Pearl Calls Out Deluded Modern's Hypocrisy
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about sex and why you should wait to have sex with your significant other until you are ready. We also talk about the importance of self-care and how important it is to take care of your body.
Transcript
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a woman that makes you wait for sex isn't worth the wait?
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That's only true if you're not, if she's not a real virgin,
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which I know you can't really, you know, you can't really tell.
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But I think you guys have to be mindful when it comes to sex.
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So do you really want to just be having sex with anyone
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and letting any kind of energy into your energy?
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And that's kind of like a toxic cycle, to be honest.
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Can I just say that for us, it is always a spiritual exchange.
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And you might be thinking, oh, this is a spiritual exchange, but it's not.
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And that's why I probably could only date spiritual men now, at this point.
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But, like, I think if you thought it was a spiritual exchange,
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Like, that's why, this is what I mean, like, why, like, men hear the things we say
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Because it's like, okay, you're 32, you've been dating since you were 18.
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Was every guy you slept with in the last 12 years a spiritual?
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But since 28, because I only spent spiritual when I was 28.
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So this is, like, guys, when they've dated enough women,
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they start to see, like, patterns in our behavior.
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And, like, one thing that they found was, like, women tend to, like, find God
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So basically, like, it's kind of like a red flag when you say around 28,
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I, like, found God or found the spiritual journey.
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Because it's kind of like, okay, I spent the first half of my 20s being a hoe.
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And then now it's, like, I'm not saying a hoe, but, like, okay, a hoe,
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what is a hoe statistically more than five partners?
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But what I'm saying, like, so a lot of times, like, women sort of try to rebrand
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and it just doesn't really seem, like, genuine.
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Like, at the end of the day, if you're going to be the same first of your life,
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It might be, but I'm just telling you how, like, men see it.
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I'm telling you, this is how, like, men see it.
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Where it's, like, before the men, I gave this away for free.
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And so what that says to the men is you're not genuinely attracted to them.
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Because you were genuinely attracted to the first guy because you had sex with him
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But you're not that attracted to the second because you're making him wait.
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And, Pearl, I would even say that, like, again, going back to, like, your body's a temple.
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It's not even just, like, your body's a temple.
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And I think if you're doing all of those things, then, yeah, that both people should wait.
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Because that means you're actually, you love yourself in an authentic, truthful way.
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And you actually care about your body and your beliefs.
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And also not, like, having a bunch of tattoos and not sleeping with a bunch of people.
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So do you think that majority of men think that, let's say, for example, before you're 28,
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That's just, like, that's just, like, a cover-up.
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I'm saying, but let's say there's a born-again woman at 28.
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I previously described this phase as parallels.
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This is a precarious time for women, usually between the ages of 28 and 30, where she attempts
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Women's psychological rationalization engine begins a furious effort to account for and
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explain her reasonings for not having successfully secured a long-term monogamous commitment from
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Even women married prior to this phase will go through some self-doubt or self-pity, dealing
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It is during this phase that women will make radical shifts in their prioritization of what
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An attempt to turn over a new leaf by changing up their behaviors to allow with this new persona
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Since the physicality, sexual prowess, and the alpha dominance that made her formal arousal
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cues in men aren't as forthcoming from men when she was in her sexual prime, she reprioritizes
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them with preferences for more intrinsic male attributes that stress dependability, provisioning
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capacity, humor, intellect, and esoteric definitions of compatibility and intimacy.
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For the spiritually inclined women, this may manifest in a convenient return to the convictions
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For others, it may be a forced celibacy, a refusal to have sex under the hypergamic,
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Ossipies, of her party years in hopes that a well-provisioning male will appreciate her
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So unlike herself and all of the other girls who rejected him the last decade.
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But it said even for married women, it said, right?
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Because I understood it as even married women go through some sort of shift.
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I think that goes back to like emotions, how like women act out of emotions.
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And like, I feel like women need to find better ways to deal with their emotions.
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And smearing them other people through projection.
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And it's like, that's not, that's still not truthful and authentic.
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You don't have to deal with it, but you're naturally emotional.
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So whether you know how to deal with it or not.
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You think that when we say who taught us, it's almost like a way for women, like for us to like,
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because I've noticed in our language, we like take accountability off of women,
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where it's like we blame our choices over who taught us, where it's like if a guy's in jail,
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I just think, I feel like there's like these little things in conversation where we like
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take accountability off of women and like put it onto someone else.
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I think I'm going to read Super Chats one more time.
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But let me, actually, I want to go back really quick.
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Oh, can I add something to the list before I forget?
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If, because you were talking about a good woman, I think, for the last time, if she,
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So this is part accountability, part admitting to them.
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And as I appreciate her, because she said, I grew from that and I made better choices.
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How did she, did she change her behavior after a mistake?
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Maybe if she, if he tells her something, does it change?
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Like if he says like you're argumentative, does it switch or does she do the same thing?
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If he says, if he says, get out of my house, does she leave or stay?
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I don't know the same thing or the other thing.