JustPearlyThings - November 29, 2023


Modern Women Get SCHOOLED by This HVM on Dating Market in 2023


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In this episode, we discuss why women leave their marriages, why they leave their partners and why they do so for stupid reasons. We also talk about the fact that women don t know how to have a functional relationship.

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00:00:00.000 Back to your question your question, which is can't do single mothers and know how to have a functional relationship 1.00
00:00:05.360 No, no, I didn't say that you know you you asked if that's what I was saying
00:00:08.720 Yeah, and I'm saying I stand out that no in general no other exceptions not many no no
00:00:15.200 Yeah, I'll be snoring though. I'll be real though. I'll be real
00:00:21.360 Like it depends it depends on your environment. Yep your background the community you've been raised on
00:00:28.080 Yeah, so what you will see and what you'll visualize. Yes, so we might see something different to what you see
00:00:34.560 And sign off to what you see, but I'll be real. I don't know if it's a small majority
00:00:39.920 It's like what cuz I know a lot of people are single moms 0.99
00:00:46.480 Family members
00:00:48.640 Okay, if they're single mothers, okay, it's like if you're okay if I'm applying for a job 1.00
00:00:53.040 All right, and I say that job I failed that job. I failed that job. I also failed
00:00:58.560 How can I say I did the job? Well
00:01:01.120 When you ask a child and what I think that we're overlooking as well is no by no means does any woman and can any woman predict? 0.52
00:01:08.640 The outcome of their relationship right or if the man's gonna stick around or if I have a kid with this guy
00:01:12.800 Is he gonna stay with me? He's gonna marry me, but what women do do is we overlook red flags 1.00
00:01:17.680 Oh
00:01:22.640 Not everybody but a lot of women don't listen a lot of men don't listen 0.98
00:01:26.720 But if we're just talking about this for a moment women make choices that they know they're not the right choices 1.00
00:01:32.320 But then when they know that it's not the right man, and then it worries me when he leaves like but you
00:01:41.840 And women also leave for stupid reasons 1.00
00:01:44.800 Like women leave for stupid 1.00
00:01:47.840 Okay, okay
00:01:49.440 Reason number one reason number one okay when you take your marriage vows
00:01:53.760 It's supposed to be for better or for worse for sicknesses and health not if I don't feel happy today
00:01:59.440 I I I we fell out of love and I lost myself. What happened to for better or for worse?
00:02:08.480 For stupid reason
00:02:13.200 One of the number one indicators of divorce is if a woman will start out earning her man and she puts a financial gain above her kids 1.00
00:02:20.960 That's a stupid reason. Yeah, thank you. What kind of women? 1.00
00:02:24.480 Can we talk about before marriage how many people are married?
00:02:29.440 50 50% of marriages end in divorce so half half well, I'm not too
00:02:34.160 Has anyone been married? Have you been married? Have you been married?
00:02:36.880 No, have you been married?
00:02:39.440 He's married
00:02:41.440 Oh, yeah
00:02:44.560 So what I'm saying is
00:02:46.560 Obviously when we're talking about if we're talking now on the spectrum of 25 to 40
00:02:52.400 Yeah range range
00:02:54.400 Then obviously like we can talk about the things of the woman has to do what she does and the man 1.00
00:03:00.160 Please just re-up on what you said because my adhd is going wild
00:03:04.000 What which part?
00:03:05.040 What was the last point you had?
00:03:05.840 Oh, I said women divorce for stupid reasons 1.00
00:03:08.000 Right so
00:03:08.560 Free reasons
00:03:09.200 Why do why do women 1.00
00:03:11.120 Okay, I can name some more if you want
00:03:13.120 Yeah, please
00:03:14.080 I'm invested in this now
00:03:16.800 When women are dating in their 20s and 30s, right? 1.00
00:03:20.080 I could speak obviously for 20s
00:03:24.000 You know, the thing is you give people chances
00:03:27.680 You give people chances
00:03:28.800 Cause you're like, no, at the end of the day
00:03:30.400 Guys, guys, guys, guys
00:03:31.840 I'm not trying to find a perfect man who does nothing wrong
00:03:34.960 Because I do
00:03:36.640 Okay, well I feel like
00:03:39.680 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I want to dissect
00:03:43.520 Wait, wait, I want to
00:03:48.160 On that side, yeah
00:03:48.960 So women don't want to leave 1.00
00:03:50.480 But then now you're saying why do women leave? 0.75
00:03:53.040 Right?
00:03:53.360 And their reasons are stupid for leaving
00:03:56.640 Have you heard about this thing called intuition?
00:03:59.440 Now, potentially it could just be fucking crazy
00:04:02.240 Sorry, it could be crazy, but at the end of the day,
00:04:07.280 like we know that women have more connection to certain things 0.99
00:04:10.900 if they haven't been on contraception for years
00:04:13.640 and they haven't been eating all the garbage
00:04:15.740 that they've been eating and drinking all the gin
00:04:17.520 and doing all of those things.
00:04:19.080 It desensitizes the human connecting to the earth.
00:04:22.700 So I'm just saying intuition's a real thing.
00:04:25.360 Okay, yeah, but that's like women feel different intuition 1.00
00:04:28.780 every other week based on where we are in our cycle.
00:04:31.500 One week, it's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, stop, guys, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:04:35.940 So it's like, I'll talk to a girl one week and she hates her boyfriend
00:04:38.940 and then the next week she's in love with her boyfriend.
00:04:41.100 Yeah, I'm sick of him.
00:04:41.880 I'm sick of him.
00:04:44.000 I actually feel sorry for their boyfriend
00:04:45.720 because I'm like, he probably doesn't know whether he's coming or going.
00:04:48.540 Because these times, I'm like, this one minute in the space of 10 seconds,
00:04:52.680 I love him so much.
00:04:53.640 But he's done this, I'm like this, darling, I'm already tired.
00:04:56.000 I don't know about your boyfriend, but I'm tired, I'm out.
00:04:57.940 And then we'll guys, those guys that,
00:04:59.180 those guys that, those guys that under intuition, it's like, that's not.
00:05:05.020 Guys, I read something so interesting the other day.
00:05:10.600 So basically, you know when women have these contraceptive things on their arms, 0.99
00:05:15.900 apparently it changes your hormones. 0.84
00:05:18.300 So imagine if you meet someone and it's been found recently.
00:05:22.660 Basically, if you're on these pills, contraceptive pills,
00:05:25.160 and you meet someone and then you get married
00:05:27.480 and all of a sudden you go off of them
00:05:29.360 and then apparently the hormones change
00:05:31.600 so you're not attracted to your partner.
00:05:33.040 So that is a lot of the things that's happening around the world now.
00:05:38.000 Yeah, contraceptive pills are messing people's lives up.
00:05:41.120 They are ruining girls and men, 1.00
00:05:43.000 ruining thousands of thousands of marriages.
00:05:45.380 It's crazy.
00:05:46.020 They've been doing that for years.
00:05:47.080 And whose fault is that?
00:05:48.380 Who took it?
00:05:49.300 Women. 0.81
00:05:50.100 Why?
00:05:50.340 Because they stopped raising men.
00:05:54.140 They don't want to fuck up babies. 1.00
00:05:58.360 Guys, guys, stop, stop, stop, stop.
00:06:00.320 One at a time.
00:06:01.140 Okay.
00:06:01.600 You've talked.
00:06:02.400 I'm going to let her go.
00:06:03.440 Just on your point, who took it?
00:06:05.100 Women. 0.81
00:06:05.620 Because who's the one who takes the actual semen? 1.00
00:06:08.160 That either way is going to have a baby or an abortion. 1.00
00:06:11.520 But who takes the semen? 1.00
00:06:14.260 No, yeah.
00:06:15.080 They take them to the ocean.
00:06:17.080 If you could wear a condom, you would have to do that.
00:06:19.720 What if it breaks and you don't know?
00:06:21.600 Then, you know, maybe sleep with people that you want to have kids with.
00:06:25.080 But then you just say, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, but then we just take it back to that point.
00:06:33.740 But sleep with people you might want to have kids with, but what, but you remember you said, but then you've got to pick him to make sure he's the one who's not going to leave.
00:06:40.740 I mean, you can, you can wait to, you can, you can wait to have sex.
00:06:43.320 You could.
00:06:44.120 You can wait till you don't.
00:06:45.040 You could.
00:06:45.520 It's like, it's like we have a gun to our head and say you have to sleep with these men.
00:06:48.920 No, you don't.
00:06:49.480 I really think, I, I think.
00:06:52.520 Of course you don't.
00:06:53.020 You just don't ever have sex.
00:06:54.120 Live like a nun. 1.00
00:06:54.780 I think you just.
00:06:55.440 That's the way forward.
00:06:56.320 I think people just.
00:06:57.160 I mean, you can, you can wait, you can wait to get married before you have a child.
00:07:01.220 Question.
00:07:01.900 Go ahead, go ahead.
00:07:03.020 Can I, can I, is it time to drop some red pills into the sangria?
00:07:06.940 Yeah, go ahead.
00:07:07.360 Yes, please.
00:07:08.120 Are we, are we ready to spike the pill?
00:07:09.560 What about, can we have the blue pill?
00:07:10.980 Can we have the blue pill?
00:07:11.820 Well, let's go.
00:07:13.680 Go ahead, go ahead.
00:07:14.240 So, the question was, does your potential partner or partner's past matter?
00:07:19.500 Yes.
00:07:20.380 I, I, can, can, can I share my opinion on this?
00:07:23.200 All right.
00:07:23.760 All right.
00:07:24.340 He was, yeah.
00:07:25.040 Sorry, sorry.
00:07:25.920 Sorry.
00:07:26.540 Sorry.
00:07:26.760 Sorry.
00:07:28.220 What's your, what's your argument?
00:07:29.060 I haven't said nothing yet.
00:07:29.920 So, uh, here, let's, let's, let's do, let's do, let's do some, uh, let's do some lessons
00:07:37.960 in genetics and biology because we can refer to our trusty friends, uh, from the Gregor
00:07:43.740 Mendel book of biology.
00:07:44.980 We understand DNA, do we not?
00:07:46.660 Yes.
00:07:47.480 If you look in your family tree, this is statistically accurate.
00:07:50.300 You have twice as many women in your family tree as you have men.
00:07:53.240 You have twice as many women in your family tree as men.
00:07:56.160 Why?
00:07:56.580 What does that mean?
00:07:58.420 What does that mean?
00:07:59.240 Women, um, give birth and there's more of them. 1.00
00:08:02.440 They're meant to multiply.
00:08:03.840 Yeah.
00:08:04.320 Yeah.
00:08:04.580 What it means is that a vast majority of women have babies with the same men.
00:08:10.740 Meaning what that means, the reason you have twice as many women is a small percentage of 1.00
00:08:14.140 men, about 20% of men basically created all of us.
00:08:17.000 Genghis Khan, Genghis Khan has his DNA in something like 180 million people today.
00:08:25.380 Does that mean he's been sleeping around beers in the past?
00:08:28.140 What it means, let me explain.
00:08:29.880 Let me know.
00:08:30.400 It's a very, it's a very simple thing.
00:08:32.040 The question was, does a partner's past matter?
00:08:34.200 What it says is very clear.
00:08:36.020 What it says is very clear that women continuously choose the men that other women choose. 0.78
00:08:41.020 That's what it means.
00:08:41.820 We know, we know the statistic from dating apps, right?
00:08:45.500 80% of men have absolutely no prospects of sex or dating at all because you can look at
00:08:50.420 the Tinder data.
00:08:51.200 80% of men get zero matches ever.
00:08:54.180 1% of men are like Genghis Khan level.
00:08:56.560 So does a person's past matter?
00:08:58.560 If you look at the science, it clearly matters that women want to choose men that have had 0.81
00:09:02.540 the most partners because that's who they keep choosing all the time.
00:09:05.360 Wow.
00:09:05.580 So that might not be an emotional argument.
00:09:07.540 That's just statistics.
00:09:08.480 It's a fact.
00:09:09.800 Okay.
00:09:10.500 Can I say that from the other side, how men look at this argument?
00:09:13.180 Okay.
00:09:13.680 From a man's perspective, it's a little different.
00:09:15.480 So I'm in the business of effectively like our company, LGFG, we sell high-end bespoke
00:09:19.140 suits.
00:09:19.420 We go to executive offices.
00:09:20.440 So we meet rich men all the time.
00:09:22.000 Really what I do is I recruit young men and women to sell to very high-net-worth people.
00:09:26.720 Okay.
00:09:27.160 And this is a conversation for young men.
00:09:28.880 I'm going to say this to the young guys out there.
00:09:30.700 Here's a question.
00:09:31.720 What is a man really doing with his life to increase his value?
00:09:34.680 We can measure it.
00:09:35.520 You know what the answer is.
00:09:36.980 What does a man measure in value?
00:09:38.520 What do we measure?
00:09:40.240 Say it.
00:09:41.040 It's money.
00:09:41.660 It's money.
00:09:42.600 It's his money, right?
00:09:43.520 So here's a question.
00:09:44.800 Does a man have any incentive to influence effectively to transmit that into money?
00:09:50.360 And by the way, influence and fame are very highly correlated to how many sexual partners
00:09:53.760 a man has access to.
00:09:54.600 So you're saying the same thing.
00:09:55.580 I just want the guy that every other woman wants. 0.97
00:09:57.620 That's what you're saying, but you're not saying it.
00:09:59.120 Okay.
00:09:59.440 So does a man have any incentive to increase his value through financial gain?
00:10:03.380 Does a man have that incentive?
00:10:05.080 Yes.
00:10:05.380 Okay.
00:10:06.140 Do women want to be wealthy too? 1.00
00:10:07.920 Like you girls, you're all going to be 60 one day.
00:10:10.120 You're going to say, I want to retire.
00:10:11.140 Do you want to have something to retire with?
00:10:13.100 Of course.
00:10:13.660 Okay.
00:10:13.840 So here's a statistic.
00:10:15.680 The typical retired married man average, but not typical average.
00:10:20.980 The numbers, of course, there's a big gap, but the average married man retires with about
00:10:25.460 600,000 US dollars in savings, 600,000.
00:10:28.140 The average divorced single man, this is a statistic, retires with 100,000.
00:10:32.900 Okay.
00:10:33.660 The average divorced and remarried man retires with about 400,000.
00:10:38.220 So the outcome of staying and getting married has a significant impact on a man's value and
00:10:42.820 status and ultimately his comfort in life.
00:10:44.680 So the question therefore is, does the spouse you choose matter?
00:10:49.020 Yes.
00:10:49.580 Why does it matter?
00:10:50.240 Yes.
00:10:50.560 Because we can actually measure with money that it literally, like we have a number that
00:10:54.560 we can look at and says, yes, the spouse you choose matters.
00:10:56.880 Okay.
00:10:57.300 Well, a psychologist will tell you there's two ways to ruin your life.
00:10:59.980 Number one, become an alcoholic.
00:11:01.220 Number two, marry an alcoholic. 1.00
00:11:02.620 Well, here's a question.
00:11:03.580 What's the problem with marrying an alcoholic, ladies and gentlemen?
00:11:06.020 Impulse control.
00:11:06.980 Impulse control.
00:11:07.740 How's that going to happen?
00:11:08.360 The fact that they're going to be talking rubbish and no one will understand them when they're drunk.
00:11:12.120 And they're going to, uh, kids and all sorts of crap.
00:11:14.760 So the question is, would you marry an alcoholic?
00:11:16.500 You'll say, no, I won't.
00:11:17.160 Why not?
00:11:17.480 Because the chance of divorce are much higher.
00:11:19.140 So does a woman's past matter? 0.99
00:11:20.460 Okay.
00:11:20.720 Well, let's say a woman had a lot of sexual partners. 1.00
00:11:22.620 Does that indicate any sort of, I don't know, does that have any impact on her pair bonding
00:11:26.800 ability?
00:11:28.060 Yes.
00:11:28.340 Well, we know that it does.
00:11:29.640 Okay.
00:11:29.940 So if I, if you marry a ho, cause that let's just go right to the core here. 1.00
00:11:32.940 That's the question.
00:11:33.800 That's the question.
00:11:34.680 Yeah.
00:11:34.800 So if you do that, are your chances of divorce higher?
00:11:37.140 Well, she's got lower pair bonding. 1.00
00:11:38.640 She's got lower impulse control. 0.96
00:11:40.040 She's not a strategic thinker because she knows impulsively and intuitively that she's
00:11:44.020 reducing her value.
00:11:44.900 So when I coach a young guy that we hire into our company, we don't just look at their job.
00:11:48.600 We look at their life plan and we want to be, I have two more stats real quick.
00:11:51.740 We want to be strategic and we want to optimize for success and mitigate for risk.
00:11:56.220 Are you mitigating for risk?
00:11:58.000 If you're not looking at a woman's past, you're creating yourself an opportunity for failure. 0.98
00:12:01.880 By the way, here's a question guys.
00:12:03.440 What percentage of millionaires are married?
00:12:05.900 Don't know a lot.
00:12:06.800 I know a lot.
00:12:08.500 85%.
00:12:08.980 Wow.
00:12:10.620 I'm getting some tax rebate or something.
00:12:13.820 I'm getting married.
00:12:15.420 I'm getting married.
00:12:17.040 10 years.
00:12:18.020 I'm getting married.
00:12:18.720 The rich ones cheat as well.
00:12:20.380 Okay.
00:12:20.620 But hang on a sec.
00:12:21.460 85%.
00:12:22.180 So the question is, let's, let's, let's look into that.
00:12:24.360 Like we're asking again, does the partners past matter?
00:12:26.460 Why is it that 85%?
00:12:27.900 It matters.
00:12:27.960 It matters.
00:12:28.540 Here's a question.
00:12:29.520 Here's a question.
00:12:29.540 I have a powerful woman behind me. 1.00
00:12:31.280 Guys, guys, let's look at me.
00:12:32.340 Hey, guys.
00:12:33.040 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, stop, stop.
00:12:35.760 You want, you want that or you don't want that?
00:12:37.580 If you don't want that, I know it's hard to hear.
00:12:38.960 You don't want to hear.
00:12:39.440 It's just facts.
00:12:39.980 You can just Google.
00:12:40.680 Thank you.
00:12:41.380 No, honestly, it's interesting to learn.
00:12:43.460 So thank you so much.
00:12:44.600 Guys, guys, guys, stop.
00:12:45.540 Do you guys, do you guys think that for a man to become a millionaire, he has to be a strategic thinker?
00:12:49.660 Yes.
00:12:50.100 Do you think that he can?
00:12:50.760 No.
00:12:51.140 No.
00:12:56.220 Is that strategic or equally strategic to homeless guys?
00:12:58.480 I think millionaires, it depends.
00:13:00.120 Have you been born into wealth?
00:13:02.120 No.
00:13:02.260 Have you been given it?
00:13:02.720 I was born into the Soviet Union.
00:13:04.120 I grew up on food stamps.
00:13:05.660 Okay.
00:13:06.160 So I guess it doesn't matter.
00:13:07.920 But some people, some millionaires do grow up in, like, privileged families who don't do anything.
00:13:14.160 We're just looking at statistics.
00:13:15.680 Every rule has a rule breaker.
00:13:17.060 Now, again, mitigate for risk.
00:13:19.020 So it's like if you want to bet all your money on, you know, 20 black on the roulette and you're like, I'm going to make a billion dollars. 0.85
00:13:25.240 Yeah, some people made a million dollars rolling that.
00:13:27.160 Most people lose everything they ever had.
00:13:28.620 It's bad risk mitigation.
00:13:30.140 We're talking about statistics, right?
00:13:31.840 So it's like if the partner that you choose matters to the outcome of your life, you have to be strategic about it.
00:13:37.820 So does it matter?
00:13:38.620 Well, the numbers clearly indicate it matters.
00:13:41.360 Yeah, you can be delusional.
00:13:42.420 You can say, well, it shouldn't matter.
00:13:43.660 Okay.
00:13:44.080 So you make suits for high net worth clients.
00:13:47.920 Correct.
00:13:48.040 Can you tell me about the women they pick as wives? 0.97
00:13:50.320 Yeah.
00:13:50.660 So first of all.
00:13:51.260 Do they pick alpha females? 1.00
00:13:53.060 No, absolutely not.
00:13:54.160 So here, let me tell you guys.
00:13:56.080 I had my dinner last night with my wife.
00:13:57.780 It was her 10th anniversary.
00:13:59.180 And she said my wife said something really profound, right?
00:14:01.480 Like, it kind of shocked me a little bit.
00:14:03.440 As I said, you know, it's so much fun, like, building a life with you.
00:14:06.120 I told her, it's so much fun.
00:14:07.040 But we got four kids.
00:14:07.800 I'm like, it's so much fun building a life with you.
00:14:09.200 Because I've had a great 10 years, right?
00:14:11.000 And she goes, oh, I didn't get in here to build.
00:14:13.400 I wanted a ride on this train.
00:14:14.880 Oh, that's so sad.
00:14:16.820 That's what she said.
00:14:17.900 How did that make you feel?
00:14:19.200 No, no, no.
00:14:20.620 She's going to be really loud. 0.99
00:14:21.960 She was honest, though.
00:14:23.640 What did you think?
00:14:24.480 I'm sorry.
00:14:25.600 I wanted to ask you.
00:14:26.480 What made you?
00:14:27.640 How did you feel?
00:14:28.420 The alpha female thing comes up. 1.00
00:14:29.520 Back up again.
00:14:30.420 Well, let's look at it like this.
00:14:31.920 So I'm in London today.
00:14:33.240 I fly back on Saturday.
00:14:35.260 I live in Estonia.
00:14:36.260 On Wednesday, I take off to Dubai.
00:14:37.720 On Saturday, I'm in Madurai, India.
00:14:39.620 The next Wednesday, I'm in New Delhi.
00:14:42.040 I am in demand because I'm a successful dude.
00:14:44.940 And you know what?
00:14:45.440 All successful dudes are in demand.
00:14:47.060 They're not sitting at home smoking pot, man.
00:14:49.120 They're getting calls.
00:14:50.340 They're doing stuff.
00:14:50.960 And you know what?
00:14:51.440 They're needed.
00:14:52.380 They're needed because it's hard to find competent people.
00:14:54.440 Can I ask a question?
00:14:54.960 Good people, yeah.
00:14:55.860 You know what you're doing all of these?
00:14:57.240 Where's your wife and the kids? 0.97
00:14:58.740 At home?
00:14:59.960 Actually, that's not true.
00:15:00.820 So I'll tell you right now.
00:15:02.020 Yeah, no.
00:15:02.540 Just one more.
00:15:03.240 Earlier this year, I took my whole family.
00:15:06.120 Where'd we go?
00:15:06.940 No, I mean, just when you're working just now,
00:15:09.100 you know the places you've got to go.
00:15:10.840 So in between, how often do you see the work?
00:15:13.060 Quite often, I bring my whole family on my trips.
00:15:14.740 I was going to say that.
00:15:15.140 Oh, that's so lovely.
00:15:15.980 No, that's beautiful.
00:15:16.900 That's so lovely.
00:15:17.660 Like this year alone, like this year.
00:15:20.020 Are they homeschooled?
00:15:21.180 No.
00:15:21.580 No, they're going to like an English college.
00:15:23.580 But like, so like last year, January,
00:15:26.000 we had a video shoot in Hawaii.
00:15:27.500 I took my wife and four kids to Hawaii.
00:15:29.980 After that, we had a company trip to Croatia.
00:15:32.060 I took my whole family with me to Croatia.
00:15:33.380 No, no.
00:15:33.640 So I'm just saying, so you know,
00:15:34.600 in the past couple of days,
00:15:36.400 in the next few days,
00:15:37.220 that you said all the places you're going to.
00:15:38.400 So it's your anniversary today.
00:15:41.900 Well, yeah.
00:15:42.720 So you've been with your wife today.
00:15:45.060 Yeah.
00:15:45.680 Yeah.
00:15:45.980 So, and then you're going,
00:15:47.500 when's your next trip?
00:15:49.060 I come back in three days back home.
00:15:50.640 And then I'm home for three days
00:15:51.820 and then I take off for another week and a half.
00:15:53.200 Okay.
00:15:53.520 Yeah.
00:15:53.700 Because you know,
00:15:54.120 when you said the way you said it,
00:15:55.020 I was like, okay,
00:15:55.600 so that's what I was wondering.
00:15:56.840 So that's when you get,
00:15:57.560 so that's when you get to see your wife
00:15:58.640 and the kids and that.
00:15:59.620 I see my wife and kids all the time.
00:16:00.760 It's like, I control the schedule.
00:16:02.240 Can you tell me more about that?
00:16:03.520 Like what traits do men in that position look for?
00:16:06.580 Well, the thing,
00:16:07.180 the thing about it,
00:16:07.820 like I don't want to overgeneralize,
00:16:09.260 but there is definitely a trend.
00:16:10.600 So I'll tell you guys,
00:16:11.320 this is a story I tell all the time.
00:16:12.560 I've met a lot of dudes
00:16:13.640 whose wife is just not getting deep down or something 0.98
00:16:16.000 because she's like,
00:16:16.860 meh, meh, meh, meh, meh, right?
00:16:17.780 Like she's like, meh, meh, meh, meh, meh, meh.
00:16:18.660 It's like, but here's the thing.
00:16:19.900 Let me tell you guys about,
00:16:21.100 I work with clients that,
00:16:22.360 I work with clients for real
00:16:24.000 that are world-class musicians and movie stars
00:16:27.260 that are household names
00:16:28.520 that everybody knows, like, right?
00:16:31.400 And I've been asked this before on,
00:16:32.880 somebody asked me like,
00:16:34.300 is there any difference between like the wife 0.54
00:16:35.860 of this really famous musician
00:16:37.200 and this really famous movie star
00:16:38.600 to the wife of just a regular dude? 0.83
00:16:39.960 It's like, yes,
00:16:40.780 their wife's wives are the most supportive,
00:16:43.860 the happiest.
00:16:44.500 Like I'll deliver a suit to some average Joe
00:16:46.240 and his wife's saying,
00:16:46.720 I don't like it.
00:16:47.320 It makes him look fat.
00:16:49.380 I'm like, no,
00:16:49.940 you don't like your husband.
00:16:51.060 But when I deliver like for,
00:16:52.940 I mean, I remember,
00:16:53.540 I'll tell you guys an Alice Cooper story,
00:16:55.120 like the musician,
00:16:56.080 his wife,
00:16:56.740 like she came in and she's like,
00:16:58.540 you look amazing.
00:16:59.480 He's 75 years old.
00:17:00.860 He's old.
00:17:01.520 He's like, you look amazing.
00:17:02.820 That's so perfect.
00:17:03.760 Like, wow,
00:17:04.700 look at the energy that she was just so,
00:17:07.460 and every single extremely famous person
00:17:10.040 I've been with like that.
00:17:11.080 But was it real?
00:17:12.460 Yes.
00:17:13.200 Their wives,
00:17:13.820 I mean,
00:17:14.020 there's a respect aspect to it,
00:17:15.360 but like,
00:17:15.740 man,
00:17:16.280 well,
00:17:16.380 I'm thinking this dude's 75 years old.
00:17:18.060 He's still touring,
00:17:18.640 by the way.
00:17:19.080 It's like,
00:17:19.380 he doesn't have time to come home
00:17:20.420 and put up with like weirdness.
00:17:21.800 You know what I mean?
00:17:22.320 And I think she knows that
00:17:24.020 because that's why she would do it
00:17:25.220 because obviously he's going to keep it moving
00:17:26.600 and then obviously the money's going to stop.
00:17:28.320 I don't know the answer to that.
00:17:30.140 I'm telling you,
00:17:30.840 I was asked an anecdotal experience.
00:17:33.380 Like when I'm dealing with a client
00:17:35.100 who's really,
00:17:35.720 really successful,
00:17:36.620 ultimately they're very,
00:17:38.520 very busy.
00:17:39.400 Like they're,
00:17:40.140 you know,
00:17:40.360 and these are like almost all successful men
00:17:43.220 are A type men.
00:17:44.180 Like they're up in the morning,
00:17:45.980 they're working their butts off.
00:17:47.600 Like when you think about,
00:17:49.220 this is a really interesting point
00:17:50.340 that I've noticed,
00:17:50.920 by the way,
00:17:51.380 you can cut me off at any time.
00:17:52.980 You would think like,
00:17:53.860 oh,
00:17:54.000 he's rich,
00:17:54.580 but he has to be unhappy
00:17:55.780 or he's got this great job,
00:17:58.560 but he's just like unfit.
00:18:00.380 No.
00:18:01.060 Success goes with success.
00:18:03.100 Like the best looking people
00:18:04.360 are the ones that make the most money
00:18:05.960 are the ones that are unfit.
00:18:07.880 Everything goes together.
00:18:09.060 So these guys,
00:18:09.860 like they're the ones in the gym in the morning.
00:18:11.440 They look amazing.
00:18:12.860 They're so sharp.
00:18:14.320 And,
00:18:14.880 you know,
00:18:15.100 I've gone down the street
00:18:16.440 with some of my clients.
00:18:17.060 I'm like,
00:18:17.160 hey,
00:18:17.260 let's grab a coffee,
00:18:18.060 whatever.
00:18:18.300 And I'm walking down the street
00:18:19.200 and I see the women's eyes 0.99
00:18:20.060 just gravitate towards these guys
00:18:21.300 because a woman knows 1.00
00:18:22.480 when she sees a high value man.
00:18:23.620 And by the way,
00:18:24.400 we just established
00:18:25.100 that women continuously choose men 1.00
00:18:26.800 that other women pick. 1.00
00:18:27.620 We know this genetically,
00:18:28.580 right?
00:18:29.400 And so,
00:18:29.980 you know,
00:18:30.660 if a guy like that is,
00:18:32.240 well,
00:18:32.400 first of all,
00:18:32.780 is he more strategic
00:18:33.600 in picking his wife?
00:18:34.480 Yes.
00:18:34.720 Everything in his life
00:18:35.460 is planned out.
00:18:36.920 Your dad,
00:18:37.600 Pearl,
00:18:37.720 is like a really successful guy.
00:18:39.220 I'm sure he's really strategic
00:18:40.280 in the way he makes decisions.
00:18:41.260 Is he not?
00:18:42.040 Yeah,
00:18:42.200 he's very strategic.
00:18:43.300 And I'm sure you saw
00:18:43.940 a lot of that growing up.
00:18:44.800 Like he would just be like,
00:18:45.640 okay,
00:18:46.460 pro and con,
00:18:47.260 let's go.
00:18:48.740 Yeah.
00:18:49.160 Every time,
00:18:50.220 every time I cry
00:18:51.020 about a business problem,
00:18:52.020 I call my dad
00:18:52.640 and he fixes it for me.
00:18:55.200 Her life problem.
00:18:57.520 That's what daddy's for.
00:18:58.460 That's what daddy's for,
00:18:59.660 though.
00:18:59.760 That's what daddy's for.
00:19:00.160 Must be nice, bro.
00:19:00.880 No.
00:19:01.340 I'll do that with my dad.
00:19:02.380 Anything that goes wrong,
00:19:03.120 I'll find my dad,
00:19:03.920 I'm like, dad.
00:19:04.340 Yeah.
00:19:05.000 I'm like, dad.
00:19:05.640 I always call my dad.
00:19:06.160 And he'll fix it
00:19:06.800 because that's what daddies
00:19:08.600 do there for.
00:19:09.280 It's like,
00:19:09.440 that's what I mean.
00:19:11.560 Like,
00:19:11.700 that's why men 0.97
00:19:12.160 don't want to deal
00:19:12.720 with alpha females,
00:19:13.720 though,
00:19:13.900 because like the men
00:19:14.680 like that,
00:19:15.180 like I'm thinking of,
00:19:16.460 I'm thinking,
00:19:17.320 wait,
00:19:17.460 I'm thinking of my dad,
00:19:18.620 right?
00:19:18.820 And he is so logical.
00:19:21.500 He is so logical
00:19:22.420 that like,
00:19:23.100 and me,
00:19:23.980 when I have a business
00:19:25.040 problem or whatever,
00:19:25.840 I get so stressed out.
00:19:27.120 Sometimes I'll like cry,
00:19:28.180 like I'll just be like,
00:19:29.080 and I'll call him
00:19:29.860 and he's so good
00:19:30.640 at just like,
00:19:31.520 okay,
00:19:31.780 what is the problem?
00:19:33.200 Like,
00:19:33.320 what is the problem?
00:19:34.940 This is like,
00:19:35.620 okay,
00:19:35.820 here's one solution,
00:19:36.820 here's two solution.
00:19:37.700 But like,
00:19:38.320 men like that,
00:19:39.000 they don't want to have a girl 1.00
00:19:40.040 that's constantly
00:19:40.660 arguing with them.
00:19:41.960 Wait, wait, wait.
00:19:42.700 But that might not be
00:19:44.860 what you meant,
00:19:45.360 but typically that's what
00:19:46.360 all alpha females,
00:19:47.220 do you know what?
00:19:47.840 Do you know what?
00:19:48.340 I see,
00:19:48.620 now I can see where you're
00:19:49.760 coming from.
00:19:50.260 What is an alpha?
00:19:51.400 That's a leader.
00:19:52.320 Yeah.
00:19:52.720 So,
00:19:53.040 so how,
00:19:54.100 how is in that situation?
00:19:55.900 I mean,
00:19:56.060 that's,
00:19:56.340 that's like family,
00:19:57.280 but in that situation,
00:19:58.640 how wait, wait.
00:19:59.460 Leaders are not always
00:20:00.260 pig-headed leaders. 0.91
00:20:01.180 It don't mean that
00:20:01.680 it's my way or the highway.
00:20:03.200 Yeah,
00:20:03.560 but at the end of the day,
00:20:04.460 like they want to know
00:20:05.160 that you trust them
00:20:05.860 to make a decision.
00:20:06.620 So they don't want,
00:20:07.460 they don't want to hear
00:20:08.100 like why.
00:20:08.800 Like one thing I didn't
00:20:09.620 understand about men
00:20:10.440 is like,
00:20:10.700 when you say why
00:20:11.680 to them,
00:20:12.140 it's like annoying.
00:20:12.880 It is.
00:20:13.360 Like they're like,
00:20:13.780 why are we doing this?
00:20:14.660 Like they don't want to explain it.
00:20:15.620 Yeah.
00:20:16.920 It's like a child.
00:20:18.000 It's like with my kids.
00:20:19.480 You know,
00:20:19.840 when you do that,
00:20:20.320 why?
00:20:20.880 Why?
00:20:21.140 Because I fucking said so.
00:20:23.180 Yeah.
00:20:24.100 Yeah.
00:20:24.400 Like that one.
00:20:25.340 Not every two seconds.
00:20:26.580 Why?
00:20:26.920 Sometimes,
00:20:27.780 but sometimes I mean,
00:20:28.680 it's when they ask why,
00:20:29.660 sometimes it's,
00:20:30.580 oh,
00:20:30.660 because blah,
00:20:31.180 blah,
00:20:31.240 blah.
00:20:31.540 But when the whys keep coming 1.00
00:20:32.720 and the whys keep coming, 0.99
00:20:33.860 it's because I said so,
00:20:34.620 isn't it?
00:20:35.240 Yeah,
00:20:35.520 but that's the point.
00:20:36.720 So that's why I got,
00:20:37.380 because what is an alpha?
00:20:38.700 That's a leader.
00:20:39.500 So the leader is the one
00:20:40.620 that's saying,
00:20:41.400 this is where we should go.
00:20:42.240 This is the problem we should solve.
00:20:43.500 Yeah.
00:20:43.780 And so when I,
00:20:44.480 when I speak to my dad,
00:20:45.900 like I have a really good relationship
00:20:47.400 with him because I trust him.
00:20:49.480 Yeah.
00:20:49.780 And because when he tells me
00:20:50.920 to do something for the,
00:20:51.920 I mean,
00:20:52.200 sometimes,
00:20:52.840 sometimes I don't,
00:20:53.840 but for the most part,
00:20:54.680 like I listen,
00:20:55.400 right?
00:20:55.640 But there you go.
00:20:56.220 Sometimes,
00:20:56.700 but then that's what I mean.
00:20:57.560 Yeah.
00:20:57.720 But usually when I don't listen,
00:20:58.920 it doesn't work out.
00:20:59.700 And I'm like,
00:21:00.000 I should have listened to you,
00:21:00.860 dad.
00:21:01.060 Yeah.
00:21:01.180 But then we know
00:21:02.180 that happens,
00:21:03.440 but then it doesn't,
00:21:04.640 I think it's sometimes
00:21:05.860 it's just a perception.
00:21:06.900 That's,
00:21:07.120 I think that's maybe another thing.
00:21:08.320 That's maybe another topic,
00:21:09.160 the perception of an alpha
00:21:10.660 and an alpha and an alpha female
00:21:12.420 and an alpha male.
00:21:13.220 Yeah.
00:21:13.600 I think that might be,
00:21:14.400 I think there's different perceptions
00:21:16.040 and there might be
00:21:17.020 a whole different thing.
00:21:17.960 It's not perception.
00:21:18.540 But it's also,
00:21:19.020 but it's also,
00:21:19.640 it's age,
00:21:20.120 it's age,
00:21:20.480 like my dad,
00:21:20.980 my dad,
00:21:21.800 my dad,
00:21:22.400 my dad now,
00:21:22.660 50.
00:21:23.860 But the question is,
00:21:25.160 why do we have those perceptions?
00:21:27.320 Like we can't,
00:21:28.200 if the women that say, 1.00
00:21:29.640 I am an alpha female
00:21:30.620 have a reputation of something,
00:21:32.360 like that's the alpha female 0.97
00:21:33.360 fault.
00:21:34.980 Like there's a reason
00:21:35.700 they have that reputation.
00:21:37.000 Why has it got to be a fault
00:21:37.980 to be in an alpha female?
00:21:39.440 I mean,
00:21:39.720 I just feel like everything
00:21:40.460 in life is your own fault.
00:21:41.580 So if you're,
00:21:42.300 if they make an assumption
00:21:43.660 of because you're an alpha female. 1.00
00:21:44.820 Why can't it be your own greatness
00:21:45.800 instead of your own fault?
00:21:46.980 Why does it have to be,
00:21:47.760 why does it have to be,
00:21:48.240 in this situation,
00:21:49.300 in this situation,
00:21:50.780 it's because men don't want it. 0.96
00:21:52.400 What men?
00:21:53.000 Because my man's got happy with it.
00:21:54.100 I mean,
00:21:54.740 I don't know your personal situation,
00:21:56.600 but typically the most successful men
00:21:58.040 with the most options
00:21:58.840 don't typically want alpha females. 0.92
00:22:00.500 Because they've got the most options.
00:22:01.740 Because who wants,
00:22:02.480 who wants a woman 1.00
00:22:03.480 who's just going to,
00:22:04.320 but then more time as well,
00:22:05.820 you've got to think
00:22:06.240 the ones who,
00:22:07.080 the ones who don't want
00:22:07.920 the alpha female,
00:22:08.880 they'll still go and cheat,
00:22:09.600 you know.
00:22:11.200 That's not true.
00:22:12.200 No,
00:22:12.440 that's not true.
00:22:13.480 That's,
00:22:13.720 that's like,
00:22:14.240 that's statistically untrue.
00:22:15.820 Okay.
00:22:16.100 You don't like that.
00:22:18.880 That's just not true.
00:22:23.160 Wait,
00:22:23.320 what do you think?
00:22:24.100 Hold on.
00:22:24.440 I want to,
00:22:25.320 I want to,
00:22:25.620 so what,
00:22:26.080 what do you mean?
00:22:26.900 It's not true.
00:22:27.260 Okay,
00:22:27.360 let me ask you guys a question.
00:22:28.580 Do you believe
00:22:29.100 that successful people
00:22:30.180 tend to be more logical
00:22:31.240 than unsuccessful people
00:22:32.280 in general?
00:22:32.780 Are they more logical
00:22:33.540 or less logical?
00:22:34.500 They're more logical.
00:22:35.640 Do you guys all believe that?
00:22:36.900 I would say so.
00:22:37.560 Okay,
00:22:37.860 what does it mean
00:22:38.440 to be logical?
00:22:39.180 Define that.
00:22:41.220 Logical,
00:22:41.820 calculated,
00:22:42.660 understanding.
00:22:43.720 Actually thinking
00:22:44.640 and processing it
00:22:45.920 and thinking
00:22:46.440 what's the best way
00:22:47.240 to make a decision.
00:22:48.280 Okay.
00:22:48.600 That's what makes sense.
00:22:49.640 I'll make,
00:22:49.980 I'll make it really simple.
00:22:51.060 Being logical
00:22:51.920 simply means
00:22:52.620 that you value
00:22:53.240 what you want most
00:22:54.060 more than what you value
00:22:54.980 what you want right now.
00:22:55.980 Yep.
00:22:56.820 Okay.
00:22:57.480 That makes sense.
00:22:58.100 Okay.
00:22:58.380 So you're saying like,
00:22:59.160 oh,
00:22:59.300 these guys all cheat.
00:23:00.340 I don't know
00:23:00.640 what kind of dudes
00:23:01.180 you know.
00:23:01.700 I didn't say,
00:23:02.100 whoa,
00:23:02.340 whoa,
00:23:02.580 whoa,
00:23:02.620 I didn't say,
00:23:03.160 whoa,
00:23:03.460 whoa,
00:23:04.020 chill out.
00:23:04.560 I mean,
00:23:04.920 I didn't say,
00:23:06.320 oh,
00:23:06.940 and also,
00:23:07.540 I don't know
00:23:07.960 what you said,
00:23:08.940 but you just said,
00:23:09.620 you said statistics,
00:23:11.940 but what,
00:23:12.940 what,
00:23:13.600 what groups
00:23:14.400 were involved
00:23:16.620 in doing
00:23:17.340 the statistics?
00:23:18.560 Well,
00:23:18.660 I'll make,
00:23:19.040 I'll make,
00:23:19.340 I'll make,
00:23:19.920 we're just,
00:23:20.300 I'll tell you.
00:23:21.160 What different parts
00:23:22.660 of what different,
00:23:23.140 what,
00:23:23.360 what life,
00:23:24.080 what successful men?
00:23:25.220 Exactly.
00:23:25.620 Okay.
00:23:25.960 Let's talk about it.
00:23:27.180 So them statistics
00:23:27.900 might not really run.
00:23:28.640 He's trying to answer
00:23:29.480 your question.
00:23:29.900 Okay,
00:23:29.920 well,
00:23:29.940 let's,
00:23:30.100 we're talking about
00:23:30.940 successful men.
00:23:31.600 So what are you guys,
00:23:32.960 what is the typical
00:23:33.680 millionaire like?
00:23:34.440 That's an interesting,
00:23:35.040 what's the typical
00:23:35.620 millionaire?
00:23:35.900 I wouldn't know.
00:23:36.600 I probably would say
00:23:37.540 he waits about five
00:23:38.820 o'clock in the morning.
00:23:39.920 What'd you say?
00:23:40.340 What's he normally like?
00:23:41.360 That's his lifestyle.
00:23:42.860 You probably,
00:23:43.240 you know the answer to this.
00:23:44.160 It depends.
00:23:45.060 Like the ones I know
00:23:45.780 are small business owners.
00:23:46.640 They're all,
00:23:47.200 they're all,
00:23:47.820 are they fun or boring?
00:23:49.320 They're like fun,
00:23:50.340 like usually outdoorsy.
00:23:52.000 I mean the ones I know.
00:23:53.040 But are they like
00:23:54.120 rappers and ballers
00:23:55.140 or are they like
00:23:56.000 accountants and IT professionals?
00:23:57.180 Politics.
00:23:57.880 They're related to politics.
00:23:58.960 The politicians.
00:23:59.840 Their lives are pretty simple.
00:24:01.220 They avoid tabloids.
00:24:02.660 Parliament.
00:24:03.640 Do they have a routine
00:24:05.140 in their life?
00:24:05.740 Like a very strong routine?
00:24:06.260 Yes.
00:24:06.900 And they're very disciplined.
00:24:08.220 They're very disciplined.
00:24:09.060 They're really disciplined.
00:24:10.740 So it's like again.
00:24:11.520 And that filters
00:24:12.060 across the whole of their life.
00:24:13.460 It's not just in one
00:24:14.180 specific area.
00:24:15.240 They're logical.
00:24:16.100 They make decisions
00:24:16.780 that are good for the future
00:24:17.860 versus now.
00:24:18.900 That's correct.
00:24:19.500 Does that make sense?
00:24:20.060 So it's like
00:24:20.580 there's a significant
00:24:21.740 amount of risk mitigation.
00:24:24.080 It's like I understand
00:24:24.920 what's happening.
00:24:25.540 There's some slime balls
00:24:26.360 of course.
00:24:26.980 But for the successful guys
00:24:28.180 that are the typical
00:24:29.040 like logical,
00:24:30.820 calculating,
00:24:32.020 dependable,
00:24:32.660 are they dependable?
00:24:33.980 Yeah.
00:24:34.280 The successful people
00:24:34.940 have a lot of people
00:24:35.560 depend on them.
00:24:36.280 Yeah.
00:24:36.880 If they mean what they say.
00:24:38.340 Well,
00:24:38.600 if you're a small business owner
00:24:39.620 you've got to be
00:24:40.320 damn dependable.
00:24:41.560 Like people,
00:24:42.380 you know,
00:24:42.540 because that's your
00:24:43.160 livelihood.
00:24:44.280 So you're dealing
00:24:45.020 with a group
00:24:45.440 that's dependable,
00:24:46.320 logical,
00:24:46.820 strategic,
00:24:47.660 risk mitigating.
00:24:48.440 And by the way,
00:24:51.040 they get divorced
00:24:51.880 way less.
00:24:53.260 Like millionaires,
00:24:53.960 remember,
00:24:54.400 90% of them,
00:24:55.080 85% of them.
00:24:56.040 Yeah,
00:24:56.300 okay,
00:24:56.720 okay,
00:24:56.960 but a lot of millionaires
00:24:57.920 though they have
00:24:58.380 a double life as well.
00:24:59.760 A lot?
00:25:00.220 Let's just say that.
00:25:00.720 Let's just say that.
00:25:00.960 Let's just say that.
00:25:02.120 Let's just say that.
00:25:02.140 Let's just say that.
00:25:02.160 Let's just say that.
00:25:02.660 Do you know how many mean?
00:25:03.520 I'm just curious.
00:25:04.160 They do drugs and they go
00:25:05.320 prostitutes and all of them. 1.00
00:25:07.120 Wait, wait, wait, wait,
00:25:07.940 guys, guys, guys,
00:25:08.780 guys, guys,
00:25:09.100 wait, wait,
00:25:09.600 guys, guys,
00:25:10.480 stop, stop,
00:25:11.540 stop.
00:25:12.100 Okay.
00:25:12.900 Out of,
00:25:14.260 how many millionaires
00:25:15.060 do you guys know?
00:25:16.020 A couple.
00:25:16.620 Okay,
00:25:16.940 so how,
00:25:17.380 how many,
00:25:17.820 up to you,
00:25:18.140 how many?
00:25:18.380 That's what I was just saying.
00:25:19.140 I said,
00:25:19.360 I don't know any.
00:25:20.220 Okay,
00:25:20.440 okay,
00:25:20.780 okay,
00:25:21.080 okay.
00:25:21.140 Oh no,
00:25:21.440 I do.
00:25:21.780 Guys,
00:25:22.040 I do know,
00:25:22.340 I actually do know two.
00:25:23.520 How close are you with them?
00:25:25.940 One close-ish.
00:25:26.980 One close-ish.
00:25:27.880 Okay,
00:25:28.060 what does he do?
00:25:29.220 She. 0.93
00:25:30.000 She? 0.98
00:25:30.500 Yeah.
00:25:30.880 Okay,
00:25:31.200 so no,
00:25:31.700 no male millionaires? 0.75
00:25:32.720 Yeah,
00:25:32.840 the other one.
00:25:33.800 Okay,
00:25:34.100 what does he do?
00:25:36.200 Um,
00:25:36.840 he is in distribution.
00:25:40.740 Okay.
00:25:42.940 Predominantly in property,
00:25:43.960 property development.
00:25:45.180 How many millionaires do you know?
00:25:47.020 On my,
00:25:47.700 on my two hands,
00:25:48.780 I could count.
00:25:49.380 Okay,
00:25:49.700 how many?
00:25:50.180 Oh yeah,
00:25:50.540 property may,
00:25:51.400 I could see that.
00:25:51.860 Yeah,
00:25:52.100 yeah.
00:25:52.960 Yeah,
00:25:53.320 you?
00:25:53.980 Um,
00:25:54.260 I used to date a multi-millionaire.
00:25:56.900 What happened?
00:25:57.600 What happened?
00:25:58.920 Yeah,
00:25:59.060 what happened?
00:25:59.540 Why'd she?
00:26:00.480 Should have held on to that one.
00:26:02.020 No,
00:26:02.300 no,
00:26:02.600 definitely.
00:26:03.280 But at the same time,
00:26:04.920 like they say,
00:26:05.920 they live a double life.
00:26:07.080 Yeah,
00:26:07.420 of course.
00:26:08.320 I've seen it with my eyes.
00:26:09.640 Because he was obviously,
00:26:10.360 he wasn't from here.
00:26:11.960 You don't find much millionaires
00:26:13.960 in the UK.
00:26:15.120 And even if you do,
00:26:16.200 they're always like,
00:26:17.440 they're from another country 0.99
00:26:18.620 and they've come here
00:26:19.600 and they're traveling
00:26:20.380 and they're this and that.
00:26:22.020 And you know,
00:26:22.580 it was dating for a long time.
00:26:24.180 So you don't know any,
00:26:25.440 you know some,
00:26:25.920 you know some,
00:26:26.460 you know millionaires?
00:26:28.280 Yes or no?
00:26:28.640 A few.
00:26:29.180 A few.
00:26:29.920 One hand.
00:26:30.920 You do?
00:26:31.440 It's not that I know them,
00:26:33.680 but I met like five,
00:26:34.980 six of them.
00:26:35.620 Yeah,
00:26:35.860 I did.
00:26:36.440 And I've seen with my eyes
00:26:37.520 their double lives.
00:26:38.680 I've seen.
00:26:38.940 Yes,
00:26:39.360 I've seen double lives.
00:26:40.420 They do after party
00:26:41.660 for two,
00:26:42.540 three days.
00:26:43.580 Trust me.
00:26:44.280 I've seen it with my eyes.
00:26:45.460 They do the worst.
00:26:46.480 Wait,
00:26:46.720 wait,
00:26:47.000 so what type of industries
00:26:48.120 are they in?
00:26:49.680 Lawyer,
00:26:50.180 like big lawyers,
00:26:51.080 the one they're like,
00:26:52.060 you know,
00:26:52.480 they're next to the judge
00:26:53.580 and like people.
00:26:54.820 Can you put your mic down,
00:26:55.500 please?
00:26:55.720 Some producers of films.
00:27:00.700 So you go to these after parties
00:27:02.100 and you see them cheating there?
00:27:04.040 Cine.
00:27:04.660 Yeah.
00:27:05.160 Okay,
00:27:05.460 so what do you say to that?
00:27:06.940 Well,
00:27:07.500 my company now has over 15,000 clients.
00:27:10.820 Over 95% of them,
00:27:12.480 I'm sure,
00:27:12.740 are millionaires or above.
00:27:13.880 So 15,000 is a pretty good data set.
00:27:16.340 My question to you guys
00:27:17.600 would be,
00:27:18.340 offensive question coming up,
00:27:20.440 why are these duplicitous slimy characters
00:27:22.760 picking you and for what?
00:27:24.520 Or why are they picking
00:27:25.400 the people in the crowds
00:27:26.300 you're hanging out with?
00:27:26.940 Like,
00:27:27.080 what kind of crowds are these?
00:27:28.380 Like,
00:27:28.560 I'm not going to have them in the entertainment industry.
00:27:32.600 There is the other side.
00:27:34.340 There's the blue pole and the red pole.
00:27:36.460 Yeah.
00:27:36.680 But not everybody meets them.
00:27:37.860 Where are you going, man?
00:27:38.580 I didn't say I met all of them
00:27:40.100 in after parties, though.
00:27:41.300 What?
00:27:41.840 Say that.
00:27:42.440 Say that.
00:27:42.660 I didn't say I met all of them
00:27:43.760 in after parties.
00:27:44.560 I met them in a specific occasion
00:27:47.300 that made me think about them.
00:27:49.000 I know because of people
00:27:51.060 and I've seen them.
00:27:52.000 You're changing what you said.
00:27:53.540 You didn't say that.
00:27:54.780 She didn't say she knows them.
00:27:56.280 I've seen it a couple,
00:27:57.420 but the rest that I haven't seen it,
00:27:59.440 I know because of my friends
00:28:00.720 are friends of,
00:28:01.860 you know,
00:28:02.240 like,
00:28:02.340 I know how they do.
00:28:03.980 But then why are your friends
00:28:04.920 involved with them?
00:28:06.560 Because there are,
00:28:07.680 how can I say,
00:28:08.780 events in London,
00:28:09.660 there are so many things
00:28:10.560 going on in London
00:28:11.400 and people know people.
00:28:13.120 That's how you meet people in London.
00:28:13.900 I've seen too much
00:28:15.000 and my heart broke,
00:28:16.260 honestly.
00:28:16.720 I've seen so many people
00:28:17.980 where I've seen them
00:28:19.180 like with their partners
00:28:20.060 all happy
00:28:20.560 and there's me making conversations,
00:28:21.860 speaking with the wife,
00:28:23.720 talking about kids and babies
00:28:25.040 and all that.
00:28:26.020 And then,
00:28:26.640 you see them
00:28:27.140 with another woman.
00:28:27.560 when I see
00:28:28.380 the person,
00:28:29.880 one or the other cheating
00:28:31.020 secretly just breaks my heart.
00:28:33.200 But then again,
00:28:34.320 sometimes
00:28:34.900 people's hoism
00:28:36.440 is normal as well
00:28:37.640 where they have
00:28:38.240 open relationships.
00:28:39.980 So you also don't know,
00:28:41.480 but I've,
00:28:42.580 yeah,
00:28:42.940 but being,
00:28:43.460 working in the media industry
00:28:44.420 for 10 years plus,
00:28:45.480 I've seen a lot
00:28:46.420 and I've crossed paths
00:28:47.460 many millionaires.
00:28:48.160 But millionaires,
00:28:49.420 there's two,
00:28:50.260 obviously,
00:28:51.220 I'm coming from
00:28:51.860 the entertainment industry aspect
00:28:53.240 what I've seen.
00:28:54.060 but by what,
00:28:55.900 what's your name,
00:28:57.300 Sir Regan?
00:28:57.940 Dimitri.
00:28:58.540 Yeah,
00:28:58.740 what Dimitri was saying,
00:29:00.120 yes,
00:29:00.780 there's also,
00:29:01.780 there's also a group
00:29:03.180 of men
00:29:04.280 that I know
00:29:05.160 that are very loyal
00:29:06.620 because they need to protect.
00:29:08.480 Their wife is like their asset. 0.96
00:29:10.140 They need to protect them
00:29:11.300 and make sure
00:29:12.260 they kind of make it work.
00:29:13.360 Of course,
00:29:13.400 but we cannot say
00:29:14.220 that like millionaires,
00:29:16.120 they're not cheaters
00:29:17.000 because they have this,
00:29:18.000 this,
00:29:18.220 this and that.
00:29:19.020 Like,
00:29:19.300 there is there
00:29:20.200 and there,
00:29:20.780 like in life,
00:29:21.380 there is everything,
00:29:22.280 everything,
00:29:23.180 like it's not like,
00:29:25.160 oh,
00:29:25.340 because they're millionaires
00:29:26.280 and because they think logically
00:29:27.460 or because they have
00:29:28.680 a certain lifestyle,
00:29:29.740 they don't do that
00:29:30.660 because they are saints.
00:29:32.140 That's not like,
00:29:33.480 do you know what I mean?
00:29:34.280 See,
00:29:34.780 it's,
00:29:34.960 it's interesting
00:29:35.640 because I actually,
00:29:36.260 I sort of see both sides on this
00:29:37.780 because like where I grew up,
00:29:39.520 the cheating just wasn't really that big
00:29:41.340 to be honest,
00:29:42.160 where I grew up
00:29:43.220 and I grew up in a pretty like
00:29:44.480 well-off community,
00:29:45.360 but at the same time,
00:29:47.120 the numbers don't support you
00:29:48.560 like at all.
00:29:49.400 It's like the cheating rate is one
00:29:51.100 and this is just self-admitted.
00:29:52.340 It's one out of four
00:29:53.100 until you get over 250,000
00:29:55.240 and then it ups to 50%
00:29:56.380 and that's just self-admitted.
00:29:57.780 So it's probably higher.
00:29:59.600 Yes.
00:30:00.480 100%.
00:30:00.680 Sadly,
00:30:01.240 but you know.
00:30:01.980 People don't like
00:30:02.640 giving their realities away.
00:30:05.320 But what?
00:30:06.200 Come on.
00:30:06.820 But then it's like,
00:30:07.480 then you ask the question,
00:30:08.360 how reliable is a self-report?
00:30:09.700 You know,
00:30:10.280 it's,
00:30:11.000 okay,
00:30:12.060 so go ahead.
00:30:13.240 Go ahead.
00:30:13.440 Can I just ask,
00:30:14.140 have we moved on
00:30:14.920 from that original question?
00:30:16.820 No,
00:30:17.040 I just want to bring it
00:30:17.980 all the way back
00:30:19.360 because I need to give
00:30:20.760 my perspective
00:30:21.740 before we even move on.
00:30:23.420 Go ahead.
00:30:23.700 Go ahead.
00:30:24.040 Go ahead.
00:30:24.300 Like,
00:30:24.760 me as a man,
00:30:25.860 forget all of that.
00:30:27.120 Yes.
00:30:27.580 And I'm glad.
00:30:28.740 I'm glad what you said,
00:30:29.820 my brother.
00:30:30.380 Go ahead.
00:30:30.680 You get me?
00:30:31.220 Because I feel like
00:30:31.960 every time I get my point across,
00:30:33.820 people say I'm wrong.
00:30:35.440 But I feel like the past,
00:30:36.820 the past is very important.
00:30:39.580 Do you know what I'm trying to say?
00:30:40.300 Some things build your character.
00:30:43.220 Some things are part of you.
00:30:46.440 And to be fair,
00:30:47.800 it does.
00:30:48.480 I'm sorry.
00:30:49.540 Because even me.
00:30:50.560 If I don't want to do,
00:30:51.780 I'm sorry.
00:30:52.960 No,
00:30:53.160 it's true.
00:30:53.680 You know what I'm trying to say?
00:30:54.980 What you've done,
00:30:56.020 you've done.
00:30:57.220 So now what?
00:30:58.260 I've got to pick up baggage.
00:31:00.240 I've got to deal with luggage.
00:31:02.380 I'm sorry.
00:31:03.920 So,
00:31:04.640 yeah,
00:31:04.980 man,
00:31:05.220 for me,
00:31:05.720 I don't judge anyone.
00:31:06.840 I've done a video myself.
00:31:08.260 As a man,
00:31:10.560 you love the hoes. 1.00
00:31:11.800 Appreciate the hoes. 1.00
00:31:12.820 Nothing's wrong with them.
00:31:13.860 Nothing ain't wrong with them.
00:31:15.020 But can you marry them?
00:31:15.980 But for me now,
00:31:17.320 marriage,
00:31:18.820 I'm sorry.
00:31:20.720 But listen,
00:31:21.700 there are two types of hoes though. 1.00
00:31:23.900 So basically,
00:31:25.380 no, no, no, no,
00:31:26.100 and I'm not being disrespectful.
00:31:28.360 There are some people
00:31:29.680 who have been through traumas
00:31:31.740 and sex is their way of coping.
00:31:35.020 So that's how they become a ho. 1.00
00:31:36.340 Now,
00:31:36.540 if they're becoming a ho, 1.00
00:31:37.520 from mental traumas,
00:31:39.300 all right,
00:31:39.680 I'd like to just add one thing.
00:31:41.520 What I'm hearing,
00:31:42.240 what I'm hearing here,
00:31:43.060 right here,
00:31:43.600 wait,
00:31:43.960 wait,
00:31:44.980 is an excuse.
00:31:46.060 No,
00:31:46.460 no,
00:31:46.600 no,
00:31:47.180 no,
00:31:47.500 no,
00:31:48.020 no,
00:31:48.080 no,
00:31:48.540 no,
00:31:48.660 I'm sorry.
00:31:51.260 No,
00:31:51.820 no,
00:31:51.960 no,
00:31:52.080 no.
00:31:52.260 Okay,
00:31:52.520 okay,
00:31:52.820 let him go.
00:31:54.760 Who's ad-libbing?
00:31:55.920 Who's ad-libbing?
00:31:56.640 There are some people
00:31:57.900 that if you,
00:31:59.420 if you read documents
00:32:00.500 and all that,
00:32:00.960 they get raped
00:32:01.760 and all that.
00:32:02.580 They get molested.
00:32:03.260 Say grape.
00:32:03.700 Say grape.
00:32:04.200 Oh,
00:32:04.400 no,
00:32:04.520 sorry.
00:32:04.820 They get graped.
00:32:06.600 They get graped.
00:32:08.380 And because I'm saying grape,
00:32:10.820 I'm forgetting one thing.
00:32:11.480 But remember.
00:32:12.100 They get graped.
00:32:12.900 Yeah.
00:32:13.160 So then they kind of,
00:32:15.340 they feel depressed
00:32:17.120 and they go through a lot of things
00:32:18.940 and they don't,
00:32:19.480 they don't,
00:32:19.880 they don't respect themselves.
00:32:21.660 And that's when that comes out.
00:32:24.020 When that comes out.
00:32:24.700 Is this the exception
00:32:25.660 or is it the rule?
00:32:26.860 No,
00:32:27.100 it's not.
00:32:27.440 It's not an exception.
00:32:28.120 Now,
00:32:28.360 there's another type of hole
00:32:29.340 which they,
00:32:30.320 they,
00:32:30.660 they know what they're doing.
00:32:32.580 They're sleeping around
00:32:33.300 and they're happy
00:32:33.960 just to live that life.
00:32:34.660 But here's,
00:32:35.060 but here's the problem
00:32:35.840 with even the first hole.
00:32:36.800 The world doesn't owe you understanding.
00:32:38.860 Yeah.
00:32:39.160 That's what I said.
00:32:41.400 I'm sorry.
00:32:42.060 Like there's some,
00:32:42.940 there's some people
00:32:43.640 that go through that
00:32:44.440 and don't make those choices.
00:32:45.940 And so if you,
00:32:46.900 if you choose to make those choices,
00:32:48.380 like it's still the choice you made
00:32:49.740 and you can't whine about the outcome.
00:32:52.100 But Pearlie, 0.91
00:32:53.120 do you know what?
00:32:54.060 That's what people underestimate.
00:32:55.960 But some people,
00:32:56.420 we all,
00:32:56.900 we all have different hearts.
00:32:58.500 We all grow up differently.
00:32:59.980 We all go through
00:33:00.780 different experiences.
00:33:02.680 But it's no one.
00:33:03.100 And we,
00:33:03.540 no,
00:33:03.980 no,
00:33:04.160 but,
00:33:04.560 but as,
00:33:05.120 as human beings,
00:33:06.200 as people,
00:33:07.420 we should be understanding
00:33:08.560 and we should be fortunate.
00:33:10.740 You can,
00:33:11.500 you can,
00:33:12.040 you can be understanding
00:33:13.240 and treat them with respect
00:33:14.660 and politely,
00:33:15.680 but that doesn't mean
00:33:16.520 that other men have to date.
00:33:17.960 No,
00:33:18.080 but some people actually,
00:33:19.360 heal.
00:33:20.100 Some people,
00:33:20.680 when they get love and care,
00:33:22.180 they heal.
00:33:23.100 You know,
00:33:23.660 before,
00:33:24.100 I have to be honest,
00:33:25.080 I have to be honest,
00:33:25.800 wait,
00:33:26.140 before I started this show,
00:33:27.640 I really thought healing
00:33:29.560 meant something else.
00:33:31.080 I really thought when women 1.00
00:33:32.140 like healed,
00:33:32.880 they went to therapy.
00:33:34.720 But I just found healing
00:33:35.840 is like another word
00:33:36.580 for just sleeping around.
00:33:37.640 It's like you sleep around the town.
00:33:38.800 Healing is so low.
00:33:40.580 Healing is so low.
00:33:41.740 And then,
00:33:42.460 and then you come back,
00:33:44.180 you come back,
00:33:45.400 you come back in now,
00:33:46.980 and then they,
00:33:47.500 they write in their journals.
00:33:48.620 And they do some meditating.
00:33:51.240 I feel like healing is so low.
00:33:52.700 Guys,
00:33:52.900 guys,
00:33:53.300 guys,
00:33:53.580 stop,
00:33:53.920 stop interrupting me.
00:33:54.780 Stop.
00:33:55.240 Stop.
00:33:55.520 They do some meditating
00:33:56.640 and now,
00:33:58.320 they're healed.
00:33:59.860 No.
00:34:00.160 Yes.
00:34:00.480 No,
00:34:00.700 I don't think healing works like that.
00:34:01.900 I think healing works with
00:34:03.260 actually self-reflecting,
00:34:05.980 challenging yourself,
00:34:07.160 and think,
00:34:07.940 okay,
00:34:08.280 how can I,
00:34:08.840 how can,
00:34:09.220 okay,
00:34:09.420 I've done this.
00:34:10.180 This wasn't very nice.
00:34:11.440 And you self-reflect
00:34:12.280 and you figure out
00:34:13.220 how you're gonna heal,
00:34:14.620 how you're gonna get through it,
00:34:15.460 how you're gonna treat
00:34:16.860 a situation differently next time.
00:34:18.720 I do agree with you.
00:34:19.600 There's learning from experience,
00:34:21.780 right?
00:34:22.640 But it's like,
00:34:23.440 how many times
00:34:24.000 you gotta have the same experience
00:34:25.360 before you learn?
00:34:26.440 You know what I mean?
00:34:26.900 It's like,
00:34:27.660 that one,
00:34:28.100 two,
00:34:28.520 three,
00:34:28.740 20,
00:34:29.160 30,
00:34:29.400 40.
00:34:30.700 By what I've seen,
00:34:32.060 I don't know why,
00:34:33.180 but always stranger girls
00:34:34.940 come and talk to me
00:34:35.920 and they tell me
00:34:36.900 their whole lives.
00:34:38.720 And what I find sad
00:34:41.060 is,
00:34:41.260 and that's why I say,
00:34:42.140 like,
00:34:42.260 it's so important
00:34:42.920 for us as humans
00:34:43.680 to be understanding
00:34:44.640 because some people
00:34:47.680 mentally,
00:34:48.280 they're not built like that.
00:34:49.120 I think that we should
00:34:50.700 be less understanding.
00:34:51.940 Yes.
00:34:52.680 No,
00:34:52.920 I think,
00:34:53.220 I think,
00:34:53.580 I think,
00:34:53.980 okay,
00:34:54.500 I think it's good to,
00:34:55.300 no,
00:34:55.440 I think it's good
00:34:56.380 to be understanding
00:34:57.200 when it comes to mental health,
00:34:58.420 but if it's too much,
00:35:00.160 no,
00:35:00.400 I feel like.
00:35:01.140 I think that,
00:35:01.900 okay,
00:35:02.160 nowadays,
00:35:02.960 everybody's got
00:35:04.120 a mental health.
00:35:05.060 Thank you.
00:35:05.700 Everybody.
00:35:06.800 Everyone's got anxiety.
00:35:08.740 Everyone's got,
00:35:09.320 I remember,
00:35:10.540 I remember when,
00:35:11.660 oh,
00:35:11.740 you know what my least
00:35:12.740 favorite word is now?
00:35:13.700 Trauma.
00:35:14.700 Trauma.
00:35:15.300 Trauma.
00:35:15.820 Trauma used to be
00:35:16.640 about war,
00:35:17.420 not your ex-boyfriend
00:35:18.400 cheating on you
00:35:19.080 three times.
00:35:19.840 That's not trauma,
00:35:20.540 that's you being a dickhead. 0.96
00:35:21.660 That's what I say too,
00:35:23.040 but now,
00:35:23.500 this is my trauma.
00:35:25.160 I've gone through trauma
00:35:25.940 because my ex-boyfriend,
00:35:26.960 no,
00:35:27.260 it's supposed to be war.
00:35:28.500 Because you took it back
00:35:29.040 three times,
00:35:29.660 so you're a dickhead. 0.98
00:35:30.400 Yeah,
00:35:30.480 but I don't think,
00:35:31.160 I don't think it's the cheating.
00:35:32.840 I mean,
00:35:33.460 go ahead,
00:35:33.820 go ahead.
00:35:33.960 Are you saying,
00:35:35.160 in most cases,
00:35:35.760 when people talk about
00:35:36.840 relationship trauma,
00:35:37.980 they're only talking
00:35:39.320 specifically about the cheating?
00:35:40.960 No,
00:35:41.500 they're just warfully
00:35:42.180 knowing the money.
00:35:42.640 Or are they talking
00:35:44.060 about giving,
00:35:45.380 the heartbreak?
00:35:47.340 No,
00:35:47.500 because you know what,
00:35:48.260 this is the,
00:35:49.620 giving,
00:35:50.540 giving,
00:35:50.880 giving,
00:35:50.920 no pause,
00:35:53.260 no pause.
00:35:53.960 Giving,
00:35:54.760 giving,
00:35:55.240 giving,
00:35:55.860 giving,
00:35:56.480 giving,
00:35:56.780 but this is,
00:35:57.300 this is,
00:35:57.960 no,
00:35:58.580 no,
00:35:58.840 when you say,
00:35:59.780 when you say,
00:36:00.360 when you say giving,
00:36:01.900 when you say giving,
00:36:02.820 okay,
00:36:03.040 one man up,
00:36:03.760 what about woman up?
00:36:04.780 It's like,
00:36:05.460 it's always the man
00:36:06.820 needs to be better.
00:36:08.300 It's always the man
00:36:09.340 needs to be better.
00:36:10.520 It's like,
00:36:11.400 it's like,
00:36:11.920 okay.
00:36:12.320 When you have trauma
00:36:13.160 and it's not even
00:36:13.880 from relationships.
00:36:15.140 Who's more,
00:36:15.700 who's,
00:36:15.960 who's more traditional?
00:36:17.260 Men,
00:36:17.400 men,
00:36:18.080 men make more than women 1.00
00:36:19.840 at large for a lifetime.
00:36:21.340 Men make more than women. 0.99
00:36:22.520 Women weigh more than men 1.00
00:36:23.920 and they have higher
00:36:24.900 body counts than men.
00:36:26.660 So,
00:36:27.300 so who needs to man up
00:36:28.500 or woman up more? 0.99
00:36:29.320 So women in general 1.00
00:36:29.360 have higher body counts
00:36:30.600 than men?
00:36:31.100 Yes.
00:36:31.900 Wow.
00:36:32.300 Hold on.
00:36:33.140 No,
00:36:33.780 no,
00:36:34.240 no,
00:36:34.520 no,
00:36:34.780 women's got more than men. 1.00
00:36:37.920 I'll ask you.
00:36:38.880 I'll ask you.
00:36:39.820 I'll ask you.
00:36:41.400 I'll ask you.
00:36:41.460 I'll ask you.
00:36:41.480 I'll ask you.
00:36:42.000 I'll ask you.
00:36:42.140 One person.
00:36:43.080 Sorry,
00:36:43.620 sorry,
00:36:44.000 guys,
00:36:44.360 guys,
00:36:44.700 guys,
00:36:45.240 one person at a time here.
00:36:46.460 There's a lot of over-talking
00:36:47.440 in the podcast
00:36:47.920 at the end of the day.
00:36:49.040 So one person at a time.
00:36:50.320 Let the moderator
00:36:50.940 pick the person who's talking.
00:36:52.060 Thank you.
00:36:52.980 One out of three men
00:36:53.720 are either virgins
00:36:54.320 or haven't had sex
00:36:55.220 in the past year.
00:36:55.920 Have one out of three women, 0.99
00:36:57.020 are they virgins
00:36:57.620 or haven't had sex
00:36:58.340 in the past year?
00:37:00.500 I couldn't.
00:37:01.520 It's a bit both.
00:37:03.160 Come on.
00:37:03.540 I think the world
00:37:04.460 is going transsexual. 0.84
00:37:08.100 I need to just say this.
00:37:11.080 You've heard stories
00:37:12.500 where men have gloated
00:37:14.280 about,
00:37:14.680 oh,
00:37:15.000 I've slightly 250 women. 1.00
00:37:16.720 You will never hear
00:37:17.640 a woman say that 1.00
00:37:18.480 unless she's from OnlyFans. 0.95
00:37:19.860 You know what I mean?
00:37:20.960 Not real talk.
00:37:22.140 No,
00:37:22.560 I'm sorry.
00:37:23.160 I've just never experienced
00:37:24.620 that conversation
00:37:26.100 from a woman.
00:37:27.120 Because women 0.99
00:37:27.620 aren't going to brag
00:37:28.400 about that stuff.
00:37:29.540 No,
00:37:29.700 they won't.
00:37:30.280 But it goes back to
00:37:31.360 a small percentage
00:37:32.480 of men
00:37:32.900 are having a lot
00:37:33.840 of sex.
00:37:34.340 That's what he was
00:37:34.760 saying earlier.
00:37:35.800 So a small percentage
00:37:36.680 of men,
00:37:37.160 they're the biggest whore. 1.00
00:37:38.200 You know,
00:37:38.640 they're man whores, 1.00
00:37:39.460 right?
00:37:40.060 And so you're right.
00:37:41.520 There are a small
00:37:42.040 percentage of men
00:37:43.120 that are having
00:37:43.580 more sex than women. 1.00
00:37:44.740 But by and large,
00:37:45.480 women are having 1.00
00:37:46.040 more sex than men. 0.97
00:37:47.540 I don't know.
00:37:48.260 I don't think that's true.
00:37:49.040 That's scary.
00:37:49.660 I'm scared.
00:37:50.320 I mean,
00:37:50.740 I don't even know
00:37:51.740 what's true.
00:37:52.440 No,
00:37:52.640 it's the contraceptive pills
00:37:53.920 I'm telling you.
00:37:54.840 It's all them products.
00:37:56.500 I don't agree with her.
00:37:57.720 You know why?
00:37:58.260 Because what she's saying
00:37:59.440 I think is that
00:38:00.440 the chances of a woman
00:38:01.800 to get more men
00:38:02.780 and hide in it
00:38:03.580 is measured
00:38:04.420 than a man getting a woman 0.94
00:38:05.940 and you know,
00:38:06.680 like,
00:38:06.860 say something,
00:38:07.400 please.
00:38:08.400 Go on.
00:38:08.720 Sorry.
00:38:08.980 Carry on.
00:38:09.940 I'll say it after.
00:38:11.160 I'll say it after.
00:38:11.720 No, go on.
00:38:12.300 Think about it.
00:38:13.180 Every woman here,
00:38:13.960 yeah?
00:38:14.320 Think about your DMs.
00:38:16.320 Yeah.
00:38:16.780 Think about,
00:38:17.540 now think about your DMs,
00:38:18.620 yeah?
00:38:18.880 Yeah.
00:38:19.060 Now think about,
00:38:20.000 if you really wanted to,
00:38:22.780 you could have at least,
00:38:23.940 well,
00:38:24.160 good looking women anyway. 1.00
00:38:25.340 Not saying,
00:38:25.840 you know what I mean?
00:38:27.060 You could have at least
00:38:27.940 three men.
00:38:27.960 Actually,
00:38:28.460 I'd like to,
00:38:28.880 can I correct just one thing?
00:38:30.100 One thing I'm going to correct
00:38:30.800 then you can finish.
00:38:31.960 An average woman 0.99
00:38:32.980 gets more matches
00:38:33.980 on dating apps
00:38:34.940 than a top one person guy.
00:38:36.440 This is what I was just
00:38:37.320 about to say.
00:38:38.040 If you look at your DMs,
00:38:39.500 you know for a fact,
00:38:40.560 if you rang,
00:38:41.260 if you just rang someone
00:38:42.220 or just said,
00:38:42.800 yeah,
00:38:42.940 come true,
00:38:43.660 how many geezers 1.00
00:38:44.920 could you have?
00:38:46.520 How many you wanted.
00:38:47.480 Exactly.
00:38:48.500 That's what I'm saying.
00:38:49.180 So realistically,
00:38:50.480 women probably do have 1.00
00:38:51.600 the more sex we could do 0.73
00:38:52.880 if we wanted to.
00:38:54.160 Yeah,
00:38:54.320 but you don't know.
00:38:55.260 Yeah,
00:38:55.420 but what she's trying to say
00:38:56.860 is that you don't actually
00:38:57.860 know how many women 0.83
00:38:58.920 they say it out loud
00:39:00.580 that how many men
00:39:01.400 is left with.
00:39:02.180 That's what I'm saying,
00:39:02.420 but no,
00:39:02.680 I'm disagreeing with what she said
00:39:04.040 because it's the truth
00:39:04.680 because realistically,
00:39:05.600 most of it's done
00:39:07.320 is the women. 0.99
00:39:08.080 As many of you know,
00:39:09.020 I was just banned
00:39:10.160 on TikTok
00:39:11.080 and we are demonetized
00:39:12.800 on a daily basis
00:39:14.020 on this platform.
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