Pearl Battles Emotional Only fans Model
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships and how to deal with it. We have a guest on the show who has been cheated on in her past and we discuss why cheating is so common in relationships. We also talk about the benefits of cheating and how it can be a good or bad thing.
Transcript
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My only problem with that is the phrase the easy way.
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And trust me, every content creator is going to come to my defensive.
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I used to be, and you can Google check me, an English teacher, fully qualified.
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And running a successful OnlyFans account is 10, listen to me, 10 times harder than being a fully qualified English teacher.
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So when I hear phrases like, you took the easy way out, it's not an easy way out.
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No, okay, but it's easier than, okay, so it's easier than, selling sex is easier than not selling sex.
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If I wanted to make more money, I could take off my clothes tomorrow and I would make more money.
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And I know it's harder for a guy, so it's not necessarily the same guy versus girl, but I'm assuming you have women in your content, right?
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So question, do you think everyone can jump on OnlyFans and make millions?
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No, no, I'm not saying that every single person can make a ton of money.
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Because if there was an easier way for you to make millions, you would have did it.
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But when you say easy, don't you think it's difficult having to deal with, like, people's perceptions of you, family judgment, social judgment?
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I mean, I think that's the trade-off for easy money.
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But it's not easy if it comes with all those complications, is it?
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I'm saying it's easier than the other option, because otherwise you wouldn't have did it.
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We don't have to be in union and everything we say.
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No, actually, I thought we agreed, to be honest.
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For me, personally, when it first happened, can you hear me?
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It kind of hurt, but then I kind of got over it, and now I didn't get under another man
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before people come for me, be like, yeah, get under another man.
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I kind of just stayed off the market for a bit, kind of healed from what I went through,
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because when you're talking about cheating, cheating is in different ways and different
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forms, and like I said, when you're in a relationship with somebody and that person
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is selling you a dream, and they're telling you, oh, you're this, you're that, and da-da-da-da-da-da-da,
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but then it turns out, no, really, I wasn't what you wanted.
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Just, it's better you tell me, look, babe, I love you, yeah, but I'm going to have to
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But when you go out of your way to specifically hurt that individual, knowing full well that
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I'm not doing that to you, like, I'm not getting numbers on the sly, you know, my phone's open,
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I have nothing to hide, because I'm not doing anything inappropriate, and the fact that most
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people that I've actually sat down and asked, I'm like, well, why would you, like, why cheat?
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But you understand that men and women are different.
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Well, no, because right now you're saying, like, why would you do that?
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You're trying to hurt me, but they're not trying to hurt you.
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The majority of the guys here are going to tell you it's how they're, like, if you ask,
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I feel like that you could cheat me all, you know.
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I understand that, but when you actually sit down and have a conversation with somebody
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that knows themselves, knows what they're about, mentally strong, they've come out of their
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little boy moments, because a lot of men still have it, whether you're 50, 40, 30, I've seen
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But, like I said, if that's what you want to do, do that.
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And this is where I don't agree with it, whether it's a male or a female.
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If you know you cannot be loyal to one individual, do not be in a relationship.
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You can be single, and you could be free to mingle all day long.
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That's the woman you want, yeah, but you still just like to have the variety of spices.
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You know, honestly, honestly, I think women, we need to get off our high horse.
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We're supposed to be virgins on our wedding day.
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What percent of women are virgins on our wedding day?
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You're supposed to bring purity and youth to a marriage, right?
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They're supposed to give you resources and monogamy, because they're not doing their mating
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strategy, basically, which is screw as many people as possible.
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We could keep being part of the harem, right, with a high-value guy, but we say, no, we're
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We're not holding up our end of the bargain today.
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I want to give the other side of it, is that okay?
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Because I'm not proud of this, but like, you know, I want to be honest here, and like,
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So this is the thing, it's like, in my previous experience, when I was at my worst in terms
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of like using women and stuff like that, when, you know, I was in my high-value man and I'll
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do what I want phase, as they say, basically, if a girl I'd asked to come and meet me that
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night said she was busy, I'd be like, cool, one of the other 10 will say yes then.
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And like, that was none of her knowledge or whatever at the time, but she just wasn't
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And my selfishness and my childishness was just like, cool, I'll just go through the list.
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And in my head, I'm like, if you're not dedicated enough to me to be here, then you
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And I think a lot of men go through that when you're not living together and it ain't heavy
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And I was just like, okay, the first one to say yes, that's it then.
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Have you been on the receiving end of being cheated?
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I was 19 and I remember looking through her text message saying another guy who was like,
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And a funny old thing is like, we bumped into each other in a bar about a year later because
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he found out the hard way whose girlfriend, or whose girlfriend I thought it was anyway.
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And he basically came up to me and went, by the way, if I'd known it was you, I would never
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But we ended up having a pint and laughing about it because like, we just knew what
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she was like, and, and that was the thing is I said to him, like, imagine she could see
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What was that pain like when you, when you, when you went through the phone?
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Oh, when I was, I was 19, it hit me right in the middle.
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I was getting the butt home, you know what I mean?
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I was like, you know, when you're like in, like, you're like, she's the best thing I've
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She was the prettiest girl and I was like, and fuck women.
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But obviously like, you get over it, but that was, that was 19 for me.
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Did it put you in a space for a moment where you felt a certain type of way?
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No, the thing that got me to wake up and not cheat ever again was seeing the pain it caused
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And it made me go, yeah, I'm, I can't do this again to someone.
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Like, I really, that was, it was similar to him.
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Like, it was that awakening of like, oh, I've really fucking hurt someone here.
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But, but in that, in that moment, yeah, I was very selfish.
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Have you ever been cheated on just like Chrissy?
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Pell, would you stay in a, would you stay in a married relationship with your husband
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But I think, again, that the kids are more important than you.
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But how many times is like the limit for them to like go?
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If you have kids, I'm going to try to work it out.
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Because I just genuinely think that if you put your feelings above the kid, like, I just
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I'm going to talk on my own experience right now.
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And I was in a relationship, like a long relationship.
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Because, you know, there's two sides to every story.
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No, because I'm saying, if we asked him, is he going to say she tried everything?
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What made you realize that you had to walk away?
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I don't know if I'm allowed to say that or not, but abuse.
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To me, if you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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