Modern Women Gets NUKED With These Questions
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend, Lizzo, to talk about accountability in the dating world. We talk about what it means to be an adult in today's society and what it takes to be a responsible adult.
Transcript
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And this is one of the things about your channel.
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So I've been on the show a couple times, right?
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And sometimes I peek in the comments to see what people say.
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When I say something to the effect of women should be held accountable and should hold themselves accountable,
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all the guys are like, Dimitri spitting the facts, whoo, brought the facts, right?
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The moment I say that men need to hold themselves accountable, you're a simp, you're this, you're that.
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A little bullying, guys, is not a bad thing because it helps you be better.
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Like, and you owe it to yourself to make promises to yourself that you keep and follow through on.
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So, yes, women should be more accountable, obviously.
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Yeah, I think, though, it's because the world will show men the truth where women will say Lizzo's at 10.
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Yeah, but listen, again, I'm sorry if I'm taking air, like you can cut me off.
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But, like, even yesterday, like, you asked me a question, like, should, you know, would your daughter marry a bus driver?
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I'm like, hell no, my daughter's not going to marry a bus driver.
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Like, she goes to an elementary school that has the word college in it.
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Like, when you're doing that, like, I'm putting her, you know, I'm putting her in classrooms with, like, kids of ambassadors and kids of the guy that runs the stock market in our country.
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I'm doing it so she doesn't marry a bus driver.
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And so the men go and they're like, oh, you don't like middle class working men that run society.
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I'm saying is I don't want my daughter to marry a career bus driver because that is not the problem that a 50-year-old man should be solving on how to drive the bus from point A to point B.
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By the time you're 50, you should be running the damn organization and taking care of other employees and growing in your career.
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Yes, there's nothing wrong with electricians when you're 26, 27 years old.
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But if you're doing the same thing at 59 that you were at 27, you're solving the wrong problems, right?
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So that's where the accountability argument comes in is that there's a problem that you solve, but it has to be age appropriate.
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A woman that's, like, always talking about her ex.
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When you get to know them and they talk about their ex, if their ex is in their life or not,
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if they ever had a kid or they're talking about their ex and saying how they broke up and things like that.
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Will you ghost or will you send them a text and be like, stop talking about the ex, goodbye forever?
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I feel like for men it's not even ghosting, though, because if you don't reach out, they're not even going to, you know what I mean?
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It's like you're just kind of choosing to end the dialogue.
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Do you know, guys, sorry about this, but real quick, do you know what happens when you don't ghosting?
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When you're like, hey, listen, you're really cool, but I see that you have some feelings and you're trying to escalate the relationship.
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I just want to let you know that this is not going to be a serious relationship for me and you have to deal with it.
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If you guys put a girl in the friends with benefits zone, she wants you more.
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And do you find that if you try to commit to her, she wants you less?
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Do you guys find that you guys want guys you can't have?
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Would you, would you, would you, would you then stop chasing?
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But I just want to know, why do you think I'm annoying?
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What made your fiance different than guys you dated in the past?
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But I just don't think I could be with someone that is also outside as well.
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I just feel like any guys that I kind of meet outside or in a party environment, like
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just looking at them and how they carry themselves and how they're moving, how they're approaching
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to females, what they're doing just doesn't appeal to me.
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So what if it's to meet somebody that's reserved, move the same way that you do, out in a club?
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Like, okay, so if I met somebody that's out at the back, you know, keeping themselves to
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themselves, then, yeah, I could, I would think about it, like I would, I would, it would
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be an option to speak to, like I would, yeah, I would talk to you or I would get to try and
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But my preference is, I like a guy that's at home.
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So what would you do if your current boyfriend says he wants you to stop going out?
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And I'm asking that because if he's watching, I'm giving him ideas.
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Like, we have a lot, that's, we don't argue a lot, but most of the arguments are
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Yes, I understand that in relationships, you should change certain things, you know, like
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if your partner doesn't agree on certain things, you should work and work around it and compromise,
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which I have, and I've actually, don't go out as much as I used to.
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How would you, how would you feel if your boyfriend went out to a party where every
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I remember earlier when we said men will fuck out with anything.
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He's like, I have, I've never had any problems.
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Um, I would say to look after the household, um, obviously to raise the children in the
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right way and to cater to your man, like to cater to him, make sure his, um, work clothes
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are washed, make sure his, he's got a hot meal on his, um, on the table when he comes
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So women, I'm insecure for their husband every day.
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Wouldn't catering to your man be like listening to what he says?
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Do you believe that wives should listen to their husbands?
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So, you know, there's a, that Star Wars saying like he could pity is what is it?
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No, he could save others from dying, but not himself.