In this episode, we discuss the importance of sex in a relationship and why it is more important than it is in a romantic relationship. We also talk about how important it is for women to be attractive in bed and why they should be prioritised over sex.
00:00:00.000I think I think I'd have to be attracted to him to some degree to be able to lay down
00:00:04.800So I'd have to teach I think rather than not have an attractive man. No, there's no word. This isn't build a man
00:00:09.600Give her one. Yeah, she'll wake him to bed. 60 seconds. That's it. I mean, I think that's important for me. They would have to be good in bed. So, but then I wouldn't be able to lay with somebody if I didn't find them attractive.
00:00:39.600I can't. You have to. Ugly and good in bed and good-looking and rubbish. Are you going to tell me they can't go out of an ugly man?
00:00:49.600Is that how superficial you are? What about all the ugly men out there that are hard working?
00:00:58.600I think it's tough. I can't answer. See, I never got that because I always think if you get an ugly man, nobody's going to want him. You've got a whole man for yourself.
00:01:08.600But then he's not making my fanny flutter. So then it's not doing it for me. So I think I would have to, yeah, maybe.
00:01:15.600But then I have to look at him. It's a good looking. I have to look. He has to be attractive to me.
00:01:19.600And how many hours a day are you looking at each other versus how many hours a day are you sleeping with each other?
00:01:24.600If you're working? If you're going out together, you see it, it's, yeah.
00:01:31.600How many hours a day do you work? About eight. How many hours a day do you sleep? About eight. That's what you've got to think about.
00:01:37.600So you're only going to see him for that before. And depending on sexual positions, you don't even have to look at him.
00:01:44.600I think I'd have to go with the good looking guy. That's superficial, isn't it? But I think I would have to.
00:01:54.600Most women would, though. Yeah, I think I'd have to go.
00:01:57.600Okay, would anyone take the not so good looking guy but good in bed?
00:05:54.600I feel like that happens all the time.
00:05:55.600I feel like if you're in a relationship where you just feel like it's kind of like, he's sometimes maybe a bit more committed, but maybe not in the way that you want it to be.
00:06:03.600You're probably going to do everything in your power for him to be like, yeah, I'm not trying, like you're doing madness.
00:06:09.600Whereas that's not actually you, but it's kind of like you're provoking that because it's just like, you don't, it's kind of like you see it, but then at the same time you don't.
00:06:18.600Like I can't call it off cause he has valid points.
00:06:21.600So therefore I'm going to provoke whatever situation it is to make him break up with me so that I can just be like, cool, you broke up with me and I'll leave it as it is.
00:06:31.600I just want to jump off something that you said a moment ago where a lot of times say, if you get broken up with, it's easier for you to move on.
00:06:37.600I kind of think with women, it's the opposite because when we break up with someone, we break up with them, with them in our head.
00:06:44.600And then, you know, six weeks later, then we break up with them.
00:06:47.600So I thought perhaps it'd be a little easier if we leave someone because often we've planned it, you know, for a lot of women, there's a guy already waiting.
00:06:57.600Whereas if you get broken up with, especially if you think things are going fine, it's this, you know, complete change of circumstances sprung up on you.
00:07:04.600So I thought perhaps that'd make it a little worse.
00:07:07.600Actually, yeah, you're probably right, actually, now that I'm thinking about it, because if things were going well, like that probably would devastate me.
00:07:18.600But it's like, yeah, but it's kind of like if you're fighting already, you know, if you're fighting already, you've probably mentally checked out as well.
00:07:25.600You just wait for one of the other person to do it.
00:07:27.600I actually do agree with you on that one.
00:07:28.600Like that's never happened when it was like, you know.
00:07:32.600Do you think that women detach quicker than men?
00:07:53.600Like to like, and I use it because you can see it in pop culture, like a lot of a lot of the movies that like women love like Titanic, the notebook, what is it?
00:08:25.600I thought the reason why I say women get over men quickly is because I think we were more of an emotional.
00:08:31.600We're going through more of an emotional time than men are.
00:08:34.600I feel like you're in certain situations where if something happens, it's kind of like you feel it way more than you would feel than a significant other would feel.
00:08:53.600If something happens, I'm my emotions is in a hundred percent.
00:08:57.600And it's kind of like if something keeps happening, I'll kind of I'll kind of get used to it and I'll kind of be that cool ever.
00:09:03.600So if so, if you're involved in a relationship where like things will keep constantly happening, they'll get to a point you like you actually get to a point where you're kind of like, yeah, like he could do sign and I just completely like I won't react the same way anymore.
00:09:16.600And it kind of just like the relationship will end and you can just like cool ever because you really felt what you need to felt during the relationship.
00:09:23.600So why do you not go through heartbreak after?
00:09:25.600I think women just underestimate men's emotions.