JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022


Modern Women Need To Hear THIS


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

227.97406

Word Count

2,039

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary

In this episode, I talk about how important it is to be submissive to your man and how he needs a degree of authority in a relationship. As a man, he needs to be responsible for his woman, but he needs authority over her. He needs to respect the authority that she has over him, and she needs to trust him. And as a woman, she needs him to respect her.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 say about let me put for instance there's an artist that i like my man likes it too
00:00:05.760 covered it just sort of like finished i've got two free tickets to go to the
00:00:10.320 to go my man said to me you're not going what would you do i'm going what would you do
00:00:18.480 why am i not going it doesn't matter he said to you because that's just the logical submission
00:00:25.440 but the whole the whole point is you pick someone that you respect enough to trust
00:00:29.120 his judgment even when you even when you disagree that's the whole point i want to i want to find
00:00:33.600 that i don't agree with you guys guys guys guys stop stop wait wait wait we need one at a time
00:00:42.400 why would you think it's something stupid or whatever you trust a man enough to be with him
00:00:46.720 you trust a man enough to sleep with him so why won't you trust an opinion why does he have to
00:00:50.640 give that if i say to my man like i went in if i say to my man don't do this the first thing is
00:00:55.680 me thinking not she's telling me what to do there must be a reason behind it why she's telling me
00:00:59.440 not to do because she trusts me i did not go i had two free tickets i did not go i'll tell you why
00:01:05.040 wait wait wait until you ask me a question i'll tell you why because the same way a man wants that
00:01:09.040 sort of validation a woman wants assurance i don't want to just blindly do everything all the time
00:01:13.360 especially something i'm thinking okay that's okay so let's talk that's what submission is
00:01:19.600 ultimately a really important point because this the point she's making is twofold and it's extremely
00:01:22.800 important because a lot of women talk about being submissive but they're submissive when it suits
00:01:26.720 them that's not submission so she wanted to go to the concert he said no she trusts him as a man she
00:01:32.160 didn't go absolute respect for that that's exactly what my woman would have done exactly the same thing
00:01:36.640 women go i'm submissive you're submissive when he's buying you shit in bed and you're submissive but the
00:01:41.920 second he says something you don't like you instantly turn off the submission run your
00:01:45.040 fucking mouth that's not submissive that's manipulation that's bullshit so that's the first thing
00:01:48.720 the second thing is responsibility and authority are linked and as a man if i'm going to be
00:01:54.480 responsible for a woman i need a degree of authority over her this is the reality of it if i'm going to
00:01:59.200 be responsible for paying your bills responsible for your personal safety and responsible for your
00:02:03.040 personal development responsible for fixing the life fitting and responsible for everything that i'm
00:02:07.680 supposed to do as a man i need a degree of authority to sometimes come along and say xyz and be obeyed
00:02:13.360 if i'm going to have a ship if you have a ship the reason the captain has to go down with the ship
00:02:18.720 is responsible for everything that happens on that ship and because of that he has authority if he
00:02:23.760 yells at the shipmates and they all ignore him then he can't be considered responsible for the
00:02:27.840 problems on the ship which means he doesn't have to die with it if you want a man invested in a
00:02:32.480 relationship he needs to be responsible for you but he needs authority over you and you know what the
00:02:37.120 smartest thing you can do as a woman is sit and go you know what going to this concert is two hours but
00:02:42.080 this is going to piss him off and it's going to splinter in his mind for years is this really worth it
00:02:48.560 now i'm not saying let some man abuse you let some man treat a shit but if you have a good man who's
00:02:53.520 good to you 99 of the time and he comes along he really cares about something you should give him
00:02:58.320 that grace and give him that you know what he's the man he said it boom done because if something
00:03:03.360 happened to you at that concert if your bag was snatched if you got fucking robbed if someone tried
00:03:09.520 to punch you if someone grabbed you who would you call okay the police help me the police you call
00:03:16.240 your man the police you call him senor andrew mr tate king master supreme leader of everything the
00:03:22.160 universe the matrix said all of that no i'll just say this because it keeps him chill
00:03:25.360 wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait one second one
00:03:32.640 second i just said you go ahead if you want to say something just doing the most of course i have to
00:03:37.600 do the most this is the thing what you don't understand is that as a lady i am displaying to
00:03:42.480 you that it's very easy to speak to a man like andrew tate as long as you don't need to step on his
00:03:46.000 toes and you expect you respect the authority that he has i'm not going to sit here and try and fight
00:03:50.080 against a man that has done a lot more in my life been in rooms that i haven't been in because he's
00:03:54.560 andrew tate i respect you but i can still put my point across okay my point is no but there is a
00:04:01.280 point of course when you say but after something you just cancel everything you said before however
00:04:06.880 it's a point is an acknowledgement and then comes the counter argument because i don't have to agree
00:04:11.040 with things to speak okay so my point simply is fine i get that but at the end of the day the same way
00:04:17.600 that we have evolved now as a woman i have evolved i i would expect and what i do want is not equality
00:04:23.440 is a certain level of respect which means that if i am also somebody that is quite smart somebody
00:04:28.640 that can take care of themselves i've done all of this for about 30 years of my life you can't
00:04:32.880 tell me just no what the condition is sorry yeah the condition is instead of telling me no give me
00:04:38.320 the assurance as to why you said no because actually i am agreeable when you make me feel
00:04:42.400 assured that what you're doing makes me feel safe actually because what women are looking a lot for
00:04:47.280 is stability and stability comes from knowing that you can trust the man it doesn't it doesn't it
00:04:53.200 doesn't count if you're only agreeable when you feel like being agreeable can i just say something
00:04:57.120 that's why i said i'm submission i'm submissive you're only submissive when you you're only
00:05:02.320 submissive when you feel like being agree like when you feel like it can i just say something
00:05:06.640 out of respect we live in different houses of course if i went he'd never know my me and my
00:05:11.600 man because i i'm a caregiver if i if i went he would have never known right so i still didn't go okay
00:05:20.240 and so what you were saying so i'll say to you okay baby you don't want me to go why don't you
00:05:25.040 mean to go like what's worrying what's the matter why would you not want me to go but why would i
00:05:28.240 want to question him when he's always got my best interest at heart well i want to know i don't know
00:05:31.920 why because my best interest why should he have to explain everything because you're not a child
00:05:36.400 you are also an adult and it's not i'm treating a woman like she doesn't have her own mind it's
00:05:41.040 very disrespectful acknowledgement it's like i'm sorry think about it right i'm a 26 i'm 26 right yeah
00:05:47.680 i've lived my life all by myself and then i'm in a relationship and this man is telling me i can't
00:05:52.240 go out with no reason girls let me give you does that make sense can i do that to a man and just say
00:05:57.520 i don't want you if i told him if i told my man listen right you know you said you're going
00:06:01.680 such and such well you know what i don't really think you should go you'll think about it and he
00:06:04.960 will say you really don't want me to go and i'll say no you won't go that's a lie that's not a lie
00:06:09.120 there's no matter that's nice if we can do if we can do like that let me give you let me baby i can
00:06:14.560 veto you can let me ask you girls let me ask you girls a question the reason she decided not to go is
00:06:19.120 because this is obviously not a regular occurrence right so he had a reason and she trusts his judgment
00:06:23.520 let me give you girls a scenario let's imagine i'm with a chick whatever whatever she has a concert
00:06:28.960 i said i don't want you to go and she she replies like you why can't i go and i say
00:06:33.280 got a bad feeling don't go now now what now now so would you think the woman should just go i don't
00:06:40.560 give a shit about your stupid feeling and bounce or no what is the reason it might wait there's no
00:06:45.360 reason there's no reason i got a bad feeling this is the thing that doesn't make sense wait wait look at
00:06:50.720 the key a bad feeling listen listen my sister this is the key when you say i don't know i just got a bad
00:06:56.000 feeling let me tell you how that is get translated into my head he cares about me and he's actually
00:07:01.200 thinking about something that potentially could be happening that i'm not aware of i love him for
00:07:05.280 thinking outside the box but you've reassured me you've shown me respect for being able to make my
00:07:09.680 own decision and that's all it takes no that's all a girl wants to hear no but i'm sorry you need a
00:07:14.000 logical reason as to why you're gonna tell me a feeling a feeling is not logical a feeling is not
00:07:19.920 logical a lot of times like men think things through a lot like more than we realize and
00:07:34.960 so he's already thought about it he's already made his decision it's a headache to him when every time
00:07:39.840 he makes a decision he has to explain it to you that's right and if you trust that man and you've
00:07:45.040 been with him as long as auntie's been with her man and he says something with the kind of relationship
00:07:49.280 they have and the respect they have for each other of course she's gonna be like all right
00:07:51.760 well cool done that's trust and that's trust i wasn't happy of course and also that's that's a
00:07:57.920 really good point about submission because submissions is largely misunderstood like i can tell you a
00:08:02.320 million stories i've had girls who are like yeah you're the man you're in charge and yeah no problem
00:08:07.040 yeah she's cool and she's cool on the jet she's cool in dubai she's cool in the restaurants she's
00:08:11.040 cool in the five stars she's cool in the lambo but the second i say something that she that she
00:08:15.040 half doesn't like then she's like well you know what then she's a feminist right so women do this
00:08:20.560 very well a lot of women flip-flop like if you trust your man and you really want to be with him
00:08:24.480 and you really want to submit to him there's going to be times you're going to submit in ways you don't
00:08:27.280 like that's the whole point of it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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