00:05:57.920And what happened was, she went to court and said, he hasn't been around for eight months.
00:06:01.080He hasn't been around for a year, and he'd been trying the whole time.
00:06:05.880And so it's like, there's a lot of situations where men want custody of their children, and they can't get it.
00:06:11.020And there's even men that kill themselves because she leaves, she takes half of his assets, and he takes the kids, and he doesn't have access to their kids.
00:06:19.460Like, there's a whole, it's like men's rights activists.
00:06:37.060Stuff like that happens all the time, but nobody, and so when you say, when you say 90%, like, my thing is, like, we don't think about why don't they have access to their children.
00:07:03.580Because at the end of the day, this, although I understand what you're trying to get at, we can't just put it on women and everything like that, but we also have to understand, we, as women, we've got different talents and gifts.
00:07:13.720Okay, and I think that's kind of, like, what a lot of men are trying to get at is, like, you have a certain talent, which is the power to attract, which means you can get basically any guy that you want if you're easy enough.
00:07:25.320So, I do understand the rhetoric of saying, be more selective because you, as a woman, have got way more power in your hands to create that interaction than a man would.
00:07:45.500That still doesn't mean that a woman is to be excused for everything.
00:07:50.240Again, for the sake of argument right here, and also because you've put me in this position where I actually want to stand against you, I will say, men and women both are equally entitled to complain about what is going on because both are messing up.
00:08:03.160A lot of women, they are not fit to take care of their children, but because of the bitterness and anger they have towards the relationship that didn't work out, they make their child suffer.
00:08:13.300They take advantage of the fact that they're a woman and they mark their men.
00:08:22.000When they hate a man, they hate, and I'm not saying all women, I'm not saying every person does this, but it's like, women will use the kids as a pawn.
00:08:30.160And what happens is a lot of times, even Kanye, that happened in front of us, he, his, his, another thing they'll do is they can move states and the father has no say if they gave the woman's, like, primary custody.
00:08:41.960And I'm not saying, like, I know all the ins and outs of the laws.
00:08:45.600This is just, like, from talking to divorce attorneys.
00:08:48.380And it's, like, it's just, like, men, their issues are not brought to the forefront.
00:08:55.780And it's really sad that, like, you know, a lot of times a big issue is men committing suicide after divorce.
00:09:01.620There is a guy, I just learned this the other day, so I'm probably going to butcher it.
00:09:05.400But our whole, most of the domestic violence laws are based off of a system that automatically assumes that the woman's the victim in the U.S.
00:09:13.760And so it's, like, a lot of men, like, most, when you talk to people that have actually worked in domestic violence, most domestic violence situations are mutually abusive, where the man and the woman are hitting each other.
00:09:24.120And the men still get put away and the woman don't.
00:09:28.320A woman can just call the cops and, like, a cop will come in and automatically, based on their training, assume that the woman's the victim.
00:09:46.480I don't know what the stats are not telling you because these things you cannot actually regulate because a lot of things go unsaid.
00:09:52.400It's from, can I just, just to give you perspective, it's from people that work with these couples and that work at women's shelters will tell you this.
00:10:00.440So much, so much, so much so that they're, like, there is the three feminists that came up with the system that the justice, and I'm butchering this, but it's, like, the system that the justice system is built on that automatically assumes the woman's the victim.
00:10:13.020They were saying that even in their practice, it wasn't what they saw, that they were saying, you know what, it's actually mutually abusive.
00:10:20.420Well, I was just going to say that when it comes to domestic abuse, I believe that women are inherently more vulnerable to be in that situation.
00:10:31.160Because when a woman does commit, and this is why men get upset that women cheat, because when a woman commits to a man, she gives herself emotionally.
00:10:40.000When you attach to yourself to somebody emotionally, now you are a victim to all of these things.
00:10:44.000Whereas men, as Andrew Tate very quite rightly said, he's got the decision whether he wants to make you 10 out of 10 happy or 5 out of 10 happy and keep you crying here and there.
00:10:52.280Because it is true that once men get a woman to fall in love with them, they've got the power.
00:10:57.600That's also what men don't understand, and that's how they mess about.
00:11:00.320And that's why domestic violence, I believe, is so prevalent amongst women being the victims instead of being the perpetrators.
00:11:07.420Although there are cases, of course, that women do take the piss and everything.
00:11:10.300And I'm saying people that work in these environments are saying usually it's mutual.
00:11:15.080So people that work with the couples that try to help them out at women's shelters are saying it's mutual.
00:15:53.760And it's like, it's like, and that's okay.
00:15:56.080But that doesn't mean women are being discriminated against.
00:15:58.500It means they don't want to work 60, 70 hours a week.
00:16:01.260I interviewed top, like, um, I decided I wanted more rich friends when I lived in Milwaukee.
00:16:06.060And I just asked the executives if I could like a billion dollar companies, if I could sit there, have a coffee with them and just interview them about their life.
00:16:12.900And both of them that I got to interview, I could see the one deficit they had in their life.
00:16:18.060Neither of them really had families and it was really sad.
00:16:20.820And you can tell both of them like missed out on a part of life and you could tell they regretted it.