JustPearlyThings - November 16, 2023


Modern Women HATE Hearing Truth

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Pearl Eddie Chris Rock Christopher Scott
This Is The Most Disgusting Twitch Streamer The UK Government Killed Indi Gregory

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Length

29 minutes

Words per minute

169.46

Word count

5,079

Sentence count

402

Harmful content

Misogyny

45

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Toxicity

40

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Hate speech

23

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss how to be tactful with your friends, family and partners when it comes to telling them that they are fat or ugly. We also talk about how to deal with people who are overweight or obese and how to get them to lose weight.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Like, I have my own life and my time. I'm giving it to you.
00:00:03.120 If you're gonna sit there telling me the whole, the same circular argument,
00:00:06.640 that's actually disrespectful to me.
00:00:08.240 Like, if you really, genuinely want to get pregnant, sort your diet out.
00:00:12.560 And now, guess what? She's doing great. That's it.
00:00:16.240 So she's better looking now, would you say, now that she's lost the weight?
00:00:19.580 The objective was to get pregnant and her weight was a massive thing. 1.00
00:00:23.140 But it was, I mean, that's actually, that's the way that her weight loss has helped her.
00:00:28.340 And the bonus is that she's actually attractive. 0.99
00:00:30.880 So the goal wasn't to get attractive. The goal was to get healthy.
00:00:34.240 And, you know, by a result, she became attractive because she is healthy. 0.94
00:00:39.040 Does that make sense?
00:00:40.000 And I told her, I'm a friend. I would consider myself quite feminine and a woman.
00:00:45.200 And I told her, you're fat, you're ugly. 1.00
00:00:46.660 And I think it's the human thing. 1.00
00:00:48.020 I think we get too caught up with masculine energy, feminine energy.
00:00:51.740 What's human to do is to look out for somebody.
00:00:54.280 I think women are kind of more socialized to kind of beat around the bush. 1.00
00:00:59.080 You know what I mean?
00:00:59.880 Like to be coy.
00:01:01.520 It's kind of rewarded when women are like, oh, look, they're not as like, oh, I want this, this and this. 1.00
00:01:06.200 I think women are rewarded in romantic relationships and friendships and relationships with people in society. 0.89
00:01:11.360 So if you know that, why would you still purposely or willingly do it?
00:01:15.500 Willingly.
00:01:16.180 So you just said that women are kind of socialized to behave a certain type of way. 1.00
00:01:20.740 And you know that way you're socialized is negative in terms of creating a better outcome for all.
00:01:26.240 But yet you still sat here and still went.
00:01:28.780 I think I still do this because obviously that's what I'm used to. 0.90
00:01:33.460 I find it extremely uncomfortable to go to someone and call them fat or call them ugly.
00:01:38.080 Even if they asked you, so if I said, am I fat?
00:01:39.900 And I was visibly fat.
00:01:41.160 You'd find it uncomfortable to be honest with me and be like, do you know what you are?
00:01:43.800 I would find that really uncomfortable for me.
00:01:45.640 I feel like the words.
00:01:46.480 Say the words out loud, like I can think certain things in my mind, but to directly say to someone straight up, like, I think you're ugly, especially if it's in negative terms, it would be very difficult for me.
00:01:56.140 So we're friends.
00:01:57.300 Yeah.
00:01:57.860 So if I said, if I said, if I gained, let's say if I gained 50 pounds.
00:02:01.940 Yeah.
00:02:02.280 And I said, did I get fat?
00:02:05.540 This is different.
00:02:06.480 Because you're Pearl.
00:02:09.080 Yeah.
00:02:09.880 Pearl can handle anything. 0.98
00:02:12.200 She wants you to be so.
00:02:13.700 Pearl had German au pairs growing up.
00:02:16.960 She's a German nanny, so I know she can handle it.
00:02:18.860 So, okay.
00:02:20.240 People don't understand what German nannies.
00:02:22.820 German nannies. 0.55
00:02:24.440 Fum.
00:02:25.140 Fum.
00:02:25.780 So I feel like it also, you have to have a bit of tact and I feel like you need to gauge the person as well.
00:02:32.940 Let's, let's, let's role play.
00:02:34.680 Okay.
00:02:35.280 Oh, here we go.
00:02:37.040 I'm beluga.
00:02:37.840 Okay.
00:02:38.380 Okay.
00:02:38.840 Okay.
00:02:40.080 Set the scene.
00:02:41.000 I just got rejected for the 10th time in a row.
00:02:49.740 Um, and he said it was because I'm too thick.
00:02:53.760 Did I, did I get fat?
00:02:56.080 I know I ate one or two brownies.
00:02:58.460 Okay.
00:02:58.980 Or 10.
00:02:59.980 But am I, am I fat?
00:03:02.480 What's your BMI?
00:03:03.580 I don't know.
00:03:04.280 I haven't, I haven't, I don't weight myself.
00:03:06.320 Do you have scales at home?
00:03:07.780 No.
00:03:08.660 Okay.
00:03:09.040 I have scales.
00:03:09.640 I avoid them.
00:03:11.000 Like the plague.
00:03:12.100 No, it just gives me anxiety.
00:03:13.500 I can't get up the scale.
00:03:14.940 Okay.
00:03:17.060 Interesting.
00:03:17.740 What do you think your BMI is?
00:03:20.140 I don't know.
00:03:20.940 I just, I don't even know how BMI works.
00:03:23.180 I just, I think it's like a scale that's like not real.
00:03:25.620 So I feel like they just make that up, you know, doctors to be mean.
00:03:29.460 Okay.
00:03:30.080 Do you think you're overweight?
00:03:30.920 I mean, I question it a little bit, but that's why I came to you to get the truth.
00:03:40.180 Okay.
00:03:42.680 You see how this is really hard for me?
00:03:44.380 You see how like I went to every other option.
00:03:46.340 That was a 101 or beating around the bush.
00:03:48.460 I was doing so well.
00:03:50.420 I came with a BMI.
00:03:51.260 Like she could have got on the scales.
00:03:52.500 We could have worked out together.
00:03:53.420 Okay.
00:03:53.540 Let me, let me, let me try it with Eddie.
00:03:55.000 Let me try it with Eddie.
00:03:57.420 You're like, all right.
00:03:58.260 It's going to be so short.
00:03:59.760 So, so this is, you know, I'm at, you know, I'm just like.
00:04:03.800 Shaking all over the place.
00:04:04.800 Yeah.
00:04:05.300 Eddie, it's been a minute since I've seen you.
00:04:07.520 How are you doing?
00:04:08.140 I'm good.
00:04:08.640 Are you telling me?
00:04:09.640 What?
00:04:10.020 I'm good.
00:04:10.480 How are you?
00:04:10.940 I'm good.
00:04:12.360 I'm good.
00:04:14.700 Anyways, I, I, I was walking here and I, and someone called me a whale.
00:04:18.940 A whale?
00:04:19.700 Yeah.
00:04:20.040 Yeah.
00:04:20.300 Did I, did I get fat?
00:04:21.500 I ain't gonna lie.
00:04:22.040 When I did see you, you was looking a bit more chunky than the last time I seen you still,
00:04:26.000 but looks all right.
00:04:27.740 The cheeks are grown.
00:04:28.540 Oh, okay.
00:04:28.960 Okay.
00:04:29.220 So just chunky. 0.79
00:04:30.000 I'm not, I'm not fat.
00:04:31.340 No, I ain't gonna lie.
00:04:32.040 You put a mad weight in it, like drop a few, drop a little something, something in you.
00:04:36.300 Oh, but mad weight.
00:04:37.880 What does that mean?
00:04:38.480 Am I, am I fat? 0.99
00:04:39.280 You're fat. 0.99
00:04:40.940 That took a while. 0.99
00:04:42.540 He kind of beat around the bush too.
00:04:43.980 Nah, nah, nah.
00:04:44.540 I kind of like the way you said it though.
00:04:47.100 It was playful.
00:04:47.820 I'm like, you was very playful with it. 1.00
00:04:49.660 You were just like, you're fat and ugly. 1.00
00:04:51.500 Yeah. 1.00
00:04:51.900 That's pretty crazy for me.
00:04:52.860 Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 0.92
00:04:53.500 I didn't say she's fat. 1.00
00:04:54.220 No, okay.
00:04:55.340 Everybody scroll back. 0.99
00:04:56.700 And then, did I say, quote unquote, she said fat and ugly. 1.00
00:04:59.500 I feel like, no, I think, I think me, me, not you. 0.90
00:05:02.780 I don't know.
00:05:03.740 No, I, I didn't.
00:05:04.620 You can find out.
00:05:05.180 Have a look.
00:05:06.060 Wait, wait, hold on, hold on. 0.99
00:05:07.420 If I said she's fat and ugly, I said she became attractive. 1.00
00:05:10.860 Because she's, because she's healthy. 0.99
00:05:12.620 And that means she would have stayed ugly. 1.00
00:05:14.380 No, but you said like, I think you said, like, you quoted yourself.
00:05:17.980 He's like, no, you said you think you have to say, I know.
00:05:20.780 I know.
00:05:21.580 Oh, okay.
00:05:22.060 Look back.
00:05:22.540 Okay.
00:05:23.180 Can we bet some money or something?
00:05:27.180 But now I'm playful with it.
00:05:29.180 I guess, I guess I respect you actually.
00:05:31.820 Oh, thank you.
00:05:32.540 Because it's good to have a friend like you that will call it straight.
00:05:36.380 Even if it hurts, you, you're the most respected friend.
00:05:39.740 I have to say, the thing is that there needs to be context.
00:05:42.380 Okay.
00:05:42.700 So this, she tells me this over and over again.
00:05:45.980 And I tried to, you know, in a polite way.
00:05:47.900 And like, the thing is, like I said, I am not, my existence isn't to just pacify you, you know?
00:05:55.980 And if you're saying that, oh, you know, I have this issue and my weight is this and everything.
00:05:59.100 And I was like, you know what? I have to cut this crap. You are fat. 0.99
00:06:02.460 And her radical acceptance is the most powerful thing. 0.98
00:06:05.580 That's when change actually ensued.
00:06:07.660 She got healthy and she had a baby.
00:06:09.500 That was the objective.
00:06:11.420 So, so much problems were avoided with me just being honest with her.
00:06:16.780 And if she's an adult, she's gonna take that.
00:06:19.020 I think not just suddenly forget who I am.
00:06:21.420 I'm a good friend.
00:06:22.380 I 100% agree with you.
00:06:23.420 I think there's a way of like doing it with tact so you can be playful about it.
00:06:26.060 But if you're honest and real-world person, it won't affect your relationship.
00:06:29.020 I wasn't mean. 0.99
00:06:29.660 I was like, you're fat. 0.99
00:06:31.020 You're fat. 1.00
00:06:31.740 That's it. 0.99
00:06:32.300 I feel like if you're honest with someone and factual with the person,
00:06:35.100 a relationship cannot be destroyed.
00:06:37.100 I feel like if someone's real with you and tells you something straight,
00:06:40.700 if it was a real friendship, I don't think it would affect it.
00:06:42.940 It's why you don't do it for fear of losing that relationship with the person.
00:06:46.540 The reason I don't do it is that I find it extremely uncomfortable.
00:06:49.660 I don't think I'm not used to doing it.
00:06:52.140 I don't practice it.
00:06:53.980 I don't know.
00:06:54.460 Would you like people to be honest with you?
00:06:55.820 Maybe not. No.
00:06:57.980 Oh, you're not people to lie to you?
00:06:59.820 Mind them, lie to them deals and sell dreams.
00:07:03.340 No, because I all believe those dreams.
00:07:05.260 Oh yeah?
00:07:06.060 And I don't see a problem with that.
00:07:08.060 Like think about it hypothetically.
00:07:09.260 Let's say if I think that I'm like really crazy, amazing,
00:07:14.860 like really, really beautiful and someone's selling me dreams
00:07:17.660 and I believe the dreams he sells me happily ever after in my delusion.
00:07:21.340 Why pop the bubble?
00:07:22.860 So I have a question.
00:07:23.980 Are you cool with getting cheated on if you never find out?
00:07:27.020 Oh, that's a hard one.
00:07:28.860 I don't want to ever be quoted on this, but I feel like...
00:07:32.140 Actually, let me drink first.
00:07:35.180 Have you seen that TikTok that it's like,
00:07:37.260 when you catch your billionaire husband having an affair
00:07:40.700 and you're like, ah, I didn't see anything.
00:07:44.940 Because if you never find out, it doesn't affect you
00:07:46.940 and you're just believing the lies.
00:07:48.380 I think that's the thing.
00:07:51.820 After he sold you the dreams, then what?
00:07:53.500 What was his intention of selling you dreams?
00:07:55.660 He wanted to wife you. 0.81
00:07:57.260 He just wanted to wife you and have side pieces.
00:08:00.300 If he wanted to wife me and he didn't want to have side pieces,
00:08:02.620 then I'd be okay.
00:08:03.500 No, no, no.
00:08:03.900 I said, he's lying.
00:08:04.700 He's selling you the dream as we said.
00:08:09.100 But he's selling a lie.
00:08:12.780 You like being lied to.
00:08:14.700 Don't burst my bubble.
00:08:15.740 Yeah.
00:08:16.140 Never burst my bubble as in if someone's like,
00:08:17.900 oh, I find you really attractive and beautiful,
00:08:19.820 like crazy beautiful.
00:08:20.620 You're like a model, duh, duh, duh. 0.99
00:08:21.980 And I'm like, okay, I believe this too.
00:08:24.140 I believe this narrative.
00:08:25.820 That narrative doesn't have to involve cheating.
00:08:28.140 And if it doesn't, why burst that bubble?
00:08:30.380 And maybe, oh, she's, you're five.
00:08:32.700 You should be with like a five too, you know?
00:08:35.180 You know what?
00:08:35.900 A guy can't get with you if he's approached you like,
00:08:39.340 you know what?
00:08:40.300 I think you're all right.
00:08:41.100 You're pretty decent.
00:08:41.820 But you know what?
00:08:42.300 I like you anyway.
00:08:43.260 You're going to be like, what?
00:08:44.220 Like, you're not getting a chance unless you're obsessed with me,
00:08:47.420 unless I'm like the best thing you've seen.
00:08:49.420 Like, that's it.
00:08:49.980 There's also that as well.
00:08:51.180 So you-
00:08:52.140 Because there's always someone that will treat you that way.
00:08:54.620 Yeah.
00:08:55.020 There's always someone that will treat you what way?
00:08:57.980 I don't know.
00:08:58.380 Like, treat you like,
00:09:00.940 they really value you.
00:09:02.140 Like, if you tell someone like, yeah, you're okay.
00:09:06.060 It just seems like-
00:09:07.980 Do you think we like the guys that put us on pedestals?
00:09:10.460 I think we really enjoy that.
00:09:11.660 Yeah, really?
00:09:12.620 Do you think that gets guys laid?
00:09:14.620 No, no.
00:09:15.020 I feel like women enjoy being on the receiving end, 1.00
00:09:17.260 of being put on this pedestal.
00:09:19.340 Yeah.
00:09:19.580 Like, I enjoy it.
00:09:21.900 Women have like a group of men who are just for attention. 1.00
00:09:25.740 And then there's the guy that they like,
00:09:28.700 who they want attention from.
00:09:29.820 And there's all the guys that feed them constant attention.
00:09:31.900 That makes them feel validated.
00:09:33.420 Yeah.
00:09:34.860 That's the friend zone.
00:09:35.820 That's the guys in the DMs.
00:09:37.100 I don't like none of these guys,
00:09:38.140 but they make me feel good about myself.
00:09:39.660 Yeah, the ones that don't have a chance,
00:09:41.260 but it's just like, there you go.
00:09:43.020 Yeah, thanks anyway.
00:09:44.140 If I wanted to, I could, but nah, not today.
00:09:49.340 Do you think guys can move out of that zone?
00:09:51.500 Out of the friend zone?
00:09:52.780 Once they're in it?
00:09:53.740 I think if a woman has decided something, 0.99
00:09:55.980 she won't change her mind.
00:09:57.340 I don't know, you know.
00:09:58.540 I've seen a lot of guys escape it.
00:10:01.980 There's a particular type of guy
00:10:03.660 who is just very, very patient in it.
00:10:07.420 If you wait for the right opportunity to strike,
00:10:09.260 like, cool, you've been friends with this girl.
00:10:10.780 She's going through breakup after breakup
00:10:12.300 because you're always making bad decisions.
00:10:14.220 You just have to be there at the right time.
00:10:15.660 That's so icky though.
00:10:18.620 Listen, you put them there, innit?
00:10:20.060 It's more of a long-term investment strategy.
00:10:23.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:10:24.300 Like, let's say, okay, that does happen.
00:10:25.900 They hook up one time and she wakes up.
00:10:29.180 That girl must be feeling like... 1.00
00:10:30.460 He won though.
00:10:30.940 He won.
00:10:31.420 He still got to blow her back out. 0.99
00:10:32.220 Yeah, exactly.
00:10:32.700 Yeah.
00:10:33.420 He still got like a little taste.
00:10:34.860 His CV improved.
00:10:38.140 Wow.
00:10:38.940 You need to see that, a sketch from Chris Rock
00:10:42.060 when he says why women keep a lot of like guy friends and stuff
00:10:44.940 because they're all back up.
00:10:46.060 We get...
00:10:46.700 Really?
00:10:47.020 Yeah.
00:10:47.500 Oh my God.
00:10:47.980 Glassing YouTube it.
00:10:49.100 It's such a funny sketch.
00:10:51.020 Yeah, we can.
00:10:52.060 We can.
00:10:53.100 We'll give him a second.
00:10:53.980 Yeah, I can't remember what it's called.
00:10:55.180 Ultimately, there comes a time where a woman has to 1.00
00:10:57.660 choose between what they always go for,
00:11:00.460 which I think is probably not the best partner for them.
00:11:04.060 Yeah.
00:11:04.380 It's probably just the, like, maybe like the bad boy.
00:11:06.380 You know how like women are always like, 1.00
00:11:07.820 men are trash, men are trash. 1.00
00:11:09.020 But it's like, no, you need to change what you go for. 1.00
00:11:11.740 There's a difference between arousal and attraction.
00:11:14.140 Attraction is like the guy that you could take home to mom and dad.
00:11:18.380 And he's like the good boyfriend.
00:11:19.740 Like you're attracted to him from that way.
00:11:21.100 And arousal is like the bad boy.
00:11:23.180 And I think most girls want like a mix of the two if they can.
00:11:26.220 But typically, like there's no mix.
00:11:28.620 It's usually one or the other.
00:11:30.060 You think so?
00:11:31.740 Yeah.
00:11:31.980 I mean, like, I don't think most,
00:11:34.780 most like stable guys also have that bad boy side to them.
00:11:38.860 And I think if you find one, you try to hold on to them.
00:11:42.380 Yeah.
00:11:42.540 Because you know what they, those stable guys provide peace.
00:11:45.500 And obviously peace doesn't mean continuous, uh, stimulation of happiness.
00:11:49.660 But you're aroused by the drama.
00:11:51.820 Yeah.
00:11:52.060 Yeah.
00:11:52.620 Yeah.
00:11:53.180 And I don't think girls, this is a much more honest like panel. 0.71
00:11:56.380 Because girls like, we don't like to admit that.
00:11:58.540 Like, admit what?
00:11:59.660 Like, okay.
00:12:00.380 Like, why do girls, okay. 1.00
00:12:03.900 Girls like getting cheated on on some level. 1.00
00:12:07.100 It's not, it's not fun.
00:12:08.620 But like, why is every girl obsessed with the ex that cheated on her? 0.99
00:12:12.700 That's always the one she goes back to.
00:12:14.300 Yeah.
00:12:14.620 And I feel like you should, when you're going into something new,
00:12:16.780 you shouldn't be talking about, oh my God, like my ex done this and that to me.
00:12:19.740 You need to, no one needs to know where you wasn't valued.
00:12:22.700 You need to be completely healthy and just really just listen.
00:12:27.500 This is what I expect.
00:12:28.700 That's it.
00:12:29.180 Anything less, regardless of my feelings, I need to, I need to leave.
00:12:33.340 You need to put your feelings aside.
00:12:34.460 But then girls also go for guys that they know are likely to cheat on them. 1.00
00:12:38.460 So there's the ex who cheated.
00:12:39.500 It's excitement.
00:12:40.220 And there's the new guy.
00:12:41.100 He's just like, you know, this guy's probably going to cheat on me.
00:12:44.140 But in your head, like, I can change him.
00:12:45.500 I can make him a better man.
00:12:46.540 Or maybe, maybe he won't.
00:12:47.660 Or maybe he won't do it to me.
00:12:49.100 Like, I'm me.
00:12:50.300 Because you ask girl, like, what value do you bring? 0.99
00:12:52.220 Well, I'm me. 0.99
00:12:52.780 Well, that's, and that's the thing, like, because women are kind of narcissistic. 1.00
00:12:56.220 Because they, like, like, we think we can, we're the one that's going to change him.
00:13:00.460 But it's like, are you, there's a million.
00:13:03.820 There's a new girl turning 22 every day.
00:13:07.900 Okay, we're going to watch Chris Rock.
00:13:10.140 This is, um.
00:13:16.540 Sad, sad, sad.
00:13:30.460 This is so cute.
00:13:55.020 So, okay, this is a sign.
00:13:56.700 Thank you.
00:14:26.700 It's a five, you can do the whole thing.
00:14:49.540 You can do the whole thing.
00:14:51.240 You can enjoy it, yeah?
00:14:52.740 Yes.
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00:17:26.700 it's true though i mean go up to your guy friend and just be like listen like i need something
00:17:53.260 from you but i don't know like what are you gonna do if i put it on you right now what are you gonna
00:17:57.740 are you gonna tell me no exactly he is bending over you could even say the word ben over
00:18:05.420 literally he's slamming cheeks asap have you guys ever had a guy make it out of the front zone
00:18:12.300 um there's been i mean are they really in a friend zone if they're really in the friend zone then i'll
00:18:18.140 be like oh what are you doing but then if they if it's like a half-hearted friend it's like a will
00:18:23.500 they won't they it's like you guys had a work husband before okay would you
00:18:29.580 you don't know what workers yeah yeah it's like it's like yeah it's like the person you hang out
00:18:34.140 with at work all the time it's like the opposite but you've never done anything yeah like i think
00:18:39.020 that's more i think that's more likely to happen than a friend zone okay would you agree i feel
00:18:44.060 like for girls there's three categories there's like absolutely yes absolutely no and maybe yeah
00:18:50.140 yeah like it was everything the absolute maybe would be um like like i like like the maybes are
00:18:59.100 like oh he's kind of cute but is that what is that but yeah it's like a but where the yes is like
00:19:05.500 yeah that's what he's talking about where at some way at some point you took a wrong turn and landed
00:19:09.980 in the friend zone so it's like you were going in the right direction when you've done something that
00:19:14.300 didn't quite tick the box so you're a maybe yeah there's a chance one day in under the right
00:19:18.940 circumstances but for now you can chill there i've got or i've got better options available right now
00:19:25.020 so i can put you the back burner interesting and guys will wait as well so 100 it's crazy that
00:19:32.140 girls will wait but i find that quite they're not waiting they're not waiting they're doing their thing 0.94
00:19:36.940 yeah it's just men are opportunistic so it's like it's like cool if if i got a girl i'm serious about
00:19:43.020 like okay i want you and i know you're not going to give it up to me easy i might still be doing the
00:19:47.660 nice stuff breaking it down little by little but i'm still breaking it down i'm breaking it down just 0.96
00:19:51.900 chipping away slowly but i'm still at it cock on shoulders like you know what i'm saying you think men 0.93
00:19:56.700 like that sorry do you think men like um moving from the friend zone to something more i think that's 0.97
00:20:02.620 one of those it's a proud moment it's a proud moment is that more satisfying than like hooking
00:20:06.700 up with somebody you meet at the club yeah yeah yeah it's like it's like in sales when you've got
00:20:14.060 the sales reference when you've got them deals that stretch for ages and you fight you close the deal
00:20:18.780 and you close it you're like oh my god i closed the deal it's gas you want to go out on a friday
00:20:22.460 night drink with the boys do you ever i hear some guys say though they'll get like resentful in a way
00:20:29.980 because they're like i waited all that time for that yeah because they built it up in their heads
00:20:34.780 yeah yeah yeah because they wanted to keep grafting it never lives up to your expectation
00:20:38.940 that's why now i probably like the chase more than the outcome i agree with you i like the chase
00:20:43.900 more than the outcome interesting no like like you know when you're seeing someone like let's say
00:20:49.500 work husband hypothetically scenario it's like a will they like will we won't we that's more
00:20:55.180 exciting than like if we just date straight away and i know okay he's definitely attracted to me
00:21:00.380 he definitely wants to see me as a girlfriend then if it's like i don't know is that why people like
00:21:06.380 cheats what do you mean like if they get comfortable with somebody and then that's why they want to go
00:21:11.500 chase somebody because you've got that now but i think it's the difference between um after sex are
00:21:16.220 you cuddling or are you not what do you mean right like as in uh the chase now you've got you fulfill
00:21:23.260 the chase uh what comes next are you gonna are you still interested or was it just about the chase if
00:21:28.620 it was just about the chase now he's got what he's won so i think he's gonna bounce i think from the
00:21:33.900 female side um part of the attraction of a guy is mystery it's about trying to understand and find 0.90
00:21:39.420 out about this guy so the guy has a an element of awe a bit of mystery about him he's this fascinating
00:21:44.540 interesting thing that you want to acquire i think in that scenario once you've discovered what that
00:21:49.580 mystery is so i i have sex with him excuse me and then the the error the air of mystery is gone and
00:21:56.620 you're no longer interested i don't think that's true definitely like if someone's like mysterious
00:22:01.340 or there's like an air of mystery to them i don't feel like hooking up with them one time would mean
00:22:06.940 that like i'm not interested in them anymore no maybe that's just my perspective of that from the
00:22:11.260 thrill of the chase perspective because most women like a guy who's mysterious like a guy who they like 0.98
00:22:17.580 it's a hard nut to crack type thing they like to just know that i think a lot of women like that 1.00
00:22:22.620 like i only have access to this man not like in like a possessive way but like he's only showing this
00:22:28.700 side to me i feel like a lot of women appreciate that and i feel like when that is revealed then i guess
00:22:34.300 that a law and excitement yeah that's why when a guy with women want a guy that to be more emotional 0.99
00:22:38.780 and all stuff like that and then he gets when he is and then they get on and then they get turned off
00:22:43.100 by him okay i'm gonna read super chats um thank you guys for um all the donations all the donations
00:22:52.060 are going towards getting blessing an 8k camera i think we can swing it this month um it's actually
00:22:57.180 really cool because we're going to start um bringing in some other creators and helping them
00:23:01.500 build channels so um we're going to announce next week i'm going to give you guys the link to
00:23:06.620 auntie's new channel um and there might be one or two more which is really exciting round of applause
00:23:11.740 round of applause um okay so i'm going to read these uh christopher surdak as rollo tamasi has said for
00:23:17.980 decades if a woman makes you wait for sex the sex is never worth the wait it's just a consolation prize 1.00
00:23:23.500 for both of you megtao by logic a woman's bc equals how many bodies does a woman need for you for your 0.99
00:23:30.540 friends to call her a slut minus one you're welcome boys um k maul parasite an organism living in on or 0.99
00:23:39.100 with another organism in order to obtain nutrients grow or multiply in a state that directly or 0.99
00:23:43.980 indirectly harms the host you got me fellas yeah um wrong the harpooner the hormone oxytocin allows
00:23:51.020 pair bonding which allows to pair bonding woman's release woman's brain release it during sex and 1.00
00:23:57.580 child's worth having many partners alters the mechanism in the woman's brain that's why more 1.00
00:24:01.900 partners hurts women um clifford range if the truth doesn't hurt then it's not the truth um that they
00:24:07.500 want to be lied to but complain about men lying to them hey ken um memigolu um it's funny bolt it's
00:24:15.180 funny and tragic to see the double standards please keep up the great content um brick cormier pearl i bet
00:24:20.780 if you put up pics of men there i but i bet if you put up if you put pics pictures of men up there
00:24:28.380 these women could rate them without an issue faster if you put up pictures with their height women 1.00
00:24:32.860 can somehow slice through all the bs when it comes to rating men's looks however
00:24:36.780 rating other women is well it's how they feel migtao by logic stop lying lizzo isn't in the room she can't 1.00
00:24:42.380 say she can't hear you say it she's fat just say it silent observer there are rules to objective
00:24:47.820 reality delusion is simply a smokescreen towards the truth feelings are fleeting chaos and chaotic
00:24:53.100 depending on the present circumstances facts may be painful but they provide feedback about the 0.91
00:24:58.140 physical reality migtao by logic i'm not gonna lie that was a lie god damn it stop um lover for 0.85
00:25:04.940 one hero to all the inflation of women's value is so bad that a basic teacher can have a pet 0.96
00:25:10.860 man named fluffy and another man she has sex with that live in the same house 0.98
00:25:15.100 migtao by logic just stop lying god damn it we can't have real conversations without all the 0.99
00:25:19.740 lying lying is ruining society and the ability for men and women to form relationships stop it 0.98
00:25:24.300 christopher surdak can the can the girl in the middle complete a sentence without using the word
00:25:28.540 but lover for hero all men care about women so much that we'll devalue ourselves to make you happy
00:25:34.140 majority of men male heroes get belittled nerfed bum downs for the hero ends migtao by logic
00:25:40.220 women demand the best man and complain they're being asked to settle but if you're only with one 1.00
00:25:45.180 man but if you're only with a man better than you hypergony is by definition settling women date up 1.00
00:25:51.340 all the time and and still cry about it clowns okay um let's do the last clip uh blessing thank you 0.86
00:25:59.660 oh yeah this this actually had nothing to do with the topic i just thought this was entertaining 0.70
00:26:13.260 wait what yeah this is oh is it quite graphic no yeah i just was like this is nuts
00:26:29.900 no girls are on smoke you know but that is a bit crazy though which which part of it all right 1.00
00:26:35.260 running someone over oh my god please no
00:26:42.540 wait look at that freeze frame wait wait no wait that's an old man with a cane no
00:26:50.220 oh my john over two people
00:26:51.580 this is so sad this is so sad
00:26:56.860 well you have to replay that though yeah you can give me the first you can you can do it again
00:27:02.380 i don't know if he died or not it doesn't say in the comments
00:27:05.340 does it say in the description blessing did he die
00:27:07.420 oh he passed away did they run over anyone else
00:27:21.740 oh wow so the other person died too
00:27:23.500 two murders
00:27:24.940 but do you think that is still related with the whole situation or do you think she actually has
00:27:27.820 like a mental illness excuses no because that's not normal that's like do you tend to happen i
00:27:35.020 mean do you think if the roles were reversed we'd be asking that question if it was a man who ran over
00:27:39.500 a woman because i would say it's like no he would need a really good lawyer to come up with that 1.00
00:27:44.780 argument what which argument uh that if he had a mental illness mental problem is that to really you
00:27:51.820 know bring back people to not be uh to be impartial and not be gender bias because it happens like it
00:28:00.220 doesn't matter what we feel it's it's definitely women unfortunately get away with it a lot more than 1.00
00:28:05.660 men does it say what her like she gets sentenced um i don't know if she goes to council of murder 0.78
00:28:13.100 will face the charge so um it says chapman will face one charge of aggravated murder two counts of
00:28:20.700 murder two counts of felonies felon felonious assault one count of attempted murder and one count of
00:28:27.260 endangering chill were the kids in the car oh goodness or maybe the kids were nearby
00:28:33.500 on august 31st chapman allegedly drove her car into the father of her child her intended target also
00:28:39.260 and also hit the 58 year old christopher scott who died at the university of cincinnati medical center
00:28:45.420 from his injuries chapman then got out of the truck's car and began physically assaulting
00:28:50.300 the man with whom she had an eight-year-old child um an eight-month-old child that child was inside
00:28:55.900 the vehicle when chapman hit two men according to hayman county prosecutor joe devers while he was in
00:29:03.020 kroger she apparently went through his cell phone and believed that he had an inappropriate relationship 1.00
00:29:08.380 with her sister and said deters during a press conference can we look at the source um wcpo.com
00:29:16.300 can we can we oh you can click it yeah you can click it click a blessing i'm so sad
00:29:30.060 aww 0.78
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