Panel Gets OFFENDED with Pearl For Insulting Women
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Is there an expiration date where women are considered too old to have a family? Is there an age at which a woman can no longer be considered attractive to a man? And if so, what age should that be?
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So, basically, I tweeted a couple of months ago
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younger women tend to be more attractive than older women.
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is there a date or is there an age where women are over
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where they're basically considered just for fun for men,
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I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this,
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So, it also was inspired during this video that I saw,
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which was women documenting their experience, really,
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So, just know that your best years are ahead of you
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and you are never too old and it's never too late.
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This is probably the loneliest I've ever felt in my life.
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And I'm in therapy and I'm in a codependency group.
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Definitely could think that I would stay alone forever.
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Well, the good news is you're about to have so much fun.
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Especially, like, this day and age we have TikTok and everything
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and we see, like, all these older women flaunting,
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Um, I know we've kind of had this conversation before
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because most of the time they're so set in their ways,
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There's exceptions, though, but most of them, yeah.
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I think if someone looks after themselves, they look after their appearance, and they're
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Okay, so when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves?
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So I don't think I've expired at the age of 40, so that's all I can say.
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Let's say give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn't.
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Okay, so a girl that doesn't take care of herself.
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Well, is she ever in the game if she's not taking care of herself?
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Well, I mean, haven't you heard that Patrice O'Neill thing?
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That where it's like an ugly 18-year-old is still hotter than a hot 30-year-old?
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It's like at 40 or 45, a guy can't get a kid out of you.
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So what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire?
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Maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most.
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I don't think that women have an expiration date.
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Just purely because different needs are met at different ages.
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So I might have been really for someone when I was younger, but really even more for them
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when I'm older, once I've experienced a few more.
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So I am over 30, but I don't think I'm expired.
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So at 55, she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25.
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She could be wanted, but it depends on who wants her.
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So an older man might appreciate the more older woman.
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They surveyed men between the ages of like 20 and 80, and they all found 22-year-olds roughly
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But it's like, if we don't expire, why do women get Botox to look younger?
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But it's like, we almost know that we do because we all try to look young.
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I don't think we expire just because we want to be youthful.
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Just because we want to be youthful doesn't mean that women expire.
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It depends on what exactly what she said of the fact that who, again, men, but what's
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So milk can go off, but I'm sure once it's off, you can use it for something else.
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I mean, again, I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person.
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Well, I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage.
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Okay, so, but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with, is there an age
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where women typically are expired just based on their age they're too old?
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Again, if you look after yourself or not, I'd hope that a woman that's looked after themselves
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biologically, hopefully the clock can push to 40-plus.
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So I'm going to go Christine, and then I'm going to ask the guys.
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I mean, we're talking about the dating market here.
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I mean, someone like Rachel, you don't look 40, right?
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Truth is, most 40-year-olds don't look like you.
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So if we're talking the majority, I would say 27, 28.
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When do women expire for you for long-term prospects?
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You get to about 30 years old, and there's no point in getting married.
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There's no point in having kids and stuff like that.
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Imagine having a kid at 40 years old, and then being 50 with a 10-year-old.
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Over 30, there's no hope in a long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff.
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What if she's 30, but she looks like J-Lo at 30?
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The terminology expiration for me is a bit harsh.
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So I don't really want to talk on it on that sense of using that terminology.
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But what I will say is, I don't think there's an expiration date.
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If I'm dating somebody and their head's screwed on, and we're both getting it together,
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then I'm not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration date.
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So the same age that I think women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves
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and put a lot more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut
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Typically less indoctrination, like less feminism, more feminine, because they've got less years
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in the workforce being in, like, their masculine energy, kind of having that drilled into them
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The primary reason is there's a lot more runway for making a family.
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You can really only crank out, like, one a year.
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Maybe if she's got twins in the family, maybe twins are in the family.
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If that's coming out, if she's guaranteeing twins, we can push that time frame up a little
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Like, you know, I want a lot of kids, so we're going to need some runway.
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And, like, the younger a woman has kids, the older she can actually keep having kids until.
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The danger becomes when a woman has her first kid in, like, the later years of her life,
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that's when you get things like geriatric pregnancy.
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You have to have C-sections, otherwise there's serious dangers there.
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Like, my mother, she had me, she's the exception of the rule, she had me at, like, 37.
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She was worried I was going to have Down syndrome because that's one of the complications
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of a geriatric pregnancy, like, more likely and stuff like that.
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So I want to say, is there ever an age where a woman should consider, you know, like,
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Like, marriage is, you know, marriage is no longer for you.
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The average age of first marriage is 31 in the UK, I would say.
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So at what age would it be easier if a woman took marriage off the table?
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I don't think women should take marriage off the table.
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Men might have a different answer to that, but marriage, yeah, no.
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I'm going to, I'm going to want some hands here.
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So if a woman is 50, should she take marriage off the table?
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So basically the women think marriage is on the table forever.
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Why would a man marry a woman that's over the age of 35?
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What value does a guy get from a woman over the age of 35?
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If you was with that individual for a substantial amount of time, that's okay.
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If you met somebody randomly, it's a bit iffy, buddy.
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That's, well, 35, there's no problem with that at all.
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If you meet someone that's 50, and you like them, and you have a connection with them,
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and companionship, why would you not want to marry a woman?
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But I think marriage is different for 50-year-olds than it would be for a 30-year-old.
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Their mindset of marriage is completely different.
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Well, I would say that at that point, you know, just be in a long-term relationship, what's
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That's why I say, when does it go off the table?
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Because it benefits the women, and the women's going to get something.
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You guys, when did you, when should, Sterling, when do you think?
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Under 25 is the kind of woman I would ask to marry me.
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Above that, again, like I said before, I don't see the runway there.
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I'd only go with 30 if I've been over for a while.
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Yeah, 50 is pushing it, but like around the 40 mark, cool, we're good.
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All right, who here thinks women should never take marriage off the table?
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No, you know what your chance, if you, after you're the age of 35,
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They get married, and that's, that's the previous generation.
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So I would guess if you're not married after 35 in this generation,
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where marriage is less common, it's probably going to go down.
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I was going to say this generation probably never get married.
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I think we're just setting ourselves up for failure at this point.
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At the end of the day, if we say we're never taking marriage off the table,
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Because I think realistically, if you're not actually, you know,
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married or engaged by 25, chances are it's probably never going to happen.
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And if you tell yourself one day it's going to happen, one day it's going to happen,
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you're constantly living in hope and expectation.
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So then when it doesn't happen, and you're on your deathbed,
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and you're not married, you're going to be thinking,
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if you just say, like, by the time I'm 25, if I'm not married,
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But then if it doesn't, at least then you're not going to be upset that you didn't get it.
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Well, we've been sold a lie that women deserve a husband,
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when the truth of the matter is most women will not have a happy ending.
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half of women aren't going to have kids or a husband.
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Out of the half that do have kids, if they get married,
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so maybe, let's say the other half gets married, half will fail.
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So you have one in four women that will stay married, if that.
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And I'd argue it's even lower because you have to account for women that had kids
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Like a big part of why I set that age range so low
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Like if you look at that video we watched before,
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there was at least one of those women in that clip.
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She was like, why don't men open doors anymore?
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You'll see lots of clips like that on TikTok of women who are, you know,
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but there's this, the level of entitlement seems to stack up
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the longer they have waited for someone to pop the question.
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I think they absolutely should open doors, 100%.
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I was going to say, so you feel like women feel more entitled after 25?
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Yeah, because they haven't got what they were promised.
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they've been promised, they've been sold this dream their whole life
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Like, you're a princess, you're going to find your prince charming.
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and that builds that entitlement along with it.
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But if we're raising young girls to believe that they deserve prince charming,
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So how do you expect to expect something if it's not even been brought forward?
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the entitlement is almost installed in you from a young girl.
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So when you don't get it past 25, the entitlement's already a part of you.
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But so is this supposed prince charming that we've raised her.
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If we have a son, are we raising him to be the perfect gentleman
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Are you raising your son to be a prince charming as a young woman,
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Well, I would say women don't reward prince charmings.
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They don't, they don't, women do not reward good behavior in general.
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I would say if women did reward good behavior and chivalry,
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then you would see more of it because men will do anything to get sex.
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having decency and manners and courtesy and chivalry.
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we're in a society where this is not a part of their norm.
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she's being raised to be a part of a masculine world
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So a more traditional woman is probably going to be older,
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but unfortunately she's been cut off because she's expired.
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No, I would say more traditional women are going to be married.
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Because traditional women get married before the age of 25, typically.
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and I think it's over the age of 30 or maybe even 27, 28,
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Without you actually like sitting down and saying,
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and I'm going to put it at a reasonable age because I'm,
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I know that it's a competition because everything's competition in life.
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And so I'm going to take my dating decisions a lot more seriously.
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I'm just wondering what a woman at 24 has done to earn a good man.
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I don't need someone to replicate what I'm doing and not as good as I do it either.
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Like I make more than enough money for both of us.
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who's going to have provide that nurturing energy.
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it just sounds like we're comparing tools or pieces,
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Are we looking at also what your foundation is?
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Those are things that are installed in young boys and young girls to value certain things.
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like you hold yourself in a certain manner and then it becomes what is valued to you.
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I'm not saying only religion does it because you don't have to be under a certain religion to do it.
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But if your fundamental foundations with your parents or whether you're,
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if that's not installed in them from a young age,
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How would they know to value yourself as a woman?
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So if a guy was raised by drug dealers and then he chooses to deal drugs,
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Even if you were raised by bad parents and you don't know how to be a wife and you make certain decisions,
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like it doesn't alleviate you from the consequences of those decisions.
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if you found a woman that was over the age that you typically date for,
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Because there's something that a girl could do if she's over a certain age to make up for the fact that she's old.
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you would date a 32 year old if she had all that stuff?
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I need to come home to peace without someone complaining about something or someone, you know, whinging about her friends or gossiping.
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I just need to know that I'm comfortable when I get home.
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As long as she's bringing me comfort and peace,
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But then I would normally go for someone a lot younger.
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I probably wouldn't even pay attention to her at first.
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I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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