Modern Women Get PUNISHED for Ruining Everything
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the single motherhood crisis and how to deal with it. We talk about what it means to be a single parent and how it affects our society. We also talk about the importance of a good relationship with your kids and the impact it can have on them.
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And it just becomes something that's very natural and very alright, which shows that like...
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Even in fairy tales, like Cinderella, they never...
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They always re-marry someone and the step-moms always like, disgusting, but you never really
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talk about the mom because you've always passed or something.
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And it's always like one of those ones where single parents' lifestyle had been pushed,
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not like directly, but like indirectly, in different ways of like, if you notice it,
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I just think that modern women are selfish when it comes to their kids.
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They care about themselves more than their kids.
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And I think it's really sad and I think it actually ruins society.
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Because when you put yourself before your kids, you put your generation before the next generation.
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But are there enough, okay, let me backtrack a bit.
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So to the point of like, people that are not having kids, do you reckon there's enough women
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that have passed that point of being able to get pregnant that are actually speaking
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to younger women and saying, all right, listen.
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Because that involves swallowing their pride and they don't want to do that.
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But there's enough guys saying, hey, get your act together.
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There's a fundamental difference between guys and girls.
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Because if you're 25 and the girl that's 38, you're competing with her for the same guy.
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You've heard the phrase, a guy will insult a guy and not mean it.
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So it's one of those ones where those older girls you would think would give those advice
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might say to you, oh, you're so pretty, you should do this.
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It's like when you see girls commenting on obese girls' pictures.
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I didn't care about the delivery because he's not talking to me directly.
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But if you're not talking to that person directly, you can see the delivery and look
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at that as entertainment, but you can still take the message.
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I think with women, it needs to be dissected in a way that makes them feel.
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They've got to feel great about it to receive it.
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Whereas with guys, generally speaking, I would be like, cool.
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But I believe there's enough men out there giving that direction.
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And I think, you know, just from the conversations that we've had here just through on the panel,
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you know, is it working for you to, if you want, if you know what you want kids and you
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want this kind of, you want a certain kind of lifestyle, you want things, is the way
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And if there, if it isn't, do you have people in your life that are saying that you can
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talk to that haven't had kids and they can say, boom, all right, look, you know,
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It will get to this point and this is how I feel now that I waited and I'm here.
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The biggest enemy to women most times is other women.
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Other women are the downfall of women for a lot of the time.
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Because they will be the ones who will feed you the stuff that you want to hear on one
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side, knowing good and damn well that's not the advice you need to hear.
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And then watch you walk out that door and make that mistake.
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I'll give you, I'm going to read you guys, I'm going to read you guys some stats.
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The average age of first child is 26 and the average age of first marriage is 30.
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The average number of sexual partners for a woman is between four and eight.
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And after women have slept with more than five people, she has a 20% chance of having
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If men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
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90% of women have used contraceptives at some point in their reproductive years.
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And most have used more than one method throughout their lifetime.
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So it's like, how do we look at these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole?
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And I'm not saying, you know, that, like, because they'll always say, what about them?
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But it's like, we can't even talk about our problems without people always having to point
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Like, we can never even just have a conversation about the issues that we have as women without
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simps or women coming in saying, but men have problems too.
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Like, we can't even have one conversation about it.
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Whereas back in the day, women used to actually sit down together and discuss things.
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Or they'd say, you're not dressed well, you're not, like, you need to, like, leave.
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We used to actually, like, catch each other up on stuff.
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Or, you know, even something silly, like, you didn't brush your hair.
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Like, I feel like nowadays, like, girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't
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even want to, like, tell their friend, like, oh.
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It depends what type of girl you are, though, if I'm completely honest.
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Because I think if you're insecure and you're unhappy with what you're doing yourself,
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then you're going to be a bit too to other people.
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If you're happy and content, you've got to support.
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I don't think supporting, I think real supporting is being honest.
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Like she said, you might not tell your friend if they haven't brushed you up.
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Yeah, no, I would as well, but some girls wouldn't.
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But that's because they're like, oh, well, I'm going to look better than you.
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A lot of times a woman's worst enemy is another woman.
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Because a guy would point out the fact that, uh, your shirt's kind of inside out.
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I believe, like, chastising someone in public is different.
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Like, I don't think you should do that in front of other people.
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But you should take, if that's your real friend, they should be able to take them to the side and say, hey, you know what?
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And we won't look at that as, like, you being bitchy.
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It's like, you know when you eat something, you've got something, your teeth are, please, tell me.
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Like, even if you go, just tell me, you know what I mean?
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Because even at the beginning of my relationship with my girl now, I had to tell her, we had a conversation where I was like, if there's an issue that you see, please just tell me right there and then.
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I don't want this whole passive-aggressive thinking about it for two weeks, don't bring it up, and then vixing, talking to your girlfriends about it behind my back, and this whole fucking month period, I had no idea this whole, this is an issue that you had.
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All right, with that, are you able to accept the delivery of her problem in any form?
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Because if, with me, it's like, if I disagree with what you're saying, then we have a discussion about what I disagree with.
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Let's say, for instance, it's in the bedroom, something that's sensitive, right?
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If she thinks about it, and then she kind of, let's say you're having a stressful week at work or whatever, and then she kind of puts that into her mind and thinks, all right, cool, maybe I approach it in this way, as opposed to just being like, oh, you can't do this.
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Like, you know, if she expresses the frustrations then and there without thinking about it at all or seeking some kind of advice, then do you not think that can have some kind of detriment to how you're able to get over that?
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Or are you saying that regardless of how she comes at you, with whatever she comes at you, you're going to be able to swallow it and move on as normal?
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I get where you're coming from, but then I have to equate that to, like, all right, let's talk about, like, equate that to, like, football.
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If your manager says you need to be there, you're going to be upset with him because, ah, my mind, ah, I'm having a really bad week at home, so my manager has to talk to me a certain type of way.
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If the information with me, per se, and I know I'm a very black sheep when it comes to this.
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My girlfriend always says to me, you have the emotional capacity of a wooden spoon because I don't really care about, like, emotions too tough.
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If the information is necessary, please tell me and I will do the same.
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You mean you ain't fully pleasing a woman, right?
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And then the worst thing with a woman, a woman would tell you, a lot of women talk with each other about their sex.
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And the size of their partner's this and what that partner's doing and what you're not doing.
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And then that girl, your partner would bring that in the bedroom and go, oh, well, my friend tried this and blah, blah, blah.
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And if you ain't satisfying her in a certain way, if you come at me in, like, an aggressive kind of way, like, it will hurt my feelings.
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Because remember this, when you're having sex with someone, you're completely vulnerable with each other.
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So when you're talking about, like, when you met your partner and you always said, oh, like, no matter what, just tell me whatever.
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Like, you can tell me, but you need to, if it's sexually, like, you need to tell me in a certain way because I feel like I'm doing the best I can do.
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So if I'm not doing the best I can do, let me ask a question, which would hurt more?
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Her directly saying, you need to do this better because you're not really doing that that much?
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Or her going through all of her friends and eventually saying to you nicely.
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Eventually her saying it to you nicely, but now you know, all of her friends know.
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Remember this, sex is a thing where people, where girls talk, bro.
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So it's like, if you didn't fulfill her fantasy the first time, she already told her friend.
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So she probably told her friend first, and then she's already come to you.
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She already told her friend when you messed up the first time.
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That's why you bring up a relationship where they tell straight out.
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You're not in no control of what a woman thinks and the way she talk.
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No matter what you do, you could be the best guy, the best at whatever you're doing.
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You need to listen to my man because he's been in them rooms.
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I'm talking from experience because, listen, me, I would only do certain things on birthdays,
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Anyone that's been with me knows what I'm talking about.
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Now, if your friend or whatever gets it whenever, once a week, like, it's a downfall.
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And I'll be like, yeah, but you know, like, I do the best I can do on a certain, on a celebration.
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And you bring out the roses and the petals and the whipped cream and the chocolate sauce.
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I'm going to take a second to read Super Chats for a second.
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That should be in the chat for the events that we're going to do in the U.S.
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Aaron, Pearl and Blondie are spitting so much fire right now.
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It's crazy that you're both laying out common sense, but that's so controversial these days.
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Clown World, Baby, I see young boys walking home from high school with these girls just
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Glenn, Bible tells the husbands to love their wives like Christ loves the church.
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It also tells wives to submit in respect to their husbands.
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Nowadays, wives love husbands, and husbands submit in respect wives.
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Baby, there is no partnership in a relationship.
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Women only refer to God when they're talking about what they won't do for a man.
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Barrett, churches are starting to become a part of the world.
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Would you tell me, please, who is the boss of your house?
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Is it always that way in Greek households, the husband is the boss?
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Don't the women, the wives, have anything to say about it?
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How do you think social media has changed that dynamic?
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If you ask a girl and a guy the same question that they asked there, the answer will be 100% different.
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Because if you ask, who is the leader of the household?
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The amount of times you will hear either the woman say, me, or say, he thinks he is, but it's not actually.
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Guys will get on TV and be like, oh, happy wife, happy life.
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And it's like, but like, you should have some sort of leader.
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This way that we're living now is the new norm for like the entirety of mankind.
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It was for the entirety of man's existence up until about 30 years ago.
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But I don't think there's like, you know, let's say for instance there's a decision to
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I think the lines get crossed in terms of like having any kind of conversation with
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the pros and cons of a situation with your woman.
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I don't feel like women just get like your opinion and your mindset and everything you
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I do believe that, you know, you've got to trust someone to lead.
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If he needs a, if he's going to ask a question or run something, you know, yeah.
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But, you know, I think sometimes women will hear this men need to lead and just
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think, okay, all my education is out of the window and they put so much into
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their education that they can't even fathom the thought of Rod.
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You said, you've said it before about women who have been to university
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It's 90, you're 90% likely to leave in a divorce.
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Maybe it's not a direct correlation between education, but rather something to do with
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Because if you've done that education, that's a commitment and a sacrifice to do something
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And then when you get into a relationship, maybe it's like, oh, you don't want to let
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the man be the leader because you feel like you've done something, worked hard at something.
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I don't think it's to do with the fact that you've got an educator because I've been to
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uni and stuff like that and I don't feel, I haven't got pride because of that.
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I think it's more to do with if you've got knowledge and wisdom to talk about, then you
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And he would, so like for example, I have a law degree.
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So if my partner ever had any kind of legal question, he was dealing with something
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with his insurance, like he will, he will ask me questions.
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So I feel like it's more of a case where if they need you, they will ask.
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But what I'm saying is I feel like a lot of women perhaps want to know more because they
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And what I'm saying is I don't really think that's necessary.
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And perhaps going to uni and getting it, I mean, I hate to say it, but it is a fact that
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marriages lasted longer when women weren't doing that.
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So I'm just questioning why that is, because it is factual that.
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So it's like the more education a woman has, the less kids she has.
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No, it's because it seems like when women get money, they don't want men.
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Like they don't want a man unless it's like the man she wants.
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When guys become millionaires, they go for most, if not any girl.
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When a girl becomes a millionaire, she's looking for someone who's making more millions than
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Or if she's smart in a certain aspect, then she's looking for someone who is better than
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One of them is with the same girlfriend that they were with before.
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But all these other millionaire women got the money and upgraded, quote on quote, because
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you can't settle, quote on quote, because settling has to do with your bank accounts and not
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Whereas to men, like something, I feel like something like your education, if you continue
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In the same way as your salary doesn't really matter either.
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Do you know what's mad important and valuable are kind of looking in relationships to help
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You know, if you've been with a woman who's like a nurse, nutritionist, like, you know
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that kind of nurture stuff that guys do not put any energy into whatsoever, right?
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But those kind of things are really a way where guys will want to lean on their guilt and be
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When the car breaks down, other than with someone, oh no, I was watching something else
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But like, other than that, it was like, you know, there's certain things that the guy
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might not necessarily need your input at that time.
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And you might be thinking, Ra, why don't you value my opinion?
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Or why would you go on a podcast and act like you don't care about my opinion?
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But, you know, you need to kind of focus on things that are going to get you what you
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And I think sometimes our parents push realities onto us.
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You got to learn when you come home, put on a different hat.
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I think we're going to close out the show, guys.
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So any, like, final thoughts, Instagram you want to shout out, you can do that now.
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You know how you were talking about guys and the car breaking down and a woman really wouldn't
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I was in a situation quite recently where there was, my friend was driving us and there
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was three, four, yeah, four of us in the car, girls.
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And it was the girls that sorted the car situation.
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Because my friend was like, oh, you need to jumpstart the car.
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My other friend was like, oh, let me call like the AA or just an insurance company.
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Whereas he was very calm, handled the situation fine.
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I just think girls can do anything, really, to be honest.
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To me, a woman can achieve, not to put men down, but like a woman, to me, I don't think
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To me, I think a woman is so empowering and can do anything they put their mind to.
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And they can work six days a week, seven days a week, raise a family, run a mortgage.
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And I think women are just a different kind of human being compared to a man.
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Probably because I have so much respect for my mother.
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Um, and seeing what I've seen from my mother who had me at 20 and my dad being 27 and just
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I listen to it because I'm just like, okay, cool.
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Um, so the women, I'm not saying that women can't, um, you know, fix a car or, you know,
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I guess you, you, you said that he was quite calm and he handled the situation.
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I guess you were still looking for him to delegate or say, I guess you were still looking for
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Or would you just like, step aside, the girls have got this.
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What I found attractive with it was how he handled the situation.
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And that's what I thought was attractive because that was a man kind of just having control
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Yeah, that's an amazing input because it didn't mean that women weren't capable of changing.
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Yeah, and it didn't mean that the men wasn't capable of.
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I think most women aren't capable of doing that.
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Yeah, I hear it, but not every man is capable of changing.
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Yeah, but we got to talk in, like, most of the time.
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You know, so if I say, like, most men are more masculine than women, there's exceptions,
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I think this day and age, though, I mean, guys are very catering now.
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Like, they'll go to the salon and, you know, they'll get their eyebrows done and their nose done
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and everything, whereas back in the day, that wasn't as much of a thing.
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Were you on the verge of seeing today, nowadays, guys are more, girls are more masculine than
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No, but I think there's a lot of girls that are more masculine energy.
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And there's a lot of guys that are more feminine energy.
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I think I agree with you, though, because I know there's a lot of guys out there getting
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I know there's a lot of guys doing all that stuff.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with a man getting all pedicure.
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There's nothing wrong with it, but I think it lets down your masculinity a bit.
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We should have stopped it before having a tan as the face of Tampax.
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Yeah, I was going to bring that up, but I don't think we have time to.
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Okay, so yeah, you guys can follow me, my Instagram, Tishana Talks.
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Tishana Talks, I talk about faith and my journey with God mainly.
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And final thoughts, I think I got checked about the whole submitting thing.
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I think that the comments, some of the comments checked me, but it was a very thought provoking conversation.
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And it's definitely made me think, you know, more about how I'm going to move in marriage.
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But see, I actually like it when people can sit and think and like, you know.
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But no, that comment about it's just his position as being the man of the house.
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But my thing is, in terms of the man that I choose, it's everything in terms of like what I'm thinking.
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It's going to start before we walk down the aisle.
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I'm going to look at everything before I even get to that point of being at the aisle.
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So, yeah, I'm going to be with someone that is wise.
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But it's so weird how like even that mind frame even seems weird in today's day and age.
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But you have to look at someone's personality before you sleep with them or before you get into situations that you can't undo.
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Like how many people have you heard of that like feel pregnant with someone that they've had four conversations with or stuff like that.
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Like your mindset is so refreshing, especially today.
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Because a lot of people don't have that mindset of wanting to get to know someone before you move on to the next step.
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A lot of people are thinking flesh first and then mind later.
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But mind and mind, body and soul later, flesh first.
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But can I just say like some of what we spoke about, it was like a very black and white situation.
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Like it was just very like this is the situation.
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But I think that there's a lot of different factors that like we didn't discuss.
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And so like for me in marriage, I want to be with somebody that's godly.
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I want to be with somebody that I respect and all of those things.
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And of course, it's going to be easy to submit to somebody like that.
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Somebody that puts God first and somebody that, you know.
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I think if you talk to any woman that's been married for 20, 30, 40 years, they're going to tell you it was not easy to submit all the time.
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Yeah, no, and I do, yeah, I do agree with that.
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Do you have an Instagram or anything you want to shout out?
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I like coming on here because, you know, it's always a good conversation.
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My Instagram is Christine Grace Smith, all traditional spelling.
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I had something I wanted to bring to the chat, just quickly ending.
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I really like divulging into the dating experience.
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So I kind of wanted to know, like, especially from the women, like, how do you feel dates go?
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And do you feel like they go in the right direction?
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Do you reckon they're kind of, on average, this is something that you get nervous about?
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Is it something that you think guys kind of have down pat?
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Like, what is that experience like for you guys?
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I think, for me, I always get really, really nervous before a first date.
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I want to be with somebody that's, like, a leader that, like, has things planned.
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And, like, if he's coming with this energy of just, like, oh, like, what do you want to do?
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Like, be taking me to the movies, like, that's not a date in my eyes.
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Because I don't feel like you're really getting to know the person.
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I think it should be an opportunity for you guys to talk and get to know each other.
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And, you know, I recently had this issue about, like, paying on the first date.
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But that would just open up the whole conversation.
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Even if it's you that said, let's go on a date.
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I don't think I would ask a guy to go on a date with me.
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But I think if a man is pursuing me and asking me out on a date, I think that he should cover that, I think.
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I think for girls, just going off of what we were saying about, like, contraception and everything.
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Like, if you're not on birth control, I would say always aim for a date where alcohol isn't involved.
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Because we were talking about, you said something that triggered my mind where you said about a girl having lots of sexual partners.
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Or she might have just had a bad experience, fallen for a bad guy, whatever.
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If that's how we women are, which is fair enough to say, because we're emotional beings, be careful.
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And then you probably, hopefully, might not make a silly choice.
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I actually don't go on that many dates, to be honest.
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I kind of like to know the person before it got to that.
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Because I'm not a not good person, and I can chat for days, and I can get on with anyone.
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But for me, it takes, I'm a very confident person, so I would want my mind to be very confident.
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So it would be nice for someone to put me in my place.
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I just kind of take the reins and kind of just have things sorted out.
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I'd probably like him to have things planned, and he'd put this, and do you know what I mean?
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Do you feel like guys have that kind of down pack?
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Like, conversation, this, like, what is your thought process?
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Usually, if I go on a date, I already know him from somewhere.
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So it's kind of just like someone that you usually kind of know, and it's just like, you're just meeting up.
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I know I can't even extend it to the guys as well.
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But I ask because, um, you know, sometimes people have like really bad experiences or really good ones.
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I like to, um, I feel like there's a way in which you can kind of break the ice, make the person feel confident.
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And, um, that'll be something that I'm going to start venturing into, um, this year.
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And I'll kind of be spending more time on that.
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My thing's different with dates anyway, because I just kind of say,
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Because I feel like dates and putting a label on certain things just adds pressure and people react.
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Most people drink on dates because it loosens them up or whatever.
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I just kind of want you to be your natural self, vice versa.
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So I feel like if I say, look, let's just go vibe.
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Let's go to this cocktail bar in Elephant Castle.
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Wayne Alain, if you want vibes, my Instagram is EOPositiveVibes.
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Every time I've come on these podcasts, I've always had quite a lot of fun.
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My leaving point, my lasting point is everyone needs to understand the nuances of what they do and why they do what they do.
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Understand the psychology of why you make the actions that you make.
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Because a lot of the things that you do in life is a third party putting that in your mind in some way, shape or form, right?
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So we always have to really, really, really be careful when we look at the actions we take and why we take them.
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Because I understand the psychology of why we take those steps lets us better understand what kind of person we are, what kind of person we want to be, the things that we find attractive and why.
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And it can help you better understand yourself.
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So that's just like a tangent that means nothing.
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But like, it's just anyone who's watching, just please understand the psychology of your own mind.
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Understand the psychology of the people who are around.
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So then you can understand how to take steps in this world, right?
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And social media, I don't really use social media, but you can follow me on DionneScortFranklin1.
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If enough people message saying that they want a YouTube channel, I will make one.
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A couple announcements, guys, before we end the show.
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Again, I will not have shows for, I don't know, until like second week of June or something.
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But we're going to do meetups in, I think, Santa Barbara, maybe L.A., Miami, Vegas, Nashville, and maybe D.C.
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Those are the, I think those are the six cities we're going to.
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That should be in the chat and maybe pinned in the comments.
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Follow my Instagram if you have topics you want to see me cover.
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Like the video on your way out and I'll talk to you next time.
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But I've been coffee-free for four months, okay?
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How can everyone have someone out there for them when there's more women than men?
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Like, I'm not saying you have to be submissive to every old waste man walking around.
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I'm just saying that it would be femininity would be in your nature.
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Breaking it is to find somebody that you're compatible with, that you like.
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Not just of your same generation and that likes the same things that you do.
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Most men want a woman that has some degree of femininity where they feel like they're taking care of, taking care of.
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And you'd be surprised because I will say what I want to say now and I'll say what I want to say with my man.
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And I'm going to look down on him because at the end of the day, whoever you're with is a reflection of you.
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What has happened to society that has made the normal man a waste man?
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I would feel so bad asking a guy to buy her like a $3,000 bag.
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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