JustPearlyThings - August 26, 2023


Modern Women Keep Dodging Accountability


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

191.99191

Word Count

2,089

Sentence Count

278

Misogynist Sentences

29

Hate Speech Sentences

20


Summary

In this episode, the guys and girls talk about women and sex. Why do women like soft guys? How do men like soft girls? Why does a woman like a man who is emotionally available? What is the difference between a woman and a man that is emotionally unavailable? And why is it that women like guys who are emotionally unavailable and men who are not?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What hardest you've simped for a woman?
00:00:02.760 I made like a whole plan to get someone back once.
00:00:07.380 Yeah, I wrote like a whole note
00:00:09.840 and it was like week by week.
00:00:12.580 But that's why I don't really fuck with women right now
00:00:16.140 because you lot suck.
00:00:18.620 So what do you fuck with?
00:00:20.240 You lot just suck, you lot are heartbreakers.
00:00:23.360 Why do we suck?
00:00:25.600 That's a good question.
00:00:27.200 Is it because we keep driving?
00:00:30.000 Or voting.
00:00:32.160 I think that's the one, I think you lot should just stop.
00:00:35.500 No, it's just like the more you give to a woman,
00:00:39.380 the less they want you so I just do the opposite now
00:00:43.620 and it kind of works.
00:00:45.280 Okay, I disagree.
00:00:46.680 Very disagree.
00:00:47.960 You would say that.
00:00:49.020 Disagree.
00:00:50.020 You would say that.
00:00:51.020 But you lot don't get the psychology
00:00:53.280 because you're the woman.
00:00:54.360 But why would you think...
00:00:56.260 You're in the vehicle.
00:00:59.200 Why would you think it's not a good idea
00:01:01.040 to actually share that soft side of you with somebody?
00:01:05.700 Because then women automatically think
00:01:08.000 that you're too emotional and you're not a man
00:01:12.720 and that's not attractive to women.
00:01:14.040 It is.
00:01:14.820 It is attractive.
00:01:15.580 Very much.
00:01:16.180 Stop lying.
00:01:16.920 It is.
00:01:17.920 I like a man that's going to send flowers, you know.
00:01:23.420 Okay, I'm a guy.
00:01:24.420 You don't get such an ick.
00:01:25.720 That's an ick.
00:01:26.720 That's an ick.
00:01:27.720 All right.
00:01:28.720 Tell me.
00:01:29.720 Guys, guys.
00:01:30.720 Is this true or false?
00:01:31.720 Women always like the men that don't like them back.
00:01:34.720 Yeah, that's kind of true.
00:01:36.720 That's kind of true.
00:01:37.720 I have to admit.
00:01:38.720 But then when they find the...
00:01:41.560 I think it's like more of a challenge.
00:01:42.860 Like in life, you kind of want challenges, right?
00:01:44.940 Yeah.
00:01:45.260 So when you do get the guy that you like
00:01:46.960 and you've challenged yourself
00:01:48.240 and he eventually takes note of you,
00:01:50.920 then it's like you kind of then want him to soften up.
00:01:55.120 So you want to see...
00:01:55.900 Right, can I push you?
00:01:56.460 Yeah, and then you like leave.
00:01:57.680 And then you leave.
00:01:57.980 And then you leave.
00:01:59.480 I will never leave you.
00:02:00.120 This is the problem.
00:02:00.980 Leave you.
00:02:01.560 This is why nothing lasts anymore.
00:02:03.060 Well, I mean...
00:02:03.720 I think we're looking for balance.
00:02:05.140 There's no balance.
00:02:05.940 You guys are both single,
00:02:07.220 so you left every guy you've been with.
00:02:11.260 So these emotionally available guys,
00:02:13.580 where are they?
00:02:14.180 Yeah, that's true.
00:02:14.800 That's true.
00:02:16.300 Oh, no, I like that.
00:02:16.740 They got the ick and left.
00:02:18.200 That was it.
00:02:18.960 I grew up.
00:02:19.820 I learned.
00:02:20.420 I learned the hard way.
00:02:21.860 I mean, when I was younger,
00:02:24.040 yeah, I wanted, you know, a bit of edge.
00:02:25.860 But now I like...
00:02:26.860 I want soft life, baby.
00:02:28.120 Do you know what the problem is?
00:02:29.760 Instagram and social media.
00:02:31.080 There's too many options out there for people.
00:02:32.720 I feel like it's a lot of room to be deceived going on.
00:02:36.640 Like, a lot of deception is going on,
00:02:39.040 especially when it comes to social media.
00:02:41.240 Yeah, but you have too many options.
00:02:43.220 So you're like,
00:02:44.120 oh, don't worry if that don't work out,
00:02:45.780 this next one.
00:02:46.480 But don't you?
00:02:46.940 That's why girls get the ick so quick.
00:02:48.480 But don't you?
00:02:49.120 No.
00:02:49.820 Me.
00:02:50.320 Don't you have a lot of options?
00:02:51.580 Me?
00:02:51.840 Listen, I'm just focusing on me.
00:02:53.600 I can admit I'm confused.
00:02:55.220 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:55.720 Well, most men don't have a lot of options.
00:02:57.980 One out of three men are either virgins
00:02:59.480 or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:03:01.120 Really?
00:03:01.340 Yeah, I'm going to I actually I'm going to get to you,
00:03:04.380 but I kind of want to show you guys something.
00:03:06.280 You're going to get to the virgins.
00:03:07.200 Okay.
00:03:11.080 Okay.
00:03:11.840 So we got, all right,
00:03:14.360 we're going to get the women here.
00:03:16.680 Oh, my God.
00:03:27.340 Okay.
00:03:28.340 Here's the guy.
00:03:38.920 All right.
00:03:39.540 So I'm going to show you guys the dating.
00:03:42.700 All right.
00:03:44.520 So would you guys agree that you want someone in general
00:03:47.160 that makes more money than you in general?
00:03:49.120 Of course.
00:03:49.680 Yeah.
00:03:49.780 Okay.
00:03:49.980 Would you agree that you want someone taller than you?
00:03:52.380 Yeah.
00:03:52.740 Absolutely.
00:03:53.100 Okay.
00:03:53.620 Would you agree that you want someone smarter than you?
00:03:56.640 Yeah.
00:03:56.940 Yeah.
00:03:57.120 In general.
00:03:57.840 Okay.
00:03:58.120 So now the problem is we all do.
00:04:01.260 So here's here's the date.
00:04:03.720 This is going to be the lines are going to be sex
00:04:06.420 because we're not getting married anymore.
00:04:08.400 So this is just sex.
00:04:09.700 So, you know, they have sex.
00:04:12.160 They have sex.
00:04:13.720 They have sex.
00:04:15.420 I'm going to add another.
00:04:18.800 Yeah.
00:04:19.240 So this is the dating market
00:04:21.200 because women date across and up hierarchies
00:04:24.080 because we want someone taller, stronger.
00:04:26.400 So basically, we're just all screwing these guys.
00:04:30.260 Them ones get left behind.
00:04:31.080 Yeah.
00:04:31.380 And these guys are virgins.
00:04:33.380 So it used to be.
00:04:34.760 Well, they might get lucky sometimes.
00:04:36.380 They might get lucky.
00:04:36.880 They might get lucky.
00:04:37.480 Here or there.
00:04:38.400 They might pick.
00:04:39.560 They might pick.
00:04:39.580 Yeah.
00:04:40.860 Yeah.
00:04:40.940 Yeah.
00:04:41.280 They might pick like this.
00:04:42.840 Like this chick might be like,
00:04:44.160 all right, fine.
00:04:45.800 But he'll get her like once and then she's done.
00:04:48.240 And she's like, I'm going back.
00:04:49.700 I'm going back because women, it's so funny.
00:04:52.600 We would rather share.
00:04:54.440 We would rather be the king's concubine
00:04:56.580 rather than the peasant's wife.
00:04:58.400 Throughout all of time.
00:05:00.220 Yeah.
00:05:00.500 If a stronger guy came in
00:05:02.500 and we're like in a tribe, we're all together.
00:05:05.360 And then, you know, my bouncer comes in
00:05:07.820 and kills these guys,
00:05:08.920 then boom, now we belong to the bouncer.
00:05:10.680 You see what I mean?
00:05:11.800 Yeah.
00:05:12.340 So.
00:05:12.500 The bouncer.
00:05:13.380 Yeah.
00:05:14.160 Yeah.
00:05:14.560 Because basically like if a guy,
00:05:16.320 if a guy like bigger, stronger,
00:05:18.680 richer, whatever came in,
00:05:20.100 you just, you were forced to.
00:05:21.700 Yeah.
00:05:21.900 So that's why women were kind of heartless.
00:05:23.980 We just leave after, no offense,
00:05:25.380 but after 19 years, you know.
00:05:28.500 And yeah.
00:05:30.260 So, and the other problem is then.
00:05:32.000 Can I say something?
00:05:32.500 Yeah.
00:05:32.600 Go ahead.
00:05:32.880 Go ahead.
00:05:33.760 When I was with him, he was down there.
00:05:35.480 Oh.
00:05:36.000 Okay.
00:05:36.300 How tall was he?
00:05:37.740 He's not that much taller than me.
00:05:39.020 I'm quite tall.
00:05:39.520 Okay.
00:05:39.820 So.
00:05:40.240 But he was about six foot.
00:05:42.000 Okay.
00:05:42.460 So that's top 15% of men.
00:05:44.540 Okay.
00:05:46.020 Okay.
00:05:46.380 How much,
00:05:46.820 how much money did he make?
00:05:48.020 I mean,
00:05:48.460 we were teenagers.
00:05:50.660 So nothing.
00:05:51.060 No,
00:05:51.280 now.
00:05:51.660 Like after the 19 years,
00:05:53.040 like roughly.
00:05:53.680 After the 19.
00:05:54.700 I mean,
00:05:55.120 he,
00:05:55.540 he made the most money in between.
00:05:58.540 I think.
00:05:59.140 I think he,
00:05:59.780 I think I make more money than him now.
00:06:01.140 Okay.
00:06:02.060 Okay.
00:06:02.520 Well,
00:06:02.920 that's usually when women leave.
00:06:04.320 So thank you for,
00:06:05.320 I had a suspicion.
00:06:06.880 Okay.
00:06:07.300 So,
00:06:07.820 so how,
00:06:08.780 how much money did he make roughly?
00:06:11.220 When?
00:06:11.700 Which month?
00:06:12.320 When you were together,
00:06:13.360 just give me a rough salary.
00:06:14.460 So we started from,
00:06:15.640 started from the bottom now.
00:06:16.720 We're here.
00:06:17.220 No,
00:06:17.460 he still started.
00:06:18.260 No,
00:06:18.380 he still started here.
00:06:20.040 If he was top 15% of height.
00:06:22.180 Okay.
00:06:22.420 Okay.
00:06:22.500 At least.
00:06:23.520 So then how much money did he make?
00:06:26.620 What in between?
00:06:27.540 Oh my God.
00:06:28.260 Just,
00:06:28.440 just,
00:06:28.820 you know,
00:06:29.060 just say 20 to 25 a year.
00:06:30.840 I mean,
00:06:31.100 no one wage,
00:06:32.000 nothing.
00:06:32.480 Okay.
00:06:33.080 25.
00:06:33.520 25 grams a year.
00:06:34.560 Okay.
00:06:34.980 Okay.
00:06:35.380 So a normal.
00:06:36.540 So,
00:06:36.780 okay.
00:06:36.980 But he was still above average in height.
00:06:39.060 Yeah.
00:06:39.360 He was muscly and okay.
00:06:42.160 So he was hot.
00:06:43.060 He was a hottie.
00:06:44.020 All right.
00:06:44.540 I made him into a hottie.
00:06:45.560 Now we get to the root of this.
00:06:49.400 Yeah.
00:06:49.940 And so maybe he'll be watching this thinking,
00:06:52.220 why is she talking?
00:06:53.140 This is what the women like,
00:06:54.580 this is what we do.
00:06:55.360 We usually go for the hot guys when we're younger.
00:06:57.640 Yeah.
00:06:57.920 And then later we're like,
00:06:58.940 oh shit,
00:06:59.360 I want to like have a better lifestyle.
00:07:01.220 So I'm either going to make money myself and leave,
00:07:04.180 or I'm going to,
00:07:05.820 I'm going to find a guy that's richer.
00:07:07.460 These are trends.
00:07:08.360 It's not every chick.
00:07:09.340 What about.
00:07:10.000 You want to find yourself.
00:07:11.780 Well.
00:07:12.160 So many years with a man,
00:07:13.640 you forgot about yourself.
00:07:15.400 So this is the problem.
00:07:17.040 I'll tell you,
00:07:17.500 I'll tell you finding my,
00:07:18.780 this is what I found.
00:07:19.820 So here's Instagram.
00:07:21.720 Okay.
00:07:22.260 That really spins a little bit as well.
00:07:24.040 So here's Instagram.
00:07:25.000 So the problem with Instagram is they make all these chicks over here think they're hotter than they are.
00:07:31.020 Oh,
00:07:31.040 trust me.
00:07:31.560 So they think,
00:07:32.240 so we,
00:07:32.920 we have this thing where we just like believe Instagram.
00:07:35.820 So I've seen the trend of finding yourself.
00:07:38.740 It's like these chicks do these Tik Toks,
00:07:40.740 like leaving their boyfriends and like moving to a new country or something.
00:07:43.780 Yeah.
00:07:44.280 I've seen this.
00:07:45.660 And yeah,
00:07:46.660 Instagram is like,
00:07:47.880 yes,
00:07:48.200 the streets are super fun.
00:07:49.880 And so the women that are married here,
00:07:52.480 right.
00:07:53.180 And they,
00:07:53.740 maybe,
00:07:54.040 maybe she snagged this might,
00:07:55.680 you know,
00:07:55.900 maybe she snagged this guy or this guy.
00:07:57.800 She was like,
00:07:58.200 all right,
00:07:58.460 I can't,
00:07:58.880 these guys keep pumping and dumping.
00:08:00.180 So I got to stop here.
00:08:01.280 And so now they get married here,
00:08:04.860 right.
00:08:05.220 But Instagram comes in and basically,
00:08:08.300 and convinces her that she can get this guy now where this guy,
00:08:12.260 or maybe she starts to make more money than usually thinks she can do better or just make enough money to live without him.
00:08:18.500 And so basically when women don't need men,
00:08:22.540 we tend to leave them for whatever reason.
00:08:24.980 We just tend to go.
00:08:26.560 Yep.
00:08:26.840 Leave them for more money.
00:08:28.200 Is that our fault?
00:08:28.940 Or is that them?
00:08:29.700 I would say it's our fault for leaving.
00:08:31.500 Yeah.
00:08:32.020 Yeah.
00:08:32.740 Do you know what?
00:08:33.480 Yeah.
00:08:34.160 Old school relationships used to actually work on the issues and their problems and communicate.
00:08:39.320 They stuck it out.
00:08:40.920 This is why we shouldn't vote.
00:08:43.480 So what if the man stops leading a woman?
00:08:46.540 So what happens then?
00:08:47.300 If he stops leading on which a man is typically supposed to do.
00:08:50.760 Well,
00:08:51.000 did you,
00:08:51.500 well,
00:08:51.940 did you,
00:08:52.320 did you stop following?
00:08:54.000 Why is it always leading?
00:08:55.220 Well,
00:08:56.140 I think,
00:08:57.260 you know,
00:08:57.700 I think that's kind of an excuse because I think when you think of the most docile feminine women,
00:09:03.020 I'm not saying it's me,
00:09:04.120 but I'm saying like,
00:09:04.940 when we think of like the most docile women,
00:09:07.360 they're going to be led,
00:09:08.260 even if a guy isn't like the strongest lead,
00:09:11.200 how guys naturally lead.
00:09:12.820 That's part of who they are.
00:09:13.800 That's what I mean,
00:09:14.120 but what if they naturally stop leading?
00:09:16.040 Okay.
00:09:16.200 What does that mean?
00:09:17.280 Stop leading?
00:09:18.340 Stop being a man.
00:09:19.380 Okay.
00:09:19.600 What does that mean?
00:09:20.640 Just fall back.
00:09:21.440 This is what I find.
00:09:22.620 I find that usually,
00:09:24.040 okay,
00:09:24.240 it'll start man because God are above the men and then the women.
00:09:28.780 This is just my beliefs.
00:09:29.960 Okay.
00:09:30.180 So,
00:09:30.560 you know,
00:09:30.740 take this or leave it.
00:09:31.820 But I think usually when I hear that,
00:09:33.760 it means she's a really argumentative domineering woman that,
00:09:37.320 you know,
00:09:38.040 basically made his life hell for 20 years and he just got tired of like listening to her bitch.
00:09:43.360 So he just gave up.
00:09:44.640 I'm not saying it to you.
00:09:45.720 I don't know.
00:09:46.380 Of course it's not me.
00:09:47.020 This is just,
00:09:47.260 this is just one of the way because like usually a guy will tell you something and do you listen or do you accuse him of not leading?
00:09:55.720 You know,
00:09:56.020 this is,
00:09:56.440 it depends what he says.
00:09:57.120 Well,
00:09:57.880 see,
00:09:58.160 that means you can't follow.
00:09:59.220 Well,
00:09:59.500 he does.
00:10:00.180 See,
00:10:00.420 but it shouldn't depend.
00:10:01.820 This shouldn't depend.
00:10:02.980 When you're,
00:10:03.280 when you tell your kids something,
00:10:04.580 do you say,
00:10:05.020 do they say it depends when I'm going to listen?
00:10:07.640 No,
00:10:08.020 I mean,
00:10:08.300 no,
00:10:08.520 they're,
00:10:08.740 they're just supposed to listen.
00:10:10.160 Cause they're below.
00:10:11.560 There he got,
00:10:12.720 ah,
00:10:13.300 so you're saying the woman is below the man.
00:10:15.620 So she should just listen.
00:10:16.600 Yeah,
00:10:16.720 that's the hierarchy.
00:10:17.320 What he says,
00:10:18.160 if he says,
00:10:18.820 um,
00:10:19.320 you know,
00:10:19.700 just jump off a cliff.
00:10:21.000 Well,
00:10:21.340 I think if he tells you,
00:10:22.620 I think,
00:10:23.120 you know,
00:10:23.500 I think there are some extremes.
00:10:25.180 Right.
00:10:25.620 I'll give you an example when I,
00:10:27.200 I'll give you an example.
00:10:29.520 I'll give you an example when I,
00:10:30.880 I don't believe in birth control.
00:10:32.300 So I wouldn't,
00:10:33.440 if a guy told me go on birth control,
00:10:34.960 I'd be like,
00:10:35.420 look,
00:10:35.620 I think that's against,
00:10:36.420 that's true.
00:10:37.280 Against.
00:10:37.640 Yeah.
00:10:38.980 So,
00:10:39.720 so,
00:10:40.120 you know,
00:10:41.220 but that's,
00:10:41.920 what is it?
00:10:42.200 The pullout method?
00:10:43.740 What do you mean?
00:10:45.060 What do you look?
00:10:45.720 I don't know what the pullout method is.
00:10:47.040 I think when you get married,
00:10:48.240 you should just,
00:10:49.100 yeah.
00:10:49.500 All right.
00:10:50.060 I think you just,
00:10:51.640 you know,
00:10:51.980 see what happens.