JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Kept Lying About Their Body Count Because of This

00:00:00.000 doing really well why would we pick you when a lot of you girls come with trauma a lot of you 0.71

00:00:04.240 girls come with kids and us men don't have kids and we're doing really well we'll just look past

00:00:08.160 you women women only swipe right on dating apps five percent of the time where men swipe right 1.00

00:00:12.320 45 yeah so and that's the thing like i always say women women say things like men are trash or men 0.99

00:00:17.600 are the problems because they're all sleeping with the same ones no my okay my point was is 0.97

00:00:22.480 are older men going for younger women because in their older age are they miserable so they have 1.00

00:00:27.440 to feel they're getting their confidence back by getting with younger women no i'm i think i think

00:00:33.120 men's lives get better after 45 because they actually have money they're usually in better 0.99

00:00:36.960 okay this is a question for everyone do you think roles reverse that women are happy when they're

00:00:41.120 younger yeah yes and then yeah i mean why do you think why do you why do you think women why do you 0.79

00:00:46.240 think women spend three hundred thousand dollars in their lifetime on beauty products that's the 1.00

00:00:51.200 number one thing that women out like outspend men and why do you think women spend so much money on 1.00

00:00:55.920 botox lip filler all that stuff they're trying to look young i'm sorry i think innately innately

00:01:01.600 women know it listen we just we just heard the pattern like china china just gave you the gold 0.98

00:01:07.600 fact pattern of what how it goes and we skipped past it so quickly we didn't even take it in

00:01:14.960 like that's exactly that's how it goes that's it that's the pattern right there that's what happens

00:01:21.520 um okay so i have a question but there was questions asked after that which it's like no one

00:01:26.960 understood that he just answered everything so basically i'm not i'm not miserable i'm

00:01:31.440 fucking happy man sorry i don't i hardly swear but i you know what it is i'm just happy life's good 0.75

00:01:35.200 like so i don't understand my girls in the early 20s like my life is really good so this thing where 0.99

00:01:39.600 they want to act like men no we're living our life and and and it's the women i get in their 30s 1.00

00:01:44.320 that trying to make it fair they're trying to make it no but it doesn't have to be fair because it

00:01:47.520 wasn't fair for us early and then we had to go through life it not being fair eating not being

00:01:53.280 looked at but now we're not eating we're eating caviar and steak you know what i'm saying to you

00:01:57.360 and yeah okay okay um um so i i have a question for the men um do you prefer female leadership

00:02:06.640 male leadership or do you not have a preference i don't i don't have i don't have a preference but

00:02:13.440 i do know that i have experienced both okay i i don't care but i've got i don't i don't have

00:02:19.200 a preference i've got i've got mentors um who everything i learned professionally like i'm

00:02:25.040 indebted to them forever um one like two of them are women one's one's a man but yeah i don't have a

00:02:33.600 preference i you know i love them all the same have you ever seen someone at work get falsely accused

00:02:39.760 of essay yes let me tell you something very quickly on that

00:02:46.560 so sorry i breathed into the camera um at my at my at my last my last job when i was an employee um

00:02:58.480 so there was there was like a weird um situation going on where if if anyone told if anyone knows me

00:03:06.800 i i just i tell the truth like that's that's what i'm that's what i'm known for yeah that's what my

00:03:12.000 channel's about 100 interviews go and check that out on youtube um so basically it does offend people

00:03:20.640 sometimes you know some you know people want to hear nice things but unfortunately i wish i could

00:03:26.560 you know the truth was always nice but it's it's not i'm just the messenger i'm just going to tell you

00:03:31.360 what it is unfortunately sometimes it's going to make people uncomfortable so this was happening

00:03:37.520 at work and the hr lady um did not uh love the fact that i was doing this and highlighting certain

00:03:46.880 things so she tried to put me under something called a performance review um and started trying

00:03:54.400 to like follow me like outside of work i just i turn i turn and see her certain places like all of a 0.73

00:04:01.040 sudden she's on my same tube into work and weird little things that i thought of i kind of thought

00:04:07.120 nothing of and then um one day she called me into a meeting it was just me and her in the room

00:04:15.360 and i was she she said to me um she said she said something about black people yeah um which i know

00:04:24.240 is not the topic but immediately in that moment i resigned i had i resigned the job um and but the

00:04:32.240 way i did it the way i did it because it's just me and this lady in the room i'm a big black guy 0.71

00:04:39.040 i very very carefully said to her with a smile on my face i would like to resign it's not you yeah it's

00:04:46.480 not you it's it's all good um but i've been thinking about it for a while um i've already written

00:04:52.240 the letter i hadn't um i'll say i'll send it to you later on i just i'd like to resign i think i'm

00:04:57.680 ready to move on with a smile walked out the room and then went and made sure i was somewhere where

00:05:04.480 everyone could see me and started to explain to one or two of my colleagues what happened

00:05:09.520 uh and then shortly after that i moved on because i know that if i had not um for some reason i felt

00:05:17.680 like if i hadn't handled that situation in that way that woman could have come out of that room 1.00

00:05:23.120 and said anything about me doing essay or anything to her in that room and you know i'm not a weirdo

00:05:33.200 not that i look like a weirdo or or nothing but you know it's not hard for someone to say oh look at

00:05:39.600 this poor um young um you know little white woman and this big black guy and it's it's believable if 0.57

00:05:46.560 someone says something about like about me um something about me like that it's believable look

00:05:52.400 look at the size of me you know what i'm saying so i had to handle that situation very carefully

00:05:57.200 and use my wits um so yeah i just wanted to tell that that story very quickly on that point

00:06:03.520 mm-hmm and but did she accuse you of something or no no no no she she couldn't because the way i

00:06:09.440 did it okay yeah the way i did it she couldn't there was no cameras in that room but the way i kind

00:06:13.840 of smiled and you know made her just made her comfortable and then but alex yeah what what was

00:06:20.160 the assumption what was the assumption that she could say that about you so do you know do you know

00:06:28.960 what it is yeah um i've just see i've seen enough situations what have you seen enough situations

00:06:37.760 like that where people told lies yeah so i learned from other people's mistakes and it's and it's not

00:06:44.160 a person's mistake sorry but it's not a person's mistake to not look out for the lie that's coming

00:06:48.560 against them but it's it's still i learned from that situation and decided exactly how i was going to

00:06:56.880 handle you know that situation at that time women are spiteful i've heard guys talk about how they 1.00

00:07:02.560 were accused of essay after they rejected a girl and like absolutely there is there's one case in the

00:07:07.360 u.s where a girl accused a guy of essay and um they they kicked him out of the school even after footage

00:07:14.400 came out of her pulling him in to kiss her at the bar her pulling him back to the dorm and like

00:07:21.360 clearly like flirting with him all over him all night and then like he still got kicked out

00:07:26.880 of the school even with all that evidence and footage that came forward that's the problem

00:07:30.800 like it's easier for women to play that card than it is for men like men don't have

00:07:35.360 any sort of backup on that topic and that happens every day so what he's saying like i completely

00:07:40.800 understand what about you china yeah so i know so many um i could give you examples of this but what

00:07:47.440 uh so it's you know what i'll say remember the story that i told you i'm not going to speak about that

00:07:52.480 but i'm actually um i'm actually writing a play about something like something about this we're

00:07:55.920 going to put it on next year so when it yeah as we get through i'll let people know but there's

00:07:59.280 actually a story that i'm writing about this quite it is quite poignant and so i'm putting it we're

00:08:02.960 going to put on um uh stick on on on a theater production of it next year uh so but what i will

00:08:09.040 talk about i'm gonna talk about a friend of mine's case i'm not going to speak too much about him

00:08:12.240 because i don't want to let it go but what i will say is a friend of mine was working he had a very good

00:08:17.680 job um in the educational sector um he was uh there was a new role that's about to come out he

00:08:24.960 there was a colleague of him they used to have a bit of bounce but it was nothing you know i'm trying

00:08:28.480 to say to you he went for a job role she went for a job role he was given the job role she was not

00:08:33.280 given the job role everything was fine up until that point after that point he was given the job

00:08:37.280 role he obviously became her boss and then now he had to get her to do certain things and you

00:08:41.680 know i mean so she didn't like the fact that he was given the job role and he was now her boss even

00:08:46.880 though they were fine hundred percent before everything was fine she started creating problems

00:08:50.880 within it and saying that she can't work with him and then obviously the um hr was like why can't 0.73

00:08:55.520 you work with him and then she came around he's been inappropriate and that created a whole spiral

00:09:00.400 of events that happened and when i know how hard my boys come from nothing it's not one of the it's

00:09:05.040 one of these people that's come from nothing like war-torn country to climb up and to get yourself go to

00:09:09.280 university get yourself educational sector and he was like the only black person in there and then she 0.84

00:09:13.760 was also um she was a black girl mixed face girl and then so just two of them and when she went and

00:09:20.000 made whatever allegations against him it set a whole spiral of events that put him through

00:09:25.440 and i had to witness this man go through this pain like and he's my friend and i was just like why is

00:09:29.200 she doing this but she just didn't like the fact he got the job and she didn't get the job um in the 0.99

00:09:34.480 end he had to go on some hr course about inappropriate conduct at work he he kept his job and everything was

00:09:40.880 fine but you see after that he um he left he left the post and went somewhere he was just like bro it

00:09:46.480 wasn't the same he was like i didn't want to climb up any higher in that industry even though that they

00:09:50.880 and they found me it was not guilt where everyone was fine just the fact that he had to be put through

00:09:55.360 that that whole process so you see what he's saying alex he's saying like see as a man

00:10:03.520 and when you put yourself in the scenario just why i said i don't move to girls i don't because i could

00:10:07.840 never have a woman say to me that i came and approached the inappropriate because i don't

00:10:10.800 even do it so i'm saying to you she's gonna have to approach to me when you see the messages between

00:10:15.040 us two it's not gonna be me that's trying to say it's gonna be her because we live in a new world

00:10:19.840 now and i've always been like this but ever since women have said oh you know what if a man's walking 0.96

00:10:24.080 down the road i expect him to cross over this over the road because it makes me feel nervous i'm

00:10:27.760 i'm minding my business you know i got my hoodie on i'm i'm doing my own thing but now

00:10:31.200 you're saying that what women are these okay okay you're saying what women are these just saying 0.97

00:10:35.680 no but the same women that are talking about the rubbernecking or these that's no i mean the same 1.00

00:10:39.840 women that would be myself are you referring to myself no so so you asked me you're asking a

00:10:44.080 question and i'm speaking so you're saying which women are doing this you talked about the advert right 0.99

00:10:48.400 the same women that are talking about the advert are the same women that are making a man cross over 1.00

00:10:52.480 the road because personally i would never i didn't say you i didn't say you see what we're doing is

00:10:57.520 you're making it about you stop making it about you i'm trying not to but you wasn't but you're

00:11:01.200 making it about i'll give you an example the definition of sexual assault that says for example

00:11:06.800 pressure there we go manipulation bullying intimidation threats deception drugs or alcohol 0.99

00:11:14.880 they're trying to include if a guy this is the stupidest shit i've ever heard in my life if a guy 1.00

00:11:20.640 lies to a girl about his job and she sleeps with him like thinking he has that job they're gonna 0.99

00:11:26.640 say that's essay but i understand i understand where they got it from in terms of if obviously

00:11:35.680 you know i mean like that's the level of manipulation if someone did something obviously it's not good

00:11:39.680 but if someone slept with somebody based on what they thought they worked as and then they found

00:11:43.920 that they didn't it's like i wouldn't call it essay though i wouldn't call it essay either personally

00:11:56.720 but i understand where they try to put it into the category yeah from it's a form of manipulation but

00:12:02.160 that's not sexual assault though so what it is is like the sexual assault comes from if you've told me

00:12:07.040 you don't if you know that you're gonna tell me you're a bin man i don't care let's just give a 0.73

00:12:12.640 real like if someone was to say bin man or you just did something like yeah i mean council work

00:12:17.520 or whatever it is i don't care personally i'm not discriminative or prejudiced against anyone on

00:12:21.840 their work but like if you told me that's what you did i would take you as that and i'll take you

00:12:26.400 from that but if you've had to lie to me to tell me that you do something else for me to take you as 0.99

00:12:30.080 this is not you you're an imposter in my vagina trust me you're an imposter in my vagina i was 1.00

00:12:35.360 fucking ceo and i'm fucking bin man that's a violation and i've been sexually assaulted 1.00

00:12:42.080 i probably busted down for you and this is an l like like you said power it's an l yeah but it's 1.00

00:12:47.440 but you see where the men are coming from it's like like if a guy tries to convince you to sleep

00:12:52.320 with him that could be seen as coercion that's creepy but i understand like okay like i've seen i i think

00:12:59.680 every girl has had an experience with a guy that's like it's too pushy right but there's a

00:13:04.240 difference between pushy and sexual assault yeah and and i just think recently in recent years we've

00:13:10.400 been blurring the lines to the point it's confusing confusing and men like china are like you know what 0.94

00:13:15.920 screw this every girl's different every girl is gonna one girl's one girl's gonna report me one 0.95

00:13:21.280 girl's not one girl's gonna think this is flirting one girl's gonna report me for assault that they're 1.00

00:13:25.280 just like you know what this i don't even want to deal with it and that's why and that's why men

00:13:29.280 don't it's fine for you not me i'm like i don't want to be approached stop with these i'm like

00:13:34.880 let them be mad in the corner question question question yeah question question for you yeah so

00:13:40.560 in fact for everyone for everyone so so if uh if if a bin man said you know lies and says i'm a doctor

00:13:48.880 you know oh i'm michael jordan himself or whatever yeah um and he's prime yeah and a girl sleeps with him

00:13:56.240 because of that and then found finds out she was lied to is that is there is there is there something

00:14:03.760 a bit but women women catfish every day with botox lip fillers can i get to the question though 1.00

00:14:24.160 can i get to the actual question yeah i've presented it but let me let me ask the question is there

00:14:29.360 is there any kind of responsibility or is there is there anything weird about the girl choosing to

00:14:37.600 sleep with someone because of this status or title or whatever is there any wrong there at all

00:14:43.360 why are we saying that's weird no no i'm asking you a question i'm asking i'm asking the question

00:14:48.160 we've just presented that women are not good bosses women are not good leaders 1.00

00:14:53.200 therefore men have to do it so if you don't have the leadership skills most women get to be a ceo 0.99

00:15:00.080 and you're a bin man yeah but you have to lie and say i'm not a bit because you're not proud i would

00:15:05.520 i mean i could be with a bin man if you if you say it with chess i could be with a bin man

00:15:11.200 i don't think i don't think my question is being understood so but go on karen you're saying that why

00:15:17.200 if a woman has sex with a man because of his title yeah isn't that a form of manipulation but

00:15:24.400 why did the man lie about his title because he knew that that woman not me but that woman cared

00:15:30.880 more about the title than the person cool let's get to that that's let's definitely the right woman 1.00

00:15:35.440 hold on hold on hold on let's definitely get to the man lying because that's wrong okay cool but what

00:15:40.080 about the what about step one of the woman sleeping with the man because like okay let's let's take let's 0.97

00:15:45.440 have an example let's take the tinder swimwear it wasn't just one woman yeah it was many that was

00:15:49.920 many like he was doing that everywhere but he was picking a specific sorry to cut you if i was

00:15:54.080 but i feel like he was picking a specific type of women women sorry so like women that were not you 0.87

00:15:59.040 know he knew they had money he'd done his research he's not gonna go talk to no broken no no broken

00:16:02.560 woman but he was making sure that they was you know single he was making sure that they was kind of

00:16:06.320 you know you know in a country that had good credit yeah you know i mean he was picking wisely so he

00:16:10.960 targeted he was targeting women that he knew were vulnerable and that's like that's a different type of

00:16:15.360 you know manipulation in a sense but what we're saying is like if a guy's got a job and you're

00:16:19.840 happy with your job and you want a certain type of girl i feel like you should present yourself as

00:16:23.120 that person just be real to yourself i agree with you but his point is is it's a question is there

00:16:28.160 anything wrong with women sleeping with a man just for his title i feel like no no there's nothing wrong 1.00

00:16:34.720 with it so the man so the man lying is the only wrong in that situation okay sorry my point was so so

00:16:40.320 so wait wait let me let me just clarify there's there's two steps here there's two there's two

00:16:44.320 things here let me i'm gonna give it to her to land she hasn't finished let her land i'm gonna let 1.00

00:16:49.760 her land so step one is the man the man lied about his um status yeah yeah step two is the woman slept

00:16:58.480 with him because of his status are are they both wrong or is it is it only the man that's wrong i think

00:17:05.760 he's wrong for lying because i think everyone should be their authentic self we only get one life

00:17:10.880 two a woman should be allowed to sleep with whoever she feels like has a certain status because men do 1.00

00:17:16.720 the same like they don't sleep but if a woman's a ho but i'm saying i'm saying women men don't sleep 1.00

00:17:24.160 with women for status they sleep with they sleep with women for beauty and arguably women um choose 0.97

00:17:29.840 more for beauty than men do um they're they're much more picky on date they're wait but they're

00:17:34.000 wait they're much more picky on dating apps and like even when they when they study like women 1.00

00:17:37.920 on the chart like women rate 80 of women is unattractive or sorry of men sorry so the equivalent

00:17:43.280 the equivalent for a man would be is it wrong for a man not to sleep with a woman who's not beautiful 0.97

00:17:49.840 or a woman who hasn't had makeup or a woman who hasn't had surgery do you get what i'm saying

00:17:54.480 to you men look for different things women look for different things i think everyone should just go for 0.97

00:17:58.640 whatever whatever your preference can we can we really say to men be authentic okay wait can we

00:18:05.520 can we really say to men be authentic when again women women the instagram filters the botox the lip 0.87

00:18:12.560 filler the the chin implants the cheek implants i feel like all the modifications that women tend to do 1.00

00:18:19.680 or have done um i feel like they're very visible and men are aware of them that's the whole difference

00:18:23.920 yeah but guys use steroids there's a there's an awareness i feel like there's an awareness when

00:18:27.440 it comes to women because we're very like forward with certain things men have a bit more strategy 0.98

00:18:31.840 when it comes towards how they would like to find a woman or to get what they would like from a woman 0.60

00:18:35.680 so that comes down to them telling them this job or acting like they drive this car or they dress fancy

00:18:41.120 for a specific type of i've seen guys take trainers out of the box and put it on and put it right back in the box

00:18:45.360 which do you think is more common men lying about something okay so basically if you guys want to

00:18:52.800 do this we can do this but what before we can do this it's not even war but i will need everyone to

00:18:59.920 take off the makeup i will need everyone to take out any hair which is not their natural hair anything

00:19:04.480 on your nails which is not yours we will need to do that if you've got botox in there we'll have to 0.99

00:19:07.600 squeeze it all out you know i mean serious no no no no so don't forget lip filler basically and then

00:19:15.440 what's wrong what's wrong with lip filler hold on hold on a second if you're gonna say that's a lie

00:19:20.720 then everything you girls are doing is a blatant lie we can see the lie but yet we allow it because

00:19:25.600 you know i mean this is what i'm trying to say so wait hold on hold on a second um so the better

00:19:29.760 question would be the reverse of it if a woman lies about her body count yeah is that not manipulation 1.00

00:19:37.680 and then if i find out you've lied about your body count to me it is equal to a man lying about his

00:19:43.440 status or about his job because for men for men body count is way more important so i know a man

00:19:48.960 that got yes i know a man yes it is it is it's very important and the men that say it's not important

00:19:53.280 it's because they don't hang around to be a husband they just run up your body count and give it to the

00:19:56.240 next guy so any man wondering no no i'm saying so any any guy that says body counts not importance

00:20:01.440 because he doesn't have good intentions for you why would he say it's important when he's about to go to

00:20:04.640 a next girl do you understand but i promise you this the woman he settles with he's going to find

00:20:08.480 it very important so if we're going to say that it's a manipulation tactic for men to talk about

00:20:12.320 our to to you know if he's a bin bin guy and he says a footballer but you still sleep with him 0.99

00:20:17.120 like he said why are you sleeping with someone like that but if we're going to do it the opposite

00:20:20.000 way around then if women lie you need to it's like white finger yeah so basically if you lie 1.00

00:20:24.960 about your body count and if you lie about your body count then i find out i don't care if it's

00:20:28.880 five years six years we could have a kid you're going do you know why you're going because my

00:20:32.400 relationship was built upon a lie the same way you slept with a guy that was built upon a lie before

00:20:36.880 you can say to men what you're saying make sure you are not lying about anything and a lot and right

00:20:41.040 now lies no no no no no a lie is a lie and right now a lot of you girls are lying on here 1.00

00:20:57.360 who does who does which more do women lie about their body counts more often than men lie about 0.96

00:21:02.480 their jobs do men have jobs to lie about can we speak on the fact that some men are making things up

00:21:08.880 no men make more than women maybe maybe the men you deal with no no i'm talking about personally

00:21:15.280 as a whole like general generalization like as men sometimes they do have like you know like you

00:21:21.360 would say like paid like good work working paying jobs where it's in the council with i don't know

00:21:25.760 they make 10 000 more than women yeah but i feel like men do that because they need to uphold a status

00:21:30.720 like in in a lot of men's minds they look they're meant to be the home bringer right but my point is

00:21:35.040 like who lies about which more everybody lies man probably what's your body count early things

00:21:41.040 what's your body count huh what's your body count okay forget that would you tell somebody that you're

00:21:47.360 just meeting or just beginning today your body count i've never lied to um a boyfriend about it

00:21:53.680 good like i just i feel like you should be honest i agree if it wasn't a boyfriend though like a guy was

00:21:57.840 like approaching you it was kind of like you know never tell no random guy never he's but like

00:22:00.960 i feel scared to know you like maybe he's your boyfriend but you've been seen each other a couple

00:22:03.360 times no no if he's your man if he's your man if he's gonna be you tell him but he won't become

00:22:08.320 your man unless you tell him your body count no no no no no so okay okay so listen all right if i'm

00:22:13.120 dating you we're dating for six months seven eight yeah okay and you ask me no first of all there's

00:22:17.440 another energy that we do you see a lot of times men we don't have to ask because we can feel the

00:22:20.960 energy you know so you know you can feel the energy right a lot of times when the girls had a lot of 0.71

00:22:24.320 bodies they come with a lot of trauma and it and it comes out in the way they interact with men you can feel it the

00:22:29.360 room can feel the energy is so when we feel this we know so we already know it's not gonna be a long

00:22:33.680 term thing but then there's other ones you can't necessarily and you're like you're gonna give the

00:22:37.680 girl the one opportunity and i say i want to feel like kanye this the reason i say i want to feel

00:22:41.120 like kanye is because when kanye married kim he knew egg listen he knew exactly what he was getting

00:22:46.640 into this is why i don't if you cry if he's crying now you're crying what you're crying for bro you

00:22:50.080 know what he's doing yeah so that means that he could not step into a room and he did not know nothing

00:22:54.480 about about her so no one could come and embarrass her what a lot of girls do is they like a guy and then 1.00

00:22:59.520 they don't want to tell the full truth so they start the relationship built upon a lie but the

00:23:03.360 thing about lies is you know what you know i'm trying to say to you what's done in the i'm trying to work

00:23:07.280 out who these women are because i'm not that no i'm not i'm not calling you that but most women okay okay

00:23:12.160 okay some women a lot of women lie about the body counts due to the fact that they don't want to be 1.00

00:23:16.160 seen as but men do as well sometimes okay so but why is it whenever men make a statement about women

00:23:22.240 we have to say but men no we don't even need to okay no no i'm saying but we do like so it's just

00:23:27.760 you know it's true what i mean is it's equal okay so equally we do the same thing okay so

00:23:33.440 i don't think like i don't think men like if anything if anything men will lie up about their

00:23:39.920 body count so so yeah that's my point so the thing about is yeah women control access to sex men 1.00

00:23:45.440 control access to relationships so i'm filled with a beautiful panel of guests right i'm sure any one

00:23:51.360 of you guys will not have problem getting men to sleep with and if you say you you what you're capping

00:23:55.200 because i can just know that already right because you're all beautiful women right but i don't 1.00

00:23:59.760 have i won't be able to have as much sex as you will be able to have all you have to do 0.58

00:24:04.080 is literally say to a guy you can go on social media now say to god yeah well there you go right

00:24:09.840 do you know what i have to do to no come on after putting that work and that finance right all i gotta

00:24:15.040 do is walk outside yeah well that's what they say women get what they want and men get what okay so 0.79

00:24:22.560 so if we deal with that yeah that means you are having sex whenever you want with whoever you want 0.84

00:24:28.160 versus i'm having sex whenever i can get whoever give it to me completely different thing right 0.68

00:24:32.480 so if we look at that then wow women's body count can be sky high but imagine yeah you say so going 1.00

00:24:39.760 back to your point about you said about the body count thing right so someone that i used to date he

00:24:44.240 said to me that it only matters to him as long as i haven't got with his friends what do you think

00:24:49.840 about that that's wait can i give you a quick just um i ask guys this question on my show all the time

00:24:55.760 would you rather have a girl that has five bodies but you know two three of them or a girl with 20 but 1.00

00:25:01.600 a girl with 20 but you don't know any of them and they all say 20 bodies yeah yeah they all say 20 and

00:25:06.880 i don't want 20 bodies because loyalty well it's just more like guys don't want to be embarrassed like

00:25:12.560 the biggest thing they want to be able to own it themselves well it's just like it's kind of

00:25:16.080 embarrassing for a guy to walk into a room and know let three of his friends hit or like exactly yeah

00:25:21.120 so that's it's it's embarrassing so you have to remember that personal body count doesn't matter

00:25:25.760 in a lot of situations it's so sex is invasive right i don't think i don't think body counts the

00:25:31.040 only thing but but it um but it matters and that's that's the thing like if you go from if

00:25:36.640 you're a virgin and there's different studies that i'll give slightly different numbers but i'm

00:25:40.320 just going to use them this one just as an example um if you slept with if you're a virgin on your

00:25:45.680 wedding night you have an 80 chance of a happy marriage it drops down to 25 if you've slept with more than five

00:25:50.960 most guys would pray for five nowadays and and and there's some studies that say as a virgin it's

00:25:56.080 60 70 percent i know people will come for me on that but but the the point is still the same you're

00:26:00.880 more likely to have happy marriage if you're a virgin than if you're not then if you slept with more

00:26:04.720 than five it's like five to seven seems to be when you're ruined as a woman statistically is that because 1.00

00:26:09.200 you don't know any better due to experience yeah yeah no it's because basically like like the guys that

00:26:16.160 are the no no the guys that are the best most girls can't lock down because how did they get to

00:26:20.880 be the best they have a lot of girls and if they're and if they're good in bed like how many 1.00

00:26:25.360 girls you think are calling them and so like that's why the the equivalent like that's why i say that 1.00

00:26:30.960 they women swipe right five percent of the time and they hate men because they're all sleeping with 1.00

00:26:34.720 the same one because it's again 100 of women want 20 of men and sometimes some people argue it's five

00:26:40.880 percent of men like what person if you want a guy that's over six foot what percent i need you to

00:26:45.520 cough out of the mic i'm sorry like what percent of men do you think are over six foot 15 but don't

00:26:52.480 you think that's creepy because as us females in general get older of course we're gonna have more 1.00

00:26:57.440 experiences so why is it you have to have this completely pure image like we're not a little

00:27:02.400 girl but why of course but the the problem is is that you are not satisfied and the older you get you

00:27:07.840 can't keep those guys anymore so by 30 you've lost 50 of the options that you had at 20.

00:27:14.160 so on dating apps like they'll they'll say this many guys swiped right on you it goes down by 50

00:27:18.480 at 30. and and so the guy that the guy so the guy the not really um the guy because guys will filter

00:27:25.840 you out based on age because they just think the women their age like they don't want to deal with

00:27:29.360 they don't want like kids they don't want an ex-husband they don't want that stuff and so it's like then

00:27:34.080 the guy at 20 that you know or 25 whatever it was um that that you keep thinking about you can't keep

00:27:41.520 i think it's just double standards honestly no you're right it is a double standard but it goes

00:27:47.920 back in biology you can't just change the things that men want like like the reason that a low 0.95

00:27:52.320 body count matters is because um historically they had to ensure paternity so if a girl was sleeping 0.95

00:27:57.200 around like um paternity tests are new like that's a new phenomenon that that wasn't there throughout

00:28:02.400 history so um if they didn't want to pass on resources to a kid that wasn't there it's the same

00:28:08.080 way like most women want a guy their height or taller um would any of you date a guy five inches 0.92

00:28:12.720 shorter than you no two two one one two three okay okay possible but but not common right the most

00:28:23.440 most women like if they dated a guy shorter than them it was one to two inches it wasn't significant 0.89

00:28:28.800 and so that's because historically you needed a guy to protect you and you can't get rid of that

00:28:33.520 like but you can't get rid of your biology yeah but pearl look how easy it is for girls to say i 1.00

00:28:37.920 won't date a guy that's um five inches smaller than me but if i say i don't want to date a girl that's

00:28:42.800 fat people start getting mad but no you're entitled to your own no no but generally people be like oh

00:28:47.840 you're fat shaming but i'll be but you can change your weight you cannot change your height like you're 0.75

00:28:53.040 born that way so if you shame a man for his height what can he do but if we say to lose some weight you

00:28:56.960 can actually go and do something so i just think like a lot of times women's you can earn more money 1.00

00:29:03.120 but you can't reduce your body count okay i'll be honest if you're judging a woman by her body count 1.00

00:29:11.280 yeah you can she can't change that yeah what's happened has happened but you can earn more money

00:29:16.800 so the same argument that you're saying that a woman can lose weight but a man can't grow taller

00:29:21.920 it's the same thing there's certain things that are restricted but we're still judged upon no but based

00:29:26.800 on the biology of what we want no but your but your body count is your choice yeah so like that

00:29:32.480 that you had a choice and men don't have a choice in the height he's born he's that's not necessarily

00:29:37.680 true though okay so we're not talking about great okay okay just in terms of like okay i need you to

00:29:43.760 if you're going to talk i need you to talk into the mic because it's just okay we're just saying

00:29:47.520 with a like body count like essay like what if you okay we're talking about the rule not the exception yeah

00:29:54.720 so we'll never so if that happens we're never talking about that just you know we know about

00:29:58.880 those scenarios we know about it but but like when we speak about this we're talking about consent

00:30:02.880 consent yeah so we can take essay out of that because we're not speaking about that we we understand

00:30:08.240 that right because if we do then we'll just keep going everywhere we're talking about consenting if

00:30:11.920 we're talking about a consenting woman that chooses to sleep with 20 men cool versus a man who is born

00:30:17.600 that way and cannot change it you chose to open up your legs to 20 men he cannot choose his height so it's not the

00:30:22.880 same i feel like maybe some women maybe some women maybe a little bit sorry sorry guys i feel like

00:30:31.360 maybe some women may be a little bit bitter or upset because obviously um men will advertise

00:30:38.640 men will advertise one thing but want something different would give attention to one thing but

00:30:43.600 want something different like i've witnessed personally like guys putting up loads of captions

00:30:49.600 every day or every other day about loyalty hose hose loyalty hose but they

00:30:57.200 like i know of certain people they are attracted

00:31:02.160 which they may know or not know to the hose for one night stands not for a wife i'm not i'm not saying

00:31:09.760 to wife but they're but like the attention they're giving this home yes yeah that's gonna say you might 0.98

00:31:15.680 as well kill your wife the effort they're giving this hoe the attention they're giving this hoe the 1.00

00:31:21.760 entitlement yes it's for the pumps i understand pearl um yes it's for the for the one hit whatever but as 0.99

00:31:30.320 wifey me watching that pursuit and then watching him pursue me i'm just gonna be like do you know what

00:31:38.960 you're doing no your wifey he's a so women have to understand women have to understand the difference 0.97

00:31:43.360 between men wanting sex with you versus wanting actual commitment with you yeah i understand the

00:31:47.920 difference but sometimes it looks i know i know i know but it's not the same trust because the outcome

00:31:52.160 is i'm saying it's been put out the presumment might be but the outcome is different so when men

00:31:57.120 all chase after these girls yeah versus you you're like oh man he said he don't like her but why is he

00:32:01.760 liking the pictures why is he doing these sorts of things that's because he wants one thing what you

00:32:05.600 need to do is you need to separate yourself from those girls so we get a lot of good girls that chase 1.00

00:32:10.960 the top 20 or bad boys right so when you're a good girl what actually happens is when you chase these

00:32:16.160 boys you don't actually become a good girl anymore you just become the same as one of these hoes because 1.00

00:32:19.760 what you're doing is you're putting yourself and step by step next to holes and you're saying oh

00:32:23.920 why won't he pick me or why is he treating that these are holes they're always going to be holes

00:32:27.840 and this is what they're going to do and good girls have always been on the other side and

00:32:30.800 holes have always been on that side but the problem is good girls are now looking at holes and be like 1.00

00:32:35.040 why did they get why the holes get in love they're holes that's it we staying strong well it's like

00:32:40.800 it's a mating strategy for men it's like men are men are like they're biologically predispositioned to like

00:32:46.800 screw as many girls as possible so like they're it's it's crazy if you talk to like men about 0.97

00:32:52.400 their attraction floor and like what girls they find like there'll be girls that like i do not 0.58

00:32:56.960 think like a guy would find attractive but like their attraction floor if you got one thing if you

00:33:02.880 got one body part that's good they're into it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we

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JustPearlyThings - November 08, 2023

Modern Women Kept Lying About Their Body Count Because of This

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