Modern Women’s Addictions Are Worse Than a High Body Count (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men. Is it bad for men to get married young? Is it good for women to marry young? What are the benefits of marriage? Is marriage a bad idea for men?
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Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America for the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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If you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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Women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings.
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Leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege.
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get-
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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The population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
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And I have come to the conclusions that I had from interviewing a thousand women and also
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I had a show called The Pregame in England where I interviewed men and women about culture,
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So, today I wanted to start, before I get into today's topic, which is women's addictions,
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I think I'm going to start my show with, like, pearl thoughts, right?
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Now, I was thinking about how men in life just learn to take L's.
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And women, we don't really have to take L's, you know, the way that men do, right?
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And one of the biggest L's men take is really getting married.
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That's an unfavorable deal, but men are forced to take it.
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For whatever reason, that's what men want to do.
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So, if they want children, many men feel like they need to get married in order to have them.
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And I was thinking about some of the men that I interviewed, right?
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And they go to court, they fight for their children, all of this stuff.
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And what I realized is that the worst thing a guy can do is not only take an L,
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but take an L for an overweight, fat wife that doesn't sleep with them.
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Like, okay, let's say, let's take a guy that's kind of taking an L right now.
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Kylie Jenner's new boyfriend, Timothy whatever.
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Obviously, you know, she's going to rake him through the coals, whatever.
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But it's not really an L because he gets to be more famous,
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which helps him towards his career, number one.
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But a lot of you are getting raked through the coals from a four.
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So today we're going to talk about women's addiction.
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Coffee, traveling, social media, tattoos, the list.
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And I did a show on addictions that women have that really are worse than body count.
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You know, because I did an episode once where I asked men, $50,000 in credit card debt or 50,000 or sorry, 50 bodies.
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And I don't think men have really matured until they realize that the $50,000 in debt is worse.
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And I'll tell you why I would argue that it's worse.
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I would argue because I don't care if you get a virgin trad wife or a whore.
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They're probably statistically, they're going to do one of three things.
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You're going to be an unhappy marriage, sexless marriage.
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Like one of those four things, unless you're part of the lucky like 10%.
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Really, one of those is in your future regardless.
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Like let's not, let's like, obviously she's probably going to cheat on you if she's had 50 bodies.
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But, you know, you'll probably get some good sex.
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She's probably, you know, they both bounce anyway.
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And I, I think more men are having the sentiment and caring about, I think it's kind of an adaptation.
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Men, men care on a visceral level in their soul.
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And they look at the market and say, they're all whores.
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I might as well have the hoe without these addictions.
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So this is going to be a continuation of that show.
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I want to ask the question, what addictions do modern women have that are worse than body count?
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I'll take 50 bodies over thing X, thing Y, thing Z.
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Like, you know, modern women are addicted to bad boys and sex.
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But would you rather deal with that or a bunch of debt?
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Because even if, let's say your wife has never had a bad boy in her life.
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It's not like you can lock your wife in the basement like the good old days.
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I mean, you can't you can't take away your car keys.
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So what about a woman addicted to social media?
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Like, what's worse, a high body count or having to do tick tock trends with your wife?
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Honey, could you take a picture of me with the food?
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So the first addiction we're going to go through is women that are addicted to getting degrees.
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So as you guys know, one of the greatest things about social media is women are posting.
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And now all the women are rationalizing their poor decisions on tick tock.
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If you have degrees, sometimes multiple degrees, and you are struggling to get hired.
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And that's because you are being seen as overqualified from an education standpoint, not from a work history standpoint.
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See, when employers hire that, they want the balance.
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They want you to have the practical work experience as well as the degree.
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And this is why I get so frustrated when I see people just going back to school and getting additional degrees in this.
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Yeah, she's saying you can't just go to school.
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But women, not as much assuming that those degrees are going to get them jobs.
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The degree gets you to the career starting line.
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You're still going to have to do those entry level jobs, those internships and get that practical experience, which you'll then apply the education to.
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And then your career will really catapult forward.
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But in the beginning, you actually put yourself at a disadvantage with all these extra degrees.
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You've got to make a bucket list of employers you want to work for.
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You've got to network with people there and you've got to say, I want an internship.
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Because once you get that one job, you will be able to quantum leap your career and leverage those degrees.
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Next, we have another woman with too many degrees.
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So for background, I have five undergraduate degrees, three associates degrees and two bachelor's degrees that I just graduated with.
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And I'm enrolled in a master's degree all because that I'm going to go to law school and be an attorney.
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So people usually are like, you needed one bachelor's degree and then do a law school to be an attorney.
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First of all, it wasn't a waste of time because I did all my five degrees.
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I have five undergraduate degrees in four years and I'm doing one additional year for my master's degree.
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So I'm actually like technically one year behind that normal path of bachelor's and then JD.
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So I feel like I have tons of time and it's not that big of a deal.
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Second, though, I don't feel like it's a waste because or like extra because I truly love school and I'm such a nerd that I just want to know as much as I can about as much as I can.
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Yeah. So you'd go on a date with her and think, wow, what a nice girl.
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I'm kind of addicted to like learning new stuff.
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And all the stuff that I'm studying is very relevant to law as a whole, but especially the fields of law that I'm most interested in working in.
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I just want to be the best attorney that I can and honestly the best person that I can.
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But, you know, rack up that student debt, lady.
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Woman works in retail and has two bachelor's degrees.
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I work in retail making basically minimum wage and I have two bachelor's degrees and everybody's like, why in the world do you work retail?
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Everybody's trying to give me all of this life advice, telling me to go into health care, telling me to go into tech, yada, yada, yada.
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And everybody's like, why in the world do you have two degrees and you're not using them?
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What are your degrees? Like, what's the story there?
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This is the story of my two bachelor degrees that I have that I am currently not really using.
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And when I was in high school, the high school I went to, like, more than 80% of our graduating class went to a four-year university afterwards.
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So it was very much pushed to go to college after you graduated.
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I was the first one to even graduate high school.
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So it was, like, a big deal for me to go to college and I was super excited.
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I switched my major so many times, which is a big play in this.
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I've taken all my gen ed classes and it's really time for me to figure out what my major is, like, actually going to be.
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And at that point, I had taken a lot of anthropology, history, and sociology classes because those were the classes that I just really enjoyed and had some professors that I really enjoyed.
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So I had already had a lot of credits towards those three.
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So I want to go to school, but I don't want to work.
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And I mainly decided that just because I wanted to graduate on time.
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Like, at this point, if I chose a major that wasn't sociology, I was not going to graduate on time and I was going to have to continue going to school for at least another year and take out even more loans.
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And I just wanted to be, like, done with school at this point.
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I loved the classes that I took and everything that I learned, but I knew the career path wasn't necessarily for me.
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I graduated with a degree in sociology and I minored in anthropology and history.
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I didn't have the opportunity to do an internship or any sort of research while I was getting my degree.
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I had to work a paying job while I was in school and there were no, like, paid opportunities for me.
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So I wasn't able to get any sort of experience in the field.
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The only experience women have with psychology is being crazy.
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So we are good at deciphering each other's crazy and identifying it because we ourselves are crazy.
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Anyways, at that point, I had gotten a better retail job.
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I was making, like, double minimum wage in North Carolina.
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I had a decently paying job for North Carolina standards in retail.
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Let me just take a break and chill for a sec and figure out what I want to do.
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Everybody and the mother decided to go back to school.
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Most people went back and did their masters, but I didn't really want to get my masters in anything like sociology related.
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So as I was looking into it, I found the program through SNHU and you can get your degree online.
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And they had a graphic design with a web development option, which I thought that would be really great web development.
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I was able to transfer a lot of my gen ed credits from my first degree.
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So I was going to be able to complete my degree in about a year and a half.
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Can you like the administrators at these schools?
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They just have to think, how can we make the most BS degree?
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That's the least amount of work possible that women will feel important buying.
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So at the very end of 2022 is when I graduated with my bachelor's in graphic design and web development from SNHU.
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Before I even graduated, I started doing some freelance work.
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So I think in January of 2023 is when I got my first like bigger freelance client.
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I was applying to like more corporate graphic design jobs, but I really wanted to go the freelance route.
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So that's what I did and that's what I've been doing.
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For all of you that are curious, that is the story of my two degrees.
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I wanted to take some time to answer a few of the questions that I got on my last video.
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And the worst part is women get these degrees and think they're smart, right?
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One in three men are afraid to save a woman in a life death situation because the fear they would be accused in essay is the fear justified.
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If men are fearful of saving a woman, how can women claim to be oppressed?
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Cause remember our get out of jail free card is victimhood.
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By the way, those of you in the audacity chat, I do see your chat.
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I mean, there's like quite a few, but the most asked is which, what are the four majors?
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Um, my four majors are political science, philosophy, French, and global studies.
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You know, if I, instead of getting a French major, I would move to the country and learn it there and hire a tutor.
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Instead of paying all that money for a degree, I would just hire a French tutor.
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How much is a college degree in French on average?
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8 000 us dollars a year aren't tutors so like tutors are like 60 bucks an hour
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60 bucks an hour times five days a week times four weeks times 12. 14 grand but that would get
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you further paying that in tutors for the end of the year ask question that i get is why or like
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is it worth it what are the benefits from it and i think those are completely valid questions because
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i ask myself the same thing all the time if i'm being honest with you guys the why for me was
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simply because i could and because it wasn't i saw it as an opportunity to do something that was
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available to me and that's i guess like the simple answer my freshman year i knew i didn't just want
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to do one major i wanted to add philosophy to my global studies major my advisor recommended that
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i added also political science since a lot of classes overlapped um and then my sophomore year
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i took french and i fell in love with language learning so i kind of talked to my advisor again
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she said yeah go for it and that's how that kind of worked out is it worth it or beneficial no well
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i wouldn't say it's necessary i don't think that success looks one single way even for the same
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person um so i wouldn't say yes everybody has to do it because it's the best thing you can do with
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your time whatever i was very lucky to receive financial aid and a lot of scholarships to cover
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all the costs so i don't have to pay a single penny for any of my tuition or school related costs so i'm
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very fortunate and privileged to be able to say that and that is something that i recognize
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constantly at the same time i grew up in a border town i had to cross the border to go to school i
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really knew the value of an american education from a very young age did you if you did you would have
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majored in stem i don't think you did each so for me being in college to begin with as a first gen
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was very valuable and an opportunity that i needed to seize um and this was in my way or in my eyes
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the best way that i could do that for myself in terms of benefits every single interview that i've
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done it's definitely been a topic of conversation it has really shown that i she said that someone call
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ice i am very committed to what i do that i am able to manage my time people say that it shows
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indecisiveness but i actually think it shows quite the opposite because i was very decisive at the
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beginning of my college career where i knew close to nothing and i was able to carry it out and i think
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that is a pretty good thing again i don't want to perpetuate this idea of like you know stacking
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on so many things at once and like doing everything at once like i don't want to be that toxic
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person um yeah okay just take the l you could have summarized this whole video and saying i spent too
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much for a degree i didn't need and i wasted my money so the next addiction we have is modern woman
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addicted to ssris by the way guys at the end of the in like like five videos we're going to put a call
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in line now we're going to have um you can say modern woman's addictions worse than body count
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but we're not going to bring people up till i get through these videos so this is a woman
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on ssris god help us before getting prescribed ssris i used to not sleep at night i would spend the night
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checking on my kids multiple times to make sure they were breathing make sure no one had taken them
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from their beds checking the locks on their windows to make sure no one could come in checking the front
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door checking the back door looking outside to see who was possibly coming in to try to unalive us
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i would spend all of yeah so what's worse alone with a high body count or a woman that constantly
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thinks because she's on drugs that people are trying to kill you i don't know i might pick the night's
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doing this and i would barely sleep but now i sleep through the night before ssris i would randomly
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think about unaliving myself i would think what would happen if i just drove off the road right
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now that'd be a suicidal woman right that probably worse daniel um said a super chat problem is beta
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men are too good now ai always ends bad wh4 okay do 1984 um i robots and that hall it will end badly
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for all eric says another woman educated beyond the confines of her intellect be interesting
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um it sounds like she needs meds if she's actually anxious i guess i would have some really dark
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thoughts but ssris have taken those away um so yes please rfk come save me from these horrible drugs
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yeah so lots of drugs drugs okay woman is a coach and addicted to ssris amazing ssris are not always the
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answer as a coach i so often get clients coming to me telling me that their therapist wants them to
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be put on antidepressants and while antidepressants ssris can work for certain people and they have
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worked wonders for certain people they are not for everybody when i was 23 years old i got put on a very
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low dose about five milligrams of lexapro to help me with my depression and anxiety and never before in
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before in my life before getting put on these antidepressants was my mental health as bad as
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it became while i was on them it got to the point where i was so dysregulated i was so heightened your
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wife could hire her as her coach and i was just so in a state of fight or flight i could not manage my
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emotions i could not manage my spiraling thoughts like what a cute dog though that is a cute dog not get
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out of bed in the day then i actually had to be hospitalized in a psych ward that's how bad it got
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yeah so again high body count or your wife is in a psych ward every couple of months and had
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i actually had somebody who helped me address the root cause of the reason that i was feeling the really
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dark and difficult emotions that i was feeling i don't believe that would have happened instead what
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happened is i got put on something that acted as a band-aid as a mask for what was really happening
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underneath and i think people need to be aware that medication is not always the answer it can be
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i'm not you know pushing against all medication i'm not saying that it doesn't work for some people
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but i am saying that it is too often too quickly and too easily prescribed it was for me and i've heard
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countless other stories just like this there are natural ways to heal your body there are natural
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ways to improve your brain function and you need to learn how to deal with difficult emotions
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i so often see clients who come to me they're going through a hard time in life they're going
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through a breakup difficult things are happening and their therapist who they're also working with which
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is amazing tells them to get on antidepressants tells them to get on ssris in reality you guys
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there are tough moments in life and we need to be able to handle them without always jumping to
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a band-aid we need to learn emotion regulation we need to learn to sit in the discomfort of difficult
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emotions because it will keep happening throughout life it's just a reality difficult things happen
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so if you can't handle it it's only going to be harder and harder and harder every time you mask it
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so i'm not completely saying that ssris are a negative thing i am just saying they are not for
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everybody just for certain people's brain chemistries for certain people's struggles they are not the
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answer they were not the answer for me and they actually led me translation i'm crazy i'm batshit crazy
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stay away man to a much darker place than i ever was in before so if you're hearing this and you're
00:29:54.440
considering getting on ssris maybe take a step back maybe ask yourself if you can work through
00:29:59.640
these things internally if you can dive deep and address the root cause without okay we get the idea
00:30:05.800
okay let's see what's next um woman all right another woman talking about ssris side effects
00:30:15.480
any of these five side effects are bothering you it might that is bad chin filler
00:30:22.120
i need to do a show on how to tell if a girl's had plastic surgery because i don't think you guys can
00:30:27.000
tell as well as you think i need to do a show might be from your ssri antidepressant sexual
00:30:34.280
dysfunction you're never in the mood you have low libido and that's because higher serotonin levels
00:30:39.400
in the brain can cause low libido delay gratification and cause erectile dysfunction
00:30:44.200
feet gain no matter how much you eat or how much you exercise the number just keeps going up on the
00:30:48.920
scale when you use ssris it can actually increase your cravings for carbohydrates and it can decrease
00:30:54.120
your metabolic rate making you gain weight over time number three feeling tired all the time that's
00:30:58.440
because more serotonin in the brain can actually cause sedative like effects that's why a lot of sleep
00:31:03.080
supplements actually try to include 5-htp in their formulation number four you're experiencing a lot
00:31:07.800
of nausea bloating constipation just a ton of digestive issues it can cause emotional blunting
00:31:13.160
so you hear good news you have no reaction if you hear bad news you have no reaction you just don't
00:31:17.400
really have emotions some people may never experience these when using an ssri antidepressant while
00:31:22.360
other people do and for the people who do there are natural ways to help mediate these side effects
00:31:27.000
yeah a lot of plastic surgery okay women addicted to wait for it spirituality if i told anyone else
00:31:39.160
what i'm about to tell you that they would think i was crazy that is what almost every awakening soul
00:31:44.840
says to me and then they proceed to tell me about how they're getting buzzing in their hands or having
00:31:50.040
ear ringing yeah so imagine honey could you come with me i'm having buzzing in my hands
00:31:57.000
i'm having buzz it you know what i mean or they're seeing flashes of light in the corners
00:32:01.560
of their eyes or they're even getting like physical touches but no one's there or they're seeing
00:32:06.360
spirits who have passed they're seeing faces in the trees they know fairies are real now
00:32:11.320
you know my people awakening souls this is the safe place for that i want to hear everything that
00:32:20.120
other people think is crazy but you're worried is too weird to say out loud and i want to validate
00:32:25.240
the out of you and i love that i get to be the person that y'all say it to that is literally the
00:32:29.880
best part of my job because you know how that goes like tell me more and then i give you insights
00:32:35.480
tools and understanding yeah she gives you psychedelics that's what comes next so that you
00:32:41.160
don't in addition to addictions women are more prone to having health issues like pcos autoimmune
00:32:46.520
fibroids endometriosis i believe this is due to a change in the human diet over the years
00:32:52.280
doug mpa can you put a show on that i want to look into that we'll do a show don't feel crazy
00:32:57.960
you get context for like what is going on how do you develop these how do you move on how do you
00:33:02.520
because what you're experiencing as an awakening soul is not understood by almost anyone if anyone
00:33:11.480
at all around you and not feeling crazy and understanding your abilities really does come
00:33:15.320
down to having some techniques some tools some methods some appropriate funnels and containers
00:33:20.440
that give structure to all that wonderful amazing flow that you are now picking up on if you're new to me i
00:33:26.680
am sarah i do awakening readings i do psych yeah so what about at dinner she says can i see your hand
00:33:33.160
honey would you take that or a high body count she doesn't talk about keep me keep me posted maybe
00:33:40.680
you're saying no i'll take the spirituality but these are our choices it's 2025 we gotta get we gotta get
00:33:46.280
real pragmatic here careful who i decided to tap into spiritually because you'd be surprised on who's
00:33:51.720
protected i remember one time i was getting my nails done and as i'm getting my nails done i brought
00:33:56.360
up my job you know what i do i do this i'm a medium i'm a healer i do readings whatever and usually this
00:34:02.120
brings up interesting conversation dustin says if a man man if a girl has a pet snake and some crystals
00:34:08.280
don't enter the house without garlic whether it's on one end of the spectrum or the other it's the
00:34:14.520
interesting conversations tend to happen when i bring up what i do and you know the usual initial
00:34:20.120
reaction is people are like oh my god does my energy feel good is it scary is it good is it bad
00:34:23.720
what are you feeling what are the vibes like they bombard you with all of those questions but it's
00:34:27.480
just because they're excited but she did exactly that like what are the vibes like i would love to
00:34:31.240
get like a little mini read from you like i would even pay you like i know i'm doing your nails
00:34:35.960
right so i was like you know what i really like the conversation here i really like the vibe i feel
00:34:40.600
like she's a vibe so i don't mind tapping in so i tapped in a little bit i was like you know there's
00:34:45.400
this there's that little bit and whatever and she was like yes girl yes yes yes that was accurate i
00:34:50.360
love that whatever now here's the tea as soon as i left um i get a text from her and she's like you
00:34:56.680
would not believe who just called me and i'm like who called you and she was like my dad my father
00:35:03.000
literally just called me and said the medium that you just spoke to listen to her whatever it is that
00:35:09.000
she has to say just know that she's the real deal but listen to what she has to say because she has
00:35:15.080
to help you navigate a certain situation so the medium you just spoke to is a real deal the spirits
00:35:20.440
just told me i happen to be sitting down and they told me that you were talking to someone as we speak
00:35:25.720
and i my my jaw was on the floor because at the time she left out that her dad is very deeply
00:35:32.840
connected spiritually and i guess she left it out as like a protection thing i think i would have done
00:35:37.480
that too like i'm not gonna tell you how connected i am if you're not the real deal right because like
00:35:42.840
can you imagine having to listen to this all the time if i was a guy i would just say give me a whore
00:35:47.320
i'll take i mean she's probably both right but like if i had to i would just say give me the whore
00:35:51.800
god damn it that shit is about to get clocked so she came back obviously pleasantly surprised like
00:35:56.840
yeah well the fact that i didn't even tell him that i was speaking to you because i was literally doing
00:36:00.840
your nails when we spoke it's just confirmation for me that you are who you say that you are
00:36:06.360
so we definitely need to book a reading and yeah okay okay let me go to the next crazy oh
00:36:12.760
i see all the crazy ladies all right let's bring up doug mpa on the line
00:36:19.320
apparently doug mpa oh no i have one more sorry one more before doug mpa i thought i clicked them all
00:36:25.400
this lady journey of spiritual awakening so like you wouldn't think right she looks normal you wouldn't
00:36:30.520
think this is a spiritual lady or at least i would and you keep flipping in and out of higher
00:36:34.760
consciousness here that there's two main reasons this happens number one is that you're basically
00:36:41.000
acclimating your body to holding a higher frequency so like you're not going to be able to do it
00:36:45.640
all the time right away it's going to be like periods of it and then you'll kind of have to drop
00:36:51.160
it it's like building stamina building muscle to hold that higher frequency so it won't be able to be
00:36:56.600
held all the time it might blip in and out for that reason the second reason is because sometimes
00:37:02.840
you're human i hope that makes sense when i say that you're human needs to go gather experiences
00:37:07.880
in order to integrate and process and use to level up so you might find that like you have a huge
00:37:13.480
awakening and it brings you to a certain level of awareness and then and you kind of go back to
00:37:18.280
sleep for like possibly years and you're like why did that happen but think of what you experienced
00:37:24.040
during that time think of think of the like uh content that your life gave you in that time and
00:37:32.760
what it taught you and how you can use it to level up in consciousness because that's kind of what we
00:37:39.320
also do with those sleeping periods is gather things to process essentially to work against what's inside
00:37:47.080
of us and accomplish the calibration that we are trying to the whole process of awakening is at the
00:37:52.680
beginning basically a huge thing of purging fear so um purging fear is like hard work it's big work
00:38:00.280
and it's gonna be a lot so it's kind of kind to give yourself breaks and to not worry too much about
00:38:08.120
that because if you purge fear too fast it can sometimes lead to things like psychosis and which
00:38:16.360
is just where there's like too many frequencies stirred up in the body there's too many fear frequencies
00:38:21.880
stirred up in the body and it's impossible to process them all at once so go gentle and easy
00:38:27.320
on yourself and that's the best way to integrate don't worry too much if it's not like constantly
00:38:32.440
going up on the roller coaster because those down periods are actually when you like each one of those
00:38:38.360
is going to like give you more momentum to go forward
00:38:41.080
all right doug mpa i gotta hear about your experience dating these women can we bring them up
00:38:49.320
yeah can you hear me yeah i can hear you um apparently he's had his fair share give me give
00:38:54.920
me your horror story i'm ready so and then i'm also expecting dustin to call in on this one and give us
00:39:01.880
a couple of stories because he lives in portland so i know he's had the same experience i had so you know
00:39:07.240
i'm from the western washington area one of the most liberal areas in the country and let me tell you guys
00:39:16.840
women that could be attractive but make themselves ugly to fight the patriarchy
00:39:21.720
they're against the male gaze and they have all this spiritual woo-woo liberalism craziness
00:39:27.960
and it's funny because they reject christianity which you know i'm not religious but they latch
00:39:35.880
on to something crazy like wiccan or or you know or some who knows you know what i'm saying
00:39:42.840
they carry crystals around in their pockets and purses and stuff or do palm reeds and stuff and one
00:39:50.040
thing you have to do to be able to get laid with these women is just listen guys if you because there
00:39:57.880
are some of these women who are attractive but one of the fastest ways to sleep with them is fake like
00:40:07.720
you're interested in their spiritual woo-woo garbage can we role play can i pretend yeah yeah okay doug mpa
00:40:18.920
i want to tell you about my um my star sign so my star sign says that you and i are just gonna get along
00:40:29.560
so well so so i usually say i say something like um for conversation's sake i say you know what i don't
00:40:38.840
really believe in star signs but it just so happens that everything that my star sign says i'm supposed
00:40:46.360
to be i am no way that would totally work so the girl could say no way yes what's what's your star
00:40:59.240
sign so then so i tell her my star sign and then i get out my phone and she gets up her phone and i
00:41:07.320
say you you look at my star sign i look at your star sign and let's talk about the pluses and uh and
00:41:14.520
minuses so then i say oh you're a gemini so what this says is you're this and i say all the bad things
00:41:22.040
and i like embellish and try to make her sound like all all those are going to be bad reasons and put
00:41:28.120
her on the back foot no but i'm not like that i'll be oh okay but it says here that's your you know
00:41:38.360
what we can do it real fast i'll bring out what let's say she's a gemini what are the characteristics
00:41:46.440
of a gemini right so then i would say but you have to have the bad parts bad parts right
00:41:58.440
so so it says so you know apparently gemini is impulsive anxious manipulative indecisive
00:42:08.920
inconsistent moody two-faced flighty and sarcastic and i would bring those up first
00:42:15.960
and try to maneuver where she has to prove to me how she's not those things yeah i swear i'm not
00:42:23.080
i know i'd be a really great like girlfriend you know i'm so awesome i'd be like i don't know
00:42:30.600
no really i am and then i'm qualifying to you exactly that's how you got to do it so yeah guys
00:42:37.320
if you meet one of these star sign women you have to just sit there and listen but you can use it to
00:42:44.120
your advantage have her bring up your star sign and read your characteristics to you and bring up hers
00:42:50.840
but only talk to her about the bad ones and have her qualify to you while she's not any of the bad
00:42:57.400
traits now now if a girl is like a wiccan or something that's hard that's really hard because
00:43:07.880
they're talking about i mean hold on just real fast a wiccan
00:43:13.080
wiccan wicca is a religion that reveres nature embraces magic and centers on the duality of the god
00:43:35.560
they engage in rituals spell work and other practices to connect with
00:43:41.000
the divine and cultivate a connection with nature now i can tell you i've gone out on dates with a
00:43:46.520
couple of women that i didn't know were wiccan until i started talking to them but i could never
00:43:53.240
make it through a full social situation or a so a full date with a wiccan and if anyone has guys call in
00:44:02.440
because i want to know how you did did you ever date a wiccan or any any of these women that are
00:44:08.600
in these weird spiritual spirituality cult or anything like that because i could never make it
00:44:15.000
through a date with a wiccan no way i guess we'll find out is dustin coming
00:44:23.080
if he's here i'm gonna bring him up first i know he's had some experiences he lives in portland
00:44:29.160
let me bring him up oh yeah here he goes guys make sure to like the stream and subscribe we are on
00:44:37.080
our way to three million thank you everyone for finally getting pro to two million we are on our
00:44:42.680
way to three let's go dustin man dustin how's it going enlighten us can you hear me yeah man hear you
00:45:08.680
you there dustin we can see you we can hear you too yo it's so good dustin how are you oh it's like hang on
00:45:18.200
okay all right i'm just trying to make sure that our timing but um okay yeah everything is so good
00:45:30.120
how are you guys good how is it dating you said um women with crystals you got to be careful with them
00:45:38.680
yo yes okay yeah i find that women over here they they make these things up because they're not sure how
00:45:46.680
to make progress in life so they just come up with these like these fake problems like oh like my aura
00:45:53.800
isn't right so then they buy these books and then they're like well i'm i'm working on well i dropped
00:46:02.040
out of college and i went to beauty school and i got i'm gonna really work on my aura and i got these
00:46:09.320
crystals and um and then so they're not really making any progress they're actually making less progress
00:46:16.040
but they feel better about themselves because they can talk about it so then they can make progress
00:46:22.840
spiritually but that is basically nothing so it's a way to like not do work but look like you're doing
00:46:29.480
work yeah and uh and also sound like an expert on something oh yeah you sound like an authority on
00:46:40.120
something yeah and so because when you when you talk to a woman they want to they want to sound so
00:46:47.480
smart in conversation and then when they're talking about crystals like i don't give a shit but the
00:46:52.120
girl's gonna feel really smart um like i dated one girl had a pet snake and these crystals and a snake and
00:47:01.880
crystals bro that's sex better yeah fantastic bro uh i didn't go to her house and like i finally get
00:47:09.480
to her house and i go in her room she got this little snake named zara and uh the crazy thing was
00:47:17.720
she was like she started like kind of twerking and she was like oh you like this like
00:47:22.360
and her holding the snake no she wasn't holding the snake but uh her tampon string fell out of her
00:47:31.000
underwear while she was twerking and ah she looked like a pinata
00:47:37.320
yeah so wow so so how do you make it through a date with one of these spiritual women can we role
00:47:45.640
play can you show me oh yeah okay yeah so dustin this is going so well um i gotta tell you what's your
00:47:54.040
star sign yo i'm a gemini but i will be whatever star sign you want if it gets me in your bedroom
00:48:05.000
no no seriously does that work that's just what i say like that's good that's just it
00:48:13.080
uh and what's the success rate on that what do they usually say they're just like kind of giggle
00:48:22.360
like it's just like okay and then they'll and then they'll be like well i don't know if we're
00:48:27.720
if we're relationship compatible we don't need to be oh that's funny
00:48:35.800
uh so so what have you ever made it through a full date and made it to sex with like a a wiccan
00:48:46.120
or some woman who's literally living one of those extreme outlandish spiritual lifestyles
00:48:53.960
because i've never made it dude i just can't well how long were you how long were you dating in in
00:49:00.120
portland like could you just not because you couldn't like listen to it yeah i just couldn't
00:49:05.320
listen to it man i can't and then like i have a very expressive face well pearl knows yeah yeah i
00:49:13.000
told doug mpa to just not say his political opinions and take the sex and he's like i can't do it i can't
00:49:20.200
do it when they say some dumb on a date i gotta tell him i know i gotta tell him and it's always well
00:49:26.040
not it got even worse after my divorce but but yeah man i can't do it so so how do you make it
00:49:31.960
through a day with one of these let's say a woman is a uh a healer and a medium where she talks to
00:49:41.160
spirits how would you navigate a date with a woman who's a medium and says that she talks to spirits
00:49:49.400
uh yeah if a girl is talking to some spirits man i don't that would be rough i would love
00:49:55.880
to meet one and i just try it like i think my problem in life is i seek these women out because
00:50:01.960
i think it'd be an interesting like uh what if she brought what if she you went to her house and she
00:50:08.200
brought out a ouija board yo that uh i dated a chick that lived in uh she lived in like a government
00:50:16.760
housing in portland and she did do that she had like three dogs i knew it dude i knew it dustin man
00:50:23.480
yeah he's in portland i knew he had these doors so you went to her house she had a bunch of dogs
00:50:30.440
said wait did i hear that so okay she was in government housing and she pulled a ouija board
00:50:36.520
what happened yo i didn't partake man i'm not about a ouija board i think i'll die if i do that so i
00:50:42.520
don't i don't mess with it the ouija boards are real bad i don't know so i was like like she pulled it
00:50:48.440
out and she was like we're gonna talk to the ouija board and see about our relationship and i
00:50:55.000
i totally i totally used one when i was a kid i was like 10. how'd it go well you're still alive
00:51:00.600
so maybe i should try it that's good i mean do you know what it worked like it worked to me then i
00:51:05.880
don't know if someone was pushing it it was like me and two of my friends and we had like a pet like
00:51:11.640
ghost named t and yeah it was like for a couple years and then i don't know i don't know we that
00:51:18.280
friend group like broke up so to this day i'd like to reach out and just ask was that a real thing or
00:51:24.440
who was was someone messing with me i don't know did you start chanting like light light as a feather
00:51:29.800
stiff as a board afterwards no no i mean it was just like we'd go to her house and then go in the
00:51:35.640
basement and then there then we'd use the ouija board and then like the the the ghost or whatever
00:51:42.040
would come and we'd just ask it a bunch of questions and then yeah that is why yeah and then one time the
00:51:47.640
thingy because it's like you put it on this thing like this it went like but i i don't know someone
00:51:53.000
could have been messing so i was young i was like 10. so very impressionable time i i mean it's just
00:52:01.000
because i do remember the ouija board thing like levitating a little bit but i don't know if i just
00:52:06.360
imagined that because i was like 10. you know i can't really trust my memory at 10. you know but
00:52:11.720
it is tough to think that as a 10 year old that you would be like one of you would be pushing it to
00:52:17.240
say something so i kind of yeah but they're women women come out of the womb deceptive
00:52:22.520
that's true so i i actually think it's super plausible i mean yeah people like a bunch of
00:52:32.200
dumb stuff when you're a kid and remember women out of a group of women out of a group of women
00:52:41.560
one of them always has to get their point across or always has to get their their message out and
00:52:45.880
that one's usually pushing the ouija board thing i bet yeah i mean that's why i don't i don't know
00:52:52.760
either way like we fell out when i was in middle school but i did message her like 10 years later
00:52:58.280
on facebook just like what i'm just you know i was just wondering but you know respond
00:53:06.040
maybe she remembered it different and she's like that scarred me i don't know i guess i'll never know
00:53:11.800
all right buddy thanks we're gonna move to the next caller always good talking to you buddy yeah
00:53:19.320
have a good one i'm gonna bring up uh i've never seen who before we get to michael williams also
00:53:29.960
another addiction you know all these degrees man yeah i've i've sat across the table on a date
00:53:37.640
with with women that are 150 200 000 in student loan debt no way yep especially in the city i live
00:53:46.680
in now all these educated women because what do we always say pearl modern women are going to keep
00:53:53.560
going to these high-priced institutions to get degrees that nobody cares about to get jobs that
00:53:57.960
aren't going to make them any money and the amount of money because the east coast is expensive for
00:54:03.320
for college anyway in fact the cheapest state to go to school in the united states is new mexico
00:54:09.720
you can get a degree and not to pay a lot of money but women are addicted to you know
00:54:16.360
getting a degree from a certain school they don't care how much it costs and all that status when
00:54:21.640
when you have a bachelor's degree and a master's degree you know how many how many employers actually
00:54:25.880
cared where i went to school none of them anyway michael williams hey how are you doing
00:54:32.120
how are you michael excellent i'm up there in the mke oh cool milwaukee they they are volleyball uh
00:54:43.400
crazy in the middle of october november they're playing outside in the freezing wind i'm going you
00:54:50.280
guys are crazy oh yeah they'll do it and yeah oh my god i've done i've done sand leagues outside in
00:54:57.800
like october november i've done that before yeah my my girlfriend one of my former girlfriends was
00:55:04.200
in the main draw on a professional beach volleyball oh wow she was really good then yeah she uh she
00:55:10.520
played against misty may and she had a jump serve and all that stuff very effort oh she played against
00:55:16.200
misty man wow she was really she's big time she's better than me yeah she uh i i went up to a
00:55:23.080
a uh a volleyball match up in oregon for glass a grass play and these guys were like
00:55:31.640
fucking super people supermen i was like i was completely blown away it's intense yeah yeah because
00:55:38.840
i mean they just keep like if i wanted i could play in a pretty competitive league but it's so time
00:55:44.520
consuming i mean this it's like a part-time for some of the leagues it's like a part-time job to be honest
00:55:51.480
it's crazy it's crazy well it's good that you went over to europe and uh you know uh you know gave
00:55:56.680
it a shot yeah did you see that one um there's a college volleyball game last year i think it was
00:56:03.880
the corn huskers women's volleyball team they had the highest attendance of a volleyball college
00:56:09.240
volleyball game of all time their full their full stadium was full watching their girls volleyball
00:56:16.440
team play it was like 80 000 people or something like that right yeah yeah the corn huskers it was
00:56:21.720
crazy but i i originally came uh approached you guys because i've been following you pearl for quite
00:56:28.040
some time and um how the men are really kind of like getting um the short end of the stick when it
00:56:36.840
comes to dating pools and i i i have been working on one of the biggest reason women are so uh feral
00:56:48.280
and that is that they're carrying around so much debt and because they're uh they tend to be
00:56:54.920
feeling type people they feel that they get really depressed there's not jobs out there for women's
00:57:00.600
studies or some of these other majors that they took my sister took uh graduated psychology back
00:57:07.160
in 81 1981 1982 and then became a trad and uh then went back to school and got her master's in family
00:57:17.960
counseling still doesn't have a job spent hundreds of thousands of dollars she's a year younger than me
00:57:23.640
and i went and got an engineering degree there you go in civil engineering and i got my professional
00:57:28.520
engineering license mechanical engineering i do electrical engineering computer science and all
00:57:32.120
that type of stuff so i actually use college for a legit you know profession as opposed to a hobby
00:57:39.080
like my sister well but anyway i need some stats real fast so only 22 of stem students are women
00:57:48.120
right and not only that stem has a female recruitment and a retention problem because 50 of women in
00:57:58.120
stem will quit their jobs and go to a different industry or stop working all together if they have a child
00:58:05.640
when they hit 45. yeah that's true uh 78 of the women are going to school for humanities degrees and
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remember you're old enough to remember where these degrees they were mrs degrees yeah you're supposed to
00:58:24.200
get a skill that was able to help your husband that you met at college now women there's so many women
00:58:31.720
with these mrs degrees that companies have to constantly just try to make jobs to employ all these
00:58:37.240
mrs degrees and those are the first ones out the door when there's economic downturn so that's what it is
00:58:42.920
well here's here's the thing is that there's so the 10 most popular college degrees all of them except
00:58:49.640
for biology uh have this one missing course requirement that is math and as as long as women
00:58:59.160
are phobic of math um they're not going to break into any kind of legit you know career uh in fact
00:59:07.320
actually when people decide what their major is they go to their you know into their do their search
00:59:12.760
and they go what made you can i they never say what made you can i take right i don't have to do science
00:59:16.840
technology engineering they always say what major can i take where i don't have to do any math
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oh i can be a school teacher and then we push them back in our k6 and wonder why our kids are
00:59:27.240
phobic of math it's because when a child is young and they're having problems with math and their
00:59:32.360
teacher says oh i had problems with math myself that's not what you need a child needs to hear
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they need to hear that you're winning you know that there's success in math and all this other stuff
00:59:43.800
so the reason why there's so few females in stem because i actually have been in it
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i graduated from 1980 which that would put me 45 years in engineering that's a little bit that's
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more than just like you know anecdotal women for the most part are lend towards a community they call
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it nesting you know where they all come to get together and they kind of nest and that is a little less
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like that in middle school uh the least popular person for boys of all the various different cliques
01:00:20.680
is the nerds okay and if you're a girl nerd you're even worse than a boy nerd in amongst the females
01:00:28.920
and those as a result it's very unattractive to be a girl nerd in math or you know like any of the
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things that math you know science is trying to explain why that is you don't know why
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go ahead it's because men we can make up for our our lack of social graces and um and other things
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we can get money you know we can achieve but women pay the price for not being socially aware and being
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socially awkward and it takes a certain kind of temperament to be able to to go into stem even when
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we were young we knew the guys that were going to go into stem we all knew it and the girls kind of
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act the same way but girls are punished by women for not adhering to social rules and um and not being
01:01:21.000
socially aware extremely punished and i think women are harsher on like socially awkward women than men
01:01:27.000
are on socially awkward men like i'll still see even if a guy is much more socially aware than another
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guy they can still bond over something like basketball or um fishing you know something they
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have in common but i don't really see that with women with women it's like like a shared goal will
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bring men together but a shared goal won't necessarily bring women together if anything like clicks form
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yeah yeah i agree 100 pro spot on yeah so anyway um uh in 2010 i started the first free university
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uh where i brought in all the open courses from mit stanford uc berkeley harvard in a learning
01:02:09.880
management system like blackboard or moodle of the 900 courses to one of the courses prepare students for
01:02:16.040
ap's cleps dssts and all the others so currently students can get their batches in over 60 majors
01:02:22.760
from state universities region accredited like mit or harvard in six months for under eight thousand
01:02:29.320
dollars but the irony is i don't believe in online distance remote learning because when people do
01:02:34.360
that they do that their bedroom at the library coffee shop with a phone you can go out to the
01:02:39.080
volleyball field find your favorite coach and work on your drills or go to the art museum study art
01:02:46.120
history art appreciation both of those are three unit hour test from the college board's clep program
01:02:53.080
and so literally i'm getting another 30 minutes another 30 seconds we got to speed it up because
01:03:02.040
i got a full line of callers the biggest problem that young ladies face is the extreme amount of
01:03:06.920
debt that's the main reason why they can't buy homes it's the main reason why they uh don't want to
01:03:12.520
raise their children in apartments is because of the debt and what i'm offering is is a pathway
01:03:19.320
where i have no benefit to it i'm going to i'm retired i'm working on this problem is to fix
01:03:25.080
the problem that the baby boomers started and that is this addiction to college degrees
01:03:31.400
and i'm going to put a couple of links in the chat so if anybody has siblings that are in high school
01:03:38.840
or other individuals that are considering the trades uh the you know professional certifications
01:03:47.400
other types of things you'll find out in the very popular epic times okay which is uh i'll put that
01:03:54.200
in the link okay thank you for calling in we really appreciate it yeah thanks for calling in
01:03:59.000
yeah uh-huh sure um next we have i can never say this guy's name right let's who will lisa he was here
01:04:09.640
before let's what lesson let the lensa oh it's good to see you buddy how you doing
01:04:18.120
hey i'm doing well good to see you again how's it going so what's a female's addiction that's worse
01:04:25.240
than body count so i think it depends right they're both bad but they're separate types risk
01:04:33.400
the way i would go about it is uh rating them on a scale of one to ten so on the uh spending side i
01:04:42.200
would think of it as um as a guy the risk is that your partner is out has out control spending habits
01:04:52.360
where like let's say you bring in just make up number as example two hundred thousand dollars um
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and you can pay for your reasonable expenses have some moderate amount of fun but also say for your
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retirement or your kids uh college fund um but your wife or your partner says like no you should
01:05:13.480
spend all of it on me because we should have lived experiences um and if you don't do this she's going
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to hold a grudge and she'll eventually divorce you um and you lose out even more uh that way um so you
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want to so the way i would go about it is like what's the probability of this happening um and i try to
01:05:34.920
like break down a scale from one to ten based on how severe her behavior is and on body count like
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similarly i would try to think about in terms of uh how likely she is to cheat or engage in other
01:05:53.160
questionable behavior from what she's showing and try to break down scale one to ten okay so what what's
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worse than body count um i think uh i want to say like just behavior where uh she's spending far and
01:06:18.520
large beyond her means and she's not willing to listen to reason and she's also requesting like um
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um most of your household income be funded towards like these type of endeavors okay so insane spending
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habits that you have to pay for yeah essentially okay um you know how they start that whole thing
01:06:43.960
right because here's the thing i always say the modern women playbook they want to find a competitive
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successful ambitious man marry him and then get him to set his own dreams aside to help her achieve
01:06:57.320
her own selfish desires and one of the ways they do that is you're married right the husband's money is
01:07:04.920
the house money and then for her to to be an equal partner the man has to let her keep all of her money
01:07:12.600
so the man is paying for everything while she works and spends all of her own money on herself most of
01:07:19.480
the guys i know that have gotten divorced that are successful that's one of the reasons why and that's
01:07:25.080
how their marriage was for most of it yeah that checks out um something else i a trend i've noticed that
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i don't really have a explanation for i'm hoping probably you could have some um interesting insights is
01:07:39.400
a lot of women that are not uh i want to say like extremely attractive like they're they're above
01:07:49.560
average but they're mostly um they're not meaningfully above average they're not like a supermodel right
01:07:55.720
um they're like uh but they are still able to get guys to um like take them out constantly on
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vacations and spend a ton of money on them like say um twenty thousand a month um and it's happening
01:08:15.320
so frequently that i don't have a explanation for this like this is not a thing that should be
01:08:20.920
logically it's sugar dating but why are getting are getting fatter so the price of beauty come goes up
01:08:30.440
like gen z women half of them are fat so even if they're not that attractive if they're just not
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fat or even chubby and young they still hit the top like 20 percent it's just it's just americans are fat
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but why there's so many guys who are willing to spend on this they're sexless lonely or they just have the
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money like if you're 60 and you got a bunch of money it's almost easier to just pay them to put out
01:09:00.440
you know i'm talking about like guys in their 30s who are like they're lawyers so they're
01:09:07.240
model successful but they're spending like all their income on some girl with essentially no
01:09:12.120
realistic prospects and our average look and it's happening like way too common for this to be logical
01:09:19.080
i would just say it's a lack of options so that for whatever men don't usually do things unless
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they believe it's the easiest way for them to get whatever they want so i'd just say they're
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probably unattractive to women so that's the only way they feel like they can get it from a woman that
01:09:38.040
they deem to be like above their minimum attractive floor so we got to move on to the next caller though
01:09:45.560
but thank you for calling in calling anytime okay yeah thanks for having me all right guys
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addictions women have that are worse than a high body count now i don't please don't come on here
01:10:02.680
and say there's nothing worse than a high body count because that's not the question do you know what i
01:10:10.680
mean like that's i understand that could be your opinion but that's not the question today you know
01:10:16.840
so who's up next doug mpa oh doyan stoyan okay okay yeah that's me guys hi how are you where are you
01:10:29.080
calling out of hawaii oh cool yeah so i have like a crazy story okay like you guys mentioned the whole
01:10:38.920
witchcraft thing and all that stuff so my my ex-wife was like a jamaican lightworker one of these ones
01:10:46.120
and um dude the whole thing is a giant scam like big scam it it's it's really like a big giant um
01:10:59.960
confirmation bias exercise like 24 7. you know so yeah i don't recommend it um but i do think
01:11:08.760
that um a lot of what's going on nowadays is just people are just selfish at the end of the day
01:11:15.240
i think it it is orchestrated somehow through social engineering um in order to create the division
01:11:21.560
between men and women and then like replace women with like ai we're gonna get the artificial womb
01:11:27.960
soon so we're gonna be able to produce children that way because you know we're gonna have to solve
01:11:31.880
the problem of not reproducing enough so in order to save humanity the governments are going to come
01:11:37.960
in create a nice artificial womb they're going to create the children i want to stick to i want to
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stick to the addictions that are worse than body count um topic i think it's like social media i think
01:11:51.800
social media is probably going to be a huge one as far as addictions um because a lot of that's going to
01:11:58.120
just be like constant mental programming by the algorithm or whatever you want to call it it's
01:12:05.320
gonna paint the picture like it's going to create a filter in between reality and they're not going
01:12:14.520
to be able to see the real world they're going to see what's like on social media what's being echoed
01:12:18.840
in their echo chamber so i do think that that's probably one of the most dangerous addictions when it
01:12:24.200
comes to to women because it's very easy to get someone to feel something and change their mind by
01:12:33.800
getting them to to feel bad for a specific group of people or you know basically emotional manipulation
01:12:43.080
people don't go to mcdonald's because they make the best burgers just because they make you happy right
01:12:47.960
right i would add to the social media thing where the um the validation that women in the past would
01:12:55.240
get from their husbands and friends and family in person they get online
01:13:03.000
well i agree with that but like i don't know if you guys have heard of the research uh when it comes
01:13:09.960
to addiction like um everybody's heard of that rat study where they put like a mouse in a cage and they
01:13:15.560
give it two options between water and like cocaine water right and it's constantly drinking the cocaine
01:13:20.520
water until it kills itself right um but the same scientist that actually did that research it was
01:13:26.920
like okay but this mouse is all by itself and so what they did was they created a little park for it
01:13:31.480
yeah i got into some mouse friends created a whole community around it and then like none of the mouses
01:13:37.160
drank the cocaine water so what they're thinking addiction is is a lack of connection it's basically what
01:13:43.720
people are doing to cope with the loneliness and so i really think that's what's going on so all of
01:13:50.120
these addictions to social media and validation is because they don't actually have any type of
01:13:55.320
community like the the modern family has has been eroded you know like you have a whole bunch of single
01:14:01.640
moms that either have one or like 10 babies there's like hardly ever in between and so you don't have
01:14:08.280
that community uh around you to create that social connection and to have like you know your uncle be
01:14:15.880
like hey you're moving funny or you're talking back in like your uncle slaps you or your neighbor slaps
01:14:20.280
you and keeps doing that you know what i mean and so people's bad behavior is just like okayed
01:14:28.120
by by the masses because people want to be selfish because they're all at the end of the day i think
01:14:33.640
that's really what's going on yeah all right well um thanks for calling in okay calling anytime
01:14:49.160
david what's going on david yo what is up y'all can hear me i can hear you so what addictions
01:14:57.240
um are worse than body count for women okay hold on i had some notes here okay so um let's see here
01:15:08.760
so for me like the only thing really i could think of that's worse than body count is probably drugs or
01:15:16.280
like violence that's a good because those things can actually hurt people that's um a high high body
01:15:21.960
count isn't really gonna i mean it is gonna hurt you at the end of the day but i just think that
01:15:27.160
those if you're gonna make me make a decision and then those two things are probably worse
01:15:34.200
drugs are violent yeah actually there's a guy on twitter who says that if an attractive woman
01:15:41.160
can avoid an unwanted pregnancy or a drug problem she'll always land on her feet
01:15:45.400
so that's what that's a good answer though yeah yeah i have a question though like so do you guys
01:15:52.600
really think that there's a difference between like bad habits and a high body count because from what
01:15:59.000
i've seen it's like those things are synonymous like the high body count is a result of the bad habits
01:16:04.840
um yeah i would say yeah but but there's always things there's always there's always women that
01:16:17.000
defy the odds though and don't have bad habits but still figure out how to bang chad tyro
01:16:23.720
yeah i agree and and i have an example of this in my own life and like i don't even like i kind of feel
01:16:29.240
bad like maybe she will watch this but honestly i don't care because like my sister is you know
01:16:34.680
it is what it is but like she had like the upbringing of like you know the trad upbringing
01:16:40.440
you know what i mean and she rejected all of it like all of that went out the window she got all
01:16:46.040
these tattoos she became a stripper she had kids with multiple dudes and she's like with this simp
01:16:52.280
guy now who's like taking care of her basically and she had to fail like she like that's the thing
01:16:57.320
is like what i try to tell guys is like stop taking these women so seriously like her her freaking
01:17:04.360
spiritual like hobbies and all these things that she talks about like none of that is like real bro
01:17:11.000
like y'all can't take that seriously and in fact the more you take that seriously the less she's
01:17:17.000
attracted to you yeah that's true that's really true like you can't take what they say seriously
01:17:24.280
you have to just like like internalize it and be like okay she's saying this these are her words but
01:17:29.000
like don't take it seriously like you know i don't know how to i could ask this question without it
01:17:34.920
sounding weird but like on an objective scale i'm not how can i ask like has your sister gotten
01:17:43.640
attractive female results in her life dude when i was in high school bro there was not a single day
01:17:50.840
where some dude wasn't coming up to me saying bro your sister's so hot okay you know that's why she's
01:17:57.560
lived the life that she's lived she she's probably on a scale i understand at least a seven or like an
01:18:02.920
eight and the sad part about it is is you've seen where your sister could have won she could have won
01:18:10.600
if she just made a couple of different decisions man and that's so sad man it's so sad it's heartbreaking and
01:18:17.640
like i like dude i struggle with it even now because like my parents like i've had my troubles
01:18:23.480
and stuff in life and like they think i'm such a piece of shit and they like take care of her
01:18:28.760
like i don't even really talk to my parents or like see them anymore like they've like pretty much
01:18:33.720
disconnected from me just because i've had a few things in my life going on but nothing nearly as
01:18:38.040
crazy like i haven't knocked anyone up or done no crazy you know well and that's the biggest difference
01:18:43.240
between mid your how your parents are treating you and your sister is just a reflection of society
01:18:48.760
in general if you're an attractive woman you always get help from from friends family the government
01:18:55.720
everybody and then men out to dry dude what's funny though is that she actually got saved well okay i say
01:19:03.000
saved but there was actually a time when she like filed for bankruptcy and shit like she was down bad for
01:19:08.600
real and like my parents obviously came in and saved her and like when i mentioned it they like
01:19:13.800
shy away and they're like no we she she did it herself blah blah blah i'm like like she figured it
01:19:21.320
out yeah yeah it's like bro i'm i'm a grown ass man like i'm not you can't and they'll never the other
01:19:26.760
thing is too they never learn unless you let them fail and that's exactly the families will never let them
01:19:33.560
fail like bro like your dad your dad will take care of her for your dad i bet your dad's like a good guy
01:19:40.120
right yeah i love my dad he's awesome um me and him argue quite a bit but i love him still at the end
01:19:46.600
of the day because of like and i actually have a story if y'all don't mind um about like about how like
01:19:53.880
men's attention like as a man your attention and your words especially are so much more powerful than
01:20:00.840
you can imagine i'll tell you a story so one time when i was growing up like my parents they fought
01:20:07.960
constantly like it was literally an everyday thing and there was one time specifically and i remember
01:20:13.720
this where my mom had just like had enough you know what i mean i didn't know what the argument was
01:20:18.600
about i still don't know i don't care but she ends up taking us me and me and my sister she took us to
01:20:24.280
a hotel and the whole time i'm sitting there like damn it's really over you know what i mean like it's
01:20:29.800
really over this time and um all my dad did was just not give a and guess what happened
01:20:37.160
guess what happened she came back they've been married ever since so like bro y'all y'all have
01:20:41.960
to realize your attention and your words are so powerful yeah yeah i kind of have a similar story
01:20:48.680
being ignored go ahead doug mpa oh good no go ahead bro no i was just gonna say we hate being ignored
01:20:54.840
that drives us nuts but go ahead i have a friend um whose wife is in politics and that's all i'm
01:21:03.800
gonna say and uh uh he's very highly qualified he has a law degree he he has multiple um graduate
01:21:13.400
degrees including a law degree and he he was a savage back later i'm talking he just knocked him down but
01:21:19.720
then he met this girl and he kind of straightened up right and she got into politics because her
01:21:26.440
family is like a heavy-hitting family where they live and but he he literally built her into
01:21:35.480
the person she is now and for a couple of years she was talking to him crazy like literally talking to
01:21:43.800
him crazy because one of the worst parts about these successful women is that they will they would
01:21:49.080
disrespect you to the point where they could talk to you like they can kick your ass you know what
01:21:53.240
i'm saying so he just he just unplugged and literally stopped giving again like literally
01:22:00.920
and she could only take that for about two three months and then she started to straighten up he's
01:22:04.440
like look if you keep talking this way he he had all of the supportive stuff he would do with his
01:22:09.480
knowledge and his skills that he pulled that back you know and he was literally about to walk out the door
01:22:15.080
and move that's the only thing men can do we forget yeah that's your only that's your only power
01:22:20.360
literally that's all you have you can either remove your time your attention and your money that's all
01:22:25.720
you can do you can't do anything else yep your two biggest superpowers and the reason why you know
01:22:32.680
the superpowers is because society keeps trying to take them away from you as a man your two biggest
01:22:37.960
superpowers are being able to walk away and determine who your girlfriend fiance and wife is
01:22:43.880
they keep trying to take those two abilities away from you but don't let them guys and they guilt men
01:22:48.120
into doing it like if it's like the family dynamic is always if generally if the kids don't do what
01:22:55.960
the mom wants like the dad comes for the kids you know like so if it's usually the boys that start to
01:23:02.520
walk away before the girls do yeah and i had a i had a comment on something the last caller had said
01:23:10.840
he said uh he was like oh everyone is so selfish and i'm like dude no um men are not selfish men are
01:23:17.400
not selfish enough like men need to become way more selfish because what's happening is like
01:23:24.120
so okay according to him everyone is selfish so if everyone is selfish then who's gonna step
01:23:30.520
up and be the bigger person when hits the fan because it always does it inevitably will and who
01:23:35.400
steps up the man yeah so no not everyone is selfish like women are too selfish men aren't selfish enough
01:23:42.840
you know that um under 30 they interviewed men and women and they found that 52 of men still say that
01:23:51.000
they they value relationships and marriage and would like one or both in the near future and only 24
01:23:58.600
of women under 30 said that yeah man i mean i could just go on it's like like most women these days they
01:24:07.160
just self-sabotage and it's like we as men we have to let them fail that's the only thing we can do
01:24:12.120
there's actually a really good meme about this um there's a meme that's going around on twitter it's this
01:24:16.360
robot he's like a like a female or i don't know if it's a female robot i forget what it looks like but
01:24:22.360
it's like a dude smiling and laughing and he's walking with this robot and then there's a girl
01:24:26.600
like hand handling like that's what we need guys like if we don't do that we're if y'all keep
01:24:32.360
something we're out of there agree yeah i agree well thanks for calling and calling anytime okay
01:24:39.960
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01:26:26.920
women's addictions doug mpa um i would say nothing is more important to women than their own selfish
01:26:35.160
desires and the desires are usually involved with what they're addicted to
01:26:39.960
um guys if you find a woman who's addicted to spending money uh you know drugs party or something
01:26:46.600
she will always put that ahead of you always so you you got to find a woman who has some kind of
01:26:54.120
of discipline and boundaries that's it um i think things that were are worse than um body count the
01:27:05.800
number one is gaslighting because they'll drive you crazy can you imagine living with a woman that just
01:27:11.320
gaslighted you you probably have yeah gaslighting um the fake nice i would the nice nasty we call it
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yeah nice yeah just be i'd rather you just be a just say it with your chest and women addicted to religion
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i just i would rather not but i'm travelicious women that are addicted to traveling it's the worst
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