Modern Women THOUGHTS On ＂WIFE SCHOOL＂
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Summary
In this episode, we have special guest, Pearl, join us to talk about what it's like being a wife and mother. We talk about how to be a good wife, how to cook and how to present yourself in the best way possible.
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Do you think how you look affects the type of part of your time?
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How you look, how you walk, how you present yourself, everything.
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I honestly think I'm a sex object when it comes to things.
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Not that I allow it, but at the end of the day, I know that.
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Yeah, you allow it. The minute you do it, you allow it.
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That's your choice, how you present yourself as well.
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I understand that to you, you may not do it to be a sexual object,
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but people are going to determine you as what you look like.
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If people judge a book by its cover, so isn't that in your control?
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I think it's her behaviour and the way she talks.
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We really talk about the ugly man that I'd sleep with.
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because there must be something underneath all of his ugliness for me to sleep with him.
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but I think you can carry yourself different and you can talk differently.
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And I'll prove myself right if you put yourself in my hands.
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Do you want to come on an episode of Wife School?
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Oh yeah, we do, it's just like wife classes, basically.
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We were training up Pearl to be wifey material.
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But now she decides that she wants everybody else to come in,
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because I think she's feeling a bit overwhelmed with it all.
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So I'm really trying to be able to cook healthy food for a family.
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But I've actually improved a lot in the last, like, 13.
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Can I ask everybody what's their, um, their favorite meal to cook?
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A sort of, like, chicken pasta with some cream cheese, something like that.
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Oh, my partner likes corned beef hash and beetroot, so it's pretty easy.
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That's probably what I can make with a bit of chicken in it.
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I either want to do the sushi bowl or the jollof rice, but I just started doing the jollof
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rice, so I'm like, I don't know if I can get it in 15 minutes.
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I'm trying to teach you how to do it in 15 minutes.
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I have a family like recipe that my grandma taught my mom.
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My mom taught me and it's like cookies from scratch.
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But Auntie also just taught me a cake that I really like making too.
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That's all the things that are not good for her.
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I had to stop baking when I started losing weight.
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It was like, well, I can make a Victoria sponge or I can lose no weight.
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When you get a phone, when you get a text at two o'clock in the morning, where are the
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And then the next episode, or next month, what are we doing?
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And then the month, cause I've always been a tomboy.
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I've always really like, I've just been such a tomboy.
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They should see what you was wearing that day when I cut your trousers up.
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We'll probably get like an instructor or something.
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She's been at dancing already, but she won't post it.
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I always, I keep forgetting to send it to the editors.
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And when she got there, she realized what it was for.
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And I was like, they're like, what do you love about the sixties?
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Most people I would say were like twenties and thirties.
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I meant, you were, you look back and you say that you, you lost.
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I think I've dumped every man that I've ever been with.
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You were, you look back and you say that you, you lost.
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I think I've dumped every man that I've ever been with and I've always won.
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Like other than emotional damage, probably like drama, probably like daily routine.
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I don't really have much to lose compared to other people.
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So to be fair, I don't feel like I've lost in a relationship.
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Why do you go into a relationship at such a young age?
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I think I like having someone there that I can confide in.
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I think mostly because I like someone that can add on to my lifestyle.
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I like someone that I can, at the end of the day, go back and be like, this is like, this is my person, kind of like my best friend.
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I am in a partnership, which we're still figuring stuff out.
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So I think it was more so we kind of went, cool.
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So we can stay in until we try to figure out what's up.
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And if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.
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I feel like a lot of younger generation feel like they need to be in a relationship.
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And my youngest feels like she needs to be in a relationship.
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But, and where my job and where I work with children, a lot of young teenagers and adolescents
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I think, I think more so than being in a relationship.
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I think it's more so that you don't want to lose that person.
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So the only way you don't lose someone is kind of if you kind of go, cool, I understand that relationship.
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I'm not saying that's the, that applies to me right now, but that's kind of like what I think the general mindset is.
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My mum always said to me, you know, you said you always want somebody to be there.
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So if you're not a twin, you should be used to being on your own.
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Only twins need somebody, they will miss someone.
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So get over your loneliness and get out there and get a hobby and stop getting a man.
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I will admit that I can, I do struggle to be alone.
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And I think more times right now I've practiced being alone.
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I think I don't need that validation from someone else to be like, I can do this.
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But do you think that's a big responsibility to put on somebody else to not make you feel
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alone and to bring you that kind of happiness inside?
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No, because I would never be like, I would never approach someone and be like, yeah, like, I need you to be there for me.
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