JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Get BLAMED for Destroying Modern Society

00:00:00.000 You're saying before you're gonna say actually do you know why are you asking me these questions is the modern-day era you should

00:00:05.220 Ask me this that's what I think is gonna happen

00:00:06.720 That's there. There's actually something we say that's kind of funny

00:00:09.320 I'm like there is a kind of girl that will lie about her number and lie up, and that's a whale 0.87

00:00:16.560 And it's and it's sad

00:00:20.240 Why are you nodding now?

00:00:24.240 Flip-flopper on the couch

00:00:26.240 Like me personally I think like because me I've

00:00:32.800 Broke it off one time with a girl, but it was mainly it wasn't even the body count like I knew it was high ish 0.88

00:00:40.720 but it's like

00:00:43.120 Doing something with someone I know I think who was it?

00:00:47.520 It wasn't like it was a friend, but he's not like one of the brothers, but it's like a friend like I know him

00:00:53.440 But it's more like you've done stuff for him and

00:00:58.000 I don't think I can be you after that

00:01:00.000 I know what he's like as a person, you know

00:01:02.000 You're in the same hole

00:01:06.080 Is he kind of like a player the guy yeah, he's more like a player like I know him from being a player you know

00:01:11.040 I mean, but it's like you've been with him

00:01:13.600 I mean like for me my

00:01:15.600 Like standards I think that's where like standards come in like you've been with that guy

00:01:19.440 And now I'm with you like come on like what's going on? You know what I mean?

00:01:23.520 But I think that was one of my life 0.70

00:01:25.520 Was he kind of a loser like was it because he was more high status than you or less high status? 0.84

00:01:29.840 I think it was because he was less 0.93

00:01:32.240 So if you thought he was a quality guy would have been different

00:01:36.320 Um

00:01:37.840 I wouldn't think it would have been different

00:01:39.440 But just because I know him I think that makes a big difference if I didn't know the person

00:01:45.040 Then probably like I would have been like okay fair enough that can slide I don't know

00:01:48.720 Oh but because you knew him

00:01:49.840 Just because I know him personally it's like yeah

00:01:52.240 That guy really know what I mean

00:01:53.760 Uh what about you have you ever stopped speaking to a woman because of some things she did before?

00:01:58.400 Uh no that never happened to me

00:02:00.160 I only had one girl which was like a secondary so it wasn't a proper relationship

00:02:05.280 That's about it

00:02:06.160 Okay

00:02:06.640 Yeah

00:02:07.680 Um did you have any other girls that happened to you or the one?

00:02:10.800 Yeah I just learned to recognize it's like you just learn to recognize the sign quicker

00:02:13.760 Uh, but you know as a man when I was single it doesn't mean that I disqualified her from sex 1.00

00:02:17.600 It just means um that's what it was and that's all it was

00:02:20.960 What what signs for guys that are watching this like what signs should they look out for man?

00:02:25.680 That's a I mean, I'm gonna yeah tattoos would be a pretty big sign

00:02:30.080 Um, just any like I'll tell you why tattoos are big

00:02:32.400 So you might say well, that's not nice because I have tattoos

00:02:34.160 I'll tell you why it's a big sign because if you had a good relationship with your dad

00:02:36.880 He would not let you get tattoos when you're 18. No, that's what it means

00:02:41.280 That's why I don't have tattoos, right?

00:02:43.120 It's like that's literally it's like it just tells me you don't have a good relationship with your dad

00:02:46.160 Which it doesn't mean for everybody, but it raises those numbers. There's there's obviously

00:02:50.000 Um, the thing about social intelligence. It's very hard to describe it because it's so nuanced

00:02:54.480 Like and you really have to sort of um

00:02:57.760 Conflate a big number of variables all into one and that's what comprises like the social intelligence thing

00:03:02.080 So it's hard to say like oh because of this and this and this and that

00:03:05.040 Um, but there's definitely signs and when you know, you know

00:03:07.520 Mm-hmm, but it's like the dad thing called that

00:03:10.560 What if she didn't have a dad like

00:03:12.560 Not our fault he goes to the shop and don't come back

00:03:14.960 You know what I mean? Like what if she didn't have a dad like how would you look at her?

00:03:17.120 But that also tells me of course look

00:03:18.400 I'm not saying it's her fault. It's still her responsibility there. I understand it's not her fault

00:03:22.480 But it is her responsibility and it may be like well, I was young whatever. Okay fine

00:03:25.600 I'm not responsible for that. Thank you

00:03:30.080 For your life

00:03:34.320 I know you're not responsible for that

00:03:35.680 But even when I hear you talk like you you sort of blame it on everyone else

00:03:38.480 But you but you kind of you kind of blame like your situation and like this is like like instead of it's my life choices

00:03:46.400 Who have I blamed?

00:03:48.400 It was just earlier when you were saying it's because of like this or because of that like you know it adds to it

00:03:53.040 My my my patroding stuff is it's kind of molded me into a bit of a mess and I'll admit that

00:03:59.040 I think she means like if you if you get like a young guy who doesn't have his dad there

00:04:02.800 Some of those guys end up like alcoholics in prison and some of them end up like amazing dads

00:04:07.520 Do you know what I mean? So like you can come from the same background and have two different completely and that's choices

00:04:13.120 Definitely is life choices. I came from

00:04:16.640 I came from a life which was if I put like I said I put on camera before and

00:04:22.240 What the reaction from people I came from a life that was an absolute mess

00:04:26.640 And I chose not to go down a certain path like I didn't want to be like the man that brought me into this world

00:04:31.920 And I didn't want to be and let my mom down even though my mom I haven't seen her for 13 years

00:04:36.720 But she's schizophrenic so I decided I'm not going to prison 1.00

00:04:39.920 So I have no remorse for people when they say oh well this happened

00:04:44.160 So therefore I've become this I got no remorse for that because you don't have to

00:04:47.920 One of the best one of the best women I know came from a single parent home 1.00

00:04:50.960 And she was abused as a kid and she's like genuinely one of the best women

00:04:53.920 I know because she like went to the church and she sought after like women 1.00

00:04:56.720 She could look up to and she ended up getting married and having a family

00:05:00.000 But it's like you can go down you can be from the same situation and have completely different life outcomes

00:05:04.800 And that's what he's saying. He's saying it's your responsibility what you do with your life

00:05:08.160 It's your responsibility, but not everyone's strong like sure not everyone has that mindset some people actually weak and I'll admit it

00:05:15.840 I've had times in my life where I felt so weak. I don't want to be anymore

00:05:18.640 But why would why would I want to be with a girl that's weak that's gonna don't be with me. I'm not

00:05:23.120 But I'm saying that's what that's his point. Yeah, yeah, okay cool

00:05:25.600 What are you speaking to men like yeah?

00:05:28.000 Watch this show. Yeah, these are the signs and it's not even even for women like honestly 0.99

00:05:33.280 Yeah, I think it's better to date people from two-parent homes. Yeah, no, definitely definitely definitely

00:05:38.720 Because it's easier when you've had a model like something. Yeah, yeah, yeah

00:05:42.320 There is a way so I I've spent significant amount of my time in my youth

00:05:46.560 Thinking about this because I realized I was a really bad judge of character of women 0.94

00:05:50.240 Because when I was like young like coming out of high school going to college and stuff

00:05:52.960 I remember the girls I was following for and trying to be in relationships with they just were horrible people 1.00

00:05:58.080 And I think I think the good lord above every day that I didn't get what I wanted

00:06:03.360 When I wanted at a 20 because if I had gotten what I wanted

00:06:05.920 I would have signed up for a life of massive regret

00:06:07.680 You see a lot of those guys that get married young and then they just get wiped out

00:06:11.760 Right and sometimes you know i'll go on on the show and then guys will comment like that guy is gonna get

00:06:16.400 What's coming to him blah blah blah it's like no and i'll tell you why not here's here's if you're a guy

00:06:20.800 Here's how you can tell what a girl is like, okay 0.99

00:06:23.280 Make it your mission to go out in your early 20s and and just sleep with as many girls as you can 0.99

00:06:28.960 And you might say that's horrible advice

00:06:30.320 No, that's great advice because what you're gonna learn first of all

00:06:33.440 You're gonna learn about the nature of women and i'm not saying do that for your whole life

00:06:37.360 Like eventually you will grow up eventually you will want to pursue a higher purpose

00:06:42.400 But in order to pursue that higher purpose valiantly

00:06:45.600 You have to understand the game you're playing and you don't understand the game you're playing if you've been with one or two girls

00:06:50.800 And you might say that's bad advice. That's exactly the advice i'll give my sons now

00:06:54.320 I'll give my daughters the opposite advice if you want to know about the seriousness of men

00:06:58.640 Don't put out with them

00:07:00.240 Then you'll absolutely learn what men are really after but if you want to learn what women are after go out as a man

00:07:04.960 Remember it's not your job to protect the sexual marketplace as a man

00:07:07.840 It's the woman's job to protect the she's the guardian to that you're the guardian to relationships you want to get socially intelligent 0.97

00:07:14.240 Do it lots of times

00:07:16.240 What do you guys agree with that or disagree?

00:07:19.680 I know what he's saying but obviously back when say my nan and grandad got married

00:07:23.440 My grandad picked a lady and they were like teenagers got married

00:07:27.840 Back in those days marriages worked without men having to go and do that 0.99

00:07:32.000 So it isn't the only way but i do understand

00:07:34.240 But the difference is women today aren't the women of you 0.92

00:07:36.080 No, no, no, no, absolutely

00:07:37.280 The women are like that's what i realized because i used to hear that like i'd hear myron say sleep with 50 women before you settle down 0.99

00:07:42.720 I'm like why would you do that you know what i realized is like men can be manipulated by a woman 0.99

00:07:48.080 That's more experienced than him like you know imagine you you date a virgin right you you you would eat him up

00:07:56.240 You would get him to do exactly what you wanted when you want yeah, yeah, she's not i can understand that yeah

00:08:02.080 Yeah, it's like it like it's not good for us to be in relationships with men that have less experience

00:08:06.480 No, i do agree the guy has got to be more experienced more powerful more anything the woman has got to feel

00:08:12.640 Lower and it she has to tame your devil she has to tame your devil not you team 1.00

00:08:19.360 Devil like well it's it's it's a danger it's a danger it is it is do you guys think we're having a crisis

00:08:26.480 Of female evil in the world because one in three women and female like femininity because one in three women have had abortions 1.00

00:08:35.280 one in four women have an std

00:08:37.280 Oh, i think i wouldn't say evil because it sounds like women are deliberately 1.00

00:08:43.280 But i think women have got no idea what they're looking for no they've got they've got too much permission too much freedom 1.00

00:08:48.080 Yeah, that's what i was about to say there's too much freedom too much encouragement to you know get

00:08:53.200 i think i think it's evil i think it's do you think the women are yes or i think the women influence has

00:09:00.720 no i think that's like a way i think as women like we're always trying to take accountability off 1.00

00:09:04.960 of us and say we're just influenced and guided society but i think i think it's female i think

00:09:11.200 one part of women that's like okay i think there's male evil and female evil and i'm going to butcher this 0.99

00:09:16.080 a little bit but i think i think male evil is like great right that's an example of aggressiveness

00:09:21.360 to the but i think women can be very selfish yeah definitely and i think like men will do more for 1.00

00:09:26.800 like a community and like they'll build a society that's not like they gave us the right to vote in

00:09:31.280 a society that they built because they thought it was the right thing to do now you know some people

00:09:36.160 don't think that they should but that's a different conversation but but like women like we can be very

00:09:41.840 that's like they call it soliplistic solo i can't say the word but basically really selfish right

00:09:47.200 and i think like women when we kill our children that's like a part of female evil because we're 1.00

00:09:52.080 thinking of us before our kids yeah 100 because some people can be like one minute pregnant and 1.00

00:09:56.800 they're just absolutely thrilled at the idea of this little tiny thing growing inside them and somebody 0.99

00:10:00.960 else sees that as like a pain oh my god my body i need to kill it like that needs to die you know for 0.97

00:10:06.400 yourself so it's two different perspectives but then women are supposed to be that way naturally 1.00

00:10:11.840 you know mothers maternal nurturing you're supposed to so i don't know what what's happened no it's

00:10:18.080 not it's not women evil it's the it's it's not that it's not that her like this is where i think you

00:10:22.720 and i a little bit disagree i don't think it's a pandemic of women being evil uh women's nature has 1.00

00:10:27.200 been known to to everybody for a long time look at how religions have naturally developed in religions

00:10:32.640 every single religion has one basic purpose to control a woman's sexuality that's true in every religion 0.66

00:10:37.760 and every major so interesting every single religion controls a woman's sexuality so you have to

00:10:41.600 wonder why because a lot of these religions some develop from each other but some develop totally

00:10:45.200 independently and yet they all have the same converging factors that they're controlling women's 0.99

00:10:48.320 sexuality because because there is a realization that women are naturally hypergamous and that creates 0.99

00:10:53.600 a great imbalance when women are hypergamous right because then all the women go for the same guy 1.00

00:10:57.920 we know this right and so the problem is when all the women go for the same guy you have an imbalance in 1.00

00:11:02.480 society and the way that religion tries to tame that is they say we're going to equalize the sexual marketplace right 0.66

00:11:06.880 but this was also at a time where women had less freedom and men were more masculine the real issue

00:11:11.760 is not that women are evil the real issue is that men aren't masculine enough because women will submit 0.99

00:11:16.560 and i like to use the word surrender women will surrender to a strong focused masculine man they 0.96

00:11:22.080 desire it they crave it and some people watching this like you can't say that you're a silver company

00:11:25.600 that's offensive and yet every woman hearing that is like dear lord i so want to submit myself to a

00:11:30.480 masculine focused right strong man that's exactly what they want where are these where are you guys right

00:11:35.840 that's what we teach it's like that's what we talk about but i think it shows like what happens when

00:11:39.360 women get power in a society it's like we create a system that oppresses men right and i think that's 0.99

00:11:45.120 why we see the lack of masculine men is because we're in a system there's not enough men that are

00:11:49.360 fighting it back and saying you're wrong like like not to you specifically but saying to like when 0.98

00:11:53.200 women are like here's how many to feel there's too many whippy ass guys that are trying to get laid 1.00

00:11:57.120 they're like you're right ladies i'm a feminist too it's like you just want to get laid right but it starts in like freaking like what are they supposed to do it starts in like pre-k for them with their 1.00

00:12:05.840 school teachers i moved countries for this i moved out of canada i'm i left canada as our first as we

00:12:12.080 were pregnant with our first child i left canada with my wife we went to estonia which still has some

00:12:16.480 of those more traditional values and that woke crap is not there because i told you not it is not

00:12:21.520 at all because it's a no the reason you don't find that like in romania hungary bulgaria and in the 0.88

00:12:26.000 a lot of the baltic and the balkan states that are ex-soviet we've been through this our parents left 0.99

00:12:30.080 those countries because ideology overtook reality and everybody just became poor and stupid 0.90

00:12:34.320 we my parents didn't want that now it's happening in the west and so i left i said i'm not having my 0.98

00:12:39.280 kids go through this ideological brainwashing i don't want it for my kids and if i told my wife if

00:12:43.840 it starts coming to the schools here we're going to the middle east man we're going to dubai where that 0.84

00:12:47.600 shit's not going to happen and i'm really intentional about what my kids are learning but i'm just i'm just 0.86

00:12:52.160 more like trying to explain like why i think it happened and i and i think genuinely like men are feminized 0.98

00:12:56.960 from such a young age like oh my gosh i hear guys talk about how like teachers are red flags on dating apps because

00:13:02.880 they're such feminists yeah and then i'm in school for psychology it's like a guy goes to a therapist

00:13:07.680 and now he has a feminist therapist goes to a lawyer he has a it's like everybody let's just defend 0.96

00:13:12.960 everybody while we're here a lot of women are like i will only date a man in therapy it's like 0.98

00:13:16.720 if you're a man if you're a man if you're a man in therapy you need to go get your face punched 0.97

00:13:22.320 you need to straight up just go like this this is like i didn't believe this when i was younger but i see 0.92

00:13:26.640 it and i know people in the in the combat life and other things that are really successful and i've learned a lot

00:13:31.680 of i know several i think therapy makes you worse for the most part i think okay if you got real ptsd

00:13:38.880 go to therapy you know what i mean maybe right not even all of you but like for like they used to go

00:13:43.680 to therapy for like war literally yes yes now it's like i remember they there's this interview on joe rogan

00:13:49.920 right and it was that that girl that escaped like north korea jim jung yeah yeah and she it was this crazy

00:13:57.520 story like she she basically got graped in order to escape she had to like escape slavery all this 0.96

00:14:04.400 like crazy stuff and she had a horrible horrible life and she comes back and she's so confused

00:14:09.280 because she's like what is therapy i just moved on yeah and then and then she like her roommates are

00:14:14.880 going to therapy over her crime they're crying like over their ex-boyfriends and she's like

00:14:19.760 i've literally escaped death like nobody escapes north korea there's only two types of therapy and i tell

00:14:25.200 this to the boys in our group it's like we're in sales we're cold calling on the phone you need

00:14:29.040 some phone therapy and you need some gym therapy that's your therapy pick up the phone start making

00:14:34.080 money go to the gym start making muscle i think what they're doing is they're outsourcing families

00:14:38.640 like you're supposed to go to your mother your brothers your sisters and they can give you a

00:14:42.320 completely different perspective on a situation than a therapist is going to because okay if my sister

00:14:47.920 comes to me and says this person reacted like this this is the problem i know my sister so i know how my

00:14:53.680 sister talks more than the therapist so the therapist might say oh well you poor baby everyone 1.00

00:14:59.040 hates you they're gaslighting you they use these like crazy words for problems like gaslighting

00:15:04.640 trauma all this and when i would be like well you were probably being a to her you know

00:15:09.920 what i mean because i i know my or maybe she would say to me you know you were doing this because who

00:15:14.240 knows you better than their family but the problem is they're they're saying that the dad's not important

00:15:18.400 so they're kicking the dad out of the home with the policies that they push now we have our

00:15:22.480 single parent homes and the birth rate is going down where we only have 1.2 kids how are you going

00:15:27.040 to talk to siblings if you have none and so it's like they're outsourcing the things to straight

00:15:32.800 like why would a stranger give you better advice than someone that loves you and wants the best for

00:15:36.640 you that's true but none of us have family good family members you know sometimes it's like where'd you

00:15:43.600 go too far yeah and that's women's fault well yeah because because yeah yeah i know yeah it is because 1.00

00:15:50.240 women we have all the sexual power right now so if if um not not the kids fault but like the parents 1.00

00:15:56.080 usually it's the woman because the woman usually leaves when we're in relationships we usually 1.00

00:15:59.920 divorce if we get married or we pick the guys that don't make good husbands like we're in control 1.00

00:16:05.120 sex tends to come before relationships in 2023 so women are 100 in control of sex 1.00

00:16:10.560 so really i think that women have ruined society in a way by by breaking up families 1.00

00:16:17.200 in my family it's the men that have done it all right not not one woman in my fam no yeah not not

00:16:26.400 one woman that i know in my family that i'm close with is married and their husbands have cheated left or

00:16:32.960 they've all they've all chosen to surrender to that man whose fault is that it doesn't sound like

00:16:37.680 they're very good at choosing no they're not i'm not i'm curious what happened with your would you mind

00:16:43.600 what happened with your parents my parents um my dad he was used to great my mom used to beat her up 0.73

00:16:51.360 used to like abuse her how old were you when he left on and off it was i was probably about

00:16:59.280 seven seven okay do you remember yeah i remember everything i remember everything because a lot of

00:17:05.520 times like women um and i'm just saying this because i'm like doing a documentary on divorce yeah

00:17:11.440 um a lot of times they don't tell the guy's side of the story and so i i would ask this this my

00:17:18.080 dad is he's a criminal he's a big criminal yeah yeah like like everyone knows he's not a very good

00:17:23.760 person so so why why did your mom pick him she was 15 and she had a baby and he used to put guns to 0.90

00:17:31.440 her head and stuff and he used to make her just do things she was scared he used to threaten to kill my

00:17:35.440 nan killed the family the baby was it you or a different baby just me that's the only one oh but

00:17:41.600 she had to pick him like before that yeah she did but she was young she was a kid still i was 15. yeah

00:17:46.640 where was her dad that was my next he turned gay he what he was gay so he was with my nan and then 0.61

00:17:56.080 this is a crazy yeah yeah this is crazy and this is what i'm trying to get over in my life so um my

00:18:02.400 nan was with my granddad for 18 years and then found out he was gay he left the family moved to

00:18:10.880 a different country and then obviously my nan's parents died around that time so my mom lost um

00:18:17.040 grandparents and then she had me she went she went to uni my mom's a qualified heart nurse now so she 0.77

00:18:22.800 to me she did well for everything that we did go through as a family um but yeah and do you think your

00:18:29.920 life would be different if you had two parents in your life definitely yeah 100% i don't have that

00:18:35.600 guidance or support this is why it's so important on women to choose correctly because if you don't 1.00

00:18:40.800 choose correctly it affects everyone else yeah it's not just like when we pick someone it's really not

00:18:45.440 about us it's about our kids because if you have kids with the wrong guy like you now like you know

00:18:50.800 you're in a situation where you you know you've done sex work and it's going to be harder for you and

00:18:55.120 like yeah definitely and the trauma like continues yeah it's like one big cycle yeah yeah you know

00:19:00.880 what's crazy to me was because i grew up in jamaica right and i grew up with my nana and i live i learned

00:19:07.440 both from my nana you know i learned the man side of things and i learned the female side of things she 1.00

00:19:12.960 learned me how to work hard how to do things and it's like i had a granddad but i didn't learn that from

00:19:19.840 him i just learned all that from my nana and my mom and dad they can't really teach me much because

00:19:24.880 i've learned so much from my nana over the past years that when my dad tell me i'm like i already

00:19:31.280 know that because my nana already told me i've seen my nana do it you know what i mean like this time

00:19:36.160 where it's like we're getting hurricanes storms stuff like that i'm gonna know we'll be outside

00:19:41.120 how did you learn how to like tie a tie and like do like fix a car do you know how to do that stuff

00:19:45.680 yeah i did your nana taught you yeah nana taught me all of it and it's literally like looking at

00:19:50.720 women back then and looking at women now it's like different story it's different story it's like and

00:19:55.840 it's like i think it's social media and all the technology because it's like the more you the more

00:20:02.000 you know it's like it's the worst for you the less you know is the better i think also sorry did you

00:20:07.680 say you were from jamaica yeah so do you think the gender roles are more clear in jamaica do you think

00:20:13.600 people stick to that more so your nan would have thought you're a boy you learn this or because

00:20:18.640 i obviously hear that's not really as um popular yeah i think it's a bit different here it's like

00:20:25.360 yeah hey i think it's a good thing that you were taught all those things it's it's like hey it's like

00:20:30.400 hey you're a female no you're female hey you're male no you're male but it's like when push come to

00:20:36.160 shove and you have to do things yeah you're not a male or a female you just need to get that done you

00:20:40.800 know i mean and that's what my nana taught me as a person sorry i didn't mean that your nan wasn't

00:20:45.200 being a woman i meant that she knew you were a boy and you had to learn these things if whether there

00:20:49.600 was a man there to teach it or not is what sorry what i was getting yeah i think i get what you're

00:20:53.360 saying but i think as a man you it's important to learn about both sides you know it's not just oh you're

00:20:59.440 a man just be a man and not learn how a female thinks or operate you know i mean i think it's important

00:21:05.760 as a man that you should know how to be attached with your feminine side but you can still be

00:21:09.840 masculine you know i mean like can i say something yeah so i grew up with a mom and dad so they were

00:21:15.200 like married for 25 years and then my parents divorced in like 2017 and my whole life because

00:21:23.360 my dad like he had cancer so he was on pension money so he was doing like what a woman should do at 1.00

00:21:30.800 home and then my mom was doing like what a man should do so like my mom was like doing her part-time 1.00

00:21:38.880 job as a care worker and then my dad was at home like cleaning cooking like doing what a woman should 1.00

00:21:47.040 do and then when i was younger i thought like that was normal but now i realize like i'm 23 now

00:21:55.120 that it should it shouldn't have never been that way they did what was necessary didn't they to

00:22:01.680 yeah yeah it was needed do you think that affected their relationship yeah because like now my mom is 0.96

00:22:07.920 married with a younger guy um like that guy does everything for her that i'm like my dad didn't do

00:22:18.640 because like my dad like mom like my mom told my dad like oh yeah get a job you know like bring some

00:22:24.560 money in and then my dad was just like he thought he was doing enough like you know taking the kids

00:22:32.480 to school cleaning cooking and for my mom i don't think that was enough for her so she left him it's

00:22:40.640 very hard to find that attractive i think isn't it for a woman even if it feels harsh that you just can't

00:22:47.680 you can't control that can't lie to yourself about it no why why do you think women tell men that 1.00

00:22:54.320 they want a guy that's in touch with their emotions when they leave guys that are i think they think

00:22:59.120 it's true when they say it when they see it and then they're like whoa can you stop crying because

00:23:04.640 because because we're living in a society where like no because we live in a society on social media

00:23:08.880 and that kind of that kind of a statement on social media gets you you go girl hard hard hard men are 0.99

00:23:13.200 crap trash they should be in touch whatever because we're we're respecting attention more than we respect 0.99

00:23:18.960 outcome also because girls like a cuddle so you think that's what you i mean when you're sitting 1.00

00:23:25.040 lonely at home you think you're missing a cuddle yeah so that's what you've yeah not not when you're

00:23:30.080 ovulating so that's the problem right it's like that's an emotional response you know it's interesting

00:23:33.760 like i thought about this oh it is it is because different types of different types of the different

00:23:38.720 times in the cycle you're gonna want different things you're gonna you know put that out to the

00:23:41.680 world some guy's gonna read that oh all i have to do is tell a girl that i like to cuddle and i'll 1.00

00:23:45.440 have lots of girls and that's a bad way to compete i'm saying the girl is wrong when she thinks that 1.00

00:23:48.480 of course she is i'm saying it's wrong but that's what you think in the moment that you're on your

00:23:52.320 own swipe you know looking for somebody i made a decision so my mom had earned my dad and then

00:23:57.280 they got divorced after like 22 years which is not surprising because my mom started to out on my

00:24:00.880 dad and she was like oh yeah it was kind of cool i made a decision way before i ever got married that

00:24:05.680 my wife was not going to work like i'm like i'm going to retire my wife i'll tell you and i'll tell you

00:24:09.280 the base of my but the basis of that decision for me was really interesting right it's it's rooted in the fact

00:24:14.240 that if my wife works is because she has to work obviously in order to help support the family and 0.99

00:24:18.960 then let's say my wife wants to make more money and if she has a traditional job then she has to 1.00

00:24:22.800 ask for a raise and who's she going to ask for a raise her boss and it's statistically kind of likely 1.00

00:24:29.040 you know men tend to work a lot more hours because they're not you know faced with the burden of

00:24:32.560 childbearing it's kind of likely she's going to have to go to another man to ask for an increase in 1.00

00:24:38.160 her lifestyle i find that really offensive to my marriage if my wife has to approach another man and 1.00

00:24:43.200 he's in control of our lifestyle wow that's like to me that's a pimp and that's that was my the

00:24:48.000 base of my decision like my wife will never ask another man for an increase in lifestyle and you do 0.51

00:24:51.920 the same for your daughters right 100 100 you know what's interesting um i didn't realize

00:24:58.800 how inverse the relationship like basically when women started working that's when we stopped having 1.00

00:25:03.680 children like i i didn't realize how like because i always thought it was with birth control and it

00:25:08.400 partially is but when women um basically started going to college and working in the 20s that's 1.00

00:25:14.400 like when the birth rate started to drop and you're like it was at like four or five 100 years ago and

00:25:21.280 that's at like 1.5 imagine putting that into just a dating because a lot of people watching the show

00:25:25.280 probably a little bit younger i'm 40 and they're probably like just in the dating state imagine like

00:25:29.200 you're a guy dating a girl and she wants to go on a date and she goes to another man to ask for his money

00:25:33.360 so that you can go on a date with her it's like who's paying for that date that's scary

00:25:40.800 i'm gonna read super chat for a second okay guys make sure you like the video um let's get to a

00:25:46.560 thousand likes okay there's over a thousand of you in here we have 780 likes 780 i think unless i didn't

00:25:53.360 refresh it and it's more sometimes i do that's what it's like it's like happy a like is free this is just

00:26:01.280 rude this is just um it's like okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna read the super chats

00:26:11.520 but i'm gonna be upset if after we are still we are not at a thousand likes this is this is crazy

00:26:16.880 guys okay joe w don't forget about poland dimitri we went through uh commie ideology too huge respect to

00:26:24.800 my slavic brother i'm proud of you man some advice for short kings how do we overcome that disadvantage

00:26:30.800 we're gonna do that after i read the super chats i'll ask him okay dion c pearl do a show with auntie 0.92

00:26:36.960 and dimitri on the sofa the two of them would put so many people on the right track in life dimitri

00:26:41.360 you rock i think that's a great idea interracial relationships auntie's um she's in the she's out of

00:26:47.920 town for a bit but she'll be back interracial relationships i'm a 41 year old currently with

00:26:53.200 a 21 year old who pursued me for weeks i had accepted that i wasn't going to be able to perform

00:26:58.320 sexually at the best until i gave into her advances in a week we had we had it 15 times wow that is a lot

00:27:06.720 of times you are a happy man okay guys no i bet he's not stepping out you know what i mean guys no wonder 0.99

00:27:17.280 she drinks pickle juice she's disgusting 1.00

00:27:28.880 everything is haram and islam is is bad for you and the closer you are to the teachings of islam the 1.00

00:27:36.080 more based and happy you are research islam yourselves or talk to two scholars because the media lies

00:27:41.760 you know i recently had someone try to convert me on the streets yeah and sometimes i'm like you

00:27:47.440 don't know who you're coming up to but i had a very interesting conversation they gave me a quran

00:27:52.720 um dion c dimitri i'm so glad you're back on the show still the godfather of this of the show you need

00:27:58.800 to get a youtube channel set up willie um pain jeline something uh i'm sorry guys i'm not good at

00:28:05.680 pronouncing names it's just like my my kryptonite in life what if government gave free cars for 25

00:28:12.880 year marriage with kids and free house for 50 year marriages with kids shout out to my fellow single

00:28:19.120 dads that would be a better incentive than the one we have now which pays you to leave but um i i judas 0.95

00:28:27.600 fly chat this girl is not attractive um gus um the the men in the front row are an example that the

00:28:37.840 simpdemic is real as a simp who wants women with experience they aren't good leaders you can attract 1.00

00:28:44.880 the women they want thanks for putting the simps in their place um carlos uh for pickles please watch

00:28:52.160 the jar because classy ladies with neck tattoos will be trying to drink it when you're not looking 1.00

00:28:58.880 let me let me refresh it one more time i'm not classy i'll put it out there i'm not i never will be

00:29:04.240 i'm not a classy woman um okay so the the short comment well first of all two things number one

00:29:11.360 pickle juice has a name it's brine b-r-i-n-e so that's use that for your next world um and i think

00:29:16.960 calling you pickle isn't nice when we have such a great nickname pickle trick because i'm a big fan of

00:29:20.800 pickle rick pickle trick oh i have a pickle rick pillow on my bed so now you're pickle trick so

00:29:29.520 that's really good um there's actually there's actually so let me tell you a quick story pearl

00:29:33.760 and we were talking about this before the show i was five foot five and a half like i was about 162

00:29:38.560 centimeters coming out of high school in grade 12 i was five foot five i was a little dude and i was

00:29:42.720 like and so for me i was like being a little dude in high school is really hard because i just hit it

00:29:46.720 late man i just i had a i didn't know i was going to turn out tall i was just like a little guy going

00:29:50.480 into college i've always identified as like the short little guy right and that made it really

00:29:53.840 hard for me so i made like a decision that i have to work on other things and i'm really glad i went

00:29:58.080 through that because it really forced me to work on my social intelligence like i read a lot of books

00:30:02.800 like this is before we had these shows before the internet i was just buying books on psychology

00:30:07.360 and like the female brain is a good one uh there's one called the male brain it's really interesting too

00:30:11.520 i was just buying all these psychology books to learn about mating habits actually to understand

00:30:15.520 how to compete in a marketplace as a five foot five man um which was which was more challenging

00:30:20.560 what's interesting though so all my decisions that i made in like university and then afterwards

00:30:24.640 were all about how to compete as a five foot five man during that time i grew a lot and then i became

00:30:29.840 dangerous because now i'm like tall and i have the social intelligence i worked on with all the other

00:30:34.960 guys that were naturals didn't have to work on it for a lot of guys going to the gym is is sort of that

00:30:39.520 but there's a really interesting study i read that said that the top one percent man is is really easy to

00:30:44.800 define it's making six figures a hundred thousand and a six foot tall why because about ten percent of

00:30:49.280 men roughly are six foot or taller about ten percent and about ten percent of men in the western world

00:30:53.280 statistically make a hundred thousand or more that's a real stat so ten percent of ten percent is one

00:30:56.880 percent so if you're if you want to be in the one percent you got to be six foot make six figures for

00:31:01.600 every inch that you give up for every two and a half centimeters for our british listeners for every

00:31:05.120 inch you give up under six foot tall you compensate for that with an extra hundred thousand dollars in

00:31:09.120 income no way so if you're if you're five eleven it's two hundred thousand to be top one percent if

00:31:13.840 you're five ten it's three hundred thousand and if you're five nine it's four hundred thousand if

00:31:17.920 some of you guys are listening on five eight i have to make half a million dollars a year that sounds

00:31:20.560 like a lot it's actually not it's not that crazy it's very achievable let me tell you guys something

00:31:25.040 if you want to know the statistic of how achievable it is more men have six packs sorry reverse that

00:31:31.920 more men are are millionaires than those that have six packs now can you believe that if you can go to

00:31:36.800 the gym eventually you can develop a six pack you might say yes i can there are fewer men that have a

00:31:41.360 six pack than there are then there are million men correct because there's not one out of ten guys

00:31:45.040 have six packs right right pickle trick you've seen men's stomach not one out of ten have six packs

00:31:52.240 you've done it you're if you're if you like so so so you can imagine that actually becoming a millionaire

00:31:57.200 is statistically easier uh than than developing a six pack again plugging lgfg guys lgfg.com if you go to

00:32:03.600 our website we recruit men to make a million dollars here that's why i'm here that's why i'm here

00:32:06.640 what what is the quickest way to make a million dollars other than working probably pickle tricking

00:32:12.720 right um so i don't know the answer to that but but i'll tell you i know i probably know about 15

00:32:20.080 000 millionaires that are clients of our company so i've i've talked a lot of them i interviewed a

00:32:23.680 lot of them starting a podcast literally interviewing the top one percent of men as many of you know i was

00:32:28.320 just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to help

00:32:36.240 please consider sending a super thanks below every donation helps and it helps make what we do possible

JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023

Modern Women Get BLAMED for Destroying Modern Society

Episode Stats

Summary

Transcript