JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023


Modern Women THOUGHTS On ＂WIFE SCHOOL＂


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10 minutes

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208.25291

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2,086

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288


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Do you think how you look affects the type of part of your time?
00:00:03.400 How you look, how you walk, how you present yourself, everything.
00:00:06.800 Of course, of course.
00:00:07.800 I honestly think I'm a sex object when it comes to things.
00:00:10.400 But do you allow it?
00:00:11.400 Not that I allow it, but at the end of the day, I know that.
00:00:13.800 But if you do it, you allow it.
00:00:15.200 Whether you think it or not, you allow it.
00:00:17.200 Yeah, you allow it. The minute you do it, you allow it.
00:00:19.600 That's your choice, how you present yourself as well.
00:00:21.800 I understand that to you, you may not do it to be a sexual object,
00:00:26.000 but people are going to determine you as what you look like.
00:00:28.600 If people judge a book by its cover, so isn't that in your control?
00:00:31.400 Yeah.
00:00:32.400 I don't think so much as how she looks like.
00:00:34.400 I think it's her behaviour and the way she talks.
00:00:37.000 First impressions as well.
00:00:38.200 Yeah, I think it's her behaviour.
00:00:40.000 Not really first impressions.
00:00:41.400 We really talk about the ugly man that I'd sleep with.
00:00:45.600 So it's not about first impressions,
00:00:47.000 because there must be something underneath all of his ugliness for me to sleep with him.
00:00:50.200 So I just think that she can look as she is,
00:00:52.400 but I think you can carry yourself different and you can talk differently.
00:00:55.800 I think that's what it is.
00:00:58.000 Okay.
00:00:58.600 And I'll prove myself right if you put yourself in my hands.
00:01:01.200 Do you want to come on an episode of Wife School?
00:01:03.600 Yeah.
00:01:04.200 Yeah?
00:01:04.800 Yeah.
00:01:05.200 Wow, we have so many applicants.
00:01:06.400 Wife School?
00:01:07.800 What?
00:01:08.800 Wife School?
00:01:09.800 Oh yeah, we do, it's just like wife classes, basically.
00:01:13.800 So things that...
00:01:14.800 We're basically training Pearl.
00:01:15.800 We were training up Pearl to be wifey material.
00:01:17.800 She's getting there.
00:01:18.800 Angie didn't think I was wifey enough.
00:01:19.800 But now she decides that she wants everybody else to come in,
00:01:24.800 because I think she's feeling a bit overwhelmed with it all.
00:01:28.000 She wants company.
00:01:29.000 I needed the bread well.
00:01:31.000 Yeah.
00:01:32.000 Okay?
00:01:33.000 I needed the bread.
00:01:34.000 What did you have to change?
00:01:35.000 Everything.
00:01:36.000 What have you had to change since wife school?
00:01:37.400 Um, okay, we have, we have different chapters.
00:01:41.600 Okay.
00:01:42.600 This chapter I'm in is cooking.
00:01:43.600 Okay.
00:01:44.600 So I'm really trying to be able to cook healthy food for a family.
00:01:48.600 So, um, I've been feeding my staff.
00:01:51.600 Bless him.
00:01:54.600 Bless him.
00:01:55.600 Are they happy about that?
00:01:57.600 They're working.
00:01:58.600 He's good.
00:01:59.600 No, I'm good.
00:02:00.600 Look, in the beginning, I had some mess ups.
00:02:02.600 I won't lie.
00:02:03.600 But I've actually improved a lot in the last, like, 13.
00:02:06.800 But if you can cook.
00:02:07.800 Can I just ask a question, Pearl?
00:02:08.800 Yeah.
00:02:09.800 Can I ask everybody what's their, um, their favorite meal to cook?
00:02:11.800 What meal?
00:02:12.800 If you had 15 minutes to cook.
00:02:14.800 15.
00:02:15.800 What would you cook?
00:02:16.800 15 minutes.
00:02:17.800 1-5.
00:02:18.800 1-5.
00:02:19.800 15.
00:02:20.800 What would you cook off the top of your head?
00:02:21.800 What kind of pasta and what?
00:02:22.800 About bolognese.
00:02:23.800 Okay.
00:02:24.800 What would you cook?
00:02:25.800 Steak.
00:02:26.800 Damn you.
00:02:27.800 You took mine.
00:02:28.800 A sort of, like, chicken pasta with some cream cheese, something like that.
00:02:34.000 Okay.
00:02:35.000 What would you cook, young lady?
00:02:36.000 Just 15 minutes.
00:02:38.000 Yeah.
00:02:39.000 Oh, my partner likes corned beef hash and beetroot, so it's pretty easy.
00:02:42.000 15 minutes, literally.
00:02:43.000 Steak and eggs.
00:02:44.000 Okay.
00:02:45.000 Steak in 15 minutes?
00:02:47.000 Steak takes less, though.
00:02:48.000 It takes me six minutes to cook my steak.
00:02:51.000 No, if you have it blue, it's even less.
00:02:53.000 I like my pink.
00:02:54.000 I like it.
00:02:55.000 I do like it blue.
00:02:56.000 I do like it blue sometimes.
00:02:58.000 I'm pink.
00:02:59.000 So what would you cook, young lady?
00:03:01.000 Oh, sorry.
00:03:02.000 I'd probably make fried rice in 15 minutes.
00:03:04.000 That's probably what I can make with a bit of chicken in it.
00:03:06.000 Vegetables, peas.
00:03:07.000 Okay.
00:03:08.000 I think we did.
00:03:09.000 Okay.
00:03:10.000 And you.
00:03:11.000 I would do...
00:03:12.000 Okay, I'm torn.
00:03:13.000 I either want to do the sushi bowl or the jollof rice, but I just started doing the jollof
00:03:17.000 rice, so I'm like, I don't know if I can get it in 15 minutes.
00:03:19.000 Jollof rice?
00:03:20.000 In 15 minutes.
00:03:21.000 You could cook jollof rice.
00:03:22.000 No, no, no.
00:03:23.000 What?
00:03:24.000 I'm trying to teach you how to do it in 15 minutes.
00:03:27.000 You can do it in a rice cooker for 15 minutes.
00:03:29.000 Yeah.
00:03:30.000 Not the real way.
00:03:31.000 I've done the real way.
00:03:32.000 That takes a lot longer.
00:03:33.000 15 minutes.
00:03:34.000 The cheat way.
00:03:35.000 What is your favorite thing to make?
00:03:38.000 Cookies.
00:03:39.000 I have a family like recipe that my grandma taught my mom.
00:03:45.000 My mom taught me and it's like cookies from scratch.
00:03:47.000 I like that.
00:03:48.000 I'm a really big dessert person.
00:03:49.000 It's not good.
00:03:50.000 But Auntie also just taught me a cake that I really like making too.
00:03:53.000 That's all the things that are not good for her.
00:03:55.000 Yeah.
00:03:56.000 Oh yeah.
00:03:57.000 Tell me about it.
00:03:58.000 I had to stop baking when I started losing weight.
00:04:00.000 It was like, well, I can make a Victoria sponge or I can lose no weight.
00:04:04.000 So it's going to be one or the other.
00:04:06.000 Yeah.
00:04:07.000 I've had the same realization recently.
00:04:09.000 Yeah.
00:04:10.000 When you get a phone, when you get a text at two o'clock in the morning, where are the
00:04:12.000 cookies?
00:04:13.000 There's no sugar in the house.
00:04:14.000 Oh my gosh.
00:04:15.000 That was fun.
00:04:16.000 But.
00:04:17.000 Yeah.
00:04:18.000 And then the next episode, or next month, what are we doing?
00:04:22.000 Fashion.
00:04:23.000 We're doing fashion.
00:04:24.000 Yeah.
00:04:25.000 And then the month, cause I've always been a tomboy.
00:04:27.000 I've always really like, I've just been such a tomboy.
00:04:29.000 I've just never cared.
00:04:30.000 You want to dress right now.
00:04:31.000 I know.
00:04:32.000 It's big for me.
00:04:33.000 You just did my videos a year ago.
00:04:34.000 I was in sweats every time.
00:04:36.000 They should see what you was wearing that day when I cut your trousers up.
00:04:39.000 Oh yeah.
00:04:40.000 Yeah.
00:04:41.000 Auntie, like, um, she cut my jeans.
00:04:43.000 Wow.
00:04:44.000 Yeah.
00:04:45.000 Because she felt like they were ugly.
00:04:46.000 I'm pretty laid.
00:04:47.000 I'm pretty laid back.
00:04:48.000 I was like, go ahead.
00:04:49.000 They're beautiful.
00:04:50.000 They're really nice shorts.
00:04:52.000 Um, and then after that, what are we doing?
00:04:54.000 Etiquette?
00:04:55.000 Yeah.
00:04:56.000 Etiquette.
00:04:57.000 Yeah, that's going to be hard.
00:04:58.000 And then dance.
00:04:59.000 That's going to be hard.
00:05:00.000 Um, and then dance.
00:05:01.000 And then, I don't know what.
00:05:02.000 Oh wow.
00:05:03.000 Dance as well.
00:05:04.000 Yeah.
00:05:05.000 Who's, are you teaching dance?
00:05:06.000 No, we'll probably get like a-
00:05:07.000 I don't want to step on my foot.
00:05:08.000 We'll probably-
00:05:09.000 How are you going to do me like that?
00:05:11.000 We'll probably get like an instructor or something.
00:05:14.000 I don't know.
00:05:15.000 She's been at dancing already, but she won't-
00:05:16.000 Are you going to teach her how to wine?
00:05:17.000 She's been at dancing already, but she won't post it.
00:05:19.000 Oh.
00:05:20.000 She went 60s go-go dancing.
00:05:21.000 Oh, no.
00:05:22.000 I always, I keep forgetting to send it to the editors.
00:05:23.000 Oh, I'm sure you do.
00:05:26.000 I'll set her up.
00:05:27.000 I'll set her up.
00:05:28.000 I'll set her up to a dance class.
00:05:29.000 And when she got there, she realized what it was for.
00:05:30.000 Yeah.
00:05:31.000 Love that.
00:05:32.000 No, I didn't know what go-go dancing was.
00:05:33.000 It was like a whole community.
00:05:34.000 They're like obsessed with the sixties.
00:05:35.000 Yeah.
00:05:36.000 And I was like, they're like, what do you love about the sixties?
00:05:37.000 I'm like, nothing.
00:05:38.000 What about your youngest person there?
00:05:39.000 I guess, I guess this class.
00:05:40.000 No, they were young actually.
00:05:41.000 Most people I would say were like twenties and thirties.
00:05:42.000 There was like only one or two older ladies.
00:05:43.000 Wow.
00:05:44.000 Yeah.
00:05:45.000 Yeah.
00:05:46.000 Yeah.
00:05:47.000 They were mostly.
00:05:48.000 Anyone else taken an L?
00:05:49.000 Anyone else in relationships?
00:05:50.000 Yeah.
00:05:51.000 Lost a tooth.
00:05:52.000 That was the L I took from the relationship.
00:05:53.000 Okay.
00:05:54.000 I meant, you were, you look back and you say that you, you lost.
00:05:57.000 Like you were not the winner.
00:05:58.000 You were the loser.
00:05:59.000 I think I've dumped every man that I've ever been with.
00:06:00.000 And I've always won.
00:06:01.000 I'm glad.
00:06:02.000 Yeah.
00:06:03.000 That's good.
00:06:04.000 No one else.
00:06:05.000 Really?
00:06:06.000 Wow.
00:06:07.000 I don't feel like I've lost in a relationship.
00:06:08.000 I mean, you're only 19.
00:06:09.000 Yeah.
00:06:10.000 I'm not.
00:06:11.000 I'm not.
00:06:12.000 I'm not.
00:06:13.000 I'm not.
00:06:14.000 You were, you look back and you say that you, you lost.
00:06:16.000 Like you were not the winner.
00:06:17.000 You were the loser.
00:06:19.000 I think I've dumped every man that I've ever been with and I've always won.
00:06:22.000 I'm glad.
00:06:23.000 Yeah.
00:06:24.000 That's good.
00:06:25.000 No one else.
00:06:27.000 Really?
00:06:28.000 Wow.
00:06:29.000 I don't feel like I've lost in a relationship.
00:06:32.000 I mean, you're only 19.
00:06:35.000 Yeah.
00:06:36.000 Yeah.
00:06:37.000 But yeah, I don't.
00:06:38.000 Yeah.
00:06:39.000 The thing is I don't have too much to lose.
00:06:40.000 Right.
00:06:41.000 Do you get it?
00:06:42.000 Like other than emotional damage, probably like drama, probably like daily routine.
00:06:47.000 I don't really have much to lose compared to other people.
00:06:50.000 Like money's not involved in it.
00:06:51.000 Family's not involved in it.
00:06:53.000 Friends, barely, you know.
00:06:56.000 So to be fair, I don't feel like I've lost in a relationship.
00:06:59.000 Why do you have a relationship?
00:07:01.000 What is it about a relationship?
00:07:02.000 Why do you go into a relationship at such a young age?
00:07:06.000 I think I like having someone there that I can confide in.
00:07:11.000 Why not get a dog or a teddy bear?
00:07:14.000 I think mostly because I like someone that can add on to my lifestyle.
00:07:19.000 I like someone that I can, at the end of the day, go back and be like, this is like, this is my person, kind of like my best friend.
00:07:26.000 Yeah.
00:07:27.000 How's that working for you?
00:07:28.000 Great.
00:07:29.000 Are you in a relationship now?
00:07:32.000 It's complicated.
00:07:33.000 But it's still great.
00:07:35.000 That means no.
00:07:36.000 It's either yes or no.
00:07:38.000 Nothing's complicated or situationships.
00:07:40.000 I'm tired of situationships.
00:07:42.000 Complicated.
00:07:43.000 No.
00:07:44.000 Are you in a relationship?
00:07:45.000 Yes or no?
00:07:46.000 Okay.
00:07:47.000 I am not in a relationship.
00:07:48.000 I am in a partnership, which we're still figuring stuff out.
00:07:51.000 Yeah.
00:07:52.000 I recently just tried to cut him off.
00:07:57.000 Did he beg?
00:07:58.000 No.
00:08:00.000 Nah.
00:08:01.000 So I think it was more so we kind of went, cool.
00:08:04.000 Like, this is what I saw.
00:08:05.000 Maybe it was a bit of a hasty decision.
00:08:07.000 So we can stay in until we try to figure out what's up.
00:08:11.000 And if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.
00:08:13.000 But yeah.
00:08:14.000 That's a lot for such a young age.
00:08:17.000 Yeah.
00:08:18.000 I feel like a lot of younger generation feel like they need to be in a relationship.
00:08:23.000 That's 100%.
00:08:24.000 I've got two girls.
00:08:27.000 And my youngest feels like she needs to be in a relationship.
00:08:30.000 And I don't, I don't get it.
00:08:32.000 But, and where my job and where I work with children, a lot of young teenagers and adolescents
00:08:40.000 feel like they need to be in a relationship.
00:08:43.000 It's quite scary.
00:08:45.000 I think, I think more so than being in a relationship.
00:08:48.000 I think it's more so that you don't want to lose that person.
00:08:50.000 So the only way you don't lose someone is kind of if you kind of go, cool, I understand that relationship.
00:08:54.000 I'm not saying that's the, that applies to me right now, but that's kind of like what I think the general mindset is.
00:09:00.000 Can I give you a bit of advice?
00:09:01.000 Sure.
00:09:02.000 My mum always said to me, you know, you said you always want somebody to be there.
00:09:05.000 You don't want to be on your own.
00:09:06.000 Yeah.
00:09:07.000 My mum would say, you're not a twin.
00:09:09.000 Yeah.
00:09:10.000 100%.
00:09:11.000 So if you're not a twin, you should be used to being on your own.
00:09:13.000 Only twins need somebody, they will miss someone.
00:09:15.000 So get over your loneliness and get out there and get a hobby and stop getting a man.
00:09:19.000 I will admit that I can, I do struggle to be alone.
00:09:22.000 I will openly admit that.
00:09:24.000 And I think more times right now I've practiced being alone.
00:09:28.000 I think I don't need that validation from someone else to be like, I can do this.
00:09:31.000 I can do that.
00:09:32.000 But do you think that's a big responsibility to put on somebody else to not make you feel
00:09:37.000 alone and to bring you that kind of happiness inside?
00:09:40.000 No, because I would never be like, I would never approach someone and be like, yeah, like, I need you to be there for me.
00:09:45.000 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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