JustPearlyThings - MODERN WOMEN Proves That She Doesn't Appreciate Men

00:00:00.000 okay so don't wait now we're going back don't wait uh i don't know just just for him though

00:00:04.180 he's waiting yeah he's okay so next step okay so when should you ask her to make you a coffee

00:00:10.100 that's what we have i don't even drink coffee okay so what what else how else do you vet to

00:00:15.580 for a good woman you know what to bet a good woman yeah i think you need it depends on the 0.99

00:00:22.800 communication and the conversation that you have so going coffee is i agree about and the maddest

00:00:28.880 thing is the girl i'm seeing now the this is the first time i've ever gone coffee and we had a

00:00:32.200 mad conversation in costa over coffee and i've never done that before which is mad but once you

00:00:37.740 have a good through conversation and through certain things a man would get an idea so like

00:00:44.080 what adding on to what roms are saying with family values traditional maybe even pharaoh god like

00:00:50.000 conversation with her you will understand a lot more about her you know what i'm saying if she

00:00:53.320 can can she even conversate can we have a proper conversation together you know what i'm saying

00:00:57.040 okay so take on coffee date sleep with her as soon as possible coffee date after i finish waiting 1.00

00:01:04.260 oh oh so that yeah okay well you're getting on coffee date after you finish waiting that's a waste

00:01:10.480 of time nah man you gotta go first okay go on coffee date either before or after you sleep with her 0.95

00:01:19.180 can i just say really quickly i promise the reason why you could say that now is because you're in a

00:01:27.200 position to be open to be receptive to her as well you know some guys would be like what you know like

00:01:34.380 we're going clubbing or you know it depends on the man as well i'm not putting blame on the man but

00:01:40.620 it's a two-way street a lot of early's list man has so i've probably gone through dating women 0.99

00:01:45.800 gone through this gone through that so now when i meet someone i can analyze a good woman do you get

00:01:51.500 what i'm saying yeah and it's through actually i feel like to your question of where's all the good

00:01:55.860 women gone yet i feel like a lot of good women don't have the values of back in the day so women 1.00

00:02:00.820 i don't know back in the day because i wasn't born back in the day but i think a lot of women 1.00

00:02:04.260 don't want to show wife credentials before they're a wife so they will hold things back expecting 1.00

00:02:09.260 you to put a ring on their finger because it's like oh i can do this but i'm not gonna do these

00:02:15.120 until i'm your wife but man i'm thinking man i'm thinking bro all right if you're gonna cool there's

00:02:19.860 other girl out here that's gonna show me what a wife is but imagine acting like a wife and doing 1.00

00:02:24.340 full throttle like cooking's different but full throttle acting like a wife for you to go and see 1.00

00:02:27.720 someone else or play around but if you don't do that the man's gone so if you so do you want to

00:02:32.440 show him do you want to show him that you're a wife because a man coming into it showing you're

00:02:36.460 ready i'm a husband promotion don't you do the job that he gives you first or do you say promote

00:02:42.260 me with no work experience because you know what if i if me okay once again me and you are in a

00:02:46.860 relationship or we're building up a relationship and then we go out and then i'm and i don't know

00:02:53.020 gal beat you up or something happens i'm here to protect you but i just stand there and just watch

00:02:57.160 you when we go home now what are you going to say to me no no one would i mean if no no don't say no

00:03:02.260 you can't say no one because there's there's man out here that's not going to protect you so

00:03:06.300 our job is to our job is to protect a stranger would jump in okay forget the semantics my job

00:03:12.460 is to protect and provide for you if i don't protect you when i'm out with you when you're

00:03:15.960 rolling out with me when we go home what are you saying to me before what as in a fighting

00:03:21.280 situation that's a bit that's not a good example okay whatever the situation where you need protecting

00:03:25.800 and i don't protect you in that situation what are you doing after that situation i don't i can't

00:03:30.560 answer that question because i don't know what you mean by protecting you're deciding that he's

00:03:34.240 not the one that doesn't make sense it's happened to me before there was like an accident yeah in

00:03:38.520 costa rica there was like a canoeing thing and a kayak thing and he didn't show up and i was i

00:03:43.800 really questioned my nature with this guy that was for me it was done done cool cool yeah yeah so

00:03:49.520 he didn't show up all right but if he didn't but if you don't show your wife credentials to the man

00:03:54.680 what do you think he's gonna do the thing is there's an extent there's a limit you can't do

00:03:58.340 everything because you don't know if that man's serious yet you don't know what's going on so

00:04:01.800 you can't do everything and i'm not you know out here listen he needs to prove to you that he's a

00:04:07.120 good husband but that's that's fear though no he don't wait wait wait that's that's fear though

00:04:11.440 like that's the thing like you're going into something in bad faith oh i can't do much too

00:04:15.100 much for him otherwise he might not pick me why give him a choice anyway yeah but but it's like 0.98

00:04:19.660 you're going into things in fear and you don't get anything worth having if you go into shit scared 0.91

00:04:24.680 exactly like you can get your heart broke like it happens scared money don't make no money yeah 0.81

00:04:29.740 but it's like you have to in order to okay in order to to start this whole podcast i had to invest

00:04:35.460 first but women want all the outcomes without having to invest anything i feel like it's a two-way 1.00

00:04:41.320 thing you didn't hear what she just said a husband has to come to her already so it's a two-way thing

00:04:46.280 so don't you think paul it's a two-way thing so if i'm if i'm it's 50 50 and then you're both

00:04:52.500 on the same page that's different of course i can do that but if i'm not gonna do the most and

00:04:56.340 you're doing the least okay so i have a question do you when you go on dates who pays he does but

00:05:00.760 i will pay i can pay no i didn't say you can pay i said who pays the guy will okay so what why does

00:05:06.440 he have to invest in you before he before you've slept but can i tell you something paul why he has

00:05:10.600 to he has no no no like we have to think about this why does he have to invest in you before

00:05:14.560 you've slept with him but i've done that before to men i've paid on first dates before i've offered

00:05:18.340 i've done it i'm not talking about what you have done i'm talking about what typically happens

00:05:26.580 you're a pretty girl i know these i know these men pay for you i feel like men i feel like men

00:05:31.560 are in um a stereotypical mindset where they feel like they're the big they're the big man they have

00:05:36.760 to be responsible for paying for first date and stuff like that so i feel like that's why they do

00:05:40.680 automatically because men are traditional men are more you you're you're right men are in more

00:05:45.760 traditional roles than women so it's like the men are coming to you in a traditional role they're 0.89

00:05:50.720 taking you on a date they're paying but you're you're saying i can't be a traditional woman for

00:05:55.060 him i can't give him wifely duties went off the bat before he even knows if he's going to get sex from 0.93

00:06:00.380 you which is what men want right he's paying 200 pound eight night into a man so let's be honest 200 0.51

00:06:07.000 pounds eight night into a man so hold on hold on let me just uh show show of hands here is 200

00:06:16.580 pounds uh nothing to you guys raise your hand if 200 pounds is nothing if the investment goes right

00:06:21.520 it's great if it doesn't go right okay okay one there's 200 pounds and nothing so none of these

00:06:27.500 men are men of course they're men but they're different calibers of men okay they're not they're

00:06:32.460 not the right caliber what's the caliber what's the caliber what's that about no but i'm i just

00:06:37.520 know you know i have a certain type of man like i like a man that's you know i want to i want to i

00:06:43.120 want a man that's like a leader in a high position that can teach me because i want to be in that place

00:06:47.620 too and you're willing to show him nothing no i listen like i said 200 pounds ain't not into a man

00:06:54.220 you could show him everything and he will just and he could possibly not be serious of you and be

00:06:58.860 speaking to another girl or sleeping with someone else and that's the that's the only reason 0.65

00:07:02.260 no until i know that you're serious i will give i can get i can surrender to you so you're not even

00:07:07.840 respecting a man's pocket on the first day like i said 200 pounds is nothing to a man that has you

00:07:12.460 you don't respect the money because you just said it's nothing because you're looking at it like

00:07:15.820 unless he states he's not able to afford to go on a date or whatever

00:07:19.840 no man is gonna state anything man could have his last 200 pounds bro you don't date when you're

00:07:25.660 broke no no you don't date when you're broke so you can't say that because man are dating when

00:07:29.960 they're broke well i ain't that would never be what do you mean 200 if he doesn't want to spend

00:07:34.360 200 pounds on a date like what no i mean you need 200 pounds on a first date for what but that's i

00:07:41.840 didn't i didn't ask no you said you said you said you said you said no you said 200 pounds ain't

00:07:47.320 nothing to a man yeah and then when and then when all of these guys said no that is something to me

00:07:52.620 you shat on them you said you said they're not a high enough caliber of man but i'm saying from 0.59

00:07:58.440 my experience um they people have paid and i've been on dates and i've never spoke to a person again

00:08:04.400 after and they spent a lot of money you know what i mean like i'm saying is yeah you're not valuing

00:08:08.260 their time and money because you think that every single one of them that's spending that money

00:08:12.080 whether it's 100 pound or 200 pound you think all of them have got it there's some man that probably

00:08:15.960 have taken you out on date and that's their last probably but i would never know exactly so then but

00:08:19.580 you're still not respecting their money i don't think about it like that exactly because you're

00:08:23.540 still you're still saying that you you can't give them too much but they're spending 200 pounds on

00:08:27.900 you on a first date but i don't think the way guys go on they act like money's nothing to them and

00:08:32.220 they and they do what i mean so why would i be so conscious like unless i love you and i know about

00:08:36.940 your financial situation it'll be completely okay but this is the thing you're just not appreciative

00:08:40.540 because you're saying oh no you're not i'm listening to you speak does she come off

00:08:44.820 appreciative to anyone no no i'm not a grateful person like for real okay but we're i'm listening

00:08:50.080 to you speak if i like if i liked a guy and he and i spoke to him on level and he came to me and said

00:08:54.680 i can't even afford to take you out in a certain place i would not have a problem with that believe

00:08:58.340 me but you just you just said it ain't nothing to a man and when all the guys right but i said when

00:09:05.880 all the guys in here said no that is something to me you said you said they're not the caliber of man

00:09:11.200 you insulted them no no that's not really no i said broke men don't date that's what i said okay

00:09:17.580 so a man's broke if he doesn't want to spend 200 pounds again i'm from i'm from a one percent like

00:09:22.900 top earning family my like broke men can just not want to spend 200 pounds on someone they don't know

00:09:28.460 they don't have to yeah but i don't ask for it's not that but you know what if a man really likes you

00:09:32.880 and he's into you he will spend his last 200 pound on you without you knowing but i would not have

00:09:36.980 known that because they go on like they have money and they go on like oh like everything's fine so

00:09:41.080 it's not like a man's going on like anything man's just not good we're not going to openly say oh

00:09:45.960 we're going to the dinner table the bill comes out oh you know i can't afford this but some man

00:09:49.880 i've never been in a situation you're never going to be in that i've never been so i can't relate

00:09:53.540 to that royal royal you're never going to be in that situation where a man's going to be at the

00:09:57.900 table i had one guy say to me that like go for coffee and you know he's he i think he's i think he

00:10:03.700 was testing me but i was fine with that because i actually liked him like it's not an issue i don't

00:10:07.240 care about the money no he never but he said that you know i'm not in a great position right now and

00:10:11.600 that's fine because i knew he was intelligent and i knew that he was someone i could build with because

00:10:15.200 he's very smart he just wasn't in the right place at the time now i didn't have an issue with that

00:10:19.200 unfortunately it didn't work out why did it work out well he's he's he's muslim bro it's not about

00:10:25.480 money like i i'm not a shallow person so please let's not do that like i know i'm not a shallow

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JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023

MODERN WOMEN Proves That She Doesn't Appreciate Men

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