Modern Women Kept Lying About Their Body Count Because of This
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In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, Chae . She is a standup comedian, social media influencer, writer, and all-around badass. In this episode we discuss the role of women in society, how women are treated in the workplace, and why women only want to be young when they're younger.
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doing really well why would we pick you when a lot of you girls come with trauma a lot of you
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girls come with kids and us men don't have kids and we're doing really well we'll just look past
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you women women only swipe right on dating apps five percent of the time where men swipe right
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45 yeah so and that's the thing like i always say women women say things like men are trash or men
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are the problems because they're all sleeping with the same ones no my okay my point was is
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are older men going for younger women because in their older age are they miserable so they have
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to feel they're getting their confidence back by getting with younger women no i'm i think i think
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men's lives get better after 45 because they actually have money they're usually in better
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okay this is a question for everyone do you think roles reverse that women are happy when they're
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younger yeah yes and then yeah i mean why do you think why do you why do you think women why do you
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think women spend three hundred thousand dollars in their lifetime on beauty products that's the
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number one thing that women out like outspend men and why do you think women spend so much money on
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botox lip filler all that stuff they're trying to look young i'm sorry i think innately innately
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women know it listen we just we just heard the pattern like china china just gave you the gold
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fact pattern of what how it goes and we skipped past it so quickly we didn't even take it in
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like that's exactly that's how it goes that's it that's the pattern right there that's what happens
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um okay so i have a question but there was questions asked after that which it's like no one
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understood that he just answered everything so basically i'm not i'm not miserable i'm
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fucking happy man sorry i don't i hardly swear but i you know what it is i'm just happy life's good
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like so i don't understand my girls in the early 20s like my life is really good so this thing where
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they want to act like men no we're living our life and and and it's the women i get in their 30s
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that trying to make it fair they're trying to make it no but it doesn't have to be fair because it
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wasn't fair for us early and then we had to go through life it not being fair eating not being
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looked at but now we're not eating we're eating caviar and steak you know what i'm saying to you
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and yeah okay okay um um so i i have a question for the men um do you prefer female leadership
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male leadership or do you not have a preference i don't i don't have i don't have a preference but
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i do know that i have experienced both okay i i don't care but i've got i don't i don't have
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a preference i've got i've got mentors um who everything i learned professionally like i'm
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indebted to them forever um one like two of them are women one's one's a man but yeah i don't have a
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preference i you know i love them all the same have you ever seen someone at work get falsely accused
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of essay yes let me tell you something very quickly on that
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so sorry i breathed into the camera um at my at my at my last my last job when i was an employee um
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so there was there was like a weird um situation going on where if if anyone told if anyone knows me
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i i just i tell the truth like that's that's what i'm that's what i'm known for yeah that's what my
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channel's about 100 interviews go and check that out on youtube um so basically it does offend people
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sometimes you know some you know people want to hear nice things but unfortunately i wish i could
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you know the truth was always nice but it's it's not i'm just the messenger i'm just going to tell you
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what it is unfortunately sometimes it's going to make people uncomfortable so this was happening
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at work and the hr lady um did not uh love the fact that i was doing this and highlighting certain
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things so she tried to put me under something called a performance review um and started trying
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to like follow me like outside of work i just i turn i turn and see her certain places like all of a
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sudden she's on my same tube into work and weird little things that i thought of i kind of thought
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nothing of and then um one day she called me into a meeting it was just me and her in the room
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and i was she she said to me um she said she said something about black people yeah um which i know
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is not the topic but immediately in that moment i resigned i had i resigned the job um and but the
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way i did it the way i did it because it's just me and this lady in the room i'm a big black guy
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i very very carefully said to her with a smile on my face i would like to resign it's not you yeah it's
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not you it's it's all good um but i've been thinking about it for a while um i've already written
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the letter i hadn't um i'll say i'll send it to you later on i just i'd like to resign i think i'm
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ready to move on with a smile walked out the room and then went and made sure i was somewhere where
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everyone could see me and started to explain to one or two of my colleagues what happened
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uh and then shortly after that i moved on because i know that if i had not um for some reason i felt
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like if i hadn't handled that situation in that way that woman could have come out of that room
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and said anything about me doing essay or anything to her in that room and you know i'm not a weirdo
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not that i look like a weirdo or or nothing but you know it's not hard for someone to say oh look at
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this poor um young um you know little white woman and this big black guy and it's it's believable if
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someone says something about like about me um something about me like that it's believable look
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look at the size of me you know what i'm saying so i had to handle that situation very carefully
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and use my wits um so yeah i just wanted to tell that that story very quickly on that point
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mm-hmm and but did she accuse you of something or no no no no she she couldn't because the way i
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did it okay yeah the way i did it she couldn't there was no cameras in that room but the way i kind
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of smiled and you know made her just made her comfortable and then but alex yeah what what was
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the assumption what was the assumption that she could say that about you so do you know do you know
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what it is yeah um i've just see i've seen enough situations what have you seen enough situations
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like that where people told lies yeah so i learned from other people's mistakes and it's and it's not
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a person's mistake sorry but it's not a person's mistake to not look out for the lie that's coming
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against them but it's it's still i learned from that situation and decided exactly how i was going to
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handle you know that situation at that time women are spiteful i've heard guys talk about how they
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were accused of essay after they rejected a girl and like absolutely there is there's one case in the
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u.s where a girl accused a guy of essay and um they they kicked him out of the school even after footage
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came out of her pulling him in to kiss her at the bar her pulling him back to the dorm and like
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clearly like flirting with him all over him all night and then like he still got kicked out
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of the school even with all that evidence and footage that came forward that's the problem
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like it's easier for women to play that card than it is for men like men don't have
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any sort of backup on that topic and that happens every day so what he's saying like i completely
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understand what about you china yeah so i know so many um i could give you examples of this but what
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uh so it's you know what i'll say remember the story that i told you i'm not going to speak about that
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but i'm actually um i'm actually writing a play about something like something about this we're
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going to put it on next year so when it yeah as we get through i'll let people know but there's
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actually a story that i'm writing about this quite it is quite poignant and so i'm putting it we're
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going to put on um uh stick on on on a theater production of it next year uh so but what i will
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talk about i'm gonna talk about a friend of mine's case i'm not going to speak too much about him
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because i don't want to let it go but what i will say is a friend of mine was working he had a very good
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job um in the educational sector um he was uh there was a new role that's about to come out he
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there was a colleague of him they used to have a bit of bounce but it was nothing you know i'm trying
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to say to you he went for a job role she went for a job role he was given the job role she was not
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given the job role everything was fine up until that point after that point he was given the job
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role he obviously became her boss and then now he had to get her to do certain things and you
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know i mean so she didn't like the fact that he was given the job role and he was now her boss even
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though they were fine hundred percent before everything was fine she started creating problems
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within it and saying that she can't work with him and then obviously the um hr was like why can't
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you work with him and then she came around he's been inappropriate and that created a whole spiral
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of events that happened and when i know how hard my boys come from nothing it's not one of the it's
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one of these people that's come from nothing like war-torn country to climb up and to get yourself go to
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university get yourself educational sector and he was like the only black person in there and then she
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was also um she was a black girl mixed face girl and then so just two of them and when she went and
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made whatever allegations against him it set a whole spiral of events that put him through
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and i had to witness this man go through this pain like and he's my friend and i was just like why is
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she doing this but she just didn't like the fact he got the job and she didn't get the job um in the
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end he had to go on some hr course about inappropriate conduct at work he he kept his job and everything was
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fine but you see after that he um he left he left the post and went somewhere he was just like bro it
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wasn't the same he was like i didn't want to climb up any higher in that industry even though that they
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and they found me it was not guilt where everyone was fine just the fact that he had to be put through
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that that whole process so you see what he's saying alex he's saying like see as a man
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and when you put yourself in the scenario just why i said i don't move to girls i don't because i could
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never have a woman say to me that i came and approached the inappropriate because i don't
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even do it so i'm saying to you she's gonna have to approach to me when you see the messages between
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us two it's not gonna be me that's trying to say it's gonna be her because we live in a new world
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now and i've always been like this but ever since women have said oh you know what if a man's walking
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down the road i expect him to cross over this over the road because it makes me feel nervous i'm
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i'm minding my business you know i got my hoodie on i'm i'm doing my own thing but now
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you're saying that what women are these okay okay you're saying what women are these just saying
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no but the same women that are talking about the rubbernecking or these that's no i mean the same
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women that would be myself are you referring to myself no so so you asked me you're asking a
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question and i'm speaking so you're saying which women are doing this you talked about the advert right
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the same women that are talking about the advert are the same women that are making a man cross over
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the road because personally i would never i didn't say you i didn't say you see what we're doing is
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you're making it about you stop making it about you i'm trying not to but you wasn't but you're
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making it about i'll give you an example the definition of sexual assault that says for example
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pressure there we go manipulation bullying intimidation threats deception drugs or alcohol
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they're trying to include if a guy this is the stupidest shit i've ever heard in my life if a guy
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lies to a girl about his job and she sleeps with him like thinking he has that job they're gonna
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say that's essay but i understand i understand where they got it from in terms of if obviously
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you know i mean like that's the level of manipulation if someone did something obviously it's not good
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but if someone slept with somebody based on what they thought they worked as and then they found
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that they didn't it's like i wouldn't call it essay though i wouldn't call it essay either personally
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but i understand where they try to put it into the category yeah from it's a form of manipulation but
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that's not sexual assault though so what it is is like the sexual assault comes from if you've told me
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you don't if you know that you're gonna tell me you're a bin man i don't care let's just give a
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real like if someone was to say bin man or you just did something like yeah i mean council work
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or whatever it is i don't care personally i'm not discriminative or prejudiced against anyone on
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their work but like if you told me that's what you did i would take you as that and i'll take you
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from that but if you've had to lie to me to tell me that you do something else for me to take you as
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this is not you you're an imposter in my vagina trust me you're an imposter in my vagina i was
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fucking ceo and i'm fucking bin man that's a violation and i've been sexually assaulted
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i probably busted down for you and this is an l like like you said power it's an l yeah but it's
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but you see where the men are coming from it's like like if a guy tries to convince you to sleep
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with him that could be seen as coercion that's creepy but i understand like okay like i've seen i i think
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every girl has had an experience with a guy that's like it's too pushy right but there's a
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difference between pushy and sexual assault yeah and and i just think recently in recent years we've
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been blurring the lines to the point it's confusing confusing and men like china are like you know what
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screw this every girl's different every girl is gonna one girl's one girl's gonna report me one
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girl's not one girl's gonna think this is flirting one girl's gonna report me for assault that they're
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just like you know what this i don't even want to deal with it and that's why and that's why men
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don't it's fine for you not me i'm like i don't want to be approached stop with these i'm like
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let them be mad in the corner question question question yeah question question for you yeah so
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in fact for everyone for everyone so so if uh if if a bin man said you know lies and says i'm a doctor
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you know oh i'm michael jordan himself or whatever yeah um and he's prime yeah and a girl sleeps with him
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because of that and then found finds out she was lied to is that is there is there is there something
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a bit but women women catfish every day with botox lip fillers can i get to the question though
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can i get to the actual question yeah i've presented it but let me let me ask the question is there
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is there any kind of responsibility or is there is there anything weird about the girl choosing to
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sleep with someone because of this status or title or whatever is there any wrong there at all
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why are we saying that's weird no no i'm asking you a question i'm asking i'm asking the question
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we've just presented that women are not good bosses women are not good leaders
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therefore men have to do it so if you don't have the leadership skills most women get to be a ceo
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and you're a bin man yeah but you have to lie and say i'm not a bit because you're not proud i would
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i mean i could be with a bin man if you if you say it with chess i could be with a bin man
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i don't think i don't think my question is being understood so but go on karen you're saying that why
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if a woman has sex with a man because of his title yeah isn't that a form of manipulation but
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why did the man lie about his title because he knew that that woman not me but that woman cared
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more about the title than the person cool let's get to that that's let's definitely the right woman
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hold on hold on hold on let's definitely get to the man lying because that's wrong okay cool but what
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about the what about step one of the woman sleeping with the man because like okay let's let's take let's
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have an example let's take the tinder swimwear it wasn't just one woman yeah it was many that was
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many like he was doing that everywhere but he was picking a specific sorry to cut you if i was
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but i feel like he was picking a specific type of women women sorry so like women that were not you
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know he knew they had money he'd done his research he's not gonna go talk to no broken no no broken
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woman but he was making sure that they was you know single he was making sure that they was kind of
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you know you know in a country that had good credit yeah you know i mean he was picking wisely so he
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targeted he was targeting women that he knew were vulnerable and that's like that's a different type of
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you know manipulation in a sense but what we're saying is like if a guy's got a job and you're
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happy with your job and you want a certain type of girl i feel like you should present yourself as
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that person just be real to yourself i agree with you but his point is is it's a question is there
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anything wrong with women sleeping with a man just for his title i feel like no no there's nothing wrong
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with it so the man so the man lying is the only wrong in that situation okay sorry my point was so so
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so wait wait let me let me just clarify there's there's two steps here there's two there's two
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things here let me i'm gonna give it to her to land she hasn't finished let her land i'm gonna let
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her land so step one is the man the man lied about his um status yeah yeah step two is the woman slept
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with him because of his status are are they both wrong or is it is it only the man that's wrong i think
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he's wrong for lying because i think everyone should be their authentic self we only get one life
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two a woman should be allowed to sleep with whoever she feels like has a certain status because men do
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the same like they don't sleep but if a woman's a ho but i'm saying i'm saying women men don't sleep
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with women for status they sleep with they sleep with women for beauty and arguably women um choose
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more for beauty than men do um they're they're much more picky on date they're wait but they're
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wait they're much more picky on dating apps and like even when they when they study like women
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on the chart like women rate 80 of women is unattractive or sorry of men sorry so the equivalent
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the equivalent for a man would be is it wrong for a man not to sleep with a woman who's not beautiful
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or a woman who hasn't had makeup or a woman who hasn't had surgery do you get what i'm saying
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to you men look for different things women look for different things i think everyone should just go for
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whatever whatever your preference can we can we really say to men be authentic okay wait can we
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can we really say to men be authentic when again women women the instagram filters the botox the lip
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filler the the chin implants the cheek implants i feel like all the modifications that women tend to do
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or have done um i feel like they're very visible and men are aware of them that's the whole difference
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yeah but guys use steroids there's a there's an awareness i feel like there's an awareness when
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it comes to women because we're very like forward with certain things men have a bit more strategy
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when it comes towards how they would like to find a woman or to get what they would like from a woman
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so that comes down to them telling them this job or acting like they drive this car or they dress fancy
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for a specific type of i've seen guys take trainers out of the box and put it on and put it right back in the box
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which do you think is more common men lying about something okay so basically if you guys want to
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do this we can do this but what before we can do this it's not even war but i will need everyone to
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take off the makeup i will need everyone to take out any hair which is not their natural hair anything
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on your nails which is not yours we will need to do that if you've got botox in there we'll have to
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squeeze it all out you know i mean serious no no no no so don't forget lip filler basically and then
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what's wrong what's wrong with lip filler hold on hold on a second if you're gonna say that's a lie
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then everything you girls are doing is a blatant lie we can see the lie but yet we allow it because
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you know i mean this is what i'm trying to say so wait hold on hold on a second um so the better
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question would be the reverse of it if a woman lies about her body count yeah is that not manipulation
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and then if i find out you've lied about your body count to me it is equal to a man lying about his
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status or about his job because for men for men body count is way more important so i know a man
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that got yes i know a man yes it is it is it's very important and the men that say it's not important
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it's because they don't hang around to be a husband they just run up your body count and give it to the
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next guy so any man wondering no no i'm saying so any any guy that says body counts not importance
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because he doesn't have good intentions for you why would he say it's important when he's about to go to
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a next girl do you understand but i promise you this the woman he settles with he's going to find
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it very important so if we're going to say that it's a manipulation tactic for men to talk about
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our to to you know if he's a bin bin guy and he says a footballer but you still sleep with him
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like he said why are you sleeping with someone like that but if we're going to do it the opposite
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way around then if women lie you need to it's like white finger yeah so basically if you lie
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about your body count and if you lie about your body count then i find out i don't care if it's
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five years six years we could have a kid you're going do you know why you're going because my
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relationship was built upon a lie the same way you slept with a guy that was built upon a lie before
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you can say to men what you're saying make sure you are not lying about anything and a lot and right
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now lies no no no no no a lie is a lie and right now a lot of you girls are lying on here
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who does who does which more do women lie about their body counts more often than men lie about
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their jobs do men have jobs to lie about can we speak on the fact that some men are making things up
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no men make more than women maybe maybe the men you deal with no no i'm talking about personally
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as a whole like general generalization like as men sometimes they do have like you know like you
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would say like paid like good work working paying jobs where it's in the council with i don't know
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they make 10 000 more than women yeah but i feel like men do that because they need to uphold a status
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like in in a lot of men's minds they look they're meant to be the home bringer right but my point is
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like who lies about which more everybody lies man probably what's your body count early things
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what's your body count huh what's your body count okay forget that would you tell somebody that you're
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just meeting or just beginning today your body count i've never lied to um a boyfriend about it
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good like i just i feel like you should be honest i agree if it wasn't a boyfriend though like a guy was
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like approaching you it was kind of like you know never tell no random guy never he's but like
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i feel scared to know you like maybe he's your boyfriend but you've been seen each other a couple
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times no no if he's your man if he's your man if he's gonna be you tell him but he won't become
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your man unless you tell him your body count no no no no no so okay okay so listen all right if i'm
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dating you we're dating for six months seven eight yeah okay and you ask me no first of all there's
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another energy that we do you see a lot of times men we don't have to ask because we can feel the
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energy you know so you know you can feel the energy right a lot of times when the girls had a lot of
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bodies they come with a lot of trauma and it and it comes out in the way they interact with men you can feel it the
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room can feel the energy is so when we feel this we know so we already know it's not gonna be a long
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term thing but then there's other ones you can't necessarily and you're like you're gonna give the
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girl the one opportunity and i say i want to feel like kanye this the reason i say i want to feel
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like kanye is because when kanye married kim he knew egg listen he knew exactly what he was getting
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into this is why i don't if you cry if he's crying now you're crying what you're crying for bro you
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know what he's doing yeah so that means that he could not step into a room and he did not know nothing
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about about her so no one could come and embarrass her what a lot of girls do is they like a guy and then
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they don't want to tell the full truth so they start the relationship built upon a lie but the
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thing about lies is you know what you know i'm trying to say to you what's done in the i'm trying to work
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out who these women are because i'm not that no i'm not i'm not calling you that but most women okay okay
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okay some women a lot of women lie about the body counts due to the fact that they don't want to be
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seen as but men do as well sometimes okay so but why is it whenever men make a statement about women
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we have to say but men no we don't even need to okay no no i'm saying but we do like so it's just
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you know it's true what i mean is it's equal okay so equally we do the same thing okay so
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i don't think like i don't think men like if anything if anything men will lie up about their
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body count so so yeah that's my point so the thing about is yeah women control access to sex men
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control access to relationships so i'm filled with a beautiful panel of guests right i'm sure any one
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of you guys will not have problem getting men to sleep with and if you say you you what you're capping
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because i can just know that already right because you're all beautiful women right but i don't
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have i won't be able to have as much sex as you will be able to have all you have to do
00:24:04.080
is literally say to a guy you can go on social media now say to god yeah well there you go right
00:24:09.840
do you know what i have to do to no come on after putting that work and that finance right all i gotta
00:24:15.040
do is walk outside yeah well that's what they say women get what they want and men get what okay so
00:24:22.560
so if we deal with that yeah that means you are having sex whenever you want with whoever you want
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versus i'm having sex whenever i can get whoever give it to me completely different thing right
00:24:32.480
so if we look at that then wow women's body count can be sky high but imagine yeah you say so going
00:24:39.760
back to your point about you said about the body count thing right so someone that i used to date he
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said to me that it only matters to him as long as i haven't got with his friends what do you think
00:24:49.840
about that that's wait can i give you a quick just um i ask guys this question on my show all the time
00:24:55.760
would you rather have a girl that has five bodies but you know two three of them or a girl with 20 but
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a girl with 20 but you don't know any of them and they all say 20 bodies yeah yeah they all say 20 and
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i don't want 20 bodies because loyalty well it's just more like guys don't want to be embarrassed like
00:25:12.560
the biggest thing they want to be able to own it themselves well it's just like it's kind of
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embarrassing for a guy to walk into a room and know let three of his friends hit or like exactly yeah
00:25:21.120
so that's it's it's embarrassing so you have to remember that personal body count doesn't matter
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in a lot of situations it's so sex is invasive right i don't think i don't think body counts the
00:25:31.040
only thing but but it um but it matters and that's that's the thing like if you go from if
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you're a virgin and there's different studies that i'll give slightly different numbers but i'm
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just going to use them this one just as an example um if you slept with if you're a virgin on your
00:25:45.680
wedding night you have an 80 chance of a happy marriage it drops down to 25 if you've slept with more than five
00:25:50.960
most guys would pray for five nowadays and and and there's some studies that say as a virgin it's
00:25:56.080
60 70 percent i know people will come for me on that but but the the point is still the same you're
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more likely to have happy marriage if you're a virgin than if you're not then if you slept with more
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than five it's like five to seven seems to be when you're ruined as a woman statistically is that because
00:26:09.200
you don't know any better due to experience yeah yeah no it's because basically like like the guys that
00:26:16.160
are the no no the guys that are the best most girls can't lock down because how did they get to
00:26:20.880
be the best they have a lot of girls and if they're and if they're good in bed like how many
00:26:25.360
girls you think are calling them and so like that's why the the equivalent like that's why i say that
00:26:30.960
they women swipe right five percent of the time and they hate men because they're all sleeping with
00:26:34.720
the same one because it's again 100 of women want 20 of men and sometimes some people argue it's five
00:26:40.880
percent of men like what person if you want a guy that's over six foot what percent i need you to
00:26:45.520
cough out of the mic i'm sorry like what percent of men do you think are over six foot 15 but don't
00:26:52.480
you think that's creepy because as us females in general get older of course we're gonna have more
00:26:57.440
experiences so why is it you have to have this completely pure image like we're not a little
00:27:02.400
girl but why of course but the the problem is is that you are not satisfied and the older you get you
00:27:07.840
can't keep those guys anymore so by 30 you've lost 50 of the options that you had at 20.
00:27:14.160
so on dating apps like they'll they'll say this many guys swiped right on you it goes down by 50
00:27:18.480
at 30. and and so the guy that the guy so the guy the not really um the guy because guys will filter
00:27:25.840
you out based on age because they just think the women their age like they don't want to deal with
00:27:29.360
they don't want like kids they don't want an ex-husband they don't want that stuff and so it's like then
00:27:34.080
the guy at 20 that you know or 25 whatever it was um that that you keep thinking about you can't keep
00:27:41.520
i think it's just double standards honestly no you're right it is a double standard but it goes
00:27:47.920
back in biology you can't just change the things that men want like like the reason that a low
00:27:52.320
body count matters is because um historically they had to ensure paternity so if a girl was sleeping
00:27:57.200
around like um paternity tests are new like that's a new phenomenon that that wasn't there throughout
00:28:02.400
history so um if they didn't want to pass on resources to a kid that wasn't there it's the same
00:28:08.080
way like most women want a guy their height or taller um would any of you date a guy five inches
00:28:12.720
shorter than you no two two one one two three okay okay possible but but not common right the most
00:28:23.440
most women like if they dated a guy shorter than them it was one to two inches it wasn't significant
00:28:28.800
and so that's because historically you needed a guy to protect you and you can't get rid of that
00:28:33.520
like but you can't get rid of your biology yeah but pearl look how easy it is for girls to say i
00:28:37.920
won't date a guy that's um five inches smaller than me but if i say i don't want to date a girl that's
00:28:42.800
fat people start getting mad but no you're entitled to your own no no but generally people be like oh
00:28:47.840
you're fat shaming but i'll be but you can change your weight you cannot change your height like you're
00:28:53.040
born that way so if you shame a man for his height what can he do but if we say to lose some weight you
00:28:56.960
can actually go and do something so i just think like a lot of times women's you can earn more money
00:29:03.120
but you can't reduce your body count okay i'll be honest if you're judging a woman by her body count
00:29:11.280
yeah you can she can't change that yeah what's happened has happened but you can earn more money
00:29:16.800
so the same argument that you're saying that a woman can lose weight but a man can't grow taller
00:29:21.920
it's the same thing there's certain things that are restricted but we're still judged upon no but based
00:29:26.800
on the biology of what we want no but your but your body count is your choice yeah so like that
00:29:32.480
that you had a choice and men don't have a choice in the height he's born he's that's not necessarily
00:29:37.680
true though okay so we're not talking about great okay okay just in terms of like okay i need you to
00:29:43.760
if you're going to talk i need you to talk into the mic because it's just okay we're just saying
00:29:47.520
with a like body count like essay like what if you okay we're talking about the rule not the exception yeah
00:29:54.720
so we'll never so if that happens we're never talking about that just you know we know about
00:29:58.880
those scenarios we know about it but but like when we speak about this we're talking about consent
00:30:02.880
consent yeah so we can take essay out of that because we're not speaking about that we we understand
00:30:08.240
that right because if we do then we'll just keep going everywhere we're talking about consenting if
00:30:11.920
we're talking about a consenting woman that chooses to sleep with 20 men cool versus a man who is born
00:30:17.600
that way and cannot change it you chose to open up your legs to 20 men he cannot choose his height so it's not the
00:30:22.880
same i feel like maybe some women maybe some women maybe a little bit sorry sorry guys i feel like
00:30:31.360
maybe some women may be a little bit bitter or upset because obviously um men will advertise
00:30:38.640
men will advertise one thing but want something different would give attention to one thing but
00:30:43.600
want something different like i've witnessed personally like guys putting up loads of captions
00:30:49.600
every day or every other day about loyalty hose hose loyalty hose but they
00:30:57.200
like i know of certain people they are attracted
00:31:02.160
which they may know or not know to the hose for one night stands not for a wife i'm not i'm not saying
00:31:09.760
to wife but they're but like the attention they're giving this home yes yeah that's gonna say you might
00:31:15.680
as well kill your wife the effort they're giving this hoe the attention they're giving this hoe the
00:31:21.760
entitlement yes it's for the pumps i understand pearl um yes it's for the for the one hit whatever but as
00:31:30.320
wifey me watching that pursuit and then watching him pursue me i'm just gonna be like do you know what
00:31:38.960
you're doing no your wifey he's a so women have to understand women have to understand the difference
00:31:43.360
between men wanting sex with you versus wanting actual commitment with you yeah i understand the
00:31:47.920
difference but sometimes it looks i know i know i know but it's not the same trust because the outcome
00:31:52.160
is i'm saying it's been put out the presumment might be but the outcome is different so when men
00:31:57.120
all chase after these girls yeah versus you you're like oh man he said he don't like her but why is he
00:32:01.760
liking the pictures why is he doing these sorts of things that's because he wants one thing what you
00:32:05.600
need to do is you need to separate yourself from those girls so we get a lot of good girls that chase
00:32:10.960
the top 20 or bad boys right so when you're a good girl what actually happens is when you chase these
00:32:16.160
boys you don't actually become a good girl anymore you just become the same as one of these hoes because
00:32:19.760
what you're doing is you're putting yourself and step by step next to holes and you're saying oh
00:32:23.920
why won't he pick me or why is he treating that these are holes they're always going to be holes
00:32:27.840
and this is what they're going to do and good girls have always been on the other side and
00:32:30.800
holes have always been on that side but the problem is good girls are now looking at holes and be like
00:32:35.040
why did they get why the holes get in love they're holes that's it we staying strong well it's like
00:32:40.800
it's a mating strategy for men it's like men are men are like they're biologically predispositioned to like
00:32:46.800
screw as many girls as possible so like they're it's it's crazy if you talk to like men about
00:32:52.400
their attraction floor and like what girls they find like there'll be girls that like i do not
00:32:56.960
think like a guy would find attractive but like their attraction floor if you got one thing if you
00:33:02.880
got one body part that's good they're into it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we
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