JustPearlyThings - June 29, 2023


Most Single Mothers Are Selfish

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Johnson Graham Johnny
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Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

190.49

Word count

1,463

Sentence count

124

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

10

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In this episode, I sit down with author, activist, and author of the book "Single Momma's Don't Know" to talk about how single mothers are ruining the lives of their children. We talk about the impact of single mothers on their kids and the impact on their lives.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 You know, like I've seen my, my, you know, I've seen someone, you know, they used to whip one of my sisters with the spoon. She kind of deserved it, you know, but you still have that like, oh no, you know, well, well, that's what the men need to be there for, to discipline the kids.
00:00:17.200 But when you have all these young men and then that have never been disciplined in their life by a man, they go through a muck, the crime. Right. Right. And then I'm finding out that all these guys too, they get played by the system because they get preyed on by these single mothers that need a sucker. So they find another guy that was raised by a single mother to be the next generation of child support. 0.69
00:00:45.920 Yeah. And so I'm not even trying to hate on women. I'm just trying to say like, okay, this is what happened when we got power. Yes, exactly. Right. You know, there's bad men and there's bad women. And I do think women are more spiteful than men. I think we're a bit more emotional. So it's like when, when, if, okay, I, I, I'm not a stealer, right? I don't steal. I'm not a stealer. But if every day I watch everyone steal from the Apple store.
00:01:13.920 And take a free iPhone every day and there's no repercussions and they're paraded and rewarded for it. Yeah. You know, even me, and I like to think I have a strong moral compass. Even me, I'm, I'm still human. Right. I'm going to still think about taking that iPhone. Right.
00:01:32.920 You know, everyone else is doing it. Right. It's normal hearing them on and that you're not going to jail for it. Why don't I do it too? And so that's what I realized with the system that's built. That's what they're doing with women. 1.00
00:01:48.780 And it's like, it's not necessarily that, you know, I do think women are more spiteful than men, but, but by and large, it doesn't mean women are horrible people, but the systems we give them make them horrible people. 0.65
00:02:00.860 Cause I realized there's like a bailout. I think in systems. So I'm like, it's like a system of bailouts because if the girls have the debt, they get bailed out by the government. 0.98
00:02:11.140 And it's like every bet, if we have, we sleep around, there's birth control. If we have a kid, there's some simp that'll, which simps are a big problem too.
00:02:20.000 Like men raised their standards and said, you know what? Like imagine, okay. If you had a kid outside of wedlock or you, you left the guy you made a kid with, uh, which I'm finding out too, the single, the deadbeat dad is a myth because these men wanted to be in the lives, but the mom wouldn't let them like a bunch of them.
00:02:38.960 But, but, but so I'm like, if the men said, you know what? No, we are not dating single mothers. That's your bed. Lie in it. You're a harlot now. But the problem is they keep dating them. 0.81
00:02:50.760 Right. So they, and, and, and I want to say, Oh, you'll never be taken seriously. Well, you're not going to be taken seriously by the 20% of men, but let's just call a spade, a spade, 80% of men.
00:03:02.180 Maybe, maybe it's 70 fit. There's a percentage of men that'll still take you at, especially young, naive men. Right. That have no idea. They're just, you know, trotting along. They were raised by a single mother. So they're like, yeah, let me try someone on my show. And I was telling him, I'm like, you are a single childless man. There is no reason you should date a single mother. 0.86
00:03:24.860 And they're like, they're like fighting me. And I'm like, no, why would you want to do that?
00:03:30.500 Well, I'll tell you why in a second, but the, the last chapter of my book, I go over all these numbers. I go over a ton of stats and a ton of numbers because like you, I love those because they're very hard to argue with.
00:03:41.380 And so the last chapter of the book is basically, let's take a look at this last hundred years of feminism since it became the dominant thing. And let's assess, you know, what we've gotten out of it and where things stand and all the stuff we've been talking about, all these numbers.
00:03:57.880 We know for certain that kids raised by single moms are at higher risk for everything, everything from criminal activity to addiction problems, to mental illness, to poverty, any risk in life, they are more susceptible to being raised by single moms.
00:04:16.060 And are there some single moms who are single moms, not by choice? Yes. At one time, that was me. My oldest two, their dad left. It was not my choice.
00:04:25.420 I tried to do everything I could to prevent it. He was in a bad place with himself and it happened. We were really young, but most women, that's not the case. Most women are like my mother, where it's just like, I'm bored or I'm unhappy. I'm unhappy with myself. 0.73
00:04:39.580 So I want someone who makes me feel sexy. I want someone who makes me feel alive. I want, you know, somebody more entertaining or younger, or, you know, Mr. Johnson next door makes me feel sexy.
00:04:50.420 So sorry, kids, but daddy has to move out and you can never see him again. Because at that point, it becomes about keeping the new guy, right? And having the old guy around, the new guy doesn't like that. It complicates matters.
00:05:03.620 And you have to demonize the X to justify why you left. So that's what always happens. And when you talk about men who defend this stuff and defend dating single moms, I get the same thing. I will get men who come for me and are super angry with me and take issue.
00:05:20.860 I had one that used to follow me everywhere. I went online and like leave nasty Graham comments and say awful things about me. And of course it turns out he was raised by a single mom. 0.95
00:05:30.980 Yeah. And what happens is these boys who are raised by single moms are always told that, sorry, little Johnny, but your childhood must be sacrificed for mommy's happiness. I'm sorry. You have to spend all day in daycare. I'm sorry that you only get to see your dad twice a month. If that, if you're lucky, I'm sorry. You don't like my new boyfriend who beats you or treats you like crap or just doesn't give a shit about you. 0.60
00:05:55.840 I'm sorry. You've had to go through my succession of multiple boyfriends that I've had. Right. So many kids are being raised with, oh, mom's new boyfriend just moved in. Oh, six months later, he's out. And the new boyfriend is in two months later. And there's this revolving door of strange men coming and going their whole lives. So they're abused, they're neglected, or they're just exposed to a lot of dysfunctional gross behavior and hypergamy from women. 1.00
00:06:22.700 So they think, not only do they think it's normal, but they defend it because they're protecting their mother. And this is like a huge thing that I see with like more of the simp type of men. Every time I talk to them and I can get to their life story, they're protecting their mom.
00:06:39.040 Have you? Oh my gosh. You can hear it in there. Okay. I don't know about you. I can hear it in a guy's voice. If he was raised by a single mother and the way they talk, like I had a show, um, yes, yesterday, the yesterday, I get all the days confused, but there was three guys on there.
00:06:56.480 And I could tell you that two were raised by like in single family homes or the other issue too. And I think this is like more prevalent in like in, in white communities, to be honest, where it's like the, yeah, they're married, but the mom runs the whole show where like, I think there's been like a whole generation, like where it's like the, the mother is like running everything. 0.60
00:07:20.460 The mom's the boss. Yeah. And where people have just never seen a traditional relationship.
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