Modern Women HATE Hearing Truth
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
169.46005
Summary
In this episode, we discuss how to be tactful with your friends, family and partners when it comes to telling them that they are fat or ugly. We also talk about how to deal with people who are overweight or obese and how to get them to lose weight.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
Like, I have my own life and my time. I'm giving it to you.
00:00:03.120
If you're gonna sit there telling me the whole, the same circular argument,
00:00:08.240
Like, if you really, genuinely want to get pregnant, sort your diet out.
00:00:12.560
And now, guess what? She's doing great. That's it.
00:00:16.240
So she's better looking now, would you say, now that she's lost the weight?
00:00:19.580
The objective was to get pregnant and her weight was a massive thing.
00:00:23.140
But it was, I mean, that's actually, that's the way that her weight loss has helped her.
00:00:28.340
And the bonus is that she's actually attractive.
00:00:30.880
So the goal wasn't to get attractive. The goal was to get healthy.
00:00:34.240
And, you know, by a result, she became attractive because she is healthy.
00:00:40.000
And I told her, I'm a friend. I would consider myself quite feminine and a woman.
00:00:48.020
I think we get too caught up with masculine energy, feminine energy.
00:00:51.740
What's human to do is to look out for somebody.
00:00:54.280
I think women are kind of more socialized to kind of beat around the bush.
00:01:01.520
It's kind of rewarded when women are like, oh, look, they're not as like, oh, I want this, this and this.
00:01:06.200
I think women are rewarded in romantic relationships and friendships and relationships with people in society.
00:01:11.360
So if you know that, why would you still purposely or willingly do it?
00:01:16.180
So you just said that women are kind of socialized to behave a certain type of way.
00:01:20.740
And you know that way you're socialized is negative in terms of creating a better outcome for all.
00:01:28.780
I think I still do this because obviously that's what I'm used to.
00:01:33.460
I find it extremely uncomfortable to go to someone and call them fat or call them ugly.
00:01:38.080
Even if they asked you, so if I said, am I fat?
00:01:41.160
You'd find it uncomfortable to be honest with me and be like, do you know what you are?
00:01:46.480
Say the words out loud, like I can think certain things in my mind, but to directly say to someone straight up, like, I think you're ugly, especially if it's in negative terms, it would be very difficult for me.
00:01:57.860
So if I said, if I said, if I gained, let's say if I gained 50 pounds.
00:02:16.960
She's a German nanny, so I know she can handle it.
00:02:25.780
So I feel like it also, you have to have a bit of tact and I feel like you need to gauge the person as well.
00:02:41.000
I just got rejected for the 10th time in a row.
00:03:23.180
I just, I think it's like a scale that's like not real.
00:03:25.620
So I feel like they just make that up, you know, doctors to be mean.
00:03:30.920
I mean, I question it a little bit, but that's why I came to you to get the truth.
00:03:59.760
So, so this is, you know, I'm at, you know, I'm just like.
00:04:14.700
Anyways, I, I, I was walking here and I, and someone called me a whale.
00:04:22.040
When I did see you, you was looking a bit more chunky than the last time I seen you still,
00:04:32.040
You put a mad weight in it, like drop a few, drop a little something, something in you.
00:04:56.700
And then, did I say, quote unquote, she said fat and ugly.
00:04:59.500
I feel like, no, I think, I think me, me, not you.
00:05:07.420
If I said she's fat and ugly, I said she became attractive.
00:05:14.380
No, but you said like, I think you said, like, you quoted yourself.
00:05:17.980
He's like, no, you said you think you have to say, I know.
00:05:32.540
Because it's good to have a friend like you that will call it straight.
00:05:36.380
Even if it hurts, you, you're the most respected friend.
00:05:39.740
I have to say, the thing is that there needs to be context.
00:05:42.700
So this, she tells me this over and over again.
00:05:47.900
And like, the thing is, like I said, I am not, my existence isn't to just pacify you, you know?
00:05:55.980
And if you're saying that, oh, you know, I have this issue and my weight is this and everything.
00:05:59.100
And I was like, you know what? I have to cut this crap. You are fat.
00:06:02.460
And her radical acceptance is the most powerful thing.
00:06:11.420
So, so much problems were avoided with me just being honest with her.
00:06:23.420
I think there's a way of like doing it with tact so you can be playful about it.
00:06:26.060
But if you're honest and real-world person, it won't affect your relationship.
00:06:32.300
I feel like if you're honest with someone and factual with the person,
00:06:37.100
I feel like if someone's real with you and tells you something straight,
00:06:40.700
if it was a real friendship, I don't think it would affect it.
00:06:42.940
It's why you don't do it for fear of losing that relationship with the person.
00:06:46.540
The reason I don't do it is that I find it extremely uncomfortable.
00:07:09.260
Let's say if I think that I'm like really crazy, amazing,
00:07:14.860
like really, really beautiful and someone's selling me dreams
00:07:17.660
and I believe the dreams he sells me happily ever after in my delusion.
00:07:23.980
Are you cool with getting cheated on if you never find out?
00:07:28.860
I don't want to ever be quoted on this, but I feel like...
00:07:37.260
when you catch your billionaire husband having an affair
00:07:44.940
Because if you never find out, it doesn't affect you
00:07:57.260
He just wanted to wife you and have side pieces.
00:08:00.300
If he wanted to wife me and he didn't want to have side pieces,
00:08:17.900
oh, I find you really attractive and beautiful,
00:08:25.820
That narrative doesn't have to involve cheating.
00:08:35.900
A guy can't get with you if he's approached you like,
00:08:44.220
Like, you're not getting a chance unless you're obsessed with me,
00:08:52.140
Because there's always someone that will treat you that way.
00:08:55.020
There's always someone that will treat you what way?
00:09:02.140
Like, if you tell someone like, yeah, you're okay.
00:09:07.980
Do you think we like the guys that put us on pedestals?
00:09:15.020
I feel like women enjoy being on the receiving end,
00:09:21.900
Women have like a group of men who are just for attention.
00:09:29.820
And there's all the guys that feed them constant attention.
00:10:07.420
If you wait for the right opportunity to strike,
00:10:09.260
like, cool, you've been friends with this girl.
00:10:42.060
when he says why women keep a lot of like guy friends and stuff
00:10:55.180
Ultimately, there comes a time where a woman has to
00:11:00.460
which I think is probably not the best partner for them.
00:11:04.380
It's probably just the, like, maybe like the bad boy.
00:11:09.020
But it's like, no, you need to change what you go for.
00:11:11.740
There's a difference between arousal and attraction.
00:11:14.140
Attraction is like the guy that you could take home to mom and dad.
00:11:23.180
And I think most girls want like a mix of the two if they can.
00:11:34.780
most like stable guys also have that bad boy side to them.
00:11:38.860
And I think if you find one, you try to hold on to them.
00:11:42.540
Because you know what they, those stable guys provide peace.
00:11:45.500
And obviously peace doesn't mean continuous, uh, stimulation of happiness.
00:11:53.180
And I don't think girls, this is a much more honest like panel.
00:11:56.380
Because girls like, we don't like to admit that.
00:12:08.620
But like, why is every girl obsessed with the ex that cheated on her?
00:12:14.620
And I feel like you should, when you're going into something new,
00:12:16.780
you shouldn't be talking about, oh my God, like my ex done this and that to me.
00:12:19.740
You need to, no one needs to know where you wasn't valued.
00:12:22.700
You need to be completely healthy and just really just listen.
00:12:29.180
Anything less, regardless of my feelings, I need to, I need to leave.
00:12:34.460
But then girls also go for guys that they know are likely to cheat on them.
00:12:41.100
He's just like, you know, this guy's probably going to cheat on me.
00:12:50.300
Because you ask girl, like, what value do you bring?
00:12:52.780
Well, that's, and that's the thing, like, because women are kind of narcissistic.
00:12:56.220
Because they, like, like, we think we can, we're the one that's going to change him.
00:17:26.700
it's true though i mean go up to your guy friend and just be like listen like i need something
00:17:53.260
from you but i don't know like what are you gonna do if i put it on you right now what are you gonna
00:17:57.740
are you gonna tell me no exactly he is bending over you could even say the word ben over
00:18:05.420
literally he's slamming cheeks asap have you guys ever had a guy make it out of the front zone
00:18:12.300
um there's been i mean are they really in a friend zone if they're really in the friend zone then i'll
00:18:18.140
be like oh what are you doing but then if they if it's like a half-hearted friend it's like a will
00:18:23.500
they won't they it's like you guys had a work husband before okay would you
00:18:29.580
you don't know what workers yeah yeah it's like it's like yeah it's like the person you hang out
00:18:34.140
with at work all the time it's like the opposite but you've never done anything yeah like i think
00:18:39.020
that's more i think that's more likely to happen than a friend zone okay would you agree i feel
00:18:44.060
like for girls there's three categories there's like absolutely yes absolutely no and maybe yeah
00:18:50.140
yeah like it was everything the absolute maybe would be um like like i like like the maybes are
00:18:59.100
like oh he's kind of cute but is that what is that but yeah it's like a but where the yes is like
00:19:05.500
yeah that's what he's talking about where at some way at some point you took a wrong turn and landed
00:19:09.980
in the friend zone so it's like you were going in the right direction when you've done something that
00:19:14.300
didn't quite tick the box so you're a maybe yeah there's a chance one day in under the right
00:19:18.940
circumstances but for now you can chill there i've got or i've got better options available right now
00:19:25.020
so i can put you the back burner interesting and guys will wait as well so 100 it's crazy that
00:19:32.140
girls will wait but i find that quite they're not waiting they're not waiting they're doing their thing
00:19:36.940
yeah it's just men are opportunistic so it's like it's like cool if if i got a girl i'm serious about
00:19:43.020
like okay i want you and i know you're not going to give it up to me easy i might still be doing the
00:19:47.660
nice stuff breaking it down little by little but i'm still breaking it down i'm breaking it down just
00:19:51.900
chipping away slowly but i'm still at it cock on shoulders like you know what i'm saying you think men
00:19:56.700
like that sorry do you think men like um moving from the friend zone to something more i think that's
00:20:02.620
one of those it's a proud moment it's a proud moment is that more satisfying than like hooking
00:20:06.700
up with somebody you meet at the club yeah yeah yeah it's like it's like in sales when you've got
00:20:14.060
the sales reference when you've got them deals that stretch for ages and you fight you close the deal
00:20:18.780
and you close it you're like oh my god i closed the deal it's gas you want to go out on a friday
00:20:22.460
night drink with the boys do you ever i hear some guys say though they'll get like resentful in a way
00:20:29.980
because they're like i waited all that time for that yeah because they built it up in their heads
00:20:34.780
yeah yeah yeah because they wanted to keep grafting it never lives up to your expectation
00:20:38.940
that's why now i probably like the chase more than the outcome i agree with you i like the chase
00:20:43.900
more than the outcome interesting no like like you know when you're seeing someone like let's say
00:20:49.500
work husband hypothetically scenario it's like a will they like will we won't we that's more
00:20:55.180
exciting than like if we just date straight away and i know okay he's definitely attracted to me
00:21:00.380
he definitely wants to see me as a girlfriend then if it's like i don't know is that why people like
00:21:06.380
cheats what do you mean like if they get comfortable with somebody and then that's why they want to go
00:21:11.500
chase somebody because you've got that now but i think it's the difference between um after sex are
00:21:16.220
you cuddling or are you not what do you mean right like as in uh the chase now you've got you fulfill
00:21:23.260
the chase uh what comes next are you gonna are you still interested or was it just about the chase if
00:21:28.620
it was just about the chase now he's got what he's won so i think he's gonna bounce i think from the
00:21:33.900
female side um part of the attraction of a guy is mystery it's about trying to understand and find
00:21:39.420
out about this guy so the guy has a an element of awe a bit of mystery about him he's this fascinating
00:21:44.540
interesting thing that you want to acquire i think in that scenario once you've discovered what that
00:21:49.580
mystery is so i i have sex with him excuse me and then the the error the air of mystery is gone and
00:21:56.620
you're no longer interested i don't think that's true definitely like if someone's like mysterious
00:22:01.340
or there's like an air of mystery to them i don't feel like hooking up with them one time would mean
00:22:06.940
that like i'm not interested in them anymore no maybe that's just my perspective of that from the
00:22:11.260
thrill of the chase perspective because most women like a guy who's mysterious like a guy who they like
00:22:17.580
it's a hard nut to crack type thing they like to just know that i think a lot of women like that
00:22:22.620
like i only have access to this man not like in like a possessive way but like he's only showing this
00:22:28.700
side to me i feel like a lot of women appreciate that and i feel like when that is revealed then i guess
00:22:34.300
that a law and excitement yeah that's why when a guy with women want a guy that to be more emotional
00:22:38.780
and all stuff like that and then he gets when he is and then they get on and then they get turned off
00:22:43.100
by him okay i'm gonna read super chats um thank you guys for um all the donations all the donations
00:22:52.060
are going towards getting blessing an 8k camera i think we can swing it this month um it's actually
00:22:57.180
really cool because we're going to start um bringing in some other creators and helping them
00:23:01.500
build channels so um we're going to announce next week i'm going to give you guys the link to
00:23:06.620
auntie's new channel um and there might be one or two more which is really exciting round of applause
00:23:11.740
round of applause um okay so i'm going to read these uh christopher surdak as rollo tamasi has said for
00:23:17.980
decades if a woman makes you wait for sex the sex is never worth the wait it's just a consolation prize
00:23:23.500
for both of you megtao by logic a woman's bc equals how many bodies does a woman need for you for your
00:23:30.540
friends to call her a slut minus one you're welcome boys um k maul parasite an organism living in on or
00:23:39.100
with another organism in order to obtain nutrients grow or multiply in a state that directly or
00:23:43.980
indirectly harms the host you got me fellas yeah um wrong the harpooner the hormone oxytocin allows
00:23:51.020
pair bonding which allows to pair bonding woman's release woman's brain release it during sex and
00:23:57.580
child's worth having many partners alters the mechanism in the woman's brain that's why more
00:24:01.900
partners hurts women um clifford range if the truth doesn't hurt then it's not the truth um that they
00:24:07.500
want to be lied to but complain about men lying to them hey ken um memigolu um it's funny bolt it's
00:24:15.180
funny and tragic to see the double standards please keep up the great content um brick cormier pearl i bet
00:24:20.780
if you put up pics of men there i but i bet if you put up if you put pics pictures of men up there
00:24:28.380
these women could rate them without an issue faster if you put up pictures with their height women
00:24:32.860
can somehow slice through all the bs when it comes to rating men's looks however
00:24:36.780
rating other women is well it's how they feel migtao by logic stop lying lizzo isn't in the room she can't
00:24:42.380
say she can't hear you say it she's fat just say it silent observer there are rules to objective
00:24:47.820
reality delusion is simply a smokescreen towards the truth feelings are fleeting chaos and chaotic
00:24:53.100
depending on the present circumstances facts may be painful but they provide feedback about the
00:24:58.140
physical reality migtao by logic i'm not gonna lie that was a lie god damn it stop um lover for
00:25:04.940
one hero to all the inflation of women's value is so bad that a basic teacher can have a pet
00:25:10.860
man named fluffy and another man she has sex with that live in the same house
00:25:15.100
migtao by logic just stop lying god damn it we can't have real conversations without all the
00:25:19.740
lying lying is ruining society and the ability for men and women to form relationships stop it
00:25:24.300
christopher surdak can the can the girl in the middle complete a sentence without using the word
00:25:28.540
but lover for hero all men care about women so much that we'll devalue ourselves to make you happy
00:25:34.140
majority of men male heroes get belittled nerfed bum downs for the hero ends migtao by logic
00:25:40.220
women demand the best man and complain they're being asked to settle but if you're only with one
00:25:45.180
man but if you're only with a man better than you hypergony is by definition settling women date up
00:25:51.340
all the time and and still cry about it clowns okay um let's do the last clip uh blessing thank you
00:25:59.660
oh yeah this this actually had nothing to do with the topic i just thought this was entertaining
00:26:13.260
wait what yeah this is oh is it quite graphic no yeah i just was like this is nuts
00:26:29.900
no girls are on smoke you know but that is a bit crazy though which which part of it all right
00:26:42.540
wait look at that freeze frame wait wait no wait that's an old man with a cane no
00:26:56.860
well you have to replay that though yeah you can give me the first you can you can do it again
00:27:02.380
i don't know if he died or not it doesn't say in the comments
00:27:05.340
does it say in the description blessing did he die
00:27:07.420
oh he passed away did they run over anyone else
00:27:24.940
but do you think that is still related with the whole situation or do you think she actually has
00:27:27.820
like a mental illness excuses no because that's not normal that's like do you tend to happen i
00:27:35.020
mean do you think if the roles were reversed we'd be asking that question if it was a man who ran over
00:27:39.500
a woman because i would say it's like no he would need a really good lawyer to come up with that
00:27:44.780
argument what which argument uh that if he had a mental illness mental problem is that to really you
00:27:51.820
know bring back people to not be uh to be impartial and not be gender bias because it happens like it
00:28:00.220
doesn't matter what we feel it's it's definitely women unfortunately get away with it a lot more than
00:28:05.660
men does it say what her like she gets sentenced um i don't know if she goes to council of murder
00:28:13.100
will face the charge so um it says chapman will face one charge of aggravated murder two counts of
00:28:20.700
murder two counts of felonies felon felonious assault one count of attempted murder and one count of
00:28:27.260
endangering chill were the kids in the car oh goodness or maybe the kids were nearby
00:28:33.500
on august 31st chapman allegedly drove her car into the father of her child her intended target also
00:28:39.260
and also hit the 58 year old christopher scott who died at the university of cincinnati medical center
00:28:45.420
from his injuries chapman then got out of the truck's car and began physically assaulting
00:28:50.300
the man with whom she had an eight-year-old child um an eight-month-old child that child was inside
00:28:55.900
the vehicle when chapman hit two men according to hayman county prosecutor joe devers while he was in
00:29:03.020
kroger she apparently went through his cell phone and believed that he had an inappropriate relationship
00:29:08.380
with her sister and said deters during a press conference can we look at the source um wcpo.com
00:29:16.300
can we can we oh you can click it yeah you can click it click a blessing i'm so sad
00:29:34.140
why as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:29:41.420
platform if you want to help please consider sending a super thanks below every donation helps and it