23.180 Like that Chad, that Giga Chad that called, you know?

01:42:26.040 That dude was like, I'm the therapist to my shorty.

01:42:28.500 She come to me.

01:42:29.680 So, you have to be a very dominant man.

01:42:32.880 You have to be very articulate.

01:42:34.860 You have to be very in touch with your emotional side to be able to, you know, handle all that

01:42:39.640 type of stuff that that type of woman would bring to you.

01:42:42.460 So, as you saw, that guy even said, I do it.

01:42:45.080 I don't got no problem with it.

01:42:46.500 And he probably doesn't.

01:42:47.540 I wouldn't question him.

01:42:48.420 I think he doesn't have no problem with it.

01:42:50.800 So, have you ever dated, when the women had higher net worths, did they ever use it, like,

01:42:56.340 against you or as a way to control you?

01:42:59.380 Was that ever a problem?

01:43:00.360 Yeah, no.

01:43:02.560 So, they would probably use it in a way to bribe me.

01:43:06.520 So, they'll be like, I remember I used to have her, you know, my Japanese girl, she used

01:43:10.020 to be like, I'm at coach.

01:43:11.560 Do you want a coach bag?

01:43:13.040 Do you want this and want that?

01:43:14.480 Because she was trying to buy a favor, trying to change maybe an opinion or something, where

01:43:18.660 I was going to move, where I was going to make my next career move.

01:43:21.920 You get me?

01:43:22.840 But at the end of the day, never in a negative way, because they knew it wouldn't work.

01:43:28.120 You know, there's a thing called S-tests, right?

01:43:31.120 Women test you.

01:43:32.320 And so, they wouldn't be with you if they couldn't control you.

01:43:34.660 And if they know they can't control you, then they'll just know what it is.

01:43:37.860 So, I never got a situation where they attempted to control me.

01:43:41.700 You know, a little test here and there, but I just wouldn't fall for it.

01:43:44.920 You know, at the end of the day, that's your choice.

01:43:46.780 But when you get married, you have no out peril, right?

01:43:49.760 You can't walk away.

01:43:50.800 That's your best leverage as a man, is just to be able to walk away.

01:43:54.740 Moment you get married, then a simp judge is going to come through with the simp lawyers

01:43:59.300 and everybody else.

01:44:01.060 So, it's going to be toy soldiers against you.

01:44:03.540 And you're going to be sitting up there thinking about law and justice and order.

01:44:07.400 And there's a bunch of simps around you, like, you should have stayed with her.

01:44:11.480 We believe everything.

01:44:12.540 We believe all women.

01:44:13.620 And so, then when you get crucified, you're going to sit there looking crazy.

01:44:17.400 So, I think, in my situations, negative.

01:44:21.340 They didn't.

01:44:22.120 But I was a Marine, you know what I'm saying?

01:44:24.060 Combat decorated.

01:44:25.380 They kind of knew, like, oh, you know, what am I finna tell him, you know?

01:44:28.900 Like, he'd been to war and combat.

01:44:30.920 So, I think just being a well-rounded man and not having weaknesses really helped.

01:44:35.960 Because that's just like troops.

01:44:37.160 When you lead troops, right?

01:44:38.180 If they find that you have a weakness, regardless if you're a general or if you're in charge,

01:44:42.460 they're going to try to exploit that weakness.

01:44:44.680 And so, you just have to be, what do they say?

01:44:47.800 Protect yourself at all times.

01:44:49.440 Did you see the tweet at the beginning?

01:44:52.620 The Matt Walsh thing at the beginning?

01:44:54.680 Oh, okay.

01:44:55.320 What did he say?

01:44:55.940 You should call in.

01:44:56.780 Because them dudes be watching.

01:44:57.660 Yo, Carl, you was hitting that dude in the head.

01:44:58.940 No, no, I'm just calling tomorrow, okay?

01:45:01.860 Because we're going to do a show.

01:45:03.160 He got mad at me on Twitter.

01:45:04.720 And I was kind of curious your thoughts.

01:45:07.180 But call in tomorrow if you have time.

01:45:09.380 Okay, back.

01:45:09.980 Because we're going to do a show tomorrow.

01:45:11.020 Yo, Carl, you was hitting that religious dude in the head.

01:45:14.560 Look, shout outs to God.

01:45:16.100 But dudes coming with the religion, man, it's like, come on, man.

01:45:19.620 Y'all should be out here doing the worst.

01:45:21.820 Hey, what did Eve do in the garden?

01:45:23.420 We already know what it is, man.

01:45:24.960 Come on, get out of here.

01:45:26.220 Yeah, did you know what?

01:45:27.460 I've just had so many of the religious guys.

01:45:30.240 And I don't want to make it a religious argument, like I'm arguing for one or the other.

01:45:35.060 But they all are convinced that their religion protects their women from doing these things.

01:45:41.080 And I'm like, like I had a girl.

01:45:44.680 Do you know what's crazy?

01:45:46.360 I can't say who, but there was a girl on the show and she was talking about how devout of a Muslim she was.

01:45:51.340 One of the famous guys that came on the show took her home after.

01:45:56.680 She threw her back that same night where she was talking about her religion.

01:46:00.840 And I'm like.

01:46:03.500 Bro, I lived in the Middle East.

01:46:05.220 I know what it is.

01:46:06.140 I'm like.

01:46:06.960 But again, man.

01:46:07.560 I'm not against God, but the guys, the Bible will not save you against these.

01:46:13.360 What do they want to do?

01:46:14.340 What people want to do?

01:46:15.140 The sad part about it is, feminist women, what do they say?

01:46:19.220 Nature always makes its most dangerous things.

01:46:21.360 Bright colors and different shapes for you to be able to detect it.

01:46:24.620 So feminists have piercings, tattoos, purple hair.

01:46:27.880 So you can see them coming.

01:46:29.280 But these Tradcon 304s, man.

01:46:31.820 You can't see them coming, man.

01:46:33.680 You really can't.

01:46:34.620 And then it's a two-pronged attack.

01:46:37.840 You have the Tradcon women who are trying to manipulate men and be undercover feminists.

01:46:43.220 And then you have the Tradcon men telling you to fall for the trap.

01:46:48.100 Yeah.

01:46:48.480 And I think, Pearl, you might have said it before, but they become the police of the Bible.

01:46:53.260 So they'll come at you with what you want to hear because you're all about the Bible.

01:46:57.200 But then they start guarding what Jesus says.

01:47:00.100 Like, you get what I'm saying?

01:47:01.040 So they'll be like, well, you're not a real Christian man.

01:47:04.240 And then just like they tell you, you're not a real man if you don't do X, Y, and Z.

01:47:08.120 And the Bible is one of the most red pill books ever.

01:47:10.420 No, but they forget those verses, Doug and PA.

01:47:13.480 Yeah, no, they wipe those away.

01:47:14.940 No bad verses.

01:47:16.020 Only the good ones.

01:47:16.740 You talk about patriarchy and all that stuff, but the Bible is it, you know?

01:47:21.800 Yeah, it was the ultimate RP, right?

01:47:24.540 So shout outs to Pearl, man.

01:47:26.460 Pearl's back.

01:47:27.480 Pearl's back, y'all haters.

01:47:28.640 And then shout outs to CGA, Free Agent Lifestyle.

01:47:31.920 That is the after pill.

01:47:33.580 So much respect to you and what you're doing, Pearl.

01:47:36.060 Keep rocking and rolling because you're winning.

01:47:38.440 Shout outs to YouTube.

01:47:39.380 Thank you, YouTube.

01:47:40.200 Yeah, thank you, YouTube.

01:47:41.680 And make sure you call in tomorrow, okay?

01:47:44.220 Because I think I'm kind of curious what you'd say.

01:47:46.580 Go on my Twitter right now and look up Matt Walsh in my back and forth.

01:47:51.840 We're going to do a show on it tomorrow.

01:47:53.080 And everyone, make sure to follow Pearl on Twitter because Pearl gets the party started

01:48:00.580 on Twitter, man.

01:48:01.540 Yeah, I know.

01:48:02.540 I just saw he responded to me.

01:48:05.320 And I'm trying to debate how I want to, what I want to say back.

01:48:10.680 Okay.

01:48:11.660 Thanks, Sean.

01:48:12.220 You say monetization.

01:48:16.100 With a deuces sign up.

01:48:17.760 Be like, monetization.

01:48:20.580 Okay.

01:48:22.020 Joey McMullen, are you ready?

01:48:26.020 You're on mute, buddy.

01:48:26.960 Unmute.

01:48:27.580 Yeah, I'm ready.

01:48:30.140 Can you hear me?

01:48:31.440 Yeah.

01:48:32.560 Joey, how's it going?

01:48:34.620 What's up, Pearl?

01:48:35.520 Congratulations on the monetization.

01:48:37.300 I've been watching you for quite some time.

01:48:39.260 Excited to tell you a story about what it's like to date a higher earner, be married to

01:48:45.620 one, and then, of course, divorce her and be married to a stay-at-home wife.

01:48:50.680 Perfect.

01:48:51.460 Go.

01:48:52.040 Let's go.

01:48:53.460 Yeah.

01:48:54.040 It's an interesting story.

01:48:55.260 When I was 19, I had just finished serving three years in prison, got out, and found myself

01:49:01.600 a sugar mama.

01:49:02.860 Are you Canadian?

01:49:04.440 Yes.

01:49:04.880 I bet.

01:49:05.440 Women love criminals.

01:49:07.720 Go ahead.

01:49:08.160 I'm sorry.

01:49:08.620 Did you have a plethora when you're on dates, like saying, oh, I just got out of prison,

01:49:14.220 and they're like, tell me more.

01:49:16.420 And the panties just melt off.

01:49:18.240 Yeah.

01:49:19.440 Was that like the most?

01:49:20.360 Not as much anymore.

01:49:21.140 Not as much anymore.

01:49:22.160 Because, you know, going from the bottom 1% to the top 1% of earners, you don't really

01:49:26.680 talk about you've been to prison, you know, 20, 25 years ago.

01:49:30.200 It's not as cool as it once was being a grown man with teenage children that are in university.

01:49:36.520 No, you don't.

01:49:37.140 Don't.

01:49:37.720 If they find out, that's how they'll get all the women, you know.

01:49:41.500 Yeah.

01:49:42.260 Well, my son likes to talk about it.

01:49:44.180 That he's a badass and blah, blah, blah.

01:49:46.240 I was like, yeah, maybe 20 years ago, son.

01:49:48.140 Maybe 20 years ago.

01:49:49.220 So, yeah, so I got out, found myself a higher earning woman.

01:49:55.240 Everything was great so long as she was in control of the money and, you know, kind of

01:50:00.420 overseen everything.

01:50:01.560 I was a stay-at-home boyfriend, I guess.

01:50:06.880 She didn't say I needed to work.

01:50:08.160 She's like, oh, go to work when you want.

01:50:09.600 Get a job if you want.

01:50:10.560 I got it.

01:50:11.080 We'll hold it down and blah, blah, blah.

01:50:12.200 I was like, yeah, this is cool.

01:50:13.420 I like this.

01:50:13.980 How much older was she?

01:50:17.260 One year older.

01:50:17.960 Oh, okay.

01:50:18.600 I see her the same.

01:50:19.180 What did she do?

01:50:20.780 She worked at the hospital.

01:50:22.400 Like a nurse or something?

01:50:23.760 Yeah, like in nursing.

01:50:25.080 She was cheating, right?

01:50:28.060 We'll get to that.

01:50:30.660 Okay, sorry.

01:50:31.560 Keep going.

01:50:31.920 Keep going.

01:50:32.820 She was incredibly faithful as far as I know.

01:50:36.580 Okay.

01:50:38.140 Yeah, exactly.

01:50:39.360 Okay.

01:50:40.220 No, I just, the nurses, I hear about.

01:50:44.760 She's gotten projectively worse and now that she's into her 40s.

01:50:48.360 And I'm in my 40s, mind you.

01:50:49.760 This was, you know, 23 years ago.

01:50:51.680 I'm 42.

01:50:54.980 And I've only had two girlfriends and two wives in that period of time.

01:50:59.680 I don't date.

01:51:01.220 And when I do, I'm shopping for a wife.

01:51:02.920 I've always wanted a wife.

01:51:04.260 I've always wanted kids.

01:51:05.080 So I'll preface with that.

01:51:07.280 Ended up getting her pregnant, the nurse.

01:51:09.820 And I started, you know, taking myself more seriously as a man.

01:51:15.080 Wanted to get a job, go to the gym, do things like that.

01:51:18.240 Long before you had to do that on the internet.

01:51:19.800 Like it's really hard pushed on men to get into shape and do that sort of thing.

01:51:24.060 And I wanted to do it simply because, you know, obviously got to take care of the kids.

01:51:28.860 But she also began looking down on me and making fun of me to her friends.

01:51:34.920 And I'd see the way she was talking to other dudes where I knew they made a hell of a lot

01:51:38.860 more money than me.

01:51:41.140 Eventually, I hit it big on YouTube like you, Pearl.

01:51:45.040 I don't get to talk about cool stuff every day, but I talk about fish tanks.

01:51:48.840 And fortunately, I made millions of dollars doing it.

01:51:52.660 I'm also known as the king of DIY on YouTube here.

01:51:57.600 Anyways, look it up.

01:51:59.080 You're going to like it.

01:51:59.680 And put it in the chat.

01:52:02.280 No, don't link it to the chat.

01:52:04.140 I don't need these guys coming in here and being like, hey, how's that nurse?

01:52:08.940 Okay, okay, okay.

01:52:09.980 That's fine.

01:52:10.820 Yeah, so you can look it up.

01:52:12.860 Okay.

01:52:13.140 So I, we end up having children and, you know, I'm literally with her for the kids

01:52:21.360 because to be honest with you, when you're dating a woman that's even a year older than

01:52:26.280 you that makes more money, odds are it's a trade-off for their looks.

01:52:31.080 She wasn't much of a looker.

01:52:34.200 And people were always surprised that I was with her.

01:52:36.500 And it used to hurt my feelings.

01:52:37.700 I was like, dude, this is my wife.

01:52:39.000 And, um, but I realized I wasn't really attracted, you know, never kissed on the mouth, stuff

01:52:44.240 like that.

01:52:44.860 And over time I started making way more than her and, uh, she wanted to start splitting

01:52:50.620 bills 50, 50.

01:52:51.820 And that was the turning point, um, where she just got worse and worse and worse with time.

01:52:58.480 Now that her control with the money was gone and she couldn't control me.

01:53:02.140 It's not like I was running rampant or running the streets.

01:53:05.080 It was like, well, now he can leave me.

01:53:07.400 And there's nothing I can do about it.

01:53:08.820 And I bet you were getting interest from hotter women and that had to drive her nuts, right?

01:53:13.580 The anxiety of it.

01:53:14.500 I don't know if I'd call it interest, but it was absolutely ridiculous because I was traveling

01:53:18.340 the world and girls wanted to talk to me that the type that you see, like in music videos

01:53:23.400 type stuff.

01:53:24.160 And I had never experienced that in my life because I'm from a little town in, uh, Nova

01:53:28.520 Scotia called Truro.

01:53:29.700 Yeah.

01:53:30.120 So it was the first time I had ever experienced anything like that.

01:53:33.580 She's going to go nuts.

01:53:34.240 And I never dipped into any of it.

01:53:35.840 I stayed faithful, but, uh, that sort of thing.

01:53:38.420 They were just so nice and kind and feminine and ladylike and pretty.

01:53:43.800 She wasn't, right?

01:53:45.040 Oh, it was the worst.

01:53:46.220 Have you ever walked over a bridge and you know, that animal that lives under it, that

01:53:50.020 you've got to answer riddles?

01:53:51.700 Yeah.

01:53:52.500 She looked like that.

01:53:54.740 Bridge troll.

01:53:55.420 I have, so I have, I used to have a friend, uh, as a girl and, uh, we met at my first

01:54:03.060 job in public service and she, she got married to this guy and he, he, her now ex-husband

01:54:09.820 was one of the smartest men I've ever met, but he was kind of shipless.

01:54:13.520 He couldn't really stick down to get a college degree.

01:54:16.180 And she had a government job.

01:54:17.420 So she held them down their first couple of years, years of their marriage, but along

01:54:22.180 the way, he actualized, he, he got all these IT certifications and then he, he started getting

01:54:27.840 his name around and doing these IT contracts for major corporations.

01:54:31.000 And he was the same as you were when they first met and got married, he would, he could

01:54:34.600 barely keep a job, but he used his smart intelligence and actualized.

01:54:40.360 Right.

01:54:40.680 So I'm talking, he's making five, six, seven hundred thousand dollars a year, but she never

01:54:45.880 saw him as the new version of himself.

01:54:49.380 She only saw him as the old version and treated him as such.

01:54:53.340 And he literally said that he gets respect from his colleagues, all these people in his

01:54:59.460 field, but his wife didn't see him the way that everybody else in the world saw him.

01:55:05.020 Yeah.

01:55:05.140 Was that your, was that your, your experience?

01:55:08.360 That was, that was like the part of it that I can share with the internet as opposed to,

01:55:13.200 you know, some of the more, um, uh, things that in the divorce agreement I've, I've signed

01:55:19.740 that I wouldn't share on the internet, which was, you know, more physical, uh, related.

01:55:25.580 And, um, it got pretty bad eventually where she just turned into this rotten person and

01:55:30.540 I filed for divorce.

01:55:32.200 Um, I realized that she was, uh, talking to guys behind my back, Lord knows what else.

01:55:38.060 Um, speaking to lawyers on her own, like kind of trying to set me up.

01:55:41.780 Luckily, I was able to get better lawyers and fight for myself as a male, which a lot

01:55:46.300 of men can't.

01:55:47.760 Um, and I got the kids, I got the house, um, and things were great.

01:55:52.920 Uh, I met a girl, uh, a few months later, uh, much younger, uh, 15 year age gap, uh, which

01:56:01.080 sounds horrible, but, um, no, we say good.

01:56:04.520 We say good.

01:56:05.360 No, we say that's a good thing.

01:56:07.500 Yeah.

01:56:07.600 We say good for you.

01:56:09.520 Yeah.

01:56:09.960 So I was 15, you could have went for 20.

01:56:12.460 Oh, no, you can't go for, no, no, that's, I was 35.

01:56:16.620 She was 20.

01:56:17.560 Uh, I was her first.

01:56:19.120 Um, and, uh, she wanted everything and everything the same as me.

01:56:23.800 And it was the first time where I was like, man, this is, uh, somebody I've ever met that

01:56:27.540 was like truly kind and nice.

01:56:29.400 And like, uh, I had opportunities to kind of like explore and go, go travel the world

01:56:35.440 and, uh, test out all different types of, uh, cars, girls, but, um, I decided, uh, after

01:56:43.060 a couple of years of dating with her, we ended up getting married, uh, last year, about one

01:56:49.820 year ago, um, April, May, no, 10 months ago, she's going to kill me if you're not knowing

01:56:54.360 the date where I got married.

01:56:55.300 But, um, but the difference between that and now she's a stay at home wife is, uh, everything,

01:57:03.140 not everything I say goes, cause she's has her opinions and stuff, but it's like, I, she

01:57:09.120 values my opinion as number one.

01:57:11.800 If I want to vote, she's voting for whoever I vote.

01:57:14.180 If I want to, like, no matter what I want to do, she wants to do it.

01:57:16.880 So she's on your team because that's the thing.

01:57:19.780 Like one of the most powerful things a woman can do is be on a man's team.

01:57:23.920 And we know when a woman's on our team, we know it, we can feel it.

01:57:28.140 There's just like a feeling that goes along with having a woman on your team.

01:57:32.380 And that's one of the biggest things that modern women don't do.

01:57:34.820 It's like, especially out here dating.

01:57:36.380 Like I always meet these women where they have to negotiate and question everything a

01:57:41.300 man does.

01:57:42.840 And it just gets to the point where it's just disrespectful.

01:57:45.300 I'm going to ask you a question.

01:57:46.580 Was the, you said that she controlled the finances.

01:57:50.540 Did you get to the point where you're like, I'm tired of you controlling the finances.

01:57:54.740 Did you have to have like a confrontation about the finances?

01:57:58.160 Was that the star that broke the camel's back?

01:58:00.920 I wouldn't say that.

01:58:01.660 It's more like the bills paid.

01:58:03.420 So I would work and like, she would have all the money, all the money go into one account

01:58:08.060 type of thing.

01:58:08.660 And all I cared about is like, is money or our bills paid.

01:58:12.120 And maybe on Friday, can we get a pizza?

01:58:13.960 Like I don't come from money and I didn't have a lot of money even during that relationship.

01:58:18.240 So I never had a huge value on money as opposed to just make sure the bills are paid.

01:58:23.380 Don't call in sick, do as much overtime as you can, et cetera.

01:58:27.140 So, um, I never got frustrated with, uh, the money aspect, just the way she would look

01:58:33.600 at me when people were around and treat me and talk about me or talk, uh, down to me

01:58:38.800 and, or even just make fun of me.

01:58:40.320 And even when I started making like substantial amount of money, she would make fun and her

01:58:46.220 friends would call her out and be like, he makes tons of money.

01:58:50.800 He's relatively good looking.

01:58:52.400 He's sweet to you.

01:58:53.660 She's they're like, why?

01:58:55.120 Cause girls like to show off for other girls.

01:58:57.300 And I, and it always confused me.

01:58:59.680 And, um, and I talked to her when they'd leave.

01:59:02.680 I was like, why do you do that?

01:59:03.780 Like you realize that if I leave you, the grass isn't greener on the other side.

01:59:09.420 She'd been single for seven years now.

01:59:11.560 Um, and doing really bad.

01:59:13.640 Got a DUI in order to start her car.

01:59:15.800 She got to blow into this thing.

01:59:17.720 Like, and you're dating a hot, a hot young woman.

01:59:20.860 Good for you.

01:59:21.700 Girl, if you've seen her, she's smoking.

01:59:23.660 A lot of these women, you actualize and she refused to see it or she saw it and she didn't

01:59:33.580 like it.

01:59:34.060 And it had an active campaign to tear you down.

01:59:36.980 And that's exactly what happened.

01:59:38.000 I love it.

01:59:38.600 When two years, I was warning her, like, if you don't change, if this doesn't stop, if

01:59:42.320 you don't make an active, uh, attempt at changing the way you act and how you react,

01:59:47.160 like I'm going to file for divorce.

01:59:49.500 And she's like, no, you're not.

01:59:50.300 I'll take the kids and I'll take the house and I'll take this and I'll take that.

01:59:53.980 And I was like, well, you know, uh, my children love me, so you can't take them.

01:59:58.880 Um, I was like, if you want the house, that's cool.

02:00:00.980 Because I bought this when I was broke.

02:00:02.540 Imagine the house I can get now.

02:00:04.620 I still live in my little broke house.

02:00:08.740 I love it.

02:00:09.420 Start life over in a, in a, in a studio apartment, sleep on a bean bag.

02:00:14.740 No, no, I, I kept the house and got paid.

02:00:17.420 And, uh, I love it when guys go, go, they say, I'll do better.

02:00:21.160 And then they do it.

02:00:22.960 And that's what happens most of the time, pro.

02:00:24.840 I told you this whole thing where, oh, you know, you, you lose so much, but most guys

02:00:29.260 end up winning, man.

02:00:30.940 Most guys, they get more productive when they get out of a bad relationship.

02:00:34.860 It's like they had hands around their neck and the hands aren't choking them anymore.

02:00:39.480 They just get to work after, afterwards.

02:00:41.840 We stay, men are immature for a tremendous amount of time.

02:00:44.780 And I, I think that we start our heads, you know, get screwed on a little bit more straighter

02:00:50.800 in our mid thirties to later thirties.

02:00:53.540 Um, I think that men start to look, most men who take care of themselves start to even

02:00:58.120 look better, get more attractive, more handsome, that sort of thing.

02:01:01.840 Uh, and then of course they reach, uh, more of their financial strides into their forties.

02:01:06.780 So, uh, I had options in terms of what I could do next, uh, for, for a wife and I could have

02:01:15.000 dated my age, but what comes with that is I have to date their past.

02:01:21.120 I've got to date their children.

02:01:24.080 Um, I got to date all their experiences.

02:01:26.940 I wanted nothing to do with that.

02:01:28.560 I, I wanted, uh, to start with this clean slate and I was lucky enough to find somebody

02:01:34.620 by chance just at the gym.

02:01:36.580 Guys, if you want to meet like a girl of your dreams, go to the gym.

02:01:39.420 They're there.

02:01:40.000 That's where they go.

02:01:41.460 Um, I'm going to ask you a question.

02:01:42.820 So how, how, so you, you're the sole provider of your family, right?

02:01:46.800 Yes.

02:01:47.100 How, how does that make you feel providing for your family?

02:01:50.780 Like, can you, can you articulate the satisfaction that you have of providing financially, mentally,

02:01:59.840 spiritually for your family?

02:02:01.220 Because I think that most men want to provide, we have this innate feeling inside of us that

02:02:06.580 we want to provide.

02:02:08.200 Now, whether you do the work to be able to do that is your choice, but we all have the

02:02:13.140 innate need to provide and you're actually doing it.

02:02:15.520 So can you, can you describe how that feels?

02:02:17.920 Do you, do you feel better doing it?

02:02:19.620 Like what, what, how do you, how do you, how would you describe it?

02:02:22.940 I feel it.

02:02:23.500 I feel it's the same.

02:02:24.440 It feels the same as like, I got to go take a shower.

02:02:26.760 Like you just, these are things that I have to do.

02:02:29.300 Um, I don't feel like it's rewarding.

02:02:31.400 I don't want to pat on the back.

02:02:33.360 Um, this is just what a man's supposed to do is take care of his family.

02:02:37.860 Is he supposed to be the sole provider?

02:02:39.640 I mean, everybody has different preferences.

02:02:41.520 Some people have a wife and a husband or a couple, um, earning money together, which,

02:02:48.020 you know what, in my opinion, however much money you can bring into your household, bring

02:02:52.300 as much as possible.

02:02:53.340 And, um, but what I do find is, uh, for myself when it comes to being a sole provider, uh,

02:03:03.820 I, when my, my children are now 20 and 17, soon to be 18, these, these guys, these

02:03:11.460 guys are going to leave me.

02:03:13.080 They're going to go live their own lives, um, and forget that I raised them and everything

02:03:17.680 I did for them.

02:03:18.640 And I'm going to be stuck here.

02:03:20.160 And I have to make sure that the person that I'm stuck with and, or chose to be with is

02:03:25.980 the right person that I can be with alone.

02:03:28.600 Because once you remove the dynamic of children, life is going to change just as much as when

02:03:33.060 you put them into your life.

02:03:34.260 Cause when you have kids, everybody says, Oh, everything changes.

02:03:37.060 Imagine doing that for 20 years.

02:03:38.500 And then you take them out, you're going to be left with that person.

02:03:41.280 And you're going to be sitting in a room, staring at each other, thinking, I don't really

02:03:44.280 like you.

02:03:45.000 So I'm lucky that I made these decisions to file for divorce, uh, around seven years ago,

02:03:51.920 maybe a little bit more.

02:03:53.280 Um, and, uh, found the right woman for me moving forward.

02:03:58.220 Cause I don't want to run the streets.

02:04:00.040 Uh, I don't want to have girls, a bunch of different girls in my bed all the time.

02:04:04.620 Um, typical, I'm typical though, though, I'd love to, but I just like, when it comes down

02:04:08.920 to it, I just don't think I could do it.

02:04:11.020 Uh, I did that in my younger years and I, I had my fill fellas.

02:04:14.320 It's not like I've only been with two, two women, but, um, had my fill.

02:04:18.460 Um, and, uh, I'm much happier waking up and knowing that because I'm in a age gap relationship,

02:04:25.320 um, when I'm 80 and you know, I, I, I need help changing the diaper that I've got a, you

02:04:30.620 know, uh, a hot little nurse that's going to be able to do it.

02:04:35.400 Well, thanks for, thanks for sharing, Joey.

02:04:37.820 What a, what a nice story.

02:04:39.340 I love it when guys, I love it when guys come and they say, I'm going to do better and they

02:04:44.320 do it.

02:04:44.760 It's just awesome.

02:04:46.060 And, and, and believe me, she's watching your every, your ex is watching your every single

02:04:52.000 move and she knows she messed up, bro.

02:04:53.720 And I guarantee you all the people that were trying to tell you about her behavior and

02:04:58.920 asking why you put up with it, they're, they're telling her she messed up every single day

02:05:03.560 of her life.

02:05:04.460 I'm telling you, I don't do it for revenge.

02:05:06.480 I wish her the best, uh, you know, um, uh, hopefully she doesn't get any rain on her under

02:05:12.560 that bridge, but, um, and, uh, her, uh, riddles aren't that difficult for those that want to

02:05:19.180 cross it.

02:05:21.440 Nice.

02:05:22.180 Nice.

02:05:22.540 Well, thank you so much for calling in, Joey.

02:05:25.000 I'll check out the time.

02:05:26.980 I just subscribed to your channel.

02:05:28.700 So I expect great.

02:05:30.020 I did too.

02:05:30.700 I don't have a, I don't have any fish, but maybe I'll get one.

02:05:34.660 Hey, you'd love fish and fish tanks.

02:05:37.240 Could go in the background here, you know, last and not least, if you want one back there,

02:05:43.980 let me know.

02:05:44.440 I'll fly down.

02:05:45.040 Oh yeah.

02:05:45.880 Maybe.

02:05:47.140 I could be your first fly in.

02:05:48.680 Only if only, only if my producer takes care of it.

02:05:52.540 And I don't have to do any of the work.

02:05:57.180 Bye.

02:05:57.800 Thanks for having me.

02:05:58.760 Okay.

02:05:59.960 How many more callers do you want to do for all?

02:06:01.580 Um, I'll do these last two and then we'll close out.

02:06:07.140 We'll do Matt.

02:06:08.640 Are you there?

02:06:12.040 Unmute.

02:06:14.680 Thanks for waiting, buddy.

02:06:15.700 We really appreciate it.

02:06:16.440 Go ahead.

02:06:17.240 No worries.

02:06:17.900 Okay.

02:06:18.140 So to let you, to let the Pearl know, I've got pretty much three stories, maybe four.

02:06:23.260 I don't know.

02:06:23.720 Okay.

02:06:24.160 Three.

02:06:24.780 One.

02:06:25.280 Yes.

02:06:26.000 Yes.

02:06:26.320 I had a woman go 50, 50 with me.

02:06:28.740 Actually.

02:06:29.280 In fact, this first date she offered.

02:06:31.780 Okay.

02:06:32.340 Which is really, which is really rare.

02:06:34.020 And I have dated a bunch of women, at least two women that were, that made a lot more

02:06:41.460 money than me.

02:06:42.040 When I was still in college doing my associate degree, these two, I had one girl that was

02:06:46.300 working on her master's in psychology that was, well, was hooked up with me for a little

02:06:52.200 while and I've had a, I had a chemical engineer and, uh, working towards her, sorry, uh, chemical

02:06:59.680 engineering student working on her PhD also kind of go in there.

02:07:03.740 She was six years older than me.

02:07:06.220 And so they had their, so they had some serious, serious education.

02:07:10.060 And while I was still, and the engineer went with, I was fresh out of high school going

02:07:13.520 into university and dealt with the PhD higher earn year one.

02:07:18.980 And I don't know what it is, but, uh, they were into me.

02:07:24.360 So, and was it ever a problem for you?

02:07:28.180 Like, did, um, did they ever like hold it over your head or get mad about it?

02:07:33.160 You know what?

02:07:34.320 Education wise, I, that's kind of the other way around.

02:07:38.760 I don't really like it when a woman has more education than me.

02:07:42.660 Okay.

02:07:43.280 I don't know why I did.

02:07:44.620 It just, I just, something odd about it.

02:07:46.640 Like, I feel like, like I'm not, I'm not the guy that's wearing the pants when I'm the

02:07:51.380 guy with, with less education.

02:07:54.020 I really do feel that way.

02:07:54.680 Even if it's psychology, does that even count?

02:07:57.840 Uh, well.

02:07:59.880 Like, I don't know.

02:08:01.260 What are you getting, what are you getting educated in?

02:08:03.940 Being crazy?

02:08:05.060 Like.

02:08:07.000 I don't know.

02:08:08.080 It's just like, I had, I had to say, I had some pretty interesting, um, debates about

02:08:13.060 things.

02:08:13.360 Like I was trying to tell her, like, there's, there's things in the background.

02:08:16.060 He just couldn't make her see it.

02:08:17.700 Okay.

02:08:18.200 And so they had some really interesting conversations, but I don't know.

02:08:22.540 It felt weird.

02:08:24.100 Those are your preferences.

02:08:25.200 I'm the same.

02:08:25.600 I, I genuinely avoid, cause I've had experiences with dating women that make more money than

02:08:30.580 me in the past.

02:08:31.620 So I just don't do it.

02:08:33.180 I don't.

02:08:34.320 And that's a preference of mine only because I've said it in the chat.

02:08:38.440 I've said it to Pearl multiple times.

02:08:40.440 Women that, that one, earn more.

02:08:43.580 And two, if you couple that will, with have more education, it's the one, two punch will

02:08:47.960 talk to you.

02:08:48.900 Like they can beat you in a fight.

02:08:50.800 They will get so disrespectful.

02:08:53.280 Remember men are benevolent.

02:08:54.940 We'll be better educated, make more money, but we won't talk to women the way that women

02:08:59.040 who are better, better educated and talk, uh, make more money to talk to their man.

02:09:03.820 But literally forget that you are physically stronger than her.

02:09:06.540 And she would talk to you with her chest puffed out.

02:09:09.540 So I just, I just avoid it.

02:09:10.920 I think it's gotta be like a, a, like gym rat guy.

02:09:17.960 Who just like, is like an absolute savage.

02:09:22.020 I think those are the only guys that can pull it off because like, I don't know.

02:09:27.340 Those are just like the only guys I've seen that can like pull that off or they just have

02:09:31.280 to be like almost like so Machiavellian, like almost to the point of criminals.

02:09:36.820 You know what I mean?

02:09:38.760 That I like long-term, long-term anyways, no offense to you, Matt.

02:09:44.900 Okay, well, just, just to let you know, like, okay, just, you know, what got me going with

02:09:49.620 the, uh, well, not all women, some women like the brains, eh?

02:09:52.800 You gotta find, those are the ones that are harder to get.

02:09:55.780 Yeah.

02:09:55.920 So what got me hooked up with the 20, with the 26 year old, like I was 18 and I was

02:10:00.340 hooked up with a 26 year old and with the chemical engineering PhD, right?

02:10:04.280 Okay.

02:10:04.540 What got me in her pants, this is not, I'm not fucking kidding.

02:10:09.440 So she showed me her PhD thesis and she did on a hydrogen fuel cell reaction, uh, reactor

02:10:17.280 to be able to take hydrogen and some mixture of methane and come out with huge amounts

02:10:23.640 of energy.

02:10:24.080 But they had a big problem of too much heat creating friction in the cells.

02:10:28.280 And, and I came across a type of studies and through MIT, when I was still here in Winnipeg

02:10:33.780 at the U of W and I, and I was able to take her math without even having all the education

02:10:40.320 yet.

02:10:40.640 I was in all the software, I was able to compound, uh, a type of formula, a type of thesis and

02:10:46.900 give it there and able to increase her reactor to 63% efficient.

02:10:52.320 And she was just blown away from that.

02:10:54.320 She showed that to all her other colleagues that she was working with.

02:10:56.620 They couldn't figure it out why a high school student could do that.

02:10:59.820 And next thing, you know, you know, she's showing me her tits.

02:11:08.420 You were like, this is the best payoff on physics ever.

02:11:12.180 I know.

02:11:12.840 Well, you know, the crazy thing is when you're dealing with the more educated women that are

02:11:16.160 like in these engineering and science backgrounds and stuff, one of the things that got me to

02:11:21.000 leg up, like when I was in the forces and stuff, I've learned how to have access to certain

02:11:25.160 technologies that have not reached the academic world yet, that were just fresh out of requiring

02:11:32.080 a security clearance to access this stuff.

02:11:34.060 Like you had to know your stuff, search through patents and things.

02:11:37.580 And I had the ability to just hand out technology to a lot of my professors at different universities

02:11:42.940 I was going to like hotcakes.

02:11:44.720 And next thing you know, you would just watch their eyeballs sink to the back of their skull.

02:11:48.320 I'm like, sorry, all your work and life's work has already been done before.

02:11:50.780 You just kind of missed the boat on it.

02:11:53.100 And next thing you know, you have next thing, you know, you have some of these women profs

02:11:57.000 that just want to, you know, pull my beard a little bit on my lap.

02:12:01.340 And where the hell is this going?

02:12:02.960 You know, and that's worth more than the money because you know that they're going to get

02:12:07.160 fame.

02:12:08.500 Okay.

02:12:08.940 So the secret to higher educated women is giving them the technology that gives them

02:12:18.100 a one up that they're that much closer to getting that Nobel Peace Prize.

02:12:23.040 And then when one guy shows up in their office, you know, close the door, shitting gold bricks

02:12:28.400 and next thing you know, reconstructing everything that they've ever done with giving them a huge

02:12:33.080 advantage in technology.

02:12:34.380 All of a sudden there that is worth way more than finances.

02:12:39.440 And how long were you with them?

02:12:40.660 Was it like a one time thing or were you like with them for a while?

02:12:44.660 You know, the only relationships last for me about a couple of months and then they're

02:12:48.340 then they just get tired of me and move on.

02:12:50.340 So they probably I wouldn't be surprised if I was fucking a Mossad agent in any way.

02:12:53.760 I wouldn't I wouldn't be surprised because I've gotten to solving some trouble for handing

02:13:03.000 out stuff that I shouldn't be handing out a couple of times.

02:13:06.500 Oh, God.

02:13:07.380 And yeah.

02:13:08.520 So like I said, I'd be really, really careful about that.

02:13:11.720 But, you know, some of these women, they're honey plots.

02:13:14.120 I'm telling you, they'll take care of that.

02:13:16.820 And I've I even and then there's a couple of times there, too, where I ended up hooking

02:13:21.120 up with a university professor at one of the universities here in Winnipeg.

02:13:25.260 I won't talk.

02:13:26.040 This is years ago.

02:13:26.900 But one day coming out of a physics class, I had this woman come in and all these other

02:13:31.460 girls are rushing into this class to get the seats and I'm just kind of like, this is

02:13:35.920 kind of weird.

02:13:36.660 There's no men in this classroom.

02:13:38.260 It's all women.

02:13:38.960 And I'm like, and so I'm sitting there trying to write down the last bit of physics notes

02:13:44.660 and they were doing like really high level computational physics and stuff for electrodynamics.

02:13:49.540 And I thought she was another physics prof.

02:13:51.860 And it's like, what is this class?

02:13:53.900 Oh, it's oh, and she was embarrassed.

02:13:55.920 It's like it's a woman's studies class.

02:13:57.640 And it's like, what?

02:13:59.040 Yeah, it's about embracing the divine feminine.

02:14:02.060 And I'm just sitting there like she looks embarrassed telling me to say and I just laugh.

02:14:07.200 Hey, divine feminine.

02:14:09.300 Like, what the fuck do you use this shit for in front of all these other women, eh?

02:14:13.760 And it's just like, and she's like, excuse me, you are so rude.

02:14:16.620 And I'm like, Stella, shut the fuck up and make me a sandwich.

02:14:19.000 Like, why the hell are you here in this classroom?

02:14:21.460 I was just like, what are you going to do?

02:14:22.800 I was just like, what are you going to do about it?

02:14:24.260 Kick me out of university?

02:14:25.960 Okay.

02:14:26.800 Well, I'll give you my number.

02:14:27.740 I'll give you my phone.

02:14:28.420 You can call somebody who cares.

02:14:29.760 So this woman getting pissed off at me, eh?

02:14:32.140 It's just like, you know what?

02:14:33.000 Maybe I'll talk to you in my office about manners.

02:14:35.280 I'm like, okay.

02:14:35.720 Okay, so I show her up to her office about a couple hours later when her class is over

02:14:39.300 and there's no students there.

02:14:40.600 And next thing you know, I just like, oh, and I sit down in her class.

02:14:43.140 I put my feet up on her desk and I'm like, okay, lady, tell me all about embracing your

02:14:47.940 divine feminine.

02:14:50.240 And next thing you know, it's just like, excuse me?

02:14:51.980 It's just like, you've got the, and I just told her, I was like, you got like the really

02:14:55.280 nicest tits I have ever fucking seen.

02:14:58.360 And next thing you know, I don't know, the long story story, I'm fucking her on her desk.

02:15:01.680 I feel like there is, this is like, this is a-

02:15:07.780 The guys in the chat are going to get ideas.

02:15:10.040 They're going to go to class and be like, you're a great tits teacher.

02:15:14.680 So here's what it is.

02:15:16.040 A lot of these professional women, they're on this strong, independent, I don't need a

02:15:22.220 man stuff, but they get lonely and they get a little bit of attention from a guy that's

02:15:28.840 somewhat attractive and they fall apart.

02:15:31.360 There's that moment of weakness.

02:15:32.680 All these women who say they don't need a man, because one of my friends, she's been, well,

02:15:37.920 we're not friends anymore, but she's a professional woman and she's professionally single.

02:15:42.620 And she's like, she's, she's on these dating apps.

02:15:44.740 And this guy that was a male traveling nurse reached out to her on, on some, on some app

02:15:51.040 and said, Hey, you know, I'm in, they put nurses up in hotels that travel.

02:15:55.680 He's like, I'm at my hotel, come to this hotel.

02:15:58.380 We can meet in the bar, I'll buy you dinner.

02:16:00.100 And then you can just come up to my hotel room and spend the night.

02:16:03.200 And she's like, I can't believe, I can't believe he would say that to me.

02:16:06.640 Does he know I'm a professional woman?

02:16:08.140 I wouldn't do that.

02:16:09.180 I said, he says that because it works.

02:16:12.200 She showed me a picture of this guy.

02:16:13.740 He, he, he's, he's a decent looking guy.

02:16:16.560 All you women, you're going to stay home another Friday night and watch Scandal for, for the 15th time or friends?

02:16:23.920 No, every so often, some of your friends are going to answer that guy's call.

02:16:29.520 They're going to go to that hotel, eat dinner at the bar in his hotel and go up to his room with him.

02:16:34.280 You really think so?

02:16:34.980 I was like, yeah, he wouldn't have said that to you if it doesn't work.

02:16:37.680 All these professional women have this myth that they don't need the touch of a man.

02:16:41.620 They don't need sex, any of that.

02:16:42.780 But then a guy like you comes along and is banging her on her desk in her classroom.

02:16:47.660 Yeah.

02:16:47.820 You know what the cool thing is?

02:16:49.260 I like the, the grit, the best profs are the ones when you have the really long hair, because I'm like, I told you before, I'm like into long hair.

02:16:55.260 I don't mind the nose ring because the nose ring has something fun with it.

02:16:58.560 And I don't like the tattoo.

02:16:59.580 The nose ring is great because you try it when you're trying to, you're fucking them from behind.

02:17:04.220 You're trying to reach up and trying to rip it off their face.

02:17:06.880 Okay.

02:17:07.620 And yeah, it's like, and then, and then you got the long hairs, the handlebars, right?

02:17:11.460 The longer the hair, the more torque you got in your breaker bar.

02:17:14.440 Right.

02:17:14.680 So that's, that's how I look at it as.

02:17:18.420 Well, well, we're going to get to, uh, we're going to get to Miller because he's the last person we met today.

02:17:23.260 Thank you.

02:17:23.780 Thanks for calling in, Matt.

02:17:25.500 Always good to see you, man.

02:17:27.200 Great story.

02:17:28.620 All right.

02:17:29.140 Miller, are you there?

02:17:31.080 Yeah, I'm here.

02:17:31.700 Yeah, I did talk before, but yeah, I was married.

02:17:37.400 Oh yeah.

02:17:37.880 He was on.

02:17:38.900 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:17:40.340 We're going to wrap it up.

02:17:41.540 I just didn't recognize you.

02:17:43.860 Your camera was off.

02:17:45.620 Okay.

02:17:46.040 So we're just going to wrap it up.

02:17:47.400 Go ahead.

02:17:48.520 Congrats on your demonetization.

02:17:50.980 Thank you very much.

02:17:52.900 Thank you.

02:17:56.260 Doug FPA, I want to show you this.

02:17:58.400 This is so funny.

02:17:59.240 I can share my screen with him, right?

02:18:03.620 Yeah.

02:18:05.780 Okay.

02:18:06.460 So, um, during this call, I, um, Matt responded to my response, right?

02:18:16.060 Matt Walsh.

02:18:17.280 And I said, he said, Pearl, I understand you're miserable and lonely and have never been in anything approaching a functional, a healthy relationship in your life.

02:18:26.940 So I'll try to be patient with you, blah, blah, blah.

02:18:29.920 And so then I said, isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary?

02:18:34.500 Oh, let's go.

02:18:35.860 And he said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely and have never been in anything approaching a functioning or healthy relationship in your life.

02:18:42.960 So I'll try to be patient with you.

02:18:44.940 You see husbands and wives who love each other do this thing called joke around.

02:18:48.520 They may, they, this, they may even have this other thing that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.

02:18:54.140 I hope this clears it up.

02:18:55.240 Now go, um, spew your bullshit at somewhere else and leave my wife out of it.

02:19:01.420 And I said, oh, wait, wait, sorry.

02:19:04.400 I didn't read the next one.

02:19:06.380 Um, wait, go, go back.

02:19:08.380 Hold on.

02:19:09.040 Oh, anyway.

02:19:09.500 So he quote tweets that and he said, it's called a joke, Pearl.

02:19:12.660 The mother of my six children is very much my helpmate in a million ways you couldn't possibly understand.

02:19:18.500 That I won't waste my time explaining to you.

02:19:20.660 You can take as many pot shots at me as you want.

02:19:23.360 I don't care.

02:19:24.340 Leave my wife out of it.

02:19:25.420 I promise this is not a road you want to go down.

02:19:27.380 And so I responded, I said, guess who's going to be on my thumbnail tomorrow?

02:19:33.840 Oh, yes.

02:19:35.220 Subscribe to Pearl on X.

02:19:37.000 Pearl gets the party started on X.

02:19:39.500 I'm like, you're not going to tell me.

02:19:41.580 You're his wife tweeted at me first like a year ago.

02:19:45.880 I'm like, you're not going to have a public facing Twitter profile and then say you're above scrutiny, bitch.

02:19:53.060 Yeah.

02:19:54.020 She's a public figure.

02:19:55.400 And then what got your attention initially was just the whole, you know, I existed to troll his account.

02:20:04.220 Like, what about optics?

02:20:05.880 Understand what I'm saying?

02:20:06.640 Like, what does that mean?

02:20:07.920 I mean, it could be a joke, but some people could take it not as a joke.

02:20:12.420 Well, we'll see where this whole thing ends up.

02:20:14.580 I'm like, these people think they're like God's gift to the earth because they got married and had a family.

02:20:21.800 You guys did it in your 30s like the rest of us.

02:20:24.640 Like, get the fuck out of here.

02:20:25.780 You didn't do it traditionally.

02:20:27.600 Like, I don't I don't need the virtue moralist today.

02:20:30.720 All right.

02:20:32.720 The all right.

02:20:34.300 Is it is it wise to look at anyways?

02:20:37.780 Oh, and then Brett Cooper came in.

02:20:40.500 Totally understandable, to be honest, because to be fair, I was calling Brett.

02:20:45.120 She's mad.

02:20:45.960 I don't know if she actually is, but I've done shows on her, so it's fair enough.

02:20:50.740 But she said, Alyssa Walsh is the kind of wife and mother who women should be looking up to point blank.

02:20:57.420 She's fiercely devoted, and she and Matt have built an incredible life together.

02:21:00.960 She's hilarious, a loyal friend.

02:21:02.320 If you know her, you are better for it.

02:21:04.100 And I said, is it wise to look up to a random woman on the Internet who made it her life's mission to troll her husband?

02:21:11.840 God.

02:21:12.820 I'm just asking the questions.

02:21:14.560 I'm just asking.

02:21:16.360 Maybe, maybe we should be, okay?

02:21:18.320 I'm going to screenshot this and say, call in show tomorrow.

02:21:24.880 If they don't come, then you guys are, you guys are, I'm trying not to say the P word anymore, but I can't think of another word.

02:21:36.560 You guys are scaredy cats, I guess.

02:21:40.220 Yeah.

02:21:44.940 I'm going to take a picture of Alyssa Wicca.

02:21:48.320 And call in show tomorrow.

02:21:55.600 Anyways.

02:21:57.780 Anyways, guys.

02:21:59.900 They, look.

02:22:01.660 Yeah, I am choosing violence.

02:22:03.900 Okay.

02:22:04.400 So, anyways, guys.

02:22:05.820 Call in tomorrow.

02:22:07.300 And we're going to do a show.

02:22:10.620 Doug MPA, any final thoughts?

02:22:12.340 Um, yeah.

02:22:16.580 I've, if you're a man worth something, stay away from, here's the thing.

02:22:22.160 You could find a woman who treats you with respect that makes more money than you, but the percentage is slim than none.

02:22:30.240 That's all I'm saying.

02:22:31.580 Women are not benevolent like men.

02:22:33.600 They will use any power they can against you.

02:22:36.840 Because, once again, women want men who are ambitious and motivated to set their, what they want aside to help them achieve their own selfish desires.

02:22:47.620 So, stay away from women who make more money than you.

02:22:50.500 Because, you know, I think it's not a matter of if the disrespect comes, a matter of when.

02:22:55.900 I think that some, you know, as, as John proved when he called, maybe it works for some people.

02:23:01.620 But I think it's a small amount of people.

02:23:03.960 So, why take the risk?

02:23:05.000 Okay.

02:23:07.740 Thanks, Doug MPA.

02:23:09.700 Alright, guys.

02:23:10.480 I'm excited for the show tomorrow.

02:23:12.460 So, make sure you all call in, like the video on your way out, and subscribe to the channel.

02:23:16.280 Ring that notification bell.

02:23:17.880 And I will see you guys.

02:23:19.040 Oh, wait.

02:23:19.880 Um, was there any super chats I need to read before we end?

02:23:23.060 I don't see any.

02:23:24.540 Uh, thank you to Robert.

02:23:26.620 I see yours.

02:23:28.040 I think that's all I see.

02:23:30.120 Okay, guys.

02:23:30.940 See you tomorrow.

02:23:31.960 Thank you so much.

02:23:33.000 And I'll see you later.

02:23:33.940 Bye-bye.

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JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2025

Modern Women Earning More Than Their Husbands (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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