JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023


Panel Choose Over Experience On SEX Or APPERANCE


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

193.53166

Word Count

1,867

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

1

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 sorry um I feel like just we were talking about loads of that couple seconds ago but like I feel
00:00:05.740 like women always say they want to experience someone who's experienced but will cry if they
00:00:11.520 find out who they've been in those experiences with and how many body count there is can I just
00:00:16.280 say it because I could say and be like I want someone who's so experienced that's gonna do this
00:00:19.880 that's gonna do that and make me feel this type of way but then as soon as okay cool that happens
00:00:24.000 and they're like okay cool like what's your body count who have you been in for the past they're
00:00:26.760 gonna start crying and it's kind of like choose choose whether you want him to be experienced and
00:00:31.740 and like is that common a hundred percent just don't just don't answer them I just want to hear
00:00:37.980 if you didn't ask her the question about what she wants in the man oh yeah what do you look for
00:00:42.120 what do I look for in a man yes um I feel like even though I'm quite small I'd say like five eight
00:00:49.200 how tall are you sorry I'm like five three do you want two little people
00:00:53.880 normally I feel short next to pearl I feel tall today
00:01:00.360 um I like a man that's family very big on like family um big family I like chivalry
00:01:11.760 I don't really have like a time like physically so he's got to be five eight and he likes his
00:01:18.060 family and chivalry well he's nice yeah he's got a good family anti-chivalry what about money
00:01:22.920 any minimum what if he's unemployed are you paying the bills till till he figures it just it depends
00:01:29.700 on how much passion he has and what he's doing that's not paying bills is that money a big thing
00:01:35.460 usually unemployed people don't have passion typically so are we all gonna say like money
00:01:44.460 is a big thing in relationship going into relationship right now like yeah money is a
00:01:48.480 big thing I've heard everybody mention everything and for me all I want is a man that's working that's
00:01:57.120 gonna treat me the same way he'd like to be treated and he's got to be good in bed I ain't gonna have
00:02:03.060 number nine I don't care what you look like I don't care how tall you are if you're not good
00:02:07.500 in bed it ain't happening I don't care how much money you've got either if you know and everybody's
00:02:11.900 talking talking about this fanny fluttering that fanny fluttering and nobody said about sex what
00:02:17.380 but so your fanny can flutter and the man's gonna turn around you ain't gonna be good in bed what
00:02:20.840 you're gonna do then he's got everything else that's in the shopping trolley except that because
00:02:24.920 I see you put that you need to put that in the shopping trolley I missed that off but that is
00:02:28.220 vital absolutely would you guys rather have a guy that you weren't physically attracted to that's
00:02:33.040 good in bed or a guy that you were very physically attracted to but he was bad in bed give me the
00:02:37.580 one that I'm not physical oh yeah I don't mind cuz I feel like if you're not good in bed I can
00:02:43.480 always do that kind of bit myself working for me so you you would take the hot guy yeah you take the
00:02:50.120 hot guy what about you I think I think I'd have to be attracted to him to some degree to be able to
00:02:56.920 lay down so I'd have to teach I think rather than not have an attractive man there's no this isn't
00:03:01.560 build a man I mean I think that's important for me they would have to be good in bed so but then I
00:03:27.120 I wouldn't be able to lay with somebody if I didn't find them attractive so it's difficult
00:03:30.660 just pick one
00:03:31.660 pick one
00:03:32.420 I can't pick one
00:03:33.320 you have to
00:03:33.960 I think ugly and good in bed and good looking and rubbish
00:03:38.420 are you didn't tell me they can't go out of an ugly man
00:03:42.200 is that how superficial you are what about all the ugly men out there that are under the pressure
00:03:48.740 I think um it's tough I can't answer see I never got that cuz I always think if you get an ugly man
00:03:59.120 nobody's gonna want him you got a whole man for yourself yeah but then he's not making my fanny
00:04:03.920 flutter so then it's not doing it for me so I think I would have to yeah maybe but then I have to look
00:04:10.060 at him it's a good looking I have to look it has to be attractive to me and how many hours a day are
00:04:14.380 you looking at each other versus how many hours a day you sleeping with each other if you're working
00:04:19.840 if you're going out together you see it you it's yeah now how many days how many hours a day do you
00:04:25.000 work about eight how many hours a day do you sleep about eight that's what you've got to think about
00:04:29.500 so you're gonna see him before and depending on sexual positions you don't even have to look at him
00:04:33.880 I think I'd have to go with with the good-looking guy that's superficial isn't it but I think I would
00:04:47.000 have to yeah most women would though yeah I think okay would anyone take the app the not so good
00:04:53.740 looking guy but good in bed me you two and then you would take the hot guy yeah I've actually been
00:05:00.040 with someone that's not good-looking but it was good in bed and then after a while it's like my
00:05:04.200 mind just started saying to me they're good-looking it's all right makes up for it in the beds no I go
00:05:13.800 for the person that's unattractive but good in bed because you can learn to love someone's appearance
00:05:18.540 even if they don't change you can just gradually learn to love it whereas sex is quite an intimate
00:05:22.960 part of relationship so even though it's not as important for women as it is for men generally
00:05:28.180 um it's that'll still be a part of your relationship missing how many relationships have you guys
00:05:37.100 ended and why I've only been in one so and it's not ended so zero three three three and why'd you end
00:05:47.700 them um it just wasn't good towards me all violent all violent you dated three violent men yeah stupid
00:05:55.520 please first time it's okay like you wonder like okay yeah it happens to anyone second time I should
00:06:04.120 have seen the red flags but I didn't and now the third time I just feel like I need to write mug on
00:06:08.340 my forehead yeah do you know men that aren't violent no I do I know a lot of men which are my friends
00:06:13.800 it just makes no sense I just go for the ones that they show they're nice at first and then it's like
00:06:18.780 once they grab hold of me they don't want me to go so they will do anything in any type of force
00:06:25.680 I and you saw no red flags in the beginning a couple two of them yes one of them no I just like
00:06:35.020 wonder because if I was a guy listening to this I'd be like why would I be nice to you because you
00:06:39.540 don't like like you know the nice guys but you don't pick them you just keep um if anything like
00:06:43.580 it would incentivize them to be abusive see that's the thing I think like normally like
00:06:50.420 I would feel like a guy would come to me thinking oh she's been in three relationships that have just
00:06:56.180 been violent but I've actually had nothing but good guys to come towards me since I just I've been
00:07:02.180 taking my time whether I want to be in a relationship with someone or not because I really don't want
00:07:07.040 to go to a fourth time and that's it I will be getting mug tattooed on my forehead what about
00:07:17.280 you you're only 19 yeah um have I ended I have ended one um and I think I ended it just because
00:07:24.900 I think I just wasn't I wasn't ready for the commitment um yeah fickle I think I just wasn't
00:07:34.240 already I think it was kind of like I was just like yeah nah and it kind of just shut me off
00:07:39.760 completely like other after that it was kind of like I don't know why I did it nothing it's just
00:07:44.500 completely cut off and it was like I didn't feel the same way anymore and that was literally the end
00:07:50.160 of it is there's no more to that than it than I'm saying but yeah I think we you said you had two
00:07:56.920 relationships and you ended one no no I didn't know they ended both I'm more of a stay in a
00:08:04.420 relationship make it work kind of person and jump off and give up but having said that the first person
00:08:11.800 wasn't a great person so once he left and he had made that choice it was taken away from me so then
00:08:20.580 I could then go and be happy so I was actually grateful that he ended it and that's why I didn't
00:08:25.760 let him come back I actually understand that thinking because when it's like if they break
00:08:30.380 up with you you don't really have a choice in it so you don't have to like guess if it was the right
00:08:33.740 choice because it wasn't your choice I feel like it's easier to detach when someone else breaks up
00:08:37.540 with you than it is for you to break up with them do you think women ever try to get guys to break up
00:08:42.860 with them yeah 100% yeah all the time I feel like that happens all the time I feel like if you're in a
00:08:49.280 relationship where you just feel like it's kind of like he's sometimes maybe a bit more committed
00:08:53.880 but maybe not in the way that you want it to be you're probably going to do everything in your
00:08:57.220 power for him to be like yeah I'm not trying like you're doing madness whereas that's not actually
00:09:02.960 you but it's kind of like you're provoking that because it's just like you don't it's kind of
00:09:08.300 like you see it but then at the same time you don't and it's like it's easier like I can't call
00:09:12.740 it off because he has valid points so therefore I'm going to provoke whatever situation it is to make
00:09:17.580 him break up with me so that I can just be like cool you broke up with me now leave it as it is
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