JustPearlyThings - October 12, 2023


Modern Women Get DELUDED with Beauty Standard


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Length

33 minutes

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194.91747

Word count

6,494

Sentence count

821

Harmful content

Misogyny

89

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Toxicity

33

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Hate speech

61

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how we would like our significant other to pay the bills and take care of us in a relationship. We also talk about the pros and cons of having a partner who doesn't pay for all the bills.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:01.000 Yes.
00:00:02.000 I'm curious.
00:00:03.000 How would you go about getting the bag?
00:00:05.000 OK, because I'm just thinking, I'm just thinking.
00:00:07.000 If I'm like, I would feel so bad asking a guy 0.80
00:00:10.000 to buy like a $3,000 bag.
00:00:12.000 You just, babe, you got this?
00:00:16.000 Have you done that before?
00:00:17.000 Yeah, I'll say it's a process.
00:00:19.000 So you start speaking about the bag.
00:00:21.000 Start saying, oh, wow, like I really like the bag.
00:00:23.000 It's so nice.
00:00:24.000 It's like, oh my gosh, I'm thinking maybe next payday.
00:00:27.000 And then you'll hope that he gets it for you
00:00:29.000 before you go and get it.
00:00:30.000 That's how you work.
00:00:31.000 And do you, if he doesn't, then are you, are you gone?
00:00:33.000 No, no, no.
00:00:34.000 Of course not.
00:00:35.000 I'm not like that.
00:00:36.000 Like the last guy I dated, I haven't bought him a gift
00:00:38.000 before he bought me one.
00:00:39.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:00:40.000 I'm not like that, but it's like, that's ideally,
00:00:43.000 that's how I would want my relationship to work
00:00:45.000 or whoever I'm dating to work like.
00:00:47.000 Let's buy each other gifts here and there.
00:00:48.000 Expensive ones too.
00:00:49.000 What if he goes for two months and he hasn't bought the bag?
00:00:51.000 You like, oh, the time's ticking now.
00:00:53.000 I'll have to mention it again and again.
00:00:55.000 And then I'll have to buy it myself
00:00:57.000 and hope that he will buy another one.
00:01:00.000 Have you ever been in a relationship
00:01:02.000 where a guy paid 100% of the bills?
00:01:05.000 I've never actually lived with someone that I've been with.
00:01:08.000 But like, yeah, whenever we go out,
00:01:10.000 like I've never had to pay for anything.
00:01:12.000 Or like if we're traveling, I've never had to pay for,
00:01:15.000 like if we're traveling together,
00:01:16.000 I don't pay for my flight or anything else.
00:01:18.000 Do you do, because I was going to ask if in those situations
00:01:21.000 you do 100% of the chores, like would you in that situation?
00:01:24.000 If he's paying 100% of the bills, then you do 100% of the chores?
00:01:27.000 Yeah, I would.
00:01:28.000 I would to be fair.
00:01:29.000 Yeah, yeah, I would.
00:01:30.000 One time I found myself washing plates and I was fuming,
00:01:32.000 but I was just like, oh, it's okay.
00:01:33.000 We're going to holiday soon, so.
00:01:34.000 You're fuming from washing plates?
00:01:37.000 Yeah, I don't like washing plates, but I did it anyway, so.
00:01:40.000 I'm going to take a second to read super chats.
00:01:45.000 I'd like to say now these are not my views,
00:01:47.000 but sometimes they pay me to roast people, so I do apologize.
00:01:50.000 Okay, guys, like the video.
00:01:52.000 Make sure you subscribe to the channel and ring that notification bell.
00:01:55.000 Also, if you have a question you want me to ask the panel,
00:01:58.000 feel free to super chat it.
00:02:00.000 And yeah, one second.
00:02:03.000 Let me go really quick.
00:02:08.000 Also, guys, if you want to go, we had a meetup this last weekend.
00:02:13.000 Actually, Troy came.
00:02:14.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:15.000 If you guys want to come to our next meetup,
00:02:16.000 make sure you sign up for our email list.
00:02:20.000 Let me see analytics.
00:02:23.000 Where the heck is that?
00:02:28.000 Sorry, guys.
00:02:29.000 I don't know why I'm like blanking on where the super chats are.
00:02:33.000 Okay, I'm going to, someone in the chat wants you guys
00:02:37.000 to rank yourselves one to ten.
00:02:42.000 So, let's start with me.
00:02:44.000 We're going to do that while I look for the super chat.
00:02:47.000 So go for a second.
00:02:49.000 I think nine of ten.
00:02:51.000 You think you're nine?
00:02:52.000 Okay.
00:02:53.000 Nine out of ten.
00:02:54.000 Nine out of ten.
00:02:55.000 I'd say I'm ten ten because I love myself.
00:02:58.000 God loves me.
00:03:00.000 I love me.
00:03:01.000 Amen.
00:03:02.000 And I'm ten ten.
00:03:05.000 And I feel like everyone's ten ten in their own way.
00:03:08.000 How?
00:03:09.000 How?
00:03:10.000 How?
00:03:11.000 How?
00:03:12.000 In their own way, I said.
00:03:13.000 Not in my way.
00:03:14.000 If everyone's a ten, then no one's a ten.
00:03:17.000 Then everyone's a five.
00:03:19.000 No one's average.
00:03:20.000 I definitely feel like I'm ten.
00:03:22.000 Okay.
00:03:23.000 Go ahead.
00:03:24.000 I'll say nine out of ten.
00:03:26.000 Nine.
00:03:27.000 Okay.
00:03:28.000 I'd say nine out of ten.
00:03:30.000 Eleven.
00:03:31.000 Eleven.
00:03:32.000 I'll say ten because I do love myself so much.
00:03:35.000 So, yeah.
00:03:36.000 Ten.
00:03:37.000 It's only right.
00:03:39.000 Definitely a ten.
00:03:41.000 Ten.
00:03:42.000 So, everyone's a ten.
00:03:43.000 I love it.
00:03:44.000 Where are you, Paul?
00:03:46.000 Five.
00:03:47.000 I don't think that's a bad thing.
00:03:49.000 A lot of Graham's girls think that's a bad thing. 0.99
00:03:51.000 I think most people are normal looking.
00:03:53.000 Like, most people are average.
00:03:55.000 So, I actually, like, when I think of a ten, I think of Rihanna in her prime.
00:04:01.000 I'd say she's like an eight now.
00:04:03.000 So, I don't think I'm as hot as Rihanna.
00:04:06.000 That's, yeah.
00:04:08.000 Okay.
00:04:09.000 Unwanted foe.
00:04:10.000 Unwanted foe.
00:04:13.000 What women seem to care about weighted? 1.00
00:04:16.000 They're saying it kind of supports the black pillars.
00:04:19.000 50% looks, 45% money, 5% everything else.
00:04:23.000 Multiverse, bam.
00:04:24.000 They want funny, yet they are never funny.
00:04:26.000 Heinzberg, evil. 0.96
00:04:28.000 They want funny, proves it's a clown world. 0.98
00:04:30.000 Chillman, I feel like some women want demigods. 1.00
00:04:33.000 As for husbands, for the 666 rule. 0.99
00:04:36.000 90 frito pie.
00:04:37.000 As for now, Italy girl is the first pick. 0.99
00:04:40.000 Green jacket is the second, and the rest are for the streets.
00:04:43.000 See Dumbledore, if you weren't in the top 5% of women before you opened your mouth, and after you talked, you dropped to the bottom 5%. 0.99
00:04:57.000 So, we're on a slot.
00:05:00.000 50-50 LTR means equal in all aspects.
00:05:03.000 So, someone breaks, it's your turn.
00:05:05.000 Stop telling men to act like you.
00:05:07.000 You're a woman.
00:05:08.000 You women say one thing, but then you do something else. 1.00
00:05:11.000 Marriage causes divorce.
00:05:12.000 Women want marriage, but they are also the ones who want to divorce too. 1.00
00:05:15.000 Seems like guys are just being used to prove babies and financial security.
00:05:20.000 See Dumbledore.
00:05:21.000 Not all women, they always go to the exceptions. 1.00
00:05:24.000 Like, they literally believe they're going to win the lottery. 0.98
00:05:26.000 Women's addiction to whataboutism is nauseating. 1.00
00:05:29.000 A1.
00:05:30.000 If something's wrong with you, if you need continuous emotional support, why are you not emotionally okay on your own?
00:05:38.000 I say you don't love yourself enough.
00:05:40.000 90 frito pay.
00:05:41.000 I was listening to Rap God by Eminem.
00:05:43.000 Oh, wait.
00:05:44.000 That's Pearl reading super chat.
00:05:50.000 Women can't think in general because they always have one person in mind. 1.00
00:05:55.000 That's actually interesting.
00:05:56.000 That's probably true.
00:05:57.000 D. Men want submissive, agreeable women. 0.99
00:05:59.000 Are you either of those things?
00:06:01.000 F.S.
00:06:02.000 Claire.
00:06:03.000 Men's desires have not changed. 0.67
00:06:04.000 Women believe they deserve the world but offer nothing. 1.00
00:06:07.000 Plus, the system is adversarial.
00:06:09.000 Women can wake up and file for divorce for any reason and take a man for everything he has worked for. 1.00
00:06:14.000 No.
00:06:15.000 Zero sloths.
00:06:16.000 The predictions is that more than 50% of women are going to be single and childless by 2030.
00:06:22.000 It seems to be more true every day.
00:06:25.000 Invest in animals and wine, fellas.
00:06:27.000 Would you marry a man with the same career as your...
00:06:31.000 Oh, that's a good...
00:06:32.000 Let me do this one really quick.
00:06:34.000 Would you guys marry a man with the same career as your dad?
00:06:37.000 Yes.
00:06:38.000 Yes.
00:06:39.000 Definitely.
00:06:40.000 Yes.
00:06:41.000 Yes.
00:06:42.000 Would you marry someone with the same career as your mom?
00:06:45.000 Well, my mom.
00:06:48.000 I have a stepmother, but my mom never really worked. 0.80
00:06:51.000 No, she's an artist, actually. 0.80
00:06:54.000 So, yes, I would.
00:06:56.000 Yeah.
00:06:57.000 Mick910, these chicks need to buy some dogs. 1.00
00:07:01.000 Johnny, emotional support as long as he loses his job or develops a money or draining habit.
00:07:07.000 Women's divorce to take half before the man loses his value. 1.00
00:07:11.000 She cares less if he listens to all her problems.
00:07:14.000 Walton, social media has ruined dating.
00:07:16.000 These women have no idea what their level really is in best in pet care products. 1.00
00:07:20.000 Walton, the average man 5'8 and 50K would be happy with the average women. 0.95
00:07:29.000 Conversely, the average man is invisible to average women.
00:07:33.000 Actually, I think most of them said 5'8 and 50K, actually.
00:07:37.000 Have any of you guys dated a guy that's 5'8?
00:07:39.000 Anyone?
00:07:40.000 I have.
00:07:41.000 You have?
00:07:42.000 You have?
00:07:43.000 Yeah.
00:07:44.000 You haven't?
00:07:45.000 You have?
00:07:46.000 Yeah.
00:07:47.000 She's like, couldn't be me.
00:07:48.000 She's like, couldn't be me.
00:07:49.000 She's honest.
00:07:50.000 She's like the most honest.
00:07:52.000 She's like, yeah, he's got to be ripped.
00:07:54.000 He's got to be like.
00:07:55.000 She's like, yeah.
00:07:56.000 I got it.
00:07:57.000 You guys can't.
00:07:58.000 Only women and simps accept the love. 1.00
00:08:03.000 Accept the love.
00:08:04.000 Your curves.
00:08:05.000 B.S.
00:08:06.000 90FritoPie.
00:08:07.000 You're beautiful because God created you.
00:08:09.000 But the real question is, are you attractive?
00:08:12.000 Gus.
00:08:13.000 Women that are 40 plus are not the beauty standard. 1.00
00:08:16.000 These 304s. 1.00
00:08:18.000 Okay, I'm not.
00:08:19.000 That one's mean.
00:08:20.000 I'm not going to do that.
00:08:22.000 Zero fallout.
00:08:24.000 They don't mind throwing out the 1 to 10 scale for women. 0.99
00:08:27.000 Yet most men will keep it for men. 0.80
00:08:30.000 Most women are average fives. 1.00
00:08:32.000 And yet there is no 10.
00:08:34.000 90FritoPie.
00:08:35.000 You can't answer straight. 0.94
00:08:36.000 Then you're lying and weak. 0.99
00:08:38.000 SickLid. 0.98
00:08:39.000 Pearl, you are very late.
00:08:40.000 Is this what you call?
00:08:42.000 Okay.
00:08:43.000 Then let me just refresh it real quick.
00:08:53.000 How does everyone feel about abortion?
00:08:56.000 Oh, gosh.
00:08:57.000 Zero slot.
00:08:58.000 Please take notes of the type of women you need to avoid. 1.00
00:09:01.000 Work on yourself and get a young, pretty, fertile woman that's going to take your lead. 1.00
00:09:05.000 So a 10 out of 10 means perfect.
00:09:07.000 No flaws.
00:09:08.000 Pearl is the only one with a sane rating in the room.
00:09:11.000 Mr. B.
00:09:12.000 God does not choose your partner.
00:09:13.000 You do.
00:09:14.000 Otherwise, you'll blame him for everything. 0.99
00:09:15.000 God is not stupid.
00:09:16.000 3K is 30% of 8.3K a month, which is 100K a year. 0.88
00:09:21.000 Unwanted Vo.
00:09:22.000 Okay.
00:09:23.000 I read that one already.
00:09:24.000 Actually, I'm curious.
00:09:26.000 The guy with the curly hair.
00:09:28.000 What would you guys rate him?
00:09:29.000 1 to 10.
00:09:30.000 Oh, this guy.
00:09:32.000 Yeah.
00:09:33.000 Can we zoom into one?
00:09:34.000 Can we click into one of the pictures?
00:09:35.000 Is there like a younger photo?
00:09:36.000 Okay.
00:09:37.000 Just these photos.
00:09:38.000 What would you rate him?
00:09:39.000 A 2.
00:09:40.000 Can you zoom in for me, please?
00:09:41.000 Can we click into one of the pictures?
00:09:42.000 Yeah, click in.
00:09:43.000 Let's just get a...
00:09:44.000 Because I...
00:09:45.000 Yeah.
00:09:46.000 Okay.
00:09:47.000 He's a 2 for me.
00:09:48.000 A 2.
00:09:49.000 I would say a 3.
00:09:50.000 A 3.
00:09:51.000 A 4.
00:09:52.000 A 4.
00:09:53.000 A 4.
00:09:54.000 A 4.
00:09:55.000 That's high.
00:09:56.000 A 4.
00:09:57.000 A 4.
00:09:58.000 A 4.
00:09:59.000 A 4.
00:10:00.000 A 4.
00:10:01.000 A 4.
00:10:02.000 A 4.
00:10:03.000 A 4.
00:10:04.000 A 4.
00:10:05.000 A 4.
00:10:06.000 A 4.
00:10:07.000 A 4.
00:10:08.000 It's true.
00:10:09.000 It's about a 3.
00:10:10.000 Would we even give him a chance to be funny?
00:10:11.000 No.
00:10:12.000 No.
00:10:13.000 If he came up to you in the club and he's like, you know, putting some moves on, would you...
00:10:17.000 Absolutely not.
00:10:18.000 Absolutely not.
00:10:19.000 Absolutely not.
00:10:20.000 I would walk away.
00:10:22.000 No.
00:10:23.000 So this is exonerating the Black Pill guys in the chat.
00:10:25.000 Yeah.
00:10:26.000 This is exonerating all of it, isn't it?
00:10:27.000 Yeah.
00:10:28.000 It really is.
00:10:29.000 That's just my type.
00:10:30.000 You know what's interesting though?
00:10:31.000 With women, it's like we're all 10s. 1.00
00:10:34.000 But like men, we're able to rate them 1 to 10 fairly accurately.
00:10:38.000 Exactly how they rate us.
00:10:39.000 No.
00:10:40.000 I've never said I was a 10 to someone else.
00:10:41.000 I'm a 10 to me.
00:10:42.000 Myself.
00:10:43.000 I am a 10.
00:10:44.000 As in what you think is different from what you think.
00:10:46.000 I'm a millionaire.
00:10:47.000 But okay.
00:10:48.000 You know how crazy this sounds?
00:10:49.000 I'm a millionaire to myself.
00:10:50.000 And you know what?
00:10:51.000 Am I a millionaire?
00:10:52.000 God willing.
00:10:53.000 You just have to believe in yourself.
00:10:55.000 But to me that's not like reality.
00:10:58.000 Like I mean if you think you're a 10 on looks like Rihanna, right?
00:11:02.000 If she says I'm a 10, okay, she's a 10.
00:11:04.000 And if I'm a millionaire, then okay, I'm a millionaire.
00:11:06.000 But you know what?
00:11:07.000 I wouldn't say I'm a millionaire to me.
00:11:08.000 I'm either a millionaire to everyone or I'm not a millionaire.
00:11:11.000 But Ernie, you find Rihanna attractive.
00:11:14.000 Do you know there's people out there that don't find her attractive? 0.92
00:11:16.000 Not attractive.
00:11:17.000 Yeah.
00:11:18.000 No one in her prime, no one like 10 years ago thought Rihanna was ugly. 1.00
00:11:23.000 They might not think she's the 10. 0.67
00:11:25.000 They might say eight or seven.
00:11:26.000 You can't say no one.
00:11:27.000 I'm sure there are people out there that don't find her attractive. 0.83
00:11:31.000 That's just not their type.
00:11:32.000 But why are we talking about the accept?
00:11:33.000 Like I'm talking about the rule.
00:11:34.000 I'm not talking about.
00:11:35.000 What is the rule?
00:11:36.000 But with beauty, you can't really like, you know, you can be ugly with someone.
00:11:42.000 You can be depressed.
00:11:43.000 Exactly.
00:11:44.000 That's facts.
00:11:45.000 What is the rule?
00:11:46.000 Yeah.
00:11:47.000 There is some, you know.
00:11:48.000 Okay.
00:11:49.000 Can we bring up Rosie O'Donald, please?
00:11:50.000 What is the rule?
00:11:51.000 Can we bring up, please?
00:11:52.000 I just don't know.
00:11:53.000 Let's do.
00:11:54.000 Can we bring up, could you bring up Margot Robbie and Rosie O'Donald, please?
00:11:57.000 Thank you.
00:11:58.000 Thank you.
00:12:05.000 Also, I'm sorry, Rosie.
00:12:07.000 Okay.
00:12:08.000 Who's hotter?
00:12:10.000 Okay, this girl.
00:12:11.000 Okay.
00:12:12.000 Now, please bring up Margot Robbie.
00:12:16.000 I like that Trump picture there.
00:12:18.000 Okay.
00:12:19.000 So this girl or this girl?
00:12:22.000 Who's more attractive?
00:12:23.000 This girl.
00:12:24.000 This girl, Margot Robbie.
00:12:25.000 I call her age plays a part because she looks like 10 times younger than the first lady. 0.99
00:12:30.000 Yeah.
00:12:31.000 The other one looks older.
00:12:32.000 I call her age definitely plays a part. 0.99
00:12:34.000 So are older women uglier? 1.00
00:12:35.000 No. 0.95
00:12:36.000 No.
00:12:37.000 You can.
00:12:38.000 You can.
00:12:39.000 Okay, but then why'd you mention her age if older women aren't familiar? 1.00
00:12:42.000 I feel like maybe the first lady looked. 0.99
00:12:44.000 She's not prior.
00:12:45.000 Yeah.
00:12:46.000 She's not prior.
00:12:47.000 Yeah, but you just said age doesn't matter.
00:12:49.000 No, I don't think it matters.
00:12:50.000 Who said it matters?
00:12:51.000 To a certain extent.
00:12:52.000 Age doesn't matter. 0.83
00:12:53.000 It does matter.
00:12:54.000 I feel like when you age sometimes she wants to see their beauty.
00:12:57.000 But sometimes women age and they look like they look much younger than their age. 0.66
00:13:00.000 So I feel like it depends to be honest.
00:13:02.000 100%.
00:13:03.000 Yeah.
00:13:04.000 Yeah.
00:13:05.000 It depends on what.
00:13:06.000 Who's another girl we could pull up? 0.99
00:13:08.000 There you go.
00:13:09.000 What's that actually?
00:13:10.000 Oh, you know what?
00:13:11.000 We'll do JLo.
00:13:12.000 They're the same age.
00:13:13.000 Yeah.
00:13:14.000 Okay.
00:13:15.000 Let's try this again.
00:13:18.000 Oh, you got it.
00:13:23.000 We can't see it.
00:13:24.000 Yeah.
00:13:25.000 There we go.
00:13:26.000 Okay.
00:13:27.000 Her.
00:13:28.000 They're the same age.
00:13:29.000 So I'm going to go by JLo looking like that on the right at the bottom.
00:13:34.000 Right.
00:13:35.000 Cause JLo has had work done.
00:13:36.000 So we need to know which one are we?
00:13:38.000 We'll do the natural.
00:13:39.000 Okay.
00:13:40.000 Which one are we?
00:13:41.000 Oh, JLo.
00:13:42.000 I'm not Whoopi.
00:13:43.000 Oh, I like Whoopi.
00:13:44.000 I'm absolutely Whoopi.
00:13:45.000 I like her.
00:13:46.000 I'm a super signer.
00:13:47.000 I'm a super signer.
00:13:48.000 I'm saying Whoopi.
00:13:49.000 I like Whoopi.
00:13:50.000 Yeah.
00:13:51.000 Natural.
00:13:52.000 She's giving on to you.
00:13:53.000 Boring. 0.91
00:13:54.000 Jennifer Lopez, like what the hell. 0.99
00:13:55.000 Yeah. 0.85
00:13:56.000 She's giving on to you.
00:13:57.000 JLo for me.
00:13:58.000 Okay.
00:13:59.000 So she's more attractive than JLo. 0.97
00:14:00.000 Not to me.
00:14:01.000 No, JLo's definitely more attractive than Whoopi.
00:14:02.000 Are they the same age?
00:14:03.000 Who think?
00:14:04.000 Yeah.
00:14:05.000 Yeah.
00:14:06.000 Roughly within 10 years, I'd say.
00:14:08.000 Within 10 years.
00:14:09.000 I mean, I could.
00:14:10.000 How old are they?
00:14:11.000 I don't know.
00:14:12.000 JLo's.
00:14:13.000 All right. 0.67
00:14:14.000 Who thought JLo was uglier? 0.91
00:14:15.000 None of them are ugly. 0.90
00:14:17.000 Okay. 0.77
00:14:18.000 Uglier.
00:14:19.000 None of them are ugly. 0.97
00:14:20.000 Prettier. 0.88
00:14:21.000 Who is hotter?
00:14:22.000 Who are you guys picking?
00:14:23.000 Who's hotter?
00:14:24.000 JLo.
00:14:25.000 Okay.
00:14:26.000 So we can agree.
00:14:27.000 Yeah.
00:14:28.000 That some women are more attractive than others.
00:14:30.000 Yeah.
00:14:31.000 100%.
00:14:32.000 Yeah, that's true.
00:14:33.000 No, it was to everyone in the room.
00:14:35.000 Yeah, that's true.
00:14:36.000 Yeah.
00:14:37.000 That's to us though.
00:14:38.000 Okay.
00:14:39.000 There'll be some men out there that think the opposite.
00:14:41.000 Yeah.
00:14:42.000 Oh my gosh.
00:14:43.000 Maybe there's somebody in the chat who thinks that Whoopi Goldberg is hotter.
00:14:47.000 Yeah.
00:14:48.000 Anyone?
00:14:49.000 I think there are, to play devil's advocate here, I think there are small deviations though,
00:14:58.000 right?
00:14:59.000 Because I've got friends, like even people say, yeah, guys are just very shallow.
00:15:03.000 You're only motivated by looks, et cetera.
00:15:05.000 And there's a lot of truth in that.
00:15:06.000 However, I've got male friends and some of the, there are, there are differences and quite
00:15:12.000 large differences between the type of women that say I would be attracted to versus what 0.99
00:15:16.000 my friend's attracted to.
00:15:17.000 You know, sometimes I look at my friend and I'm like, really?
00:15:20.000 You know, and he may well think the same thing about me.
00:15:23.000 So I think it's, and I sense with women as well, that's also the case. 0.84
00:15:28.000 And maybe it's more with women.
00:15:29.000 I don't know because it seems like for me, like if a guy on a dating app, for example.
00:15:34.000 So if I deal with a lot of guys who use Tinder and they don't get very good results and then
00:15:40.000 they do, they'll meet women in the daytime or they'll meet women at, you know, at a night,
00:15:44.000 at a lounge bar or a party or whatever, and they get much better results.
00:15:48.000 So what's happening there?
00:15:49.000 They haven't changed.
00:15:50.000 It's not like they've become magically better looking.
00:15:52.000 It must be that their personality is conveying something when they go into the interaction.
00:15:56.000 So I think for men, actually, you know, as a personality, the way that you deliver yourself,
00:16:02.000 the way that you put yourself across does make a difference.
00:16:04.000 100%.
00:16:05.000 And guys can't take pictures either.
00:16:06.000 100%.
00:16:07.000 Well, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:16:09.000 Much better in person.
00:16:11.000 Would you say that it's obvious who's more attractive when it comes to men?
00:16:15.000 Yes.
00:16:16.000 Hmm.
00:16:17.000 I would say it's more obvious than women. 1.00
00:16:19.000 Like the guy that we just showed you versus Channing Tatum.
00:16:24.000 Who's hotter?
00:16:25.000 Yes, Channing Tatum.
00:16:26.000 Channing.
00:16:27.000 100%.
00:16:28.000 Why is there no?
00:16:29.000 Oh, it depends.
00:16:34.000 We can't say that it depends anymore.
00:16:36.000 Which goes back to...
00:16:37.000 This is going to sound so bad.
00:16:38.000 I don't even know what he looks like.
00:16:39.000 I don't know people by names half the time.
00:16:41.000 So Channing who, I don't actually...
00:16:42.000 You know him.
00:16:43.000 You definitely know him.
00:16:44.000 When you put him up, you know him.
00:16:45.000 Yeah, you got to put him up.
00:16:46.000 I'm really bad with names.
00:16:47.000 Okay, we can show.
00:16:48.000 We'll show you.
00:16:49.000 Leonardo DiCaprio.
00:16:50.000 Yeah, we could do Leo.
00:16:51.000 Oh, I like Leo.
00:16:52.000 Yeah.
00:16:53.000 Is he hot now?
00:16:54.000 Yeah.
00:16:55.000 Now he's not.
00:16:56.000 But he was.
00:16:57.000 Titanic times he was hot.
00:16:58.000 Channing Tatum was the guy in that stripper movie.
00:17:00.000 Yeah, Channing Tatum.
00:17:01.000 Gorgeous.
00:17:02.000 Oh, yeah.
00:17:03.000 Yeah.
00:17:04.000 But it depends.
00:17:05.000 But they're the same.
00:17:06.000 No.
00:17:07.000 It depends on the girl.
00:17:09.000 It does depend on the girl.
00:17:11.000 It does depend on the girl, yeah.
00:17:12.000 James Altucher is a 10 to himself.
00:17:15.000 There you go.
00:17:17.000 But see, the only reason I'm doing this is because it kind of shows the point where I think that men have higher beauty standards than women and are held up to a higher standard when it comes to beauty.
00:17:25.000 Because, like, women will say that we're 10s, but a man, like, will do a picture and will say he's a 4 or a 2.
00:17:31.000 I think it's more acceptable to slate guys' looks now, actually, perhaps, than for a man to slate a woman's looks. 0.75
00:17:38.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:17:39.000 Mm-hmm.
00:17:40.000 I had an ex-girlfriend.
00:17:42.000 I shouldn't even share this really.
00:17:43.000 She's getting a bit vulnerable.
00:17:44.000 I had an ex-girlfriend once, right?
00:17:45.000 And we, uh, and I was, um, what was I, like, in my late, I was, like, 35 or something like that, or late 30s or something like that.
00:17:53.000 And we were together.
00:17:54.000 She was younger than me.
00:17:55.000 And she said to me, um, one time, uh, oh, you know, I wish I'd have, I wish I'd have got with you when you were in your 20s, you know, when you were really in your prime.
00:18:04.000 And I was thinking, and I always remembered that, and I sort of laughed it off at the time, but I was thinking, God, if I said that to a woman, can you imagine how castigated I get?
00:18:12.000 Can you imagine if I dated, you know, if I dated a woman who was, like, at 40 or something, I'm like, oh, God, I wish I'd have got with you when you were, like, 25.
00:18:18.000 You know, like, like, and I'm not saying it was acceptable for her to have said that, but it feels more acceptable, you know, for a woman to say something like that about a man. 0.87
00:18:27.000 Um, so, yeah, you know, I think there is a little bit of a double standard these days.
00:18:32.000 Yeah, 100%.
00:18:33.000 100%.
00:18:34.000 That is a horrible thing to say, I'm not going to lie to you.
00:18:37.000 It's all right. I wasn't hot then either, so it's fine.
00:18:43.000 Do you guys think the phrase is true that men would have sex with anyone?
00:18:47.000 Yes.
00:18:48.000 Yes, I agree.
00:18:49.000 I'd like to think my boyfriend has standards. 0.69
00:18:51.000 But I feel like a lot of men out there will definitely have sex with anyone.
00:18:55.000 100%. 0.82
00:18:56.000 Even women that they will say, oh, you know, you'll have some men and they'll be like, oh, I would never have sex with this woman. 1.00
00:19:01.000 But you'll be surprised, they do.
00:19:03.000 They just probably don't speak about it.
00:19:05.000 Don't they need to get aroused first? 0.99
00:19:06.000 Mmm. 0.99
00:19:07.000 Like, I feel like men are not as trash as we think they are. 0.95
00:19:11.000 But I feel like in this day and age, some men don't care about that. 0.97
00:19:14.000 They'll actually just sleep with whoever. 1.00
00:19:16.000 Yeah, but they probably won't speak about it because they'll be ashamed in a way.
00:19:19.000 But I feel like men are capable.
00:19:20.000 They don't need to be aroused.
00:19:21.000 I know.
00:19:22.000 Have you heard the percentage rate of people having sex?
00:19:24.000 Please, tell me.
00:19:25.000 Remember, we must have told you, it's low standards at the moment.
00:19:27.000 No.
00:19:28.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:19:29.000 They will go for anyone.
00:19:30.000 They will.
00:19:31.000 No, I disagree.
00:19:32.000 I feel like they have, like, they need to be aroused.
00:19:34.000 I'm just curious.
00:19:35.000 Have you guys' mind changed at all about who has higher standards, men or women, and who's pickier men or women?
00:19:40.000 No, I definitely feel like men.
00:19:41.000 You still think men are pickier?
00:19:43.000 I think women are pickier. 1.00
00:19:44.000 I think women are pickier. 1.00
00:19:45.000 I think women are pickier. 1.00
00:19:46.000 Yeah, I definitely know I'm picking.
00:19:48.000 And when it comes down to men sleeping with anything, I do feel like money plays an issue.
00:19:54.000 It plays a factor, sorry, when it comes down to men sleeping with anything.
00:19:57.000 Because if a man had earned less money, I feel like he would then go and sleep with anything because he's going for what he can get.
00:20:04.000 But once he starts earning the amount that he can to be able to get the type of women that he actually wants to sleep with, he would then go and do that.
00:20:14.000 He would.
00:20:15.000 Yeah.
00:20:16.000 That's true.
00:20:17.000 That's actually, yeah, it's a very...
00:20:18.000 Yeah, that's true.
00:20:19.000 It's like, they say, like, men are only as loyal as their options.
00:20:23.000 I think that's true.
00:20:24.000 Yeah.
00:20:25.000 I think that's 100% true.
00:20:26.000 Yeah.
00:20:27.000 I think, to be honest.
00:20:28.000 I mean, guys would be like, you know, playing the moral high card of like, oh, you know, I wouldn't...
00:20:31.000 I would never cheat.
00:20:32.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:20:33.000 And it's like, come on, come on, you know.
00:20:35.000 Exactly.
00:20:36.000 It's an interesting point though, would a guy sleep with anything?
00:20:38.000 I don't...
00:20:39.000 I think there are...
00:20:41.000 I think it's probably a more nuanced answer.
00:20:43.000 I think there are some guys who are so thirsty that perhaps they would.
00:20:46.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:20:47.000 But at the same time, there is a mechanical thing here.
00:20:49.000 You know, like you said, you have to sort of get aroused, otherwise it's not happening.
00:20:52.000 And I mean, for me personally, I've always had, for me, fairly high standards.
00:20:57.000 I mean, high standards in the sense that if I'm not feeling it, I'm just not going to do it.
00:21:00.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:21:01.000 Yeah.
00:21:02.000 But now, especially, I'd rather go home, have a cup of tea, listen to LBC, you know.
00:21:07.000 I'm just not going to go there if I'm not feeling it.
00:21:09.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:21:10.000 But I think equally, there are guys who are quite thirsty and they feel they don't have options.
00:21:13.000 100%.
00:21:14.000 Do you think that...
00:21:15.000 Go ahead, go ahead.
00:21:16.000 I was going to say, there's a difference.
00:21:17.000 Like, I always say, where there's money, there's females. 1.00
00:21:20.000 Where there's money, there's females. 1.00
00:21:21.000 That's true.
00:21:22.000 Yeah.
00:21:23.000 So there's a difference between being thirsty and just having money.
00:21:26.000 Money.
00:21:27.000 Yeah.
00:21:28.000 I feel like, even when you do have money, there's a particular type of girl that you go for, rather than when you're just thirsty.
00:21:34.000 And what does she look like? 0.86
00:21:35.000 That's fat.
00:21:36.000 What does she look like? 0.94
00:21:37.000 A girl that they go for? 0.59
00:21:38.000 Mmm.
00:21:39.000 It doesn't matter.
00:21:40.000 Everyone's a 10.
00:21:41.000 Not everyone's a 10.
00:21:42.000 It depends.
00:21:43.000 No, not everyone's a 10, but there's a different type of girl. 1.00
00:21:45.000 There's a different type of female. 1.00
00:21:46.000 You know, where there's money and you go for any type of female, it's kind of, it could be high level. 1.00
00:22:01.000 It could be attractive females, you know? 1.00
00:22:04.000 And then when you're thirsty, it's just anybody and anyone, the spectrum is so wide.
00:22:09.000 Whereas, I agree.
00:22:10.000 When you have money, there's a particular type of girl you go for. 1.00
00:22:14.000 There's levels.
00:22:15.000 Just, there's many of them.
00:22:16.000 Mmm.
00:22:17.000 So I feel like we need to differentiate the, where there's money, there's girls or females. 1.00
00:22:23.000 And, um, when you're thirsty and you sleep with anything.
00:22:28.000 Yeah.
00:22:30.000 So then, again, it almost seems like men aren't as picky as women, if they'd sleep with anything. 0.58
00:22:38.000 No, I, I think they are picky because it depends, like I said, it depends on where in the spectrum you fall in.
00:22:44.000 Oh, no, I would say, like, the, the top guys are picky.
00:22:47.000 Yeah, if you have money, I feel like you're, you're allowed to be picky.
00:22:50.000 Yeah.
00:22:51.000 Because you have money.
00:22:52.000 Whereas, if you don't have the...
00:22:54.000 But it's like, what percent of guys have money?
00:22:55.000 So it's like, you're talking about, if we're talking about men in general...
00:22:58.000 Then what type of money do you think?
00:23:00.000 Because like you said, the percentage hair was lower than when you've had other podcasts.
00:23:05.000 So what does everyone think money is?
00:23:08.000 Depending on where, whatever.
00:23:10.000 That's true.
00:23:11.000 That's a good point.
00:23:12.000 That's true.
00:23:13.000 But if you look at Leonardo DiCaprio, I mean, it's well documented, isn't it?
00:23:15.000 You know, the, the, the chart of his, um, his ex-girlfriends and they're all under 26 or whatever.
00:23:19.000 And, um, he's clearly a guy with about as much choice as you could get in the dating market.
00:23:26.000 And I mean, he's clearly very picky, right?
00:23:28.000 You know?
00:23:29.000 So if you take it to that extreme, um, and yeah, I think that when you come further down the scale,
00:23:33.000 guys are going to be less, more thirsty, less picky and whatever.
00:23:36.000 I suppose they, they feel they need to, you know, to get, to get some intimacy somehow.
00:23:40.000 But, um, you know, and this is what I mean.
00:23:42.000 I think, I think the dating marketplace is, it's kind of a jungle out there, really.
00:23:46.000 It's a very Darwinian thing, isn't it?
00:23:48.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:23:49.000 Um, we can try and dress it up and pretend it isn't and it's all really nice and everything.
00:23:53.000 But it, you know, I mean, it's the haves and the have-nots, isn't it, really?
00:23:56.000 What do you think is different about dating today than it was ten years ago?
00:24:01.000 Ten years ago they date to marry.
00:24:03.000 Ten years ago?
00:24:04.000 Well, not ten, but a hundred.
00:24:06.000 Yeah.
00:24:07.000 No, you don't think people date to marry today?
00:24:11.000 In this day and age, no, I feel like.
00:24:13.000 And whose fault is that, do you think?
00:24:15.000 Men or women? 0.78
00:24:16.000 I feel, hmm.
00:24:17.000 Probably both.
00:24:18.000 I feel like it started off as, um, men's and then now it's on the woman. 0.50
00:24:22.000 Women, yeah. 1.00
00:24:23.000 Why?
00:24:24.000 Um, because men don't, men always feel like women are trying to finesse them or, you know. 0.63
00:24:29.000 I feel like women have had enough. 1.00
00:24:32.000 No, I feel like, for me, it's like, because women are way more accessible. 0.99
00:24:36.000 So men, at the end of the day, they lose the interest because if that's too accessible, it's like, pfff.
00:24:41.000 It's just like, you wanna be, you wanna feel like, you wanna feel like.
00:24:45.000 I need to, you know, hound this lady that I'm really interested in. 1.00
00:24:49.000 You don't wanna have that all the time.
00:24:51.000 Well, it's almost like if men will do anything for sex and we all waited till we were married.
00:24:56.000 And we would all be married.
00:24:57.000 100%.
00:24:58.000 Yeah.
00:24:59.000 But, you know, it's the women that aren't waiting till they're married. 1.00
00:25:02.000 So wouldn't you say it's on women? 1.00
00:25:04.000 No.
00:25:05.000 No.
00:25:06.000 Well, yeah, I'll say it's on women now. 1.00
00:25:08.000 But I feel like it was triggered by men.
00:25:10.000 Why was it triggered by men?
00:25:11.000 Because didn't the sex have to, like, that's had to be.
00:25:14.000 Because before, I'd imagine like 100 years ago, it's more common to wait till you were married.
00:25:18.000 Oh, yes.
00:25:19.000 Yeah.
00:25:20.000 So, you know what I'm saying?
00:25:21.000 So who had to give up?
00:25:22.000 Like, who's in control of who has sex? 0.86
00:25:23.000 Women. 0.81
00:25:24.000 Not men. 0.69
00:25:25.000 Not men. 0.69
00:25:26.000 Yes.
00:25:27.000 True. 0.82
00:25:28.000 You put a naked girl in front of most guys. 1.00
00:25:29.000 They're gonna. 0.96
00:25:30.000 Oh, sorry.
00:25:31.000 No, though.
00:25:32.000 I think men are boys. 0.90
00:25:33.000 Oh, no, I can't.
00:25:34.000 Sorry, I can't.
00:25:35.000 But what's her personality like?
00:25:40.000 Yeah, no, it's women's fault, I think. 1.00
00:25:42.000 Mm-hmm.
00:25:43.000 Because, yeah.
00:25:44.000 I mean, yeah.
00:25:47.000 I just like to put faults.
00:25:51.000 Yeah.
00:25:52.000 I just like to put faults on someone.
00:25:54.000 Yeah.
00:25:55.000 Just for fun.
00:25:56.000 Yeah.
00:25:57.000 Oh, wait, are you being serious?
00:25:58.000 Yay.
00:25:59.000 Oh, okay.
00:26:00.000 On the women.
00:26:02.000 Mm-hmm.
00:26:03.000 What do you guys think?
00:26:04.000 I do think you had a valid point there.
00:26:06.000 Mm-hmm.
00:26:07.000 Women, you would agree? 0.97
00:26:08.000 Yeah.
00:26:09.000 Women. 0.81
00:26:10.000 Yeah, but the thing is, like, but women, but women, women, some women seek, some women seek partners 1.00
00:26:18.000 and some women seek companionship. 1.00
00:26:20.000 And I feel like it's more so in the hands of the man to an extent.
00:26:25.000 So you can't solely put it on women. 0.79
00:26:27.000 Mm-hmm.
00:26:28.000 That's the thing.
00:26:29.000 So, like, if a guy that I was interested in that was the kind of off guy that I would go for wanted to take things further with me,
00:26:37.000 it will be, everything will be progressive and moved by him.
00:26:40.000 Mm-hmm.
00:26:41.000 It's not, it's not by the woman. 0.89
00:26:42.000 And if a guy's not doing that, then how is the woman the blame?
00:26:46.000 Because, wouldn't you say that she's not, like, a high enough quality?
00:26:49.000 Like, if a man doesn't get laid, we put it on the men, right?
00:26:51.000 Mm-hmm.
00:26:52.000 So we'll say, we'll say, the men, it's your fault you're not getting laid.
00:26:55.000 You should go make more money, go to the gym, do this, do this.
00:26:57.000 But for women, it's like, if we're not getting into relationships, isn't that our own fault that we should be better?
00:27:02.000 I definitely feel like we definitely, if you want to get married, you want to communicate with a guy and tell him.
00:27:07.000 That's what my future entails.
00:27:08.000 I want to get married.
00:27:09.000 No, but not tell him.
00:27:10.000 I'm saying, like, bring more to the table.
00:27:12.000 Yeah, I feel like I bring enough to the table.
00:27:14.000 I don't have to bring enough to the table.
00:27:16.000 No, no, I'm not.
00:27:17.000 I'm not talking about you.
00:27:18.000 I don't know what, like, you do.
00:27:19.000 I feel like it's important for a woman to let a man know when you start that relationship, this is what I want in a man. 0.62
00:27:27.000 Because when I go and get into a relationship, I let them know, I want to have kids, but I want to be married first.
00:27:34.000 No, I agree with you.
00:27:36.000 You should tell him.
00:27:37.000 Yeah.
00:27:38.000 My question wasn't about telling him.
00:27:40.000 My question was, if you're a girl and you can't get in relationships, isn't that your own fault? 1.00
00:27:45.000 Like, how is it our fault?
00:27:47.000 Like, if a man can't get laid, isn't that his fault?
00:27:50.000 Like, he should go to the gym, he should make more money.
00:27:54.000 Like, no guy that's a billionaire isn't getting laid, right?
00:27:57.000 Or making six figures, right?
00:27:59.000 Yeah, but there's other things that attract people to him.
00:28:02.000 Wouldn't you say, so you don't think it's his own fault if he doesn't get laid?
00:28:06.000 Well, if he's a billionaire, then...
00:28:08.000 Not a billionaire.
00:28:09.000 I'm saying, like, if a man doesn't get laid, we tell that man to improve, right?
00:28:14.000 Yeah.
00:28:15.000 We say, go to the gym.
00:28:16.000 Like, you're a dating coach, right?
00:28:17.000 That's what you would say.
00:28:18.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:28:19.000 Go to the gym, learn to talk to girls, et cetera, et cetera.
00:28:21.000 Yeah.
00:28:22.000 So if a woman's not getting in relationships, that's the equivalent, right? 1.00
00:28:25.000 Because men try to get sex, women try to get relationships. 1.00
00:28:28.000 So if we can't get relationships, isn't that on the woman? 1.00
00:28:30.000 Because she's not bringing enough to the table that makes men want to get in relationships with her. 1.00
00:28:35.000 So what is she bringing to the table?
00:28:37.000 I don't know.
00:28:38.000 It depends on the girl.
00:28:39.000 It depends on the woman. 1.00
00:28:40.000 I get what you're saying, but I don't think it's on the woman.
00:28:42.000 I feel like it's on the man.
00:28:44.000 He's not persistent enough.
00:28:45.000 That's the problem as well.
00:28:46.000 No, no, no.
00:28:47.000 He's not bringing the energy.
00:28:48.000 They're not trying hard enough.
00:28:49.000 No, I'm saying, like...
00:28:50.000 Oh, you said no.
00:28:51.000 Okay, well, I'm gonna walk off and...
00:28:52.000 No, I agree.
00:28:53.000 But there's a girl...
00:28:54.000 Okay, there's a girl I went to college with, right?
00:28:56.000 And this girl was just raised super traditional.
00:28:58.000 Like, she was one of the most traditional women I've ever met.
00:29:01.000 She could cook.
00:29:02.000 And she just had that personality. 0.99
00:29:04.000 Like, she was beautiful.
00:29:05.000 She just had that personality that men, like, loved. 1.00
00:29:07.000 Like, she was very good about, like, catering to guys.
00:29:10.000 She would just notice, like, little...
00:29:11.000 You know those people that just make you feel very, like, warm and comforting, like, at home?
00:29:15.000 And, like, she never had a problem getting in relationships.
00:29:18.000 Like, any guy she slept with would date her because she was just so feminine. 1.00
00:29:22.000 And so it's like, if you're a woman and you sleep with a guy and he doesn't want to be a woman,
00:29:25.000 like, you're not doing something.
00:29:27.000 Like, something's wrong.
00:29:28.000 A hundred percent.
00:29:29.000 Yeah.
00:29:30.000 I agree.
00:29:31.000 That's a fair point.
00:29:32.000 Yeah.
00:29:33.000 What'd you say?
00:29:34.000 I think maybe you're just not bringing your attentions across.
00:29:36.000 That's why they just sleep with you and just...
00:29:38.000 No.
00:29:39.000 I'm telling you.
00:29:40.000 For her, it didn't even really matter.
00:29:42.000 Like, she just...
00:29:43.000 And I'm not saying, like, you should just sleep with anything, you know.
00:29:46.000 But for her, like, she just was so feminine that, like, every guy...
00:29:50.000 Like, she was just the guy at our college...
00:29:52.000 Or, girl.
00:29:53.000 She was just the girl at our college that every guy wanted to date.
00:29:56.000 And it wasn't like she was super hot.
00:29:58.000 She was cute. 0.89
00:29:59.000 Like, she was pretty.
00:30:00.000 But it was just...
00:30:01.000 She was so feminine and cool to be, like... 1.00
00:30:02.000 She just very much, like, made...
00:30:04.000 I don't know, men feel special.
00:30:05.000 She let a man be a man. 0.90
00:30:06.000 Yeah.
00:30:07.000 Yeah.
00:30:08.000 So, which means that beauty is not that important, then, after all.
00:30:11.000 If she wasn't that pretty. 0.96
00:30:13.000 She was cute. 0.89
00:30:14.000 She... 1.00
00:30:15.000 So, that's what I'm saying.
00:30:16.000 I've heard from guys...
00:30:17.000 This is just what I've heard from guys.
00:30:18.000 Like, it starts with looks.
00:30:19.000 So, they want a girl that's, like, over, like, a six.
00:30:22.000 Or maybe their guy at the floor is a seven.
00:30:24.000 But they'll...
00:30:25.000 Like, guys will go down and looks for femininity. 1.00
00:30:27.000 Yeah.
00:30:28.000 I agree.
00:30:29.000 Cooperation.
00:30:30.000 Yeah.
00:30:31.000 No, exactly.
00:30:32.000 And what you said, that's just sort of emphasize what I was trying to articulate earlier,
00:30:34.000 which is she's got to be pleasant.
00:30:36.000 And I suppose another word for pleasant is feminine, really. 0.84
00:30:38.000 Yes.
00:30:39.000 You know, you've got to feel that nice energy when you're with her.
00:30:42.000 And some women have that, and some women don't. 1.00
00:30:44.000 And I think guys will take...
00:30:46.000 There's this idea that for somebody that you're thinking of marrying, looks, even for a guy,
00:30:52.000 it should be...
00:30:53.000 It's of lesser importance, really.
00:30:54.000 It's like, okay, do we actually get on?
00:30:56.000 Is there actually a vibe there?
00:30:57.000 Is she going to be pleasant with me?
00:30:58.000 You know?
00:30:59.000 And there's a sort of a school of thought.
00:31:00.000 I'm not saying I agree with this, but that you should almost, you know,
00:31:04.000 drop down the scale of looks for the woman you're going to marry.
00:31:07.000 Because you don't want to be married to some sort of super high-maintenance kind of nine 1.00
00:31:10.000 who's like super bitchy and she's going to go and fuck the poor boy, you know, 1.00
00:31:14.000 six years time or whatever. 1.00
00:31:15.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:31:16.000 So, yeah, definitely.
00:31:18.000 I think femininity and pleasantness is such an important thing. 0.88
00:31:21.000 Yeah.
00:31:22.000 I agree.
00:31:24.000 Yep.
00:31:25.000 I agree.
00:31:26.000 What...
00:31:27.000 Have you guys ever tried self-improvement as a woman?
00:31:30.000 Nah.
00:31:31.000 Yes.
00:31:32.000 And, like, what did you do to improve?
00:31:36.000 Um, well, I'm going to say this.
00:31:38.000 I did, like, a few years of therapy.
00:31:41.000 Okay.
00:31:42.000 So, I think that helped me.
00:31:43.000 I'm still, you know, every day there is something to face and something to improve.
00:31:48.000 I think we never are like...
00:31:50.000 I don't believe there is anyone that is completely, you know, 100% perfect in everything.
00:31:54.000 We are just humans.
00:31:55.000 It took me a while to realize that because I've been coming from a background that I wanted
00:32:00.000 always to be perfect, you know, not showing my, you know, fragilities, insecurities.
00:32:05.000 But then, as I grew older, I understood that, you know, actually, that's just, you know,
00:32:10.000 a mask and we are all fragile in a way and we need just to work out what is wrong with us
00:32:15.000 and trying to transform that in, you know...
00:32:18.000 Did you go to therapy, like, after a bad relationship or...?
00:32:21.000 Yeah.
00:32:22.000 Yeah.
00:32:23.000 Also, but also, like, you know, it was a very particular time when I was...
00:32:27.000 Actually, I just moved here to the UK.
00:32:29.000 So, it was quite difficult for me that transition.
00:32:32.000 It's hard.
00:32:33.000 Yeah.
00:32:34.000 Yeah.
00:32:35.000 It's really hard.
00:32:36.000 Yeah.
00:32:37.000 So, it's like, it was like, you know, mix of things that made me, you know, make that choice
00:32:40.000 and I'm glad I did.
00:32:42.000 Um, and then I, you know, I try every day to listen, trying to be a better listener.
00:32:47.000 Me, I love, like, I love to talk.
00:32:49.000 I talk a lot and I've been learning during the years that actually I need to just shut
00:32:54.000 my mouth and also listen other people when they talk and trying to...
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