JustPearlyThings - May 30, 2025


Modern Women Have No Idea How Much Better Men Make Their Lives | Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

40 minutes

Words per Minute

183.02426

Word Count

7,491

Sentence Count

675

Misogynist Sentences

81

Hate Speech Sentences

85


Summary

A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men. Women argue that it s bad for men to get married. Men, most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. Most young men are single, most young women are not.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Men, most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
00:00:07.240 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
00:00:09.940 Most young men are single, most young women are not.
00:00:12.960 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
00:00:17.680 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
00:00:20.720 Nobody needs men!
00:00:21.960 The future is female.
00:00:23.560 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
00:00:31.520 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
00:00:34.820 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
00:00:37.500 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
00:00:41.060 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
00:00:45.160 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.
00:00:47.760 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
00:00:50.740 Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
00:00:55.740 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
00:00:59.360 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
00:01:03.020 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
00:01:05.840 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
00:01:11.100 Gee, what could go wrong there?
00:01:13.260 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
00:01:16.780 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
00:01:19.420 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
00:01:22.360 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
00:01:27.280 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
00:01:30.500 You need no evidence.
00:01:31.600 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
00:01:35.300 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
00:01:38.520 I interviewed them on the other side.
00:01:41.220 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
00:01:43.520 How much did you spend trying to get him back?
00:01:45.620 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
00:01:48.060 Before you know it, you're homeless.
00:01:49.500 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
00:01:51.400 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
00:01:53.820 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
00:01:58.100 Family is a foundation of society.
00:01:59.800 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
00:02:02.960 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
00:02:07.300 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
00:02:09.220 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
00:02:11.040 We tell them to put off family into marriage.
00:02:12.540 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
00:02:15.600 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
00:02:19.980 Oh, freeze your eggs.
00:02:20.780 Have an abortion.
00:02:21.600 What?
00:02:22.120 You're evil.
00:02:23.060 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
00:02:26.880 Right.
00:02:27.180 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
00:02:31.020 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
00:02:33.760 It's self-sabotage.
00:02:34.680 That's the thing.
00:02:35.220 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
00:02:38.440 This is not about happiness.
00:02:39.940 The most important thing is the children, and the problem is we have a modern society
00:02:44.680 where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's
00:02:49.240 best for the kids.
00:02:51.280 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
00:02:54.980 They think, well, men have all the rights.
00:02:56.480 They have all the power.
00:02:57.820 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.
00:03:00.080 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
00:03:02.680 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
00:03:05.740 Men are alone in this situation.
00:03:07.860 Men are homeless.
00:03:08.800 Men are thinking about eating guns.
00:03:10.560 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.
00:03:14.940 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
00:03:20.340 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
00:03:23.740 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
00:03:26.880 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among
00:03:32.660 men than among women.
00:03:33.920 Culture is telling men, you are no good.
00:03:35.780 You've got to get your act together.
00:03:36.980 I think men have failed themselves.
00:03:38.680 What kind of a man are you?
00:03:39.940 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
00:03:41.840 If men are in trouble, so are women.
00:03:44.500 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
00:03:48.160 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...
00:03:50.420 500K.
00:03:51.080 500K.
00:03:51.660 300K.
00:03:51.980 300K.
00:03:52.480 200K.
00:03:52.880 Am I crazy?
00:03:53.640 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
00:03:55.880 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
00:03:59.460 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
00:04:03.400 Women.
00:04:04.860 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
00:04:07.000 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
00:04:09.260 I'm over it.
00:04:10.440 When is it going to be my turn?
00:04:11.740 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?
00:04:13.500 I can't keep having these same conversations.
00:04:16.240 The only simp here is you, Pearl.
00:04:17.540 You simp for men.
00:04:18.160 No, I think you simp for women.
00:04:19.500 She's a provocateur.
00:04:20.560 She says stupid stuff.
00:04:21.620 But Pearl is right about this.
00:04:22.960 It's already happening.
00:04:24.120 It's just not out in the open yet.
00:04:25.600 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
00:04:29.220 a wife and women can't find a husband.
00:04:31.260 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
00:04:35.500 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
00:04:39.560 Civilization will crumble.
00:04:40.920 The American story does not end well.
00:04:43.760 This is an existential crisis failing young men.
00:05:10.920 And what actually amazed me was how many women, the level of just subtle misandry women are
00:05:18.740 allowed to say.
00:05:20.620 And the men around them don't check them at all.
00:05:23.860 And if anything, we're rewarded for bad behavior.
00:05:27.120 So I wanted to put this documentary together talking about my findings when it comes to the
00:05:31.720 family court system.
00:05:32.880 Um, but YouTube throttled my channel and demonetized me the past year and a half.
00:05:38.020 Um, I was literally doing this show for free, unemployed for a year and a half, unfortunately.
00:05:43.980 Um, because of one angry woman, she decided to flag all of the videos on my channel.
00:05:50.120 She got me demonetized and I spent a year and a half trying to build this thing back up.
00:05:54.640 So if you can, there's two ways you can support me in case I get kicked off of YouTube again.
00:06:00.120 First, obviously you can't super chat while we are on YouTube.
00:06:03.120 The second is we have a GoFundMe, um, for this documentary.
00:06:06.780 The link to that is the second one in the description.
00:06:08.760 And the first one is a members only community where, um, I bring on the smart, intelligent,
00:06:14.060 famous and non-famous men that I know.
00:06:15.620 And it's a one-time lifetime subscription.
00:06:17.620 At some point we are going to raise it, but this is what it is right now.
00:06:20.220 And it's basically you buying into the fact that this is going to be a career for me.
00:06:24.240 And that you will get, I will bring people into the school community, the paywall, um,
00:06:31.080 to give presentations on different topics.
00:06:33.440 Um, I do have a very vast network and I am open to suggestions.
00:06:36.740 So if you know, the people in the community have somebody that we want, that they want
00:06:40.780 to sign up.
00:06:41.460 The cool thing is if you did support me in the past year and a half, I did include your
00:06:47.160 subscription.
00:06:48.540 Um, if you joined before, I think it was like the 15th of last month.
00:06:53.660 Um, um, I did include your subscription, so you should look for an email from us cause
00:06:59.340 then you're automatically added into the school community.
00:07:02.780 Um, but yeah, I think that's it.
00:07:04.320 So, so today we're going to talk about this Drew Afawalo lady, and, um, this is a crazy
00:07:11.520 woman and unfortunately crazy women are allowed to have platforms.
00:07:15.720 Um, now I know what you're thinking, Pearl, but you shut up.
00:07:18.660 Okay.
00:07:19.180 So, um, so I, I do, I, I do try to start my show by saying no simping in the chat.
00:07:29.240 I am taken.
00:07:29.840 So please, uh, you know, if you're here to, if you're here for anything but information,
00:07:34.960 I'm here to deliver the news.
00:07:36.260 Um, other thing, we are 40 subscribers away from 2 million.
00:07:41.960 So it'd be kind of cool to hit it, this stream.
00:07:44.320 Um, there's 300 of you in here.
00:07:46.320 So, okay.
00:07:47.700 So Drew Afawalo is basically a woman, um, that is making money off of her look.
00:07:58.480 Now it used to be the case that only hot women could make money off of their looks and life
00:08:03.480 was really better that way.
00:08:04.600 Um, the media used to cater to men and that's why you, when you would see women on TV, you
00:08:09.840 would see Megan Fox, Margot Robbie, and because movies used to be made to appeal to men.
00:08:15.160 But the problem is when movies are made to appeal to women, the women get uglier.
00:08:19.280 So when you ever see a, um, a movie and the bombshell is like 32, um, with small boobs
00:08:28.480 and you just think, why, why is this the thing?
00:08:34.420 Like, why is she not hot or she's supposed to be the love interest?
00:08:37.200 It's probably for women.
00:08:38.840 Um, and so what we've seen is the rise of influencers that are butt ugly, right?
00:08:43.660 And so the way they do this is you have midwomen or below midwomen, um, that either do misandrous
00:08:51.660 content, girly content, um, sex content.
00:08:55.500 An example is call her daddy, right?
00:08:57.260 She's a six getting better outcomes that she could, than she should.
00:09:00.880 Um, and essentially what society is trying to do is to convince men to lower their standards.
00:09:05.020 And it's totally working because every single one of you are accepting things today that
00:09:09.140 a hundred years ago, um, your grandfathers would not accept.
00:09:13.500 So this is working.
00:09:14.660 Like we can't, I can't even act like this is a bad strategy because it's working.
00:09:20.860 Um, and, um, this is a 300 pound woman who has started a podcast and, um, it's all about
00:09:28.180 hating men.
00:09:30.280 Yeah.
00:09:30.880 32 and an a cup is hot.
00:09:32.760 I know.
00:09:34.520 Okay.
00:09:35.040 So we're going to watch this.
00:09:36.260 This is drew Afualo on.
00:09:39.280 Can you believe this?
00:09:40.200 She got 30 under 30.
00:09:41.760 And the thing is men care about accomplishments, inventions, and respect where women care about
00:09:48.440 basically getting a participation trophy.
00:09:51.860 And so what's happened is companies have realized they make more money off of women than men because
00:09:56.660 women make 80% of consumer buying decisions.
00:09:58.980 So they start just giving away, um, awards to women and then women pay to like be applied
00:10:05.540 to these awards.
00:10:06.340 At times women can pay to get these awards where men care about hierarchy and like being important.
00:10:11.480 So it's just two different things.
00:10:13.880 Let's see how many.
00:10:15.960 Oh, oh, we're at, um, 45 more subscribers till 2 million.
00:10:25.780 You know, you cannot hide your fat body behind all that makeup that you're putting on.
00:10:31.060 Instead, go to the gym.
00:10:33.600 Nah.
00:10:34.120 It turns out lots of people can relate to, uh, wanting to just be really mean to misogynistic
00:10:45.400 men.
00:10:45.800 And that's essentially what it is I do.
00:10:47.980 I seek them out.
00:10:49.780 I platform them just to solely humiliate them.
00:10:53.940 And then I go about my silly goose tasks for the rest of the day.
00:10:56.960 Yes, queen slay, slay, slay your enemies.
00:11:08.420 Raise up your army.
00:11:10.340 Take your rightful place upon the throne.
00:11:13.300 Do y'all want to hear some things?
00:11:15.460 Like if you're, they're making this amazing.
00:11:17.540 So she got 8 million followers off of doing nothing.
00:11:21.360 It's amazing.
00:11:22.260 It would turn your stomach to see what some of them joke about, laugh about, find camaraderie
00:11:29.600 in.
00:11:30.540 And a lot of the times it's violence towards women and others.
00:11:34.060 So I feel like it's important that we platform men who feel so boldly that they can say things
00:11:42.880 like that on the internet with their face and clear view, their government names attached
00:11:48.540 to it.
00:11:49.000 If you're going to post it, so am I.
00:11:52.660 So I like to think of myself as a tangible consequence.
00:11:56.220 I feel like my content has empowered a lot of people and it's, it's given.
00:12:01.540 And this is the thing.
00:12:02.380 She's a fraud because she hates men.
00:12:04.240 And we're going to, we're going to talk about this, but she's in a loving relationship where
00:12:07.940 she's engaged while hating men.
00:12:10.160 So this shows two things.
00:12:11.220 One, that men are complete simps and we'll put up with anything.
00:12:13.500 And two, um, two, that she's a fraud, right?
00:12:20.980 She makes money off of hating men, but she says herself that she's engaged to be married.
00:12:26.520 What is that life going to look like when she has kids?
00:12:28.500 And then the strength and courage to stand up to these men on their own.
00:12:33.400 And they have many, many times before me, but especially after me, I feel like I get tagged
00:12:38.580 in thousands of videos a day of people being like, I'm, I'm channeling Drew in this scenario.
00:12:43.940 And they're like responding to a mean comment that always warms my heart because I want
00:12:48.760 them to know that they can do this without me.
00:12:50.960 Like they don't, they don't need me to constantly do this in order for it to keep working.
00:13:01.880 Most people, um, you know, however they identify, uh, can relate to having a very horrible experience
00:13:10.700 with men, um, you know, as dark and awful as that sounds, it ranges from now, apparently
00:13:17.860 she came at me like last year.
00:13:19.620 Cause I was, I think I, I think she did, but I would debate her to be honest.
00:13:26.560 I don't think she could really hang, uh, but she won't do it.
00:13:31.100 Right.
00:13:31.620 But so, okay.
00:13:32.780 But so you get what you get with these women, a lot of these influencer women, and I gotta
00:13:36.140 say, and I know this is hypocritical, but I can be a hypocrite, right?
00:13:39.300 I can, I can, and I will, uh, influencer women are the worst category of women.
00:13:44.620 Cause one, they're very fueled by reputation and they're willing to use their audience to
00:13:50.100 damage yours and go to no ends to do it, to spread lies, to whatever.
00:13:58.800 So these women, they get really big egos where they think they did something important.
00:14:04.240 Right.
00:14:04.800 When really all we did was talk on a pod, like, do you know what I mean?
00:14:08.300 Like, I feel like I'm humble enough to know that I'm very lucky to do what I do.
00:14:12.420 And I do really enjoy, I love doing this, but I have to be honest with myself and say,
00:14:18.220 um, the world would move on.
00:14:21.940 You know, I didn't cure cancer.
00:14:23.380 I didn't invent some invention, you know, um, where she, she doesn't know that.
00:14:31.040 Right.
00:14:31.280 And that's the problem.
00:14:32.260 You get a lot of these, I even saw like, um, Candace Owens giving business advice once
00:14:37.380 and I'm like, we got to stop convincing influencers that were like business owners because my father,
00:14:46.440 my father, I've talked about this.
00:14:48.200 He's a real business owner.
00:14:49.560 Like he had a big company.
00:14:51.160 He does.
00:14:51.880 And the thing is the most intelligent, the most intelligent man I've ever, I wish I could
00:14:56.400 one day I'll convince him to come on, but he's just so awesome.
00:15:01.640 He's just like the best person ever.
00:15:04.980 Someone said, Oh, it's really immature how much you worship, but you don't understand.
00:15:08.720 I'm like, if you're just around him, he's just, he just knows he's just good at everything.
00:15:14.240 Anyways.
00:15:15.260 But what's funny is like, because I saw that, right.
00:15:19.700 I just know that I'm not shit compared to the men that do things like that.
00:15:25.200 It's so much harder.
00:15:26.800 I mean, what me and Myron do completely different.
00:15:30.160 Even take Myron.
00:15:31.380 I mean, Myron invested in property.
00:15:33.040 Myron has all, he found a way to stay, employ people through demonetization.
00:15:39.820 I didn't even figure out how to do that, you know, and men are just so awesome.
00:15:44.340 Like they just, especially when you get like problem solving solution oriented, Matt, they're
00:15:49.640 just, they operate on like a different playing field, different level, right?
00:15:54.860 They're just very pragmatic.
00:15:59.380 Okay.
00:15:59.860 So let me go.
00:16:00.620 I hate puberty.
00:16:01.020 I love makeup.
00:16:01.460 I loved being a girly girl, that kind of stuff.
00:16:02.340 But I never thought to myself, I'm going to do this because men like it.
00:16:04.920 I would always do it because I liked it, but I never took superficial compliments.
00:16:07.280 Oh my gosh.
00:16:07.440 Sorry.
00:16:07.780 I forgot.
00:16:08.560 I have internet brain.
00:16:10.200 I can listen to everything in 2X.
00:16:12.120 Sorry, guys.
00:16:12.500 It's like, you're so beautiful or you're so hot.
00:16:15.040 I never took those to heart as much as I took things like, you're so smart.
00:16:19.560 You're so funny.
00:16:20.420 You're so funny.
00:16:20.900 Yeah.
00:16:21.080 The things about me that I've always loved the most have never had anything to do with
00:16:24.100 my looks, which is why I think when I was in the throes of my pick me phase,
00:16:29.540 if men would irritate me, that shit would wiggle inside me.
00:16:33.080 I'd be like, hold on.
00:16:35.020 Like, it was almost like it would be like the mask.
00:16:37.860 Like, he'd be like, ah, ah, and then he'd be evil and he'd be like, ah, and then he'd
00:16:41.000 be normal.
00:16:41.620 That's how it felt for me.
00:16:42.760 Cause I feel like the pick me would flare up sometimes.
00:16:45.640 And then if a man got a little too comfy, it would go away immediately.
00:16:48.900 And I'd be like, you can go fuck yourself.
00:16:50.800 Yeah.
00:16:50.960 So I've always been really mean to men just cause they fucking irritate me, which I tell
00:16:55.000 people I'm like, I mean, obviously you ever hung out with one fucking awful.
00:16:58.220 Well, so let's talk about you being engaged to a man.
00:17:01.780 And I'm just curious about your dating life before that.
00:17:05.940 How long have you been with your now fiance?
00:17:07.360 Okay.
00:17:07.620 I'm going to, I'm going to predict her dating life before that she took an L with a guy.
00:17:14.700 This year will be eight years.
00:17:15.960 Oh, a long time.
00:17:16.920 Okay.
00:17:17.220 So like early use that again.
00:17:18.840 This is fraud.
00:17:20.620 This is fraud.
00:17:21.580 She pretends to hate men while she's engaged.
00:17:24.060 She keeps women single while she does what's best for her.
00:17:28.840 Right.
00:17:29.340 Your twenties.
00:17:30.420 Yeah.
00:17:30.900 Yeah.
00:17:31.160 Early, mid twenties.
00:17:32.000 So how did he get in there?
00:17:34.380 I met him in high school.
00:17:35.220 Okay.
00:17:36.560 Prime pick me face.
00:17:37.480 Yeah.
00:17:37.760 Okay.
00:17:38.160 That's how, that's how we met.
00:17:39.200 But you've like evolved together.
00:17:40.360 I just want to like, yeah, yeah, totally.
00:17:41.720 When we were in high school, uh, we were friends in high school.
00:17:44.580 It's a real enemies to lovers arc.
00:17:46.260 I like to jokingly describe.
00:17:48.140 No, but we were really cool.
00:17:49.380 We were close friends in high school.
00:17:51.380 Went to different colleges, dated other people.
00:17:53.580 Did you date in high school?
00:17:54.560 In high school?
00:17:55.040 No.
00:17:55.320 Oh, you just were friends.
00:17:56.140 Okay.
00:17:56.360 Yeah.
00:17:56.540 No, he asked me to prom his senior year and I said, no.
00:17:59.400 He's six, four and you said no.
00:18:01.100 Well, he wasn't six, four at the time.
00:18:02.360 And also, I'm just kidding.
00:18:03.360 He was six, two at the time.
00:18:04.540 Oh my God.
00:18:05.340 I feel like I didn't care that much about height in high school.
00:18:08.620 I feel like I didn't become like a heightist.
00:18:10.100 Cause you're five feet tall.
00:18:11.240 Yeah, no shit.
00:18:12.220 I care a lot today.
00:18:12.620 I was, I was well aware of height.
00:18:14.340 Cause I've been tall my whole life.
00:18:15.840 Oh, I see what you're saying.
00:18:16.460 I didn't realize men being tall and that being hot to me until now.
00:18:20.420 Oh yeah.
00:18:20.820 Yeah.
00:18:21.120 Well, in high school, my, my fiance is a very good looking man and he was that good looking
00:18:25.620 in high school.
00:18:25.940 So he got tall and handsome and popular in high school, but yeah, no, yeah.
00:18:29.180 But that's different colleges.
00:18:30.320 Yeah.
00:18:30.440 That just had no effect on me and, and high school.
00:18:33.160 And honestly, I think that's why he liked me because my sister's a lesbian and I hate
00:18:37.000 men.
00:18:37.340 So in high school, we were the only two people that weren't swayed by him at all.
00:18:41.080 Like he didn't move me at all.
00:18:42.800 Yeah.
00:18:43.140 And I think he liked that about me.
00:18:44.360 I think he liked that my, his looks didn't affect me in any way.
00:18:47.140 Didn't make me treat him any differently.
00:18:48.640 And he was annoying in high school.
00:18:50.060 So there's that, which he would agree with.
00:18:53.100 And then we went to different colleges, dated other people.
00:18:55.500 And then we, she took an L reconnected when I graduated and moved back home.
00:19:00.220 And he was like asking me to hang out.
00:19:02.440 And I was like, for what?
00:19:03.920 Cause I was, I tell this women love this.
00:19:06.380 They love to phrase it.
00:19:07.540 And it's never how it actually happened.
00:19:09.380 They always love to phrase it.
00:19:10.760 Like the guy was chasing them and they had no interest.
00:19:13.620 That's like every feminist fairy, right?
00:19:16.100 The woman just, it never usually goes like that story a few times, but I, but the guy,
00:19:21.580 if, even if he experienced a different, he'll be afraid of her, right?
00:19:25.640 She's got a huge audience that, you know, jokingly.
00:19:28.620 Well, I tell the story jokingly, but it was, it is not a joke.
00:19:32.100 I was really mad at him for something I can't remember.
00:19:34.760 But so I wasn't talking to him for like two years.
00:19:36.540 And then he kept hitting me up constantly, constantly, constantly.
00:19:39.420 And then I finally caved and I was like, sure, we can go to lunch.
00:19:42.520 And then joke's on me.
00:19:43.500 I'm in love now.
00:19:44.040 So there you go.
00:19:44.700 I mean, it's some of the best dating advice.
00:19:46.320 You can throw all dating advice out the window and just do nothing.
00:19:49.680 Just avoid them for two years.
00:19:51.580 How nonchalant speaks to them very loudly.
00:19:53.700 I mean, I could literally leave all other dating advice on the floor and just do that.
00:19:56.900 Oh, yeah.
00:19:57.240 I'm a real boomerang kind of girl.
00:19:58.700 I mean, that's, my fiance was in the DMs for two years.
00:20:00.880 Yeah, exactly.
00:20:01.200 Literally.
00:20:01.520 And then one day I was like, I guess, I'm horny.
00:20:04.040 That's how you get married.
00:20:05.140 No, it really is.
00:20:05.520 Did he have to kind of wear you down a little bit or?
00:20:07.460 Yeah, after a while, yeah.
00:20:08.740 Yeah, okay.
00:20:09.300 So that's how you can tell they're with a simp, right?
00:20:11.540 Because women, when they see a guy as, when they really want to be with a guy, they see it
00:20:19.680 like, if I don't do this, someone else will.
00:20:23.000 It's an opportunity, right?
00:20:24.580 That they'll jump on.
00:20:25.900 And I was completely ignoring him.
00:20:27.340 And so, and we've talked about it now.
00:20:29.800 And obviously we laugh about it now.
00:20:31.120 But I've asked him like, well, why don't you keep coming back?
00:20:33.700 Because like, because he did, was not starving for puss.
00:20:36.260 Like he could, he could get anybody.
00:20:37.600 He's very good looking, very charming, very smart, very capable.
00:20:39.520 Oh my gosh, we're 30 subscribers away from 2 million.
00:20:42.640 I saw somebody unsubscribe.
00:20:44.680 I was like, you guys are assholes.
00:20:47.420 I love you guys.
00:20:48.600 I'm sorry.
00:20:49.060 I'm kidding.
00:20:49.500 I'm kidding.
00:20:49.880 I'm kidding.
00:20:50.800 But yeah, we're 30 away.
00:20:52.200 If you guys feel like it, feel free.
00:20:54.120 Like, and he's a very good person.
00:20:55.660 Like he's always been a really, really good person.
00:20:57.520 Very sweet person.
00:20:58.680 He's just annoyingly handsome.
00:20:59.780 Like who fucking.
00:21:00.500 Well, you both are.
00:21:01.340 You're a very hot couple.
00:21:02.420 Period.
00:21:02.860 Thank you.
00:21:03.860 But yeah.
00:21:04.840 She knows it's one-sided.
00:21:06.400 I think even at the time, like I asked him that, like what made you keep coming back?
00:21:10.500 And he was like, I honestly don't know.
00:21:12.240 Like, and he told me too, like something told me that I would regret it for the rest of my
00:21:15.900 life if I didn't like patch things up with you.
00:21:18.200 He's spitting game.
00:21:19.520 Yep.
00:21:20.460 Telling her what she wants to hear.
00:21:22.600 And like, see you.
00:21:23.660 And he's like, and now I know I was right.
00:21:25.240 And I was like, all right, not too much.
00:21:27.080 Relax.
00:21:27.800 Okay.
00:21:28.200 I was right.
00:21:29.100 One time in eight years.
00:21:30.100 Okay.
00:21:30.500 Sure.
00:21:31.360 Whatever.
00:21:31.940 We got a lot of questions about him though.
00:21:33.720 Oh yeah.
00:21:34.200 I mean, we said like, what do you guys want to know about them?
00:21:36.680 People want to know, like, how do you live at this intersection of, I hate men.
00:21:41.160 I see all this terrible behavior online, but I'm with a man, I'm marrying a man.
00:21:44.800 And by the way, Ashley and I make fun of men too, but we have like great fathers and brothers
00:21:48.320 and friends.
00:21:49.180 Most do.
00:21:49.720 Most women who do.
00:21:52.320 And so this is, it's, what happens is these women, they never get to experience the consequences
00:21:57.860 of the real world, um, until they're older and uglier.
00:22:01.740 Right.
00:22:02.420 Because it's actually the women that hate men tend to have really great men around them.
00:22:08.220 Bailing them out of their bad decisions.
00:22:10.700 That's usually how it goes.
00:22:12.860 Hey, men have great fathers.
00:22:14.400 Exactly.
00:22:15.000 The bar is high.
00:22:16.000 Yeah.
00:22:16.240 So we do think there's like great men.
00:22:19.680 Obviously you found one.
00:22:20.600 So to Ashley, but like, how do you live at that sort of like intersection of the two?
00:22:24.400 I mean, I think it's a lot simpler than people think.
00:22:26.840 I think people overcomplicate it.
00:22:28.260 It's just, you know, I'm not talking about you, but it doesn't, it doesn't change the
00:22:32.440 inherent fact that men are evil.
00:22:33.900 That is true.
00:22:34.560 Like man, man as a whole is evil.
00:22:36.280 Like just as women have aborted an eighth of the world population.
00:22:40.960 And she's saying that men are evil.
00:22:45.120 One out of eight people dead because of women.
00:22:47.620 You're like lucky to be born nowadays because the most unsafe place you can be in your entire
00:22:52.840 life is your mother's womb.
00:22:54.400 That's the most unsafe place.
00:22:56.900 Women, man.
00:22:58.140 As an entity, a general idea, men have inflicted violence and oppression on the world in ways
00:23:03.600 that are irreparable.
00:23:05.360 Female queens were more likely to wage war.
00:23:10.380 The only difference is when women had power, women were very evil with it.
00:23:14.520 But the difference is that women weren't smart enough to get power.
00:23:18.000 That was the challenge.
00:23:18.860 Like it's okay if we say that out loud.
00:23:21.080 It's okay if we say that men are inherently evil.
00:23:23.560 It's like it's not all men, but for some reason, always a man.
00:23:27.140 Every time something terrible happens, always a man.
00:23:29.220 Like 99% of the time.
00:23:30.700 So I feel like it's a lot simpler.
00:23:32.760 We just don't count female evil.
00:23:34.760 That's how this narrative gets around.
00:23:37.280 Is we don't...
00:23:38.060 Something's in my eye.
00:23:39.740 We like don't count it when it's a woman doing something bad.
00:23:44.560 Like almost it doesn't count.
00:23:45.860 More than people may think.
00:23:47.620 It's I don't hate my man.
00:23:51.520 I hate most men.
00:23:53.240 And for me, I think given what men have done to me personally, to people I love...
00:23:58.480 What have they done?
00:24:01.100 Tell me.
00:24:02.240 What have they done?
00:24:03.240 In the world as a whole, if they all start guilty and have to work their way to innocent,
00:24:07.740 it's not really a big deal to me.
00:24:09.060 I feel very like convicted in that.
00:24:10.820 It's very like, if you're not awful, prove it.
00:24:13.500 Quit talking about it and fucking do it.
00:24:15.780 Because the men who complain that they really hate hearing like, oh, what about all men?
00:24:19.980 Oh, all men, all men.
00:24:21.460 A lot of this, not a lot of action.
00:24:23.820 Well, I feel the same way.
00:24:24.880 I think when people talk about...
00:24:25.900 I mean, why do they have to prove themselves to a fat chick?
00:24:28.920 I mean, if you're going to say that, at least be hot.
00:24:31.040 You know what I mean?
00:24:31.980 It's like you have one job as a podcaster.
00:24:34.180 One job.
00:24:36.120 Not be fat.
00:24:37.020 By the way, guys, we're 25 subscribers away from 2 million.
00:24:41.660 If you want to subscribe, feel free.
00:24:43.480 You know, you don't have to, but that button's right there.
00:24:46.220 Hit the like.
00:24:46.800 If you can't do that, feel free.
00:24:48.180 About white women who voted a certain way or have certain beliefs, and it's like, I want
00:24:54.280 to be the best white woman I could be.
00:24:57.580 But when you talk about those white women, it is not me.
00:25:03.260 It's me.
00:25:03.900 Yeah, me.
00:25:08.440 Yep.
00:25:09.340 It's me.
00:25:09.860 It's okay.
00:25:10.360 It's all those beliefs, so I'm not offended by it.
00:25:12.100 Exactly.
00:25:12.280 It's the same way a good man is not offended by the I hate men rhetoric.
00:25:15.520 They're like, that doesn't apply to me.
00:25:16.700 I'm doing my best.
00:25:17.200 It's a very hit dogs holler kind of thing for me.
00:25:19.020 If it doesn't apply, let it fly.
00:25:21.700 That's how I feel.
00:25:22.640 When people talk about, like, and what's something I sit at.
00:25:25.680 I'm a stranger.
00:25:25.980 Men invent 80% of the world's stuff.
00:25:33.040 They run, like, 90% of the economy.
00:25:37.040 Women have no idea how much easier men make their lives.
00:25:41.900 But the thing is, the problem is there's so much incentive, because women make 80% of consumer
00:25:46.960 buying decisions, for men to sell to women that they're going to keep solving our problems
00:25:53.040 for us.
00:25:53.760 I don't really see a revenge fantasy coming.
00:25:57.400 I mean, eventually we get too old and ugly, but they're going to keep inventing technology
00:26:02.540 to put that off as long as possible.
00:26:04.500 They're going to keep inventing technology for women to have kids in their 40s.
00:26:07.660 And a lot won't.
00:26:08.760 But enough will.
00:26:09.500 It'll sell hope.
00:26:10.200 That's what I see as the future.
00:26:11.740 Sorry.
00:26:12.380 Straight woman.
00:26:12.900 Right.
00:26:12.980 I'm a straight cis woman.
00:26:13.680 When they talk about straight cis women, when trans people talk about them, how they can
00:26:17.260 be very harmful towards trans women, it doesn't hit me, because I know I'm not one of those.
00:26:22.560 So when you're talking really loud, and you're getting very upset at what I said, what did
00:26:26.960 I say?
00:26:27.080 Yeah, so basically you can let yourself go and get a cute guy.
00:26:29.680 Yeah, she did.
00:26:31.140 And that's why I get more blackpilled every year.
00:26:34.180 Seriously, every year I get more and more blackpilled.
00:26:37.100 I say that upset you.
00:26:38.600 And why?
00:26:39.460 That's a question you should be unpacking in therapy.
00:26:41.520 Oh my gosh, we're 21 away.
00:26:43.460 Guys, we're so close.
00:26:45.300 I've been stuck at 1.9 million for a year and a half, because they really tried to ruin
00:26:51.420 my life.
00:26:52.000 You know, one of these days, I might just do a show on all of the ways women have tried
00:26:56.120 to ruin my life and how they actually made me more sexist.
00:26:59.220 Not all, not all.
00:27:00.240 But they actually, over time, made me more sexist.
00:27:05.700 My question, you should be writing hate my comments.
00:27:07.960 It's like, and also the men who argue with me about that, or even women, it's very rare
00:27:13.040 that it's women.
00:27:13.700 But anyone who argues with me about that, that's so harmful to say.
00:27:18.300 I hate all men.
00:27:19.160 That's so harmful to say.
00:27:20.580 Every time they say that to me, if I really were to dig in, that person sucks ass every
00:27:25.360 single time.
00:27:26.540 A hundred percent of the time, all the time.
00:27:28.380 That person's awful.
00:27:29.600 That person is awful.
00:27:30.660 A hundred percent of the time, all the time.
00:27:32.460 So like, does she think she's great?
00:27:36.060 Like, this is the audacity of women.
00:27:38.300 What do you call, what do you call it at that point?
00:27:40.020 A pattern?
00:27:40.760 I think some of it is internalized.
00:27:42.260 Oh my gosh, you're almost 15 away.
00:27:44.560 I'll do a happy dance if we hit 2 million.
00:27:47.960 Amen.
00:27:48.280 Like you talk about, you know, women.
00:27:50.160 Listen, I think that like there's a great matter in the world.
00:27:51.640 Internalized racism, all the things.
00:27:52.940 Yeah, all those things.
00:27:54.440 And you are definitely one of the more outspoken people that I've like come across in terms of
00:27:59.140 your book.
00:27:59.720 You call people out by name.
00:28:01.040 You do it on Instagram and TikTok.
00:28:03.060 And I mean, you really stand up for like women's bodies and LGBTQ rights.
00:28:06.580 And I think a lot of people want to feel more empowered to do that.
00:28:10.720 I mean, people say, I remember this girl came up to me one night.
00:28:13.540 I was at Ashley's comedy show and she was like, I could never do what you girls do, but like
00:28:16.900 thank you for doing it.
00:28:18.140 Like I, it was somebody who had a podcast and she was like, how do you feel brave enough
00:28:21.880 to talk about politics and things like that?
00:28:24.040 And I'm like, but that's what we've dedicated our lives to.
00:28:26.060 So I guess I'm curious for you, like, how do you feel that bravery?
00:28:29.300 Seems like you've always been this way.
00:28:30.460 Yeah, I mean, yes.
00:28:31.880 That's kind of how I feel.
00:28:32.680 I've just been like this.
00:28:33.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:28:34.000 But like for people that aren't, like, I think there's people that are like, I want to feel
00:28:36.920 like I can say something and be outspoken.
00:28:39.340 So like you were born a certain way.
00:28:41.040 Like how can other people like feel like that?
00:28:42.820 I get that.
00:28:43.220 Oh my gosh.
00:28:43.720 10, well, 11 more.
00:28:45.320 I'm rounding.
00:28:46.020 11 more subscribers.
00:28:47.500 Question a lot too.
00:28:48.180 Like how do I.
00:28:48.580 It'll make it even better because this crazy bitch should help me get there.
00:28:52.500 Thanks, Drew.
00:28:53.380 Stand up for myself.
00:28:54.120 How do I handle hate or criticism or whatever?
00:28:57.840 I can't stand when influencers talk about handling hate and the criticism.
00:29:03.100 You know, to be fair, okay, it is tough.
00:29:06.800 Like it's different.
00:29:08.380 The first time it happened, I didn't really, and I think one of these days, because I'm
00:29:13.980 a lot more grounded now.
00:29:15.260 My boyfriend grounds me.
00:29:17.760 I won't lie to you guys.
00:29:19.940 But at the time, I didn't really know how to handle, like there's three hour videos on
00:29:26.600 me on the internet, guys.
00:29:28.140 And it's not like I committed a crime.
00:29:30.640 You know, I just said my opinion and they might not like it.
00:29:33.700 But for me, to act like any sort of victim when I get to talk for a living is just so
00:29:45.040 insufferable as a human.
00:29:46.520 I mean, you guys do the real jobs out there.
00:29:48.860 You guys are the ones paving the roads, building the building.
00:29:53.160 I mean, there's men that probably watch my channel that have 10, 12 hour, like construction
00:29:58.100 jobs outside.
00:29:59.240 And for me to say, oh, I can't handle comments, that's why I think blue collar, they tend to
00:30:10.480 be the most grounded, but I'll continue.
00:30:12.000 The way that I do, I liked, oh my gosh, eight more, eight more.
00:30:16.480 To tell people all the time, I know that I am the exception to the rule.
00:30:19.920 Because like for a while, I lived at a very like no fear.
00:30:23.460 Like I had no fear as a child and a teen, and that's not a good thing.
00:30:27.280 It is okay to have a healthy dose of fear, especially to protect, protect yourself.
00:30:31.880 So I know not everyone is like me.
00:30:34.260 What I encourage people who are not like me, if they're trying to learn how to become more
00:30:38.440 confident in their decisions and how they speak up for themselves, whatever it may be.
00:30:43.040 I always encourage them to start small.
00:30:44.620 A lot of times when people are, are very passive.
00:30:47.280 Five more, five more.
00:30:50.060 And they let things happen a lot.
00:30:51.480 Things like if they get your coffee order wrong, if they say your name wrong, you're just
00:30:56.380 like, ah, it's all right.
00:30:57.360 That's where it starts.
00:30:58.080 It starts at little things like that.
00:30:59.380 If you start standing up for yourself and advocating for yourself in little ways like that, you
00:31:04.060 start to build your own confidence because you're like, I mattered.
00:31:07.120 Do you know what women, and I'm going to, for the two women that watch me, I'm going to
00:31:13.220 tell you the things that could actually build your confidence up.
00:31:16.620 And actually not this bullshit that they tell you on the internet.
00:31:19.880 Um, when you have a problem, something you're insecure about, and you can do two things.
00:31:29.700 One, accept that you're a flawed person and, um, that this is just, you know, it's, for
00:31:43.020 example, it used to really bother me.
00:31:46.400 Um, I was, I, I was messy, right?
00:31:49.460 It's just something I struggle with.
00:31:52.040 But when I just started saying, you know what?
00:31:54.140 I am messy and no one could really call it me that.
00:31:57.800 And then I started learning skills to help me in life.
00:32:02.160 Um, that even if somebody like nags at me or whatever, it's like the feeling you get when
00:32:09.260 you're improving on something that you're insecure about, nobody can take that away from
00:32:14.060 you.
00:32:15.040 And it gives you a different type of confidence.
00:32:18.480 Um, it's the same thing with, um, for me, eating habits, like going to the gym, losing
00:32:27.720 weight.
00:32:28.140 You might be, not be as thin as you want to be, but when you know, you're actually taking
00:32:33.240 steps to fix something you're insecure about for me personally.
00:32:36.820 Um, and then at some point overcome it for me, that that's how I've always felt.
00:32:45.560 That's how I've always improved my confidence, not just this like majestical BS that they want
00:32:51.520 to sell.
00:32:53.980 What I want matters.
00:32:55.280 The things I like matter.
00:32:56.240 Like my feelings matter.
00:32:57.580 All of those things.
00:32:58.480 Yeah.
00:32:58.820 Men don't want confident women.
00:33:00.500 Well, that's true, but I don't think men, you know?
00:33:06.740 You might say that, right?
00:33:08.080 And I think it's because in our society, when we see confidence, we see these women
00:33:13.500 that are like boisterous and very masculine.
00:33:16.900 They got to be the center of attention.
00:33:18.240 Like men don't like that type of confidence, but you don't want a woman that's so insecure.
00:33:23.420 That's always asking you if you're cheating, for example, right?
00:33:26.300 That's a turnoff.
00:33:27.120 You don't want a woman that's so insecure that you have to be your only source of like
00:33:32.760 everything, you know, in reality, I mean, I'm not going to tell you what you want.
00:33:38.280 I've just, what I've gotten feedback from that.
00:33:41.960 Do you know what I mean?
00:33:42.560 So it's not really about, um, an external confidence, but internal because we're just
00:33:51.200 naturally insecure and the less insecure you are, you know, you don't want to be like
00:33:57.200 your girlfriend's nagging you about how she looks and saying, I feel so fat.
00:34:01.060 Like that's just annoying.
00:34:02.820 Right.
00:34:04.380 What are we at?
00:34:05.380 Are we at two yet?
00:34:06.320 No, I thought I saw some.
00:34:07.720 Oh my gosh, we are at two.
00:34:11.180 Yay.
00:34:11.800 Okay.
00:34:12.060 We're going to do a, we're going to do a happy dance.
00:34:15.620 Okay.
00:34:16.060 Hold on.
00:34:16.600 I got to pull up the song.
00:34:19.480 You guys already know what song.
00:34:21.700 Now you're a single mom song.
00:34:24.740 You already know what I'm, you already know what I'm bringing up.
00:34:26.960 You let him hit it wrong.
00:34:41.520 You didn't have second thoughts.
00:34:44.100 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:46.020 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:47.840 You said I'm a head as king.
00:34:49.580 Don't care if he's here or not.
00:34:51.740 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:53.800 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:55.260 Now you're a single mom.
00:34:57.940 Show the baby up.
00:34:59.220 Okay.
00:35:00.000 Now somebody wants to.
00:35:03.600 Show the baby up.
00:35:04.760 So, all right.
00:35:07.520 So, now everybody wants to ask me and I will answer this question.
00:35:13.360 Because, you know, people will say, how do you have two million subscribers and only this
00:35:16.820 many live viewers?
00:35:18.620 You have to understand, live viewers, subscribers are like a different metric.
00:35:23.460 Like, a lot of people, they always accuse me of buying them.
00:35:26.960 I've never bought a subscriber, even though Rolo slanders me with this.
00:35:31.260 I should, I should sue for defamation.
00:35:33.500 I won't.
00:35:34.020 I won't.
00:35:34.840 Before he spurgs out on Twitter again or something.
00:35:37.420 But, it's because you get subscribers from shorts and that'll up the shorts number, but it doesn't
00:35:45.500 necessarily translate to live viewers.
00:35:47.840 And I do get a lot of subs from shorts.
00:35:49.680 If you guys clip me dancing and make fun of me, we're going to have beef.
00:35:57.560 Okay.
00:35:57.720 We're going to, there's going to be a beef.
00:36:01.240 But, woohoo!
00:36:02.340 Two million subscribers, everybody.
00:36:05.340 YouTube unthrottled me.
00:36:08.580 All right.
00:36:08.780 We're going to watch this for like five more minutes and then I do got to get going.
00:36:12.440 When you start walking in the belief that they matter, even the most minuscule things, like
00:36:18.660 they said your name wrong, they called you the wrong name, they didn't say excuse me,
00:36:22.780 they got your order wrong.
00:36:23.620 Like, when you start like standing up for yourself that way, I think naturally over time it starts
00:36:28.020 to snowball into bigger decisions, like bigger ways that you can stand up for yourself.
00:36:32.080 If you can, just rip the bandit.
00:36:33.880 You want more dancing?
00:36:35.200 I'll dance some more.
00:36:37.940 I'll dance some more.
00:36:40.120 Hell.
00:36:40.520 No, normally my lives are later.
00:36:48.160 I told a friend of mine, my guitar teacher, he puts on plays and I've been saying I'm going
00:36:54.960 to put it, I'm going to go to one cell.
00:36:56.680 Hold up.
00:36:57.160 Showing a baby off.
00:37:00.040 Now you don't sing it.
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00:37:25.600 do another one thought mommy's in the club say though another one i think it was this one
00:37:55.600 i'm sorry all right i'm done i'm done i'm done
00:38:19.040 thank you guys for two million subscribers okay tomorrow have you guys heard enough of this
00:38:26.420 this fat chick i think we've heard enough um tomorrow i'm gonna do another stream um it's
00:38:32.880 gonna be a normal time uh seven to nine central that's usually when i do it unless
00:38:37.620 i mean guys seven to nine sometimes i'll have family commitments or
00:38:43.460 stuff you know so on those days i go a little earlier um
00:38:50.960 clip me if you clip my dancing we're gonna have beef okay what we will beef will beef so hard
00:38:59.980 that you don't even know what to do with me okay so i do have to go but thank you so much for two
00:39:09.020 million subscribers it's been really frustrating the last year and a half um i basically worked
00:39:15.240 for free for a year and a half and i don't i don't know if you guys have ever been i'm sure some of
00:39:19.980 you have you guys have way harder lives than me but been unemployed and so it was just a very
00:39:25.500 frustrating situation because i just felt like i was working so hard and um i just was being like
00:39:33.200 i felt like i was being punished for it um and it feels good to be back and actually have some
00:39:42.460 progress because i've just been stuck for a while um and you know i had to move i had to do all this
00:39:51.440 stuff so thanks so much we also got our first um school group member that joined after so thanks so
00:39:58.600 much for joining um by the way people that joined the school group i want to give you guys a time
00:40:02.740 frame i filmed a bunch of modules there's like two more i'm waiting for the editor to get back
00:40:08.600 to us um and we're moving i don't want to say the city yet but we are moving in the next probably
00:40:15.940 month or two i don't have an exact date but i have an idea um so when we do that um once we're there
00:40:25.240 we'll have the new production team there and just a lot of things in place to really roll out content
00:40:32.080 probably um july august we can expect a bunch of stuff i'm hoping early next year i can do an event
00:40:38.540 so anyways thank you so much guys please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel
00:40:43.340 thank you for two million subscribers um if you want to join the um school group the link is the
00:40:49.700 first link in the description i'll see you guys next time bye
00:40:55.240 you