JustPearlyThings - December 25, 2022


Modern Women Will Be HIT BADLY By THIS


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

180.32268

Word count

1,520

Sentence count

6

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

2

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how to prepare for a recession and how to deal with the pressures of living on a single parent income. We also discuss the pros and cons of living with a partner and what it's like to be in a recession.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 are modern women prepared for winter so one year ago kevin samuels proclaimed that a cold winter
00:00:07.280 was coming for single women mr samuels spoke of a coming recession that would lead to job losses
00:00:13.520 in sectors filled predominantly by women the financial instability would lead to more women 1.00
00:00:20.160 getting evicted applying for government assistance and seeking other means of income aka only fans
00:00:26.000 and other sex work no sector is safe from the coming winter of over 73 000 tech job workers being
00:00:34.400 laid off in the month of november 2022 in the u.s according to news sources that time is almost here
00:00:43.280 inflation in the uk is projected to rise to 18.6 in january of 2023 the highest since 1997.
00:00:52.880 this inflation will apply to food and consumer goods the most only 14 of women say they are ready 0.77
00:01:01.120 for a recession in the next year the average woman in the uk about 52 percent make 29 684 pounds a year 0.96
00:01:11.840 the average woman in the u.s makes about thirty six thousand seven hundred and twenty six dollars a 1.00
00:01:18.080 year rent has increased by twelve point three percent nationwide in the uk rent has increased
00:01:25.760 seventeen point three percent to around two thousand five hundred and fifty pounds in london and as high
00:01:31.920 as twenty percent or two thousand six hundred and fifty pounds in manchester women make less than men and 0.61
00:01:39.360 spend more the current way that women are navigating their finances is unsustainable with inflation 1.00
00:01:46.080 coming and the coming winter exacerbating the problem putting feelings and emotions aside women in 1.00
00:01:52.400 general will need a man because they simply cannot afford to live without one their survival depends on 1.00
00:01:59.440 it question for the women actually and the men i'm going to say and the men have you first of all have
00:02:06.000 you noticed the cost of living increasing and anybody yes yes yes yes yeah absolutely 100 who hasn't noticed
00:02:21.760 did someone say they haven't noticed it no oh i thought i thought someone said no okay okay i noticed it
00:02:26.800 when i bought kitchen roll it was like 450 it went up to like five pound 15 and i was like still the same
00:02:33.120 kitchen roll so how bad would the economy have to get before you view a second income and a relationship
00:02:41.440 as a necessity to the point where you can't afford no kitchen roll
00:02:51.280 i feel like i would have to be let go from my job and like dismissed from my family and like out on
00:02:58.240 the street somewhere for me to be asking somebody like hey can i rely on your income too i just and
00:03:03.280 maybe i'm just too independent for that but like it's it's it's a joint income though it's not you don't
00:03:07.600 have to like get to the to the very end of the road before you sit there and say hey we could have
00:03:12.080 a better life yeah if we pool our finances yeah it's like if you make 40 and they make 40 that's 80.
00:03:19.600 you just have you just have to like you know agree sometimes even if you don't feel like agreeing you
00:03:24.320 know you know it's no i don't want to compromise i want to be homeless on the streets please have you
00:03:31.840 got any change okay what about you oh god um yeah i'm gonna probably align with uh keala i i would
00:03:46.640 rather just like get like a roommate than compromise like under like i would rather get a roommate or
00:03:52.480 two roommates before i went to being dependent or having a part of my life being dependent on someone
00:04:00.320 else's income in like a romantic setting okay that this would make me really uncomfortable so
00:04:05.120 you'd rather have roommates than a man i'd rather have roommates than depend on a man in a real like
00:04:10.640 i'd rather there's no i would rather yeah have multiple roommates yeah it would take a lot don't
00:04:16.000 you have to depend on the roommates though yeah but that's a contractual agreement like being in a
00:04:20.240 relationship like the only way that i would do that is if i was like married or like we were working
00:04:24.800 towards marriage i wouldn't just have my livelihood be intertwined with someone who wasn't my
00:04:30.080 husband or gonna be my husband okay what about you so i definitely think it's easier when you
00:04:37.360 pair up with someone in terms of like staying with them and stuff because it is really expensive nowadays
00:04:42.720 in london especially i'm from london so i don't necessarily think that for me at my age i'd want to
00:04:48.800 pair up with like a man per se but family like roommates friends etc i'll definitely like be down for
00:04:55.680 it because the living costs are really bad at the moment like it's and the income's not rising with
00:05:00.960 it so it's just it's not really making much sense but yeah this is just not there um but yeah i'd
00:05:08.160 definitely be open for it but i also think as well that just for people that are like aware of the
00:05:14.080 conditions just really trying to figure out how you can bring in more income at this point because
00:05:18.320 i just don't think like a job really can sustain people at that or just one job yeah you need multiple
00:05:23.600 one income now it's just not going to sustain people i'm just not going to lie okay what about
00:05:30.000 you um for me personally i have family i have my dad i have uncles i have family but what i will say
00:05:36.960 is down to money management and being aware of your income what you can spend what you have to expend
00:05:43.600 with the cost of living like for me i have a spreadsheet so i can see how much things have gone up
00:05:49.360 so that means i can restrict i've always lived by myself i've never had roommates i don't have
00:05:53.840 roommates now so you know not everyone is fortunate enough to have family um to rely on a man who is
00:06:00.960 not your long term partner that's risky risky and if it goes sour you still end up he could be your
00:06:07.840 long term partner you can make it work what if it goes right i'm saying like if you're just moving
00:06:16.000 in from living by yourself or living with friends to live with a guy to rely on him for rent or whatever
00:06:21.920 that's kind of isn't this how relationships used to be families and women used to get together and 1.00
00:06:28.320 rely on each other to build a family build a household potentially build a strut a stable enough
00:06:34.000 environment to have kids in like i don't understand how we move so far left from that that you'd you
00:06:39.440 would rather be homeless on the streets you would rather rely on on on people to live with you that
00:06:44.480 you don't actually know they could move out with their boyfriend at any time no i do i do know them
00:06:48.880 for sure it's like if it's it's i think it sounds more like everybody's scared to to toe the line
00:06:54.000 i mean i don't i'm gonna push back on that because like okay how things used to be yeah people used to
00:06:58.480 also be in extremely toxic situations like we're also this generation we're all half of us are child
00:07:04.080 children of divorce or why the relationships that should have been or should be divorced so i think
00:07:09.840 with having that awareness of like what could go wrong living what could go wrong yeah we're going
00:07:16.160 to be so much more we're going to live in fear though yeah i don't think that's fear i think that's
00:07:20.640 being smart you know what do you know what the shift came from the shift came from after like the
00:07:24.080 second world war right before the second world war that everybody had like this sense of duty a sense
00:07:28.400 of community a sense of responsibility as soon as the war was done everybody was like we're liberate
00:07:32.800 we're free we won go out and chase your dreams be happy do whatever you want to do two generations
00:07:38.000 later you got people chasing happiness that don't even know what makes them happy and now we have
00:07:42.000 no sense of community no sense of togetherness and this is kind of why we're in this situation now
00:07:46.000 where we're afraid to just realize that we all kind of need each other i disagree with that okay why do
00:07:51.920 you disagree because we can still have a sense of having a sense of community isn't contingent upon
00:07:55.760 having a romantic partner but those two things are not like no that's where that's where the community
00:08:00.400 starts because that's where your home starts as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock
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