JustPearlyThings - May 07, 2023


Only Fans Manager EXPOSES The HARSH Reality Of Male Life

Topics
ambition building up as a man
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Birkin Andrew Tate Burton
Men On The Panel Schooled This Emotional Simp 46 Year Old Bimbo Got DESTROYED With Statistics

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

227.41

Word count

2,237

Sentence count

282

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

32

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about what it takes to be a good man, how to deal with the average man, and why women should not date a man who is broke. We also talk about how a man has to work hard to be good at his job, and how to get a girl to take the time to do the same.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 You can have Romeo spitting the most beautiful poetry you've ever heard to you every single day,
00:00:04.640 showing up on time to dates, giving you gifts.
00:00:07.960 If that man doesn't have something outside of words, you will not give him the time of day.
00:00:13.060 You will dry up.
00:00:14.360 And let's just be honest.
00:00:15.640 Point blank period.
00:00:16.400 I hope you don't.
00:00:18.020 Like, come on.
00:00:18.600 We should not be dating broke.
00:00:20.140 If you had a daughter, you would not tell her to date a guy that's completely broke.
00:00:24.920 I think this whole...
00:00:28.000 What is the ambition?
00:00:29.220 It's money later.
00:00:30.260 That's what you mean, because he only has so much time.
00:00:32.700 When we say ambition, that's all it means.
00:00:34.100 You have to make money eventually.
00:00:35.260 You're going to do something eventually. 0.91
00:00:36.780 Now, I'm not saying that women, we all need to date a guy that makes a shit ton of money. 0.98
00:00:41.700 But it's like to say we can't gold dig a little bit.
00:00:45.420 It's just like we don't want to get broke.
00:00:47.420 If a rich man wants to take me out and love me and bury me, yeah.
00:00:51.820 Baby, I'm here.
00:00:53.300 And the thing is, I don't even think it's about his money, bro.
00:00:55.320 I don't think it's about money.
00:00:56.900 You know what I'm saying?
00:00:57.780 Go on, go on.
00:00:58.620 This is what I'm saying.
00:01:00.260 I like a man with ambition.
00:01:02.360 You obviously got to have some sort of money.
00:01:04.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:01:05.280 Because you can't just be broke and have ambitions.
00:01:08.700 You know what I mean?
00:01:10.040 You're just a bit lost.
00:01:11.020 You don't know yourself clearly.
00:01:12.120 But, like, if you have drive, I will be ambitious with you and I'll make sure you get to that place.
00:01:19.040 But how long does that last?
00:01:20.880 Because a man can have ambition and do nothing.
00:01:23.160 That's what I'm saying.
00:01:23.980 If you do nothing, then you're just giving me words. 0.99
00:01:26.940 You're not actually showing me shit. 0.99
00:01:28.240 I was like, let's just say, oh, I want to do this and that. 0.99
00:01:32.860 And I'm making action and I'm trying to make it happen.
00:01:36.400 So the man still has to perform.
00:01:38.240 So ambition is sort of a temporary acceptance for you.
00:01:43.140 I'll accept ambition as long as it leads somewhere.
00:01:46.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:47.000 But if I'm in here with you for six months to a year and you haven't transformed this into something else, then I'm going to leave you.
00:01:53.180 So, again, men...
00:01:53.820 Just not working hard enough.
00:01:55.140 That's not about working hard.
00:01:56.020 Some men just aren't destined to do anything with their lives.
00:01:58.700 That's the average... 1.00
00:02:00.020 Yeah, some guys are fucking lazy. 1.00
00:02:00.440 That's the average man. 0.99
00:02:01.560 And that's what this podcast talks about.
00:02:03.900 The acceptance of the average man.
00:02:05.660 And why I ask for the question of the respect, the lack of respect for a man.
00:02:10.020 If you want something bad enough, you'll go get it.
00:02:11.980 Listen, bro.
00:02:12.840 For a man, it takes long to build himself up.
00:02:14.840 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:02:15.300 Exactly.
00:02:16.000 It takes a long time.
00:02:17.440 You can't just get to somewhere overnight.
00:02:18.860 Like you said, you're showing action.
00:02:20.320 You're showing action.
00:02:21.280 It's going to take him a long time.
00:02:22.200 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:02:22.580 Yeah, like showing action, like little steps.
00:02:24.460 Little steps.
00:02:24.780 That's what I'm talking about.
00:02:25.680 I'm not talking like...
00:02:26.540 Are you willing to wait for at least five years?
00:02:28.540 Exactly.
00:02:28.860 Six years, seven years, eight years?
00:02:30.220 No, I wouldn't say five years.
00:02:31.500 You get done now or never.
00:02:32.520 You want to get done now.
00:02:33.220 It doesn't happen that way.
00:02:34.240 It's harder for a guy.
00:02:34.960 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:02:35.760 Like he has to build himself up, get respect, be known, become known, be respected, get
00:02:40.820 the money, get more money, get even more money where you can look after a family.
00:02:44.780 That takes a long time.
00:02:45.680 I can't lie.
00:02:46.240 Birkin.
00:02:46.560 He will think it's a get rich quick scheme.
00:02:50.540 He will think it's a get rich quick scheme.
00:02:53.960 It's not.
00:02:54.540 For a man, it's hard.
00:02:55.660 And you've got to understand how hard it is for a man.
00:02:58.080 Well, you can say about Andrew Tate, isn't it?
00:03:00.140 Like he was nothing at 24 years old.
00:03:02.280 Exactly.
00:03:02.520 And now looking at him and all the women wanting him now.
00:03:04.500 And how many years did I take?
00:03:06.220 I think at least, what, how many years?
00:03:07.380 Yeah, five years.
00:03:07.820 Five, six, seven years.
00:03:08.620 Five to six years.
00:03:09.040 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:10.160 So building yourself up as a man takes years. 1.00
00:03:12.980 Like I don't care if you're like fucking 19 and you work in some bullshit McDonald's. 1.00
00:03:17.840 Yeah? 1.00
00:03:18.060 I would tell you not to get to find the girl.
00:03:20.300 Because when you find the girl and you work in McDonald's, then everyone in McDonald's
00:03:23.940 is a threat to you. 0.86
00:03:25.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:25.880 Like let's say that your girl's going through the drive-thru and there's McDonald's workers there. 0.87
00:03:29.180 They're all a threat, bruv. 0.96
00:03:30.640 They're a threat.
00:03:31.300 He's yours.
00:03:31.700 But you have to risk.
00:03:34.060 Because if you would date the McDonald's worker, then you would date another McDonald's worker.
00:03:38.180 So it's like if you're a top like 10% or 5% guy, the odds of her replacing you is like,
00:03:44.840 what is she going to do?
00:03:46.080 But that's the problem with like sleeping up.
00:03:48.840 You know what I mean?
00:03:49.360 Because if you're a five, a six, or a seven and you sleep with an eight, nine, or ten, now you think you're on that level.
00:03:54.360 And any guy that you date after is going to not feel like enough.
00:03:57.880 This is why so many women won't date average men, even though they're average women.
00:04:01.180 Like you don't see, like there's a stream where they asked them, would you date a bus driver?
00:04:05.980 This is a woman with a kid. 1.00
00:04:07.340 And she said no, but this girl had a child.
00:04:09.420 So she's below average in the fact that she has a kid. 0.99
00:04:12.380 Because when you come into a kid with a relationship, you're immediately below average when it comes to women. 1.00
00:04:16.060 It gets difficult from there.
00:04:17.420 Yeah, because now he has to deal with your kid and she wouldn't date the average guy.
00:04:21.880 And you could say, you know, we don't blame them, but like we don't live in la-la land.
00:04:25.300 Someone's got to date average men.
00:04:27.120 You know what I mean?
00:04:27.500 Like not every girl can do that. 1.00
00:04:28.760 I think the reality of the world is, listen, the reality of the world is, yeah, you're either a broke guy and no girl wants you.
00:04:36.740 Because let's be real, no one wants a broke guy.
00:04:38.600 No matter what he says, no matter what he says to you, the poems, the letters, anything doesn't matter, bro.
00:04:43.340 You're broke.
00:04:44.140 Nothing matters. 0.99
00:04:44.740 But same as if you're an ugly girl, no offence. 1.00
00:04:48.200 Like no offence to women. 1.00
00:04:49.420 If you're an ugly girl, then you don't matter either. 1.00
00:04:52.360 Especially if you're fat, that's the worst, bro. 1.00
00:04:53.920 No one cares about you. 0.99
00:04:54.320 I'm not even fat phobic. 0.99
00:04:55.260 I'm just saying, let's be real, yeah, in the average world, if you're fat and you're ugly, no one cares about you. 0.95
00:05:02.080 Especially, same thing as if you're broke and you're a guy, no one cares about you. 0.95
00:05:06.460 It doesn't matter about your looks. 0.99
00:05:07.540 But if a girl's ugly... 1.00
00:05:08.260 You've got to go and earn that respect. 0.86
00:05:09.560 Exactly, exactly.
00:05:10.700 And that's just harsh truth of reality.
00:05:12.760 You have to get used to it.
00:05:13.560 So he spoke about creating your value and how much more it's difficult for men.
00:05:18.220 You've got to understand.
00:05:19.220 Like, Birkin, you have Twitter, you said, right?
00:05:21.180 Yeah.
00:05:21.520 How many followers do you have?
00:05:22.980 Nine point something K.
00:05:24.480 How long did it take you to get that?
00:05:26.400 Six months.
00:05:27.320 Six months.
00:05:27.940 All right.
00:05:28.620 Six months.
00:05:29.160 That's still solid, bro.
00:05:31.120 No.
00:05:31.720 Solid.
00:05:32.820 But, all right.
00:05:33.660 So for all you beautiful women here on this panel, you've got to understand that you guys
00:05:37.540 don't have to present anything outside of that to gain 10 times that.
00:05:41.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:42.160 You can post nothing but booty pics, bikini pics, living your life on vacation, and you're
00:05:48.420 going to have 100,000, a million followers.
00:05:50.340 And you don't present any personality.
00:05:53.100 It's just how we live.
00:05:53.920 There's got hundreds of thousands of guys liking and commenting on your photo for nothing
00:05:57.860 but your beauty.
00:05:59.080 You have, you look at these IG models, they offer nothing but looks.
00:06:02.980 You listen to the IG, hold on, hold on.
00:06:05.460 They listen to their lives, and they don't say anything.
00:06:09.680 We just sit there and chill.
00:06:10.540 Hold on.
00:06:11.140 Hold on.
00:06:11.540 Let me chill.
00:06:12.540 There's no personality given.
00:06:14.480 There's no interest given.
00:06:15.680 It's just them on camera talking in a half top, two piece.
00:06:19.600 There's nothing outside of beauty that these IG models present.
00:06:23.080 So the fact that you can get on camera and just be without actually showing any value
00:06:29.780 and gaining a million followers is what Burton's talking about.
00:06:33.280 When you have to grind, for me to get 100,000 followers, I would have to grind.
00:06:38.360 I would have to present value.
00:06:39.920 Women and men around the world would have to connect with the message that I'm saying.
00:06:43.800 It's completely hard.
00:06:45.820 I don't want to do that.
00:06:48.420 It's completely hard.
00:06:50.120 You post a booty pic right now, you will get tons of money.
00:06:53.080 I can post a video saying the most empowering thing in the world.
00:06:58.640 I won't be valued as a woman.
00:07:00.060 You will be valued by men, not by all men.
00:07:02.800 I actually agree with you.
00:07:03.940 Thank you.
00:07:04.420 They've done studies on this where it's like they have a pretty girl saying the same thing
00:07:09.880 as a guy, and it's like the girl always gets more views.
00:07:12.760 Exactly.
00:07:14.060 Of course.
00:07:14.500 Of course.
00:07:14.520 Of course.
00:07:14.540 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:15.040 That's in human nature, but it depends on who you are as a guy.
00:07:18.320 No, but what I'm saying is the fact that it's easier to you.
00:07:22.820 Yeah, but you're commenting on my point.
00:07:24.320 No, but what I'm saying is that men are easy.
00:07:27.100 Just give him a second.
00:07:27.960 Let him go.
00:07:28.460 Let him go.
00:07:28.780 Let me talk, bro.
00:07:29.320 Yeah, let him go.
00:07:29.880 Just go for a second.
00:07:30.440 Do I talk with you, bro?
00:07:31.360 No, but it was my point that you were commenting on.
00:07:33.440 No, I'm not.
00:07:33.800 Go ahead.
00:07:34.100 Do I talk with you?
00:07:34.960 Yes or no?
00:07:35.880 Go ahead, bro.
00:07:36.860 Go ahead.
00:07:37.740 Go ahead.
00:07:38.100 He made me forget what I was talking about, but anyway.
00:07:40.400 Okay.
00:07:40.880 Cool.
00:07:41.180 It's harder for a girl.
00:07:42.000 It's a little cool.
00:07:43.140 A lot of girls are out there on the market right now, yeah? 1.00
00:07:45.140 On TikTok, Instagram, so it's even harder for girls. 0.97
00:07:47.700 And it's even harder for guys.
00:07:49.300 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:49.820 It depends on who you are.
00:07:51.360 Let's say, like, any guy can go on TikTok.
00:07:53.320 Who are they going to watch the most?
00:07:54.860 Who do you think they're going to watch the most?
00:07:56.140 The woman.
00:07:56.660 The most?
00:07:57.080 No, bro.
00:07:57.660 I'm talking about guys.
00:07:58.660 Oh.
00:07:58.920 Who are they going to watch the most? 1.00
00:07:59.640 The guy that has the cars, that has the fucking women, that has the cash, that has the respect. 0.99
00:08:04.800 Who are you going to watch? 1.00
00:08:05.840 The girls that have the most beauty. 0.82
00:08:07.920 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:08.520 So it's getting harder and harder.
00:08:09.620 There's too many guys on TikTok, social media.
00:08:11.440 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:12.860 It's getting harder for the average fat guy that's broke to get famous.
00:08:16.580 Do you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:08:17.420 Unless you're fucking Nivocado, whatever his name, Avocado or whatever. 1.00
00:08:21.200 No one respects my man. 1.00
00:08:23.700 Nivocado, Avocado.
00:08:25.240 I don't even know what that is.
00:08:27.040 I'm confused what you're arguing.
00:08:28.120 I think I know who you're talking about.
00:08:29.440 I'm confused what you're arguing.
00:08:30.860 Do you think it's equally as hard to get big on social media, man versus woman?
00:08:34.460 No, it's obviously harder for guys to get big.
00:08:36.000 Okay, so you're great.
00:08:37.040 But in overall, speaking of ruly, guys, you need to be a specific type of man to get big
00:08:43.680 on social media.
00:08:44.480 Right.
00:08:44.840 And for a girl, you need to be a specific type of beautiful to get big on social media. 1.00
00:08:47.540 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:48.340 But I do think that...
00:08:49.440 It's not overruled.
00:08:50.260 I don't think so.
00:08:51.020 There's nerds and dudes that are just outcasts and socially awkward dudes that they thrive
00:08:56.440 in their lane.
00:08:57.020 Okay, they're respected.
00:08:58.740 By who?
00:08:59.020 From people in their lane.
00:09:00.080 Yeah, then by nerds.
00:09:01.200 By certain people, though, not by...
00:09:03.640 Exactly.
00:09:04.380 But you're talking about the masses? 0.99
00:09:05.400 Like, fucking, like, let me tell you something. 0.99
00:09:07.700 Like, feminists, no offense, feminists, trans girls are, like, looked up to by trans girls 1.00
00:09:14.500 and feminists. 0.95
00:09:15.180 Easy on.
00:09:15.800 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:09:16.720 So there's a market for everything, but the biggest guys are always the ones with power,
00:09:21.760 respect, fame, money.
00:09:23.280 That's your point?
00:09:24.280 And the biggest, the biggest girls in the world that I'm most respected are the ones
00:09:28.500 with beauty, looks, and that's it.
00:09:31.440 No, if that's your point, then I agree 100%.
00:09:34.020 There's a lot of women out there that have that. 1.00
00:09:35.060 I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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