JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Get OFFENDED with These Trad-Wife

00:00:00.000 Accept criticism a lot better than women because you know, it was hard for him 1.00

00:00:06.180 Women in that in the bedroom. They're just like how dare you do you not get offended if your mom was picking something 1.00

00:00:11.880 Yeah in the bedroom. Yeah, which is why I felt really bad when she told me that story because it made me think you know

00:00:17.180 What I did that to someone and I didn't mean it in a malicious way. No, well, you should have

00:00:22.380 Question he asked me the truth. He said I don't really I don't really felt like I thought I thought yeah, I just think four or five

00:00:28.260 Yeah, I didn't just come out with it in a very blunt way. I was diplomatic. Yeah, but I don't really need

00:00:43.740 Really honest is spiritually attacked me as well. It didn't it didn't just get me physically it made me feel

00:00:49.760 When I'm the kind of person when I'm involved with someone I take on everything like their emotions that all right like I feel

00:00:58.260 I just want to ask so was you've not attracted to him anymore because of that, but when you got together you said this is what

00:01:04.560 He was like so surely you would know I was attracted to him 0.97

00:01:08.760 It was painful to have sex with him. Oh because of his hip bones 0.99

00:01:13.020 Sorry, I thought you said you wasn't finding it attractive. Sorry. Okay. It's it's also the it wasn't sexy. Yeah

00:01:19.680 That so what's the longest I'm waiting to hear from everybody else she's five months 0.96

00:01:23.400 No, no, I mean each person what's the longest each person I can't know two days

00:01:27.700 Yeah

00:01:28.700 watching like

00:01:30.700 Not even 48 hours

00:01:32.700 Yeah, like two days

00:01:34.700 No, that's what I meant because

00:01:36.700 That's what I meant because if you're in a relationship

00:01:39.700 I can't see myself going five months

00:01:41.700 Do you know what? Yeah, it depends on the person

00:01:43.700 I think if you start, no, I think if you used to a close

00:01:45.700 Me personally after a couple of days, I'm like what's wrong?

00:01:48.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

00:01:50.200 Intimacy is a big part of a relationship

00:01:52.500 I think it's easy. I think it's easier to go longer if when you're not living together

00:01:56.500 Like me and my partner wasn't living together. So yeah, that's why it probably had that

00:02:03.000 Time

00:02:04.000 But if we were living together, I 100% believe it would have been sooner. Yeah, so I can I answer your question though

00:02:10.800 You know when you said our if your man commented on your body in the bedroom, wouldn't you be offended? I wouldn't

00:02:16.500 Oh, no, I mean I wouldn't like I just do something about it

00:02:21.300 It depends on what they say though and how they say it

00:02:24.300 And I think it's also the heart behind it as well. Well, no yours as as well as the heart

00:02:29.300 Oh, sorry

00:02:30.300 As well as the heart because I trust my husband so anything that he says I know it's not like malicious

00:02:37.500 But also my husband is a bit of an enemy of my progress because I want to lose weight and he's very like oh, but you look amazing

00:02:45.800 But sometimes I just feel like if your partner says oh, yeah, I'd love if you like toned up

00:02:50.300 It gives you that extra motivation to go tone up. Do you know what I mean?

00:02:53.100 I think there's a there's a way of going around it

00:02:55.100 It's not like the person when you was when we was doing this and I felt this

00:02:59.500 Yeah, there's a there's ways around it. My mama just say you're fat. You've got a buddy. Do think about it 0.98

00:03:05.600 I was just

00:03:06.600 Yeah, I just think

00:03:07.600 We got that kind of straight forward

00:03:09.600 Yeah, we got a straightforward relationship

00:03:11.600 I was just gonna say I think it's all down to approach how yeah are said

00:03:15.600 I agree with you because if let's say you're getting busy with your guy and you're saying oh, you're a bit heavy today

00:03:21.600 Excuse me. Why are you saying it like that?

00:03:23.900 Well handle my heaviness and get stronger then

00:03:25.900 It's just the way

00:03:27.600 I wouldn't stop

00:03:28.400 That's not funny

00:03:29.100 Imagine you're in the moment and all of a sudden you're a bit heavy today

00:03:32.600 Yeah

00:03:33.100 Sorry, what'd you say?

00:03:35.100 No, I was just saying like if let's say you're in the moment, you know your mind's in a different universe and all of a sudden you hear silly comment like

00:03:42.100 You're a bit heavy today

00:03:43.100 I just had dinner

00:03:45.100 I just had dinner

00:03:47.100 You'll pause and be like

00:03:48.100 What did you just say?

00:03:49.100 I mean is it true?

00:03:50.100 I mean

00:03:51.100 I'm asking him like if he says it, is it true?

00:03:54.100 Like what does it matter how he says it? If it's true, it's true

00:03:57.100 He's not gonna leave you

00:03:58.100 He's not saying you're ugly, you know 1.00

00:03:59.100 I hate you 0.98

00:04:00.100 Personally in the moment, I don't think that matters if it's true or not 0.55

00:04:02.100 It's good to date guys who like your body type

00:04:05.100 They've been in the position

00:04:06.100 Yes, yes

00:04:07.100 I agree with that

00:04:08.100 I said I think it's important that you date guys that like your body type

00:04:11.100 But your body type can change

00:04:12.100 Thank you

00:04:13.100 I didn't look like this a couple of babies ago

00:04:17.100 I mean

00:04:18.100 You've grown together as a couple though

00:04:20.100 Yeah, so

00:04:21.100 By what she said like

00:04:23.100 He met me one day, he could be like

00:04:25.100 Oh but I want you to go back

00:04:27.100 Go back to that

00:04:28.100 But you could lose weight

00:04:29.100 You could

00:04:30.100 He doesn't care

00:04:31.100 But I'm saying if he cared

00:04:33.100 I probably would be more motivated to lose weight quicker

00:04:36.100 That's what I mean

00:04:37.100 It wouldn't just be like my internal

00:04:38.100 I want to lose weight

00:04:39.100 But he's like you know

00:04:41.100 Can you buy me a chocolate?

00:04:42.100 Then he'll buy me like a duo

00:04:44.100 But that's just you

00:04:45.100 There are a lot of men who still expect their women to

00:04:48.100 Even if she doesn't look exactly like how they met before kids

00:04:51.100 They still expect their women to look somewhat the same 1.00

00:04:54.100 So luckily your man's like you know

00:04:58.100 We can eat chocolate together whatever

00:05:00.100 But there are a lot of men that are like

00:05:01.100 Yeah

00:05:02.100 She's just you know

00:05:03.100 And there are a lot of women that feel offended by it 1.00

00:05:06.100 Because it's like oh well I've pushed out this baby

00:05:08.100 But like

00:05:09.100 Well I just think sometimes men feel like they can't say things that are true to us

00:05:12.100 And like we want them to communicate it in a feminine way 1.00

00:05:15.100 Yeah

00:05:16.100 And they're not women 1.00

00:05:17.100 So when you say like it's how you say it it's very confusing to guys

00:05:21.100 Because they're like well it's true

00:05:23.100 They're very straightforward

00:05:25.100 I think men are required to be gentle with women

00:05:30.100 Because we are not like them

00:05:32.100 So I think in the same way we should not expect men to deliver 0.99

00:05:35.100 In a way that a female would 1.00

00:05:37.100 They need to recognize that they're not speaking to a male 0.57

00:05:40.100 So yes I feel like men should be able to be truthful

00:05:44.100 But they should do it gently

00:05:47.100 Because they're speaking to someone gently

00:05:49.100 Yeah

00:05:50.100 I just think that women need to grow a backbone 1.00

00:05:52.100 And stop making excuses 0.99

00:05:53.100 Because if you're fat you're fat

00:05:55.100 If you've got to put on weight you've got to put on weight

00:05:56.100 My man told me I was four pound overweight

00:05:58.100 I lost four pound

00:05:59.100 He just

00:06:00.100 It's the same thing like what she said

00:06:01.100 He goes hang on a minute

00:06:02.100 What's all that hanging about

00:06:03.100 You're putting a bit of weight in you?

00:06:04.100 A bit of heavy?

00:06:05.100 And I was like yeah you're right

00:06:06.100 If you felt like that though

00:06:08.100 But don't

00:06:09.100 No but what I'm trying to say is that

00:06:10.100 It all depends on your relationship

00:06:11.100 And how you talk to each other

00:06:12.100 Because we're just quite straightforward and blunt

00:06:15.100 To the point where people are like

00:06:16.100 Oh my god did he really say that?

00:06:17.100 I'm like yeah it's true

00:06:18.100 And I'll tell him

00:06:19.100 Yes look at your big head

00:06:20.100 You know

00:06:21.100 To your comment it was like

00:06:23.100 Because you said

00:06:24.100 But did you feel like that?

00:06:25.100 So let's say the woman disagreed

00:06:27.100 And then he's like

00:06:28.100 Okay but I want you to

00:06:29.100 You know like get fit

00:06:30.100 And she's like no I don't really feel like I need you

00:06:33.100 If he then stepped out

00:06:34.100 Are you saying that's like wrong?

00:06:35.100 Or like his eyes are not going to wander?

00:06:38.100 I mean yes sit down and work it out

00:06:40.100 Like they

00:06:41.100 But he has he's like

00:06:42.100 He's telling me like

00:06:43.100 Babe please go to the gym 1.00

00:06:44.100 You've asked something

00:06:45.100 And I've said no I don't feel like it

00:06:47.100 Your resolve can't be

00:06:49.100 Then I'm just going to step out

00:06:51.100 Like if there's a resolve that goes beyond us

00:06:53.100 Continuing this conversation until we're both

00:06:56.100 Like not satisfied

00:06:58.100 But there is some kind of middle ground here

00:07:00.100 But what's the middle ground?

00:07:01.100 Leave me

00:07:02.100 Leave me

00:07:03.100 But again I think that's

00:07:04.100 A lot of guys feel trapped in marriages

00:07:06.100 Because they don't want their kid 0.66

00:07:07.100 They don't want to put their kid at every statistical disadvantage

00:07:09.100 They possibly could

00:07:10.100 Yeah

00:07:11.100 So it's like if they step

00:07:12.100 This is just how they see it

00:07:13.100 It's like if they step out and you never find out

00:07:16.100 Because you're not doing the things that they ask them to do

00:07:18.100 A lot of times guys feel like it's justified

00:07:21.100 No I know someone that said because he has a child

00:07:24.100 He will never leave his child's mom

00:07:27.100 But if he's unhappy he will go about his business behind her back

00:07:31.100 But he will never leave her

00:07:32.100 And I said to him leave her 0.50

00:07:34.100 He said never because my son's there

00:07:36.100 And I don't want him

00:07:37.100 Not because he fears that she would keep him away from him

00:07:42.100 It's because he doesn't want his son to grow up

00:07:45.100 Outside of mum and dad lives here

00:07:47.100 But together they're happy

00:07:48.100 The son sees happy parents

00:07:50.100 I don't know

00:07:51.100 Because if they did I think good on him

00:07:53.100 Yeah

00:07:54.100 Yeah

00:07:55.100 What for cheating and staying

00:07:57.100 Yeah

00:07:58.100 I think there should be some kind of mutual agreement between the two parents

00:08:03.100 If that's the case

00:08:04.100 If they're not happy

00:08:05.100 No him

00:08:06.100 He said him

00:08:07.100 But what she don't know don't hurt her innit 0.52

00:08:09.100 Oh no

00:08:10.100 No

00:08:11.100 You don't think so

00:08:12.100 No because she can get infected by what she doesn't know might hurt her

00:08:15.100 That's an extreme

00:08:16.100 Yeah

00:08:17.100 If he cares so much about his child 1.00

00:08:19.100 He's gonna care so much about his wife's vagina 1.00

00:08:21.100 You don't know that 1.00

00:08:22.100 Because he cares about his child

00:08:23.100 Yeah he's cheating

00:08:24.100 He's staying

00:08:25.100 That's his standard

00:08:26.100 He's staying because of his child

00:08:27.100 He could leave

00:08:28.100 So because his standards are so high

00:08:30.100 He's not gonna go out and cheat

00:08:32.100 And get something

00:08:34.100 He's gonna be extremely careful

00:08:35.100 Because he's careful anyway

00:08:36.100 That's why he's staying there

00:08:37.100 Mmm

00:08:38.100 I don't agree

00:08:39.100 Do you guys believe a man can love you but still cheat?

00:08:42.100 Yes

00:08:43.100 Yes

00:08:44.100 Yeah

00:08:45.100 I do

00:08:46.100 Yeah

00:08:47.100 I really do

00:08:48.100 Like long term cheating

00:08:49.100 Or do you be like

00:08:50.100 Oh I've slept with this person

00:08:51.100 And I've realised I was wrong

00:08:53.100 I think sometimes they just fall under some stripper 1.00

00:08:56.100 Yeah

00:08:57.100 But not long term cheating

00:08:59.100 Long term cheating

00:09:00.100 I have a friend

00:09:01.100 And he reckons all men cheat in a certain type of way

00:09:05.100 He said my friend he's married

00:09:07.100 He calls it like a transfer window like a window

00:09:09.100 He said I have my window

00:09:10.100 This is football

00:09:11.100 I do what I do

00:09:12.100 And then you know what I go back

00:09:13.100 I'm a good dad

00:09:14.100 I'm a good husband

00:09:15.100 But that's it

00:09:16.100 But when that window opens

00:09:17.100 It's open

00:09:18.100 And when it's shut

00:09:19.100 I don't think all men cheat

00:09:20.100 Neither do I

00:09:21.100 Neither do I

00:09:22.100 I'm so sorry

00:09:23.100 And I refuse

00:09:24.100 My men don't cheat

00:09:25.100 Her men don't cheat 1.00

00:09:26.100 I don't think all men cheat

00:09:27.100 I do think they can sleep with someone else 0.85

00:09:29.100 And still love you

00:09:30.100 Love you and care about you

00:09:31.100 I've just had enough men explain this to me

00:09:32.100 I think so but not like a long term relationship with a whole other family

00:09:35.100 Yeah exactly

00:09:36.100 A double life

00:09:37.100 I don't know

00:09:38.100 I really think guys can love two women at the same time

00:09:41.100 Yeah

00:09:42.100 I mean they did it throughout all of history

00:09:45.100 You're gonna tell me that throughout all of history when it's 17

00:09:49.100 It's one man reproduced for every 17 women that none of them loved their wives

00:09:54.100 Isn't it?

00:09:55.100 There's more men than women so technically like 1.00

00:09:58.100 There's less men than women 1.00

00:10:00.100 Yeah sorry so they have to

00:10:01.100 Double up

00:10:02.100 Yeah reproduce with more women 1.00

00:10:04.100 I think historically 80% of women have reproduced historically where only 40% of men have

00:10:10.100 I think sometimes

00:10:12.100 I think sometimes you find out who's who when you go to funerals and you find out who's that

00:10:15.100 That's uncle

00:10:16.100 But it's true 0.90

00:10:17.100 And that's when you find out sometime that the man had a whole family that nobody knew about

00:10:21.100 And I'm not saying it's right

00:10:22.100 I'm just saying that's how the world's always been

00:10:24.100 Like I can't change the world

00:10:26.100 I think it happens more with people older than me than now

00:10:31.100 It seems to be like for the old people I'd say like 60 and 70

00:10:35.100 You always know somebody and like

00:10:37.100 They have somebody down the road they got a whole other family

00:10:40.100 Mark what do you think?

00:10:41.100 Oh this

00:10:42.100 Oh this is sorry go ahead go ahead

00:10:44.100 No worries

00:10:45.100 I think men are women God has made us differently 0.99

00:10:48.100 Right

00:10:49.100 I'm not going to be speaking to the mic

00:10:51.100 So in Islam men can have up to four wives 0.88

00:10:56.100 Because God know who he's who he's created

00:10:59.100 Men have 0.99

00:11:00.100 Men

00:11:01.100 They're not they're not like us

00:11:04.100 You know we're maternal

00:11:06.100 We're more loyal

00:11:07.100 You know that's what we want from a relationship

00:11:10.100 And that's what we bring to a relationship

00:11:12.100 Whereas for men they're more protectors providers 0.99

00:11:15.100 They're more you know go out there and do the hard jobs that type of thing

00:11:20.100 So for them what they want is to put it bluntly spread their seed

00:11:27.100 And have as many kids as they can

00:11:29.100 And have as many families as they can

00:11:31.100 And I mean I think that's fine

00:11:34.100 Do you think that he can love talking to him?

00:11:37.100 Yeah he can

00:11:38.100 Sorry do you think that he can love all his wives equally?

00:11:41.100 Well yeah I mean that's one of the constraints in Islam 1.00

00:11:45.100 If you're getting married to more than one wife you must treat her 1.00

00:11:49.100 Both of them or four of them all four of them equally

00:11:52.100 So if you buy this one a car you need to get four cars

00:11:55.100 So if you can't if you're not that top guy that can do that

00:11:59.100 You settle and you stay loyal to your one woman 0.94

00:12:02.100 Because when they say I think people get mixed up when they say

00:12:05.100 So you can have four wives you have to be able to afford four wives 1.00

00:12:08.100 Yes

00:12:09.100 That's why it's a different

00:12:10.100 Yeah you need to treat them equally

00:12:11.100 And the people the men that I've known that got other families

00:12:14.100 They both have nobody suffering

00:12:17.100 They all

00:12:18.100 And you find that the reason why they don't want to leave the wife

00:12:20.100 Is because they've been together years and pension houses and children and college and everything

00:12:24.100 Grandchildren

00:12:25.100 But I've known people that have a secret family tucked away

00:12:28.100 And nobody suffers

00:12:29.100 Because exactly what those kids are getting is exactly what those kids are getting

00:12:34.100 Oh actually I have a question

00:12:36.100 Oh this is this is a good question

00:12:38.100 Okay wait

00:12:39.100 Blasting Blasting

00:12:40.100 Can you pull something on the screen?

00:12:42.100 Are you able to do that?

00:12:43.100 Yeah

00:12:44.100 Okay

00:12:45.100 Okay

00:12:46.100 Okay

00:12:47.100 Google

00:12:48.100 Just go to Google

00:12:49.100 And put in

00:12:50.100 Put in average guy

00:12:52.100 The first thing that comes up

00:12:53.100 It's like a guy in a blue shirt

00:12:54.100 Don't put it on the screen until

00:12:56.100 I'll show you

00:12:57.100 I'll tell you what it is

00:12:58.100 I can see the screen

00:12:59.100 The left on the left

00:13:04.100 Yeah yeah yeah

00:13:05.100 Zoom in

00:13:06.100 Okay

00:13:08.100 Okay

00:13:09.100 And then put

00:13:10.100 Put

00:13:11.100 What's

00:13:13.100 What's that girl's husband's name?

00:13:15.100 The

00:13:16.100 Blake Lively's husband

00:13:17.100 Ryan Reynolds

00:13:18.100 Yeah put Ryan Reynolds on the screen

00:13:20.100 Who is that?

00:13:21.100 I'm just curious

00:13:23.100 I'm just curious the answer to this question

00:13:25.100 Um

00:13:26.100 Okay

00:13:27.100 So

00:13:28.100 You get

00:13:29.100 You guys get two options

00:13:30.100 Two options

00:13:31.100 Um

00:13:32.100 Yeah

00:13:33.100 Put him on the screen

00:13:34.100 Then put the other one

00:13:35.100 Tell me when you're ready

00:13:36.100 Tell me when you're ready

00:13:45.100 Wow this is a lot different than the last show I did

00:13:47.100 I know

00:13:48.100 I feel so nice

00:13:49.100 So nice

00:13:50.100 As it chilled out

00:13:51.100 Oh my god

00:13:52.100 Chilled out

00:13:53.100 This is like dead compared to the other one

00:13:55.100 Oh my god

00:13:56.100 This one's what you said?

00:13:58.100 Dead compared to the other one

00:13:59.100 Oh my god

00:14:00.100 That's annoying

00:14:01.100 Yeah it is

00:14:02.100 No that's a compliment

00:14:03.100 Oh

00:14:04.100 That's why she asked me if I'm gonna stay

00:14:09.100 Cause I didn't

00:14:10.100 I didn't last time

00:14:11.100 I left

00:14:12.100 Oh wow

00:14:13.100 I wish that could have been

00:14:14.100 I just got up and I thought

00:14:15.100 I was like let me come with her

00:14:17.100 Let me come

00:14:18.100 Okay are you ready?

00:14:20.100 Okay so guy on the left

00:14:22.100 You can be faithful with him and have a family

00:14:24.100 Oh this question

00:14:25.100 Or guy on the right

00:14:26.100 You can be one of his four wives 1.00

00:14:28.100 Who are you picking?

00:14:29.100 Neither

00:14:30.100 No you don't get to pick neither

00:14:31.100 The left

00:14:32.100 You have to pick one

00:14:33.100 Sorry the first

00:14:34.100 Okay okay I'm just curious

00:14:35.100 Who's picking

00:14:36.100 Who's picking guy on the

00:14:37.100 Guy on the left

00:14:38.100 Who's picking him?

00:14:39.100 Me

00:14:40.100 Alright one two

00:14:41.100 One two three four five

00:14:42.100 Okay

00:14:43.100 And who's picking Ryan Reynolds?

00:14:47.100 And you guys?

00:14:49.100 Two

00:14:50.100 I mean I'm gonna pick Ryan Reynolds

00:14:52.100 Yeah

00:14:53.100 He's more attractive

00:14:55.100 I don't think everybody's gonna chase him

00:14:56.100 Who wants a man that everybody else is gonna want 0.98

00:14:58.100 Yeah

00:14:59.100 I'm not gonna be attracted to the other guy

00:15:00.100 It can be improved

00:15:01.100 Yeah because looks fade you know

00:15:03.100 Not everyone's gonna be pretty forever

00:15:05.100 Some looks, his looks will improve

00:15:06.100 They can't get no worse now

00:15:07.100 I just feel like I could 0.99

00:15:08.100 He'll definitely be a fucks 0.95

00:15:09.100 I could share a house with Blake Lively 0.98

00:15:11.100 I could be okay

00:15:12.100 I'll share him

00:15:13.100 No I can't share

00:15:14.100 And also that's another ick of mine

00:15:16.100 Like I can't

00:15:17.100 If someone

00:15:18.100 If everyone wants you

00:15:19.100 I do not want you

00:15:20.100 You could be for everyone

00:15:21.100 Like yeah

00:15:22.100 Yeah stay safe

00:15:23.100 I hear that

00:15:24.100 And I don't share either

00:15:25.100 I can't

00:15:26.100 I don't get that whole concept of like

00:15:28.100 What is it called when people are in those open relationships

00:15:31.100 Open relationships

00:15:32.100 Yeah

00:15:33.100 There's like a word for it

00:15:34.100 Polygamy

00:15:35.100 Polygamy

00:15:36.100 Yeah

00:15:37.100 I respect it but I can't be involved in that

00:15:39.100 I don't share my cookies

00:15:40.100 That's why I said like earlier

00:15:41.100 They need to stay with the people that agree with that

00:15:43.100 And they need to stay with their people 1.00

00:15:44.100 Yeah

00:15:45.100 Completely agree with that

00:15:47.100 Okay I'm gonna take a second and read Super Chats

00:15:49.100 Guys thank you for all the Super Chats this show 1.00

00:15:52.100 Also a little announcement

00:15:55.100 We are doing

00:15:56.100 The new show schedule is Thursdays and Saturdays

00:15:58.100 So that is gonna be the show schedule moving forward

00:16:01.100 The only exception to that is the last weekend of this month

00:16:05.100 So I believe the 25th

00:16:07.100 I'm gonna have a volleyball game

00:16:08.100 So I'll probably do Friday of that week

00:16:11.100 Also all Super Chats are gonna be read over

00:16:14.100 What should we do over $10

00:16:17.100 Over $10 today

00:16:18.100 So if you have something you want to read

00:16:20.100 Me to read

00:16:21.100 Yeah send it

00:16:22.100 Okay

00:16:23.100 Sentience

00:16:24.100 Men are required to be gentle with women because they're not the same 1.00

00:16:27.100 While the current Western ideologues disagree with Transformers

00:16:32.100 Children making those self-sterilizing decisions

00:16:35.100 And let's not forget women demanding men read their minds 1.00

00:16:39.100 Dax Tonomy long-term watcher

00:16:41.100 I'm gonna have to wait until I'm at work later to watch and listen

00:16:44.100 But I love you Pearl and Auntie Jenny

00:16:46.100 Sentience $100 Super Chats

00:16:49.100 Willful cooperation aka submission comes from a position of power

00:16:55.100 Which most women don't realize 1.00

00:16:57.100 So when they didn't want you in their prime

00:17:00.100 Don't save them in their decline

00:17:02.100 Support their independence

00:17:03.100 And remember paying for safety is a heavy price

00:17:06.100 Both in freedom and money

00:17:07.100 Sentience

00:17:08.100 Modern women will deny their hot girl summer is limited not only by virtue of them aging 1.00

00:17:15.100 But also due to world events

00:17:17.100 When hard times come

00:17:19.100 Equality and feminism

00:17:21.100 Female 0.86

00:17:23.100 Femin 0.97

00:17:25.100 Femin 0.97

00:17:26.100 Oppressionism goes out the window

00:17:28.100 Which Kevin Samuels predicted

00:17:30.100 Gus

00:17:31.100 Love language are

00:17:32.100 Love languages are for women and

00:17:35.100 Weak beta men

00:17:37.100 Sean looking good

00:17:38.100 Pearl

00:17:39.100 Gus

00:17:40.100 Our dating strategies are not the same

00:17:41.100 Men want quantity over quality 1.00

00:17:43.100 You're not special

00:17:44.100 There are millions of beautiful women 1.00

00:17:45.100 But not many attractive men

00:17:47.100 If you can't keep the men you want

00:17:49.100 You're the problem

00:17:50.100 See Dumbledore

00:17:51.100 A whole flock of single mothers saying they wouldn't accept a man with a second wife 0.98

00:17:54.100 He's already accepting that he'd be your second husband

00:17:58.100 Whether you were married before or not

00:18:00.100 Delusional

00:18:01.100 Gus

00:18:02.100 You're saying you won't be feminine until someone brings that out of you 1.00

00:18:05.100 It's like saying that I'm going to wear a dress and makeup until I find someone that brings out my masculine side

00:18:09.100 How delusional can you be?

00:18:11.100 See Dumbledore

00:18:12.100 For a good man to take care of you

00:18:14.100 Did you ever consider that you must be take care of a bull?

00:18:17.100 The definition of modern woman is zero self-reflection

00:18:21.100 Sweet potato mama

00:18:22.100 Pearl you look beautiful

00:18:24.100 I love your hair and outfit today

00:18:26.100 Wonderful show as always

00:18:27.100 Glad to see auntie back 0.98

00:18:28.100 You've helped me see the men's point of view and I'm so grateful

00:18:31.100 I think that's all of them

00:18:32.100 I'm going to refresh the supers really quick

00:18:35.100 Just to make sure I didn't miss any

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00:18:47.100 Okay

00:18:48.100 Next question

00:18:52.100 Could you guys respect a man that you make more money than?

00:18:59.100 Starting here and then go around

00:19:02.100 And just to give a little preface

00:19:08.100 That means if he says quit your job tomorrow

00:19:11.100 I have a plan that you'd listen

00:19:14.100 Go ahead

00:19:16.100 I wouldn't respect a man that I make more money than

00:19:20.100 But

00:19:22.100 If I had a man that makes more money than me

00:19:26.100 And is

00:19:27.100 You know

00:19:28.100 Well put together

00:19:30.100 I can see that I can trust his judgement

00:19:33.100 And I know that

00:19:34.100 You know he's got good morals

00:19:36.100 He's

00:19:37.100 He's got good faith

00:19:38.100 Yes

00:19:39.100 If he says stop working

00:19:40.100 That's what I want

00:19:42.100 I want to sit at home

00:19:43.100 I want to paint my toes

00:19:44.100 I want to look cute

00:19:45.100 I want to you know drive a nice car

00:19:47.100 And

00:19:49.100 Have maids

00:19:50.100 And all of that

00:19:51.100 And if he's going to provide that for me

00:19:52.100 And all I've got to do is pop a couple of utes out

00:19:54.100 Sit at home

00:19:55.100 Why not?

00:19:56.100 No but why not?

00:19:57.100 Sorry

00:19:58.100 I don't think that's the typical stay at home mom's experience

00:20:04.100 It's a lot of work

00:20:05.100 No

00:20:06.100 A lot of work

00:20:07.100 Are you a stay at home mom?

00:20:08.100 Yeah

00:20:09.100 I am

00:20:10.100 I am now

00:20:11.100 Is that what your life is like?

00:20:12.100 No

00:20:14.100 I wish

00:20:15.100 No I'm talking about you know

00:20:17.100 The

00:20:18.100 The dream

00:20:19.100 The ideal

00:20:20.100 Yeah

00:20:21.100 The ideal

00:20:22.100 But

00:20:23.100 If we're talking about

00:20:24.100 You could still have a stay at home

00:20:25.100 You could still be a stay at home wife on a more normal salary 1.00

00:20:27.100 It just means cutting off like going down in lifestyle

00:20:30.100 If he can pay our rent

00:20:32.100 And put food on the table

00:20:34.100 And do everything that you know I would be working to provide half of

00:20:39.100 Absolutely fine

00:20:40.100 I can do without the maid 0.88

00:20:41.100 I can do without you know all of that

00:20:44.100 Let me just focus on our home

00:20:46.100 You bring the money in

00:20:48.100 And I'll make our home a home

00:20:49.100 And that way I will be more happier

00:20:51.100 Because to be honest you know I am a working woman

00:20:54.100 And I've got a child

00:20:56.100 It's stressful

00:20:57.100 You know that morning rush to get that little four year old ready

00:21:01.100 And she don't understand why I'm rushing

00:21:03.100 And she's you know

00:21:04.100 Money money money

00:21:05.100 And I've got a rush I get her in the car drop her off 1.00

00:21:07.100 I've done a whole shift before I've gone to work

00:21:10.100 And then I've got to deal with people that I work with

00:21:13.100 And then you know hard stop five o'clock

00:21:16.100 I need to stop this meeting

00:21:17.100 I need to rush out

00:21:18.100 So you know to my colleagues you know

00:21:20.100 I might look like you know

00:21:21.100 Oh don't put any meetings in her diary after five o'clock

00:21:23.100 Because you know she's a single mum 1.00

00:21:25.100 And there's that stigma that you've got to deal with

00:21:27.100 So the short answer yeah

00:21:29.100 Okay

00:21:31.100 I think I could

00:21:33.100 I think in reality that I would have to

00:21:38.100 I don't think it would be easy to

00:21:41.100 But I would work at it because I don't like

00:21:45.100 Especially with the way it is to live now

00:21:48.100 I would not leave an opportunity to make more money

00:21:52.100 Because my man doesn't

00:21:55.100 But I will always strive to respect him

00:21:59.100 And leave him to do the providing

00:22:03.100 So essentially if I brought more money into the house

00:22:07.100 That's just more spending money in my opinion

00:22:10.100 I would allow him

00:22:11.100 Like I would leave him to his role basically

00:22:14.100 Yeah

00:22:15.100 Let me ask you this

00:22:16.100 What is it like being a stay-at-home mom?

00:22:19.100 Well

00:22:22.100 Do you know what?

00:22:23.100 It's fine, it's good because

00:22:25.100 To me like raising my children is my priority

00:22:31.100 And looking after my home is my priority

00:22:34.100 Everything else is extra

00:22:36.100 But as long as I can give myself the space to do the extra

00:22:42.100 I'm happier that way

00:22:44.100 If my whole life was just at home with the kids

00:22:50.100 And maintaining my house

00:22:51.100 I don't know how happy I would be

00:22:53.100 Only because I had a lifestyle before getting married that I liked

00:22:58.100 And so I think here I have the best of both worlds

00:23:01.100 But I think

00:23:02.100 And actually I truly

00:23:03.100 Wait, so I'm confused

00:23:04.100 Are you not a stay-at-home mom?

00:23:06.100 I am a stay-at-home mom

00:23:07.100 I am a stay-at-home mom

00:23:08.100 But I do bits on the side

00:23:10.100 So I

00:23:11.100 Yeah

00:23:12.100 So

00:23:13.100 I'm a step-mom coach

00:23:15.100 Yeah, but

00:23:16.100 My house doesn't depend on the money I make

00:23:18.100 All the money I make

00:23:19.100 It's fun money

00:23:20.100 So you work from home

00:23:21.100 Yes

00:23:22.100 Yeah, I'm always at home

00:23:23.100 Unless I come out

00:23:25.100 To do a speaking gig or something like that

00:23:28.100 Yeah

00:23:29.100 So yeah, I would strive to respect

00:23:32.100 But he will always be the provider

00:23:34.100 And I'm okay with that

00:23:35.100 Whatever that looks like

00:23:37.100 Okay

00:23:38.100 And just like you said also to her

00:23:40.100 You know how you were saying

00:23:42.100 You can have a man on like a normal wage 1.00

00:23:45.100 And still be a stay-at-home mom 0.85

00:23:47.100 He doesn't have to be earning thousands

00:23:49.100 That is very true

00:23:50.100 Like I

00:23:51.100 Essentially what we say in our culture is

00:23:53.100 Cut your coat according to your size

00:23:55.100 Whatever my husband makes

00:23:57.100 Our life

00:23:58.100 I will maintain our life

00:23:59.100 According to what he makes

00:24:01.100 And as long as our necessities are met

00:24:03.100 There's really

00:24:04.100 There shouldn't be a complaint

00:24:06.100 Mm-hmm

00:24:07.100 I like you

00:24:08.100 Yeah, thank you

00:24:09.100 I like you too

00:24:10.100 Okay, so

00:24:13.100 Could you respect a man that you make more than?

00:24:16.100 Yes

00:24:17.100 The answer is yes

00:24:18.100 However, I want to see him

00:24:21.100 Being ambitious

00:24:22.100 He has to have a plan

00:24:23.100 He has to be someone that gets up in the morning

00:24:25.100 No, that's not the guy you're dating

00:24:27.100 No

00:24:28.100 So is this the guy that

00:24:29.100 That's like the women trying to change men 1.00

00:24:31.100 No, he's making

00:24:33.100 Let's say

00:24:34.100 Whatever the average salary is here

00:24:35.100 35,000 pounds a year

00:24:37.100 Yeah

00:24:38.100 It depends on his life

00:24:39.100 He will always be making 35,000 dollars a year

00:24:41.100 Okay

00:24:42.100 This isn't build a man 0.98

00:24:43.100 But what kind of person

00:24:44.100 Is he the kind of guy that wakes up and plays video games

00:24:46.100 And just

00:24:47.100 He goes to work

00:24:48.100 He goes to work

00:24:49.100 Okay

00:24:50.100 And makes 35,000 dollars a year

00:24:52.100 Okay

00:24:53.100 And then comes home

00:24:54.100 Sometimes he plays video games

00:24:55.100 Sometimes he doesn't

00:24:56.100 The same way 0.72

00:24:57.100 You know, it's like they

00:24:58.100 We can complain about the video games

00:24:59.100 But how many girls are on social media for hours? 1.00

00:25:02.100 We're just as bad

00:25:03.100 No, you know what, you're right

00:25:05.100 I think

00:25:07.100 I could

00:25:08.100 Because I've been in that situation

00:25:09.100 And I've been very happy

00:25:11.100 With

00:25:12.100 That

00:25:13.100 Okay

00:25:14.100 Why aren't you with him?

00:25:15.100 He's in Australia

00:25:16.100 Oh

00:25:17.100 So this was recent?

00:25:18.100 Yeah

00:25:19.100 Okay

00:25:20.100 I don't know what he makes

00:25:21.100 It's none of my business

00:25:22.100 But I know he's not like the richest guy in the world

00:25:24.100 But he's

00:25:25.100 Lovely

00:25:26.100 And he actually made me feel safe in every way

00:25:28.100 So how do you know that you earn more than him?

00:25:30.100 I don't

00:25:31.100 But if I did

00:25:32.100 I'd be okay with it

00:25:33.100 Because he was that

00:25:34.100 Wonderful

00:25:35.100 Okay

00:25:36.100 Okay

00:25:37.100 So yeah

00:25:38.100 Sounds like you need to go

00:25:39.100 Get your man

00:25:40.100 Get your man

00:25:41.100 Finish your healing

00:25:42.100 Get your man

00:25:43.100 Well

00:25:44.100 That was the plan

00:25:45.100 Not for him though

00:25:46.100 But I would like to see him again 100%

00:25:48.100 Oh

00:25:49.100 Do you think you're healed enough though?

00:25:51.100 Um

00:25:52.100 Wait I'm confused

00:25:53.100 So when was the

00:25:54.100 Okay

00:25:55.100 So wasn't the old guy eight months ago?

00:25:57.100 Yeah that was in June

00:25:59.100 Okay

00:26:00.100 And then when did the Australia guy come in?

00:26:02.100 Literally this month

00:26:03.100 Oh

00:26:04.100 Oh

00:26:05.100 And he left to Australia?

00:26:06.100 No

00:26:07.100 I was in Australia

00:26:08.100 She went away to Australia for six weeks

00:26:10.100 See this is why when men 0.98

00:26:11.100 It's like everything the guys say

00:26:13.100 So this is why when guys say like you're healing

00:26:16.100 They just think you're

00:26:17.100 I mean they don't have the

00:26:19.100 You're sleeping

00:26:20.100 Yeah you're just sleeping with other dudes

00:26:22.100 Um

00:26:23.100 No because it wasn't quite like that

00:26:24.100 It took me a long time to even go on a date with someone

00:26:27.100 Like

00:26:28.100 It wasn't until I went to Australia

00:26:30.100 I even considered that

00:26:31.100 I was just completely

00:26:32.100 Right but you told me you were healing earlier in Australia

00:26:35.100 Yeah

00:26:36.100 Yeah

00:26:37.100 And now you're telling me you met the guy in Australia

00:26:39.100 It's no hate to you

00:26:40.100 I'm just

00:26:41.100 No it's fine

00:26:42.100 I'm just observing

00:26:43.100 He's a healer

00:26:44.100 That

00:26:45.100 If I'm honest

00:26:46.100 Because I said that to him

00:26:47.100 Because he was going through his own thing

00:26:49.100 Which I won't discuss on here

00:26:50.100 That's his business

00:26:51.100 And I was going through mine

00:26:53.100 And I said to him

00:26:54.100 For whatever reason

00:26:55.100 I walked into your life

00:26:56.100 And you walked into mine

00:26:57.100 Because it was an accident

00:26:58.100 You know

00:26:59.100 I was walking down the street

00:27:00.100 How did you guys

00:27:01.100 Oh you met him on the street?

00:27:02.100 What happened was

00:27:03.100 I'd just come back from the gym

00:27:04.100 I was in a bad mood

00:27:05.100 I smelled

00:27:06.100 I was covered in sweat

00:27:07.100 I was spotty

00:27:08.100 I was like

00:27:09.100 You know on my period

00:27:10.100 So I was like bloated

00:27:11.100 And I did not look appealing at all

00:27:12.100 And this stunning man walks towards me

00:27:14.100 And when I fancy someone

00:27:16.100 I get shy

00:27:17.100 And I just look down

00:27:19.100 And he starts talking to me

00:27:20.100 And I'm just like

00:27:21.100 In my head I'm like

00:27:22.100 Why today?

00:27:23.100 Why today?

00:27:24.100 And then he's like

00:27:25.100 You should smile

00:27:26.100 You know it looks good on you

00:27:27.100 And then we were just talking

00:27:29.100 And then

00:27:33.100 I felt really good

00:27:34.100 Around this person

00:27:35.100 He made me feel safe

00:27:36.100 There's something about his energy

00:27:37.100 That just made me feel

00:27:38.100 Really good

00:27:39.100 So you were able to trust him?

00:27:42.100 It was more

00:27:44.100 I know that sounds wild

00:27:46.100 Because even I look back

00:27:47.100 And I think

00:27:48.100 How did I do that?

00:27:49.100 To an extent

00:27:50.100 Yeah, because I said to him

00:27:51.100 What are you doing later?

00:27:52.100 Let's go out

00:27:53.100 It was me that initiated it

00:27:55.100 And then

00:27:56.100 When he went in to kiss me

00:27:57.100 He said

00:27:58.100 He asked my permission

00:27:59.100 This is after the date

00:28:00.100 He said

00:28:01.100 You know

00:28:02.100 He was asking my permission

00:28:03.100 He was respectful of my boundaries

00:28:04.100 He was

00:28:05.100 You know

00:28:06.100 But you know how you said

00:28:07.100 That you were going through your stuff

00:28:08.100 And he was going through his stuff

00:28:09.100 Mm

00:28:10.100 You said that about your ex

00:28:11.100 The one who

00:28:12.100 Was obviously dealing with anorexia

00:28:13.100 You said

00:28:14.100 Um

00:28:15.100 He

00:28:16.100 His traumas

00:28:17.100 And your traumas

00:28:18.100 Were able to go together

00:28:19.100 And now you're saying

00:28:20.100 Basically the same thing

00:28:21.100 With this guy

00:28:22.100 Pattern

00:28:23.100 Yeah

00:28:24.100 It's because I'm aware

00:28:25.100 I'm not a perfect person

00:28:26.100 But don't you think

00:28:27.100 You said you're healing right?

00:28:28.100 Yeah

00:28:29.100 If you're healing

00:28:30.100 And then you're now meeting this guy

00:28:31.100 And you're acknowledging the fact

00:28:32.100 That you're going through your ish

00:28:34.100 He's going through his ish

00:28:35.100 And we've meshed together

00:28:37.100 You're acknowledging the fact

00:28:38.100 That you're entering the same pattern again

00:28:39.100 Yeah

00:28:40.100 Just because the guy

00:28:41.100 Is you know

00:28:42.100 But it's always

00:28:43.100 When you're not looking for someone

00:28:44.100 They just pop up

00:28:45.100 And then you click

00:28:46.100 I can't explain it

00:28:47.100 But they're not denying what you're saying though

00:28:48.100 You're right

00:28:49.100 But don't you think

00:28:50.100 You should just

00:28:51.100 Not that you should

00:28:52.100 But

00:28:53.100 I guess what I'm saying is

00:28:54.100 If you want to heal

00:28:56.100 To have a fruitful relationship

00:28:59.100 That's not going to be toxic

00:29:00.100 That's not going to have

00:29:01.100 Any of the repeated patterns

00:29:03.100 Just have that discipline in yourself

00:29:05.100 And be like

00:29:06.100 Actually you know what

00:29:07.100 I do really like you as a person

00:29:08.100 But let me get to a place

00:29:09.100 Where I know that

00:29:10.100 I'm strong in who I am

00:29:12.100 I'm not dealing with the same

00:29:14.100 Whatever

00:29:15.100 From the last person

00:29:16.100 And bringing that into the new person

00:29:17.100 Because all that's going to happen is

00:29:19.100 Yeah

00:29:20.100 You're going to be in the same predicament

00:29:21.100 Yeah

00:29:22.100 It's just going to be a different story

00:29:23.100 I wouldn't say it's a personal thing on me

00:29:25.100 I'm definitely strong in who I am

00:29:26.100 But you're right

00:29:28.100 I'm definitely not over what happened

00:29:30.100 And I'm

00:29:31.100 I appreciate what you said

00:29:32.100 Thank you

00:29:33.100 I just think that you need professional healing

00:29:34.100 I don't think

00:29:35.100 Self healing is not healing

00:29:36.100 But how do

00:29:37.100 I have

00:29:38.100 It sounds like you ran away

00:29:39.100 To Australia

00:29:40.100 But you can't run away from yourself

00:29:42.100 Yeah

00:29:43.100 You know what

00:29:44.100 That's right

00:29:45.100 That's true

00:29:46.100 Because I caught myself crying in a new city 1.00

00:29:47.100 About the same shit 0.99

00:29:48.100 Sorry ish 0.99

00:29:49.100 Have you been to therapy?

00:29:50.100 Yeah

00:29:51.100 Is it a male or a female therapist?

00:29:54.100 It's a male 0.53

00:29:55.100 Oh wow

00:29:56.100 Yeah

00:29:57.100 No luck

00:29:58.100 He's amazing

00:29:59.100 No honestly

00:30:00.100 He would

00:30:01.100 No he's so

00:30:02.100 He's so good

00:30:03.100 She's so sad about it

00:30:04.100 I'm still

00:30:05.100 Yeah but how do you turn that off?

00:30:07.100 I feel like

00:30:08.100 Through healing

00:30:09.100 You need acceptance first

00:30:10.100 You need to accept that it's happening

00:30:11.100 You need to accept how you're feeling

00:30:12.100 I have accepted it

00:30:13.100 I have accepted it

00:30:14.100 It's just because I'm speaking about it

00:30:15.100 It's on a public platform

00:30:16.100 Do you still like

00:30:17.100 Look up his social media stuff?

00:30:19.100 I tell you from the day that I broke up with him

00:30:21.100 I've never stalked him

00:30:22.100 I'm too proud

00:30:23.100 I would never do that to myself

00:30:24.100 Are you still having counselling?

00:30:25.100 I don't want to answer that

00:30:27.100 Okay

00:30:28.100 But

00:30:29.100 You're right

00:30:30.100 There is more work to be done

00:30:31.100 I'm aware of that

00:30:32.100 It's just because for me

00:30:33.100 To come on a public platform

00:30:34.100 And speak about it

00:30:35.100 It's like

00:30:36.100 Quite raw for me still

00:30:37.100 Do you know what it is?

00:30:38.100 Sometimes when you're not ready yourself

00:30:40.100 The universe just keeps giving you the same person in different forms

00:30:43.100 That's so true

00:30:44.100 That's so true

00:30:45.100 You're attracting the same kind to yourself

00:30:48.100 So you need to be alone and happy within yourself

00:30:51.100 And then something that you obviously think is for you

00:30:55.100 And good for you will come

00:30:57.100 But you're not ready

00:30:58.100 So that's why the world isn't bringing you someone

00:31:00.100 I don't think

00:31:01.100 I don't know

00:31:02.100 I think right now your subconscious is just

00:31:03.100 Is saying actually I need to be back in something

00:31:05.100 I need to have that

00:31:06.100 No, because I wasn't even looking for that

00:31:08.100 I do

00:31:09.100 I love being single

00:31:10.100 And I really love who I am

00:31:11.100 But I know

00:31:12.100 I said her subconscious

00:31:13.100 No

00:31:14.100 Because I wasn't looking for him

00:31:16.100 I was walking down the street

00:31:17.100 You told him to go meet you at the bar

00:31:19.100 Because I enjoyed his company

00:31:21.100 I'm in Australia

00:31:22.100 You're just contradicting yourself

00:31:24.100 How did you know his company by him just saying hi though?

00:31:27.100 Do you know what I mean?

00:31:28.100 Because I felt good in his presence

00:31:30.100 And I'm in a new city across

00:31:32.100 You know that feeling that you felt

00:31:34.100 That safe feeling

00:31:35.100 Yeah

00:31:36.100 Did you have that with the last person who was your friend

00:31:38.100 And you just had that feeling

00:31:39.100 And you was like

00:31:40.100 Ooh, I like this

00:31:41.100 Yeah

00:31:42.100 Yeah, so you haven't actually gotten over that

00:31:44.100 Yeah

00:31:45.100 No, you're right

00:31:46.100 That same feeling

00:31:47.100 That same kick that you got from the last one

00:31:49.100 You're still getting from this one

00:31:50.100 You know what it sounds like?

00:31:51.100 You're addicted to that feeling

00:31:52.100 Yeah

00:31:53.100 You know what?

00:31:54.100 You're probably right

00:31:55.100 Can I ask?

00:31:56.100 You can choose not to answer

00:31:57.100 It might be quite personal

00:31:58.100 But before both of these

00:32:00.100 Have you suffered with stuff within yourself

00:32:03.100 And then you're kind of using these

00:32:05.100 Yeah

00:32:06.100 To patch that up?

00:32:07.100 Yeah

00:32:08.100 Okay

00:32:09.100 Probably

00:32:10.100 Most likely

00:32:11.100 But that's the first step is acknowledgement

00:32:12.100 Yeah

00:32:13.100 Yeah

00:32:14.100 Okay, where were we in the room with the money question?

00:32:19.100 Okay, go ahead

00:32:21.100 If my man was making less than me

00:32:26.100 Or

00:32:28.100 Yeah

00:32:29.100 Yeah

00:32:30.100 Significantly less than I was earning more

00:32:32.100 He would still be my man

00:32:33.100 Probably

00:32:34.100 It doesn't really matter to me

00:32:35.100 I love the person for the person

00:32:37.100 If it stopped me from

00:32:38.100 Doing things and

00:32:40.100 Living the life that I wanted to live

00:32:42.100 Then I'm not with the right person

00:32:44.100 If I love someone, I love them for them

00:32:45.100 I'm not really materialistic about stuff like that

00:32:47.100 Is there a minimum?

00:32:48.100 What, figure?

00:32:49.100 Yeah

00:32:50.100 I mean, cause

00:32:51.100 Yes

00:32:52.100 Let's be honest

00:32:53.100 Let's be honest

00:32:54.100 I couldn't tell you figure

00:32:55.100 If he's unemployed for two years, you're out

00:32:57.100 Yeah, probably

00:32:58.100 And I hope you would be

00:32:59.100 Yeah, if he's unemployed for two years, I'm out

00:33:01.100 So there has to be like a minimum

00:33:03.100 What would you roughly say it is?

00:33:05.100 I couldn't

00:33:06.100 I don't know what people earn

00:33:08.100 And not shift work

00:33:09.100 I couldn't tell you

00:33:10.100 But how much you'd like him to bring him a movie for a month?

00:33:12.100 No, not shift work

00:33:13.100 Not shift work

00:33:14.100 Like, okay

00:33:15.100 What would you like him to bring him a month?

00:33:16.100 Yeah, in a month

00:33:17.100 Two grand

00:33:18.100 Three grand

00:33:19.100 Four grand

00:33:20.100 Remember, you

00:33:21.100 You listen if he says quit

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00:33:26.100 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform

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JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023

Modern Women Get OFFENDED with These Trad-Wife

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