JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023


Modernity Destroyed Women's Relationship


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8 minutes

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Word count

1,903

Sentence count

146

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

16

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In this episode, we discuss the issues that women are facing and how to deal with them. We also discuss the fact that women have more than twice the number of abortions than men in the US, and the statistics that prove it.

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00:00:00.000 I'm going to read you guys some stats.
00:00:02.100 Some of these are from the U.S., some of these are from the U.K., so, you know, take them
00:00:06.680 with a grain of salt.
00:00:07.380 But one in four women have an STD. 1.00
00:00:09.800 Zoinks. 1.00
00:00:10.420 One in three women have had an abortion.
00:00:12.740 38% of kids are born into single-parent homes.
00:00:15.680 The average age of first child is 26, and the average age of first marriage is 30.
00:00:20.900 45% of marriages end in divorce.
00:00:23.580 The average number of sexual partners for a woman is between four and eight, and after
00:00:28.740 women have slept with more than five people, she has a 20% chance of having a happy marriage 1.00
00:00:33.240 after 10 years.
00:00:34.820 If men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
00:00:40.660 70% of women are overweight. 0.80
00:00:42.660 90% of women have used contraceptives at some point in their reproductive years, and most
00:00:47.660 have used more than one method throughout their lifetime.
00:00:50.460 So it's like, how do we look at these numbers and say we're doing well as a whole?
00:00:53.900 You know?
00:00:56.580 And I'm not saying, you know, that, like, because they'll always say, what about them?
00:01:01.820 I'm not saying men don't have issues, too, but it's like, we can't even talk about our
00:01:04.840 problems without people always having to point out the men.
00:01:07.760 Like, we can never even just have a conversation about the issues that we have as women without 0.51
00:01:11.740 simps or women coming in and saying, but men have problems, too.
00:01:15.820 Like, we can't even have one conversation about it.
00:01:18.100 Whereas back in the day, women used to actually sit down together and discuss things. 1.00
00:01:21.900 Or they'd say, you're not dressed well, you're not, like, you need to, like, leave.
00:01:26.500 Yeah, we used to actually, like, catch each other up on stuff.
00:01:29.380 Like, you know, oh, you're showing too much, like, you're presenting yourself this way.
00:01:33.340 Or, you know, even something silly, like, you didn't brush your hair.
00:01:36.360 Like, I feel like nowadays, like, girls sort of tiptoe around each other and they don't 0.99
00:01:40.480 even want to, like, tell their friend, like, oh.
00:01:42.180 It depends what type of girl you are, though, if I'm completely honest.
00:01:44.780 I think if you're insecure and you're unhappy with what you're doing yourself, then you're
00:01:48.580 going to be bit too to other people.
00:01:49.700 If you're happy and content, you've got to support, do you know what I mean?
00:01:53.360 So I think it's the individual.
00:01:54.400 I don't think supporting, I think real supporting is being honest.
00:02:00.240 Yeah, but that's what I mean.
00:02:01.140 Like she said, you might not tell your friend if they haven't brushed you up their hair or
00:02:04.900 something.
00:02:05.200 I would tell my friend.
00:02:05.520 Yeah, no, I would as well, but some girls wouldn't. 1.00
00:02:07.700 But that's because they're like, oh, well, I'm going to look better than you.
00:02:09.960 Yeah, they kind of want to see you.
00:02:11.160 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:11.800 Fail, almost.
00:02:12.860 Because they're unhappy with themselves.
00:02:14.280 Which goes back to what I said, a lot of times a woman's worst enemy is another woman. 0.99
00:02:19.200 Because a guy would point out the fact that, uh, your shirt's kind of inside out.
00:02:23.220 Cool.
00:02:25.100 I believe like chastising someone in public is different.
00:02:28.820 Like, I don't think you should do that in front of other people.
00:02:31.000 Yeah, of course not.
00:02:31.500 But you should take, if that's your real friend, you should be able to take them to the side
00:02:34.100 and say, hey, you know what, fix up, fix up, fix up, fix up.
00:02:37.720 And we can respect that.
00:02:38.960 And we won't look at that as like, you being bitchy on it. 0.97
00:02:40.920 It's like, you know, when you eat something, you've got something, your teeth are, please,
00:02:43.980 please, please tell me.
00:02:45.160 Tell me.
00:02:46.140 Please tell me.
00:02:47.060 Like, even if you go, just tell me, you know what I mean?
00:02:50.500 So I think, you know.
00:02:51.980 Because even at the beginning of my relationship with my girl now, I had to tell her, we had
00:02:56.880 a conversation where I was like, if there's an issue that you see, please just tell me
00:03:00.220 right there and then.
00:03:00.860 And I don't want this whole passive-aggressive thinking about it for two weeks, don't bring
00:03:05.380 it up, and then vixing, talking to your girlfriends about it behind my back, and this whole fucking 0.98
00:03:09.840 month period, I had no idea this whole, this is an issue that you had.
00:03:12.800 All right.
00:03:13.120 With that, are you able to accept the delivery of her problem in any form?
00:03:19.840 Yeah, I don't care about delivery.
00:03:20.940 It's just about, it's just about what gets said.
00:03:22.940 Because if, with me, it's like, if I disagree with what you're saying, then we have a discussion
00:03:28.080 about what I disagree with.
00:03:29.440 But like, delivery is one of those things.
00:03:30.680 I'll give you an example, right?
00:03:31.680 Let's say, for instance, it's in the bedroom, something that's sensitive, right?
00:03:34.420 Something like, boom.
00:03:35.660 Ah, you're not doing this, right?
00:03:39.800 If she thinks about it, and then she kind of, let's say you're having a stressful week
00:03:44.600 at work or whatever, and then she kind of puts that into her mind and thinks, all right,
00:03:49.220 cool, maybe I approach it in this way, as opposed to just be like, oh, you can't do this.
00:03:53.340 If she expresses the frustrations then and there without thinking about it at all or seeking
00:03:59.060 some kind of advice, then do you not think that can have some kind of detriment to how
00:04:04.220 you're able to get over that?
00:04:05.400 Or are you saying that regardless of how she comes at you, with whatever she comes at you,
00:04:08.720 you're going to be able to swallow it and move on as normal?
00:04:10.900 Kind of.
00:04:12.140 I get where you're coming from, but then I have to equate that to like, all right, let's
00:04:16.360 talk about, like, equate that to like football.
00:04:18.780 If your manager says you need to be there, you're going to be upset with him because,
00:04:23.200 ah, my mind, I'm having a really bad week at home, so my manager has to talk to me a
00:04:28.500 certain type of way.
00:04:29.220 If the information with me per se, and I know I'm a very black sheep when it comes to this,
00:04:34.200 my girlfriend always says to me, you have the emotional capacity of a wooden spoon, because
00:04:37.960 I don't really care about, like, emotions too tough.
00:04:39.800 If the information is necessary, please tell me, and I will do the same.
00:04:43.320 Yeah, but he's talking sexually.
00:04:44.880 You mean you ain't fully pleasing your woman, right? 0.89
00:04:48.200 And then the worst thing with a woman, a woman would tell you, a lot of women talk with each 1.00
00:04:52.640 other about their sex.
00:04:53.940 That's why I want to go first.
00:04:55.040 And the size of their partner's this, and what that partner's doing, and what you're
00:04:58.400 not doing, and then that girl, your partner would bring that in the bedroom and go, oh, 1.00
00:05:01.940 well, my friend tried this, and blah, blah, blah, and if you ain't satisfying her in a certain
00:05:06.000 way, if you come at me in, like, an aggressive kind of way, like, it will hurt my feelings,
00:05:13.040 because remember this, when you're having sex with someone, you're completely vulnerable
00:05:17.760 with each other.
00:05:18.940 Okay, which hurts more?
00:05:21.560 So when you're talking about, like, when you met your partner and you always said, oh,
00:05:28.740 like, no matter what, just tell me whatever.
00:05:30.700 Like, you can tell me, but you need to, if it's sexually, like, you need to tell me in
00:05:35.260 a certain way, because I feel like I'm doing the best I can do.
00:05:38.340 Okay.
00:05:38.920 So, if I'm not doing the best I can do, let me...
00:05:42.180 I need you to maybe...
00:05:43.440 Let me ask, let me ask a question.
00:05:45.440 Which would hurt more?
00:05:46.680 Her directly saying, you need to do this better because you're not really doing that that
00:05:50.140 much, or her going through all of her friends and eventually saying to you...
00:05:53.580 She gonna go through her friends regardless.
00:05:55.740 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, eventually her saying it to you nicely, but now you know,
00:05:59.020 all of her friends know.
00:06:01.000 Before you.
00:06:02.060 Remember this, when you...
00:06:03.760 Sex is a thing where people... 0.98
00:06:05.120 Where girls talk, bro. 1.00
00:06:06.280 Exactly.
00:06:06.680 So it's like, if you didn't fulfill her fantasy the first time, she already told her friend.
00:06:10.320 So she probably told her friend first, and then she's already come to you.
00:06:13.680 Her friends already know.
00:06:14.860 That's what I'm saying.
00:06:15.580 I want to be the first to know.
00:06:17.360 Yeah, but it's too late, because girls talk. 1.00
00:06:19.440 She already told her friend when you messed up the first time.
00:06:21.840 That's why you bring up a relationship where they tell straight out.
00:06:24.200 But you don't know that.
00:06:24.760 You're not in control of that.
00:06:25.680 A woman's in control of that. 1.00
00:06:26.660 Of course.
00:06:27.060 Women talk. 1.00
00:06:27.780 You're not in no control of what a woman thinks and the way she talk.
00:06:32.160 Women talk. 1.00
00:06:33.120 Yeah.
00:06:33.280 No matter what you do, you could be the best guy, the best at whatever you're doing.
00:06:36.740 They are going to talk.
00:06:37.440 I'm talking to my man, because he's been in them rooms.
00:06:39.320 I know.
00:06:40.280 I'm talking from experience.
00:06:41.860 I know.
00:06:42.440 I'm talking from experience, because, listen, me, I would only do certain things on birthdays,
00:06:46.840 Valentine's Days, and Christmas.
00:06:48.460 Anyone that's been with me knows what I'm talking about.
00:06:51.300 Now, if your friend or whatever gets it whenever, once a week, it's a downfall.
00:06:58.620 And I'll be like, yeah, but you know, I do the best I can do on a celebration.
00:07:03.800 It's something you look forward to.
00:07:05.200 And we bring out the roses and the petals and the whipped cream and the chocolate sauce.
00:07:09.200 Blah, blah, blah.
00:07:10.460 Crazy.
00:07:11.580 Crazy.
00:07:12.680 You know what I mean?
00:07:13.860 I'm going to take a second to read Super Chats for a second.
00:07:18.400 Guys, make sure you like the video.
00:07:19.960 We're almost to 500 likes on this chat, so make sure you hit the like button.
00:07:24.700 It's good to hear.
00:07:26.420 Sorry.
00:07:26.700 What?
00:07:27.480 That's making noise.
00:07:29.280 Okay.
00:07:30.120 Also, guys, make sure you send them to our Google form.
00:07:34.340 That should be in the chat for the events that we're going to do in the U.S.
00:07:39.160 Aaron, Pearl and Blondie are spitting so much fire right now.
00:07:42.960 It's crazy that you're both laying out common sense, but that's so controversial these days.
00:07:47.080 Clown world.
00:07:48.300 Baby.
00:07:49.020 I see young boys walking home from high school with these girls just yelling, waltzing, talking, acting 304s. 0.91
00:07:55.660 It's damaging to a boy's psyche.
00:07:57.800 Glenn, Bible tells the husbands to love their wives like Christ loves the church.
00:08:01.840 It also tells wives to submit in respect to their husbands.
00:08:05.140 Nowadays, wives love husbands, and husbands submit in respect to wives. 0.95
00:08:12.840 Winter.
00:08:13.540 Wait, am I missing something?
00:08:14.720 Did the woman do wrong? 1.00
00:08:15.740 She won the lottery, and then she got sued.
00:08:17.780 A baby.
00:08:18.820 There is no partnership in a relationship.
00:08:20.960 A team can only have one leader.
00:08:23.320 Divided leadership always fails.
00:08:26.060 Also, men are more in touch with reality.
00:08:28.840 Hi, Donovan.
00:08:29.420 Women only refer to God when they're talking about what they won't do for a man. 1.00
00:08:36.880 Go subscribe to Donovan's channel.
00:08:38.680 He does reactions to my stuff all the time.
00:08:41.560 Barrett, churches are starting to become a part of the world.
00:08:44.620 Oh, I read that one already.
00:08:45.720 I'm going to refresh it real quick.