JustPearlyThings - May 01, 2023


Pearl Battles Emotional Only fans Model


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Length

10 minutes

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198.34631

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2,047

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159


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 My only problem with that is the phrase the easy way.
00:00:02.820 And trust me, every content creator is going to come to my defensive.
00:00:05.740 I used to be, and you can Google check me, an English teacher, fully qualified.
00:00:09.620 Went to university, GTP, the whole lot.
00:00:11.840 Then I was a managing director in the city.
00:00:13.660 So I can tell you I've done the social norms.
00:00:17.040 And running a successful OnlyFans account is 10, listen to me, 10 times harder than being a fully qualified English teacher.
00:00:27.740 That's not what you're saying.
00:00:28.840 That's not what you're saying.
00:00:29.820 So when I hear phrases like, you took the easy way out, it's not an easy way out.
00:00:33.840 No, okay, but it's easier than, okay, so it's easier than, selling sex is easier than not selling sex.
00:00:41.300 Sex is the easiest sell.
00:00:43.560 If I wanted to make more money, I could take off my clothes tomorrow and I would make more money.
00:00:48.900 And I know it's harder for a guy, so it's not necessarily the same guy versus girl, but I'm assuming you have women in your content, right?
00:00:55.620 Okay, sex sells.
00:00:56.740 Yeah.
00:00:57.220 So question, do you think everyone can jump on OnlyFans and make millions?
00:01:00.500 If it's that easy, if it's the easy way.
00:01:02.180 No, no, I'm not saying that every single person can make a ton of money.
00:01:05.560 I'm saying it's easier than not doing it.
00:01:08.000 Because if there was an easier way for you to make millions, you would have did it.
00:01:13.200 But when you say easy, don't you think it's difficult having to deal with, like, people's perceptions of you, family judgment, social judgment?
00:01:19.420 I mean, I think that's the trade-off for easy money.
00:01:23.380 But it's not easy if it comes with all those complications, is it?
00:01:26.180 It's like selling drugs easy.
00:01:28.260 I'm saying it's easier than the other option, because otherwise you wouldn't have did it.
00:01:31.840 No problem.
00:01:32.280 We can agree to disagree on this point.
00:01:33.480 We don't have to be in union and everything we say.
00:01:35.600 You have your point.
00:01:36.420 I have mine.
00:01:36.880 I disagree.
00:01:38.120 On that front, that's it.
00:01:39.560 Simple.
00:01:41.600 Who else has been cheated on?
00:01:45.360 Wait, what are we disagreeing on?
00:01:46.780 We've got stories for them.
00:01:47.900 I don't even know.
00:01:48.580 No, actually, I thought we agreed, to be honest.
00:01:52.160 Who else has been cheated on?
00:01:53.640 I have.
00:01:54.940 I got cheated on when I was little, man.
00:01:57.380 For me, personally, when it first happened, can you hear me?
00:02:04.940 Oh, okay.
00:02:05.440 When it first happened, I was in my teens.
00:02:11.960 It kind of hurt, but then I kind of got over it, and now I didn't get under another man
00:02:18.300 before people come for me, be like, yeah, get under another man.
00:02:21.260 No, it did hurt.
00:02:23.060 I kind of just stayed off the market for a bit, kind of healed from what I went through,
00:02:29.360 because when you're talking about cheating, cheating is in different ways and different
00:02:35.600 forms, and like I said, when you're in a relationship with somebody and that person
00:02:41.600 is selling you a dream, and they're telling you, oh, you're this, you're that, and da-da-da-da-da-da-da,
00:02:49.000 but then it turns out, no, really, I wasn't what you wanted.
00:02:52.320 I wasn't what you claimed that I was.
00:02:56.000 Just go.
00:02:56.660 Just, it's better you tell me, look, babe, I love you, yeah, but I'm going to have to
00:03:01.320 love you from a distance.
00:03:02.720 Cool.
00:03:03.520 I'm fine with that.
00:03:04.860 Do you.
00:03:05.840 But when you go out of your way to specifically hurt that individual, knowing full well that
00:03:11.960 I'm not doing that to you, like, I'm not getting numbers on the sly, you know, my phone's open,
00:03:19.580 go through my phone.
00:03:20.340 I have nothing to hide, because I'm not doing anything inappropriate, and the fact that most
00:03:25.940 people that I've actually sat down and asked, I'm like, well, why would you, like, why cheat?
00:03:31.140 Well, it's because.
00:03:32.240 But you understand that men and women are different.
00:03:34.140 No, no, no, I get that.
00:03:35.420 No, no, no, I totally get that.
00:03:37.000 I understand, well, two different entities.
00:03:39.660 Well, no, because right now you're saying, like, why would you do that?
00:03:41.520 You're trying to hurt me, but they're not trying to hurt you.
00:03:43.600 No, well.
00:03:44.700 It's just how they're wired.
00:03:46.100 No, I don't think it's how they're wired.
00:03:48.160 Essentially, they're much more complex.
00:03:49.700 Hold on, I just.
00:03:50.920 The majority of the guys here are going to tell you it's how they're, like, if you ask,
00:03:54.520 the majority of them.
00:03:55.080 I feel like that you could cheat me all, you know.
00:03:56.560 I understand that, but when you actually sit down and have a conversation with somebody
00:04:02.040 that knows themselves, knows what they're about, mentally strong, they've come out of their
00:04:08.200 little boy moments, because a lot of men still have it, whether you're 50, 40, 30, I've seen
00:04:14.220 it, I've got stories for days.
00:04:17.920 But, like I said, if that's what you want to do, do that.
00:04:21.660 But why get into a relationship?
00:04:23.160 And this is where I don't agree with it, whether it's a male or a female.
00:04:26.920 If you know you cannot be loyal to one individual, do not be in a relationship.
00:04:34.180 You can be single, and you could be free to mingle all day long.
00:04:38.600 Nobody can't come and say nothing to you.
00:04:41.020 So what if you want that woman, though?
00:04:42.760 What if you want that woman?
00:04:43.940 That's the woman you want, yeah, but you still just like to have the variety of spices.
00:04:48.940 You know, honestly, honestly, I think women, we need to get off our high horse.
00:04:52.860 We're supposed to be virgins on our wedding day.
00:04:55.500 What percent of women are virgins on our wedding day?
00:04:58.300 No, because I'm serious.
00:04:59.580 You're supposed to bring purity and youth to a marriage, right?
00:05:03.060 That's the exchange.
00:05:04.000 They're supposed to give you resources and monogamy, because they're not doing their mating
00:05:09.200 strategy, basically, which is screw as many people as possible.
00:05:11.980 We could keep being part of the harem, right, with a high-value guy, but we say, no, we're
00:05:16.580 not going to do that.
00:05:17.440 We're going to give you purity and youth.
00:05:18.720 We're not holding up our end of the bargain today.
00:05:20.480 I want to give the other side of it, is that okay?
00:05:23.980 No, go for it.
00:05:24.980 Because I'm not proud of this, but like, you know, I want to be honest here, and like,
00:05:31.240 you know, my man's given me a bit of honesty.
00:05:36.000 I love this guy.
00:05:37.000 So this is the thing, it's like, in my previous experience, when I was at my worst in terms
00:05:42.540 of like using women and stuff like that, when, you know, I was in my high-value man and I'll
00:05:49.460 do what I want phase, as they say, basically, if a girl I'd asked to come and meet me that
00:05:54.840 night said she was busy, I'd be like, cool, one of the other 10 will say yes then.
00:06:00.080 And like, that was none of her knowledge or whatever at the time, but she just wasn't
00:06:03.820 there.
00:06:04.320 And my selfishness and my childishness was just like, cool, I'll just go through the list.
00:06:09.340 The first one to say yes, it's your lucky day.
00:06:11.600 Let's go.
00:06:12.160 And in my head, I'm like, if you're not dedicated enough to me to be here, then you
00:06:17.960 can't have any complaints.
00:06:19.140 That's the way I was feeling at the time.
00:06:20.820 And I think a lot of men go through that when you're not living together and it ain't heavy
00:06:24.340 serious, but it's dating.
00:06:26.360 And I was just like, okay, the first one to say yes, that's it then.
00:06:29.960 So a question for you quickly.
00:06:31.620 Have you been on the receiving end of being cheated?
00:06:35.140 Yeah.
00:06:35.800 Yeah, it was awkward, that one.
00:06:37.160 See?
00:06:37.860 There you go.
00:06:38.400 I was 19 and I remember looking through her text message saying another guy who was like,
00:06:47.720 like I knew through a friend as well.
00:06:50.280 And a funny old thing is like, we bumped into each other in a bar about a year later because
00:06:56.200 he found out the hard way whose girlfriend, or whose girlfriend I thought it was anyway.
00:07:03.600 And he basically came up to me and went, by the way, if I'd known it was you, I would never
00:07:07.160 have fucking gone near her.
00:07:08.400 But we ended up having a pint and laughing about it because like, we just knew what
00:07:12.180 she was like, and, and that was the thing is I said to him, like, imagine she could see
00:07:16.400 us laughing about like, what a skank she is.
00:07:19.140 What was that pain like when you, when you, when you went through the phone?
00:07:21.580 Oh, when I was, I was 19, it hit me right in the middle.
00:07:24.560 Because was you being faithful at the time?
00:07:26.700 I was getting the butt home, you know what I mean?
00:07:29.000 I was struggling at the time.
00:07:30.100 But was you faithful at that time?
00:07:31.720 I was, I was more than faithful.
00:07:33.060 I was like, you know, when you're like in, like, you're like, she's the best thing I've
00:07:36.440 ever seen.
00:07:37.140 You know what I mean?
00:07:37.880 And so.
00:07:38.360 Did that change you?
00:07:39.220 Yeah, it's traumatised.
00:07:40.040 She was the prettiest girl and I was like, and fuck women.
00:07:43.040 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:43.660 I told you.
00:07:44.220 But obviously like, you get over it, but that was, that was 19 for me.
00:07:47.480 Did it put you in a space for a moment where you felt a certain type of way?
00:07:54.740 How long, or did you, are you just.
00:07:56.540 No, the thing that got me to wake up and not cheat ever again was seeing the pain it caused
00:08:02.500 when I did do that.
00:08:04.040 And it made me go, yeah, I'm, I can't do this again to someone.
00:08:08.640 Like, I really, that was, it was similar to him.
00:08:11.880 Like, it was that awakening of like, oh, I've really fucking hurt someone here.
00:08:15.000 And I never want to do that again.
00:08:16.840 And like, I never have, thank God.
00:08:18.860 But, but in that, in that moment, yeah, I was very selfish.
00:08:24.000 Okay.
00:08:24.900 Okay.
00:08:26.360 Can we ask you a question?
00:08:27.940 Oh, no.
00:08:28.500 Is that off table?
00:08:29.400 Have you ever been cheated on just like Chrissy?
00:08:31.460 You have, yeah?
00:08:32.700 Okay.
00:08:33.420 Have you ever cheated?
00:08:35.020 No.
00:08:35.580 Good.
00:08:36.240 Pell, would you stay in a, would you stay in a married relationship with your husband
00:08:40.380 happily being cheated on?
00:08:42.260 Would I be happily cheated on?
00:08:44.180 People always ask me this.
00:08:46.700 No, I would not be happily cheated on.
00:08:48.720 But I think, again, that the kids are more important than you.
00:08:51.040 Once you have kids, it's not about you.
00:08:52.580 But you would accept it.
00:08:53.520 Yeah.
00:08:53.920 If I have kids, you know, and you try to work.
00:08:56.660 But how many times is like the limit for them to like go?
00:09:00.360 If you have kids, I'm going to try to work it out.
00:09:02.780 Because I just genuinely think that if you put your feelings above the kid, like, I just
00:09:06.980 think you're selfish.
00:09:07.740 I think it's not about you.
00:09:09.040 I'm going to talk on my own experience right now.
00:09:10.260 I have a daughter, right?
00:09:12.180 I love her to a bit.
00:09:13.760 And I was in a relationship, like a long relationship.
00:09:17.060 And I've been cheated on, right?
00:09:19.260 I tried everything.
00:09:20.780 It didn't work out.
00:09:22.580 I tried it.
00:09:23.260 Obviously.
00:09:23.860 What would he say, though?
00:09:25.880 Well.
00:09:26.620 Because, you know, there's two sides to every story.
00:09:28.480 Let's get him on the show.
00:09:29.080 That's true.
00:09:29.400 That's true.
00:09:30.200 But.
00:09:31.000 No, no, no.
00:09:32.000 No, no, no.
00:09:34.860 Matthew, do some digging.
00:09:35.960 No, because I'm saying, if we asked him, is he going to say she tried everything?
00:09:40.680 I think he will.
00:09:42.020 Because he knows deep down.
00:09:44.020 And he told me that, too.
00:09:46.720 My story is similar to yours.
00:09:48.500 Hold on.
00:09:48.920 But what was the limit for you?
00:09:52.560 What made you realize that you had to walk away?
00:09:57.220 I don't know if I'm allowed to say that or not, but abuse.
00:10:00.700 Oh.
00:10:01.360 Okay.
00:10:01.740 That was my limit.
00:10:02.680 Physical abuse.
00:10:03.380 To me, if you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:10:06.680 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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