Modern Women Hate To Hear The TRUTH
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about the red flags in a relationship and what to look out for in a potential partner. We also get to hear from the winner of the Women s Red Flag Contest and find out who the winner is!
Transcript
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Are you seeing a lot of other girls at the same time?
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Are you seeing a lot of other girls at the same time?
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No, but I swear to God, I haven't slept with her since the last time O2.
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That was about like four months ago, four months, four months.
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Why is it toxic in a relationship if the girls don't know about it?
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There's nothing to catch though, because she's not my girl.
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You're saying that she knows fully that where she stands.
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There's no way that you're getting back together.
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She left the country because of the situation to go and get her mind right, came back,
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Honestly, you said you wanted his number in the beginning of the show.
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We could do a live date here right now, you know?
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I get bad DMs asking about girls after the show.
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I don't live like that no more because it wasn't making me happy.
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That was just basically where she felt that what I tell her that she's doing wrong isn't
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And she comes up with ways to defend her actions and...
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Because it's like, it's always your fault, right?
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When they say something, it's like, oh, you're being crazy.
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Something is happening and I'm saying that, no, you shouldn't do that.
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And she comes up with ways to say that that idea is not bad.
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So anyways, the winner of the red flag contest...
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How much girls would have come on here and admitted that?
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They would have lied and been like, oh, I don't know.
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There's women out here watching me who have had seven abortions.
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And I can just kind of see the men versus women dynamic is like, like you, when she was
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But when Michael was talking, you're like, ooh, that's kind of bad.
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This dude was a whole different person like a few months ago.
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I just like, I mean, I've been 20, I've been 21 before, but like, I can't imagine ever
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like sleeping with a sugar daddy when you're married, like when you would have a child.
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But like, I just think that's why you get the, you have a baby.
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That wasn't the person that started the relationship with.
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I'm going to give you another ad flag because now, because, because, because you keep giving excuses.
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But the thing is like, like, it's one thing to say, okay, I did that.
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But when you're, you're like saying, Oh, well I was young.
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Like, it's like, it's like when you say, I'm sorry, but it's like, when you give an
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excuse, it kind of, it kind of takes away the accountability.
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Cause it does take a lot to admit something like that.
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It don't mean you're going to get a blight for it.
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Should we, should we, should we take away red flag for honesty?
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But then I guess we've got to take one for you.
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I said I cheated on someone that I was in a relationship with.
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You only had like three or four red flags from the incident.
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And then everything you said after is what got you the rest of them.
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No, I think there's just super judgment going on.
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I'm giving, I'm making assumptions based on the information you gave me.
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And you're going to wear that for the rest of the show.
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But a lot of people are doing stuff like this and they're lying about it.
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I know women that are married that their husband is away on work and they are sleeping around.
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So at the end of the day I wasn't married to him.
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Just because you weren't married, you had a kid.
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If you have a kid with someone, you're stuck with them for life.
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I did not vow to commit my life to him at that point.
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At that point, I didn't value the relationship.
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But the only thing I'm pointing out is like, this is the difference between men versus
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women is women are allowed to make excuses for their bad behavior.
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When Michael was judged in the same room with you, the same thing happened to him.
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But I do think that some men do make excuses as well.
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I know this because I talk to people four days a week.
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Even on TikTok, when I talk about men versus women cheating, whenever it's about a woman cheating,
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I don't know your situation, but I'm talking about cheating and you're changing the subject.
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You're going against what you're supposed to do.
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But there's a difference between loyalty and faithful.
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I'm just thinking about this for my mom and dad.
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And I'm thinking if my mother, like, said to me, oh, I was faithful or I was loyal,
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Like, is that what you teach your daughter or son?
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There is a difference between being loyal and being faithful.
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The difference between being loyal is you are there no matter what throughout, which
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But if they're the same thing, if loyalty and faithfulness are the same thing, why are
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I think for women, loyalty is being sexually exclusive.
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Because historically men had to ensure paternity.
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And so that's why you got more red flags than Michael did for cheating, because you're
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Do you think with him knowing he would call you loyal?
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I know what I did for him, and he knows what I did for him.
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Oh, he was a good guy actually, so you wouldn't have done that.
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No, women tend to find Jesus when they need a husband and time's running out.
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I didn't want to get married when I found him, but I'm glad I did, because it made me realize
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how messed up a lot of the decisions I was making were.
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Do you think the church keeps the women single?
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Well, I asked a man recently, why is it there's more women in church than men?
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Like you said, if men see BS and spot it, they're not going to stick around.
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But I think if, I think to be honest, church, there's a lot of feminism seeping into the
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Like you said, women do blindly support each other.
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And sometimes you need to just be like, sis, you're moving mad.
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And I think if we don't have that, that is a dangerous thing.
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And even, like, especially becoming a Christian and actually taking it seriously, I realized
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so much of the things I was doing was just me acting out of pain and not wanting
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To me, like, I think a lot of the problem in the church is they always give women excuses
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And so you can say I would like, and I hate doing this, but this is like a perfect example
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because what they'll do is they'll like victimize women and they'll say, oh, I was
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And then, like, they can come back and say, oh, I got baptized.
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But to be honest with you, in when I first gave my life to Christ, I was like that.
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But the more I pressed into actually reading the Bible and actually allowing the Holy Spirit
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to work on me, I realized there's so much things that had to come out.
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Well, and it may be genuine for you, but it does.
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This like for me now, I don't have sex because at the end of the day, my main thing is I do
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If you're having sex outside of marriage, God created marriage for a safe space for women
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Because why would a guy wait to marry you if you gave someone else a kid?
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Because then I guess if I die single, I'll rather die single and please the Lord to go and
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sleep around in the hopes of maybe getting a man.
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But, but the thing is that the Bible also says to be fruitful and multiply.
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Yes, within the context and sanctity of marriage.
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Which, which may be true, but I look at results and that's the thing.
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Like that, like when I go into any church, I, as many of you know, I was just banned on
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