JustPearlyThings - Panel Gets OFFENDED with Pearl For Insulting Women

00:00:00.000 Oh, okay.

00:00:02.080 Okay, I guess it's...

00:00:03.940 So, the reason, okay, I guess I'll tell you

00:00:07.260 how I came up with this awesome topic today.

00:00:10.040 So, basically, I tweeted a couple of months ago

00:00:15.380 and I had a very profound and amazing tweet.

00:00:17.640 And I said, 25-year-old women are hotter 1.00

00:00:20.420 than 35-year-old women.

00:00:22.700 Now, to me, I just thought this was base.

00:00:24.640 Oh, she's shocked.

00:00:25.500 She's like, oh, no.

00:00:26.140 To me, I just thought this was basic.

00:00:30.520 If water is wet, the sky is blue,

00:00:32.820 younger women tend to be more attractive than older women. 0.99

00:00:36.040 And it got me to thinking, you know,

00:00:38.280 is there a date or is there an age where women are over 1.00

00:00:42.060 where they're basically considered just for fun for men,

00:00:45.700 where they're too old to start a family with

00:00:47.800 and they would not consider them long-term?

00:00:50.160 I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this,

00:00:53.060 like if she was really hot,

00:00:54.880 like she's 47, but she's an eight.

00:00:58.660 She looks like J-Lo.

00:00:59.760 Was there an exception?

00:01:01.360 I don't know.

00:01:02.300 I thought we would ask the panel today.

00:01:04.060 So, it also was inspired during this video that I saw,

00:01:07.780 which was women documenting their experience, really,

00:01:11.660 with dating after divorce.

00:01:13.500 Let's pull it up.

00:01:18.600 I can't hear it, King.

00:01:20.020 Know that your best years are ahead of you

00:01:24.000 and life has been more fulfilling for me

00:01:26.760 since my mid-30s than it ever was before that.

00:01:29.580 So, just know that your best years are ahead of you

00:01:32.100 and you are never too old and it's never too late.

00:01:34.900 This is probably the loneliest I've ever felt in my life.

00:01:38.380 And I'm in therapy and I'm in a codependency group.

00:01:42.160 I'm so done.

00:01:44.680 You have so much leverage and so many options.

00:01:47.860 I can't even tell you.

00:01:49.220 When the check came, he asked me for $6.

00:01:52.760 Definitely could think that I would stay alone forever.

00:01:55.500 Ever.

00:01:57.140 My God.

00:01:58.600 Jesus Christ.

00:02:00.240 Are we not opening doors anymore?

00:02:01.880 Are we not doing that?

00:02:02.780 Never used a dating app in your life?

00:02:04.820 Well, the good news is you're about to have so much fun.

00:02:12.920 Yeah, so much fun.

00:02:15.100 You see?

00:02:16.020 Yeah, so, there we go.

00:02:18.320 So, my question is,

00:02:19.360 is there an age that women expire at, 1.00

00:02:22.000 starting here and then go around?

00:02:23.440 Um, I would say no.

00:02:25.420 Especially, like, this day and age we have TikTok and everything

00:02:27.840 and we see, like, all these older women flaunting, 0.96

00:02:30.980 you know, their appearances and everything.

00:02:32.720 I would say, um...

00:02:34.340 Women don't expire. 1.00

00:02:35.340 No.

00:02:35.780 Okay.

00:02:36.600 Go ahead.

00:02:37.880 Um, I know we've kind of had this conversation before

00:02:40.720 when I've been on the show before.

00:02:41.860 And you basically told me,

00:02:42.960 after you're 25, you're done.

00:02:44.500 No, I didn't say after you're 25, you're done.

00:02:46.540 Or was it 30?

00:02:47.420 No.

00:02:47.740 It's like, you're basically not worth it.

00:02:49.180 No, no, no.

00:02:50.040 I said it.

00:02:50.580 I said it.

00:02:51.120 I said, no, no, this is what I said.

00:02:52.740 I said, if I was a guy...

00:02:54.540 You wouldn't want to date somebody.

00:02:56.820 Yeah, over 25,

00:02:58.020 because most of the time they're so set in their ways,

00:03:00.540 it's like you can't...

00:03:01.540 The feminism is, like, in the ears and stuff. 1.00

00:03:03.940 There's exceptions, though, but most of them, yeah.

00:03:07.380 Go ahead.

00:03:08.060 Do women expire? 1.00

00:03:09.020 Wait, what do you think, though?

00:03:10.020 Don't...

00:03:10.260 I didn't ask you what I thought.

00:03:11.820 I was like, how did you dodge this question?

00:03:15.180 What do you think?

00:03:15.840 I have my opinions.

00:03:17.840 Go ahead.

00:03:19.000 Personally, I think 30.

00:03:20.740 30?

00:03:21.420 Okay, women are expired. 1.00

00:03:23.220 You're 30, though.

00:03:24.520 Yeah, I'm expired.

00:03:25.520 So you think you've expired?

00:03:27.800 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:03:28.940 You just put yourself at the game.

00:03:30.700 Yeah.

00:03:31.260 You put yourself at the game.

00:03:31.640 You put yourself at the game.

00:03:32.600 Did you say you're single as well?

00:03:34.620 Yeah. 0.99

00:03:35.760 You just put yourself dirty.

00:03:38.080 There's some humility in this trick.

00:03:39.760 You know, go ahead.

00:03:40.720 When are women expired? 1.00

00:03:42.220 I do think it's individual.

00:03:44.040 I'm older than some of the people here today.

00:03:47.000 Okay.

00:03:47.680 And, yeah, I do think it's individual.

00:03:49.320 I think if someone looks after themselves, they look after their appearance, and they're

00:03:52.820 a good person, then, you know.

00:03:55.360 There's no expiration date.

00:03:57.180 No, I do think there is.

00:03:59.080 Okay.

00:03:59.360 But you can push it a bit further.

00:04:00.880 Okay, so when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves?

00:04:05.420 So I don't think I've expired at the age of 40, so that's all I can say.

00:04:08.680 Okay, well, I didn't ask about you.

00:04:10.260 I asked about when do women expire. 1.00

00:04:15.280 Let's say give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn't. 1.00

00:04:19.780 Okay, so a girl that doesn't take care of herself. 1.00

00:04:22.140 Well, is she ever in the game if she's not taking care of herself? 0.92

00:04:25.400 Is she?

00:04:26.220 Well, I mean, haven't you heard that Patrice O'Neill thing?

00:04:28.960 That where it's like an ugly 18-year-old is still hotter than a hot 30-year-old?

00:04:34.000 No.

00:04:34.740 Yeah, well.

00:04:35.400 No.

00:04:35.920 I don't agree.

00:04:38.100 Well, older women typically don't. 1.00

00:04:40.260 No offense.

00:04:42.880 Well, that's it.

00:04:44.740 No, because think about it.

00:04:46.120 It's like at 40 or 45, a guy can't get a kid out of you.

00:04:50.960 The 18-year-old can lose weight.

00:04:53.000 No, I think you can have a child at 40.

00:04:55.120 Yeah, but it's not probable.

00:04:57.700 I think it's doable.

00:04:59.160 If you've looked after yourself.

00:05:00.360 It's not likely.

00:05:01.400 You're on the carnivore diet.

00:05:02.540 You're good.

00:05:03.040 Okay.

00:05:04.600 Okay.

00:05:05.120 So what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire? 1.00

00:05:11.160 Maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most. 1.00

00:05:16.460 Okay.

00:05:16.840 45.

00:05:17.700 Go ahead.

00:05:18.160 I don't think that women have an expiration date. 1.00

00:05:22.600 Just purely because different needs are met at different ages.

00:05:29.300 So I might have been really for someone when I was younger, but really even more for them

00:05:35.440 when I'm older, once I've experienced a few more.

00:05:39.040 So I am over 30, but I don't think I'm expired.

00:05:41.880 Okay.

00:05:42.380 I didn't ask about you.

00:05:44.120 But when do women... 1.00

00:05:45.660 Oh, it's me.

00:05:46.420 I said no.

00:05:47.180 No, so they never expire.

00:05:48.920 So at 55, she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25.

00:05:54.980 She could be wanted, but it depends on who wants her.

00:05:57.840 This is what I'm saying.

00:05:59.040 So it's like, depends on...

00:06:00.440 Men.

00:06:00.700 So men of what age?

00:06:02.860 So an older man might appreciate the more older woman. 0.98

00:06:05.880 He might have had enough of the younger.

00:06:07.320 So I'll tell you what.

00:06:08.240 They surveyed men between the ages of like 20 and 80, and they all found 22-year-olds roughly

00:06:13.460 the most attractive.

00:06:15.040 What?

00:06:15.300 Women? 1.00

00:06:16.160 Yeah.

00:06:16.500 22?

00:06:17.200 Yeah.

00:06:17.500 I can see why they're youthful.

00:06:19.780 I remember 22.

00:06:21.140 Yeah, yeah.

00:06:21.960 Sometimes.

00:06:22.480 But it's like, if we don't expire, why do women get Botox to look younger? 0.77

00:06:26.720 I don't know.

00:06:28.680 I don't know.

00:06:29.440 They want to be more youthful, reminiscing.

00:06:32.140 Right.

00:06:32.480 But it's like, we almost know that we do because we all try to look young.

00:06:36.200 Yeah, it's true.

00:06:37.620 Okay.

00:06:38.100 So we do expire.

00:06:39.360 What age?

00:06:40.660 I don't think we expire.

00:06:42.380 I don't think we expire just because we want to be youthful.

00:06:45.620 Just because we want to be youthful doesn't mean that women expire. 1.00

00:06:48.820 Women do not expire. 0.94

00:06:50.140 Okay.

00:06:50.460 Women are... 1.00

00:06:51.260 Okay.

00:06:51.460 Go ahead.

00:06:51.840 What about you?

00:06:53.780 Expiration dates.

00:06:54.940 Wow.

00:06:55.100 It depends on what exactly what she said of the fact that who, again, men, but what's

00:07:01.960 the purpose?

00:07:03.180 So milk can go off, but I'm sure once it's off, you can use it for something else.

00:07:07.120 Well, yeah, that's when they become...

00:07:08.560 That's when, like, side chicks, for sure. 0.98

00:07:10.260 No.

00:07:10.680 Not necessarily.

00:07:11.300 You can get 50-year-old side chicks.

00:07:15.920 No, I know.

00:07:16.540 I agree with you.

00:07:17.320 They tend to...

00:07:18.520 Women tend to accept that when they're older. 1.00

00:07:21.280 No.

00:07:22.020 They do.

00:07:23.640 I mean, again, I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person.

00:07:28.940 Well, I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage.

00:07:32.900 When are women... 1.00

00:07:33.580 Long-term.

00:07:34.400 If you pass middle age, what is long-term?

00:07:36.860 Long-term these days can be two years.

00:07:39.840 Long-term can be...

00:07:41.160 Okay, so, but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with, is there an age 0.57

00:07:46.580 where women typically are expired just based on their age they're too old? 1.00

00:07:50.840 Biologically, yes.

00:07:51.700 Again, if you look after yourself or not, I'd hope that a woman that's looked after themselves 0.98

00:07:55.760 biologically, hopefully the clock can push to 40-plus.

00:08:00.520 Okay, 40-40.

00:08:02.480 Plus.

00:08:03.380 Okay, so 50, is she expired?

00:08:07.500 Biologically, perhaps.

00:08:08.660 Okay, thank you.

00:08:09.460 I'm actually going to do the men's second.

00:08:11.300 So I'm going to go Christine, and then I'm going to ask the guys.

00:08:15.580 I mean, we're talking about the dating market here.

00:08:18.760 So we're talking about the general rule.

00:08:20.400 Of course, there are exceptions.

00:08:22.300 I mean, someone like Rachel, you don't look 40, right?

00:08:25.140 Truth is, most 40-year-olds don't look like you.

00:08:27.120 So if we're talking the majority, I would say 27, 28.

00:08:34.340 27, 28 expired.

00:08:36.900 Okay, let's go to the men. 0.91

00:08:38.980 When do women expire for you for long-term prospects? 1.00

00:08:43.360 I'll make this loud and clear.

00:08:44.500 Women do expire. 1.00

00:08:46.140 You get to about 30 years old, and there's no point in getting married.

00:08:51.260 There's no point in having kids and stuff like that.

00:08:52.980 Imagine having a kid at 40 years old, and then being 50 with a 10-year-old.

00:08:57.440 Yeah.

00:08:58.160 That's kind of crazy.

00:08:59.440 So for you, over 30, you're kind of done.

00:09:01.780 Over 30, there's no hope in a long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff.

00:09:06.960 I'll say over 30, it's just...

00:09:09.920 So I have a question.

00:09:11.020 What if she's 30, but she looks like J-Lo at 30?

00:09:13.940 Would you make an exception?

00:09:15.400 For me, me personally, it's a smash and dab.

00:09:18.520 You're still...

00:09:19.220 It doesn't matter what she looks like, 30? 0.90

00:09:21.300 Okay.

00:09:21.960 What about you?

00:09:23.920 I just think it's...

00:09:25.640 The terminology expiration for me is a bit harsh.

00:09:29.860 So I don't really want to talk on it on that sense of using that terminology.

00:09:33.700 But what I will say is, I don't think there's an expiration date.

00:09:38.300 It is what it is.

00:09:39.220 So...

00:09:39.540 Your own individuality.

00:09:40.860 But I'm asking for you.

00:09:42.980 For...

00:09:43.380 Regarding women.

00:09:44.200 Yeah.

00:09:44.480 So when you...

00:09:45.160 You're dating a woman... 0.89

00:09:45.800 I don't think that.

00:09:46.120 If I'm dating somebody and their head's screwed on, and we're both getting it together,

00:09:50.380 then I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration date.

00:09:54.260 Do you want kids and, like, a family?

00:09:56.060 Oh, I've got kids.

00:09:56.860 Okay.

00:09:57.120 You've got kids.

00:09:57.700 I'm single, but I've got kids.

00:09:58.800 But I would love to...

00:09:59.640 I'm a family man.

00:10:00.560 You understand?

00:10:00.920 So I could...

00:10:02.300 I'm 36.

00:10:02.800 I could see someone that's 40 or so forth.

00:10:05.200 I'm not going to say she's expired.

00:10:06.820 Okay.

00:10:07.100 My mindset is...

00:10:07.660 So 40.

00:10:08.220 But what about 50?

00:10:09.880 I don't want to say the word expiration.

00:10:11.960 Maybe...

00:10:12.380 Maybe we've got to a point of...

00:10:14.060 Okay.

00:10:14.540 We've got to a point of...

00:10:15.760 It's coming to your time.

00:10:17.660 Okay.

00:10:18.320 And in a respectful way.

00:10:20.140 But, yeah.

00:10:21.220 Okay.

00:10:21.620 So roughly for you, 50.

00:10:23.340 I'd say, yeah.

00:10:24.360 What about 45?

00:10:25.480 That's cool for me.

00:10:26.400 45 and under.

00:10:27.440 Yeah.

00:10:27.580 Okay.

00:10:28.060 He doesn't discriminate.

00:10:29.140 No, I don't.

00:10:29.900 Sterling, what about you?

00:10:31.160 So the same age that I think women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves

00:10:38.200 and put a lot more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut

00:10:43.600 her off, and that's 24.

00:10:45.180 24.

00:10:46.100 That's very good.

00:10:47.020 And what's the difference?

00:10:49.120 Like, what makes you pick 24?

00:10:52.460 Typically less indoctrination, like less feminism, more feminine, because they've got less years 1.00

00:10:59.500 in the workforce being in, like, their masculine energy, kind of having that drilled into them

00:11:04.680 all the time.

00:11:06.300 Yeah.

00:11:07.120 The primary reason is there's a lot more runway for making a family. 0.96

00:11:10.580 Like, there's a lot more years on the clock.

00:11:12.500 I want a lot of kids.

00:11:13.400 I want a big family.

00:11:14.640 You can really only crank out, like, one a year.

00:11:16.380 She needs some time off. 0.93

00:11:17.860 Right?

00:11:18.540 Maybe if she's got twins in the family, maybe twins are in the family. 1.00

00:11:21.480 Cool.

00:11:21.620 We can crank out two a year.

00:11:22.300 Everyone loves to buy one, get one free.

00:11:24.140 Right?

00:11:26.460 If that's coming out, if she's guaranteeing twins, we can push that time frame up a little

00:11:30.500 bit.

00:11:30.700 But the womb needs to rest. 0.99

00:11:31.500 Yeah.

00:11:31.980 Like, you know, I want a lot of kids, so we're going to need some runway. 1.00

00:11:36.020 And, like, the younger a woman has kids, the older she can actually keep having kids until. 1.00

00:11:43.380 The danger becomes when a woman has her first kid in, like, the later years of her life, 0.99

00:11:48.540 that's when you get things like geriatric pregnancy. 0.89

00:11:51.000 You have to have C-sections, otherwise there's serious dangers there.

00:11:55.420 Like, my mother, she had me, she's the exception of the rule, she had me at, like, 37.

00:11:59.220 She was worried I was going to have Down syndrome because that's one of the complications

00:12:03.480 of a geriatric pregnancy, like, more likely and stuff like that.

00:12:06.760 So there's a risk for them.

00:12:08.640 Okay.

00:12:09.180 So I want to go through a woman's life here. 0.90

00:12:12.020 So under 25, 30, 30 to 35, 35 plus.

00:12:18.420 Okay.

00:12:18.960 So I want to say, is there ever an age where a woman should consider, you know, like,

00:12:24.840 take marriage off the table? 0.93

00:12:26.400 Like, marriage is, you know, marriage is no longer for you.

00:12:30.660 I don't think...

00:12:31.040 The average age of first marriage is 31 in the UK, I would say.

00:12:35.020 So at what age would it be easier if a woman took marriage off the table? 1.00

00:12:41.000 I don't think women should take marriage off the table. 1.00

00:12:43.180 Never.

00:12:43.820 Never.

00:12:44.340 Okay.

00:12:47.080 That's women. 1.00

00:12:48.220 Men might have a different answer to that, but marriage, yeah, no.

00:12:51.000 I'm going to, I'm going to want some hands here.

00:12:54.580 All right.

00:12:55.220 So if a woman is 50, should she take marriage off the table? 1.00

00:12:58.660 Raise your hand.

00:13:00.220 Who wants to marry a 50-year-old? 1.00

00:13:02.060 Really?

00:13:02.660 50?

00:13:03.360 Okay.

00:13:04.080 All right.

00:13:04.820 35, should she take marriage off the table?

00:13:08.320 35?

00:13:09.340 Okay.

00:13:09.900 Then, all right.

00:13:10.960 So basically the women think marriage is on the table forever. 1.00

00:13:14.400 Why would a man marry a woman that's over the age of 35? 1.00

00:13:19.260 For what purpose?

00:13:20.060 Because you've got an eternal illness.

00:13:26.300 Wow.

00:13:28.100 What value does a guy get from a woman over the age of 35? 1.00

00:13:32.940 Companionship.

00:13:33.720 If you was with that individual for a substantial amount of time, that's okay.

00:13:37.640 If you met somebody randomly, it's a bit iffy, buddy.

00:13:40.880 No, no.

00:13:41.620 She's, you met her 35 plus.

00:13:43.900 That's, well, 35, there's no problem with that at all.

00:13:47.080 Okay.

00:13:47.420 50 odd.

00:13:49.140 Do you know what?

00:13:50.320 For me, this is a bit mad.

00:13:52.380 If you meet someone that's 50, and you like them, and you have a connection with them,

00:13:57.040 and companionship, why would you not want to marry a woman?

00:14:00.360 Well, what's the purpose of marriage?

00:14:02.520 Say it again, sorry?

00:14:02.980 Family, kids.

00:14:04.280 Disagree.

00:14:05.000 Agree.

00:14:05.640 You're not going to get none of that.

00:14:06.980 And that's it.

00:14:07.980 But what if both partitions don't want that?

00:14:10.300 They don't want kids? 1.00

00:14:11.100 You get enough headaches for 30, 20-year-olds.

00:14:11.900 I would say, what's the point of marriage?

00:14:13.400 Yeah, zero point.

00:14:14.300 But I think marriage is different for 50-year-olds than it would be for a 30-year-old.

00:14:17.980 30-year-old, yeah.

00:14:18.540 I think it's completely different.

00:14:20.540 Their mindset of marriage is completely different.

00:14:22.060 Different, yeah.

00:14:22.880 Well, I would say that at that point, you know, just be in a long-term relationship, what's

00:14:27.000 the point of marriage?

00:14:29.140 That's why I say, when does it go off the table?

00:14:31.280 Because it benefits the women, and the women's going to get something. 1.00

00:14:34.220 You say never.

00:14:35.420 You say never.

00:14:36.400 It's never off the table.

00:14:37.520 You guys, when did you, when should, Sterling, when do you think?

00:14:40.760 Well, I'm like, under 25 to 30.

00:14:43.040 Under 25 is the kind of woman I would ask to marry me. 1.00

00:14:45.920 Okay.

00:14:46.420 Above that, again, like I said before, I don't see the runway there.

00:14:50.620 Like, the time, there's not enough time.

00:14:53.680 So you wouldn't marry anybody over 25?

00:14:55.660 I'm going to go with 25 as well.

00:14:57.280 I'd only go with 30 if I've been over for a while.

00:15:02.760 He's like, let me bargain with it, you get it?

00:15:05.180 Okay, so all the, and you say under 45.

00:15:08.140 Yeah, 50 is pushing it, but like around the 40 mark, cool, we're good.

00:15:11.980 All right, so I'm going to wait.

00:15:14.620 50 should be gone before I'm gone.

00:15:16.080 All right, who here thinks women should never take marriage off the table? 0.99

00:15:25.680 Wow.

00:15:26.840 We love selling dreams.

00:15:29.200 Yeah, let them be happy.

00:15:31.060 Let them go get their little marriage thing. 1.00

00:15:32.620 No, you know what your chance, if you, after you're the age of 35,

00:15:35.640 is of getting a ring, ladies? 0.99

00:15:37.100 Who wants to know?

00:15:37.940 It's like 5%.

00:15:38.940 Higher than that.

00:15:40.500 Oh, okay.

00:15:42.380 It's 15% over the age of 35.

00:15:44.940 They get a ring.

00:15:46.920 They get married, and that's, that's the previous generation. 0.99

00:15:49.980 So I would guess if you're not married after 35 in this generation,

00:15:53.620 where marriage is less common, it's probably going to go down.

00:15:55.440 I was going to say this generation probably never get married. 0.94

00:15:57.460 I think we're just setting ourselves up for failure at this point.

00:16:00.240 At the end of the day, if we say we're never taking marriage off the table,

00:16:03.000 you're ultimately setting yourself up to fail.

00:16:05.240 Because I think realistically, if you're not actually, you know,

00:16:08.220 married or engaged by 25, chances are it's probably never going to happen.

00:16:11.700 And if you tell yourself one day it's going to happen, one day it's going to happen,

00:16:14.760 you're constantly living in hope and expectation.

00:16:17.420 So then when it doesn't happen, and you're on your deathbed,

00:16:19.480 and you're not married, you're going to be thinking,

00:16:20.980 oh, I've not, I've not found love.

00:16:23.020 But it's like, if you put it out your mind,

00:16:25.820 if you just say, like, by the time I'm 25, if I'm not married,

00:16:28.900 I'm going to put it out of my mind.

00:16:30.320 If it happens, great.

00:16:32.420 But then if it doesn't, at least then you're not going to be upset that you didn't get it.

00:16:36.600 Well, we've been sold a lie that women deserve a husband, 1.00

00:16:40.780 and that all women are going to get them, 0.99

00:16:42.340 when the truth of the matter is most women will not have a happy ending. 1.00

00:16:46.920 Like most, if you look at the stats,

00:16:48.320 half of women aren't going to have kids or a husband. 1.00

00:16:50.820 Out of the half that do have kids, if they get married,

00:16:54.380 so maybe, let's say the other half gets married, half will fail.

00:16:58.380 So you have one in four women that will stay married, if that. 1.00

00:17:01.340 And I'd argue it's even lower because you have to account for women that had kids 1.00

00:17:05.260 and didn't get married.

00:17:06.520 There's a big thing here as well.

00:17:07.880 Like a big part of why I set that age range so low

00:17:12.140 is because the higher up that ladder you go,

00:17:15.220 the more entitlement women tend to have. 1.00

00:17:18.860 Like if you look at that video we watched before,

00:17:21.200 there was at least one of those women in that clip. 1.00

00:17:22.740 She was like, why don't men open doors anymore?

00:17:25.140 That's just one little example.

00:17:26.820 You'll see lots of clips like that on TikTok of women who are, you know, 1.00

00:17:30.080 in their 30s, not just in that clip,

00:17:32.880 but there's this, the level of entitlement seems to stack up

00:17:37.120 the longer they have waited for someone to pop the question.

00:17:41.100 Do you think men shouldn't open doors? 0.99

00:17:43.280 I think they absolutely should open doors, 100%.

00:17:45.680 I was going to say, so you feel like women feel more entitled after 25?

00:17:49.560 Yeah, because they haven't got what they were promised.

00:17:52.120 Like Pearl just said, there's this level of,

00:17:53.860 they've been promised, they've been sold this dream their whole life

00:17:56.640 since they were a young girl.

00:17:57.960 Like, you're a princess, you're going to find your prince charming.

00:18:00.080 This is going to happen.

00:18:01.160 And it hasn't happened yet.

00:18:02.420 It hasn't happened yet.

00:18:03.100 It hasn't happened yet.

00:18:03.680 That expectation is building up and up and up,

00:18:05.480 and that builds that entitlement along with it.

00:18:08.060 But if we're raising young girls to believe that they deserve prince charming, 0.93

00:18:13.060 are we raising our sons to be prince charming?

00:18:16.880 No, we're not.

00:18:18.180 So how do you expect to expect something if it's not even been brought forward?

00:18:24.420 Wait, are you, can you explain that more?

00:18:25.940 Are we raising our sons to be prince charming?

00:18:27.840 No, so if you, he said, you know,

00:18:29.680 the entitlement is almost installed in you from a young girl.

00:18:32.840 You're a princess, you deserve this.

00:18:34.520 So when you don't get it past 25, the entitlement's already a part of you.

00:18:38.640 Yeah.

00:18:38.940 So touch whatever age.

00:18:40.540 But so is this supposed prince charming that we've raised her.

00:18:43.920 If we have a son, are we raising him to be the perfect gentleman

00:18:46.980 that we expect for someone's daughter?

00:18:48.980 Because if someone's son...

00:18:50.880 Right, but who is he being a gentleman for?

00:18:52.720 No, but that's my whole point.

00:18:54.720 If we're raising her to have expectations,

00:18:57.480 I mean, somebody has a son.

00:18:59.060 Are you raising your son to be a prince charming as a young woman, 0.98

00:19:02.220 as a wife or a mother?

00:19:03.720 Well, I would say women don't reward prince charmings. 1.00

00:19:07.980 They don't, they don't, women do not reward good behavior in general. 1.00

00:19:12.140 Not at all.

00:19:12.400 I would say if women did reward good behavior and chivalry, 1.00

00:19:15.840 then you would see more of it because men will do anything to get sex. 1.00

00:19:19.240 But if we don't reward it,

00:19:20.180 how can we be mad when they don't do it?

00:19:23.640 So who's entitled?

00:19:25.700 Women. 0.81

00:19:26.500 Oh.

00:19:27.160 Women, because... 1.00

00:19:28.100 Not because they want a reward for being,

00:19:30.760 having decency and manners and courtesy and chivalry.

00:19:34.240 Women, women, no, because they, because, 1.00

00:19:36.460 because they're not, we're not traditional.

00:19:38.560 Exactly.

00:19:39.260 That's the point.

00:19:40.160 So it's like we're asking for traditional.

00:19:42.640 A 25-year-old was probably,

00:19:44.440 if a 24-year-old was born not that long ago,

00:19:48.520 24 years ago,

00:19:49.760 we're in a society where this is not a part of their norm.

00:19:54.480 What isn't a part of the norm?

00:19:55.860 To be traditional.

00:19:58.060 Right.

00:19:58.480 So you are raised,

00:20:00.320 she's being raised to be a part of a masculine world 0.99

00:20:05.160 that is what the norm is now.

00:20:06.940 Right.

00:20:07.360 So a more traditional woman is probably going to be older, 1.00

00:20:10.180 but unfortunately she's been cut off because she's expired.

00:20:12.760 No, I would say more traditional women are going to be married. 1.00

00:20:17.500 Is traditional?

00:20:18.280 Right.

00:20:18.540 Because traditional women get married before the age of 25, typically. 1.00

00:20:22.460 Perhaps.

00:20:22.940 Yeah.

00:20:23.300 So, so I would say, no,

00:20:25.500 the older women that are still single,

00:20:27.200 like they have a term for it.

00:20:28.140 It's called leftover.

00:20:29.500 In China, 0.94

00:20:30.080 they call women over,

00:20:33.940 and I think it's over the age of 30 or maybe even 27, 28,

00:20:37.960 and they just call them leftover.

00:20:39.480 Because like,

00:20:40.460 if the product's amazing,

00:20:42.160 wouldn't someone have bought it?

00:20:45.960 Notice in the language you're using as well,

00:20:48.300 it's like it's,

00:20:50.440 it's all always what does she deserve? 0.95

00:20:53.600 It's not what has she earned?

00:20:56.700 That's what,

00:20:57.240 that's what I'm saying about the entitlement,

00:20:58.560 right?

00:20:58.700 That's what entitlement means.

00:20:59.980 Yeah,

00:21:00.100 exactly.

00:21:00.500 That's what I'm,

00:21:01.120 I'm just elaborating,

00:21:02.140 right?

00:21:02.800 It's not,

00:21:03.840 we're not teaching young women like, 1.00

00:21:05.400 oh,

00:21:05.620 you need to earn your Prince Charming.

00:21:08.240 You need to earn a good man,

00:21:09.820 a good husband.

00:21:10.420 You should just be given.

00:21:11.480 You should,

00:21:11.780 you're entitled to it,

00:21:12.640 and it should just come to you one day.

00:21:14.420 And that's the,

00:21:14.780 magically from the sky.

00:21:16.140 Without you actually like sitting down and saying,

00:21:19.720 you know what?

00:21:20.140 I,

00:21:20.440 I,

00:21:20.900 here's,

00:21:21.160 here's when I want to get married by.

00:21:22.340 I want to get,

00:21:22.680 and I'm going to put it at a reasonable age because I'm,

00:21:24.620 I,

00:21:24.820 I know that it's a competition because everything's competition in life.

00:21:28.540 Right.

00:21:29.580 And so I'm going to take my dating decisions a lot more seriously.

00:21:35.520 Right.

00:21:36.000 Then,

00:21:36.500 then most women tend to do at a younger age. 1.00

00:21:39.980 Okay.

00:21:40.500 So,

00:21:41.540 all right,

00:21:41.800 would you have a question?

00:21:42.400 Go ahead.

00:21:42.540 I'm just wondering what a woman at 24 has done to earn a good man. 0.58

00:21:46.140 Because at that point in life,

00:21:47.480 you probably haven't had a secure career.

00:21:49.940 You're still young.

00:21:50.780 You haven't stacked up that expectation.

00:21:52.840 I don't care about a career.

00:21:54.520 Don't care.

00:21:55.120 I make,

00:21:55.860 I make more than enough for,

00:21:56.960 So you,

00:21:57.580 you aren't looking for necessarily a partner.

00:21:59.440 You're more so looking for a wife.

00:22:01.200 A wife.

00:22:01.480 She,

00:22:01.820 she,

00:22:02.100 the part of it,

00:22:03.040 it's complimentary,

00:22:04.360 right?

00:22:04.560 I don't need another me.

00:22:05.840 Yeah.

00:22:06.160 I don't need someone to replicate what I'm doing and not as good as I do it either.

00:22:09.140 Yeah.

00:22:09.300 Like I make more than enough money for both of us.

00:22:11.640 Oh,

00:22:11.680 what's the problem?

00:22:12.160 I want a woman who's going to be feminine, 1.00

00:22:13.820 who wants to be a mother,

00:22:14.520 who's going to have provide that nurturing energy.

00:22:16.800 You look after her.

00:22:17.500 Right.

00:22:18.240 And yeah,

00:22:18.820 someone,

00:22:19.100 someone to look after my kids,

00:22:20.200 someone to look after me,

00:22:21.240 like in,

00:22:21.900 in the aspect that she can,

00:22:23.420 and it's my job to keep us all alive.

00:22:25.380 Yeah.

00:22:26.260 And be the man.

00:22:27.120 Yeah.

00:22:27.700 We've got different roles,

00:22:28.640 complimentary.

00:22:29.120 And you asked what value a girl at 24 brings.

00:22:32.540 I mean,

00:22:32.880 typically they're thinner.

00:22:34.080 Typically they're more pure.

00:22:35.480 Typically they're more youthful.

00:22:36.620 Typically they have less baggage.

00:22:37.840 So I would say like,

00:22:39.900 those are the things that men select for.

00:22:42.160 Okay.

00:22:42.920 It just,

00:22:43.500 it just sounds like we're comparing tools or pieces,

00:22:46.320 not women with,

00:22:47.740 you know.

00:22:49.340 But do we,

00:22:50.160 sorry.

00:22:51.060 Are we looking at also what your foundation is?

00:22:55.320 So a lot of people,

00:22:56.180 maybe it's religious or something like that.

00:22:58.560 Those are things that are installed in young boys and young girls to value certain things.

00:23:03.080 And whether it's Christianity or Islam,

00:23:05.620 like you hold yourself in a certain manner and then it becomes what is valued to you.

00:23:11.440 So if you don't have these things at home,

00:23:13.340 I'm not saying only religion does it because you don't have to be under a certain religion to do it.

00:23:17.240 But if your fundamental foundations with your parents or whether you're,

00:23:21.180 however you're raising a child,

00:23:22.420 if that's not installed in them from a young age,

00:23:26.020 as they're growing,

00:23:27.020 why would they know to value it?

00:23:28.660 How would they know to value yourself as a woman?

00:23:31.760 They wouldn't know.

00:23:32.380 So it all comes back to what your,

00:23:34.140 that entitlement and your teachings.

00:23:35.460 So if a guy was raised by drug dealers and then he chooses to deal drugs,

00:23:39.620 should he not go to jail?

00:23:41.480 For sure.

00:23:42.240 He should still go to jail,

00:23:43.160 right?

00:23:43.880 That's the point.

00:23:44.560 Even if you were raised by bad parents and you don't know how to be a wife and you make certain decisions,

00:23:48.820 like it doesn't alleviate you from the consequences of those decisions.

00:23:55.020 So,

00:23:55.460 so I'm curious.

00:23:58.420 Now I kind of wanted to go into this.

00:24:00.220 All right.

00:24:00.520 I wanted to,

00:24:01.100 I had some ideas.

00:24:02.980 What could,

00:24:03.980 if you found a woman that was over the age that you typically date for,

00:24:08.100 for this,

00:24:08.520 for the guys,

00:24:10.160 well,

00:24:10.480 she's 32,

00:24:12.040 let's just say,

00:24:13.120 except for you,

00:24:13.860 50.

00:24:14.200 but she has,

00:24:21.740 that makes up for it.

00:24:23.920 What does she have?

00:24:24.500 Yeah.

00:24:24.700 Yeah.

00:24:24.920 Because there's something that a girl could do if she's over a certain age to make up for the fact that she's old.

00:24:29.740 company,

00:24:31.960 home-cooked food,

00:24:33.660 house queen,

00:24:34.640 there when I get home,

00:24:37.920 not going out partying,

00:24:40.080 respect for my parents.

00:24:41.780 Okay.

00:24:42.400 So you would,

00:24:43.680 you would,

00:24:43.960 if she was really respectful,

00:24:45.120 you would date a 32 year old if she had all that stuff? 1.00

00:24:47.700 I need to come home to peace without someone complaining about something or someone, you know, whinging about her friends or gossiping.

00:24:55.740 I don't need all of that.

00:24:56.540 You know what I mean?

00:24:57.040 I just need to know that I'm comfortable when I get home.

00:24:59.620 As long as she's bringing me comfort and peace,

00:25:02.860 yeah,

00:25:03.180 that's all right.

00:25:03.680 But then I would normally go for someone a lot younger.

00:25:06.720 I probably wouldn't even pay attention to her at first.

00:25:08.760 Okay.

00:25:09.920 So no.

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JustPearlyThings - October 28, 2023

Panel Gets OFFENDED with Pearl For Insulting Women

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