JustPearlyThings - Most Rich People Aren't Monogamous

00:00:00.000 But wouldn't you guys be at a higher percentage? Just because you're getting tested, you're still

00:00:05.480 sleeping with way more people than the average. No, because everyone we're sleeping with is also

00:00:08.720 getting tested, and we're not allowed to shoot if we have anything. I don't know. I'm not going to

00:00:14.980 speak on something I don't know. I just swore I saw a study that said that corn stars have higher

00:00:23.480 rates of STDs. I swore that I did, but I could be incorrect, so I'm not going to speak on something

00:00:29.540 I don't know.

00:00:30.540 Every 14 days we get tested. Blood and urine, every 14 days.

00:00:36.040 Sterling, did you tell me they don't even check for herpes?

00:00:39.040 In the industry, no.

00:00:40.040 Because it's so normal.

00:00:42.040 That shows you how serious herpes must be.

00:00:44.040 Exactly.

00:00:45.040 For them.

00:00:46.040 I would be scared shitless to get HIV, and from the stats that I just told you, and I'd be

00:00:53.080 scared shitless. Again, I forget which one Al Capone had. It was the clap. I think it was

00:00:57.820 a clap, which can actually kill you, and you will die. It fucked with your brain. It's 1.00

00:01:04.320 horrible. You don't want to get that, and have it stick around for a long time. Again,

00:01:09.320 while I'm telling everyone, get a goddamn STD test. Get a blood test. If you've got it, 1.00

00:01:13.820 you can get rid of it quickly. The herb, again, 70% of the human population, something like

00:01:19.820 it has it. It ain't killing anybody. Yeah, it's like a nasty thing, but if they have it,

00:01:28.320 there's antiretrovirals. What's the name of the damn thing? 0.99

00:01:32.320 Valaciclovir, cyclovir, something like this, which works for the oral and the genital stuff, 0.99

00:01:40.820 and it literally just destroys it and keeps it at bay. There's dudes in my industry who've

00:01:45.820 been working for 20 plus years. I'm not going to name names. There's guys that I know in

00:01:50.920 my industry, 20 plus year veterans, award winners have had the herb, their career, and they've

00:01:57.720 never passed it on because they keep taking the same medication. They've kept working their

00:02:01.820 entire career, and they've never given it to a co-star because they're responsible. They

00:02:06.320 take the medication. They're not a dickhead. They're not running around like, oh, I've got 0.94

00:02:08.920 a sore. I'm going to put my dick in somebody. They're actually responsible with it. That's 1.00

00:02:14.920 kind of the deciding factor, but that is not something that people need to be super, super

00:02:19.420 worried about. It's the HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea. They really need to be worried about. That's

00:02:23.920 a weird tangent.

00:02:24.920 Yeah.

00:02:25.920 Okay. I'm going to go to the next super chat. So,

00:02:28.920 um, uh, uh, uh, afi kingdom, uh, appreciate the internet.

00:02:34.920 Oh, you guys know him?

00:02:37.920 Oh yeah, bro. Afi's the man. 1.00

00:02:38.920 Does he have a channel or something?

00:02:40.920 He does.

00:02:41.920 Yeah, he does.

00:02:42.920 Um, appreciate the international boss players. Respect Pearlie. Peace to my bros, Sterling,

00:02:47.920 Jay Waller, and Troy Francis. Um, red pill hustle. Um, $50 super chat. Thank you.

00:02:53.920 Wow.

00:02:54.920 Um, fantastic topic. I think more women should understand us men are wired this way, and

00:02:59.920 once they come to terms with how men are, they'd love much more happily in a relationship.

00:03:04.920 Kiwi space. It's all about what you value and the relationship if you value trust, loyalty,

00:03:10.920 commitment. You wouldn't stay with the cheater. Pure manipulation. The savvy ninja. You can't

00:03:15.920 simply dismiss every stat to hang on to the myth in your head. I'm sorry, ladies, you aren't 0.89

00:03:19.920 listening. Men and women aren't the same in anything, and in the very least a few things.

00:03:24.920 J.C., um, the, Justin Waller, Sterling Cooper, and Troy Francis in London getting some, quote,

00:03:31.920 tea and crumpets. Uh, get your plan B's out, ladies. 1.00

00:03:35.920 Good morning.

00:03:36.920 Sandra Solomon, um, these men are literally, literally made me want to give up on dating.

00:03:42.920 I've won a wrongful death suit, and I can tell you that money doesn't buy a peace of mind.

00:03:47.920 True.

00:03:48.920 Okay. Um, so my next question I have for the people, um, do you think that money, like actually

00:04:00.920 this is for the women, do you think that money buys a man's ability to cheat? 1.00

00:04:04.920 Good question.

00:04:05.920 Good question.

00:04:06.920 I think it can do.

00:04:07.920 Yeah.

00:04:08.920 I think it can.

00:04:09.920 I think, um, you just see that with celebrities really, you know what I mean?

00:04:13.920 Like, um, God, the only example I can think of at the moment is Cardi B. Um, but you know,

00:04:20.920 Beyonce.

00:04:21.920 Offset.

00:04:22.920 Yeah. Beyonce as well.

00:04:23.920 Like people just, I love Beyonce, but people literally say all of her albums are just basically

00:04:28.920 her arts and Jay-Z to stop cheating on me basically. Um, and yeah, it's just, you know,

00:04:34.920 they, they, they don't leave.

00:04:36.920 Do you know what I mean?

00:04:37.920 That means she's still in love by the way.

00:04:38.920 Say again?

00:04:39.920 That means she's still in love with him by the way.

00:04:40.920 Well, I don't know if you can separate the brand and what they build and legacy and all

00:04:45.920 of that kind of stuff.

00:04:46.920 I think it, that goes into it as well.

00:04:48.920 Like you're not just work walking away from a person and how they make you feel, but you're

00:04:52.920 working, walking away from your livelihood, what your kids.

00:04:56.920 Yeah.

00:04:57.920 Of course.

00:04:58.920 Yes.

00:04:59.920 Um, but yeah, so I think it's, it's not that easy when you're in those kinds of statuses.

00:05:03.920 Um, but I do, I do think it can, it can, it can sway people.

00:05:09.920 Yeah.

00:05:10.920 Um, yeah, yeah, I agree.

00:05:13.920 Um, I was just thinking of quite a few people that I know that have dated men with lots of

00:05:19.920 money and there's a thing of actually like going after not your equivalent.

00:05:25.920 So you're going to go after a woman who doesn't have as much as you. 1.00

00:05:29.920 And so then you hold them in a vac of like the lifestyle that I can give you.

00:05:34.920 And then you treat them in a way that isn't very pleasant.

00:05:37.920 And I think a lot of men hold onto that and they kind of keep that cycle going.

00:05:42.920 And while there's quite a few women that you can have access to that are really good looking, 1.00

00:05:48.920 but are actually like quite poor, bad behavior can be allowed because you're funding a lifestyle

00:05:54.920 for them.

00:05:55.920 I think lots of guys that with a lot of money know this.

00:05:58.920 And so they, those are the women that they go after.

00:06:00.920 They don't generally go after their contemporaries.

00:06:03.920 You know, I don't, I don't necessarily think it's money alone.

00:06:07.920 Cause I think that money, like a guy could win the lottery tomorrow and it doesn't mean women 1.00

00:06:12.920 will want him like that.

00:06:14.920 It's gotta be status or competence.

00:06:18.920 It's gotta be all.

00:06:19.920 Yeah.

00:06:20.920 So I always say that there's buckets.

00:06:23.920 Um, at some point when the money bucket fills up, let's say whatever the number is, let's

00:06:29.920 say it's, I don't know, a million dollars just for a round number.

00:06:33.920 When the money bucket fills up, I say I would never trade places with Mark Zuckerberg. 1.00

00:06:37.920 Cause he's a fucking dork. 1.00

00:06:39.920 So when men lead with their wallet, it's weak and respect equals love. 1.00

00:06:45.920 And you can't respect a man who is only rich and hasn't handled fitness or competency or

00:06:52.920 become a certain type of man as a, as a man or to have a healthy relationship.

00:06:58.920 I feel like the woman does need to look up to the man. 1.00

00:07:01.920 She needs to feel like her life is being better because of him.

00:07:04.920 And you can't only do that with money because that's not really a relationship.

00:07:08.920 It's just legal prostitution and it's LARPing. 1.00

00:07:12.920 It's fake.

00:07:13.920 Yeah.

00:07:14.920 So when, when a woman cheats on a rich man or she's with a rich man, but she's not happy,

00:07:20.920 it's because he didn't fill all those other buckets up.

00:07:23.920 He's, he's, he doesn't understand how to paint that picture that gives her this reality,

00:07:28.920 how to take her through time and space, how to make her feel like she, she's the star in

00:07:33.920 the movie because no man, and this is a point to what you're talking about as far as being

00:07:37.920 equal.

00:07:38.920 The reason I think that's wrong is because no man wants a woman that he can't save from 1.00

00:07:42.920 a castle and dragon.

00:07:43.920 The day a man can no longer be a hero for a woman is the day that he'll probably check 0.99

00:07:48.920 out.

00:07:50.920 If I can't, if I can't be your hero, then I don't want to save you.

00:07:54.920 So you really think that all men have that savior complex?

00:07:57.920 Like it's inherent in all.

00:07:58.920 I think it is inherent in most guys.

00:08:00.920 Yeah.

00:08:01.920 I agree.

00:08:02.920 That's, that's what makes love so beautiful.

00:08:03.920 I think men just have a naturally like want, they want to protect women, especially the

00:08:08.920 women like that. 1.00

00:08:09.920 They're like their girlfriends or whatever.

00:08:12.920 Um, because I mean, you kind of see it in society.

00:08:17.920 Like there's so many double standards that like women get away with that men don't.

00:08:21.920 Um, like for example, like the Amber Heard case and it's because I just think men naturally 0.97

00:08:27.920 like have an ability to like believe in like protect women.

00:08:29.920 Yeah.

00:08:30.920 And I think that's the most beautiful thing about love.

00:08:32.920 A man should protect a woman.

00:08:34.920 And it's very, it's very much lines up with nature because if men checked out, women would 1.00

00:08:39.920 die.

00:08:40.920 No offense, no offense to you, but, but men invent, build and maintain everything.

00:08:47.920 And I don't mean that as a dis on women.

00:08:49.920 I really only will go so deep and so hard on this subject because I love women. 1.00

00:08:53.920 Cause one day I'm going to have a daughter and all I want for her is for her to truly

00:08:58.920 understand how this deal works.

00:09:00.920 And then I want her to take that information and have choice.

00:09:03.920 If she wants to marry a woman, that's fine. 0.99

00:09:06.920 I love you, baby.

00:09:07.920 If she wants to sleep with a bunch of men and be called a whatever, a lady, whatever, 1.00

00:09:12.920 or whatever she wants to do.

00:09:15.920 But I, I love women. 1.00

00:09:18.920 And I feel like it's a fucking shame that we lie to them on such a massive level because 0.87

00:09:24.920 whether you believe those stats or not, she's not the only person using those stats. 0.90

00:09:28.920 These stats are true.

00:09:29.920 If they weren't true, then I wouldn't be able to go into my inbox and find hundreds of messages

00:09:34.920 from women.

00:09:35.920 They're, they're single.

00:09:37.920 They're alone.

00:09:38.920 I suspect they're probably not happy.

00:09:40.920 And if I really, really care about women and I do, hopefully one day my daughter will 1.00

00:09:45.920 see this, then I would much rather tell them the truth so they can take the truth and at

00:09:50.920 least have a chance at choice, a chance.

00:09:53.920 Right now they don't have a chance.

00:09:55.920 They're being lied to.

00:09:56.920 But do you see this, what you, you mentioned as like the savior complex.

00:10:01.920 Like, do you not think that it's just the same, like kind of fairy tale that women are 1.00

00:10:07.920 told about the prince in shining armor that the men are literally just playing that role?

00:10:12.920 I think it probably is to some extent because then you get like white knights.

00:10:15.920 So then you get guys who will step in and you mentioned Amber Heard and I mean that,

00:10:18.920 that sort of situation would be an example where guys will step in to sort of protect the

00:10:23.920 woman, even though actually the woman doesn't necessarily merit protection. 1.00

00:10:26.920 So yeah, I think guys have their own form of Disney fantasy as well, for sure.

00:10:30.920 And that's why it's men's fault. 1.00

00:10:31.920 The problem truly is weak men.

00:10:33.920 Cause what happens is he comes in and he's, he's LARPing.

00:10:38.920 I'll use the word again.

00:10:39.920 He's telling her all this so he can sleep with her, all these things.

00:10:42.920 And then when she, what really upsets her is she realized this dude lied to me.

00:10:46.920 He's not this great man.

00:10:48.920 He says he is.

00:10:49.920 Then she starts looking the other direction. 0.61

00:10:52.920 We hate weak man.

00:10:53.920 Yeah, absolutely.

00:10:54.920 As you should biologically, you should.

00:10:56.920 Cause look at every other species, right?

00:10:58.920 Every other species, the strong male, I'm not going to say the word, but the strong male

00:11:07.920 is the one that's doing all the mating. 0.93

00:11:09.920 And why would that be?

00:11:10.920 Because the species wants the best reproductive quality in children. 0.68

00:11:17.920 That's why I have a huge problem with outfits like fresh and fit because you're coming after

00:11:23.920 women and you're teaching men how to Mac. 1.00

00:11:25.920 And actually you're not teaching them how to be really what they say is alphas.

00:11:30.920 You're not, you're just teaching them how to lie.

00:11:32.920 They do teach that as well, but no one watches that show.

00:11:34.920 They do teach that.

00:11:35.920 I think, I think that's just, just to speak up for those guys.

00:11:37.920 They, they absolutely do.

00:11:38.920 I mean, and there's this whole thing now in this community, in this space online where

00:11:41.920 people are talking about money, muscles, game, frame, you know, and it really is about

00:11:45.920 covering all the bases.

00:11:46.920 And I mean, fresh and fit, they've got their money podcast.

00:11:48.920 They talk, I mean, Myron was a fitness, is a fitness guy, fitness special.

00:11:51.920 So they, they do, they do cover all the bases.

00:11:53.920 And then they add in the macking.

00:11:55.920 What is, what is the macking?

00:11:57.920 That's important.

00:11:58.920 You're fronting.

00:11:59.920 It's like, you're just, you're literally just going around presenting yourself as something

00:12:04.920 that you're not and then painting women to be the villains of the piece.

00:12:08.920 So you're saying like they're presenting themselves as like alphas and they're not, but they

00:12:12.920 don't, they don't say that they're alphas.

00:12:14.920 Like they've never said that in any show.

00:12:16.920 Well, they, they do purport to try and teach people how to be better at getting girls.

00:12:22.920 So, I mean, that's what, that's what they teach.

00:12:24.920 It's like a men's self-improvement show. 0.73

00:12:26.920 So they teach men how to make more money. 0.80

00:12:27.920 They teach men how to get in better shape. 0.99

00:12:29.920 They, they teach men how to talk to women because as much as like, we might want to shit 1.00

00:12:33.920 on game and stuff. 0.99

00:12:34.920 Like, I love me a smooth talker.

00:12:36.920 Like, like I love me.

00:12:38.920 Like I'm not even going to cap.

00:12:40.920 And, and so, you know, at least they're helping men become better men and become the men with

00:12:45.920 better men and become the men we want to be with.

00:12:47.920 I don't think, I don't believe that anybody with any credibility in the, in that space

00:12:52.920 is teaching guys to be something they're not.

00:12:54.920 I think if you are, I think that there is a problem with you as a, as a coach and a content

00:12:58.920 creator.

00:12:59.920 I think what most people are saying myself included, but also, you know, the fresh and

00:13:02.920 fit guys and everybody really is saying, be the best man that you can be.

00:13:07.920 Um, but also present yourself in the best way possible.

00:13:10.920 And that, and that does involve some degree of, you also have to understand really quickly

00:13:13.920 to interject and interject here is that the, the dating marketplace that we are currently

00:13:18.920 in, in 2022, right?

00:13:20.920 Unfortunately, you can be the best product in the world.

00:13:25.920 You could say, say Joe from somewhere in the middle of England.

00:13:30.920 Okay.

00:13:31.920 Right.

00:13:32.920 He is, what was that?

00:13:33.920 Wigan.

00:13:34.920 In Wigan.

00:13:35.920 Cool.

00:13:36.920 Now he's in Wigan.

00:13:37.920 Joe in Wigan is a multimillionaire.

00:13:39.920 He, it would be a fantastic father.

00:13:40.920 He's got the best values in the world.

00:13:42.920 He will, you know, look after you, like build a great future for you, but he is a terrible,

00:13:51.920 smooth talker. 1.00

00:13:52.920 He's the best product, but his marketing is fucking shit. 1.00

00:13:56.920 Yeah. 1.00

00:13:57.920 And right now we live in a world, a day and age where the marketing is basically everything.

00:14:02.920 What do you mean by marketing?

00:14:03.920 How you present yourself.

00:14:04.920 Instagram, your photos, how you present yourself, your social media.

00:14:08.920 That is the marketing in today's day and age and dating. 0.99

00:14:11.920 Unfortunately for men, especially unfortunately for men, because if you suck at marketing, 0.99

00:14:16.920 you ain't getting any attention. 0.99

00:14:18.920 You get no chances. 1.00

00:14:19.920 You could be the best product, but if you're marketing a shit, you're done. 0.99

00:14:22.920 Can I please add this? 0.99

00:14:23.920 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis

00:14:29.920 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022

Most Rich People Aren't Monogamous

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