JustPearlyThings - Modern Women PROOFED They're IRRESPONSIBLE

00:00:00.000 They're the ones that are in charge. They're the ones that have to protect you.

00:00:02.000 She's going to go downstairs and fight everyone. 1.00

00:00:04.000 I think she's talking about the people that don't do that.

00:00:07.000 What are you talking about?

00:00:08.000 So for me, like when you said the protector and the raising, I've always been that person.

00:00:13.000 I've always been.

00:00:15.000 And then what you said where you would choose someone that is going to give you all the things.

00:00:23.000 I got promised them things. It didn't happen.

00:00:26.000 If you had a choice.

00:00:27.000 It did not happen. And that's me being such a dream.

00:00:30.000 Men lie. 0.97

00:00:32.000 Men lie. 0.97

00:00:33.000 Men lie. 0.97

00:00:34.000 I will do this.

00:00:35.000 No, you didn't.

00:00:36.000 That never happened. I've done everything.

00:00:38.000 But that's just in my circumstances. Not in general.

00:00:41.000 But were you married before you had the kid?

00:00:43.000 No.

00:00:44.000 No, I'm not complaining.

00:00:46.000 I'm not complaining.

00:00:48.000 Guys, guys, it needs to be...

00:00:51.000 Okay, one at a time. One at a time. Okay, go ahead.

00:00:55.000 No, I'm not complaining in any way. And I'm the first person to say, listen, it was not planned and blah, blah, blah.

00:01:00.000 But, like, because I went through with that situation.

00:01:03.000 Right.

00:01:04.000 But you're saying, like, men...

00:01:06.000 Why would you not choose someone that's going to give you these things?

00:01:09.000 I got told I wasn't going to get them things.

00:01:11.000 But I expected those things.

00:01:12.000 Right.

00:01:13.000 I just didn't get them.

00:01:14.000 Right, but I'm saying...

00:01:15.000 For me, I just roll with it and then I...

00:01:17.000 I'm not complaining.

00:01:18.000 You don't have to.

00:01:19.000 Which is fine.

00:01:20.000 I shouldn't expect it.

00:01:21.000 Right, but do you think...

00:01:22.000 Like, it probably would have been avoided if you got married first.

00:01:24.000 Not really, no.

00:01:25.000 Because then he's putting his money where his mouth is.

00:01:26.000 It depends on the person.

00:01:27.000 It would have been no difference to my situation except from a fucking messy divorce.

00:01:30.000 Actions, though.

00:01:31.000 It would prove more than just him saying.

00:01:33.000 No.

00:01:34.000 No.

00:01:35.000 No.

00:01:36.000 She needed a ring just to confirm that he was going to be a man of his word.

00:01:39.000 Is that what we're saying?

00:01:40.000 It's not just a ring.

00:01:41.000 I mean, shit.

00:01:42.000 I'm just being...

00:01:43.000 Do you know how big of a risk marriage is for men in 2022?

00:01:47.000 Yeah.

00:01:48.000 Okay.

00:01:49.000 Do you know how the engagement rings are going to be out this Christmas?

00:01:51.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:01:52.000 Guys, do you know how big of a risk the marriage is for men in 2022?

00:01:55.000 Okay.

00:01:56.000 We leave 70 to 80% of the time, 90% of their college educated.

00:01:59.000 They can lose up to 75% of this stuff and take the kids.

00:02:03.000 Okay.

00:02:04.000 We're talking about a man that didn't keep his word.

00:02:05.000 We're not talking about whether...

00:02:06.000 Sorry.

00:02:07.000 The point that she's making is that you should have waited until marriage to say that he

00:02:13.000 was promised those things.

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00:02:40.000 Depends on the parents.

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00:02:45.000 If if anything it would have just made a hundred about there was nothing I was would have got gained from it

00:02:52.380 I have a question going back to what you said you protect and provide

00:02:56.520 Do you not think it would be better if your son had a father in his life or daughter?

00:02:59.900 Oh my god, I would love so much for him to have a five if you go like I have a I'm lucky enough to have

00:03:06.060 Men and family members that are male in my life to be able to show him that kind of way

00:03:10.320 But sometimes I don't think I wish like every day

00:03:13.760 I wish I wish I had someone there. Yeah, that showed him that side of it, but I'm quite masculine in that kind of energy

00:03:20.420 I

00:03:21.420 When it comes to projected or whatever

00:03:23.420 I'll do mum and dad, but I know what you mean that then it I don't know it's a weird

00:03:29.520 We're best friends. Most mums are you follow? No, not me. Get up

00:03:35.000 I'm quite I kind of try and make it balanced to do both

00:03:40.040 but I do wish he did have a

00:03:42.040 a better

00:03:44.040 Was there red flags because a lot of women say this year 1.00

00:03:48.360 But I guarantee there was some kind of signs that he was that guy that doesn't keep his promises

00:03:52.700 There was always red flags, but like I said it wasn't planned

00:03:55.440 I would not plan to have a child at that point with a person in general

00:03:58.700 I'm talking about the commitment side and the keeping his word side. I guarantee there was red flags

00:04:02.700 red flags

00:04:04.700 No, that was the question in hand like would you would you not want to get married first? I would have gained nothing from a marriage 0.92

00:04:09.020 But do you think it would have been different if it was I also said to the guys as well?

00:04:13.820 Do you think it changes if a child comes unplanned?

00:04:16.860 The way you look at having a child

00:04:18.860 Yes, to me. Yeah, I would have had one if not

00:04:21.180 Yeah, because I feel like that changes the question as well because I feel like if you know you want to have a kid

00:04:27.740 Then you can mentally prepare. Okay sick. I'm gonna

00:04:30.940 Yeah, I'm gonna provide if this comes unplanned yet if I was a man not to say that I would run out and be like a see you later, bitch, but 1.00

00:04:39.340 But I do think that

00:04:42.740 Let's say yeah, we we have been seeing each other for like a year or something. She becomes pregnant 0.83

00:04:49.900 There for example, I don't want to I don't want to have a kid now. She wants to have the kid. I'll 0.98

00:04:55.900 I'll help her because I don't want to leave and be the dickhead. That's like bye

00:05:00.940 But then when it comes to it, you know

00:05:02.940 You're eight months in and this child is gonna come in like a month

00:05:06.700 I would be fucking shitting my pants

00:05:09.820 Because it changes the combo, you know because you can't mentally prepare and you I still don't say that they should leave

00:05:17.260 Never, but I do think it really depends on was this baby planned because that changes

00:05:26.140 I mean the idea is like we're a hundred percent in control of birth

00:05:28.540 Yeah, so whether you had it or not

00:05:30.060 It wasn't his choice. It was yours. No, I we had the conversation. I said right. These are the options

00:05:35.020 Do I not do I do it and do it? Are we making a go of it? Like what's happening? We had the full conversation

00:05:39.580 We had full 50 50 0.69

00:05:41.580 Import now like if you want me to get I will do you know what I mean?

00:05:45.100 And then we had the import and then it would we came to the conclusion of we will try our best to make a family

00:05:50.460 For this child a baby. Yeah, and it did not work

00:05:53.420 And you said there were red flags before

00:05:55.580 Oh, yeah, but

00:05:58.380 I'm not trying to like come at you like

00:06:02.140 I'm just I'm just saying like a lot of times like as women yeah, we kind of make it seem like we're a victim

00:06:07.020 I'm

00:06:09.020 What right right, but I'm saying I'm just saying I'm saying in general yeah, but like like there are red flags that happened before and we

00:06:15.980 We choose to move forward. Yeah, so it's not like a gotcha like he got you. It's like

00:06:24.060 Kind of evading the whole argument like so

00:06:27.580 Look, I think we've got to put some wholeness on the men as well

00:06:29.900 There's two types of man. There's one that lives up to his word and there's one that doesn't as simple as that

00:06:34.860 Yeah, but I think you could what's your name sorry in the green

00:06:38.620 Angie

00:06:40.620 I think you could learn something from this

00:06:42.460 So basically I think what a lot of people but especially women are missing is the ability to sow seeds

00:06:50.540 Right, they don't sow seeds. They don't think long term. They just think like oh, yeah

00:06:55.100 Now I feel so this I feel so that but you were saying at 19. Yeah, I wanted one kid now

00:07:00.380 It's I don't want nothing your brain's not fully developed

00:07:06.380 But there's some studies that say till 25 your brain is still developing

00:07:10.620 So there's some shots you're just gonna have to take I was gonna

00:07:13.660 Is this a battlefield hold on? Let me just finish if it's a battlefield and you know people are running at you

00:07:18.860 There's some shots you're gonna have to take you haven't got a hundred percent accuracy

00:07:22.540 All right

00:07:24.540 You're gonna have to start just licking off licking it off because when you get to 55 like four years ago

00:07:29.820 You was thinking one now is zero

00:07:32.540 30 is I need a half

00:07:36.620 So sometimes you need to think about sowing seeds and don't and be open-minded

00:07:40.700 I think a lot of young people sorry to like you're not trying to play it down

00:07:43.980 I'm 26 but I'm

00:07:45.180 So his brain is fully developed

00:07:46.860 It's not fully developed

00:07:49.020 It's not fully developed

00:07:49.580 But I'm open-minded

00:07:51.580 So if one of you in this room proves me wrong or makes me think differently

00:07:54.700 I'm gonna allow myself to think and listen but a lot of people are too hard-headed about something

00:07:59.260 And that's why at 55 there it's regret now

00:08:03.820 I wanted to add to what you just said though because

00:08:07.420 Obviously I feel like a lot of women I'm not a woman, but I feel like a lot

00:08:12.620 evidently

00:08:14.220 Well, I feel like a lot of women will get to a certain like there will be a switch at some point 1.00

00:08:17.980 Like you'll be playing with your your friend's kid or you'll see a kid a cute baby on

00:08:23.820 Instagram or something like that and then you're like

00:08:25.420 I want kids when you get past when you get past 35 does come in it's it's it's you

00:08:30.460 You don't have a choice anymore or like really as the older you get the choice is goals

00:08:34.220 Actually, but it depends on your situation. I have a couple stats for you guys

00:08:43.180 Okay, and what do you guys think the average age is of first child

00:08:48.060 Like to give birth now in the west in England

00:08:50.540 Can I give a range? I'm gonna have you guys raise your hands so between 0.98

00:08:58.860 Under the age of 25 first kid is you think okay between 20 25 to 27?

00:09:06.460 Thanks, okay 28 to 30

00:09:10.620 Or above maybe 30 to 35

00:09:14.140 Okay, okay, it's it's 30. That's the

00:09:16.380 The average age

00:09:18.940 In 2022 the average age for a woman to give birth is 30 and it's going on and at 30 0.99

00:09:24.860 90% of your eggs are gone

00:09:29.340 Their rate wait wait that now here is let's go with that

00:09:32.460 The rate of women giving birth in their 20s has decreased while giving birth in their 30s and 40s has exploded

00:09:39.820 only

00:09:41.260 11% of women that freeze their eggs end up with a live birth at the end of the process 1.00

00:09:48.140 Yeah, that's good. And how much how much does freezing eggs cost?

00:09:51.100 Around around of ivy and a round of ivf costs around

00:09:57.420 $12,000 on average in the united states the price of an ivf at the private you at

00:10:05.100 The price of a round of ivf in the uk at a private clinic clinic is about 5,000 pounds

00:10:14.940 A lot less than the us

00:10:16.940 No one needs to get me pregnant 1.00

00:10:21.820 Guys guys so i'm just curious out of the moment have you ever considered the risks of geriatric pregnancy and did you know those stats so

00:10:28.460 Raise your hand if you knew those stats what is that geriatric pregnancy um is pregnancy after 35

00:10:33.660 Yeah, I'm my mates mom had her at 40 and she's six and she's perfectly fine

00:10:39.100 Exception

00:10:41.100 What do you mean it's not the rules she's still a function human being she ain't got no wrong with you 0.94

00:10:45.260 Okay, okay, okay, so all right, all right

00:10:48.060 So my my parents also have given birth like my parents and their grandparents have given birth late like my both of my grandparents

00:10:55.820 No, I understand but I wouldn't bet on it. Why would I bet on that? That's stupid

00:10:59.900 Yeah, but it's not it's not your time

00:11:02.300 Maybe it wasn't your time to have kids yet some people not ready to have kids till they later

00:11:05.740 How is it it's your choice exactly?

00:11:07.740 So it's their choice to have kids later in it right right and i'm saying that's fine, but don't complain about the results

00:11:12.540 Yeah, you can't that's your

00:11:13.980 No, but they do like with jennifer aniston jennifer aniston is that's what she she is 1.00

00:11:19.420 That's just one person and that's what i'm saying no girls do it all the time 1.00

00:11:22.220 Well, you can't see how many girls you see crying on tick tock about everyone every girl here 0.99

00:11:27.980 You guys are all pretty enough that you know someone in your friend zone. That's ready to marry you tomorrow

00:11:33.980 I don't think that's true though because I want kids

00:11:36.060 I want them now, but I just i'm not gonna just have a kid for the sake of it

00:11:39.740 I need to when you're ready in love and like I want the family so I think it's unfair to say that it's my choice

00:11:46.060 It's not my choice because yeah, I could have a kid with you if I wanted to sorry to pick you out

00:11:49.820 the crap

00:11:58.620 But you know I need to be in love with you you know

00:12:02.140 I want the whole the whole package. I don't want just a sperm donor because if that's the case i'll go to a bank

00:12:10.060 Okay, but it's a choice because there are men i'm sure you have men that want to date you right i'm sure you i mean i'm sure you 0.93

00:12:17.100 I'm sure you have men that you know are good guys in your friend zone but you know i don't want to fuck them 1.00

00:12:24.380 And i understand but then it's like

00:12:25.900 It's it's basically like the men you don't want don't want you yep

00:12:29.820 It's it's everyone everyone that's single if

00:12:33.740 If the men you wanted wanted you you would be in a relationship with them i'm not necessarily

00:12:38.460 It's like it's like women we don't none of us like we don't settle how do you know that it's the it's the men though

00:12:43.820 Like maybe i just don't want anyone maybe no one's like living up to the plate okay

00:12:49.900 Okay, well i just think of this there's one of you and there's the whole population of men

00:12:54.380 And you know what it is i'm sorry to say but the uk is mid

00:13:01.100 No, but i think it's also social media i think people nowadays they meet someone and then they you know he can be

00:13:09.180 Um if you're into men like he can be you know the whole package but because of socials

00:13:15.180 You're like oh, but he's but he's but he's but so i feel like a lot of people struggle to actually like

00:13:21.580 Build something with someone because they're always thinking hmm there might be something better out there

00:13:27.420 No, it's because like we're all chasing after the same men women only swipe right and dating apps five percent of the time

00:13:35.820 We only we only that's the number one way people are meeting dating apps nowadays we only swipe right which ones i'm gonna download them

00:13:41.500 It's true it's true we only swipe right five percent of the time most women rate eighty percent of men is unattractive not just okay 0.91

00:13:53.900 not

00:13:54.060 It is true i can't lie

00:13:57.260 i've had uh i've had hinged before and i think i've one match

00:14:02.540 yeah and so but so to me it's treacherous out there i can't lie

00:14:06.460 It is tough the trenches but that's the whole population of men so it it says if you're single over a certain age you're probably too picky

00:14:14.300 yeah i am very picky that's what i mean that's what i mean it's like

00:14:17.660 but that's a choice it's a choice to be picky

00:14:20.220 yeah yeah

00:14:20.460 yeah yeah

00:14:20.940 is it though

00:14:21.980 it's cool

00:14:22.460 i don't know about it

00:14:25.660 it's got six foot men

00:14:28.380 let's see okay what percent of men do you think are six foot 0.99

00:14:31.500 they're not oh i've seen this very low percentage

00:14:34.220 it depends what you're asking

00:14:35.500 i think a lot

00:14:36.620 no no it's 15 percent it's a very low

00:14:40.380 i'm a half of a life

00:14:41.100 i'm 5 10 do you know how many men are taller than me

00:14:44.540 do you know how many men are taller than me

00:14:45.820 not a lot

00:14:47.820 as a tall girl

00:14:49.820 I'm a tall babe

00:14:51.820 the men that are

00:14:53.820 over six foot tall

00:14:55.820 she has a choice to humble her preference

00:14:57.820 she's so tall

00:14:59.820 no no no but she knows she's tall 1.00

00:15:01.820 she's above average for women so she 1.00

00:15:03.820 has a choice to humble her preference 0.99

00:15:05.820 me now I'm actually the average woman

00:15:07.820 so I don't see why I should humble my preference

00:15:09.820 what was the percentage?

00:15:11.820 what is your 15%?

00:15:13.820 people are lying about their six foot 0.98

00:15:15.820 no men do 0.99

00:15:17.820 no they do lie

00:15:19.820 the whole point I'm making is women would rather die alone

00:15:21.820 than get a guy on their level

00:15:23.820 die alone

00:15:25.820 your level is what you can get

00:15:27.820 to commit to you

00:15:29.820 that's your level

00:15:31.820 that's your level

00:15:33.820 if you say my ex boyfriend was ugly

00:15:35.820 or medium ugly no no no

00:15:37.820 that's your level

00:15:39.820 I've definitely dimmed my light a couple times

00:15:41.820 it still ended the same way

00:15:43.820 that's true

00:15:45.820 what do you mean dimmed your light?

00:15:47.820 I've dated a little bit

00:15:49.820 I'm well out their league

00:15:51.820 no your league is what you date

00:15:53.820 no no no no no no

00:15:55.820 sometimes you just give the ugly guy a chance

00:15:59.820 and they are normally worse

00:16:01.820 they're normally worse

00:16:03.820 are they artsy?

00:16:05.820 they're normally worse

00:16:07.820 ugly ones are the worst

00:16:09.820 sometimes they do a little one two joke

00:16:11.820 guys guys guys

00:16:13.820 they're worse

00:16:15.820 one conversation

00:16:17.820 sometimes they have a little one two joke

00:16:19.820 and they're funny and you fall for it

00:16:21.820 and you're like oh you know what

00:16:23.820 if he's funny

00:16:25.820 that puts him in the top percentage of guys at something

00:16:27.820 like the whole point

00:16:29.820 if you date him that's the best option you had at the time

00:16:31.820 you wouldn't date someone

00:16:33.820 and think oh

00:16:35.820 sometimes you're just bored

00:16:37.820 you're trying something different

00:16:38.820 that's what it is

00:16:39.820 you're trying something different

00:16:40.820 you're tired

00:16:41.820 and then they're normally the worst

00:16:42.820 they think I've banged the world in me

00:16:44.820 I have

00:16:45.820 let me start acting up now

00:16:47.820 look at my babes now 1.00

00:16:48.820 she's at my league

00:16:49.820 but guess what I do

00:16:51.820 I'm gonna start acting up

00:16:52.820 okay but you guys like

00:16:53.820 I'm just being honest

00:16:54.820 y'all sound delusional as hell

00:16:55.820 it's not

00:16:56.820 you sound delusional as hell

00:16:57.820 it's not

00:16:58.820 it's not

00:16:59.820 look at look at look at

00:17:00.820 my

00:17:01.820 sometimes it's an ego

00:17:02.820 it's not delusional

00:17:03.820 your exes are your level

00:17:05.820 my exes are my level

00:17:07.820 I get that but sometimes

00:17:09.820 that's like me saying

00:17:10.820 that's like wait wait

00:17:11.820 that's like me saying

00:17:12.820 I'm a millionaire

00:17:13.820 but I don't have the proof

00:17:14.820 I don't have the proof

00:17:16.820 I don't have the money

00:17:17.820 I don't have the money

00:17:18.820 it's not

00:17:19.820 no no no

00:17:20.820 the only thing that counts

00:17:21.820 the only thing that counts

00:17:22.820 is a ring

00:17:23.820 if you don't have a ring

00:17:24.820 it doesn't count

00:17:25.820 no

00:17:26.820 maybe I'll give you like

00:17:27.820 a 10 year relationship

00:17:28.820 or something

00:17:29.820 you know

00:17:30.820 I'll give you maybe that

00:17:31.820 I do think once

00:17:32.820 I do think if you think

00:17:33.820 you're above someone

00:17:34.820 league wise

00:17:35.820 you still chose that yourself

00:17:37.820 yeah but why did you

00:17:38.820 you've not chose that like

00:17:39.820 because you think

00:17:40.820 that's

00:17:41.820 that's like you're dating

00:17:42.820 in your lane

00:17:43.820 you've done that for a reason

00:17:44.820 yeah but why do you look

00:17:45.820 you've done that

00:17:46.820 because the ones you normally go for

00:17:47.820 it's not working

00:17:48.820 people in your league are not working

00:17:49.820 so let me downgrade

00:17:50.820 let me downgrade

00:17:51.820 let me downgrade

00:17:52.820 to see if they're better

00:17:53.820 and they're not

00:17:54.820 okay this is what happens

00:17:55.820 this is what happens

00:17:56.820 a girl that's a 6 0.96

00:17:57.820 will date an 8

00:17:58.820 and he doesn't treat her well

00:17:59.820 because shit

00:18:00.820 you're shooting out of your league

00:18:01.720 that's out of your league

00:18:03.720 wait wait

00:18:07.320 a guy wouldn't date with a six girl 1.00

00:18:08.820 hey right

00:18:09.820 stop

00:18:10.820 stop

00:18:11.820 That's a third time

00:18:12.820 stop

00:18:13.040 stop

00:18:13.820 that's a third time

00:18:14.520 8th date 6 is all the god damn time 0.66

00:18:16.820 no no no no

00:18:17.820 all the god damn time

00:18:18.820 guys

00:18:19.820 when we talk

00:18:20.820 hey guys

00:18:21.820 if them in Ten

00:18:22.820 and they're gonna choose

00:18:23.820 6 they're gonna choose

00:18:24.820 a 6 over me

00:18:25.820 8th date 6 is all the time

00:18:28.820 time men swipe right on dating i can pull the data for you men swipe right on dating apps 45

00:18:34.340 of the time they're done all the women are called all the women saying yeah that they're dating

00:18:41.220 below why are the men that you want not committing to you i can't answer that because i can't relate

00:18:46.340 to you i don't know because because it's your level that's why it's not but also let me tell

00:18:54.820 you why because when you're on my level and i'm now matching you you're going to take offense

00:19:00.660 i'm now on par you want to be the next big man you me me my babes and all this so now you want

00:19:07.300 someone who's below me who can be like yes babe no babe yes babe yes babe what is this leak this

00:19:17.220 leak sounds like it's all old no it's not what it's not what if what if your exes said that about

00:19:34.980 you what if your exes they might they might this is this is this is the thing it's guys this is

00:19:41.700 delusion no it's not delusion because your delusion is different to mine so why you are not me you

00:19:50.660 so your delusion or maybe answer answer answer what why are these men that you're supposedly in your

00:19:56.500 league why are they not committing to you no why am i not committing to them guys guys so why is it

00:20:00.900 they're not committing to me and not me committing to them yeah that's what i was gonna say but also

00:20:04.340 it's not them committing to me because they want me main control commitment that's it no no

00:20:12.500 hey hey stop stop if you do that one more time we're gonna sub you out you cannot be over talking

00:20:16.580 the host you cannot you cannot be over talking people here um can i say something i feel like

00:20:27.700 when we talk about this thing yeah i feel like a lot of girls nothing against no one when i hear you

00:20:34.980 talk about leak i feel like it's all based on looks but for me personally yeah i'd rather date a guy

00:20:40.260 that's maybe less attractive but he's super sweet you know he has his morals in place he has goals for

00:20:46.580 himself he he's good for his family like i'd rather have that than a 10 that has six women on the side 0.99

00:20:53.460 or whatever he's doing that's what i meant by it that doesn't have his money wait wait go i agree with

00:21:00.180 what you're saying which is why i disagree with what you're saying about my exes they have to have

00:21:04.020 been in my league because the person they tried to make out they were because the reason why they're

00:21:08.980 not in my league isn't just because their their looks is based on things like morals and the person 0.99

00:21:13.620 they painted themselves out to be was a man of their word and i've got to know them and i realized

00:21:17.860 they weren't a man of their word i then realized you're not in my league so therefore what you said

00:21:21.460 it's cap because the men i've met they made them themselves out like yeah they were if your league

00:21:27.380 is what you can get to commit to you if the man that you can get to commit to you you feel like are

00:21:31.300 below your league you're delusional yeah the men the men just because you sleep up doesn't mean they'll

00:21:37.140 commit to you but you can't say they're delusional though because it's delusion it's not because everyone's

00:21:42.340 different everyone's different you don't know everyone's situation so i was actually engaged about to get

00:21:47.220 married and i called it off so i wasn't delusional so i was with someone for six years about to get

00:21:52.740 married wedding period of everything yeah that's your level because you're committed to you yeah

00:21:56.420 yeah no no yeah yeah i get that what you mean because he's the one who obviously proposed the

00:22:00.900 men proposed because they said yeah that's your level i've had people want to do that and i'm like

00:22:05.060 no because you're not my guy you're not and if he committed to you that's your level yeah but it's

00:22:09.380 clearly not that's clearly not because i'm saying no because you're not that guy i'm still waiting for an answer

00:22:13.620 to what what was the why these men that you're supposedly on the level that you're on are not

00:22:18.420 committing i didn't say i was on a level i'm saying you got dating within your lane no you said you

00:22:22.340 didn't you said you delayed you you dated below no i didn't say i did i said people date below just

00:22:27.220 because they want to try something different all right so why did the people that are dating below

00:22:31.300 why why can't they get them in on their level because the ones they're trying to be on their level

00:22:34.660 with is not working for them so you think so you think so you're telling me every single girl you've

00:22:38.820 dated it's always been the same no but i'm not saying that i'm just going off what you said no and i'm

00:22:43.300 telling you what i've said okay okay i have a question i have a question okay what how would

00:22:50.660 you know what your level is if it's if it's not the guy committing to you because if it's not the

00:22:55.700 guy committing to you what would you go off of what else would you go off of the guys you're sleeping

00:23:01.620 with guys that like your pictures on instagram someone who is in my league personally would be

00:23:06.100 someone that even if things didn't work out because of chemistry because of maybe small things

00:23:10.180 that we're not into i can still look at and say you know i respect him yeah even and he has the

00:23:13.860 same mutual respect for me i say he's on my level so okay i have a question did he commit yes okay so

00:23:20.260 again it goes back to your level is what you can get to commit to you but you said that men that are

00:23:26.500 that are tens sometimes or eight sometimes date sixes so that means the six is not how can that work if

00:23:32.420 going by your people because women women are hypergamous women date up women do you know what i think

00:23:38.900 that's the actual okay i think that's the literal opposite opposite i'm pretty sure men date up women 1.00

00:23:43.620 date down there's there's facts that's what i'm saying i have a question just just raise of hands um do you

00:23:50.100 guys want someone that makes more or less money than you i'm not bothered more i'm talking okay okay okay

00:23:54.900 okay if you had to pick more or less like raise your hand raise your hand if it's more raise your hand if it's more

00:23:59.940 raise your hand if you prefer someone that makes less i'm not prefer okay okay

00:24:10.660 i'm asking you a question do you want someone that dates makes more or less you don't get to pick

00:24:14.020 the questions i picked more or less okay okay what would your preference be i didn't say you wouldn't

00:24:24.260 go down i'm saying what would your preference would you want do you guys want someone taller or shorter

00:24:29.620 taller do you want someone stronger than you or skinnier than you oh i like a skinny man

00:24:39.220 hands up if you prefer guys skinnier than you you prefer i used to no no no hands up hands

00:24:44.180 i'm on the fence i'm on the fence okay okay okay hands up if you prefer guys more muscular than you

00:24:49.780 it depends on how okay okay okay guys just in general this is this is the point this is the point

00:24:59.460 we date up when i'm talking about when i'm talking about specifically dating up i'm talking about

00:25:04.900 looks specifically only men like let's look at like just let's base it on celebrities for example

00:25:11.060 okay celebrity men crap they date they date up they date pretty little things that are pretty skinny

00:25:19.860 but there's a reason for that can we can we can we not use maybe there is that's completely fine

00:25:23.540 but i'm still just stating the fact celebrity celebrities are the like that that's hollywood okay

00:25:27.860 but let's let's look at the everyday okay okay wait wait let's let's let's let's stop stop

00:25:33.700 interrupting me okay let's look at the everyday person the everyday person on a dating app men swipe

00:25:40.180 right 45 of the time women swipe right five percent on the time dating apps we would agree is mostly 0.98

00:25:47.220 about looks right mostly look so who is the pickier sex the women okay can i say something though i don't

00:25:55.540 answer go ahead um just like from perspective at the minute i go to a lot of events okay every event i

00:26:03.140 go to probably 90 of the women are beautiful pretty they've got something big bum nice lips the 1.00

00:26:10.100 the percentage of men that are attractive at these events compared to the percentage of women

00:26:20.740 i mean i'm talking for my whole friendship group there might be like a couple of guys in there that oh

00:26:25.620 you're sweet okay i'm just i'm just i'm just i just want to do an experiment here just an experiment

00:26:30.900 i want everyone to rate themselves one to ten honestly yeah yeah yeah to be fair to be fair

00:26:37.940 i'm gonna start i give myself a five go ahead wow go ahead i think it's time for subs

00:26:44.900 go ahead i would say like a seven seven okay i would say a good like a good eight eight okay yeah i'd say

00:26:51.220 that an eight because i'll put some weight on eight okay ten ten okay yeah oh sorry go ahead men

00:26:58.100 two men two oh uh nine with a trim nine with a seven without a trim seven without a trim okay seven

00:27:03.780 point five seven point five that what five and a half five and a half six okay humble seven okay

00:27:12.660 eight with a true okay okay so all right all right all right all right outside of me everyone here

00:27:18.420 rated themselves that's a girl above average do you think women looks only yes so what's the average

00:27:25.140 no one looks oh no okay yeah same sorry okay all right all right looks looks so i think you

00:27:34.500 understood the question yeah right okay yeah yeah okay i don't know i just feel like everyone's got

00:27:39.460 preferences okay it's awkward as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - November 22, 2023

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