JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


Modern Women Get Schooled on Red Pill


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Length

25 minutes

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218.61523

Word count

5,475

Sentence count

613

Harmful content

Misogyny

64

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Toxicity

66

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Hate speech

33

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how men lie to women and how to deal with it. We also talk about what it means to be an independent woman and why it's important to have a man in your life who respects you.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 The reason a lot of women don't truly understand a lot of things about relationships and how it works with men, etc. 0.99
00:00:06.220 It's because men will lie to you.
00:00:08.300 Men lie for the same reason you wear makeup. 0.85
00:00:11.000 Because men fall in love with what they see.
00:00:13.580 Men fall in love with what they see.
00:00:15.040 And women fall in love with what they hear.
00:00:16.700 So we will lie to you.
00:00:17.980 So you'll go on a date with a guy and you'll sit there and say, I don't listen.
00:00:21.540 No, I'm independent.
00:00:22.860 And what's that man going to say?
00:00:24.420 Oh, I love that.
00:00:25.280 That's exactly the kind of woman I want. 1.00
00:00:27.520 Come suck this. 1.00
00:00:28.320 It's a fucking lie. 1.00
00:00:30.000 That is not what he wants. 1.00
00:00:32.040 It's not what he wants.
00:00:33.280 I'm telling you the truth of what he wants.
00:00:35.160 Yeah, he can't be bothered to argue with you at dinner.
00:00:38.300 And you know what?
00:00:40.220 Most men aren't smooth enough to do it.
00:00:41.780 I can sit with a chick and disagree with her and be funny enough and smart enough and charismatic enough and I'm high status enough and she respects me enough to listen. 1.00
00:00:49.320 But if I'm just some normal dude and I start arguing with a chick, she's going to bounce on the dinner and say, fuck you. 1.00
00:00:54.200 See ya. 1.00
00:00:54.840 So most dudes dating strategy, most dudes mating strategy is just pure agreement. 0.51
00:01:00.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:01:01.820 Anything to get the puss because they're fucking dorks. 1.00
00:01:04.220 That's fine. 1.00
00:01:05.280 That's the truth, right?
00:01:06.360 A real G will sit there and say, what do you mean? 1.00
00:01:07.560 I don't want to hear this shit. 0.99
00:01:08.720 I'm telling you the baseline of how men truly function. 0.99
00:01:11.700 If I'm expected to fight and die to protect you, because that's what is expected of me by society and of you, you may think you don't expect that of me.
00:01:20.700 But if we're walking down through London in the middle of the night and two guys come up with machetes, you're going to hide behind me knowing I'm going to die because I can't win this fight.
00:01:28.960 I'm expected to die to protect you.
00:01:31.580 Well, then I expect you to agree with me. 0.99
00:01:33.640 I'm not here to fucking die for somebody who disagrees with me on everything. 0.99
00:01:37.520 That's not what I'm here to fucking. 0.99
00:01:38.720 If I have that obligation to die on the spot for you, you have the obligation to pretend you like BMWs. 1.00
00:01:44.180 So do your fucking part and shut up. 1.00
00:01:46.620 And that's the bottom line of it. 1.00
00:01:48.000 And you know the difference is, the only difference, like he's top G, and I was like, the only difference between him and my man and the level of respect is money.
00:01:55.840 That's the only difference.
00:01:57.020 And this is the same way he talks, the same way he is.
00:02:00.500 But people say like, oh, my man only earns 40,000, so he can't talk to me.
00:02:04.960 Wait, Andrew Tate talks to me.
00:02:06.140 Why not?
00:02:07.120 Completely.
00:02:07.900 No, I think money is a big factor, though.
00:02:09.740 No, it's not.
00:02:10.700 In a beautiful relationship.
00:02:12.340 If you can't have a woman that's paying her own bills, she's doing everything for herself, and then you're going to tell her, oh, do this. 1.00
00:02:20.820 But you, you're different.
00:02:21.800 She doesn't need to work. 0.96
00:02:23.840 You take all that stress away from her.
00:02:25.580 Then she'll be a lot more.
00:02:27.400 Why does money have to matter for submission?
00:02:31.180 Because if you have enough money to make sure that she doesn't need to work, go and deal with her boss every day, all the stress, all these bills,
00:02:38.900 then, of course, she's going to look up to you and be like, oh, okay, he pays my bills. 0.90
00:02:43.380 My mama's only about 40,000, and it works.
00:02:45.620 I'm like, you know what I'm so, I just never, I grew up in a 1% family.
00:02:49.700 I never expected a dude to pay for everything.
00:02:51.880 I don't know.
00:02:52.460 I don't.
00:02:53.160 I don't.
00:02:53.820 And I still think, like, and I just, I don't expect a man to pay for my life.
00:02:57.320 Both of my parents worked, but my mom still submitted to my dad.
00:03:00.400 Like, it wasn't.
00:03:01.420 The point is this.
00:03:02.400 In every relationship that's beautiful, every relationship that's happy, regardless of the socioeconomic scale, regardless of how rich or poor they are, regardless of how famous they are, regardless of how whatever.
00:03:11.500 In every relationship where people are truly happy, pay attention.
00:03:15.340 The man is in charge.
00:03:17.000 He's the top G of that house.
00:03:19.040 His woman makes him feel that way.
00:03:21.160 She respects him for what he does, and they are happy.
00:03:24.420 We're talking about me out here in the world, social media, whatever.
00:03:26.700 It doesn't matter.
00:03:27.280 Remember, every man wants to be the man of his household, the king of his castle. 0.91
00:03:30.400 Every single happy relationship is the same.
00:03:33.200 I genuinely implore you to name a happy relationship where the woman's in charge. 1.00
00:03:37.420 Name one.
00:03:38.420 You can't.
00:03:39.480 They end up broken up. 1.00
00:03:41.080 Fucking she leaves him. 1.00
00:03:42.780 Whatever. 1.00
00:03:43.260 Name a happy relationship where the woman doesn't blindly say, okay, I won't go to that concert. 0.94
00:03:48.000 Name one.
00:03:48.720 There is only one framework in which people are happy.
00:03:51.680 With the man in charge, the woman trusts and respects him enough to let him be in charge,
00:03:55.680 and they're a happy couple in relationship.
00:03:57.620 Any other type of relationship is a time bomb to the end.
00:04:01.220 So if you want a happy relationship, that's what you should be aiming for.
00:04:03.840 You need to be perspicacious enough and think about these things and sit and go,
00:04:08.160 well, that's the only way relationships work, so I need to build it that way.
00:04:12.120 Instead of coming along and believing you're going to reinvent the wheel.
00:04:14.960 Okay, so I want to, guys, I want to, wait, wait, I want to, I want to hit one more topic
00:04:20.180 because we're running out of time.
00:04:21.500 So, so I want to actually give the ladies a chance to say, 1.00
00:04:26.860 what do you guys disagree with from the red pill and men-centric content?
00:04:32.040 Can I go first?
00:04:34.620 No.
00:04:34.920 I'm so mixed, though.
00:04:39.180 No, Brittany can go first. 1.00
00:04:40.600 I'm not really familiar with all of the topics.
00:04:43.340 I'm assuming, like, the stuff that you guys talk about are considered the red pill.
00:04:49.040 It's not even, like, about, like, disagreeing.
00:04:52.580 I think I can respect someone's point of view
00:04:55.980 and understand where that truth exists for a lot of people.
00:05:01.660 And I just feel like, okay, cool.
00:05:03.840 Like, I don't, I don't know.
00:05:05.100 I don't really disagree.
00:05:06.340 It's just a perspective on life.
00:05:08.120 I'm not here to be like, you're wrong for thinking like that.
00:05:10.120 You're wrong for categorizing using this scale, using that.
00:05:12.960 Like, it's a perspective.
00:05:14.140 It's valid.
00:05:15.360 And I totally see certain angles.
00:05:17.900 Like, there's a lot of stuff that was said that, I mean,
00:05:19.380 there's so many people on this panel, it's hard to talk.
00:05:21.300 But it's like, there's a lot of things I've said, okay, maybe I don't agree with.
00:05:24.080 Just because, again, my walk of life and what I've seen and how I feel
00:05:28.040 and how I choose to be empathetic towards people,
00:05:31.040 regardless of whatever they've been through.
00:05:33.320 But I don't really, it's...
00:05:34.420 So it's more for you, it's the lack of empathy sometimes.
00:05:37.680 Yeah, I think that's probably it.
00:05:39.320 Okay.
00:05:39.580 Yeah.
00:05:40.420 I'm going to let Esther go.
00:05:42.500 You'll punish me, Ann.
00:05:43.420 No worries, we'll talk.
00:05:44.560 See, what I don't really agree with is the insult culture of men feeling like
00:05:49.520 they're entitled to a woman. 0.99
00:05:51.820 A lot of men don't look good.
00:05:54.080 They don't got money.
00:05:55.520 They don't do anything for themselves. 0.99
00:05:57.000 And they expect women to want to have sex with them, 1.00
00:06:00.260 women to want to be with them. 0.99
00:06:02.180 Why should she want to be with you? 1.00
00:06:04.020 Okay, but let me ask you a very important...
00:06:04.980 Why?
00:06:05.700 Let me ask you a very important question.
00:06:07.780 Those delusional men, do they sleep with women?
00:06:11.720 Of course not. 0.90
00:06:12.780 Okay.
00:06:13.080 But they get angry.
00:06:14.480 You see them in Pell's comments.
00:06:16.040 Oh, she's a modern woman. 0.98
00:06:17.780 It's like, no, she doesn't want you because you are a lowlife. 0.93
00:06:21.200 Get over it.
00:06:21.800 Go to the gym.
00:06:23.100 Go work on yourself.
00:06:24.200 Go out and get a job.
00:06:25.260 Go and get some money.
00:06:26.100 The red pill does that.
00:06:27.620 They just cry about it.
00:06:29.000 That's what most of the men-centric content tells guys to do.
00:06:32.380 Go to the gym.
00:06:33.040 Get your money up.
00:06:33.860 That sort of thing.
00:06:34.580 Learn game.
00:06:35.240 No, but that's not what they're doing. 0.92
00:06:36.580 What they're doing is saying, oh, women are delusional. 1.00
00:06:39.360 Oh, women want this. 1.00
00:06:40.540 No.
00:06:41.100 Why?
00:06:41.360 Women know what they want. 1.00
00:06:42.780 If you want those women, go and do what they want. 1.00
00:06:45.900 And then you'll be chosen.
00:06:47.280 You don't have to worry about the men that aren't getting laid and all the women are ignoring. 0.92
00:06:51.180 Okay.
00:06:51.540 Yeah, YouTube comments. 0.99
00:06:52.720 But besides YouTube comments, they have no voice in society and they don't exist and nobody gives a shit. 0.98
00:06:56.520 Right? 0.97
00:06:56.740 So this is what I was saying earlier about reality slaps men in the face and shows them their place very quickly.
00:07:02.620 Because all these men, reality is showing them their place. 0.97
00:07:05.960 There are women who are disagreeable and unlikable and doing wrong things and acting badly and fucking up how to make a man attractive to them. 1.00
00:07:12.280 And they're not being slapped in the face by reality because they're still ending up with a partner. 0.99
00:07:16.600 So this is the point we're trying to make here.
00:07:17.920 I agree.
00:07:18.420 I know what you're saying about Red Pill.
00:07:19.320 There's a whole bunch of bitter, hate-filled guys.
00:07:20.740 I agree with that.
00:07:21.540 Yes.
00:07:21.900 Can I just drop another comment?
00:07:23.420 When I came on your show, they were in my DMs.
00:07:26.780 I'm thinking, do you not have things to do with your life?
00:07:29.040 Like the fact that you sit on Pearl's little comments and then come into my social media and then slide in my DMs.
00:07:36.180 Like you really have nothing to do with your life.
00:07:37.440 Wait, were they hitting on you?
00:07:38.760 Or were they like insulting me?
00:07:39.280 Oh, no, they were calling me a misandress.
00:07:40.920 Some girls get hit on even after they insult me. 1.00
00:07:43.140 Oh, no, they were calling me a misandress because of the fact that like you just don't want you.
00:07:47.880 Like get over it.
00:07:48.880 That's just the internet though.
00:07:50.220 Like I get death threats.
00:07:51.260 I get like people insult me all the time.
00:07:52.460 Yeah, but it's not good enough.
00:07:53.780 It's just, I mean, I just think like you go on the internet, duh.
00:07:57.980 Like, yeah, you're going to get insulted on the internet.
00:08:01.660 Who hasn't been insulted?
00:08:02.480 But it's obviously, it's quite hard, especially when you're receiving a lot of hate from all these men.
00:08:07.100 I mean, I get it.
00:08:08.660 I've had hundreds of videos made on TikTok like that go after my appearance.
00:08:14.100 It happens to me like every single day.
00:08:15.540 But Pearl, you called a girl a whale. 0.95
00:08:16.960 She's a Pisces. 0.53
00:08:17.360 She's a Pisces. 0.53
00:08:17.820 Pearl, you called somebody a whale.
00:08:20.740 That is a big insult.
00:08:21.800 Okay, one, one, one.
00:08:23.160 I called her a whale after she attacked me. 1.00
00:08:25.360 After she attacked me.
00:08:27.100 She knocks the mic out of my hand. 0.99
00:08:28.640 She called me a slag. 0.97
00:08:29.580 I didn't know what that meant at the time. 0.96
00:08:31.080 Okay, I had no idea what that meant. 0.97
00:08:32.580 She called me a slag. 0.97
00:08:33.700 Put the mic out of my hand. 0.99
00:08:34.640 So, of course, I'm going to call her a whale. 0.96
00:08:36.240 You attacked me first.
00:08:38.280 That's what they never talk about.
00:08:39.480 You got called a whale because you attacked me.
00:08:41.620 I missed a good episode, it sounds like.
00:08:43.280 No, it was a street interview.
00:08:45.660 And this girl, she like knocks the mic out of my hand. 1.00
00:08:48.060 And they're pulling her back.
00:08:49.760 How have you? 0.99
00:08:50.640 You slag. 0.99
00:08:51.200 And I was like, you're effing a whale. 1.00
00:08:52.220 Drunken females. 1.00
00:08:53.060 But it was like, that was a response.
00:08:55.380 I've never called someone on my show a whale individually.
00:08:57.960 But when I came on your show, you were quite rude to me.
00:09:00.580 I'm not going to lie.
00:09:01.680 No, I'm not going to lie.
00:09:02.460 The way you conduct your show today was great.
00:09:05.380 Today was great.
00:09:06.420 But when I was on your show last time, you were like, why do you talk too much?
00:09:09.920 I'm thinking, who is this woman talking to me like that? 1.00
00:09:12.340 I'm not a child.
00:09:13.480 But that's the thing.
00:09:14.040 Because you kept interrupting everybody the whole show.
00:09:17.900 No, no, no.
00:09:18.260 That's what happened.
00:09:18.900 You kept interrupting.
00:09:19.520 But so were you.
00:09:20.420 So were you.
00:09:20.940 Because I'm the host.
00:09:24.980 Yeah, the queen.
00:09:25.600 So today, it's like, we have a big guest.
00:09:28.460 I'm going to let him talk.
00:09:30.260 But you're just, no offense, you're just a normal guest.
00:09:32.960 And normal guests, we don't let dominate the entire conversation.
00:09:35.940 I wasn't dominating the conversation.
00:09:37.240 And wait, you were.
00:09:38.580 You probably talked 70% of the time.
00:09:41.240 And so I have to interrupt you and stop you.
00:09:43.460 Because you're talking and nobody else in the room had a chance.
00:09:46.100 And nobody else in the room had a chance to talk.
00:09:48.520 I understand I interrupt people.
00:09:49.860 But that's part of your job as a host is to control the conversation.
00:09:53.220 And if anything, I probably control the conversation less than I should compared to most hosts.
00:09:58.960 No, but I think it's the way that you were rude.
00:10:01.540 You could just be like, okay, let the next person talk.
00:10:04.360 You were like, why are you talking to me?
00:10:05.840 That is so rude.
00:10:06.980 Because we had tried.
00:10:09.840 We had tried multiple times to tell you nicely.
00:10:13.460 Multiple times to tell you nicely.
00:10:15.860 And it just kept escalating.
00:10:18.000 That is not true.
00:10:19.100 I think you're trying to gaslight me right now.
00:10:21.120 Because that's not true.
00:10:22.620 The thing is, you didn't agree with what I was saying.
00:10:24.800 And then you resulted.
00:10:26.120 You and auntie resulted to insults.
00:10:28.100 It wasn't insults.
00:10:29.140 That's the reason.
00:10:30.760 But that's the reason I would say.
00:10:32.780 I'm not coming for you right now.
00:10:34.280 Because you know what?
00:10:35.100 It's your show.
00:10:35.960 But what I'm trying to say is.
00:10:37.060 You are coming for us.
00:10:37.660 You are coming for us.
00:10:38.820 You just opened your mouth.
00:10:39.840 You are coming for us.
00:10:40.420 Listen, what I'm trying to say.
00:10:41.620 What I'm trying to say is.
00:10:42.740 How was I rude to you?
00:10:43.660 Can I?
00:10:44.280 No.
00:10:44.720 How was I rude to you?
00:10:45.400 Why you called my name into it?
00:10:46.260 How was I rude to you?
00:10:47.080 But you were rude.
00:10:47.820 How was I rude?
00:10:48.540 You were rude.
00:10:49.140 This is just my point of view.
00:10:50.800 You told a story where you said.
00:10:53.760 You didn't say your face.
00:10:54.720 You're too nice about it, Pearl.
00:10:55.840 You're saying it too nice.
00:10:56.760 Listen, right?
00:10:57.120 You come on the show.
00:10:57.820 I'm still waiting to give my answer.
00:10:58.340 You come on the show, right?
00:10:59.560 I don't care right now.
00:11:00.480 Auntie, we're not on the streets.
00:11:01.980 Can you calm down?
00:11:02.640 You come on here.
00:11:03.160 You come on here. 0.98
00:11:03.800 You sound like a human gun. 0.91
00:11:04.960 Please just slow down.
00:11:06.100 Calm down.
00:11:06.600 Calm down.
00:11:07.120 Don't tell me about calm down, right?
00:11:08.540 Because you're shouting at me.
00:11:09.480 Why are you shouting at me?
00:11:10.840 Hang on.
00:11:11.360 I heard Mr. Tate talking, right?
00:11:12.740 With passion, right?
00:11:13.540 And loud.
00:11:14.160 I had no way to tell him to calm down, right?
00:11:15.900 You're there shouting off your mouth, right?
00:11:17.740 I am being loud.
00:11:19.040 I am being loud.
00:11:20.140 Don't tell me about calm down.
00:11:21.360 You're screaming at me, Lord.
00:11:21.560 Because when he was talking, who was you screaming at?
00:11:24.220 Listen, right?
00:11:24.700 As far as I'm concerned, don't even think about coming on Pearl's show and disrespecting her.
00:11:28.440 You've done it already, and now you're coming back here to do it again.
00:11:31.440 Pearl wasn't rude to you.
00:11:32.480 She was rude to me. 0.73
00:11:33.280 Pearl wasn't rude to you.
00:11:34.080 Yes, she was.
00:11:34.720 Because we spoke the truth, not your truth, not your truth.
00:11:38.440 Because at the end of the day, it's all out there.
00:11:40.060 If you don't know what a woman is, and you can't say what a woman is, you're actually a bully. 0.99
00:11:44.860 You're actually a bully. 0.99
00:11:45.960 I'm a bully then. 1.00
00:11:47.740 We can't bless your age, and you're screaming at me.
00:11:50.560 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:11:51.480 Calm down.
00:11:52.460 You can't do that.
00:11:53.340 Don't come up to somebody.
00:11:53.900 This podcast has some manners on to you.
00:11:56.820 Like, what?
00:11:57.500 I don't understand this.
00:11:58.520 Stop, stop, stop, stop.
00:11:59.580 Manor.
00:12:00.160 Stop, stop, stop.
00:12:01.100 Okay.
00:12:01.880 I just think we're going to see that situation differently.
00:12:04.160 I don't think I was rude to you.
00:12:05.400 I actually think I was quite polite.
00:12:07.120 But that's just my opinion.
00:12:08.200 You think I was rude.
00:12:09.060 OK.
00:12:09.560 I was just trying to explain why the women came for you. 1.00
00:12:12.400 That's all I was saying.
00:12:13.700 To be fair, then you called me racist and sexist.
00:12:16.400 I said, no, I said, I said your followers,
00:12:19.880 your followers were racist because they 0.97
00:12:22.120 called me a degenerate Nigerian woman. 0.99
00:12:24.440 Did they not? 0.98
00:12:25.120 OK.
00:12:25.720 Did they not?
00:12:26.620 OK.
00:12:27.120 OK.
00:12:27.620 OK.
00:12:28.120 OK.
00:12:29.120 OK.
00:12:30.020 So your disagreement, OK, your disagreement,
00:12:32.180 let's go back to the topic.
00:12:33.820 Your disagreement with the red pill.
00:12:35.980 Oh, so the insult culture.
00:12:37.500 The insult.
00:12:38.000 You don't like the bad comments.
00:12:40.000 OK.
00:12:40.360 No, no, not the bad comments.
00:12:42.500 The fact that they just feel entitled.
00:12:44.600 When women say what they want, they feel so entitled 1.00
00:12:47.460 that women need to change that. 1.00
00:12:48.860 It's like, no, women like what they like. 1.00
00:12:50.740 Just like a man likes a woman that looks good, 1.00
00:12:53.900 a woman that cooks, a woman that's younger. 0.95
00:12:56.440 Like you said, someone that's not been traumatized,
00:12:58.640 has not been through so much experience.
00:13:00.340 Like, we don't cry about it, you know?
00:13:02.240 Yes, we do.
00:13:02.820 Do you know what women do now? 1.00
00:13:04.320 Yes, yes.
00:13:04.660 Wait, wait, wait.
00:13:05.160 I need to stop you there.
00:13:06.220 Yes, we do.
00:13:06.820 What is body positivity?
00:13:08.060 What is slut shaming? 1.00
00:13:09.420 We do cry about it. 0.67
00:13:10.360 And we cry about it loud on every social media platform.
00:13:12.800 We do.
00:13:13.760 Yeah, but there's no, there's no, there, wait,
00:13:15.700 I'm just going to give you an equivalent.
00:13:16.860 There's no short man shaming.
00:13:18.800 No, you don't hear the men crying about that.
00:13:21.300 Women by and large. 0.97
00:13:22.200 They do cry about it.
00:13:23.540 No, they don't.
00:13:24.100 Yes, they do.
00:13:25.440 Do you see short men being pushed to be on the cover of magazines?
00:13:29.280 Where they say, we need more short men, short male models. 0.97
00:13:32.440 Oh, I see what you mean.
00:13:33.940 Where they're putting plus size women on the cover of magazines. 0.97
00:13:36.940 Tom Cruise is short as air.
00:13:39.280 I think he's like 5'8 to 5'10, which is average, actually.
00:13:42.680 Like, most women don't know only 15% of men over six foot.
00:13:45.980 But I think everyone should be positive about what they have.
00:13:48.480 Like, you know what?
00:13:49.480 If you don't have money, like, own it.
00:13:51.480 Be happy with yourself.
00:13:52.820 Just because a woman doesn't want you, that's okay. 1.00
00:13:56.220 I agree with you, but I'm saying, like, men have to deal with the consequences.
00:14:01.220 Like, an average chick can still sleep with an NBA player who's like a top, top, top 10%. 1.00
00:14:07.640 They want them.
00:14:08.640 They want them.
00:14:09.640 Okay, okay.
00:14:10.640 Okay, okay.
00:14:11.640 I'll give you an example.
00:14:12.640 Okay.
00:14:13.640 I've had guys on that level message me.
00:14:15.640 I think I'm an average chick.
00:14:17.640 I would never in my right mind think that any of them would take me.
00:14:20.640 But you're rich.
00:14:22.140 Pearl.
00:14:23.140 They want your money. 0.65
00:14:24.140 Men don't care about your money. 1.00
00:14:25.640 No, they don't.
00:14:26.640 Some men do.
00:14:27.640 Some men do.
00:14:28.640 Po's not rich.
00:14:29.640 What?
00:14:30.640 She's from a rich background. 0.88
00:14:31.640 Okay, okay.
00:14:32.640 So they're saying, like, the medieval maidens.
00:14:35.640 Men don't care about your money. 1.00
00:14:36.640 So that's nothing.
00:14:37.640 Some men do.
00:14:38.640 Some do. 0.95
00:14:39.640 That's bums. 0.59
00:14:40.640 Bums care about your money. 1.00
00:14:41.640 I personally don't like bums. 1.00
00:14:43.640 That's just not my thing.
00:14:44.640 That might be your thing.
00:14:45.640 Okay.
00:14:46.640 You want a high-value man.
00:14:47.640 I understand.
00:14:48.640 I'm not saying high-value.
00:14:49.640 I'm saying I don't like guys that don't have jobs.
00:14:51.640 Just for me.
00:14:52.640 Can I just say something that's gonna shock everybody?
00:14:54.640 I would like to hear what Denal has got to say now.
00:14:56.640 Oh, my days.
00:14:57.640 You know how much I've been holding on to my seat?
00:14:59.640 Like, when is it my turn to unleash everything that's been in my head?
00:15:02.640 Okay, cool.
00:15:03.640 Question was again.
00:15:04.640 Sorry.
00:15:05.640 What do you disagree with from the red pill?
00:15:07.640 What I disagree with the red pill movement is the fact that it fails to understand that it has extreme limitations
00:15:14.640 because you focus a lot on the extremities of things.
00:15:17.640 And I will revert that back to me.
00:15:19.640 I don't think the red pill addresses the fact that there were a lot of housewives that were left widowed quite young 0.64
00:15:27.640 and therefore had no choice but to step up in transition into a strong and evolved modern woman. 0.99
00:15:34.640 And I say that because my dad passed away when I was 12 and I didn't have a man in my life to be able to show me the way.
00:15:40.640 Not only because there's really just not many men in my life.
00:15:43.640 Because my mom focused her energies and efforts into raising us and providing for us because she didn't have a man. 1.00
00:15:49.640 And I don't think it would be fair to even expect my mom to, when we were all 12, 13, 14, to go and find a new man. 0.55
00:15:56.640 Because actually that creates even more issues within the home for us to even to accept him.
00:16:00.640 Especially because we had close relationship with my dad.
00:16:02.640 With that said, what the red pill movement fails to address, empathize with and look for solutions
00:16:10.640 is for all the women and the men that come from these sorts of homes where actually it is not your fault that you are a product of your environment.
00:16:18.640 So when you were telling me about housewife, you're masculine, you're this, you're that, I have to say my mom raised four daughters on her own by my age.
00:16:27.640 She had the four of us moved freshly to the UK.
00:16:30.640 Of course, she's going to hustle. 1.00
00:16:31.640 Of course, I'm going to go through education.
00:16:33.640 Of course, I'm going to work.
00:16:34.640 Of course, I'm going to have to be strong with myself because there's no man to protect me.
00:16:38.640 So because I've had this sort of background, I've had this sort of experience.
00:16:42.640 People tell me your traumas make you less likable or maybe you're too masculine as a woman. 0.97
00:16:47.640 No, I am a survivor of a woman actually because I didn't have men around me.
00:16:51.640 And I am actually, again, also capable of being a wife.
00:16:55.640 I know how to cook.
00:16:56.640 I know how to actually speak to my man, please him verbally and physically.
00:17:01.640 But not submit.
00:17:03.640 What's the disagreement?
00:17:04.640 And I'll explain to you the submission side of things where I've actually, the whole show, I've proved that,
00:17:10.640 without having any friction with Andrew Tate.
00:17:12.640 As much as he may even say that may not be desirable or not,
00:17:15.640 I come up with my own solutions where I don't have to compromise who I am,
00:17:18.640 but I can still please you as a man.
00:17:19.640 You told me your favorite car is that one, even though I like that one.
00:17:21.640 I'll be like, do you know what?
00:17:22.640 I like that one.
00:17:23.640 But looking at yours, yours is really nice too, you know?
00:17:25.640 I really like it.
00:17:26.640 You've got good taste.
00:17:27.640 It's that simple.
00:17:28.640 What people are failing to do with the Red Bull movement is to understand that there can be a compromise.
00:17:35.640 Because I've had to compromise my life as a woman to be able to survive because I didn't have a man around me.
00:17:39.640 Okay, you think the Red Pill doesn't agree with, believe in compromise?
00:17:42.640 No.
00:17:43.640 It doesn't deal with the victims of society, of situations that is just life.
00:17:47.640 Okay.
00:17:48.640 Okay.
00:17:50.640 Do you have any points for them, both of those?
00:17:53.640 Yeah, I can talk about the Red Pill.
00:17:54.640 I can complain about it just too.
00:17:56.640 I think there is, to be fair, I do think there is a lot of angry, bitter men which are attracted to it. 1.00
00:18:03.640 And those are the ones that will leave these stupid comments. 1.00
00:18:06.640 My point was that- 1.00
00:18:07.640 Thank you.
00:18:08.640 But my point is that they're already being punished by God and by society, so don't worry about it.
00:18:12.640 My point is that if a woman doesn't act correctly, she doesn't feel the true sting of punishment. 0.97
00:18:18.640 Not in her prime years, she may feel it later, but in her prime years, it doesn't fucking even matter, which is why they do it. 0.99
00:18:23.640 Whereas if a man doesn't have a shit in order, trust me, he knows very well because his reality sucks. 0.99
00:18:28.640 And that's why he's sending you DMs, because he's lonely. 0.99
00:18:31.640 Because if he had a life, he wouldn't bother, right?
00:18:33.640 So there's that part of it.
00:18:34.640 It does attract a lot of angry, bitter people, but I think that's because life's very difficult as a man, like we said earlier.
00:18:39.640 And some of them end up angry and bitter.
00:18:41.640 The answer to all things, I believe, whether you're a man or you're a woman, to try and heal all rifts between genders.
00:18:47.640 I think whether you're a man or you're a woman, the answer to all things in life is to take absolute and utter self-accountability for all the good and all the bad.
00:18:54.640 You must look at yourself and realize that everything good that happened in your life is your fault and everything bad that happens in your life is completely your fault.
00:19:01.640 And with that, having that high degree of absolute accountability, it doesn't matter even if it rains outside, I blame myself because I didn't have to be in London, right?
00:19:10.640 I could have stayed in Dubai and it wouldn't have rained.
00:19:12.640 So I'm responsible for absolutely everything.
00:19:14.640 And if you do that, you pay attention to things and you try your very best to mitigate the negative circumstances and work your hardest, you're going to have a pretty good life.
00:19:22.640 I just want to finish by saying that I believe that men and women are best as a team.
00:19:27.640 I don't think any woman will be truly happy without a man, and I certainly know that no man will be happy without a woman. 1.00
00:19:32.640 I think it's absolutely beautiful when we work as couples and we create families and we stick to our strengths.
00:19:37.640 When men stick to what they're good at and a woman sticks to what they're good at, that makes them the most powerful team on the planet. 0.84
00:19:43.640 And the world we're living in now, we have societal pressures and propagandas which are trying very hard to divide and split the genders.
00:19:49.640 But truthfully, the power and the beauty of the universe relies on us working together.
00:19:54.640 So it's been very nice speaking to you, ladies.
00:19:57.640 I'm only upset that you ran out of clementines and I'm stuck with you.
00:20:01.640 I was going to say, give this man an orange.
00:20:03.640 And those are my limes.
00:20:04.640 There's melon out there.
00:20:05.640 Okay, we've got melon.
00:20:06.640 But yeah, all in all, I think it's good.
00:20:08.640 And I also think that discussion is very, very important.
00:20:11.640 And I think that a lot of these issues are delicate and are nuanced and people listening to conversations like these and hearing the different points of view and understanding each other is a fantastic way to progress.
00:20:20.640 And we're entering brand new territory and it's never been done before.
00:20:23.640 And perhaps you can call me old fashioned.
00:20:25.640 I don't think it's going to be as good as it was in the olden days, but we're going to find out.
00:20:29.640 So interesting.
00:20:31.640 Okay, thank you guys all for coming.
00:20:33.640 We'll do a little round of applause for the panel.
00:20:35.640 So why don't we go around and any final thoughts, any social media you want to plug, you can do it now.
00:20:43.640 So start here and then go around.
00:20:45.640 I mean, I'm good.
00:20:46.640 Okay.
00:20:47.640 You already know who she is.
00:20:49.640 I have more like a request.
00:20:52.640 Is that okay?
00:20:53.640 Could you say my name, please?
00:20:56.640 I can't pronounce it.
00:20:57.640 Dinalva.
00:20:58.640 Dinalva.
00:20:59.640 That's it.
00:21:00.640 Dinalva.
00:21:01.640 Dinalva.
00:21:02.640 And Andrew Tate.
00:21:03.640 Dinalva.
00:21:04.640 Sagittarius team representing.
00:21:05.640 Okay.
00:21:06.640 Follow me on the gram.
00:21:07.640 Dinalva.ao.
00:21:08.640 He said the name so you know it's legit.
00:21:10.640 Thank you, Pearl.
00:21:11.640 My final thoughts with just reflecting on everything we've been speaking about.
00:21:18.640 I just think men and women, we need to listen to each other.
00:21:22.640 I picked up a lot on what Tate was saying about how women need to be a bit more agreeable. 0.92
00:21:28.640 Make their man feel like he's the only one.
00:21:31.640 Agreed.
00:21:32.640 But also men need to listen to women as well. 0.57
00:21:35.640 She needs to feel protected.
00:21:36.640 She needs to feel like you're going to be there.
00:21:38.640 You're not going to leave her for another woman. 0.99
00:21:40.640 She needs to feel secured.
00:21:42.640 Like, can we all just listen to each other and what we want in each other?
00:21:47.640 And that's the only way we can strengthen the family unit.
00:21:50.640 That's all I have to say.
00:21:51.640 And please follow me.
00:21:53.640 Esther, your Nigerian queen. 0.95
00:21:55.640 Auntie, you want to go and then you go.
00:21:59.640 See this lady. 0.92
00:22:01.640 Are you okay, Auntie?
00:22:02.640 You're right.
00:22:03.640 I'm cool.
00:22:04.640 I just think that.
00:22:09.640 My final thoughts.
00:22:10.640 When it's out there, it's out there.
00:22:11.640 You said it.
00:22:12.640 You said it.
00:22:13.640 That's how I feel.
00:22:14.640 And yes, we've all been through trauma.
00:22:17.640 I'm sick of hearing about it.
00:22:19.640 I don't mind if you've got trauma you don't know.
00:22:21.640 But if you know you've got trauma, sort it out.
00:22:23.640 I don't want to hear about it.
00:22:24.640 Call me lack of empathy. 1.00
00:22:25.640 No, just lack of bullshit. 1.00
00:22:26.640 You know you've got trauma. 1.00
00:22:27.640 Sort it out.
00:22:28.640 And sometimes when people are talking women need to listen. 1.00
00:22:33.640 Sometimes women need to spend too much time talking. 1.00
00:22:36.640 Because I'm sure that half of what Mr. Tate said was totally lost or mixed around or misunderstood. 0.98
00:22:43.640 And I don't give a shit if anybody thinks I'm rude. 0.97
00:22:46.640 This is why I'm. 0.97
00:22:47.640 And if you don't like it, it's tough because I'm not changing.
00:22:49.640 My final thoughts.
00:22:50.640 Tell them to subscribe to your YouTube.
00:22:52.640 She just hit 15,000.
00:22:53.640 I'm not even.
00:22:54.640 I made you a YouTube channel.
00:22:56.640 Yeah.
00:22:57.640 And yeah, Auntie Jenny, American Spelling with the Y. 0.98
00:23:00.640 Jenny, YouTube.
00:23:02.640 Instagram is nothing on this.
00:23:04.640 Don't go on Instagram.
00:23:05.640 What's your call-in show?
00:23:06.640 Oh, yeah.
00:23:07.640 And I have a call-in show.
00:23:08.640 And I'd like to have a call-in show.
00:23:09.640 The next one.
00:23:10.640 Women can phone in and disagree with anything I've said. 1.00
00:23:12.640 Anybody that wants to phone in and disagree.
00:23:14.640 Phone in live.
00:23:15.640 Disagree with me.
00:23:16.640 I'll take it.
00:23:17.640 Whatever you disagree with me on, I'm going to have a disagreement show.
00:23:19.640 Phone up and disagree with me.
00:23:20.640 Yeah.
00:23:21.640 That's what I'm going to do.
00:23:22.640 Because I can do it.
00:23:23.640 Because I am a female OG. 0.56
00:23:25.640 I learned that the other day.
00:23:27.640 That doesn't sound very agreeable.
00:23:28.640 I learned that the other day.
00:23:30.640 Andrew, do you have anything else you want to plug?
00:23:32.640 Yeah.
00:23:33.640 My Instagram it.
00:23:34.640 Yeah.
00:23:35.640 YouTube.
00:23:36.640 My YouTube.
00:23:37.640 I'm banned.
00:23:38.640 My Facebook banned.
00:23:39.640 I've got MySpace.
00:23:41.640 Anyone got MySpace?
00:23:42.640 No, you are.
00:23:43.640 Thomas has banned me.
00:23:44.640 I'm on MySpace.
00:23:45.640 Find me on MySpace.
00:23:46.640 No.
00:23:47.640 You're on Rumble.
00:23:48.640 I'm on Rumble.
00:23:49.640 Yeah, I was about to say.
00:23:51.640 I'm on Rumble, which is better than YouTube in every way.
00:23:53.640 Sorry, YouTube.
00:23:54.640 Rumble.
00:23:55.640 Rumble.com slash Tate Speech.
00:23:57.640 And the website is CobraTate.com.
00:23:59.640 But most people tell me, listen, I can't avoid your face on Instagram or TikTok anyway.
00:24:04.640 So it doesn't matter if I'm banned because I'm still around.
00:24:07.640 But CobraTate.com.
00:24:08.640 I recommend to people, if you like what I say, I have a free email list.
00:24:11.640 Sign up to the free email list.
00:24:12.640 I send an email every single day about different topics.
00:24:14.640 Some are for the guys, some are for the girls, but they're all on there.
00:24:17.640 Tate Speech, Jessica.
00:24:18.640 Tate Speech.
00:24:19.640 Okay.
00:24:20.640 Thank you guys all for coming.
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