JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023


Modern Women Get BLAMED for Destroying Modern Society


Episode Stats

Length

32 minutes

Words per Minute

220.61328

Word Count

7,252

Sentence Count

22

Misogynist Sentences

64

Hate Speech Sentences

29


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You're saying before you're gonna say actually do you know why are you asking me these questions is the modern-day era you should
00:00:05.220 Ask me this that's what I think is gonna happen
00:00:06.720 That's there. There's actually something we say that's kind of funny
00:00:09.320 I'm like there is a kind of girl that will lie about her number and lie up, and that's a whale
00:00:16.560 And it's and it's sad
00:00:20.240 Why are you nodding now?
00:00:24.240 Flip-flopper on the couch
00:00:26.240 Like me personally I think like because me I've
00:00:32.800 Broke it off one time with a girl, but it was mainly it wasn't even the body count like I knew it was high ish
00:00:40.720 but it's like
00:00:43.120 Doing something with someone I know I think who was it?
00:00:47.520 It wasn't like it was a friend, but he's not like one of the brothers, but it's like a friend like I know him
00:00:53.440 But it's more like you've done stuff for him and
00:00:58.000 I don't think I can be you after that
00:01:00.000 I know what he's like as a person, you know
00:01:02.000 You're in the same hole
00:01:06.080 Is he kind of like a player the guy yeah, he's more like a player like I know him from being a player you know
00:01:11.040 I mean, but it's like you've been with him
00:01:13.600 I mean like for me my
00:01:15.600 Like standards I think that's where like standards come in like you've been with that guy
00:01:19.440 And now I'm with you like come on like what's going on? You know what I mean?
00:01:23.520 But I think that was one of my life
00:01:25.520 Was he kind of a loser like was it because he was more high status than you or less high status?
00:01:29.840 I think it was because he was less
00:01:32.240 So if you thought he was a quality guy would have been different
00:01:36.320 Um
00:01:37.840 I wouldn't think it would have been different
00:01:39.440 But just because I know him I think that makes a big difference if I didn't know the person
00:01:45.040 Then probably like I would have been like okay fair enough that can slide I don't know
00:01:48.720 Oh but because you knew him
00:01:49.840 Just because I know him personally it's like yeah
00:01:52.240 That guy really know what I mean
00:01:53.760 Uh what about you have you ever stopped speaking to a woman because of some things she did before?
00:01:58.400 Uh no that never happened to me
00:02:00.160 I only had one girl which was like a secondary so it wasn't a proper relationship
00:02:05.280 That's about it
00:02:06.160 Okay
00:02:06.640 Yeah
00:02:07.680 Um did you have any other girls that happened to you or the one?
00:02:10.800 Yeah I just learned to recognize it's like you just learn to recognize the sign quicker
00:02:13.760 Uh, but you know as a man when I was single it doesn't mean that I disqualified her from sex
00:02:17.600 It just means um that's what it was and that's all it was
00:02:20.960 What what signs for guys that are watching this like what signs should they look out for man?
00:02:25.680 That's a I mean, I'm gonna yeah tattoos would be a pretty big sign
00:02:30.080 Um, just any like I'll tell you why tattoos are big
00:02:32.400 So you might say well, that's not nice because I have tattoos
00:02:34.160 I'll tell you why it's a big sign because if you had a good relationship with your dad
00:02:36.880 He would not let you get tattoos when you're 18. No, that's what it means
00:02:41.280 That's why I don't have tattoos, right?
00:02:43.120 It's like that's literally it's like it just tells me you don't have a good relationship with your dad
00:02:46.160 Which it doesn't mean for everybody, but it raises those numbers. There's there's obviously
00:02:50.000 Um, the thing about social intelligence. It's very hard to describe it because it's so nuanced
00:02:54.480 Like and you really have to sort of um
00:02:57.760 Conflate a big number of variables all into one and that's what comprises like the social intelligence thing
00:03:02.080 So it's hard to say like oh because of this and this and this and that
00:03:05.040 Um, but there's definitely signs and when you know, you know
00:03:07.520 Mm-hmm, but it's like the dad thing called that
00:03:10.560 What if she didn't have a dad like
00:03:12.560 Not our fault he goes to the shop and don't come back
00:03:14.960 You know what I mean? Like what if she didn't have a dad like how would you look at her?
00:03:17.120 But that also tells me of course look
00:03:18.400 I'm not saying it's her fault. It's still her responsibility there. I understand it's not her fault
00:03:22.480 But it is her responsibility and it may be like well, I was young whatever. Okay fine
00:03:25.600 I'm not responsible for that. Thank you
00:03:30.080 For your life
00:03:34.320 I know you're not responsible for that
00:03:35.680 But even when I hear you talk like you you sort of blame it on everyone else
00:03:38.480 But you but you kind of you kind of blame like your situation and like this is like like instead of it's my life choices
00:03:46.400 Who have I blamed?
00:03:48.400 It was just earlier when you were saying it's because of like this or because of that like you know it adds to it
00:03:53.040 My my my patroding stuff is it's kind of molded me into a bit of a mess and I'll admit that
00:03:59.040 I think she means like if you if you get like a young guy who doesn't have his dad there
00:04:02.800 Some of those guys end up like alcoholics in prison and some of them end up like amazing dads
00:04:07.520 Do you know what I mean? So like you can come from the same background and have two different completely and that's choices
00:04:13.120 Definitely is life choices. I came from
00:04:16.640 I came from a life which was if I put like I said I put on camera before and
00:04:22.240 What the reaction from people I came from a life that was an absolute mess
00:04:26.640 And I chose not to go down a certain path like I didn't want to be like the man that brought me into this world
00:04:31.920 And I didn't want to be and let my mom down even though my mom I haven't seen her for 13 years
00:04:36.720 But she's schizophrenic so I decided I'm not going to prison
00:04:39.920 So I have no remorse for people when they say oh well this happened
00:04:44.160 So therefore I've become this I got no remorse for that because you don't have to
00:04:47.920 One of the best one of the best women I know came from a single parent home
00:04:50.960 And she was abused as a kid and she's like genuinely one of the best women
00:04:53.920 I know because she like went to the church and she sought after like women
00:04:56.720 She could look up to and she ended up getting married and having a family
00:05:00.000 But it's like you can go down you can be from the same situation and have completely different life outcomes
00:05:04.800 And that's what he's saying. He's saying it's your responsibility what you do with your life
00:05:08.160 It's your responsibility, but not everyone's strong like sure not everyone has that mindset some people actually weak and I'll admit it
00:05:15.840 I've had times in my life where I felt so weak. I don't want to be anymore
00:05:18.640 But why would why would I want to be with a girl that's weak that's gonna don't be with me. I'm not
00:05:23.120 But I'm saying that's what that's his point. Yeah, yeah, okay cool
00:05:25.600 What are you speaking to men like yeah?
00:05:28.000 Watch this show. Yeah, these are the signs and it's not even even for women like honestly
00:05:33.280 Yeah, I think it's better to date people from two-parent homes. Yeah, no, definitely definitely definitely
00:05:38.720 Because it's easier when you've had a model like something. Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:05:42.320 There is a way so I I've spent significant amount of my time in my youth
00:05:46.560 Thinking about this because I realized I was a really bad judge of character of women
00:05:50.240 Because when I was like young like coming out of high school going to college and stuff
00:05:52.960 I remember the girls I was following for and trying to be in relationships with they just were horrible people
00:05:58.080 And I think I think the good lord above every day that I didn't get what I wanted
00:06:03.360 When I wanted at a 20 because if I had gotten what I wanted
00:06:05.920 I would have signed up for a life of massive regret
00:06:07.680 You see a lot of those guys that get married young and then they just get wiped out
00:06:11.760 Right and sometimes you know i'll go on on the show and then guys will comment like that guy is gonna get
00:06:16.400 What's coming to him blah blah blah it's like no and i'll tell you why not here's here's if you're a guy
00:06:20.800 Here's how you can tell what a girl is like, okay
00:06:23.280 Make it your mission to go out in your early 20s and and just sleep with as many girls as you can
00:06:28.960 And you might say that's horrible advice
00:06:30.320 No, that's great advice because what you're gonna learn first of all
00:06:33.440 You're gonna learn about the nature of women and i'm not saying do that for your whole life
00:06:37.360 Like eventually you will grow up eventually you will want to pursue a higher purpose
00:06:42.400 But in order to pursue that higher purpose valiantly
00:06:45.600 You have to understand the game you're playing and you don't understand the game you're playing if you've been with one or two girls
00:06:50.800 And you might say that's bad advice. That's exactly the advice i'll give my sons now
00:06:54.320 I'll give my daughters the opposite advice if you want to know about the seriousness of men
00:06:58.640 Don't put out with them
00:07:00.240 Then you'll absolutely learn what men are really after but if you want to learn what women are after go out as a man
00:07:04.960 Remember it's not your job to protect the sexual marketplace as a man
00:07:07.840 It's the woman's job to protect the she's the guardian to that you're the guardian to relationships you want to get socially intelligent
00:07:14.240 Do it lots of times
00:07:16.240 What do you guys agree with that or disagree?
00:07:19.680 I know what he's saying but obviously back when say my nan and grandad got married
00:07:23.440 My grandad picked a lady and they were like teenagers got married
00:07:27.840 Back in those days marriages worked without men having to go and do that
00:07:32.000 So it isn't the only way but i do understand
00:07:34.240 But the difference is women today aren't the women of you
00:07:36.080 No, no, no, no, absolutely
00:07:37.280 The women are like that's what i realized because i used to hear that like i'd hear myron say sleep with 50 women before you settle down
00:07:42.720 I'm like why would you do that you know what i realized is like men can be manipulated by a woman
00:07:48.080 That's more experienced than him like you know imagine you you date a virgin right you you you would eat him up
00:07:56.240 You would get him to do exactly what you wanted when you want yeah, yeah, she's not i can understand that yeah
00:08:02.080 Yeah, it's like it like it's not good for us to be in relationships with men that have less experience
00:08:06.480 No, i do agree the guy has got to be more experienced more powerful more anything the woman has got to feel
00:08:12.640 Lower and it she has to tame your devil she has to tame your devil not you team
00:08:19.360 Devil like well it's it's it's a danger it's a danger it is it is do you guys think we're having a crisis
00:08:26.480 Of female evil in the world because one in three women and female like femininity because one in three women have had abortions
00:08:35.280 one in four women have an std
00:08:37.280 Oh, i think i wouldn't say evil because it sounds like women are deliberately
00:08:43.280 But i think women have got no idea what they're looking for no they've got they've got too much permission too much freedom
00:08:48.080 Yeah, that's what i was about to say there's too much freedom too much encouragement to you know get
00:08:53.200 i think i think it's evil i think it's do you think the women are yes or i think the women influence has
00:09:00.720 no i think that's like a way i think as women like we're always trying to take accountability off
00:09:04.960 of us and say we're just influenced and guided society but i think i think it's female i think
00:09:11.200 one part of women that's like okay i think there's male evil and female evil and i'm going to butcher this
00:09:16.080 a little bit but i think i think male evil is like great right that's an example of aggressiveness
00:09:21.360 to the but i think women can be very selfish yeah definitely and i think like men will do more for
00:09:26.800 like a community and like they'll build a society that's not like they gave us the right to vote in
00:09:31.280 a society that they built because they thought it was the right thing to do now you know some people
00:09:36.160 don't think that they should but that's a different conversation but but like women like we can be very
00:09:41.840 that's like they call it soliplistic solo i can't say the word but basically really selfish right
00:09:47.200 and i think like women when we kill our children that's like a part of female evil because we're
00:09:52.080 thinking of us before our kids yeah 100 because some people can be like one minute pregnant and
00:09:56.800 they're just absolutely thrilled at the idea of this little tiny thing growing inside them and somebody
00:10:00.960 else sees that as like a pain oh my god my body i need to kill it like that needs to die you know for
00:10:06.400 yourself so it's two different perspectives but then women are supposed to be that way naturally
00:10:11.840 you know mothers maternal nurturing you're supposed to so i don't know what what's happened no it's
00:10:18.080 not it's not women evil it's the it's it's not that it's not that her like this is where i think you
00:10:22.720 and i a little bit disagree i don't think it's a pandemic of women being evil uh women's nature has
00:10:27.200 been known to to everybody for a long time look at how religions have naturally developed in religions
00:10:32.640 every single religion has one basic purpose to control a woman's sexuality that's true in every religion
00:10:37.760 and every major so interesting every single religion controls a woman's sexuality so you have to
00:10:41.600 wonder why because a lot of these religions some develop from each other but some develop totally
00:10:45.200 independently and yet they all have the same converging factors that they're controlling women's
00:10:48.320 sexuality because because there is a realization that women are naturally hypergamous and that creates
00:10:53.600 a great imbalance when women are hypergamous right because then all the women go for the same guy
00:10:57.920 we know this right and so the problem is when all the women go for the same guy you have an imbalance in
00:11:02.480 society and the way that religion tries to tame that is they say we're going to equalize the sexual marketplace right
00:11:06.880 but this was also at a time where women had less freedom and men were more masculine the real issue
00:11:11.760 is not that women are evil the real issue is that men aren't masculine enough because women will submit
00:11:16.560 and i like to use the word surrender women will surrender to a strong focused masculine man they
00:11:22.080 desire it they crave it and some people watching this like you can't say that you're a silver company
00:11:25.600 that's offensive and yet every woman hearing that is like dear lord i so want to submit myself to a
00:11:30.480 masculine focused right strong man that's exactly what they want where are these where are you guys right
00:11:35.840 that's what we teach it's like that's what we talk about but i think it shows like what happens when
00:11:39.360 women get power in a society it's like we create a system that oppresses men right and i think that's
00:11:45.120 why we see the lack of masculine men is because we're in a system there's not enough men that are
00:11:49.360 fighting it back and saying you're wrong like like not to you specifically but saying to like when
00:11:53.200 women are like here's how many to feel there's too many whippy ass guys that are trying to get laid
00:11:57.120 they're like you're right ladies i'm a feminist too it's like you just want to get laid right but it starts in like freaking like what are they supposed to do it starts in like pre-k for them with their
00:12:05.840 school teachers i moved countries for this i moved out of canada i'm i left canada as our first as we
00:12:12.080 were pregnant with our first child i left canada with my wife we went to estonia which still has some
00:12:16.480 of those more traditional values and that woke crap is not there because i told you not it is not
00:12:21.520 at all because it's a no the reason you don't find that like in romania hungary bulgaria and in the
00:12:26.000 a lot of the baltic and the balkan states that are ex-soviet we've been through this our parents left
00:12:30.080 those countries because ideology overtook reality and everybody just became poor and stupid
00:12:34.320 we my parents didn't want that now it's happening in the west and so i left i said i'm not having my
00:12:39.280 kids go through this ideological brainwashing i don't want it for my kids and if i told my wife if
00:12:43.840 it starts coming to the schools here we're going to the middle east man we're going to dubai where that
00:12:47.600 shit's not going to happen and i'm really intentional about what my kids are learning but i'm just i'm just
00:12:52.160 more like trying to explain like why i think it happened and i and i think genuinely like men are feminized
00:12:56.960 from such a young age like oh my gosh i hear guys talk about how like teachers are red flags on dating apps because
00:13:02.880 they're such feminists yeah and then i'm in school for psychology it's like a guy goes to a therapist
00:13:07.680 and now he has a feminist therapist goes to a lawyer he has a it's like everybody let's just defend
00:13:12.960 everybody while we're here a lot of women are like i will only date a man in therapy it's like
00:13:16.720 if you're a man if you're a man if you're a man in therapy you need to go get your face punched
00:13:22.320 you need to straight up just go like this this is like i didn't believe this when i was younger but i see
00:13:26.640 it and i know people in the in the combat life and other things that are really successful and i've learned a lot
00:13:31.680 of i know several i think therapy makes you worse for the most part i think okay if you got real ptsd
00:13:38.880 go to therapy you know what i mean maybe right not even all of you but like for like they used to go
00:13:43.680 to therapy for like war literally yes yes now it's like i remember they there's this interview on joe rogan
00:13:49.920 right and it was that that girl that escaped like north korea jim jung yeah yeah and she it was this crazy
00:13:57.520 story like she she basically got graped in order to escape she had to like escape slavery all this
00:14:04.400 like crazy stuff and she had a horrible horrible life and she comes back and she's so confused
00:14:09.280 because she's like what is therapy i just moved on yeah and then and then she like her roommates are
00:14:14.880 going to therapy over her crime they're crying like over their ex-boyfriends and she's like
00:14:19.760 i've literally escaped death like nobody escapes north korea there's only two types of therapy and i tell
00:14:25.200 this to the boys in our group it's like we're in sales we're cold calling on the phone you need
00:14:29.040 some phone therapy and you need some gym therapy that's your therapy pick up the phone start making
00:14:34.080 money go to the gym start making muscle i think what they're doing is they're outsourcing families
00:14:38.640 like you're supposed to go to your mother your brothers your sisters and they can give you a
00:14:42.320 completely different perspective on a situation than a therapist is going to because okay if my sister
00:14:47.920 comes to me and says this person reacted like this this is the problem i know my sister so i know how my
00:14:53.680 sister talks more than the therapist so the therapist might say oh well you poor baby everyone
00:14:59.040 hates you they're gaslighting you they use these like crazy words for problems like gaslighting
00:15:04.640 trauma all this and when i would be like well you were probably being a to her you know
00:15:09.920 what i mean because i i know my or maybe she would say to me you know you were doing this because who
00:15:14.240 knows you better than their family but the problem is they're they're saying that the dad's not important
00:15:18.400 so they're kicking the dad out of the home with the policies that they push now we have our
00:15:22.480 single parent homes and the birth rate is going down where we only have 1.2 kids how are you going
00:15:27.040 to talk to siblings if you have none and so it's like they're outsourcing the things to straight
00:15:32.800 like why would a stranger give you better advice than someone that loves you and wants the best for
00:15:36.640 you that's true but none of us have family good family members you know sometimes it's like where'd you
00:15:43.600 go too far yeah and that's women's fault well yeah because because yeah yeah i know yeah it is because
00:15:50.240 women we have all the sexual power right now so if if um not not the kids fault but like the parents
00:15:56.080 usually it's the woman because the woman usually leaves when we're in relationships we usually
00:15:59.920 divorce if we get married or we pick the guys that don't make good husbands like we're in control
00:16:05.120 sex tends to come before relationships in 2023 so women are 100 in control of sex
00:16:10.560 so really i think that women have ruined society in a way by by breaking up families
00:16:17.200 in my family it's the men that have done it all right not not one woman in my fam no yeah not not
00:16:26.400 one woman that i know in my family that i'm close with is married and their husbands have cheated left or
00:16:32.960 they've all they've all chosen to surrender to that man whose fault is that it doesn't sound like
00:16:37.680 they're very good at choosing no they're not i'm not i'm curious what happened with your would you mind
00:16:43.600 what happened with your parents my parents um my dad he was used to great my mom used to beat her up
00:16:51.360 used to like abuse her how old were you when he left on and off it was i was probably about
00:16:59.280 seven seven okay do you remember yeah i remember everything i remember everything because a lot of
00:17:05.520 times like women um and i'm just saying this because i'm like doing a documentary on divorce yeah
00:17:11.440 um a lot of times they don't tell the guy's side of the story and so i i would ask this this my
00:17:18.080 dad is he's a criminal he's a big criminal yeah yeah like like everyone knows he's not a very good
00:17:23.760 person so so why why did your mom pick him she was 15 and she had a baby and he used to put guns to
00:17:31.440 her head and stuff and he used to make her just do things she was scared he used to threaten to kill my
00:17:35.440 nan killed the family the baby was it you or a different baby just me that's the only one oh but
00:17:41.600 she had to pick him like before that yeah she did but she was young she was a kid still i was 15. yeah
00:17:46.640 where was her dad that was my next he turned gay he what he was gay so he was with my nan and then
00:17:56.080 this is a crazy yeah yeah this is crazy and this is what i'm trying to get over in my life so um my
00:18:02.400 nan was with my granddad for 18 years and then found out he was gay he left the family moved to
00:18:10.880 a different country and then obviously my nan's parents died around that time so my mom lost um
00:18:17.040 grandparents and then she had me she went she went to uni my mom's a qualified heart nurse now so she
00:18:22.800 to me she did well for everything that we did go through as a family um but yeah and do you think your
00:18:29.920 life would be different if you had two parents in your life definitely yeah 100% i don't have that
00:18:35.600 guidance or support this is why it's so important on women to choose correctly because if you don't
00:18:40.800 choose correctly it affects everyone else yeah it's not just like when we pick someone it's really not
00:18:45.440 about us it's about our kids because if you have kids with the wrong guy like you now like you know
00:18:50.800 you're in a situation where you you know you've done sex work and it's going to be harder for you and
00:18:55.120 like yeah definitely and the trauma like continues yeah it's like one big cycle yeah yeah you know
00:19:00.880 what's crazy to me was because i grew up in jamaica right and i grew up with my nana and i live i learned
00:19:07.440 both from my nana you know i learned the man side of things and i learned the female side of things she
00:19:12.960 learned me how to work hard how to do things and it's like i had a granddad but i didn't learn that from
00:19:19.840 him i just learned all that from my nana and my mom and dad they can't really teach me much because
00:19:24.880 i've learned so much from my nana over the past years that when my dad tell me i'm like i already
00:19:31.280 know that because my nana already told me i've seen my nana do it you know what i mean like this time
00:19:36.160 where it's like we're getting hurricanes storms stuff like that i'm gonna know we'll be outside
00:19:41.120 how did you learn how to like tie a tie and like do like fix a car do you know how to do that stuff
00:19:45.680 yeah i did your nana taught you yeah nana taught me all of it and it's literally like looking at
00:19:50.720 women back then and looking at women now it's like different story it's different story it's like and
00:19:55.840 it's like i think it's social media and all the technology because it's like the more you the more
00:20:02.000 you know it's like it's the worst for you the less you know is the better i think also sorry did you
00:20:07.680 say you were from jamaica yeah so do you think the gender roles are more clear in jamaica do you think
00:20:13.600 people stick to that more so your nan would have thought you're a boy you learn this or because
00:20:18.640 i obviously hear that's not really as um popular yeah i think it's a bit different here it's like
00:20:25.360 yeah hey i think it's a good thing that you were taught all those things it's it's like hey it's like
00:20:30.400 hey you're a female no you're female hey you're male no you're male but it's like when push come to
00:20:36.160 shove and you have to do things yeah you're not a male or a female you just need to get that done you
00:20:40.800 know i mean and that's what my nana taught me as a person sorry i didn't mean that your nan wasn't
00:20:45.200 being a woman i meant that she knew you were a boy and you had to learn these things if whether there
00:20:49.600 was a man there to teach it or not is what sorry what i was getting yeah i think i get what you're
00:20:53.360 saying but i think as a man you it's important to learn about both sides you know it's not just oh you're
00:20:59.440 a man just be a man and not learn how a female thinks or operate you know i mean i think it's important
00:21:05.760 as a man that you should know how to be attached with your feminine side but you can still be
00:21:09.840 masculine you know i mean like can i say something yeah so i grew up with a mom and dad so they were
00:21:15.200 like married for 25 years and then my parents divorced in like 2017 and my whole life because
00:21:23.360 my dad like he had cancer so he was on pension money so he was doing like what a woman should do at
00:21:30.800 home and then my mom was doing like what a man should do so like my mom was like doing her part-time
00:21:38.880 job as a care worker and then my dad was at home like cleaning cooking like doing what a woman should
00:21:47.040 do and then when i was younger i thought like that was normal but now i realize like i'm 23 now
00:21:55.120 that it should it shouldn't have never been that way they did what was necessary didn't they to
00:22:01.680 yeah yeah it was needed do you think that affected their relationship yeah because like now my mom is
00:22:07.920 married with a younger guy um like that guy does everything for her that i'm like my dad didn't do
00:22:18.640 because like my dad like mom like my mom told my dad like oh yeah get a job you know like bring some
00:22:24.560 money in and then my dad was just like he thought he was doing enough like you know taking the kids
00:22:32.480 to school cleaning cooking and for my mom i don't think that was enough for her so she left him it's
00:22:40.640 very hard to find that attractive i think isn't it for a woman even if it feels harsh that you just can't
00:22:47.680 you can't control that can't lie to yourself about it no why why do you think women tell men that
00:22:54.320 they want a guy that's in touch with their emotions when they leave guys that are i think they think
00:22:59.120 it's true when they say it when they see it and then they're like whoa can you stop crying because
00:23:04.640 because because we're living in a society where like no because we live in a society on social media
00:23:08.880 and that kind of that kind of a statement on social media gets you you go girl hard hard hard men are
00:23:13.200 crap trash they should be in touch whatever because we're we're respecting attention more than we respect
00:23:18.960 outcome also because girls like a cuddle so you think that's what you i mean when you're sitting
00:23:25.040 lonely at home you think you're missing a cuddle yeah so that's what you've yeah not not when you're
00:23:30.080 ovulating so that's the problem right it's like that's an emotional response you know it's interesting
00:23:33.760 like i thought about this oh it is it is because different types of different types of the different
00:23:38.720 times in the cycle you're gonna want different things you're gonna you know put that out to the
00:23:41.680 world some guy's gonna read that oh all i have to do is tell a girl that i like to cuddle and i'll
00:23:45.440 have lots of girls and that's a bad way to compete i'm saying the girl is wrong when she thinks that
00:23:48.480 of course she is i'm saying it's wrong but that's what you think in the moment that you're on your
00:23:52.320 own swipe you know looking for somebody i made a decision so my mom had earned my dad and then
00:23:57.280 they got divorced after like 22 years which is not surprising because my mom started to out on my
00:24:00.880 dad and she was like oh yeah it was kind of cool i made a decision way before i ever got married that
00:24:05.680 my wife was not going to work like i'm like i'm going to retire my wife i'll tell you and i'll tell you
00:24:09.280 the base of my but the basis of that decision for me was really interesting right it's it's rooted in the fact
00:24:14.240 that if my wife works is because she has to work obviously in order to help support the family and
00:24:18.960 then let's say my wife wants to make more money and if she has a traditional job then she has to
00:24:22.800 ask for a raise and who's she going to ask for a raise her boss and it's statistically kind of likely
00:24:29.040 you know men tend to work a lot more hours because they're not you know faced with the burden of
00:24:32.560 childbearing it's kind of likely she's going to have to go to another man to ask for an increase in
00:24:38.160 her lifestyle i find that really offensive to my marriage if my wife has to approach another man and
00:24:43.200 he's in control of our lifestyle wow that's like to me that's a pimp and that's that was my the
00:24:48.000 base of my decision like my wife will never ask another man for an increase in lifestyle and you do
00:24:51.920 the same for your daughters right 100 100 you know what's interesting um i didn't realize
00:24:58.800 how inverse the relationship like basically when women started working that's when we stopped having
00:25:03.680 children like i i didn't realize how like because i always thought it was with birth control and it
00:25:08.400 partially is but when women um basically started going to college and working in the 20s that's
00:25:14.400 like when the birth rate started to drop and you're like it was at like four or five 100 years ago and
00:25:21.280 that's at like 1.5 imagine putting that into just a dating because a lot of people watching the show
00:25:25.280 probably a little bit younger i'm 40 and they're probably like just in the dating state imagine like
00:25:29.200 you're a guy dating a girl and she wants to go on a date and she goes to another man to ask for his money
00:25:33.360 so that you can go on a date with her it's like who's paying for that date that's scary
00:25:40.800 i'm gonna read super chat for a second okay guys make sure you like the video um let's get to a
00:25:46.560 thousand likes okay there's over a thousand of you in here we have 780 likes 780 i think unless i didn't
00:25:53.360 refresh it and it's more sometimes i do that's what it's like it's like happy a like is free this is just
00:26:01.280 rude this is just um it's like okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna read the super chats
00:26:11.520 but i'm gonna be upset if after we are still we are not at a thousand likes this is this is crazy
00:26:16.880 guys okay joe w don't forget about poland dimitri we went through uh commie ideology too huge respect to
00:26:24.800 my slavic brother i'm proud of you man some advice for short kings how do we overcome that disadvantage
00:26:30.800 we're gonna do that after i read the super chats i'll ask him okay dion c pearl do a show with auntie
00:26:36.960 and dimitri on the sofa the two of them would put so many people on the right track in life dimitri
00:26:41.360 you rock i think that's a great idea interracial relationships auntie's um she's in the she's out of
00:26:47.920 town for a bit but she'll be back interracial relationships i'm a 41 year old currently with
00:26:53.200 a 21 year old who pursued me for weeks i had accepted that i wasn't going to be able to perform
00:26:58.320 sexually at the best until i gave into her advances in a week we had we had it 15 times wow that is a lot
00:27:06.720 of times you are a happy man okay guys no i bet he's not stepping out you know what i mean guys no wonder
00:27:17.280 she drinks pickle juice she's disgusting
00:27:28.880 everything is haram and islam is is bad for you and the closer you are to the teachings of islam the
00:27:36.080 more based and happy you are research islam yourselves or talk to two scholars because the media lies
00:27:41.760 you know i recently had someone try to convert me on the streets yeah and sometimes i'm like you
00:27:47.440 don't know who you're coming up to but i had a very interesting conversation they gave me a quran
00:27:52.720 um dion c dimitri i'm so glad you're back on the show still the godfather of this of the show you need
00:27:58.800 to get a youtube channel set up willie um pain jeline something uh i'm sorry guys i'm not good at
00:28:05.680 pronouncing names it's just like my my kryptonite in life what if government gave free cars for 25
00:28:12.880 year marriage with kids and free house for 50 year marriages with kids shout out to my fellow single
00:28:19.120 dads that would be a better incentive than the one we have now which pays you to leave but um i i judas
00:28:27.600 fly chat this girl is not attractive um gus um the the men in the front row are an example that the
00:28:37.840 simpdemic is real as a simp who wants women with experience they aren't good leaders you can attract
00:28:44.880 the women they want thanks for putting the simps in their place um carlos uh for pickles please watch
00:28:52.160 the jar because classy ladies with neck tattoos will be trying to drink it when you're not looking
00:28:58.880 let me let me refresh it one more time i'm not classy i'll put it out there i'm not i never will be
00:29:04.240 i'm not a classy woman um okay so the the short comment well first of all two things number one
00:29:11.360 pickle juice has a name it's brine b-r-i-n-e so that's use that for your next world um and i think
00:29:16.960 calling you pickle isn't nice when we have such a great nickname pickle trick because i'm a big fan of
00:29:20.800 pickle rick pickle trick oh i have a pickle rick pillow on my bed so now you're pickle trick so
00:29:29.520 that's really good um there's actually there's actually so let me tell you a quick story pearl
00:29:33.760 and we were talking about this before the show i was five foot five and a half like i was about 162
00:29:38.560 centimeters coming out of high school in grade 12 i was five foot five i was a little dude and i was
00:29:42.720 like and so for me i was like being a little dude in high school is really hard because i just hit it
00:29:46.720 late man i just i had a i didn't know i was going to turn out tall i was just like a little guy going
00:29:50.480 into college i've always identified as like the short little guy right and that made it really
00:29:53.840 hard for me so i made like a decision that i have to work on other things and i'm really glad i went
00:29:58.080 through that because it really forced me to work on my social intelligence like i read a lot of books
00:30:02.800 like this is before we had these shows before the internet i was just buying books on psychology
00:30:07.360 and like the female brain is a good one uh there's one called the male brain it's really interesting too
00:30:11.520 i was just buying all these psychology books to learn about mating habits actually to understand
00:30:15.520 how to compete in a marketplace as a five foot five man um which was which was more challenging
00:30:20.560 what's interesting though so all my decisions that i made in like university and then afterwards
00:30:24.640 were all about how to compete as a five foot five man during that time i grew a lot and then i became
00:30:29.840 dangerous because now i'm like tall and i have the social intelligence i worked on with all the other
00:30:34.960 guys that were naturals didn't have to work on it for a lot of guys going to the gym is is sort of that
00:30:39.520 but there's a really interesting study i read that said that the top one percent man is is really easy to
00:30:44.800 define it's making six figures a hundred thousand and a six foot tall why because about ten percent of
00:30:49.280 men roughly are six foot or taller about ten percent and about ten percent of men in the western world
00:30:53.280 statistically make a hundred thousand or more that's a real stat so ten percent of ten percent is one
00:30:56.880 percent so if you're if you want to be in the one percent you got to be six foot make six figures for
00:31:01.600 every inch that you give up for every two and a half centimeters for our british listeners for every
00:31:05.120 inch you give up under six foot tall you compensate for that with an extra hundred thousand dollars in
00:31:09.120 income no way so if you're if you're five eleven it's two hundred thousand to be top one percent if
00:31:13.840 you're five ten it's three hundred thousand and if you're five nine it's four hundred thousand if
00:31:17.920 some of you guys are listening on five eight i have to make half a million dollars a year that sounds
00:31:20.560 like a lot it's actually not it's not that crazy it's very achievable let me tell you guys something
00:31:25.040 if you want to know the statistic of how achievable it is more men have six packs sorry reverse that
00:31:31.920 more men are are millionaires than those that have six packs now can you believe that if you can go to
00:31:36.800 the gym eventually you can develop a six pack you might say yes i can there are fewer men that have a
00:31:41.360 six pack than there are then there are million men correct because there's not one out of ten guys
00:31:45.040 have six packs right right pickle trick you've seen men's stomach not one out of ten have six packs
00:31:52.240 you've done it you're if you're if you like so so so you can imagine that actually becoming a millionaire
00:31:57.200 is statistically easier uh than than developing a six pack again plugging lgfg guys lgfg.com if you go to
00:32:03.600 our website we recruit men to make a million dollars here that's why i'm here that's why i'm here
00:32:06.640 what what is the quickest way to make a million dollars other than working probably pickle tricking
00:32:12.720 right um so i don't know the answer to that but but i'll tell you i know i probably know about 15
00:32:20.080 000 millionaires that are clients of our company so i've i've talked a lot of them i interviewed a
00:32:23.680 lot of them starting a podcast literally interviewing the top one percent of men as many of you know i was
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