JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023


Modern Women Just Don’t Understand This...


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Length

6 minutes

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216.22606

Word count

1,385

Sentence count

128

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

15

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In this episode, the guys debate the age difference between men and women when it comes to having children, and why women are more likely to have kids at 35 than at 20 years old. They also debate why women don t get it.

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00:00:00.000 Even at 35, 90% of your eggs are gone by 30.
00:00:03.760 I don't care.
00:00:05.180 Why does that matter?
00:00:07.160 Why does it come down to your eggs?
00:00:09.380 We want a bad children. 0.95
00:00:10.520 We want a legacy.
00:00:11.960 Okay, okay, okay.
00:00:13.080 I'm saying, I'm saying, I'm saying, I was talking and you interrupted me.
00:00:17.340 I said 90% of your eggs are gone by 30.
00:00:20.180 So if a guy's looking for a wife, he wants someone that can give him kids. 0.82
00:00:23.740 So you're less valuable because you are less likely to give him kids.
00:00:26.960 And you are more likely to lie about your body count.
00:00:29.380 So you could say, oh, I have a low body count, but a guy's not going to believe you.
00:00:32.860 He's like, 35, you've been in the streets for 15 years?
00:00:34.820 Yeah, okay.
00:00:35.660 Well, I don't see the sense in lying, but I'm speaking, like I said, I'm the exception or whatever.
00:00:42.420 My eggs dwindle in after 30.
00:00:45.280 I think that's really awful to say that a woman's value is less because her eggs.
00:00:50.700 I said in the sexual marketplace.
00:00:52.260 Okay, well, in the sexual marketplace, a woman's value is less because her eggs, whatever. 1.00
00:00:56.240 Because someone could be 18 or could be diagnosed with an illness and they can't have kids ever.
00:01:01.620 Or there's probably women that don't even want to have children and they're living their best lives. 1.00
00:01:04.980 Okay, but when you're arguing the extremes, that means you don't have a good argument because that's not the rule.
00:01:11.600 I'm just throwing that out there.
00:01:13.400 I'm just saying it's a bit odd to put up.
00:01:16.060 Go ahead.
00:01:16.420 Yeah, can I just say that?
00:01:18.600 I don't know why women just don't get it. 1.00
00:01:21.020 Because.
00:01:21.700 Is it women or me? 1.00
00:01:22.820 Because just say me.
00:01:23.860 No, no.
00:01:24.460 I'm not actually agree with you.
00:01:25.880 If I wanted to say you, I'd say you.
00:01:27.420 But I'm just saying women as in general.
00:01:28.840 It is because at 35, right, you can be looking good at 35 and you can get with a man at 35 and say you're going to have, you're going to get with this man, you're going to have a five-year relationship with him and then start having kids.
00:01:47.100 Think about your 35, you're going to start having kids at 40.
00:01:50.280 It's not going to be the same as somebody who is 20, being with that man for five years and having children.
00:01:56.840 It doesn't matter how good you look.
00:01:58.840 It doesn't matter about your body because you can't beat biology.
00:02:04.520 That's what's going to happen.
00:02:06.440 No, but see this again, like what you're saying, Andy, is a great point.
00:02:12.540 It's like women don't get it. 1.00
00:02:13.880 And the facts are, it's like women can come out and say, I want someone who's six foot plus tall that drives a nice German car that makes X amount of money a year. 1.00
00:02:26.700 And men have to accept that.
00:02:29.680 Men say, I want a woman who's got a low body count, who doesn't go out, and who looks good. 1.00
00:02:38.400 And it will get challenged.
00:02:40.080 You can't have it both ways.
00:02:41.520 No, but yeah, it gets challenged.
00:02:44.060 You can't have it both ways.
00:02:44.700 And the thing is.
00:02:45.440 Instead of listening to what we want, you have to challenge it.
00:02:50.040 And then you get confused about why men stray.
00:02:52.900 So like when she's saying men will go for a younger woman, the stats are there that men are more attracted to younger women.
00:03:00.780 Instead of looking at it and saying, okay, well, that's just the truth of the matter.
00:03:05.460 The same way short men accept women like taller men.
00:03:09.540 Women need to accept that men have certain standards and that is what the facts are.
00:03:17.360 And the thing is, why is it that when a woman tells a man, this is what I want, the men got to listen.
00:03:23.880 But when the man is saying, this is what I want, the women are like, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1.00
00:03:28.540 No, guys, I don't think we were saying that we don't accept.
00:03:32.380 I just don't give up.
00:03:34.180 I don't care.
00:03:35.600 She's like, it's not like, honestly, he's not the only man in this world.
00:03:40.640 Like, if thinking this way, cool, like, he's going to find his 20 years old girl who can give free child and whatever.
00:03:46.880 But I'm not, like, we are setting that.
00:03:50.360 We are setting that.
00:03:51.120 We just think in a different way, which is a completely different thing.
00:03:54.220 But if the car says...
00:03:54.800 We are setting it, cool, like, as I like a six foot guy and you are setting it, I'm fine with you getting, taking out a 20 years old girl. 1.00
00:04:04.040 You know, I can go out there at 53, I'm looking good.
00:04:07.680 I can get any man I want.
00:04:08.780 You know why?
00:04:09.280 Because I'm going to have a low body count, but I'm going to be what all the men want.
00:04:12.600 You know what I mean?
00:04:13.660 Rubbish.
00:04:14.880 You know what I mean?
00:04:15.840 Rubbish.
00:04:16.400 Exactly.
00:04:16.560 I can say, I look good.
00:04:18.160 I can flee.
00:04:18.700 She's less than 15.
00:04:20.220 She's less than 15.
00:04:21.440 I can go out there and it's rubbish.
00:04:23.480 This is literally the point.
00:04:25.220 When you put it that way, the penny drops.
00:04:27.680 This is literally the point.
00:04:29.060 The older I get, the more barren I'm going to get. 0.94
00:04:30.980 Exactly.
00:04:31.520 And you can't get blood out of a stone.
00:04:33.520 I don't care how good I look.
00:04:35.060 You can't breed after a certain amount.
00:04:37.360 If you're going to say, oh yeah, the upset she can have a baby at 40. 1.00
00:04:40.180 Yeah, you want to go and be in the playground at 65.
00:04:42.440 This is assuming that all women want kids. 1.00
00:04:43.700 Or in school at 65.
00:04:45.500 But the women don't want children, but it's what the men want. 1.00
00:04:48.060 One mic, one mic, one mic.
00:04:49.200 It's what the men want.
00:04:50.960 And the women are not listening to when the men talk, but men somehow have to shut up and listen to when women are talking. 0.98
00:04:56.260 How can you tell a man what you want when a man's telling you what I want? 0.99
00:04:59.140 A man's saying, this is what I want. 0.97
00:05:00.900 And the women are like, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1.00
00:05:02.440 You don't want it because I'm all this.
00:05:04.220 No.
00:05:04.660 Or, or, or, or, or.
00:05:06.280 Can I just clarify?
00:05:06.440 No, no, no.
00:05:06.980 Okay, okay, okay.
00:05:07.720 Stop over-talking me.
00:05:08.720 Stop over-talking me.
00:05:09.820 Stop over-
00:05:10.360 No, no.
00:05:11.140 Stop.
00:05:11.380 That's rude.
00:05:11.780 You're being very rude.
00:05:12.720 This is my show.
00:05:13.440 No, no.
00:05:13.720 You're over-talking me.
00:05:14.980 You're over-talking me.
00:05:15.920 I'm trying to clear something.
00:05:16.320 Stop, stop, stop.
00:05:17.560 Wait.
00:05:17.960 Wait till I'm done.
00:05:18.780 You can wait till I'm done.
00:05:19.680 Cool.
00:05:19.880 Or the other way is they say they don't care.
00:05:21.700 But if you're selling a car, you have to study the people you're selling to.
00:05:25.760 And you don't go up to the people that are buying and say, oh, you should want me.
00:05:29.480 This is what you should want.
00:05:31.020 Go ahead.
00:05:31.340 The point I'm trying to make is you're, it's like you're assuming that you're putting me
00:05:36.480 in the box of people that are saying, oh no, you can't want that because I'm this way.
00:05:40.420 Have me as I am.
00:05:41.280 I never said that.
00:05:42.320 I said, no, I said people should go for what they want.
00:05:46.280 If you want a 20 something year old woman, go for that 20 something year old woman that wants 1.00
00:05:49.900 a 40, 30 year old man.
00:05:51.180 If there's a 30 year old woman or whatever who can't have kids or doesn't want to have 1.00
00:05:55.140 kids or is too old to have kids or whatever, and she meets someone that is happy to have
00:06:00.500 her, then that's for like, it shouldn't be a combative thing where it's like women don't 1.00
00:06:04.840 listen and men listen and should have to settle and should have to listen to what women want
00:06:09.560 and blah, blah, blah.
00:06:10.160 If there's a man that is four foot eight and he wants a tall woman and the woman doesn't 1.00
00:06:13.800 want him, he has to accept it.
00:06:15.300 If there's a woman that's 37, 38, and there's a guy who's earning a lot of money, ticks all
00:06:20.360 her boxes, he doesn't want her because she's old, she has to accept it.
00:06:23.000 That's the point that I was trying to...