JustPearlyThings - Modern Women Need To Hear THIS

00:00:00.000 say about let me put for instance there's an artist that i like my man likes it too

00:00:05.760 covered it just sort of like finished i've got two free tickets to go to the

00:00:10.320 to go my man said to me you're not going what would you do i'm going what would you do

00:00:18.480 why am i not going it doesn't matter he said to you because that's just the logical submission

00:00:25.440 but the whole the whole point is you pick someone that you respect enough to trust

00:00:29.120 his judgment even when you even when you disagree that's the whole point i want to i want to find

00:00:33.600 that i don't agree with you guys guys guys guys stop stop wait wait wait we need one at a time 0.98

00:00:42.400 why would you think it's something stupid or whatever you trust a man enough to be with him 0.98

00:00:46.720 you trust a man enough to sleep with him so why won't you trust an opinion why does he have to 0.91

00:00:50.640 give that if i say to my man like i went in if i say to my man don't do this the first thing is

00:00:55.680 me thinking not she's telling me what to do there must be a reason behind it why she's telling me

00:00:59.440 not to do because she trusts me i did not go i had two free tickets i did not go i'll tell you why

00:01:05.040 wait wait wait until you ask me a question i'll tell you why because the same way a man wants that

00:01:09.040 sort of validation a woman wants assurance i don't want to just blindly do everything all the time

00:01:13.360 especially something i'm thinking okay that's okay so let's talk that's what submission is

00:01:19.600 ultimately a really important point because this the point she's making is twofold and it's extremely

00:01:22.800 important because a lot of women talk about being submissive but they're submissive when it suits 1.00

00:01:26.720 them that's not submission so she wanted to go to the concert he said no she trusts him as a man she

00:01:32.160 didn't go absolute respect for that that's exactly what my woman would have done exactly the same thing 1.00

00:01:36.640 women go i'm submissive you're submissive when he's buying you shit in bed and you're submissive but the 0.99

00:01:41.920 second he says something you don't like you instantly turn off the submission run your 1.00

00:01:45.040 fucking mouth that's not submissive that's manipulation that's bullshit so that's the first thing 1.00

00:01:48.720 the second thing is responsibility and authority are linked and as a man if i'm going to be 1.00

00:01:54.480 responsible for a woman i need a degree of authority over her this is the reality of it if i'm going to 0.61

00:01:59.200 be responsible for paying your bills responsible for your personal safety and responsible for your

00:02:03.040 personal development responsible for fixing the life fitting and responsible for everything that i'm

00:02:07.680 supposed to do as a man i need a degree of authority to sometimes come along and say xyz and be obeyed

00:02:13.360 if i'm going to have a ship if you have a ship the reason the captain has to go down with the ship

00:02:18.720 is responsible for everything that happens on that ship and because of that he has authority if he

00:02:23.760 yells at the shipmates and they all ignore him then he can't be considered responsible for the

00:02:27.840 problems on the ship which means he doesn't have to die with it if you want a man invested in a

00:02:32.480 relationship he needs to be responsible for you but he needs authority over you and you know what the

00:02:37.120 smartest thing you can do as a woman is sit and go you know what going to this concert is two hours but 1.00

00:02:42.080 this is going to piss him off and it's going to splinter in his mind for years is this really worth it 0.98

00:02:48.560 now i'm not saying let some man abuse you let some man treat a shit but if you have a good man who's 0.98

00:02:53.520 good to you 99 of the time and he comes along he really cares about something you should give him 0.97

00:02:58.320 that grace and give him that you know what he's the man he said it boom done because if something

00:03:03.360 happened to you at that concert if your bag was snatched if you got fucking robbed if someone tried 0.91

00:03:09.520 to punch you if someone grabbed you who would you call okay the police help me the police you call 0.96

00:03:16.240 your man the police you call him senor andrew mr tate king master supreme leader of everything the 0.78

00:03:22.160 universe the matrix said all of that no i'll just say this because it keeps him chill

00:03:25.360 wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait one second one

00:03:32.640 second i just said you go ahead if you want to say something just doing the most of course i have to

00:03:37.600 do the most this is the thing what you don't understand is that as a lady i am displaying to

00:03:42.480 you that it's very easy to speak to a man like andrew tate as long as you don't need to step on his

00:03:46.000 toes and you expect you respect the authority that he has i'm not going to sit here and try and fight

00:03:50.080 against a man that has done a lot more in my life been in rooms that i haven't been in because he's

00:03:54.560 andrew tate i respect you but i can still put my point across okay my point is no but there is a

00:04:01.280 point of course when you say but after something you just cancel everything you said before however

00:04:06.880 it's a point is an acknowledgement and then comes the counter argument because i don't have to agree

00:04:11.040 with things to speak okay so my point simply is fine i get that but at the end of the day the same way

00:04:17.600 that we have evolved now as a woman i have evolved i i would expect and what i do want is not equality

00:04:23.440 is a certain level of respect which means that if i am also somebody that is quite smart somebody

00:04:28.640 that can take care of themselves i've done all of this for about 30 years of my life you can't

00:04:32.880 tell me just no what the condition is sorry yeah the condition is instead of telling me no give me

00:04:38.320 the assurance as to why you said no because actually i am agreeable when you make me feel

00:04:42.400 assured that what you're doing makes me feel safe actually because what women are looking a lot for

00:04:47.280 is stability and stability comes from knowing that you can trust the man it doesn't it doesn't it

00:04:53.200 doesn't count if you're only agreeable when you feel like being agreeable can i just say something

00:04:57.120 that's why i said i'm submission i'm submissive you're only submissive when you you're only

00:05:02.320 submissive when you feel like being agree like when you feel like it can i just say something

00:05:06.640 out of respect we live in different houses of course if i went he'd never know my me and my

00:05:11.600 man because i i'm a caregiver if i if i went he would have never known right so i still didn't go okay

00:05:20.240 and so what you were saying so i'll say to you okay baby you don't want me to go why don't you

00:05:25.040 mean to go like what's worrying what's the matter why would you not want me to go but why would i

00:05:28.240 want to question him when he's always got my best interest at heart well i want to know i don't know

00:05:31.920 why because my best interest why should he have to explain everything because you're not a child

00:05:36.400 you are also an adult and it's not i'm treating a woman like she doesn't have her own mind it's

00:05:41.040 very disrespectful acknowledgement it's like i'm sorry think about it right i'm a 26 i'm 26 right yeah

00:05:47.680 i've lived my life all by myself and then i'm in a relationship and this man is telling me i can't

00:05:52.240 go out with no reason girls let me give you does that make sense can i do that to a man and just say

00:05:57.520 i don't want you if i told him if i told my man listen right you know you said you're going

00:06:01.680 such and such well you know what i don't really think you should go you'll think about it and he

00:06:04.960 will say you really don't want me to go and i'll say no you won't go that's a lie that's not a lie

00:06:09.120 there's no matter that's nice if we can do if we can do like that let me give you let me baby i can

00:06:14.560 veto you can let me ask you girls let me ask you girls a question the reason she decided not to go is 0.99

00:06:19.120 because this is obviously not a regular occurrence right so he had a reason and she trusts his judgment

00:06:23.520 let me give you girls a scenario let's imagine i'm with a chick whatever whatever she has a concert 1.00

00:06:28.960 i said i don't want you to go and she she replies like you why can't i go and i say

00:06:33.280 got a bad feeling don't go now now what now now so would you think the woman should just go i don't 1.00

00:06:40.560 give a shit about your stupid feeling and bounce or no what is the reason it might wait there's no 0.99

00:06:45.360 reason there's no reason i got a bad feeling this is the thing that doesn't make sense wait wait look at 1.00

00:06:50.720 the key a bad feeling listen listen my sister this is the key when you say i don't know i just got a bad

00:06:56.000 feeling let me tell you how that is get translated into my head he cares about me and he's actually

00:07:01.200 thinking about something that potentially could be happening that i'm not aware of i love him for

00:07:05.280 thinking outside the box but you've reassured me you've shown me respect for being able to make my

00:07:09.680 own decision and that's all it takes no that's all a girl wants to hear no but i'm sorry you need a

00:07:14.000 logical reason as to why you're gonna tell me a feeling a feeling is not logical a feeling is not

00:07:19.920 logical a lot of times like men think things through a lot like more than we realize and

00:07:34.960 so he's already thought about it he's already made his decision it's a headache to him when every time

00:07:39.840 he makes a decision he has to explain it to you that's right and if you trust that man and you've

00:07:45.040 been with him as long as auntie's been with her man and he says something with the kind of relationship

00:07:49.280 they have and the respect they have for each other of course she's gonna be like all right

00:07:51.760 well cool done that's trust and that's trust i wasn't happy of course and also that's that's a

00:07:57.920 really good point about submission because submissions is largely misunderstood like i can tell you a

00:08:02.320 million stories i've had girls who are like yeah you're the man you're in charge and yeah no problem 1.00

00:08:07.040 yeah she's cool and she's cool on the jet she's cool in dubai she's cool in the restaurants she's

00:08:11.040 cool in the five stars she's cool in the lambo but the second i say something that she that she 0.98

00:08:15.040 half doesn't like then she's like well you know what then she's a feminist right so women do this 1.00

00:08:20.560 very well a lot of women flip-flop like if you trust your man and you really want to be with him 0.98

00:08:24.480 and you really want to submit to him there's going to be times you're going to submit in ways you don't

00:08:27.280 like that's the whole point of it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are

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JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022

Modern Women Need To Hear THIS

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