JustPearlyThings - May 23, 2023


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In this episode, we talk about the porn industry and the impact it can have on our children. We also talk about how porn can affect our children and what we can do to prepare them for the world of porn.

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00:00:00.220 Okay, anybody else who does OF want to answer that? Anybody?
00:00:03.780 Kirsten?
00:00:04.480 I mean, I think it'll definitely affect children.
00:00:06.880 Like I said before, I've had one of my old managements, she was huge on Pornhub,
00:00:11.120 and her kids are severely bullied because of it. 0.99
00:00:14.020 It definitely will.
00:00:14.840 I know when I get to that point, when I do eventually want to have kids,
00:00:17.720 I'm going to do my best to wipe myself from the internet,
00:00:20.260 but you know what, I made the decisions that I made, and I'm okay with that.
00:00:23.640 I think it's just also having a conversation with your kids
00:00:26.120 and sitting them down and letting them know beforehand
00:00:28.600 because I would rather sit my kids down before it gets to a certain age
00:00:33.240 where people start going on these websites and letting them know
00:00:36.800 so they're aware of it and they can kind of get a thicker skin
00:00:39.240 before they walk into something that they're not aware of.
00:00:41.200 Yeah, kind of control the narrative a little bit.
00:00:42.980 Yeah, exactly.
00:00:43.460 Have an open and safe space to be able to communicate.
00:00:46.540 An open line of communication for your child is super important.
00:00:49.000 My mom was a stripper, and it was in a small town, very local.
00:00:54.620 People knew that she did that. 1.00
00:00:56.340 And my mom was also a very young mom, so I always joked that I had previous experience
00:01:05.340 at a strip club because I was in my mom's womb while she was the stripper or whatever.
00:01:10.240 So I don't know.
00:01:13.520 I just feel as if it's like, as long as you have that open line of communication,
00:01:17.440 I'm not saying that that makes it any easier on the child's experience
00:01:21.800 because obviously the other kids aren't having that same conversation with their parents.
00:01:25.920 But as long as, you know, you're open and they're not finding out through the other kids.
00:01:33.980 Yeah, word of mouth.
00:01:34.800 It does prepare them.
00:01:35.540 Yeah, and I mean, it's something that, like, we're going to have to deal with
00:01:39.460 when it gets to that point, whether it's eight months from now
00:01:42.620 or ten years down the line, you know?
00:01:48.080 Are you going to teach your daughters about the industry?
00:01:50.920 And if so, what will you teach them about it?
00:01:52.840 Oh, absolutely, 100%.
00:01:54.280 I mean, I'm not just going to be like, hey, here's the porn world,
00:01:58.300 and, you know, you should definitely do it.
00:02:00.520 And here's me.
00:02:01.960 Do you want that for them?
00:02:03.840 I am not going to judge my children at all on what they decide to do
00:02:11.100 because I don't have the support of my parents at all,
00:02:14.620 and I don't talk to them, and I always said growing up
00:02:17.040 that I would be completely opposite of what my parents have done for me.
00:02:22.580 So I will always have my kids back.
00:02:24.660 I will give them guidance if they do decide to sit me down one day
00:02:28.540 and say that they do want to get into the industry.
00:02:30.920 I would give them my experience and what I went through,
00:02:34.300 and, you know, I didn't have that guidance.
00:02:37.000 My mom did work for kind of like Playboy.
00:02:40.340 It was a different magazine.
00:02:41.800 Hustler?
00:02:42.420 Perfect 10.
00:02:43.580 Okay.
00:02:44.080 Yeah, it was like an old magazine in the 2000s,
00:02:46.340 and I, like, grew up in that house pretty much,
00:02:48.920 and it was exactly like the Playboy house.
00:02:51.100 No way.
00:02:52.260 Yeah, so it was the Perfect 10.
00:02:53.520 How old were you?
00:02:53.740 I was young.
00:02:55.360 So it was like the Perfect 10 house,
00:02:58.020 so there was, like, a bunch of models walking around everywhere.
00:03:00.020 They lived at the house.
00:03:01.080 Some of them, I remember Easter's,
00:03:03.740 they would have, like, wrestling matches outside.
00:03:05.620 They were, like, naked wrestling and stuff,
00:03:07.900 and, like, I grew up around the sex worker industry.
00:03:12.600 Yeah.
00:03:14.560 So, again, I am going to sit my daughter down,
00:03:17.660 and if she decides that that's what she wants to do,
00:03:20.320 I will always be supportive,
00:03:22.360 and I will guide her as much as I can
00:03:24.040 to make the wrong or right decisions.
00:03:25.480 Do you want that, though?
00:03:26.440 That's what I'm asking.
00:03:27.200 Of course you would.
00:03:28.660 You know, you would love your child.
00:03:30.180 Oh, of course.
00:03:30.920 But do you want that for them?
00:03:32.100 That's what I want to know.
00:03:32.820 I mean, I don't think it's the most ideal job, no,
00:03:38.020 but, again, if that is what they want to do,
00:03:39.900 I will 100% support them,
00:03:41.440 and I will 100% have their back.
00:03:43.280 But, again, I will give them the experience that I went through
00:03:46.260 and the good things and the bad things.
00:03:48.380 And I think that every person can agree
00:03:52.420 that they want to do more for their child
00:03:55.240 than their parent did for them,
00:03:56.680 and they also want more for their child
00:03:58.700 than they had for themselves, right?
00:04:00.940 And I think it comes down to the kind of life
00:04:02.860 that your child wants, you know?
00:04:04.440 I mean, some porn stars have been offered experiences
00:04:07.040 that they wouldn't otherwise have had, right?
00:04:08.780 And it's just a matter.
00:04:10.300 And even with, you know, me and my journey
00:04:12.120 as an OnlyFans model, like, to be honest,
00:04:13.780 I haven't, through my experience as a model,
00:04:17.060 because, you know, and I haven't been subject
00:04:18.560 to, like, some of the toxic aspects of the industry,
00:04:20.720 you know, I've been in charge.
00:04:22.320 It's been really a positive experience for me
00:04:24.740 and a really empowering one.
00:04:26.340 And it's offered me, I mean, just through social media,
00:04:29.340 so many, like, access to experiences
00:04:31.140 that I'm really grateful for incredible freedoms,
00:04:33.900 and I absolutely love my life that I've built
00:04:35.900 and the opportunities that I have.
00:04:37.700 And entrepreneurially, I feel like a lot of potential.
00:04:40.720 Would it be worth it if you never got married?
00:04:44.280 Well, I mean, I've never really been
00:04:45.880 one of those girls who's, like...
00:04:47.300 Okay, so you don't care.
00:04:48.360 I mean, I...
00:04:49.400 Single, unmarried women 0.97
00:04:49.480 are the happiest demographic.
00:04:51.100 I mean, like, what do you want your life
00:04:52.200 to look like at 65?
00:04:54.240 A lot of friendship, a lot of self-expression,
00:04:57.240 authentic self-expression.
00:04:59.680 Because, like, I mean, do what you want,
00:05:01.400 but, like, my thing is a lot of times
00:05:02.640 people make these decisions
00:05:03.700 and then whine about the consequences later.
00:05:06.200 Well, yeah, absolutely.
00:05:07.500 I mean, I hear that.
00:05:08.540 I think it really just depends
00:05:09.580 on how you go into anything.
00:05:10.900 And, like, even just to take it back to, like...
00:05:12.980 I mean, like, you know, anything.
00:05:14.740 Even if you take it back
00:05:15.360 to the original conversation
00:05:16.140 about, you know, even escorting.
00:05:18.280 I'm like, I think when it comes to any part
00:05:20.700 of, like, you know, sexual objectification,
00:05:23.100 it's really, like, how your perspective is.
00:05:26.740 The way that you go into
00:05:27.540 and experience that situation
00:05:28.760 determines whether or not
00:05:30.360 you feel power from it
00:05:31.900 or you give power through it
00:05:33.180 and you lose power.
00:05:34.280 And whether it becomes, like,
00:05:35.320 traumatic or empowering.
00:05:37.020 Like, they're two different things.
00:05:38.040 So, you know, so it's just a really matter
00:05:40.420 of personal preference and opinion.
00:05:42.020 My life, I've never wanted
00:05:43.040 a normal, typical fucking life.
00:05:45.300 And I haven't had one.
00:05:46.660 And do I want what most people want at 65?
00:05:49.120 Probably not.
00:05:50.580 I also feel like I would rather,
00:05:53.080 if I was saying where I would be at 60,
00:05:55.440 I would rather be by myself at 60 or 65
00:05:58.420 and genuinely happy with myself
00:06:00.040 and where I have come in my life
00:06:01.700 than be in a toxic relationship
00:06:03.080 in a husband or whatever.
00:06:03.760 But why are those the only two options?
00:06:05.660 I do only fans
00:06:07.780 and I'm in a happy relationship.
00:06:09.160 Obviously, we have our ups and downs.
00:06:10.480 But, like, overall,
00:06:11.260 I have a very happy relationship.
00:06:13.460 Good for you.
00:06:14.800 But I feel like you're saying over here
00:06:16.100 that you can't have a happy relationship.
00:06:17.700 You're never going to get married
00:06:18.500 if you do only fans.
00:06:19.200 I think it's less likely.
00:06:20.320 My boyfriend's very supportive.
00:06:21.200 I don't do only fans,
00:06:22.140 but I dance and he's very supportive.
00:06:23.400 You know, I think it's less likely.
00:06:25.200 And it's, I mean, you can.
00:06:26.420 I mean, you guys are young, though.
00:06:27.780 You don't know what life's going to look like
00:06:29.000 at 35, 40.
00:06:30.500 Like, and I've talked to older women
00:06:31.760 that have done only fans
00:06:32.760 and done, like, corn work.
00:06:34.700 And a lot of times,
00:06:35.400 like, a guy will date you in his 20s
00:06:37.100 and then, like, dump you
00:06:37.900 when he wants to find his wife.
00:06:39.440 I know a lot of people
00:06:40.460 that are kind of a woman.
00:06:41.600 It's really early to say, though,
00:06:42.560 what the future looks like
00:06:43.940 for OnlyFans, which is so new.
00:06:45.260 Especially for our generation specifically,
00:06:48.940 it's very,
00:06:50.280 I'm not saying that it's super right,
00:06:52.900 but it is a lot more normalized
00:06:55.380 than a 30-year-old man's generation is.
00:06:58.420 And let's also, too, though,
00:06:59.160 like, just acknowledge the fact, too,
00:07:01.260 that OnlyFans 0.95
00:07:01.800 is a premium content platform.
00:07:03.780 There are comedians with OnlyFans.
00:07:05.600 There's such a wide variety
00:07:06.700 of the kind of content
00:07:07.560 that's on OnlyFans.
00:07:07.900 I mean, the connotation.
00:07:08.660 There's a total stigma.
00:07:09.860 There's also...
00:07:10.380 But it is not porn industry.
00:07:11.440 There aren't two in the same thing.
00:07:13.120 I'm not saying that nobody
00:07:13.480 is going to get married.
00:07:14.840 That's not what I'm saying.
00:07:15.820 Yeah, no.
00:07:16.140 Especially when you have a really attractive...
00:07:17.440 Like, you guys are all very pretty.
00:07:19.020 So, you know...
00:07:19.820 Thank you.
00:07:20.020 So are you.
00:07:20.880 Thank you.
00:07:21.600 But sometimes, like,
00:07:23.160 pretty women have different outcomes 1.00
00:07:24.640 than the average chick.
00:07:26.100 And so the average chick 1.00
00:07:27.020 is going to sign up to OnlyFans.
00:07:28.300 Yeah, and that's what I'm saying.
00:07:29.480 Like, I don't know you guys personally.
00:07:31.300 Totally true.
00:07:31.900 But there are a lot of girls 1.00
00:07:32.720 that are going to do OnlyFans,
00:07:34.080 and it's not going to...
00:07:35.020 Like, it's not going to end well for them.
00:07:37.240 And it's easy to say this now,
00:07:38.640 oh, I'm in a happy relationship.
00:07:39.980 You don't know what your life's going to be like
00:07:41.080 in 10, 15, 20 years.
00:07:42.220 Like, you know,
00:07:42.720 what somebody does for a period of time
00:07:44.200 doesn't define what they are
00:07:45.560 and what they do forever, right?
00:07:47.080 It does, though,
00:07:47.820 because, like,
00:07:48.380 if I'm going to date a guy
00:07:49.940 and he said I went to prison for five years,
00:07:51.800 like, I'm out.
00:07:53.020 Well, I can't see you there.
00:07:54.020 If he said,
00:07:54.620 if he said I got three women pregnant,
00:07:56.700 but don't worry, I've changed,
00:07:57.820 I'm like, you know what?
00:07:58.580 That's not for me.
00:07:59.680 I'm good.
00:08:00.300 So, Kiana, you said you'd be a nurse
00:08:02.060 if you weren't doing what you're doing now.
00:08:03.640 What would the rest of you do
00:08:04.640 if you weren't doing your current job?
00:08:07.260 Comparing prison...
00:08:07.960 I'm sorry, but comparing prison
00:08:09.600 and what was the other thing you said?
00:08:12.000 OnlyFans.
00:08:12.540 OnlyFans.
00:08:13.140 No, prison and...
00:08:14.520 Yeah, comparing prison and OnlyFans
00:08:18.360 and getting three women pregnant,
00:08:20.160 like, those are two so...
00:08:21.320 You know what's funny?
00:08:21.960 You know what's funny?
00:08:22.720 I actually think that, like,
00:08:23.980 the comparison isn't fair
00:08:25.280 because when men go to prison,
00:08:26.940 they actually have more women 1.00
00:08:27.940 that are interested in them
00:08:29.020 as far as the opposite
00:08:30.160 where OnlyFans has the opposite
00:08:31.460 where you have less men interested
00:08:32.800 in long term.
00:08:33.780 I don't know.
00:08:34.080 I don't think what I...
00:08:35.020 I don't know.
00:08:36.200 I'm sorry.
00:08:36.560 I just feel like that's not a good comparison.
00:08:38.760 Okay, that's cool.
00:08:39.660 Hey, we're going to redirect
00:08:40.400 the conversation here.
00:08:41.560 Okay.
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00:08:57.640 Okay, let's move on.
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00:09:13.540 thank you for the 100, man.
00:09:14.280 Yo, steel worker,
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00:09:30.940 Thank you, man.
00:09:31.380 Appreciate it.
00:09:32.660 Talks with Mike.
00:09:33.940 Mr. Cappadocia,
00:09:34.860 thank you, man.
00:09:35.380 Ladies, 1.00
00:09:35.800 are they real
00:09:36.540 or are they enhanced?
00:09:38.360 Benningpool says
00:09:39.100 four of you are artificially blessed.
00:09:41.660 Was it worth it?
00:09:42.480 Was it an investment that paid off?
00:09:45.200 Did your interactions with men change?
00:09:46.840 Well, I think we should wait
00:09:48.940 until someone comes back
00:09:49.900 from the bathroom
00:09:50.440 to address that one,
00:09:51.380 but I'll come back to that.
00:09:53.480 Cappadocia,
00:09:53.880 thank you, man.
00:09:54.520 Okay, I'm kind of interested in that too.
00:09:57.140 What's up?
00:09:57.520 I said,
00:09:57.860 I'm interested to know too.
00:09:59.920 Oh, do you?
00:10:01.140 No, I was just interested.
00:10:03.420 I think,
00:10:03.920 no, I think there's a couple.