JustPearlyThings - June 27, 2025


Oliver Anthony Takes the Redpill ｜ Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

43 minutes

Words per Minute

156.41412

Word Count

6,850

Sentence Count

368

Misogynist Sentences

64

Hate Speech Sentences

53


Summary

A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage and why it s bad for men to get married. Hannah Pearl Davis is one of the most controversial faces in all of the internet. She says that marriage is a terrible deal for men because if you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I'm of a dozen women being asked the following question, do we need men?
00:00:05.880 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
00:00:11.720 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
00:00:14.600 Most young men are single, most young women are not.
00:00:17.620 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
00:00:22.300 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
00:00:25.360 Nobody needs men!
00:00:26.600 The future is female.
00:00:28.180 Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
00:00:36.120 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
00:00:39.420 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
00:00:42.120 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
00:00:45.680 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
00:00:49.760 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.
00:00:52.380 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
00:00:55.360 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
00:01:00.380 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
00:01:04.020 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
00:01:07.640 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
00:01:10.500 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
00:01:15.420 Gee, what could go wrong there?
00:01:17.840 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
00:01:21.400 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
00:01:24.280 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
00:01:26.960 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
00:01:31.920 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
00:01:35.120 You need no evidence.
00:01:35.980 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
00:01:39.980 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
00:01:43.300 I interviewed them on the other side.
00:01:45.840 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
00:01:48.280 How much did you spend trying to get him back?
00:01:50.300 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
00:01:52.660 Before you know it, you're homeless.
00:01:54.080 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
00:01:56.000 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
00:01:58.420 Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
00:02:02.660 Family is the foundation of society.
00:02:04.280 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
00:02:07.620 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
00:02:11.900 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
00:02:13.840 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
00:02:15.660 We tell them to put off family into marriage.
00:02:17.420 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
00:02:20.160 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
00:02:24.640 Oh, freeze your ex! Have an abortion!
00:02:26.440 What? You're evil!
00:02:27.660 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
00:02:31.500 Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong,
00:02:34.140 and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
00:02:38.400 It's self-sabotage.
00:02:39.280 That's the thing.
00:02:39.840 Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
00:02:43.060 This is not about happiness.
00:02:44.840 The most important thing is the children.
00:02:47.140 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me,
00:02:50.560 my feelings leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
00:02:54.740 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
00:02:59.620 They think, well, men have all the rights.
00:03:01.100 They have all the power.
00:03:02.380 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.
00:03:04.620 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
00:03:07.240 I have no friends.
00:03:08.560 No wife.
00:03:09.300 No social life.
00:03:10.480 Men are alone in this situation.
00:03:12.380 Men are homeless.
00:03:13.360 Men are thinking about eating guns.
00:03:14.720 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.
00:03:19.560 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
00:03:24.940 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
00:03:28.800 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
00:03:31.460 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol,
00:03:35.500 three times higher among men than among women.
00:03:38.600 Culture is telling men, you are no good.
00:03:40.440 You've got to get your act together.
00:03:41.640 I think men have failed themselves.
00:03:43.040 What kind of a man are you?
00:03:44.180 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
00:03:46.540 If men are in trouble, so are women.
00:03:49.120 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
00:03:52.800 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...
00:03:55.020 500K.
00:03:55.700 500K.
00:03:56.120 300K.
00:03:56.640 300K.
00:03:57.100 200K.
00:03:57.540 Am I crazy?
00:03:58.240 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
00:04:00.520 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
00:04:04.080 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
00:04:07.960 Women.
00:04:09.420 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
00:04:11.480 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
00:04:13.740 I'm over it.
00:04:14.780 When is it going to be my turn?
00:04:16.200 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?
00:04:17.980 I can't keep having these same conversations.
00:04:20.480 The only simp here is you, Pearl.
00:04:22.080 You simp for men.
00:04:22.580 No, I think you simp for women.
00:04:24.080 She's a provocateur.
00:04:25.000 She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
00:04:27.400 It's already happening.
00:04:28.520 It's just not out in the open yet.
00:04:30.040 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending because men don't want
00:04:33.840 a wife and women can't find a husband.
00:04:35.900 The future, if everybody follows their path, is there is no future.
00:04:40.160 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
00:04:44.100 Civilization will crumble.
00:04:45.780 The American story does not end well.
00:04:48.340 This is an existential crisis failing young men.
00:04:51.280 What is up, guys?
00:04:58.280 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
00:05:02.460 I want to give a shout out to Aaron, who donated $1,000 last show to get us to $30,000 raised
00:05:09.000 for this divorce documentary.
00:05:10.960 As you guys know, after getting demonetized, we had to let everybody go, but we're slowly
00:05:15.560 rebuilding, which is really awesome here.
00:05:17.900 And so now we're raising money to finish this divorce documentary.
00:05:20.660 I have a bunch of footage.
00:05:22.700 We just got to get to around $100,000 to get it done.
00:05:25.640 I do have a million put in the GoFundMe, but it's just because, you know, I shoot for
00:05:31.500 the stars and there was a really this like movie level production team I got a quote for.
00:05:38.100 So I just thought I'd put it out there.
00:05:40.340 But yeah, we can get it done around $100,000 to $30,000.
00:05:43.040 Thank you guys so much.
00:05:44.480 We really couldn't get this done without you.
00:05:46.320 So I appreciate it.
00:05:47.140 Okay, so today we are talking about Oliver Anthony.
00:05:53.420 So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
00:05:57.520 Getting married is a risk to every man in the West.
00:06:01.020 It doesn't matter if you're rich, if you're poor, black, white, successful, or a bum.
00:06:06.320 Any man that gets married can end up in divorce court when his wife decides to leave him and
00:06:12.200 take his children.
00:06:14.020 Some people in the space say marry a woman early so she can be with you when you have nothing.
00:06:19.660 She'll remain loyal because she was with you in the beginning before she had the money.
00:06:24.520 And that narrative is false.
00:06:27.060 And I want to say too, there's this narrative from conservatives.
00:06:30.400 And they have this idea that women are loyal.
00:06:37.420 You know, I'll see a man that posts his wife and says she was there for me when I had nothing.
00:06:45.260 But the equivalent of that is she bet on a horse that won.
00:06:49.940 So, you know, she would have bounced if you had nothing for too long.
00:06:56.220 Like maybe you had nothing for a few years.
00:06:58.060 But if you were falling behind your male peers by a significant amount and she didn't think
00:07:02.760 you'd bounce back, yeah, she'd bounce.
00:07:05.400 So you guys got to stop.
00:07:06.840 Stop looking for unicorns.
00:07:08.540 We don't, unicorns, we don't exist.
00:07:11.400 She will remain loyal because she was with you in the beginning before you had money.
00:07:15.420 Again, is the idea.
00:07:18.240 And this narrative is false.
00:07:19.960 Women marry a man, a man at the beginning, that women that marry a man at the beginning
00:07:26.180 are just as likely to divorce as the rest of them.
00:07:29.740 Enter Oliver Anthony.
00:07:32.560 Oliver Anthony's wife waited until he was worth millions of dollars and then divorced him
00:07:36.680 and took half his shit and half his money because of course she did.
00:07:40.040 Like y'all remember the rich man of Richmond guy, Oliver Anthony?
00:07:42.960 You know, he put out that one song and just blew up.
00:07:45.500 Yeah, he made the smart decision of contacting Joe Rogan after he blew up and was like, what
00:07:49.200 should I do?
00:07:49.840 Because all these record companies were offering him millions of dollars and he took Joe Rogan's
00:07:53.980 advice to not sign with any of them because Joe Rogan knew he was going to get screwed.
00:07:57.920 So he banked on himself and became worth way more than those record companies were offering.
00:08:02.540 But then his wife filed for divorce and she didn't only want half of what he was worth now.
00:08:07.620 No, she wanted 60%.
00:08:09.500 And so this is female envy, right?
00:08:11.800 Women cannot stand when the man becomes the main character.
00:08:16.700 And in most relationships, the man does eventually become the main character.
00:08:21.000 So look, back in the day, I would put her now.
00:08:24.840 She's pretty cute.
00:08:25.640 Six, maybe.
00:08:27.100 Five, six.
00:08:28.180 I'd say six.
00:08:29.080 I'd even say seven for her age because she looks like she's in her 30s, 40s.
00:08:32.800 So I'd say for her age, she's probably one of the more attractive women in her age group
00:08:37.800 because women by their 30s tend to get fat and she looks thin.
00:08:41.780 Now, he's just like a poor guy working a normal job and he gets famous overnight.
00:08:47.540 A lot of women can't handle the competition anxiety because they've never had to deal with
00:08:53.100 the burden of performance because they married young.
00:08:56.180 Other times, it's just she likes the attention on her.
00:08:59.820 Of all future earnings, 60% of everything this man makes for the rest of his life,
00:09:07.020 that's what she wanted.
00:09:08.220 I just want to remind you that-
00:09:10.220 Or is it this girl?
00:09:11.420 Is that the same woman?
00:09:13.820 Okay, I'm not sure, but the concept is still the same.
00:09:17.280 They were poor.
00:09:18.140 This dude was selling farm equipment and she was happily married.
00:09:21.420 But I guess suddenly he just became a bad husband.
00:09:24.340 Yeah, sure.
00:09:24.900 That's what it was.
00:09:25.660 Anyway, so that's the story behind his new hit single, Scornful Woman, which if you listen
00:09:31.860 to it, I think it perfectly explains what type of woman he was married to.
00:09:37.580 Okay.
00:09:40.440 All right, next, watch the first minute and 30 seconds.
00:09:43.840 Like private music studio.
00:09:45.900 And nobody has to hear it until you listen to it the first time.
00:09:48.240 And you're like, God damn.
00:09:49.540 Yeah.
00:09:50.020 Like Oliver Anthony's new album.
00:09:52.000 I haven't heard it.
00:09:52.660 Bro.
00:09:53.620 Really?
00:09:54.440 Bro.
00:09:54.960 There's a song.
00:09:56.520 We're going to play this song.
00:09:57.480 We can't.
00:09:58.140 You can't play it on the air.
00:09:59.800 So we'll play it.
00:10:00.700 The same one you already sent me?
00:10:01.420 Oh, yeah.
00:10:01.740 I should have it already.
00:10:02.280 We'll play it and then we'll react to it.
00:10:05.420 Okay.
00:10:06.020 I'll tell you guys.
00:10:07.520 Cut all this out.
00:10:09.400 I'll tell you guys what happened.
00:10:10.920 So Oliver Anthony has no money, right?
00:10:13.400 He's poor.
00:10:14.140 He's selling farm equipment.
00:10:15.840 He puts his song on YouTube.
00:10:17.280 He's a fucking superstar, right?
00:10:18.800 He doesn't know what to do.
00:10:19.900 He freaks out.
00:10:21.140 He asked me for advice.
00:10:22.420 I call him on the phone.
00:10:23.360 We have a conversation for like a fucking hour where I go, don't sign anything with anybody.
00:10:27.700 And he's like, they're telling me I have to strike while the iron's hot.
00:10:29.700 I go, bullshit.
00:10:30.280 They're trying to steal money from you.
00:10:31.560 I go, you're independent.
00:10:32.720 You're already there.
00:10:33.720 You already made it.
00:10:34.620 I know if you wrote that song.
00:10:36.440 I'm like, if you wrote that song, you could write a dozen of those fucking songs.
00:10:39.200 You don't need anybody.
00:10:40.580 They're just, he's like, they're offering me $7 million.
00:10:42.540 I go, no, no, no.
00:10:43.260 They're offering to steal money from you for the rest of your life.
00:10:45.660 That's what they're doing.
00:10:46.480 I go, you don't need them.
00:10:47.320 You have talent.
00:10:48.880 So cut to, he starts making millions of dollars, doing arenas.
00:10:53.440 The wife divorces him.
00:10:54.640 She wants everything.
00:10:56.000 She wants everything.
00:10:57.620 She wants more than half.
00:10:59.420 She wants all the money that he's going to be making in the future because she was with him when he was broke.
00:11:03.280 So it's fucking crazy.
00:11:04.840 He's just tortured.
00:11:06.040 What a fucking idiot.
00:11:06.880 Wants to die.
00:11:07.960 Wants to die.
00:11:09.540 And he writes this song.
00:11:11.380 I can't play the song, but I will read the lyrics in a second.
00:11:14.520 Thank you, Jeffo, for the super chat.
00:11:16.860 I really appreciate it.
00:11:18.680 You guys are so nuts.
00:11:19.640 You don't even have to super chat me at all.
00:11:22.000 So many people just watch for free on YouTube that I know when you guys super chat, I know you guys are the hardworking men in America.
00:11:29.700 So it really does mean the world to me.
00:11:32.900 I'm so grateful I get to do this every day, to be honest.
00:11:35.420 So thank you guys so much.
00:11:36.640 Okay, so I'm going to read the lyrics to a scornful woman.
00:11:41.020 So this is the song that Oliver Anthony wrote.
00:11:43.700 Well, she's got a side to her I want to run from.
00:11:47.960 She'll turn a warm afternoon into a cold, cold one.
00:11:51.420 Well, Eve grabbed the apple and then Adam took a bite.
00:11:55.700 And now all these years later, the math still ain't right.
00:12:00.160 With a scornful woman, a scornful woman.
00:12:03.620 I used to sleep so good.
00:12:05.260 I didn't have a nightmare.
00:12:06.960 I was busy dreaming.
00:12:08.680 Believing he's always going to be right there.
00:12:11.980 And now in the middle of the day, and now the middle of the day is like the middle of the night.
00:12:17.560 And the court says 50-50, but the math don't seem right.
00:12:21.300 With a scornful woman, a scornful woman.
00:12:23.960 She can have all the money and they can keep all the fame.
00:12:27.080 I'd go back to broke as a joke if I could get a break from the pain.
00:12:33.080 So, Oliver Anthony, like most men, got served a nice dose of the red pill.
00:12:44.420 His wife was just waiting for the opportunity to leave him and take what she could for himself.
00:12:49.900 This is the reality for most men that get married.
00:12:53.100 Now, let's take a look at an article about Oliver Anthony's situation.
00:12:57.140 Oliver Anthony may have topped the charts with rich men north of Richmond.
00:13:04.680 But even fame, talent, and a billboard number one can't protect a father from the clutches of a system that too often sides with the scornful.
00:13:15.680 Anthony, real name Christopher Anthony Lunsford, has joined the countless ranks of American men who rise just high enough to become a target in family court.
00:13:25.360 His wife, Tiffany Lunsford, has repeatedly demanded not only a split of his current assets, but a share of his future earnings.
00:13:33.400 A move that, according to podcaster Joe Rogan, left Anthony feeling gutted and betrayed.
00:13:38.100 On June 4th, 2025, Anthony released Scornful Woman, a blistering ballard of betrayal that lays bare the pain, the pressure, and the financial toll that so often goes unspoken.
00:13:48.900 The court says that 50-50, the court says 50-50, but the math don't seem right with a scornful woman who lives to fight.
00:13:57.660 Before his viral hit in 2023, Anthony was living in a camper, working odd jobs, trying to make ends meet.
00:14:03.900 He and Tiffany had built a life together through hardship, raising two children and welcoming a third in late 2023.
00:14:09.160 But success, as it so often does, brought scrutiny and leverage, especially in divorce court, where sudden income and public acclaim became fuel for financial warfare.
00:14:22.440 Through details of their custody, custody arrangement remains sealed.
00:14:26.780 The silence is telling.
00:14:27.700 In a world full of celebrity divorces, particularly those involving children, the legal machinery often prioritizes privacy, but that doesn't mean fairness is part of the equation.
00:14:38.940 If Anthony's lyrics and demeanor are any indication, he's not just fighting for his paycheck, he's fighting to stay a part of his kids' lives.
00:14:45.720 Joe Rogan didn't mince words during his June 2025 podcast.
00:14:49.740 She wants half of anything, everything, including future earnings.
00:14:54.220 He's tortured.
00:14:55.540 Man wants to die.
00:14:58.500 He's there crying.
00:14:59.700 It's effing crazy.
00:15:02.080 The story echoes a broader, more sinister pattern.
00:15:05.600 Ex-spouse is using family court not just to divide assets, but to exploit future labor.
00:15:10.960 It's not just a settlement.
00:15:12.260 It's a sentence.
00:15:13.840 Divorce settlements in high income or high potential cases often include clauses that project future earnings as marital property.
00:15:20.220 When, but a man like Oliver Anthony catapults to stardom seemingly overnight is, is it just to treat his art, blood, sweat, and future creativity as a shared marital property, even post separation?
00:15:34.220 This is the question scornful woman dares to ask without legalese and loopholes, just like a guitar and a wounded heart.
00:15:41.320 While much of the media focuses on the juicy gossip of who wants what, the real issue is one of systemic design.
00:15:49.320 Family court was never built to handle wealth, fame, or emotional fallout of divorce with integrity.
00:15:53.720 It was built to assign fault, divide property, and too often treat fathers like wallets with a visitation privileges.
00:16:02.180 With no verified public statements on the child custody arrangement, speculation brews.
00:16:07.700 And oftentimes when speculation is brewing because nobody's talking, it's because usually there's a gag order that is generally applied on the man and not on the woman.
00:16:18.180 And the court will often punish the man for talking and the woman not.
00:16:21.980 But what's clear is that Anthony's song and silence suggest it, suggest a man navigating legal landmines with little hope for peace.
00:16:30.340 She can have the money and they can keep all the fame, but I will never forgive what they did to my name.
00:16:38.080 So many men, the worst part about the divorce is not the money, but it's just dealing with a vindictive woman for years.
00:16:50.020 Some men take a really bad L, and it is the money is the worst part, but a lot of times it's just dealing with a crazy woman for years.
00:16:59.860 What's happening to Oliver Anthony is happening to fathers across America, some famous, some forgotten.
00:17:06.200 The family court system, the family court system, powered by outdated formulas and incentivized conflict, often rewards whoever files first, cries foul loudest, or plays the part of the primary caregiver.
00:17:23.300 In Anthony's case, Tiffany demands reportedly reaching into his future earnings are eerily similar to what millions of working class fathers have faced without a platform or a podcast host to speak on their behalf.
00:17:38.640 This is not about whether Anthony was perfect in his marriage.
00:17:41.480 It's about a system that incentivizes punishment over partnership and monetizes fatherhood through alimony calculators and custody agreements that treat love as a liability.
00:17:51.940 And by the way, I'm speculating here.
00:17:54.460 So this is speculation.
00:17:56.520 What I'm about to say is it did not happen as far as I know.
00:18:01.700 What is a possibility is maybe he was unfaithful.
00:18:05.540 Like, what if, because, you know, he's getting all this newfound fame.
00:18:09.100 I don't think it's out the realm of possibilities for even a good man to maybe entertain that.
00:18:17.140 And maybe she's pissed.
00:18:18.160 He cheated and just using lawfare to ruin his life.
00:18:23.020 Or maybe she was just waiting.
00:18:24.900 She wanted to divorce him for years.
00:18:26.220 And now she got the, got the time.
00:18:29.000 Um, regardless, even if he did do things wrong in the marriage, it doesn't, it, and it's unfortunate that this system gives women the right to do that.
00:18:42.780 Um, this song isn't just event.
00:18:45.880 It's a cultural document.
00:18:46.960 Like Johnny Cash before him, Anthony is singing what most men can't afford to say out loud.
00:18:52.080 The family court system doesn't deliver justice, delivers judgment.
00:18:55.500 And sometimes the bigger, the name, the deeper, the cut, what happened to Johnny Cash?
00:18:59.880 I don't actually know.
00:19:01.920 Maybe, is there a song lyric I can, I can write, read whether or not Oliver Anthony will ever publicly speak out about the details of his divorce or his children's custody?
00:19:12.600 His message is clear fame.
00:19:14.880 It doesn't buy you fairness.
00:19:16.280 In fact, it makes you a bigger target.
00:19:19.900 Let's see.
00:19:20.620 And so this is oftentimes what happens.
00:19:26.500 Like I see in many men think that they are safe and they think their woman would never do it, but you just never know.
00:19:38.240 Many women think their husband would never cheat.
00:19:40.720 And I realized the other day that a lot of times people use marriage as a way to control other people's behavior.
00:19:49.180 And you just, it doesn't matter how much you nag.
00:19:52.960 It doesn't matter how much you beg your wife to stay.
00:19:55.940 You cannot control that other person.
00:19:58.600 And people do have the right to their hell.
00:20:00.800 So if you're married to someone and they leave, they do have the right to make their life hell.
00:20:06.500 They do.
00:20:08.620 I don't really believe in taking away people's right to their hell.
00:20:13.560 But what I don't like is taking away the consequences.
00:20:17.200 Where if you want to leave, that's fine.
00:20:18.980 But why is he paying for her to leave?
00:20:24.320 Johnny Cash.
00:20:25.580 I'm going to see Johnny Cash divorce.
00:20:27.180 Okay, Johnny Cash's first wife, Vivian Liberato, filed for divorce in 1966, citing his struggles with substance abuse, infidelity, and constant touring as major factors contributing to the marriage's breakdown.
00:20:43.500 The divorce was finalized in the end of 1967.
00:20:46.720 Vivian's relationship with the Catholic Church was also impacted as she was temporarily excommunicated due to the divorce.
00:20:57.180 In his letter to the Catholic Church, Johnny took responsibility for the breakdown of the marriage, acknowledging his substance abuse and infidelities.
00:21:09.000 Did he write a song about it?
00:21:09.980 Is there a song I'm missing?
00:21:21.480 I don't see it.
00:21:22.280 And it's unfortunate because a lot of the men that think that this would never happen to them.
00:21:35.740 And I can tell, like, if I had to predict, and I don't wish this upon anybody, I think that, like, I would predict a divorce for Charlie Kirk.
00:21:49.020 I really, I don't see a world where he doesn't get divorced, if I'm being honest, because he just has too much of an ego thinking it'll never happen to him.
00:22:00.380 And a lot of times, people with a big ego that think it'll never happen to them, it comes from a place of insecurity, because they've never had to do, and I was talking to Doug MPA about a future show.
00:22:12.680 They don't have to do the burden of performance in the dating market.
00:22:16.740 And a lot of people that marry young, they exit the burden of performance, which is men not to simp and to be attractive to women.
00:22:25.220 And women's burden of performance is to be attractive to men, so after the sex.
00:22:32.240 So, you know, people get married young, and they have no idea what it's like out there.
00:22:37.480 They don't know what it's like to get ghosted.
00:22:39.500 They don't know what it's like to have a woman be vindictive and try to ruin their life.
00:22:48.360 And then once they go through it, and I think it's kind of a rite of passage for most men.
00:22:56.180 I don't think most men can go through life without having a woman humble them in some way.
00:23:05.060 If marriage was from God, Adam and Eve would have been married.
00:23:09.220 It's man-made.
00:23:13.560 I don't know.
00:23:16.820 I just, I question if marriage 1.0 was so great, why did everyone leave it the second they could?
00:23:25.280 And the only answer that I have is that I think it's because it takes away the burden of performance.
00:23:31.560 Because as a woman, if you sleep with a guy and you like him, your burden of performance after is to not be annoying, to be helpful, to see how you can fit into his life, and to be likable enough that he wants to commit.
00:23:47.320 It's not to nag him into committing.
00:23:48.860 It's making him, I don't want to say making.
00:23:50.720 You can't make anyone do anything, but inciting feelings that allow, you know, make, you know, I don't want to say make, but you can't make anyone feel a certain way.
00:24:03.280 So I'm trying to find a better way to put it.
00:24:04.820 But you want to be in a place where the man is committing to you because he wants to, not because you nagged him into it.
00:24:15.400 There's nothing worse than a woman that dragged the husband down the aisle and like nagged him into it.
00:24:20.080 Who wants that?
00:24:21.040 You want a guy that wants to be there.
00:24:23.780 So.
00:24:29.820 So.
00:24:31.720 I don't, I'm not a religious expert.
00:24:35.820 Burden of performance is an entire material, entirely materialistic phrase.
00:24:40.240 Is it?
00:24:41.200 I don't think so.
00:24:43.700 Um.
00:24:45.400 I don't think a man holding frame is materialistic at all.
00:24:53.900 I don't think a man not simping.
00:24:55.760 I don't think that's materialistic.
00:24:57.460 I don't think a woman, um, not being annoying is materialistic.
00:25:04.180 I don't think a woman being more feminine is materialistic.
00:25:08.720 I don't.
00:25:16.260 Then that's part of it.
00:25:22.200 Burden of performance is not of the mystery spirit.
00:25:22.740 It's a hundred percent materialistic.
00:25:23.480 it i mean you could see it one way but if you had all the answers i'm sure i'm sure you can put them
00:25:31.640 on youtube and people will watch it you know what can women do to make men feel like they're safe
00:25:45.560 to commit well it's not necessarily um it partially you have to get a guy that's ready to commit
00:25:54.360 and you know has a baseline attractiveness to you like i was talking to there's a mom that called
00:26:00.040 in a few shows ago and she was in a situationship with a guy where he just wouldn't commit but she
00:26:05.640 was a size 14. guys will sleep with you for years and just think you're not hot enough to be their
00:26:11.560 girlfriend um they're shutting up i have a hard time with that one
00:26:24.680 uh you really yeah um it's being really observant about what like how to be useful to him in his life
00:26:33.000 um you almost want to study the guy you're with and figure out like
00:26:36.200 like things he needs that he doesn't even know that he needs um like those are always the best gifts
00:26:46.600 to be honest
00:26:51.160 those really are like one of one of my favorite gifts i ever gotten was something i didn't even
00:26:56.520 know i wanted um look at the bottom of the document okay
00:27:00.600 see i want to give you guys examples of things i've found to be helpful but sometimes i don't
00:27:09.560 want to overshare you know what i mean i i'm always toeing that line where i'm like
00:27:15.960 i don't need an avon preach clip of something you know i'm like i don't want to
00:27:21.320 it's like the more i i i speak about my boyfriend the more do you see they just go after
00:27:30.600 and plus i don't want to ever act like i know everything there's a i could just say these
00:27:35.640 things have worked for me these things have not worked um but if you're interested i could you
00:27:40.760 could book a consultation on my website and i can i can tell you my thoughts
00:27:48.200 um because like the one thing you know that you can't turn a hoe into a housewife
00:27:53.240 it's not that you can't turn a player into a husband you can and women do but i just want
00:28:00.440 you to know i've gotten player stats of how many women they sleep with before they find one they
00:28:05.080 like and it's like one to four out of a hundred so those are your chances and you look in the mirror
00:28:11.800 and just ask yourself is that you and if it's not you got to ask yourself why and more times than not
00:28:19.480 the bmi chart is what you guys should look at women women
00:28:26.520 we act like the bmi chart
00:28:31.480 it's accurate don't let anybody tell you it's not accurate that is unless you are a bodybuilder woman
00:28:39.080 that's accurate i used to think there was a while where i thought i was healthy even because i was
00:28:44.760 muscular but it doesn't matter it doesn't even though i was muscular i still had like a layer of
00:28:51.320 fat over it and my life 20 pounds changed my life doesn't seem like that much it's completely life
00:28:57.640 changing
00:28:58.040 yeah jessica says 17 to 19 is ideal that's true
00:29:17.080 you know yeah you gotta pay me for some of these secrets i will tell you them but
00:29:21.080 i can't some of this stuff i can't put okay daddy yankee claims a strange wife drew 80 oh my gosh
00:29:36.520 as he files injunction amid split daddy yankee has reportedly filed a motion against his estranged wife
00:29:44.840 miss miretis gonzalez claiming she withdrew
00:29:52.280 80 million without authorization from his l cartel records bank account the puerto rican rapper filed his
00:29:59.400 injunction on thursday december 12th in san juan against gonzalez 47 his sister um aisha gonzalez
00:30:09.240 gonzalez castellonas and el cartel records which yankee founded where gonzalez is allegedly ceo and
00:30:17.240 gonzalez castellos is his sec secretary or treasurer
00:30:24.120 per the filing although yankee dandy 47 is the owner of the shares of the company and the reason for
00:30:29.720 its existence of cartel records he lacks access interference and information to all that he
00:30:36.600 generated and continues to generate which to which he is entitled as a result of the dura musician is
00:30:43.240 asking for the immediate removal of the plaintiffs from plaintiffs from any function or interference
00:30:48.520 in the corporations as officers or administration administrators thereof and the delivery of the
00:30:55.400 information and documentation that they have a legitimately withheld daddy yankee alleges that gonzalez
00:31:03.080 and gonzalez castellonas attempted to wield greater power over the operations of the cartel that was
00:31:11.000 authorized which has resulted in a detrimental and negligent performance for the company the latin
00:31:17.640 grammy winner also claims they failed to render an accurate account of their actions and disregarded
00:31:22.840 formalities and requirements of corporate legislation the filing also claims gonzalez enlisted a third party to
00:31:30.520 represent el cartel in the sale of some of the plaintiffs music catalog which conrad acquired daddy
00:31:36.520 yankee claims the amount agreed upon turned out to be an unreasonable disproportionate and far
00:31:42.280 below the real value allegedly daddy yankee does not know the real scope of the transaction nor does he
00:31:48.600 have a detailed knowledge of what was or was not sold nor the limitations he may have on the use of his
00:31:54.680 musical creations in december 2nd yankee daddy yankee confirmed on his instagram stories that he and
00:32:01.160 gonzalez had called it quits after tying the knot in march 1995. with a heart full of respect and honesty
00:32:07.400 i want to share some important news about my personal life the gasolonia singer continued after more than
00:32:14.440 two decades of marriage and many months of trying to save my marriage which my wife and i share today my
00:32:19.560 my lawyers responded to the divorce petition received from moretti's i respect moretti's decision um
00:32:25.880 day daddy yankee row adding that he appreciates the time they spent together this is not easy for me
00:32:31.720 but i understand that it is part of my life process the former couple shares two kids daughter um jessa
00:32:41.080 allays 28 and son jeremy 26 daddy yankee also is another daughter from a previous relationship
00:32:47.720 holy crap 80 million do you know what doug mpa i'm gonna i'm gonna he had no idea how much money he was
00:33:02.280 making and she had the keys to the vault that's crazy i have a thought and i want to say this i'm
00:33:10.040 gonna text it to you doug mpa and i want you to tell me this probably means i shouldn't say it
00:33:20.120 i gotta i got a thought i'm gonna
00:33:26.040 i'm gonna text it to you um let's see
00:33:40.040 he says don't say i didn't even i didn't even tell you what i want to say yet i didn't even tell
00:33:50.920 you why is this an automatic no it's not is it doesn't have anything to do with that okay
00:33:58.520 all right
00:34:09.080 okay i got i got it i got an approval i go off too much and we're trying to stay monetized on this
00:34:15.400 channel so i have a i have an approval process when i have something edgy i want to say live
00:34:21.880 i'm a woman i obviously have to ask a man
00:34:27.400 so you know when i see these stories and i think about myself like i try to put myself in a man's
00:34:35.480 shoes and i'm like what if i married and doug mpa he asked me this the other day
00:34:39.880 and if i married a guy and i was married to him for 10 years and maybe you know maybe i introduced
00:34:48.200 him to some people in the industry we had a good run we had so much fun but for whatever reason he
00:34:54.040 just wanted to bang younger hotter women which is just an l like if i just you know what i mean if i
00:34:59.080 just took that all and then he decided that he wanted to
00:35:04.840 take half of my earnings for ever
00:35:14.120 it makes me understand why oj did what he did and i would have to pay for a house where
00:35:20.040 he's banging a younger hotter woman
00:35:27.080 i think i just do you know what
00:35:28.760 i might have to go the oj route i might have to they i might have to go that i
00:35:37.800 i don't want to say the self-deletion stuff but i'd rather die i would rather die than do
00:35:42.760 that i really would i'm too petty i'm too but you're gonna have to kill me first um
00:35:48.360 no i didn't say no john i i didn't say that that's not advice no let me that's not advice and i'm not
00:36:03.720 actually gonna do it okay just in case the i don't want to get in trouble not all women are like that not
00:36:10.520 all men are like that um i condemn hamas sorry i'm just kidding i'm just kidding
00:36:19.560 are you men ready for west world androids yet um no okay i'll check back in five years i'm sure men
00:36:25.720 and women's relationships will uh improve oh now you're telling me to go the bonnie blue route
00:36:32.200 okay let's let's take morals out of this so let's pretend because i don't i don't like to view
00:36:42.520 myself as a good person i think that the worst people view themselves as good people i'm just a
00:36:49.000 person i try to do good sometimes i do bad a lot you know and a lot of the time i do but you know
00:36:56.200 i i do my best you know but let's let's say from a purely business perspective i did the bonnie blue
00:37:05.080 route now would it make a lot of money yeah duh but here's the issue i just can't i am terrified
00:37:18.840 i am terrified of catching something that is my worst fear and thank you god never happened to me
00:37:26.200 but if it did oh my god and people i've interviewed people that have non-curable no
00:37:37.080 i mean this is aside from the morality and all that i don't know how she doesn't have aids
00:37:41.720 i think she has to she has to catch aids by the end of this i'm really i wish there was a way for
00:37:47.560 me to verify she doesn't have it because i would actually
00:37:56.200 you're a hidden feminist i mean i i guess um i think everyone's i used to get mad when i would
00:38:02.440 hear rollo tomasi say that that we're all feminists and i was like no not me you know
00:38:10.600 but everyone kind of is to some extent because we all have to participate in the
00:38:14.680 system you have no choice your your tax dollars go to feminism it does
00:38:18.680 um bonnie blue's power couple is diddy yeah they should
00:38:30.200 i don't know if aids is rampant in the u.s i think it's rampant amongst like gay guys
00:38:37.720 but do you know what i know something's rampant when it starts to when i meet people i know that have it
00:38:43.800 and i've met people that have caught incurable stuff
00:38:51.560 and that they're pretty devastated about that
00:38:57.480 but i've never met anyone with aids so i don't know maybe i do know people and i just don't know
00:39:01.720 i would love to talk to a sex worker about stds
00:39:17.480 no do you know what they're saying oh you must have if you're worried about catching okay
00:39:22.600 if i screwed we said i had to go down the bonnie blue route that's a thousand you don't think okay
00:39:31.720 i'm just saying you would be surprised me too i'm petrified stds that's why
00:39:40.600 yeah i mean i don't understand how people aren't more like i'll hear people's escapades and i'm like
00:39:47.560 aren't you kind of nervous that something's gonna i really want to get a sex worker to call in
00:40:01.080 yeah this is why i knocked out on the um on the head too many std women out there
00:40:06.040 i never caught anything two checks too flimpant yeah
00:40:12.840 yeah the risk versus rewards i know sex is
00:40:15.800 it's fun it's a good time so i see i see why people risk it but some people i'm like
00:40:20.600 you guys are just going crazy like
00:40:25.880 anyways guys um it's been a good 40 minutes today we have to do a short show
00:40:30.440 um because it's friday night i got planned sorry sorry guys sorry guys i got stuff to do
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