Most Rich People Aren't Monogamous
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Summary
In this episode, the boys talk about herpes, herpes, STDs, and why money doesn t make a man cheat. They also discuss if celebrities have higher rates of STDs than the rest of the population and why they should be worried about it.
Transcript
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But wouldn't you guys be at a higher percentage? Just because you're getting tested, you're still
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sleeping with way more people than the average. No, because everyone we're sleeping with is also
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getting tested, and we're not allowed to shoot if we have anything. I don't know. I'm not going to
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speak on something I don't know. I just swore I saw a study that said that corn stars have higher
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rates of STDs. I swore that I did, but I could be incorrect, so I'm not going to speak on something
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Every 14 days we get tested. Blood and urine, every 14 days.
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Sterling, did you tell me they don't even check for herpes?
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I would be scared shitless to get HIV, and from the stats that I just told you, and I'd be
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scared shitless. Again, I forget which one Al Capone had. It was the clap. I think it was
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a clap, which can actually kill you, and you will die. It fucked with your brain. It's
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horrible. You don't want to get that, and have it stick around for a long time. Again,
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while I'm telling everyone, get a goddamn STD test. Get a blood test. If you've got it,
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you can get rid of it quickly. The herb, again, 70% of the human population, something like
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it has it. It ain't killing anybody. Yeah, it's like a nasty thing, but if they have it,
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there's antiretrovirals. What's the name of the damn thing?
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Valaciclovir, cyclovir, something like this, which works for the oral and the genital stuff,
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and it literally just destroys it and keeps it at bay. There's dudes in my industry who've
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been working for 20 plus years. I'm not going to name names. There's guys that I know in
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my industry, 20 plus year veterans, award winners have had the herb, their career, and they've
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never passed it on because they keep taking the same medication. They've kept working their
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entire career, and they've never given it to a co-star because they're responsible. They
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take the medication. They're not a dickhead. They're not running around like, oh, I've got
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a sore. I'm going to put my dick in somebody. They're actually responsible with it. That's
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kind of the deciding factor, but that is not something that people need to be super, super
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worried about. It's the HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea. They really need to be worried about. That's
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Okay. I'm going to go to the next super chat. So,
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um, uh, uh, uh, afi kingdom, uh, appreciate the internet.
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Um, appreciate the international boss players. Respect Pearlie. Peace to my bros, Sterling,
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Jay Waller, and Troy Francis. Um, red pill hustle. Um, $50 super chat. Thank you.
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Um, fantastic topic. I think more women should understand us men are wired this way, and
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once they come to terms with how men are, they'd love much more happily in a relationship.
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Kiwi space. It's all about what you value and the relationship if you value trust, loyalty,
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commitment. You wouldn't stay with the cheater. Pure manipulation. The savvy ninja. You can't
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simply dismiss every stat to hang on to the myth in your head. I'm sorry, ladies, you aren't
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listening. Men and women aren't the same in anything, and in the very least a few things.
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J.C., um, the, Justin Waller, Sterling Cooper, and Troy Francis in London getting some, quote,
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tea and crumpets. Uh, get your plan B's out, ladies.
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Sandra Solomon, um, these men are literally, literally made me want to give up on dating.
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I've won a wrongful death suit, and I can tell you that money doesn't buy a peace of mind.
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Okay. Um, so my next question I have for the people, um, do you think that money, like actually
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this is for the women, do you think that money buys a man's ability to cheat?
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I think, um, you just see that with celebrities really, you know what I mean?
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Like, um, God, the only example I can think of at the moment is Cardi B. Um, but you know,
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Like people just, I love Beyonce, but people literally say all of her albums are just basically
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her arts and Jay-Z to stop cheating on me basically. Um, and yeah, it's just, you know,
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That means she's still in love with him by the way.
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Well, I don't know if you can separate the brand and what they build and legacy and all
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Like you're not just work walking away from a person and how they make you feel, but you're
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working, walking away from your livelihood, what your kids.
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Um, but yeah, so I think it's, it's not that easy when you're in those kinds of statuses.
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Um, but I do, I do think it can, it can, it can sway people.
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Um, I was just thinking of quite a few people that I know that have dated men with lots of
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money and there's a thing of actually like going after not your equivalent.
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So you're going to go after a woman who doesn't have as much as you.
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And so then you hold them in a vac of like the lifestyle that I can give you.
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And then you treat them in a way that isn't very pleasant.
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And I think a lot of men hold onto that and they kind of keep that cycle going.
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And while there's quite a few women that you can have access to that are really good looking,
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but are actually like quite poor, bad behavior can be allowed because you're funding a lifestyle
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I think lots of guys that with a lot of money know this.
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And so they, those are the women that they go after.
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They don't generally go after their contemporaries.
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You know, I don't, I don't necessarily think it's money alone.
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Cause I think that money, like a guy could win the lottery tomorrow and it doesn't mean women
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Um, at some point when the money bucket fills up, let's say whatever the number is, let's
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say it's, I don't know, a million dollars just for a round number.
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When the money bucket fills up, I say I would never trade places with Mark Zuckerberg.
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So when men lead with their wallet, it's weak and respect equals love.
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And you can't respect a man who is only rich and hasn't handled fitness or competency or
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become a certain type of man as a, as a man or to have a healthy relationship.
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I feel like the woman does need to look up to the man.
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She needs to feel like her life is being better because of him.
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And you can't only do that with money because that's not really a relationship.
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So when, when a woman cheats on a rich man or she's with a rich man, but she's not happy,
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it's because he didn't fill all those other buckets up.
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He's, he's, he doesn't understand how to paint that picture that gives her this reality,
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how to take her through time and space, how to make her feel like she, she's the star in
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the movie because no man, and this is a point to what you're talking about as far as being
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The reason I think that's wrong is because no man wants a woman that he can't save from
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The day a man can no longer be a hero for a woman is the day that he'll probably check
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If I can't, if I can't be your hero, then I don't want to save you.
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So you really think that all men have that savior complex?
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I think men just have a naturally like want, they want to protect women, especially the
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Um, because I mean, you kind of see it in society.
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Like there's so many double standards that like women get away with that men don't.
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Um, like for example, like the Amber Heard case and it's because I just think men naturally
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like have an ability to like believe in like protect women.
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And I think that's the most beautiful thing about love.
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And it's very, it's very much lines up with nature because if men checked out, women would
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No offense, no offense to you, but, but men invent, build and maintain everything.
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I really only will go so deep and so hard on this subject because I love women.
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Cause one day I'm going to have a daughter and all I want for her is for her to truly
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And then I want her to take that information and have choice.
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If she wants to sleep with a bunch of men and be called a whatever, a lady, whatever,
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And I feel like it's a fucking shame that we lie to them on such a massive level because
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whether you believe those stats or not, she's not the only person using those stats.
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If they weren't true, then I wouldn't be able to go into my inbox and find hundreds of messages
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And if I really, really care about women and I do, hopefully one day my daughter will
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see this, then I would much rather tell them the truth so they can take the truth and at
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But do you see this, what you, you mentioned as like the savior complex.
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Like, do you not think that it's just the same, like kind of fairy tale that women are
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told about the prince in shining armor that the men are literally just playing that role?
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I think it probably is to some extent because then you get like white knights.
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So then you get guys who will step in and you mentioned Amber Heard and I mean that,
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that sort of situation would be an example where guys will step in to sort of protect the
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woman, even though actually the woman doesn't necessarily merit protection.
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So yeah, I think guys have their own form of Disney fantasy as well, for sure.
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Cause what happens is he comes in and he's, he's LARPing.
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He's telling her all this so he can sleep with her, all these things.
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And then when she, what really upsets her is she realized this dude lied to me.
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Every other species, the strong male, I'm not going to say the word, but the strong male
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Because the species wants the best reproductive quality in children.
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That's why I have a huge problem with outfits like fresh and fit because you're coming after
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And actually you're not teaching them how to be really what they say is alphas.
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You're not, you're just teaching them how to lie.
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They do teach that as well, but no one watches that show.
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I think, I think that's just, just to speak up for those guys.
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I mean, and there's this whole thing now in this community, in this space online where
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people are talking about money, muscles, game, frame, you know, and it really is about
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And I mean, fresh and fit, they've got their money podcast.
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They talk, I mean, Myron was a fitness, is a fitness guy, fitness special.
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It's like, you're just, you're literally just going around presenting yourself as something
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that you're not and then painting women to be the villains of the piece.
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So you're saying like they're presenting themselves as like alphas and they're not, but they
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Well, they, they do purport to try and teach people how to be better at getting girls.
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So, I mean, that's what, that's what they teach.
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They, they teach men how to talk to women because as much as like, we might want to shit
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And, and so, you know, at least they're helping men become better men and become the men with
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better men and become the men we want to be with.
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I don't think, I don't believe that anybody with any credibility in the, in that space
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I think if you are, I think that there is a problem with you as a, as a coach and a content
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I think what most people are saying myself included, but also, you know, the fresh and
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fit guys and everybody really is saying, be the best man that you can be.
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Um, but also present yourself in the best way possible.
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And that, and that does involve some degree of, you also have to understand really quickly
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to interject and interject here is that the, the dating marketplace that we are currently
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Unfortunately, you can be the best product in the world.
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You could say, say Joe from somewhere in the middle of England.
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He will, you know, look after you, like build a great future for you, but he is a terrible,
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He's the best product, but his marketing is fucking shit.
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And right now we live in a world, a day and age where the marketing is basically everything.
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Instagram, your photos, how you present yourself, your social media.
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That is the marketing in today's day and age and dating.
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Unfortunately for men, especially unfortunately for men, because if you suck at marketing,
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You could be the best product, but if you're marketing a shit, you're done.
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