JustPearlyThings - April 16, 2023


Only Fans Model Reveals Women’s DARKEST Fantasies


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9 minutes

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11

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3

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In this episode, we discuss the differences between masculine and feminine facial features, and how they affect a woman's attraction to men. We also talk about the "friend zone" and whether or not a guy can make it out of it.

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00:00:00.000 So this article discusses a study that found women who take hormonal contraceptives
00:00:05.640 prefer men with less masculine features such as a softer jar line and smaller brow ridges
00:00:11.740 compared to women who are not taking contraceptives.
00:00:15.800 The preference may be due to the way hormonal contraceptives affect a woman's hormones 0.97
00:00:21.720 and the type of partner she sleeps with during her menstrual cycles.
00:00:25.380 This study suggests that the use of hormonal contraceptives may alter women's preferences for mates 0.99
00:00:33.100 which could have implications for attraction and relationship outcomes
00:00:37.140 aka she meets a man while on the pill, gets married, decides to have a child and gets off the pill
00:00:41.420 to have a baby only to become disgusted with her partner leading to divorce and infidelity. 0.92
00:00:48.020 How do you think a woman's natural menstrual cycle affects her attraction to masculine versus feminine facial features?
00:00:59.920 Is there different types of men that you're attracted to based on like where you are in your cycle?
00:01:06.660 I mean I think definitely you can, I think it's not about different facial features
00:01:12.200 but when you are ovulating and you're ready to procreate
00:01:15.860 I think you definitely, there's definitely, I find men more attractive.
00:01:20.680 Like walking down the street you'd be like, I'd walk down the same street twice
00:01:23.520 and if I'm ovulating I wouldn't see any guys.
00:01:24.900 So if a guy takes you on a date he should like track.
00:01:27.420 Yeah, check my cycles.
00:01:31.040 But I don't think it, if I've not noticed, I mean it's quite a nuance isn't it
00:01:34.280 to know what kind of men you're interested in.
00:01:36.220 Have you ever met a guy and not found him attractive but then found him attractive later?
00:01:42.200 She's like, she's like, couldn't be me, couldn't be me.
00:01:47.300 I mean, I know like people grow on you but I think there has to be an initial spark of something, yeah.
00:01:53.160 Have you ever had a guy make it out of the friend zone?
00:01:56.100 No.
00:01:56.700 No, never.
00:01:57.640 Once you put him there he's...
00:01:58.860 Yeah, I've had guys I've dated that then have gone into the friend zone
00:02:01.520 but not the other way around.
00:02:03.680 What about you?
00:02:05.580 Are you always attracted to the same guy or does your type change?
00:02:08.960 I wouldn't say my type changes off of my hormonal state.
00:02:13.860 I think it would maybe just change off of maybe experiences or things I might see other
00:02:18.700 people go through or I don't know, like stuff like that.
00:02:20.760 But I wouldn't say it changes off of my hormonal state.
00:02:23.500 I think my level of attraction to anyone might change but my type doesn't change.
00:02:29.340 Do you prefer more masculine features or more of a pretty boy?
00:02:32.320 Yeah, like a pretty boy.
00:02:35.320 A pretty boy.
00:02:36.060 Yeah.
00:02:37.060 I don't know, there's just some about them.
00:02:39.160 Actually, I'm curious because you said you're on birth control.
00:02:42.300 Yeah.
00:02:43.620 Pretty boy or masculine? 0.54
00:02:44.940 I was going to say masculine.
00:02:46.280 Masculine and you're not.
00:02:47.800 Okay, I'm just curious.
00:02:49.500 Masculine or pretty boy?
00:02:50.900 Pretty boy.
00:02:51.640 Pretty boy, okay.
00:02:53.200 Masculine.
00:02:53.960 Masculine.
00:02:55.060 I'm not, I'll do it both.
00:02:56.640 I'm not very like looks oriented in general.
00:02:59.460 Okay, it's money first.
00:03:00.740 Well, people can grow on me.
00:03:02.260 I've definitely dated people I've not been attracted to initially.
00:03:04.940 Yeah, how did that go?
00:03:06.540 Fine.
00:03:07.060 Like with my boyfriend now, I didn't know what he looked like when we started talking.
00:03:11.160 Really?
00:03:11.480 How?
00:03:12.660 Because he was just somebody that messaged me and I didn't, he didn't know any pictures.
00:03:15.700 I didn't know anything about him.
00:03:16.920 Wait, so he messaged you on Instagram, I'm guessing?
00:03:19.880 Like through my Discord because I do Twitch.
00:03:22.200 Okay.
00:03:23.000 So like I started speaking to him through them and we just got talking for like a week.
00:03:26.520 We had phone calls and I didn't know who he looked like.
00:03:28.520 That's a cute story.
00:03:31.320 Yeah, I'm very attracted to him.
00:03:32.900 But like if I saw him walking down the street, would I like be like, oh my gosh, this man
00:03:37.120 is drop dead gorgeous?
00:03:38.360 Maybe not.
00:03:39.060 I don't know.
00:03:39.740 Like that's hard to say because I didn't know.
00:03:41.380 But like I was instantly attracted to him from when I met him because I had all this like
00:03:45.500 build up of like getting to know him.
00:03:47.920 But yeah, I've definitely dated men I've not been like initially attracted to and then
00:03:50.360 formed attraction based on how we get on and the things we're doing.
00:03:53.480 Who here has had a guy make it out of the friend zone that you weren't attracted to?
00:03:57.040 Raise your hand.
00:03:57.640 So you, yes.
00:03:58.780 Right.
00:03:58.980 I'm guessing.
00:03:59.660 Yeah.
00:03:59.920 Yeah.
00:04:00.500 Yeah.
00:04:01.120 Okay.
00:04:02.840 Okay.
00:04:03.280 So one for five.
00:04:05.140 So odds for a guy.
00:04:07.500 It's not good if he's in the friend zone.
00:04:09.000 What about you?
00:04:12.620 Have you ever made it out of the friend zone?
00:04:14.920 I'm not even trying to be arrogant.
00:04:16.720 I'm not a friend zone guy.
00:04:19.560 You've never been in the friend zone?
00:04:20.500 Never been in the friend zone.
00:04:21.620 Really?
00:04:21.920 Every girl you've pursued has been into you? 0.88
00:04:24.840 No, like don't get me wrong.
00:04:26.860 Do you know what?
00:04:27.480 The one example I can think of, I'm not saying this, obviously, I've obviously gone up to
00:04:32.100 a girl and she hasn't fancied me or whatever.
00:04:33.880 But like the one example.
00:04:34.580 You won't stay there.
00:04:35.480 You're just young.
00:04:35.920 No, I just move on.
00:04:37.080 I say fair enough, respectfully move on.
00:04:38.620 But I remember one girl I got with and this is a bit of a wild story, but she wanted me
00:04:46.680 to be more aggressive.
00:04:48.200 And I was like, do you know what?
00:04:49.760 That's just not me.
00:04:50.700 That's not what I'm into.
00:04:52.480 And she actually lost attraction for me because of that.
00:04:57.140 So yeah, that's my one story.
00:05:00.700 That's weird.
00:05:01.880 No, I think that's more common than you think.
00:05:05.680 I've dated a couple of girls that have said some wild stuff. 1.00
00:05:08.260 And I've been like, well, no, I don't really want to go that way because of all the things
00:05:11.920 that you kind of said, like if something goes wrong further down the line and they, you
00:05:16.320 know, they say something against you, you could be in deep water.
00:05:20.020 So, yeah.
00:05:21.620 Well, that's the, I mean, I had a male OnlyFans model on here. 1.00
00:05:26.720 And you know what he said?
00:05:27.980 His number one request was, guess, from women.
00:05:31.520 Because he had women, people watching him.
00:05:33.900 That she doesn't post her body online?
00:05:37.420 No, no.
00:05:38.020 Like for, for Hughes and OnlyFans model.
00:05:40.120 So women requested something of him.
00:05:42.600 Like for private video or like.
00:05:44.280 Is it like choking?
00:05:45.480 I don't know.
00:05:46.200 Abs and like sauce or something?
00:05:48.660 Abs and sauce.
00:05:49.420 You think choking?
00:05:50.560 What do you, what do you think it was?
00:05:51.700 I don't know.
00:05:54.920 Like, what's that thing called when that, they're very aggressive, like with toys?
00:06:01.180 Do you know what I mean?
00:06:02.120 I'm not saying tantric.
00:06:03.320 I don't know.
00:06:04.160 Oh, like, what, like BDSM?
00:06:07.800 Close.
00:06:08.380 You're getting closer.
00:06:09.320 Close.
00:06:09.980 Go ahead.
00:06:10.680 What do you think?
00:06:11.400 I have the words.
00:06:12.140 I can see it and I can't say it, but it's just that kind of, I think that tantric way
00:06:15.680 of like a dark room or things like that, like that type of thing.
00:06:19.500 What do you think it was?
00:06:20.420 But he's on his own in a room, so he can't, the situation.
00:06:24.140 No, he works with other people.
00:06:25.680 So what, like spanking or something then?
00:06:28.140 Grape.
00:06:28.700 Grape, yeah.
00:06:29.460 Oh, God.
00:06:30.400 That's what I wanted to say.
00:06:32.060 What's the?
00:06:32.720 Two very pretty girls that I dated fully said that was a fantasy of this.
00:06:37.580 And I thought, wow.
00:06:39.260 I mean, what's the number one, like, woman's sexual book, Fifty Shades of Grey?
00:06:45.680 Mm-hmm.
00:06:46.500 I mean, I've never read it.
00:06:47.740 I've just heard things.
00:06:48.500 I've never watched it before.
00:06:50.420 Oh, that's crazy.
00:06:51.260 That's crazy, right?
00:06:52.220 Yeah.
00:06:53.400 Yeah, but it goes back to, like, we always needed men to protect us.
00:06:57.220 So if a guy's aggressive, he would have been able to protect us back in the day.
00:07:01.220 Yeah.
00:07:02.000 So there's like, there's something biological there.
00:07:04.480 You don't, you don't just, just because we're in a more modern society, you don't get rid
00:07:07.740 of our biological roots.
00:07:09.080 Yeah, monkey brain. 0.91
00:07:10.620 I do think that was very sad, though. 0.83
00:07:12.280 Yeah.
00:07:13.060 You think it's sad?
00:07:14.000 Yeah, I do think it's sad.
00:07:15.020 And like, also, like, I should, to be totally honest, I was part of a demographic of women 0.98
00:07:19.480 that when I was younger, I thought that I was supposed to want those things.
00:07:23.000 And it wasn't until I got a little bit older that I was like, oh, I don't have to have
00:07:26.380 violent sex.
00:07:28.020 Like, I can just, like, have sex. 0.97
00:07:28.880 Why did you think you were supposed to want it? 0.99
00:07:30.900 Because of corn.
00:07:32.440 Oh.
00:07:32.640 Because of all the corn that I'd seen in my life.
00:07:35.240 Oh.
00:07:35.360 I thought, like, women are supposed to have, like, violent. 1.00
00:07:37.180 There was a documentary on that.
00:07:38.140 I remember seeing, like, a form of documentary with parents coming out about corn saying
00:07:44.980 that what is exposed on the internet, they're scared for their kids to go up and see because
00:07:49.560 they couldn't, they would never want their kids to experience that.
00:07:53.880 And it's almost like it's pushed you to think that is okay for a man to do that, or that
00:07:58.540 is okay to do that without asking a question.
00:08:01.420 And I think that's the borderline with men as well.
00:08:03.200 I think it's hard with men and women because, I mean, obviously, I've got two brothers and,
00:08:07.320 you know, I have cousins and stuff.
00:08:08.900 And I always say, like, sometimes, actually just let a woman show that she wants you. 0.97
00:08:14.860 So there's no, there's no question of you didn't ask, or I don't know if I was emotionally
00:08:20.940 ready.
00:08:21.280 And I say, we're, I say we're quite more emotional with men, like, than men.
00:08:25.160 So I feel like sometimes we might think we want something until it happens.
00:08:28.780 And sometimes when you're taking more baby steps in a process, we have more time to back
00:08:33.180 out.
00:08:33.440 And I think if you're not given that time, or a man doesn't allow you to have that emotional
00:08:39.640 moment, sometimes the lines can be blurred.
00:08:42.700 And I think women that don't want to take accountability for saying no to things, or to 1.00
00:08:48.440 maybe be a bit more open about things, then push that anger or like regret feeling onto
00:08:56.400 the man, which then turns into great.
00:08:58.780 Do you see what I mean?
00:08:59.360 And I think there's a fine line, they regret the sex that they had, or whatever they did,
00:09:04.300 and then they turn it into great.
00:09:05.900 A hundred percent.
00:09:06.480 And I think that, you know, how can I put it?
00:09:09.700 Like, they do that because they don't like the fact that they're angry at themselves.
00:09:14.200 And I guess we, they're not taking accountability for that.
00:09:16.740 And it goes back to society where women are pushed to kind of be in that bubble of being 1.00
00:09:21.540 okay with not doing that.
00:09:23.260 And it is wrong.
00:09:23.920 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:09:30.100 on this platform.
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