JustPearlyThings - Money does this to men...

00:00:00.000 I'm not trying to sit here and advocate for men to run around and fuck a bunch of women, I'm not saying that.

00:00:03.340 That's what you're doing, man.

00:00:04.160 No, but I'm not.

00:00:04.880 No, no, no, let him explain, let him land, let him land, it's about to come.

00:00:08.400 Now, sister, let him land, though.

00:00:09.880 No, but I'm not, I'm not.

00:00:11.320 What I'm actually trying to do is describe the baseline unfortunate realities of human dynamics.

00:00:16.980 And I'm trying to explain now to the world that any woman can get a man who will not cheat on her

00:00:21.700 if she's prepared to sacrifice a bunch of other things, perhaps, right?

00:00:25.800 In the olden days, it was different.

00:00:27.360 The world was a different place.

00:00:29.160 It was a completely different place, and it was better.

00:00:31.460 Now it's all fucked up.

00:00:32.840 It's fucked up on every level.

00:00:34.380 And men, especially the high-status men, most of them have struggled so hard to become high-status.

00:00:39.880 They've been through so much shit to get where they are.

00:00:42.320 It's like telling him, if you climb this mountain, you can go to a candy store.

00:00:45.700 And he climbs to the top of the mountain, and the second he's in the candy store,

00:00:48.520 after one piece of candy, that bitch is saying, no, no more candy. 1.00

00:00:52.240 He's like, no, I just climbed this mountain.

00:00:54.040 I just got rich.

00:00:55.120 I just went through X, Y, Z.

00:00:56.880 I finally got here.

00:00:58.040 I'm finally in the candy store.

00:00:59.280 Now you're telling me I can only have one piece of candy?

00:01:01.020 Okay.

00:01:01.280 What man should have a deal with that?

00:01:02.500 Do you think that men owe a woman loyalty if she was there from the beginning?

00:01:07.380 Absolutely.

00:01:08.040 They absolutely owe that woman loyalty.

00:01:09.880 Oh, sorry.

00:01:10.060 Sexual loyalty.

00:01:10.960 That's what I meant.

00:01:11.560 Sexual exclusivity is different.

00:01:14.300 Men, sorry.

00:01:14.960 I mean, sexual exclusivity and loyalty are completely disconnected for males.

00:01:20.560 Nobody wants to talk about this, but it's the unfortunate reality.

00:01:22.520 It's true.

00:01:22.960 I'm telling you, you can get a man, he can go on a holiday, can fuck some stripper, can 1.00

00:01:29.220 come home, and you can lie detector test him.

00:01:31.300 Do you love your wife?

00:01:32.140 Would you die for your wife?

00:01:33.180 Would you take a bullet for your wife?

00:01:34.680 He'll pass the lie detector test.

00:01:36.380 He loves her with all his heart.

00:01:37.480 He'd do anything for her.

00:01:39.060 It's just pussy. 1.00

00:01:40.180 It's not a big deal.

00:01:41.160 It's different.

00:01:41.560 I feel like, I guess my question would be then is, like, how do you view sex?

00:01:45.780 Because I, like, sex at the end of the day is spiritual unification.

00:01:49.880 I feel like I've gone through a lot of different stuff.

00:01:51.820 I've had a lot of different experiences where I did not value myself, so I never had a man

00:01:55.880 that valued me.

00:01:56.900 So it's like, yeah, you rack up guys, and guys, you shouldn't be texting back or whatever.

00:02:01.320 But I feel like there, I understand that there is a difference with how men view sex

00:02:06.080 and how they move around in the world, but it's like, sex is a sacred thing, no matter

00:02:10.480 a male or female is doing it.

00:02:12.340 So that's why, for me, like, my biggest, like, the hardest for me to understand is, like,

00:02:17.580 this is such a sacred thing, and it's just being, it's like taking a piss for a guy.

00:02:22.240 Can I just say something?

00:02:23.300 Are you sure you weren't making love to somebody that was having sex? 0.74

00:02:26.380 I'm sorry?

00:02:27.020 Are you sure that you weren't making love to somebody that was just having sex?

00:02:31.400 A and T, that's what it sounds like to me.

00:02:36.080 It sounds like, as women, they make love to men that are just having sex. 1.00

00:02:42.920 Right.

00:02:44.020 That's the difference.

00:02:44.880 That's not the point.

00:02:45.660 But my thing is, okay, not all the time.

00:02:48.500 So I think when men hear that, though, it's like, if it was sacred to you, you would have

00:02:51.840 waited until you were married.

00:02:53.080 But it's like, I get that.

00:02:55.440 But the reality is, is that the world is not so black and white.

00:02:59.040 So I understand that there are these things in place that worked and made sense, and now

00:03:03.420 we're approaching an era that we don't know what's going to happen, but there's gray area.

00:03:07.300 You've had sex. 0.79

00:03:08.040 I've had sex.

00:03:08.640 She's had sex. 0.95

00:03:09.280 We've had sex with different guys.

00:03:10.540 That doesn't mean that we're damaged goods.

00:03:11.980 We're used goods.

00:03:12.580 I understand status is a big part of that.

00:03:14.260 I understand that sex is viewed differently.

00:03:16.000 But I feel like you should not, if you're looking at face value, I can understand why you'd

00:03:21.480 be judged from your past.

00:03:22.640 But if I'm a guy interested in you, I don't care about what you've done.

00:03:26.240 But that's the thing.

00:03:27.660 Men do, though.

00:03:29.060 That's the thing.

00:03:30.540 A virgin's more valuable to a man than a girl that's had sex with multiple men. 0.97

00:03:35.780 It just is what it is.

00:03:37.100 There's a limit.

00:03:37.720 But the modern man's solution is not a virgin. 0.52

00:03:40.780 A modern man needs a partner, somebody that's actually smart and can survive in the world of

00:03:44.280 today.

00:03:44.480 And that's going to be a lived woman. 0.99

00:03:46.560 The men with the most choice are going to pick women that are more pure, in general. 0.86

00:03:50.280 The ones that are already self-made, I guess so.

00:03:52.440 But that's the thing.

00:03:52.960 The reality is that there's a lot of men out there, especially in the world that we live

00:03:57.680 in today, that need a partner. 0.59

00:03:59.000 So it's time for those masses of men to start respecting women for the role they can play

00:04:02.880 in their lives.

00:04:03.380 I don't think average men expect women to be virgins.

00:04:06.300 Do you know what it is?

00:04:06.840 But it's this rhetoric that actually then is pumped into these minds and creates what people

00:04:10.720 now complain about, the misogynistic world.

00:04:12.840 That's what it is.

00:04:13.680 Even in schools, it's like permeated through it all and perpetuated.

00:04:16.640 Why is it misogynistic for men to prefer women that are more pure?

00:04:19.300 It's not that it's, but it's not, that's not the problem.

00:04:21.680 The problem is now, listen, the maths is very simple.

00:04:24.580 You've got people like Andrew Tate talking about these things with such clarity and it

00:04:28.580 makes so much sense because it is true, right?

00:04:31.000 And then you have men that are in these situations where just average, working an average job and

00:04:35.960 they cannot fulfill whatever definition is called to be a man in these definitions.

00:04:40.440 Yes, they can.

00:04:41.120 And that's what he said.

00:04:41.980 He did say that.

00:04:42.740 Yes, they can.

00:04:43.660 A nine to five man can do it.

00:04:45.100 But then again, but wait, wait, this is the thing.

00:04:48.120 What we're talking about as a man, and this is why I say it's very important for us to

00:04:51.200 understand the person that we're speaking to.

00:04:52.600 And I'm very glad that you've clarified everything that you mean.

00:04:55.020 Not every man is like Andrew Tate.

00:04:56.960 Not every man is going to be able to even realistically demand for certain things from

00:05:01.920 a woman.

00:05:02.220 So the same way women need to compromise if it comes to a man who is going to cheat 1.00

00:05:06.540 on her because he's a top G, is the same way men are going to have to compromise and

00:05:09.920 stop blabbing about purity when they can't demand for that.

00:05:13.500 You just didn't get none of what you were saying.

00:05:16.300 I made my point.

00:05:17.060 That was the whole point.

00:05:18.080 What point?

00:05:19.040 Well, duh.

00:05:19.700 Because you just quoted him.

00:05:20.880 You just said about his thing and you didn't know.

00:05:22.240 Not only did I get clout, I made my point.

00:05:24.660 I said the average man does not have what he takes to demand for a virgin or no more.

00:05:30.180 Hang on a minute.

00:05:31.140 He already said that.

00:05:32.220 He already said that.

00:05:32.980 And I reiterated in my own words for my own content for my page and so what.

00:05:36.480 Do you know what it is, right?

00:05:37.100 Is that too many women, they see regular guys and they feel they're settling. 0.99

00:05:40.540 You're not settling.

00:05:41.680 You're getting what you deserve.

00:05:42.980 But you can't be asking for a virgin, though.

00:05:45.000 You're not settling.

00:05:46.020 But the difference is men know this.

00:05:48.380 Like most average men aren't demanding.

00:05:49.960 The average men never say they want a virgin.

00:05:52.680 Kind of.

00:05:53.720 But the difference is average men know they don't deserve a 10.

00:05:58.960 They know they don't deserve an 8.

00:06:00.200 They know they don't even deserve a 7.

00:06:01.760 And they still go messaging them on the stories and all this dumb stuff that is just ugly.

00:06:05.720 Most men in history haven't even reproduced.

00:06:09.160 And so it's like men know.

00:06:10.700 But the women are the ones that are delusional. 1.00

00:06:13.060 There's regular men out there.

00:06:14.180 Shooting a shot at Chris Hemsworth.

00:06:16.980 Chris Hemsworth.

00:06:17.840 There's regular men out there that will have you down. 1.00

00:06:20.940 She's a 2.

00:06:21.340 A 2.

00:06:21.600 Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching 10.

00:06:23.680 Not understanding that Tate is part of that 1% of success.

00:06:28.060 And they think that they can demand the same thing.

00:06:31.280 They can demand purity.

00:06:33.080 One second.

00:06:33.500 One second.

00:06:33.940 One second.

00:06:34.200 Sorry, sorry.

00:06:34.740 I understand the point you're all making.

00:06:35.900 But let's understand something.

00:06:37.820 To the sexual marketplace, females have always been, and still to a degree, are the gatekeepers. 1.00

00:06:43.720 It's men will, you can think about it in a very simplistic way. 0.56

00:06:46.960 This is not the case, but let's simplify it for the sake of argument.

00:06:49.820 Imagine men will run around and fuck anything. 1.00

00:06:52.040 And women are the ones who say yes or no. 1.00

00:06:54.260 You are the gatekeepers that have all the power.

00:06:56.660 And this is what's actually truly interesting about the sexual marketplace.

00:06:59.320 Because whenever women go, there's not enough good men. 1.00

00:07:02.040 Then why are you fucking, of course, why would they be good if you don't make them be good?

00:07:05.320 You're a fucking loser.

00:07:06.020 So you're talking about, I'm saying that a man at a certain level can't do certain things.

00:07:12.880 If you were with Joe Schmo and he wasn't treating you the way you believe Joe Schmo should treat you,

00:07:17.360 then why are you with him?

00:07:17.900 Leave. 0.99

00:07:18.720 Sis, leave. 1.00

00:07:19.180 Women have the gatekeeping. 1.00

00:07:21.200 So if you get Joe Schmo and he treats you like you're his queen, treats you perfect, good.

00:07:25.500 If you get a fucking guy at the absolute upper echelons of value and you still aren't happy with what he's giving you,

00:07:31.220 then leave.

00:07:31.720 Women are the gatekeepers. 1.00

00:07:32.900 You women actually have all of the power. 1.00

00:07:35.140 This is what's beautiful about the whole thing.

00:07:37.120 Women are constantly complaining. 1.00

00:07:38.720 You have all the power.

00:07:40.200 You're the ones who get to choose.

00:07:41.740 Do you know who you should be mad at for all this shit?

00:07:44.740 I'll tell you who you should be mad at.

00:07:46.080 Do you know who threw away all the female power in the sexual marketplace? 1.00

00:07:49.900 Promiscuous females. 1.00

00:07:51.320 Because now you got chicks who will bang anybody without trying. 1.00

00:07:54.440 So why should a dude get up and try?

00:07:55.960 Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?

00:07:59.840 Let me make this clear.

00:08:00.840 Go on, sir.

00:08:01.180 Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?

00:08:04.500 No bullshit.

00:08:05.540 A man.

00:08:06.280 And I say this and women go, oh, yeah, dude. 1.00

00:08:08.160 As soon as most women encounter any kind of problem, the first thing you do is turn to a man. 1.00

00:08:13.620 Their man, their dad, the mechanic, the police, a man.

00:08:16.420 If you actually put a woman in front of a problem and go, no men, they're like, oh, whoa, fuck. 0.97

00:08:20.880 It's a mental breakdown.

00:08:21.940 Men, day after day, especially if you're a high-level man.

00:08:25.880 Let me make something clear from my life.

00:08:27.060 I'll talk from personal experience.

00:08:28.500 I'm not just looking after me.

00:08:30.080 I'm not just looking after my chick.

00:08:31.700 I'm the guy in about 300 people's phone books that they call when anything big goes wrong.

00:08:37.500 You get arrested in Russia.

00:08:38.760 You need extraction from Ukraine. 0.98

00:08:40.320 You need a million dollars.

00:08:41.680 Whatever it is, Kazakhstan, abduction.

00:08:43.900 They call me.

00:08:44.720 I'm the first phone call.

00:08:45.960 I'm fixing 400 different lives.

00:08:47.980 I'm a problem solver.

00:08:49.140 Chicks can't fix fucking any of this shit, right? 1.00

00:08:51.780 This is how hard it is to be a man.

00:08:53.540 And it's amazing because society expects it of you, but so do women.

00:08:57.960 If you had a man, be honest.

00:08:59.700 You had a man and you went to your man and said, oh, I've got this problem.

00:09:03.140 I can't fix this.

00:09:04.060 It's broken.

00:09:04.500 The car tire's broken.

00:09:05.300 And he went, I don't know.

00:09:07.340 You would dry up.

00:09:08.680 You'd be like, well, fuck it.

00:09:09.400 What the fucking point are you?

00:09:11.120 That's the truth.

00:09:12.180 You could sit here and go, oh, we'd call a mechanic.

00:09:13.800 No, you wouldn't.

00:09:14.220 And you'd look at your man and go, what do you mean you can't fix it?

00:09:15.840 I'll do it myself.

00:09:16.700 Waste, man.

00:09:17.220 And this is what she's saying about your man will get up and go.

00:09:19.880 And you know what's beautiful about masculinity?

00:09:21.660 A bunch of times a man will go up and he doesn't have a clue how to fix it himself.

00:09:24.480 But he'll go, don't worry, baby.

00:09:25.660 Okay.

00:09:26.040 And he'll stand up with no money and no clue.

00:09:28.420 And he'll go out there and fucking try and find a way because as a man, you need to be useful.

00:09:31.640 It is so difficult to be a man.

00:09:33.560 You have no idea the amount of pressure that we're under from society and from the women we even want to associate with on a whole.

00:09:39.900 It's difficult.

00:09:41.020 You have to keep all these things in mind.

00:09:42.320 It's hard.

00:09:42.760 You see what you just said about, yeah, the top G that if they had money, you can fly planes and fly that.

00:09:50.200 Drop it down to if you were earning, like, say, 50,000 a year.

00:09:54.760 Couldn't you be that same person amongst your peers?

00:09:57.380 A hundred percent you could.

00:09:58.220 That's what I'm trying to say.

00:09:58.960 A hundred percent you could.

00:09:59.700 And also, also you have to.

00:10:01.760 Money doesn't make you a top G.

00:10:03.240 No, money is an amplifier.

00:10:04.880 So that's the first thing about money.

00:10:06.040 Money amplifies.

00:10:07.120 Men can make money.

00:10:07.880 Money does not make men.

00:10:09.040 If you're a dork and you get rich, you're a rich dork.

00:10:10.820 If you're a G and you get rich, you're a top G.

00:10:13.820 Right?

00:10:14.100 So that's the first thing about money.

00:10:15.320 And I agree with you.

00:10:16.480 But traditionally, and this is the baseline.

00:10:18.980 And once again, when I say these things, I'm not looking to be attacked for being misogynist.

00:10:22.280 I'm just commenting on how I view the world and how I see things.

00:10:24.740 Traditionally, a man primarily gives his attention to a female to get sex.

00:10:31.180 And she gives him sex back to get the attention. 1.00

00:10:33.200 That's the swap.

00:10:34.000 Right?

00:10:34.480 So if I'm a dude and I want sex from a girl, I give her attention. 0.98

00:10:38.320 I talk to her.

00:10:39.020 I hang out with her.

00:10:39.940 I spend time with her.

00:10:40.740 Eventually, I get the sex. 0.85

00:10:41.560 That's how it works.

00:10:42.580 But the higher value you are as a man, the more valuable your attention is, the more

00:10:46.100 valuable your time is, the less you have to give.

00:10:48.400 It's like potency.

00:10:49.740 Right?

00:10:49.960 So I can give five minutes to a chick, and that's worth two weeks of some other dude's 1.00

00:10:54.600 time.

00:10:55.140 But that's the reality.

00:10:56.060 So where you are on the scale is just basically how much of your time you have to give.

00:10:59.460 Now, you can still give all your time to a woman, treat her like a queen, be respected

00:11:02.260 by your peers.

00:11:02.920 She can be happy with you.

00:11:04.080 I'm not saying she will be any.

00:11:05.340 In fact, I'll argue she'll be happier with that man than she'll be with a fucking guy like me. 1.00

00:11:10.200 I'm not even out here saying I'll make chicks happy. 0.98

00:11:11.620 I'm not even saying that.

00:11:12.700 I'm saying that she'll get the amount of time that she's going to want from that man.

00:11:16.180 The amount of attention is linked to his status.

00:11:18.240 But at a true high level status of man, it's two DMs.

00:11:22.320 10 seconds.

00:11:23.000 10 seconds.

00:11:23.960 10 seconds.

00:11:24.900 Done.

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00:11:31.980 this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - December 29, 2022

Money does this to men...

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