JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Have All These CHOICES Yet Make Excuses

00:00:00.000 that there is a type of life there but i think it's very strange that we're all considering that

00:00:05.360 it will be a guaranteed baby at the end of it so the reason why i consider a fetus especially in

00:00:11.840 the earlier stages to be a potential life is because 20 of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage

00:00:16.640 anyway but i mean there's also a number of other things that could happen in this span of time um

00:00:23.840 and i mean stillbirths is still one in 175 as well if you're particularly unlucky and removing all

00:00:32.080 variables though um so for something to be a life uh that we find i guess valuable it makes sense to

00:00:41.680 consider viability and certainly an embryo is what do you mean by viability it could breathe

00:00:48.640 if it if it can sustain its own system by itself okay and that doesn't and that is not the same

00:00:56.960 as the fact that a mother needs to feed it and such i guess though that does get difficult if we

00:01:02.800 because we're talking here about what makes a life life and that's actually a pretty

00:01:05.760 important legal question later on when we're thinking about human rights violations right

00:01:09.120 who gets to have human rights as a you know as a human person uh outside of the womb and if we're

00:01:15.120 saying that a human is only a human only deserves the right to life if they're uh conscious conscious

00:01:21.120 or if they are uh breathing and supporting their own body on their own without any help from anyone

00:01:26.320 that puts in a very difficult situation people who are lying in comas i knew you was going to say

00:01:30.080 that it's not the same like it's not the same you're using all of these analogies it's not the same

00:01:35.920 okay so what about conjoined twins twins let me hear you okay so twins there's many legal cases

00:01:42.080 on this these are twins that have shared organs maybe one of them is using the other one's heart

00:01:46.720 they're fully dependent they're linked by their bodies it's a very intimate relationship that

00:01:51.200 doesn't just go on for nine months it goes on for the entirety of their lives and yet the law has been

00:01:56.160 completely clear if you have a sister that is sharing your heart and that is using your heart

00:02:02.000 the law is absolutely clear you cannot kill them even though they're dependent on you they can't

00:02:06.880 sustain themselves they're invading your body in a very if you're sharing a heart they would die you'd

00:02:11.600 both die that was i mean yeah that's a that's a that's a big big point i mean there are cases

00:02:17.040 like you know sharing a liver for example there you know there's a there's some there was born

00:02:20.880 like that that's how they that's a however you get separated can you kill one and keep the other

00:02:26.320 anyway though that doesn't make sense if one dies both of them dying i think he's talking about

00:02:30.080 conjoined no but even if they're conjoined like how is that even a choice like when you have like

00:02:36.640 they're still twins yeah you know what i mean no so if you're even thinking about abortion but

00:02:41.200 then thinking about twins you would only think about that if you're thinking about getting rid

00:02:45.040 of both of them you couldn't make a choice of oh i'm going to get rid of one and keep the other

00:02:48.560 anyway even if you never know someone might do that is that even possible it's actually quite common

00:02:53.760 yeah we know because the department of health keeps pretty good statistics on abortion and says why

00:02:57.680 every single abortion is done and there's actually a pretty substantial nhs website if you look it's

00:03:03.200 called selective reduction or multiple pregnancy and quite a few abortions each year are done

00:03:07.440 basically because there are too many babies and they have to get rid of some so hold on just based

00:03:11.920 on what you said because i i actually understood your point after you made it um what she's saying

00:03:17.280 is it true like can you if you've got twins growing in you and you decide to kill one of them

00:03:22.080 and can you keep the other twin alive yeah because i actually don't know if you can do that yeah

00:03:25.440 it's quite common but then really it's possible that's common no but they damn near make anything

00:03:29.040 no but really see this is i see this is why i would i know but that things like that that's

00:03:33.360 the reason why i would kind of understand science has really gone up that would be pro-life because

00:03:38.400 who would really want to make that decision what kind of person does that if you have twins you have

00:03:42.240 twins how can you be like oh but it's still financial it's still financial it could still be

00:03:46.080 financial though yeah but then if it's financial don't have a baby no but some people might have

00:03:51.200 only planned to have money for one yeah i mean i'm not saying i'm just really shocked i didn't know it's

00:03:56.160 scientifically possible when they when they made when they made abortion it was supposed to be like

00:04:02.320 safe rare like it wasn't supposed to be like i just think it's gotten ridiculous to the point

00:04:07.440 one out of three women are having them it's birth control how many abortions can you even have that's 1.00

00:04:12.160 another thing as well i want to say i can't remember the exact number but it's roughly 40 of

00:04:16.960 women that have had abortions have had two or more so no but is there a cap on it can i'm sure 1.00

00:04:21.520 they're having nobody you can just damage your body or something i mean i'm pretty sure it must

00:04:26.240 definitely have an impact yeah well and and i i've heard stories of girls that have eight nine 1.00

00:04:32.880 abortions like and that's what i'm saying like it's not even safe and rare anymore it's just women 1.00

00:04:38.640 making poor decisions so in the 1980s the average woman in romania had eight abortions that was the

00:04:45.200 average woman wait in romania romania in the 1980s or maybe 1960s why was there no contraception there

00:04:51.760 was no contraception okay well that makes more sense yeah i mean yeah so they they wait there

00:04:56.160 was no contraceptions but they could have abortions well there was very limited contraception that doesn't 0.82

00:04:59.840 make sense either why did they do that and i just think all of these reasons just come to be excuses

00:05:04.960 when it's just like we can close our legs we don't have to make children with like these bad guys

00:05:10.080 but it's like why can't we start with the women before we go to the men we always talk about men's

00:05:25.680 but men are legally responsible if they get a girl pregnant they have to pay child support

00:05:30.560 so after after we we both get pregnant that's equally as long as they're working wait listen listen if we

00:05:39.280 if we get pregnant it's equally irresponsible right i mean i would argue it's more on the women but 0.99

00:05:44.080 well for further further well i mean when you think about i know okay think about it we got we got 10

00:05:49.680 choices they have condom no condom we know when we ovulate we can get on birth control we can do plan b

00:05:56.320 did you know that you can do an abortion adoption we have all these choices the men have one did you know

00:06:01.280 that the um contraception pill was actually designed for men originally it was okay but can they take it now

00:06:08.480 but the thing is i there is there is isn't there i think men might be pregnant in the future it's

00:06:14.720 because men are so you're gonna blame men i think actually that they decided that well you probably

00:06:21.280 know better than me that it was better for the women to take it because too many you know like the 1.00

00:06:26.880 the men didn't want to have all of those no and that study it was like one or two of them died

00:06:32.560 i want to say so that was why they had to cut it because some women died as well 0.87

00:06:39.600 i don't think it's that common i think it's more i think the reason is a bit more commonsensical like

00:06:44.960 it's i think it's easier to um to lock off one egg than 100 million sperm i just think that's the

00:06:52.400 reason why it's harder to find contraceptive for me no no they made it work it's just that men didn't 1.00

00:06:56.800 like the side effects the side effects of birth control no but there was it was sterilization and

00:07:03.840 one or two people died in that study so that's why they were like way worse than the side effects

00:07:08.400 for women suicidality is a side effect for women's birth control when 90 of women are on it i just

00:07:15.120 don't think it's that common especially when men commit suicide more so women we need to raise our

00:07:20.800 voice women try to commit suicide more women try to commit suicide more but they tend to be less 0.93

00:07:28.000 successful because they don't pick uh lethal methods well i think so so men are better at suicide than 0.79

00:07:34.960 us that part is true but if we're on societal arguments that is sort of where my um interest is

00:07:43.360 so when it comes to thinking okay so what benefits are there if we ban abortion well theoretically that

00:07:49.680 would potentially be more kids that could be a bonus um the birth rate is falling in a lot of

00:07:54.560 developed countries but when i think of what the negatives are um it's significantly more in my

00:08:00.240 opinion um for women if you start to take away these types of rights they are going to naturally feel 1.00

00:08:05.600 oppressed um it's going to reduce uh the things that they do they're going to change the behavior

00:08:11.520 they're going to be having sex less relationships less and already gen z is having relationships less and

00:08:16.960 sex less so it might not necessarily maybe maybe they'll get married maybe i i think marriage rates

00:08:22.880 falling as well well well if we ban divorce i think maybe it would go back up that's a whole different

00:08:31.600 but if i'm honest sorry i'll just finish my point quickly um i don't think abortion rate will drop i

00:08:37.200 think that legal abortions will drop because obviously they won't be available which means more women are 0.99

00:08:42.880 going to have medical side effects from procuring illegal abortion drugs they're going to be more

00:08:47.360 sick women more dying women i think women more women in jail i think women might think twice before 1.00

00:08:53.840 maybe sleeping with the whole football back alley abortions i think i think one out of three abortions 0.79

00:08:59.280 is a lot back alley abortions have existed since the dawn of time i understand and you know i think we

00:09:05.040 should punish people that get those i think that should be illegal too you know that the prosecution rate

00:09:10.080 for all crime in general is pretty abysmal right it's just it's it pays to be a criminal we can we can

00:09:15.920 make the can i just say um an unpopular opinion um amongst women uh but i have heard it time and time

00:09:27.920 again from men which is you know that breakups are harder for men than it is on women and the reason

00:09:36.640 is because women are the ones with the choice so women choose do they sleep with like we have more 1.00

00:09:45.680 choice we're the so if we say no unless you're graped we say no and that's it men have to beg and

00:09:55.120 date and take us and we was and do this and that and we well and we're the only ones that know when

00:10:02.000 we're ovulating too you can only get pregnant like five days a month yeah but we also know if we're 0.99

00:10:06.800 on birth control or not a lot of women lie about it yeah yeah yeah they do they do and we also can 0.94

00:10:11.920 he can't make you take a plan b so it's like we have all these choices so before i get attacked by

00:10:18.800 women and i'm not saying that i'm not saying that like you know do better i'm just saying that i've

00:10:26.960 been told from many men and i was thinking yeah you're right they're not like whoever we have slept

00:10:34.080 with women we unless it's been some you know a different situation in a normal situation we know

00:10:44.640 we're the ones that have said okay okay like come to mind it's always on the woman so the woman has the

00:10:54.960 last say in sex and we know when we're on we know when what we're taking we know what we're so it's 0.97

00:11:04.640 like if you're going to have sex with i mean sorry sex uh if you're gonna sleep with someone and then you 0.76

00:11:13.360 you uh not on the pill he's not wearing a condom you're not on anything and you still don't go 0.97

00:11:22.400 and get the morning after pill or you don't whatever you and then go oh i'm pregnant 0.96

00:11:32.320 like damn i think i'm shocked how did that happen and now i like and now i'm in this situation

00:11:39.920 right that's that's what i say it's because we have all of these choices to prevent these things 0.95

00:11:44.960 like yet we will still say but men when i bring

JustPearlyThings - July 02, 2023

Modern Women Have All These CHOICES Yet Make Excuses

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