JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023


Modern Women Get OFFENDED with These Trad-Wife


Episode Stats

Length

33 minutes

Words per Minute

196.45387

Word Count

6,611

Sentence Count

22

Misogynist Sentences

31

Hate Speech Sentences

44


Summary

In this episode, we discuss how to deal with criticism from family, friends and partners. We talk about how we deal with it, how we handle it and what we do to cope with it. We also talk about our own personal experiences with criticism and how we dealt with it in our relationships.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Accept criticism a lot better than women because you know, it was hard for him
00:00:06.180 Women in that in the bedroom. They're just like how dare you do you not get offended if your mom was picking something
00:00:11.880 Yeah in the bedroom. Yeah, which is why I felt really bad when she told me that story because it made me think you know
00:00:17.180 What I did that to someone and I didn't mean it in a malicious way. No, well, you should have
00:00:22.380 Question he asked me the truth. He said I don't really I don't really felt like I thought I thought yeah, I just think four or five
00:00:28.260 Yeah, I didn't just come out with it in a very blunt way. I was diplomatic. Yeah, but I don't really need
00:00:43.740 Really honest is spiritually attacked me as well. It didn't it didn't just get me physically it made me feel
00:00:49.760 When I'm the kind of person when I'm involved with someone I take on everything like their emotions that all right like I feel
00:00:58.260 I just want to ask so was you've not attracted to him anymore because of that, but when you got together you said this is what
00:01:04.560 He was like so surely you would know I was attracted to him
00:01:08.760 It was painful to have sex with him. Oh because of his hip bones
00:01:13.020 Sorry, I thought you said you wasn't finding it attractive. Sorry. Okay. It's it's also the it wasn't sexy. Yeah
00:01:19.680 That so what's the longest I'm waiting to hear from everybody else she's five months
00:01:23.400 No, no, I mean each person what's the longest each person I can't know two days
00:01:27.700 Yeah
00:01:28.700 watching like
00:01:30.700 Not even 48 hours
00:01:32.700 Yeah, like two days
00:01:34.700 No, that's what I meant because
00:01:36.700 That's what I meant because if you're in a relationship
00:01:39.700 I can't see myself going five months
00:01:41.700 Do you know what? Yeah, it depends on the person
00:01:43.700 I think if you start, no, I think if you used to a close
00:01:45.700 Me personally after a couple of days, I'm like what's wrong?
00:01:48.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
00:01:50.200 Intimacy is a big part of a relationship
00:01:52.500 I think it's easy. I think it's easier to go longer if when you're not living together
00:01:56.500 Like me and my partner wasn't living together. So yeah, that's why it probably had that
00:02:03.000 Time
00:02:04.000 But if we were living together, I 100% believe it would have been sooner. Yeah, so I can I answer your question though
00:02:10.800 You know when you said our if your man commented on your body in the bedroom, wouldn't you be offended? I wouldn't
00:02:16.500 Oh, no, I mean I wouldn't like I just do something about it
00:02:21.300 It depends on what they say though and how they say it
00:02:24.300 And I think it's also the heart behind it as well. Well, no yours as as well as the heart
00:02:29.300 Oh, sorry
00:02:30.300 As well as the heart because I trust my husband so anything that he says I know it's not like malicious
00:02:37.500 But also my husband is a bit of an enemy of my progress because I want to lose weight and he's very like oh, but you look amazing
00:02:45.800 But sometimes I just feel like if your partner says oh, yeah, I'd love if you like toned up
00:02:50.300 It gives you that extra motivation to go tone up. Do you know what I mean?
00:02:53.100 I think there's a there's a way of going around it
00:02:55.100 It's not like the person when you was when we was doing this and I felt this
00:02:59.500 Yeah, there's a there's ways around it. My mama just say you're fat. You've got a buddy. Do think about it
00:03:05.600 I was just
00:03:06.600 Yeah, I just think
00:03:07.600 We got that kind of straight forward
00:03:09.600 Yeah, we got a straightforward relationship
00:03:11.600 I was just gonna say I think it's all down to approach how yeah are said
00:03:15.600 I agree with you because if let's say you're getting busy with your guy and you're saying oh, you're a bit heavy today
00:03:21.600 Excuse me. Why are you saying it like that?
00:03:23.900 Well handle my heaviness and get stronger then
00:03:25.900 It's just the way
00:03:27.600 I wouldn't stop
00:03:28.400 That's not funny
00:03:29.100 Imagine you're in the moment and all of a sudden you're a bit heavy today
00:03:32.600 Yeah
00:03:33.100 Sorry, what'd you say?
00:03:35.100 No, I was just saying like if let's say you're in the moment, you know your mind's in a different universe and all of a sudden you hear silly comment like
00:03:42.100 You're a bit heavy today
00:03:43.100 I just had dinner
00:03:45.100 I just had dinner
00:03:47.100 You'll pause and be like
00:03:48.100 What did you just say?
00:03:49.100 I mean is it true?
00:03:50.100 I mean
00:03:51.100 I'm asking him like if he says it, is it true?
00:03:54.100 Like what does it matter how he says it? If it's true, it's true
00:03:57.100 He's not gonna leave you
00:03:58.100 He's not saying you're ugly, you know
00:03:59.100 I hate you
00:04:00.100 Personally in the moment, I don't think that matters if it's true or not
00:04:02.100 It's good to date guys who like your body type
00:04:05.100 They've been in the position
00:04:06.100 Yes, yes
00:04:07.100 I agree with that
00:04:08.100 I said I think it's important that you date guys that like your body type
00:04:11.100 But your body type can change
00:04:12.100 Thank you
00:04:13.100 I didn't look like this a couple of babies ago
00:04:17.100 I mean
00:04:18.100 You've grown together as a couple though
00:04:20.100 Yeah, so
00:04:21.100 By what she said like
00:04:23.100 He met me one day, he could be like
00:04:25.100 Oh but I want you to go back
00:04:27.100 Go back to that
00:04:28.100 But you could lose weight
00:04:29.100 You could
00:04:30.100 He doesn't care
00:04:31.100 But I'm saying if he cared
00:04:33.100 I probably would be more motivated to lose weight quicker
00:04:36.100 That's what I mean
00:04:37.100 It wouldn't just be like my internal
00:04:38.100 I want to lose weight
00:04:39.100 But he's like you know
00:04:41.100 Can you buy me a chocolate?
00:04:42.100 Then he'll buy me like a duo
00:04:44.100 But that's just you
00:04:45.100 There are a lot of men who still expect their women to
00:04:48.100 Even if she doesn't look exactly like how they met before kids
00:04:51.100 They still expect their women to look somewhat the same
00:04:54.100 So luckily your man's like you know
00:04:58.100 We can eat chocolate together whatever
00:05:00.100 But there are a lot of men that are like
00:05:01.100 Yeah
00:05:02.100 She's just you know
00:05:03.100 And there are a lot of women that feel offended by it
00:05:06.100 Because it's like oh well I've pushed out this baby
00:05:08.100 But like
00:05:09.100 Well I just think sometimes men feel like they can't say things that are true to us
00:05:12.100 And like we want them to communicate it in a feminine way
00:05:15.100 Yeah
00:05:16.100 And they're not women
00:05:17.100 So when you say like it's how you say it it's very confusing to guys
00:05:21.100 Because they're like well it's true
00:05:23.100 They're very straightforward
00:05:25.100 I think men are required to be gentle with women
00:05:30.100 Because we are not like them
00:05:32.100 So I think in the same way we should not expect men to deliver
00:05:35.100 In a way that a female would
00:05:37.100 They need to recognize that they're not speaking to a male
00:05:40.100 So yes I feel like men should be able to be truthful
00:05:44.100 But they should do it gently
00:05:47.100 Because they're speaking to someone gently
00:05:49.100 Yeah
00:05:50.100 I just think that women need to grow a backbone
00:05:52.100 And stop making excuses
00:05:53.100 Because if you're fat you're fat
00:05:55.100 If you've got to put on weight you've got to put on weight
00:05:56.100 My man told me I was four pound overweight
00:05:58.100 I lost four pound
00:05:59.100 He just
00:06:00.100 It's the same thing like what she said
00:06:01.100 He goes hang on a minute
00:06:02.100 What's all that hanging about
00:06:03.100 You're putting a bit of weight in you?
00:06:04.100 A bit of heavy?
00:06:05.100 And I was like yeah you're right
00:06:06.100 If you felt like that though
00:06:08.100 But don't
00:06:09.100 No but what I'm trying to say is that
00:06:10.100 It all depends on your relationship
00:06:11.100 And how you talk to each other
00:06:12.100 Because we're just quite straightforward and blunt
00:06:15.100 To the point where people are like
00:06:16.100 Oh my god did he really say that?
00:06:17.100 I'm like yeah it's true
00:06:18.100 And I'll tell him
00:06:19.100 Yes look at your big head
00:06:20.100 You know
00:06:21.100 To your comment it was like
00:06:23.100 Because you said
00:06:24.100 But did you feel like that?
00:06:25.100 So let's say the woman disagreed
00:06:27.100 And then he's like
00:06:28.100 Okay but I want you to
00:06:29.100 You know like get fit
00:06:30.100 And she's like no I don't really feel like I need you
00:06:33.100 If he then stepped out
00:06:34.100 Are you saying that's like wrong?
00:06:35.100 Or like his eyes are not going to wander?
00:06:38.100 I mean yes sit down and work it out
00:06:40.100 Like they
00:06:41.100 But he has he's like
00:06:42.100 He's telling me like
00:06:43.100 Babe please go to the gym
00:06:44.100 You've asked something
00:06:45.100 And I've said no I don't feel like it
00:06:47.100 Your resolve can't be
00:06:49.100 Then I'm just going to step out
00:06:51.100 Like if there's a resolve that goes beyond us
00:06:53.100 Continuing this conversation until we're both
00:06:56.100 Like not satisfied
00:06:58.100 But there is some kind of middle ground here
00:07:00.100 But what's the middle ground?
00:07:01.100 Leave me
00:07:02.100 Leave me
00:07:03.100 But again I think that's
00:07:04.100 A lot of guys feel trapped in marriages
00:07:06.100 Because they don't want their kid
00:07:07.100 They don't want to put their kid at every statistical disadvantage
00:07:09.100 They possibly could
00:07:10.100 Yeah
00:07:11.100 So it's like if they step
00:07:12.100 This is just how they see it
00:07:13.100 It's like if they step out and you never find out
00:07:16.100 Because you're not doing the things that they ask them to do
00:07:18.100 A lot of times guys feel like it's justified
00:07:21.100 No I know someone that said because he has a child
00:07:24.100 He will never leave his child's mom
00:07:27.100 But if he's unhappy he will go about his business behind her back
00:07:31.100 But he will never leave her
00:07:32.100 And I said to him leave her
00:07:34.100 He said never because my son's there
00:07:36.100 And I don't want him
00:07:37.100 Not because he fears that she would keep him away from him
00:07:42.100 It's because he doesn't want his son to grow up
00:07:45.100 Outside of mum and dad lives here
00:07:47.100 But together they're happy
00:07:48.100 The son sees happy parents
00:07:50.100 I don't know
00:07:51.100 Because if they did I think good on him
00:07:53.100 Yeah
00:07:54.100 Yeah
00:07:55.100 What for cheating and staying
00:07:57.100 Yeah
00:07:58.100 I think there should be some kind of mutual agreement between the two parents
00:08:03.100 If that's the case
00:08:04.100 If they're not happy
00:08:05.100 No him
00:08:06.100 He said him
00:08:07.100 But what she don't know don't hurt her innit
00:08:09.100 Oh no
00:08:10.100 No
00:08:11.100 You don't think so
00:08:12.100 No because she can get infected by what she doesn't know might hurt her
00:08:15.100 That's an extreme
00:08:16.100 Yeah
00:08:17.100 If he cares so much about his child
00:08:19.100 He's gonna care so much about his wife's vagina
00:08:21.100 You don't know that
00:08:22.100 Because he cares about his child
00:08:23.100 Yeah he's cheating
00:08:24.100 He's staying
00:08:25.100 That's his standard
00:08:26.100 He's staying because of his child
00:08:27.100 He could leave
00:08:28.100 So because his standards are so high
00:08:30.100 He's not gonna go out and cheat
00:08:32.100 And get something
00:08:34.100 He's gonna be extremely careful
00:08:35.100 Because he's careful anyway
00:08:36.100 That's why he's staying there
00:08:37.100 Mmm
00:08:38.100 I don't agree
00:08:39.100 Do you guys believe a man can love you but still cheat?
00:08:42.100 Yes
00:08:43.100 Yes
00:08:44.100 Yeah
00:08:45.100 I do
00:08:46.100 Yeah
00:08:47.100 I really do
00:08:48.100 Like long term cheating
00:08:49.100 Or do you be like
00:08:50.100 Oh I've slept with this person
00:08:51.100 And I've realised I was wrong
00:08:53.100 I think sometimes they just fall under some stripper
00:08:56.100 Yeah
00:08:57.100 But not long term cheating
00:08:59.100 Long term cheating
00:09:00.100 I have a friend
00:09:01.100 And he reckons all men cheat in a certain type of way
00:09:05.100 He said my friend he's married
00:09:07.100 He calls it like a transfer window like a window
00:09:09.100 He said I have my window
00:09:10.100 This is football
00:09:11.100 I do what I do
00:09:12.100 And then you know what I go back
00:09:13.100 I'm a good dad
00:09:14.100 I'm a good husband
00:09:15.100 But that's it
00:09:16.100 But when that window opens
00:09:17.100 It's open
00:09:18.100 And when it's shut
00:09:19.100 I don't think all men cheat
00:09:20.100 Neither do I
00:09:21.100 Neither do I
00:09:22.100 I'm so sorry
00:09:23.100 And I refuse
00:09:24.100 My men don't cheat
00:09:25.100 Her men don't cheat
00:09:26.100 I don't think all men cheat
00:09:27.100 I do think they can sleep with someone else
00:09:29.100 And still love you
00:09:30.100 Love you and care about you
00:09:31.100 I've just had enough men explain this to me
00:09:32.100 I think so but not like a long term relationship with a whole other family
00:09:35.100 Yeah exactly
00:09:36.100 A double life
00:09:37.100 I don't know
00:09:38.100 I really think guys can love two women at the same time
00:09:41.100 Yeah
00:09:42.100 I mean they did it throughout all of history
00:09:45.100 You're gonna tell me that throughout all of history when it's 17
00:09:49.100 It's one man reproduced for every 17 women that none of them loved their wives
00:09:54.100 Isn't it?
00:09:55.100 There's more men than women so technically like
00:09:58.100 There's less men than women
00:10:00.100 Yeah sorry so they have to
00:10:01.100 Double up
00:10:02.100 Yeah reproduce with more women
00:10:04.100 I think historically 80% of women have reproduced historically where only 40% of men have
00:10:10.100 I think sometimes
00:10:12.100 I think sometimes you find out who's who when you go to funerals and you find out who's that
00:10:15.100 That's uncle
00:10:16.100 But it's true
00:10:17.100 And that's when you find out sometime that the man had a whole family that nobody knew about
00:10:21.100 And I'm not saying it's right
00:10:22.100 I'm just saying that's how the world's always been
00:10:24.100 Like I can't change the world
00:10:26.100 I think it happens more with people older than me than now
00:10:31.100 It seems to be like for the old people I'd say like 60 and 70
00:10:35.100 You always know somebody and like
00:10:37.100 They have somebody down the road they got a whole other family
00:10:40.100 Mark what do you think?
00:10:41.100 Oh this
00:10:42.100 Oh this is sorry go ahead go ahead
00:10:44.100 No worries
00:10:45.100 I think men are women God has made us differently
00:10:48.100 Right
00:10:49.100 I'm not going to be speaking to the mic
00:10:51.100 So in Islam men can have up to four wives
00:10:56.100 Because God know who he's who he's created
00:10:59.100 Men have
00:11:00.100 Men
00:11:01.100 They're not they're not like us
00:11:04.100 You know we're maternal
00:11:06.100 We're more loyal
00:11:07.100 You know that's what we want from a relationship
00:11:10.100 And that's what we bring to a relationship
00:11:12.100 Whereas for men they're more protectors providers
00:11:15.100 They're more you know go out there and do the hard jobs that type of thing
00:11:20.100 So for them what they want is to put it bluntly spread their seed
00:11:27.100 And have as many kids as they can
00:11:29.100 And have as many families as they can
00:11:31.100 And I mean I think that's fine
00:11:34.100 Do you think that he can love talking to him?
00:11:37.100 Yeah he can
00:11:38.100 Sorry do you think that he can love all his wives equally?
00:11:41.100 Well yeah I mean that's one of the constraints in Islam
00:11:45.100 If you're getting married to more than one wife you must treat her
00:11:49.100 Both of them or four of them all four of them equally
00:11:52.100 So if you buy this one a car you need to get four cars
00:11:55.100 So if you can't if you're not that top guy that can do that
00:11:59.100 You settle and you stay loyal to your one woman
00:12:02.100 Because when they say I think people get mixed up when they say
00:12:05.100 So you can have four wives you have to be able to afford four wives
00:12:08.100 Yes
00:12:09.100 That's why it's a different
00:12:10.100 Yeah you need to treat them equally
00:12:11.100 And the people the men that I've known that got other families
00:12:14.100 They both have nobody suffering
00:12:17.100 They all
00:12:18.100 And you find that the reason why they don't want to leave the wife
00:12:20.100 Is because they've been together years and pension houses and children and college and everything
00:12:24.100 Grandchildren
00:12:25.100 But I've known people that have a secret family tucked away
00:12:28.100 And nobody suffers
00:12:29.100 Because exactly what those kids are getting is exactly what those kids are getting
00:12:34.100 Oh actually I have a question
00:12:36.100 Oh this is this is a good question
00:12:38.100 Okay wait
00:12:39.100 Blasting Blasting
00:12:40.100 Can you pull something on the screen?
00:12:42.100 Are you able to do that?
00:12:43.100 Yeah
00:12:44.100 Okay
00:12:45.100 Okay
00:12:46.100 Okay
00:12:47.100 Google
00:12:48.100 Just go to Google
00:12:49.100 And put in
00:12:50.100 Put in average guy
00:12:52.100 The first thing that comes up
00:12:53.100 It's like a guy in a blue shirt
00:12:54.100 Don't put it on the screen until
00:12:56.100 I'll show you
00:12:57.100 I'll tell you what it is
00:12:58.100 I can see the screen
00:12:59.100 The left on the left
00:13:04.100 Yeah yeah yeah
00:13:05.100 Zoom in
00:13:06.100 Okay
00:13:08.100 Okay
00:13:09.100 And then put
00:13:10.100 Put
00:13:11.100 What's
00:13:13.100 What's that girl's husband's name?
00:13:15.100 The
00:13:16.100 Blake Lively's husband
00:13:17.100 Ryan Reynolds
00:13:18.100 Yeah put Ryan Reynolds on the screen
00:13:20.100 Who is that?
00:13:21.100 I'm just curious
00:13:23.100 I'm just curious the answer to this question
00:13:25.100 Um
00:13:26.100 Okay
00:13:27.100 So
00:13:28.100 You get
00:13:29.100 You guys get two options
00:13:30.100 Two options
00:13:31.100 Um
00:13:32.100 Yeah
00:13:33.100 Put him on the screen
00:13:34.100 Then put the other one
00:13:35.100 Tell me when you're ready
00:13:36.100 Tell me when you're ready
00:13:45.100 Wow this is a lot different than the last show I did
00:13:47.100 I know
00:13:48.100 I feel so nice
00:13:49.100 So nice
00:13:50.100 As it chilled out
00:13:51.100 Oh my god
00:13:52.100 Chilled out
00:13:53.100 This is like dead compared to the other one
00:13:55.100 Oh my god
00:13:56.100 This one's what you said?
00:13:58.100 Dead compared to the other one
00:13:59.100 Oh my god
00:14:00.100 That's annoying
00:14:01.100 Yeah it is
00:14:02.100 No that's a compliment
00:14:03.100 Oh
00:14:04.100 That's why she asked me if I'm gonna stay
00:14:09.100 Cause I didn't
00:14:10.100 I didn't last time
00:14:11.100 I left
00:14:12.100 Oh wow
00:14:13.100 I wish that could have been
00:14:14.100 I just got up and I thought
00:14:15.100 I was like let me come with her
00:14:17.100 Let me come
00:14:18.100 Okay are you ready?
00:14:20.100 Okay so guy on the left
00:14:22.100 You can be faithful with him and have a family
00:14:24.100 Oh this question
00:14:25.100 Or guy on the right
00:14:26.100 You can be one of his four wives
00:14:28.100 Who are you picking?
00:14:29.100 Neither
00:14:30.100 No you don't get to pick neither
00:14:31.100 The left
00:14:32.100 You have to pick one
00:14:33.100 Sorry the first
00:14:34.100 Okay okay I'm just curious
00:14:35.100 Who's picking
00:14:36.100 Who's picking guy on the
00:14:37.100 Guy on the left
00:14:38.100 Who's picking him?
00:14:39.100 Me
00:14:40.100 Alright one two
00:14:41.100 One two three four five
00:14:42.100 Okay
00:14:43.100 And who's picking Ryan Reynolds?
00:14:47.100 And you guys?
00:14:49.100 Two
00:14:50.100 I mean I'm gonna pick Ryan Reynolds
00:14:52.100 Yeah
00:14:53.100 He's more attractive
00:14:55.100 I don't think everybody's gonna chase him
00:14:56.100 Who wants a man that everybody else is gonna want
00:14:58.100 Yeah
00:14:59.100 I'm not gonna be attracted to the other guy
00:15:00.100 It can be improved
00:15:01.100 Yeah because looks fade you know
00:15:03.100 Not everyone's gonna be pretty forever
00:15:05.100 Some looks, his looks will improve
00:15:06.100 They can't get no worse now
00:15:07.100 I just feel like I could
00:15:08.100 He'll definitely be a fucks
00:15:09.100 I could share a house with Blake Lively
00:15:11.100 I could be okay
00:15:12.100 I'll share him
00:15:13.100 No I can't share
00:15:14.100 And also that's another ick of mine
00:15:16.100 Like I can't
00:15:17.100 If someone
00:15:18.100 If everyone wants you
00:15:19.100 I do not want you
00:15:20.100 You could be for everyone
00:15:21.100 Like yeah
00:15:22.100 Yeah stay safe
00:15:23.100 I hear that
00:15:24.100 And I don't share either
00:15:25.100 I can't
00:15:26.100 I don't get that whole concept of like
00:15:28.100 What is it called when people are in those open relationships
00:15:31.100 Open relationships
00:15:32.100 Yeah
00:15:33.100 There's like a word for it
00:15:34.100 Polygamy
00:15:35.100 Polygamy
00:15:36.100 Yeah
00:15:37.100 I respect it but I can't be involved in that
00:15:39.100 I don't share my cookies
00:15:40.100 That's why I said like earlier
00:15:41.100 They need to stay with the people that agree with that
00:15:43.100 And they need to stay with their people
00:15:44.100 Yeah
00:15:45.100 Completely agree with that
00:15:47.100 Okay I'm gonna take a second and read Super Chats
00:15:49.100 Guys thank you for all the Super Chats this show
00:15:52.100 Also a little announcement
00:15:55.100 We are doing
00:15:56.100 The new show schedule is Thursdays and Saturdays
00:15:58.100 So that is gonna be the show schedule moving forward
00:16:01.100 The only exception to that is the last weekend of this month
00:16:05.100 So I believe the 25th
00:16:07.100 I'm gonna have a volleyball game
00:16:08.100 So I'll probably do Friday of that week
00:16:11.100 Also all Super Chats are gonna be read over
00:16:14.100 What should we do over $10
00:16:17.100 Over $10 today
00:16:18.100 So if you have something you want to read
00:16:20.100 Me to read
00:16:21.100 Yeah send it
00:16:22.100 Okay
00:16:23.100 Sentience
00:16:24.100 Men are required to be gentle with women because they're not the same
00:16:27.100 While the current Western ideologues disagree with Transformers
00:16:32.100 Children making those self-sterilizing decisions
00:16:35.100 And let's not forget women demanding men read their minds
00:16:39.100 Dax Tonomy long-term watcher
00:16:41.100 I'm gonna have to wait until I'm at work later to watch and listen
00:16:44.100 But I love you Pearl and Auntie Jenny
00:16:46.100 Sentience $100 Super Chats
00:16:49.100 Willful cooperation aka submission comes from a position of power
00:16:55.100 Which most women don't realize
00:16:57.100 So when they didn't want you in their prime
00:17:00.100 Don't save them in their decline
00:17:02.100 Support their independence
00:17:03.100 And remember paying for safety is a heavy price
00:17:06.100 Both in freedom and money
00:17:07.100 Sentience
00:17:08.100 Modern women will deny their hot girl summer is limited not only by virtue of them aging
00:17:15.100 But also due to world events
00:17:17.100 When hard times come
00:17:19.100 Equality and feminism
00:17:21.100 Female
00:17:23.100 Femin
00:17:25.100 Femin
00:17:26.100 Oppressionism goes out the window
00:17:28.100 Which Kevin Samuels predicted
00:17:30.100 Gus
00:17:31.100 Love language are
00:17:32.100 Love languages are for women and
00:17:35.100 Weak beta men
00:17:37.100 Sean looking good
00:17:38.100 Pearl
00:17:39.100 Gus
00:17:40.100 Our dating strategies are not the same
00:17:41.100 Men want quantity over quality
00:17:43.100 You're not special
00:17:44.100 There are millions of beautiful women
00:17:45.100 But not many attractive men
00:17:47.100 If you can't keep the men you want
00:17:49.100 You're the problem
00:17:50.100 See Dumbledore
00:17:51.100 A whole flock of single mothers saying they wouldn't accept a man with a second wife
00:17:54.100 He's already accepting that he'd be your second husband
00:17:58.100 Whether you were married before or not
00:18:00.100 Delusional
00:18:01.100 Gus
00:18:02.100 You're saying you won't be feminine until someone brings that out of you
00:18:05.100 It's like saying that I'm going to wear a dress and makeup until I find someone that brings out my masculine side
00:18:09.100 How delusional can you be?
00:18:11.100 See Dumbledore
00:18:12.100 For a good man to take care of you
00:18:14.100 Did you ever consider that you must be take care of a bull?
00:18:17.100 The definition of modern woman is zero self-reflection
00:18:21.100 Sweet potato mama
00:18:22.100 Pearl you look beautiful
00:18:24.100 I love your hair and outfit today
00:18:26.100 Wonderful show as always
00:18:27.100 Glad to see auntie back
00:18:28.100 You've helped me see the men's point of view and I'm so grateful
00:18:31.100 I think that's all of them
00:18:32.100 I'm going to refresh the supers really quick
00:18:35.100 Just to make sure I didn't miss any
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00:18:47.100 Okay
00:18:48.100 Next question
00:18:52.100 Could you guys respect a man that you make more money than?
00:18:59.100 Starting here and then go around
00:19:02.100 And just to give a little preface
00:19:08.100 That means if he says quit your job tomorrow
00:19:11.100 I have a plan that you'd listen
00:19:14.100 Go ahead
00:19:16.100 I wouldn't respect a man that I make more money than
00:19:20.100 But
00:19:22.100 If I had a man that makes more money than me
00:19:26.100 And is
00:19:27.100 You know
00:19:28.100 Well put together
00:19:30.100 I can see that I can trust his judgement
00:19:33.100 And I know that
00:19:34.100 You know he's got good morals
00:19:36.100 He's
00:19:37.100 He's got good faith
00:19:38.100 Yes
00:19:39.100 If he says stop working
00:19:40.100 That's what I want
00:19:42.100 I want to sit at home
00:19:43.100 I want to paint my toes
00:19:44.100 I want to look cute
00:19:45.100 I want to you know drive a nice car
00:19:47.100 And
00:19:49.100 Have maids
00:19:50.100 And all of that
00:19:51.100 And if he's going to provide that for me
00:19:52.100 And all I've got to do is pop a couple of utes out
00:19:54.100 Sit at home
00:19:55.100 Why not?
00:19:56.100 No but why not?
00:19:57.100 Sorry
00:19:58.100 I don't think that's the typical stay at home mom's experience
00:20:04.100 It's a lot of work
00:20:05.100 No
00:20:06.100 A lot of work
00:20:07.100 Are you a stay at home mom?
00:20:08.100 Yeah
00:20:09.100 I am
00:20:10.100 I am now
00:20:11.100 Is that what your life is like?
00:20:12.100 No
00:20:14.100 I wish
00:20:15.100 No I'm talking about you know
00:20:17.100 The
00:20:18.100 The dream
00:20:19.100 The ideal
00:20:20.100 Yeah
00:20:21.100 The ideal
00:20:22.100 But
00:20:23.100 If we're talking about
00:20:24.100 You could still have a stay at home
00:20:25.100 You could still be a stay at home wife on a more normal salary
00:20:27.100 It just means cutting off like going down in lifestyle
00:20:30.100 If he can pay our rent
00:20:32.100 And put food on the table
00:20:34.100 And do everything that you know I would be working to provide half of
00:20:39.100 Absolutely fine
00:20:40.100 I can do without the maid
00:20:41.100 I can do without you know all of that
00:20:44.100 Let me just focus on our home
00:20:46.100 You bring the money in
00:20:48.100 And I'll make our home a home
00:20:49.100 And that way I will be more happier
00:20:51.100 Because to be honest you know I am a working woman
00:20:54.100 And I've got a child
00:20:56.100 It's stressful
00:20:57.100 You know that morning rush to get that little four year old ready
00:21:01.100 And she don't understand why I'm rushing
00:21:03.100 And she's you know
00:21:04.100 Money money money
00:21:05.100 And I've got a rush I get her in the car drop her off
00:21:07.100 I've done a whole shift before I've gone to work
00:21:10.100 And then I've got to deal with people that I work with
00:21:13.100 And then you know hard stop five o'clock
00:21:16.100 I need to stop this meeting
00:21:17.100 I need to rush out
00:21:18.100 So you know to my colleagues you know
00:21:20.100 I might look like you know
00:21:21.100 Oh don't put any meetings in her diary after five o'clock
00:21:23.100 Because you know she's a single mum
00:21:25.100 And there's that stigma that you've got to deal with
00:21:27.100 So the short answer yeah
00:21:29.100 Okay
00:21:31.100 I think I could
00:21:33.100 I think in reality that I would have to
00:21:38.100 I don't think it would be easy to
00:21:41.100 But I would work at it because I don't like
00:21:45.100 Especially with the way it is to live now
00:21:48.100 I would not leave an opportunity to make more money
00:21:52.100 Because my man doesn't
00:21:55.100 But I will always strive to respect him
00:21:59.100 And leave him to do the providing
00:22:03.100 So essentially if I brought more money into the house
00:22:07.100 That's just more spending money in my opinion
00:22:10.100 I would allow him
00:22:11.100 Like I would leave him to his role basically
00:22:14.100 Yeah
00:22:15.100 Let me ask you this
00:22:16.100 What is it like being a stay-at-home mom?
00:22:19.100 Well
00:22:22.100 Do you know what?
00:22:23.100 It's fine, it's good because
00:22:25.100 To me like raising my children is my priority
00:22:31.100 And looking after my home is my priority
00:22:34.100 Everything else is extra
00:22:36.100 But as long as I can give myself the space to do the extra
00:22:42.100 I'm happier that way
00:22:44.100 If my whole life was just at home with the kids
00:22:50.100 And maintaining my house
00:22:51.100 I don't know how happy I would be
00:22:53.100 Only because I had a lifestyle before getting married that I liked
00:22:58.100 And so I think here I have the best of both worlds
00:23:01.100 But I think
00:23:02.100 And actually I truly
00:23:03.100 Wait, so I'm confused
00:23:04.100 Are you not a stay-at-home mom?
00:23:06.100 I am a stay-at-home mom
00:23:07.100 I am a stay-at-home mom
00:23:08.100 But I do bits on the side
00:23:10.100 So I
00:23:11.100 Yeah
00:23:12.100 So
00:23:13.100 I'm a step-mom coach
00:23:15.100 Yeah, but
00:23:16.100 My house doesn't depend on the money I make
00:23:18.100 All the money I make
00:23:19.100 It's fun money
00:23:20.100 So you work from home
00:23:21.100 Yes
00:23:22.100 Yeah, I'm always at home
00:23:23.100 Unless I come out
00:23:25.100 To do a speaking gig or something like that
00:23:28.100 Yeah
00:23:29.100 So yeah, I would strive to respect
00:23:32.100 But he will always be the provider
00:23:34.100 And I'm okay with that
00:23:35.100 Whatever that looks like
00:23:37.100 Okay
00:23:38.100 And just like you said also to her
00:23:40.100 You know how you were saying
00:23:42.100 You can have a man on like a normal wage
00:23:45.100 And still be a stay-at-home mom
00:23:47.100 He doesn't have to be earning thousands
00:23:49.100 That is very true
00:23:50.100 Like I
00:23:51.100 Essentially what we say in our culture is
00:23:53.100 Cut your coat according to your size
00:23:55.100 Whatever my husband makes
00:23:57.100 Our life
00:23:58.100 I will maintain our life
00:23:59.100 According to what he makes
00:24:01.100 And as long as our necessities are met
00:24:03.100 There's really
00:24:04.100 There shouldn't be a complaint
00:24:06.100 Mm-hmm
00:24:07.100 I like you
00:24:08.100 Yeah, thank you
00:24:09.100 I like you too
00:24:10.100 Okay, so
00:24:13.100 Could you respect a man that you make more than?
00:24:16.100 Yes
00:24:17.100 The answer is yes
00:24:18.100 However, I want to see him
00:24:21.100 Being ambitious
00:24:22.100 He has to have a plan
00:24:23.100 He has to be someone that gets up in the morning
00:24:25.100 No, that's not the guy you're dating
00:24:27.100 No
00:24:28.100 So is this the guy that
00:24:29.100 That's like the women trying to change men
00:24:31.100 No, he's making
00:24:33.100 Let's say
00:24:34.100 Whatever the average salary is here
00:24:35.100 35,000 pounds a year
00:24:37.100 Yeah
00:24:38.100 It depends on his life
00:24:39.100 He will always be making 35,000 dollars a year
00:24:41.100 Okay
00:24:42.100 This isn't build a man
00:24:43.100 But what kind of person
00:24:44.100 Is he the kind of guy that wakes up and plays video games
00:24:46.100 And just
00:24:47.100 He goes to work
00:24:48.100 He goes to work
00:24:49.100 Okay
00:24:50.100 And makes 35,000 dollars a year
00:24:52.100 Okay
00:24:53.100 And then comes home
00:24:54.100 Sometimes he plays video games
00:24:55.100 Sometimes he doesn't
00:24:56.100 The same way
00:24:57.100 You know, it's like they
00:24:58.100 We can complain about the video games
00:24:59.100 But how many girls are on social media for hours?
00:25:02.100 We're just as bad
00:25:03.100 No, you know what, you're right
00:25:05.100 I think
00:25:07.100 I could
00:25:08.100 Because I've been in that situation
00:25:09.100 And I've been very happy
00:25:11.100 With
00:25:12.100 That
00:25:13.100 Okay
00:25:14.100 Why aren't you with him?
00:25:15.100 He's in Australia
00:25:16.100 Oh
00:25:17.100 So this was recent?
00:25:18.100 Yeah
00:25:19.100 Okay
00:25:20.100 I don't know what he makes
00:25:21.100 It's none of my business
00:25:22.100 But I know he's not like the richest guy in the world
00:25:24.100 But he's
00:25:25.100 Lovely
00:25:26.100 And he actually made me feel safe in every way
00:25:28.100 So how do you know that you earn more than him?
00:25:30.100 I don't
00:25:31.100 But if I did
00:25:32.100 I'd be okay with it
00:25:33.100 Because he was that
00:25:34.100 Wonderful
00:25:35.100 Okay
00:25:36.100 Okay
00:25:37.100 So yeah
00:25:38.100 Sounds like you need to go
00:25:39.100 Get your man
00:25:40.100 Get your man
00:25:41.100 Finish your healing
00:25:42.100 Get your man
00:25:43.100 Well
00:25:44.100 That was the plan
00:25:45.100 Not for him though
00:25:46.100 But I would like to see him again 100%
00:25:48.100 Oh
00:25:49.100 Do you think you're healed enough though?
00:25:51.100 Um
00:25:52.100 Wait I'm confused
00:25:53.100 So when was the
00:25:54.100 Okay
00:25:55.100 So wasn't the old guy eight months ago?
00:25:57.100 Yeah that was in June
00:25:59.100 Okay
00:26:00.100 And then when did the Australia guy come in?
00:26:02.100 Literally this month
00:26:03.100 Oh
00:26:04.100 Oh
00:26:05.100 And he left to Australia?
00:26:06.100 No
00:26:07.100 I was in Australia
00:26:08.100 She went away to Australia for six weeks
00:26:10.100 See this is why when men
00:26:11.100 It's like everything the guys say
00:26:13.100 So this is why when guys say like you're healing
00:26:16.100 They just think you're
00:26:17.100 I mean they don't have the
00:26:19.100 You're sleeping
00:26:20.100 Yeah you're just sleeping with other dudes
00:26:22.100 Um
00:26:23.100 No because it wasn't quite like that
00:26:24.100 It took me a long time to even go on a date with someone
00:26:27.100 Like
00:26:28.100 It wasn't until I went to Australia
00:26:30.100 I even considered that
00:26:31.100 I was just completely
00:26:32.100 Right but you told me you were healing earlier in Australia
00:26:35.100 Yeah
00:26:36.100 Yeah
00:26:37.100 And now you're telling me you met the guy in Australia
00:26:39.100 It's no hate to you
00:26:40.100 I'm just
00:26:41.100 No it's fine
00:26:42.100 I'm just observing
00:26:43.100 He's a healer
00:26:44.100 That
00:26:45.100 If I'm honest
00:26:46.100 Because I said that to him
00:26:47.100 Because he was going through his own thing
00:26:49.100 Which I won't discuss on here
00:26:50.100 That's his business
00:26:51.100 And I was going through mine
00:26:53.100 And I said to him
00:26:54.100 For whatever reason
00:26:55.100 I walked into your life
00:26:56.100 And you walked into mine
00:26:57.100 Because it was an accident
00:26:58.100 You know
00:26:59.100 I was walking down the street
00:27:00.100 How did you guys
00:27:01.100 Oh you met him on the street?
00:27:02.100 What happened was
00:27:03.100 I'd just come back from the gym
00:27:04.100 I was in a bad mood
00:27:05.100 I smelled
00:27:06.100 I was covered in sweat
00:27:07.100 I was spotty
00:27:08.100 I was like
00:27:09.100 You know on my period
00:27:10.100 So I was like bloated
00:27:11.100 And I did not look appealing at all
00:27:12.100 And this stunning man walks towards me
00:27:14.100 And when I fancy someone
00:27:16.100 I get shy
00:27:17.100 And I just look down
00:27:19.100 And he starts talking to me
00:27:20.100 And I'm just like
00:27:21.100 In my head I'm like
00:27:22.100 Why today?
00:27:23.100 Why today?
00:27:24.100 And then he's like
00:27:25.100 You should smile
00:27:26.100 You know it looks good on you
00:27:27.100 And then we were just talking
00:27:29.100 And then
00:27:33.100 I felt really good
00:27:34.100 Around this person
00:27:35.100 He made me feel safe
00:27:36.100 There's something about his energy
00:27:37.100 That just made me feel
00:27:38.100 Really good
00:27:39.100 So you were able to trust him?
00:27:42.100 It was more
00:27:44.100 I know that sounds wild
00:27:46.100 Because even I look back
00:27:47.100 And I think
00:27:48.100 How did I do that?
00:27:49.100 To an extent
00:27:50.100 Yeah, because I said to him
00:27:51.100 What are you doing later?
00:27:52.100 Let's go out
00:27:53.100 It was me that initiated it
00:27:55.100 And then
00:27:56.100 When he went in to kiss me
00:27:57.100 He said
00:27:58.100 He asked my permission
00:27:59.100 This is after the date
00:28:00.100 He said
00:28:01.100 You know
00:28:02.100 He was asking my permission
00:28:03.100 He was respectful of my boundaries
00:28:04.100 He was
00:28:05.100 You know
00:28:06.100 But you know how you said
00:28:07.100 That you were going through your stuff
00:28:08.100 And he was going through his stuff
00:28:09.100 Mm
00:28:10.100 You said that about your ex
00:28:11.100 The one who
00:28:12.100 Was obviously dealing with anorexia
00:28:13.100 You said
00:28:14.100 Um
00:28:15.100 He
00:28:16.100 His traumas
00:28:17.100 And your traumas
00:28:18.100 Were able to go together
00:28:19.100 And now you're saying
00:28:20.100 Basically the same thing
00:28:21.100 With this guy
00:28:22.100 Pattern
00:28:23.100 Yeah
00:28:24.100 It's because I'm aware
00:28:25.100 I'm not a perfect person
00:28:26.100 But don't you think
00:28:27.100 You said you're healing right?
00:28:28.100 Yeah
00:28:29.100 If you're healing
00:28:30.100 And then you're now meeting this guy
00:28:31.100 And you're acknowledging the fact
00:28:32.100 That you're going through your ish
00:28:34.100 He's going through his ish
00:28:35.100 And we've meshed together
00:28:37.100 You're acknowledging the fact
00:28:38.100 That you're entering the same pattern again
00:28:39.100 Yeah
00:28:40.100 Just because the guy
00:28:41.100 Is you know
00:28:42.100 But it's always
00:28:43.100 When you're not looking for someone
00:28:44.100 They just pop up
00:28:45.100 And then you click
00:28:46.100 I can't explain it
00:28:47.100 But they're not denying what you're saying though
00:28:48.100 You're right
00:28:49.100 But don't you think
00:28:50.100 You should just
00:28:51.100 Not that you should
00:28:52.100 But
00:28:53.100 I guess what I'm saying is
00:28:54.100 If you want to heal
00:28:56.100 To have a fruitful relationship
00:28:59.100 That's not going to be toxic
00:29:00.100 That's not going to have
00:29:01.100 Any of the repeated patterns
00:29:03.100 Just have that discipline in yourself
00:29:05.100 And be like
00:29:06.100 Actually you know what
00:29:07.100 I do really like you as a person
00:29:08.100 But let me get to a place
00:29:09.100 Where I know that
00:29:10.100 I'm strong in who I am
00:29:12.100 I'm not dealing with the same
00:29:14.100 Whatever
00:29:15.100 From the last person
00:29:16.100 And bringing that into the new person
00:29:17.100 Because all that's going to happen is
00:29:19.100 Yeah
00:29:20.100 You're going to be in the same predicament
00:29:21.100 Yeah
00:29:22.100 It's just going to be a different story
00:29:23.100 I wouldn't say it's a personal thing on me
00:29:25.100 I'm definitely strong in who I am
00:29:26.100 But you're right
00:29:28.100 I'm definitely not over what happened
00:29:30.100 And I'm
00:29:31.100 I appreciate what you said
00:29:32.100 Thank you
00:29:33.100 I just think that you need professional healing
00:29:34.100 I don't think
00:29:35.100 Self healing is not healing
00:29:36.100 But how do
00:29:37.100 I have
00:29:38.100 It sounds like you ran away
00:29:39.100 To Australia
00:29:40.100 But you can't run away from yourself
00:29:42.100 Yeah
00:29:43.100 You know what
00:29:44.100 That's right
00:29:45.100 That's true
00:29:46.100 Because I caught myself crying in a new city
00:29:47.100 About the same shit
00:29:48.100 Sorry ish
00:29:49.100 Have you been to therapy?
00:29:50.100 Yeah
00:29:51.100 Is it a male or a female therapist?
00:29:54.100 It's a male
00:29:55.100 Oh wow
00:29:56.100 Yeah
00:29:57.100 No luck
00:29:58.100 He's amazing
00:29:59.100 No honestly
00:30:00.100 He would
00:30:01.100 No he's so
00:30:02.100 He's so good
00:30:03.100 She's so sad about it
00:30:04.100 I'm still
00:30:05.100 Yeah but how do you turn that off?
00:30:07.100 I feel like
00:30:08.100 Through healing
00:30:09.100 You need acceptance first
00:30:10.100 You need to accept that it's happening
00:30:11.100 You need to accept how you're feeling
00:30:12.100 I have accepted it
00:30:13.100 I have accepted it
00:30:14.100 It's just because I'm speaking about it
00:30:15.100 It's on a public platform
00:30:16.100 Do you still like
00:30:17.100 Look up his social media stuff?
00:30:19.100 I tell you from the day that I broke up with him
00:30:21.100 I've never stalked him
00:30:22.100 I'm too proud
00:30:23.100 I would never do that to myself
00:30:24.100 Are you still having counselling?
00:30:25.100 I don't want to answer that
00:30:27.100 Okay
00:30:28.100 But
00:30:29.100 You're right
00:30:30.100 There is more work to be done
00:30:31.100 I'm aware of that
00:30:32.100 It's just because for me
00:30:33.100 To come on a public platform
00:30:34.100 And speak about it
00:30:35.100 It's like
00:30:36.100 Quite raw for me still
00:30:37.100 Do you know what it is?
00:30:38.100 Sometimes when you're not ready yourself
00:30:40.100 The universe just keeps giving you the same person in different forms
00:30:43.100 That's so true
00:30:44.100 That's so true
00:30:45.100 You're attracting the same kind to yourself
00:30:48.100 So you need to be alone and happy within yourself
00:30:51.100 And then something that you obviously think is for you
00:30:55.100 And good for you will come
00:30:57.100 But you're not ready
00:30:58.100 So that's why the world isn't bringing you someone
00:31:00.100 I don't think
00:31:01.100 I don't know
00:31:02.100 I think right now your subconscious is just
00:31:03.100 Is saying actually I need to be back in something
00:31:05.100 I need to have that
00:31:06.100 No, because I wasn't even looking for that
00:31:08.100 I do
00:31:09.100 I love being single
00:31:10.100 And I really love who I am
00:31:11.100 But I know
00:31:12.100 I said her subconscious
00:31:13.100 No
00:31:14.100 Because I wasn't looking for him
00:31:16.100 I was walking down the street
00:31:17.100 You told him to go meet you at the bar
00:31:19.100 Because I enjoyed his company
00:31:21.100 I'm in Australia
00:31:22.100 You're just contradicting yourself
00:31:24.100 How did you know his company by him just saying hi though?
00:31:27.100 Do you know what I mean?
00:31:28.100 Because I felt good in his presence
00:31:30.100 And I'm in a new city across
00:31:32.100 You know that feeling that you felt
00:31:34.100 That safe feeling
00:31:35.100 Yeah
00:31:36.100 Did you have that with the last person who was your friend
00:31:38.100 And you just had that feeling
00:31:39.100 And you was like
00:31:40.100 Ooh, I like this
00:31:41.100 Yeah
00:31:42.100 Yeah, so you haven't actually gotten over that
00:31:44.100 Yeah
00:31:45.100 No, you're right
00:31:46.100 That same feeling
00:31:47.100 That same kick that you got from the last one
00:31:49.100 You're still getting from this one
00:31:50.100 You know what it sounds like?
00:31:51.100 You're addicted to that feeling
00:31:52.100 Yeah
00:31:53.100 You know what?
00:31:54.100 You're probably right
00:31:55.100 Can I ask?
00:31:56.100 You can choose not to answer
00:31:57.100 It might be quite personal
00:31:58.100 But before both of these
00:32:00.100 Have you suffered with stuff within yourself
00:32:03.100 And then you're kind of using these
00:32:05.100 Yeah
00:32:06.100 To patch that up?
00:32:07.100 Yeah
00:32:08.100 Okay
00:32:09.100 Probably
00:32:10.100 Most likely
00:32:11.100 But that's the first step is acknowledgement
00:32:12.100 Yeah
00:32:13.100 Yeah
00:32:14.100 Okay, where were we in the room with the money question?
00:32:19.100 Okay, go ahead
00:32:21.100 If my man was making less than me
00:32:26.100 Or
00:32:28.100 Yeah
00:32:29.100 Yeah
00:32:30.100 Significantly less than I was earning more
00:32:32.100 He would still be my man
00:32:33.100 Probably
00:32:34.100 It doesn't really matter to me
00:32:35.100 I love the person for the person
00:32:37.100 If it stopped me from
00:32:38.100 Doing things and
00:32:40.100 Living the life that I wanted to live
00:32:42.100 Then I'm not with the right person
00:32:44.100 If I love someone, I love them for them
00:32:45.100 I'm not really materialistic about stuff like that
00:32:47.100 Is there a minimum?
00:32:48.100 What, figure?
00:32:49.100 Yeah
00:32:50.100 I mean, cause
00:32:51.100 Yes
00:32:52.100 Let's be honest
00:32:53.100 Let's be honest
00:32:54.100 I couldn't tell you figure
00:32:55.100 If he's unemployed for two years, you're out
00:32:57.100 Yeah, probably
00:32:58.100 And I hope you would be
00:32:59.100 Yeah, if he's unemployed for two years, I'm out
00:33:01.100 So there has to be like a minimum
00:33:03.100 What would you roughly say it is?
00:33:05.100 I couldn't
00:33:06.100 I don't know what people earn
00:33:08.100 And not shift work
00:33:09.100 I couldn't tell you
00:33:10.100 But how much you'd like him to bring him a movie for a month?
00:33:12.100 No, not shift work
00:33:13.100 Not shift work
00:33:14.100 Like, okay
00:33:15.100 What would you like him to bring him a month?
00:33:16.100 Yeah, in a month
00:33:17.100 Two grand
00:33:18.100 Three grand
00:33:19.100 Four grand
00:33:20.100 Remember, you
00:33:21.100 You listen if he says quit
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