JustPearlyThings - May 30, 2023


Modern Women Hate To Hear The TRUTH


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Length

14 minutes

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216.4355

Word count

3,121

Sentence count

469

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Hate speech

19

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In this episode, the guys talk about the red flags in a relationship and what to look out for in a potential partner. We also get to hear from the winner of the Women s Red Flag Contest and find out who the winner is!

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Are you seeing a lot of other girls at the same time?
00:00:03.200 Are you seeing a lot of other girls at the same time?
00:00:05.800 When I was with that girlfriend?
00:00:07.200 This one that you're seeing at the moment?
00:00:08.600 The one...
00:00:09.600 I'm not seeing her, don't say that.
00:00:10.600 I'm not seeing her.
00:00:11.600 But she called you 21 times yesterday.
00:00:14.600 Vagina? 1.00
00:00:15.600 No, but I swear to God, I haven't slept with her since the last time O2. 0.95
00:00:20.600 When's that?
00:00:21.600 Three months ago?
00:00:22.600 That was about like four months ago, four months, four months.
00:00:25.600 But it's only toxic if he gets caught.
00:00:27.800 Why is it toxic in a relationship if the girls don't know about it? 1.00
00:00:30.200 There's nothing to catch though, because she's not my girl.
00:00:31.400 There you go!
00:00:32.800 To be fair, she's not his girl.
00:00:34.400 She's not his girl.
00:00:35.400 She's selling herself a dream. 1.00
00:00:36.400 You're saying that she knows fully that where she stands.
00:00:40.000 I broke up with her.
00:00:41.400 Yes, we're not together.
00:00:42.400 There's no way that you're getting back together.
00:00:44.400 No way.
00:00:44.600 She knows that?
00:00:45.400 She left the country because of the situation to go and get her mind right, came back,
00:00:49.200 and still messaging me, bro.
00:00:50.400 I don't know why.
00:00:51.400 You made a girl leave the country? 1.00
00:00:52.800 Yeah, you got a toxic schlong, get me? 1.00
00:00:55.400 She had to leave the country.
00:00:57.400 No one left the country because of me.
00:00:58.400 I think that might be a few red flags.
00:00:59.800 Okay, so you can have the final.
00:01:01.800 I'm going to give you three.
00:01:03.800 I'm being kind.
00:01:04.800 Three.
00:01:05.800 I'm going to give you three.
00:01:06.800 And I have...
00:01:07.800 No, that's it.
00:01:08.800 You can't say nothing.
00:01:09.800 Honestly, you said you wanted his number in the beginning of the show.
00:01:12.800 I'm joking.
00:01:13.800 This is the red flag relationship.
00:01:16.200 She likes the other ones.
00:01:17.200 I do not.
00:01:18.200 I do not.
00:01:19.200 You guys can like...
00:01:20.200 I do not.
00:01:21.200 You guys can be like the toxic of...
00:01:23.200 She saw the ball, the tattoos, the hat.
00:01:25.200 We could do a live date here right now, you know?
00:01:28.200 That's fake in service as well.
00:01:30.200 What's your sign?
00:01:31.200 Oh, here you go.
00:01:32.200 Ellie's plenty of fish. 0.97
00:01:33.200 I like that one.
00:01:34.200 I like that one.
00:01:35.200 That's a good one.
00:01:36.200 Look at it.
00:01:37.200 Some people find love on this show.
00:01:38.200 I don't know.
00:01:39.200 I've been decommissioned.
00:01:40.200 Trust me, I know.
00:01:41.200 I get bad DMs asking about girls after the show.
00:01:42.200 I've been decommissioned.
00:01:43.200 I don't live like that no more because it wasn't making me happy.
00:01:44.200 Okay, well, anyways, so the two...
00:01:45.200 We need to be involved now.
00:01:46.200 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:47.200 So, all right.
00:01:48.200 Have you been in a toxic relationship?
00:01:49.200 Um...
00:01:50.200 Let me do this when you have to say, um...
00:01:52.200 No, no, no, no.
00:01:53.200 No, no, no.
00:01:54.200 No, no, no.
00:01:55.200 No, no, no.
00:01:56.200 No, no, no.
00:01:57.200 No, no, no.
00:01:58.200 That's it.
00:01:59.200 Um...
00:02:00.200 Let me do this when you have to say, um...
00:02:01.200 No, no, no, no.
00:02:03.200 Confess.
00:02:04.200 Um...
00:02:05.200 I don't really say it's toxic, toxic.
00:02:07.200 It was just more of a narcissism.
00:02:09.200 That was just basically where she felt that what I tell her that she's doing wrong isn't
00:02:16.200 wrong.
00:02:17.200 So, yeah.
00:02:18.200 That's toxic.
00:02:19.200 And she comes up with ways to defend her actions and...
00:02:23.200 So no accountability.
00:02:24.200 Manipulation.
00:02:25.200 Manipulation.
00:02:26.200 Yeah.
00:02:27.200 That's quite...
00:02:28.200 That's quite bad.
00:02:29.200 Mm-hmm.
00:02:30.200 Because it's like, it's always your fault, right?
00:02:31.200 Yeah.
00:02:32.200 Yeah.
00:02:33.200 When they say something, it's like, oh, you're being crazy.
00:02:35.200 You're being crazy.
00:02:36.200 No, no, no.
00:02:37.200 Gaslighting.
00:02:38.200 Not really like that.
00:02:39.200 Gaslighting.
00:02:40.200 She just comes up with ways in which, um...
00:02:41.200 Maybe something...
00:02:42.200 Something is happening and I'm saying that, no, you shouldn't do that.
00:02:45.200 And she's like, no, it's...
00:02:46.200 It's a good idea to do this.
00:02:47.200 And she comes up with ways to say that that idea is not bad.
00:02:51.200 Manipulation.
00:02:52.200 Yeah.
00:02:53.200 Yeah.
00:02:54.200 It's a bit manipulative.
00:02:55.200 She don't respect you.
00:02:56.200 She don't respect you.
00:02:57.200 Okay.
00:02:58.200 So manipulating, we're going to say toxic.
00:02:59.200 Yeah.
00:03:00.200 Yeah.
00:03:01.200 Absolutely.
00:03:02.200 Okay.
00:03:03.200 So anyways, the winner of the red flag contest...
00:03:04.200 Come on.
00:03:06.200 How do you feel?
00:03:07.200 I feel good.
00:03:08.200 You feel toxic.
00:03:09.200 Do you?
00:03:10.200 I do.
00:03:11.200 Because I was in so much pain back then.
00:03:13.200 So I'm so proud of the woman I am today.
00:03:15.200 Oh my God.
00:03:16.200 I'm scared.
00:03:17.200 No, I am.
00:03:18.200 I'm proud of who I am today.
00:03:19.200 How much girls would have come on here and admitted that? 1.00
00:03:21.200 They would have lied and been like, oh, I don't know.
00:03:23.200 Nothing.
00:03:24.200 There's women out here watching me who have had seven abortions. 1.00
00:03:27.200 You have a cemetery for a stomach.
00:03:29.200 Do not judge me.
00:03:30.200 Yeah.
00:03:31.200 Yeah.
00:03:32.200 Next.
00:03:33.200 Yeah.
00:03:34.200 You know what's interesting though?
00:03:35.200 You know what's interesting?
00:03:36.200 And I can just kind of see the men versus women dynamic is like, like you, when she was
00:03:42.200 talking, we're defending her.
00:03:44.200 But when Michael was talking, you're like, ooh, that's kind of bad.
00:03:47.200 But they, even though...
00:03:48.200 I got a back, my girl.
00:03:49.200 I got a back hug.
00:03:50.200 Even if she's making bad decisions.
00:03:51.200 You don't know her.
00:03:52.200 I was 21.
00:03:53.200 Like, dude.
00:03:54.200 This dude was a whole different person like a few months ago.
00:03:57.200 I just like, I mean, I've been 20, I've been 21 before, but like, I can't imagine ever
00:04:01.200 like sleeping with a sugar daddy when you're married, like when you would have a child.
00:04:05.200 I wasn't married to him though.
00:04:06.200 Yeah.
00:04:07.200 But like, I just think that's why you get the, you have a baby.
00:04:10.200 Isn't that worse?
00:04:11.200 Like a baby mom? 0.97
00:04:12.200 And he was technically, he was someone else.
00:04:15.200 That wasn't the person that started the relationship with.
00:04:17.200 Okay.
00:04:18.200 I'm going to give you another ad flag because now, because, because, because you keep giving excuses.
00:04:22.200 I'm not giving excuses.
00:04:23.200 I'm giving you excuses.
00:04:24.200 I'm giving you excuses.
00:04:25.200 Yeah.
00:04:26.200 Yeah.
00:04:27.200 But the thing is like, like, it's one thing to say, okay, I did that.
00:04:30.200 It was fucked up and I shouldn't have done it.
00:04:32.200 No.
00:04:33.200 Right.
00:04:34.200 But when you're, you're like saying, Oh, well I was young.
00:04:35.200 Like, it's like, it's like when you say, I'm sorry, but it's like, when you give an
00:04:38.200 excuse, it kind of, it kind of takes away the accountability.
00:04:42.200 Well, I was going through a lot.
00:04:44.200 So it was wrong.
00:04:46.200 It was definitely wrong.
00:04:47.200 Do you know what though?
00:04:48.200 I do appreciate the honesty.
00:04:49.200 Cause it does take a lot to admit something like that.
00:04:51.200 It don't mean you're going to get a blight for it.
00:04:54.200 Should we, should we, should we take away red flag for honesty?
00:04:56.200 Yeah.
00:04:58.200 I have never done anything like that since.
00:04:59.200 But then I guess we've got to take one for you.
00:05:00.200 Cause you've been honest too.
00:05:01.200 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:02.200 Like.
00:05:03.200 Yeah.
00:05:04.200 Yeah.
00:05:05.200 Yeah.
00:05:06.200 Because you've said a lot of madness.
00:05:08.200 I don't know what to tell you.
00:05:09.200 Yeah.
00:05:10.200 I said I cheated on someone that I was in a relationship with.
00:05:12.200 With a sugar daddy and a child.
00:05:14.200 Like this is a.
00:05:15.200 Sorry Ade.
00:05:16.200 Do you know?
00:05:17.200 It's a bit peak.
00:05:18.200 Just accept it.
00:05:19.200 It's okay.
00:05:20.200 I know it's peak, but I wasn't married to him.
00:05:21.200 It's okay.
00:05:22.200 I wasn't, he's not, he was not my husband.
00:05:23.200 It's okay.
00:05:24.200 You've also got to remember.
00:05:25.200 I was single.
00:05:26.200 You only had like three or four red flags from the incident.
00:05:28.200 And then everything you said after is what got you the rest of them.
00:05:30.200 No, I think there's just super judgment going on.
00:05:32.200 Because I told you what I did.
00:05:34.200 Oh, of course there's judgment going on.
00:05:36.200 I said what I did.
00:05:37.200 So why are we getting extra flags?
00:05:38.200 I've told you what I did.
00:05:39.200 Yeah, but you're defending the flags.
00:05:40.200 Yeah.
00:05:41.200 I'm not defending the flags.
00:05:42.200 I'm saying to you that I was not in it.
00:05:43.200 You are rationalizing your actions.
00:05:44.200 Yeah, but.
00:05:45.200 It was messed up.
00:05:46.200 Okay, but.
00:05:47.200 I'm just saying.
00:05:48.200 I'm giving, I'm making assumptions based on the information you gave me.
00:05:51.200 Yeah, I cheated on him.
00:05:52.200 That is the information.
00:05:53.200 Yeah.
00:05:54.200 And I, I did the same thing to Michael.
00:05:55.200 He got red flags too.
00:05:56.200 He.
00:05:57.200 I have to consider him more.
00:05:58.200 If you notice, I just get quiet.
00:05:59.200 Wait.
00:06:00.200 You know what?
00:06:01.200 You just.
00:06:02.200 You know what?
00:06:03.200 You just.
00:06:04.200 You know what?
00:06:05.200 Yeah.
00:06:06.200 Thank you.
00:06:07.200 Thank you.
00:06:08.200 Thank you.
00:06:09.200 You're digging yourself a hole.
00:06:10.200 I'm not sorry.
00:06:11.200 You're not sorry.
00:06:12.200 Another flag.
00:06:13.200 Eddie, can you, can you add a flag for me?
00:06:16.200 Thank you very much.
00:06:17.200 Can you, can you add one?
00:06:18.200 Add it back.
00:06:19.200 Add it.
00:06:20.200 I'm not sorry for telling the truth.
00:06:21.200 No, look at it.
00:06:22.200 Look at it.
00:06:23.200 I, I.
00:06:24.200 For telling the truth.
00:06:25.200 Keep it.
00:06:26.200 Whatever man.
00:06:27.200 You need to get red flag merch.
00:06:28.200 Like a red flag hat.
00:06:29.200 Or like a big red t-shirt.
00:06:30.200 And you're going to wear that for the rest of the show.
00:06:32.200 Yeah.
00:06:33.200 Just so you know to stay away.
00:06:35.200 But a lot of people are doing stuff like this and they're lying about it.
00:06:38.200 Nah, it's true.
00:06:39.200 A lot.
00:06:40.200 I know women that are married that their husband is away on work and they are sleeping around. 1.00
00:06:45.200 Oh yeah.
00:06:46.200 And I know men that are doing the same.
00:06:47.200 So at the end of the day I wasn't married to him.
00:06:48.200 I wasn't married to him.
00:06:49.200 I know.
00:06:50.200 I was a baby.
00:06:51.200 Okay.
00:06:52.200 Okay.
00:06:53.200 No, he was single.
00:06:54.200 You gave it to whoever.
00:06:55.200 Oh, okay.
00:06:56.200 One at a time.
00:06:57.200 Yeah, but how is it better?
00:06:59.200 How is what better?
00:07:00.200 How is it better?
00:07:01.200 Just because you weren't married, you had a kid.
00:07:02.200 So?
00:07:03.200 You may as well be married.
00:07:04.200 No.
00:07:05.200 That's it.
00:07:06.200 Okay.
00:07:07.200 That's a...
00:07:08.200 Honestly, that's a bigger commitment.
00:07:10.200 I'm committed to the child.
00:07:11.200 I could get married to a guy tomorrow.
00:07:13.200 Yeah.
00:07:14.200 And then be divorced, never talk to him again.
00:07:15.200 Exactly.
00:07:16.200 If you have a kid with someone, you're stuck with them for life.
00:07:18.200 True.
00:07:19.200 Yeah.
00:07:20.200 I did not vow to commit my life to him at that point.
00:07:24.200 Way together.
00:07:25.200 Way together.
00:07:26.200 We were on and off.
00:07:27.200 So I did not...
00:07:28.200 At that point, I didn't value the relationship.
00:07:29.200 The way I was being treated...
00:07:30.200 Yeah, you should have stepped up.
00:07:31.200 I did that for a reason.
00:07:32.200 But why is there always an excuse?
00:07:34.200 Like, this is the thing about...
00:07:35.200 Because all of those things led to that.
00:07:37.200 It's not good that I did it.
00:07:38.200 Right.
00:07:39.200 It's not good that I did it.
00:07:40.200 But the only thing I'm pointing out is like, this is the difference between men versus 0.88
00:07:43.200 women is women are allowed to make excuses for their bad behavior. 1.00
00:07:46.200 That was terrible.
00:07:47.200 That was terrible.
00:07:48.200 And you keep arguing with it.
00:07:50.200 Because...
00:07:51.200 Because when you're...
00:07:52.200 When Michael...
00:07:53.200 When Michael was judged in the same room with you, the same thing happened to him.
00:07:57.200 We judged Michael.
00:07:58.200 I had 10 red flags.
00:07:59.200 And...
00:08:00.200 And...
00:08:01.200 And...
00:08:02.200 And Michael just took it.
00:08:03.200 But you're like arguing with it.
00:08:05.200 I am arguing with it.
00:08:06.200 When you're saying like...
00:08:07.200 Like...
00:08:08.200 But it's like...
00:08:09.200 It's the same behavior.
00:08:10.200 It was bad.
00:08:11.200 It was bad.
00:08:12.200 It was bad.
00:08:13.200 Straight up.
00:08:14.200 No, Michael didn't.
00:08:15.200 I appreciate you.
00:08:16.200 I appreciate the skills.
00:08:17.200 But I do think...
00:08:18.200 But I do think that some men do make excuses as well.
00:08:21.200 But you didn't.
00:08:22.200 He didn't.
00:08:23.200 No, I think...
00:08:24.200 I think some men do.
00:08:25.200 But in general, most don't.
00:08:26.200 And I do...
00:08:27.200 I know this because I talk to people four days a week.
00:08:29.200 No, I made a hell of excuses.
00:08:30.200 And even on...
00:08:31.200 Even on...
00:08:32.200 Even on TikTok, when I talk about men versus women cheating, whenever it's about a woman cheating, 0.99
00:08:37.200 is, well, why did she cheat? 0.97
00:08:38.200 Yeah.
00:08:39.200 Why?
00:08:40.200 But it doesn't...
00:08:41.200 It doesn't...
00:08:42.200 Because it's worse.
00:08:44.200 How?
00:08:45.200 Because men are...
00:08:46.200 Men are supposed to protect and provide. 0.98
00:08:47.200 Women are supposed to... 1.00
00:08:48.200 But women... 1.00
00:08:49.200 Okay.
00:08:50.200 I don't know your situation, but I'm talking about cheating and you're changing the subject.
00:08:53.200 And you ask...
00:08:54.200 You ask...
00:08:55.200 You stop interrupting.
00:08:56.200 Stop interrupting me.
00:08:57.200 When we're talking about cheating.
00:08:58.200 Yeah.
00:08:59.200 Okay.
00:09:00.200 That's what we're talking about.
00:09:01.200 Men's duty is to protect and provide.
00:09:02.200 Women are supposed to be loyal. 1.00
00:09:03.200 And so...
00:09:05.200 And so if you're not loyal, that's...
00:09:06.200 That's...
00:09:07.200 You're going against what you're supposed to do.
00:09:08.200 I was loyal, but I wasn't faithful.
00:09:10.200 No.
00:09:11.200 I wasn't faithful.
00:09:12.200 It's not...
00:09:13.200 It's not...
00:09:14.200 It's not loyal.
00:09:15.200 But there's a difference between loyalty and faithful.
00:09:16.200 No.
00:09:17.200 It's not loyal.
00:09:18.200 You weren't loyal.
00:09:19.200 Like, think about this.
00:09:20.200 I was loyal to him.
00:09:21.200 I wasn't faithful at that point.
00:09:22.200 I'm just thinking about this for my mom and dad.
00:09:24.200 And I'm thinking if my mother, like, said to me, oh, I was faithful or I was loyal,
00:09:29.200 I wasn't faithful.
00:09:30.200 I'd be like, what are you talking about?
00:09:32.200 Like, is that what you teach your daughter or son?
00:09:34.200 No.
00:09:35.200 There is a difference between being loyal and being faithful.
00:09:37.200 Okay.
00:09:38.200 Tell me.
00:09:39.200 The difference between being loyal is you are there no matter what throughout, which
00:09:43.200 I was until the relationship ended.
00:09:45.200 But in being faithful, I wasn't being true.
00:09:48.200 That is the difference.
00:09:49.200 The difference.
00:09:50.200 I think you're just making up words.
00:09:52.200 I'm just kidding.
00:09:53.200 But if they're the same thing, if loyalty and faithfulness are the same thing, why are
00:09:58.200 they two different ways?
00:09:59.200 I think for women, loyalty is being sexually exclusive. 1.00
00:10:04.200 Yeah, exactly.
00:10:05.200 Because historically men had to ensure paternity.
00:10:09.200 For men, loyalty is giving us their resources.
00:10:12.200 And so that's why you got more red flags than Michael did for cheating, because you're
00:10:17.200 not doing what a woman's supposed to do. 1.00
00:10:19.200 Fair enough.
00:10:20.200 You're toxic.
00:10:21.200 I'm not toxic.
00:10:22.200 That's me like 15 years ago.
00:10:23.200 Do you think with him knowing he would call you loyal?
00:10:26.200 Yes.
00:10:27.200 Nah, bruh.
00:10:28.200 Nah, bruh.
00:10:29.200 Nah.
00:10:30.200 Nah.
00:10:31.200 I know what I did for him, and he knows what I did for him.
00:10:33.200 So you held the strap?
00:10:34.200 Oh, he was a good guy actually, so you wouldn't have done that.
00:10:37.200 No, but I held it down for him.
00:10:39.200 Yeah?
00:10:40.200 Yes.
00:10:41.200 I'm saying that with my whole chest.
00:10:42.200 I made a mistake, and I did own up to it.
00:10:44.200 And you enjoyed it?
00:10:45.200 Let's not go to these questions.
00:10:48.200 Let's just move forward.
00:10:49.200 I found Jesus Christ.
00:10:51.200 When did you find Jesus around 30?
00:10:53.200 20 years.
00:10:54.200 No, I found Jesus in my late 20s.
00:10:57.200 Late 20s?
00:10:58.200 Late 20s?
00:10:59.200 Like, was it between like 28 to 33?
00:11:01.200 I was 27.
00:11:02.200 27?
00:11:03.200 26 when I found Jesus.
00:11:04.200 Oh, okay.
00:11:05.200 I've behaved myself.
00:11:06.200 Epiphany stage.
00:11:07.200 Yeah.
00:11:08.200 That cerebral moment.
00:11:09.200 No, women tend to find Jesus when they need a husband and time's running out. 1.00
00:11:13.200 Yeah.
00:11:15.200 I didn't want to get married when I found him, but I'm glad I did, because it made me realize
00:11:19.200 how messed up a lot of the decisions I was making were.
00:11:22.200 Do you think the church keeps the women single? 0.73
00:11:25.200 Yes.
00:11:26.200 To some degree, and then to some degree, no.
00:11:28.200 Why?
00:11:29.200 Well, I asked a man recently, why is it there's more women in church than men? 0.89
00:11:33.200 Like you said, if men see BS and spot it, they're not going to stick around.
00:11:38.200 Whereas women will be led. 1.00
00:11:40.200 They'll be convinced.
00:11:41.200 But I think if, I think to be honest, church, there's a lot of feminism seeping into the 1.00
00:11:46.200 church and we're not aware of it.
00:11:49.200 Like you said, women do blindly support each other. 1.00
00:11:54.200 And I think to some degree.
00:11:55.200 Don't cuss at your girl.
00:11:56.200 She backed you.
00:11:58.200 She backed you.
00:11:59.200 We do, though.
00:12:00.200 We do, though.
00:12:01.200 I can admit that.
00:12:02.200 We do blindly support each other.
00:12:03.200 Me too.
00:12:04.200 And sometimes you need to just be like, sis, you're moving mad.
00:12:07.200 You need to cut that out.
00:12:08.200 Yeah.
00:12:09.200 And I think if we don't have that, that is a dangerous thing.
00:12:12.200 You've got to be real as well with each other.
00:12:13.200 Because women don't like to be corrected. 1.00
00:12:16.200 Like I was arguing just a minute ago.
00:12:17.200 Modern women. 1.00
00:12:18.200 But what I did was messed up.
00:12:19.200 Modern women don't want to admit that. 1.00
00:12:22.200 And even, like, especially becoming a Christian and actually taking it seriously, I realized
00:12:26.200 so much of the things I was doing was just me acting out of pain and not wanting
00:12:31.200 to take accountability for it.
00:12:32.200 I do think so.
00:12:33.200 To me, like, I think a lot of the problem in the church is they always give women excuses 0.98
00:12:37.200 and bailouts.
00:12:38.200 And it's not supposed to be like that.
00:12:40.200 And so you can say I would like, and I hate doing this, but this is like a perfect example
00:12:45.200 because what they'll do is they'll like victimize women and they'll say, oh, I was
00:12:49.200 so broken.
00:12:50.200 I was in such a bad head space.
00:12:51.200 I was so this.
00:12:52.200 I didn't have Jesus.
00:12:53.200 And then, like, they can come back and say, oh, I got baptized.
00:12:56.200 And now I'm a good woman.
00:12:57.200 And it's like.
00:12:58.200 But to be honest with you, in when I first gave my life to Christ, I was like that.
00:13:04.200 Yeah.
00:13:05.200 But the more I pressed into actually reading the Bible and actually allowing the Holy Spirit
00:13:09.200 to work on me, I realized there's so much things that had to come out.
00:13:13.200 Well, and it may be genuine for you, but it does.
00:13:16.200 I'm not the same person anymore.
00:13:17.200 This like for me now, I don't have sex because at the end of the day, my main thing is I do
00:13:22.200 not want to grieve the Holy Spirit.
00:13:24.200 That's true.
00:13:25.200 If you're having sex outside of marriage, God created marriage for a safe space for women 0.99
00:13:30.200 to have sex and pleasure. 0.88
00:13:31.200 He does want you.
00:13:32.200 How many?
00:13:33.200 How many kids do you have?
00:13:34.200 I have one.
00:13:35.200 We have one.
00:13:36.200 Do you think that keeps you single, though?
00:13:37.200 Because why would a guy wait to marry you if you gave someone else a kid? 0.67
00:13:40.200 Well, the man that God has for me will wait.
00:13:43.200 No, but that's the thing.
00:13:44.200 No, no, he won't.
00:13:45.200 Because then I guess if I die single, I'll rather die single and please the Lord to go and
00:13:51.200 sleep around in the hopes of maybe getting a man. 1.00
00:13:53.200 But, but the thing is that the Bible also says to be fruitful and multiply.
00:13:56.200 Yes, within the context and sanctity of marriage.
00:13:59.200 Which, which may be true, but I look at results and that's the thing.
00:14:02.200 Like that, like when I go into any church, I, as many of you know, I was just banned on
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